Feels thread

[Anonymous No.8451238]

Didn't see one in the catalog.

> picked up a lot of extra hours at work because two people quit within a week
> managed to sell most my secondhand lolita stuff within the same day that I made my post
> tl;dr making a really nice amount of money within the next week
> mo' money mo' brand, bitches

Now I'm debating between saving my money for IW's summer sale or splurging it all on blouses, shoes, and other accessories at Bodyline or Taobao. I just wanna treat myself, dammit.

[Anonymous No.8451611]

>>8451238
I hate myself and i want to die.
I feel like a huge fucking whale even though i fit pretty much all unshirred brand, but my body image of myself is just getting shittier and shittier. I want to always look good and feel good about myself, but also for the person i'm seeing who is involved in lolita too. I'm afraid if i don't always look on point they'll just become disinterested in me. they probably wont, but i feel like i'm drowning in a sea of insecurity. I never like how i look.... sometimes i put together something i'm really proud of and then once i see photos i want to cry because i don't look pretty like i felt and it just crushes me. I really really hate myself. .

[Anonymous No.8451616]

>>8451238
summer sale summer sale summer sale

[Anonymous No.8451922]

>tfw you have a somewhat internet-famous friend
>tfw you want to jump in and defend them whenever incorrect or assumptions comes up
>tfw can't do it because it will just make them look bad in the end so it's better to just sit those out even if they make you buttmad

[Anonymous No.8451940]

>>8451922
I feel the same way, anon.

[Anonymous No.8452026]

>>8451611
Holy shit, are you me. I've just literally taken 100+ photos of myself and they all look like I'm dead or insane. I look perfectly fine in the mirror but any picture taken of me knocks my self confidence down to nil. I see pictures of girls online and they look so flawless (and I don't mean Photoshopped uguu, I mean normie pictures too)! It doesn't really help when people tell me to relax or get angry at me, it just makes me want to cry.

>tfw I try to smize/slightly squint but my overly large eyes look creepy

[Anonymous No.8452244]

I just had my first con in a very long time, and it was incredible.

The con blue is heart-shattering.
I'm halfway crying, and I am almost one quarter-century old.
I just want to go back, even if it's just look at the booths, ear the joy in the alleys and see people have fun.
I just want one more hour.

[Anonymous No.8452269]

>>8451238
Do the summer sale. Get that IW, it's so nice. TaoBao and Bodyline will always be there waiting, IW won't.

[Anonymous No.8452280]

>>8452026
Me2
I have bulging eyes and when I try to squint I just look really high
I'm so envious of my friends who can pose and look perfect

[Anonymous No.8452385]

>tfw it's hot as balls and I sweat like a pig
>can't wear my precious lolita, only gently stroke it

>>8451611
>>8452026
>tfwiktf
My family is always complaining that they don't have any photos of me, but every candid photo ever taken of me is ugly as fuck. I somehow always end up squinting while an extra chin appears out of nowhere and my nostrils take up half my face. Even other people have commented that I look like I'm high on something. I only look remotely acceptable in carefully posed pictures I've taken myself and even then it's maybe one out of fifty pictures that were actually taken. I try to practice photogenic expressions in the mirror but I somehow can't replicate these when anyone else is holding the camera. I always end up looking like Snotlout from HTTYD.
The more I look at pictures of myself, the more I want to save up for rhinoplasty.

[Anonymous No.8452390]

>>8452385
>tfw actually like my nose irl
>in photos I look like an illegitimate lovechild of Adrien Brody and Donatella Versace

[Anonymous No.8452436]

>>8451238
>I'm in a tought spot, really in dire straits
>OK I'M GONNA SAVE, AND FIND A JOB, AND BETTER MY LIFE
>Mom decides to take me shopping
>Out of depression and frustration splurge all my money on summer sales
>Stress depression and anxiety increases
>Come home, to find my dream dress is being sold for dirt cheap on secondhand website. About the same money I spent in this stupid normalfag clothes
>I want to rip my hair off, implode into myself and die, maybe not exactly in that order

[Anonymous No.8453120]

>some fat girl refers to herself as a 'landwhale'
>I reply to her "Please don't call yourself a 'landwhale'. You are a beautiful girl no matter what your weight is and anyway, what's on the inside, not on the outside, is what really matters. I bet you are a great person that's fun to hang around with and"
>she tells me "Flattery will get you nowhere, you fucking creep!"

Okay, seriously, there is just no winning with fat cunts is there?

[Anonymous No.8453433]

>>8453120
Fuck off fat shamer.

[Anonymous No.8453452]

>tfw ugly
>self post a lot and no one says anything about it
>cgl is harsh, maybe i'm not that ugly after all!
>get called ugly
>ohwell.jpg

[Anonymous No.8453502]

>>8453452
Please go back to your containment board >>>/r9k/

[Anonymous No.8453674]

>Have finally the job I want
>Got a bit of money
>Not ugly
>Have a bit of free time to do stuff
>Still feels empty inside

Fuck life.

[Anonymous No.8453695]

>>8453120
I call myself a landwhale sometimes. It's because I'm fat. I don't like it and I certainly don't need someone to said some shitty line like that when I jokingly call myself that.

[Anonymous No.8453921]

>>8453695
Ok landwhale.

[Anonymous No.8453929]

I hate having aspergers and I hate every single online community about it. If anything, reading forum posts etc. made me resent it even more, they're filled with people posting topics like "lmao why do those pleb neurotypicals get angry when I don't look them in the eyes??" and my favorites are the people who think they're superior for having autism.
Looking up any statistic seems to just be made to make you feel even more shit, and I hate that I'll always be 'the weird one" no matter how hard I try to act normal.

