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feels thread Anonymous Thu Nov 27 05:34:14 2014 No.7962702 [Reply] [Original]

Last one on autosage.

Post your cgl related feels.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 05:43:12 2014 No.7962705 When you see enticing brand, but you need that money for the Christmas gift shopping

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 06:23:59 2014 No.7962727 File: 198 KB, 990x648, Muh precious.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] When the jsk you needed for this weekend arrives back from the cleaner and the dye has run. Fml, this bad luck better means I've aced my exams.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 06:27:09 2014 No.7962730 File: 49 KB, 500x667, 1404569125246.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7962727 Holy shit anon thats horrible, i'm so sorry!

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 06:35:57 2014 No.7962737 >>7962727 Jesus fucking christ that's awful anon, I'm so sorry that happened to your dress.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 06:51:29 2014 No.7962747 >>7962705 I'm feeling it too...

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:07:18 2014 No.7962765 >tfw it takes every ounce of self control not to buy that dress I wanted for a while now At least I'm being a good adult by paying my taxes and other important things first.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:21:14 2014 No.7962780 >>7962765 this is a very familiar feel expect on car tyres not taxes

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:29:57 2014 No.7962790

>>7962727
jfc I'm so sorry anon. Maybe you can try running it through just water to see if it'll come out, if not resorting to baby shampoo or some other mild cleaner. Not sure if those color trapping sheets would work as well, at this point there's little to lose in trying to repair the damage yourself.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:37:11 2014 No.7962798 >>7962790 I've been trying every trick in the lolita cleaning book and it's not budging. >tfw not even this maidens tears can cleanse away this stain monster

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:45:58 2014 No.7962806 File: 140 KB, 704x396, spirit bomb.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7962798 let's work together seagulls give her your energy

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 07:49:29 2014 No.7962809

>>7962798
Oh gods I'm sorry, I should've realized that it was heat set since it came back from the cleaners. I'd start googling clothing restoration specialists since it's difficult to say how the print will react to stronger cleaning methods.

Gods. I really hope you're able to fix this, I'm so sorry.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 08:00:15 2014 No.7962822 >>7962727 Where is it on the skirt? If it's to the side or near the back, maybe an over skirt or peignoir will help disguise it? Or if it's near the front, maybe look into using a pinafore or apron type thing.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 08:10:39 2014 No.7962834

>>7962798
When I machine washed my Fantastic Dolly JSK in red all the white dots became pink, it was awfull.
I googled and tried the following trick:
- Fill a bucket with hot water
- Put the dress in it
- throw two tabs of your machine washer in it
- stir the dress in the bucket (gently)
- repeat 2 times
- throw the dress in the washing machine and put two dye-catching tissues in the machine
- dry it on the air

It helped a lot, all dots are white again.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 08:24:10 2014 No.7962842 >>7962727 That's terrible! Did the cleaner offer any compensation, or tell you what went wrong?

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 09:26:04 2014 No.7962888
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>be me
>cosplay group putting together AoT cosplay
>guy I like is cosplaying a character that's frequently shipped with mine
>know some fangirl is going to ask us to take couple-y pictures together
>they will want us to do all the things I want us to do but its cosplay and its fake
>way damn awkward
>why is my life

also

>newest member in group is tumblr sjw trash
>major bitch literally everyone
>hates my guts
>half the group ignores her shit or puts up with it because she has some skill
>treats me like shit and treats guy I like like shit because he's my friend and is cosplaying the character she wanted to be
>says something about cishet bias because she would be better or whatever
>say tells her (and everyone else) he's not heterosexual
>mfw

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 10:51:52 2014 No.7962943 >>7962888 having a gay crush sucks anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 12:15:34 2014 No.7963043 >>7962727 I hope you tore the cleaner a new one

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 15:21:14 2014 No.7963259 > tfw entitled fatties > tfw that makes me feel bad I'm a landwhale and I always cringe at those post yet at the same time it makes me feel even worse about myself.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 15:54:34 2014 No.7963297 >tfw washing a black blouse for the first time >the sink is purple for days

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 15:57:43 2014 No.7963302 >on waiting list for IP treatment >read reviews of clinic >get nervous as fuck I am 99% sure the treatment is going to fail. Hell, I don't know if I even want to get better anymore.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 15:58:45 2014 No.7963305 >>7963302 Almost forgot, to keep it /cgl/ related: >order for $500 on Taobao >stuff arrives >don't like any of it after all sigh.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 17:00:23 2014 No.7963401

>tfw talking to friend about dresses for upcoming class ball
>'oh anon I got this really nice dress online!'
>when I keep asking it turns out to be
>guess what
>a milanoo storefront

Later on:
>putting hair in curls for the night for said ball
>pain in the fucking ass
>holy shit if only I could wear a wig to ball and get away with it
>tfw only wigs I own are clearly not my color and I know I'll get shit for it

First world problems like whoa, but hey they're weirdly /cgl/ related.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 17:12:30 2014 No.7963416
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>tfw a whole bunch of sales this weekend and I don't know what it is I want exactly
>plus the stuff I DO want aren't on sale

I'm a little stingy with my money so I need to make sure whatever I buy, I make damn sure I use. I just don't want to get anything and regret it. At the least, I'll see if I can buy a few wigs or contacts...

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 17:31:49 2014 No.7963442 >>7963305 >$500 on Taobao and doesn't like any of it I think you need to manage your money better anon.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 17:34:43 2014 No.7963447
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> Get a hotel reservation for an anime con
> It's overpriced as hell
> Rooms are $200 per night with the con discount
> Other rooms are $180
> You can't use hotel points with the discount
> Without the discount it's around $250 per night
> There are no closer hotels
> The 'closest' hotel is about 10 miles away
> There's no shuttle bus

I really hate the con scene and how sad people like me get ripped off.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 17:35:45 2014 No.7963449 >>7963447 >*no closer cheap hotel rooms

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:14:56 2014 No.7963506 Fuck me, I just speedy checked out with stuff from the Black Milk sale, and I bought the wrong size and there's no returns. I'm so used to being an M in most clothing, but I'm a S in their stuff. I'm guessing that I'll have to take them both in.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:19:50 2014 No.7963510 Do you think if a man cheats on you, it says he doesn't love you?

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:24:20 2014 No.7963514 >>7963510 Yep. Sorry anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:27:57 2014 No.7963519 >>7963510 Depends on the reason. I feel everyone deserves a second chance personally.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:30:39 2014 No.7963522 >>7963510 Most people are promiscious to some degree, some people have trouble keeping these urges at bay, so they cheat. That does not mean that he doesn't love you, though. I think that if you forgive him, it could strengthen your relationship.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:36:09 2014 No.7963527

>>7962727
Oh gods I cannot imagine this pain. Stuff like this always terrifies me to go to the dry cleaners. Did you see the stain when they gave it to you or had they gone by the time you opened the bag?

I don't see how this is acceptable, they should have at least informed you of the damage. Under US and UK law, you are entitled to compensation of the dress value, unless you were explicitly warned that the dress may be damaged before agreeing to the service. However, if they followed the care label properly then they can argue that the fault is with the dress itself, and I don't imagine it would be easy to get innocent world to refund you. Its worth asking the dry cleaners for a refund, or to send a very polite message to IW on a throwaway email address (in case they decide to blacklist you)

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:38:23 2014 No.7963530 >>7963510 Depends on the reason why he cheated on you. If it's a bullshit reason that's a warning sign to get out of the relationship. >Even worse if the girl he cheated with he got pregnant.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:44:44 2014 No.7963536

>>7963510
It depends on any number of factors. What happened?

He might think it's ok to do it again, even if he doesn't you'll think about it a lot, unless you're a very strong person and truly believe him. If so I can only admire you.

My bf's dad cheated on his mum 15 years ago, was forgiven, then went back to the same woman 5 years ago, was set to leave but she couldn't go through with it, bf's mum took him back again. I thought she must be really strong but she was actually just scared to be alone.

She later said to me that it's something all men do and that her son would do it to me at some point. Made me paranoid for a long time, but it's just how she was able to justify it to herself.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:46:37 2014 No.7963539 >>7963536 It's kinda true. The older I get the more I realize men don't mean to be malicious and hurt me when they cheat.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:51:19 2014 No.7963547 >>7963519 >>7963522 >>7963530 >>7963539 The levels of Stockolm's syndrome here are amusing. Oh well, your funeral.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:52:06 2014 No.7963549 >>7963510 leave him, somehow who cheats can't be trusted

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:52:34 2014 No.7963550 >>7963536 >All men do Oh god hell no. Why do women have this attitude that men are uncontrollable beasts/sex perverts?

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:53:00 2014 No.7963553 >>7963536 >>7963539 Rest assured that not all men are like that. I personally could never allow myself to hurt a woman in such a way.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:55:02 2014 No.7963554

> Meet amazing foreign guy at con
> Hang out for a few weeks
> He goes home
> Miss him
> Offer to pay for him to attend convention and concert with me
> Can't get a decision from him
> He's indecisive in general
> Keep asking him to decide
> 'I don't know'
> Really want to see him
> Frustrated/worried/sad
> Venting

I've never encountered this level of indecision and I have no idea how to deal with it.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:57:31 2014 No.7963559 >>7963553 >I personally could never allow myself to hurt a woman in such a way. tips fedora

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 18:58:33 2014 No.7963561 >>7963554 >> Offer to pay for him to attend convention and concert with me Pathetic. He fucked you and now you're offering to PAY HIM and come fuck you again, even though he's not interested? Whore.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:00:41 2014 No.7963564 >>7963559 I didn't realize not wanting to cheat was a bad thing.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:01:37 2014 No.7963566 >>7963547 Why do you say its stockholm syndrome?

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:03:07 2014 No.7963567

>>7963554
>Pay him to attention convention

Well hell that's your problem there anon. The foreign guy isn't interested in having a relationship. If he was he would go "Sure yeah," or make effort into doing more things with you/communication.

The reason why he's indecisive is because he really doesn't want to put the effect/hasn't decided if this is worth it or not or wants to mooch in the future.

