Meetup Etiquette

[Anonymous No.9223520]

So I’ve decided to take initiative and force my socially inept self to be more outgoing at meets. I imagine a lot of other gulls struggle with this kind of thing too, so maybe we could give each other some tips. How does one avoid wallflower syndrome?
>inb4 autism
Yeah, yeah, but this is 4chan. What else would you expect?

>conversation topics and ice breakers
>topics to avoid
>social dos and don’ts
>pet peeves
>best/worst conversation experiences

[Anonymous No.9223536]

This really depends on your country's culture

[Anonymous No.9223538]

>>9223520
Asking for specifics is silly. The way you learn to talk to people is to crash, burn, and learn. Just keep talking to people, keep forcing yourself to go outside your comfort level and you'll pick up all of these things yourself.

[Anonymous No.9223543]

>>9223520
please do not go into a meet with 'planned' conversations you will make things 100x worse for yourself

[Anonymous No.9223553]

>>9223520
>conversation topics and ice breakers
commenting on the outfit they are wearing is always a good start. Lolitas have one thing in common: they love the fashion. So talking about brand releases, the prints you are hunting down atm or outfits you plan are always good topics.

And if the conversation turns to topics outside of lolita, that's fine as well.

>topics to avoid
>social dos and don’ts
don't be rude
don't talk about your fetishes or sex life (general conversation rule, really)
don't bitch about other people (unless you are already super close)

Lolitas are just normal people in weird dresses. Reminding yourself to be polite, without forcing yourself to be a proper lady when you are def. not, and not trying to act extra cute, random, classy etc. goes a long way.

[Anonymous No.9223560]

Observe the established hierarchy and find your place.

Approach other lolitas cautiously and always start with a compliment.

Don't actually eat or drink anything.

Challenge the head lolita to a battle. If you win, the comm is yours.

If you lose, you have to give up your petti and be stripped of your title forever.

[Anonymous No.9223605]

>>9223560
Lmfao. Thank you.

The lolita side of this board is filled with the most assburgerey individuals.

[Anonymous No.9223608]

>>9223560
>Don't actually eat or drink anything.
Half of the meet ups are at a cafe or tea party.

[Anonymous No.9223616]

>>9223608
that's the line you stopped reading at eh?

[Anonymous No.9223635]

Don't bring your fucking boyfriend.
Just don't.

[Anonymous No.9223641]

Just be normal. Don't act fake, don't sound fake.

[Anonymous No.9223646]

>>9223608
pls be bait

[Anonymous No.9223649]

>>9223608
Did you know not being able to pick up on obvious humor is actually a sign of autism? Not even joking.

[Anonymous No.9225415]

>>9223635
Seconded. I hate random boyfriends/husbands/whatever at meetups dressed like shit, and if it's a large meet then at least a few of them manage to get into group pics and spoil them.

If everyone's separating into tables, at tea or whatever, just ask some people if a space is free and sit with them instead of hanging out and waiting awkwardly.


Good conversation starters:
>hi, i'm ___, i'm new to the comm and looking forward to meeting people
>ask them their names, how long they've been into lolita, favorite brand/style/dress, etc


if someone wants to talk to you, do more listening than talking unless you have valuable input about the topic. practice active listening skills and maintaining eye contact. that will get you really far.

Offer to take pictures of people and follow through on uploading them! Everyone loves lots of photos to show. I like to take candid pictures and post them when they look good, like when people are smiling or laughing together. be careful with this and don't post stuff that's unflattering or out of focus.

Yeah, all of this depends on cultural norms but i hope some of it is applicable regardless where you are.

[Anonymous No.9225418]

Don't bring your pet cockroach

[Anonymous No.9225424]

If you're late by over 15 minutes don't ask us to wait for you.

Don't bring uninvited people. Asking the organizer on the facebook event page to bring someone is rude as well because that makes it difficult to refuse. Only ask if it's someone who's honestly interested in the style.

Don't be loud. Don't brag, most of us don't care. If the group doesn't want to get their picture taken by a stranger don't do it either. Don't ask about drama.

[Anonymous No.9225645]

>>9223560

[Anonymous No.9225647]

>>9225418
>pet cockroach
man, now I kind of want a pet cockroach...

[Anonymous No.9225648]

>>9223520
for the love of mana don't bring up politics

[Anonymous No.9225654]

If meet is held in a fancy tea salon, always drink tea. Don't ask for juice or something, it's embarassing.

[Anonymous No.9225655]

>>9223635
The thing is, if you post in the comm and ask "can i bring my boyfriend?" everyone is going to say it's ok because no one wants to be That Person™.

[Anonymous No.9225668]

Maybe more of a personal pet peeve but please, if you're talking to someone new, don't spend the entire time complaining. It's fine to not be a sparkly Disney princess 24/7 but if all you can talk about is how tea is gross and brandwhores suck and nobody understands you, don't be surprised if few people want to sit next to you next meetup.
Plus if you're being really negative to someone you hardly know you don't know if you're actually insulting them or things they like.

I have assburgers and used to worry a lot about being socially awkward and having everyone think I'm a weirdo, until I actually attended a few meetups. Now I feel pretty confident in saying I might be one of the more socially adept ones there. It's a mixed feeling.

[Anonymous No.9225697]

>>9223641
Don't use a weird fake voice

[Anonymous No.9225699]

>>9225668
2nding the nonstop complaining.
Recently I got to talk to a comm member more personally at a meet, but 90% of the stuff that came out of her mouth came across as insulting or belittling things I enjoyed. Now I'm wondering if she just spends meets judging people the whole time...

[Anonymous No.9225700]

Don't bring up your sex life.

[Anonymous No.9225708]

>>9225418
Can i bring my limousine mouse

[Anonymous No.9225710]

>>9223520
Some basics
>no yelling
>no being rude to normies
>keep conversation apolitical and pg-13
>no children/pets/normie friends
>no "waaaah brand is expensive" whining

[Anonymous No.9225719]

>>9223605
I couldn't resist. But honestly, just be a normal person and interact the way you would in any sort of small social gathering. It's not rocket science.

[Anonymous No.9225730]

Don't beg for a ride. Uber exists.
Don't RSVP to things to you aren't positive you can make.
Don't overshare about your life. None of us want to know about your dire financial situation, pet that had to be put down, boyfriend troubles, or how you're taking care of your vegetable mother.
Don't bring ANY downer conversation to a meet, period.

[Anonymous No.9225734]

>>9225708
>>9225647
Have people already forgot that this actually happened?

[Anonymous No.9225738]

>>9225734
I remember.

[Anonymous No.9225750]

>>9225734
T b h i prefer pets over messy screaming misbehaved toddlers

[Anonymous No.9225753]

Don't talk about how everyone is looking at you weirdly 90% of the time while you're out. WE KNOW. Mentioning it if it's something more threatening is different but yes, people are staring at you. It's not a novelty. Stop trying to make it a big deal when it's not.

[Anonymous No.9225839]

more of a horror story but
>go to meet
>place is so goddamn hot
>i'm wearing a tea length thick as fuck dress
>sweating like hell, sweat is literally dripping down my face
>makeup starts running
>everyone else is the same
>its so crowded in such a small space
>peoples nasty sperg boyfriends are making everything awkward
>too shy to talk to anyone
>some people try talking to me, too goddamn spaghetti so i just stutter everything
i think meet ups should be required to have AC or at least a bigass fan....
also why do people bring their nasty new balance-wearing weeb boyfriends??? leave them at home! no one wants to talk about lolis with them!! they're gross, smell bad, and make everyone uncomfortable.

[Anonymous No.9225898]

If the meet organiser has a game/event planned listen to the damm instructions! I swear trying to get a group of lolitas to do anything is harder then herding cats and then people complain that we never do anything at meets apart from talk.
If you don't want to be part of the game/group pictures just stand to the side and don't make a big deal of it. Others do want fun and pictures and we don't want to hear you moaning about it.
If you have some kind of problem at the event tell the event organiser so they can try to help and don't just bitch about it online afterwards.

[Anonymous No.9225914]

>>9225654
Unless the tea is a pre-paid set menu, it's ok to order anything on the menu a la carte. Most tea places offer other drinks (yes even fancy afternoon tea places).

If it's a set menu and you don't like tea, check with the hostess before reserving, she can see if there are alternate drinks available.

[Anonymous No.9225918]

>>9223538
No meet hostess appreciates people crashing and burning at a meet, it makes people uncomfortable.

>>9223520
My worst conversation experiences have been when people overshare about personal things. It's like dropping a conversation-stopping bomb. No one knows what to say and then awkward silence is awkward.

[Anonymous No.9225920]

>>9223635
I hate this so much it actually makes my blood boil. I don't want disgusting greasy significant others around. Tell them to do something else or just don't come if you can't handle being without them for a few hours. Jesus.

[Anonymous No.9225922]

>>9225920
Someone's mad

[Anonymous No.9225923]

>>9225922
Yeah. I am. I have a bf of 5 years and he doesn't come because it'd be weird as fuck and boring for him. Unless they are going to dress up, just tell your bfs to fuck off during lolita time. It ain't hard.

[Anonymous No.9225942]

>>9225920
>>9223635
okay but lbr sometimes there are situations where bfs are okay at meets
>if your bf is an ouji accessory
>if your bf is an aristocrat
>if you actually are friends with other people in the comm?
My boyfriend is friends with other lolita boyfriends as well as other lolitas, is fine for them to join group discussions when appropriate. though I get they dont exactly always want to hear all about AP's upcoming releases, they are still people, still love talking to their friends, and often they come along to your thing because they love you. Shame on you gulls.

[Anonymous No.9225948]

>>9225942
wow, cool!
it's fine to bring your boyfriend to a meet with YOUR friends and their boyfriends. If it's a general meet that doesn't have some couple/romantic themed shit just don't. Don't bring people who are not directly in the comm.

