hey bitches let's have a lolita comm thread.

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Anonymous Mon Sep 1 08:18:30 2014 No.7792675 [Reply] [Original]

hey bitches
let's have a lolita comm thread.

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 1 08:46:41 2014 No.7792701 File: 13 KB, 240x319, 576_1.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Let's start with perfection. >I will never be as pure forever alone :(

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 1 08:49:05 2014 No.7792703 >>7792701 >community thread >posts brand model nobody has ever interacted with

>>	Anonymous Mon Sep 1 09:18:59 2014 No.7792734 >>7792703 >brand model hurrr

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:09:59 2014 No.7794732 bampu

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:23:26 2014 No.7794751
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I just wanted to get this off my chest.

Girl on the right: It's ironic that someone who actively took part in bullying is making a panel on community bullying.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:28:26 2014 No.7794758 >>7794751 Cute coords ruined by their ugly faces. Lolita truly is an ugly girl's fashion.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:28:43 2014 No.7794759 >small town, no comm >google closest big city to see if there's a comm >"where can I buy lolita dress in ___ city" >"maybe try hot topic!" Nope

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:29:59 2014 No.7794760

I'm getting really sick and tired of this chick in my comm. One minute she's posting secrets on BTB about how lonely and afraid of the community she is, then suddenly she's doing lolita photos shots with a creeper photographer.

I understand that some people view lolita as a gateway to e-fame and that my country doesn't have many e-famous lolitas so there's an open spot so to speak but you are better off to have a fan base built up on people who admire your co-ords, wardrobe and ability to run meet-ups than tumblr hugs and sympathy.

Everything about this just reeks of desperation.

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:32:19 2014 No.7794763

I'm still wondering about the 2-3 people who posted here about my comm. We have 60 people at best and 90% don't show up for meets. Either they were extremely brave/stupid to post, or they wanted to frame someone. Obviously, I don't think the latter is likely, but hey, I'll just throw all the options up there.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:34:33 2014 No.7794765 I just moved and I want to join my comm but I have no idea what the Facebook page is and don't know anyone in the area. Ah well

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 02:39:32 2014 No.7794772 >>7794765 Ask for it in the Lolita general ? Or maybe post on your local con facebook page ?

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 04:17:44 2014 No.7794906
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I feel bad b/c I've heard this comm is really friendly, but most of these coords are just really really bad.
It looks like the one wearing IW Gertrude jsk is wearing a cupcake petti under an a-line dress?
>I like her thick braid though
>girl in yukata was working the festival I think

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 04:25:39 2014 No.7794924 >>7794906 It's bell shaped just too much poof is giving that weird shape. >>7794758 Applies so hard on Girlonsunday.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 04:26:59 2014 No.7794928 >>7794751 At least you know she has some experience with the topic

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 04:29:24 2014 No.7794933 >>7794765 https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anw4aY5HpSLMdFU2UjZjZ0t2Z0I3RXZtemhkSWlMamc&usp=docslist_api%3E7363594#gid=1

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 05:30:12 2014 No.7794996 >>7794906 sorry but they all look awful bar the girl in bodyline balloon bears O.o

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 05:41:34 2014 No.7795008 >>7794906 >3rd from right >girl between ddc and yukata these two are still acceptable. i will refuse to be seen in public with the rest.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 05:44:08 2014 No.7795010 >>7794906 What's wrong with the cute one wearing that BL OP? It's simple, but it looks tidy and balanced, and her wig and make up look nice

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 19:47:02 2014 No.7796134 >>7795010 most, not all only like 2 of them look acceptable, balloon bears girl included

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 19:59:56 2014 No.7796162 File: 51 KB, 453x604, 1933891.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] You will never know the pain of being in the same comm as this ita monster.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:01:56 2014 No.7796164 >>7796162 Every time she posts on CoF I cringe no matter what she's wearing. I am so sorry. What's she like IRL?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:08:09 2014 No.7796171 >>7796164 As terrible as you'd imagine. Whenever she tries to plan meet-ups, nobody responds to her.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:10:39 2014 No.7796179 >>7796171 That makes me feel sorry for her. That unfortunate face and a personality to match, and on top of that no one wants to hang out with poor ita-chan... this seriously makes me sad

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:17:07 2014 No.7796190

>>7796162
I saw her at Tora-Con this past year. I'm a lone Lolita so I'm not really involved but she appeared to be with the local comm members. The others were pretty well dressed in sweet and were getting their pictures taken... and then that girl was kinda standing awkwardly to the side waiting for them.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:18:11 2014 No.7796194 >>7794751 Who did she bully? New York comm is the worst.

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:28:57 2014 No.7796215

I used to complain a lot about how small and poor my comm is, but we've had some new girls joining that I'm really excited about. They're still young with little money to spare for lolita, but they seem genuinely interested in building their wardrobes, even if it's a slow process, which is more than can be said for some of our members that have been in a long time. Also, nobody seems interested in purchasing replicas, so that's a huge plus. I feel like our future is looking bright.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:45:55 2014 No.7796259 >>7796162 I just realized who she is on LM (purple carebear proof and scalper prices). She's been on since it started and still has absolutely no feedback. like, how?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 20:57:04 2014 No.7796282 >>7796259 probably because she's not selling anything of value.

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:06:32 2014 No.7796299

My comm has a somewhat recent addition who is getting pretty unbearable. She's really overweight (which would be fine if not for her attitude) and while she seems willing to modify things like Bodyline to fit, she still acts surprised when she finds out how small brand items are, especially OTKs. For reference, she's 5'9" and at least 280lbs+ and has no bust/waist/hip distinction. The bust measurement she mentioned in a WTB is 132cm, yet there are still things like DDC, CDC, Sugary Carnival, etc. in her wishlist album. At first I pitied her a little and tried to help, but she brushed off the suggestions and concrit I offered with excuses, breezily claiming she'd "tailor" the brand dresses she wanted to fit herself.

She's come to a few events, namely a swap meet we held a while back, where she dragged her younger/slightly less-interested-in-loli sister along, plus her sister's 6-month-old baby. Now she acts presumptuous about meets in general, whining if the Facebook event isn't made right away or if it's too far for her. I can only hope that she abstains from the rest of the year's meets, particularly the formal Christmas tea we have scheduled at a ritzy hotel. Ugh. Sorry for ranting so much, I'm just fed up with her.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:17:42 2014 No.7796335 >>7796299 JFC, you can't have a tailor add 32 cm to the bust of a dress, that's like 12 inches!

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:35:48 2014 No.7796387 >>7796194 Yeah, the main non-ita group just loves to ban and bully people for no legit reason. A friend of mine started a small group for anons that don't want to deal with that mess and it's pretty much drama-free.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:39:42 2014 No.7796392 >>7794763 PGH? The PGH anon "doesn't even go to meets", but yet she has all of this info... She's either a super sleuth or a member of the comm.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:42:10 2014 No.7796395 Come back CG-sama

PGH Anon Tue Sep 2 21:50:09 2014 No.7796408

>>7796392
I'm one of those people that spends way too much time on Facebook and loves gossip. I've been going to Tekko since I was very young, so I'm really familiar with all of those that have gone a long time too. I really don't go to meets, I'm just a passive observer!

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:53:34 2014 No.7796420 Is there a comm in the socal (specifically Long Beach) area? I've heard about tons of lolitas going to Little Tokyo in L.A. from Long Beach but I've never seen any.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 21:55:08 2014 No.7796423 >>7796408 Okay. Sorry for sounding accusatory, if I did. You just seemed to know lots of inside stuff. I guess other members of the comm were posting in the thread, besides you (if the anon that I originally replied to is from pgh).

PGH Anon Tue Sep 2 21:59:38 2014 No.7796437

>>7796423
Not at all! It's perfectly understandable to be skeptical, I just kind of came out of nowhere. I don't deem to be the expert on all things Pittsburgh or anything, nor am I out to hurt anyone or destroy the comm. I just like having an outlet to talk about some of these people I see all the time. I think there are a few other anons from Pittsburgh, especially judging from the ita thread, but the cosplay/lolita community is very small (the con gets at most 4-5k people a year, I believe) so it's not noteworthy as compared to NYC, LA, International comms, and basically everyone else in the world.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:09:49 2014 No.7796469 >>7796437 Yeah even Philly's comm/cosplay scene seems more active, which I find strange since the area is around the same size I think? (I'm a PA anon, closer to Philly area so it's interesting to hear how the other side of the state is)

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:17:03 2014 No.7796500 >>7796387 What's it called, I'm visiting nyc in a few weeks and I would like to meet some of the better members.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:17:19 2014 No.7796502 >>7796469 Philly doesn't even have an anime con locally, right? Isn't it just WW Philadelphia?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:18:13 2014 No.7796506 anyone got UK drama? i heard there was some.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:28:43 2014 No.7796527 >>7796502 there's j1 con (anime) and ww philly/philly comic con. There's also a few small NJ cons around. NYC isn't too far away either (1 hr 30~ drive)

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 22:42:20 2014 No.7796546 >>7796500 The group doesn't have a name. You pretty much have to try to catch the leader when there's a friend finder thread. There's also NYCgull but it's pretty much dead.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:04:13 2014 No.7796584 >>7796546 Ah,do you happen to know who the leader is?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:13:53 2014 No.7796601 >>7796584 You'll probably have to comb through the archives for her posts. I don't really think she'll appreciate me posting her info without her permission.

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:18:47 2014 No.7796612

The comm I want to join gives me mixed feelings... it's pretty small and got posted here a few times because most girls look ita-tastic. I do 't mind though, at least the queen bee has a cute face and seems nice enough. I haven't made it to any meets yet, and most of them sounded pretty meh... I was hopingfor sth more fancy.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:24:54 2014 No.7796627 >>7794751 What dress is that?

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:27:12 2014 No.7796632 >>7796627 The town houses one

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:30:07 2014 No.7796645 >>7796627 IW's Cesky Krumlov or whatever, it's still on the site

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:33:27 2014 No.7796653 >>7796601 What do you recommend I do anon? I really want to meet some nyc lolitas but I really don't want to hang out with crazies.

>>	Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:45:11 2014 No.7796689 >>7796653 Try searching NYC on archive. Even if you don't find her, you might find another sane person or comm.

Anonymous Tue Sep 2 23:51:20 2014 No.7796700

Can anyone tell me about the LA comm? I've been interested in Lolita for who knows how long and finally have the money, but I just don't see much point in engaging without partaking in any social elements related to the fashions. I'd love to learn a bit more about the local comm and maybe chat with some of the girls before I drop a few hundreds on dresses and tailoring.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 00:59:25 2014 No.7796828 >>7796500 Hey I just moved to NYC! if you wanna meet up I'd be down!

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:04:17 2014 No.7796841 So who's the creepy guy who joined the Toronto comm? There was a secret about him a couple weeks back

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:15:12 2014 No.7796867 >>7796828 Different anon but I live in nyc,I'm not very active on the main comm (they're batshit) but I'm always down to meet new people! Feel free to leave your email and I'll shoot you a message.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:21:52 2014 No.7796876 Yooo, I joined the Ohio Comm a while back and have yet to really interact with anyone. Any drama or anything I should be aware of?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:24:25 2014 No.7796880 >moving to new state >contact local com >get blocked and I guess I am going to just have to settle on going on dates with my bf in lolita

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:29:58 2014 No.7796894 >>7796841 I haven't heard of him doing anything bad but I still don't like him around. He seems socially awkward and overeager and it's annoying.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:35:58 2014 No.7796915

>>7796894
It was asked on btb and no one answered but does he have high functioning autism/aspergers syndrome? I mean no harm by asking this because I don't know him, I'm curious. It could explain why the creep vibes if he's innocent of doing anything wrong.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 01:57:55 2014 No.7796959 >>7796420 bump

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:36:53 2014 No.7797363

Dear arizona, has there ever been any dramu involving some guy who's born male but wishes to be a kawaii female or something along the lines of this?

Due to some coincidence i met somebody and now i am reaaaallly curious about this particular piece of drama.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:45:53 2014 No.7797371 >>7796700 We have too many people

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:47:11 2014 No.7797373 >>7794906 How is that girl in DDC even breathing? Jesus christ.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:50:32 2014 No.7797379 >>7796506 You'll have to me more specific, there's a lot of comms with varying degrees of drama. I haven't heard anything lately, though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:51:35 2014 No.7797381 >>7797379 be*, whoops

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 08:58:35 2014 No.7797390

>>7796841
>>7796915
Idk, but he has something that makes him unable to get hints. The issue with him is that while people are polite to him in public because its nice, he takes it to be that we are all his friends. Which is fine until it gets to be a bit scary for people when he is following them to their car, or pretty much stalking someone on fb and tryign to be a part of their personal outings. Its that boundary that people normally have with people you just meet that he lacks and you know he isnt meaning to be creepy he just is. He has been told by the mods and by certain people he was a bit too much to about incidents but I feel like its at the point where the people who have seen him do this shit are so done.

