Online Comm Thread

[Anonymous No.9317162]

Last thread deleted. Do not derail it.

[Anonymous No.9317191]

I wish I could hang out with my comm more, but they're all so poorly dressed and I'm embarrassed to be seen with them

[Anonymous No.9317232]

My dream dress is the book of kells, My dream dress is the book of kells,My dream dress is the book of kells, My dream dress is the book of kells
Give it a rest! Seriously. Soo sick of RC because of you

[Anonymous No.9317244]

>>9317232
Sounds like some poorfag that's hoping to pull the sympathy card enough so someone ends up selling their Book of Kells for dirt cheap.

[Anonymous No.9317252]

>>9317244
Where have you been anon, she mentions it in nearly every comment. I can't be the only one sick of hearing about it.

[Anonymous No.9317256]

>>9317252
Under a rock, apparently. I guess I need to go digging and get caught up.

[Anonymous No.9317266]

Why does it seem like the ones constantly voicing their opinions on RC are the ones that don't even own lolita?

[Anonymous No.9317275]

>>9317191
why don't you just go out, try and make friends with the nicely dressed girls and then just hang with them?

Or wait until a meet at an upscale venue, people tend to dress better for those.

[Anonymous No.9317281]

>>9317266
For fucking real. I'm so sick of these fucktards posting, 'I'm a [insert undesirable trait] Lolita and I'm new :))))'
'I'm a Lolita... I can't afford any pieces but I'm still a lolitaaaaa :((('

Holy SHIT if you don't own at the very fucking least 3 dresses of some kind you are NOT a lolita. There's no such thing as 'a lolita at heart', either you wear the fashion or you don't. Fuck off.

[Anonymous No.9317285]

>>9317281
Just curious, but where did the term "lolita at heart" originally came from?

[Anonymous No.9317297]

>>9317266
I think most people who actually wear it eventually get tired of answering the same questions over and over.
IMO, RC was best when it first started because it was a fresh, new community. The old topics were fine to discuss again, because Livejournal was in the past and there were a lot of topics that hadn't been discussed in a long time and lots of new faces along with old.
Now it's sort of reaching the EGL state where it's mostly the same stuff over and over.
>>9317281
>Holy SHIT if you don't own at the very fucking least 3 dresses of some kind you are NOT a lolita. There's no such thing as 'a lolita at heart', either you wear the fashion or you don't. Fuck off.
I accidentally cut myself on all this edge

[Anonymous No.9317306]

>>9317297
Sorry you're too poor to afford anything decent.

[Anonymous No.9317314]

>>9317297
It's not edgy to think that you need to actually own items from a fashion before counting yourself as a participant in it

[Anonymous No.9317333]

>>9317191
Not buying that you're well dressed.

[Anonymous No.9317349]

>>9317306
>>9317314
She's not wrong, it was the way she phrased it, I have a lot more than 3 dresses lmfao

[Anonymous No.9317357]

>>9317285
Pretty much Novala Takemoto is at fault with that "put a tiara on your soul" poem. I hope he was at least still on shrooms when he wrote that.

[Anonymous No.9317359]

>>9317191
>posting about local comm in the online comm thread

every time

[Anonymous No.9317382]

>>9317359
Not defending that retard because I don't care for what they said, but for some of us, myself included, the online comm isn't all that different from the local comm.

[Anonymous No.9317477]

Not understanding all the plus size posts in RC all of a sudden (or maybe I'm just noticing them now), it I'm a fatty-chan and still fit into brand easily. How big are all of these people? With shirting in the back most brand easily fits a US 14/16 and fully shorted pieces can stretch to a US 18/20. Aren't most plus size girls in the 12-14 size range or am I grossly misinformed?

[Anonymous No.9317480]

>>9317477
Oh ffs
*shirring
*shirred

[Anonymous No.9317495]

>>9317477
I thought the same thing and then I looked at OPs photos.


Also why does there always have to be some token non plus size girl bitching about her opposite of plus size problems. Like are you serious? Go make your own stupid thread, and no AP still has small non shirred dresses and actuallly caters to a much wider variety of sizes now so fuck off.

[Anonymous No.9317499]

>>9317495
salty fatty

[Anonymous No.9317502]

>>9317495
She's not wrong tho, at this point, if you still can't fit in brand you've gone from fatty to land whale.