[Anonymous No.8453934]

>>8453120
>>8453921
Lol, stop being assblasted that you sperged out over a typical self depricating mark and now you've cockblocked yourself from getting some sweet puffyfat poontang.

[Anonymous No.8453955]

>>8453934
>sweet puffyfat poontang.
So this is what the undesirable 80% of Betas have come up with to justify them having to fuck fugly 3/10 morbidly obese monstrosities.

Disgusting.

[Anonymous No.8453960]

>tfw you'll never be realisticsweet

[Anonymous No.8453964]

>>8453960
>tfw I can't even be realisticaverage

[Anonymous No.8453967]

>>8452436
Never spend on normal fag. Never

[Anonymous No.8453976]

>that feel when you will never be Japanese/Korean/Chinese master race who literally have superior genes so they don't smell when they sweat

Whites are seriously worthless.

[Anonymous No.8454000]

>>8453976
I feel you on the sweating, it feels disgusting, it looks disgusting, and for whatever reason the Asian genes make them barely sweat. I mean I know why but I don't get why we do have the genetics that makes us sweat and smell disgusting.

[Sharmota !NARDSdygmc No.8454027]

>>8454000
>I don't get why we do have the genetics that makes us sweat and smell disgusting.
To ward off our enemies.

Asians are too small and cute to have enemies.

[Anonymous No.8454050]

>>8453929
For real though. I don't really relate to most of the community because I want to come off as neurotypical as possible and there seems to be little interest in coping mechanisms and getting your life together. I lucked out since I'm on the more neurotypical end of it, but I've had to work my ass of to come off as somewhat normal and I still slip up. I feel like if I got myself deep into the online community, I'd still be spilling spagetti left and right anytime I'd talk to someone and unable to leave the house.

[Anonymous No.8454061]

>>8454050
Exactly, I didn't get diagnosed until I was 18 because I was acting pretty 'normal' up until the stress from school made me sperg out a lot more. Because of that I have, at times, a hard time accepting it and I'd love a community just focusing on things that suck and being able to vent, but also just generally things that can help one improve. It's proven that a lot of people with aspergers can learn social skills properly, it's just that kids who get diagnosed early in their lives seem to get treated differently by their parents etc. causing them to avoid learning how to behave normally.

I'd love to make an online community that isn't overrun by people with the mindset that they're better then neurotypical people, or ask questions so stupid it makes them fly off the autism chart.

[Anonymous No.8454064]

>>8452385
>planning on face contouring plastic surgery
>take front, profile, 45 degree angle pics for doctor
>remember how ugly nose is in pictures
>want rhino now

i always ignored how ugly it looked in photos and sometimes tried to blame the shape of my face, but i actually do just have a potato nose.

[Anonymous No.8454070]

>>8454027
I'm 5'10 with manface and I still barely sweat. Something went wrong here.

[Anonymous No.8454083]

>>8454027
Hm, reading this I just realized.

Being Asian is mostly advantageous as a chick, and not a dude. All the traits typically given to Asians are really great for girls.

Short, thin, small eyes, recessive-ish jaw, ect. Is this why Asian girls are so much better than Asian men?

[Anonymous No.8454131]

>graduated with a masters degree in the arts
>parents pressured me to get a graduate degree though they really coerced me to try law school
>depression and desperation drove me to pick an arts program quick
>feel accomplished since it was difficult but inadequacy feelings are coming home to roost
>it's been a month and I haven't found employment
>my only experience is five years in two different retail jobs and some old volunteer work
>have applied to jobs at least once a day for the past five weeks
>heard nothing and/or rejection notices
>I know that's the case for lots of people post grad but it still hurts a lot
>living with my parents and bf
>feels horrible that I can't pay my own bills
>$1500 credit card bill
>$20k in student loans coming in in another four months
>told my parents I should do federal volunteer work to defer loans at least
>shamed me at first because it's not a "real job"
>now they're changing their tune because they realize I have nothing otherwise
>read online that arts degrees are "useless" unless it's for teaching
>starting to internalize it
>my mom was a teacher too after failing to use her theater degree and she's a miserable neurotic bitch because of it

And I know it's the least of my problems but I feel the worst that I can't do anything I enjoy like lolita because I have no money.

Meanwhile I get more bitter by the day because
>I follow "friends" from high school on my fb
>one is 21 and has never had a job, didn't finish high school, no disabilities, etc.
>she just had a baby with her bf of less than a year
>lives off welfare
>but her life is pretty chill
>doesn't have anything to do other than take care of the baby, take "workout selfies" and upload all the pics of the gross food she makes
>doesn't even worry about budgets because everything essential like housing and food is just handed to her just because she exists

It's so god damn unfair. Why does anybody better themselves when people like that exist...
Back to my CV.

[Anonymous No.8454137]

>>8454131
>graduated with a masters degree in the arts
>depression and desperation drove me to pick an arts program quick
>my only experience is five years in two different retail jobs and some old volunteer work
>$20k in student loans coming in in another four months
>it's been a month and I haven't found employment
Are you... surprised? That's like a series of bad life choices.

[Anonymous No.8454138]

>>8454131
Good luck anon.
It took me 1 year and half to find my first job. (Different degree than yours though.)

[Anonymous No.8454141]

>>8454137
When you feel pressured to live up to someone else's expectations in a very short timeframe you make a lot of dumbshit choices, anon. I also don't have the advantages of nepotism or connections. My parents did the same things I did but the difference is they could get a decent job in the 70s/80s with a resume like mine. But now, pft.