I can see why he gets defenders though, because these are issues you dont see at first and I was like that when I first met him too. But if you only met him at a con a few times you wont have had the experiences that people who have seen him at several meets have had. In the span of the few months its been oh he just is awkward to trying to avoid him.

Mods needs to get their shit together and deal with this properly.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 09:05:22 2014 No.7797407

>>7797390
We had a similar situation with a guy in our community. Hints never work. Hell, people sat down and talked to him directly about what he was doing wrong and *that* didn't work.

Eventually, either he was quietly banned, or people stopped including him in event invitation lists, but he disappeared somewhere after a few months.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 09:14:53 2014 No.7797425
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>>7796915
>>7797390
>tfw you have Assburgers and are too terrified of being That Girl to approach your local comm
I like to think I'm pretty good at recognizing and respecting boundaries but what if I'm actually a total sperg and everyone I know is just too nice to call me out on it?
At least I'm not a scary-looking man...

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 09:28:26 2014 No.7797459 >>7797425 If you're aware that this kind of behaviour is a problem, you're not a part of the problem. And if you're scared it may be, tell a mod in advance and ask them to warn you if you're approaching/crossing boundaries.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 09:31:15 2014 No.7797466 >>7796876 Someone was trying to start shit on here a few months ago but since they've been found out and banned it's been quiet. What part of Ohio are you from?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 09:38:54 2014 No.7797478 >>7797363 Which one? Lol.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:13:50 2014 No.7797500 Any British comm drama I don't hear of much. My local comm seems pretty cool but the comm leader seems to only actually like a select few. Seriously sometimes my comm feels like mean girls. Makes me nervous about attending meets.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:18:06 2014 No.7797504 Is the Tokyo comm nice? I'll be in the city for a few weeks next month and would love to get dressed up and hang out with some people, but it's hard to get a good feel for the comm from the FB group.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:25:24 2014 No.7797516

>>7796420
There's the LA, beach cities, and OC groups. I know that OC tends to hit up the Little Tokyo events at Fairytale Boutique. LA seems active. Not sure on beach cities.

I really don't hear much drama from the groups, but I only joined OC last year and hit meets once and awhile. So I'm out of the loop.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:47:14 2014 No.7797543
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>>7796500
Whatever you do, don't join the main group or the "Victorian ladies" group on Facebook. Both of them are filled with batshit crazy bitches.

Here's the mod of the main comm talking about the people she didn't like at her meet up.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:49:10 2014 No.7797549 >>7796689 Anon, please. Why would you lie like that? There's no sanding left here in /cgl/

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 10:53:46 2014 No.7797553

I have a question for the Brazilian comm. A woman who moved to my comm is claiming to have organised the first lolita meets in Brazil back in 2003. However she also asked whether an obvious Milanoo sock-puppet is real and does not look like someone who should wear j-fashion. Do any of you know who I'm talking about? If so, should I avoid her?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:02:04 2014 No.7797565 >>7794933 My comm isn't included on here... I know we're kinda small but man that's depressing.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:16:51 2014 No.7797591 Are any German Lolitas here? What's the Frankfurt am Main community like, if there is one?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:25:19 2014 No.7797607 >>7797565 Then mention it here (or to an admin, if there's one listed) and add it? A lot of the smaller comms were added to that list by people volunteering the names/links.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:27:56 2014 No.7797616 >>7797543 As if this isn't the same thing regular posters to this thread don't do either.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:33:26 2014 No.7797630 >>7797543 Oh my god what a cunt. Is this that amber bitch that got called gorilla chan on here a while ago? I felt bad for her at first but after all the shit I've heard about her I kind of hope she gets run over by a bus.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 11:52:30 2014 No.7797654

I wish there was a more active NJ comm in north Jersey. Everything is always planned for south Jersey and I'd really rather not drive 2 hours away for a meet. I wanted to go to meetups in NYC, but it doesn't sound like a desirable comm to join based off what everyone is saying.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 12:09:21 2014 No.7797669 >>7797654 Same...I live in jersey city which is 20 mins from nyc by train but I'm so disgusted by the nyc girls I rarely go to their meetups. The philly/south jersey comm is so much nicer but it's too far from me to be able to go to their meetups often.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 12:10:02 2014 No.7797670 >>7797478 Wooow there's more than one? Well he has supposedly attended at least one tp but the photos were removed, also some exchange of money like some theft or something was involved supposedly.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:00:25 2014 No.7797723 >>7797669 I want to try hosting something up here, I just need to find a good place. I've also never hosted anything before so that makes me a little nervous.

>>	Saboten Con General Wed Sep 3 13:01:40 2014 No.7797727 >>7797363 We have a 40 year old tranny who's a sissy and looks like Mr. Ichabod, two MtF's "brolitas", and 2 brolitas that actually have dicks. Unless there's more going on that's all I know of.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:03:38 2014 No.7797728 >>7797363 We have a 40 year old tranny who's a sissy and looks like Mr. Ichabod, two MtF's "brolitas", and 2 brolitas that actually have dicks. Unless there's more going on that's all I know of.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:05:36 2014 No.7797735 >>7797728 Whoop, meant FtM.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:11:28 2014 No.7797746 >>7797654 >>7797669 Where were you two when I lived in Newark? I moved to NYC, sadly.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:12:05 2014 No.7797749

>>7796876
Ohio's really quiet. They're good at shutting down drama. Biggest problem you're gonna come across is how sparse the comm is. Seems like people are concentrated around Cinci, Columbus, and Akron/Canton. If you're anywhere else you're gonna have to travel a lot. The comm also has a rep for not being best dressed. Everyone's incredibly sweet and fun to be around, though. No crazies or drama whores.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:15:45 2014 No.7797754

>>7796392

Nope, actually. This was a while ago, but they sounded like they had more scoop on everything than I did, and were predicting a lot of things that eventually didn't turn up. It isn't in our comm's personality to bring things to the forefront though, which is a good thing sometimes.

On one hand, I'm sort of skeeved our comm has some bubbling issues, despite this being a common issue in every sort of group in and out of lolita. On the other hand, the gossip seeker in me wants moar info.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:18:34 2014 No.7797761

NYC cosplayer here.

Can someone tell me what's up with the NY Lolita community? I don't pay much attention to it, but from this thread and mentions in others there seems to be a lot of hate.

I've only met two NYC lolitas - one was an horrible SJW who started pressuring me to abandon my friends because she disagreed with their politics, and the other is a very nice girl who's unfortunately hideously fat and ugly.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:25:03 2014 No.7797776

>>7796700
The general group is very large, but meets tend to be smaller. The exception are Fairytale Boutique events (which are pretty hit-or-miss: the ticketed events are usually really good, but the shop events are usually boring). A lot of smaller groups are fairly close friends, so it can seem clique-ish, but in general people are very nice. With such a large group, it's pretty easy to find others that share your interests outside if Lolita, too.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:39:57 2014 No.7797801

>>7797425
Fellow spergloli here, I have that same worry, along with some sensory issues that I have to work with, I'd say we should just make a comm of our own but that would be a hilarious trainwreck.
I've noticed saying "I'm a little bit clueless, so please let me know if I'm doing something that bothers you." Goes over pretty well, people don't automatically think "oh she's disabled, bring out the hugbox" and will actually tell you if you're crossing a line. There will always be that girl who gets pissed off, but she won't tell you she's mad until it's too late anyways even if she knows.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:49:04 2014 No.7797828

>>7797761
How do I say this without creating an essay?

>NYCLolitas. The "alpha group"
>Has all the popular girls from the days of LJ and beyond
>Gets interviews with Japanese news crews and access into a bunch of cool events
>Requires a lot of ass kissing and piss drinking to get into their meets because they're so exclusive
>They talk shit about everyone and pretend to be your friend
>If you piss any of them off, you'll be bullied to hell and back
>Example: The Cadney meet drama and the winter Misako meet drama

>Victorian Ladies and Frills. The "butthurt group"
>If you're dumb and can't take criticism for life, you end up in here
>It's "drama free" but they cause all the drama themselves by being dumb in NYCLolitas.
>Requires you not to be friends with anyone with "drama" and a full friend-list check
>You're surrounded by weebs, itas, and a bunch of guys with fake British accents
>If you choose to go to an NYCLolitas meet up instead of theirs, they will bully you to hell and back.
>Example: Crystal Candyland and the Lady Mendl meet drama

Then you got the exclusive Chinese group, NYCgull, and the smaller groups that don't want anything to do with others.

Captcha: War every

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 13:49:33 2014 No.7797830 >>7797746 I'm in Bergen County so I'm really close to NYC still! I go there frequently, actually

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 14:09:32 2014 No.7797850 >>7797828 Deets on Cadney and Misako drama please.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 14:17:45 2014 No.7797858 >>7797828 Please, write the essay, we can save it for the next batch of newbies to ask.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 14:37:50 2014 No.7797889 >>7797828 Nyc drama is probably the scariest. I cant think of any comm drama ever that got to the level of these guys.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 14:44:54 2014 No.7797893 >>7797850 Seconded. Cadney is super sweet, why would there be drama?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:05:36 2014 No.7797910 Fucking VenusAngelic wearing brand in a fashion show hosted by brand just made me lose faith in BTSSB and their life choices.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:17:00 2014 No.7797925 >>7797910 The staff of most lolita brands got white fever, just look at the average caucasian brand models.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:19:01 2014 No.7797929

>>7797850
>>7797893
I thought the whole Cadney trainwreck was a thing here. Let me try to sum it up.

Cadney was visiting the city and the comm decided to have a meet up. She and a friend that lives here wanted to do a bit of hanging out beforehand, so they meet up in Bryant Park. A bunch of people and 2 of Amber/Amanikitty's friends show up (Dalin and Rune). Apparently, Rune told everyone to stay put but another side of the story says that Dalin tried to get everyone to go to Central Park but gave up and left the girls there.

Cadney and Friend-chan decide to have lunch and take shelter from the rain. Friend-chan gets a call from Rune with Amber screeching about how there's a bunch of people waiting and they need to drop everything so they can meet up immediately. Cadney starts crying because Amber started to scream at her (while telling her to leave Friend-chan behind) and made her feel bad. Both of them leave the other girls behind and head to the MET. Nobody was there.

Amber struts in with her friends hours later, complaining about how they had lunch without Cadney, ignores Friend-chan's apologies for the misunderstandings, and then gives Cadney all the sweet "I'm sorry, they stressed you out, boo." Friend-chan goes home and sees her Facebook plastered with Amber, some other comm mods, and her friends insulting her, a ban from NYCLolitas, and a bunch of bull about how she "hijacked" the meet up.

Cadney now visits NYC in secret.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:19:55 2014 No.7797931

>>7797893
It isnt drama about her really, it is drama that surrounded her coming to Nyc and having a meet. They just used her as a platform to start shit with eachother and get her in the middle.

>>7797910
She didnt look that bad in the dress, but she was put into it later on. So probably the con did something.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:20:39 2014 No.7797932 >>7797500 What comm?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:53:44 2014 No.7797983 >>7797929 Wow, that sounds just terrible. I'm so sorry Cadney and her friend had to deal with that. My local comm can get bitchy, but damn I'm glad it's not as terrible as that NYC comm.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 15:55:00 2014 No.7797987

>>7797728
Supposedly the person i'm trying to find out about should fill this criteria

>born male
>Realised he's actually a she around 2013
>Likes looking at emily temple cute-ish otome stuff (but less so jm it seems)
>is denied his/her only photo of him/herself in lolita due to either being banned/blocked from some ppls' facebooks, or the tea party pictures were deleted?
>claims some kind of theft or cheating involving around 800 dollars - either the mtf(?) stole it OR was stolen from
>claims to not dress female anymore due to past drama and financial constraints

Not trying to stir new drama. trying to find sauce on old drama.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 16:16:05 2014 No.7798023 >>7797828 Exclusive Chinese comm? Deets please

>>	SassyGayKing Wed Sep 3 16:52:53 2014 No.7798102 >>7797929 Woah what a bitch Cadney is such a qt Deet son the winter Misako drama anon dear?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 16:54:45 2014 No.7798106 >>7798102 *Deets on Lawdy I can't type I apologize for the namefagging seagulls

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 16:59:50 2014 No.7798115 >>7797987 Haven't a clue who you're talking about Anon and I've been around the comm since about 2010...

