older lolitas

[Anonymous No.7777287]

Is there such a thing as too old?

Pictures, inspiration, discuss ~

[Anonymous No.7777291]

>>7777287
youre from the fucking ita thread arent you
I bet youre the one defending her

[Anonymous No.7777292]

[Anonymous No.7777296]

>>7777291
Yes. U mad?

[Anonymous No.7777300]

[Anonymous No.7777301]

>>7777287
i think a big part of lolita is looking youthful so yeah
they can still play dress up but lolita and old people face just doesn't look good imo

[Anonymous No.7777302]

>>7777296
Apparent youre mad enough to make a thread about it

[Anonymous No.7777314]

>>7777302
I'm just fishing for pics actually.

[Anonymous No.7777318]

>>7777292
This lady is fab. IMO most older women don't pull it off (and it doesn't help that all the older women I've met in lolita were a bit.. weird, like buying BJDs and treating them like their actual children weird) but she always looks really cute. If I keep up lolita as I age I want to be like her.

[Anonymous No.7777320]

>>7777287
Being old is one thing.
Wearing shitty makeup that accentuates how old you are is another.
Sage because OP is a fucking retard

[Anonymous No.7777322]

>>7777301
idk, I think older women can rock classic and more aristocratic looks. this sweet shit has got to go, though.

[Anonymous No.7777324]

>>7777301
I disagree. I don't like the connection between lolita and little girls (and age play). To me is about cute frilly dresses, and there's no age limit to that.

[Anonymous No.7777326]

>>7777320
Woah u really mad lol

[Anonymous No.7777332]

>>7777324
It has nothing to do with age play and more than you look awkward as fuck. Try wearing something victorian. It's the same as an old woman wearing a crop top, it doesn't look age appropriate.

[Anonymous No.7777336]

More pictures plz
I need to feel better about getting older. The idea of getting older and not being able to wear cute clothes is depressing.

I agree older people look best in classic/sweet classic but I don't mind otherwise. It's cute to see.

[Anonymous No.7777338]

>>7777322
Yeah this.

[Anonymous No.7777341]

>>7777332
>doesn't look age appropriate
>has nothing to do with ageplay

[Anonymous No.7777346]

>>7777322
Too bad I hate those styles, going on 30 and still love sweet.

[Anonymous No.7777347]

>>7777341
Ageplay or age play is a form of roleplaying in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age, sexual or non-sexually.

that's literally what this is anyway though lmao

[Anonymous No.7777348]

>>7777332
And teenagers/ women in their early twenties wearing giant head bows and horsies on their dresses is totally age appropriate?

[Anonymous No.7777357]

>>7777348
If it's not age appropriate for them why should it be for old people?

[Anonymous No.7777362]

>>7777348
ikr? Unless you are a fucking toddler, sweet will look strange as fuck to most people.

[Anonymous No.7777363]

>>7777357
That's exactly my point.
Its's not "age appropriate" for anybody over 5 so who gives a shit, wear it till you're 80.

[Anonymous No.7777364]

>>7777363
what 5 year old is wearing lolita though

[Anonymous No.7777369]

>>7777347
I think anon is trying to say, that by admitting you have to look a certain age to wear it. You're admitting that Lolita is about looking young and by extention about age play.

[Anonymous No.7777381]

Bro I just wanted cute pics of anyone over 35.

[Anonymous No.7777386]

>>7777369
but that's what it is...
what do you think these ita ass women are thinking?
what adjectives do you think come up while discussing lolita?
i can guarantee you the words "mature and distinguished" don't come up.

[Anonymous No.7777390]

>>7777381
A sweet lolita in her 40's.

[Anonymous No.7777391]

>>7777386
Its cool if its about age play for you, but its not what its about for everyone.

[Anonymous No.7777395]

>>7777390
With her daughter.

[Anonymous No.7777397]

>>7777391
if you are telling me that lolita is literally dressing up like a little girl then i've got some news for you friend
age play doesn't have to be sexual

[Anonymous No.7777401]

There is such a thing if we're talking about styles like Sweet.
Plus I honestly believe there are better fashions for older women.

[Anonymous No.7777402]

>>7777395
Oh my god

they are adorable

[Anonymous No.7777403]

>>7777397
No one said anything about sex.

[Anonymous No.7777406]

>>7777390
>>7777395
fucking magical non-aging asians.

[Anonymous No.7777407]

>>7777395
>>7777390

This is the cutest thing ever.

[Anonymous No.7777408]

>>7777403
then why is the idea so terrible for you lol
i seriously can't see any other reason why you would feel so negatively towards the phrase "age play" describing lolita

[Anonymous No.7777409]

Here you go OP. I'm depressed about the idea of not being able to wear sweet lolita when I'm older too, especially considering how long it is taking me to piece together an acceptable wardrobe.

[Anonymous No.7777410]

>>7777403
Yeah, the point they're making is that if lolita isn't about "fashion" but is actually about "dressing up like a little girl" then it's a form of ageplay, albeit a nonsexual form.

[Anonymous No.7777418]

>>7777408
I DONT fee negatively towards it?? Like I said its cool if thats why you do it but that's not why everyone does it.

[Anonymous No.7777420]

>>7777409
Keep wearing it if you truly like sweet, yes other lolitas will get super anal about it but it's not your job to live to please them.

I don't think I will stop wearing sweet but then I just like to wear cute clothing and it's never been my goal to look like the thousands of kawaii uggu asian wannabes. I don't like gothic, classic or any of the "mature" styles and I don't see the point in wasting my money on clothing I don't like just to make other people happy.

[Anonymous No.7777426]

>>7777418
then what the fuck are you arguing tbh
i don't really care why people "do it", i'm saying it's age play regardless of what your opinion is
it's not even my opinion that it's age play, it coincides with the definition of age play which is dressing up to look older or younger and that's exactly what lolita is

[Anonymous No.7777430]

>>7777420

I get it. I guess I will end up just toning down over the years.

OP, pic related has a blog if you are interested in seeing more of her. I don't know how old she is, but she carries the sweet lolita look off well for someone with such a mature face.

http://libelulle13.skyrock.com/

[Anonymous No.7777433]

>>7777410
I don't get why people think it's about looking like a little girl.
Sure, I want to look "youthful" in the sense that most women do (nice skin, minimal wrinkles, healthy hair, etc.), but I sure as hell don't want to look young. A lot of people are going to think you're dressed weirdly if you're wearing lolita no matter how old you are or what style you're wearing (unless you wear it so toned down that you're like FR), so just dress for yourself.
Obviously try to choose colours, cuts, and makeup that flatter you, but don't stop wearing something you love just because you're "old."

[Anonymous No.7777437]

Nope, even if you're 50+ you could still rock aristocratic looks and certain classic styles, think of otome brand's namesake Jane Marple too. I do think however, unless you have the no-fucks-given attitude, ott sweet and sweet in general is probably going to start to look awkward. I would say though that it's amazing what a bit of punk-ass attitude and poise can do for pulling it off, confidence is definitely key.

Don't go for frilly socks and above knee skirts though, at least not in sweet or if you don't quite pull off the aforementioned, stylish NFG vibe.

