Feels Thread

[Anonymous No.8063253]

Feels thread. Last one in autosage.

[Anonymous No.8063256]

>mfw buy new prints all the time but never get the chance to wear them.
>too chicken shit to wear to college.
>prints are 6 months old before i wear them.
>defeats whole purpose of wearing latest, relevant lolita fashion

[Anonymous No.8063263]

>>8063256
do you go out much at the weekends? It might be nice to try wearing them out to lunch, shopping etc, instead of just waiting for an occasion

[Anonymous No.8063271]

>tfw too skinny, bmi is around 15 now
>tfw eating more than 2000 calories a day makes me feel sick
>tfw i've been eating my standard diet as usual but still somehow dropped 10lbs
I'm too fucking gangly and gross I can't cosplay anything that shows my back cause it's so disgusting and bony. Going to try to force myself up to 2500, 3000 and then hopefully 3500 and get my 10 lbs back before con so I don't have to be too ashamed.

[Anonymous No.8063286]

>>8063271
Wow anon I feel you but my situation is the exact opposite.
>Uni + a lot of shit going on with my life is making me stressed so I gain a lot of weight.
>A month ago I was put on medication which made me gain even more weight.
>I'm about 5'3 and 132 lbs now, I'm fucking disgusting.
>OK I'm gonna lose some weight. Start making a shitton of exercise and even when I'm in front of the computer I'm sitting in a sit ball jumping/doing crunches and all this shit. Still gaining weight tho.
>OK maybe it's my diet. Cut calories by a lot, I'm hungry most of the day. Still gaining weight.
>Remember I was incredibly hot when I was skinny. This makes me stressed and thus I gain more weight.
And what makes it worse it's that my brother eats like a fucking viking and never ever does exercise and still manages to lose weight. He has been eating supercaloric junk food and sleeping for two months and he managed to lose 5 lbs.

[Anonymous No.8063289]

I've gained like 15 pounds in around the 2 years I've been living with my boyfriend. I always maintained my weight pretty well before this relationship and vowed not to ever weigh over 110 pounds. Now I can't wear the majority of my burando. However, I was chubby until I was 16, so I know I can make myself lose weight.

I bought one of my dream dresses in the size I used to wear for motivation. I tried it on, knowing it wasn't going to fit so I could estimate how much I need to lose weight. The zipper does OK until it gets to my chest, then it doesn't even come close. It was depressing, because it seemed like my chest will always be too large, even if I get down to my lowest weight. My boyfriend even said, "There's no way your chest will get small enough for you to zip that up."

So I decided to line the dress up with another dress that used to fit perfectly. The chest turns out to be roughly the same size. It made me feel so much better and motivated knowing that if I just drop ten pounds, I should at least be able to get the zipper up. Maybe I can get there by next month with some discipline.

[Anonymous No.8063293]

>>8063271
how tall are you?

[Anonymous No.8063297]

>>8063293
164cm and 40kg
>>8063286
I am sorry anon. I wish we could trade places for a while till we're both at our goals! I have the same issue too, being stressed about my body ironically makes it worse. I wish you the best of luck though! We can do this!

[Anonymous No.8063298]

>>8063297
how old are you/marry me pls

[Anonymous No.8063312]

>Live in Japan
>Live out glorious weeaboo dreams
>Go to Harajuku
>waifus
>waifus everywhere
>I tower over them, my white American body dwarfing them
>they avoid me in the street
>I will never be as cute as the lolitas
>I will never be as sassy as the gyarus
>I will never be as sweet as the mori girls
>tfw no gf

[Anonymous No.8063320]

>tfw you can't do anything about your horrid facial shape that kills everything you want to wear or cosplay

[Anonymous No.8063324]

>gettin real tired of a mole (well more like a "beauty mark") above my lip
>been to dermatologist and she says "you shouldn't remove it, it'll scar"
>know for a fact that there's other ways to remove it without significant scarring, and I qualify for all of those
>would even take scarring over this
>everyone keeps telling me "noooo anon, it looks cuuute!"
I just wanna fucking wax my moustache without living in fear of having something happen to it god damn

other feels
>hear husbando's voice for the first time
>surprisingly deep for a manlet
>I like it a lot

[Anonymous No.8063353]

>>8063271
>>8063297
Have you seen a doctor for this? I also tend to feel nauseous when I force myself to eat the "normal" daily intake for a woman my height but I'm only slightly teetering on underweight, not full on emaciated. It really sounds like you could have some kind of illness that's keeping you from getting the nutrition you need.

[Anonymous No.8063357]

>my breasts are too big
>they cause me back pain, i can't do sports with out wearing two pairs of sports bra and those don't even help with pain etc, i can't usually even sleep on my stomach
>make crossplaying hell because in costumes i have "man boobs"
>luckily i'll get a breast reduction surgery
>if i do i can finally get in better shape, it's not like i'm fat or anything but i want natalie portman kind of body
>mfw if i don't get the surgery

[Anonymous No.8063381]

>>8063353
yeah, my BMI has been under 18 (usually 16-17) since I was a child, no doctor has ever found a problem. Maybe I should see a specialist or something I don't know

[Anonymous No.8063398]

>boyfriend hates lolita
>slowly get into it over a few months
>tell him
>he obviously isn't thrilled but "w-whatever makes you happy..."
>time passes, I get my first dress and he's still too happy about it
>he sees me in my first coord and is ecstatic he thinks I look adorable
>wants to dress up too so we can match
He's into it now he even browses dresses with me and encourages me to bid on stuff/participate in my local comm. It's gr8.

[Dr. Scientist !!JtQ+aYJUUCb No.8063410]

>tfw some of your closest friends live in other states if not other countries
>tfw you will not see them for anywhere from 6 months to a year
:..( the distance is real

[Anonymous No.8063427]

>>8063320
Dem feels, anon!
>Forever stuck in "elegant, mature" territory when all I want is to be cute
>Old woman tries to compliment me one more day
>"Doesn't she look like Sarah Jessica Parker?"
>Please Jesus at least let her mean Hocus Pocus era SJP...

[Anonymous No.8063430]

>boyfriend has fetish for dressing me up
>wants to dress me as the main character from Kill la Kill
>fucking hated Kill la Kill, but don't have the heart to tell him no

[Anonymous No.8063438]

>>8063312
Same except
> get attention from lolitas
> want pictures with me
> Still forever alone
Popular does not rule out loneliness.

[Anonymous No.8063440]

>Get rid of hair on legs for first time in months
>It starts to snow while I'm in the shower

I sure know how to pick a time to take off the winter coat, huh

[Anonymous No.8063444]

>>8063430
He pays for your meals, just suck it up and dress up for him

[Anonymous No.8063465]

>>8063286
>5'3 and 132 lbs now,

Roughly same stats. I have an hourglass figure and it helps, but I really need to drop some pounds. I can't wear thigh highs until I get rid of the pudge. Thankfully dresses hide my fat thighs.

I just skip dinner every night. I hate going to bed full anyway, so it helps. N-now I just need to stop eating sweets. My actual food is as healthy as it comes, but I eat a bunch of sweets on top of it which probably doubles my calories.

[Anonymous No.8063475]

>>8063430

The seifuku (which is slutty) or the bondage gear kami-robe? Her normal shoes, those white sneakers, are really cool.

[Anonymous No.8063483]

>>8063465
I have an hourglass figure too, but due to the stress + medication most of my weight went to the stomach area, so now I look like a pudgy ball of fat. Skipping dinner is not good anon, you should eat even if it's just a cup of milk and some cookies, but I hope you suceed in you weight-loss journey!

[Anonymous No.8063531]

>>8063483
>a cup of milk and some cookies

But that kind of sugar laden garbage is the last thing I need.

I have breakfast at 8 and lunch around 3, and then stop eating (only tea from then on). Eating in the evening makes me feel sluggish and bloated. I always went to bed hungry as a kid so I prefer it.

Belly pudge is the worst. Even thigh fat is better. I feel like working on side abs (obliques?) would...tie down the pudge so it doesn't look like a pile on the front. So I've been doing side plank a lot and cross-crunches. Plain crunches build bulk in the middle, and make the pudge look more prominent by pushing it out more. Or that's my femscience bullshit explanation, anyway.

[Anonymous No.8063535]

>>8063531
Eat veggies at night. Don't go to bed entirely hungry, because your body needs food to regenerate during the night and that's a long long fast. If you don't like going to bed full, just eat lightly and early.

[Anonymous No.8063537]

>>8063483
Did you just recommend someone trying to lose weight probably the most calorie dense drink on top of cookies?

[Anonymous No.8063539]

>>8063537
Ok that wasn't a wise move but it was the lightest food that came to my mind in that moment

[Anonymous No.8063556]

>>8063531
/Fit/ here, do abdominal vaccuums and train lower back if you want to get rid of protruding stomach (belly pudge?).

[Anonymous No.8063557]

>>8063537
Nothing wrong with milk, imo.
I dropped 80 pounds while drinking it in a moderate amount. It's soda and drinks with high sugar content that should be avoided.

[Anonymous No.8063558]

>>8063427
Dam it anon, I'm just the opposite.
>5'5", round face
>cosplay lolis and everyone tells me how "cute!!!!" I am
>get into lolita, friend says "oh anon, you'd be perfect in sweet, you're so adorable"
>only interested in classic and gothic
>I will never be an elegant lady of the aristocracy

[Anonymous No.8063564]

>>8063558
Or damn*, but whatever you feel like, phone

[Anonymous No.8063569]

>>8063558
I feel you anon

>4'11
>round face, big animu eyes
>wants to cosplay mature ladies such as Satsuki from KLK and Maki from Love Live
>tfw even if I did have a mature face my height would ruin it

[Anonymous No.8063572]

>>8063483
>>8063539
>milk and cookies is the least calorific food you could think of
>"hourglass figure"
>"stress and medication"
Yea sure hun.

Skipping dinner is 100% a good idea. Skipping breakfast is not. Easiest way to control calories without counting is no eating after 6. Or only raw foods after 6 (i.e. celery, carrots, watermelon).

[Anonymous No.8063575]

>>8063483
if your weight gain is only on your stomach area, you're probably not an hourglass figure.

[Anonymous No.8063583]

>>8063572
I didn't say "less calorific". I said "lightest". I could have said "a glass of water" which is light too but that ain't a dinner.

[Anonymous No.8063586]

>>8063575
Do you realize that spot-fat gain is a thing do you. Also I have a difference of about 30 cms between boobs/waist/hips so I'm pretty damn sure I'm an hourglass.

[Anonymous No.8063587]

I'm scared of Tumblr. I did a lolita leveling up quiz and my results says I should get a blog to level up, but that scares me. I'm scared of leaving images forever on internet in an open way, not like fb.
Am I over-reacting?
I have mixed feelings, because I want to become better but not sure if I'm scared of going out of my comfort bubble, or if I should be careful with complete strangers on internet.

[Anonymous No.8063596]

>>8063572
>eating breakfast
I disagree, unless it's something light like cottage cheese and some fruit in a small portion, breakfast foods tend to be loaded with sugar and carbs. And since people tend to be in a rush in the morning they don't think about calories as much.

I'd say it really depends on one's lifestyle. For me dinner is easier to meet my protein and fiber goals for the day.

[Anonymous No.8063597]

>>8063357
I have a flat as fuck chest anon and have never been able to sleep on my front. It's really bad for you anyway though so you're not missing out on much.