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:00:33 2014 No.7798120 >>7794906 >mfw I see bodyline look better than brand

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:22:42 2014 No.7798160

>>7798102
>>7797850
If I can remember, Amber from >>7797929 planned a huge tea party with Misako as a guest.
>didn't even make an effort to book her time until last minute
>people were unsure to see if she was REALLY going to join them
>talked about how she's going to rent her own silverware and use cheap bagged tea
>changed venues multiple times from Manhattan to middle of nowhere Astoria and back
>publicly told off some girl from the fail group that she's banned and to never make an attempt to come to any of her meets
It's all minor drama, but it still made a huge stink last year.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:35:30 2014 No.7798185 >>7798160 Did Misako actually show up though?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:40:26 2014 No.7798195 >>7798185 Yeah, she did. It was a whole trainwreck because the host kept asking for extra money and people were starting to drop out.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:40:38 2014 No.7798196 Any deets on Maine? Sad about Rebecca moving, she's a sweetheart.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:44:34 2014 No.7798203 >>7797932 If it's the north west comm, stay the fuck away. They're all crazy bitches.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 17:55:34 2014 No.7798221 >>7794751 lol looks like whoever is posting this is butthurt. She's never bullied anyone. At least NY comm isnt as bad as houston comm

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:07:47 2014 No.7798241 >>7798221 >At least NY comm isnt as bad as houston comm >>7798160 >>7797929 Your comm is pretty fucking bad. Don't compare yourself to shit.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:14:55 2014 No.7798249 Anyone looking forward to the ice bucket challenge comm wave? Apparently NOLA called out a few comms to do it today soooo prepare your ugliest bodyline dresses.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:18:37 2014 No.7798261 >>7798241 It's not bad. anon from before is talking about one person making shitty meets

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:29:46 2014 No.7798284

>>7798261
Problem would be it's the same one person, doing it over and over again, here in NYC.

I'm not even mad at that person but the group bullying is not unlike the school bullying level back in Japan. Out of everything, they just had to emulate only bad stuff? It's kind of sad in my honest opinion. I don't bother to hang out with anyone any more.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:32:41 2014 No.7798290 What's the sf comm like? I just moved here.

psychiatristchan Wed Sep 3 18:35:59 2014 No.7798294

>>7798284
Hey anon, whats wrong. Who hurt you. Tell me your woes and worries.

Not everyone in the NY community is bad, there are a lot of sweet girls here that want to be your friend and want friends in return. Don't let a couple of bad eggs ruin your life and keep you from being who you want to be and who you want to spend your time with.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:42:56 2014 No.7798304 >>7798284 amber only makes meets like, once or twice a year at most. everyone else has private meets, not because of being ~exclusive~ but because it's impossible to have meets with 50+ people every month.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:43:56 2014 No.7798309

>>7798284
Group bullying? What group bullying? If some girls are having meets with just each other that means they're just friends going out to tea or dinner. This isn't some kind of elitist group. We're all friends hanging out. If you feel left out then write on the group comm saying you want to hang out. It's not that hard tbh

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:45:36 2014 No.7798316 File: 67 KB, 379x316, THIS.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7798304

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:47:38 2014 No.7798320 >>7794751 What bullying did she do?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 18:49:14 2014 No.7798323 >>7794758 Only ugly people say ugly things about others. Time to look in a mirror mate

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 19:31:45 2014 No.7798401 >>7798309 What about Cadney's friend? It looks like she was bullied out of the group. How do you explain that?

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 19:51:11 2014 No.7798435

>>7797910
She was a guest at the convention. Fashion guests often get tossed into the fashion show by the convention for extra promotional value.

Hell, Doll Delight wore BTSSB in the AM fashion show one year because she was a guest, even though she had her own showcase to run.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 20:17:56 2014 No.7798479 >>7797925 >The staff of most lolita brands got white fever Aint that the fucking truth

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 20:45:47 2014 No.7798528

>>7798309 >>7798304
I just thought the NYC comm is walking in circle for far as I know of, and we are humans, yes drama happens everyday lalala, but it's pretty sad that some of these guys just keeps doing the same thing over and over. At eventual point, I feel like we went from "this is what our community is about" to "you hoe, that's not how you do that."

I don't know what went wrong, and I think I'm too old now to even care enough to find out where it went wrong. I still love my friends, and I do see them when I can work it out, but fact most people in NYC comm doesn't like somebody by who they associate with or who isn't comfortable with who, kind of is a huge bummer.

I don't dress up any more either. It's just that sort of disappointment to me.

>>7798294
Thank you, but I'm over the part I'm mad with. I just wish that the fragmentation within the community stops, I guess?

I'm hopeful as fuck, I know.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 20:51:35 2014 No.7798535

>>7798401
Cadney's friend wasnt bullied out of the group, she lies about a lot of things and talks a lot of shit behind peoples back. She postponed the main meetup of that event in the hopes of being alone with Cadney so she can take photos with her and become internet/ tumblr famous. She also threatened to kill someone so she was banned from the community for a couple of months. She decided not to rejoin again

psychiatristchan Wed Sep 3 20:55:20 2014 No.7798539

>>7798528
You should be hopeful and try not to give up on the rest of your community girl. Thats why some of the girls hold meets with just their friends, because they don't want to deal with the people who bum them out.

I don't see how it went wrong since its still going strong and the only drama that exists within that community is in relation to Amber who really isnt an active lolita at all.

Please explain what it is that was the last straw for you

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 21:19:33 2014 No.7798574

No.7798535

that's also not true. These were all rumors, so prove it please. And meeting with cadney beforehand during the cadney meetup was cadneys idea, but it was only supposed to be maybe 4 people. but friend-chan accidentally made it public and it became a thing.

Also, rune, stop referring to yourself as rune so that people won't think you're commenting. I know it's you.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 21:40:56 2014 No.7798602 >>7798574 Looks like your friend chan dun fucked up

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 21:42:20 2014 No.7798607

>>7797654
>>7797669
>>7797723

Most of the active members are farther south, which is why there aren't a lot of meets up north. You should host one! I think people would really appreciate it. Also it would be fun to do an NYC meet and go to the Baby store, maybe do tea.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 21:45:44 2014 No.7798612 Well, that's one helluva PR campaign.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 21:56:50 2014 No.7798622 >>7797654 >>7797669 >>7797723 >>7798607 I'd be up for all of these things, even living further south. A lot of us are willing to drive for a fun meet!

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:00:27 2014 No.7798626 >>7796437 steel city fag here, I have lots of dirt to dish if you're interested anon

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:07:49 2014 No.7798633 >>7798535 That's not what happened at all and she never threatened to kill anyone, that's just stupid.

>>	GOTHGOTHLOLILOLI Wed Sep 3 22:11:01 2014 No.7798643 File: 57 KB, 500x509, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Damn Lolita girls are scary.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:12:54 2014 No.7798644 >>7798539 My story gets long. You sure you want to hear it?

>>	psychiatristchan Wed Sep 3 22:27:34 2014 No.7798661 >>7798644 Go for it!

>>	PGH Anon Wed Sep 3 22:31:02 2014 No.7798668 >>7798626 YES, please! I definitely want to learn more. The next meet is 15 minutes from my house, lol. Dish!

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:31:19 2014 No.7798669 >>7798023 I think it's more like all the international Chinese lolitas just hang out with each other because they know that they can dress well.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:39:22 2014 No.7798686 >>7798669 This. Those girls stick together because they actually dress well and aren't fucking crazy, unlike a huge percentage of the main NYC comm.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:40:35 2014 No.7798688 >>7798644 Yes! Who hurt you, anon? Tell us everything.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:40:39 2014 No.7798689 >>7798668 Alright nice! First off, welcome to Shitsburgh. I'm not sure if you've made it through all four seasons yet, but if you have, I applaud you. Anyway. What do you want to know?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:40:44 2014 No.7798690 Is it just me or do NYC lolitas think they're hot shit now compared to other comms because they have a shiny new BTSSB store?

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:42:30 2014 No.7798695

>>7798669

More like they stick together because as Chinese, they have an almost paralyzing fear of the unknown and don't know how to mix with anyone that's not from their own culture.

Just saying this as someone who hung out with a large Asian student exchange group for a while.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:52:04 2014 No.7798708

>>7798528
In the same boat as you anon, got bullied out of my comm, can't talk to anyone about it, but also getting to a point where I'm like idgaf. Considering going solo for a while but it just seems kind of lame. This stuff happens more often than people think, you're not alone

PGH Anon Wed Sep 3 22:52:44 2014 No.7798712

>>7798689
Where I go to school is ten times worse weather-wise so Pittsburgh is like Hawaii to me. I guess drama in general, especially cosplay drama if you know of any. I know that Julia 'party princess' blew up on Reddit a few weeks ago. As far as lolita goes, I guess if it's worth it to try going to meets and actually hanging out with the girls.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 22:53:01 2014 No.7798713

>>7798622
>>7797669
>>7798607

I'm just nervous to host a meet because it would be my first time. But hey, there's a first for everything! I'll look around for a nice place that would be good to accommodate everyone. Can't make any promises just yet, but I'll do my best.

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:01:30 2014 No.7798726

Ok so I have nothing to lose and this might be interesting for you guys so I'll post.
I'm the friend chan being referred to here and basically >>7797929 is what happened. We met up early because we planned on twinning that day and planned to extange accessories for our outfits. To be nice I let amber know about it by inviting her. I'm pretty sure that didn't fly well with Amber ,also dalin and rune did tell us to stay put.
Coming home to a six month ban at the end of it was the icing on the cake.
>>7798535 is probably ambers friend because that is their side of the story. Ill be honest, I did shit talk some girls I didn't like on occasion but I didn't actively seek to shit talk anyone or do it to the extent that amber does and since then grown up a bit and try not to say mean things about people (I was 19 during this drama and I'm 21 now so I'm pretty sure it was just petty teenage state of mind). I was told most of the accusations against me were spread by rune,who I thought was my friend up until that point. I'm not sure if this was all her but I wouldn't be surprised. Thing is I didn't really tell rune anything personal and I'm pretty sure she saw ambers reaction to my meetup and decided to stir the pot and add in a few extra details. The biggest mistake I made was befriending rune, I'm pretty sure she's a sociopath.
Also lol I never threatened to kill anyone I don't think I'm capable of it in the first place, that's a new one. Especially since im a five foot tall vegan pacifist who believes it is immoral to kill any living being.I think this is a prime of example of the kind of "bullying" the main comm does,petty stupid rumors that dont make much sense to anyone. I did tell a friend I wanted to get a restraining order like against amber after reading some of the things she wrote about me and but that was out of legitimate fear and It was just a quick comment I didn't think much about.
Anyway if you guys have any questions feel free to ask.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:02:46 2014 No.7798727 Also I came here to post this but ended up reading the thread. >>7794751 I met her and she's super sweet and cute I think you might be confused anon.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:02:58 2014 No.7798728 >>7797565 There's an e-mail address, it's your best odds of getting in touch with whoever maintains it since they may not see this thread. It may be on the second tab? I don't remember, but that's how I got my comm on there.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:08:37 2014 No.7798736 >>7798695 And maybe bcuz they can comfortably speak to each other in their lingo. Jeez I don't see ppl making a stink when Hispanic Lolitas stick together.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:09:40 2014 No.7798739 >>7798736 I'm a Chinese anon, I know my people. We like to bitch a lot about our own, CG is a prime example.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:19:19 2014 No.7798749 >>7798739 Lol and thats ok I don't care what you and your group talk about just stating why they tend to stick to each other. Also where is CG? I miss her did she get banned?

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:27:14 2014 No.7798773 >>7798690 Not at all, we're excited that we have a store just like anyone else would be

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:33:40 2014 No.7798789 >>7798669 >international >Chinese I feel dumb somewhere

psychiatristchan Wed Sep 3 23:34:33 2014 No.7798792

>>7798726
Well then anon it looks like you need to steer clear from this Amber and Rune. I'm sorry that these people have hurt you, and that you know that shit talking others out of spite is petty, I'm proud of you for speaking your mind and telling the truth. Cheers to you mate.

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:35:51 2014 No.7798797 >>7798789 There were a group of chinese lolitas visiting from abroad, everyone thought they were elitist because they dress well and never hung out outside of their group of friends. People are stupid

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:38:00 2014 No.7798803 >>7798792 Are you Aussie or Kiwi?

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:46:29 2014 No.7798821

>>7798712
Most of the girls are friendly enough, but the mods can be passive aggressive. They use FB as a platform for the group because it's easier for them to ban girls they don't like. The mods have previously deleted and recreated the pgh comm FB page several times in order to prevent some girls from attending meets, a goal which was successfully achieved. They'll be okay with you as long as you make it a point to fangirl over them

>>	Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:48:32 2014 No.7798826 >>7798669 >>7798686 Are they still in NYC or were they just visiting for a bit?