>don't bring your squalling crotch goblins
>don't bring your spergy bf
>don't bring your normie friends to gawk*
>don't bring the kids you're babysitting


*sometimes ok if they're considering getting into lolita and are polite

[Anonymous No.9225951]

To new lolitas before your first meet:
1. Wear a full lolita coordinate. I know you are excited but the meets are about wearing the fashion so please wait until you are dressed in it.
2. Have a ride both ways and don't be late.
3. Know proper table manners and be able to afford the place you are going without ordering water and skimping on the tip if it is the custom to tip.
4. Keep the conversation light and social, enough for people to start getting to know you but not too much.

[Anonymous No.9225954]

>>9225942
Do you lack reading comprehension? I said if they are dressing up too, it's fine.

[Anonymous No.9225955]

>>9225942
Oh, reminded...meido uniform + your pet/sub/slave collar = no.

[Anonymous No.9225974]

>>9225839
>Some chick brings her sperg ass boyfriend
>He's some wigger dressed in gangsta fabulous baggy clothes complete with backwards hat and gold chain
>Loud and obnoxious
>Hits on EVERYONE
>"Ur dress qt but I bet u look more qt without clothes!"
>"Are your panties also pink?"
>"You smell pretty. You must wash really well."
>Confront his girlfriend about his behavior and tell her the flirting is a pretty big red flag
>"he always does that! he's just really playful!!!"
>Spills his soda while we're eating and almost gets it on someone's dress (luckily she got up super fast seconds before it dripped off the table)
>"dam girl ma bad but I can help you clean it in the bathroom if you got messy"
>He doesn't even clean up the mess
>Tell her he isn't allowed to meets anymore
>She throws a huge fit and doesn't come anymore
>He ends up cheating the next month with some fat black chick

[Anonymous No.9225984]

>>9225955
says who?

[Anonymous No.9225996]

>>9225942
That's all fine and dandy if most your comm is friends with him, but that's definitely not the case for other comms. If your boyfriend isn't a problem then this complaint shouldn't even apply to you. Why get offended? Are you afraid members of your comm aren't completely cool with it?

[Anonymous No.9226010]

>>9225753
idk this is an easy way to make conversation when you have no social skills
obvious comments are the only way i know how to communicate without being autistic

[Anonymous No.9226028]

>>9225654
You do know not everyone likes tea, right? I love tea but my mom and my significant other despise tea. Lots of people don't like tea, it doesn't make them social barbarians anon

[Anonymous No.9226030]

>>9226028
yes it does

[Anonymous No.9226031]

>>9225942
wot if BF/SO is in a tux?

[Anonymous No.9226032]

>ITT: the reason why most lolita meetups are this way are because most of us are social autists.

No EQ at all in this thread.

[Anonymous No.9226035]

>>9226010
Mentioning this once or twice if fine, but if you bring it up every time you open your mouth you need to stay at home and work on your conversation skills for a while. Seriously, this type of thing is obnoxious. It's like a child pointing out that a stranger has a mole on their face over and over again. It's embarrassing for everyone involved.

>>9225730
>Don't beg for rides.
Seriously. If you can't drive, do not expect other people who are not your immediate family to drive you. Just because you're in a comm doesn't meant that they other members are your unpaid chauffeurs. If someone is kind enough to give you a ride, fucking pay them for the gas it took to get you there. That shit costs money.

>>9225424
Also, don't show up to a planned meetup when you haven't RSVP'd. Especially when it's at a public venue where there is going to be limited seating (ie. restaurants) or another event where reservations have been placed beforehand. Want to come last minute? Message the hostess and ask, but DON'T just show up. Not only is it rude and self centered but it puts the hostess in a shitty position of trying to accommodate for you with the venue/restaurant. If you do this, I automatically think the worst of you.

[Anonymous No.9226042]

>>9223635
Holy fuck I was just about to say this after seeing a girl RSVP to our dinner saying "My husband and I will be there!" Why do these people think that's okay?

[Anonymous No.9226045]

>>9225734
holy shit I need deets on this

[Anonymous No.9226050]

>>9223635
I don't usually mind this to be honest. As long as he isn't a weirdo it's nice to have someone take pictures of the whole group.

[Anonymous No.9226055]

>>9226045
newfag

[Anonymous No.9226082]

>If you're not the hostess don't try to hijack the meet and dictate bossily where everyone should go for food/coffee after the main event
>Don't name-drop popular lolitas/comm mods/etc. for attention
>Don't bitch and moan for everyone to hear if something is bothering you
>Don't criticize or compare meetups while the host(s) are present or nearby - if you don't like something, take (silent) note of what you don't like and then host your own damn meet later

[Anonymous No.9226103]

>>9226030
go back to England, in AMERICA we drink coffee and juice in fancy cups

[Anonymous No.9226120]

>>9225951
>without ordering water

Wha... Is it really looked down upon to order water? I'm like the opposite of cheap but I always order water because other than the very rare glass of wine/champagne it's all I drink (and like coffee at home but I'm picky as hell about my coffee).

[Anonymous No.9226123]

>>9225974
>"You smell pretty. You must wash really well."

I lost it

[Anonymous No.9226124]

>>9226031
def not then they'll just look like the goddamn help

[Anonymous No.9226126]

>>9226120
I think they mean only choosing glaringly cheap options like breadsticks. A nitpick, but it would pretty pointless to attend a restaurant meet if you weren't going to order an actual meal.

[Anonymous No.9226129]

>>9226035
>stay at home and work on your conversation skills for a while
what kind of advice is this? are telling them to go home and practice talking in a mirror like a movie?

[Anonymous No.9226130]

Make a lot of puns. This will earn you everybody's respect.

[Anonymous No.9226132]

>>9226032
Not only that but most of these comments are things that would prevent you from having an interesting story to tell later on.
Like the cockroach thing for example. Or the weird girl that carries a potato with her.

Who gives a rats ass that a bunch of girls want to get together and have tea and talk about how they're going to school. I swear everyone does that it's fucking boring. (And I don't mean within my comm, I mean like even normies do stuff like that who cares)

[Anonymous No.9226134]

>>9226031
That only makes sense at a tea party where plus ones are allowed.

Think to yourself- does he really need to tag along to meet with you? Why did you want to bring him there in the first place? If you feel like you need you SO around for moral support, its time to buck and learn to brave it on you own.

[Anonymous No.9226135]

>>9226126
what if I'm an autism about my food and I just want to go for the company? If I order drinks or a dessert and I'm good company are you skanks really going to bitch that I didn't order food?

FFS I swear the people giving advice in these threads know nothing of what they are talking about

[Anonymous No.9226137]

>>9226129
I meant in the way of, "Hey, keep going to see your therapist/speech therapist/social worker/life-skills coach" and then work up to going to a meet and burdening other people with your inability to converse properly. Most people who aren't capable of making normal conversation should be doing this anyways. Obviously, many don't or I wouldn't have to deal with 20-80% of the lolitas I'm forced to interact with when attending meetups (depending on geographical location). The struggle to babysit autists in this community is real.

[Anonymous No.9226138]

>>9226120
I don't know where you live but where I live.. it's fairly common in most places that they bring you water for free first and then ask what drink you'd like to order after... do you just get water and insist on not buying a drink?
If that's the case just tip extra or something if you're not cheap.

[Anonymous No.9226139]

>>9226124
>not wanting a butler SO to serve you, the princess

[Anonymous No.9226141]

>>9226137
Okay first off, you're not actually forced to hang out with or baby sit anyone. That is you being over dramatic about your own personal situation.

Secondly, talking to a therapist and I don't give a rats ass what kind, is not the same as just talking to people.

The only way to get better at something is to keep doing it. Not doing things that are similar.

[Anonymous No.9226144]

>>9226135
>what if I'm an autism about my food and I just want to go for the company?
>what if I'm an autism

You don't sound like one to talk... And I don't agree with the other anon but holy shit.

[Anonymous No.9226146]

>>9226144
Do you just not understand playful wording? We're on 4chan, why are you surprised to hear me using memes to describe something about myself?

Sure I could say "I am a picky eater" or "I have dietary restrictions" but it's much more fun to say "I'm an autism about my food"

[Anonymous No.9226152]

>>9226129
kek maybe there's some youtube tutorial out there we could all use

[Anonymous No.9226160]

>>9226146
>more fun to say
>I was just pretending to be retarded
Okay.

[Anonymous No.9226163]

>>9226152
I want someone to do a Ferris Bueller lolita parody now.

[Anonymous No.9226167]

>>9226160

[Anonymous No.9226192]

>>9226139
I want my SO to dress up like a man that would've been rich enough to provide me with multiple butlers in like 1905

Still trying to convince my SO to do an ouji or aristocrat coord and I think he's starting to get interested. I think he wants an excuse to follow the online comm drama

[Anonymous No.9226194]

>>9226141
Would you drop off other similarly handicap people with strangers to get better at doing something? It's just mind boggling to me how this is a hard thing to understand. It's not a support group, and we're not there for you to practice your non-existent conversational skills. When you have to cater to someone who has literal meltdowns and can't communicate properly this isn't an "inclusivity" issue. It's not being overdramatic, these are actual issue I've experienced. I am not any autistic persons handler, but I've certainly been forced into that position when no one else steps up and the autistic individual hasn't brought someone with them. Ask anyone who regularly attends meets in any corner of the world. There's always at least one horror story of being forced to babysit crazy by accident. If you are that low functioning a meetup with random people, alone by yourself, is not the place for you.

[Anonymous No.9226216]

Don't fart at the table.

I've seen too many damn posts from dumb bitches who try to sneak toots at the table, and it's fucked.

[Anonymous No.9226219]

>>9226216
I want to go to a meet just to fart now

[Anonymous No.9226228]

>>9226216
Is this you?

[Anonymous No.9226233]

>>9226228

That post could be a new meme.

