Comm Shame

[Anonymous No.8306724]

Forever ashamed to be in the same comm

[Anonymous No.8306734]

they look like they are having fun. where is your chill?

[Anonymous No.8306767]

Honestly they look like nice people and I am jelly that you have a comm at all. Feel free to go lone lolita if you're done with your local group, but don't drag them down anonymously; it makes you look cowardly.

[Anonymous No.8308607]

>>8306724
at least the majority of your comm doesn't consist primarily of trans men

[Anonymous No.8308613]

>>8308607
I personally think it would be very kind to take a mtf trans loli under your wing and help them with makeup and beauty and coords... Unless they're just a brolita/transtrender/sissy

[Anonymous No.8308624]

>>8308607
That's some ita shit right there

[Anonymous No.8308630]

At least the dude has a nice coord this time.

[Anonymous No.8308634]

>>8308613
trans man would be ftm

[Anonymous No.8308652]

>>8308607
The brolita closest to the camera is the only one with a half decent coord.. too bad it's sweet and makes it look sissy

[Anonymous No.8308673]

>>8308634
Isn't the picture of anon's comm? Those are clearly mtf, I figured anon just used the wrong term

[Anonymous No.8308678]

>>8306724
The chubbychan with the green country coord is cute af so if you don't want to wife I will.

[Anonymous No.8308783]

>>8306724
The green one is the cutest one. The rest is meh to ita tier.

[Anonymous No.8308823]

If you don't like your comm, just leave it or start a new one. I bailed from my comm and I'm much happier now I just hang with my friends.

[Anonymous No.8308881]

>>8308678
>>8308783
you two have issues. potentially chubby chasing issues.

2nd one from the right is a truQT

[Anonymous No.8309083]

>>8308678
Honestly I saved this pic just for her coord. I've been on a country inspo kick and her outfit is great.

[Anonymous No.8309558]

>>8306724
I was going to make a mean comment about the out of place old lady but she looks so sweet
>imagine having frilly grandma to talk interests with
>vintage hand-me-down coords
>her house on weekends for cookies and tea
>sewing together
>the bonding

[Anonymous No.8309561]

The one in green and the Asian in pink are tots kawaii

[Anonymous No.8309566]

>>8309558
that's a sissy

[Anonymous No.8309568]

well fuck, glad i didn't go to this meet.

[Anonymous No.8309589]

>>8308607
Trans men as in mtfs? What's the matter as long as they're legit about it and not tumblr/trender/sissy about it? Or as in ftm fakeboi?

[Anonymous No.8309603]

>>8309566
>okay I'm going to bite
Just what in the fuck is a sissy? Is it the same as fakeboi?

[Anonymous No.8309606]

>>8309603
please no one ruin this anon's innocence

[Anonymous No.8309696]

>>8309566
dubs speak truth

Also

This is my local comm...

[Anonymous No.8309764]

Considering everything I actually think he's doing a good job. OP's picture is a good co-ord.

And yes, Green-Chan does look very cute.

[Anonymous No.8309855]

>>8306724
Hope they find out who you are, implying you're not in the photo.

[Anonymous No.8309996]

>>8309561
there are no asians anywhere in any of the pics in this thread

[Anonymous No.8310000]

>>8309855
could be master ruseman, in the photo and passive aggressively fishing for compliments

[Anonymous No.8310004]

>>8309996
Girl second to the right in the pink and white stripey socks is clearly asian.

[Anonymous No.8310007]

>>8310004
she's really not, you need your eyes chekced

[Anonymous No.8310067]

>>8309603
It's a guy who gets off on being dressed like/treated like the girliest little girl that ever girled. I want to use the word emasculation but that seems too violent? I don't know what percentage of sissies do it as a sex thing, what percentage do it as a non-sexual humiliation thing, and what percentage just like being dressed up that way. The woman in OP's pictures seems to have started as a run of the mill sissy but moved from that to actually gender transitioning. She's a generally pretty sweet lady but by their nature sissies are kind of uncomfortable because their fetish in no small part has to do with them being looked at and judged, so the moment you lay eyes on one you're effectively being forced to take part in their fantasy (which is part of what gets them off.)

[Anonymous No.8310077]

>>8306724
Which one are you, OP?

[Anonymous No.8310078]

>>8309603
Basically what >>8310067 said.
The reason why most Lolitas don't like Sissies is that the Sissies don't care for the fashion, often look horrible and force their personal fetish not only on the comm member but also everyone they are seen with. Lolitas already have trouble with being seen as something weird or sexual or "Daddy's little girl" and whatever normalfags think, and having an obvious fetishist in your comm doesn't help this.