Kokusyoku Sumire btw are rumored to be well into their 40s and still rock lolita hard, they're an older lolitas inspiration of mine.

Collage is inspiration and attitude more than anything, not so much 'all this is totes 100% lolita guys'! So please calm yo tits in advance.

Oh and with the Jane Marple brand stuff, because the focus is often on print rather than an excess of pomp, bows and frills, i would still wear the crap out of at lot of it at any age, perhaps adding a tasteful underskirt to keep everything at least just below the knee.

[Anonymous No.7777439]

>>7777426
what I'm saying is that no a lot of us DONT dress lolita to look younger at all. We genuinely like the frills for the sake of frilly awesome fashion.

[Anonymous No.7777450]

>>7777390
I want a sweet lolita grandma-chan goddamn it.

The designer for Hello Kitty always seems to have on a lolita/otome coord. She doesn't always look the best, but she always seems happy.

[Anonymous No.7777453]

>>7777430
Her profile says 27.

[Anonymous No.7777458]

If I'm not mistaken shelbycloud is in her mid 30's

[Anonymous No.7777467]

Does lovelylor count? I know she isn't old but she does have a mature face. I know this is an unpopular opinion but I think she looks adorable.

[Anonymous No.7777494]

>>7777453
>>7777467
I think these girls look cute, especially the one who is not lovelylor, but still, I wonder how it is even possible they are still in their 20s.

[Anonymous No.7777499]

>>7777458
She's in her mid 30s?? she looks like early 20s. I can only hope to look that young at her age.

[Anonymous No.7777518]

Lady in my comm with her daughter. Pic is old tho.

[Anonymous No.7777566]

>>7777518
Cute kid, but the mom looks ridiculous. Not because of her age though, but because she's wearing sweet even though she's plus-sized, the glasses look like shit and her hair is awful.

[Anonymous No.7777572]

>>7777453
Wow, 27? I feel so blessed.

[Anonymous No.7777583]

>>7777566
It was her first meet, she got better.

[Anonymous No.7777593]

>>7777458
She's like 31? I love her tho

[Anonymous No.7777596]

>>7777518
Yeah. I looked ridiculous that day. Much better now. And I've learned the power of contacts.

[Anonymous No.7777665]

>>7777596
Well, if it was your first meet it's a different case, you did about as bad as me at my first try.
Was your kid just tagging along or does she really enjoy the fashion?

[Anonymous No.7777672]

From reading this thread, and ita threads and my own experience it seems the general consensus is looks>age. Basic[ally, a 30 something with a cute face and nice figure will universally look more suitable in lolita than a say 19 year old with an old/mature (or just ugly) looking face especially if they are overweight and moreso if they are wearing sweet. Considering this is a fashion that's centered around beauty, aesthetics and escapism this makes sense.

[Anonymous No.7777674]

>>7777364
The ones with rich Japanese lolita mommas

(Seriously though don't some brands make matching mommy-daughter dresses? I'm pretty sure I've seen that)

[Anonymous No.7777681]

No, there fucking isn't. It doesn't matter if you're 16, 18, 21, or 25, or 30 - at all of those ages you're dressing to look like a 4 year old.

Do you have any idea how fucking stupid it looks when you're trying to denigrate someone for looking "too old" when you're a goddamn adult in lolita? If it looks nice and well done then that's all that matters.

[Anonymous No.7777682]

Obviously this just reflects my experience whilst there but for what it's worth, during my Japan trip at the end of last year, the lolitas actually out shopping in the department stores/brand stores were all clearly over 30 (and looking great).

[Anonymous No.7777683]

>>7777518
>>7777596
Oh I've seen other pics of you two. You're so cute!! I hope to have a cute loli daughter someday.

[Anonymous No.7777689]

>tfw almost 30
>tfw never wore lolita and never will

[Anonymous No.7777691]

>>7777689
okay

[Anonymous No.7777692]

>>7777674
I might be wrong but IIRC they had their daughter's dresses altered.

[Anonymous No.7777716]

>>7777689
the only one holding you back is you.

[Anonymous No.7777717]

>>7777672
Yeah. People age so differently, too, that I'm sure a lot of girls who are actually older get overlooked in these kinds of threads since people just assume they're in their mid-twenties.

The other thing is that so many lolitas don't know the first thing about fashion outside of lolita, so they often don't have a grasp of flattering colors, cuts, and make up (and if they do, it's something they learned from a Japanese tutorial, which may not look right on a white or black girl). All of those things can make a younger girl look older than she actually is.

[Anonymous No.7777726]

>>7777672
>>7777717
Totally agreed. It's about how the individual pulls it off and chooses things that suit their looks, less to do with actual age or not. It's totally possible to wear sweet and choose colors, cuts and motifs that will suit you if you have mature looks- but it's about the styling.

[Anonymous No.7777738]

>>7777717
So damn true. I followed many a Japanese tutorial to a 't', and compared to the before shots the end results are so fresh, cute and youthful looking , when I do it - 10 years older, every goddamn time. Also the 'bigger eyes' type techniques they tend to utilize look ridiculous, overly made-up and cartoonish on my stupid-ass derpy gaijin eyes.

[Anonymous No.7777788]

>>7777683
Thanks. I'm just a little uncomfortable with my daughter's face being on here. I'm not down with that at all. People don't think. I rarely put pics up of her. And cgl is definitely not a place that I want her face to be.

[Anonymous No.7777818]

>friends are somewhat e-famous lolitas
>they are all 25+, some are almost 40
>our comm never gets posted
>mfw everyone thinks we're in our early twenties
>mfw the only people who get posted in these threads are OBVIOUS old hags who never learned to do make up properly, style a wig or take care of their skin and bodies

Excellent.

[Kyubey !HYysBLBuYY No.7777828]

>>7777467
It's so hard for me to look past her face and somehow find her cute.. her outfits are nice at least.

[Anonymous No.7777852]

>>7777301
>A big part of lolita is being youthful
That's why a lot of the dress designers are in their 30s and older, right ? You can wear many things into older age. You just have to have a good attitude about it.

[Anonymous No.7777856]

>>7777322
>>7777324
>>7777332
This is why I hate sweet lolita

[Anonymous No.7777865]

>>7777453
27? I'm 30 and I look half her age. Holy shit. I'm glad I stay out of this sun

[Anonymous No.7777868]

>>7777518
>mom and kid
Did she have her at 15 or something? Wouldnt be surprised.

[Anonymous No.7777884]

>>7777818
I was getting all ready to high five you up until this point:

>mfw the only people who get posted in these threads are OBVIOUS old hags who never learned to do make up properly, style a wig or take care of their skin and bodies

[Anonymous No.7777886]

>>7777868
A lot of people just look young. I had a friend in college who would often get mistaken as her mom's slightly younger sister. They both just looked young. My friend hated it, but of course her mother loved it. My parents also look very young even though they had me in their mid 20s.

