Lolita Comm Bitching

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Lolita Comm Bitching Anonymous Fri Mar 21 23:58:22 2014 No.7444730 [Reply] [Original]

Is your comms know-it-all dictator starting to get on your nerves? Or perhaps your local community is sweet on the outside but gossipy behind everyones backs? I have no idea, but basically this is a lolita comm rant thread. Gossip gets bonus points.

Ill start
>I'm getting really fucking tired of these fashion shows where despite saying they are accepting people based on their coords, some of the outfits are absolutely hideous bodyline monstrosities placed on a semi-good-looking nobody who happens to be friends with the organizers. I realize I'm not beautiful, but I dont appreciate their method of picking girls. (especially since the show was for some nobody-gives-a-shit normalfag event..... SIGH)

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:01:23 2014 No.7444732 I'm really disenchanted with the Ohio comm. Itas and fatty-chan's everywhere. I want to be friends with beautiful girls who know how to dress themselves, why can't I be part of the Austalian comm instead?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:04:22 2014 No.7444740 >>7444732 Agreed anon, the australian comm looks pretty nice, even with deerfag productions, at least it seems like they all have fun. Although there will always be some itas, but everyone starts somewhere. Eternal itas are annoying as hells though.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:05:22 2014 No.7444747 I hate living in Houston with these HLC bitches.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:08:22 2014 No.7444750

I'm part of the HLC Facebook group but have never actually met any of them in person (due to living over an hour away and not having much time to travel) but daaaaaaamn I'm kind of glad I don't know any of them personally... They're all catty fakes, seems like...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:16:52 2014 No.7444764 >>7444747 >>7444750 Well, at least I'm not the only one. Rebellion, lets make our own group with beer and hookers :)

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:19:52 2014 No.7444769

I'm going to my first meetup at my comm next month. Kind of excited, kind of nervous. It's had quite a bit of drama in its past, and it kind of killed the comm as far as I can tell. This is the first meetup in months. Hopefully they've matured a bit. I guess if they haven't, I'll come back with stories haha...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:24:52 2014 No.7444772 >>7444764 Oh kind anons, if you're willing to make the drive, the Austin community is very sweet and accommodating. It may be a bit of a trek and we dont have meets as often, but we are very friendly :)

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:32:52 2014 No.7444777 >>7444772 I like you guys. Maybe I'll join; I'm always up for a good car ride.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:43:52 2014 No.7444795

>>7444740
Haha I wanted to get into one of the australian lolita comms and didnt because one of them was a stuck up shit face that went around picking fights with cosplayers. Arguing that "lolita isnt cosplay" I agree with her but the way she went about it was absolutely horrible. I got so put off from the lolita fashion as a whole because of that.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:48:52 2014 No.7444807 >>7444740 >>7444732 Oh no you wouldn't want to be part of the australian comm trust me. It's very insular and split, and people are often excluded from meets.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:49:22 2014 No.7444809 >>7444795 Was her name Sinny?

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 00:49:22 2014 No.7444811

The New Zealand comm, specifically the Auckland comm was a huge disappointment to me. My friend got into lolita fashion recently and she got me into it, but I'm only a lurkfag at this point. But after seeing pictures from the local comm's last few meetups, I've lost my motivation to buy burando. With very few exceptions, this comm is made up of itas, and it's disheartening to know that if I want to go to local lolita events I'll have to hang out with a badly-dressed group.

If I did get into the fashion properly, I wouldn't be in this comm, but the problem is that I'd still be associated with them because it's a small area. Case in point, there's one fatty-chan that I've seen around a local mall, and she's got the most hideous co-ords 99% of the time (example, why on earth would you wear black and white striped kneesocks with an outfit that has no other white in it, just red and black?) and my mother saw her once and said "isn't that the fashion you wanted to get into? It looks terrible!", and I had to explain that no, this girl just had bad taste. But I don't like the idea of people seeing her and associating her with my fashion.

(Also, guess who I would find on the comm's facebook but E. You are a terrible cosplayer and an even worse lolita, and nobody wants to hear about your second-hand bloomers. And for the love of all that is holy, fix your lipstick or don't wear any, I'm sick of seeing it smudged across your face).