I've been in a relationship like this I know.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:04:22 2014 No.7963571 >>7963567 Jesus Christ you are all megasluts.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:05:51 2014 No.7963574

>>7963566
Because they're trying their hardest to see a clearly malicious action as anything but.
>"He's good on the inside!"
>"I can change him"

lel good luck with that.
Though it's also upsetting in hindsight, given that feminism will give them political power when they're battered and jaded. Fuck.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:07:06 2014 No.7963576 >>7963561 >Whore No it's the contrary, she's a female john (jane?). She's the female equivalent of the guys on r9k who pay a hooker to lose their virginity.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:14:37 2014 No.7963584 >>7963567 I don't care if he wants a relationship or not, I want to go to the events, but I don't think I'd enjoy them alone.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:18:29 2014 No.7963590 >>7963584 Come on, anon. You barely know this guy.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:28:49 2014 No.7963614 >>7963584 Why the hell not? Invite a friend. >>7963571 >Implying that you never or anyone hasn't paid for a boyfriend's shite.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:32:16 2014 No.7963620 >>7962943 sounds like OP is a guy too hence the 'panic'

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:32:49 2014 No.7963622 >>7963553 Then you are a good person, and hopefully the norm

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 19:58:09 2014 No.7963651 >>7963620 That's what I thought. I'm curious to know who they're cosplaying too. I don't see the fanservice being a problem unless its Jean and Marco or Eren/Erwin and Levi.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 21:10:32 2014 No.7963742

>>7962727
This is my absolute worst nightmare. I'm so sorry, anon.

>>7963584
You need some proper friends in your area then, not pay for some foreigner to escort you. People that actually give a shit about you will make an effort to spend time with you.

Anonymous Thu Nov 27 21:57:59 2014 No.7963800
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> Love strawberry prints
> Have owned 5 strawberry print dresses (one bodyline, one AP replica, one BTSSB and two ETC) but sold every one of them because they didn't suit me.
> Finally found IW strawberry print for sale, have bought it because it was too perfect.
> Mfw I've finally found the one.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 22:54:14 2014 No.7963873 >>7963614 I haven't met anyone with similar interests who I legitimately enjoy spending time with in years.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 22:56:33 2014 No.7963877 Sorry, didn't know I got any responses. >>7963620 I am. Which is what makes it suck so hard. I might have a chance if I weren't such a loser. >>7963651 He and I are, in fact, going as Marco and Jean respectively. So great I guess.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 23:06:27 2014 No.7963888 >>7963873 Anon you need to seriously get off your ass and get some friends then. I'm not sure if you are trolling or being this dense. Paying anyone to spend time with you is pretty sad.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 27 23:08:51 2014 No.7963891 Ordered taobao stuff and a wig for the first time. The excitement cannot be contained.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 00:04:52 2014 No.7963975 >>7963510 Even if he loves you, he certainly doesn't respect you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 00:08:09 2014 No.7963984 I bought my second main piece which is also my first brand item today! It was on sale, so even though I had to use a pricier SS to obtain it, it still saved me $80+ off the original price tag. I'm so excited!

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 03:11:47 2014 No.7964253 >>7963559 rly cunt

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 03:17:26 2014 No.7964264

>>7963510
It doesn't matter if he loves me or not. He doesn't respect me. He would hurt me in that way and he knows it, so to me he would be the worst scum. I don't want to be with someone who is going to hurt me like that, love or not, because why should I when there's so many guys out there who would never do such a thing.
It shows he is a dumb cunt who lacks self control, and men should be held to the same standard as women when it comes to this, your gender does not matter. You're an adult, deal with the consequences of your behaviour and stop making excuses.
I have nothing good to say about those people and even if they were my friend and did that to some girl out there, I wouldn't be their friend anymore.
People like that disgust me.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 03:29:14 2014 No.7964275 >decide my wardrobe needs to be more mature >suddenly start liking my cutesy girly dresses again is this even normal

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 03:45:45 2014 No.7964287 File: 24 KB, 600x338, 1131415111071.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >2014 is basically over >haven't improved as a cosplayer >haven't made that many friends I would hope 2015 would be my year, but this year really isn't ending well for me.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:06:37 2014 No.7964295 File: 783 KB, 1500x1796, a feel from the abyss.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >am male >cant wear cute lolita dresses >have to live vicariously though my gf oh wait >tfw no gf

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:07:45 2014 No.7964297

>>7964275
yes. i just sold most of my sweet off and have replaced it with mostly classic and gothic. I have a few super sweet dresses left in my closet that have been sold, that are waiting to be given to the buyers in person. I look at them a lot and frown because they're so cute....
but its for the best i suppose. sigh.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:09:08 2014 No.7964299 >>7964295 wear aristocrat or ouji? or if you're able to, learn how to makeup really good and maybe try lolita out? some brolitas look okay.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:12:04 2014 No.7964303 >>7964299 I'm to hairy for that

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:17:01 2014 No.7964309 >>7964303 Then make yourself not hairy. If people can change their dick into a vagina, you can get rid of body hair.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:20:55 2014 No.7964312 File: 14 KB, 468x323, latenightfeels.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7964309 I like having a beard too much maybe I should just find a gf

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:28:15 2014 No.7964319 >>7964312 Nigger, there is a thread up right now on Brolita, and OP's pic is fucking dude in lolita with a beard. Just make that shit clean.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:30:48 2014 No.7964321 >>7964319 Oh cool thanks, although that beard looks like a dirty spic beard

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:48:11 2014 No.7964338

>>7963447
Two ways to circumvent this

1. Apply for staff. Spend 8 hours of labor for 3-4 days to get free hotel, ticket, and food.
2. Make a friend that lives within 5-10 minutes of the area. Crash with him/her then walk, bike, or drive to the con area. Driving is not recommended due to cost of parking.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 04:55:10 2014 No.7964349

>>7963510
Just think about it:
They are in a relationship with you and cheating would hurt you.
They approach or allow to be approached by a woman.
They kiss her like they kiss you.
They touch their body like they touch you.
They insert their penis in the woman like they do in you.
Do you want to believe such a man loves you like no other? Do you want to live with these images?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 05:42:17 2014 No.7964385 >>7963550 Because a lot of guys play themselves up that way, even if not on purpose.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 05:49:16 2014 No.7964393

Lately I've noticed my skin is going to shit. I've always had clear skin my whole life and I know what's causing it.
I am stressing myself out and ruining my body, it's like i never give myself a break from stressing. I'd be fine if it were for things worth stressing for but, I am a NEET with not much to worry about. Most of my "stresses" are stuff that doesn't make sense. It could be I'm in constant worry of getting older, thinking about people around me dying, that I said something stupid to someone, or i just find myself getting really anxious for literally no reason. I tell myself "was I worrying about something? No?" then instantly calm down for a little while.

I'm sick a lot and I'm breaking out. Ughhh this is such bullshit. I can't look kawaii like this!

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 08:17:42 2014 No.7964476 >>7964393 > I am a NEET with not much to worry about Isn't being a NEET stressful enough?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 08:21:06 2014 No.7964480 File: 213 KB, 540x703, 1406663248115.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7964393 iktf anon

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 09:18:54 2014 No.7964509 >>7964476 This. It's basically a full time job looking for work, getting rejected, and watching everyone else live their life. It's no wonder you feel down. Give yourself a break, you'll get a job eventually. Maybe think about retraining

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 09:22:07 2014 No.7964513

>>7964393
>It could be I'm in constant worry of getting older, thinking about people around me dying, that I said something stupid to someone, or i just find myself getting really anxious for literally no reason.

Oh fuck as a fellow NEET I thought I may have posted this without knowing. Getting older and the thought of death is the worst.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 09:39:31 2014 No.7964530 >>7964480 > tfw that magazine is me I have such a huge procrastination/concentration problem I'm actually going to get medication for it in a desperate attempt to not get myself kicked out of college > tfw I'm procrastinating at this very moment

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 09:41:21 2014 No.7964533 >>7964513 Not trying to overanalyze but could it be that the thought prozess behind all this is "Years pass and I haven't done anything with my life. If I pass away I won't have any left any impact on this world and have not made my life meaningful."?

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 09:47:19 2014 No.7964535

Just got through one of the most disappointing Thanksgivings I ever had. Granted it had its ups, it was just a lot of aggravation and hassle.
>my grandpa passed away a few months ago and my parents recently sold my house and moved south
>would traditionally have Thanksgiving at one of their places
>so nobody to have Thanksgiving with
>bf offers to have Thanksgiving at his hometown which is a 4 hour drive away
>bf doesn't have license so I have to drive but he says he'll pay for gas
>agreed
>go out to buy a special kawaii outfit because I'll be meeting his family for the first time
>says we'll be having the dinner at his aunt's place
>bf's uneasy about being around his mom because she owes him and his sister money and they had a fight about it
>they've always had a bad relationship though
>figure it's probably nothing...since we're still going

>traffic is a nightmare going up
>it begins to snow
>we somehow make it there alive
>go into the city
>meet his grandparents and his sister
>they seem genuinely uninterested in me and don't ask me anything about myself
>the grandpa is a drunk
>get dry humped by their un-neutered pitbull
>leave

>the place we're staying at is at his cousin's trailer out in the sticks
>no cellular service tier
>cousin is a social recluse
>enter trailer
>hasn't been cleaned since his parents gave it to him
>cobwebs, layer of cat hair on everything
>cat claws in the carpet
>stepping on sharp cat fingernails
>go to use the bathroom
>cat box is in front of the toilet
>litter on the floor, giant uncovered cat shit staring you in the face
>get a layer of litter, cat hair, cobweb, and crumbs where ever I step
>accidentally set some black clothes on the ground temporarily to help bf inflate air mattress
>layer of cat hair on my clothes, no lint roller
>our air mattress has a leak we can't find so it slowly deflates every three hours
>very uncomfortable
>but his cousin was actually okay and we had fun playing 20 questions and watching anime
(con't)

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 10:03:14 2014 No.7964553
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>>7964535
>the night before Thanksgiving
>we go into the city to have some dinner
>dinner is actually really delicious
>after dinner, bf finds out that we're not having Thanksgiving dinner at his aunt's, but rather at his mom's
>ohboy.jpg
>bf calls his mom to let her know that we'll be over
>his mom literally forbids us from being welcome over their money fight
>"he made her feel REALLY bad ;____;"
>bf is getting visibly upset, pleads with her that the holiday is about family and that she's not only ruining his Thanksgiving but mine too
>she doesn't care, still refuses
>bf hangs up