[Anonymous No.7777921]

>>7777886
This woman looks like a teenager though. I live in the ghetto and I see teenager moms all the damn time. It's sad

[Anonymous No.7777954]

>>7777886
ugh i get this all the time, with people thinking my mother and I are sisters. I'm 21 and she's 45, of course she loves it and I hate it. I think people think we're like 25 and 35

[Anonymous No.7777957]

>>7777467
I think she's really cute too anon

[Anonymous No.7777959]

>>7777868
I had her when I was 20. Still in my 20s. And please do be surprised that I'm not quite a stereotype. I'm a college graduate too. :)

[Anonymous No.7777984]

>>7777426

Lolitas will always care if we're lumped in with another group.

In this case you're saying we might as well be age players pretending to be 5. That alone doesn't bother me, it bothers me when real age players come looking for lolitas, bearing sippy cups and want to carry backpacks and actually play pretend like everybody is 5 years old and needs mommy to hold their hand. I ain't got no time for that shit. I want to eat cake and drink some alcoholic tea, which is going to be in a nice, tall glass, and it had better be fancy. You can bet there will be no stupid sippy cups involved.

[Anonymous No.7778036]

>>7777665
She enjoys it too quite a bit.

[Anonymous No.7778046]

>>7777921
Ghetto-chan, I'm not a teenager. LOL I don't live in the ghetto either . I'm sorry about your unfortunate circumstances. But think about this: When you see a teen mom, encourage her to make goo choices in life from now on for her child(ren). It is sad to see teen moms. They have no idea what they're doing. The struggle is real. But there is hope for everyone.

[Anonymous No.7778053]

>>7777884
well, not *this specific thread* but "older lolitas" threads always have women with really bad make-up and shitty wigs. sometimes even posted as a good example...

[Anonymous No.7778094]

This question has been asked many times and there is no real answer. Some will say once you are old/look old, to stop wearing sweet or leave lolita period. Others will say just do what you want, it's your life.

It just comes down to if you care about what others think. If you have less confidence, easily follow the crowd and worry about the opinions of others, it will be harder to be an older sweet lolita. It's all up to your own personal feelings about it, no one can tell what you can or can not do.

[Anonymous No.7778104]

I think wearing anything like this after the age of 14 is considered too old for this shit.

[Anonymous No.7778110]

> be me
> at work
> see tiny bald little old lady
> wearing bright pink
> giant pink sunhat
> ruffled dress
> not lolita at all, still adorable as fuck
> compliment her clothing
> talk about clothing a little bit
> little old lady as sweet as fuck
> gave me a card with a starfish with google eyes on it
> hang it up on the bulletin board at work

Seriously though, old women in girly clothes is fucking adorable. Like, they make me think of fairy godmothers. I'll take a picture of the card tomorrow if the thread's still up.

[Anonymous No.7778112]

>>7778053
that might be so but referring to 'older women' as hags etc is probably not the best starting point when attempting to showcase mature lolitas with style - shitty make-up and wigs are all over the place and is certainly not limited to older folk. Sure, call out the crap make-up or whatever if that's your thing but it would be nice, for once, not to go down the 'eeew old hags' type route whenever one of these threads is created. Don't think much of the example pics? Find better ones.

[Anonymous No.7778133]

>>7777300
So quiche

[Anonymous No.7778169]

>>7777336
That fucking blue eyeshadow. Being old is fine, but she looks like a mess.

None of her colors are cohesive, she needs a petti, and the other chick isn't even wearing lolita.

[Anonymous No.7778176]

>>7777300
>>7778133
can't unsee

[Anonymous No.7778209]

>>7777458
Shelby is definitely the role model for being over 30 and still looking good in lolita.

[Anonymous No.7778213]

>>7778209

[Anonymous No.7778225]

>>7778209
She looks good because she has a youthful face, most girls aren't blessed with looking younger than they are.

[Anonymous No.7778239]

>>7778110
That sounds adorable as hell. It seems to get questionable about "regaining your youth" or looking off somehow when you're middle aged, but if you're very old it just comes off as charming.

[Anonymous No.7778287]

>>7777314
This does not suit her at all.

[Anonymous No.7778293]

>>7777593
No she's 32 now

[Anonymous No.7778297]

>>7778287
Kind of. I think it's cute and not too bad against her red hair. iirc, she was very into the Goth scene long before lolita. I'm so used to seeing her in sweet lolita and I'm sure you are too, so maybe that's why this sort of style seems off?

[Anonymous No.7778314]

>>7778110
Das kawaii. She kind of reminds me of those ladies featured in Advanced Style.

http://youtu.be/-baPw-bE_Ec

I think that as I get older, I'd like to still be involved in J-fashion and gradually add a feel of sophistication. It makes me wonder if I'll end up a lone-lolita or if I'll be the resident old-schooler.

I can kind of imagine how the latter would be
>occasionally host elaborate private meet ups at my nice house
>big-ass wardrobe tour for the newbies to inspire to and try on
>be not only an experienced lolita mentor, but a kind of a big-sister/auntie figure - help them out with problems of growing up

Anyway, more pics please!

[Anonymous No.7778580]

>>7778209
>>7778225
I dunno, most 30-35 year olds don't look old - shel by looks her age - she passes as a 25 year old just as she passes as an early 30 year old. I reckon 20-35 a persons age is really ambiguous based on looks. Clothing and style makes it tricky too. Someone could dress young and wear their hair a certain way and it can make them look youthful or mature.

[Anonymous No.7778594]

>>7777852
youthful =/= young

[Anonymous No.7778602]

Blondedebates is older but seems to pull it off

[Anonymous No.7778676]

damn, older lolitas have mad coording skills.

[Anonymous No.7778748]

>>7778676
mostly they just have money to buy things.

[Anonymous No.7778818]

>mfw my mum just told me that I can pass as 17
>I'm 21

>>7778036
That's so cute, I love seeing kids in lolita. I'd almost get one just to be able to dress them up.

[Anonymous No.7778864]

>>7778602
Ugh, her face and coord both look good, but why she didn't do anything with her hair? It ruins everything for me.

[Anonymous No.7778868]

30+

[Anonymous No.7778904]

>>7778818
I'm 26 and pass for 16. get on my level

[Anonymous No.7778920]

>>7778818
With that small an age gap I'd worry if you couldn't pass, honestly. 18-23 is usually pretty ambiguous, and many teenage girls can look older than they are so that confuses things even more.

>>7778904
I'm 30 and easily pass for 12 u jelly
>let's not start this again

[Anonymous No.7778930]

>>7778904

I'm 29 and pass for a 15 year old.

I go out with my friends who are a couple years older than me and everyone assumes I'm their son.

>tfw elven-tier genetics

[Anonymous No.7778942]

>>7778930
I'm 20, and I have been mistook for a 12 year old. Funny thing is, my college group of friends is all composed by 3DPD lolis and shotas.

[Anonymous No.7778943]

>>7778930
>elven-tier
Do you even Tolkien? Sounds more like a Hobbit.

Also looking young doesn't necessarily mean you look GOOD so I'm not sure why people keep bragging about this. It could be that you're fat or have a really weak facial structure that throws people off, or maybe your clothes or behaviour are more juvenile than what people expect from someone your age.

[Anonymous No.7778970]

>>7778943
>I'm not sure why people keep bragging about this

People can share and relate without it being a competition, anon.

