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old thread: >>9239881post /cgl/-related feels and don't get into OT slapfights
>>9243766i'll start:>be me, lolita at Orlando Disney>wearing Marie (Aristocats) themed coord>sit on a ledge, waiting for parade to start>two Japanese lolitas pass by>compliment their coords>they literally hold up double peace signs, smile, and say "totemo kawaii!!" >listen to them say something in Japanese about how cute gaijin lolita can be as they walk away>mfwi've passed the initation
>tfw seeing fat people makes you physically ill>tfw fatty-chans are drawn to LolitaI will always be a lonelita because of this it isn't fair
>>9243776i don't hate fat people but i will admit that i'm surprised by the amount of fatty-chans into lolita. i've been wearing for a few years now but wasn't really involved in all of the facebook comm stuff so i didn't realize how prevalent they are.my local comm is made up of fatty-chans and itas for the most part, and i can't decide if i 1) won't join because they look kind of embarrassingor2) will join because i'll look even cuter than usual surrounded by those kinds of people
After LA Comic Con we were just sitting outside the convention center talking and this weird dude went up to one of my friends, said "You look really sad!", took her photo, and then just walked away.It really freaked her out but fuck was it funny.
>>9243783my local comm has a few fatties that will just make their own stuff because they're just too morbidly obese to fit into anything and then it just looks like absolute shit because the fatties in my comm are horrible handmade itas
>tfw too average looking, shy and uninteresting to ever get cute cosplay girls to notice me>quite literally too shy to even talk or ask for picture of a girl cosplaying my wifiThere is no peace in this personal hell I live in
>>9243826waifu***FUCK this new phone someone just kill me
>>9243826>my wifiAt least you made me laugh on this gloomy day anon
>tfw I know everyone just thinks I'm a dumb cosplay girl who has no idea what I'm even cosplaying but I'm actually a socially retarded neet that only watches animu even though my family hates me for it and I literally only leave to house to go to cons and cosplayI deserve to die
>tfw too tumblr for 4chan>tfw too 4chan for tumblrI'm too sensitive for 4chan but i'm too "offensive" for tumblr. I just hate myself,i feel alone and i want friends. I want to be able to discuss in a 4chan vidya game discord general without getting kinda hurt or feel bad because i talked "too much" or said something that could make people think of me as someone annoying.There is another girl but it's only dudes otherwise. guys are so weird, man, they only make jokes like "kys" "yer a fag" and stuff like that...And being assburger/not discerning sarcasm too well doesn't help so i just try not to talk too much. Not a good drawer as well so i feel even more inferior because they seem to respect artists in the chat.Same for tumblr, I try to keep my "4chan" type of humor to myself.
>>9243826Here's what you do.>Become passionate; completely change yourself and fix all of your personality flaws to become a completely different person.>Through the above, become passionate into interesting hobbies and master many despite how many years behind you are. >Become disciplined enough to start your own business and become extremely successful and rich>Exercise and get shredded>Get surgery to fix all of your physical flaws and become better looking, taller, ect>Do 1, but now become confident, social, outgoing, happy, fun to be around, ect>Make tons of friends and always know someone no matter where you're going>Create common ground with cute cosplay girls by also being attractive, have a good cosplay, ectSerious, it's that easy. Just be someone else and stop being so shy?
>>9243837leave THE house*rip
>>9243837>socially retarded NEET>still has shit taste in anime and watches Narutowhy.. you've had all the time in the world
>>9243839feelin u>get looked at weird on tumblr for going on the chans>get laughed at on 4chan for having some "tumblr" interests/opinions
>>9243844fuck u narutos gud
>>9243839If you're a guy, add me and we can play video games while throwing out offensive 4chan bants.Also, the person from the last thread who posted https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5motuzyLXIk Thanks a ton. I rewatched it like 5 times
>>9243834Feel better soon anon>>9243840Lol I know it's satire but... A lot of the more easier to obtain things like "working out" and "pick up new hobbies" I have done, and still do because I enjoy them. I even make 6 figures a year before taxes (which isn't all that much in the grand scheme of things), but I've accepted that I can't radically change myself into some lovable extroverted party animal, and although cosplay as a whole greatly interests me, I'm probably too old (almost 30) and in an isolated area with minimal interest (rural midwest) for me to get into and enjoy it, let alone work up the courage to talk to some cute chick probably 5-10 years younger than me who has had attention all day from more suave dudes. So instead I rather travel to the west coast and visit some friends while I look from afar and take in the experience through others. Also I am horrible at sewing
>>9243858Oooohhhh. Yeah, almost 30 is a bit late to suddenly change yourself into a suave extrovert. And 6 figures in the midwest as quite a bit as the cost of living there is extraordinarily low. You probably have a hefty sum saved up unless you're retarded with financesJust marry some cute weeb woman and have her cosplay for you. Hell, you're a fit and rich man living in one of the comfiest places in the United States. Find a cute neet gf and take care of her. Good luck, buddy.
>boring 3 year story of getting dumped and becoming "improved" self>part of improving self was getting /fit/, improving skin, improving wardrobe, etc>don't go to cons for 3 years while working ass off for money and gains in cocoon mode>perhaps finally "made it">feel weak as fuck despite lifts being competitive at the regional level>feel ugly and gross because normies shit talk when at the grocery store or mall>basically dress in rags covered in dog fur because feel harassed by normies when dressed nicely>don't even want to cosplay now>can't even enjoy cons without ex>family says i have body dysmorphia>even /fit/ says it's body dysmorphia>fill up taobao and aliexpress carts with cute clothes but never buy them>plan to go to cons and even buy or make cosplays but never go
>>9243853Nah I'm a girl.I try to hide it in those groups but in the end they always know because i let something slip. Thankfully they are mostly fine with me being a girl but I feel bad.Also I like that one character that loads of girls like (he got weird gross fangirls all over tumblr) and I feel bad for liking him and they make me feel kinda bad for liking him. Not gonna say who because i'm paranoid someone would know who i amAlso they know i wear lolita, i tried to explain it was just a fashion but they were mocking me and said it was some pedo fash over and over so i just gave up.Aouch.
>>9243870rip. It's pretty obv. you'll have to let something slip sooner or later; nobody really plays vidya without voice chat anymore. Mfw I can't even play video games with my discord group on voice chat right now because I'm trying to avoid all female contact since I don't want to be reminded of my ex. Well, you'll probably find people who understand your lolita fashion more among girl seagulls. Since it's 4chan, you can probably assume most people here have similar types of banter, watch anime, and play video games. You shouldn't have a hard time finding online friends with the same interests at all.
>>9243865I am starting to have a decent amount saved up in the bank and mutual funds, but I didnt start making this much right out of high school. Plus with house payments, car payments, student loans, health insurance, etc, the expenses still add up. Coming from growing up near poverty level, it does feel good to be comfortable though; I don't take what I did to get myself here for granted.I honestly wouldn't mind of having a qt neet gf into the same or similar that would unconditionally love me but I have yet to find a mystical creature. Anyways thanks for taking the time to read my blog, hope to read more feels stories soon
>>9243880midwest here toopls be my bf
>>9243880Look online, try /soc/ I guess. /r9k/ or /lgbt/ might work if you're fine with feminine penis since erryone there is desperate as hell. It really does depend on how good looking you are, though. Or you might get really lucky and find someone who loves you for your personality and shared interests, but don't count on it. Just be really good lookin' and rich to compensate for your personality
>tfw mr yan will never ask you to marry him
>>9243839I used to be this way but then I stopped caring. Both sites have their negatives. Tumblr has the disadvantage of being mostly populated by teenagers. 4chan has the disadvantage of the same jokes over and over again. I've been on Tumblr for years but the older I've gotten, the less appealing it is for me. I started browsing 4chan after someone posted about a thread in a cosplay group and I've kinda been stuck here ever since. I feel like everyone just keeps quiet about it because of how strongly both sites feel about the other. Kinda dumb imo
>>9243877Aw sorry about your ex. hope you will feel better soon.I usually show my "love" with guys by trashtalking them/taking part to the banter. But sometimes i'm affraid i might be taken seriously or be too harsh/make the person hate me or feel bad. I have girl friends I usually don't trashtalk (save for one who does it all the time) because they are more sensitive but i like it as well being kinda sensitive myself.And yes definitely would be better off with other gals. I just wanted some guy friends too but it never works. They always end up either ignoring me or crushing on me in worst cases.
