>>8437026
No wig (or natural color extension/hairpiece, looks like she might have an add on, but it matches her natural hair) and not having a million plastic shapes dangling off you helps. Light natural makeup, dressy but not full on lolita shoes.
As much as cgl hates it, this is very matchy matchy, but I also think that helps achieve a more normalized look. Pink and black is common color combo, and they aren't the craziest colors.
I think casual lolita is really simple, and it's probably my favorite way to wear most of my pieces outside of big special events. Mot of the lolita world is too caught up on ott though, so if you dress like the pic here, it's sadly seen as boring.