[Anonymous No.7778973]

>>7778864
I agree, her hair always looks like a huge mess, no matter what she does and how she styles it. But I also blame her unflattering haircut for it, bangs and maybe a less yellow-ish hair dye would do wonders on her entire appearance.

Also slightly off-topic, but what brand is the blouse she is wearing in this picture? By the print, it looks like JetJ but I don't remember that they ever released a blouse like this. Maybe an upcoming release or something?

[Anonymous No.7778976]

>>7778970
>I'm 21 and can pass for 17
>I'm 26 and pass for 16 get on my level
>I'm 29 and pass for 15 tfw elven-tier genetics

Sounds like a competition to me. They're not even talking about anything anyone else can relate to, like being carded all the goddamn time or condescending delivery men who refuse to accept your signature and tell you to get your mommy, or any other annoying bullshit you have to deal with when you look younger than you are. They're just one-upping each other.

[Anonymous No.7778979]

>>7778818
The only setback is that children grow very quickly. So I'm alwaya frantic to find her new things to wear. And she's a little picky. Lol. I'm going to try my hand at sewing so that I can make things for her to wear and appease her taste.

[Anonymous No.7778984]

>>7778976
I was just happy to hear my mum say it because lately I've been worrying about getting too old for jfashion already.

[Anonymous No.7778990]

>>7778984
It's fine, anon. It's just that we've had threads like this before and when people start getting into this contest of who is the most kawaiiest ageless loli-chan (without posting pictures to back up their claim, of course) it quickly devolves into a steaming pile of cancer.
>inb4 that one Asian master race anon chimes in

>>7778979
That's so cute! I hope that if I ever have a daughter she'll want me to sew cute frilly clothes for her. You never know if they end up rebelling against mom's totally embarrassing frilliness and becoming tomboy punks instead.

[Anonymous No.7778992]

Ah, the inevitable 'I get mistaken for a kawaii fetus but I'm actually 47 tee hee' shit. Great, you look younger than your age, real neat in fact, but it doesn't do much to inspire and assist those who god forbid, might actually look 30+ or whatever.

[Anonymous No.7778999]

>>7778580
It's all about how you take care of your skin with some genetics thrown in there too. People that I graduated high school with who smoke and tan, not to mention those who let themselves go and had kids clearly look way old. I'll be 33 this year and I pass for early to mid twenties at the most even without makeup on and in my hobo clothes.

I mainly wear sweet but I dabble a little in more mature styles as well. I don't wear them out in public often outside meetups or cons as I don't feel comfortable or safe without safety in numbers in my area. So it's not like I'm going out and about town doing my business dressed like a toddler. There's always someone who comes by with a very young child in a dress with a similar style or cut and I just feel awkward, haha. But it's kind of different when you're in a group or everyone is dressed differently.

I do like how Shelby adds a little more mature flair sometimes to her sweeter outfits rather than just doing the same old blouse, otks, headbow, teaparties formula.

[Anonymous No.7779002]

>>7777336
I dont like her shoes and socks and the eyeshadow is too bright. I think if she would go for a nature makeup would be better since darker or bright eyeshadow tend to make you look older or weird when you are past 40/45.
>>7777346
I'm not really fond of too mature styles as you, i'm almost in my mid 20s and i look really good with bright or pastel colors, as well black. Infact i love sweet lolita and fairy kei.
Instead with muted, jewel tones or florals or mature stuff i look awful. So as you, i won't dress in classic when i hit 30, it doesn't look right on me unless it's black or dark red.
>>7777363
Infact. So they must don't give a fuck about people wear regarless of their age.

[Anonymous No.7779006]

>>7778930
>son

It's a good thing for girls to be mistaken as a lot younger, but it is hilariously sad if it's a guy. If you are a 29 year old MAN and get mistaken as a 15 year old boy... ew. Freaky manchild.

[Anonymous No.7779021]

>>7779006
This is probably bait, but
>hipocrisy

[Anonymous No.7779025]

This thread is full of people with gerontophobia.

[Anonymous No.7779030]

>>7779025
I'm not scared of getting older, I'm scared of getting too old for J-fashion. There's a difference.

[Anonymous No.7779032]

>>7779025
To be fair, old people are terrifying.
>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ygy7UDADXDg

[Anonymous No.7779035]

>>7778976
I'm having a hard time imagining the kind of world you live in where playful banter between people who share an unusual experience can only mean they are one-upping each other.

Oh wait, this is /cgl/ lol.

On-topic, anyone who takes care of themselves and has good aesthetic sense can dress however they want and make it work. Those with insecure self-image and toxic ideas about beauty and aging are going to hate on SOMETHING no matter what. Lousy attitudes gonna be lousy.

[Anonymous No.7779037]

>>7779021
Not the same anon, but it's true though. Stereotypically it's like men that looks older are 'mature and manly', while younger-looking women are 'young and cute'. Most girls would find a 29 year old man that looks 15 unattractive, just like how a 20 year old girl that looks 40 is unattractive.

[Anonymous No.7779042]

>>7777868
>>7777921

Blacks have a high amount of melanin in their skin (Asians have a good amount of melanin as well), and this generally stands up well against sun damage, the number one cause of skin aging.

Those with light skin don't do as well due to having virtually none, hence they don't age as well.

[Anonymous No.7779052]

>>7779037
>Most girls would find a 29 year old man that looks 15 unattractive

Yeah but imagine if:

1. The girl is a massive fujoshit weeb, a Sebastien who has found her Ciel;
2. The girl is a domme with a humiliation fetish;
3. The girl is not a girl but a chickenhawk;
4. The girl is a 30 year old sweet lolita who looks 12 and loves the idea of confusing the fuck out of people when she and her kawaii ouji bf go to the bar.

[Anonymous No.7779057]

>>7777300
heeey I got posted! Personally, I have no issue with looking my age, I'm not trying to fool anybody in lolita (well, I try not to post really BAD photos of myself, but I don't photoshop myself all to hell etc). I tried to get out of Lolita, but it sucks me back in, so I guess I'm going to go on until I really feel like I'm not having fun anymore. My local community has always been really nice and nobody has ever said anything to my face about feeling awkward around me due to my age so *shrug*. I have to say that I do far prefer gothic - not gothic lolita but straight-up American style goth, it's a lot more flattering to my face and figure as a fashion.

[Anonymous No.7779060]

>>7779006
pic related, 24 year old squick factory.

[Anonymous No.7779063]

>>7779057
You've been my lolita idol for some time, glad to see you didn't quit permanently <3

[Anonymous No.7779069]

>>7779042
Thanks for the lecture professor, but that only really applies to people who are 40+ and does nothing to explain how a woman in her late 20s or early 30s can look like an actual teenager. Sun damage does not show up that early unless you actively go tanning multiple times a week.

The real reason is that she's black (as well as overweight in that picture) and people always have a hard time telling the age of people who are of a different race than them. Plus that anon is talking about "ghetto" teenage girls, who are probably aging harder than other girls their age due to stressful circumstances. The issue isn't that the woman posted looks exceptionally youthful but that the young black women anon is comparing her to look older than you'd expect.