>>9243890Thanks anon. I feel a bit better now.It's just that I either feel like having to prove myself/justify my tastes to be accepted by the cool kids or just be a bit of a watered down version of myself and keep my opinions or justify them to be accepted by the other kids
>>9243884What part?>>9243886I will give soc an honest try, but I'm strictly hetero so the feminine penis doesn't do it for me. But yeah I feel at my age if I was lovable then it would have happened already lol, so I have no expectations with them loving me for me I guess, as long as the qt gf is loyal
>>9243891Those guys are ignoring you because they don't want to seem desperate. Before I got into my first relationship, I'd do the same thing too; I'd just flat out ignore or give curt responses to any girl because I didn't want to seem like I was hitting on them(Ego and not wanting to be grouped with the orbiters). It's pretty much just another side of the spectrum-- either you get completely ignored or people who are constantly vying for your attention.It's really difficult to make friends when there's a possibility for sexual attraction-- someone will catch feels sooner or later and things will go to shit. After one person falls, things will never really be the same after. So you're basically looking for guys online with similar interests that1. are gay(not prison gay or bi, but full on homosex)2. guys that have a girlfriend/wife alreadyGood luck looking for that in a group of 16-24 year old autistic virgins. Female friends will relate to you much better anyhow, I think you're looking for guy friends because of some kind of silly ideal, like the grass is greener on the other side or something
>tfw my hobbies are populated by feminine people>tfw feminine people tend to be passive-aggressive and encode every action with a world of hidden meaningIf you are in the EGL or crafting communities and you say what you mean, and mean what you say, and don't calculate everything you do to elicit specific responses from others, and don't "drop hints" and then get upset when nobody takes them... Thank you for existing.If the above fits you and you are also not a judgmental "I'm just being honest" shit-stirrer, double thank you and please continue to exist.t. honest pacifist tired of paranoid conspiracy-theory drama-chans
>Come home from work early>Boyfriend is in my Madoka cosplay>Confused but somewhat arousedwtf is wrong with me
>>9243897Protip: try the discords so you can actually talk to people rather than just posting profiles so they can judge you on looks/money.
>>9243897The Hoosier Statecons here are kinda bad desu
>>9243903sorry you're an autist, anon.
>>9243917damn that's a bit far for me :( my state doesn't even have cons lol. IA here...
>>9243924d-do you have skype at least?
>>9243924>>9243917Distance is nothing if one of you has money, you faggots. Meet up and fuck, I'm rootin for you two. If you guys get married, come back to /cgl/ to thank me
>>9243940Alright, I've been inspired>>9243933Yeah, I don't use it often but I do. I'm finishing up at work here and I'll make a throwaway acct that you can add, and I'll talk to you from there. I'll be home by the hour
>>9243776you're probably fat as well, most lolitas are
>>9243853you're welcome anon. A lot of school of life stuff is helpful. I just wish i had found it while i still had a relationship that i wanted to save but i doubt it would have helped that person was unwilling to admit that they had any problems that might need changing.
>>9243947I wish I found it sooner too, I was so mentally ill and lost. I directed all my energies towards self-destructive tasks instead of positive/productive actionsBut yeah, I guess neither of us could save our relationships.
>>9243949the videos are helpful but i don't think they are a complete answer. They are general in stature and speak in absolutes. It's a thematic choice but it lacks the specificity for unique and varying cases.If you are having serious mental troubles that last for longer than you think they should you should seek professional help. That is what i am having to do.
>>9243776unfortunately for me where i live the only people who publicly go out and wear lolita tend to be morbidly obese. I don't know why that fandom attracts fat people can someone explain it?
>>9243903Literally in both of those hobbies to enjoy the aesthetics. Treating myself to, and making eye-candy is what makes me happy in life. I'll have a sensible chuckle at drama but really not invested in that particular side of the community enough to ever get involved.
>>9243959All fandoms attract fat people. There are a lot of fat people in north america. Odds are, there's a fat person within 50ft of you right now.
>>9243959>lolita>fandom:^(anyway, lolita probably attracts fats because it's hyper-feminine and beautiful and fats are always told that they're ugly. they think that this fashion will somehow magically up their self-worth. there's a chinese saying for this: like putting flowers on cow shit.
>>9243964>flowers on cow shitIt's like the "lipstick on a pig" saying.All of the major skincare/makeup/fashion subreddits are full of fatties trying to feel pretty. It's gross.
>>9243959Last time I checked 40% of the US was obese, if you have a problem with fat people and up then that'll be 60%. As people tend to have around two or three big hobbies, the community attracts neets and socially rejected people, you're based in a fat people death pit and so on, odds are you'll be disapointed. But be happy that you even have a local comm, some of us live in isles of exclusion inside those "fandoms".
>find wishlist dress on fril for a fantastic price, nearly complete set, only missing socks>buy matching socks from another listing right after>SS wasn't able to get dress set after all, sold out before they got around to it>only other listing for the dress is almost 50 bucks more for the jsk alone>stuck with only these socks and my deep regretsI agonized for a while and ended up buying the expensive jsk anyways, but I'm still bummed because I'll probably never find all those other set items.
>>9243942I look forward to it
>Really liking Flip Flappers and wanna cosplay Papika>No friends>Can't walk around with screaming Cocona as I laugh >Cosplay would be pathetically sad without being a duo>Cry because no friends
>>9244019i've been considering this myself anon. i wanted to do a pair cosplay. I dunno i have some old high school friends that might be interested or maybe i would just anonymously post on some cosplay forum from my area and see what pops up. Don't be so morbid there are things you could do.That being said i also understand how terrifying it is since, well it's pretty well understood that a lot of people around these parts have social anxiety.
>want to go to meet up>every meet is a fucking theme>non of my dresses ever fit the theme for any event>always be the oddball outCANT WE ALL JUST WEAR LOLITA WHY DO WE ALL HAVE TO MATCH. There are like 300 of us and yet meets are always just consisted of everyone who owns all types of prints that I don't. Usually only 30 or so people show up to meets too and I'm always the only one who doesn't have anything close...
>>9244019>you will never be lolita Papika sniffing and nibbling inappropriate things before getting scolded by rabbit ear Coconawhy even live desu
>>9243776>it isn't fairWow, how is it not fair exactly? Just not fair to you or?
>>9243776Lol you are just as bad as fatty chans. >not everyone caters to me and MY PREFERENCES>WAHHH
>>9244034>>9244037fat fucks detected
>>9243887Just get 10 years younger anon.
>>9244037It's probably just bait. I wish it was real. but this is 4chan and anon is just trying to be contrarian to get replies. 10/10 ya know.
>>9244038Ah, so it is bait. Thanks for confirmation.
>>9244040triggered fatty alert
>>9244044>>9244045Holy shit, is that all you know how to say?
>>9244049>thinking it's one personlook at the post times
>>9244051>implying that couldn't be a statement to two different people>needing convince someone that two posts are two separate people>needing to beat a dead horse about how all anons are not all the same personfucking christ.
>>9244034>>9244037>>9244037>>9244040>>9244042only fatty-chans flock to defend fatty-chansis it so hard to stop eating as much?
>>9244057If you're so thin post your flat tummy ;^)
>>9244057apparently it's SUPER hard anonSTAWP bullying them! not everyone knows how to put down a fork!!!
>>9244059>implying i would let you or other creepy anons fap to my cute flat tummy>>9244060m-muh genetics!!!!!! i'm BIG BONED!!!