[Anonymous No.8454144]

>>8454141
>I also don't have the advantages of nepotism or connections
Neither do I, but that's why I didn't pick arts as my major.

[Anonymous No.8454148]

>>8454144
Well good on you. Are you just here to rub the obvious in my face or...?

[Anonymous No.8454151]

>>8454148
yeah pretty much fam

[Anonymous No.8454153]

>>8454137
>>8454144
>a non arts major not passing up an opportunity to be pretentious about their degree

[Anonymous No.8454154]

>>8454131
Keep on going anon you can do it!
and your welfare friend is probably creeping your profile too, admiring how smart you have to be to complete a masters degree.

the same thing happened to me. i gradded with an arts degree in psych and found no jobs so i went back to school for psychiatric nursing. since most of the courses were transferrable, i was about to finish nursing in 2 years.

[Anonymous No.8454158]

>>8454131
yeah, just keep trying, anon. you'll find something.

i have a BA myself, but i manage to make $500-$800 working 30 hours a week as a waitress. if eliminating your debt and paying for your bills is an immediate issue, i'd consider serving. despite what people say about it, it can be pretty relaxed, and it's MUCH better than retail. just make sure you work in a more affluent neighborhood. while serving rich entitled people can be annoying, it only takes 20 of them to make a good night. it takes like 60+ ghetto scumlords to make an okay night at IHOP.

[Anonymous No.8454169]

>>8454138
>>8454154
>>8454158
Thanks all, I'll keep on trying.

Maybe I'll look into serving in the meantime.

[Anonymous No.8454174]

>>8454169
Don't be afraid of starting low, it will sorts out somehow.
In the meanwhile, work on your art and stuff to put that on your CV.

If you ends up desperate, make commissions for furries and draw porn, you'll end up rich, but your mental sanity will be long gone.

[Anonymous No.8454177]

>Excited about taobao order
>Mail arrives and took a better look at the dress.
>"Alice and the Pirates"
>Dafaq
>Accidentally bought a replica where the print was stolen, but the design of the JSK is different.

Fuck.

[Anonymous No.8454183]

>>8454131
Anon, I graduated last year with an arts degree and still haven't found a job. Granted, I have been majorly depressed for the last year and am now just getting over it. My depression is just a culmination of a bunch of things that were building up, but I'm getting through it now. My parents are amazing people and have been helping me and letting me live at home. Every now and then my mom and siblings rag on me for being useless and an embarassment to the family, but I worked a very demanding retail job for years and paid for my books and art supplies myself, and do a lot of things for my parents that they've really cut back on the comments. In compensation I fix things and do all of the yardwork.

So here I am, one year out of school, with no work, as all my school friends go on to move into big cities, regularly getting into big named galleries, getting flooded with freelance jobs, etc. And I'm stuck at home battling depression. Something that's helped me was accepting that people do things at a different pace. I was able to figure out in the last year what it is exactly that I want out of my degree, and how I am going to go about doing it. I could care less at this point in time how well off my friends are doing, because my own happiness is at the forefront of my mind. I'm going to redo my entire portfolio, I've began planning new projects. I have a few friends that send me encouraging texts and ask me regularly how I'm doing with whatever project I've mentioned. The one thing that makes me the saddest was that depression robbed me of the thing I loved doing most. I haven't drawn or painted in months. I am slowly starting off drawing a little each day, and I'm currently the happiest I've been in months. I feel more like me than I was a year ago.
Get a part time job to help pay the bills, apply for art jobs on the side. Make art while you do all of this; don't wait around for your big break because unfortunately life doesn't work that way.

[Anonymous No.8454209]

>>8454061
Haha, I was actually diagnosed really early on (6-ish), but my parents pushed me fairly hard to be in social situations and whatnot. Even though I've known about it early on, I won't even mention it unanon because I hate the assumptions that come with it. Probably sucks finding out something like that about yourself later on, but it doesn't have to be a major part of your identity.

Also kinda wish that the community wasn't so much of a sasuage fest either, but not much you can do when most people diagnosed are dudes. There's a fair amount of things I want to improve on that seem girl-specific.

Good luck on that online community if you ever do try something though. Definitely something I'd be down for!

[Anonymous No.8454211]

I'm so fucking fat anons, I don't know how I let myself get this fat but in the last two years I have shot up from 130 to 180 at 5'8". None of my brand fits right and I hate myself.
I have been counting calories and working out for the past week, droped a few oz but it is just overwhelming and I feel fat as fuck all the time and this shit just sucks.
If I keep at it I will be down to 150 by rufflecon but I'm hungry all the time and everything hurts from getting active and hear, look at my fat ass whine.

[Anonymous No.8454227]

>>8454211
Stress has proven to cause weight gain regardless of calorie counting. Whatever negativity you're holding on to about your body you've got to try to snap out of it.
Don't give yourself time to focus on the bad. Take a 15 minute walk with music when you start to get a craving, do a set of crunches before bed if you cheated a little bit. If you start to have negative thoughts write down every positive quality about yourself and tell yourself that you're not a bad person just because of weight.

[Anonymous No.8454234]

>>8454211
Your end goal should be to eat healthy, not starve yourself. If you're struggling and hungry all the time short term, you you'll probably crash later on.