[Anonymous No.9226236]

>>9226228
I'm dying of laughter, this is a new level of cuntiness. I'm so glad she got farted on

[Anonymous No.9226239]

>>9226228
My sides

[Anonymous No.9226240]

>>9226192
eh 2cute butler who is forbidden fruit is way better

it's not proper for a princess to bone like crazy with the help but he's so sweet and understands you since he's been there beside you for so long

[Anonymous No.9226241]

>>9226228
anyone who farts in public is fucking gross
I know it's uncomfortable to hold it in, I don't care
It's uncomfortable to need to shit too, but you don't just drop your bloomers and do a shit on the table jfc

[Anonymous No.9226242]

>>9226241

That probably explains why you're a lone lolita then. Your social anxiety stems from being the next toot chan and having an extremely anal personality.

[Anonymous No.9226245]

>>9226138
Some people order only water, the cheapest a la carte item and then skimp on the tip to be frugal, that's what I meant. I drink water as well as a drink especially if I have wine with a meal, it actually makes me thirsty.

[Anonymous No.9226246]

>>9226241
>you don't just drop your bloomers and do a shit on the table

wait

you're not supposed to do this?

[Anonymous No.9226247]

>>9226219
If you ever do, make sure to do it right.
Consume nothing but beer and popcorn for a solid week before the meet. Show up in a limo or at least an older full-size German car (think '70s Mercedes S-Class) with the driver in full chauffeur mode and make sure he stays out front as you shouldn't be very long. Walk into the restaurant or whatever and sit down at the table, maybe make a bit of small talk, then when the conversation reaches a low point release the loudest, gnarliest fart you've ever expelled. You'll have about a 40% chance of shitting yourself but you should've known from the beginning that you might not make it out alive. Leave immediately after your fart/shart ends, don't even wait for anyone to react. Walk out of the building and into your car (which should still be at the front door) and drive away.
This should all happen within 3-5 minutes.

[Anonymous No.9226249]

>>9226242
I belong to a comm.
We all have the decency not to fart around each other.

[Anonymous No.9226250]

>>9226031
Tux before 5pm is a no-no anyway. He should be in a nice suit and tie, ouji or aristocrat.

[Anonymous No.9226252]

>>9226250
>not wanting your dude dressed sharp af from the time he rolls out of bed to the time he rolls on top of you in bed

you all have shit taste

[Anonymous No.9226254]

>>9226252
rolling up to lunch in evening wear is not sharp anon it's tacky

[Anonymous No.9226256]

>>9226135
Nah, we can tell the difference. I actually feel bad for picky-eater chans or diet-chans sometimes since so many meets are food and sweets based. I've ordered only an appetizer, salad or dessert when others are getting bottomless pasta bowls though, thank goodness for sides menus.

[Anonymous No.9226257]

>>9226254
Wearing Lolita is tacky in itself, you do realize that right? Stop being so pretentious.

[Anonymous No.9226258]

>>9226252
Mine is. And that's why he knows enough not to wear a tux to afternoon tea.

[Anonymous No.9226262]

>>9226257
And here we come back to basic social rules. Wearing a tux to lunch is like a woman wearing opera gloves and a long gown in the daytime. Unless you are a Disney Princess, it's not advised.

[Anonymous No.9226265]

>>9226262
>>9226257
>>9226254

Honestly chances are the tux would be ill fitted and rented from some shop catering to proms, so ew.

[Anonymous No.9226266]

>>9226262
>I'm not a Disney princess
>he isn't Prince Charming

fucking rood

[Anonymous No.9226267]

>>9226194
You're using the word "forced" incorrectly at this point.

[Anonymous No.9226271]

>>9226265
Idk, I'd rather see a man in a decently fitting suit any day than an ill fitted tux. Unless an evening event is black tie, men can usually just wear a nice dark suit and tie to most events. If he has occasion to wear a tux at least once a year, he should invest in one and get it tailored. Otherwise, a tailored suit will be the most practical.

[Anonymous No.9226272]

>>9226245
I was advising the other anon. Not replying to you.

[Anonymous No.9226273]

>>9226266
Then the cosplay boards might be more your speed. :^)
Ditto for all your Usagi and Tuxedo Mask needs.

[Anonymous No.9226274]

>>9226247
>Consume nothing but beer and popcorn for a solid week before the meet
>Not Coffee, Eggs, an energy drink, beef n broccoli and top it off with some kind of chocolate.

[Anonymous No.9226276]

>>9226267
Forced, societally shamed into, felt like I needed to in order to maintain my dignity, whatever wording you want to use it's still not a decision made freely. And you're playing the semantics game now. Any way you frame it dumping low functioning individuals (or yourself) like that on an unsuspecting and unqualified group of people is NOT okay. Autism isn't an excuse to behave ridiculously at a lolita meetup. Sorry.

[Anonymous No.9226278]

>>9226276
>(or yourself)
Oh you're so clever.

No, jackball. It's called you were too stupid to get out of a situation you didn't want to be in. You never have to talk to someone you don't want to. If someone is capable of shaming you into doing something that means you're a little gullible retard. Sounds like you're some kind of anxiety stricken autist yourself.

It's as easy as just not talking to someone.

[Anonymous No.9226280]

>>9226274
>not consuming loads and loads of dairy

[Anonymous No.9226281]

>>9226278
>being this dense purposefully
>and I'm the one being called an autist
Yeah, I guess next time my entire group and I will just leave the underage autistic kid having an awkward silent crying fit in public alone and walk away when they have no one else with them to take care of them after they've been dropped off. Because that's the right thing to do.

[Anonymous No.9226284]

>>9225418
Or a kitten in a handbag.

[Anonymous No.9226285]

Any tips for clean and polite brolitas?

[Anonymous No.9226288]

>>9226252
>thinking a tux during the day is 'dressed sharp af'

[Anonymous No.9226290]

>>9226273
>I need to pretend to be a princess
>I'm not actually one

can't you tell by my attitude?

[Anonymous No.9226293]

>>9226288
sorry you are so poor that a tuxedo is not proper attire to wear at any given moment

[Anonymous No.9226296]

>>9226285
Same as everyone else but don't be surprised or offended if some lolitas just won't accept you. They might ignore you but they shouldn't be overtly rude either. I think most public comms allow brolitas who can establish that they aren't sissies or fetishists.

[Anonymous No.9226299]

>>9226247
I heard a rumor that someone at AWA deliberately crop-dusted Yamino's booth in the artist alley multiple times, but it may have been untrue.

[Anonymous No.9226303]

>>9226271

I'm anon who commented on tuxes. Tailored all the way.

Anon who thinks tux is top of the line does not understand the casual elegance of a well fitted suit.

[Anonymous No.9226304]

>>9225996
I think my comm are pretty cool with it, nobody has ever excluded anybodies SO as far as I can recall. Maybe I'm just fortunate to have a really lovely comm, but I can't imagine a situation where one of our own would bring a creeper or somebody who would have bad intentions along or something like that? IDK man. And I feel like a lot of the people saying simply don't bring your boyfriend are painting with broad strokes, and, personally I like to see a mix of men and women at meets.

[Anonymous No.9226306]

>>9226290
>>9226293
dude, if you think acting like this is cute or funny and not just cringey as fuck, then you're sadly mistaken. please stop because I am starting to get some 2nd hand embarrassment

[Anonymous No.9226314]

>>9226290

[Anonymous No.9226324]

>>9226281
>>9226276
>>9226137
jfc I just wanted advice on how to be a little less awkward. This isn't about people with severe mental disabilities that require professional treatment.

[Anonymous No.9226328]

>>9226324
Short and sweet answer: use the same good manners and social skills you would at a cocktail party or social luncheon.

[Anonymous No.9226338]

>>9226324
Welcome to lolita, where those type of autistic people and similarly mentally handicapped individuals regularly try to attend meetups. Enjoy your stay. It's not my fault >>9226141
has shitty reading comprehension and/or is autistic. My advice still stands here: >>9226035 , you're welcome.

[Anonymous No.9226356]

>>9226284
I guess Kate can't come to the meet then

[Anonymous No.9226360]

>>9226306
please remove the stick from your ass

[Anonymous No.9226361]

>>9226356

Nah, she can't come because fart anon would be triggered.

[Anonymous No.9226369]

>>9226306
>not knowing this is HWC

Newfag

[Anonymous No.9226388]

>>9226356
Omg, poor Diarrhea-chan.

>>9226299
Kek.

[Anonymous No.9226390]

>>9226361
Just because Kate felt comfy enough in her brand to lay a big log in the bathroom at an event, sheesh. Everyone so judgy.

[Anonymous No.9226391]

>>9226390
Maybe if she weren't so full of shit she wouldn't feel the need to take massive shits in public?

[Anonymous No.9226394]

>>9226391
Because we can all control our automatic bodily functions

[Anonymous No.9226399]

>>9226391
Hey, when you gotta go, you gotta go. Not everyone is on a pooping schedule. Some people just 'anytime poop'.

[Anonymous No.9226401]

>>9226394
last time I checked shitting wasn't automatic or we'd all just shit ourselves

I don't know how anyone can poop in public. I can barely get comfortable enough on vacation to take a shit, in my own hotel room.

[Anonymous No.9226403]

>>9226257
I like that nobody disagrees with this fact

[Anonymous No.9226406]

>>9226399
surely you would have the foresight to realize how your body works after living so long and not eat enough food that you would have to take a shit the size of Ohio?

like how much do you eat that you HAVE to lay a log right then and there? if she really couldn't hold it in maybe she should stop shoveling food into her face.

[Anonymous No.9226407]

>>9226401
I think if Kate had poo-poo'ed it and laughed it off, posted the 'everybody poops' book cover, people wouldn't have given her such shit for it. But no, she made a big stink about it.

[Anonymous No.9226409]

>>9226406
I'm not sure, I pretty much eat and poop on regular times. But I like to think my frilly friends wouldn't be listening to me in the bathroom either, that's a special kind of weird too.

[Anonymous No.9226412]

>>9226409
>Kate's movement didn't roar with a thunderous clap that could be heard for miles

look at her, you just know she takes some fat, loud shits

[Anonymous No.9226415]

>>9226281
This is still just you bitching about your personal situation. Is your comm just full of autismos? Like why are you so hung up on this and why don't you know the proper nice way to end a discussion before it gets to the person freaking out and crying? Why do you feel like you HAVE to babysit people? Are these people your friends, like what am I missing?

