/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

[Anonymous No.8484569]

Can we get a /cgl/ related wedding thread?

Like lolita weddings, fandom themed weddings (especially Disney), and I guess cosplay weddings would go here, too.

Nightmare mode: no sandy bitching about how tacky lolita/fandom/cosplay/etc. weddings are. Yes, some people see them as extremely tacky, we know.

I'm considering getting one of the BtSSB wedding dresses since they're about the same as a normal one and I like the idea of wearing lolita at my wedding. Does anyone own one? What's the quality like?

[Anonymous No.8484579]

>>8484569
>Inb4 weddings are stupid
I've never seen any pics of Baby's wedding dresses outside model

[Anonymous No.8484584]

[Anonymous No.8484587]

>>8484579
>weddings are stupid
What? Is that like a thing? You'd think anyone who'd want one would be a lolita, just from aesthetics. Wedding lace and the dresses are amazing.

Speaking of that, can anyone post some nice lacey dresses? I'm not a fan of a lot of minimalism I see.

[Anonymous No.8484588]

>>8484569
Far too short to be a wedding dress imo. If I were going to get that I'd have it altered.

[Anonymous No.8484590]

>>8484587
Usually about how it's stupid to get married these days, or how anyone who wants to spend money on it is an idiot. Basically, ignore them.

>>8484584
I love it.

[Anonymous No.8484602]

Hnnng

[Anonymous No.8484605]

>>8484588
Depends on your height. I want to have a similar length dress because I'm 5"1 and long dresses look appalling on me. See your point though.

[Anonymous No.8484615]

>>8484605
Even if you're short I think an alteration like pic related to the back of the dress would make it much more classy and bride appropriate.

[Anonymous No.8484616]

>>8484615
Mullet dresses have never said "class" to me.

[Anonymous No.8484623]

>>8484588
> too short to be a wedding dress

I don't need your pre-conceived notions

[Anonymous No.8484643]

>>8484616
>>8484623
>what are opinions?

[Anonymous No.8484654]

>>8484569
How about rings? I love seeing pictures of heart cut gems, crowns, and other frilly accents.

[Anonymous No.8484660]

>>8484587
>>8484590
Yeah, a lot of people see spending a lot of money on a wedding as a waste, and tend to be of that mentality that since it's what they choose to do, it must be the only legit way to go about it and anyone who thinks different is stupid. Or they're just bitter and doing the sour grapes thing to convince themselves they don't want to get married.

[Anonymous No.8484663]

>>8484643

What are you the only one allowed to have one now? You think mullet dresses are nice, and I don't it's not like anyone was being nasty about it.

[Anonymous No.8484665]

>>8484660
Funny, I usually see the opposite. Girls who want big lavish weddings looking down on people who get married in a courthouse or have a small, intimate celebration because 'ew, that's so cheap, it's supposed to be the most important day of your life!'

And if getting hitched to a man is the most important day of your life I've got bad news.

[Anonymous No.8484670]

>>8484663
Nah, your post just sounded like you hadn't ever seen an opinion other than your own before.
So I was just checking you knew what it was.

[Anonymous No.8484678]

>>8484670
Okay.

[Anonymous No.8484706]

>>8484665
Yeah, I've seen that a few times, too. It's pretty fucking ridiculous to judge someone for not wanting to drop insane amounts of money on their wedding. I don't get why people are so judgmental over how others want to get married in either direction.

>And if getting hitched to a man is the most important day of your life I've got bad news.

IDK, I don't see what's wrong with it being the most important day of your life, it's committing to your lifelong romantic partner, the person you're going to build your entire life with. I can't imagine any day of my life being more important than my wedding and it's not because I have low ambitions or anything like that. What I don't like is that the "most important day~" thing is only applied to women, no one ever says it about men. My fiance often says how it's going to be the most important day of his life when we discuss it, and he's going into an Ivy League grad school with some pretty impressive career goals.

[Anonymous No.8484794]

>>8484706
Thank you!

[Anonymous No.8484806]

The beach would be the perfect wedding destination for lolitas. It has sand, salt, and seagulls

[Anonymous No.8484808]

All this talk and no dresses. I'll continue from >>8484584 so we actually get some content. I'll be posting from my gowns folder, so apologies in advance for any non-wedding gowns that may slip in.

[Anonymous No.8484810]

>>8484808

[Anonymous No.8484813]

>>8484810

[Anonymous No.8484819]

>>8484813
Posting the dress I got married in.

[Anonymous No.8484823]

>>8484819

[Anonymous No.8484825]

>>8484823

[Anonymous No.8484827]

>>8484825
Not sure how I feel about this one.

[Anonymous No.8484830]

>>8484827
That's it for now. I'll post more later.