>nowwhat.jpg
>bf goes outside the restaurant to call his grandma (they raised him pretty much) about what happened
>I call my parents to let them know what happened
>since I had to work on black friday anyway, I planned to drive home the next morning to have Thanksgiving with my aunt
>bf seems to be okay with being away from his fucked up family for the holiday
>we make that a plan
>we leave the restaurant to head for a bar
>hear chanting
>#Fergusonprotestors
>have this awkward (white) mob behind us the whole way to the bar
>have a good time at the bar
>meet up with a few of his local friends
>leave

>one last night in dirty tailer
>leave one of my washcloths in the bathroom
>wake up the next morning
>there's a jungle of facial hair all over my washcloth
>his cousin shaved his beard and got facial hair everywhere
>have to pick out the facial hair from my washcloth
>done.jpg

>thanks the cousin for letting us stay
>drive 4 hours home
>get ready for Thanksgiving dinner at my aunt's
>bf is just happy to be away from his family
>wear my kawaii outfit
>head over
>go inside
>immediately sicked by dogs, chihuahuas in particular
>dogs didn't have their nails clipped
>they tore up my brand new tights
>embarrassing runs all over them
>nobody really cares that their dogs are untrained assholes
>whatever, go to eat
>aunt's side of the family pretty much ignores me
>at least bf appears content
>mfw

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 10:11:52 2014 No.7964561

>>7964533
Somewhat on point. I guess I can't even call myself a NEET anymore though, but I used to heavily identify with that a few years back.

>years and years doing nothing, a proper NEET hikikomori
>felt like shit
>stepped the fuck up
>made an online business
>still hikikomori but profiting
>start to travel for months at a time, hung out with friends almost daily, met a great guy, enjoyed different food and culture, lived it up
>still felt exactly the same
>repeat throughout 2 years
>gave it time, kept pushing myself to get outside and out of my head and enjoy the world
>not feelin' it still
>back at home base at the moment to build up profits
>plans to travel again soon but see less of a point

I'm in the exact situation people dream of and it didn't have any effect. Aside from the usual negative thoughts that plague me I'm mostly frustrated at myself for being such a little shit when I should feel like I'm on top of the world. I've gone to therapy, I've tried different meds, I've tried some wacky as fuck therapy just as a last resort, and of course I tried the things that should be most effective for a hikikomori like being social. It reminds me of the situation with Robin Williams. If I'm this well off and can afford help and still haven't even made a dent in progress, what hope is left?

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 10:46:48 2014 No.7964587

I just found out that the project I am on at work is being cancelled and I'm being transferred. This most likely means I'll be made redundant in the new year.

It's really difficult not to go spend a load of money on lolita to make me feel better. I need some retail therapy.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 10:56:29 2014 No.7964594

>have been looking for month for a figurine
>either horribly pricy or shipping is through the roof
>end up finding it used at very reasonable price
>"Okay anon, I've received the payment, I'll send it through [package delivery service]
>look it up online
>pages and pages of people complaining about delays and lost packages
>ohgod please don't get lost
>package arrives two days later
>figurine is perfect
>try to get it to hold its sword
>the handle fucking snaps

I've superglued it back on and it seems to be holding well, but god, the horror I felt when it broke...

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:01:01 2014 No.7964599 >>7964561 Maybe you're just too hard on yourself? A happy life isn't being happy all the time and not being allowed to feel sad at all. But if you've already tried therapy I guess I'm not telling you something new. I wish you best luck though!

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:03:59 2014 No.7964603 >>7964594 which figure anon? But oh god I can understand your horror all too well.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:20:17 2014 No.7964627 >>7964561 What sort of business do you run?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:23:44 2014 No.7964629 >>7964603 It's a Play-Arts of Gabranth (Final Fantasy XII version), so it's not like it is an extremely expensive limited edition figurine or anything... but damn, I'm happy I managed to fix it >tfw want to cosplay him but lack the skill for now

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:47:53 2014 No.7964659

>tfw a bad artist
>Bonbon Ribbon stuff is super expensive
>want to redecorate room in Bonbon Ribbon
>have to get boyfriend to paint it for me

When my room's finished, I'll post it in a /cgl/ room thread, but I am super ashamed that I can't do it myself or afford actual merchandise.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:49:07 2014 No.7964660 >>7964659 you made me look up bonbon Ribbon and now I want everything. Thanks a lot.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:50:23 2014 No.7964661 >>7964660 Same here, anon. >>7964659 Fuck you, you glorious bitch.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:52:10 2014 No.7964663

>Been working and going to school, no breaks whatsoever
>Because of that social life has declined because I have no more time for it
>Buys a lot of brand to compensate lack of friends to hang out with
>Never wears brand out because of work uniform and because i'm too shy to wear it around the campus
>Only get to feel pretty inside bedroom
>Wish other people could see me like this
>Feels even more lonely than before because now I feel like I'm wasting all my money on a hobby that will never see the light of day
>MFW impulse bought Crystal Dream Carnival this morning

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 11:55:03 2014 No.7964667 >>7964663 I know this feel anon! I started forcing myself to wear it on every possible occasion for a week, even if just buying some groceries or going to the post office. It actualyy helped.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 12:17:44 2014 No.7964687 >>7964660 >>7964661 I'm sorry. I thought everyone knew. I might splurge on the alarm clock.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 12:19:28 2014 No.7964692 File: 19 KB, 250x333, 142202-s-03-dl.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Find out non-loli friends chipped in for IW for my birthday >best friends ever >babby's first brand i'm so happy pic related

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 12:57:29 2014 No.7964718

>>7964393
The skincare subreddit is great if you can
afford a couple new products. They have some good advice for basic routines. Stress can definitely make your skin worse, but sometimes you can correct it with proper care. Plus it's nice to take care of yourself.

Make sure you're washing your pillow case regularly.

Therapy can also be good. You might feel apprehensive about talking to someone if you feel your problems aren't real or serious, but if you are anxious it can be great to candidly discuss your feelings with someone. Good luck, anon.

Cakepop Fri Nov 28 14:25:13 2014 No.7964803
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>>7962702
Other women seem to have periods that are a lot less painful than mine. I get really bad pains for 5+ days (10/10 pain for the first 2 days) and the bleeding doesn't stop for 2 weeks sometimes.
>TFW I went to the doctor about this 2 times
>They did nothing
>Can't wear some of my Clothing, scared of staining

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 14:42:26 2014 No.7964817 >>7964803 I had similar symptoms. I ended up passing out from bloodloss, and in the hospital they finally established that it was hormonal imbalance causing it. Maybe get that checked out?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 14:46:24 2014 No.7964819 File: 475 KB, 359x270, tumblr_m8iky7HdKB1r5jtugo1_400.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >have a crush on a friend >we are going to do a couple-cosplay together I-is it okay to confess.

>>	Cakepop Fri Nov 28 14:48:44 2014 No.7964823 >>7964817 I tried getting this thing checked out twice and the doctor(s) never do much, they just give the "Oh you're young nothing could be wrong" attitude

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 14:49:08 2014 No.7964824 >>7964819 Ask them on a date after the con is over, Ihoe you don't mean that whole "Senpai, Love me" confession in those malayasian talking pictures.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 14:49:48 2014 No.7964826 >>7964803 I had similiar problems as a teen, my doctor recommended birth control and my period is very normal ever since.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 14:50:10 2014 No.7964827 >>7964823 What kind of doctors are you going to?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 15:27:49 2014 No.7964854 >>7964823 Christ's sake, What country are you from?

>>	Cakepop Fri Nov 28 15:41:04 2014 No.7964863 >>7964826 Do you remember which type? I know there's different types and some make you eat like a pig, and I can't afford to gain weight.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:03:44 2014 No.7964888 >>7964863 I only know the name "Minette", it's not too strong so I won't gain weight but strong enough to surpress my acne. I'd honestly just consult your gynecologist.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:21:33 2014 No.7964913 [DELETED]

>>7964338
Most of the people I know don't live within Chicago or even in the same state. I actually live in Chicago but I'm 2 hours away from the city. The con I'm talking about is Anime central.

I thought about staffing Acen but I heard a lot of horror stories that even if you work staff you don't get free hotel stays unless you suck dick or free food. Just a comped ticket so I guess it depends on the con. I'm trying to find a way around this but besides joining panels there doesn't seem to be a way to get free hotel stays without paying out of the ass.

Still good advice. I'll look into staffing other cons.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:25:02 2014 No.7964915 >>7964863 Get one with low estrogen or talk to your doctor. I never heard of birth control that makes you eat like a pig. >Birth control now is making me sick as a dog half of the time and no desire to eat.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:28:46 2014 No.7964918

>>7964338
1) One isn't a good idea. The con I'm talking about is Anime central. I heard that you can get a comp badge but you won't get a hotel or free food if you are working staff unless you suck dick or you are doing something that requires a lot of labor/work. Doing something like registrations won't get you a hotel room and Acen's registration is hit or miss. I heard a lot of horror stories about people working all day/line con.

2) I don't know any friends who live in Chicago. I live in the same city/area as my con but the issue is that I want a hotel that's close enough to change my cosplay just in case things happen/fix makeup/ etc. without having to drive (since I can't drive and most of my friends don't drive or refuse to pay O'hare parking lol.)

I'm doing a panel which takes care of the badge but nothing so far with the hotel issue. To make it worse I found out that only the Hyatt does 'free rooms you can use with points.'