[Anonymous No.8063600]

>>8063256
Get a comm, you can go out with them.

Try to get more toned down prints (florals, plain dresses, just skirts), take the chance to wear to college. I like asking my normal-fag bf if certain design looks ageplayer or costume (at the eyes of random ignorance), you might feel more comfortable.
Others trick is to wera only one Lolita item. A coat, or a small bow that matches yor daily life. Then a blouse, or a skirt.
With time you can get used to it and be able to tone it down to normal daily fashion that random people won't be too scared of.

[Anonymous No.8063606]

>>8063539
This is why you're fat, not stress and medication, because you don't have a fucking clue what the calorific content of the food you're eating is.

[Anonymous No.8063609]

>>8063596
Who said you had to eat breakfast food at breakfast though ? In my country it's usual to eat super sugary nutella stuff in the morning, I just have some bread with an egg à la coque and veggies or rice and I'm good. And if you don't like savoury in the morning, unsweetened fruit juice and unsweetened whole wheat cereals with dried fruits in it are a good breakfast.

[Anonymous No.8063611]

>>8063297
Have you checked your thyroid hormone levels?
But for your height, I think your weight is ok.
Maybe you think you look too bony, but it's not true. Have you asked friends or couple? Doctor?
I'm thin and my mom used to say I looked anorexic, but the doctor told me I was fine.
People are different, you might be healthy and is just your body shape.

[Anonymous No.8063612]

>>8063256
I know your feels, anon. I don't have much burando but i don't have really the chance to wear stuff because meets up aren't often and i don't go out much. Maybe we should wear our burando at home....
>>8063312
Are you lesbian?

[Anonymous No.8063614]

>>8063312
Maybe try doing activities like going to an arts course. You might meet people to get friends.

[Anonymous No.8063622]

>>8063606
refer to>>8063583
I know enough about weight gain/loss, it's not the first time I'm trying to lose weight. Also, I said the lightest not the least calorific. Now that I think about it you can have soup for dinner which is around 60 calories, but in my family a soup is mostly wet pasta, that's why I didn't think about it. Also as I have lost weight before I know what I should and shouldn't do, but this time it's more difficult as with my old workout and a restrictive diet I'm still gaining weight. Also before I lost weight my fat was equally distributed and I still looked good, now my fat went only to my tummy and I look like a fat ball of pudge. People gain weight differently under different circunstances, for example my mom under stress gains a lot of weight but doesn't gain one size because the fat adheres to her internal organs.

[Anonymous No.8063625]

>>8063531
If you keep hungry, your body will activate for starving mode and store absolutely everything you take into yor belly pack.
Try to get fiber bars, veggies, and count your calories.
Have you read the introduction document to /fit/?

[Anonymous No.8063632]

>>8063596
Just eat oats and milk, no sweetener addes.
Tastes good, you get used to less sweet foods. Then, sweet foods will taste bad.

[Anonymous No.8063649]

>MFW win dream dress off lacemarket at ridiculously low price
>MFW still haven't been invoiced after sending numerous messages
>MFW pretty sure the seller rather take the negative hit than sell me the dress for 1/3 the price it usually goes for
>MFW I want this dress so bad I would knife fight her for it and still pay her if I won the fight

[Anonymous No.8063655]

>>8063289
Good luck anon! You can do it!

[Anonymous No.8063658]

>>8063649
What dress at what price, anon?

[Anonymous No.8063659]

>>8063609
I'm probably biased (Murrican here) because here people expect you to eat -breakfast- fare if you mention it. Idk, it just doesn't seem like a good idea for someone already bad at counting calories to do breakfast. Also some people just aren't hungry in the morning whereas towards the evening they could be hungry and be tempted to eat. I'd rather save my calorie budget for that occasion.

>>8063632
>oats
Eughhh...been there, done that. I think it's bland and boring after a few days--just so we're clear I'm not the same anon asking for dieting advice, btw.

[Anonymous No.8063727]

>>8063658
Cream Cinema Doll for $250

[Anonymous No.8064020]

>>8063324
>Hear husbando's voice for the first time

wat?

[Anonymous No.8064036]

>>8063659
Skipping breakfast makes you more prone to gain weight, do you not pay attention to anything?

Best thing to do is have small snacks throughout the day rather than having three large meals.

Breakfast snack
mid day snack
afternoon snack
evening snack
before bed snack

I eat every two to three hours, just small amounts, and I haven't gained a pound since 16. If you feel hungry, have a small healthy snack. Have two actual meals (breakfast and dinner, when you get up and then again like 4-6 hours before bed if you can) and snack the rest of the day.

[Anonymous No.8064046]

>Found out I had IBS and chronic constipation
>Would make traveling to anime conventions awkward so can only go to in state ones.
>Thought about flying but it's really expensive.

[Anonymous No.8064055]

>>8064046
>would make traveling to conventions awkward

Why?

[Anonymous No.8064057]

>>8063659
>Skipping breakfast

The reason why people expect you to eat breakfast here is because if you skip it you're more prone to eat and you will have more energy rather than eating a big ass lunch and maybe a small dinner.

Seriously.

[Anonymous No.8064064]

>>8064055
My Bm's are not regular so if I travel by car I have to use the washroom randomly (and I can't hold it.) I can't just yell to strangers "I gotta poop let me out!" I don't have friends that go to anime conventions or friends at all for that matter. (I can't drive yet.)

Flying is easier because it's quicker if I want to go to California for Expo but it's pretty expensive to pay $100 for a ticket not counting the hotel itself.

Many people consider IBS and chronic constipation as stupid as my phobia and doesn't consider it a real problem so I don't want to embarrass myself.

>Thank god for anonymous here.

[Anonymous No.8064073]

>tfw just found out that Origa died yesterday
>She was the singer for songs from Ghost in the Shell

Maybe I should cosplay someone from that shoe. I feel sad now.

[Anonymous No.8064084]

>>8063444
No he doesn't, the fuck are you smoking? I pay almost every single time that we go out together.

>>8063475
The seifuku, of course.

[Anonymous No.8064086]

>>8063557
Milk is made for babies to grow incredibly fast in a short amount of time. It might be more nourishing and make you feel fuller due to the fat but milk still has more calories than soda - not that either make for good diet food. Don't recommend it to anyone cutting calories (same goes for cookies). Personally if I want to snack low cal I drink tea with a dash of milk and eat popcorn.

[Anonymous No.8064092]

>>8064073
MASSIVE FEELS WHEN I LEARNED THIS

[Anonymous No.8064096]

>>8064064
>I can't drive yet
>$100 plane ticket is expensive!
>Poop is embarrassing :(

You have to be 18 to use this site

I have IBS too and nobody thinks it's stupid, nobody thinks it's made up. You sound super underaged, and like an idiot on top of that.

[Anonymous No.8064100]

>>8064036
>>8064057
Lots of conditions and habits make people "prone" to gaining weight, it doesn't mean you necessarily will. I'm the one who lost 80 pounds, I don't think my lack of breakfast has much to do with anything.

[Anonymous No.8064114]

>tfw no lolita friends
>starting to feel like even non lolita friends are drifting away
>want to go to a meet up, but cant find my comm page where they plan meet ups and such
>probably woundnt go anyway and if i did i wouldnt say much bcs anxiety
>try to talk to family about lolita so i dont feel so alone
>sister is pretty much "lool, no 1 curr" about lolita
>mom dosent know enough about lolita to hold a full conversation with
>feeling lonley and sad bcs no friends to talk about frills with, and losing friends in general
im so lonely gulls, ive never even spoke to another lolita irl exept for one that works at my sisters job, but i dont ever see her often.
im so sad.

[Anonymous No.8064117]

>>8063622
What the fuck does light mean then? When does it ever mean sugary as fuck dough filled with chocolate chips and a glass of the most calorically dense drink there is? What planet are you from where these foods can ever be described as "Light"

[Anonymous No.8064119]

>>8063271
Have you tried just drinking a shitload of smoothies?

With added almond/sunbutter (no extra sugar)

Also for anyone trying to lose weight - please try to deduce a diet that fits your lifestyle. Not everyone has the same reactions from foods.

For example. If I want to lose weight I just drop all carbs save maybe 1-2 fruit a day and vegetables. (No starchy ones)

Hello to eating tons of eggs and bell peppers. Getting body fat low enough to show abs is super easy that way. (BUT IT SUCKS AAAASSS)

[Anonymous No.8064122]

>>8064114
Get over it man, find your community, make friends.
Woman the fuck up.
Make friends on here if you're too scared of irl friends.

[Anonymous No.8064125]

>>8064119
>Also for anyone trying to lose weight - please try to deduce a diet that fits your lifestyle. Not everyone has the same reactions from foods.
This. I have hypoglycemia, and while it's hard for me to gain weight with a normal diet, my roommate and I eat a lot of meat and that was starting to make me gain. But at the same time I can eat starches like nobody's business and lose weight at that. It's all about what works for you.

[Anonymous No.8064126]

>>8064117
In my language "light" means "a little amount of food that's enough to satiate you but not enough to make you stuffed or sleepy". I don't how to say it in english tho.

[Anonymous No.8064130]

>>8064114
Where do you live, anon? There might be a seagull from your local comm who can direct you to the meet ups.

[Anonymous No.8064134]

>>8064020
I have a crush on this guy I've only known through Facebook and we met today

[Anonymous No.8064138]

>>8064096

>Nobody thinks it's made up
>Nobody thinks it's stupid
>Expect everyone to learn how to drive

Wow how rude. I don't know about you but my family members think that IBS isn't a real thing and when I brought it up with my friends they used to make poop jokes around me all of the time. It's on par with my musophobia and mind you I had an ex bf who tried to throw a real life mouse on me because "Lol it's a fake phobia you need to get over it."

I'm 25 and it cost $100 to take the test here, if I pass or not. So sorry anon that I don't know how to drive yet.

[Anonymous No.8064141]

>>8064100
It depends on the person anon. I used to skip meals like breakfast and I lost weight but my friend who did the same thing ended up sluggish and prone to eating "big lunch/dinner," so it became counter productive.

It's stupid to talk about people's health on /cgl/ anyway because we anons don't know the person's eating habits.

[Anonymous No.8064142]

>>8064122
im trying real hard anon, when ever i try to talk to people i feel like i have to force myself in to the conversation or ill be forgotten, ya know?

>>8064130
atlanta area. does anyone know the active atlanta comm page? everything i find looks dead... maybe im blind...?

[Anonymous No.8064153]

>>8064064
You sure you have IBS C? Sounds like my D. I can avoid the random shitting by taking a fiber supplement at night so I have a full normal shit in the morning and avoiding trigger foods.

[Anonymous No.8064159]

>>8064153
I'm working on eating a raw food diet and see how that goes. The birth control I'm taking for hirsutism is also making me really constipated so it takes around thirty minutes or longer to have a BM.

[Anonymous No.8064160]

>>8064138
What fucking shithole state do you live in that charges $100 to take your driver's test? Also 25 is a pathetic age to still not have a license.

Most states have a license fee when you actually get your license, and it's like $20-$50.

Making jokes about IBS and thinking it doesn't exist are two different things. My friends all make jokes about poop to me too, but they understand that when I need to shit, I need to shit. No random stranger would stop you from shitting when you need to, because you'd end up shitting in their car otherwise. Everyone knows what it's like to have the shits. Even if you don't tell them, just say, "Wow so I have the shits and need to go now, please find a gas station ASAP."