[Anonymous No.8484831]

>>8484823
>that models teeth

[Anonymous No.8484843]

>>8484706
Agreed. If there's going to be a 'most important' day of my life it'll probably if/when I have a baby because of how much my life would change, but getting married was a really big deal. Careers and other accomplishments are nice, but ultimately what matters to me is family, and making a legal and public commitment to someone and declaring that this was the family I was building for myself was very meaningful and important. More important than getting into an ivy, finishing grad school, whatever else I'll do in the future. And if anything, my husband feels even more that way, and he was the one who was more invested in having a wedding rather than doing the courthouse thing.

[Anonymous No.8484853]

>>8484806
Underrated post

[Anonymous No.8484854]

>>8484808
Do you have any more dresses with caplets like that? I really love the idea but that one just doesn't look that nice.

[Anonymous No.8484878]

>>8484823
>>8484825
>>8484827
>>8484830

More of these. I never knew how badly I needed tacky OTT wedding dresses in my life until right now. Where are these from?

[Anonymous No.8484888]

>>8484810
I fucking hate panini dresses. They're all so goddamn tacky. I can't stand them when they're on Say Yes to the Dress but they're ALWAYS there. At least once per episode.
Why do people spend $15,000 to look like a dolled up hooker?

[Anonymous No.8484895]

>>8484888
I never got it either, that sheer bodice is so fucking hideous and makes it look cheap and like you're a prostitute.

[Anonymous No.8484899]

>>8484888
That one is especially heinous as well. hi-low is really not the way to go for wedding dresses : /

[Anonymous No.8484909]

>>8484895
Omg is this about that one fucking dress every daddy's girl gets on that show?

If so it's so, so awful. Please no.

[Anonymous No.8484914]

>>8484909
Yes, basically every one of her dresses with pic related as the bodice.
I'll admit I like watching the show (I have a massive weakness for wedding dresses) but I hate those bodices with a burning passion.

[Anonymous No.8484917]

>>8484665
>>8484706
For myself, I hate the idea of a wedding. I think I look terrible in white, and don't want to deal with the older relative's dirty looks if I walk down the aisle in a colour I feel better in. I know it should be my day and all, but I still rather not deal with that on what is supposed to be the best day of my life.
A huge party where everyone is looking at me the whole time just isn't my style either. I'd find it nerve-wracking as hell and could never relax. I don't even like the idea of marriage for myself, but if I do change my mind one day, it'll be at a courthouse, or at most a teeny ceremony where the only guests are the parents/grandparents.

However, I love weddings. I'm only 21 and none of my friends are anywhere near that stage right now. But I'd love to be in a wedding party, help with planning, all that jazz. Hell, I'd probably get tears in my eyes when she walked down the aisle. I just love seeing people doing what makes them happy.

[Anonymous No.8484919]

>>8484914
My fav is the girl who wanted the sheer panel to be lower. To its benefit, the lace is highlighted against the skin tone vs the white, but its so sexual for a wedding that you have to have that personality to match it.

[Anonymous No.8484920]

I'm getting married next October and this is what my wedding dress looks like. I originally wanted a lolita wedding dress and then I realized how silly that would look in 20 years or so. I decided on a vintage "prom" dress from the 1950s it's pink, poofy, and lacy and it makes me feel like a goddamn princess. As for our wedding my fiance and i chose to have Disney touches but not full blown Disney themed wedding.

[Anonymous No.8484923]

>>8484914
I admit I find that sexy as hell. But man, sexy is the LAST thing I would want to look on my wedding day.

[Anonymous No.8484926]

>>8484919
I did see a dress with this bodice on a gorgeous slender alt girl with gorgeous tattoos, beautiful black hair etc, and she had a very non-traditional wedding, and I really liked it on her, but it's SO hard for anyone to pull it off except a very specific type of person.

[Anonymous No.8484932]

>>8484923

That internalized misogyny. Stop buying into the patriarchial belief that women have to be pure on their wedding day.

[Anonymous No.8484934]

>>8484923
If you want sexy I honestly think there are classier options but to each their own. The best ones are the girls who want to look like a 'princess' and then pick that dress but with a huge ballgown instead.

And then look sadly at daddy if he wants to pay the money for it. Extra points if "Everything for my little princess" which is really creepy imo.

[Anonymous No.8484937]

>>8484932
This is bait. Thread bump.

[Anonymous No.8484940]

>>8484932
Hey man, I just don't want my bits hanging out in front of my grandparents.

[Anonymous No.8484945]

>>8484932
I see no lies here. I just don't want to be sexy because family would be there, though. Imagine your father walking you down the aisle in that. That makes me cringe just typing the scenario.

[Anonymous No.8484946]

This is the dress I'm getting married in. I bought it a few years ago when I saw it on etsy, I wasn't even dating anyone at the time. I figured if I didn't end up married I'd still have a beautiful dress.
I'll be getting married next year, (we haven't decided on what month, he wants december, I want may), but unfortunately I'll have to have it altered before the wedding, I'm too short for the length, and the boobs are too big.
I feel kind of bad for having to alter it, but I love it too much to not wear it.