>>9244059it's pretty sad you are so fat you automatically assume everyone else has to be fat too>>9244062my entire freezer is stuffed to the brim with frozen microwaveable genetics!
>>9244062Look, I think it's totally plausible that you are in fact as skinny as you say. But here you are, not providing anything to back up your empty opinions.
>>9244065Look, I think it's totally plausible that you are in fact as obese as you say. But here you are, not providing anything to back up your empty opinions.
>>9244034>>9244037>>9244038>>9244040>>9244042>>9244044>>9244045>>9244049>>9244051>>9244055>>9244057>>9244059>>9244060>>9244062>>9244064It's fucking 4am and my sides are in orbit, thank you all for that.Note to fatties: If you want to make excuses for not taking care not only for your body and looks but your health at least be creative doing so.
>>9244065trigglypuff plsnobody should feel entitled to pictures of someone else on 4chanif she isn't fat she knows for herself, why does she have to prove that to you?calm yourself not everyone is gigantic like you
>>9244065This is a serious question, does your arm flab jiggle every time you type?
>>9244070>>9244069Two more replies and I post porn until the thread is deleted. I didn't even get banned for doing it last time.>post lolita related feels>thread is getting trolled to death with repetitive bait like always
>>9244031for real though if i get invited toone more sea themed meet someone is getting shanked
>>9244074Nobody fucking cares, it just shows you throwing a tantrum over being fat. Dump away.
>>9244074what kind of threat even is thisokay, mom
>>9244074>fatty mad enough to get the thread deleted because people are calling out fatties kek
>>9244075UGH. So many girls wore Dream Marine to the last meet I went to...The most enraging part is that I just don't want to buy something that I don't actually want to wear just so I can take amazing group pics...
>>9244079:( but clearly we hurt her fat fuck feefees so now we have to be forced to look at SINFUL PORN!!!!!!
>>9244080How is being fat /cgl/ related, I want to talk about lolita feels not fattys. Why is it so hard for you to understand? Go talk about this on /fit/ or something.
>>9244080>pretending not to be hwc for the millionth time
>>9244083most posters on /cgl/ are either fat or fat enablers
>>9244084never said it wasn't me ;3
>>9244074Yay, let's go there once more and have fun, because we all know someone being butthurt deleting threads and posting porn on a blue board is the way and only hope to save 4chan
>>9244082It's just to get the thread deleted, stupid. I don't have to post porn. I'll just post lolita cause why the fuck not. Image limits exist.
>>9244080>how is being fat /cgl/ relatedover half of the people on /cgl/ are fat, that's how>>9244082oh no!!! my mommy said i'm not allowed to look at porn for another year!seriously what the fuck are these fatty anons trying to do
>>9244087I'm gonna just post fatties instead lol.
>>9244090>over half of the people on /cgl/ are fat, that's howthen what are you doing here?
>>9244091No worries, keep at it. As long as you're fine with whatever you put on your mind is the norm you're on to live a wonderful life. 'w'
>>9244092being a skinny, qt lolitawatching fatties get jealous when i post my coords
>>9244092over half =/= allor is the lard suffocating your brain
>>9244095yep! till she dies of a heart attack at age 52 ;)
>>9244096where did you post a coord?
>>9244101is this a man
>>9244101why would i tell youi maintain a completely composed and sweet demeanor for my public facei would never taint it for the sake of your skinny-envyi'll just let you guess
>>9244100>wanting to get past 60No thanks, I will never understand people who want to be self aware when they're shitting their britches in an old folks home.
>>9244106>doesn't know how to post a collagefucking retard
>>9244110>implying my coordinates aren't recognizable enough to out mefucking retard. not everybody's a fat nobody.
>>9243920Have fun manipulating your way into shallow relationships fraught with unnecessary tension and self-induced anxiety.>>9243960I enjoy the social aspect of these hobbies but not the preventable, sitcom-tier melodrama, i.e.:>"Anon, So-and-so scheduled the meetup at noon even though I can't make it!">"Oh no, did you tell her you aren't available at that time?">"No, but I posted on Facebook two weeks ago about my cat's dentist appointment being that same time and she liked the status back then so she KNOWS I will be busy.">"She probably forgot, you can ask--">"No, this is her getting back at me because I stood in front of her during the photoshoot at the June ILD meet and she thinks my hair covered up her Automatic Honey necklace that no one else in the comm got during the bloodbath."The labyrinthine justifications for believing they are being persecuted, snubbed, or conspired against are more vague than that but just as petty.
>>9244031schedule your own?
>>9244065>t-they're making fun of me s-so they're projecting l; they're just as f-fat as I am! No, more fat!Is this going to be the /cgl/ equivalent of tits or gtfo? Posting flat tummy time-stamped isn't hard but who the fuck wants to do that just to prove to fatty-chan that they aren't fat?
I'm sorry for not contributing to the thread as I don't know if this can be considered a feel, but it's /cgl/ related.As someone that has lived all it's life in a place where there's 20% over weight rate only I don't quite get people trying to get away from beauty standards such as being slim when they are trying to create their on standards with stuff like "plus size" models and marketing. I'm sincerely confused and would like explanation, because, as I see, being over weigh is an option as only a few people have justificative over why they are obese.
>>9244118noalso her wig is hideous with that coordinate and she should be ashamed
>>9244074Nobody wants to see your fat nudes, anon. You're just embarrassing yourself.
>>9244120Honestly I don't care if they are fat or not. I just wanted to know why original anon said "it wasn't fair" like that factors into it somehow?But of course, original anon probably isn't' here anymore and I got troll responses.Like I wasn't even looking to defend fatties, I just wanted to know what the logic behind it being fair was.
>>9244124>defends fatties>I totes wasn't defending fatties! k
>>9244122>not knowing that isn't claireOHHH BOY.
>>9244126How is that defending fatties. How do you know I don't also dislike them? I never said that I did. You're literally just pulling shit out of thin air. But please keep wasting replies. The thread will get deleted even faster.
>>9244127? i know who claire is, fatty-chani'm just saying, her wig is hideousand so is claire's hair
>>9244132>claire is the nobody galaxy-coord chan who refuses to wear anything that isn't special and spaceytoo bad her hair is shit and her latest halloween coord was a clusterfuckbut anybody who's disagreeing with you must not know anything
>>9244136It's funny you think I have that kind of mindset when it's exactly what you're doing. You have yet to say how I'm defending fatties and thinking that because I replied at all to any of this, I must be a fatty myself.
>>9244138is this a man?I can never tell black women from black men
>>9244140>projecting this hardpoor bb
>>9244142>/b/ tier trollinggo back to /pol/
>>9244145ur the 1 projectin hoe bag
>>9244147>/tv/ tier memes
>>9244148>I can't think of anything to say because anon is right>I-if I just spout out what they're saying back to them I'll win>r-right??
>>9244148this response really convinced me that you're not a fat tumblr fuck
You know what I don't get?Why doesn't 4chan just block the use of proxies? That would get rid of the region ban evading faggots.
>>9244153technically they haveit's not that simple you idiot
>>9244142dindus all look the same
>>9244153>being this new>>9244155oh boy, you got me!
>>9244153>women in charge of understanding IT
>>9244154>you idiot??Anyway, I used to use proxies. I think it'd be easy for hiro to block the sites people use to do that. Instead he installed ads on his site so whatever.
>>9244153>is this how I 4chan? DX
>>9244167Nobody here believes you've used proxies.
>>9244170can you all just STFU jesus this is some fucking nth level shitposting
You know what I don't get?Why doesn't 4chan just block all the fatties? That would get rid of the crying because you can't put a fork down shitposting faggots.
>>9244171Why would that be a far fetched thing... I used one to get around a ban from a forum back in like 2009.