The photos from the picnic meetup were a huge turnoff. Why do so many of the members bring their young children to meetups? And there were only one or two girls with good co-ords. Everyone else just looked plain bad, especially the girl in the lavender dress (Bodyline? It was low quality anyhow), who I've dubbed 'the purple people ita'.

Well I guess thanks for saving me some money, Auckland comm. I'm leaving the country in a few years, and if my new local comm isn't a steaming pile of disappointment I'll get into lolita properly there.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:03:52 2014 No.7444827 >>7444811 >purple people ita Well you just made my day there anon, feel free to come join the Aussie comm

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:23:22 2014 No.7444844
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>>7444807
People are excluded from meets when they don't understand that just because you're wearing something out of the societal norm means you act out of the societal norm.

I was new to one of the larger groups last year and the reason I now get invited to smaller private gatherings with the supposed 'popular girls' is because I made sure to look polished, take advice and act on it, give compliment sandwiches when people asked me for my thoughts and not spend the whole time discussing myself or my bedroom habits.

If you are moving to a new group, treat it as you would the first 3 months of a new job- be on your best behavior and keep your mouth shut.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:27:52 2014 No.7444848 File: 163 KB, 480x360, scandalous.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Glad to see that people are waking up to the two-faced rudeness of the Houston Lolita Community.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:32:53 2014 No.7444853

Whatever happened with that? The aus comm I mean I came in this yearso missed all the dramu. I heard it was something to do with goldie and elliot? I don't know,I'm just curious as to why they upped and moved with kylie to. Also I dislikeKylies manface......it bugs me so much.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:36:22 2014 No.7444857 >>7444853 They moved to continue to their degrees anon. That's pretty harsh, I think she's beautiful and suits classic really well.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:37:52 2014 No.7444860 >>7444807 What state are you from anon? From my knowledge it's only two states/comms like that at all. Bris comm isn't like that.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:40:52 2014 No.7444862 >>7444857 You haven't seen her sweet co-ords then.... I'm not being to harsh it just bothers me.... And the makeup she does makes it super prominent. As for the degrees thats dissapointing.. I need some bris drama... anyone got any bris drama stories?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:40:52 2014 No.7444863 >>7444848 Is there anything we can do about it? I kind of want to have a super exclusive super secret Houston /cgl/ meet with bashing and bitching and delicious delicious tea and pastries.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:43:52 2014 No.7444867

>>7444844
A whole lot more of this everywhere would be soooo nice. I'm not dressed in my best and driving a ways just to hear idle gossip and see bad table manners. Some may say 'Well La-di-da' but it's mostly this way everywhere. That's no big mystery.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:46:23 2014 No.7444869

I'm so tired of girls joining the comm that is for a particular part of our state (Com even has upstate in the title) then complaining on FB that we don't do meetups in another area of the state. It is not my job to plan meetup's 5 hours away and in an area I'm not familiar with just because you don't like your local comm.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:47:52 2014 No.7444871 >>7444860 What about the Adelaide comm? Apart from the Marie stuff, they seem to have their shit together as a comm. I'll be moving there soon, but I can't find much about them. That's a good sign right?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:49:52 2014 No.7444873 >>7444863 If we went, people would know us and they'd associate us with any drama.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:49:52 2014 No.7444875 >>7444862 Are you a bris member? There isn't really much drama not anything new anyway.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:50:52 2014 No.7444878

>>7444811
>only a lurkfag
>my fashion
Him, not quite yours yet, is it honey?
Please learn to even Lolita a little bit yourself first before you are so very quick to diss others.

No clothes, no Lolita. You aren't 'in the fashion', you're just looking in through your normal fag window. Even if they are ALL ita, guess what?