[Anonymous No.9317518]

>>9317502
Agreed, and there are so many options for dresses that can be custom sized, and then there's that one huge chick on Etsy who makes massively sized JSKs that look nice. A common theme I keep seeing is that fatties not only bitch about not fitting into brand they also bitch about being poor-unable to afford things over $100

[Anonymous No.9317549]

>>9317502
But that's not what she was saying at all. She was just generally bitching about how AP is supposedly too big for her.

As a plus size lolita, I completely agree that there is finally plenty of brand out there for us. I was just annoyed with this girl cause she had absolutely nothing to contribute to the actual topic, and instead tried to make it about herself. Theres plenty tiny brand shit out there.

[Anonymous No.9317550]

Not sure if this belongs in the YouTube/blogging thread (which we don't currently have) but I'm hoping to start making some videos and online lolita content.
What are some overdone things I should avoid, and any new areas of content I could explore?
How do I avoid being a fame mongering ewhore, or does that just come with the territory of wanting to start blogging?

[Anonymous No.9317562]

>>9317550
This is just my personal opinion but I'm sick of seeing haul unboxings and transformation videos.

I would love to see more that haven't been done, like hairstyles other than buns and pigtails, diy things that aren't bows, but maybe like wands and staffs, something people wear but there isnt any content on.

I particularly like Lovely Lor's old videos about weather extreme coordinates and what to say to an ita. It got kind of boring when it became all about her life and stuff.

If you are going to make a lolita tips video, make it about something other than always wear a petticoat and bloomers, buy secondhand for cheap, and all of that regurgitated advice.

I guess overall I'm looking for more advanced lolita content rather than lolita content for newbies that is kind of everywhere.

[Anonymous No.9317571]

>>9317550
have a good camera, a good microphone, do not use that twinkly ukelele background music, and edit together multiple takes. bad quality videos are unwatchable even if the content is good.

if you want fame, you will become a fame mongering whore. avoiding that depends on what your motivation is in the first place.

[Anonymous No.9317583]

>>9317550
Dont try to do a cutesy "lolita" voice or stupid poses and hand gestures.

[Anonymous No.9317616]

>>9317549
i think if you werent such a fat self absorbed bitch youd recognise someone trying to connect to the sizing issue like any other human being with a body

[Anonymous No.9317623]

>>9317550
pleeease daily vlogs, please outfit inspo if youre actually a creative person, diy, meetup vlogs

[Anonymous No.9317625]

>>9317550
Lookbooks? OOTDs showing lots of detail? idk what style you wear but I'd love to different hairstyles for gothic lolita, most lolita hair tutorials on youtube are just buns and twintails. yawn.
Also, I personally like hauls/unboxings but unless you try the clothes on on camera or show details they can get really boring.

[Anonymous No.9317645]

>>9317583
Could not agree more! It makes me want to punch them

[Anonymous No.9317667]

>>9317625
>>9317623
>>9317583
>>9317571
>>9317562
Thanks gulls!
I have wanted to start creating some sort of lolita content for a while now as I've started to feel very displaced from the community, on Facebook I find many conversations to be repetitive and redundant, and even cgl seems to have lost its charm. This is the first year since I got started in the fashion that I have not looked at every single wardrobe post on egl and it's quite embarrassing to me how far I have removed myself from the community, even as my wardrobe has tripled in size since last year.

[Anonymous No.9317675]

>>9317477
Ew, you don't fit. You're squeezing in and it looks terrible. Those poor seams.

[Anonymous No.9317699]

>>9317562
I fucking love hauls and transformation videos.

Please do not stop posting them

[Anonymous No.9317762]

>>9317495
Uh, this is kind of a problem too though. I got Cirque on sale the other day and I'm probably going to have to get it tailored smaller. My older AP dresses are a much better fit.

I support inclusive sizing and have even participated in campaigns against certain normie brands being assholes to anyone bigger than an AU 12 (around a US 10). But the change is kinda frustrating for us petites for whom Japanese clothing usually fits better than Western varieties.

[Anonymous No.9317764]

>>9317762
That isn't to say they should stick to smaller measurements, but it would be nice if they did something like IW with S/M/L (and yeah, I'm aware this has failed in the past but I have to wonder if it might succeed now ordering directly from Brand suppliers is easier for Westerners)

[Anonymous No.9317768]

>>9317764
Is there a reason it failed? They still do it as far as I know.

>>9317762
I think it's worthless to have a plus size vs petite catering fight. The truth is that the one size fits all model fucks as all in different ways.