I've never had to babysit someone at a meet. There are some spergers in my comm, but they mostly just try to inform me on their favorite anime and I'm like, that's cool man but I don't really watch that stuff and they get the picture.

Don't know what your issue is.

[Anonymous No.9226416]

>>9226412
>seagulls thinking their shit doesn't smell
Classic.

[Anonymous No.9226417]

>>9226416
I didn't say that

I'm just saying Kate is a gross skank so her shits are probably extra nasty

[Anonymous No.9226421]

>>9226369
Why is HWC talking as though she even has friends or goes to meetups IRL?

[Anonymous No.9226422]

>>9226417
Everyone takes nasty gross shits. There are plenty of other things you could've mentioned, but you probably love thinking about her taking a dump. That's why you're so eager to describe it.

[Anonymous No.9226423]

>>9226421
Lonely for some lolita friends, I'm guessing.

[Anonymous No.9226425]

>>9226401
Some people like myself have GI tracts where you don't immediately shit yourself but there is a sense of urgency. Not all of us have gaping colons where we can just let shit fester inside us indefinitely. Bathrooms are private places, so maybe don't hang out in them if it so offends your delicate sensibilities.

[Anonymous No.9226426]

>>9226421
She claims she leaves the house and has a small group of friends. In fact her "reign of terror" started because she was so furious about people talking shit behind their friends backs in a thread. Apparently she thinks she some stunning moral example when it comes to friendship and being a wife.

Sage for hwc

[Anonymous No.9226427]

>>9226426
So she allegedly lives in glorious Nippon yet her friends caused her to start shitposting English Lolita boards?

[Anonymous No.9226433]

>>9226427
No. What??
There was a thread on cgl, like way earlier this year I think, or maybe last year.. and it was about embarrassing friends stories. She got mad and said she'd never stop shitting up the board.
I wasn't in that thread but I found out cause after that she started attacking the fairy kei threads but now she mostly just irritates the menhera thread.
And now she does q&a threads cause she has a bit of efame here.

[Anonymous No.9226438]

>>9226433
>She got mad and said she'd never stop shitting up the board.
Well, she wasn't lying when she said that.

[Anonymous No.9226439]

>>9226433
Still wondering why tf she shits up English boards if she's allegedly a part of a Japanese comm. I'm convinced she's delusional.

[Anonymous No.9226447]

>>9226438
She also said stupid shit like she was gonna get the board deleted. The only thing getting deleted is her. Hell, I think even the archive isn't saving her comments anymore. If that's the case she's done. I saw someone like deleted comments in a thread and they weren't in the archive so I hope that's what's happening.

>>9226439
She seems pretty delusional. Also has like frogposter type humor. But like I said, she just holds a grudge because some anons upset her in a thread once and also she thinks menhera is full of mentally ill retards that need to be made fun of and degraded with her 9gag tier jokes.

She also loves to hide behind the convenient excuse of needing to be anonymous because her husband could get in trouble or some stupid shit.

It all sounds so fake though, I'll never get why everyone just buys into it.

[Anonymous No.9226455]

>>9226447
And her overdone exaggeration of her love for her husband is fake as fuck. People who are madly in love in long term relationships don't find it necessary to annoy internet strangers about it. They have enough social awareness to realize that most people know that feeling already. "He makes my heart doki doki!" Like what kind of exaggerated half assed weeb speak is that.

She could definitely post pics of herself without showing her face but we all know that she doesn't because it would prove she's lying.

[Anonymous No.9226456]

>>9226455
>She could definitely post pics of herself without showing her face but we all know that she doesn't because it would prove she's lying
Thiiiis. She might be all bone thin like she claims, but she's probably hideous and knows she'd get called out so she's afraid.
I love when trolls can dish it out but can't take it.

[Anonymous No.9226467]

>>9226194
Dutch comm?

[Anonymous No.9226516]

I'm convinced everyone secretly waits for HWC to fuck up threads which is why every single one eventually turns into someone bitching about her

[Anonymous No.9226602]

>>9226516
Some people egg her on, they've said so in the confession thread. I guess a shitshow is more fun to some bored Anons than a slow-moving but legit thread. Japanese lolitas must not talk enough shit wherever they post for her to need to come troll this board. For saying she doesn't like western lolitas, she's sure here up our ass enough though.

[Anonymous No.9226610]

>>9226602
>Japanese lolitas must not talk enough shit wherever they post for her to need to come troll this board. For saying she doesn't like western lolitas, she's sure here up our ass enough though.
What if HWC is Kate???!??!!?

[Anonymous No.9226660]

>>9226610
She did start after that self post discovery thread. But I think it was like months later when the embarrassing friends thread happened.

[Anonymous No.9226665]

>>9226031
Don't care. Unless he's a brolita or ouji he can gtfo

[Anonymous No.9226672]

>>9226660
I'm honestly curious what HWC stands for
Sorry I've been gone for like a year

[Anonymous No.9226675]

>>9226672
Housewife chan. Cause she talks about her husband for no reason.

[Anonymous No.9226698]

>>9226660
Here's some stuff about the embarrassing friends thread, still have yet to find the original.

[Anonymous No.9226707]

>>9226698
You do realize you are part of the problem, talking about her further when she is obviously not shitposting right now?

Report and ignore, feeding into the b8 only causes her to continue her tantrums.

[Anonymous No.9226734]

>>9226456
There are people here who said they want her to die, are you really expecting her to post pics after that?

[Anonymous No.9226753]

>>9226734
She tells people to drink bleach, how is that any different from her empty threats?

[Anonymous No.9226787]

>>9226753
Because there are people here who genuinely hate her and want her to come across misfortune.

[Anonymous No.9226830]

>>9226787
Well if her life story is true, that sounds unlikely and that she's already had several misfortunes.

I just want her exposed for the liar she is.

[Anonymous No.9226832]

>>9226830
Which is exactly why we will never find out either way, if people like you didn't have this mentality of "I don't like her I'm going to expose her! Look at how much I don't like her everyone!!!" we could try and trick her into thinking one of us is trustworthy enough and actually get info on her.

You aren't very good at thinking things through.

[Anonymous No.9226925]

>>9226832
Lmao, are you the person who dropped an email for her trying to get her to hang?

I doubt she'd go for it.

>let's shitpost together
They said. I laughed so hard when I saw that.

[Anonymous No.9226932]

>>9226390

I meant that as a joke against fart anon, who would probably get so triggered she'd have a seizure.

I don't really give two shits about shitting or farting.

[Anonymous No.9226940]

>>9226925
That wasn't even me, the time to befriend her to get info is long gone because of idiots who can't control their anger with her. We had a chance but people instead chose to throw a tantrum right along side her.

[Anonymous No.9226945]

>>9226192
Been trying to get my SO to do an ouji/aristocrat coord too, but any time I mention it he sends me this picture of Andrew Carnegie and says "I'll dress like this. Dog included."

I mean I guess Andrew Carnegie was an aristocrat but it's not kawaii desu

[Anonymous No.9226967]

Just moved to a new area with a new comm. I got so comfortable with knowing people at meetups in my old comm that now i have no idea what to do when I don't know anybody. Advice on how to make friends in a new comm?

[Anonymous No.9226969]

>>9226967
According to this thread don't bitch about things too much, don't fart, and don't bring your boyfriend.

[Anonymous No.9227027]

>>9226415
You must be one dense mother fucker. And your situation is OBVIOUSLY just the norm and everyone else is wrong? Congratulations that you have more easily wrangled tards than the rest of us. Your spergs are obviously higher functioning meaning that your situation isn't as hard to deal with. You know, since autism is a spectrum? JFC It's really not that hard to understand.

>>9226338
I feel you anon. I've been there too.

[Anonymous No.9227103]

>>9227027
Are you a mod or something? I don't get why you feel obligated to take care of people?

[Anonymous No.9227119]

>>9226967
just put yourself out there

[Anonymous No.9227191]

>>9225415
>>9223635
>>9225655
>>9225920
Honest question from someone who just visited here out of pure curiosity.

This board's mentality is basically a female /r9k/, isn't it?

[Anonymous No.9227196]

>>9227191
more like female /fa/

[Anonymous No.9227211]

>>9227191
I don't think most anons here hate men like robots hate women. It's just annoying to have randoms who have no knowledge or interest in lolita at lolita meets, just kinda milling about and being awkward in the background. Unable and unwilling to actually join in.

Most of the anons in this thread even clarified that bringing bfs is fine if they're going to actually participate (by wearing lolita, ouji or aristocrat).

[Anonymous No.9227218]

>>9226304
or your comm members have picked the right SO?

[Anonymous No.9227228]

>>9227196
Fair enough, /fa/ is one of the ones I haven't lurked on yet so I wouldn't know.

>>9227211
>It's just annoying to have randoms who have no knowledge or interest in lolita at lolita meets, just kinda milling about and being awkward in the background. Unable and unwilling to actually join in.
Well my home board is /k/, so I can definitely empathize with that situation.
I've seen people bring their girlfriends that have zero, if not a negative, interest in firearms to meetups. It just get's really awkward when you are having a good time with your new friends and there's a person sitting there passively aggressively wishing you would go to jail for your hobby.

Well I won't drag this off topic anymore, enjoy.

[Anonymous No.9227249]

>>9227103
Mod and regular hostess. Also a human being with normal levels of compassion.

[Anonymous No.9227250]

>>9227228
/fa/ is pretty much just a bunch of autists who try and cover up their autism with clothing

just like /cgl/

[Anonymous No.9227283]

>>9223520
Maybe I'm oversensitive, but I don't think it's ever right to call another girl "ita". We all put loads of time and money into our coords, and there's no need of that negativity. Just the other week I saw my friend's little sister in an ita thread.