More Rori than you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:50:52 2014 No.7444879 >>7444871 I've met a couple of the adeliade girls and talked to others online they seem quite lovely. I definetly think they do! I've heard good things about their comm and melbourne.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:55:22 2014 No.7444883 >>7444878 I'm not that anon, but holy wow, you sound bitter. You don't necessarily have to have started wearing the fashion to know when people look like shit in it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:56:22 2014 No.7444884 File: 995 KB, 274x155, 1362371071677.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Any updates on Chicago? I want to go to Anime Midwest to see Baby. But not if the Chicago comm is still so dramatic.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:56:52 2014 No.7444885

>>7444875
Yeah what was some of the old drama? Also Ihate Chrystal-Chan so much she has her own youtube and yeah its bad... Be replica Chan making vids telling plus sizes their only option is replicas.... Dont even get me started on the bloo bloo bloo every lolipicked on me video she has.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 01:59:22 2014 No.7444888 >>7444848 While we're on the subject is anyone else creeped out by Doug? He obviously has a thing for young girls, gross

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:02:22 2014 No.7444891 File: 585 KB, 500x748, kiyohari.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7444878 Can't a virgin theoretically know enough to criticize the sex life of non virgins?

Funk Brothers !!sEQILr75Rya Sat Mar 22 02:03:24 2014 No.7444894

>>7444884
Went to the Atelier Pierrot/Chantilly tea party at ACen last year. It won't be comprised entirely of the Chicago comm. My table was comprised of folks from Iowa, Indiana, and several lolitas Chicago. No drama to speak of when I was at the table.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:04:05 2014 No.7444897

My local comm is split between teenagers who don't own any lolita (except wigs) and 30+ women who are eternal itas. And a massively creepy brolita/ouji who thinks lolita is a fetish and keeps wanting girls to pose for him thrown in the mix.

The only well dressed girls are tumblr hugbox fanatics so there is no hope of anyone getting con crit.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:06:33 2014 No.7444903 File: 110 KB, 495x499, 1390793775542.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7444873 Why cant we have nice things anon q-q

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:08:33 2014 No.7444906 >>7444888 Ehhh I actually think he comes off as sweet and cute 7/10 would chill with if no bf

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:23:33 2014 No.7444913

>>7444878
I'd say lurkfag implies that anon frequents /cgl/ or /egl/ or whatever frequently and knows their stuff. They didn't come across as one of those n00bs who doesn't know anything about the fashion. It's perfectly possible to know a lot about what looks good in a co-ord without having done one yourself.

But oh wait, you're probably part of the comm they were talking about, aren't you?

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:24:03 2014 No.7444915

>>7444878
Holy shit anon, scrape that sand out of your vag, will you?
Even without being in the fashion, I'm sure lurking here enough has taught her at least decent coordinating and such. That's like saying that because you aren't a master artist, you can't say any art is bad. Or if you're not a head chef at a 5-star restaurant, you can't tell me this food tastes bad. Its really not that hard to know when bitches be clashin' colors, have cheap lace monsters, etc. A day on this board can teach someone to do better than that if they pay attention.
I wouldn't want to join an ita comm either. Comms are like a tiny loli family group for lolitas, and I wouldn't choose people that look like trash as my loli family.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:28:03 2014 No.7444924

>>7444913
They can lurk all they like and have opinions galore but unless they are donning the frills they are just sitting on the sidelines throwing rocks on the playing field.

And nope, oceans away. I just don't like the armchair looky-lous trying to critique a game they can't even play yet.
A peeve, if you will...

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:31:33 2014 No.7444927

>>7444891
No. This is the worst comparison ever. For lolita, you do have guides and can make it at least nice-ish on your first time. Sex isn't bound with that much rules, and someone who never experienced it can't know jack shit.
However, wearing lolita on top of knowing a lot theorically will really help you understanding the fashion and applying it better.

tl;dr : if you lurk a lot you can make it ok, but actually wearing lolita will make you better at it if you have good basis. In lolita as in everything, practice makes perfect.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:32:04 2014 No.7444930
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>>7444924
>donning the frills

You're like one of those pathetic lifestylers who treat the lolita like it's some holy religion. It's just clothes, a fashion substyle. And it's open to critique from anyone, especially people who've done their research.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:32:04 2014 No.7444931 >>7444897 Well...is there another comm anywhere nearby that you could visit, maybe?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:34:03 2014 No.7444934 >>7444927 Practice makes perfect sure, but you can tell when someone looks bad without having perfected your own look.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:34:03 2014 No.7444935 >>7444930 Please, don't bring lifestylers here. Most lifestylers actually think that lurking is super important, the more you know theorically the less you'll fail at your first outfit.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:35:33 2014 No.7444936

>>7444871
Adelaide is solid, the young or newer members do most of the bitching. If any of the senior girls have issue with you they'll be polite and civil but won't go out of their way to talk to you.