[Anonymous No.9317780]

>>9317550
I would like to see more meetup vlogs, wig and hair styling vlogs for multiple styles (with or without Frings/long or short hair), outfit posts showing different ways you can wear an outfit and make it as versatile as possible, non Lolita finds that work well with the fashion, Lolita baking, repurposing old Lolita that you can't sell giving it new life, actual diy.

[Anonymous No.9317784]

>>9317768
Wasn't referring to IW, sorry that wasn't clear. I meant that I'm fairly certain a few years back that other major brands introduced a sizing system as well, but then stopped bothering with it because it didn't generate enough interest. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Same poster, btw. Didn't reply to my first post because hurrdurr. I'm not trying to turn it into a shitfight between the two. Literally agree with you re: one size fits all model sucks, thus second post.

[Anonymous No.9317799]

>>9317768

Baby is the one that tried the SML sizing experiment and failed, then scrapped it. imo, they actually did it better since they scaled up the length of the dresses so that the waist and hem still hit in all the right places, looks funny on the fat short Asian girls wearing them, but looks proportionately right if you're not a short Asian.

However, they only released dresses in L size for the less popular, fuglier dresses. Most of the best releases for the year only came in M size, none of the L size items sold out. So at the end of the year, they did a massive sale for all the dresses in the sizing experiment, and then never made anything in L size again.

[Anonymous No.9317805]

>>9317616

Not that anon, but the way it's posted is really brings to mind those MRA assholes posting "but what about male rape? I haven't been raped but why doesn't anyone acknowledge men can get raped too??" in the middle of a rape survivor thread, and then bitch about it being badly received.

I mean, I get where you (and they) are coming from, but generally it's best to make a seperate thread so that you aren't crashing someone else's pity party. Saying this as someone who isn't particularly fat or skinny and doesn't really care either way. It just looks bad.

[Anonymous No.9317808]

>>9317805
Proves that fatties who need a L have no money because they prioritize food in excess over anything else.

[Anonymous No.9317814]

>>9317675
Stretching your precious burando <3

[Anonymous No.9317818]

>>9317805
orrrrr
fatties just think they are so special that their issues with sizing couldnt possibly resonate with someone elses issues with sizing?
your example also makes no sense because unless it was GURLZ ONLY rape thread then again, male victims being discussed really wouldnt be off topic?

[Anonymous No.9317823]

>>9317699
Agreed! I love watching other lolitas get excited about new purchases, especially when I have stuff coming in the mail. It gets me hyped up, y'know?

[Anonymous No.9317825]

>>9317818
I think what anon is getting at is it's just in poor taste
>but what about MEEEEEE
when people are complaining about not fitting into clothes (even though that's their own fault) it's kind of bitchy to say something like "oh well I'm too SMALL to fit brand anymore" almost like some weird kind of humblebrag

[Anonymous No.9317826]

>>9317818
Fucking this. The landwhales are so fucking delusional in this fashion and it will never cease to annoy me.

[Anonymous No.9317829]

>>9317495
I just got my newest dress from AP and the princess seam bodice is seriously deep cut for some melons, plus full back shirring.

[Anonymous No.9317831]

>>9317829
I'm a fatty by lolita standards (us 16) and know there's items that won't fit me. But I don't complain about it every chance I get. But then again I was a size 20 last year and worked my self to get down two sized in 6 months buy literally replacing all junk food snacks with fruits and veggies and soda to unsweet iced tea. Instead of complaining, do something about it. Complaining gets you jack squat but maybe people blocking you and posting your whiny ass in the online community threads.

[Anonymous No.9317834]

>>9317831
Friend you might want to edit your post before you get shit on about saying your a fatty by lolita standards at us 16. I'm a fatty chan too and I can tell you it's not going to end well.

[Anonymous No.9317858]

>tfw if brands ever catered to fatties they'd still bitch about not being able to afford it
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Anonymous No.9317864]

So punchable

[Anonymous No.9317867]

>>9317834
Shit away. Anon. Shit away. I'm losing weight and inches and that's all I care about. Not the opinions of someone I don't even know and probably never will know. I know I'm fat. I'm working on it instead of complaining brands are hurting my feefees because their dress I like only goes up to a size 8. In at least doing something to not be fat. And doing pretty damned well if I'm dropping dress sizes every three months with the hard work and dicipline to not eat the fucking cupcake and ice cream.