[Anonymous No.8454247]

>>8454061

On the other side of things, my mom was obsessed with proving that myself and my siblings were all autistic for some reason. She's a fucking neurosurgeon and she based all her reasoning on that fucking quack that faked all his research and claimed that vaccines cause autism. She spent literal years of our lives subjecting us to every medical test she could think of despite our objections (we were too young to have any say, but a lot of them were painful and fairly traumatizing because of the setting/actions taken by attending nurses). When she wasn't doing that she was calling the school and telling them to give us special treatment, calling the parents of other kids and telling them that we were developmentally disabled and that their kids had to be friends with us, etc. it was fucking horrendous and I wouldn't wish that kind of behavior from a parent on anyone, least of all someone with aspergers/autism.

Eventually my brother got diagnosed with severe depression and ADHD, my sister with severe anxiety, and I myself got saddled with a diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder and mild OCD. We were all fucked up after all, but unfortunately not in the way that our mom hoped we would be.

[Anonymous No.8454280]

Tfw someone more popular is doing the same cosplay. I know it shouldn't get to me, but she's even is making it light up like mine. I just finished it and now that she's made public announcements about hers I don't even want to share mine in fear my comm will think I'm copying her. I've been attacked before for wearing the same cosplay, so I'm regretting the money I've wasted. I know she's going to confront me about it too because she's the type to post about her jealousy within the comm. This feel is the worst.

[Anonymous No.8454291]

>Grandmother's room is right beside mine
>she decides to move in with another relative so she can spend time with her great-grandkids
>my mom tells me to start moving stuff out of my room to the now empty room beside mine so that we can get the carpet changed to hardwood
>uncle is suppose to do the floors but not quite sure when he'll be free to
>mfw i'm totally going to takeover that room and turn it into a workroom in the mean time
>win-win situation for everyone yessss

[Anonymous No.8454397]

>>8454000
>it looks disgusting, and for whatever reason the Asian genes make them barely sweat.
No, they sweat just as much as we do (it's necessary to sweat and you have such glands all over your body no matter what humanoid you are, even Reptilians got em).

They just don't have the smell sweat glands. For some reason, they don't have the extra sweat glands that are only around armpits, belly and genital area that secrete some stuff that bacteria eat and when the bacteria shit it out on your skin, it smells.

The same gene that causes them not to have this smelly sweat also causes their earwax to be dry and flaky as opposed to our wet and tasty earwax.

[Anonymous No.8454401]

>>8454397
Here's the video I got it from
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-_QKyipj_Y
I wouldn't expect something so deep from them.

[Anonymous No.8454407]

>>8454397

yo man fuck wet earwax, I get wax buildup so fuckin bad that it can only be removed by a doctor because if I try to get it I just end up going fucking deaf by accidentally compacting a ball the size of a foam earplug into my eardrum.

[Anonymous No.8454452]

ugh, missed the black desert OP on CC. luckily it's not the length I want, so I don't feel too bad.

[Anonymous No.8454498]

>>8454407
I did that once, I was deaf in the ear for like two weeks until I went to the doctor and they flushed that shit out.
It was kinda cool.

[Anonymous No.8454560]

>>8454280
This reminds me of how I feel about having the same idea for a book as another author. You have to be the first. That's all it is. You have to beat her at her own game by being the first. Announce your idea for a cosplay first. Finish a major part of your cosplay, fuck that bitch post your shit first.

If that won't work you can also just tell the haters to slob on your knob in the most kawaii way of course.

[Anonymous No.8454566]

>>8454498

I once got stuck on the weird part of youtube where some ENT guy uploaded a bunch of impacted earwax removal videos.

I couldn't stop watching. It was so satisfying seeing the disgusting piece of wax slowly getting disimpacted.

[Anonymous No.8454581]

>>8454209
Different anon but I'd really love to have a more female-friendly aspie community. It sucks to generalize but girls with Aspergers (particularly those who were diagnosed late but not always) seem so much more likeable than the guys. I've only ever met one aspie girl with the everyone-should-cater-to-me-neurotypicals-are-inferior attitude whereas the majority aspie men I've met were like this. Hell my boyfriend doesn't even have Aspergers and he sometimes still pulls this shit on my behalf.

Part of me kind of wants to start an online Lolitas with Aspergers group (I know there are quite a few of you out there!) but I know that will turn into a shitfest the moment it goes live.

>>8454247
That's seriously fucked up, anon. I'm so sorry. You'd expect a neurosurgeon to know better...
>depression
>anxiety
>paranoia
Well gee I wonder where those came from.

[Anonymous No.8454592]

>work hired a third bartender
>she quit
>work gets a replacement for her
>she dies
>original bartender puts in her 2 weeks
>I'll have more hours
>But I might have to cancel my trip to Mexico because they don't want to hire another one
>mexico has been payed for already

[Anonymous No.8454596]

>>8454592
>going to Mexico

[Anonymous No.8454637]

>>8454581
>It sucks to generalize but girls with Aspergers (particularly those who were diagnosed late but not always) seem so much more likeable than the guys.

That's reality for you kiddo.

Even if a girl is mentally challenged, fat or kind of ugly, she is still gonna get more attention from men (like 100 to 1000 times more) than let's say 7-8/10 men get from women.

[Anonymous No.8454645]

>>8454637
Nobody is saying anything about attention from men you insipid virgo.

Anon is saying that she thinks girls with assburgers generally don't act like insufferable entitled cunts who think the world should cater to them because they've got a condition.

To that I'd add that it's probably because men get away with shitty behaviour a lot easier since childhood because it's expected of them, ie 'boys will be boys'. That becomes particularly dangerous when applied to speds. Spare the rod and all.

[Anonymous No.8454660]

>>8454645
>>8454637

I am cringing equally at you both.