Anonymous Wed Sep 3 23:56:59 2014 No.7798837

>>7798792
Aww that's sweet anon,thank you.
I quit fb since and don't go to any meet ups they are a part of, the most false accusation was of me "wanting/seeking fame" because I don't like that kind of attention so I'm much happier not having to keeping up with fb. I just like lolita and otome and buying and wearing it makes me happy, I don't feel a need to be part of every meet up or constantly keep up with everyone's life.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 00:02:46 2014 No.7798848 >>7798821 why would you? not trying to be rude, kate is lovely, but I don't understand fawning/fangirling over people who have a little bit of efame. who are the other mods?

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 00:03:43 2014 No.7798850

>>7798797
Ah. Damn shame.

>>7798661 >>7798688
I'm not going to name any names. I'm just going to post my story, in hopes that maybe someone can learn how bad my hopes and dreams of the community was ruined, and never do that to someone else ever again. Or something along that line.

Incoming wall of green text.
>mid-2000s
>new to EGL, always liked it, wanted to get in it
>made new friend few months ago and she was willing to coordinate me
>we had our own meetup, totally didn't fit in
>her friends think I did okay, what matter was I tried etc
>had really great time, even though I was awkward
>everyone was friendly
>added each other on FB, still contacts once a while still to this day
>few years down the road
>made more friends
>was totally okay with it even though some of them had some weird problems
>some of them even talk shit behind back
>girls being girls, no biggie
>or so was what friend said
>worried for her sake but believed her, for sake of her friendships
>more time passes
>have job now, less time to hang out
>still tried to make time for my friend
>she gets into argument with one of the girls
>other girl thought she was making disrespectful comments about her
>argument gets big, people starts taking side
>nobody believed my friend
>people still talk to her but doesn't invite her to meets anymore
>feels bad because was useless
>my friend was also defending me, while other girl was attacking me
>saw this coming, but couldn't say anything
>she moves on, makes new friends, make amends with few others
>other girl still mad at her
>some people still won't meet my friend, doesn't talk to me outside of FB either
>friend finally gets over it, looked at me
>"I know you're going to say "I told you so"."
>just smiled
>there's still shit talks about both of us
>over it, just want friends now, no comm bullshit

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 00:44:58 2014 No.7798926 >>7798848 >kate is lovely glasses is that you?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 00:49:09 2014 No.7798934 >>7798848 Kate is really aloof with anyone who isn't e-famous as well. Experienced firsthand.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:02:33 2014 No.7798962 Rune is awful and should just fucking be kicked out of the comm already, from what being posted here. Going to ask her about NYC comm on her tumblr now.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:07:49 2014 No.7798979 >>7798934 She's highly concerned with image and appearance. Everyone and everything is an accessory to her

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:08:46 2014 No.7798981 >>7798962 I met her once and talked to her a few times, and I thought she was really nice...

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:08:47 2014 No.7798982

>>7798934
She visited my comm for a convention. Day 1, having a preconceived notion about her that she was shitty (mostly from cgl tbh) I interpreted her quietness as aloof, full of herself, etc. Was told by the end of the day by a friend that Kate had kind of a rough day (maybe health related) and that after the friend had made an effort with her, Kate turned out to actually be nice. Decided to make my own effort on day 2, and she opened up a bit and was a pleasant surprise. I'm far from e-famous btw. I think she's just an odd combination of extroverted online but reserved in person, and is actually a nice girl but requires some effort to get to know her. The aloofness you felt could have been that she is slow to warm up, which is not a sin deserving of the hate she seems to get.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:22:30 2014 No.7798997 >>7798982 Was this at Anime Midwest? Apparently all her cards got frozen upon the Hyatt deposit charge on the first day, it also happened to be the 4th of July so she was unable to call the bank and get it reversed until the next day.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:24:26 2014 No.7799001 >>7798934 Ehhh, she was nice to me when we met and I'm not "famous" at all. Smells like vendetta in here.

>>	Nadeshiko Thu Sep 4 01:27:15 2014 No.7799006 >>7798982 My first impression was honestly not the best either- it seems like somehow she gets off on the wrong foot sometimes. She is really nice, though. Oh, and I'm pretty sure she's reading this thread- I know she lurks here pretty solid.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:30:21 2014 No.7799009 >>7799006 Hi glasses! Or should we say contacts now...

>>	Nadeshiko Thu Sep 4 01:36:04 2014 No.7799020 >>7799009 Pfft, I wish. Just another PGH community member.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:42:17 2014 No.7799032 >>7797801 My comm uses spaghetti as a code word. If I start getting weird, it'll be like, "Lyss, you're dropping spaghetti" and I know it's time to shut up.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:43:11 2014 No.7799034

>>7798726
Once again you are throwing people under the bus, Nina. You reported to the mods of the community that you were getting death threats and soiled Tia's name as well by saying she felt that she was also getting threats from other girls. You can play miss sweet innocent victim, but you ain't fooling no-one. You had drama with people before this whole mess and you still continue to talk about others back, even in a professional setting. it is very clear that you haven't matured as you claimed to have. You dicked hopped on a few girls to gain popularity and for what exactly? you're still nobody in this fashion, people only know your name cause it's linked to drama, and there is nothing special about you or your style. It is clear you are gaining nothing positive from all your work. Even your so-called friends in this comm criticize you to hell and back when you aren't around. Do yourself a favor and stop. You have left a bad impression on everyone since bragging about the crystal candyland thing, like what you did merit a prize. Well little girl here is your prize, being one of the most despised people in all the groups.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:43:12 2014 No.7799035 >>7798997 Yes, Midwest.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:48:11 2014 No.7799045 >>7799006 I think the general consensus is that she's really awkward at first but then opens up. I don't think she's mean or stuck up, just an introvert.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:51:40 2014 No.7799053 File: 498 KB, 500x236, popcorn.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7799034

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 01:55:44 2014 No.7799061 File: 496 KB, 500x266, this is going to be good moma princess and the frog.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7799034

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 02:00:47 2014 No.7799066 >>7799034 >dicked hopped

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 02:01:08 2014 No.7799068 File: 97 KB, 915x960, 1407464530642.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7799034 I hope this is a troll because you sound like a sociopathic bitch. what is with NYC faggots and their superiority complexes

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 02:07:36 2014 No.7799077 >>7799068 Do you even know what a sociopath is? What superiority complexes have been shown here? Me thinks you might be a friend of Nina aka Goldfish aka Miss Dramalama 2013-2014

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 03:05:37 2014 No.7799151 >>7798479 Sooo they're like weaboos but for white people? I heard japanese people obsessed by white people were called banana or something in japan.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 03:05:50 2014 No.7799152 [DELETED]

>>7796194
I didn't really want to get into the details since I don't think she actually acknowledges that she bullies anyone, and she's been reading /cgl/ and btb to gather material for her panel. Plus her friends group in the comm tends to bully people for saying anything about them, like >>7797828
said, they bully people to hell and back if you piss them off. I'm not really comfortable with posting more for that reason, but you can find out more for yourself if you search her online handle Tseylin Chi. I was horrified when I learned she actually has a history of this despite claiming to be drama-free (like most of the NYC comm), I initially thought she was just trying to be a good friend in some misguided way.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 03:07:39 2014 No.7799154 >>7798643 Yes anon they are. >this image So accurate

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 03:27:32 2014 No.7799168 >>7799077 confirmed for Rune if you can't tell that New Yorkers have major superiority complexes, you're either retarded or from New York The way you type belies all of your personality problems

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 03:33:30 2014 No.7799174

>>7798290
The facebook group has around 500+ members, they're all pretty meh. There's only like 3 or so well dressed girls probably. Been trying to find an excuse to go to a meet up, but they're so poorly coordinated and I don't want to get stuck hanging with a bunch 30 year olds that still can't properly do their make up.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 04:57:47 2014 No.7799270 So if I just moved to NYC, is it worth it to join any comms? or should I just be a lone loli

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 05:09:46 2014 No.7799285 >>7799270 My advice for anyone wary of communities, any community, is always the same: >join community >make friends with people you like >hang out with people you like >ignore community/drama otherwise and enjoy your new friends

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 06:44:13 2014 No.7799346

>>7798102
>>7798106
It's okay Joffrey ilu.

>>7798160
>some girl from the fail group
Simply26, right? I remember this dramu. Didn't people accuse her of trying to make a big profit off the event because the tickets were quite expensive yet she was cheaping out on pretty much everything?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 06:49:58 2014 No.7799352 >>7798690 NYC has always thought they were hot shit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 07:46:48 2014 No.7799414 >>7799151 I always viewed it the same way some Americans are obsess with Europe

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 08:06:09 2014 No.7799426

>>7799034
Woah calm down girl, I'm not that despised (only by your friend group I guess) and I don't really strive for fame. I did go to crystal candyland for fun and brought back pictures but at the time you all really seemed to appreciate them...
I never said I recieved death threats,that's a rumor. I did mildly shit talk tia at one point and I own up to it but I regret it now (I mean this was 2 years ago).
But mostly this is a bunch of bullshit. None of you guys even remotely know me and you're really exaggerating just about everything that happened.
What's the point of even talking about me anymore I'm not even in your comm.
And I know you'll come back here saying I'm trying to stir up drama and whatnot and that I'm trying to keep myself relevant but I'm not. I'm just contributing to a thread with relevant and truthful information as I was there firsthand. But the behavior you all displayed after the meet up and during is absolutely without question bullying and extremely mean for the petty amount of "drama" I caused by accidently "hijacking" as Victoria Suzanne put it, ambers meetup.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 08:08:07 2014 No.7799428 >>7799352 No we dont. If we dress well we dress well. But we're not snobs about it.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:00:12 2014 No.7799472

>>7799426
It would be considered bullying if more people other than the girls hosting the meet were attacking you. Calling it bullying is far from the truth. You got banned and made the choice to not come back. You were not bullied out of the comm. As for we don't even know you, that may be but you sure do hang with a few girls who actively post and go on here that always seem to love trash talking you after a meet. And you guys seemed like such good friends.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:05:13 2014 No.7799476

>>7799472
I don't think we're really friends then.
But honestly I think you're just a trying to make me paranoid and isolated from my friends as a means of hurting me. I'll believe you if you tell me who they are or post screen caps or something but until that happens I'm sure this is bullshit and you're really trying to find some way to discredit my name. Especially since I don't really do anything that warrants shit talking.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:44:11 2014 No.7799499

>>7799472
I think that Rune, Victoria Suzanne Stella Fartypants, Amber, and whoever else is part of the queen bee squad shit-talking her about ruining their chance to kiss up to e-famouse Cadney and driving her out of the comm is technically considered bullying

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:45:54 2014 No.7799500 >>7799499 Right? Bullying doesn't always involve beating the shit out of people

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:48:14 2014 No.7799505

>>7799472
>It would be considered bullying if more people other than the girls hosting the meet were attacking you.

Now that's not true. I know that the word bullying has become sort of a buzzword, and it is hard to take anyone who uses the word seriously anymore, but what you both are describing constitutes bullying. Don't be afraid to let that word be used properly.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 09:57:59 2014 No.7799516 >>7799499 The Queen Bee squad is actually buzzing around talking about how they're gonna have an exclusive meetup because of this thread. A+, guys.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:02:57 2014 No.7799521 >>7799516 It's really sad that people like you have a person added for the sake of reporting everything they do. Why so obsessive?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:04:16 2014 No.7799524 >>7798160 >middle of nowhere Astoria There's life outside Manhattan, Anon. Astoria isn't even a two-fare zone FFS

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:05:58 2014 No.7799528 >>7799516 An exclusive meetup to shit talk someone who isn't even part of their community and doesn't post anywhere? You guys are really reaching here.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:06:46 2014 No.7799529

>>7799499
It was her choice to never come back. She was banned for messaging the mods about how she was afraid that Amber was going to physically hurt her and then put words in Tia's mouth that she never once said bringing her down with her. Amber was not going to physically punch her and she was reporting her like crazy. The moda removed Amber as a mod for her actions and banned Nina for false accusations. She was not bullied out.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:07:45 2014 No.7799532 >>7799521 Nah, these bitches add anyone.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:10:01 2014 No.7799536

>>7799476
No, you've always been to narrow minded to notice when someone has been talking behind your back from the get go. I don't care about your feelings and I don't mean to hurt you. Stop acting like a innocent little lamb. You talked enough shit amd still do at work to be on the same level as these other girls.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:14:21 2014 No.7799544 >>7799516 Lmao we're trolling the trolls. Seriously? Learn h ow to take a joke bro

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:15:45 2014 No.7799548 I kinda want to make an NYCgull meet because I think some of us dont want to be involved in this friend-chan vs Amber bullshit.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:20:27 2014 No.7799553

All of you are constantly talking shit about each other anonymously. Why not actually message each other instead of throwing the entire New York Comm under a bus. You don't know all of us, there are 500+ members if you dont like 10 well you have 490 other people to befriend. Don't try and shit talk people you don't actually know and next time ask them about it personally instead of hearing it from your bestie who has a predisposed opinion of that person.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:23:44 2014 No.7799560 >>7799544 How about you guys stop perpetuating this and ignore these threads if everyone got over it? If you stop making jokes or spectator statuses, maybe people will leave you alone.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:26:37 2014 No.7799566

>>7799560
Because someone slandered a really sweet person in the beginning of this thread without actually knowing what happened to them and without actually knowing them.