>>9244174Stop being so triggered you got called out on being an idiot, just as bad as the fatties baka
>>9244155She's actually cute>>9244153Network is not this simple, m8. Shit is hard when you study computer networks.>>9244165>Implying /clg/ is only women>Implying women can't understand computer engineering and networksI'm really impressed on how every feels thread end because of a bunch of 14yos shitposting.
>>9244169Holy shit! She's so black her pigment stained her clothing brown in the left pic!
>>9244183s u r e j a n
>>9244179>I'm really impressed on how every feels thread end because of a bunch of 14yos shitposting.Right? For fuck's sake...
You know what I don't get?Why doesn't 4chan just block all the niggers? That would get rid of the posts made by people below 50 IQ.
>tfw you will never get cancer from Mana's mutant sperm
>>9244185>MEMES HURRalso I think this was a girl that self posted on /cgl/? anyone remember?
You know what I don't get?Why doesn't 4chan just block anyone with a Facebook? That would get rid of the normalfag faggots.
>>9244194Are you still at it? Are you really wasting your time on 4chan, trying to get some attention because people don't agree with you? You could be working on a cute coord, but you're trying to... I do not know what you're trying to do actually...
>>9244198>working on a cute coordI already have some. >inb4 you ask me to post themI could say the same to you. You're also wasting time here.
>>9244200Fair enough. Keep at it, I'll go do something else.>I already have some.Terrific! Post what you feel about them and actually contribute to the thread.
Not on topic at all but ive had an anal fissure for over a month now and it fucking sucks and makes me feel very not very kawaii
>>9244138So cute I always love this girls coords.
>>9244207yeah yeah we get it you are racist. Honestly can you be a little less boring please?
>>9244214only if you can be a little less triggered
>>9244217>triggeredWhen you say less boring and anon uses old memes.
>>9244225>when anon complains about boring memes by using boring memeswew
>>9244226I felt it was fitting.
>>9244227makes you a hypocrite
>>9244228Same with you anon. We are on the same sinking ship here.
>>9244230I never complained about other people shitposting like a little bitchthat was all you baby
>>9244231>never complained about other people shitpostingliterally complaining about me currently
>>9244232I'm not complainingI'm engaging
>>9244232>>9244242just kiss already
>>9244242Whatever helps you sleep at night.
>>9244108Lol, people in aged care homes aren't around 60 at all. Typically at least 80. You're a moron.
>>9244256>past 60You're the moron.
>>9244226>wewGo back to /tv/ jesus christ
Mfw come back to this thread after a couple hours after the whole hookup thing early in the threadand the rest of the thread is just shit posting about fat lolitaGoddamn you salty bitches, make love not war
>>9244302It's just hwc.
>>9243942>>9244008How did it go, you two?/cgl/ bf/gf applications feels thread
>>9244312He never replied DID I GET BAITED? ;-;
>get teaching assignment>Hiroshima>Like my third choice but still pretty fucking good>Wait shit this all feels to real>Existentialcrisis.jpgI am ok now after quite a few drinks and a bit of a taobao shopping spree, but I am both hella excited and a basket of nerves at the same time. Now also trying to figure out what Lolita communities are like in Japan and if there are any god shops in Hiroshima. At the very least its a 5 hour train ride to Tokyo, so I can still make a weekend trip out of it.
>>9244366Mintkismet just moved to Japan and she seems to be having a blast. She posts about going to their meets.
>>9243826Just hit on some cosplay girls who are also average and shy...
>>9244324I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but you can talk to me about lolita/cosplay anytime you wantBut I'd suggest just waitin' for him, he seemed serious. Also, he got the cash monies
>>9244376But yeah, probably using a throwaway email to contact each other then trading discord/skype/steam/whatever information would be best.
>>9244324I am SO SORRY. truth be told I got into an accident on the way back home from work tonight. I'm alright but my car isn't. I completely spaced things out and I feel like shit for standing you up :(I'll be lurking the thread in hopes you respond hoosieranon... I work all day tomorrow but I'll check in on the thread from time to time.I made a throwaway email, talk to me thereseegeellanon at gmx dot com
>>9244385I hope this has a happy ending
>>9244385Tfw no /cgl/ hookup that turns into a loving relationship between two weebs then eventual marriage. Tfw this will never happen to youYou're living the dream, breh. Invite a flock of seagulls to your wedding
>>9244386I'm seconding that
>>9244394>flock of seagullsToo bad the band can't play their reception
>>9244386>>9244394>>9244397I mean we haven't even talked to each other yet but I hope she doesn't turn me down for not contacting her sooner, I'm excited to meet her
>>9244404m8, ye're my OTP. Wish you luck in life, have fun. 'w'
>>9244394tfw no clingy neet gf in LONDON
>>9244385Am I the only one that finds this cringy? How desperate do you have to be to try and hookup with some anon on 4chan? This would be like absolute last resort.
>>9244443beggars can't be choosers. and quite honest you are on here for a particular humour and generally a similar disposition on things you enjoy so it's not the worst way to meet someone.What you think some random person at a con is going to be any more or less weird?
>tfw will never be short enough to wear lolita OPs>or most jfash in generalI fucking hate being 6ft tall
>>9244451>tfw no Amazonian lolita gf to dominate me
>>9244452>tfw everyone wants you to be dominant because tall but you're submissiveevery single time
>>9244451>tfw 6'4">tfw noone will ever be able to spoon you>tfw want tall woman just once to see what it is likei dunno anon sometimes height can be a really good thing. I'm tired of dating short girls. My first gf was 5'1" second was 5'3" and third was 5'4" at this rate i'll be 40 before i date anyone reasonably tall
>>9244453I can switch. I'm dominant nearly all of the time but I thought it'd be cool for a change of pace.
>>9244443>desperate do you have to beDid you read his original post? Pretty desperate, and understandably so. Secondly, this is one of the extremely rare instances where a girl(i'm assuming girl and not trap (your're not a trap, right, Hoosier seagull?)) actually calls out a guy in a thread. That's rarer than the rarest of Pepes. However, I did notice she only posted after he described his financial stability. Then again, let's face it, that is one of the things girls do look for as a pretty high priority, no matter how much they say they want "smart and funny" first. But you know what, I'm ok with a girl being picky about that as long as I can be picky about wanting someone who's not promiscuous and not a bitchy manic-depressive borderline personality self-centered bag of drama.Do your best, Midwest Otoko!
>>9244448Not necessarily. I doubt I'd get along with anyone here. It's the general atmosphere. Sure, it's funny online. But not so much outside. I've tried a discord chat but it's just people acting a certain way because it's 4chan and they're trying too hard. I can't imagine how any of you act IRL. I talked myself out of a cgl meetup because I knew based on the chat that it would be awkward asf. I never said that random people at cons are any better.
>>9244455I have a complex about my height so I'd kill to date someone reasonably taller then me. I just want to feel protected and all that good shit.
>>9244443my fiance and i met on 4chan. it must've been kismet to have met somebody like him in a cesspool like thisbut you have to remember that people are people behind the anon, and there are some good ones and some bad ones, and some people are willing to roll the dice. plus there's the bonus of understanding each other's dumb meme lingo
>>9244460what makes you think people outside of 4chan act like they do on 4chan. There is social propriety. context. People act very different i nthe real world and whats more if you start to share something you might be passsioante about if you met someone through 4chan you can be at least somewhat reasonably sure that they will feel at least a little bit the same.
>>9244461good luck finding what you want near to you. I'm starting to realise i need to significantly lower my standards to even hope to meet someone similar where i live. Living in a country of 4 million in the land area of japan hurts.
I was really excited for my first real lolita meetup but it ended up sucking. First of all, my feet hurt from walking around all day, and they hurt even more. Then there was a lot of waiting in line, and I didn't even get to see anything that day. Then I thought the people were kind of annoying. They kept making lame jokes about video games and drugs over and over again. I didn't even get to spend that much time talking about the fashion.On the other hand, I'm really happy that I got a lot of compliments on my dress from normies! It makes me want to wear lolita out and about more often. I didn't have a single negative interaction that day.