>>7779037
True. Plus the fact that the mental and emotional maturation of men in particular doesn't really start until they're in their 20's. Women are a few years ahead of them in that regard. I'm in my early twenties and men my age get on my nerves sometimes, I can't even imagine being around teenage boys anymore. Dating a dude who looks 15 and therefore attracts more fucktards that age? No thank you.

[Anonymous No.7779070]

>>7779057
I think you look bretty gud fyi. Got a tumblr or something for your goth stuff (or maybe post for comparison to lolita so people can judge if you look better in another fashion)?

[Anonymous No.7779072]

>>7779052
>The girl likes beta looking males

FTFY

[Anonymous No.7779074]

>>7779069
>Sun damage does not show up that early unless you actively go tanning multiple times a week.

youtube "How the sun sees you"

[Anonymous No.7779075]

>>7779057
Oh wow, I haven't seen you post on here since the maikofuck dramu. You look awesome!

[Anonymous No.7779080]

>>7779063
really, that's neat because I'm not internet-famous at all ... like AT ALL. I'm always shocked when someone "knows" me from Lolita. Lolita is just so damned FUN sometimes, it's hard to quit if you like that aspect of it and don't get bogged down in the little details of not being perfect. I know I don't have a "cute" face and i'll never be a great Lolita (plus I'm just not as creative as some people are with coordinating, I'm lazy) but I guess it's not about being the best or even being better than other people. It's all about cake hats and clock bags crazy shit like that.

[Anonymous No.7779082]

>>7779070
hahaha, so you want to judge me eh? This is casual death-rock, this is how I look pretty much every day when I'm not working.

[Anonymous No.7779090]

>>7777868
Wowwwww youre a fucking bitch, holy shit

[Anonymous No.7779125]

>>7779082
No, I'm into goth stuff and am curious. The last bit was to try to keep people from accusing you of attention-whoring by pointing out the ways you posting non-lolita things could be relevant to the thread. Cause bitches gonna bitch.

Looks cool, reminds me of the tribal fusion style that was creeping around a few years ago (but less something-something, my brain is fried).

[Anonymous No.7779151]

>>7779125
Yeah the bullet belt w/ a skirt can give it a bellydance sort of feel and the goth/tribal/bellydance fusion was a thing a while back (in goth no trends die, they just die-back a bit, we still have some electro and rivet types, perkygoths around). I do a lot of fitted tops and big skirts that emphasize the waist which I think works on an "apple" shape like mine. In Lolita this shape makes me look fat(er) even when my BMI is in the normal range. But also having a "mature" body w/ developed breasts can kind of make Lolita fit awkwardly - that's hard to reconcile w/ the loli aesthetic for sure. I wear sports-bras under my brand to try and play it down.

[Anonymous No.7779154]

>>7779151
>in goth no trends die

This sounds way more epic than it has a right to be.

[Anonymous No.7779158]

>>7777320
Stop bitching you needy shit. You're just mad because she looks better than you, lolol.

[Anonymous No.7779165]

>>7779151
You do look much slimmer in that goth pic than in the lolita pictures that were posted here. Unfortunately lolita is just not flattering on apple shapes.

Unrelated but when that whole Jona dramu was going down (not sure if you followed it but it's in the comm bitching threads) I first thought they were talking about you and I just sat staring at my screen in disbelief for a few minutes until my brain caught up. I'd imagine that if you secretly camwhored to afford your lolita you'd be more clever about it.

>>7779154
>what is dead may never die
>but rises again, harder and stronger

[Anonymous No.7779228]

>>7779165
I work I an office, I think it's easier to work overtime to afford brand than camwhore.

>and with strange aeons even death may die

[Anonymous No.7779358]

>>7779057
I've seen pics of you before! I think you look great in lolita! It's good that you didn't quit. So classy and well thought out. :)

[Anonymous No.7779414]

>>7779080
>I guess it's not about being the best or even being better than other people.
>It's all about cake hats and clock bags crazy shit like that.

I like you.

[Anonymous No.7779431]

>>7779080
read that last bit as "all about cock bags"

[Anonymous No.7780125]

>>7779030
You cant be too old. I think most people who are into jfashion believe Japan is full of kawaii magical non-aging girls and there is pressure to look the same.

Nope, a lot of Japanese girls look their age or older.
The girl in the photo is 24, she looks a lot older. It's also possible she is lying about her age but that doesn't stop her from wearing what she wants.

[Anonymous No.7780129]

>>7780125
AKB48 idol who was recently made fun of online for her looks. She is only 22 and made fun of for being ugly and looking 40.

[Anonymous No.7780130]

>>7780125
This is such a wonderful post.

[Anonymous No.7780134]

>>7780129
A bunch of lolitas. Most of them don't have the stereotypical kawaii young look.

People need to stop obsessing over getting older or looking old when most Japanese girls don't even fit the kawaii youthful mold.

[Anonymous No.7780211]

>>7780125
Thanks for this, kinda helps me feel a little better. I often compare myself to girls like in this photo and I know her picture is edited to hell and back. I just can't help it, I want to look cute and young like that.

[Anonymous No.7780253]

>>7780129
her hairstyle is really aging her on top of her under-eye puff.

[Anonymous No.7780255]

>>7779057
I have the same experience as you with lolita: I'm early 40s, but idgaf and nobody in my local comm seems bothered by having an old lady around - or if they are, they're polite enough not to say anything to my face. I keep a pretty low profile online, although I do post pics of outfits I particularly like.

My nasio-lines have *really* started to kick in over the last year, which is hard to watch, and I've definitely hit the point where I can't wear sweet without feeling all "mutton dressed as lamb". Luckily, I'm mostly goth / classic, so I figure I'll keep my frills for as long as I like!

[Anonymous No.7780287]

>>7780134
You can post all the busted looking Japanese women you've cherry picked from the internet to make yourself feel better about looking old but fact is most western jfashion wearers (especially cutsey fashions like sweet lolita and fairy kei) hold kawaii uguu young doll-faced Japanese girls up as the standard they wish to achieve for themselves and that's not about to change anytime soon.

[Anonymous No.7780295]

>>7780211
then photoshop the shit out of yourself like she does?

[Anonymous No.7780311]

>>7780287
If this thread is a testament to anything is that 50 year old lolis arent even looking to impress 19 year olds anyway lol

[Anonymous No.7780347]

>>7780311
Nope. Too busy wearing silly dresses for no reason whatsoever. In my alley. For reasons.

[Anonymous No.7780349]

>>7780211
She is so cute, who is she?

[Anonymous No.7780352]

>>7780287
Not the anon who posted photos but most of the young doll faced japanese girls aren't even real, they have makeup plastered on and edit the shit out of their photos. They are believing in a standard that isn't real, not even in Japan.

Some girls need to actually go to Japan and get a reality check. They are just as bad as weebs who get their idea about japan from anime.

[Anonymous No.7780358]

I kind of dig the idea of changing your look with your age.

Teens to 25ish go for that sweet lolita look if you're into it.

25-30s go for that goth look

30+ go for that classic look.