The other thing to keep in mind is that a few of them run blogs and tumblrs so if you don't want your photo used make mention of it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:36:03 2014 No.7444940 >>7444750 I read catty fakes as fatty cakes

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:36:33 2014 No.7444939 >>7444934 Yes, that what I was saying actually. Lurking and knowing what is a bad coord and how to avoid it is already half the way up for a good lolita outfit.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:39:03 2014 No.7444945

>>7444927
I agree that practice makes perfect, but >>7444811 's complaints were the sort of glaring errors that anyone who's done some research could spot (clashing socks, smudged lipstick, discussing second-hand bloomers, which sounds gross by the way and I'm sorry anon), and they all sound pretty on point. You don't need to be an expert to know that people look bad and you don't want to associate with them.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:39:33 2014 No.7444942

>>7444891
I don't much listen to people's theoretical opinions over experience unless that's the only information available.
Not really interested in unpracticed theory in active experiential arenas. Especially when it's just bitching about how people can't do something you've never attempted yourself. It's a little like like those numb-nuts who yell at the tv sports games from their man-caves.
I wouldn't listen to virgins critiquing anyone's sex life no, because I think that's a peculiar thing to do. They may know enough to be able to critique but no one would (theoretically) be interested enough to care what they thought.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:40:03 2014 No.7444948 >>7444883 Why does she think she needs to post and shit on people when she's not even in the fashion herself?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:43:34 2014 No.7444951 >>7444939 Except maybe less that 1/2 way there if no clothes, just opinions and knowledge. So very many have so very much of the latter and none of the former and perfect willingness to share....ugh. I'm out, I think that sucks.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:43:34 2014 No.7444952 >>7444945 >>7444939

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:45:33 2014 No.7444954 >>7444948 Because being part of a comm is an important thing for some lolitas, especially ones who are just starting out, and like >>7444915 said, I wouldn't choose a comm of itas to be my 'family'

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:47:33 2014 No.7444958

>>7444948
Except she wasn't shitting on people in the fashion. She was shitting on people who don't get the fashion and the points in her post was pretty well informed.

Unless, you disagree and think that shitty coords and bringing kids to meets is how it should be. Then you're the cancer.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:51:33 2014 No.7444963 File: 566 KB, 1600x1066, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7444811 Are these the hideous itas you are so very disappointed in?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:55:33 2014 No.7444966 >>7444963 A few of them are good. Quite a few are terribad. Just like >>7444811 said. But your defensiveness is funny. Side note but it sounds like this comm is full of stripy kneesocks offenders

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:57:03 2014 No.7444970 File: 123 KB, 1280x720, 03.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7444963 Is one of them wearing a beanie? And the ones on the far left and far right look hideous.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:57:33 2014 No.7444969 >>7444963 A lot of meh outfits, a few really bad and only ttwo or three are pretty nice yet plain.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 02:58:33 2014 No.7444971 >>7444844 No, people are excluded from meets because of one simple thing: because there are toxic people in the comm who will hold boycott meets that clash with meets that are inclusive of everyone.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:01:03 2014 No.7444976 >>7444853 They moved to Sydney and I am guessing they are continuing the same bullshit they pulled to ruin the Brisbane comm. Amazingly, with them and Xylena, they took the Brisdrama.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:01:03 2014 No.7444978

>>7444958
>>7444966
It's a mix like most. But it isn't some terrible comm full of clueless ita-beasts. 2/12 isn't exactly overrun with striped socks either but yes, they are funny. I don't see any kids at this meet though unless they are just out of the picture.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:05:03 2014 No.7444981 >>7444978 I don't think this was the picture she was talking about though. She said picnic meet, and there's no one in a lavender dress here