>finally decide to cosplay a character I really, really love, have been putting it off because the costume is complex and expensive>going to cosplay her to the biggest con of the year>commission costume months beforehand from reputable website because I'm not confident enough in my skills to make the cosplay and I want it to be perfect>spend weeks making props for the outfit, styling the wig, making everything the best that i can>daydream about cosplaying that character, everything's going to be perfect and I'm gonna meet fans from the series and have so much fun>few weeks before convention, get email that my costume production has been delayed and can only reach me almost two weeks after the con>heart crushedI'm so genuinely disappointed, I guess that's what I get for being a talentless fuck and not being able to sew my own costume... I'm a shitty NEET too and this was the only thing I've been looking forward to for a really long time.
It's 1 AM and I really need a cuddle but my boyfriend is asleep. I have been so needy lately, maybe because my granny died. But there is always something wrong with me. Now I'm eating ice cream out of the tub even though I need to lose weight and stop being a chub. I don't want to become overweight but food is so comforting. I will look horrible at the next lolita meet no doubt.I've managed to stop buying lolita stuff when I have a wardrobe of 60ish unworn dresses + a ton of everything else, but now I am sinking my money into Blythe dolls instead. I should really be putting it in a savings account.I just want a tight hug and my head stroked.
>>9244114This belongs in the ita thread.
>>9244514>need a cuddle but my boyfriend's asleepso you edge your way into the bed and get your damn cuddle. put down the icecream tub. will it really make you feel any better? is eating it worth losing your self-worth after? is this what your granny would've wanted for you?your boyfriend can wake up for your sake. go get head strokes, you need them.
>>9244524You're very sweet, thank you. I need to stop wallowing in self pity and just get on with things. I should feel happy by now, things are for the most part finally stable and secure for once in my life. Maybe exercising other than walking would help?
>>9244528i'm glad you took it well, i came off as blunt but you deserve better than dragging yourself down like thatwalking and jogging are definite pluses, and i haven't met anybody who has regretted doing it on a regular basis. i'm not really /fit/ but i bet there's other fun cardio to do too. invest yourself in your hobbies and start developing good habits, and slowly things will fall into place. good luck!
>>9244531Thanks anon, I hope you are doing well yourself. I guess knitting, elliptical and maybe DDR it is! Plus getting back into going to meetups again, I never regret when I go. Night night.
I just realized I promised two groups of people I'd do two different cons on opposite sides of the country on the same weekend. I can't remember who I promised first. Fuck. I fucked up.
>>9244576No one will know which you committed to first but you. Pick the one you want to go to most since it was an honest mistake.
>>9244451Literally me. I'm collecting some underskirts and underdresses to sort of even out the silhoutte on some OPs. Being 6ft sucks, but it's workable.
>>92445926'1" tall, and wanting to join the lolita fashion. What awaits me?
>>9244031Holy fuck, this. Nearly every meet in my comm is themed and even though they say it's fine to show up not in theme I just feel out of place and end up not going. My wardrobe is entirely black and mostly solid pieces too, so I never have anything to suit the theme unless it's literally "gothic".
>>9244596If female, underskirts, all the colors. Searching length measurements 5ever.If guy, kys.
>>9244501Welcome to what many lolita groups are like RL. There's a reason lots of us are lone and just wear it out with a few friends even when there is a comm nearby. Glad you didn't get any negative reactions though, hope you wear it more in your everyday. It's fun.
>>9244605>If guy, kys.All the hate they get here... kinda overwhelmingI'm female, but tall. Guess I'll have to do some searching when I do go and get to buying shit.
We just joined a new cosplay group and this girl keeps messaging my boyfriend. I don't normally have an issue with this but the fact that she wants to use Google Hangouts rather than outright texting and telling him that maybe she should talk to him less so that people won't get the wrong idea is very fishy to me. She mentioned many times that she has a SO but has never referred to him by his first name and it even seems like they don't even hang out with each other much.He knows something is bothering me so I told him I don't feel like he is giving me much attention. He has been showering me with lots of affirmations. Should I even tell him how much this girl is really bothering me? I don't want to appear like a jealous bitch who doesn't allow girls to talk to him. Especially when he doesn't have many friends to begin with. However, there is just something really wrong here. I just don't feel comfortable that she made no effort to be my friend. >in b4 dump him delete FB and lose weight Kinda dumb to throw away a 5 year relationship at the first sign of insecurity. Not really wanting advice. Just felt this had been bottled in for a while now
>>9244623You have two options: You keep at it and become miserable in no time or you talk what you feel with him. See, if he holds you dear then he'll at least think this through and take his own conclusions, otherwise I'm sorry.
>>9244623how has your relationship lasted that long if you can't even talk it out like proper adults damn
>>9244628I really appreciate you, anon. Thank you.I trust him completely and I know he will do the right thing. He see this more like she wants someone to talk to and he doesn't want to overwhelm me with his ramblings. I'm stuck with letting him have a friend and letting it pass since it always does or telling him that she makes me uncomfortable and causing more drama than I really want to deal with
>>9244623Grow up and tell him what the problem is. Relationships are about communication. If you can't sit down with him and tell him how you feel than nothing is going to be resolved. It seems like you're freaking out over nothing though. Girls are going to talk to him, sometimes it will even be girls that you don't like. So long as he's with YOU and has never given you any reason to be suspicious of his behavior then you should be okay.
>>9244623C O M M U N I C A T ETalk with your boyfriend, fuck. This is how relationships fail. Take it from someone who broke up with his girlfriend due to mistaken notions due to complete lack of talking our problems out like adults and letting it fester instead.
>>9244443Imo, I met my gf on 4chan as well. We were pretty perfect together, but I was too mentally ill to make it work at the time. A lot of the time, she was more like my therapist than my girlfriend. We ended up breaking up because I didn't want to trouble her, and I'm working on my own issues alone now while simply being friends. You won't really find people anywhere else with this brand of humor and type of thinking, I guess. Though, the type of person also depends on which board they browse
>>9244631It comes with an understanding that he is his own person who can be friends with anyone he wants and vice versa. It also comes to the point of picking and choosing what can and cannot bother me. I am trying to process whether this should bother me any longer. Not everything needs to talked over in details. I have told him how I have been feeling but I also want to be fair to all the people involved. >>9244652I appreciate you anon but both your paragraphs are basically my struggle right now. Do I grow up and tell him or am I just freaking out over nothing and letting it pass? I have little issues with girls talking to him and even girls whom I don't like. This is the first time that is making me feel this uneasy.
>Try to interview Lolita for a piece on fashion>They want to insert identity politics into it>They are cis het white and rich>Suggest it doesn't make sense for the topic at hand>TRIGGERED, whole thing canceled
>>9244668Were they morbidly obese?
>>9244669Not at all. It was this "instead of talking about Lolita I want to use your blog as a platform for talking about something else" when that something else is a series of social science theories that are just really not connected to Lolita or fashion in general. Like it was even about sizing issues with clothing or fat acceptance. It was this swirl of all hot topics combined into one tornado of; "i care about things, people and stuff"
>>9244679*wasn't even about sizingsorry.
>see a hall pic of myself at a con>photog zoomed way in on my face>teeth look yellow, double chin, skin looks oily>kill me
>>9244809I feel ya, I envy photogenic people
>>9244623Can't you try and become friends with her well? Get to know her and let your own presence in his life be known to her. That can scare her off if she's trying anything or you'd could gain a new friend is she's not.
>>9244409okay but where u atgendermight be able to hook u up yo
>tfw your parents were/are abusive alcohols >tfw they have done everything in there power to keep you dependent on them in your adult life>tfw some wonderful people from your com helps you realize that no, what you are experiencing is not normal and you do in fact need professional help and pretending to be OK when you are not OK has really fucked you up>tfw you finally get professional help for the anxiety and depression you have just been slogging through your whole life while pretending everything is perfectly fineI don't even know how to let her know how much I fucking love her for helping me get my life together and get out of this sea of lies.The road to getting my shit together is fucking hard but it is much easier now that I have finally admitted that there is a problem.