[Anonymous No.9317868]

>>9317864
Censor the names, anon

[Anonymous No.9317875]

>>9317818

Well, if you're insisting on a negative interpretation, then I'd say the two of you aren't really resonating anyway?

As for the other example, you should re-read it:
>rape SURVIVOR thread
>male has never been raped, just wants people to acknowledge male rape exists (or something)


I mean c'mon bro, learn some social skills. At least recognise a pity party when you see one and leave it alone. Otherwise you're going to be remembered as being that one chick attentionwhoring in a chatroom full of fatties/that one dude that keeps talking about how his rape that never happened is so horrible.

[Anonymous No.9317877]

>>9317864
Hi dumbass I know who you are

[Anonymous No.9317881]

>>9317864
Nice profile pic, anon.

[Anonymous No.9317884]

>>9317867
I'm not going to shit on you, just wanted to give you the heads up. You got a good attitude though and you're going to do great. It is admittedly nice to not need custom shit any more so keep going man cause comments like yours keep me going too.

[Anonymous No.9317894]

>>9317875
youre insinuating that someone came in to remind fatties that skinny people exist and im insinuating that an actual skinny person experiencing sizing issues came to join a conversation that she thought she had a right to be a part of. very different things. in your hypothetical situation i agree with you.

[Anonymous No.9317895]

>>9317884
Losing the weight and inches isn't hard when you desire it enough. it's about balance yourself. Don't cut out those things you crave because that's how you break your track. But don't use it as a reward for doing good either. I graze all day. Usually in cucumber slices and peanuts but often that's all you need. I take the stairs at work instead of the elevator and park near the back of the parking lot rather then trying to get the spot up front. Take the dog for walks in the evening. It's all very easy things you can change that you don't have to work at the gym righteously because you had one 12oz soda. You had that soda. No problem with one every now and then to hold the craving back. You eat healthy and right the rest of the time so that vice item isn't you throwing in the towel.

[Anonymous No.9317900]

>>9317864
agreed

[Anonymous No.9317906]

>>9317877
>>9317881

[Anonymous No.9317907]

>>9317906
dropped pic

[Anonymous No.9317910]

>>9317864
>>9317906
>>9317907
Just isn't your day, is it

[Anonymous No.9317915]

>>9317910
I guess not. That's enough cgl for me for a while I suppose. kms

[Anonymous No.9317923]

>>9317894

At this point you're more or less requesting we become mind readers so we can tell you apart from the trolls and other girls who did come in to humble brag.

[Anonymous No.9318000]

>>9317814
I have plenty of my own and I don't wear AP. But feel free to embarrass yourself.

[Anonymous No.9318054]

>>9317495
Wow, really now?
So plus sized people can vent about brand sizing issues but thin people can't?
RC isn't just for fatties you know?
Btw, she's right too, shirred AP is freaking huge at this point.
Even some of their OPs are ad they used to be small sized, now some are too generously sized.

>>9317499
Clearly lol!

>>9317502
This.

>>9317518
Again, this.

[Anonymous No.9318055]

>>9317549
She had just as much to contribute as the plus sized girls did, you fat hypocrite.

[Anonymous No.9318060]

>>9317831
>>9317867
Good on you anon! Keep up the good work.
That is what I did too, I used to be obese, went from a US 18 to a size 4.
Feels good man!
Like you, I didn't blame the brands for sizing issues, I blamed myself and then did something about it.
That's why I can't stand the whining in that RC thread, geez what a pity party.

Even more importantly, once you reach a normal weight you no longer have to worry about weight related health issues like diabetes, heart problems, etc any more cause you will be much healthier.
Plus, you'll fit most brand items which is a lovely bonus.

[Anonymous No.9318124]

>>9317232
Book of Kells lolita sounds ugly AF

[Anonymous No.9318204]

>>9318124
Is this it? Because this is pretty lack luster.. I was expecting something a lot better looking than this :/

[Anonymous No.9318210]

>>9317923
nayrt but assuming that thinner girls complaining about fit issues are humblebragging or trolling you is ridiculous. People can have problems that are different from your problems, and they want to talk about it for their own reasons, not because they're all out to spite you. It's not mind reading, it's empathy.