OR, stop bitching, and get your fucking license already. If you think $100 is too expensive, you shouldn't be wasting your money at conventions anyway.

[Anonymous No.8064163]

>>8064159
Try upping insoluble fiber? I'm also on bc, and I can't eat a lot of insoluble fiber bc it makes me shit everywhere, but I'm D.

[Anonymous No.8064169]

>>8064160
You having a sandy vagina moment there anon?

[Anonymous No.8064186]

>>8064160
>$20-50

Not here. The License fee is $50-100 and some places more.

You see that's the point you're not getting anon. My friends made jokes about poop but they don't understand that I need to shit I got to shit. They told me point blank, "Stop making shit up," no pun. So sorry that my life isn't like your life and people in my inner circle are not understanding unless it applies to them personally.

>Complaining about venting on a feels thread.

Are you new?

[Anonymous No.8064193]

>>8064159
You're just full of illnesses, aren't you? Each response you've posted makes your story less and less believable.

[Anonymous No.8064201]

>>8064193
>Full of illnesses

What are you even talking about anon? This is the first time I've posted here. I usually avoid it because it either turns into a hugbox or a troll feast and most of the anons post things that have nothing to do with /cgl/.

[Anonymous No.8064207]

>>8063483
> "just" a cup of milk and cookies
> milk and cookies
And you say you don't know why you're not losing weight? And you think milk and cookies is diet food and skipping dinner is bad? Damn...

[Anonymous No.8064231]

>>8063430
Get better taste in anime Anon, Kill La Kill was awesome.

[Anonymous No.8064238]

>About to be 22 in a few days.
>Practically given up on getting a girlfriend because it's too hard.
>tfw my efforts now go to trapping/crossplay and am working out so that my legs look nice when wearing skirts.

pic related the answer I got from an 8-ball when I asked if I would ever get a qtπ gf.

Being cute feels nice but this is so sad.

[Anonymous No.8064253]

>>8064201
You just spouted off like four illnesses/psychological issues you have in a handful of comment. I'm not that anon, but you sound like a hypochondriac that fences in their entire life by what their disorder of the day is. People who have actual disorders like this find ways to get around them, and they don't usually use them as a throwback excuse for being anti-social. Your illness literally has zero impact on you making friends as long as you're not autistic or some kind of person who shoves their "being ill" in people's faces every other comment. I know people like that. They are the reason why they don't have friends.

[Anonymous No.8064257]

>>8064231
>Kill La Kill was awesome.
This and a TTGL reaction image
You're literally the cancer killing anime

[Anonymous No.8064259]

>>8064207

Actually, you'll lose weight either way assuming you have a calorie deficit.

That being said... anon, milk and cookies more then likely won't make you feel half as good as an apple, chicken breast, and green beans.

Seriously.

[Anonymous No.8064266]

>>8064257

I didn't know KLK and TTGL were killing anime... At least KLK's characters are very diverse...

>>8064231
And Ikki Tousen was awesome too but it isn't the anime that I'd exactly want my female friends to know I watch...

Eh... my feel when I can't argue that anime is riddled with moe sex blobs and practically naked fighting women...

My feel if anime ever got more normal.

[Anonymous No.8064272]

>>8064253
No I didn't. I'm not sure if you have ADD but I'm the anon from the previous threads who talked about hirustism and helped another girl with a similar condition, i.e. she has hair on her face, etc. My IBS causes me to have constipation regularly along with stress and my poor diet.

Seriously why do you think it's weird for a person to have multiple problems with them? News flash anon just because it never happened to you doesn't mean that it never happens or happened.

[Anonymous No.8064277]

> came of age this month so extended family decided to give me a lot of money to celebrate it
> managed to see one of the dresses that has been rotting in my closet
> a paycheck is arriving at latest next week
I suddenly have more money than I'm used to having at a time... I gave half to my parents to use it however, but I'm not sure how I want to use the rest of it. I guess I'll save a part of it, and use the other part to either buy burando or make a taobao order for cosplay supplies.

[Anonymous No.8064278]

>>8064266
Ignore that anon. KLK gets a bad image due to SJW and tumblr thinking it promotes rape and oppression or in some cases feminism.

I happen to like KLK and TTGL and remember when there was a thread about TTGL discussions daily.

[Anonymous No.8064282]

>>8063430
Yeah nah, fuck him and say no.
KLK annoyed the shit out of me and I couldn't get past the third episode. Worse yet is if it's the character I'm thinking of, you'd be boiling down your dignity in a slutty cosplay for an anime you don't even care about just so your boy toy can nudge strangers at the con and say "hurrhurr I fuck that xD" Gross.

[Anonymous No.8064283]

>Go out shopping
>Slap on some BB cream, mascara, eyeliner on my upper inner lid and lip gloss
>Try to be polite and smile at those who I make eye contact with, get told that makes me look "naive" and "young"
>First thing my sister who I haven't seen in years tells me that I still have my big, baby cheeks even after losing weight
>Get asked what grade I'm in/why I'm not in school when I'm out grocery shopping
>Today my mother tells me I look too young for my age and that I should make myself look older
>I can't ever make eye shadow look good on me, hate the look and I hate heavy makeup on myself

I'm 23. At first I thought it was great being told I look young, but it's terrible now. I get treated like a child when I'm out. I want to be seen as a woman, not a young girl. I don't wear "childish clothing", I try to have a more "mature" haircut because bangs make me look even younger, I keep my head up when I walk, etc. How do I make myself look older?

[Anonymous No.8064286]

>>8064272
You brought them up when it was 100% unnecessary. Nobody needed to know about your musophobia, nobody needed to know about your hirustism. Bringing them up unnecessarily makes you look like an attention whore.

[Anonymous No.8064288]

I have PCOS and holy fuuuuck does it suck. My periods are the worst, with really nasty cramps and bloating, and usually a lot of clots. Not to mention they last a good two weeks or more. And it always without fail starts the day before a con.

I've tried different birth control pills in varying doses and they just make shit worse. One made me gain like 30 pounds, and the one after that made me loose 40 because I kept throwing up. I'm just so fucking tired of this shit. I want to have a normal period. I don't want fucked up hormones. I WANT TO STOP GROWING A BEARD EVERY TIME I BLEED FROM MY VAGINA.

[Anonymous No.8064290]

>>8064277
> managed to sell
> parents for them to use it however they liked
I need to proofread before clicking post, not after goddammit.

[Anonymous No.8064291]

>>8064283
do you wear pink? stop doing that. also stop wearing lolita

[Anonymous No.8064300]

>>8064283
>wear makeup that makes you look young
>surprised when people treat you younger
Just don't cake on makeup. I get the same comments when I wear my foundation, eyeliner, and fake lashes too.

But when I tone it down and sparsely use concealer for pimples, blush, mascara, and maybe a bit of eyeliner in the corners of my eyes nobody says anything and I'm treated as a normal 23 year old.

[Anonymous No.8064302]

>>8063286

Hey. HEY!!! STOP IT! Stop stressing.

Your body cannot lose weight if your stressed out and producing stress hormones.

Your brother simply isn't affected by stress hormones in that aspect or lives a stress free life in some way.

You have to stop stressing or you will continue to balloon no matter what you do. So... find time every day to do what you enjoy and try not to worry about things.

Also... what medicine are you on, if you don't care that I ask. Some medications can cause massive weight gain, I know this...

[Anonymous No.8064304]

>>8064257
>Those shows killing anime
>Not moe waifu shit
Moe waifu shit is the cancer of anime.

[Anonymous No.8064309]

>>8064278
>If you don't like my shitty anime, you are literally Tumbublr!
Nope, you just have garbage taste. Sorry. Both those shows are literally just "lolsorandum bewbs xDD" for the lowest common denominator anime fans who need fanservice or some shitty attempt at "humor" in their face at all times, only to pretend they like it "ironically" or "for fun" to mask their latent shit taste.
You and anon are just trash

[Anonymous No.8064315]

>>8064291
I don't own anything pink and I don't even wear lolita. Today I wore black pants and a purple double breasted button winter coat.

>>8064300
I don't cake on my make up, but I didn't think that wearing simple make up made me look younger. I just don't look good with heavy make up.

[Anonymous No.8064316]

>>8064288

How would you feel about... no period. You could give the shot a try if nothing else has worked. I've been on it for 6 years, 6 years no period, and I'm doing pretty good health wise.

It, um, can go tragically though. So, I recommend it, but I know plenty of people who really wouldn't recommend it.

You could try it. If you have any side effects I'd stop immediately. I've never had a side effect from the shot sans no period, less acne.

I have to get certain things checked out every year though, which is an added cost.

[Anonymous No.8064319]

>>8064315
we can't really give you advice without pics

[Anonymous No.8064320]

>>8064316

Adding to that, the shot doesn't have the clotting and heart risks that most other forms carry and antibiotics don't affect its efficiency. Ask your doctor first.

It can make you infertile though.

[Anonymous No.8064327]

>>8064309

What's to like about it ironically?

I like sex, I like to have sex...

I don't mind sexy things in my anime.

Ain't nothing ironic about that. We are all adults.

[Anonymous No.8064336]

>>8064309
I never implied nor said that. You and I know both that KLK hate is bias due to tumblr.

What anime doesn't have fanservice? I can name several other anime shows worse than KLK but tumblr and the shitty cosplays of said anime ruined it for people in general.

>B-But I hate Kill la kill because it's not my favorite animu! My favorite animu should be cosplayed more

Go cry me a river anon. I never said it was AOTY just that I happened to enjoy it after I finished watching it.

[Anonymous No.8064343]

>>8064336
>You and I know both that KLK hate is bias due to tumblr.
No, it was literally just shit, especially the ending. Not everything is about Tumblr being retarded.
Fanservice itself isn't bad, but when it's 70% of the show and the remaining 30% is unfunny characters and occasional explosions, the show itself is certifiably bad.
>B-But I hate Kill la kill because it's not my favorite animu! My favorite animu should be cosplayed more
Literally who said that? I'm fucking glad my favorite animu don't get cosplayed by shitty plebs

[Anonymous No.8064347]

>>8064309
>KLK is literally just "lolsorandum bewbs xDD"

Confirmed for not finishing the series
Confirmed for not finishing the first half of the series
Confirmed for probably not finishing the first episode
Confirmed for probably not even watching the first episode and being an edgy contrarian who took offence to apparent fanservice and decided they had to hate something because it was popular on 4chan when it came out

[Anonymous No.8064351]

>>8064286
Holy shit, this. That's exactly what I was trying to say. People bring this shit into conversations where it is entirely unnecessary and it just screams to me of begging for attention. All it did was verify why this chick doesn't have real friends. I can't stand to be around people who pity party like this.

[Anonymous No.8064354]

>>8064343
>It was literally just shit.

Well that's your opinion anon but it doesn't mean that everyone else feels that it's shit or thinks it's shit

>70% of the show

No it's not.

>Unfunny characters

Mako is best girl. Get real

>Literally who said that

Apparently you. "I'm fucking glad my favorite animu doesn't get cosplayed." A bit bitter anon that nobody knows your animu but you?