[Anonymous No.8310084]

>>8310078
>>8310067
This. Not to mention that it's kind of insulting to people in the fashion, giving that the implied message is that dressing in lolita is fundamentally humiliating (which is what these guys get off to).

No comm should have to humor this shit, but tell tumblr and they'll spin a tale about 'transphobia'. There are probably some trans people who act this way, but by and large the grown men who approach lolita comms are fetishists who (at best) sully their group's reputation.

[Anonymous No.8310086]

>>8309589
If an MTF is legit transgendered, they wouldn't be wearing literally the most feminine fashion in the history of humanity.

[Anonymous No.8310090]

>>8309696

Oh dear lord... Is he actually a true sissy? Or actually interested in the fashion? He sure does look like a sissie but I keep seeing his outfits and none are truly terrible/ita

[Anonymous No.8310093]

>>8306724
isnt this ATL comm?

[Anonymous No.8310095]

>>8309589
Do you mean an FtM? An MtF would have zero problems wearing lolita.

[Anonymous No.8310096]

>>8310086
MtF means they identify as female, which would be a very good reason to wear a feminine fashion.
You are thinking of FtM, which would identify as man.

I see no problem with them wearing Lolita, we have legit men wanting to be Brolitas. As long as you make an effort, dress nice and try your best to look feminine and elegant I give no fucks who wears Lolita. But please keep your fetish to the bedroom and the fakeboi shit on tumblr.

[Anonymous No.8310097]

>>8310090
I'm pretty sure she's just a girl that transitioned (MtF) way late in life, so she's stuck with an unfortunately masculine face. She genuinely likes lolita, and her coords are pretty decent. I don't know why so many people are claiming she's a sissy; sissies are usually ita as all fuck.

[Anonymous No.8310347]

>>8310097
She has transitioned, anons are just being assholes at this point. I dislike her but she is a mtf transgender woman. And I can as dmire her ability to brush off transphobic comments or being accused of being a sissy, though I suppose if I were going trips to Disney World and Hawaii every other month I would give no fucks either.

[Anonymous No.8310367]

>>8308678
>>8308783
>>8308881
Am I looking at some other girl in green here? Are you seeing her two legs as one fat leg? She doesn't even look chubby looking at her arms and legs. Just busty maybe.

[Anonymous No.8310387]

>>8309558
They said 'old lady' kek

[Anonymous No.8310504]

>>8310093
looks like a meetup between the AUG and ATL comms, I've never been to either but I've seen pictures of members from both and that's what it looks like to me. The AUG comm is a branch of the ATL comm

[Anonymous No.8310925]

>>8310367
look at her face, look at her ankle. what little of her we can see is fat.

[Anonymous No.8310936]

>>8310925
>her ankle
You mean her socks?

[Anonymous No.8310937]

>>8306724
That girl with black and pink looks Hella cute

[Anonymous No.8310991]

>>8310067
>>8310078
>>8310084
Well I guess "the more you know"

[Anonymous No.8310998]

>>8310925
Her arm looks weirdly shooped now that you point out her extremities. Think she tried to look less pudgy? Lel.

[Anonymous No.8311239]

>>8306724
While I don't know that comm, I have met the one in the middle wearing the red dress when she visited my comm and she was super nice.

I don't want to be a whiteknight, but they look like nice people. (Rainbow head looks like she could be a bitch though) I don't see why your salty. I really don't.

[Anonymous No.8311243]

>>8311239
*you're

[Anonymous No.8311277]

>>8308607
Wow that MP replica bodice...

[Anonymous No.8311361]

>>8306724
>>8308678
>>8308783
>>8309855
>>8310000
Clearly OP is the girl in green lol. Posting her comm and samefagging how kawaii she is.

[Anonymous No.8311370]

>>8310067
It's actually only a sexual thing. Unlike things like ageplay which are often just age-regression fantasy.

[Anonymous No.8311371]

>>8306724
The green dress on the girl third from the left is super cute.

[Anonymous No.8311379]

>>8311361
Actually I am >>8308678, but even I am suspicious about her being the only passable one and then the defensive tones of some of the posts itt when we called her chubby....

[Anonymous No.8311386]

>>8311379
the whole thread is full of 'everyone's happy' tumblr whiteknights so who knows what to think.