At least keep the catty shit online. The next meet I go to, the first girl to say "ita" is getting a kick in her fuzzy wuzzy.

[Anonymous No.9227292]

>>9226120
I don't know where you live, but some people will attend meets at a restaurant and order ONLY water to avoid paying for anything

[Anonymous No.9227293]

>>9227283
Maybe I'm oversensitive, but I don't think it's ever right to call another girl's vag "fuzzy wuzzy". We all put loads of time and money into grooming our pubes, and there's no need of that negativity. Just the other week I saw my friend's little sister's pussy in a fuzzy wuzzy thread.

At least keep the catty shit online. The next meet I go to, the first girl to say "fuzzy wuzzy" is getting a kick in her ita.

[Anonymous No.9227295]

>>9227293
>not letting your furry forest flourish and reclaim the land

not everyone wants to look like a prepubescent girl

[Anonymous No.9227308]

>>9227293

>We all put loads of time and money into grooming our pubes, and there's no need of that negativity

Not really. I keep it clean but that's about it. I don't get yeast or bacterial infections down there so I don't care to switch up my routine.

[Anonymous No.9227313]

This is why I normally avoid the lolita threads. Jesus

[Anonymous No.9227315]

>>9227293
>>>9227283 #
> Just the other week I saw my friend's little sister's pussy in a fuzzy wuzzy thread.

I know you wrote this for irony but just

Jfc you're cringy

[Anonymous No.9227317]

>>9227249
>compassion on cgl
>on 4chan
What are you even doing here?
Rhetorical question obviously. I get where you're coming from now but I don't know why it was so hard for you to just say you're a mod.

[Anonymous No.9227318]

>>9227295
No, it's so people can't grab you by the pussy. If you're clean shaven, their hand will slide right off.

[Anonymous No.9227322]

>>9227318
um

>not letting it grow thick so it tangles them up and pulls them in your cooch if they get too friendly, providing your vagina with nutrients

[Anonymous No.9227325]

>>9226252
Do you think he looks sharp in a fedora with tshirt and cargo pants too? Don't forget the scraggly untidy hipster beard.

>>9226262
This is correct. Tux is for evenings. Morning dress is for daytime. And it should still be tailored or it'll look like a sack of potatoes.
http://www.debretts.com/expertise/etiquette/dress-codes/morning-dress/
http://www.blacktieguide.com/Supplemental/Morning_Dress.htm

[Anonymous No.9227327]

>>9227322
Penis fly trap.

[Anonymous No.9227328]

>>9227327
kek

[Anonymous No.9227330]

>>9227325
>not wanting a clean shaven, dapper Prince Charming in a tux

so you're a lesbian?

[Anonymous No.9227350]

>>9226967
Ask the mod/meet hostess to introduce you at your first meet. I assume you've introduced yourself in the online group and told them you look forward to coming to a meet soon? If you've been in another comm, you'll do fine. Try not to compare them too much though either, each comm is different.

[Anonymous No.9227361]

>>9227191
Hey, guys are welcome as long as they're interested in the fashion or at least friends with the comm members. Random SO's of any gender brought along for no reason tend to stand around bored.

[Anonymous No.9227362]

>>9227283
We all put varying degrees of time and money into our coords and some girls consistently half-ass it.

FTFY

[Anonymous No.9227366]

>>9227362
There are definitely girls out there that aren't spending that much time or money on their coords though...

[Anonymous No.9227390]

>>9227330
>implying any lolita bf isn't going to look like a skinnyfat nerd going to prom in a tux

I suppose you think princesses wear prom dresses?

[Anonymous No.9227399]

>>9227390
Not that other anon but at my high school we had a homecoming queen and princess and the same for prom. Also had princes and kings etc, you get the idea.

[Anonymous No.9227479]

>>9227390
>you don't look like an idiot to normies

why wear anything fun ever am I rite?

[Anonymous No.9227489]

>>9227317
My comm is 50/50 split on 4chan's evils and no one wants to be the person that mod that complains about being put off by their autistic comm members. That's like touching the third rail in terms of political correctness.

[Anonymous No.9227496]

>>9227317
My comm is 50/50 split on 4chan's evils and no one wants to be the mod that complains about being put off by their autistic comm members. That's like touching the third rail in terms of political correctness.

[Anonymous No.9227509]

>>9227293
>We all put loads of time and money into grooming our pubes
Lol quite the opposite.

[Anonymous No.9227512]

>>9227509
>not braiding your pubes every day

it's like you don't even want a bf

[Anonymous No.9227528]

>>9227512

Seriously, my bf was quite offended when he found I didn't give my pubes a japanese perm. I've corrected myself since then though. Now he desires me every day for my silky straight pube hair!

[Anonymous No.9227535]

>>9223641
This. Nothing pisses me off than people using cutesy "baby talk" during a meet.

A genuine compliment goes a long way.

[Anonymous No.9227550]

>>9226945
But anon, norfolk suits are actually incredibly kawaii

[Anonymous No.9227561]

>>9225738
I remember the worry.

[Anonymous No.9227819]

>>9226030
I like this one.

[Anonymous No.9227862]

>>9225697
Not to brag, but I do a really good "loli" voice. My bf loves it, and I was thinking of bringing it to a tea.

[Anonymous No.9227864]

>>9227862
This board is not the place for you.

[Anonymous No.9227879]

>>9227862
Feel free to LARP at anime cons but keep that cringey shit away from actual meets pls

On that note, my biggest meetup pet peeve is cosplayers who treat lolita like just another costume and come to meetups to roleplay as their kawaii loli OCs. There are a few in my comm and they're easily recognisable even before they open their mouths, by only having a handful of shitty coords and an obvious cosplay wig they wear over and over, usually without even styling the bangs.

[Anonymous No.9227893]

>>9223635
imo its only okay to being your boyfriend/husband if he's a brolita or ouji. still i rather girls not because couples can be very annoying at meetups

[Anonymous No.9227894]

>>9227893
I'm going to bring my boyfriend to a meet and loudly make out with him in front of everyone just for you

[Anonymous No.9227901]

>>9227894
Such edge.

[Anonymous No.9227903]

>>9227879
Please, people who like to act like lolis are not LARP. LARP might mean Live Action Role Playing but it's quite defined what is LARP and what is an idiotic weeabo who tries to act like a little girl anime desu girl. LARPers are better then that...

Going to give you a pretty picture from the ita thread.

[Anonymous No.9227921]

>>9227903
>LARPers are better than that
oh honey
Fortunately the historical/fantasy LARP community where I live is quite good but you're kidding yourself if you think all LARPers have high standards, or are even into Western sources.

Like it or not, a bunch of weebs dressed like Naruto characters running around like retards, screaming about jutsus and hitting each other with pool noodles are still LARPing. It doesn't necessarily have to involve fighting, either.

[Anonymous No.9227952]

>>9227921
It doesn't need fighting but a weeb in a bad cosplay doing a bad act is not LARP. LARP are original character you make up, and give a story on the go, trough you can make a background story to begin with. No LARP event I know is going to even allow lolis or bad cosplays. Or even good cosplays for that matter, trough some allow it if you inspire it on one universe, you can't just copy paste an existing trademarked character...

LARP is and stays a specific hobby. Trough some people costumes suck, it doesn't make anyone who's role playing a LARPer...

[Anonymous No.9228007]

>>9227952
Bro, we have LARP threads here all the time. Chill your autism and learn to recognize a joke.

[Anonymous No.9228014]

>>9228007
When a joke is made too often it's easily mistakable for idiocy.

[Anonymous No.9228017]

>>9227313

[Anonymous No.9228019]

>>9227496
>no one wants to be the mod that complains about being put off by their autistic comm members.
That's why you're saying it anonymously. I'm so glad I'm not in your comm holy shit.

[Anonymous No.9228048]

>>9228019
I'm actually wondering if she isn't my mod, because we have one comm member who is low functioning like she described and I also overheard that mod agree to and say awful things about a girl with high functioning Aspergers, like that she wasn't a "real" person. The aspie girl isn't even that bad, just a bit oblivious sometimes. I was really shocked to hear that.

[Anonymous No.9228059]

>>9228048
My sympathies anon. But on the other side, the mods in my comm would not be doing what she described. Hell, they usually leave early. They also do tons of work for our events so I have nothing against them but I also wouldn't really expect them to take care of crazy aspies that come to meets.

Not only that but if you want to help someone.. it should be out of the goodness of your heart, not because you feel like HAVE TO and that there is no other choice because people might judge you.
The number one reason I don't help people is because... I don't know how in certain situations. Usually I will, but sometimes someone asks me something I don't know how to deal with. It happens. This girl doesn't know how to communicate though and it shows. Because otherwise she would have been able to say "Hey, I don't really know what to do with this person, I don't know the protocol for this situation" etc.

Like it's really not that hard to get out of a situation you feel uncomfortable in, especially if something is make you feel forced to proceed. What the ever loving fuck? No one is forcing her unless they're holding her there physically. Otherwise she thinks people are actually capable of controlling her mind.

[Anonymous No.9228085]

>>9227952
Clearly you've never met the people who show up to LARPs in half their cosplay gear or write unspeakably awful OCs based on anime/TV/books.

Even the people in my local scene who are considered veteran LARPers and who should know better sometime break out their Prince of Persia knock off character or their Witcher cosplay.

[Anonymous No.9228146]

>>9226216
Now I want to find your comm and go to a meet just to fart near you. I hope the smell gets stuck in your chiffon and lace and you have to leave early out of spergy shame.

[Anonymous No.9228247]

>>9223543
C-can I at least plan topics to bring up? I run of things to say very quickly and I want to keep awkward lulls to a minimum.

[Anonymous No.9228290]

>>9226945
>andrew carnegie
>not kawaii

[Anonymous No.9228441]

>>9228247
Nervous talker detected

[Anonymous No.9228586]

Please don't bring up your drug experiences or force it into conversation, it's neither the place or time.

Also covering your mouth to giggle seems a little borderline role playing, it comes off fake but whatever, would make more sense if your teeth were actually ratchet.