[Anonymous No.8454718]

I have always been told I have BAP as I have a younger sibling with Autism and a father with BAP. I'm quite a social person and get along with a lot of people but often get called quirky or eccentric due to my taste in things, personality or language I use. I can blend in quite well so it's not that noticeable, I did have some very fascinating thoughts as a child and was fixated on specific animals or films. I have met many people with Aspergers and Autism both male and female. In general females who have autism aren't always diagnosed as their social skills or speech levels are close to their peers levels. The majority of females I have met who have been diagnosed are either very high function, very quiet or introverted, very curious about the world and have their own way of thinking or there have been a rare few who are boisterous, confused and quite unaware of what is appropriate socially. Whereas many of the males I have met are more aggressive, struggle more with social norms/making friends, very confused and some believe they are superior due to their syndrome. My younger brother is very polite person and is more lost and confused than anything he often feels like he missed all this information that everyone else just seems to know. I hope everything works out the best for you aspergers anon and I think there are more girls on the spectrum in lolita.

[Anonymous No.8454729]

>>8454660
Ok.

[Anonymous No.8454845]

>tfw you go to NYC BtSSB
>normalfag clothes
>super sweaty
>husband and friend and friend's husband in tow

I touched all the dresses. It was wonderful.

[Anonymous No.8454864]

>ask guy friend I've known for years on date
>he's the sweetest and pay for everything
>I'm awkward af as usual
>no I don't wanna come back to your place
>this is the millionth time I reject his sex offer
>still kiss me on cheek when we say goodbye
>I kinda like him but I also keep my feelings in check because I know he's a ladies man who sleeps around a lot.
>tfw I just want him to like me more than the other girls

[Anonymous No.8454881]

>>8454864
It's not worth it anon, you can't fix him.

[Anonymous No.8454890]

This is the second time I've taken a swing at my old nemesis, Butterick 5682. I tried it about six months ago and gave up in rage. I'm still somewhat of a beginner seamstress, but I gave it another try and I ran into the exact. same. issue. I don't know what it is about this pattern, but the fucking crotch always fits horribly. It's so unbearably tight, and it throws the whole waist area off. I have no clue what I'm doing wrong. I'm a simple woman. I have, to my knowledge, a normal crotch. There is no good reason why this should be happening to me.

[Anonymous No.8454897]

>>8454890
>Butterick 5682
http://sewing.patternreview.com/cgi-bin/search.pl?CompanyID=5&search=search&PatternNumber=5682

[Anonymous No.8454904]

>>8454890
Pix of you in some regular well-fitying pants would maybe help figure out the problem. This pattern looks like it has a short rise though.

[Anonymous No.8454918]

>>8454881
It's nice to hear someone else say this. All my girl friends keep going "you can totally change him! just do this and that" and it's really starting to become silly. So I'm just gonna keep being his friend and not do anything.. das also nice.

[Anonymous No.8455067]

>>8454592
How did the replacement die?

[Anonymous No.8455463]

>>8454864
This reminds me
>be close friends with a very attractive dude since high school
>be roommates afterwards
>he starts going to local cosplay meetups
>keeps coming home with borderline/underage girls
>each and every one thinks that they're in a monogamous relationship with a ~cool older guy~

He managed to churn through most of a homestuck cosplay group in the space of a year. It was like watching a wood chipper.

[Anonymous No.8455490]

>>8454645
>Nobody is saying anything about attention from men you insipid virgo.
The only virgin here is you.

>Anon is saying that she thinks girls with assburgers generally don't act like insufferable entitled cunts who think the world should cater to them because they've got a condition.
It's a HE and he's thinking it because he's a Beta virgin just like you so he's fine with dating assburgers sluts too (as if that somehow lowers their desirability for men, when all that matters for us is what they look like). Women have no value besides their looks and any man who says different is a lying mangina trying to get inside a woman's pants.

This is also reality.

Deal with it bitches (so not you, since you're a male virgin).

[Anonymous No.8455496]

I refuse to date guys who are into anime.

No, seriously.

All you are are either fat fucks or skinny meek faggots. You have no backbone, no impulsiveness about you, no desire to change yourselves, no aggressive or assertiveness and you think just because we like anime too we should suddenly fall into your arms. Can that stupid pipe-dream, we'll take a normal guy with a variety of interests (and yes, that may include sports - if he's athletic himself all the better) over a guy who is obsessive about anime any day of the week.

Personality wise you are either morose and lazy or 'intellectual' and pretentious. There is nothing down to earth about you whatsoever. The former likes to use his apathy as an excuse not to do anything and the latter likes to consistently harp on about philosophy, politics, psychology, history, science or whatever in the vain (and horribly obvious and subtleless) hope that we'll be impressed by his 'working knowledge' of such things. How about you gain a working knowledge of the female body first? What college you go to doesn't impress me at all, I'd be more impressed with a mechanic with a bit of masculinity than a meek, quiet little BOY who goes to an ivy league college, the elitism and fact your kind looks down upon people isn't helpful either.

Finally, yes I'm butthurt. I've lost a supposed 'friend' because he said my choice in partners (I don't do relationships at the moment, only 'mutually beneficial exchanges' shall we say) was 'awful' and went on a rant about it with the usual emo nonsense you'd expect from someone like that. What business is it of yours who I sleep with? Just because we share interests and are friends that is no reason for me to sleep with YOU.

/rant.