[Anonymous No.9318214]

>>9317799
Thats a huge shame, but that was way back in the old school days. The market is ssooo much bigger now. People all over the world buy theor brand now. I wish they would reconsider doing the experiment again. Maybe they see the varied cuts as accomodating different sizes while still allowing a one size pattern? I notice that in each release one cut is always more forgiving than another.

[Anonymous No.9318218]

>>9317495
Wah, wah.

It's much easier to take in clothes than expand them. Sick of salty skellies acting like they have it so rough.

[Anonymous No.9318225]

>>9318210
>i'm too big for most of these dresses, i wish more brands i liked carried my size
>yeah that brand youre talking about made the dresses a little bigger and now I'm too SMALL for them

not that i feel bad for fatties, but give me a fucking break. complaining that you have something that other people dont or aspire to have (being thin) when they're talking about that specific thing is absolutely humblebragging and just being obnoxious

[Anonymous No.9318227]

>>9318218
Lolita is already considered "chubby girl fashion" in Japan. Sorry, but if you need to expand your already shirred brand, then maybe you could lose a few inches.

[Anonymous No.9318237]

>>9318227
or you could be one of those landwhales that buys two dresses and splices them together

[Anonymous No.9318251]

>>9318227
Nowadays men, who have wider/larger frames and more muscle mass, can fit into brand without any issues. How is it so difficult for people to fit into a JSK without maxing out the full back shirring?

[Anonymous No.9318260]

>>9318054
Yes I have sheep's garden op and that's full back shirring and it is so big on me I am about a size bigger than brands one size not shirring items so I am not skinny skinny and some how it is wayyyy to big

[Anonymous No.9318263]

>>9318227
Please post the photo of the girls cats teaparty jsks she made in to one just and how poorly done it is

[Anonymous No.9318270]

I've fallen into this messed-up situation with online comm stuff where I got screwed over on something, someone was sort of "placed" between me and the person causing the issue, so then I ended up fighting with the proxy person, but the proxy is a big fish, so now that everything's been quieted down I basically either can't talk about it to anyone or I have to go all out.
I never wanted this mess, I don't want a war but I hate falling on the sword. I feel like it's a girl bullying tactic to place people in positions where they can't defend themselves or it will create such an epic disaster that you're way worse off then just keeping your mouth shut.

[Anonymous No.9318276]

>>9318270
Time to burn some bridges, anon.

[Anonymous No.9318278]

>>9318218
Yeah but you shouldn't have to take in clothes that come from a country where being thin is the norm.

[Anonymous No.9318279]

>>9318210

It's called social skills, anon.

The context here is that the skinny girl comes into a thread where fatties are sad that they can't fit into small cute dresses, and the skinny girl announces that not only can she fit into said small dresses, she's so skinny they fall right off her. You don't see how that can come across as humble bragging/trolling?

You can still discuss skinny girl fit in the new releases threads, make your own topics/blogposts, heck you could drop these feels in the feels thread right now and you'd get a load of girls empathising. Just try not to act like a basement dweller who doesn't know social cues, there's lots of times where you can discuss your skinny girl frustrations, and then there's times when you should just let the fatties cry over whatever.

[Anonymous No.9318289]

>>9318204
Well, that girl who has to talk about Book of Kells every time a dream dress if barely mentioned ANYWHERE at RC is pretty lack luster as well. And she's a huge Ire-boo, so of course she has to like that dress.

[Anonymous No.9318290]

>>9318289
*is barely mentioned

[Anonymous No.9318291]

>>9318227
>Lolita is already considered "chubby girl fashion" in Japan
This has fuck all to do with what I said.

Let me repeat: You are a lazy, stupid bitch if you're too dumb to take in an inch or two on a dress.

[Anonymous No.9318301]

>>9318289
>Ire-boo
is that a thing?? do they like watch Irish movies and drink Guinness..?

[Anonymous No.9318303]

>>9318291
Try 5+ inches, at which point you're spending a lot of money to drastically alter a bodice with no guarantee it'll come out right. Anything beyond one or two inches either way isn't going to be easy.

[Anonymous No.9318304]

>>9318303
Boohoo princess. Stop acting entitled and do what fatties had to do for years to make it work.

[Anonymous No.9318309]

>>9318303
having to take a lolita dress in over 5 inches? i call bullshit

[Anonymous No.9318434]

>>9318291
You are a lazy, stupid bitch if you let yourself get fat as well, plus being not-fat doesn't destroy the resale value of your dresses :^)

[Anonymous No.9318445]

>>9317825
No, it's really not. When the topic is "brand doesn't fit me" it's legit to post why brand doesn't fit you. No matter whether you're too fat, too tall, too small or have weird proportions.