Bright candy pinks will never suit an older woman (sorry!) it will look like you're ageplaying or some bs. Soft pinks, dusty roses, and the other color pallets of classic or darker colors of gothic would look age appropriate and still cute

[Anonymous No.7780359]

>>7780347
in all reality, its just your shitty hair that ruins everything.

[Anonymous No.7780364]

>>7780358
Guess I am going to be 30 and look like an ageplayer since I hate classic and gothic.

[Anonymous No.7780366]

>>7780358
40+ mid life crisis, stop giving any fucks

[Anonymous No.7780367]

>>7780359
goddamn shitty hair, ruining everything for everybody! seriously though, I think I get the most flack on CGL for my hair (and for looking like a brolita), I guess I know what you guys mean but I just can't stand wigs. I curl it for meets but for just hanging out in Lolita it's just too much trouble. Never thought it *ruined* the look, though certainly some more creative styling would make the whole look nicer. it's kind of hard to see your own faults sometimes.

[Anonymous No.7780371]

>>7780287
It's actually really easy to find a lot of photos of Japanese girls outside of jfashion. Just type in Japanese schools and you will find class photos and see what the average girl looks like.

Not really cherry picking when it's easy to find pics of Japanese people in normal everyday life.

[Anonymous No.7780380]

>>7777865
you don't look 14.5
nigga stop lyin'

[Anonymous No.7780383]

>>7780367
you should stop, don't feed the trolls man. be like elsa and let it go

[Anonymous No.7780384]

>>7780371
It's also not cherry picking cause that photo you posted before was the entire comm of obachans.

[Anonymous No.7780389]

>>7780367
i dont find your coords offensive, just your hair. i mean you go so far to have semi-decent coords and you seem to understand the aesthetic when it comes to clothing but you willingly ignore the fact that your hair looks like shit and is bringing everything else down?

[Anonymous No.7780392]

>>7780371
So I looked of Japanese schools, I am going to have fun with this. How many dreams can I shatter about Japan being the land of "kawaii" beings?

[Anonymous No.7780396]

>>7780392

[Anonymous No.7780397]

>>7780389
what do you suggest?

[Anonymous No.7780401]

>>7780396

[Anonymous No.7780404]

>>7780401

[Anonymous No.7780405]

>>7780392
>>7780396
Thing is, most FOB asian girls I know don't tend to be appearance oriented until they graduate (notice how almost no one is wearing makeup, especially in the first one who seems to be honor roll students or something). You're studying 24/7 if you have tyrannic asian parents.

[Anonymous No.7780408]

[Anonymous No.7780414]

>>7780408
eeeew. no.

[Anonymous No.7780431]

>>7780389
I dont think you understand that your opinion =/= fact, or more importantly its not her opinion of HER hair.

I think she looks rad as fuck and definitely preferable to all the shitty wigs that make everything look costume-ish. She looks like an alt lady wearing alt clothes and I prefer it to a kawaii girl who looks like she's wearing a costume any day.

[Anonymous No.7780437]

>>7780408
Definite down grade.

[Anonymous No.7780440]

>>7777320
Bumping just to piss this guy off.

[Anonymous No.7780441]

>>7780414
look, your hair is bringing way too much attention to your face. which is not exactly the most gorgeous thing in the world. you need normal hair if you're going to be wearing coords of that style.

People could look beyond your "brolita face" if their eyes werent so drawn to your head

[Anonymous No.7780443]

>>7780431
Calm down. I'm not even that anon, and she's right, her hair isn't styled and it looks off, that's all the other anon said. Stop with this sjw shit.

[Anonymous No.7780444]

>>7780414
>>7780431
>>7780437
samefag

[Anonymous No.7780445]

>>7780408
Is the hair shooped on? There are some weird sharp edges all around.

[Anonymous No.7780452]

>>7780431
I think the older you get the more important it is to look like you're wearing a real fashion and not a kid playing dress up for a costume event? I dunno, after a certain age walking around looking like you're wearing a costume is distasteful to me (unless you're at a con or something)

[Anonymous No.7780455]

>>7780443
What anon? I'm replying to the anon I quoted.

[Anonymous No.7780460]

>>7780408
Hahahaa are you kidding? Flower crowns and wigs that blend too much into the coordinate are not an improvement. You basically proved how UNshitty her hair is with this.

[Anonymous No.7780464]

>>7780444
Lol cosplay lolitas.

[Anonymous No.7780471]

>>7780444
Learn to accept that everyone doesn't agree with you. Your opinion might even be in the minority, heaven forfend.

[Anonymous No.7780478]

>>7780464
Let me guess you're one of the 'lifestyle' girls who complain about the 'casuals'.

[Anonymous No.7780483]

>>7780471
I could same the same thing to you miss "everyone who disagrees is obviously the same person because only one person would ever disagree."

[Anonymous No.7780484]

>>7780460
i looked for a normal hair color wig. too lazy to shoop out the flower crown.

[Anonymous No.7780488]

>>7780478
Yes. Go wear your clown wigs and hang out with the cosplayers.

[Anonymous No.7780490]

>>7780441
What this anon said. Now I'm not focused on her grotesque and old face.

[Anonymous No.7780494]

>>7780464
>>7780488
samefag

[Anonymous No.7780496]

>>7780488
>implying that shitty damaged bright red hair isnt screaming clown/shitty cosplay

[Anonymous No.7780499]

>>7780431
>>7780464
>>7780488
>mfw this butthurt anon again
Shouldn't you been in the ita thread defending shit coords as old school?

[Anonymous No.7780503]

>>7780494
Obviously sherlock, I'm replying to someone who replied to me. And I confirmed it was me with a "YES" moron. Holy fuck the stupid I can't handle it.

[Anonymous No.7780506]

>>7780503
>this mad about ur ugly hair

[Anonymous No.7780513]

>>7780496
Its real hair and that takes costume out of the question. She looks like a loony wearing loony clothes.

[Anonymous No.7780515]

>>7780506
Nah I have normalfag hair, I generally dont dig the ~edgy~ hair colours but it's preferable to a wig that makes the fashion look like a costume.

[Anonymous No.7780520]

>>7780513
ridiculously dyed bright shitty damaged hair isnt costumey? compared to a normal color and style?

lets be fucking real anon. unless you're probably her and want to pretend you have people on your side.

[Anonymous No.7780531]

>>7780515
Properly styled hair would be better than what she has going on now. The anon (I'm assuming you) replied to way back here >>7780389
didn't even mention wigs.

[Anonymous No.7780533]

>>7780520
You don't leave your house do you?Ridiculously fucking bright hair is fairly trendy right now and not at all costumeish, go to the mall or some shit and every other ~edgy~ person has it.

[Anonymous No.7780538]

>>7780533
and all of those people are like under 20. if you're pushing the age this witch is pushing you need to step back from the mall goth look. it just makes you look old and haggard

[Anonymous No.7780545]

>>7780538
Alt fashion =/= mall goth.
Just Google pics of whatever recent goth festival and learn about alt fashion plz.

[Anonymous No.7780550]

>>7780545
lolita isnt a goth festival.

and shitty dyed hair = mall goth = goth

[Anonymous No.7780552]

>>7780550
No

[Anonymous No.7780553]

>>7780550
It actually isn't unusual to see Lolita's at goth festivals.