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:36:39 2014 No.7964936

>>7964915
Maybe she didn't mean 'eat like a pig' but 'gaining weight', because that's possible. When I stopped taking birth control with 18 (took it bc of acne only and stopped bc I'd have to pay it myself) I lost some kgs and when I started taking it again a year later (bc of bf) I had to struggle not to gain weight again. But it depends on the pill and your body.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 16:42:44 2014 No.7964945 >>7964936 Yeah because I'm actually losing weight with mine because it makes me nausea so bad sometimes. The shot didn't do that but it did make me an insomniac.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 17:31:41 2014 No.7965015

I ordered a pair of shoes before realizing that they'd arrive at my apartment while I'm out of town for the holiday and my front office is closed. Tracking says the package has been delivered "in/at mailbox", which means it's probably just sitting on the ground outside, and I'm so fucking scared someone's going to take it. God damn it. Please be there when I get home tomorrow.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 17:33:52 2014 No.7965017 >>7964803 Please look into PCOS or endometriosis . I'm more suspicious of the latter and the latter is definitely more dangerous.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 17:42:59 2014 No.7965028

>>7964803
I used to be completely incapacitated the first day of my period (weak, vomiting, really bad cramps, fatigue, etc.) and lasted a week, but birth control and muscle relaxants have really helped, so I'd suggest looking into that. My periods are so light now that I can basically just wear panty liners and while the cramps aren't gone (only started two months ago), the relaxants help immensely. Also, it only lasts for three days.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 17:52:59 2014 No.7965044

>>7964803
I had this for years and doctors never took me seriously until this year when it got much worse and I had an increase of cysts + they were concerned about something they found during ultrasounds. I had a larproscapy and was diagnosed with endo, which was removed. Periods are a lot better now but still painful.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 17:57:35 2014 No.7965049 >>7964803 >>7964823 >>7964826 >>7964915 >>7964936 >>7964945 >>7965044 >>7965028 >>7965017 The joys of being a woman. I don't envy you gulls.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 18:06:41 2014 No.7965059 >>7965049 It gave me a reason to leave school early and to cut gym class.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 18:38:51 2014 No.7965083

>>7964918

Anime Central?
As someone who's gone for years, you could try and get a hotel somewhere along the blue line. The CTA is effecient enough that it'd be like less than an hour away.

Additionally, you could try and bunk with someone on /cgl/ to split the costs. I wouldn't mind sharing, exactly, because as you said last year was a fucking travesty in terms of hotel costs for me.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 19:00:46 2014 No.7965107
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>>7965083
Thanks anon. Next year I'm going to get my driver's license and try to get a hotel near the blue line for 2016. The prices for the hotels near Acen are ridiculous for 2015.

>Embassy double bed room single occupancy: $223.00 and king bed room single occupancy: $190.00

>Hyatt is only $10 cheaper

I'm not sure how to do a good price point without ripping people off or ripping myself off. I have a single King room at the Embassy for around $720 for all four days so even if I get three roommates it's going to be $240 each and most people are cheap/don't want to get a room for around that price point.

Also I'm trying to avoid people who are party goers due to bad experience with them (trashed the bathroom and stole some of my stuff.)

I'm not a bad roommate (don't drink/smoke/talk that much except online,) just frustrated in general that this con has crazy hotel prices to the point that I NEED a roommate or I have to pay out the ass.

I'll try to either post here or the Acen forum about finding a roommate. Thanks again.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 19:10:42 2014 No.7965120 >>7965015 Can you ask anyone to check on them? I hope they're there.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 19:12:19 2014 No.7965124 >>7964803 >have endometriosis >20/10 pain first 2 days >horrifying bloodloss >can't do anything about it cause no insurances

Clockwork Loyalty !!AeVd1sjJ70p Fri Nov 28 19:29:03 2014 No.7965145

>>7965107
I don't know whether you're a good actor but you can significantly cut the cost if you call and ask if there's any discount for someone who has an appointment or operation for the hotel's nearest hospital. AAA discount is 4%, while AARP is 8%, hospitals tend to get at least 20% off the rates.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 20:16:55 2014 No.7965186 >>7964287 I'll be your friend anon.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 20:56:57 2014 No.7965221 >>7963302 Sorry for asking but what are you going IP for?

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:19:02 2014 No.7965242
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sit down gulls and let me tell you about my friend/fellow teenage weaboo/cosplay buddy.
>back in hs
>myself and group of friends neck deep in weaboo phase
>have one friend thats a big part of the "main ring" of sorts, practically inseperable
>lets call him Wolfy
>really sweet ftm guy
>hes into some weird stuff, lots of furry and mpreg, but its ok
>we're all the social outcasts so we stick together, do cosplay, have fun in group shit, pull together halfasses group cosplays
>wolfy has a shitty homelife. like really shitty, and we were the only ones there for him
>he had lots of breakdowns, spent lots of time comforting him. he was a sweetheart and loved his friends and easily the most loyal of all of us
[1 of 3]

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:21:51 2014 No.7965246
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>>7965242
>we're pretty much inseperable for many years
>ffwd to senior year
>wolfy big into deviantart by now, posts awkward little chibi anime furry ocs. lots of em. a lot of kids think its weird but we support him because hell, hes wolfy and we love him
>graduation passes
>wolfy ceases contact with us
>no responses to many attempts to contact him on DA, phone, and otherwise
>still very obviously active on DA
>its been a few years and he still posts the same weird art, nobody has heard from him and weve gotten calls from other friends trying to get up with him and see how hes doing
>no sign of Wolfy except on DA
>worried and really want to reconnect with him, he was one of our best friends and its not the same knowing that hes disappeared

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:26:15 2014 No.7965250

>>7965246
Now we hatch a plan. We're worried about his wellbeing and we need to know for peace of mind that he had some sort of reason to disappear like he did. The Wolfy we knew would never do that.
>make fake furry DA under fake name
>do lots of research; we're aiming for legitimacy here
>create an entire fake persona of a young furry
>try to reconnect with Wolfy through DA
We keep telling ourselves its for the greater good, because this is the only way we've found to reunite with our friend. But still something about faking an identity just feels twisted. We don't want to hurt him, we just want to know he's okay and if we can't work our way into his inner circle then we'll probably never hear from our friend again and have no chance of convincing him to reconnect with us.

Like on one hand, we mourn the loss of one of our best friends. On the other we can choose to fake an identity and either a) he'll find out and hate us forever or b) we might, just MIGHT get to hear from him again. Frankly we wouldve never done it but we were all so inseperable before, and now only a few years later its like he never existed and we don't want that.

Plus I started actively wearing lolita after I outgrew the weaboo, and I think he would love it. He always loved cute things. I just wish we had our friend back in the gang.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:30:21 2014 No.7965256 File: 11 KB, 328x212, 11111111111111.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7965242 >>7965246 >>7965250 >Create fake furry to reconnect with old friend who has gone furry Wat

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:33:03 2014 No.7965261 >>7965256 idk man. We don't give a shit if he's gone furry. We just want our friend back at this point. The gang just isn't the same without him. Shit's been gnawing at my pettis all week.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:34:35 2014 No.7965263

>>7965250
So, did he come back into contact with you?

I dunno seems to me (if he's the type who break downs a lot) that maybe he wanted to stop being a burden, or just took another path in life. It's nice you guys went after him for the sake of friendship and all but, when a person disconnects and ignores, respect that and move on.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:42:50 2014 No.7965272

>>7965263
We haven't heard from him at all yet. I guess we need to give it time.

Maybe you're right. But it just bothers me. This is the kid that used to geek with us, cosplay with us no matter how shitty our garbage outfits looked, be there to mediate when we fought (which was pretty damn often for a while there). We tried to just get over it and figure he picked his internet friends over us but it's awful. We NEED him to know we care and we're still here and it's fucking impossible to get him to listen as we are.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 21:44:35 2014 No.7965275

>>7963574
>FEMINISTS ARE EVIL
>thinks cheating constitutes abuse
>bashes other men for no valid reason
>resents women who stand by these men

From these facts only, I can with 100% certainty assume you're "a nice guy" "who'd never cheat on" "your perfect gf" but you're having trouble because no woman wants you and you blame this on everyone else: bad men, stupid women, feminists. Everyone but yourself.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:01:49 2014 No.7965293

>>7964393
Going out and getting a job will fix that. You say your full time ob is looking for work, which is good. I assume you're applying to places in your field/would enjoy working at right? Well have you also applied to shitty placed you don't want to work at? I worked at a supermarket for almost two years after college before I got a job in my field. It was hell and I hated every second of it, but I wasn't a NEET and I had money, though not a lot.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:01:50 2014 No.7965294
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>Parents put down there 13 year old bloodhound a few months ago.
>Watching westminster dog show with the family on thanksgiving, like we do every year.
>Hounds went first? we missed them because cooking
>Get to finals
>OH SHIT THE BLOODHOUND won the hounds group
>He fucking wins
>Sobbing, sobbing everywhere
>everyone, from my grandma to my cousins, sobbing
H-He was the best dog. Loved everyone and was just this big slobbery floppy pile of love and hair.
And that big boy really looked a lot like him, it was nice, ironic, and nice. I did not know the extended family cared so much for him.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:09:56 2014 No.7965301 File: 18 KB, 236x266, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7965294 group hug, anon. Losing your beloved pet is losing a part of your family. It fucking sucks.

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:10:19 2014 No.7965302

>>7964476
I can't seem to get my mind to think like that. Watching my family grow up normally, no problems socializing and doing their work is enough to keep my confidence low.

>>7964513
Sometimes the thinking is unbearable, I no longer can sleep without my tv on or my mind goes off onto that stuff. I'm pretty immature, the thought of being older scares me a lot. I also feel like I'm already too old right now when I know thats not true. I think about when i turn 30, I will have to be a completely different person because no one is going to tolerate my bad anxiety and immaturity anymore.

>>7964718
I defiantly have been more conscious about keeping extremely clean, I'll check the reddit out. Though i hate that horrendous layout reddit has. I am going to a psychologist like every other month and therapy so, sometime or later it should help.