>>9244372>average cosplay girlsnot even once
>>9243826wew this feel is too real
>>9244864MaleLAhook me up senpai
>>9243851WE ARE FIGHTING DREAMERS
>>9243837The way you word that is a little strange.So... your confirmed to be thought of as a 'dumb cosplay girl'?
>>9244385Please invite the whole comm to your wedding, this is exciting. Maybe you can find me a husbando too
>>9244514Are you me? My grandma raised me, I am so lost right now. All I do is scroll through secondhand sites and cook for my grandpa. Should I buy a pullip doll? I think getting another doll would help
>tfw you go on a taobao spree>and then look at the total in the budget tool Didnt buy from the cheapest stores out there on taobao, but I now got a LOT of stuff coming. Birthday present to myself.
>>9243816la comic con was such a mess this year. it felt like you were just there to be gawked at by normies who think they're nerdy half the time
>>9243990glad you got your dress anyway!!
>>9244116>The labyrinthine justifications for believing they are being persecuted, snubbed, or conspired against are more vague than that but just as petty.just want to say this is not necessarily a "feminine person" thing, it's an "insecure person" thing. non-feminine insecure guys i know also obsess over imaginary social slights, they're just more likely to confront you about it than hint about it. the whole "what the fuck are YOU looking at, you want to start somethig?!" paranoid machismo thing.people in general have a hard time accurately discerning the intentions of others, even while claiming they are "always right" about people.
>tfw no cosplay/lolita gf
>>9244972More from this set.Also:>there was a hook up in threadWew, lads.
>>9244623talk to your partner wtf??? this is how adults do it hun, you have to tell them exactly what is bothering you and what you want him to do about it. boys don't take hints. he will not change his behaviour unless you communicate
>>9244866i am happy for you, anon. it is going to be rough but you will keep fighting.we're all gonna make it, gull.
>>9244866GF is in the state you were, but without the alcohol. How can I help her?
>tfw turning 28 in AprilI'm well past the age where birthdays are fun. Now they're just a terrifying reminder that I'm getting older.Why can't I stay young and lolita forever?
>>9244987This might sound cheesy but you can stay young in spirit at least, and you can wear lolita for as long as you please regardless of age.
>making plans to go to a new con to fill up conversation so I don't have to tell my husband I'm going back on antidepressantsI wish I was better than this!!
>>9244998i... i don't think i understandwhy wouldn't you tell your husband you're going back on antidepressants? they're prescribed, aren't they? do you think he'd really be judgey about that? it seems silly not to tell him and try to dodge the issue that isn't really an issue at all>>9244987misako, asuka, and maki are all old biddies and they're still doing what they lovelolita does not equate youth
>>9244987When you can no longer pass for a Victorian porcelain doll, that only means it's your chance to turn up the ara-ara aesthetic!I'm over 30, we could get together and raise a new generation of lolitas/cosplayers before we're both too old to do it.
I feel like I look way too old to do cute jfash or even very tame kfash styles like pic related. I'm 25 years old now and turning 26 soon. My boyfriend has been offhandedly commenting that I look old since we met (and I was 22 at the time). For example, he will say pretty much any other girl who is my age looks like she's 16 unless she's very ugly or morbidly obese but then always acts like someone is insane when I get mistaken for a teenager or college student. This whole year I've been feeling kind of down, so I just wear jeans and t-shirts, which I think automatically makes someone look younger or at least gives the vibe that someone is young but just has a mature face. So because of that, I think teenagers have been assuming I am closer to their age and trying to talk to me outside. He will get offended and tell me that I definitely don't look young. Like what the hell? And he gets offended when I tell him that I need to bring my ID into the liquor store or if we sit at the bar at a restaurant (I normally don't take my wallet if my bf is with me because we have a joint bank account anyway). As someone who was a server, I would DEFINITELY card anyone who looks like they're even in their mid 30's, and there's no way either of us look over 30, so why wouldn't I bring my ID? It's not like I think I look young, but I guess I'm annoyed that he thinks everyone looks young except me. Trying to find more "mature" jfash inspiration that I can wear out and about, but I'm starting to feel like I am not seeing myself the way other people do. I already have no idea what my body actually looks like since many people (including my bf) have told me that I have body dysmorphia. Maybe I somehow think my face looks better than it is and that my body looks worse than it is? Sorry for the blog, friends. Just frustrated tonight.
>>9245056you're definitely overthinking all of this. why does "looking young" matter so much to you? it's really unhealthy and i'm sure that your boyfriend doesn't have some mass conspiracy to make you feel bad about yourself. so, you probably look older than you'd like to. so do most people. stop trying to fit in with the hip teens and embrace that you're an adult.i get that body dysmorphia is a thing, but whatever your boyfriend is doing isn't a conscious effort to make you feel old. you need to sit down and consider why this matters so much to you. you're never going to age backwards.wear whatever the hell you want. i get that you're frustrated but these thoughts aren't healthy. drop the obsession.
>>9245056your boyfriend sounds like a tool, anon. we can't know if he's "right" or not without a pic of your face, obviously, but getting outright offended when someone thinks you're younger than you are is fucking stupid. maybe I'm just paranoid, but are you sure it's not coming from a place of petty jealousy/possessiveness?
>>9245056>why wouldn't I bring my ID?Do you actually get carded when you bring it? In the last 1-2 years?
divorce chan here from the last thread. Just thought to let you know I filed the paperwork and he's leaving in two weeks. I'm going to be moving up to the city near my mother since the police up here are far more accommodating of domestic violence and will be able to help me keep him away. I feel a sense of relief knowing that this is finally ending and I can get on with my life while wearing Lolita again. My girlfriend plans on moving in with me in febuary so we can finally be together now that he's going to be out of my life. Thanks for giving me the justification that it was the right thing to do cgl. Althoough rare, cgl does have some good people who are not always salty.
>>9245060I'm just concerned that if I look old and wear things for younger people, I'll look really bad? Mostly it's about short skirts. I'm fine with looking my age or even a bit older, but sometimes he makes it sound like me being mistaken for a college student is ridiculous. I know he's not doing it to make me feel bad, but he still clearly thinks I don't look young. Normally I don't really think about this much, but a teenager just tried to talk to me today when we were both outside, and he went on a little rant about how there's no way I look young enough for her to try to talk to me. Honestly, I told him she just seemed like one of those "hyperactive" kids who thinks it's funny to talk to random people on the street.
>>9245062I would've thought that if it was just college bros talking to me, but the last time today was some 14-15 year old girl. So not really sure? >>9245063Yes, I always get carded in bars and restaurants. I've only been in a liquor store a handful of times in the past 2 years, and while I wasn't carded the last time, last year they straight up asked me to leave when I entered because they thought I wasn't old enough. Granted, the man was ancient and probably can't see well.
>>9243826Just start trapping it up. Works 99.5% of the time.
There are actual lolitas who go to meet-ups without putting bows in their pubes.
>>9245060> why does "looking young" matter so much to you?Because young girls around 14-18 are more sexually attractive than 25+ christmas cake.Inb4 hurr durr pedophile, 14 is the age of consent in my country.
>>9245084>Because young girls around 14-18 are more sexually attractive than 25+ christmas cake>IMPLYING
>>9245084does everyone in your country have such a hard life that they age prematurely? most 14yos look too much like children to seem like potential sexual partners ime, and even many 19yos have that immature, unripened and awkward look sometimes.
>>9245086>>9245086It sounds like you have a problem with your country where people aren't maturing at all.There's a documentary called the disappearing male, it talks about how environmental pollution/chemicals and added chemicals in food are turning all the boys into low-test betas with no testosterone. Basically scrawny, can't grow beard, high-pitch voice, much lower sperm count/quality than in the past, etc.The females don't have much of the same problem though, girls start getting sexy as soon as puberty hits, they're in their sexual prime at around 16, simple as that.