[Anonymous No.8312290]

>>8309696
Never thought I'd see my city posted here.

[Anonymous No.8312440]

>>8312290
Are you new? ATL is usually drama central. It's been quiet recently because all of the drama llamas have stopped showing up at events.

[Anonymous No.8312804]

>>8312440
that's AUG not ATL

[Anonymous No.8312864]

>>8312440
But that's Augusta. I recognize the background.

[Anonymous No.8312867]

>>8312864
Fellow augustian here, have never been to a comm. You part of the Augusta comm? I've though about joining but it doesn't seem like an active or serious comm. A friend of mine showed me pictures and it didn't even look like people wore lolita half the time

[Anonymous No.8312877]

>>8312867
Not part of the comm for pretty much the same reasons you are. Most of the time it's the ATL group showing up for photos and leaving so there is no point in getting to know them for me.

[Anonymous No.8313507]

>>8312877
damn, I know one other person legitimately interested in Lolita in Augusta who is also a seagull. What we need is a /cgl/ Georgia comm lel

[Anonymous No.8315520]

>>8309696
>"Lolita"

[Anonymous No.8315914]

>>8309696
There was a meet a week or so ago. These pictures from years back of people from out of town, and people who've moved across the world by now...

[Anonymous No.8316997]

>>8315914
how many /cgl/ lolitas are in the Augusta area?

[Anonymous No.8317013]

>>8313507
Please call it Gone With the Frill

[Anonymous No.8317015]

I crossdress in Lolita because I think it's cute. I don't do it for sexual reasons. I'm not a gay . I don't desire to be a woman. I don't really do comms anymore because there is that alienating feel of pity and being an outcast like girls are unsure how to act around me. Then there's people saying I need to do something about my facial and body structure to make me look more feminine. No amount of make up and puffiness is going to hide my masculine features. Yeah, I can fool some people into thinking I'm a girl, but only for a glance. I can't do anything about that.

[Anonymous No.8317062]

>>8317013
Fuck it
why not.
Augusta /cgl/ lolita comm.
If nothing comes out of it besides my friend and I then oh well.
feel free to join.

fagbook /groups/1430517500588228/

[Anonymous No.8317085]

>>8317015
crossdresser here as well. I love lolita just because I love the dresses, prints, and putting together a coord. I'm pretty brown so I've been sticking with classic. I pretty my face up but I'm Asian and have a feminine facial features already (besides my jawline) so it works out pretty well, at least I think so.

I've never gone to comms or out in public in lolita, and it's definitely not a sexual thing.

[Anonymous No.8317151]

>>8317062
>gone with the frill
Aaahehhahha
This is great,

Good luck to you Augusta seagulls. I hope your comm works out.

[Anonymous No.8317204]

>>8317062
Maybe we should be a bit more discreet about it being cgl based? I don't really like shouting to the world that I go on 4chan.

[Anonymous No.8317205]

>>8317204
yeah true, I'll change that

[Anonymous No.8317216]

/cgl/ should be a secret so that way we can talk about itas and bad cosplays without them knowing

[Anonymous No.8317224]

>>8317216
but if we get said itas onto /cgl/ for them to learn....

[Anonymous No.8317230]

>>8317216
It's a little late for that.
Plus there are always going to be those assholes that link a thread to the victim so they can see our comments

[Anonymous No.8317233]

>>8317216
>implying 4chan should still a "secret club" site
>implying we haven't been doing that since the birth of /cgl/

I can smell the new from here.

[Anonymous No.8317283]

>>8316997
Three or four from what I can tell just from reading this? I was actually browsing because someone I know is getting posted like crazy here. I usually only come when some drama drops and I need context. I was really surprised to find the Augusta comm posted at all considering how small it is. We have gatherings fairly frequently. Usually they're smaller and in celebration of something, birthdays or achievements, and several of us travel to larger cities together. That's why it's important to get to know us or you might not know anything is happening at all. And we have girls show up not in lolita a lot actually because we have an open door policy towards people interested in the fashion.
Also, we have like only one brolita in our actual local comm.