[Anonymous No.9228597]

Things you can say to seamlessly push yourself into any lolita conversation and immediately gain their trust:
> See that ludicrous display on Rufflechat last night?
>What was Angelic Pretty thinking, rereleasing Holy Lantern again?
>Fing about Baby is, they always try an' shine bright.

[Anonymous No.9228598]

>>9228586
>tfw I instinctively cover my teeth when I laugh/smile because of years of braces and oral surgery

do people actually mind if I cover my mouth? my teeth aren't bad now but it's still something I do because of fucking 12 years of oral issues.

[Anonymous No.9228600]

>>9228586
>straight edge moralfag detected

maybe you should go to church instead of meets

[Anonymous No.9228602]

>>9228600

Hydro addiction is not kawaii, sorry anon. Neither are fucked up noses from cocaine, or a meth looking face.

[Anonymous No.9228607]

>>9228602
Cokeheads and methheads don't belong in meets but neither do moralfags who think it's weird to talk about smoking weed. Ever thought some people might like some frilly friends to smoke with? Do you also ban alcohol consumption at all your meets? gtfo

[Anonymous No.9228609]

>>9226247
>Consume nothing but beer and popcorn for a solid week before the meet

That's how you get some super awful Bierschiss.

[Anonymous No.9228612]

>>9228607

Usually when I hear drugs I think of hard drugs - must be my line of work. Personally I don't have anything against weed, but I find 420 culture obnoxious af. I also don't have anything against alcohol, but again, people getting drunk for the sake of being drunk are obnoxious tards too. Everything else is all right in my book. Also I'm a different anon from anon up above.

[Anonymous No.9228614]

>>9228607
The thing is, there is a difference between most people who will casually have a glass of wine with dinner and the 420 friendly crowd. People who blaze it cannot stop talking about how they blaze it and how you should also blaze it because it's "totally not as bad as alcohol"

on the other hand, if you decline a drink with "I don't drink" people who drink don't actually give a fuck.

[Anonymous No.9228616]

>>9228612
I mean I can understand not wanting to hear people on hard drugs like coke/meth/heroin/opiates talk about that shit but this is 2016. Weed, alcohol, even shrooms/lsd/mdma, if you're not a moralfag you should have no issue hearing about that sort of thing. Hell, out of all of that shit I mentioned (aside from hard drugs like coke/heroin/meth), alcohol is the only physically addictive substance that routinely ruins lives.

I can understand not wanting to hear "omgggg so shitfaced" or "ughhh lol so high" but just asking hey, does anyone else 420blazeit? and maybe mentioning something is trippy or how cool your prints look on acid, that's all relevant

[Anonymous No.9228620]

>>9228616
>Weed, alcohol, even shrooms/lsd/mdma, if you're not a moralfag you should have no issue hearing about that sort of thing.

sorry I don't enjoy listening to deadbeats talk about vapid bullshit that ruins some people's lives?

[Anonymous No.9228621]

>>9228620
>weed/lsd/shrooms/mdma ruining lives

Confirmed for straight edge dumbass, out of what I mentioned only alcohol ruins lives and anyone who knows anything knows that. Also, assuming that people who do drugs = deadbeats lmao okay anon

[Anonymous No.9228624]

>>9228621
Can you please take your 2edgy bullshit elsewhere? Or better yet, overdose on a cocktail of drugs since you love them so much.

It's imposing to have to hear about it constantly.

[Anonymous No.9228625]

>>9228616

The thing is I tend to roll my eyes to the back of my head when the conversation starts to turn into an hour of glorifying weed and how it can do no wrong. That's what I meant about 420 culture. It's pretty obnoxious.

That being said weed definitely isn't something I'm opposed to trying at least once. You just can't seem to get a moderate opinion on it whether it's moralfags denouncing it or overzealous weed fags saying it's better than sliced bread.

[Anonymous No.9228626]

>>9228621
#notallstoners

[Anonymous No.9228627]

>>9228625
desu most of my disliking of weed comes from the absolute shiteheads like

>>9228621

who think anyone who doesn't want to hear about it is some cold hearted prude.

[Anonymous No.9228629]

>>9228624
Ahh, yes, because we all know of all those deaths related to weed/lsd/shroom/mdma overdoses, it's quite the epidemic. Oh wait, no it's not. Sorry you're an actual retard. I hope a particularly annoying stoner joins your comm and comes to every meet after hotboxing their car so they smell like straight up weed and I hope they only talk about weed and all those other scary drugz the entire time. And push you, because we all know that anyone who doesn't just drink alcohol is a total drug pusher, amirite?

[Anonymous No.9228631]

>>9228629

No guesses as to who that annoying stoner is.

[Anonymous No.9228632]

>>9228629
Dude you are the reason most people hate weed, the annoying 420blazeit maryjane is Mai waifu who cannot shut the fuck up even if it's in their own interest.

[Anonymous No.9228633]

>>9228625
An hour talking about weed sounds boring as hell and I'm sorry you've met so many douchebag stoners

[Anonymous No.9228635]

>>9228629
People like you are the reason stoners are stereotyped as dumb.

[Anonymous No.9228636]

>>9228632
>>9228631
The fuck? I replied to someone who said that even mentioning drug use at a meet is bad. Not once did I say derailing the conversation and talking about the subject for more than 5 minutes tops is acceptable. But fuck, now I kind of hope every meet you fuckers go to is ruined by annoying douchebag stoners.

[Anonymous No.9228637]

Set your dick on fire and shove a gerbil in your ass.

[Anonymous No.9228638]

>>9228635
>stating facts
>ur the reason ppl think stonerz r dumb

lmao okay Trump

[Anonymous No.9228639]

>>9228638
It's your inability to shut up and not recognize the issue people have with you that makes you dumb.

[Anonymous No.9228641]

>>9228639
Ah okay, so never ever mention drugs even for 1 second at a meet for fear of possibly annoying actual retards, got it!

[Anonymous No.9228642]

>>9228641
Thank you for continuing to illustrate my point so perfectly.

[Anonymous No.9228644]

>>9228642
And thank you for illustrating your lack of understanding regarding anything that's been discussed.

[Anonymous No.9228646]

>>9228644
That's pretty ironic you accuse others of this considering you lack the awareness to identify why people get irritated with you for discussing drugs.

[Anonymous No.9228647]

>>9228642
>>9228639
>>9228635
>>9228632
>>9228631
Found the conservatives.

[Anonymous No.9228648]

>>9228616
>but just asking hey, does anyone else 420blazeit? and maybe mentioning something is trippy or how cool your prints look on acid, that's all relevant
Yeah... nope. I wouldn't get offended, but it's still kinda lame to start a conversation about this with people you don't know very well. Once you get to know people better, like one one, hell yeah! But with aquaintence you're still warming up to...

[Anonymous No.9228649]

>>9228647
found the #triggered stoner who everyone thinks is literally retarded

[Anonymous No.9228652]

>>9228646
>Discussing drugs for even a moment
>OMG UR SO ANNOYING WHY ARE ALL STONERS SO ANNOYING THEY NEVER SHUT UP

Somebody really needs to grow up.

[Anonymous No.9228654]

>>9228652

Honestly, the way you're replying is really obnoxious. I have met pretty chill stoners who know there's a time and place for this shit, and honestly from the way you're reacting, you really don't sound like one of them.

[Anonymous No.9228655]

>>9228652
#triggered

you can stop throwing your temper tantrum any time now

[Anonymous No.9228658]

>>9228648
>>9228649
>>9228654
>>9228655
damn glad my comm is 4/20 friendly ya'll sound like a bunch fo cunts

[Anonymous No.9228660]

>>9228658
#triggered

I'm glad my comm doesn't have a bunch of fucking losers like you who can't seem to grasp social situations and WHY people don't like you prattling on about weed.

[Anonymous No.9228664]

>>9228660
diff anon than one thats been replying just dropped in to say ya'll sound like cunts

also
>dat overusage of #triggered

[Anonymous No.9228666]

>>9228597
kek

[Anonymous No.9228667]

>>9228664
It's not overused if it's still applicable.

>a stoner throwing in their 2¢ even though nobody asked and it makes their side look worse for it

can't say I'm surprised.

[Anonymous No.9228670]

>>9228667
>>9228660
>>9228655
LMAO you guys are too much, try to stop getting your bloomers in a bunch. Maybe smoke a fucking joint or something? I now know that your precious lolita ears cannot even hear the mere mention of a drug without spilling your tea. And that you equate bringing something up briefly with "prattling on" and "talking for hours" - how dare someone even mention something you're not into! They must be socially inedpt, how scandalous! Gimme a break.

[Anonymous No.9228673]

>>9228670
I really hope you're just a troll, because if you genuinely cannot see how ironic you are being I worry for your mental health.

[Anonymous No.9228674]

>>9228667
#triggered

Keep throwing your straight edge tantrum sweetie, it's cute

[Anonymous No.9228675]

>>9228673
you sure are #triggered

[Anonymous No.9228679]

>>9228674
>taking my argument and regurgitating it back at me

troll confirmed

[Anonymous No.9228680]

>>9228670

You should probably smoke a joint tbqh.

[Anonymous No.9228682]

>>9228679
>#TRIGGERED

It's not overused if it's still applicable

[Anonymous No.9228683]

>>9228682
>being so unoriginal and upset you have to resort to literally just repeating what someone else told you word for word

Weed kills brain cells, it's confirmed.

[Anonymous No.9228685]

ITT: Triggered moralfags and non-chill stoners
Back on topic please?

[Anonymous No.9228686]

>>9228683
>being so #triggered by weed that they never read your argument at all and keep bringing up irrelevant bullshit

Ah okay, you really are retarded, got it.

[Anonymous No.9228688]

>>9228685
If these brainrotted blazeit fags would shut up we wouldn't even have a negative opinion of them to bitch about in the first place

>>9228686
Once again, ironic considering we were saying our issue is with tantrums like the one you are throwing right now.