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:06:33 2014 No.7444983 >>7444976 What did they try to do to ruin the comm? I'm curious?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:08:03 2014 No.7444987 >>7444969 The comm was founded in 2012 according to a post on EGL. I don't think it looks so terrible for that new of a group. Oh well.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:08:33 2014 No.7444985 File: 160 KB, 960x640, 1395472099654.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7444981 This might be the picture then, it's been posted here before

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:09:03 2014 No.7444988 >>7444985 Oh wow. I don't blame anon for her apprehension now

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:10:04 2014 No.7444989 >>7444983 They held invite-only meets involving photoshoots and video stuff that purposely excluded people by not advertising it on the main comm, or holding it very coincidentally on a day when a publicly organised meet was on.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:10:33 2014 No.7444990 >>7444985 That same girl is wearing a beanie again! Once is a mistake, but if it's a regular thing...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:12:33 2014 No.7444992 >>7444989 In other words, you're just crying because you didn't get to play with the popular kids?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:12:33 2014 No.7444993 >>7444963 The Marie Rose girl and AATP Gather Chiffon girl look pretty.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:14:03 2014 No.7444996 >>7444985 The Gloria girl looks amazing!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:14:03 2014 No.7444999 >>7444988 Is your comm so very much lovelier? Are you? How very fortunate you must be!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:15:33 2014 No.7445000 >>7444989 No mos Burger for you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:17:03 2014 No.7445003 >>7444976 The bris comm is pretty chill, there are quite a few gothic lolitas which is lovely and a lot of good classic lolitas. Come join us and we will sing the songs of our people (i.e go to Fat Louis and karaoke).

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:18:03 2014 No.7445005 >>7444999 At least my comm isn't mostly fat itas with a few gems here and there. I am fortunate.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:19:03 2014 No.7445007

>>7444992
In other words, it brought out the worst side in people like you. People who were invited to some of these meets justified it by declaring the excluded people just are butthurt itas. People were afraid to hold meets because it might clash with one of Goldie's meets.

Then when people like you found out they weren't being invited to all of these exclusive meets either...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:20:03 2014 No.7445009 >>7444985 >purple people ita Ahh I see it now

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:21:03 2014 No.7445012 >>7445003 You mean Vampirerequiem and prelude clones? Those are all the co-ords I see in bris meetups.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:22:03 2014 No.7445013 >>7444985 This picture is like one, maybe two good co-ords, one or two meh co-ords, and a row of trainwrecks.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:26:33 2014 No.7445016

>>7445005
Not who posted to you but yes, you are. My own comm looks a bit worse than these with a few exceptions but I don't diss them because many try, are on tight budgets and 2 of the heavier ones are ill. I don't know these girls' stories but they are dressing, meeting, look to be having a nice time together. My comm girls are nice and fun to be with and if someone who wasn't even in the fashion yet was so harsh with my comm, I'd be glad she was put off and hope she did stay away. Or find a 'prettier' comm.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:28:33 2014 No.7445017 File: 447 KB, 500x281, nuzzlekawaii.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445016 You tell 'em gurl

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:30:03 2014 No.7445018

>>7445012
That was one meetup anon. It just happened that one of us was going to wear it and then someone else's version arrived so we went with it. Did you care there was three sweet cream house girls? I was actually talking about the gothic lolitas individually (I don't want to give names out or too much information) but there is one girl who wears a lot of velvet and oldschool gothic and she always looks amazing. There is another who wears a lot of black and really suits it. There are others who don't go to many meets but look fabulous at Supanova. It's nice to have other gothic lolitas

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:34:03 2014 No.7445026 >>7445016 We're talking Lolita communities here, not Tumblr hugboxes.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:36:03 2014 No.7445029 >>7445018 So which prelude clone were you?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:38:03 2014 No.7445030 >>7445029 Why do you care and why do you think I was wearing prelude?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:40:03 2014 No.7445036 I'm from Cheshire in England. What's the best comm for me to join? Staffordshire or Manchester?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 03:55:03 2014 No.7445054 >>7445030 So the Vampire requiem?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 04:17:28 2014 No.7445068 >>7444989 What's up with the Sydney comm anyway- I'm starting to see the faces of a lot more girls from there but they're always the same, surely the comm is bigger than that?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 04:23:58 2014 No.7445070 >>7445018 Not really cause sweet cream isnt a dream print.... now I have newbie itas ruining my brand. Mfw one of them brought that print off me which I had dirty ageplay sex in!