Clearly people aren't over it if they continue bringing it up. That's why these girls need to talk it out

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:29:00 2014 No.7799569 >>7799548 Do it

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:30:23 2014 No.7799570
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>>7799426
>>7799499
Victoria Unicornfarts Sparklypoo Suzanne is involved in this, too? That makes it 10x more delicious.

Also yeah whatever is being described here sounds like bullying. Someone doesn't have to be physically removed from a social group by every single member in that group for it to count as bullying.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:32:24 2014 No.7799573 >>7799499 No one was kissing up to Cadney. We were being friendly and she wanted to meet everyone. Therefore a meetup was made.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:34:35 2014 No.7799579 Is there a comm for Victoria BC? If so, what's it like and where is their info? What is the Vancouver comm like now?

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:35:26 2014 No.7799580

>>7799536
I didn't message the mods,they messaged me after a concerned friend who is the mod of her own comm messaged them. And tbh she was worried because everyone instantly got so hostile.
>>7799548
I'm sick of this shit too,I learned lesson and try to keep drama out of my life. I did not expect them to still care about me enough to keep talking about me or keep up with posts I make.
Honestly I just want everyone to forgive each other and move on. You can pass that on to the fb group but I feel like they'll just laugh about it and continue.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:36:29 2014 No.7799582 >>7799580 Learned my lesson* derp it's early.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:49:24 2014 No.7799605 >>7799570 Careful, you're going to hurt someone's feelings

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 10:52:20 2014 No.7799608 >>7799068 >>7799168 That's cuz nyc IS the best, duh ;D

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 11:06:12 2014 No.7799633 >>7799548 PLEASE. I keep telling some friends I met on here, "Hey, if you want to try out the comm, go ahead, it's not that bad!" and then this shit flares up. Thanks.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 11:25:31 2014 No.7799665 I'm happy that nothing hlc has been mentioned.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 11:28:06 2014 No.7799673 >>7794906 It was even worse in person. Also I saw one with a super cheap-looking sax BL JSK...being worn with black spiderweb tights. Also don't feel too bad, the more badly dressed ones were pretty obnoxious.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 11:36:16 2014 No.7799685 >>7799548 is there a page for this somewhere?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 12:08:01 2014 No.7799729 >>7799685 It was sort of a newsletter/email only type thing. The original girl that ran it got a full time job and can't really lead it anymore.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 12:25:47 2014 No.7799760

>>7798749

Things tend to get insular after a while. It's one thing to be in a country completely hostile to you, but it's another thing if you don't take the initiative to explore a country that is not hostile at the outset. It gets claustrophobic after a while and you get to even hate the country. It works both ways - a bit of "oh look foreigner who can't speak English tehe" and "ugh don't want to go out because of one bad experience."

I've seen people who've flailed because of that. The most successful fulltime foreign students (speaking as one myself) are the ones who make an effort to connect, even in the face of adversity. Unfortunately, the vast majority don't and it's a bit of a shame because a major point is to get an experience in another country.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 12:36:31 2014 No.7799779

>>7799760
+1
speaking as someone who knew a lot of Chinese international students in college (despite not being one) --

while the attitude of local students can be a problem, I would still feel frustrated at many of the international students' lack of effort to make friends with local students. This is not just Chinese or other foreigners in the US, since many US students are the same when visiting other countries.

It's just a sad fact that most people in the world are not comfortable with others that are not part of their own culture.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:03:30 2014 No.7799835

>>7799779
I see this a lot with Chinese people though, maybe because of numbers or just how not confident they are with speaking english. My highschool had that clique, it was weird because I know they all can speak english, they just arent choosing to. So they not only isolate themselves from other people but from people of their own culture who arent so well versed in Chinese enough to speak it all the time. In uni I dont see the cliques of asians so much but it is so annoying having them in a tutorial with you because speaking to them is like pulling teeth.

I live in an area that is full of asians and mulsims so it isnt like these kids are the only non-white people. They just arent into talking to anyone else.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:05:07 2014 No.7799842 >>7799779 Really though, what's the point of traveling if you're not ready to step out of your comfort zone? Stay at home if you want to be in your own cultural bubble.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:05:34 2014 No.7799845 This is great. I have been quietly laying the foundation in person and on here for people to ignore and distrust Rune for almost a year now. This is sweet sweet justice. I bet she's so upset right now.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:10:06 2014 No.7799855 >>7799580 We'll forgive you when you stop slandering other peoples name.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:17:24 2014 No.7799872

>>7799045
I probably didn't have enough time to get to know her, then, because she was definitely a bit standoffish when I met her. I'm an introvert, too, but you just have to teach yourself how to break out at meetups. It would probably be good for her, especially if she wants to keep up a good reputation online.

I did get along well with her boyfriend, though! He was really funny.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:35:13 2014 No.7799921

>>7799872
Honestly he would probably do a better job of running the comm, he's has a much more likable personality. I get that she's introverted and has a ton of health problems so she can be "off" sometimes. At the same time, running a comm can be stressful and she shouldn't be doing it if she's really prone to getting sick and irritable

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:35:40 2014 No.7799924

>>7799855
but im not...?
if anything youre trying to do that to me by constantly posting about me on facebook.
if you have a problem with me feel free to reach out to me non anonymously and we can talk about things over tea and scones or just email eachother. I really dont want to hurt anyone lets just put old drama aside and handle this like adults. I can even leave my email on here for you if youd like.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:37:53 2014 No.7799933 >>7799842 Making friends in your host culture can be a lot more difficult than people think, especially if you're not proficient in the language. You probably haven't been abroad before, anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 13:53:42 2014 No.7799980 >>7799855 I don't see any slandering.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:05:16 2014 No.7800007
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>>7796162
I had a "run in" with her in one of the facebook sales and I already can't stand the bitch.

I constantly see her posting "do you wanna trade" on sales posts of girls leaving lolita that say right at the top that they're leaving and don't want trades. It's like, jesus, girl, can you read? Plus she's just a snotty bitch for no reason.

Glad you have her New York because if she was in my comm I'd choke the bitch even if that would be not very kawaii.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:08:30 2014 No.7800013 >>7799845 post pics of her pls

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:25:26 2014 No.7800041 >>7799924 Posting about you? Please! Don't make me laugh. You aren't worthy of making it to any of my fb post. How about your lolita meet up pals like the one from Jersey and New York stop mentioning you at meets.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:30:13 2014 No.7800049

>>7799933
Yes I have been, numerous times actually. It's really scary, I get that, and I take no issue with hanging with someone from your home country, but you have to mingle a bit too, you know? If you don't experience the country and its culture, why are you there?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:44:37 2014 No.7800079 >>7800041 >Offers to discuss civilly >Other party continues to be raging cunts Stay classy, New York.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:49:47 2014 No.7800090 Any drama in Chicago's comm?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:55:11 2014 No.7800101 >>7800079 Lol you mean stay classy 2 girls from NY who probably hate each other

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 14:58:51 2014 No.7800104 >>7800101 >Girl and group that hates each other Fix'd

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:05:49 2014 No.7800115

>>7800079
yeah theyre pretty hopeless. this is a prime example of what makes the new york comm shit and what its like to deal with them.
>>7800041
once again anon I have a lot of lolita friends and most of them outright told me that they dont so you either have to specificy who they are or post some kind of proof before I even start to believe you and then I can address them personally about whatever problem they may have with me.
until then it just seems like youre posting this over and over as a means of trying to hurt me hoping i go like abloobloo none of my friends actually like me wahhh. grow up anon i know rune, dalin and victoria activly shit talked me without me being aware while we were still friends but they really legitimately acted like they liked me at the same time (which is a really shitty thing to do since I was nothing but nice to them) so of course i was oblivious to it.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:09:02 2014 No.7800121 >>7800104 I dont hate them anon. Its not like they committed genocide or something.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:20:58 2014 No.7800129

>>7800115
I'll grow up when you stop shit talking about my friends at their job. Also lol no one will admit it to your face cause that'sthe kind of girls they are. These girls may act like your friends but they ain't. Don't watch your back anymore. You gave us all what we wanted in this thread, Nina. Glad I got your feathers in,a twist for a second. With this I say farewell and thanks for the lols. Excuse me as I go sipping on my hateraid.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:23:29 2014 No.7800134 >>7800129 You sound extremely immature

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:27:31 2014 No.7800140 >>7800090 Not for a while now.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:29:14 2014 No.7800143 File: 961 KB, 245x250, tumblr_mnb8rloWaD1sqgzawo1_250.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Holy shit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:32:32 2014 No.7800147 >>7800129 This chick obviously lost, and ran away. Pretty hilarious though.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:42:42 2014 No.7800163 >>7800104 Honestly the people that hate the NYComm are the ones that feel left out. We don't hate each other. We hate the people that constantly talk shit and want to be friends the next day.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:43:50 2014 No.7800164 >>7800147 I wouldn't say only one side "lost", they both seem immature and cunty to me. The only thing that lost anything here is NYC's reputation because it sure looks like a nest of vipers from where I'm sitting. I feel bad for the sane girls.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:46:08 2014 No.7800168 >>7800164 There's only a handful of cunty girls. That as you can see are actively posting on 4chan. Looks like the nyseagulls are the ones you should steer clear of

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:54:00 2014 No.7800189 >>7800168 Out of curiosity, do NYC mods try to ever handle a situation like this? It sounds like this one spiralled out of control and it really strained community relations. Do they even acknowledge things like this? I

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 15:55:33 2014 No.7800191 >>7799476 Fuck these people Nina. There are members of the community that love you for real, regardless of past drama. Let it go NYC. Jesus Christ...

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:00:09 2014 No.7800199 >>7800189 In regards to what situation

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:01:13 2014 No.7800201 >>7800134 She sounds more and more like simply26 the more she rants.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:03:14 2014 No.7800203 >>7800191 Its been gone and done with for a while. We dont care about it anymore, the conversation escalated between the two people that hate each other most which obviously looks like nina (because she admitted it was her) and rune

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:03:48 2014 No.7800204 >>7800201 which is funny because the people who hate Nina are the same who hate simply26...

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:04:41 2014 No.7800209 >>7800204 Theres only one person who hates simply26 and thats amber

>>	itaqueen !!60RF7p3/Emf Thu Sep 4 16:08:00 2014 No.7800217 >>7799579 There was a Victoria comm but I'm not sure if it's still active. Vancouver is a pretty mellow and pretty well dressed group.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:13:43 2014 No.7800228 >>7800168 Hey, you leave NYCgull out of this. Most of the girls are lolitas that never sided with anyone and want nothing to do with this bullshit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:17:27 2014 No.7800237 Deets on Rune? I've been following her on tumblr for a couple of years and I always found her sweet, but I had no clue she was even a recognized name here so I'm getting curious

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:25:12 2014 No.7800257

I don't even understand why this old drama was bought up in the first place. Why bother bringing up something that happened well over a year ago? It's irrelevant now. Some of you seriously need to grow up and start acting your ages instead of acting like immature little brats stuck in high school mode. Please. Move on and let it go. Jesus.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:38:44 2014 No.7800305 >>7800168 Who gave you right to judge people? I recommend you steer clear out of here first before you recommend anyone to stay clear of anything, because you are not fooling anyone.

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>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:39:57 2014 No.7800312 >>7800237 Yeah, same. I've been following her since weeaboostories haha.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:41:06 2014 No.7800317 File: 330 KB, 1600x1065, DSC_0022.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw my local comm terrifies me

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:41:42 2014 No.7800319
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>>7800305
Fooling anyone? Not trying to fool anyone. Just being truthful. Not judging anyone really, Im judging anons. You're all here shit talking everyday so you need to watch out for each other obv.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:43:42 2014 No.7800327 >>7800317 I wanna take all of them to a sephora. They all have a few issues, but lack of makeup makes it look even worse.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:44:38 2014 No.7800328 >>7800312 >since weaboostories What Tell me more Link Anything Quench my curiosity anon

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:49:57 2014 No.7800343

>>7800191
thanks girl. youre awesome.

yeah im going to leave the thread, i dont want rune to think im the one posting about her, and i don't want to shit up the thread with what really is old drama anyway.
>>7800257
yeah i agree, i think you should post this on the facebook thread about this as well. if you want to talk things over like adults thats fine,you know how to find me. and if you dont thats fine too but please get over it and me and forget i even exist.

christ im minimizing this thread and closing my computer so to the nyc girls watching this thread please dont assume im still on here posting if anything bad gets posted at least have the decency to take my word for it.