[Anonymous No.9228689]

>>9228688
Dude, you should maybe re-read stoner-chan's posts. They were being reasonable until the moralfags flocked in and started ignoring every point they made. It's no wonder stoner-chan has become so non-chill.

[Anonymous No.9228692]

>>9228689
>anon says they don't like having to hear about weed
>stoners get triggered beyond belief and throws the classic stoner tantrum

You sure they weren't already non-chill?

[Anonymous No.9228694]

>>9228688
I'm the one throwing a tantrum? I guess my analogy to Trump was correct, you really do live in a fantasy world.

[Anonymous No.9228696]

>>9228694
seriously, it's ironic you accuse everyone else of being delusional when you are absolutely deluded.

[Anonymous No.9228700]

>>9228692
>Anon says they don't like to hear about weed
>Stoner-chan mentions that it's okay to mention briefly but clearly states talking about it in length is not cool.

Yeah, in this case the moralfags definitely come out on bottom. They either seem as though they lack the attention span to actually read stoner-chan's posts or they really think even bringing up the topic of drugs at a meet, however brief, is terrible.

[Anonymous No.9228702]

>>9228696
>Straight edge anon used DEFLECTION
>It's not very effective...

[Anonymous No.9228705]

>>9228700
>says their issue is with stoners inability to understand why people don't like them talking about weed and forcing their views on others
>unreasonable

I'm not sure if you don't have reading comprehension or?


>>9228702
Once again, exactly what you're doing

[Anonymous No.9228707]

>>9226228
Wow, I had no idea /cgl/ was this entertaining. I need to come here more often lol
-/k/

[Anonymous No.9228711]

>>9228705
Where did stoner-chan say it was okay to force their views on others? Pretty sure all they said was that they think it's okay to ask if others also smoked weed? If you think that is the same as forcing their views on others, you are sadly mistaken. There's a difference between mentioning something others may not like and forcing that thing on others. If you are so easily upset that you can't even hear about something you're not interested in for a moment, you may need to re-evaluate yourself.

I mean, if you have an issue with someone even talking about their interest for a small period of time, or asking if others share that interest, there's an issue with you, not them. I don't like sports, but I'm not going to go on a tirade online if people mention sports during a meet. If they turn the conversation to sports for an hour and try to pressure me into watching the game, yeah, that's bullshit. But pretty sure stoner-chan condemened such behavior.

[Anonymous No.9228712]

>>9228711
And yet they are shrieking like a banshee at anon for saying she doesn't like it when stoners impose on her by shrieking at her like a banshee. Solid logic.

[Anonymous No.9228714]

>>9228712
Stoner-chan got pretty non chill towards the end and could have handled themselves better. Had I been in their shoes I would have been frustrated as well, considering all their points were being conveniently ignored in order to further a stereotype.

[Anonymous No.9228715]

>>9228714
If they didn't want a stereotype furthered why wouldn't they stop? Serious question.

[Anonymous No.9228722]

>>9228715
When people realize their legitimate arguments are being ignored they sometimes just go into full rage mode. Pretty understandable considering nottaone moralfag actually seems to have read stoner-chan's posts.

[Anonymous No.9228723]

>>9228722
So why feed the troll? I'm confused on how stoner anon is this dumb and why you are validating said lack of intelligence.

[Anonymous No.9228724]

>>9228723
Stoner-anon actually seems like a pretty intelligent person who doesn't understand how trolls work. Possible newfag. They could have and should have ended it earlier before going full rage mode.

Final Score
Stoner-chan: 0
Moralfags: -4

[Anonymous No.9228726]

>>9228724
I'm convinced you're actually the stoner and trying to lessen your own embarrassment.

[Anonymous No.9228727]

>>9228726
Probably.

[Anonymous No.9228733]

>>9228726
>>9228727
I've never even tried weed. Don't really want to, either. Too many issues with addiction in my family, alcoholic parents, methhead cousins, etc. I just realize that sometimes people speak about things that may not be of interest to everyone, and as long as they don't take charge of the conversation and go on for ages, it's realtively bitchy to complain about it.

[Anonymous No.9228736]

>>9228733
But people were saying they had an issue with the people who DO go on about it for ages and try and force it on others. I know you're trying to bring some perspective but you should actually read what's been going on.

[Anonymous No.9228739]

>>9228736
I have read the whole thread. Stoner-chan clearly stated that those who go on for ages and pressure others are assholes or something similar. Multiple times, I believe.

[Anonymous No.9228740]

>>9228739
And yet she kept insulting the anons who said that's what they had an issue with?

[Anonymous No.9228742]

>>9228740
Stop arguing, it's clearly stoner-fag trying to back up her retardation.

[Anonymous No.9228746]

>>9228740
No, not at all. They said multiple times that only briefly bringing up the topic is okay. They never once bashed anyone for not liking when people go on for ages.

stoner-chan quote:
>I can understand not wanting to hear "omgggg so shitfaced" or "ughhh lol so high" but just asking hey, does anyone else 420blazeit? and maybe mentioning something is trippy or how cool your prints look on acid, that's all relevant
and
>An hour talking about weed sounds boring as hell and I'm sorry you've met so many douchebag stoners

[Anonymous No.9228747]

>>9228746
Sure stonerfag. We totally believe you.

[Anonymous No.9228748]

>>9228742
I really wish cgl would put in usertags like /b/ so we can stop with the samefag meme. It's getting tiresome.

[Anonymous No.9228752]

>>9228747
Sigh. I'm sorry you were the main asshole in this argument and an outside source sees it. If you would like to think I'm stoner-chan all the more power to you. Have a nice night.

[Anonymous No.9228776]

>>9228598
Nah you're fine. It's just that some autists took those misako videos too seriously and think that laughing with your mouth open is "unladylike" so they do this weird fake "teeheehee" thing behind their hand every time they laugh.

[Anonymous No.9228783]

>>9228752
Outside source. I just saw stonerfag saying typical dumb stoner shit like "hallucinogenic drugs dont ruin lives".

I think what the anon who mentioned this topic MEANT was that it' annoying to hear people shoehorn in their drug usage into any conversation, especially with strangers. Or to hear someone randomly say "oh my god guess what I did this weekend" just because they want to seem 3edgy5u for doing drugs.

And this is coming from someone who does drugs (besides weed). You just don't mention that shit unless you're looking for attention. If you want to discuss weed like you'd discuss alcohol, then at least limit it to people who know about it. It's exclusionary and rude to talk about your favorite strain if half the people around you don't know or give a shit about the topic.

[Anonymous No.9228787]

>>9228783
obnoxious stoners (though i used to be one myself when i was a tween, i grew out of it pretty quickly though) are the reason i'm afraid that once i save up enough to move away from home and get back into lolita i'll be annoying people if i mention i'm high off of cbd oil to let them know why i'm a bit loopy/dizzy/forgetful/goofy/weird. i don't take it recreationally but to help with pain from my illness and help me sleep.
>tfw not sure if it would annoy them more to act like a bit of a weird goof and have them think it's on purpose/a silly act or explain that i'm not usually like that and risk offending people who hate drugs or the more reasonable types who just don't like having it shoved down their throats
so far the best sort of compromise/reasonable solution i can come up with is not to mention it to avoid offending people or making it awkward or coming across as an edgy loser who thinks drugs = cool, and just explain to people from the comm once i get to know them better. is this reasonable or would it still annoy you for someone to tell you this privately? sorry to ask here but i have very poor social skills and i feel like despite the rep we get for being nasty bitches, lolita comms are generally kept quite polite compared to casual friend groups and so on.

[Anonymous No.9228788]

>>9227921
If you're not taking a face-dive into the dirt every thirty seconds then you're not TRULY LARPING YOU FUKIN PUSSAAYY, there's a reason it's called role-play! Roll through the dirt already!

[Anonymous No.9228793]

>>9228705
Needing to control a conversation to the point where you can just dislike a mild thing and insist it makes you uncomfortable and that people shouldn't talk about it... it's a drug that's legal in some places for christ sake. Hell, what if someone wants to discuss the legality regarding the drug? Or would that make you or any other moral fag uncomfortable as well thus needing to grind the conversation to a hault?

That seems pretty awkward to me. Not like social etiquette.

[Anonymous No.9228795]

>>9228614
>if you decline a drink with "I don't drink" people who drink don't actually give a fuck.
Not true. I don't even say "I don't drink" anymore because it always turns into an argument.

[Anonymous No.9228796]

>>9228726
Ah yes, because no one can ever defend someone else. It's always just the same anon trying to pretend to be someone else to make themselves look less bad. Everytime no exceptions!

And there is always anon clever enough to figure out the Samefag aND be correct about it! Without providing any proof what so ever cause it's not needed, you should just take an anons word for it!!

[Anonymous No.9228798]

>>9228748
Dude we had a thread where I tried to bring up unique identifiers and I just got shouted down and reported into oblivion because people want to be able to troll like that here. Like they just really enjoy low quality memes and shitposting.

[Anonymous No.9228799]

>>9226945
>not dressing your BF up as Alfred Krupp
>built the biggest industrial empire of Europe essentially by himself
>welcomed nobles, kings and queens in his mansion not just as guests of honor but also as clients and customers
>was offered a title of aristocracy by the Prussian king in 1865 but told him to keep the title since, quote, "That does not correspond to my wishes. My name is Krupp and that is good enough."
>implying anyone in the aristocracy ever balled this hard

[Anonymous No.9228800]

>>9228795
Stop hanging out with douchebags then.

[Anonymous No.9228807]

>>9228800
>>9228795
At meets tho?

[Anonymous No.9228830]

>>9228807
Yes, though at most meets we have tea, at some meets especially when there are a lot of older people they push me to drink wine, argue that I have to learn to drink it and then I'll love it, it can be good for your heart etc.

[Anonymous No.9228840]

Why do Asians have such a genderambiguous baby face? Why is it so easy for them? Why aren't we all Asian?