[Anonymous No.8455505]

>>8455496
Wow you feminist bitch how dare you tell this to me ,# GAMERGATE

[Anonymous No.8455584]

>>8455496
>butthurt over a chill nerdboy calling you out for sleeping around
aaayyyyyyy lmao
try /pol/ i hear they're into the whole cuckolding thing

[Anonymous No.8455604]

>>8451238
>cut my hair for cosplay
>work hates it, threatens to fire me over it
>have to wear a wig or a ball cap
>family hates it
>grandpa being rude and offensive about it
>have to wear a wig around him for a week straight
>old man made fun of it to my face at the grocery store the other day
>dad pipes up "you know, you were so much prettier with your long hair"

non-cgl
Mom saw me with my binder on underneath my clothing and demanded to know why I was wearing it, I lied and said I spilled ketchup on my bra. I don't want to tell them that I think I might want to become a male.

[Hanari !Cts0f2i03c No.8455610]

I haven't really been feeling very great these past couple of weeks. Depression coupled with some complicated life and financial situations has rendered me really exhausted mentally and physically. The only time I feel like i'm doing something really productive and emotion lifting aside from work is when I work on cosplay and go to conventions. They've really become the only things I look forward to anymore. My hearts just been getting heavier and heavier lately and sometimes even working on the cosplays themselves isn't really enough to make me feel better. I love cosplaying and I love conventioning and I want to keep doing it because they're a huge part of my life and they make e happy. I love meeting people and being able to be somewhere else for the weekend, but I don't know how much longer i can keep this up before everything gets to me and I stop going to cons altogether.

[Anonymous No.8455616]

>be on CoF
>comment on people's things
>everyone's profile picture is them in lolita
>then me with a shaved head
Fuck I feel like a creeper just going and commenting on things

captcha: cookies, only maracons

[Anonymous No.8455679]

>>8455610
I wanna cum on your pretty face Hanari-chan.

[Hanari !Cts0f2i03c No.8455773]

>>8455679
I'm Ace, it's not going to work between us anon. Gomen.

[Anonymous No.8455783]

>>8455604
>work hates it, threatens to fire me over it
Jfc, where do you work?

[Anonymous No.8455802]

>>8455616
Macarons are cookies. Put up a new profile pic if you feel awkward. Truthfully, I don't usually even look unless the comment is odd.

[Anonymous No.8455820]

>>8455604
>I don't want to tell them that I think I might want to become a male.
Don't.

[Anonymous No.8455822]

>>8455783
I work at a pizza place in a small town. One of my coworkers argued that if I was a guy, I wouldn't get in trouble for it
I was threatened as soon as I walked through the door with my apron on
>mfw I'm just a bartender

[anon No.8455952]

>>8452385

>has a magruber moment
>every time a photo is taken my face just looks like....
>magruber's dumb moment face
>looks like im just pissed off even when i smile

also really insecure cause im a fat asian
not obese for white standard
but for asian im huge
everytime i see my asian family
yeah they offer a 24 hour buffet yet to me its like
back away from the food
you've clearly ate too much

cries

[Anonymous No.8456191]

Whiny-ass non-/cgl/ venting ahead; I just needed to get this out
>spent the weekend in a house with three people I can't stand
>along with two other chill people and the host (who's a little awkward but generally nice)
>all my memories are tinted with irritation at how grating the trio were
>sycophantic girl K and her obnoxious, creepy boyfriend B who both make unfunny statements and expect you to find them hilarious, or take a mildly inconvenient situation and blow it up into some outrageous apeshit drama
>incredibly socially-awkward (but somehow verbose) girl C who will fixate on one topic and assume you're as deeply fascinated as she is while delivering a long-winded monologue (on her workplace problems, usually, or insistently trying to convince you to play/watch/read media that was only mentioned in passing), or will recite the same anecdote/fact over a dozen different conversations

Should have expected the weekend would be soured, anyways.
>getting a ride with C to host's house
>ask her twice beforehand to message me when she gets back from work
>planning to walk over to her place while she showers and packs
>she asks me if I'd like her to pick me up instead, I say no because I want to take a walk
>(an aside: she *always* asks people if they want a ride, even when she knows they have their own transportation. It reeks faintly of helicopter parenting at best and assuming that you can't take care of yourself at worst)
>waiting for an update on her status, assume she's caught in traffic
>turns out she ignored my request anyways and was expecting to pick me up
>for someone who's supposedly all about "consent" in party/sexual situations, she's remarkably good at ignoring people's requests when it suits herself

>have been acquaintances with them for 4-5 years and it's too late to cut them out of my life, especially since they hang out with some of my better friends

[Anonymous No.8456227]

>>8451611
Go to /fit/ and read the fucking sticky.
You'll make it.

[Anonymous No.8456237]

tfw you're terrified to come out to your family, but it'd be unfair to your partner not to. Talk about a rollercoaster of anxiety.

I just want to be able to see them outside of conventions.

[Anonymous No.8456242]

> making more money in this new job than I have ever
> too cheap to buy lolita
> still too chubby for brand

It's going to take forever for me to reach 135.

[Anonymous No.8456266]

>>8455773
>I'm Ace

>mfw I thought this was some new fresh dank 4chan meme
>look it up
>"urban dictionary"
>"short for Asexual"

I just...I...
just fuck my shit up. Can /cgl/ get any more Tumblr?
Let me guess, you newkids use trigger warnings too nowadays don't you?

I miss pre 2k11 /cgl/ so much. Or pre 2010, I don't even remember exactly what year it all went down to the shitters. It was just 5 years ago but it feels like 50.

[Anonymous No.8456267]

>>8456237
It's okay, I'm sure your femme-dads will accept you even if you're straight and believe in binary genders, anon. It's not like the old intolerant days.:)

[Anonymous No.8456443]

>>8454131
>>graduated with a masters degree in the arts
What did you expect? My dad got a masters in fine art and he's going on 60, moved back in with his mom a year ago, and working at universal.