[Anonymous No.8484947]

>>8484945
Not wanting to be naked and sexual in front of your parents is internalized misogyny, homophobia and trans hatred.

[Anonymous No.8484949]

>>8484934
Gag

[Anonymous No.8484953]

>>8484947
Go to bed, you're not making sense.

[Anonymous No.8484956]

>>8484947
Now bait-chan, there is a lick of truth to your post. You shouldn't feel bad for being sexy, but there's a time and a place for that. It's called a Honeymoon and I wish some brides would get that.

[Anonymous No.8484964]

>>8484831
It's considered cute in Japan

[Anonymous No.8484999]

>>8484946
it looks beautiful, anon.

[Anonymous No.8485002]

>>8484706
not that anon, but i feel like the day you met, the day you decided to live together, to have a kid or stuff like that should be more important.

that said, it's probably just because i don't see weddings as such a positive thing. i'm not big on either religion or symbolism to begin with, so to me it just feels like something you need when you don't trust your partner enough to believe they want to stay with you without proof or something...

[Anonymous No.8485004]

>>8484888
That dress was bought by someone on the show too. I remember they made a huge deal about the girl's unlimited budget and that it was one of a kind. Fugly as shit.

[Anonymous No.8485036]

>>8484999
Thanks!
I have pearls for it and I was thinking a long veil to match the train.

[Anonymous No.8485058]

[Anonymous No.8485062]

>>8485058
EW

[Anonymous No.8485063]

>>8485058

[Anonymous No.8485072]

Wasn't Girlyhoot supposed to wear lolita for her wedding? She never did.

Someone who is obsessed with lolita like Girlyhoot is, you probably shouldn't wear lolita for your wedding.

[Anonymous No.8485085]

[Anonymous No.8485095]

[Anonymous No.8485121]

Romantic Threads makes beautiful historical wedding dresses. This is a replica of one of the dresses from the Marie Antoinette movie and I would love to get married in it. I don't want a lolita wedding dress simply because I like the idea of getting married in a ball gown, but I would probably have gothic lolita bridesmaids. More incoming.

[Anonymous No.8485122]

>>8485095
that looks pretty nice, it's just the right proportions of lolita and traditional wedding dress

[Anonymous No.8485124]

>>8485121
Not Romantic threads, but I'm in love with it.

[Anonymous No.8485127]

>>8485121
Would also totally be willing to get married in JetJ's dead lamb dress, as I affectionately refer to it as.

[Anonymous No.8485133]

>>8485121
>>8485124

Romantic threads is kind of notorious for its subpar quality. Even in the photos, you can tell the make is cheap and they take shortcuts in the quality of their materials

Also you're free to like whatever you want, but that gown below is making my eyes bleed

[Anonymous No.8485171]

>>8485133
I've never ordered from them so I wouldn't know. Eh. To each their own. I'm probably gonna end up making my own wedding dress or commissioning someone to do it for me. Mostly these are inspiration idk if I would ever actually buy a wedding dress when I could design the perfect gown for me for my special day.

[Anonymous No.8485175]

>>8484878
have a few extreme wedding dresses

[Anonymous No.8485179]

[Anonymous No.8485183]

>>8485175

[Anonymous No.8485189]

>>8485179

I wouldn't mind this particular dress. Honestly though, I just like the silhouette of a full gown for a wedding a lot more than the knee length silhouette. I would never wear >>8484569 because for a wedding, I guess my ideal is just a luxurious floor length gown i can prance in all night, dirt on the floor be damned.

[Anonymous No.8485190]

>>8485183

[Anonymous No.8485204]

>>8485190

[Anonymous No.8485223]

>>8485204

[Anonymous No.8485224]

>>8485095
it doesnt look "chaste" enough because the dress isnt a mile long

[Anonymous No.8485225]

>>8485189
I really miss the sort of simple and quaint look of older wedding dresses or ones inspired by them. They feel like they belong in a really warm, cozy old-fashioned wedding and it looks very wearable like you said. Just for me personally, I'd like to realistically be able to put on my wedding dress again, maybe for a cute Anniversary dinner in our house.

The poofy princess thing most wedding dresses have going on just seems very attention-seeking (it's a wedding, I know), while this doesn't totally overpower the groom. I like the groom in this too, even if it's kind of unusual. It looks more like a union vs. Her Special Day that most modern weddings seem to scream.

[Anonymous No.8485262]

>>8485225
Ditto. I like simple elegance best.
Funnily enough, despite my country being 'Western' there's really no rule about only the bride being able to wear white. I even saw in my parents' wedding pictures that one of my aunts had worn a white/cream pantsuit and nobody gave a fuck because you could still tell who the bride was (by the horrid 70s puff sleeves, no less).
I do believe there's a rule about wearing black but many people wear LBDs still.