[Anonymous No.9228850]

>>9228840
Because not everyone can have a face that's as flat as yours would be if a powerlifter sat on it. Azns are in the middle of the genders from the facial structure, overall. Westerners can naturally go out towards the extremes, both feminine and masculine.

[Anonymous No.9228863]

>>9228746

I mean, actions speak louder than words. While she was stating that, she was also going overboard with insulting them as 'moralfags,' told them she wished they would be in a room with an obnoxious stoner chan to trigger them, and she kept saying things like "no one dies from a weed/MDMA overdose" which is a very typical kneejerk stoner thing to say and oversimplifies the complex matter of side effects from weed overdose and psychological addiction.

I mean, I have stoner friends. Weed is something I want to try one day. But people who underestimate their side effects and don't understand the concept of moderation again, make me roll my eyes. Briefly mentioning it? No. But stoner chan was doing anything but that.

[Anonymous No.9228874]

>>9228863
Are meetup threads usually this bad? What do you actually do at a meetup outside of drinking/eating? How long are usual meet ups, also how often are they held?

[Anonymous No.9228918]

>>9228670
I don't it's terribly scandalous to suggest that pretty much any drugs, medications or medical conditions are not the right topic over tea with relative strangers.

[Anonymous No.9228925]

>>9228830
Ugh my MIL does this and it's annoying as fuck. Her FB feed is 99% pseudoscience articles about how wine and chocolate are miracle drugs that prevent cancer and are better than exercising, and of course she keeps tagging me. I'll have wine with dinner sometimes and enjoy chocolate a lot but am under no illusion that snarfing down a package of rolos is anything but bad for me.

[Anonymous No.9228935]

>>9228874
Depends on the comm and the meetup. They're usually focused around drinking/eating (high tea, lunch, picnic, etc.) but sometimes people go for an activity too. We'll often have museum meets, craft meets, swap meets, or even go to a theme park. Usually they last a few hours or an afternoon. Frequency depends on the comm but many comms have at least one a month.

I'll never really understand the people in these threads who act like you can't chat with people for a few hours without bringing up your sex life, medical history, traumatic childhood, drug use or anything else that's generally considered inappropriate to mention to strangers. Don't they have hobbies? Read books? Watch tv? Finding something appropriate to talk about really isn't that hard.

[Anonymous No.9228959]

>>9228935
I know a woman who can't talk to anyone for more than ten minutes without bringing up her weird keto diet, her irritable bowel, her ~gypsy heritage~, her permanent infertility and her abusive childhood. Sometimes multiple of these things in the same breath. The only solution is to just never talk to her.

[Anonymous No.9228964]

>>9228959
Sounds dangerously like a tumblrina

[Anonymous No.9228970]

>>9228964
Too old for the Tumblr generation actually.

[Anonymous No.9228984]

Here's a question- what's a subtle way to change the subject if someone tries to talk about something controversial (I.e. politics, racism, transphobia)
Should I just let it happen?

[Anonymous No.9229029]

>>9228984
All depends
>How many people in the comm that are easily triggered?
>Do you want to start an argument about it?
>Whats the worse that it could go up to?
>Can you just shut him down and continue with the meet?
that or just smother it with another conversation topic that you "just remembered"

[Anonymous No.9229041]

>>9228925
Both of these things in small amounts actually ARE good for you, it's the retards that think it means in excess is good.

[Anonymous No.9229057]

>>9228670
>discussing weed over tea

[Anonymous No.9229058]

>>9228748
Didn't /b/ get rid of them?

[Anonymous No.9229059]

>>9228984
Say a joke that's 2x worse

[Anonymous No.9229145]

>>9228787
If you're using it as medication then speak of it as a medication. Why do they need to know the specific name of the medication you're using for your pain? Who gives a shit? Just tell them you're currently taking something with side effects that make you a bit loopy, it doesn't have to be a confessional.

[Anonymous No.9229156]

>>9228984
Ah, it can be tricky. Take something that's being said, think of something tangentially related to it and run with it. That reminds me of, or did you know.. The challenge is a new topic that isn't just as controversial. You could also just go silent for a bit, if it's not something you want to participate in that's fine too, but if you're looking to steer then find an opportunity to segue into something else.

[Anonymous No.9229167]

>>9228670
I think some people ruin it for everyone, some are capable of being mature about it, but others try to shoe horn it into any given opportunity to bring it up and it's just obnoxious and comes off trying to be edgy cause laws don't apply to you and look how cool you are. People who are mature about it don't feel the need to bring it up unless the conversation turns that way which is not often the case in this kind of situation. I've seen it done at meets and it's generally tacky cause it's forced. It's not that interesting to listen to unless you're with close friends anyway. Set and setting.

[Anonymous No.9229261]

>>9225955
seconded this.

[Anonymous No.9229382]

>>9228783
But hallucinogenic drugs like LSD and psilocybin literally don't ruin lives. It's impossible to become addicted to them.

[Anonymous No.9229394]

>>9229382
>What is drug induced schizophrenia
I mean, I take drugs and I think it's find to do them, bought they certainly aren't harmless

[Anonymous No.9229400]

>>9229382
It's not just addiction that ruins people all the time, you idiot. It's the psychotic breaks. Please do research before spreading your circle jerk to your poor comm members.

[Anonymous No.9229431]

>>9229156
This is good advice especially with all the election stuff going on right now. I'm just so over the whole thing I don't want to listen to anymore. I already know who I'm voting for.

[Anonymous No.9229452]

>>9229057
>has never been high while drinking tea
tea tastes amazing when you're high. tea sandwiches too. If you're going into something knowing you're going to eat amazing fancy food, why not get high.

[Anonymous No.9229456]

>>9229041
They're also practically normie facebook memes. Sounds irritating as hell.

[Anonymous No.9229463]

>>9229452
>If you're going into something knowing you're going to eat amazing fancy food, why not get high.
is this a joke?

[Anonymous No.9229467]

>>9229394
There's no proof that it "induces schizophrenia" what kind of fucking bro science are you reading.
As far as I know there are no actual studies proving this and that it's only something that could help bring it on if the individual was already prone to having it.
Obviously, not everyone can do LSD or smoke weed or other psychotropic drugs. But unfortunately it's hard to tell because it's impossible to get proper studies done on this because so many people out there are just like "NO ITS BAD NO ONE CAN EVER DO IT EVER"

sage cause off topic and I'm sure this is the exact thing moral fags DONT want to hear.

[Anonymous No.9229470]

>>9229467
gr8 b8 m8

[Anonymous No.9229471]

>>9229463
Why would it be a joke? Because you can't fathom doing that yourself?

[Anonymous No.9229473]

>>9229470
Where are you from that gives you this opinion?

[Anonymous No.9229478]

>>9229471
Because you're going to a "fancy" event. You are supposed to behave politely and not act like an intoxicated moron.

[Anonymous No.9229481]

>>9229467
>As far as I know
That's the problem, sweetie. You don't seem to know much.

[Anonymous No.9229485]

>>9229478
Don't bother. Stoner-chan just can't fathom why people who don't use drugs would want to converse with a bunch of stoned fucks.

[Anonymous No.9229487]

>>9229467

I just perused my go-to source for these things and at a glance in high doses it can cause tremors, parkinson's symptoms, and serotonin syndrome (a multitude of symptoms that include high body temperature which is the part that can kill you). Because the mechanism of action involves increased release of serotonin, that much is pretty much in the books known about MDMA.

Not discouraging safe cautious usage, but stay safe and know that it can cause harm in high amounts just like everything else. Anyways it was just as educational for me so I'm learning things.

[Anonymous No.9229495]

>>9229471

You'd look about as ridiculous as a drunken frat crashing a formal event.

[Anonymous No.9229698]

>>9229478
>tfw have gone to school high
>tfw have gone to work high
>tfw friends 100% always shocked when I say I smoke
>coworkers/bosses think I'm so innocent and even apologize for cussing and talking about alcohol around me because I've told them I don't drink
>they think I'm a religious nut because I always wear dresses
>actually just a stoned weirdo

but yeah, smoking weed definitely makes you act like an intoxicated moron

[Anonymous No.9229712]

>>9228776
No, that actually is a Japanese thing. Most women cover their mouth when they laugh in Japan. Doing otherwise makes you obnoxious.

[Anonymous No.9229836]

>>9229698
>I'm extremely unprofessional but nobody's noticed yet so it's okay lol
I'm actually pro-weed but goddam you're making the rest of us seem even more retarded. If you want people to take you seriously you should probably stop talking.

[Anonymous No.9235966]

>>9225648
Seconded, even if others are talking politics around you fucking abort yesterday. No one wants to hear a different opinion to the status quo no matter how moderate and agreeable you are. Since it appears almost everyone is on the scale of psychotic ~ human embodyment of Chernobyl when it comes to politics, you can expect reactions ranging from passive hatred for the rest of your comm existence to staining liquids being casually up-ended on your favourite brand.

[Anonymous No.9235978]

>>9225668
I've had this feeling too anon. Went to my first meet in my local area. Pretty excited. Get home and mum i like: "omg anon how was the meet?" (She was also excited). Me:"mum... it truely is saying a lot when I tell you that I was the best at keeping my mouth shut amoungst this group of people."

[Anonymous No.9235993]

>>9226055
>doesnt provide deets
Even if they are newfag why wouldn't you want to talk about it? Sure keep the newfags ignorant, it's the best way. Also we should not give them advice on coording and purchasing.

[Anonymous No.9236004]

>>9226415
I hope peacockfeather moves to your state

[Anonymous No.9236014]

> LARP ISNT ABOUT RUNNING AROUND IN COSTUMES PRETENDING TO BE AN OC AND ROLE PLAYING GIGZ!!!! ITS ABOUT RUNNING AROUND IN COSTUMES PRETENDING TO BE AN OC AND ROLEPLAYING!!!!!!!

This has been you in both threads. I hope you realise how retarded you've sounded.

[Anonymous No.9236019]

>>9228621
You honestly dont think those things ruin lives?? Boy do I have a bunch of people you need to meet.