>>7965293
I kinda volunteer sometimes, my biggest problem is my NEETness comes from extreme anxiety, I've been trying to go outside more but,i think i need to get back on medications or I'll fall back into being a hikkikomori agan.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:14:20 2014 No.7965308 >tfw according to my Facebook messages it has been exactly one year since the last time I had a date >God damn I mean that's just depressing.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:44:36 2014 No.7965342 >>7965308 >Hasn't dated or had sex in almost five years.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:48:06 2014 No.7965348 Just tried to order Celestial Cross, don't stand a chance. One in already up for auction. Fuck scalpers.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 22:49:53 2014 No.7965350 >tfw you're making a present for someone >realize that you want it >have enough fabric to make another shiny black sweater here I come <3

Anonymous Fri Nov 28 23:19:57 2014 No.7965399
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>be me
>in recovery from an eating disorder
>weight restored thank goodness
>thanksgiving
>basically the worst time of the year
>family is cray
>suspect my brother is restricting
>other brother on weird diets every other week
>almost every single member of my family is on crazy fad diets
>feel fat
>oh so fat
>stress for days as Thanksgiving approaches
>make it through the meal, but end up having a panic attack
>go home
>sick today from stress
>still feel fat and disgusting

What do. I feel suffocated from these feelings.
>inb4 therapy
already going

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 23:23:01 2014 No.7965406 >>7965399 Get away from family.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 28 23:48:47 2014 No.7965431 >>7965399 consume calories consistently so your brain stops eating itself. /your problem

>>	Cakepop !!ZR2uYCNmtmk Sat Nov 29 01:05:12 2014 No.7965573 >>7964945 I've heard BAD things about the shot I have a friend who's sister gained 10 pants sizes from that.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 10:52:22 2014 No.7966086

>>7965399
Keep strong, anon, and focus on your own health and maintaining that rather than what your family is doing. Speaking as someone who has gone through recovery twice, it gets better, and you're going to be so much happier if you stick with it, I promise. You can beat it.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 13:29:43 2014 No.7966273
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>make accidental eye contact with someone
>smile because I have resting bitch face and I don't want to look like I'm judging them
>they don't smile back
>immediately feel awkward, creepy and ugly
>think to myself "I'm just trying to be nice, you fuck. The least you can do is return it."
>go home
>realize it might actually have looked like I was sneering or laughing at them
>feel bad
Everything I do is wrong.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 13:44:54 2014 No.7966293 >>7964275 Same, tried to transition to classic, bought an OP and a JSK, realized I hate classic. Sold both (I hadn't even taken the JSK out of the bag) back to sweet now.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 14:02:54 2014 No.7966313
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>have crush on boy I'm friends with
>both do ice hockey and are part of the same club
>both also like cosplay and decided to cosplay two characters that are often shipped together
>girl in same ice skating club likes same boy, they've been friends longer (both two years older), she decides to cosplay also from same series despite shit talking the animes before
>go to con, she tells me they'll both meet me at photoshoot at 1:30
>she actually turned up at 12:30 with boy, walk into shoot to see her hanging off him doing coupley pictures
>sees me, she actually smirks
>she knows I like him, this is some mean girls shit
>they end up together because of this and he doesn't realise the manipulation
>mfw

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 14:06:10 2014 No.7966318 >>7966313 You should have just cosplayed a canon couple with him anon. I did it and it worked for me.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 14:07:20 2014 No.7966320 >>7966318 thought it might've been too obvious, now realise he's not one for subtleties

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 14:14:19 2014 No.7966326 >>7966320 men in general don't get subtlety. Shit, I'm married and have to wave signal lights around and have a well-lit landing strip to my fanny for my husband to get the hint.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 15:36:33 2014 No.7966389

>cosplays are starting to get more popular
>have a way too young follower tell me she's in love with me because I cosplayed her waifu
>tell her I'm not interested
>she keeps messaging me, and guilt trips me if I don't respond immediately
>she also has been threatening suicide, but when I offer to help her get help, she won't accept it.
>I feel like shit because I'm fed up with talking to her and I want to block her, but I'm worried she'll kill herself if I tell her not to message me
Whatever I do, I feel like an asshole. It's clear that she still wants me to date her, and I feel like a creep for talking to her because it seems like I'm "encouraging her" to pursue a relationship with someone older.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 15:43:41 2014 No.7966396 >>7966389 block her. She's trying to pull the suicide trip to get you to go out with her. She's not going to do a damn thing but move on and try to find another cosplayer to stalk.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 16:16:07 2014 No.7966448

> Room mate decided to take on the /a/ secret santa
> "Anon, I can't draw/craft anything can you make me all 6 of these Christmas cards?"
> 90% lolicon requests
> Say no
> "You're no fun. Now I'm gonna have a bad rep."

In other secret santa feels
> Get paired up with the comm sperg for ILD
> Very picky as shit
> Gives very vague description of what she likes
> Not allowed to ask for more details because "lol. where's the fun in that?"
> About to throw a Visa gift card at her

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 19:47:12 2014 No.7966735

> Has library card
> Mother asks about taking out a book since I'm taking out language course tapes (to study something that isn't Spanish/French/Polish is at least $500 here because it's not a well known language.)
> Books and tapes are due so ask mother about her books
> "Oh I loaned them to your uncle."
> Ohhellno
> Bug her to hell to get them back
> Two months later and they still haven't found the books
> I owe around $50 in fees
> Books are used but cost $30 each.

Happy holidays!

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 22:39:07 2014 No.7966986 >>7965015 >>7965120 Just got home, and they weren't outside my door or at the mailboxes. Guess I have to wait until Monday to see if they were put inside somewhere after all. I want to cry, I just wanted these damn shoes.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 22:44:41 2014 No.7966997 >>7966735 Tell her to fuckng fork over the money for them.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 22:46:56 2014 No.7967001 >>7966389 Try to find a friend or her parents profile and message them and tell them about it. Then block her and never have to hear from her again.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 22:59:54 2014 No.7967026 >>7964275 And it's for this i buy cutesy prints with plushies or strawberries as long more mature and simple pieces for everyday, i won't never give up into sweeter prints even when i get older.

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:05:03 2014 No.7967038
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>best friend hates my other friend
>only talk to best friend at school, talk to other friend online every day
>go to con with other friend
>best friend is mad
>sorry
>i still want to go to cons with other friend
>still want to go to cons with best friend
>do you see my dilemma

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:08:24 2014 No.7967044
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>>7962702
>best friend just got engaged
>1 year younger than me
>other friends getting serious with their SOs
>also all younger than me
>friends also going to grad school, med school etc
>haven't had any sort of relationship or dated anyone since getting out of the physically abusive relationship i was in 2 years ago, don't know how to do a healthy relationship
>unhappily divorced parents who hate each other
>i'm going to die alone in my burando probably
usually doesn't bother me but it's hitting me hard right now. think i'll go blow my paycheck on mbok

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:12:32 2014 No.7967049 >>7964275 ETC, Milk, and Jane Marple were my solution. Sweet cutesy prints that can be styled more maturely = happy medium

Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:47:05 2014 No.7967103

>>7967038
People that can't accept you hanging out with people that did nothing wrong to YOU are poison. Imo, you shouldn't be forced to stay with one person through a convention. I've always/often jumped from 6 to 7 different group of friends and ended with my cosplay partner for diner or something. A lot of them hate each other that's why I keep them in seperate groups. Cons are fairly busy you shouldn't be in this dilema, best advice is to seperate your day to see them both. If any of these two whines you know who you need to keep distance from.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:49:20 2014 No.7967108 >>7967038 I fuckibg hate that. I will hang out with any of my friends' friends even if I fucking hate them, and I'll be pleasant and have fun because I don't want to make my friends feel bad just for liking a certain person.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:53:07 2014 No.7967115 >>7966389 You know you can use it against her with the police, she's threatening you to commit suicide if you don't give her unwanted attention. Ring ring, stalker alert.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 29 23:54:19 2014 No.7967118 >>7966326 >mfw it doesnt work for all men

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:02:36 2014 No.7967132

>>7967103
Did you even actually read what they said? Her friend isn't trying to control who she hangs out with, they just dislike the other one but still want to hang out with her. Nothing toxic about that. Your friends don't have to be friends with eachother. It's easier but sometimes doesn't work out.

You kind of sound toxic yourself, with all your me me me bullshit.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:06:08 2014 No.7967136
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>Looks on YJA
>Finds something I really want
>Ohhh let me buy this-
>Someone else bids on it before I can even get a chance
>Tries to bid back but auction already ended

This always happens to me! Especially with limited edition items!

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:06:31 2014 No.7967137 >>7967132 >Cons are fairly busy you shouldn't be in this dilema, best advice is to seperate your day to see them both read yourself before calling out shit

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:11:06 2014 No.7967145 >>7967132 >only talk to best friend at school, talk to other friend online every day >go to con with other friend >best friend is mad If her friend isn't toxic why would she be this mad? Why would the anon have to seperate school and online this bad?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:38:16 2014 No.7967184
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This is con related, but over the summer i was talking to someone that I really liked, and I also thought liked me back. We met up at a summer con together and they completely blew me off, and when I finally got to see them they offered to buy me lunch but when we were checking out they misplaced their credit card and made me pay, despite them buying tons of shit in the dealers room.

Recently I noticed they've been really distant to me, and I called them out on it, but later retracted it because I realized I was also being selfish, but now they're ignoring me on every social media outlet i'm friends with them on.

>tfw cute girl myself
>wants a cute cosplay relationship
>thinks I finally get one
>turns out it was too good to be true
>still really depressed over it and it ruined my thanksgiving

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:48:28 2014 No.7967208 File: 188 KB, 645x773, 1417024641707.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw in a ldr >can't do qt couple cosplays when we want, have to do them once a year when we see eachother

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 00:48:53 2014 No.7967210
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>tfw posting a really overexposed low quality picture
>tfw it probably won't be as well liked as opposed to pictures I've taken with my dslr
>tfw settling because hell knows the next time I will have the time, setting, or the motivation to get dressed that nicely ever again

Hold me gulls...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:12:37 2014 No.7967270 >>7965406 That's not an option-I live at home >>7965431 I've been in recovery for over a year, I'm weight restored, and I've been eating consistently. >>7966086 Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this. ;_; EDs are living hells

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:15:03 2014 No.7967277 >>7967210 great now i need fucking pizza, but i'ts 2am. I'm gonna go toast some bread with butter and garlic salt AND MY TEARS!

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:17:15 2014 No.7967283 >>7967184 Anon they are not interested in you. Those are signs that you should move on. You're not being selfish that's the harsh truth. Be happy. You got a great cosplay and you're most likely a nice and cute girl.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:17:47 2014 No.7967285

>>7967270
Why does Thanksgiving stress you out so badly?
Couldn't you pre-calculate a meal (based generally on what you find out is being served) that is within your calorie budget for that day? A portion of white meat, a portion of vegetables, a roll, some potatoes, and then maybe a calorie free drink like water, perhaps. Meal plans aren't just for diabetics and fat people you know.