It could be worse though, at least you got an education and have some self respect unlike your worthless friend who got knocked up.

[Anonymous No.8457200]

>>8454131
>>graduated with a masters degree in the arts
I stopped reading right there because I had to laugh like horse.

I don't even need to read the rest to know that you're unemployable beyond Starbux. Should have gotten something practical like an African-American or Womyn's Studies degree mate.

[Anonymous No.8457208]

>>8457200
Idiot.

[Hanari !Cts0f2i03c No.8457221]

>>8456266
Dunno what you're freaking out about, Asexuality's been a thing forever. Is it really that hard to believe that a person can be not interested in sex or not sexually attracted to people? Its not a tumblr thing man, its just a thing.

[Anonymous No.8457237]

> spy a btssb bustle skirt from 07
> buy it and wait for it to arrive
> gets here today and it is beautiful
> the detail of the lace is amazing
> smell it to see if it needs a wash
> smell reminds of something
> hits me like a ton of bricks
> smells like my late grandmother

I can't stop crying every time I look at it, I hope this passes because I would hate to have it associated with her now even well after the smell if gone.

[Anonymous No.8457253]

>>8457221
about 1% or less of the world's population are asexual.

[Anonymous No.8457258]

>>8454637
Who said anything about attention from men? Where are you getting this from? I'm talking about how nice/annoying certain people are, not about attraction.
>fun fact: aspie men tend to marry normal women whereas aspie women most often end up with aspie men

[Anonymous No.8457259]

>>8457258
>fun fact: aspie men tend to marry normal women whereas aspie women most often end up with aspie men
Do you have a single fact to back that up ?

[Hanari !Cts0f2i03c No.8457266]

>>8457253
Actually, with new acceptance of the term and research into it, we're learning that 1-6% of the world might be Asexual! I think with people coming to the understanding that not being attracted to anyone and not really having an interest in sex is okay instead of something that should be socially shunned, more people are starting to realize that they might be Ace. Makes me a bit happier.

[Anonymous No.8457270]

>>8455490
Nigga I'm a woman.

[Anonymous No.8457274]

>>8455822
Well, is it a buzz cut, or one of those cool androgynous short cuts like a pixie cut or stylish a la Ruby Rose? Also why the hell would your work care, as long as you're dressing nice and presenting yourself nice.

[Anonymous No.8457275]

>>8457266
I think most people just don't realise that they are, me included. If it wasn't for tumblr forcing their sexualities down everybodys throat I wouldn't know it was a thing.

[Anonymous No.8457302]

>>8455067
She passed away in a horrific car accident
She's the 4th high school student to die in the past month

[Hanari !Cts0f2i03c No.8457326]

>>8457275
Admittedly, Tumblr helped me too. I always knew I just wasn't into people but I didn't know it really had a name until a couple of years ago. When I found out I was able to call it something instead of feeling nervous about just not liking anyone it was a huge relief. I still get a lot of shit about it from people because 'thats impossible you have to like someone sex is natural' and all that bullshit, but I feel much better about myself knowing that there's no pressure on me about finding anyone to be with because i'm just not interested. Its a good feeling.

[Anonymous No.8457337]

>>8457253
This.

>>8457221
There's a difference between asexuality as a mental disorder and Asexuality as a "mmm, I am such a special snowflake, I won't be just heterosexual like everyone else, so I'll put [asexual/bisexual/'pansexual'/ - and BY FAR my most favorite in terms of retardation - 'DEMISEXUAL'] on all my profiles.

Asexual is typically used by female Tumblrites who are slightly above average in terms of attractiveness to automatically friendzone the endless stream of betas who inevitably respond to every picture they post with a stream of compliments.

Bisexual & 'Pansexual' are typically used by Tumblrites of both genders who are too ugly to get laid with the opposite gender, so they're pretending they're attracted to their same gender too (and still can't get laid). 'Pansexual' is used more often by women, bisexual more often by men.

And the best of them all, 'demisexual', is like the jackpot of special snowflakeness.

"Uhm...sorry, I am only sexually attracted to people that I'm deeply connected with emotionally and romantically. I know it sucks but that's just me, so unique, I need True Romance to feel sexual attraction sorry. ;("

I saw it used more often by "men" (if you can call Tumblr lingo using males that) who are Tumblr famous (in their own tiny circlejerk communities that is) but it should be probably near 50/50.

TL;DR - saying that you're anything but heterosexual or homosexual makes you look like an intellectually immature special snowflake brat. Bisexual may be a legit orientation too but it was ruined too much by the 12 year olds at this point, so there's no telling if it's serious or special snowflakes.

I can't wait for the day that /cgl/ also adds cis*/trans* to the "Male/Female" selection in the cosplay suggestion chart. That will be the final nail in the coffin.

[Anonymous No.8457341]

>>8457337
*or special snowflake-ness

[Anonymous No.8457365]

>>8456242
same tho

[Anonymous No.8457380]

after a really terrible breakup like exactly a month ago, I'm dating a brolita from a nearby comm, we spent the weekend together, and being with him and seeing all my friends and having shit tons of fun = one of my best con experiences ever. it's so weird to see how my life has turned around for once, and I'm really happy. he's the sweetest person and we have a lot in common, honestly the breakup I had was bad but it was perfectly timed and I'm glad this is working out the way it is. it's funny to think about though, I'm finding out that mood whiplash can be a positive thing sometimes.

[Anonymous No.8457387]

>>8457337
Holy shit this, I can't stand the term "demisexual". It makes absolutely no sense; you're still hetero/homo/bisexual and people just have varying degrees of how they are and can be attracted to someone else. It's not a separate sexuality.