[Anonymous No.8064362]

>>8064347
But that's bullshit. Here, I'll point out every other part of this anime that was shit
>Satsuki has some bullshit ass-pull keikaku literally every time something bad is happening to her
>Mako and her family literally only there for comic relief/to offset Ryuko's edginess, almost no character development
>Retarded twist that renders half the show that was spent on Ryuko wanting to fight Satsuki and the student council useless
>"I am neither human nor clothing" fuck off
>Senketsu dying for no apparent reason other than to inject sadness at the end where there literally was none
>Nuifags' existence
Oh and
>that retarded fucking episode where Mankanshokus actually get a taste of the good life but Ryuko gets asspained because she doesn't get her llively family dinners anymore, so she decides to fuck it all up, then THEY apologize to her despite the fact that none of these events would even have happened if she didn't make Mako do all the paperwork she was too lazy for herself

[Anonymous No.8064363]

>talking to department chair of my grad program to clear things up about spring semester
>it was allegedly going to be my last
>my program sucks and I'm so jaded about it that I just want my expensive piece of paper so I can get a full time job and resume doing shit I actually enjoy like lolita again
>also I need to move out of this jobless, uncultured wasteland

>prick, hard-ass "advisor" reminds me that for one LOUSY credit, I will probably have to finish in the summer
>when I'm also trying to move away from here
>didn't sign the fucking lease renewal to this apartment so I have until May
I'm just so fucking angry. I wanted to be done with these fucking shits for good and to be told I have to weigh down my plans for a fucking 1.5 credit hour (which will cost a good $1k) is fucking torture.

[Anonymous No.8064375]

>>8064316
>>8064320
People with PCOS can't take progesterone only BC, it causes more cysts to form.

[Anonymous No.8064377]

>>8064354
>Well that's your opinion anon but it doesn't mean that everyone else feels that it's shit or thinks it's shit
Some opinions are actually right, though
>No it's not.
Explain how it's not. Go ahead, I'm waiting for the DEEP.
>Mako is best girl. Get real
If you like your girls with ADHD.
>Apparently you. "I'm fucking glad my favorite animu doesn't get cosplayed." A bit bitter anon that nobody knows your animu but you?
Nice projection, but no.
>leaving out the "by shitty plebs" part to hide yourself
Kek

[Anonymous No.8064405]

>>8064377
>Some opinions are actually right though
Oh so I guess Death note was AOTY then? That's the point. Opinion is an opinion and like an asshole everyone has one but it doesn't have to be right.
>I'm waiting for the DEEP
I never said this anime was deep. I said that it wasn't 70% fanservice. What you posted in >>8064362 proves that you didn't bother to watch the whole show.

Satsuki doesn't do an ass pull every single time something bad happens to her. She was roflstomped by her own mother and even roflstomped by her own sister at one point which makes your post moot. Mako's character is being the best friend and making an edgy anime less edgy. She's best girl and she has proven to one of the strongest, if not the strongest, user in the whole show. A character that everyone assumed would die or do nothing turned out to be one of the best.

If you want to compare The Rolling Girls is exactly like this anime but with less fanservice.

>Leaving out the "by shitty plebs."

You never even pointed out what your animu was so I assumed nobody cosplayed it because you bitched about 'shitty plebs' like good cosplayers don't exist so that's why I left it out.

The point is you're butt hurt and projecting about a popular anime that gets cosplayed and your no name animu doesn't.

[Anonymous No.8064447]

>>8064405
>Oh so I guess Death note was AOTY then? That's the point. Opinion is an opinion and like an asshole everyone has one but it doesn't have to be right.
Not always, but some of them are right, just like some people have cleaner assholes than others.
> What you posted in >>8064362 proves that you didn't bother to watch the whole show.
But it does, which is proven by me mentioning the ending, you fucking retard.
>Satsuki doesn't do an ass pull every single time something bad happens to her.
>literally uses her toenail to summon help at one point
>"N-No asspulls!"
Nah
>Mako's character is being the best friend and making an edgy anime less edgy.
So you admit she's a useless character that's only there to offset the edge? Good, we're getting somewhere.
>A character that everyone assumed would die or do nothing turned out to be one of the best.
No, she still did nothing and your waifufaggotry will never prove anything.
>"Let's go on a date Ryuko :DDD"
This is not strength
>You never even pointed out what your animu was so I assumed nobody cosplayed it because you bitched about 'shitty plebs' like good cosplayers don't exist so that's why I left it out.
Most cosplayers are not good by any stretch of the imagination
How do you even know it's a "no name animu" if I haven't even mentioned it yet? I already called you out on projecting, too, you're literally projecting your own projection.

[Anonymous No.8064469]

>>8063253
>tfw lost 10 pounds in 2014
>tfw gained 8 of it back over the holidays

I just feel really disgusted with myself right now. If I can't manage to get thin by the end of this year I'm most likely going to kill myself.

[Anonymous No.8064488]

>>8064447
>Not always, but some of them are right, just like some people have cleaner assholes than others.

Yeah but it's still smelly and it's still an asshole. There is no such thing as a 100% clean ass or opinion.

>B-But it does prove I watched the whole series!

Then you wouldn't mention Satsuki pulling an asspull every single moment which shows that you obviously did not watch the whole show at a point and probably just read spoilers/knew about the ending.
>Ignoring the fact that Satsuki was beaten by two people
>B-But they don't count! She still pulled an asspull by her own mom and the OVA!
Kek
>No, she still did nothing and your waifufaggotry will never prove anything.
The fact that she saved the planet in the OVA due to her abilities AND Satsuki acknowledged her proved that she was one of the important characters. Not even being bias.
>Most cosplayers are not good by any stretch of the imagination
Hahahaahaha! You must be new here. There's a lot of good cosplayers depending on the series so unless you seen them all saying 'most' is a generalization. At least try harder.

>How do you know it's a no name anime
Because you won't even bring it up so it must be shitty and/or unknown if only shitty cosplayers do it. I mean just say it anon. Let it flow. Just admit you're pissed off about KLK and popular animu.

[Anonymous No.8064513]

>>8064488
>Yeah but it's still smelly and it's still an asshole. There is no such thing as a 100% clean ass or opinion.
But at least mine's not caked in shit :^)
>Then you wouldn't mention Satsuki pulling an asspull every single moment
She does.
>which shows that you obviously did not watch the whole show at a point and probably just read spoilers/knew about the ending.
That projection.
>You HAVE to liek my favorite show if you finished it! If you hated it, you obviously didn't really watch it!
Kek
>Ignoring the fact that Satsuki was beaten by two people
And still survived and/or was whiteknighted by the student council. Funny that.
>The fact that she saved the planet in the OVA due to her abilities AND Satsuki acknowledged her proved that she was one of the important characters. Not even being bias.
>watching the OVA
laughingwhores.jpg
>Hahahaahaha! You must be new here. There's a lot of good cosplayers depending on the series so unless you seen them all saying 'most' is a generalization. At least try harder.
Yes, the random photo of a decent cosplayer that gets posted here is an example of what's usually present at your average con. I think you're the one that's new.
>Because you won't even bring it up so it must be shitty and/or unknown if only shitty cosplayers do it.
But my point was that shitty cosplayers DON'T cosplay it, and even if it were unpopular, what does that have to do with your favorite animu (KLK) being garbage? Where did this popularity shit even come from?
I'm going to bed now, I wouldn't bother responding if I were you (though you probably will anyway). Remember: Both TTLG and KLK a shit and so are you

[smoker !HOZlQYR1MY No.8064532]

I should have nothing but bad feels, but I cant help but feelin good

[Anonymous No.8064545]

>haven't seen dream dress surface secondhand (at a reasonable auction/price) since it came out
>suddenly it's on mbok
>with the headbow
>at a decent starting pricepoint
AWWW SHIT NIGGERS HERE WE GO!

[Anonymous No.8064552]

>>8064084
>>8064084
sounds like a shitty bf tbh

[Anonymous No.8064561]

>>8064513
>:^)
Confirmed for being underage. Go back to tumblr or gaia online ya faggot.
>She does
I just prove two incidents that she didn't. At least prove that wrong. Oh wait you can't so that's why you ignored what I said.
>B-But she did
>mfw

>And she still survived
What's an asspull about that? I think you don't know what asspull means. Nobody dies but one character and he had a reason to die. His existence is counter productive because the aim of the anime show is to defeat the alien parasite clothes.
>Implying that the OVA isn't canon
>Ignoring the OVA because it's an OVA
The OVA is canon anon kek.
>Seriously did you even watch the whole anime or are you just being a tumblr faggot now?
Honestly you act like a SJW on the fact that KLK is so bad because it has fanservice. Dragon ball has fanservice. Death Note had fanservice. Get over it
>But my point was that shitty cosplayers DON'T cosplay it
>LOL shitty plebs cosplaying my shitty anon
Again what anime anon? I like how you are avoiding that subject kek. You scared I'm going to make fun of your no name anime or is it shit?

>Both TTLG and KLK and so are you are shit
Kek. Are you mad anon? Did I struck a nerve?
I bring up popularity because many times popular anime shows have shitty cosplays/overcosplayed/bring out the worse in fandoms. Marhvel/HS/Gundam Wing/AoT/KLK to name a few. You're bitching about two popular anime series so I assume that your shitty anime that you won't even mention (because boo hoo you're afraid that some anon is going to make fun of it,) isn't popular so you're hating/mad at the popular anime shows that do get cosplayed.

[Anonymous No.8064582]

>>8064561
>>8064561
not the other sperg you're arguing with, but you should kill yourself immediately

[Anonymous No.8064594]

>>8064582
Samefag is samefag....

[Anonymous No.8064599]

>>8064257
>>8064266
>>8064304
>>8064309
>>8064278
>>8064336
>>8064343
>>8064347
>>8064362
>>8064377
>>8064405
>>8064447
>>8064488
>>8064513
>>8064561
>>8064582
>>8064594

Get out faggots.

[Anonymous No.8064603]

>>8064594
>....
Newshits need to leave

[Anonymous No.8064629]

>>8064603
Not those other faggots but you're still a sperglord. You should just kill yourself or leave quietly.

[Anonymous No.8064635]

>>8063606
>calorific
Lmao I think you mean caloric. The other anon doesn't know what she's talking about, but apparently neither do you.

[Anonymous No.8064646]

>>8064629
>>8064603
>>8064599
>>8064594
>>8064582
>>8064561
>>8064513
>>8064488
>>8064447
>>8064405
>>8064377
>>8064354
>>8064343
>>8064347
>>8064336
>>8064309
>>8064278
>>8064266
>>8064257
>>8064304
Nice samefag

[Anonymous No.8064691]

>>8064257
>Bitching about KLK and TTGL
>Not bitching about idol anime shows like Idolmaster and Love Live.

[Anonymous No.8064700]

>be me
>be a surrealistically hairy guy (thanks genetics)
>tfw want to wear lolita
>tfw just lurking /cgl/ daydreaming about weating those dresses and assist to tea parties

[Anonymous No.8064709]

>>8064691
>complaining about idol shows
Nigga everyone likes those

[Anonymous No.8064714]

>>8064709
>Everyone likes those
>I don't

I don't like KLK or TTGL either but apparently the West does in cancer levels.

Idol shows are about cute moe girls doing cute moe things with lesbian/yuri hints. Nothing more.

[Anonymous No.8064741]

>>8064714
>weeaboos arguing with each other over trite cartoon bullshit

Everyone please, shut upppp. I'd rather read about relationshit problems than deal with this /a/nus faggotry.

[Anonymous No.8064750]

>>8064741
>on the anime costume/weeaboo street fashion forum on an anime website that is based on Japanese website, uses anime banners and has an anime mascot for 404 pages
>doesn't want to hear about anime or weeb shit
You might be in the wrong place

[Anonymous No.8064756]

>>8063611
yeah, I was previously diagnosed with hypothyroid but for some reason they leveled out. Maybe it's low again but the medicine never helped my weight anyways... weird.. I do have a verrrry small frame (5" wrists 24" ribcage for example) so it doesn't look *too* terrible but my back bones definitely poke out and it just looks terrible.