Your family sounds like a bunch of weirdos, no wonder you have a bad relationship with food.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:28:27 2014 No.7967312

>>7967285
It's because it's a holiday centered around food. It's supposed to be about be thankful and spending time with family, but my whole life it's been about diets and food.

I did pre-calculate a meal...It's not the food itself per se, it's the holiday that brings a preoccupation with food, and then the inevitable "Oh, I ate too much!" comments. And eating in front of people is a challenge.

I love my family but they are a bunch of weirdos. Ever since I was little I would even go shopping with my mom and she would discuss how fat she was (even though she's average) and pinch her stomach and thighs. My dad would comment on people's bodies on TV, and criticize them based on their bodies. Like, this girl is fat, this guy is flabby, this girl shouldn't wear this, her boobs are too small, he's too skinny, etc.

Thanks for listening you guys, it's nice to vent anonymously!

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:34:45 2014 No.7967326 >>7967270 Your family a shit. I am so sorry.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:38:05 2014 No.7967332
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> Enjoying the Black Friday thread
> Someone makes an off hand comment about shopping right after eating dinner
> Another anon gets offended by it
> Other anons make a few comments and I try to redirect it to the main topic of deals along with a few others
> Things go normal in the thread again
> Another anon ruins it by bitching about pro Thanksgiving shopping over and over again

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:41:38 2014 No.7967337 >>7967326 Thanks.... Fun fact I'm the anon from last thread or the thread before whose fundamentalist dad who was against porn turned out to be watching cosplay and lolita porn.....

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:44:36 2014 No.7967345 >>7967337 How did you even find that out

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:53:18 2014 No.7967354

>>7967283
Thank you anon, that made me tear up.

I should probably stop thinking about them, it's just confusing because they used to get so jealous if other people were talking to me instead of them, and now they have nothing to do with me.

Thank you so much for telling me that, I needed to hear that from someone else.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:58:21 2014 No.7967362 >>7967345 long story short the family computer had viruses and the browser autofilled to porn sites

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:59:10 2014 No.7967364 There's a possibility I got a girl pregnant at Anime Boston. I found out her full name recently and stalked her social media and apparently she's due in a month. Desperately trying to recall if I gave away any information that could lead her to me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 01:59:22 2014 No.7967365 >just sold something I didn't want to sell what do i do? How do I back out?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:05:34 2014 No.7967375 >>7967364 >fucking randies without condoms You're gross.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:07:21 2014 No.7967381 >>7967364 You got her pregnant but she got you AIDS.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:14:35 2014 No.7967390 >>7967375 Condoms feel like shit, sorry. Any guy will tell you that, and any girl that makes her guy wear condoms is a bitch.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:16:44 2014 No.7967397

>>7967184
Damn anon, that makes me feel really frustrated for you. But the other anon is right, they're clearly not interested in you and it would be in your best interest to move on.

I know it doesn't seem like it, but a person who's genuinely interested in you would never treat you like that, as in, offering to pay for a meal and then conveniently 'misplacing' methods to pay to force you to do it--romanticism aside, that's so fucking rude to do even on a platonic level.
You'll know when you find someone worth your time, they'll want to put an equal amount of effort into you too.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:16:51 2014 No.7967398 >>7967362 You do realize that means he's probably attracted to you right?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:17:03 2014 No.7967399 >>7967390 >>7967364 Troll or same anon?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:17:15 2014 No.7967400 >>7967390 And you assholes will be the ones with lots of childcare and dumb bitches left on your hands, with plenty of STDs. Have fun.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:18:35 2014 No.7967401 >>7967399 How is it a troll to say that condoms feel like shit? lol. Cosplayers are usually up for bareback anyway since they're whores.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:21:22 2014 No.7967406 >>7965186 Where are you from?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:21:23 2014 No.7967407 >>7967398 Y-you think? Honestly, we are closer than normal for a father and daughter...I still call him Daddy... Like he would tuck me in and kiss me goodnight until I was 17. >tfw I might have daddy issues

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:23:29 2014 No.7967409 >>7967407 If he knows of and has seen your interest in lolita and cosplay then yes. It's not uncommon for dads to be attracted to their daughters since, let's be honest here, their daughters are basically younger versions of their mother.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:24:01 2014 No.7967410 >>7967390 Condoms don't feel like shit, you just got a small dick bro Course you won't feel anything if you're swimming in it Fag

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:25:10 2014 No.7967413 >>7967410 >Condoms don't feel like shit, you just got a small dick bro So you admit size is important to you? Why do girls always lie and say it doesn't matter?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:25:19 2014 No.7967414 >>7967401 Welp I guess this confirms that you are definitely a troll or you are laced with STDs. Thanks anon.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:25:55 2014 No.7967415 >>7967409 How about you eejits fuck off back to r9k?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:26:58 2014 No.7967416 >>7967397 Thank you so much anon. I'm hoping that I find the right person eventually. I have so much love to give people, and that often does get me in situations like that.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:27:58 2014 No.7967419 >>7967413 Size doesn't matter as long as it isn't a microdick

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:29:11 2014 No.7967422 >>7967409 He's well aware of my interests. He even helps me pay for them. But I'm going to agree with >>7967415, you're sounding awfully r9k

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:33:49 2014 No.7967425

>>7967422

I'm not the condom guy, just giving you my thoughts based on what I've heard over the years. I mean, put two and two together, dads often feel attracted to their daughters - older men in general feel attracted to teenage girls because, let's face it, it becomes harder and harder to actually get aroused by your wife when she's hit 35 (or at least, it seems like it).

So if he's seen you in cosplay/lolita, buys it for you and faps to it then it's clear that maybe, just maybe, he finds you attractive too.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:36:49 2014 No.7967429 File: 52 KB, 640x480, ewww.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967425 >Finds you attractive too >Incest

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:38:35 2014 No.7967432 >>7967429 The vast majority would never act on these feelings.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:44:56 2014 No.7967440 >>7967425 >it becomes harder and harder to actually get aroused by your wife when she's hit 35 (or at least, it seems like it). This is depressing. Seems like men are destined to cheat.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 02:57:18 2014 No.7967455
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>skimming through godawful tumblr cosplay ask rp blogs for the lulz
>one of them is cosplaying/rping my waifu
>jimmies rustled, go to take a closer look at her blog
>she's fucking perfect 10/10 instant crush
>can't even glance at her pictures without blushing and having to look away
>probably doesn't live anywhere near me
>probably isn't a lesbo
>probably isn't even that hot out of cosplay
>still lusting after her like crazy

kill me

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:15:17 2014 No.7967466 >>7967455 <3 u

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:17:33 2014 No.7967470 >>7967440 you seriously believe that troll? jesus christ girls

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:19:08 2014 No.7967473 >>7967470 I know he's right because I've seen it happen to every single one of my friend's parents. Maybe we should just accept that men are going to cheat and try to plan accordingly.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:26:52 2014 No.7967483 File: 77 KB, 200x156, why.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967473 In the final words of Tupac Shakur. Fuck you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:27:11 2014 No.7967485 >>7967473 Your friends' parents are assholes, because it has never happened to any people I know. Maybe instead of "planning accordingly" you watch whom you marry.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:29:38 2014 No.7967490 >>7967473 That seems reasonable. I've cheated before and it was never an indication that I didn't love the girl I was with. It was a fuck up more than anything else.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:29:49 2014 No.7967491 >>7967485 >>7967483 >>7967473 >>7967470 >>7967440 >>7967432 >>7967429 >>7967425 janitor where

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 03:44:21 2014 No.7967504 >>7967490 ww, how could you kiss/touch/fuck another girl like you do your girlfriend knowing you hurt your 'loved one'. Disgusting.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:00:10 2014 No.7967513 > mfw girls get surprised seeing how men truly are I have no idea how red pill is a thing but male genocide isn't. Come on, ladies.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:13:08 2014 No.7967530 File: 50 KB, 500x372, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967491 This. So many spergs come here trying to discuss off topic shit because they think /cgl/ stands for Cunts, Girls, and Ladies. Leave.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:15:23 2014 No.7967532 >>7967513 No fuck you. I like men, they have soft sexy bodies and nice dicks.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:15:23 2014 No.7967533 >>7967473 #notallmen

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:20:15 2014 No.7967534 >>7967532 Admit you like big dick.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:21:50 2014 No.7967535 >>7967534 R9k leave

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:23:20 2014 No.7967540 >>7967532 And they'll rape you, cheat on you and kill you and your kids as soon as no one is paying attention. That's like saying you like taking acid baths because they are so fun and bubbly.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:25:04 2014 No.7967541

>>7967540
http://www.foxnews.com/story/2007/02/01/mother-sentenced-to-10-years-in-prison-for-letting-3-children-drown/#ixzz1YoXfYw1R

This white woman killed her 3 white children for her black gangsta boyfriend, because he didn't like them.

Asian women > White women.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:25:26 2014 No.7967542
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>>7967540
Why shouldn't I cheat on you when you are just gunna have kids, cheat on me with Jamal and run off with some Chad and I'm forced to pay you alimony and child support

Fuck off troll

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:26:14 2014 No.7967543 >>7967541 >>7967542 >>7967535

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:27:10 2014 No.7967544 >>7967541 http://ajph.aphapublications.org/cgi/reprint/79/5/595.pdf >White women are 12.4 times more likely to be murdered by a black husband than a white husband When will /cgl/ stop supporting niggers?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:30:56 2014 No.7967548

>>7967540
If you think I'm exaggerating. Just read a story about a father who left his daughter in a trash heap to die because she had a cleft palate. Someone informed him that can be fixed with surgery so "he now loves her".. this is what men are, it's how they are wired.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:32:20 2014 No.7967549 >>7967548 see >>7967541 >>7967544 Your beef is with niggers. Not men in general.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:32:25 2014 No.7967550 File: 88 KB, 298x332, Denzel Washington is not amused at your post.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967548 >>reddit.com/r/ShitRedditSays

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:33:08 2014 No.7967551 >>7967544 White women are 99% more likely to be murdered by a man. Stop using racism to justify your shit gender. Typical man, throwing other men under the bus as it suits him.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:34:54 2014 No.7967553 >>7967548 It was an Asian man. Not black. You're all the same. What now scumbags?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:36:19 2014 No.7967555 [DELETED]

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>>7967551
I would happily throw all niggers under the portable gas chamber bus.