[Anonymous No.8485265]

>>8485262
against wearing black*

[Anonymous No.8485274]

>>8485223
I love this.

[Anonymous No.8485400]

>>8485058
10/10 would wear on wedding day

[Anonymous No.8485417]

>I will never be able to wear this

[Anonymous No.8485439]

>>8485417
wow!

[Anonymous No.8485462]

>>8485002
>i'm not big on either religion or symbolism to begin with, so to me it just feels like something you need when you don't trust your partner enough to believe they want to stay with you without proof or something...
There's actually a lot of really serious reasons to get married, as well as benefits. For starters, you become next of kin, meaning you have way more rights that you wouldn't otherwise have. For example, you're entitled to know everything going on with them if they're in the hospital, and you're the one who makes huge decisions like whether or not to pull the plug if they're in a coma they'll never wake up from. You also have lower taxes, your health care is cheaper, along with a bunch of other shit like that. So yeah, if anything, it's kind of a disadvantage not to marry your life partner. Also, as much as you can say "if you love each other, why do you need a legal document to keep you together?" you can argue "if you really love each other and plan on being together the rest of your lives, why wouldn't you want to legally commit when there's so many important reasons to?"

I mean, I don't know about you, but if my lover was in a permanent vegetative state, I would want the power to make sure his wishes as to what to do in that situation were honored.

[Anonymous No.8485463]

>>8484584
i love these but can never find a seller

[Anonymous No.8485470]

>>8484602
i will always love this pic

[Anonymous No.8485474]

>>8485462
You do not need to be married for this though, common law has taken over most of that and is something you can apply for just by living together a certain amount. It also acts as a marriage when you end the relationship, you can go to court over who owns what and you can even have a prenup.

[Anonymous No.8485477]

>>8485474
Not with medical decisions. If you're not married, their parents have say over you.

[Anonymous No.8485487]

>>8484956
wasnt >>8484947 post sarcasm?

[Anonymous No.8485493]

>>8485487
4chan: yes
tumblr: life or death serious

[Anonymous No.8485499]

>>8484920
Holy shit, that's cute anon!
Congrats!

[Anonymous No.8485500]

>>8484945
My dad is dead.

[Anonymous No.8485503]

>>8484920
that is really adorable

[Anonymous No.8485516]

>>8485183
>June May is that you?

[Anonymous No.8485521]

does anyone have any more pics, stock or otherwise, of Baby's wedding dresses? Google is only getting me so far, and from what I hear they certainly have more than one or two

[Anonymous No.8485545]

>>8485499
Thank you!!

[Anonymous No.8485560]

>>8484831
you're an american huh

[Anonymous No.8485563]

found a cute one on lj apparently inspired by BtSSB's Pocket Embroidery

[Anonymous No.8485565]

>>8484920
Congrats on the pending nuptials, anon. That dress is seriously beyond gorgeous.

Did you just find it thrifting?

[Anonymous No.8485571]

>>8485563
oh man, this is so adorable it hurts. it's so simple and cute.

[Anonymous No.8485583]

>>8485477
That depends on where you live. I know where I am from medical is under common law as well. The main thing I know is usually not covered is property rights, as what is under your name is yours, instead of the 50/50 people tend to fight about with when they divorce.

[Anonymous No.8485660]

>>8485503
Thank you!

>>8485565
Thank you, I wish I found it thrifting I found it etsy!

[Anonymous No.8485669]

>>8484827
>meta-releases-a-bridal-collection.jpg

[Anonymous No.8485676]

I LOVE the back of this dress. If I ever get the chance to get married I hope I can have a similar back.


>>8484808
I love the fullness on that dress!

[Anonymous No.8485683]

[Anonymous No.8485690]

[Anonymous No.8486004]

>>8485462
nah, in my country there's a legal contract that does basically the same thing, so it's really for the symbolism that you get married.

[Anonymous No.8486032]

>>8485095
>wedding goals
All I need is the love of my life and a bridesque lolita dress and I'm good to go.

[Anonymous No.8486035]

This forever shall be my wedding dream dress, saw it once on MBOK for a little over 1000USD and wanted to bid so bad despite having little to no money and no bf.

[Anonymous No.8486192]

I'll get married this year and Lolita is a huge influence for it. I'll be wearing a Juliette et Justine dress, the location is a castle and everything from the accessories to the wedding cake will be romanticaly cute. I'm very excited and look forward to it.

>I am starting a pic spam now.