>>9245084>Inb4 hurr durr pedophile, 14 is the age of consent in my country.Its legal to fuck animals where I'm from but that doesn't make it ok, nor do you see me talking online about how much animals are much more attractive than real people.Its also legal to eat your own shit.the legality of things doesn't change how disgusting they are.I'll call you an ephebophile if you're too fancy for the word pedophile then. still predatory and disgusting.
>>9245091>the legality of things doesn't change how disgusting they are.Exactly. Also I am not sure if anon has actually seen real 14 year olds or just what anime has shown them to look like. Because honestly real 14 year olds are nasty.
>>9245064I'm glad to hear this, Anon!Stay safe, stay frilly! Enjoy your next chapter of life with an encouraging partner who wants your happiness.
>>9245091This post is an example of why most western countries have high age of consents, and a cultural stigma on men having sex even with older teenagers.It's because hags like you age, and men don't desire you as much anymore. You were so jealous of younger girls who are more sexually desirable that you basically just went "If I can't have it, then no one can".As you were allowed more political/social power, your jealously of younger girls manifested into law. Insanely high ages of consent like 18 are something relatively new.
>left job at fast food place for a cafe closer to home>the job is fine but doesn't pay as much as fast food, minimum wage but the hours make up for it I guess>went from 40 hrs to 15 hrs a week after working there for 4 weeks>was promised full time hrs but and is the only person that can work full time, but w/e, too hard to find a new job>manager comes in, wants to talk to me>'cool can ask her about the hours'>she tells me I'm fired b/c I stole from them?>ask her to prove it, she tells me to prove I didn't steal and when I couldn't she told me to go home>lmao w/e hated the people who worked there anyway besides they were losing money (I think only I knew this because no one else checked our sales compared to labor costs, etc)>sad but free time so start looking for relationship, tinder is the best options since I have no friends and I'm a loser>every second guy is more of a loser than I am and they badger me about being half asian (I don't get the interest) and being into cosplay and anime>not like cute badgering either, as in telling me I'm a nerd thinking it's gonna make me like themI just want someone who can be chill about anime and video games. Also I'm 20 and I don't know if I should be this apathetic towards relationships or not. Am I weird? Or just destined to be alone?
>>9245098Thank you. I'm hoping to maybe get her to wear Lolita. She loves it but simply doesn't know where to start being a 32 in waist. I'm gonna help her learn how to taobao.
>>9245100Just how high are you?
>>9245091>legality doesn't change how disgusting something isRight, social norms dictate that and those are ever changing and unstable and thus relatively unreliable indicators. It wasn't even that long ago that nobody would bat an eye to a teenaged bride in the western world.For the most part, men are biologically motivated to search for sexually ripe mates. It's through rigorous social conditionings that men are taught to repress such urges, but sure enough to see how popular it is for "teen" to be thrown as a search term in porn even if the girl in the porn is clearly not a teen. 18 is considered a magical "Finally legal, yesss!!!" age very openly; but nobody wants to sit down and think about the implication behind such a concept. The very much desired sexual mate is off limits because of societal rules, but very much desired.That being said, 15 and 16 are usually more that sweet spot, in mid puberty when sexual traits are more developed and hormones are on full blast. Not that I'm advocating for anything, just playing a bit devil's advocate. By 14 your body is sexually active, you'll have sexual urges, and personally I feel as if society puts sex on too high of a pedestal. Sex isn't magical, it isn't dark magic, you just please each other like a mutual backrub. With protection, there's no real issue so long as both parties are willing. The only real issue I can see is the possibility of older men using their age and power to manipulate and intimidate those younger than them, but this problem doesn't magically go away when they're 18.
>>9245100Has to be trolling. Wow.
>TFW I met and dated my now wife when she was 13 and I was 24>She's 23 now and linked me this thread just to get a laughI don't even browse this board, y'all funny. It was scary having to keep our relationship under wraps though, her mother almost caught us once when she was 15 because she came home early.Teens are weird but give them more credit. They have a sense of self and understanding of their desires. I know a lot of you are probably old hags, but I'm sure if you try you can remember masturbating to your crush at 14 and wanting to ride him hard. 14 isn't a pure innocent age.
>>9245125>She was 13 and I was 24>24
meow meow whatbirl here :3
>>9245125Just because you manipulated a minor and still have her under your thumb 10 years later doesn't make it okay. If anything, you just provided a perfect example of why older men are predatory fucking creeps to avoid
>>9245125I'm aware this is b8, but that would make your girlfriend an old hag too, since she is several years older than I am.i'm sure I too, at age 14 could be brainwashed over time into thinking that someone who will think of me is an "old hag" as I hit age 20 would be ok for me. Kids are dumb, and if she married you, your wife is definitely not an exception.
>>9245107I'm all for teenagers having sex with other teenagersBut if you honestly think a 23 year old fucking around with a 14 year old isn't creepy as fuck you're a pathetic loser. Also, 14 year olds are fucking nasty compared to a chick who is in her early/mid-20s. I hate it when fucking nasty gross pedos insinuate that somehow teens are in their sexual prime. Uhm, no. That distinction belongs to women ages 20-25.
>ur fat>no u>lol blacks amirite>pedophilia is cute and fun
meow meow dont ignore me >:3
>>9245132anon please, he's an "ephebophile" kek
>>9244809This is the stuff of nightmares. I get the horrified sinking feeling that I'll end up in an ita thread or something.
>>9245129This post is an example of women trying to hide it behind the guise of "but that's wrong because it's wrong , just ugh like gross!" (They're just trained by society/school to understand this circular logic and emotional response, they don't have a rational reason behind it)The reality is they're just jealous of younger girls because they age, and like typical women, if they can't have it, they destroy it.It was the norm for adult men to marry young teenage girls throughout most of history, that is until feminazis were allowed too much control.
>>9245141What's there to be jealous of? You pedos are so egocentric - fuck, you're awfully cocky for someone who is married to an old hag (your wife is much older than me, I bet she's so jealous of me youth ugu). I too was manipulated by old creeps who wanted to marry me when I was 13-17. Thankfully I had a mother and also wasn't such a social outcast at school that I was able to get into healthy, age appropriate relationships with boys that weren't a literal generation ahead of me and too socially inedpt to court women their own age, so they had to seek vulnerable, awkward teenagers. But I mean yeah I'm just totes jelly of your obviously very healthy relationship with your old hag
>>9245132>But if you honestly think a 23 year old fucking around with a 14 year old isn't creepy as fuck you're a pathetic loser.No rational reason, just "it's wrong because it's wrong", or "gross".Why is it wrong?How are 14 year old females nastier than 20+ females anyway? What are you basing this opinion on?It doesn't matter, what matters is what men find attractive. Younger girls are not more attractive for just physical reasons, but it's often because they are still psychologically pure, and not vile SJW bitches.
>>9245104Post your kik
>>9245128/Ota/coolie here bro what's up
>>9245146Completely forgot to mention that it's also the virginity or at the very least lack of sexual partners.A female virgin is incredibly valuable to men, it has been throughout all of history. Trying to find a 20+ female that isn't a slut is nearly impossible, let alone a 20+ female virgin.
>>9245146And there it is. Proof of your weakness and need for control. You seek girls who have not yet formed a personality or identity so that they're young enough that you can properly manipulate them and mold them to your liking. While a 23 year old has formed an identity a 14 year old is still malleable. And that's why it's fucking illegal in most normal countries. Only predatory creeps go after such young kids for predatory, creepy reasons like you mentioned. Also I mean if you honestly think the average 14 year old is cuter than the average 20 year old you're insane. 14 year olds faces haven't even fully matured yet and they still look like derpy kids
>>9245151meow meow :3
Kik me @ haysuz Sluts only
>>9245146>Younger girls are not more attractive for just physical reasons, but it's often because they are still psychologically pure, and not vile SJW bitchesLMAO where do you live? Everyone around me at 14 was partying and fucking everyone, it's what they do, and I was embarrassed that I wasn't. After highschool I realized that it was okay that I didn't whore out in those years.If you're looking for "psychologically pure" you're gonna need to go way younger.