[Anonymous No.9318450]

>>9318309
It's just an ana chan. Don't worry about it, she's gonna die before you do lol.

[Anonymous No.9318452]

>>9318304
>fatties
>work
If fatties worked at anything other that eating they wouldn't be fatties, though?

>>9318309
You're underestimating how large certain AP cuts get.

[Anonymous No.9318456]

>>9318445
Don't bother reasoning with them, anon. Being a reminder to fat girls that thin people exist is considered a form or trolling now.

[Anonymous No.9318465]

>>9318452
Which cuts specifically? I wanna know what dress you would possible have to take in over 5 fuckin inches that hasn't been stretched out by previous owners

[Anonymous No.9318466]

>>9318301
More like obsess over anything remotely *~Celtic~* UwU

[Anonymous No.9318471]

>>9318445
I find brand isn't built for "curvy" figures; by which I mean if you are a classic hour glass shape, the shirring can't always account for that. The shirring on my dresses conforms to the point of most resistance; meaning my hips and bust, but then it doesn't shrink in at the waist so it looks baggy.

[Anonymous No.9318473]

>>9318471
Even with lacing? I have a similar problem but have no trouble as long as the dress has lacing that can be done up.

[Anonymous No.9318479]

>>9318466
A lot of new-agey Pagan revival people get really into their heritage sometimes. What weirds me out is sort of how they tend to ignore learning about the more resent ancestors (who, say, had to flee their homeland because of the potato famine) and instead reach back to people they probably, on a genetic level, are only vagely connected to.
I notice the same thing with Nordfags; they're ~so~ into viking culture but they would never try foods from those countries or bother trying to grasp the history of those places after they converted.

[Anonymous No.9318484]

>>9318473
Lacing fixes it, but if the loops for the lacing are made of actual lace (many dresses do that for design detail) then you have to be very careful about the tension. So far all the dresses I like / want seem to have lace loops or no lacing. >_<

[Anonymous No.9318496]

>>9318303
maybe you need to gain some weight

[Anonymous No.9318501]

>>9318484
It might be worth it to take those kinds of dresses to a seamstress where she add some reinforcement in the looping so you don't have to worry about ripping any lace. I can't imagine it being very expensive

[Anonymous No.9318581]

>>9318434
Lol. Fatties are lazy stupid bitches too if they can't do or pay someone to add shirring or sew on matching fabrics. Or use that as an excuse to buy replicas. But the least I can say about fatties is that their cost of alterations and difficulty of doing so us greater than taking clothes in. Not to mention if you cut or take in enough fabric you can make great free accessories to match.

Sorry I had no idea you saltmines would get so triggered by the truth. But you needed to know you look as whiny complaining in a plus size thread as to shorties complaining in a tall lolita thread.

[Anonymous No.9318586]

>>9318465
Anon is lying. Or it's a shirred dress which of course would cause issues for someone not meeting the minimums, yet would be the easiest to fix.

[Anonymous No.9318857]

>>9318304
oh the fucking struggle of being a whale. you want us to feel bad for you, when youre already wasting whole threads crying together about how clothing doesnt fit? youre inhuman and not worth the sympathy.

[Anonymous No.9318858]

>>9318450
i bet you were eating while you typed that, scum

[Anonymous No.9318859]

>>9318858
I wasn't, but sometimes I eat while I lurk here. Normal people eat meals and stuff and usually sit down to do it. Eating doesn't make you fat, you delusional retard.

[Anonymous No.9318864]

>>9318857
>youre inhuman and not worth the sympathy
Projecting much, cunt? c;

[Anonymous No.9318880]

>>9318857
>the fucking struggle of being a whale

?? Stop projecting sweetheart. I'm talking facts, not feels like you are. Fact: it takes extra fabric and more problem solving when trying to alter dresses bigger. It's more expensive for the fact. I'm not trying to say fatties need a medal, just that in the bigger(pun) scheme of things, making a dress smaller isn't difficult in theory. Plus a slightly loose dress is not as big a problem as an overstuffed one.
Therefore skellies crying about it as if it's on the same level is laughable.