[Anonymous No.8486193]

>>8486192

[Anonymous No.8486194]

>>8486193

[Anonymous No.8486195]

>>8486194

[Anonymous No.8486197]

>>8486195

[Anonymous No.8486199]

>>8486197

[Anonymous No.8486200]

>>8486199

[Anonymous No.8486202]

>>8486200

[Anonymous No.8486204]

>>8486202

[Anonymous No.8486293]

>>8485690
I've wanted this back style ever since I saw it on Game of Thrones. Love!

[Anonymous No.8486328]

Didn't this one lolita get a custom made Juliete et Justine dress for her wedding that was really ugly?

[Anonymous No.8486357]

>>8486035
That is ugly as fuck.

[Anonymous No.8486368]

>>8486035
Cute af. I don't thnk I've seen another dress like this. I'd buy it just for lolita, really.

[Anonymous No.8486372]

>>8486368
Anon stop defending your shit taste. Its like crumpled used tissues all sewn together. Thisll make even he skinniest girl look fat and pregnant on her wedding day.

[Anonymous No.8486380]

>>8486372
Stay salty. More for me.
>inferring someone would ever marry a hag like you

[Anonymous No.8486408]

>>8486380
>married
Get on my level, tramp.

[Anonymous No.8486418]

>>8485462
I have been dating my significant other for 13 years. We never made an official proposal, but are planning to get married next year. I love the guy, but I feel pressured about it, because of people who are making these arguments. Or they look down on me for being with someone, but not maried. "I am giving free milk," they say. Neither one of us have told our friends or family yet.

Now more related to the topic, I would not mind wearing lolita at the reception. (If I have one.)

[Anonymous No.8486423]

>>8486418
I told a few coworkers about 2 years ago how long I have been with my boyfriend. Around that time it had been 6 years. They were all wondering why Im not married at the age of 22 and proceeded to make me feel bad about it and that I didnt have kids. Maybe its because I was a white girl working with a bunch of Mexican immigrants, but they apparently all started early and didnt understand why I had none of that.

[Anonymous No.8486439]

>>8486423
Kek, it was the opposite for me. I'm 22 and have been married for 2 years. Most people just assume it's one of the following:
>He knocked me up so I married him to keep him from making a run for it (false, we aren't planning on having any children)
>He comes from a rich family (false, we're both hilariously poor)
>I need a visa or something (We're both from different EU countries, fairly prosperous ones at that, so that's a no)
>I have cancer
>he has cancer
>I'm cripplingly ugly (hopefully not)
The actual reason is we dated for 4 years before marrying and don't see ourselves being with anyone else. Also I'm Catholic.

It does get tiring going to college and having to listen to 'but don't you wanna EXPERIMENT some more??? Do you even know what you like???' all the bloody time.

[Anonymous No.8486440]

>>8484616
i agree most of the time but subtle ones can be really beautiful

[Anonymous No.8486449]

>>8485690
>horrible bacne for 7 years
>appalling scars
>want this so bad>>8486004

everyday i'm sufferin'

[Anonymous No.8486457]

>>8486439
I feel bad in that sense that I have experimented and my boyfriend hasn't been with anyone else, but me. Its really sweet and I love him to death, but sometimes I feel bad even though he loves me and it has been basically 8, going on 9, years since we've been dating. Mind you break inbetween because jobs, and then he went to college [yeah.. still no one but me even during break].

I don't personally see myself ever getting married, Im fine with never being married. If I want a pretty dress Ill just buy one because I can, but I don't see me wanting to spend so much on something that is 3 hours and then never wearing the dress again.

[Anonymous No.8486464]

>>8485462
oh also
i dont remember where it was but 3 single lady accountants figured out that over a lifetime a married woman would save about 700,00-1,000,000 dollars over her lifetime on various life things.
It might be just a piece of paper but so is a thousand dollar bill.

[Anonymous No.8486467]

>>8485058
This looks like something a CLAMP character would wear

[Anonymous No.8486485]

>>8485417
MORE MORI GIRL WEDDING DRESSES PLEASE

[Anonymous No.8486707]

>>8486440
I stand corrected. This is really lovely. This is very elegant and beautiful, and it's done in a way that doesn't look trashy at all. I feel like you have to go very simple with this cut

>pic unrelated because why not.

[Anonymous No.8486933]

>>8486439
My fiance and I are also 22, and are marrying in around 3-5 years (depending on our financial situations) so we could avoid any of this. We told people immediately after announcing our engagement and a lot of his family were outspokenly relieved.

>tfw kind of offended

[Anonymous No.8486937]

Weird question, but doesn't anyone have a weeb wedding gone wrong(or super right)?

[Anonymous No.8486944]

>>8486372
I must advise you to clean the sand out from your vagina before you get an infection

[Anonymous No.8486946]

>>8486937
I saw this one ridiculously tacky cosplay wedding in a magazine once when I was 14. I think it was supposed to be Utena themed, I just remember the bride having a really awful quality pink wig.

[Anonymous No.8486971]

I really love the brides maid images from lief.