>>9245129Nice of you to know the history of my relationship. For reference, I've never dared anyone before her so had no experience to use against her.We just played an MMO together, I hardly interacted with her but she thought I was funny in guild chat. I was under the impression she was a guy with a girl character so wasn't even attempting to get with her.Then she came out of nowhere with a cringeworthy confession via in game items, I rejected her since I wasn't in the mood to get a g.i.r.l. trying to sucker me for items but said she could be a friend. Few months and she's pretty cool, and eventually on MSN messenger she proved she was really a girl and really liked me even more after seeing how I look.So the rest is history. She lived just a two hour drive from me so it was great. So if just being myself, rejecting her confession, and just naturally getting to know her for months before accepting her feelings for me is manipulation then I guess you got me.
>>9245156>:# meowwww hiss
>>9245152I've literally never met a guy who was interested in fucking a virgin, most guys I know make fun of virgins and steer clear. Only abusive weirdos glorify sexual inexperience.
Not accepting any birls either faggot only % female cuh
>>9245161LOL yeah right you old used up pussy having wretched face witch virginity is extremely valuable to any and all guys because of the tightness and purity of that nice slice
>>9245153That's a very long way to say that men don't like vile SJW bitches who have been ruined by society.You can call it whatever you want, men don't want strong independent wommin who don't need no man and fight to smash the patriarchy. Men went women who are submissive and adhere to traditional gender roles.>Also I mean if you honestly think the average 14 year old is cuter than the average 20 year old you're insane. 14 year olds faces haven't even fully matured yet and they still look like derpy kidsLet me guess, this is coming from a woman who thinks men like the "porn star" or "stripper look".You probably think fake hair, fake eyebrows, tans, putting on tons of make-up, and wearing slut clothes, is what men find attractive. Why are women so stupid and think men like this shit?
>>9245125She will be a old hag soon. Are you going to trade her in for a younger model once she hits 25?
>>9245158EXACTLY>>9245159holy fuck you sound JUST like the dude who stalked me on an mmo (and later irl) after I admitted I had a crush on him at a young age. thank fucking god my parents stepped in and put an end to that or I'd have ended up with a psycho like yougo to hell
this conversation is so weirdi met my now husband when i was 15 and he was 24, but i think that getting along this well with that kind of age gap is a really rare occurrence. most teenagers are stupid fucks and most older men who ogle them are only in it for their youth and willingly dump them once they get boredit has to be the right combination of circumstances. it's not always okay, and it's not always not okay. i still think that the age of consent is a good thing to protect dumb young girls who don't have the dedication to keep their relationships under wraps.
>>9245161They're not going to just tell you that you idiot, you must be a real bimbo.It's something that isn't openly talked about by men because feminists made a social taboo of it.
>>9245159His wife here!Wanted to add that we didn't have sex until I knew him for a year. He was super hesitant and I pretty much had to strip completely naked and shove it in my mouth before he gave in.
>>9245165You're so off it's hilarious but I mean go ahead and think whatever you'd like to make you feel like less of a predator>>9245164>tfw I'm too tight to even wear tampons and have had every bf in awe of my almost legendarily tight pussy okay lmao, but I mean for you to be so concerned about tightness anyway indicates your tiny fucking cock
>>9245148I feel old. I've never even used kik before nor have I been asked for it before.
>>9245176better start looking for a new man soon you nasty old slutty hag
whatbirl slut here :3 meow meoew
>>9245175>real bimbo>listened in to older guys talking about that shit while playing an mmo and pretending to be a dude with no micagain, okay, whatever you want to think you freak lmao
>>9245181Yep. She is getting old and it's only a matter of time until her husband finds someone younger.
>>9245176Shut up, you were a rape victim, you've been raped and groomed all these years, you've been brainwashed by him.You're not being brainwashed by people saying things like I am though, nope, you're being brainwashed by him.>>9245178>predatorBiological male instincts makes me a "predator", I know.
>>9244939I'm so sorry anon. Your grandpa is very lucky to have you. Hang in there. Xx
>>9245187Wowie there's some psychological manipulation at play right before our very eyes, gulls. This is what manipulation looks like. This is what abuse looks like. It's insidious and terrifying.
>>9244910They probably mean pretending to like the series they cosplay for attention or aomething
meow meowww dont ignore meow :3
>>9245132"It's cross" isn't a rational argument. Try again.
>>9245166Nah, I love her for her and not her age. You can jump to whatever conclusions you want to make your own twisted narrative work though.>>9245167That's funny. She stalked me and I pretty much told her to fuck off for about 2 months. Sounds like you're projecting your negative experience onto others, I'm sorry you met a creep.
>>9245180Well what's up then baby girl let me holla at you through gmail or a messenger bird whichever works for you I'm here to tend your needs
>>9245174Guy who met his wife on an MMO when she was a teen here.I agree with this reasoning. Not every teen is responsible enough to actually protect themselves, and there actually are bad guys out there that would be willing to manipulate girls. It doesn't mean all huge age gap relations work this way though.
>>9245104It goes both ways anon. If you aren't willing to be friendly don't expect others to be so. at least be happy you have the joy of being female and not having to put your neck out on the line.Also why are you liking people if you think they are "losers"??
>>9245046What is ara-ara? Google was not very helpful.
>>9245104Drop skype/discord/steam/throw away email>>9245046tfw no 15 plus years older than you gf
>>9245303haha meow meow :3
Does /cgl/ have a Discord?
This thread is a mess
>>9245369i dunno? make one
>>9245165Fuck off>>>/r9k/ where you belong
>>9245400I don't know. I can make one, but then I'd have to talk to people so it doesn't die. But then it'll die and then I'll be back at square one. I just want to watch people chat.
>>9244600Honestly, go anyway. You're probably not alone in not fitting the theme.
>>9245446I lazily made a Discord: https://discord.gg/XxGTcW4I'll monitor/keep up with it for a week, responding to anyone that cares to show up (my mic isn't set up yet). My concern is that it's usually pointless to create things when there isn't already an established community to use it. I've given everyone the ability to manage channels for now so they can add/remove channels as they see fit. I'm tired (5:04 AM EST) so I'm going to sleep. Try to be pleasant. I don't want to actually have to moderate adults.
>>9245303The stereotype is someone older than those around her who is elegant, composed, and overall has their shit together.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wMSAkmKB0BEhttps://hellohelloanime.wordpress.com/2011/09/11/the-ara-ara-syndrome-taking-a-look-at-miss-perfect/
>>9245084>Inb4 hurr durr pedophile, 14 is the age of consent in my country.Somebody stole my shitpost line!
>>9243826>>9243858Just build a wall, anon.
>>9245303What is JoJos bizarre adventure
I'm still kinda upset that someone I considered a friend decided to block me on social media sites instead of talking to me if they had a problem with me. I've known them for almost ten years. All I did was share things they liked to their wall (which I've been doing for at least a few years but they only had a problem with it now), and their friends think I'm a creeper because I have my posts set to friends only, and they only see the stuff I posted to their timeline. I share tons of stuff to my other friend's timelines so I don't see what the problem is. They could have just asked me to stop.It just seems really passive aggressive and immature to not talk like adults. Like this is middle school drama level bullshit of finding out from one of their friends instead of talking to them personally.What's worse is that they think I'm going to spread rumors about them.
>>9250565You're probably not going to spread rumours, but again, don't spread rumours about them. You're usually better off not getting involved in petty shit since it'll just drag you down.
>>9250565There's usually more to stories like this than what you are telling, especially if you are posting this here. The exception might be if you posted election-related shit to their wall.