[Anonymous No.9318885]

>>9318880
>says theyre not crying about how hard it is to be fat
>proceeds to write a whole paragraph about how hard it is to be fat

id feel bad for you if you didnt cause this yourself

[Anonymous No.9318929]

>>9318885
>how hard it is to be fat
I'm talking about clothes, bunny. Clothes.


Now shoo, begone. Go rattle bones at someone else.

[Anonymous No.9318930]

JANITORS BLS delete this completely derailed thread, it has been tainted by the fatties v anachans

[Anonymous No.9318932]

>>9318930
Enjoy your ban for partaking in the derailment :^)

[Anonymous No.9318937]

>>9318932
Are you literally retarded or really just that new?

[Anonymous No.9318942]

>>9318937
you sound scared

[Anonymous No.9318946]

>>9318942
Oh yeah, I'm terrified of being banned from CGL for derailing a thread.
Oh sweet Jesus have mercy!!! Spare me!! Whatever will I do‽

>SO STARTLED

At least now I know you're honest to god a retard.

[Anonymous No.9318950]

>>9318946
>>9318932
>>9318942
>>9318937

[Anonymous No.9318951]

>>9318946
holy shit stop being so mad autist...

[Anonymous No.9318977]

>>9317825
Its not really a humblebrag when you buy your dream dress that has no corset lacing, and you have to wear a pushup bra and tighten the waist ties to even try to fill out the bodice.
I just had to sell a dress I loved because even with the straps CROSSED in the back it was still stupid looking on me.

[Anonymous No.9319083]

>>9318977
cry me a river.

[Anonymous No.9319126]

>>9318977
Yeah, but smaller people can still get dresses altered smaller without looking completely retarded unlike most 'just use the waist tie' alterations for hamplanets.

[Anonymous No.9319130]

>>9319083
They did captain obvious.

>>9319126
I don't understand how fatties can think the dress will look alright when they do shit like that. I mean, they could buy a meta skirt and a blouse from taobao custom made for their size and look fine in Lolita. But they had to get the dress and had to modify it to fit them. A skirt is easier to modify then a dress. But why modify it if you don't fit it. Why not get something similar from a shop that does custom sizing and lose the weight to fit it later. Fatties will use any excuse to not eat an apple.

[Anonymous No.9319146]

>>9318445
This, so much.
That thread was hi-jacked by plus sized chicks but it doesn't mean thin girls can't comment.
Also, if we made a "thin person brand sizing issues" thread those girls will probably complain we're excluding and body shaming them.

>>9318456
Yeah, how dare we butt in their pity party and express our very similar problems lol.
They act like it's a competition of who has the most problems and needs to be pitied more.
That's a lack of empathy and self-absorbed to boot cause I can sympathize with plus sized people (except salty, unreasonable ones like >>9317495).

[Anonymous No.9319148]

>>9319130
>I don't understand how fatties can think the dress will look alright when they do shit like that

Because it does you massive retard. If it looked as horrible as you think nobody would do it ever.
Are you one of those old baba types who creep up behind somebody, pull off their cardigans or lift their hair, to inspect the back panels too? Yikes, glad you're not in my comm.

[Anonymous No.9319150]

>>9319148
That's a pretty bad argument because there are tons of things in lolita that look bad but people do them still. How we would even have itas if there wasn't such things.

[Anonymous No.9319152]

>>9319150
>because there are tons of things in lolita that look bad but people do them still
Don't bring subjectivity into this.

There is nothing wrong with professional alterations done right.
Describe how in any way, shape, or form pic related is terrible just because it modded waist ties into the back panels?

[Anonymous No.9319168]

>>9318445
>>9319146
>getting so mad that the thread was mainly geared towards plus size lolitas and not whiny petites
You're acting like that twink who said it was crucified, nobody said shit to her. Secondly, it does come off as attention seeking because literally every AP dress she owns she looks normal in. There are no fit issues. So yeah, kinda annoying when people have to snowflake themselves over their non-issues in a discussion that clearly doesn't touch them.

Knock yourselves out and make a thread for petites, nobody is stopping you.

[Anonymous No.9319175]

>>9318301
I don't think such a thing as Ire-boo exists. I know a lot of people that are really into other countries culture, like England or Ireland. From the surface you could think they are the same level like weeaboos. The difference is though, that I have never seen anyone pretend to be japanese or randomly take parts of the culture into everyday life. Also, they are mostly really know in-depth information, while weeaboos only worship Japan as some anime-heaven and rarely know more about Japan than anime shows them.