[Anonymous No.8064758]

>>8064741
>Wants to hear non related /cgl/ things in a /cgl/ thread.
>/Cgl/ is basically cosplay and lolita
>Cosplay is dressing up as anime and manga
>anime
>manga

[Anonymous No.8064783]

>tfw no one good will cosplay your husbando
>tfw you don't have a bf to cosplay your husbando
>tfw most people don't know who your husbando is.

[smoker !HOZlQYR1MY No.8064789]

>>8064783
Good's my name, don't wear it out.

[Anonymous No.8064794]

>>8064789
>Good's
>?

[smoker !HOZlQYR1MY No.8064797]

>>8064794
Good is*?

[Anonymous No.8064820]

>>8064797
The hell are you talking about? You high?

[Anonymous No.8064827]

>>8063398
aaaw thats so sweet anon! I'm happy for you.

[Anonymous No.8064828]

>>8064750
>>8064758
Fuck both of you. This 'muh tastes' shit belongs on /a/ and you damn well know it.

[Anonymous No.8064832]

>>8064789
Why would you even say that in the first place? I'm confused. You actually cosplay from Devil survivor 2?

[Anonymous No.8064839]

>>8064828
>Bitching about anime and manga in /cgl/
>Feels thread has nothing to do with /cgl/ or /egl/ half of the time
>Girls talk about their periods, sandy vaginas, and nothing to do with cosplay or lolita
>That's ok but anime drama isn't

Fuck off.

[Anonymous No.8064843]

>>8064839
>getting mad because I'd rather hear someone's life story than watch your petty back-and-forth about a cartoon
WEHHH.

[Anonymous No.8064844]

>>8064073
Aw no!! How she died??

[Anonymous No.8064856]

>>8064839
This animu drama shit has as much relation to /cgl/ as a girl complaining about having her period during a con, but at least period-chan doesn't drown the thread in her whinging. You're the one who should fuck off to /a/ if you want to continue your bickering.

> sage

[Anonymous No.8064861]

>>8064073
Oh man, and she had such an amazing voice too.

[Anonymous No.8064864]

>>8064552
Why? If he paid almost every single time they went out people wouldn't bat an eye.

[Anonymous No.8064866]

>>8064844
Lung cancer apparently.

Terrible news, I loved her voice.

[Anonymous No.8064868]

>>8064864
Since when was this about paying for food instead of asking someone to dress up in something they don't want to wear.

> just tell him no, OP

[Anonymous No.8064871]

>>8064864
I actually think individuals are kind of fucked if they let their partners pay for everything, regardless of gender, but never seem to show a conscious concern or gratitude for their partner's efforts. Relationships should be equal.

[Anonymous No.8064872]

>>8064868
When the response I was replying to was specifically talking about that situation? And it's not shitty to ask someone to do something for you, it'd be shitty if she told him no and he kept on bugging her, so I doubt Anon even cares about that part.

[Anonymous No.8064881]

>>8064871
This.

[Anonymous No.8064898]

>>8064871
Every relationship is different and it's kind of stupid to speak in broad terms like that. They should be equal, but one person paying for everything does not necessarily mean it's out of their own pocket, especially if they've a shared bank account or something similar.

[Anonymous No.8064899]

>forgot to put apartment number in address for a pair of circle lenses
>post office is cancerously bad
>tfw my package is probably gonna get sent back to hong kong and I won't have these lenses for the con I need them for

[Anonymous No.8064915]

>>8064073
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIVgSuuUTwQ

[Anonymous No.8064917]

>>8063256
Same here. I keep buying dresses but don't wear lolita out that much at all. Probably only like a handful of times a year.
And I don't have a comm anywhere near me so I don't have that route.

[Anonymous No.8064919]

>>8064899
>ordered lenses well early enough to get them for katsucon
>except it's been a month and they still haven't even shipped

HoneyColor has been five every other time I ordered from them, I doing know what happened.

[Anonymous No.8064923]

>>8063286
>I'm 5'3 and 136lbs

I feel like I look like a fat cow now.

[Anonymous No.8065014]

(jc all this shitposting)
>worked all weekend on cosplay for katsucon
>have high hopes for prop I'm working on
>everything else is coming together nicely

[Anonymous No.8065024]

>>8064843
Dude you're the one that said fuck me.

>>8064856
>Doesn't drown the thread in her whinging

Whining or complaining you mean. Also what about that one feels thread that had the seagulls arguing about if one anon should have kids in the future or not because she didn't have regular periods?

[Anonymous No.8065028]

>>8065024
whinge
(wĭnj, hwĭnj)
intr.v. whinged, whing·ing, whing·es Chiefly British
To complain or protest, especially in an annoying or persistent manner.

[Anonymous No.8065063]

>>8065028
>Watchoutwehaveabadassoverhere.jpeg

[Anonymous No.8065065]

>>8065063

[Ore No.8065080]

Never change /cgl/ never change.

It's good to be back. Too bad there isn't a mound of PT threads.

[Anonymous No.8065086]

>was finally at 98lbs last year (goal is to be 100)
>having eating disorder so feels pretty good
>decide to eat healthier foods
>go down to 88 lbs in two months
>wtf happened

[Anonymous No.8065161]

>>8064783
I know that feel anon
He's not obscure, but Kaiki cosplayers always look like hot garbage

[Anonymous No.8065216]

>tfw started a cosplay page about 5 years ago
>did alright, got 4000 likes or so
>stopped posting for about a year because lazy and whatnot
>now every time i post something it gets 1-10 likes, totally disproportionate to the number of likes i have
>it looks like I bought a bunch of likes
It's not like I can force people to unlike my page. What do.

[Anonymous No.8065226]

>>8065086
are you and i (>>8063271) twins? I went from 98 to 88 too. That 100 seems so distant now..

[Anonymous No.8065248]

>>8065086
Well, what do you define as 'healthier foods', anon? Like, if you're eating a lot of lettuce leaves, the bulk might make you feel full but you're not getting a lot of calories. Are you sure you're getting the protein and fats you need?

Good luck!

[Anonymous No.8065256]

>>8064756
Have you tried drinking tons of milk? Like instead of water with meals?
I'd be more than willing to trade for my shitty 32" ribcage... (5'6). My ribs fucking show on the sides and I run 15 miles a week but fuck my shitty footballer body...

[Anonymous No.8065257]

>>8065216
I think the longevity of your page would make it obvious enough to anybody with half a brain what's up.

[Anonymous No.8065282]

>losing weight for 8 months
> foot gets injured
> after about a week of rest, start doing elliptical and then move on to regular cardio after 3 weeks
> run for 3 minutes slowly in early January
> foot gets damaged
> probably cartilage
> been off of it for 2 weeks
> hasn't gotten much better

I'm going to the doctor tomorrow but it sucks. I can't so cardio for quite awhile and I was trying to join the service :(.

[Anonymous No.8065287]

>met a couple of pretty cool cosplayers
>seems to be really secretive and nervous of others
>found out they both have a shitton of old drama around them thus the reason they are skittish and weirder about things
>And I do mean a shitton.
>Not sure if should continue friendship and cosplay plans...

[Anonymous No.8065290]

>>8065256
lactose intolerant.. most unfortunate. I even hate the taste of soy and almond milk cause it brings back memories of drinking milk and throwing it up every time... I wonder if there's a way to sneak it in to smoothies, or something.

[Anonymous No.8065298]

I've been reading a discussion about tanning in another thread, which reminded me of something I need to vent about.
I don't like to tan, especially when I wear Lolita. It's my personal taste and I don't like how it looks with the style, plain and simple. But whenever I mention not wanting to tan to some people they ask me if I'm racist.
Why would not wanting to tan be racist?
Why does it matter what colour I like my skin to be?
Are you that insecure about yours that you yell "muh raycism" at everyone that doesn't prefer it?
Yet when people make fun of pasty girls and call them sick it's okay because they're white?

[Anonymous No.8065309]

>>8065298
my one and only question, are these people in real life that you know and care about, or are they randoms on the internet?

if it's the latter, stop caring before it's too late.

[Anonymous No.8065313]

>>8065298
You probably being it up in an instigative way or have too many tumblr friends. This isn't normal

[Anonymous No.8065320]

>>8065298

>wanting to be your natural skin color
>racist

wat

[Anonymous No.8065399]

>>8065290
Maybe if you got that one arm injection birth control? The girls I knew who had that always gained like 15-30 lbs.
My bf is really thin too (6', 125lbs) so I sympathize with you. Dem bony knee feels.
Good luck! I wish I had your problem but the grass is always greener, etc.

[Anonymous No.8065433]

>>8065309
>>8065313
Not friends exactly, some classmates. Most of whom are brown or darker toned themselves.

[Anonymous No.8065437]

>>8065298
I was only scrolling through but... I know these feels.

>>8065309
>>8065313
>>8065320

You'd be surprised. My mother's family is a bit dark, my father's is a bit more fair. We're mexican and I take after my dad's side of the family, so I'm naturally fair skinned. Mother always pokes fun at me and can actually be quite hurtful because you can just tell that she's not kidding. Goes on about how I look disgustingly sick and whatnot. I don't like tanning, I'm sorry... But that doesn't stop their venom. They've stopped saying these things to me for about two years now but those kinds of things stay.

[Anonymous No.8065482]

>>8065309
>>8065313
Not the original anon but this happens to me a lot, too, and only IRL from people who don't seem particularly tumblrtastic. I'm naturally very pale and it's common for people to ask me completely out of the blue, usually a week or two after they meet me, why I don't just get a tan. Responding with something as simple and honest as "I don't want to" nets me accusations of racism or shadism or whatever the hell, even though I never said anything about darker skin being bad. I'm fine with dark skin, I just don't have it.
I inherited my pastiness from my mother and all her life she's been tanning to look more 'socially acceptable'. Now she's in her 50s and the condition of her skin is a tragedy. The tan fades but the damage remains, and people often mistake her and my grandma for sisters. At least she's not racist, though!

Nowadays I just make up some shit about burning easily to keep these weirdoes off my back.

[Anonymous No.8065485]

>>8065320
I'm assuming that she's darker complected, and people are criticizing her for their perception that she is trying to stay "lighter" or is fond of "lighter complexions" because of her aversion to tanning. I've totally seen this argument in real life.

[Anonymous No.8065499]

>be me
>take pills
>start gaining weight because of water retention
>my breasts grow one cup bigger, I'm now DD
>have bigger butt
>everyone tells me I look sexy
>but I can't fit my burando
It does feel bad, man. I can't stop thinking about leaving lolita since I can hardly fit brand since it makes me boobloaf.

[Anonymous No.8065501]

>>8065499
>water retention

Fuck water, that shit weighs too much.

[Anonymous No.8065507]

>>8065485
No, I have a normal white girl skin tone. I can tan somewhat, I just don't want to. I don't like how I look with a tan.
But apparently being white with a normal skintone makes some people upset so they call ME racist.