>>7800312
i can write an essay about her but id rather not say anything because i dont want to keep perpuating all the hate.

later guys.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:51:11 2014 No.7800345 >>7800327 Same. I would really rather stay a lone wolf than get involved with underage richfags who can barely coord, but sometimes I think it would be nice to have a friend other than /cgl/.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:53:02 2014 No.7800348

>>7799779
I think most of the international students tend to become friends with other international students and if the majority of them aren't in your major (like business, engineering, etc.), then there's a low chance of becoming friends with them. Most of the Chinese lolitas in NYC seem to be international college students.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 16:53:53 2014 No.7800350

>>7800328
It was a tumblr that Rune ran a few years ago that was based around stories people submitted about weeaboos in their local community or even posting about your own weeb days. It was flourishing for awhile, but it's since been deleted.
I'm not exactly sure why it was deleted, but I think someone reported it for "bullying" or something like that?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:02:08 2014 No.7800371 >>7800317 why? they look like pretty average people and lolita to me

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:03:55 2014 No.7800376 >>7800371 Maybe I'm easily terrified.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:04:23 2014 No.7800377 >>7800328 >>7800350 apparently she got fairly e-famous from it

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:09:22 2014 No.7800387 >>7800049 I really agree with this. I love to travel and have lived abroad very briefly. Each time I had to step out of my comfort zone and put myself out there to try/meet new things and people. It's not easy but it is really rewarding and fun

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:10:43 2014 No.7800390

>>7800377
>>7800350
It's kind of funny because it shows that she clearly hates humanity or something; I been telling few people to watch out because she's obviously sheltered and doesn't know how to keep drama out of things but, well, things happened faster than what I can do to help anyone.

TL;dr from way she posted those stories, it was clear she didn't like anyone that didn't "fit her lifestyle." I'm quoting it because she said something along the line one day but it's long since been deleted.

So issue goes outside of bullying. This girl has HUGE personality problem, and I'm afraid to find out how bad she will ruin the image of the community before she gets sick of us.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:17:14 2014 No.7800409

>>7800376
if it's any help, it seems like even the ones whose clothes have barely anything in common with lolita still end up looking like decently dressed normalfag instead of full weebs, and they don't look too underage, so all in all there's a good chance that noone here is batshit insane

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:20:17 2014 No.7800420 What are the benefits of getting involved in a comm?

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:21:31 2014 No.7800423

>>7800350

Oh damn I remember that blog, the stories on it were mental at times. She came across as a massive bitch on occasion though, some stories weren't even worth reading; it was needless petty nit picking about cosplay/borderline-but-not-quite-weeb related things she felt the need to find 'hilarious' which led to some bullying issues happening to generally nice people.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:25:03 2014 No.7800428

>>7800420
Meetups, connections to other lolitas, gossip, becoming friends with other lolitas, group orders (the best if you don't have a friend to do it with), and general announcements about sales. My comm often has small discussions about one of the latest releases and meetup ideas.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:25:51 2014 No.7800431 >>7800420 People to hang out with that understand the fashion, high potential of finding other common interests, good way to make female friends.

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:29:52 2014 No.7800442

>>7800420
it's also easier to feel motivated to stay in the fashion, because you have encouragement from your friends + more opportunity to wear lolita. If I didn't have a comm I'm not sure if I would continue because I would have so much less opportunity to wear the special dresses that are inconvenient to wear day-to-day.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:31:04 2014 No.7800446 Hey SF lolitas, tell the girl on the right to wear tights or get some frilly ankle socks instead. Everyone else looks less horrifying in comparison and dressed for the weather though. (no blouse might be forgiven if you werk it)

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>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:34:45 2014 No.7800459 >>7800454 what's with the guy on the far left? leg day?

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 17:38:27 2014 No.7800467 >>7800209 No, I'm pretty sure a lot of people hate simply26. Or used to. She used to do things like spam egl on livejournal with pictures of shit-filled toilets, and make troll accounts. She has an extensive rep on getoffegl.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:14:35 2014 No.7800607 >>7800454 >Girl on the far left letting her brand brush against the dirt Nope nope nope. I also freak out when I see lolitas lying on the grass.

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>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:27:00 2014 No.7800647 >>7800630 Oh lord.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:28:27 2014 No.7800651 >>7800630 Disabled or not, that girl in the wheelchair has no excuse for that mess of an outfit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:28:57 2014 No.7800653 >>7800459 He looks like he's doing the sorority squat

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:29:31 2014 No.7800656 >>7800607 Ugh, glad I'm not the only one. It's not even a lolita thing, I never sit on the ground when I'm in nice clothes.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 18:54:04 2014 No.7800719 >>7800651 its weeaboos framed by fatties jfc

NYCAnonLoli Thu Sep 4 19:03:04 2014 No.7800739

>>7799729
>everything is always on fire
Confirmed for truth, seriously, if anyone is up to pull together a meet up using the list you are TOTALLY WELCOME TO. I'm tired of this drama as well, and I really hope the resident gulls of the area can continue to have a safe, peaceful place to meet up in.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 19:28:02 2014 No.7800815 >>7797500 Which UK comm is it?

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 19:42:09 2014 No.7800857

>>7800630

I see the girl on the far left alot at anime cons. She's really nice, but just a downright Ita. Lace monster one at that...

It doesn't get any better.
http://leagueofextraordinarycosplayers.com/2013/09/15/intro-to-gothic-lolita-by-aisha-ahmed/

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 20:31:44 2014 No.7801017 >>7800857 the one on the right is sweet but seems to care more about how many dresses she can buy than how to coord them

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 20:45:49 2014 No.7801068 File: 67 KB, 479x298, 2345345665.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] > Zero tolerance harassment policy > Mediation > Seldom ban people Yeah, okay.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 21:12:54 2014 No.7801140 >>7801068 Wow, that actually look a little longer than expected. Good for you ny anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 21:27:30 2014 No.7801166 >>7800739 I was wondering what was going on with this for a while. Don't feel bad about being busy and living your life, ok? It would be nice if someone could take over.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 22:00:35 2014 No.7801235 >>7801068 >team >team of???

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 22:16:01 2014 No.7801264 >>7801068 >>7801235 I ran out of breath reading this. Who are they trying to fool? Themselves? I guess "the team" didn't even have time to proofread

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 22:16:26 2014 No.7801266 >>7799673 that doesn't surprise me. sometimes I feel like the weebs in stl are the worst ever. no wonder our japanese population only comes out once a year

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 22:20:45 2014 No.7801274 >>7801266 >weebs in stl are the worst ever Don't even get me started on how the fashion show went down. That was a nightmare.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:09:05 2014 No.7801378 >>7799034 If that's true then stop engaging her. You're either lying or a moron. Either way, change it. jfc

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:27:00 2014 No.7801411

>>7797504
Honestly I wouldn't waste my time with them. They're elitist and obnoxious. Also please for the love of jesus do NOT wear lolita anywhere near Roppongi, you will look like a moron. Stick to Takeshita Doori and Yoyogi Park, maybe MaruiOne in Shinjuku, there's usually a couple girls in there dressed up to go buy more lolita.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:31:30 2014 No.7801423 File: 169 KB, 439x301, uhhhh.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Is this what all comms are like? I should have stayed a lone lolita.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:38:04 2014 No.7801432 >>7801411 Lol people do not hang out around takeshita doori in lolita anymore

Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:47:18 2014 No.7801456

All I can see are a group of girls calling Nina shit
saying did she shit (what shit?)
while gossiping about Nina
while accusing Nina of gossiping??????
while saying 'we must be the elitists, lol'
while no one said u were elitists
while screen-capping this thread on your public facebooks
while saying you want to live drama free lives
while laughing at other peoples dramas and thus making it your drama
while saying we should 'talk it out'
while not accepting Nina's notion of talking it out

you're all fucking hypocrites.

You're all bullying Nina, right now, right here, and on your facebooks.

Do you want to talk it out? Do you want to be good human beings? Here, I'll make some words for you to use "Nina, a lot of shit happened and it really upset us. Let's let bygones be bygones. We're not cool with you yet, but we're going to let this shit go because we're better than that" READY, GO.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:54:01 2014 No.7801475 >>7801456 Thank you, anon. Thank you.

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:55:43 2014 No.7801476 >>7801456 11/10 I'm saving this for my children to read

>>	Anonymous Thu Sep 4 23:56:44 2014 No.7801477 >>7801456 Team Nina forever. These bitches are just here and using her as a scapegoat because Tess got doxxed earlier in the thread.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 00:20:18 2014 No.7801521 Hey, Nina. Sorry for lashing out on you when you said not to trust Yanise. She's the one that's been perpetuating this on facebook.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 00:42:54 2014 No.7801548

>>7801521
Not Nina but ugh yeah I wish more people would see Yanise for the drama stirring attention whore she is. We all know you lurk these threads(and probably post too) Yanise so you're not fooling anyone when you make status after status filled with screen caps from here laughing at people like Nina and then saying "but guysss we should work it out and all be civil" yet continue to post "lol eating popcorn" as you post screen cap after screen cap and talk about how you love drama.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 00:47:46 2014 No.7801557

>>7801521
Yeah after she posted screen caps of this thread and it quickly exploded. The comments weren't even that bad but Yanise made it worse when she posted on her FB and it pulled a bunch of other nyc lolitas into the this old drama. Sucks because it just makes the nyc comm look bad as a whole when we really aren't.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 00:53:35 2014 No.7801564 >>7801548 How is she even popular? Her coords are below average and personality is two-faced.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 01:08:53 2014 No.7801592

>>7801557
It is true that this blew up bigger after she posted the caps, most of everyone seems to not lurk cgl unless prompted. At the same token, bashing her for laughing at cgl is kinda hypocritical no? Isn't that what this post is about...Lawlz at other comm drama. But suddenly when it's NYC we all get upset. Nina isn't a bad person, Yanise isn't a bad person, Rune isn't a bad person, heck even Amber isn't a bad person. Shit happened. Who gives a fuck? Let's pack up our frills and get back to actually enjoying what we do. Most of us at least occasionally lurk, you know it, we all know it. What's the point of dragging this out further, like who you like and hang out with who you like. Privately or publicly, you're entitled to do it!

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 01:13:51 2014 No.7801600 >>7801564 shit she has me fooled. I have been subscribed to her on youtube. She always seemed sweet. Any more deets?

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 01:15:07 2014 No.7801602

posts truth about situation. gets called 'team nina' loldrama.

can't you just get over yourselves?

Do you want something to bitch about?

Here:

why is the lead mod of the NYC LOLITA comm a racist, who constantly trash talks other girls on her facebook, WEARS BODYLINE AND CONVERSE SNEAKERS TO MEET MISAKO, and openly admits to not even caring about lolita anymore. ie; Amber.

okay, GO!

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 01:46:30 2014 No.7801653

>>7801600
She has a thing with being sweet towards noobs and itas, but then turns around and comments on how crappy they look. For example, that huge Jewish girl is mad annoying on the group page and she always gives her wrong advice. Then she would say "Jewish girl wouldn't know what hit her" privately to her friends.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 02:32:58 2014 No.7801698 File: 492 KB, 500x500, ugg.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7801653 >She has a thing with being sweet towards noobs and itas, but then turns around and comments on how crappy they look.

>>	justlookatmydick@gmail.com Fri Sep 5 02:44:32 2014 No.7801710 >>7801274 omg anon pls I need details >pretending like I forgot to remove my email from the BST thread >pls thread don't 404 on me now

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 03:18:05 2014 No.7801755 File: 1.05 MB, 250x140, tumblr_nai1m6b8lM1rd5akbo4_250.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7801698 >>7801653

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 03:43:39 2014 No.7801781 >>7801755 A+ anon

babykitty-xo@outlook.com Fri Sep 5 04:11:32 2014 No.7801816

>>7799579
There was a Victoria comm but it became inactive. A new one was formed about half a year ago and it's a lot more active, though there's lots of itas and newlitas, but thankfully no drama.
If you search Victoria Lolitas on Facebook it might come up (it's a closed group and I'm not too sure how those work) If you can't find it, here's my throwaway. E-mail me and we'll figure it out.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 04:32:11 2014 No.7801834 >>7800857 That was a piece of crap blog. Non stop cringe.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 04:33:14 2014 No.7801837 >>7800143 XD can't stop laughing!