[Anonymous No.8317285]

>>8308613
>mtf trans loli
>implying most mtf aren't sissies

[Anonymous No.8317299]

the dc fucking area comm

[Anonymous No.8317327]

>>8317283
I, for one, am not in the Augusta comm, just from Augusta, and from what I can tell it looks like so are the other posters. I think the person posting the Augusta pictures is from Atlanta as the pictures posted are of Atlanta members and meets, with Augusta members in them, and not exclusively Augusta. But I could be wrong, that's just what it looks like to me.

personally, the Augusta comm doesn't really appeal to me, nor several other lolitas in the area. I'd like to meet other lolitas genuinely interested in Lolita, not people who want to hang out under a "lolita theme". A comm that has a focus. I'll probably visit the Savannah comm just because they seem to have that focus. Maybe the Atlanta comm even.

It would be great if this new Augusta comm would take off.

[Anonymous No.8317331]

>>8317299
let's not, anon. let's not.

[Anonymous No.8317334]

>>8317331
are you mad because you're in the dc area comm?

[Anonymous No.8317336]

>>8317327
is the savannah comm or surrounding comms any good? i'm going to SCAD for college and don't want to get tossed in with a bunch of itas. and the last time i was in savannah i saw a girl wearing rote rose with FUCKING RAINBOOTS so i'm a little concerned

[Anonymous No.8317345]

>>8317336
I haven't been, just read the description of their comm, I think it's more focused than the Augusta comm based on the fact that the Augusta comm accepts anyone generally interested in lolita, where as the Savannah comm specifically state that you have to participate in Lolita fashion.

But they could just be full of itas. I haven't been or seen pics so I can't judge.

[Anonymous No.8317346]

>>8317327
Lul. The most inactive members of a comm branching off to make their own comm? Let us know how it works out.

[Anonymous No.8317347]

>>8317334

nothing wrong with them unless you're a racist.

[Anonymous No.8317350]

>>8317336
Statesboro here, maybe we can make s southeastern comm? Have meetups with non-ita members of Savannah and Augusta? It's a good midway point between the regions.

[Anonymous No.8317351]

>>8317347
it's full of itas and weeaboos

[Anonymous No.8317355]

>>8317346
except we aren't part of a comm faggot

[Anonymous No.8317359]

why don't everyone on /cgl/ just form t heir own comm so that way there is no itas.

All of you are so skilled and rich. All of you have such nice bodies. Nice frame. Fit. Nicely shaped breasts.

[Anonymous No.8317365]

>>8317299
Who the heck are you? I swear if you're the same anon who keeps popping up in every thread this week you know you don't have to be a part of the comm. especially if you hate the whole comm so much.

I have a feeling I know who you are and if you are who I think you are you're already a cunt that no one likes and you can get the fuck out. Seriously I'd rather be around a bunch of ita's then a well dressed bitch.

[Anonymous No.8317368]

>>8317359
your comment got a little creepy at the end there

[Anonymous No.8317371]

>>8317359
it's not about your body-type or money, it's about being able to put together good coords and understanding of the fashion. So many comms are full with itas wearing non-lolita fashion claiming it to be "lolita"

That's the problem

[Anonymous No.8317375]

>>8317365
you don't fucking know who i am. name and shame if you think you know, but the chances are that you'll be wrong

[Anonymous No.8317376]

>>8317375
someone mad

[Anonymous No.8317394]

>>8317350
that would be fun

[Anonymous No.8317409]

>>8317355
Well, some of you have to be... the meet photos from that group aren't public. Plus you outed yourselves by making a face book group and talking about it here. Not bright. But good luck I guess.

[Anonymous No.8317421]

>>8317409
Ok I outed myself by making a group and posting it here? so what? I'm part of ZERO lolita comms and have never attended a comm. Why are you getting on my case for no reason? It's completely uncalled for. I have said nothing bad about the Augusta comm except I don't intend on joining it for personal reasons

[Anonymous No.8317424]

>>8317421
lul okay...
Good job deleting your group just now, too.

[Anonymous No.8317430]

>>8317424
what? It's still there?

[Anonymous No.8317439]

>>8317430
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[Anonymous No.8317454]

So you were using the same weeby as maid photo on two profiles (before you changed one to some MLP BS) and they are using the same name and nickname. One was a member of the AUG comm. Bitch please, you' aren't skilled.

[Anonymous No.8317460]

>>8317454
Oops on all the typing errors. Still right tho.

[Anonymous No.8317520]

>>8310093
Only one person in this picture is originally from ATL

[Anonymous No.8317608]

>>8317520
This was an ATL comm picnic... Not many people showed up plus there were other meets this weekend. There are a few people from out of area, but this was an ATL meet hosted by the one in red. Not sure why to bother posting it since it's not representative of a comm in particular.