I've been with my boyfriend for six months, and it's basically both of our first serious relationship. I love him, but he's clingy to the point of being overbearing. If I'm going somewhere with my friends, he gets upset if i don't tell him the minute i make plans. I lived on the east coast for a while, and I got into the habit of going to conventions over there even after moving back to the west coast. He can't go to Katsu with me because of work, and even though he doesn't tell me directly not to go, I can tell he doesn't want me to. We're both pretty solitary/friendless people, but whenever I do talk to some of my friends online, he seems to feel neglected. He's also very passive aggressive, and always dropping 'hints' (like shoujo manga girl style) that he hopes that I'll pick up on. When I don't, he gets upset. I've told him again and again that I'm extremely oblivious and just am not able to notice when he does that, but he does it anyways and still gets upset every time. He's so emotionally dependent on me, and gets depressed if I can't see him often. Before we got together he was already depressed, though when we started dating he was a little less so. We briefly lived together and he was very happy and we barely had any problems, but complications arose and I had to move back with my parents. After I moved back, he started getting depressed again, and I don't know what to do. Whenever we argue, he ends up making me feel guilty, even if I'm upset, and I end up having to just swallow being upset because I don't want to make him sad. I've considered breaking up a few times because it takes such an emotional strain on me every time it happens, but I never end up doing it.