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 05:07:13 2014 No.7801876 >>7801600 What's her youtube?

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 07:45:30 2014 No.7802058

>>7799346
That was a different meet that she hosted, I think, a couple years before that for ILD.
She supposedly charged a lot for tickets and said she was doing all these decorations and crazy shit like that but then everything was not so great and some people felt scammed.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 08:22:02 2014 No.7802108

>>7801564
posting from my phone so I apoligize for mistakes in advance.
she isnt popular outside of the comm although she really tries.
let me bitch about yanise for a second., during the kawaii contest she would message just about everyone from her friends list on fb begging to vote for her with a link to the contest. Sadly I voted for her too, to be nice even though there were cuter girls in that contest.
Thats how she won.
A month ago I attended a meetup with both Nina and Yanise and Yanise acted really sweet to her despite talking behind her back constantly. Later on that night they even went to go drink together.
her dream job is to become a kawaii idoru model desu just like misako despite being too old and haggard in the face.
after all this went down I dont want her as my kawaii leader anymore and I regret voting for her. She's so two faced and a lair on so many levels I cant believe I never saw her for the bitch that she is.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 08:38:51 2014 No.7802127

>>7802108
When she made that page for Apple Kissa, she kept pestering me to add it. She wouldn't let go after several "no thanks," go on about how it would mean so much to her, and then cry about how I don't support her dreams. I told her to fuck off and she deleted me.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 09:01:54 2014 No.7802147

>>7802127
wow shes so desperate.
thats what being fame hungry actually is.
Its no wonder that they got so offended over not being able to spend time with cadney and made a huge stink over it.
Its so sad how she has a public figure profile on fb and yet shes actually a nobody.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 09:03:58 2014 No.7802150

>>7801710
Sorry, I went to sleep but I'm back now! Some guy in steampunk met us in the hallway of the entrance and told us he was starting a new con and asked if we wanted to be in the cosplay/fashion show. Of course my friend and I did, I mean why not? Well a few hours later when it was time to start, some chick in a blonde wig and country maid costume is yelling at us to go here, no wait go there, no here if you need to do makeup, so everyone was lost and confused. Eventually we headed through the auditorium to the "backstage" and the nightmare begins. They take roll call and divide us up by entry numbers, odds one side evens the other. They forgot to tell everyone what their number was so there are some people wandering between "backstages." (to be continued)

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 09:07:03 2014 No.7802156 >>7801432 Nobody ever said they do. But if she's going to weeb out in Tokyo she might as well do it in a place that's so heavily frequented by poorly-dressed foreigners that people will give her a pass

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 09:09:36 2014 No.7802158

>>7802150
cont. They started a slideshow for people who didn't know what cosplay was and the chick took way to freaking long to read each slide and said crossplay was the same as genderbending. I thought it was just cosplaying a character of your opposite gender, but whatever. They got way too many people to be in the show, like the tiny room/wall of curtain they called backstage was completely crammed full of hot, sweaty, noisy weebs. There were a few decent cosplayers and two decent-looking lolitas who didn't get in the group photo above, lol. Anyway, eventually I do my thing across the stage and go to the other backstage where not only is it super hot and full of weebs but it's also really dark. I'd say for every good cosplayer you'd have five cringey ones. Poor construction, no makeup, fat rolls spilling out of top, etc. When it was over, I had never been so happy to breathe fresh air. 0/10 never again.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 09:10:28 2014 No.7802160

>>7802058
Especially annoying because there has been suggestions of her doing this for at least couple of years, but confrontation surfaced only fairly recently.

If my must say so, I do not mind Amber taking a dollar or two in reimbursement for her time and whatever effort she made, but, if you are doing this as a friendly meetup, you are also technically okay with losing some money down the line... It makes you look more reliable that way, and not to mention it is lot easier to do things and shut the fuck up about it, compared to starting drama behind everyone else's back. It wastes your time, energy, and it is just downright retarded.

Of course, I should not have to iterate how you should be HONEST.

>>7802127
Girl, be glad she deleted you. I know people who had to delete her because of shit she stirred up. Everyone I know has filters in Facebook and she's in the lowest of the filter, far as I know of.

She think they are her friends and I do feel bad for her in part because other girls talk badly of her too in ways that's totally unnecessary, but also remind yourself she's badmouthing community, approximately 10 times worse then non-Queen Bee lolitas.

Combined.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 10:47:50 2014 No.7802246 >>7801876 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rtyyv3XW8aU here's one video of her talking about the nyc comm lmao

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 10:51:23 2014 No.7802250 >>7802160 >>7802147 >>7802127 >>7801564 >>7801548 I'm so glad people are finally coming out to talk about Yanise. I was always afraid to speak up about her huge ego.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:02:46 2014 No.7802262 >>7802250 There was that one story I heard back in 2010 ish where I heard she got banned from several campus clubs for badmouthing the entire club members or something Is this true now?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:04:06 2014 No.7802264 >>7802156 Wearing lolita isn't "weebing out." I wore toned down sweet and classic for most of my vacation in Tokyo, including the Mori art museum in Roppongi, and didn't even get more than the usual stares.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:11:30 2014 No.7802270

>>7801592
This.

Everyone can have their opinions of me, but I've never bullied anyone and I've never meant any harm to anyone. I know I've spent personal time with whoever is posting on here but that won't keep me from being nice to you or spending time talking with you. You can be as hateful of me as you want, but I'll still be there for you if you need me. I'll still talk to you even though everyone else shit talks you. I won't let anyone elses judgement keep me from knowing who you are on a personal level. Say what you want, but I'll always try to be honest.

My only gripe is that when people talk shit about someone in front of me then I don't defend them because the business they have between each other is none of mine.

Honestly if you don't like me or what I do then why talk to me in the first place? It's not that hard to keep someone at arms length if you haven't already.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:12:34 2014 No.7802275 >>7802262 I was never apart of any campus clubs? I think you have the wrong person

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:15:07 2014 No.7802278 >>7801653 Jewish girl? I don't give anyone bad advice either. If you have caps you can post them because I actually have no idea with what you're talking about

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:18:18 2014 No.7802281

>>7802262
I actually don't know about this. What I do know from around that time is that she invited me a party at her place and the cops shut it down. She then cried about it to her friends even though everyone was making too much noise and acting like a bunch of animals.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:21:58 2014 No.7802282

>>7802281
I didn't cry. And lol living in the bronx and having big parties does that.

The story is that I had friends over for my birthday. We were drinking and hanging out. The people living above my apartment complex called the police because we were being really loud. (I invited a lot of people for a not too big apartment) So the police came and broke up the party. People ended up staying to help clean up though so that was nice.

I got a ticket for the noise complaint but when I showed up to pay for it they dismissed the ticket \o/

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:35:30 2014 No.7802298

>>7802108
Also I did not win the contest. I won the chance to model at AX. They still haven't announced the picks for kawaii leaders.

I don't try to be popular, I'm doing what I love like everyone else. I take photos of what I wear and I put it on the internet.

And yeah there are way cuter girls in that contest. I was just as surprised as you.

I dont want to be and can never be a kawaii idoru model because I'm not the japanese standard of what they're looking for in a western model.

Also lol yeah my face is pretty haggard. I have this one really weird tooth, and my eye bags are intense as hell.

Please tell me how I am a bitch?

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:50:01 2014 No.7802318

>>7802298
I know I said I wouldn't come back to this thread but I was told you were posting and thought it might be a good opportunity to ask...
Yanise,serious question why do you (and your friends) hate me so much? Petty rumors aside and ignoring past drama,is there a reason they continuously make fun of me? I'm not particularly ita,I have a fairly large wardrobe and I'm not a bitch to anyone...I've offered to apologize and own up to things I've done in the past,why not just accept it?
I personally wouldn't mind getting to know you better or sharing a drink sometime again,we even attended the same school and the same major that must mean there is at least some fundamental base of commen interest.
Anyway you don't have to answer here you can email me or text me or something im sure my information isn't that hard to find.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 11:56:29 2014 No.7802324 >>7802298 Encouraging your friends to come here and starting shit was a pretty bitch move. The last couple times that NYC drama was mentioned, it was ignored and everyone moved on. Why react now?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:03:30 2014 No.7802336 comes in late with popcorn

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:04:25 2014 No.7802339 >>7802318 Check your phone!

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:08:14 2014 No.7802343

>>7802324
I didnt say, "hey guys you should post here and start shit with everyone!" I was praising the white knights defending our community.

I was reacting now because someone doxxed a very sweet person that is apart of our community at the beginning of this thread. And that is extremely hurtful when you don't know that person at all :( We still don't know who posted it and its extremely upsetting.

I also dislike when people talk so badly about the community as a whole when there are only a handful of bad eggs causing drama.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:11:05 2014 No.7802346 >>7802343 Those bad eggs being your friends.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:17:12 2014 No.7802353

>>7802346
Bad eggs are those that cause drama, you and I know who those people are.

And yes I am friends with them because from the shit people pull I see them for who they are aside from that. These girls were there for me in my worst times and I'll honor that by being there for them. I just don't get involved directly with the bullshit. I mean who wants to? Do you?

I don't even know who I'm talking to right now, so it's hard for me to address this completely. If you really want to you can message me on facebook. If not that's okay too

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:28:33 2014 No.7802373

>>7802298
How about this? Drop the "your hate makes me stronger!" attitude that you and your friends have. See those butthurt people that don't get invited to your tea parties? Don't go around and joke around about having a super secret party to spite them. Even if you and your friends are joking, it gives others that mentality that this is some super secret club. Maybe in the end, those people will find their own crew and friends to chill with.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:34:55 2014 No.7802380

>>7802373
Okay that can be done. But at the same time you should find your own crew and friends to spend time with, in addition to whoever you want to invite. Those who feel left out, should make their own meetups too and invite who they want. If I felt left out, then I would host a tea party too. It's really siple

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:46:41 2014 No.7802396

>>7802373
I feel bad for the people who feel left out, I really do, but instead of being in a bad place about it, go out and do something about it. Take this as a way to talk to more people, get to know them more, and spend time with all of their friends too. Sure some people don't like how abrasive some girls are, or how other girls act, and if you don't like them then try to find out more about why you don't like those aspects of them. You could find out that something bad happened to them when they were younger, or they could be going through a lot of shit that causes them to lash out easier. You need to understand that we need to respect each other in more ways rather than just talking about them negatively online. Otherwise you're just making it worse :(

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 12:54:05 2014 No.7802414 >>7802396 >You could find out that something bad happened to them when they were younger, or they could be going through a lot of shit that causes them to lash out easier Still doesn't justify being an ass.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:02:13 2014 No.7802425

>>7802414
Actually it can.

Say, god forbid, if your mother constantly berated you for being who you want to be, and dress how you want to dress. That can be channeled through your own anger and can make you lash out at others. This is how some bully's come to be. From a bad situation at home.

And if someone is being an ass to you, it doesn't mean you should be an ass in return. You can take the high road and ask them, "Why do you feel that way?" "Why do you think that way?" I would hope no one ever justifies the need to lash out to someone unless it being an extreme situation.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:18:19 2014 No.7802457
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chicago comm here, pic related
my comm has been great for the last year and dramallamas keep leaving, all the better for us. i'd rather have a few dumb itas than the flock of pretentious fucks we had before
enjoy our export, NYC comm. lol

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:40:16 2014 No.7802499

Okay I've been lurking here and watching this NYC drama unfold and I'm just going to throw this into the fire pit.

Yanise, just because you act sweet to people's faces doesn't mean that covers up what a two faced coward you are. You're so desperate for attention it's not funny (also lol follow you on Insta and btw you "liking" hundreds of strangers photos constantly is a pretty clever way of gaining followers I'll tell you that).

Posting drama for everyone to see openly on FB only adds fuel to the fire. If you want to bring mean words to the attention of those being victimized, don't display it on FB for everyone to see and stir up old drama and asspat your friends about it. Grow up.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:44:31 2014 No.7802502

>>7802499
Please explain how I am a two faced coward when I am out here in the open talking to you, who doesn't seem like they want to bother messaging me personally on facebook?

Whats wrong with liking photos on instagram? Thats what you're supposed to do, post, like, and find other instgram members to follow. I don't see the problem here.

I posted the drama on facebook because they talked about a friend of mine and doxxed her for no reason. Also I don't like it when people talk badly about the community when there are only a few bad members, as I have reiterated before.

I'm the one out here talking and spilling my thoughts on the situation rather lashing out at any one person. Please tell me how I'm being childish.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:46:18 2014 No.7802506

>>7802353 >>7802346 >>7802343
I rather it be burning down already. I'm sick of hearing same people with same circle-jerking moments.