I dont think her hair is any different than l wigs.

[Anonymous No.7780554]

>>7780545
>mixing lolita and "goth fashion" and thinking its ok

[Anonymous No.7780555]

>>7780545
If >>7779082 is any indication of what that google search might bring up I'd rather not, thanks.

[Anonymous No.7780556]

>>7780553
*unnatural colored wigs. Sorry.

[Anonymous No.7780558]

>>7780553
let me just wear my siouxsie tee with my AP yall

[Anonymous No.7780562]

Wow, when I started coming on here for lolita purposes, I remember the slew of people who were upset that she was leaving lolita and she was their inspiration. And now it's like ewww look at her. I thought I was relatively a newfag.

[Anonymous No.7780564]

>>7780555
right? this is about as mall gothy as it gets. hang on if this bitch eats it up i have some UFO pants with 400 straps on it i can sell for 200 bux

[Anonymous No.7780565]

>28
>man-ish face
>been mistaken for 45 by two coworkers
>horrible genetics and bad picking habits have turned my face into a minefield
>freckles right above my lip give off a mustache shadow
>look like a brolita at best
>make that a fat brolita
>tfw, oddly enough, knowing all this makes me not give a fuck anymore
>tfw I've embraced my ugly status and just wear frilly dresses because I want to, not to be "suppa uggu kawaii"

[Anonymous No.7780569]

>>7780565
you don't belong in lolita. its good that you accept you because no one else ever will

[Anonymous No.7780571]

>>7780558
Goth festivals aren't just for goths, you know that right?

And yeah actually that would be ok. Alt fashion in general is not like lolita, you just do you.

[Anonymous No.7780576]

>>7780571
but lolita is not alt fashion in general. your shit goth things are not apart of it

[Anonymous No.7780577]

>>7780569
>post in obvious troll thread
>expect serious replies

[Anonymous No.7780578]

>>7780565
Do it. If you're gonna be an uggo be an uggo in kawaii clothes at least.

[Anonymous No.7780579]

>>7780577
>expects sjw replies
you go girl!!!!!

[Anonymous No.7780581]

>>7780578
kawaii clothes are immediately downgraded to trash if some fat hairlip is wearing it

[Anonymous No.7780582]

>>7780579
Lulz, I never expected asspats nor sjw replies. I'm just stating the facts, ma'am.

[Anonymous No.7780583]

>>7780287
I hate that look, they look like they are trying to look like anime characters. I follow some Japanese lolita blogs, a lot of the girls just look normal, light makeup and they don't heavily edit their photos.

I always felt non-Japanese girls worry about looking "kawaii" more than Japanese girls do.

[Anonymous No.7780587]

>>7780576
Cry moar. People are going to wear whatever they want whether you like it or not. And you're the one who came up with that outfit and called it lolita y u cryin'?

[Anonymous No.7780589]

ITT: 14-year-olds thinking that an adult woman cares about their opinion of her. I doubt she's still here to listen to your epic burns about mall goth pants.

She's one of the coolest lolitas I've met and I'm glad she's back. I love her give-no-fucks attitude and genuine niceness. No I'm not her, but she's one of a few people in my comm I will happily whiteknight anytime.

[Anonymous No.7780592]

>>7780589
>ITT: A grown woman caring about the opinions of a bunch of Anonymous teens
FTFY

[Anonymous No.7780593]

>>7780589
Nope all same fag, needs a wig.

[Anonymous No.7780597]

>>7780587
Try explaining that to the anti wig anon that likes to shit up every other thread.

[Anonymous No.7780601]

>>7780582
yeah you totally weren't looking for asspats, thats totally not why you posted something completely irrelevant in the thread

[Anonymous No.7780603]

>>7780597
Yes because its obviously just this one same fag and not like multiple people or anything of course.

[Anonymous No.7780608]

>>7780589
except she did listen and did care
>>7780367
> I guess I know what you guys mean


pls go listen too the cure and cut yourself somewhere else mall goth

[Anonymous No.7780609]

>>7780601
If I truly wanted asspats, I would have posted a picture.
So posting about how I look too old for lolita in a "how old is too old" thread is irrelevant?

[Anonymous No.7780612]

ITT grown ass women caring so much about 14 year olds thought that they get buttmad when they dont agree that your shitty hair and haggard face doesnt look cool and hip

[Anonymous No.7780613]

>>7780603
I thought it was fairly obvious but I'll take your word for it anon. I'll re-write my post just for you.

>>7780587
Try explaining that to the anti wig anons that like to shit up every other thread.

Happy?

[Anonymous No.7780614]

>>7780597
I think that is just the general consciousness amongst the old school and lifestylers in particular.

[Anonymous No.7780615]

>>7780608
You're adorable. I hope you don't get grounded for being online so late, though.

[Anonymous No.7780618]

>>7780615
shouldn't you be in bed? dont you have an early bird special you need to catch at the golden corral?

better get on that senior citizen discount before 6am!

[Anonymous No.7780622]

>>7780618
You should learn to respect your elders, child. Also, you're "arguing" with more than one person and I'm fairly sure that neither of us is Jola.

[Anonymous No.7780623]

>>7780618
You must be over 18 to use this website dear

[Anonymous No.7780626]

>>7780499
shouldn't you be planning an outfit you're only gonna wear once to a con that's three months from now?

[Anonymous No.7780630]

>>7780623
oh my you called me dear and poked fun at my age, boy have i been told and shunned away from this thread because of all of this maturity around me

[Anonymous No.7780631]

>>7780612
Confirmed for 14

[Anonymous No.7780633]

>>7780622
>>7780623
>>7780614
>salty old cunts

[Anonymous No.7780635]

>>7780630
So not only are you a child but a noob too to not get that reference? LOL

[Anonymous No.7780637]

lel at all the mature ladies reverting back to being children on the internet. I'd tell you to grow up but chances are if you did that would send you six feet under.

[Anonymous No.7780639]

>>7780633
It's okay, one day you'll be old enough to have a job and afford coords that aren't Bodyline. Just stay in school and don't do drugs.

[Anonymous No.7780640]

>>7780637
I hope if your middle school has a debate team, that you aren't on it.

[Anonymous No.7780641]

>>7780639

[Anonymous No.7780642]

>>7780630
I will never understand people who titter about those who are older than them. You realize you'll be there soon enough too, right? If you're so hard up for self esteem that you have to make yourself feel better based on your young age... aka something that will vanish all too soon... then damn, that is sad.

[Anonymous No.7780643]

>>7780626
Shouldn't you be posting in the feels thread about how all your ex-boyfriends thought your "fancy dresses" were weird and broke up with you?

[Anonymous No.7780646]

>>7780642
>titter

[Anonymous No.7780647]

>>7780626
And it's totally a fashion and not cosplay.

[Anonymous No.7780649]

>>7780640
Also you, please stop, this is fucking embarrassing. Are you actually older? Just ignore the kid and move on. You are acting just as immaturely as they.

[Anonymous No.7780650]

>>7780642
Like a lot of the trolls on this board, it's insecurity at it's best. All the "lol ur old" jokes in the world won't keep the crow's feet away.