As I said, whatever your issues, niggers commit a vastly disproportionate amount of all violence against women, and the media covers for them.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:37:43 2014 No.7967556 File: 996 KB, 263x310, dog grows old.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I love how this turned from a feel thread, into a brolita thread then a sex war Lets get back to feels >tfw no lolita fashion gf

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:40:41 2014 No.7967558

>>7967553
That's just Chinese people lacking empathy as per usual.

White people's empathy is the reason you feel bad for that kid in the first place. Black people don't feel any empathy outside of immediate, tribal concerns (if an outgroup attacks them for example) same for Asians.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:43:16 2014 No.7967561 >>7967556 Let's just let them autosage it and start a new one.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:48:46 2014 No.7967569 >>7967556 >You will never choke and slap around a lolita gf and make her give you a rimjob Why even live.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:50:37 2014 No.7967572 File: 121 KB, 876x667, JOHJ.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967569 Lolita girls are too pure for that kind of behaviour However if they ever changed into something that wasn't Lolita...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:52:46 2014 No.7967576 >>7967572 I don't buy that. They're not "pure". The dress is a signaling thing for their interest in "kinky" sex. Most lolitas like stuff like ageplay, being fucked really roughly, masochism etc.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 04:58:39 2014 No.7967587 File: 29 KB, 600x400, are-you-serious-wtf-meme-baby-face.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967576 Because woman can't just dress bin a fashion because they think the it is pretty.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:00:18 2014 No.7967591 >>7967587 Can't they do it because it's pretty and because of the reasons mentioned as well? Please don't rob me of my lolita fantasies.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:04:54 2014 No.7967599 >>7967591 Why drag sex into everything? 99% of my decisions are made without anything remotely sexual in my mind. The 1% are panties, bras and sex toys.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:05:34 2014 No.7967600 >>7967587 I like lolita fashion is pretty I wish I could dress in it, but I can't I also find it sexy though

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:07:41 2014 No.7967606 >>7967599 >asking a man why he drags sex into everything Do you even know any guys?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:08:20 2014 No.7967608

>>7967599
>99% of my decisions are made without anything remotely sexual in my mind

I find that hard to believe, as a guy.

>The 1% are panties, bras and sex toys.

Don't use the latter, from what I've read on other boards it can make you lose sensitivity in your vagina so that you need bigger dicks to get off.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:14:10 2014 No.7967613 >>7967608 >Don't use the latter, from what I've read on other boards it can make you lose sensitivity in your vagina so that you need bigger dicks to get off. No. That's actually just lies. Especially the kind of lies that male virgins like to spread.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:15:01 2014 No.7967615

>>7967608
>I find that hard to believe, as a guy.

I'm sorry if your hormones can't let you enjoy a conversation with the opposite gender without thinking about sex.
I love lolita fashion because I can feel pretty and feminine without thinking about whether I can get laid or not.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:16:59 2014 No.7967617 >>7967572 >lolita >pure That must be why this board is known for its prostitution stories.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:17:56 2014 No.7967621

>>7967615
Thats the difference between men and women, men think about sex a lot and that doesn't stop them from "enjoying" a conversation with a girl, if anything it makes it more enjoyable because if you casually flirt and she flirts back it makes you feel like a God.

I just went and bought 2 blazers some pants and new shoes shirts and guess why? Because women like guys who dress nice. I also like how I look too but thats a smaller component

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:21:29 2014 No.7967629 >>7967613 Honestly though, this is why so many of my sexual fantasies are violent and rooted in sadism. It's like I want to "punish" these "sluts" by fucking them so hard I hit their cervix and make them scream. There must be something wrong with me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:23:32 2014 No.7967632 >>7967629 >wanting to dominate a woman sexually is weird You are normal My one friend (hes a virgin) admitted that a fantasy he has is just beating a woman up I have a blood fetish though so who am I to judge?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:26:10 2014 No.7967637 >>7967632 I'm not interested in blood fetishes but I like the idea of using a knife as a prop during rape fantasies.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:30:55 2014 No.7967640 >>7967629 >>7967632 >>7967637 No you're all just sick.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:35:56 2014 No.7967643 File: 18 KB, 298x292, hare gripping a marshmellow.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7967640 Let me guess, when you have sex its with the lights off and you just starfish it? You sure sound interesting...

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:40:22 2014 No.7967647

>>7967643
>Implying sex without extremely violent fantasies is not enjoyable
>Implying I'm throwing consentfull bdsm and some sick guys fantasies in tje same bowl

Were you abused as a child or why do you think not getting off to being beaten up is weird?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 05:44:23 2014 No.7967649 >>7967647 Not that guy, but why am I sick?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 06:19:54 2014 No.7967672 >>7967608 >it can make you lose sensitivity in your vagina so that you need bigger dicks to get off. That's the shit you believe when you let random neckbeards on 4chan tell you how vaginas work.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 06:24:42 2014 No.7967681 >>7967672 >that feel when no lolita gf to DP with a bro

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Sun Nov 30 06:51:34 2014 No.7967706 >>7967572 half your trip fags are hookers, camgirls or work in the sex trade. ai_honey = hentai +porn spooky= camgril voldie=....voldie isn't attractive enough for that kind of work but im sure she's attempted it

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 06:57:32 2014 No.7967711 >>7967706 Sieg= faggot noone wants to touch

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 07:01:38 2014 No.7967714 >>7967672 >This neckbeard thinks that organs that can pull a baby out of them and then go back to it's original size can be "stretched" by his tiny penis >Laughinggirls.jpg

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 07:04:51 2014 No.7967721 >>7967706 Spooky's a prostitute too now. >>7967714 Actually, mothers are the ones who prepare big dicks for this reason >tiny penis Why do you always mock us like this? Do you realize how many men you drive mad with insecurity?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 07:07:08 2014 No.7967726 >>7967721 no one cares faggot go shoot up a school or something if you can't take the bantz

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 07:09:59 2014 No.7967729 >>7967721 >mothers prepare big dicks >abloo abloo u drive us men mad by telling us we have tiny wee-weenies This amount of stupidity could only come from sieg.

sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Sun Nov 30 07:12:04 2014 No.7967732

>>7963536
>it's something all men do

IDK about you but when im with someone i have little to no interest in cheating

my parents have been together for 3 decades, come from strong family values...

but with that said after playing the whole dating game thing people did in high school-college-the 5 years after college

i genuinely have no interest in getting married or dating much anymore(most of my family has been un-married) just my mom and dad which were both the outliers in both of their families

with that said no qualms with marriage, most of my friends are married with children around the time i got my masters and i still hang out with them as if we were in high school...and never miss a beat.

i somehow tend to have more disposable income than they do, but we have cheap hobbies or i supplement their lack of cash-flow by picking up the ammo bill etc.

also, my dad had the luxury of putting me through my years of education with other people's marriages be it failed (divorce litigation, divorce planing, conflict resolution, ADR) or various estate planning as a result of marriage/ prenuptial agreements as an attorney

>>7963539
good for you, it may hurt your ego but it's not an insult...

assuming malicious intent through the actions of others speaks more about yourself than it does others

it's best to just accept it and move on.

no need to fight/yell/scream and be childish.

last relationship i was in she ended up cheating and all i pretty much said was "okay" and walked away while she was yelling/crying/going through the motions i'm much too old for

>>	sieg heil !szTe0VDR1w Sun Nov 30 07:16:03 2014 No.7967734 >>7967721 >Spooky's a prostitute too not surprised, she was always drawn to fast money

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 08:24:12 2014 No.7967775 >>7963447 >I really hate the con scene and how sad people like me get ripped off. Look into youth hostels in the area. Much cheaper, although can be a little rough sometimes.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 08:31:27 2014 No.7967783

>>7964299
>wear aristocrat or ouji?

Hmm... not previous poster, but I'm a male who is starting to get interested, but no clothing skills or fashion sense (imouto used to pick out my clothing). Is the community welcoming of males in general?

Any suggestions for some complete sets ready made available online, something I could try out as a starter? 5'10", 168lbs, nerdy looking asian male with glasses.

Also thinking about trying some cosplay as well, something subtly medically themed might be nice, I'm a doctor IRL. BlackJack is the obvious one, but not sure I really want to dress up as him.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 08:48:09 2014 No.7967796

>>7964915
>Birth control now is making me sick as a dog half of the time and no desire to eat.

Nausea effects tend to be more common with progesterone-based OC. You might try asking your doctor to cut back the dosage, or try a combination OC product with a smaller proportion of progesterone in it.

However, if you're using it to control bleeding, you might find such products with less progesterone aren't as effective.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 09:05:05 2014 No.7967809

>Plan cosplays early in the year with crush
>really excited to do them all and suddenly they tell me they want to cut several that I was really looking forward to (and I had already bought stuff for)
> Take it and leave it be
> heartbroken as fuck.

I know I'm probably just being ridiculously submissive

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 09:13:13 2014 No.7967816

>wakes up
>super depressed,recovering from anorexia,feeling ugly,fat and all the package coming with.
>i don't have anything lolita because i'm too scared to wear feminine cute things but dreams of it
>sees dream dress on Yahoo Auction
>100euros
I have no idea how much the shipping is going to cost to France but now I'm so confused should I buy it?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 09:15:31 2014 No.7967819 Went out shopping and got lunch with my best friend in lolita yesterday, and we got free cake at the cafe we went to. I missed doing stuff like this. Socializing is nice.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 09:25:04 2014 No.7967825

My mother would prefer that I bought 60 bad quality Milanoo dresses for 10 € than a single good quality dress for 600 €. She justified it by saying "maybe if you ever move out of home an need money for a house I will tell you "it' my money´" and spend it in absurd shit". Then she pressured me to sell my Merry Making in The Ghost Town, because "I don't fit in it anyways". I it in it perfectly, I'm a japanese size M, my mom just loves to remind me that she thinks I'm a fat fuck.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 10:33:54 2014 No.7967880 >>7967816 Yes. Buy it, wear it and be cute in it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:18:16 2014 No.7967925 >>7967825 Your mom sounds like a cunt. Move out asap.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:20:05 2014 No.7967932 >>7967809 Did they have a reason? If you already have a few more planned to do together, why not just save the other ones for next year? Or just go ahead and make them yourself and tell them they can cosplay with you when they catch up.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:27:20 2014 No.7967949 >just bought three jsks >dream that all lolita main pieces actually have to be about 18cm bigger than the body measurements for some reason >wake up sweating

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:29:02 2014 No.7967955

>>7967932
we actually live in different countries so its hard even though I do fly over regularly. This time I'm not staying for particularly long.