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 04:46:28 2014 No.7445083
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>>7444730
I keep getting seriously irritated by this dumb ass girl in my comm who keeps posting about wanting to become e-famous, even though we have quite a well known and established youtuber in the comm. When she was recommended to start a vlog she didn't know what it was. When asked to make a google doc she didn't know what that was either. She doesn't take criticism very well... Argh everything she does shits me and I feel like shes making posts on the comm page every single day.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 04:48:28 2014 No.7445086 >>7445083 Who's the youtuber?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 04:49:28 2014 No.7445087 >>7445083 Teach her to tumblr. It's the only way...

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 05:13:29 2014 No.7445098

>>7445070
You are annoyed that 4 of the bris girls have your dream print and called them clones. What sort or logic is this? A lot of other girls in the comm own one or the other aswell.

Are you serious? Well one of them bought it direct from AP so that only leaves two.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 05:14:28 2014 No.7445099 >>7445068 The Sydney comm is very big, if you have a look at the photos from the Misako tea party about 85% of the girls are from Sydney.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 05:47:12 2014 No.7445115 >>7445083 I know who you're talking about and she shits me to tears. Why can't she be spamming her own states page and not the national one. She craves e-fame so bad, now she's jumped on the Marie train to try and take the stage.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 05:56:41 2014 No.7445119 >>7445115 She's ended up in secrets a few times too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:02:42 2014 No.7445122 The Tokyo comm is so cliqueish that unless you come with your own clique it's not very fun. They say they are open and welcoming to new people joining but they are all off in their own groups all the time that it's really easy to feel left out.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:06:11 2014 No.7445124 >>7445122 Hi rosarie, thought you quit doing ss? Lieing cunt.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:06:11 2014 No.7445125 >>7444811 You don't need to be part of a comm, so if you love the fashion just buy a dress already.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:19:11 2014 No.7445134 >>7445054 Maybe...also if your jealous of lolitas having your precious dream dresses than you would be happy to know that one girl has three VR and another bris girl has VR,VP and VF.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:27:11 2014 No.7445137 >>7444860 Speaking of Australian states, anyone know what the Melbourne comm is like.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:27:11 2014 No.7445138 >>7445134 Dream prints?? none of those are chocolate themed prints...or AP So good to hear that their government handouts have allowed them to bulk up their wardrobes. After all Brisbane comm is home to centerlink lolitas right?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:32:42 2014 No.7445139 >>7445137 Resident drama queen left recently. One of the mods has a stick up her ass, especially when it comes to making up rules for the Facebook group, but doesn't attend meets regularly. One gross brolita. Most of the girls are fine, though.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:33:11 2014 No.7445140 >>7445138 You said you were jealous because they were dream prints. Oh my gosh you are so horrible. Bris comm is not. Where are you from then oh holy loli one?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:34:41 2014 No.7445141 >>7445139 I always thought Melbourne comm seemed nice. Melbourne anon, if I was to visit Melbourne would I be allowed to attend a meet even though I'm interstate.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:38:41 2014 No.7445143 >>7445141 Yeah, just make a post on the Aus comm and we'll organise something for you. Otherwise the next convenient meet would be the Easter one on 26th April.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:38:41 2014 No.7445144 >>7445070 Are you calling the sweet cream house girls newbie itas or the AATP vampire girls whichever way your statement is untrue no one looked remotely ita and no one is that new.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:39:41 2014 No.7445145 >>7445143 Thank you anon. I probably won't get to go until the end of the year but it's nice to know.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:41:41 2014 No.7445146 >>7445139 >One of the mods has a stick up her ass Which one?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:43:11 2014 No.7445147 >>7445115 Yes. God no she shits up our state page enough.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:44:12 2014 No.7445149 File: 111 KB, 1261x841, selina.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445146

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:48:12 2014 No.7445150 >>7445139 Is he creepy-gross or just a hot mess? I've tried to give him a few tips a couple of times but it just doesn't happen...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:49:41 2014 No.7445151 >>7445149 Sounds sorta strict, wasn't there a secret about a girl posting her purchases on the fb group.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:50:11 2014 No.7445153 >>7445151 same girl as >>7445083

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:54:11 2014 No.7445156 >>7445153 sounds irritating, how old is she? what's the general age of the comm actually?