[Anonymous No.8486995]

>>8484643
>>8484670
lel this cunt

[Anonymous No.8487036]

>>8486971
Yesss! I'm getting married in August and fell in love when I saw these...if only they had been released sooner. As it is, I'm wearing lolita for the wedding and my bridal party are in pretty but 'normal' dresses.

I might get one for myself, they're super cute.

[Anonymous No.8487085]

[Anonymous No.8487526]

>>8486707
I'm taken aback by this dress. It's so chic! Most of the ones in this thread are very nice but this one really caught my attention.
Oh and this one too >>8485190 but lol

[Anonymous No.8487548]

>>8486995
Um did you just express an opinion about someone's opinion? Because we don't do that here.

[Anonymous No.8487618]

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[Anonymous No.8487622]

>>8486937
can't find pictures right now but there was that Sailor Moon themed wedding

[Anonymous No.8487626]

[Anonymous No.8487630]

Surprised no one posted this yet.

[Anonymous No.8487664]

>>8487630
>that big ass logo
fucking disgusting

[Anonymous No.8487669]

I have some great wedding dresses saved.

[Anonymous No.8487679]

>>8484706
>What I don't like is that the "most important day~" thing is only applied to women, no one ever says it about men

I dream of getting married to the woman I love though, is this unmanly?

[Anonymous No.8487689]

>>8487679
Yeah but you're missing the point, nobody is shoving marriage into your face and telling you there's literally no other point for your existence than getting married to a guy and giving him lots of babies. If you stay a bachelor forever people will just assume you're dedicated to your studies/work/whatever, but if a woman were to do the same they'd pity her as it would mean she's unlovable/ugly/lonely.

[Anonymous No.8487708]

>>8487689
Are you sure? I never hear that

I mean, I hear a lot of people say that's true but I don't often actually see examples of it. Most of the time it's all about being the "career woman".

[Anonymous No.8487712]

>>8487669

[Anonymous No.8487719]

>>8487708
>Are you sure? I never hear that
Probably because you're not a chick and people aren't exactly willing to spill their family/personal affairs out in the open

[Anonymous No.8487733]

>>8487719
No, I mean I hear the opposite from everyone, including women, all the time.

No one wants to have "lots of babies" because they're all dead set on the whole "overpopulation" myth, and anytime it's brought up people say having lots of kids is bad
Every girl I know wants to take years off to "discover themselves" by travelling or partying or whatever, and after that they talk about careers
And the whole shtick about getting married seems like this big overrated traditional thing in a world where everyone is trying to be as modern as possible

It's actually pretty sad, I don't know a single woman who has aspirations to be a wife or mother. The only people who still support that as a primary goal instead of some thing to put off forever is my own mother who's constantly on me about getting grandkids.

I wish I lived where you did.

[Anonymous No.8487748]

>>8487733
>>>/r9k/
I was going to grace you with a serious, mature response but I see I was mistaken.

[Anonymous No.8487752]

>>8487748
I'm being honest though and I'm not from /r9k/

Go ahead and grace me

[Anonymous No.8487773]

>>8487689
>womens only purpose is marriage
Uh, no one says that? It's the exact fucking opposite. It's like "this is he bride's big day because the groom doesn't care". It's literally like a woman's biggest party of her life if she so chooses. The man can almost be an accessory and just the icing on the cake. (Bad wedding puns, I know.)

>bachelors are cool, bacherlorettes are not
What era do you even live in? What is the #1 thing all single guys get shunned for, especially in the media? "He's a basement dweller that can't get a girl". Is that really an okay thing to say to men? No, but they do it anyway. If a guy can't get a woman, he's worthless and something is "wrong" with him. If a woman does it? She's a strong independent womyn that don't need no man. The stigma of "old maids" is dead.

But seriously, I know Feminizm 101 tells you to be an eternal victim and the patriarchy is trying to oppress you every time you blink, but it just doesn't apply anymore in the way most feminists claim ~oppression~. Maybe update your gender studies to this century sometime.

[Anonymous No.8487804]

>>8487773
Now now, let's be civil. Some girls do get that pressure a lot, particularly from their parents. All I'm saying is that, at least where I'm from, the opposite seems to be the popular trend.

[Anonymous No.8487834]

>>8487804
That's true. Didn't mean to be so mega salty, I just don't like it when someone seems to want to slants things for women only having the issue. Like you said, this can happen with both men and women. I think it depends on place, culture, and so on as well.

That being said, where are you from, anon? I feel like for the most part in the US, the women have favor in the "media" at least. Bridezilla programs seem to almost glorify big spending for the woman and having her say in everything. Maybe it's just the media being the media though. You're right about families varying greatly. Mine thankfully doesn't care if I get a future husband, but my best friends are just relentless and want her to pop out babies or she's a failure. I think it's wrong, male or female, to shame someone for not being with someone.