[Anonymous No.8065509]

>>8065507
That is the most fucking retarded cry of racism I have ever heard, fuck this I'm going to go play some AA2

[Anonymous No.8065545]

After years of obsessing over it, I finally decided to start wearing lolita. I've been browsing lm and jauction sites for the past week looking for my "perfect first dress". I see plenty of dresses I like a lot and that I would love to wear, but I think I'm still intimidated, and scared to take the plunge. I'm pretty sure I'm overthinking it.
>Should I be paying that much for my first dress?
>What if I lose interest?
>What if my coord looks like shit?
>What if I look like shit?
>Should I start a wardrobe with a plain jsk or an intricate print?
Maybe I've just spent too much time on /cgl/. It's helped me get a good grasp on the fashion, but made me pretty critical of others, and myself too, I guess.

I even joined my local comm's group on fb. I looked through some of the pictures from their meets and they look so nice and like they're having so much fun. I wish I wasn't so scared of fucking up.

[Anonymous No.8065576]

>>8063597
How is sleeping on your stomach bad for you?

[Anonymous No.8065647]

Can I just fucking say how much I hate it when you find a "cosplayer's" tumblr and look through their "my cosplay"-tag and it's ALL "wig&makeup test" photos. No costumes spare for a couple of bought ones, just pre-styled character wigs with circle lenses and generic makeup. I mean I was expecting WIP photos and photoshoots and all I get is some kid tilting her head as a generic anime character #44545. Why bother when you can get 400 notes anyway by not going through any effort at all.

[Anonymous No.8065663]

>>8065507
>tfw have been reprimanded for wanting to get rid of my dark elbows and knees for the same reason
kill me

[Anonymous No.8065679]

>>8065507
Instead of saying "I don't want to tan" just say "I burn easily" or "I don't want sun damage" or "I like the vintage aesthetic, like Dita von Teese". It's fucking ridiculous if people link it to racism. You must be living somewhere super PC and waaay too liberal. Just make it about skin health instead of color and people will leave you alone.

Or move to Asia. Here everyone will fawn over your pale skin and sympathize if you want to hide under parasols and hats. Unless you have freckles. That's not cute.

[Anonymous No.8065743]

>>8065545
Everyone makes mistakes when they first start something new and you just have to live with it. People will probably criticize you for your mistakes. It simply can't be avoided and will happen. The thing you need to do is learn from the criticism and better yourself, listen to each and last detail wrong with your coord and fix it for the next time. Snarky comments can be taken as offending your very soul and family, or you they can be taken as something to help you avoid them for the next time. Brutally honest feedback feels bad and hurts your feelings, but you can always show you can do better instead of withdrawing back to your comfort zone.

And that's why I hate all these "I'm too afraid to start wearing lolita/cosplaying because of all the drama and my feelings might get hurt!!11" complaints. Rule one: don't be an asshole, and don't make friends with assholes. Rule two: take criticism to heart and learn from it. I've followed these two rules for years and I've always managed to avoid drama.

[Anonymous No.8065754]

>tfw huge britbong arse

I already own both shorts and skirts, I didn't need that cute pleated axes femme shorts-skirt with the pockets anyway...

[Anonymous No.8065763]

>>8065298
I can relate to this too well. And sadly in my case it's mostly irl people telling me I need some tan.
I have blonde hair and really pale skin which I inherited from my russian father. It's not even very uncommon to be pale in my country (Germany), but apparently I'm a few shades too pale for people to leave me alone.
I can't properly tan anyway, but everyone still wants to comment on it, how I look sick and shouldn't hide from the sun as if they were caring about me. Even my mom mentioned it recently, which made me pretty mad; after 21 years she should know that I'm fine with my skin tone.
But still I get "oh, you should dye your hair again, so you don't look so sick!", random dudebros insulting me on the street, random asian girl almost falling of her seat at McD's because I wear shorts and people assuming I'm sick just because I don't wear make-up.
It's really annoying, sometimes I wish I lived in asia, they at least have make-up in my skin tone.

[Anonymous No.8065771]

>>8065754
>tfwiktf
>I-I didn't want those cute ETC shorts anyway!
Anything that is close-fitted at the hips or has a low waist is a lost cause for me. I guess you can keep your tiny-ass (literally) shorts, Japan! I'll just wear anything and everything else.

>>8065763
>I wish I lived in asia, they at least have make-up in my skin tone
I once came across someone with a nutbag theory that white people's skin didn't naturally lighten due to low intensity sunlight/need for vitamin D but that we're all descendants of Africans with albinism and therefore inherently faulty and malformed. When asked what about light skinned East Asians, who can be lighter than the average white person, professor nutbag could not be reached for comment. It was pretty funny.

>tfw food Captcha again

[Anonymous No.8065784]

>>8065771
>have genetic mutation
>therefore inherently faulty and malformed
It's like he skipped biology lessons.
And what about the albino Europeans? Double malformed?

[Anonymous No.8065796]

Right now I'm wondering, if doing anything is even worth it.
>used to be fat as a child, then pick up dance and loose extra weight
>then diagnosed with lymphoma (I hope it's correct name in English)
>due to medication and lifestyle changes gained a lot of weight, no hair, strech marks at age 10, no growth (as it turned out later, pernamently)
>back to being healthy, but again fat, couldn't pick up dancing again, because it's hard to find a partner
>at age 16 diagnosed with lymphoma again
>again no hair, weight gain (to the point of being severely obese), weird skin problems (extreme sunburns, no more taning), veins burst even at a smallest pressure (like sitting in one position for to long)
>back to health, but severely depressed, no motivation to take care of apperance
>becoming interested first in j-rock, then visual kei, then j-fashion
>"I can do it!" steadily loosing weight, learning how to dress, do make up. etc.
>now dressing daily in himekaji, sometimes hime gyaru, has decent wardrobe, not popular online, but always getting complements
>at age 23 probably diagnosed with lymphoma again
I didn't go to hospital yet, but symptoms are the same, also all test point in this direction. I really worked hard to get to this point, I'm about to get a degree (I had many problems to finish school in the right time for my age), recently started working and supporting myself. I have couple of friends, but our relationship will deteriograde with me confined either in hospital or in my parents' apartment. Literally my closet full of cute stuff I won't be able to wear will all to be left.

[Anonymous No.8065797]

>>8065784
Idk man. It was a black woman who seemed desperate for a biological argument as to why white people are all teh ev0ls (because albinos are evil y'know, it was in the Da Vinci Code so it's true). When other black people responded with even the slightest hint of cynicism she'd accuse them of internalized racism. I kind of hope it was just a very very dedicated troll.
Anyway I am reminded of this every time I have to order bb cream from Asia because evil albino European mutants don't make foundation light enough for my evil pasty self. And I'm not even one of those doubly-malformed albino-albinos.

[Anonymous No.8065799]

>tfw plateaued over xmas
>kept going solely because of my 100+ day logging streak in myfitness pal
>losing weight again

thank you logging tracker you saved my waistline

[Anonymous No.8065807]

>>8065799
How does myfitnesspal keep track of the amount of trees you cut down? Never seen that option in the app.

[Anonymous No.8065814]

>>8065807
>huehuehuehue

[Anonymous No.8065815]

>>8065807

[Anonymous No.8065816]

>>8065807

[Anonymous No.8065822]

>>8063611
>5'4"
>88 lbs
>ok
dude... no.. that's so underweight. I'm around the same height but 20 pounds heavier, and people already call me underweight

[Anonymous No.8065839]

>>8065399
People with eating disorders can't take progesterone only birth control because it carries an increased risk of suicide. Are you the same person suggesting this every time? It's not a miracle cure all, it's a last resort for people who have contraindications (Migraines, blood clot risk) for the combined pill.

[Anonymous No.8065843]

>>8065576
Makes your breast tissue migrate into your armpits, and it can cause permanent damage to your neck and back.

[Anonymous No.8065895]

>>8065839
Is birth control with migraines that bad? I have migraines and am on a combined pill, but it's really not an option for me to go off it

[Anonymous No.8065896]

>>8065843
>>8065843
I can confirm the back part of this. I tend to get a sore back after sleeping on my front, but I have a lot of trouble sleeping, and it's the only way I can fall asleep.

[Anonymous No.8065906]

>dream dress on mbok
>auction ends sometime tomorrow
>the day before it was a reasonable bidding price
>now it's spiked by 20,000 yen
>10+ bidding war
>don't even want to contact bidding service yet because I'm too afraid of being disappointed
>theoretically I could pay extra for the dress
>but it would have to go on credit
>I have a big problem paying that much above retail price
>tfw

[Anonymous No.8065921]

> eyeing this dress for a week now
> waiting for paycheck so I can pay for it
> gets paycheck
> dress is gone
Fuckkkkkkkkkk.

[Anonymous No.8065958]

>>8065921
>AatP restock white parasols
>Place order, form is accepted first time, yissss
>Wake up today
>"Sorry, we couldn't accept your order as your address was incomplete"
>wtf no it wasn't
>Go to resubmit order
>PARASOLS GONE

fffffffuuuuu-

[Anonymous No.8065987]

>Waited since November for a Chess Story dress
>Arrives today
>Super short
>Bad embroidery
>Pulled thread on the bodice

Dammit, I've already had a bad week. This just breaks my heart.

[Anonymous No.8065988]

>>8065895
It's not that it makes them worse, it's that having migraines means you're already at higher risk of having a stroke, and birth control ups your risk massively. If you start having migraines on the pill after previously never having them they'll take you off it immediately.

[Anonymous No.8065993]

What's with weebs and wa lolita anyway ? I had to deter two persons from doing it just today, two girls who knew next to nothing about kimono and lolita.

[Anonymous No.8065996]

>>8063558
>5'7"
>tower over most girls in comm if I wear anything with a heel
>baby faced
>look ridiculous in any style
>same goes for cosplay, too tall for cutesy characters, too baby faced for anyone else

[Anonymous No.8066018]

I feel like the girls in my comm judge me for not having many main pieces. I've been into the fashion for about two years and only have six mains (bought and sold a couple others in between, I guess). It's because I genuinely don't like a good majority of dresses. I love the style, and when I find a print or cut I like, I'm absolutely in love with it. I'm much happier having tons more blouses and accessories and everything else to make a lot of coords with the handful of main pieces that I love, but girls in my comm only register the main piece, it seems, and a couple have made kind of negative comments about seeing me in the same dresses/skirts over and over. Ugh.

[Anonymous No.8066032]

>>8065988
Oh, uh oh. I've been on the pill so long though that I think the migraine thing isn't because of it, but just natural.

[Anonymous No.8066037]

>>8065993
The more it reminds them of Glorious Nippon the better!

>>8066018
I'm kind of in the same situation. The majority of my main pieces are quite plain because I like them to be simple and versatile and only a handful really stand out. I have tons of blouses and tights and shoes in various styles and colours that I use to switch it up but nobody seems to care about that. A few months ago a girl outright ask me "didn't you wear the same outfit last time?" when a) no, it was a completely different dress last time and b) the last time I did wear that particular dress it was with all black gothy pieces whereas I'm now wearing it with ivory classic pieces. Apparently though same dress = same outfit.

[Anonymous No.8066062]

>>8063427
It is super annoying at times, technically there is a lot of good qualities on my face but my ideal have been so warped because of the fashion I like. Being 5"11 isn't exactly helping either. I guess it is the same in your case as well?
I also have super low self-esteem because of my stupid facial shape, I rarely talk about it though except when I can rant about anonymously. It's sort of useless to talk with friends about it since wtf are they supposed to do about it? Compliment fishing isn't exactly my thing.

[Anonymous No.8066068]

>>8066018
>>8066037
I think personally that having pieces that are versatile is really important and making multiple coords out of them is really impressive. It's better than having just one outfit for one dress because that gets boring fast.