[Anonymous No.7780651]

>>7780642
Yeah, "tittering" about those young folk is such a step up.

Sorry OP your thread got shitted up but this is hilarious.

[Anonymous No.7780653]

>>7780643
u mad

[Anonymous No.7780656]

>>7780649
Anybody with that much free time to argue with a tween on cgl is also a tween, duh. The adults are off doing grown up people things.

[Anonymous No.7780657]

>>7780653
Next you'll tell me you were only pretending to be retarded. :^)

[Anonymous No.7780658]

>>7780656
LOL U CAUGHT ME

[Anonymous No.7780659]

>>7780650
maybe the younger people on this board realise that when they are pushing 40 they won't be so desperate to feel young. probably will sell all their lolita and not look like a pathetic grandma trying to be "hip"

[Anonymous No.7780662]

>>7780657
HURR DURR I"M BORED OK

[Anonymous No.7780663]

>>7780657
>:^)

[Anonymous No.7780667]

>>7780659
Maybe the older folk aren't in to age play in the first place.

[Anonymous No.7780668]

>>7780667
if you're dressing lolita when you're old, you're into ageplay. fact

[Anonymous No.7780671]

>>7780667
>>7780651
For someone who complains about being called out so much and "hates drama" you sure post a lot with your distinctive way of phrasing things...

[Anonymous No.7780674]

>>7780671
its because shes an old wrinkly bitch and is real mad about youthful fresh faced ladies making fun of her

[Anonymous No.7780677]

>>7780667
Aaaand we've gone full circle. >>7777410


Go to sleep everyone!

[Anonymous No.7780678]

>>7780668
omg lookit the sexy toddler

[Anonymous No.7780680]

>>7780674
You're confused, anon. Did you reply to the right person?

[Anonymous No.7780682]

itt

[Anonymous No.7780684]

>>7780682
Idoru

[Anonymous No.7780688]

>>7780682
I wish I had a kawaii grandma to dress up and drink tea with.

That sounded a lot less age play-y when I first wrote that out, I swear.

[Anonymous No.7780690]

>>7780671
What are you talking about?

[Anonymous No.7780695]

>>7780690
The phrasing sounds exactly like a girl in my comm who claims she doesn't go on 4chan and used to have a vendetta against someone posted in this thread.

[Anonymous No.7780696]

>>7780659
>lolita
>hip
Okay I wear and love lolita but lol are u high, this is some niche shit

[Anonymous No.7780708]

>>7780431
This so much. Fuck this living doll bullshit. If there's one thing I hate is little AP clones going "eew, your circle lenses don't match your shoelace".
>inb4 "you mad"
Yes, I mad.

[Anonymous No.7780720]

[Anonymous No.7780791]

>>7778943
>implying elves are Tolkien-only
do u even fantasy?

[Anonymous No.7781069]

>>7780538
>witch
wow, this thread devolved quickly! ok, I'm going to actually address the hair for the one or two interested parties and then I'm gone for another year or two (CGL, you never change): Lolita is a tiny sliver of my life, I'm not changing the hair that makes me happy for a slight upgrade in my Lolita look. The more you chase perfection in Lolita, the more happiness slips away from you. Yes I could wear the perfect brand shoes rather than my bodyline comfy flats - for example - to meets and then stand around with a sour expression on my face because my feet hurt. Yes I could change my hair for a wig and plaster on makeup and it still would just make me feel insecure about my makeup melting or my wig slipping. it's a chimera, you will never catch it. I follow most of the Lolita "rules" and I'm "good" enough to have fun and to not crap up the meets or photos and in the end I care more about having a great time and being w/ the fun local folks drinking tea and carrying on. I'm willing to listen to advice, if it's practical advice and good advice I might even take it. But not at the cost of it making me unhappy. Maybe that makes me a special snowflake or something.

Never change CGL :)

[Anonymous No.7781085]

>>7780659
>implying Lolita is hip

Top Kek

[Anonymous No.7781101]

>>7781069
tl;dr im old and jealous of cute girls. And im going to pretend to not constantly lurk this board

[Anonymous No.7781103]

>>7781069
I bet all of the girls at the meet ups laugh at you when you're not around.

[Anonymous No.7781125]

>>7781103
projecting much?

[Anonymous No.7781129]

>>7781069
Thanks for stopping by, I've appreciated your posts!

[Anonymous No.7781229]

>>7781125
U got mi gud

[Anonymous No.7781240]

ill just give my 2 cents on the whole lolitas 35+ thing. i think that maybe classic or gothic could work. not sweet. you would defiantly have to be a youthful old lady to look good in my book. heavy makeup, (god forbid circle lenses) and, unatural big wigs are nos. botox, simple maybe printless dresses, and non heeled shoes are yeses. i dont think that old ladies should worry about trying to look younger, maybe trying to look good older. but idk thats just what i think.

[Anonymous No.7781252]

>>7781240
>defiantly

[Anonymous No.7781262]

>>7781252
kek

[Anonymous No.7781323]

>>7781101
>>7781103
All that hate is going to make you wrinkly in a few years.

[Anonymous No.7781342]

Wtf happened to this thread man? It's like the stench of a generally positive and successful thread always wafts into the nostrils of all the trolls, embittered, sand-filled crab-side-walk shufflers and general shitposters and then they come-a-flocking. We don't like it when nice-ish things happen, no siree.

[Anonymous No.7781346]

Eh why is everyone so hung up about age. I think the woman in OP is really pretty with nice figure despite being older. She looks really pretty in these pictures >>7777336 >>7777292. That is better than being ugly like Lovelylor, who will be ugly no matter what she wears and whatever age she is. A pretty, older person is better than an ugly, younger one.

[Anonymous No.7781368]

>not a single mention of Frances
FUCK I thought summer was over and the newfags were gone

[Anonymous No.7781471]

>>7781342
What do you expect?

[Anonymous No.7781474]

>>7781240
Adding onto your comment, I think older ladies could try aiming for old school sweet. It's not print-ridden as sweet is nowadays so it could maybe work.

[Anonymous No.7781558]

>>7781471
Oh I kinda expected it, and yet I'm still somehow moderately disappointed. I guess I still hold out for the day that just once, this shit doesn't happen (it ain't gonna happen).

[Anonymous No.7781600]

Middle aged men.

You can wear whatever you want when your old, you just have to not give a fuck, like these men.

[Anonymous No.7781604]

>>7781600

[Anonymous No.7781733]

>>7780380
Half of 27 is 13.5

[Anonymous No.7781815]

>>7781368
We don't talk about her anymore.

[Anonymous No.7781874]

>>7780405
In many Japanese schools you aren't allowed to wear makeup anyway.

[Anonymous No.7781898]

>>7781240
I think if you can GET AWAY with sweet when you are older, do it. Even if you are 35+. Some women look youthful and can pull it off. Or, add some mature elements to make it mature sweet.

[Anonymous No.7783578]

>>7780367
Can I just say that you are absolutely stunning? I wish I had your look and confidence.

[Anonymous No.7783813]

>>7777287
holy shit is that melissa

[Anonymous No.7783875]

>>7783813
No that's arsenicold_lace on egl, she's in NYC comm