[Anonymous No.8487835]

stop arguing and post more dresses

[Anonymous No.8487887]

>>8487834
North Alberta, Canada, and yeah we have those same shows but I've only ever seen part of one on the TV at the gym one time, didn't really catch my eye or anything it just looked like every other reality show

[Anonymous No.8487899]

>>8487773
For one, feminizm 101 doesn't exist in my country, as is evident. I'm not too fond of the SJWs either, but they are not part of this issue.
Second, not everyone lives in America. And before you retort with 'hurr get out of Africa/the Middle East': I'm European.

Keep assuming everything is as it is in your country though, it's done you people a world of good so far, so much so that some of you don't even know which continent you're on when you come here.

[Anonymous No.8487905]

>>8487899
lol at you thinking Europe is like third world, though. It's probably one of the most forward countries. What part of Europe, then? I seriously doubt it's even your culture, it's probably your ass-backwards family. You're not some poor third world African bride, so abloobloo.

[Anonymous No.8487915]

>>8487679
>>8487689
>>8487708
>>8487719
>>8487733
>>8487748
>>8487752
>>8487773
>>8487804
>>8487834
>>8487887
>>8487899
>>8487905
I'm the guy at the top, I'm sorry for starting this convo, it's not on topic and will only get worse

[Anonymous No.8487928]

>>8487835

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>>8487928

[Anonymous No.8487931]

>>8487905
>It's probably one of the most forward countries

[Anonymous No.8487933]

>>8487930

[Anonymous No.8488043]

>>8487905
>>8487931
>and thinking all of Europe is developed
I'm embarrassed. I try to defend Americans, but.

[Anonymous No.8488046]

>>8488043
>>8487931
I don't want to derail further, but you guys made me laugh. Everything is a little bit fucked up.

>>8487933
This is gorgeous. I don't know what it is about it. Not enough purple wedding dresses.

[Anonymous No.8488080]

>>8484920
aaaaaaa so cute anon i love it congrats!!!!!! <3

[Anonymous No.8488082]

>>8485063
this shit is weirding me out

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>>8488157
Dumping all my frilly pink shit

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[Anonymous No.8488178]

dream wedding dress. i hate how difficult it is to find beautiful hi lo dresses like this. they always look so unflattering

[Anonymous No.8488179]

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>>8488176

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>>8488199
Annddd, that's all I have on my phone!

[Anonymous No.8488377]

>>8485669
actually laughed out loud.

[Anonymous No.8488401]

>>8487905
>calling Europe a country
>thinking everywhere in Europe is developed
>thinking everywhere in Europe is the same
>thinking there are no sexist places in Europe
>blaming feminism for everything
>>8487915
Literally anything posted on here can turn into a needless thread derail, it's not your fault.

Anyway, back on topic. Anyone buy/considering buying one of those official Disney wedding dresses? I'm thinking about getting one, not sure which one, though.

[Anonymous No.8489039]

>>8488111
This is absolutely beautiful.

[Anonymous No.8489258]

>>8484920
This dress is stunning. Congrats btw!

[Anonymous No.8489274]

>>8488401
Don't derail, bait-chan.

[Anonymous No.8489286]

>>8488401
This is one of the Japanese ones and it's frigging gorgeous. Every one of my loved ones I've shown it too hates it. Gonna get a similar one custom made if I ever get married as the world's biggest, pinkest, Disney-ed "fuck you" ever to walk down the aisle.

[Anonymous No.8489293]

Anyway, spamming some of my saved nerdier touches for a hypothetical wedding.

My best friend adores Mary Poppins and since my flowers of choice are daisies, getting one of these made in a matching colour to her dress.

[Anonymous No.8489298]

[Anonymous No.8489304]

Favours.

[Anonymous No.8489309]

Favours or drinks.

[Anonymous No.8489313]

Sailor Moon's ring for those who don't recognise it.

[Anonymous No.8489320]

>>8489304
the fuck are those

[Anonymous No.8489352]

>>8489320
Dildos

[Anonymous No.8489491]

Tiny arpakassos as cake toppers would be the cutest thing.

[Anonymous No.8489755]

>>8489491
Or you could have the real thing.

>http://en.rocketnews24.com/2015/07/14/this-tochigi-wedding-hall-will-bring-an-alpaca-to-witness-you-exchange-your-vows/

[Anonymous No.8489760]

>>8487630
>those two other brides getting photographed in the background
Way to ruin the image.