I hope you guys keep doing what you are doing!

[Anonymous No.8066078]

>>8066068
I will, anon!
Tbh with big meetups and the online comm it's easy to lose sight of the fashion aspect of the fashion. When it's something you wear regularly it's not very convenient to have a wardrobe with a majority of big bold statement pieces and few versatile ones. Someone on here once made fun of me for having more than five blouses when I only had about seven main pieces but to me it's like, if my only white blouse is in the wash what else am I supposed to wear?
Sometimes I'm trawling Closet Child and I come across a beautiful print OP that I know is very popular with Western lolitas and I'm tempted to buy it, but then I realize I only have one or two opportunities per year to wear something like that. And like anon said, if you wear the same main piece to every event people will start to complain. So to me, big standout pieces aren't worth it in the long run because I'd rather spend my money on a cute versatile everyday wardrobe than on popular pieces that other people probably like more than I do.

That's just how I do it, anyway. Some people only get to wear lolita a few times a year and prefer to go all out. That's cool too.

[Anonymous No.8066080]

>>8064186
Next time it happens, just drop ass on the floor in front of your friends. Assert dominance.

[Anonymous No.8066091]

>>8066078
>tfw you read this whole post in Obama's voice

[Anonymous No.8066129]

>>8064073
WHAT. WHAT. ARE YOU SERIOUS?? NOOOO. Oh my god sorry for the all caps I'm just so sad over this oh nooo.

[Anonymous No.8066132]

>boyfriend wanted to make my cosplay for me so it would match his in terms of quality
>also decided to make another friend's
>the con is this week
>none of the costumes are done
>not supposed to touch mine until it's time to paint
>will probably have to paint the day of the con

I wish he'd let me help sand them, at least. He's too much of a control freak, though.

[Anonymous No.8066143]

>tfw no lolita wife
>tfw no one to twin with forever
>tfw no one to start our own tiny comm with
>tfw no one to bake with
>tfw no one to decorate the frilliest home with
>tfw no one to tell me "girl you already have nine strawberry rings, you need to stop."

why live

[Anonymous No.8066202]

>>8065298
>>8065507
>>8065437
>>8065482


It's ridiculous, isn't it? I'm super pale too and generally I just tell people that I am trying not to have skin cancer because if I step in the sunlight without wearing an SPF 80 sunblock, I will turn fucking magenta. And getting sunburnt isn't fun.

[Anonymous No.8066206]

>>8065796
I'm so sorry, anon. Do your best. Your cute clothes will be waiting for you when you get better again.

[Anonymous No.8066213]

>>8065822
>5'6
>98 lbs
>no change ever despite diet changes everywhere, birth control that should have made me gain, etc.

Underweight doesn't have to mean unhealthy, anon. It depends on the means used to get to that weight (in my case, fucking none) and if they still have a healthy diet.

>>8065988
Progesterone birth control has a significantly decreased instance of stroke, though. I can only be on that type because my mother had a stroke while on combination BC and I also have migraines, doc told me it's much safer.

[Anonymous No.8066221]

>>8063357

Do heavy deadlifts, get a nice ass to match your boobs. Cures your back pain as a bonus.

[Anonymous No.8066223]

>>8066213
I was only taking about combined BC increasing the risk of stroke, anon. If you follow the thread back I stated that progesterone only is the second option for people who can't take CBC due to stroke risk.

[Anonymous No.8066224]

>>8065839
Since she is actively trying to put on weight, it doesn't sound like she has ED.
She also probably would have mentioned it considering where we are.

[Anonymous No.8066230]

>>8066224
My bad, I got them mixed up 'cause of this post >>8065226
Sorry anon.

[Anonymous No.8066275]

I've got the dress from a lucky pack arriving soon, and I promised myself that I would sell it and not wear it once, but I can already feel my resolve breaking. Especially knowing it won't even sell for a nice number.
Be strong, me.

[Anonymous No.8066282]

>>8066078
I respect you and wish for such harmony in my own wardrobe one day.
The comm aspect can really over shadow things, I feel tempted to buy stuff all the time just because other people have new things. I think at this point I've spent as much as on the meets as on dresses.

>>8066143
If I lived somewhere with no preexisting comm I could harbor hope that we lived near, but I don't.
Anon i wish you luck, I also want my own lolita bestie that lives close.

[Anonymous No.8066292]

>>8064839
At least that's feels related!

[Anonymous No.8066345]

>>8065226
That weight gain struggle

[Anonymous No.8066348]

>>8065248
I tried eating less red meat and more alternate forms of protein. Maybe I just need to eat red meat again with other protein on the side.

[Anonymous No.8066356]

>>8064839
This is so true, the feels thread rarely ever has anything cgl related in it and /a/shit is still a lot closer to cosplay than periods and depressions are to lolita.
Stop the hypocritical whining fellow lolis.

[Anonymous No.8066372]

>$15 shoes
>"could you hold them for me?"
>sure yeah how long
>"I'm trying to sell some stuff, I'll let you know!!!

>"Would you trade for x?
>sure, no problem, when will you be able to ship?
>"Oh well lol actually I'm away at school so I can't until fucking three months from now."

Why are cosplay sales so fucking awful

[Anonymous No.8066386]

>live in the nyc area
>really lonely
>have friends but they are all normalfags
>envious of weebs that have friends that share their interests
>only friends that share my interests are online friends that live in another country

I just want a cute seagull to hang out with ;_;
P-please respond if you're interested.

[Anonymous No.8066393]

>>8066356
>periods
That can actually affect your health and general looks. Not to mention having your period when in lolita/cosplay can be a major bitch and a half and there are tons of related horror stories pertaining to that.
>depression
Again that can affect your motivation to finish cosplays or your ability to make money for lolita.

Stop trying to justify your shit you autistic weeaboo faggot :^)

[Anonymous No.8066405]

>>8064302
I'm in some sort of super strong doxycicline which has a shitton of weird side effects.
>>8064923
Don't worry you are cute and I love you

[Anonymous No.8066419]

>>8066393
Nice try faggot. Almost took the bait, but you didn't rustle my frills enough.

[Anonymous No.8066421]

>>8066405
>tumblrtard detected

[Anonymous No.8066430]

>>8066345
the struggle is real
>tfw practically skeleton now
>i hardly fucking eat because i just sit around at the computer not doing shit
>clothes are fitting more and more loose
>the skeleton trapped inside me is starting to win
>mfw
fuck
time to pig out on chicken i guess

[Anonymous No.8066431]

>>8063398
does he wanna wear lolita with you or ouji, or aristocrat?
I think guys who are willing to wear lolita with their gfs (as long as they put in the effort/arent ageplay-y or ita about it) are really cute

I also just have a thing for cute boys wearing girl clothes though, so...

[Anonymous No.8066482]

>moved to Croatia last year
>no more cons every 3 months
>can't even see my old friends
>cosplayers here are all naruto shit and my school is full of retarded weeaboos
I managed to go to a few cons in the last two years and that's it, I just hope to go away from this place as soon as possible

[Anonymous No.8066493]

>>8066430
Are you me? At one point in the past few months I was just at 80 lbs and I could see all my ribs.

[Anonymous No.8066518]

>>8066493
>80 lbs
jesus that's brutal. How tall are you?

I'm just 115 at 5'5 which isn't too bad, but still i feel like i'm all bones with a bit of muscle slapped on there. And when I lay down oh god my ribcage sticks right out, it's terrifying.

I guess time to chow down on massive bowls of teriaki chicken because fuck i could eat that shit forever

[Anonymous No.8066532]

>>8066518
>>8066430
Have you tried not eating chicken but pork instead? I often hear people complaining about not being able to gain weight but what they do eat is like diet food for others. Like chicken, rice and salad. Even if you don't enjoy the taste of heavy food you can make yourself get used to it (like fatties have to do the other way round). Medical conditions excluded.

[Anonymous No.8066533]

I've been working on drafting a pattern today and my son and nephew won't stop arguing over Minecraft and everything else. The math for pattern drafting is pretty simple, but the application of said math for correct shaping and whatnot is the hard part and I can't fucking think straight. I ended up giving up and now I have a headache. I'm going to take a break and play video games.

[Anonymous No.8066543]

I fucking hate when people reblog my shit on tumblr and remove my blog as the source and/or remove my comments. I try really hard not to be too chatty or opinionated on my blog and especially on my photo posts so that people aren't tempted to remove what I say because they want to avoid reblogging a wall or text or something they disagree with. If you think comments make your blog "ugly" or whatfuckingever, there are literally hundreds of themes available where you can hide them. There's no reason to do it, it's so fucking disrespectful.

[Anonymous No.8066549]

>>8066543
Sometimes I want the comments to be visible with what I'm reblogging so the context makes sense. Just outfits pictures or something, I'm probably going to erase text because unless it's adding something important, it's ugly. I never erase sources though.

[Anonymous No.8066557]

>>8066549
I remove text when it's unrelated and/or obnoxious. I don't really give a shit, everyone can click through to the original post.

[Anonymous No.8066591]

>really annoying acquaintance on my fb posts this cool trip to Japan contest
>it's a couples-only contest
>feel like I could win
>get really hyped
>go to read the rules with the bf
>bf suddenly cringes
>"I don't have my passport, anon"
>contest ends at the beginning of february
>audibly shriek at him out of frustration
>he cowers
>mfw
I can't believe he's 24 and he doesn't have a fucking passport or driver's license. Good thing I drive or else he'd be really fucked. I'm forcing him to go to the DMV at least to sign up for the test. It's so fucking absurd that I lose out on an opportunity because of him.

And I wouldn't be so mad about it if we didn't have this passport talk at least two months ago. He could have had one by now.

[Anonymous No.8066592]

>Be tall (over 174cm last checked)
>22 with a mature/elegent face
>mfw I'll never be a kawaii lolita without looking like a lanky giant
>discover vintage dresses
>everything is tea-length
>garters, cuban stockings and pettis? wow holy shit
>start getting really into it
>compliments everywhere
>feel elegant and beautiful like I always wanted
>still stalk /cgl for perfect pettis and outfit ideas

I'm so happy

[Anonymous No.8066598]

>fail at human interaction
>again
>had an hard week
>snap, curl into a ball and cry
>bitch slap myself
>decide to write a blog post to be productive and not a worthless piece of shit
>new messages
>shitposting anon telling me how ugly I am and that I should hang myself
>curl up in a corner and cry again

[Anonymous No.8066605]

>huge cyst on back
>try to drain it
>fail and scrape the top off
>drains on its own after a few minutes of wriggling against my chair

feels fucking good man

[Anonymous No.8066618]

>>8066598
Sorry you've had a lousy week anon, I know that feeling. Don't take anon hate to heart, it's usually just a case of them being bored and you being in the wrong place at the wrong time. If you want to do that stuff without risk of drive-by trolling, maybe try keeping a private diary of some kind instead? It's still productive, since you're still working on your writing or scrapbooking or whatever form your blog posts take, but nobody's going to come after you for it.

[Anonymous No.8066622]

>>8066605
>cyst juice all over your chair

(sounds satisfying as fuck otherwise, though)

[Anonymous No.8066637]

>>8066618
I know I shouldn't take it so seriously, but as I'm so bad with human interaction I always feel like I made something for it to happen to me, especially since it's not the first occurence. Maybe I did without even noticing. I don't want to hurt anyone, I'm just...not good. When I stop watching myself I make tons of mistakes and I know I sound too blunt sometimes.
I don't have a lot of irl friends, so the point of a blog to me is to share things with the community. Doing things by myself is half the fun, or I'd be a full-time lone lolita. Thanks for your support anyway anon.