They didn't really tell me, just that they didn't want to do it anymore, but I guess I'm glad we still have the plans remaining.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:46:54 2014 No.7967974
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I have a problem that I'm always on the bottom rung of every social circle that involves girls.
I never really have this problem with my male friends and the "weird" female friends who are tomboyish like I can be, in those situations we're all equals and can joke freely about things without people getting offended.
But in my comm and in uni, I feel like the "regular" girls (I don't know what else to call it, pardon the expression) have this weird hierarchy thing and it's been the death of me for as long as I've lived.

If I tell the same joke the "leaders" of a group do in exactly the same way, they won't laugh at mine but will laugh at theirs.
If I start talking or suggest something to do, everyone will just look at me in disgust but enthusiastically accept whatever the "cool" girls suggest even if it's exactly the same thing.
Whenever they say something or do something it's coveted and praised but if I do it, it's laughed at and I get called a clumsy loser.
If they copy me, I would be the one who would be accused of copying.

It just seems so stupid and petty but even at work you have the "alpha" girls and if I disagree with them they make my life a living hell while if I fight back I get called a terrible person for wanting to hurt the poor babies and a crazy bitch.

I never seem to have that issue with my childhood girl friends or my guy friends. I often really want to talk about girly shit that my usual friends don't know much about, but my experience with girls like that has almost always been some type of catty hierarchy bullcrap that I'm frankly getting sick of.

Can anyone explain why it's happening? Why the exact same words coming out of different people's mouths are treated differently?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:48:45 2014 No.7967977 >>7967974 >inb4 "I'm not like those other guuurls" save it

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 11:55:34 2014 No.7967985

>>7967974
If I'm understanding it correctly, you're telling the same exact things word for word? Then I'm guessing they've already heard it.
As for the other things, you'll have to describe the situation more in depth before I can really make a clear judgement of what's happening, but from what you got right now, it just seems like they're closer friends than you are to the of the rest of the group.
Have you tried talking to these, "normal," girls?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:01:05 2014 No.7967992

>>7967985
Well yes, I'm talking to them all the time. The point is that in our social circles (let's say uni), one girl's voice matters more than another's. The joke thing was just an example, perhaps if I put it this way: I tell an original joke that I just thought up and no-one laughs. Ten minutes later, Cool Girl tells that same joke word for word and the whole class laughs.
Cool girl tells the class "hey everybody! Let's do x!" and everyone agrees, whereas if I did the same people would just look at me weird or maybe say "uhhh... I don't know".
All of us have been in class for the same amount of time and all of us socialise with others the same amount.
That's what's puzzling to me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:09:20 2014 No.7968010 >>7967992 They're probably just closer friends to them than they are with you. They probably hang out when you guys aren't in class, or text each other, or something. Is there any other reason you might not believe this?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:15:54 2014 No.7968014

>>7968010
Because it's been happening to me a lot throughout my life. Maybe they're just more likeable, I can't see why a joke would be less funny if a stranger told it. I feel like wherever I go I have no authority over anything whereas whomever they meet they become fast friends and everyone hangs upon their every word. I don't hate the girls or anything, I'm just a bit annoyed because I don't understand why that is. I was always the loser kid in school and I really don't want to be one anymore, I don't look weird or anything (I think) so I don't know why it's happening.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:21:21 2014 No.7968018 >>7968014 could be Anne Hathaway syndrome, if you know what that is

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:24:33 2014 No.7968022

>>7968014
Depends on the joke, and if you're comparing a stranger's joke to a friend's joke of course your friend's joke is going to be funnier.
>tone enunciation
>facial expressions
>inside jokes
>"Oh man, she would totally say that!"
Just somethings that might make what they say get a more positive reaction.
If it's been happening throughout your life, then you're just the type of person who just doesn't make friends easily. You have friends, so it's not like you're unlikeable, why do you need their approval too? They aren't harassing you, or making fun of you. If they're going the "normal" girl's way instead of yours, you can just do your own thing?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:32:00 2014 No.7968029

>>7968022
I can, sure but... I just want to be normal too. I don't want to be the weird awkward weeb or the butt of someone's jokes or the one with only weird friends. My friends are great, I would never change them - but I would like to have normalfag friends too, and friends who are girly girls whom I can talk to about makeup and fashion and stuff, something I can't talk to my current friends about since they don't care.
I mean they don't necessarily need be girly, but you know what I mean. Normies.
Especially because I'm doing a business degree and I am trying to learn to socialise a lot more, but it's so awkward.
>>7968018
What's wrong with Anne Hathaway? What's that?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:48:58 2014 No.7968059

>>7968029
Just talking to you right now, you seem a little critical with your labeling. Calling yourself and your friends weird, calling other people normal; that might put people off. I don't think you or your friends are weird, or the normal people 'normal,' I just think you guys have different interests.
I have gone full semesters not talking to people about anime and j-fashion, but I was able to talk to them about other things because I also enjoy things.
I guess if it's a much bigger part of your life, it can get pretty frustrating, but at least you aren't alone. If you're looking to talk about makeup and fashion, /cgl/ usually has makeup and J-fashion threads running.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 12:58:00 2014 No.7968073

>>7968029
That's probably it, then, you're the socially awkward person that no one really likes because there's something "off" about you. I used to be like that too, and no one liked me but the other out-casts. It changed when I learned how to socialize properly, learned how to sound normal (not stuttering, articulate ideas clearly, have the right melody when speaking, etc.), and while I'm still not a social butterfly, people at least accept me because I'm easy to talk to, dress presentably, and don't sound like I'm mentaly retarded.

Now, since I don't know you, I can't really say for sure what exactly is wrong (and I can't really take your word for it because you're naturally going to be biased towards yourself), but I honestly do suspect (as is usually the case with people asking "why don't others like me") that they're picking up on something weird about you.

I'm a "cute" tripfag named Cak(...) !!qXY0AK1NM2z Sun Nov 30 13:05:11 2014 No.7968082

>>7967419
I agree
>>7967410
Condoms feel like shit, and I've tried the pricer brands. (From a girl's point of view)
I've been having sex for over a year with no condom or birth control and I haven't gotten pregnant or STDs
Thank goodness.
(But I am planning on getting birth control soon)

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 13:06:39 2014 No.7968085 >>7968073 Could be it. I don't really sound mentally retarded or stutter or anything, but I have trouble looking people in the eye and sometimes I'm really self-conscious about my body (as in, the gestures I'm making and the way I appear to others)

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 13:32:30 2014 No.7968119 >mfw wanna go to cons but short on cash

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:23:11 2014 No.7968188 Wow, I-I just wanted to vent about my ED and maybe get some tips on coping with anxiety...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:36:18 2014 No.7968216 >>7967825 Why don't you just slap her shit

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:38:29 2014 No.7968221 >>7968082 I don't think the problem's the condom, then. Sorry 'bout your sex life.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:48:35 2014 No.7968236 >>7967390 Have fun paying child support or shelling out a pretty penny for a good lawyer. You know the system is in favor of bitches right?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:48:54 2014 No.7968238 >>7967621 Why is "enjoying" in quotes? Actually, what part of anything you said makes sense?

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 14:53:24 2014 No.7968246

>>7967587
Yo, they're people. Some are going to be kinky, some won't. No one's wearing the fashion just because
>Most lolitas like stuff like ageplay, being fucked really roughly, masochism etc.

That's wishful thinking bullshit and an excuse to see the clothes as sexual all the time.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 15:03:05 2014 No.7968265

>>7968238
Guys act different in front of girls

Girls wouldn't know this because they are the axiom which makes guys act different. You might think you are "one of the girls" and the conversations you have with guys are totally unsexual and just regular but that is horseshit.

Guys change their behaviour around women, even if she is a fat disgusting pig.

Next time you are in a big group of guys and one girl pay attention to how the guys speak and you will realize they are trying subltely competing with each other for the girls affection

There is no way a conversation between a man and woman can occur that is free of hormones and sexuality

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 15:31:39 2014 No.7968309 >>7968265 Why are so many idiots into this broscience and bropsychology? It makes men and women look like fucking tards.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 15:40:12 2014 No.7968322 >>7968309 Its not broscience I've lived it

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 15:47:31 2014 No.7968337 >>7968322 Cool, I've lived the opposite. Go anecdotal evidence.

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 16:21:55 2014 No.7968425
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>Boyfriend and I break up after being together for over a year
>He found another girl only 2 weeks later
>We said we'd get back together if he treated me better
>He was being a sweetheart to me again like when we first got together
>I'm so fucking jealous that I want to sob and have him to myself again even though he treated me badly
>Haven't really spoke much to him since and have been running on a couple hours of sleep a day and eating makes me sick.

I hate being such a jealous, salty cunt. He treated me so badly and made me cry all the time, but I still want him to myself. I don't know how to get over this.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 17:36:35 2014 No.7968570 >>7967406 USA

Anonymous Sun Nov 30 17:50:03 2014 No.7968593
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>Be me
>Have little to no skills in cosplay or makeup
>Con and meetup in two weeks
>Friends S and K want to cosplay
>S is terrible with cosplay, but she's young enough and weeby enough to get away with it.
>K is good with sewing, from what I know.
>They're both fun to hang around, but really hyper.
>I tried cosplay twice, it failed twice
>I love cosplaying though, and want to get more into it
>Barely have courage to post here to ask for advice
>Stressed to the max because of health issues
How do you do it, seagulls?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 30 20:32:51 2014 No.7968820 >>7967706 >I don't like her so I'll say she was a camgirl get over yourself you fat piece of garbage.

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