[Anonymous No.8489795]

>>8489313
I just found this and I'm tempted to drop some hints to my boyfriend. It's 5,000 but....so pretty
https://www.etsy.com/listing/232796706/sailor-moon-inspired-engagement-ring-14k?utm_source=OpenGraph&utm_medium=PageTools&utm_campaign=Share&fb_action_ids=1477639299212748&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_ref=like_button

[Anonymous No.8489808]

>>8489760
Can't expect better from someone whose logo spans half the image

[Anonymous No.8490384]

>>8489795
dont you dare buy that.
Pink tourmalines are dirt cheap(about $100 for a good quality 1 ct tourmaline. i do admit the color depth is really good but i dont see any guarantees anywhere in the description that its natural, not lab created which would be more like a $10 tourmaline) and for less than half a carat t.w. of diamonds that is a major fuckin ripoff unless its set in 950 platinum, which is isnt. Even then it should cost less. You could get this custom made so, so, so much cheaper.
(sorry anon but as a gem freak this listing is irking me to no end pls go custom)

[Anonymous No.8490397]

>found a gorgeous vintage wedding dress in a little shop by my house
>its only 200
>parents wont let me buy it with a fraction of the savings money i responsibly hoarded from gift money during hs years and onward(about 1k)
>havent bought any lolita in like a year because saving up for wedding
>"oh no anon its still 2 years away teehee its staying in our account"
>dress already fits me
>so beautiful it hurts
>im about to lose it to someone else for no reason
sorry but i just had to vent
fuck my life

[Anonymous No.8490416]

>>8490397
Buy it. It's your wedding. If your parents get upset then they can gift you the money for it at the wedding. Do you want to miss out on the perfect dress because someone who is not even going to wear it tells you no?

[Anonymous No.8490466]

>>8490397
You're old enough to get married and your parents still control your finances?

[Anonymous No.8490469]

>>8490397
Why do your parents even have access to your money? How will you get married and start a life with "gift money" as your income?

[Anonymous No.8490493]

>>8484806
This is my new fav post. Ironically i would love this kind of wedding.

[Anonymous No.8490720]

>>8490466
>>8490469
Yep. Well, just my savings. I'm still in college but I made the mistake of thinking my mom would stop being a control freak and help me out with a good high interest savings account. Guess not, ha! I'll probably just threaten to cut ties unless she lets go of my money before i go off to school this time because this is not cool.
(Ftr the future hasubando and I have been together 5 years so im really not being too brash here.)
Here's a pricier doppelganger of it from House of Mooshki.

[Anonymous No.8490853]

>>8489320
Wands

[Anonymous No.8490954]

>>8490384
thank you anon, could've made a huge mistake there so bless your gem freakishness. Could you recommend any good custom places?

[Anonymous No.8491075]

>>8490720
if you stopped buying lolita for the wedding, how come you don't have that money ready? it's pretty much the same price as a nice lolita dress. or did your mother give you money for lolita, but won't do it for your wedding dress? that seems pretty fucked up...

[Anonymous No.8491175]

>>8486971
>tfw no lolita friends to bridesmaid
>tfw no husbando
>tfw going back to /r9k/

[Anonymous No.8491184]

>>8488111
this one made me tear up

[Anonymous No.8491313]

>>8486423
weird, I work with a bunch of mexican ladies and they all encourage me to finish school first

[Anonymous No.8491320]

>>8487621
I would like a floor length version of this

[Anonymous No.8491394]

The boyfriend and I have discussed it. I originally wanted a spring Alice in Wonderland inspired wedding. But now it's a Fall Mori/Halloween inspired wedding. (but not in the tacky way, more like pumpkins and vintage/retro style stuff)
I love lace dresses, so prepare your frilly buttcheeks for some pics.

[Anonymous No.8491406]

>>8491394
General idea for groom....

[Anonymous No.8491411]

>>8491406

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>>8491411

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>>8491420

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>>8491423

[Anonymous No.8491428]

Is it sad that I want to have my dress custom-made by a cosplay commissioner? The dress I saw and loved, was too small and sold quickly, but I loved it. Cosplay is a massive part of my life and I want it to be included in that special day but not obnoxiously so. I'll get exactly what I want for probably the same price or cheaper than a seamstress or average store. Have a commissioner in mind who's done absolutely stunning Disney and anime princess gowns. I'm so excited.
>no bf and only 20 but wedding scrapbook

[Anonymous No.8491450]

>>8491427
And as you can tell by the file name. that's the last one.

[Anonymous No.8491670]

Absolutely LOVE this ring and want it as my wedding ring, but to this day I still can't single out where this came from and what company made it.

[Anonymous No.8492067]

>>8491670
It was custom made by an etsy shop jewelry1910.
The source link doesn't exist anymore.
>https://www.etsy.com/listing/102103218/art-nouveau-18k-gold-filigree-engagement

[Anonymous No.8492097]

>>8488174
I never thought I needed something so badly as I need this dress.
I don't even have a boyfriend

[Anonymous No.8492104]

>>8492067
Thank you so much!! Going to save the name of this shop for the future. Maybe they'd be willing to make another one, or very one similar.

[Anonymous No.8492112]

I fucking love rose gold.