[Anonymous No.8066648]

>>8066605
My mums in hospital waiting to find out if the cyst she had removed in cancerous or not.
Part of me is really happy you no longer have to deal with a pain in the ass cyst anymore, part of me is jealous because my poor lovely mum is trapped in that wretched hospital.

Please be careful with future cysts though, keep it clean and don't risk giving yourself a nasty infection anon.

[Anonymous No.8066670]

>>8066549
>>8066557
I never got why you wouldn't just reblog from the post before the comment. It's a win-win on both sides and takes only a couple of clicks.

[Anonymous No.8066678]

>>8066605
How do guys get such huge, disgusting back cysts? I've never heard of a woman getting one of these; is it genetic or do you just have poor hygiene?

[Anonymous No.8066684]

>>8066678
>woman

[Anonymous No.8066742]

>am best friends with this girl who has OCD and bipolar disorder
>have very bad anxiety and suffer from all the symptoms of AvPd, but have never been diagnosed with anything (or seen a doctor)
>she allowed me to try some of this medication she was supposedly weened off of a while ago
>"If you die, it's not my fault, anon"
>it actually works, though not extremely well
>"That's probably because it's not strong enough for you"
>she refused to give me another pill, but I might get one tomorrow
>I don't know what it's called, though she compared it to morphine jokingly
I know this is not okay and we could both get in serious trouble, but I'm in a position that makes getting mental help on my own kind of impossible (ie living in a third world country with religious parents who literally think mental illness is demonic possession, and pretty much no reputable mental health facilities to begin with. friend lived in burgerland as well as the UK, and has been diagnosed and treated there since she was little). I'm just glad I've found something that helps.

[Anonymous No.8066756]

>>8066421
>shocked that a board full of womanchildren is infested by tumblrinas

nice autism

[Anonymous No.8066759]

>>8066493
please be my girlfran

[Anonymous No.8066766]

>>8066591
>he's 24 and he doesn't have a fucking passport
i-is that common? having a passport? I don't have one and neither do any of my friends as far as I know and we're in our 20's... who that age really has the money to travel outside the states?

[Anonymous No.8066772]

>tfw saving up for fanime and moving out
>living with bf and his mom because parents are crazy
>decide to nix fanime because I want to move out asap because bf's mom's bf is a passive aggressive douche and living here is uncomfortable enough without him
>haven't eaten in a few days because he bitches when something he also eats runs out and he wasn't the one who finished it
>about to start a store envy to sell a lot of my stuff so that I can leave this place faster

I'm very surprised that a 50 year old man can be such a bitch about everything. Though I shouldn't be since he watches Bravo.

[Anonymous No.8066779]

>>8066772
>50
>lives with mom
srsly?

[Anonymous No.8066780]

>>8066766
>>8066766
It's pretty much only if either

a) Your family goes to some far off vacation spot

OR

b) You go to where your parents really came from

It's not really common for most people to travel out of the country without either of those reasons.

[Anonymous No.8066783]

>>8066742
damn anon, that sucks so much. Have you tried some natural medications for anxiety? It's not really as effective but at least it's something and it's legal. You can try Kava, Valerian root, drink chamomile, and also doing yoga/meditation really helps along with fresh air and exercise. You'd really be surprised how much this stuff helps, of course in severe cases it's not gonna be a 100% fix but it should help you feel a little better

[Anonymous No.8066788]

>>8066779
I'm pretty sure anon is talking about the mom's bf.

[Anonymous No.8066791]

>>8066549
>>8066557

Both of you are shitholes, fyi.
If you want your blog to fit your shitty ~aesthetic~, create your own content. Otherwise, respect the person who created that content, it's not that hard.
(Though if the OP is just reposting someone else's shit don't fucking worry about it because they're shit too).

[Anonymous No.8066794]

>>8066493
>>8066430
>>8066345
i'm kind of pleased to hear i'm not the only one struggling with that, even though it sucks. There should be weight gain support groups like there are for weight loss

[Anonymous No.8066804]

>>8066794
>There should be weight gain support groups like there are for weight loss
I'd be all over that, holy shit.

>5'7
>98 lbs
>squishy skinnyfat with sudden bursts of skeletor
>not at all kawaii

[Anonymous No.8066815]

>>8066557
>>8066549
both of you are the reason i have to scrawl my url across my art and make it look ugly as fuck.
i'd rather it not get reblogged (because apparently a small couple of words does that to people) than it go around without source.
cunts.

[Anonymous No.8066817]

>>8066804
I think Skeletor is kawaii, anon.

[Anonymous No.8066826]

>First time wear Lolita outside my house.
>Instantly be made fun of by comm in my area.

well then.

[Anonymous No.8066828]

>>8066779
my bf is 23 future MIL's bf is in his 50s

[Anonymous No.8066834]

>>8066826
Are you ita or are they catty? Or both?

[Anonymous No.8066838]

>>8066783
I usually have to be alone and get the chance to calm (or distract) myself, bang on hard surfaces and/or meditate if I'm having an anxiety attack. It helps a lot but it's not always an option since I've stopped being a shut in.
Yoga seems like a good idea, though I'm not sure where to start.

[Anonymous No.8066847]

>>8066815
>>8066791
Everyone can see the source just by a bit of clicking, stop getting mad over nothing

[Anonymous No.8066861]

>>8066804
same, i'm just a skinny blob. I would feel so much more motivated to eat better and work out if there was somewhere we could be sharing progress and meals and shit, this must sound really selfish but it seems easier to be motivated when there's a little bit of competitiveness

[Anonymous No.8066866]

>>8066815
oh my god, I've literally had people crop out my water marks, and reupload without a source. What the fuck is wrong with people

[Anonymous No.8066885]

>>8066847
You're like that one person who wears a commissioned costume to a craftmenship contest and then demands the person who made the costume to be grateful that you won a prize for their work.

[Anonymous No.8066899]

>>8066885
That's not the same at all. If you are literally reblogging something from the source, then the origin of that thing is just a fucking user name away. If not that, there's a source button. If not that, anyone who wants to find out who is behind that lovely artwork or photo or text post can just click through the posts until they find the source (I've done this multiple times, it's not hard, though it gets frustrating when you find the original poster deactivated or changed URLs without a fucking trace).
You are not winning a prize for reblogging shit but removing some random text. You are not getting fame or money.
Outright reposting, on the other hand, is undeniably shitty.
Stop taking Tumblr so seriously.

[Anonymous No.8066929]

>>8066834
Catty, I've been lurking enough to safely say i'm not Ita. I've posted my stuff places before and never got the half harshness of those girls in the comm.
It really makes me understand lone lolita's more and more.

[Anonymous No.8066996]

>>8066899
When you're sourcing someone for a costume, you are also just giving out their name and possibly URL. Anyone who wants to find out who made the costume just has to ask you, granted if you're not too big of a dick. What you're doing is taking someone else's work and censoring their thoughts on it, because you deem it 'unaesthetic'. And you have the gale to be offended when people, such as the few anons upthread, find it preferable to have their posts not reblogged than reblogged in an unintended format. Asking to keep a few words is not an outlandish request.

Of course, it's less rude when its not the comments of the original artist... but nonetheless still rude. It's basically saying 'Thanks for being excited about showing this thing to me, but your excitement is annoying and you're cramping my style'. Like, nothing wrong with finding someone's comments annoying, but at least have the decency of not shoving that thought in their face.

[Anonymous No.8067006]

>>8066386
>nyc area
>lonely
>dude go to cons

[Anonymous No.8067037]

>used to be about 160 lbs for most of my life, with a 5'1" height
>over the past year or so, now down to 125 lbs
>all i'm doing is eating better and exercising every now and then, though for the past month or so i got lazy and stopped exercising, but didn't gain back weight and still kept losing, if slowly
>hit 124 today, still hadn't exercised but walked a fuckton just this weekend, so might lose even more pounds soon
>planning on exercising again soon
>more weight loss incoming? aw yeah
>finally feeling great

[Anonymous No.8067041]

>8067037
>also adding to make it cgl related
>now hopefully i will be able to fit into more burando soon

[Anonymous No.8067066]

>>8066275
If you want to wear it then why are you selling it? If you never planned to wear it why did you buy it in the first place?

[Anonymous No.8067071]

>Been doing okay I guess
>starting to do what I want and taking responsibility
>still can't be arsed to draw anything or write anything
>don't even bother with other hobbies
>in general just doing okay I guess, hopefully I'll turn it around
I don't even know how I feel anymore.

[Anonymous No.8067109]

>make goal to start attending comm again and get more involved and hope some new lolitas join seeing new people join besides the same 4 people.
>log onto facebook for the new year and see that two girls branched off making there own comm/meets for the newer/younger girls who attended once or twice and never came back to the comm since many are already such a tight knit circle
>mfw new "leader" always does shit on facebook such delete my comments where i answer a question such as where can i rice flour? (granted it is her status, maybe she just wants sempai to notice her) She also makes prejudice statuses regularly on facebook.

[Anonymous No.8067243]

>Rich kid in my university has taken a liking to me.
>He's been giving me small gifts every so often, wouldn't let me pay him back when he picked up a textbook at the bookstore for me.
>Pesters me to go to Japan with him for 5 days over the reading break
>FOR FREE
>FREEEEEEEE

Ive never hinted at liking him beyond friends.He's expressed that he enjoys my company, but has never made any sexual advances. Yet if he's doing this does he expect sex?
going to japan has been my dream forever... but in the back of my mind i know I'm probably going to have to touch his dick or something... something that I'm not entirely dismissing...
WAT DO.

[Anonymous No.8067265]

>>8067243
>do it, anon
>japan FOR FREE is worth it
>if it were me i'd do it

[Anonymous No.8067320]

>>8066518
5'3" so it wasn't horrible, but I could see all my ribs and it made me feel like shit.

[Anonymous No.8067334]

>>8067243
Hopefully you aren't chopped up or crazy shit like that.

But go for it as long as you're a decent person to him.

[Anonymous No.8067822]

>be me
> 5'4" tiny hispanic girl with curves and big fuckign animu eyes
>tfw my dream is to cosplay tall manly men
>s-some day solid snake...some day...

[Anonymous No.8067829]

>>8066996
>>8066815
>>8066791
Yaaawwwwnnnnn. I never remove the source. But if the comment is something stupid like, "I think this might have looked better with warmer tones" or "Look at my new shoes!", I'm erasing the hell out of that text. It looks ugly and adds nothing of value to the post.

>>8066670
The hell are you talking about?

[Anonymous No.8067858]

>>8066591

Can't you expedite a passport? My mom had hers stolen before a trip and had a new one in 48 hrs. You might have to pay out the ass, but if you're going on a trip that has some of the expenses covered, it might be worth.

[Anonymous No.8069864]

>>8067243
I mean anon, if you're pretty clear about your intentions (even just "I'm not looking for a relationship right now), I don't think you're in the wrong. Maybe he'll still take it as a nod to make a move on you. Maybe he's just a rich kid who enjoys spoiling his friends, or cute girls, or whatever. Idk, if you really get the feeling you'll have to touch he dick then your gut's probably right, but hey, if you wouldn't mind that. Go for it. Maybe you spend five days with him and fall in love or some shit.