I'm sick of hearing who did what. None of you NYC girls had learnt to praise anyone or thank anyone properly. Fucking please grow up.

I'm sick of my community.

>>7802499 >>7802457
These two gets it.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:50:28 2014 No.7802514

>>7802506
You can wish whatever you like to the community. As long as you're not taking any personal and life threatening actions on anyone

Who would you like us to thank about what?

We are all growing constantly it just takes a matter of time.

If you're tired of the community you can either address your problems and assess it or you can leave altogether.

As long as you live a long and healthy life.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:51:27 2014 No.7802517

>>7802502
Are you daft enough to think that posting screencaps on FB about drama involving other people and laughing about it while your friends kiss eachother's behinds about being ~LOL ELITISTS~ is a mature way to go about exposing bad blood from your community? If Tess had mean things said about her, message her directly. If you're happy white knights defended the community? You can say that and move on. Don't continuously vomit about it on FB.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 13:55:41 2014 No.7802525

>>7802517
It's my facebook, and I thought only I had real and close friends added, not ones that take something that I write and report it back to 4chan. If I find something amusing I will post about it. If I find something concerning I will post about it.

You're right, you can be mad about how I went about the situation all you want, I'm sorry if I've offend you for your thoughts and opinions over a sitation. However the situation is being assessed as we speak. If you are a part of the community you will find out about it personally or through a friend. So expect that soon.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 14:08:05 2014 No.7802543 >>7802517 Also if you really want to you can message me on facebook. I won't judge you for feeling the way you feel. But if we talked this out between each other then it can be resolved easier.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 14:32:20 2014 No.7802594 >>7802457 Who is your export that we should be enjoying? Details please.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 14:40:34 2014 No.7802617 >>7799270 Be a lone lolita. There's plenty of lone lolitas in the city.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 14:43:40 2014 No.7802624 >>7799529 Amber would punch someone. I think she can fight and I'm always scared of her bc she is scary as fuck

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 14:49:15 2014 No.7802639 This thread makes me depressed about my comm :( I don't know who to trust.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 15:00:18 2014 No.7802657

>>7802639
My feelings exactly. That's why I don't really bother attending meetups anymore. I simply don't trust anyone. People who I think are my "friends" or someone who appears to be nice can talk shit behind my back without me even knowing it. Why on earth is this comm so terrible? I really don't want anything to do with it. Especially now...

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 15:11:18 2014 No.7802672 >>7802657 I still like going to meetups because I would have little opportunity to wear lolita otherwise. but it still makes me sad.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 15:43:36 2014 No.7802734

> going to white knight NYC
> read thread
> yeah OK we are generally pretty terrible

Seriously though if you haven't gone to a NYC meet don't let the "crazies" stop you, they will probably not directly effect your enjoyment of the meet unless you intentionally stare them down and analyze everything looking for a reason to be asspained. Taking the btssb opening as a rough estimate to how many people we have in the city, you can easily find and make a meet up and not have any of the "trouble" people show up. Shit, amber doesn't even show up to her own meets on time.

The thing is, communities with no drama are usually that way either because 1. Nobody cares enough about the others in the comm to have real interactions 2. Everybody in the comm is secretly terrified of everyone else because there is no trust so they are on best behavior all the time 3. There is drama but you haven't realized it yet.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 16:18:54 2014 No.7802808 >>7802734 #2 community where?

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 16:20:57 2014 No.7802811 Why picture of lost natsu...

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 16:33:49 2014 No.7802831

First time posting.

I enjoy meet ups because seeing all these beautiful girls in beautiful dresses make me happy. This happiness makes me want to continue doing what I love.

I've met amazing people since I moved to NYC. I got to know people with diverse lifestyles and that opened up possibilities and inspired me to follow my own dream.

Occasionally the thought of someone who sits elegantly across the table smiling at me might be talking behind my back does scare me a lot. I'd rather believe that all those mean comments are made by someone irrelevant. If some of my friends are doing it I'd rather not know. I'd rather just live this blind happiness.

Yanise has beautiful smiles and I think she has what it takes to be a kawaii idol/model. Being very objective here.
The one or two times I met Nina she had amazing coords. She's a talented artist and a pleasure to be around.
Those are all beautiful girls with great taste, I really hope they can talk this out

Anyway NYC is magical and it has awesome people. Even if the community as a whole has flaws and such, you will definitely find someone you like to enjoy tea with. Be brave and open and dress up and go out! XD

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 16:52:36 2014 No.7802866 What I get from this post is that NYC is either butthurt, lonely, bitchy, or on dank ass kush like this chick >>7802831

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:03:48 2014 No.7802893
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>>7802866
On dank ass kush here. Seriously,I go to every meet up high as shit and that's how I cope with my community.

>>7802831
Girl I know we've probably met but I want to meet you and smoke you up,I love you.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:17:31 2014 No.7802907 >>7802831 aw this makes me feel better

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:20:08 2014 No.7802909 >>7802617 Lone Lolita is the way forward. It's not worth being part of a comm that still act like highschool teenagers stuck with their self absorbed clique ways. Bless this thread for being an eye opener.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:32:10 2014 No.7802935 Well you can be a lone lolita or make friends with really great people or backstabbing bitches. You're call

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:32:21 2014 No.7802936 Stoner lolita meetup in NYC, someone make the event

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:34:23 2014 No.7802939 >>7802936 can we please

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:34:25 2014 No.7802940 >>7802936 Leave your email here, I'm on it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:36:34 2014 No.7802947 >>7802940 crasslolita@yahoo.com

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 17:37:32 2014 No.7802950 File: 2.89 MB, 4128x3096, 20140905_173638.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7802936 I'm having one right now, you know...to cope with the drama.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 19:22:17 2014 No.7803122

>>7802594
she dresses pretty well for her height because she's pretty tall but she was pretentious as fuck. does some kind of financial bullshit and makes shit tons of money. she was a mod of the chicago comm before she moved back to NYC, seems like she really hated living here. don't know if she's involved in NYC comm bullshit yet but seeing how crazy everything is I doubt she's interested anymore lol

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 20:05:10 2014 No.7803202 >>7803122 Anon I think you're confusing this girl with someone else . seriously.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 20:33:11 2014 No.7803235

yanise you started posting about this thread to mock it. later, tess got shitted on. then, you made two more PUBLIC posts about it, so stop saying it was on your private fb or that you werent mocking the drama while you post eating popcorn gifs. also, you didnt come here to kudos white knights. you came to laugh at them. finally, white knights are extreme and exaggerated why would you condone white knighting? thats irrational.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 21:29:26 2014 No.7803328 >>7799665 good to know y'all are keeping your traps shut for once

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 21:36:13 2014 No.7803343

part one:

Dear Yanise,

If you want to be the better person, apologize and admit fault. Perhaps you got carried away, but how can you not take a moment to learn from this? You're hurting people. When you post public status's addressing the issue, but you still aren't apologizing it just seems like you want ass-pats from your friends. And that's exactly what they're doing. Nina may have been immature, but people change, just as you are. And, she keeps telling everyone that she's sorry. By not only continuing to reject her remorse, but allowing your friends to slander her you are taking a part in the bullying against her. And yes, this is bullying. Whether or not the initial drama was bullying, this right now, this is bullying. You used to be nice, and avoided drama. Now, you put yourself in the center of it. Why are so many people calling you two-faced? It doesn't matter if you are or aren't but own up to why they're saying it. It's because you make this public image of being nice and sweet, while mocking others with your friends. Even if you didn't think or realize you were doing it, realize now with the status's you post about other peoples drama, that is the same as mocking them. Openly laughing about other communities drama, and your own, is sad and it looks desperate for attention. It doesn't matter even if you didn't mean it for gaining attention. It's getting attention, and it's negative.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 21:37:37 2014 No.7803347

part two:

Also, stop bragging about things that happen to you. Whether it's winning a booby prize from Kawaii Ambassador, or sailor derp gaining followers, stop posting about these over and over again. Expressing gratitude isn't the same as gloating. Also, stop posting about how upset you are that you will have to see certain people at certain events or etc. It makes people ask themselves, 'is she talking about me?' So please, just realize how you're acting in the eyes of others. Yes, there are people on 4-chan who just want to talk shit, but most of what people are writing here is from their own frustrations with you. Anon is also a panel where people can take shelter and express their true feelings. Stop saying; 'if you have a problem with me, then tell me' because actually that is exactly what is going on here. Just, apologize. And learn from this.

Thanks.
Nobody.

PS: The NYC lolita comm is really really large, and there are handfuls of dear sweet people. Don't be afraid of NYC lolitas just because of this drama.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 21:50:44 2014 No.7803376 >>7803122 She made me roll my eyes from time to time but was always sweet and kind to everyone at meetups. When she banned cancerchan and discussing secrets she nipped the drama in the bud.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 22:30:03 2014 No.7803456 >>7803347 So you're pretty much saying she should stop being like everyone else on facebook and not make statuses about she feels. I'm positive your fb would be the same. Pot calls kettle black.

>>	Anonymous Fri Sep 5 22:43:14 2014 No.7803478 >>7802831 You're victorianme, right? God you're such a breath of fresh air. I know it's you and I love you.

Anonymous Fri Sep 5 22:49:40 2014 No.7803487

I just wanted to say that getting mad at people for talking shit in the NYC comm makes no sense.

You all talk shit. I know you do. Every single one of you. This community is 100% full of people who shit talk one another and none of you is any better than any other.

So put aside your differences and try to make up and be civil with the ones who have shit talked you, and you have shit talked. Because you know you've done it just like they've done it and you're just as bad as one another.

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 00:57:49 2014 No.7803641

>>7796420
Welcome to the LBC. We don't have a group for Long Beach but both the Beach Cities and the OC Lolitas group both include Long Beach members. I rarely make any meets and lurk like a motherfucker but it's nice to know there are more lolitas in my city.

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 04:54:41 2014 No.7803907

Lurker here. tbh it seems contradictory for Yanise to say that she is not a bully, but then posts screen shots on her fb for the purpose of mocking and involving others? Stop trying to make people come off anon to message you -- who in their right mind would after the blind hate mob campaign you and your friends have been leading for years now? bye gurl no one is falling into that pit viper trap. You and your friends could take a lesson on how to be genuinely nice to others, maybe.

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 05:05:06 2014 No.7803919

one more thing. Why would you have an admin who seems to have bullied multiple people in the com? You make a post about not tolerating abuse etc and putting a stop to anyone who does so, but then you keep someone who has been proven to be a bully as an admin.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 06:12:31 2014 No.7803956 >>7799529 Wait, let me get this straight, so she messaged a mod because she was feeling threatened by another member, to the point where she was afraid for her physical safety, and she got banned? JFC

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 07:56:38 2014 No.7804013 >>7803956 Yes. The mods are all aambers friends.

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 09:01:03 2014 No.7804047

Well, since Yanise officially stopped caring since she already did her part in damage control, her and her friends are still mocking this thread and creating a little hugbox right now.
I just want to say that I went to a meet up with these girls once this year, and I tried to make conversation. They would glare at me like I walked into their party uninvited. "Come to a meet and make effort to befriend us!" That statement is garbage when you don't even allow others to befriend you. Yanise says she only adds "real and close" friends, we only met once, she treated me like shit, and still has the gall to add me. Her friends list is filled with acquaintances that could report her posts to 4chan.

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 12:16:13 2014 No.7804305

What the fuck is wrong with these girls? Its such a monopoly. Why would you ban a girl because of other members threatening her?? This is why if you have a mod thats part of the problem, the problem will just get swept under the rug so to speak. what the actual fuckkkkk

Anonymous Sat Sep 6 12:23:49 2014 No.7804311

>>7803456

Haha what? I keep my shitty feels to myself. You must be the annoying cunt who goes like "OMG YOU SUPER STUPID PERSON GET OUT OF MY WAY" when you're in line at McD.

I hardly post shit anymore. I take my anger out in better ways.

And no, not from your comm, but you're the reason why it sucks. Going to a meet with x number of people then posting about how someone is annoying as fuck is just playing russian roulette with everyone else's feelings.

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 13:05:26 2014 No.7804379 File: 105 KB, 854x559, 134221212211212.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] i posted about the creepy chiptune brolita in my comm a few threads back and today . . .

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 19:05:46 2014 No.7804938 >>7804379 Omg why >lock your doors

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 19:11:23 2014 No.7804952 >>7798115 Same. I've been in the comm for many years and this is news to me. Did this person give you a name?

>>	Anonymous Sat Sep 6 19:49:51 2014 No.7805017 Oh man, that guy looks totes creepy, as a guy who appreciates Lolita and Japanese fashions and a fan and sporter of Kodona/Ouji and Decora and Fairy Kei, damn...that guy is quite creepy...

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