Other terms that seem to be abuse too often are "non-binary" and "genderfluid". I'll accept that there's a very small percentage of the normal population that is legitimately so, but when every other profile I look at is announcing you're that ~special~, I stop taking you seriously.

[Anonymous No.8457445]

>>8457337
You sound pretty pissed over someone claiming they're not sexually attracted to anyone. Did you get friendzoned by an Asexual? I bet that must have hurt you so much, you poor thing. Asexuality isn't a mental disorder, there's nothing wrong with someone for not being attracted to people.

Asexuality is a real thing. Bisexuality is also a real thing, along with Pansexuality. The term Pansexuality exists because it includes attraction to trans people. You need to calm down.

[Anonymous No.8457452]

>>8457337
the whole world doesn't revolve around tumblr mate jesus christ. if you hate the website so much just don't go there.

[Anonymous No.8457566]

>>8457337
Lithromantic grey-asexual genderfluid transabled transfat tortoisekin here.

Why do we allow triggering posts like these here? I thought /cgl/ was a safe space?????

[Anonymous No.8457572]

>>8457566
>Lithromantic grey-asexual genderfluid transabled transfat tortoisekin
You broke my brain

[Anonymous No.8457586]

>>8457445
>You sound pretty pissed over someone claiming they're not sexually attracted to anyone. Did you get friendzoned by an Asexual?
Nice try landwhale. I am not 'pissed over someone claiming they're not sexually attracted to anyone'. Nobody gets pissed over naive lies that could maybe fool a 5 year old girl. The point is that calling yourself Asexual has nothing to do with sexual attraction, it is just a special title that underage turds (or people with an underage mentality) on Tumblr use either to explain why they are still permavirgin landwhales / cuckolds or by typically 5.5 to 6 outta 10 females who are not used to getting attention from males in real life (since they're not pretty enough to warrant that) and they don't know how to handle it so they just call themselves Asexual to friendzone the Betas automatically. It is insulting to the actual people who have the asexual mental disorder (emphasis on >mental disorder< again), who are most likely less than 0.1% of the population.

It's a lot like Tumblrites (wow, it sure is a gift that keeps on giving isn't it?) calling themselves 'survivors' or 'rape victims' because they had a dream about being raped or because they were accidentally touched by a man once. It's insulting to actual rape victims (you know, those who get violently penetrated / sexually abused against their will).

>You need to calm down.
You need to kill yourself or at least get the fuck off 4chan. I don't understand why you mistakes of nature had to come to /cgl/. You turned this board from pretty much the only forum of it's kind (for topics like cosplay) into just another Tumblr shithole / hugbox.

You can't even call someone fat on /clg/ anymore without them getting triggered. May God help you if you actually criticize someone's pathetic, embarrassing cosplay. The only criticism that is allowed is "constructive criticism" which is Landwhalespeak for "complimenting me but also telling me maybe what small details I could improve".

[Anonymous No.8457589]

>>8457452
I don't go to that website. The website comes here. I almost kind of accepted that /cgl/ is broken beyond repair since 2012, but it keeps getting worse. Not just here, they also infected /co/ and now they're starting to infect /a/.

[Anonymous No.8457594]

>>8457586
>>8457589

7/10 bait, for the effort.

[Anonymous No.8457608]

>>8457586
You sound like a bitter, jaded person and I hope you will get some treatment for your own mental disorder if you're not actively seeking it now.

[Anonymous No.8457615]

>>8457589
Dude /cgl/ calls out SJWs all the fucking time. People literally advertise 'no SJW' in tumblr threads as a positive point. The only people who think /cgl/ is a SJW haven are buttfrustrated /pol/tards and /r9k/ers who think woman=SJW. You seem to be one of them, so I suggest you take your leave.

[Anonymous No.8457630]

>>8457586
Go back to /fit/ you annoying manbaby. Expect people to bite back when you talk shit.

[Anonymous No.8457656]

>>8457594
>caring about the quality of /cgl/ is bait now

OKAY

>>8457608
You just got rhetorically rekt and this is the best you can come up with? Pathetic.

>>8457615
Oh and here go the M'Ladies to the rescue. The "no SJW" doesn't refer to actual Tumblr SJWs, it refers to the people from /pol/ or /r9k/ who go here to troll themselves by pretending they're SJWs (actual SJWs from Tumblr are very welcome here, since they're subtle about it), you

FUCKING
BETA
CUCKOLD
MANGINA

>>8457630
What people? I don't see any people biting back. Whales and mantitted fatty manginas are not people. You go back to Tumblr you turd. I am probably one of the <5 people remaining here who have been here since 2009 at least. The board went to shit the moment you and your kind decided to make this your new home.

[Anonymous No.8457670]

>>8457656
Are you okay? Do you need a hug or something? This seems to really upset you.

[Anonymous No.8457680]

>>8457656

[Anonymous No.8457689]

>>8457656
>implying more than one anon couldn't possibly think you're being neurotic
Sorry, not the same anon you think you "rekt" but you need a mental eval.

[Anonymous No.8457692]

>>8457656
no the no SJW refers to tumblr SJWs

[Anonymous No.8457729]

>having a jannycuck delete it

Wow, the Tumblr snowflakes got triggered for real.

[Anonymous No.8457739]

>Was in LA this past weekend from halfway across the country. Didn't even know about AX until that friday. Was with a bunch of normals....Agh. Next time. For the time being, more midwest cons!

[Anonymous No.8457989]

>>8457729
>>having a jannycuck delete it

>Wow, the Tumblr snowflakes got triggered for real.