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:55:41 2014 No.7445157

>>7445151

Posting purchases was never complained about before she made up these rules - just back seat modders having a whinge. I get the impression haul threads pretty common on other comms?

The BS about 'attacking' companies came in after she banned a former friend for having an argument with her. The official reason was that she was going to post mean things about Selina's indie brand that she worked and modelled for free for, but there was never any proof to back up Selina's excuse.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:55:41 2014 No.7445158 >>7445156 old enough to know better. I'd say the average age of the comm is mid 20's most people are between 21 and 27 with a few outliers

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 06:59:11 2014 No.7445161 >>7445150 He's a stinky mess. Being near his wig makes me want to gag. He hasn't done anything to warrant a reputation; there's just this insufferable aura around him that puts off almost everyone I know.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:03:45 2014 No.7445163 >>7445140 /b/ comm ~best comm ;) You girls really make this too easy, good thing you'll have that Arts degree to help you find well-paid steady work when you can't find a husband to support you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:04:27 2014 No.7445165 >>7445161 I hope this isn't the brolita that goes to all the Melbourne conventions that is creepy as hell, wears the shitest quality stuff and literally picked me up off the ground without consent at one year while I was wearing a miniskirt.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:05:27 2014 No.7445166 >>7445157 I wouldn't say common, but once a month in the Brisbane comm we'll have a 'Whats in the mail?' thread

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:08:56 2014 No.7445168 File: 30 KB, 423x423, 1395486516447.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445165 Sounds like you might be thinking of Craig. He's been banned. This one only came into the comm last year.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:10:26 2014 No.7445169 >>7445168 If that's Craig I' fairly sure it's not him.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:14:56 2014 No.7445175 File: 108 KB, 682x960, 1395486857596.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445169 The one I posted is Peter. This is Craig.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:17:26 2014 No.7445176 >>7445175 Oh my. Luckily neither are he, I don't think. But holy shit Peter my word.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:19:56 2014 No.7445177 >>7445176 A third terrible brolita. The suffering never ends.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:24:27 2014 No.7445181 File: 11 KB, 225x225, images.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445175

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:33:13 2014 No.7445185

>>7445163
I never said we were the best comm just a good comm, the girls are actually lovely people and their are a lot of well coordinated girls. I don't study an arts degree thank you I study a degree in the health and science field. I wouldn't worry about surviving on my non existent arts degree as I don't see why I wouldn't be able to get a husband, and we'd be mutually supporting each other that's sort of how relationships work. Or are you not only jealous of people have sought after prints but also alone?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:47:43 2014 No.7445189 >>7445185 Anon, they mean the /b/ 4-chan board, they aren't talking about Brisbane. They just openly told you they were trolling you and you still replied. Go to bed.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 07:53:43 2014 No.7445198

Lol justvsawpicsof the brisbane high tea meet omg now I don't want to join.... half the lolis have this weird buttery murderface...so much sketti... I kind of had to laugh though when the sketti went tospaghetti house for a meet up.... seriously way to be ironic. After Goldie and elliot and a few othersbleftthere are no morepretty peoplein the comm......

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:00:43 2014 No.7445204 So weve covered most of the OZ comms except for Tazzie and Perth. Any members in here to give us the goss?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:04:13 2014 No.7445205 >>7445068 I can only guess Deerstalker are pulling the same shit.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:07:13 2014 No.7445208 >>7444809 Yeah her and some other girls too on from the comm but don't remember their names all that well. I just stayed away and lurked other places online.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:07:43 2014 No.7445207

>>7445204
Tazzie is very small and there isn't much to go on with. Perth ages ago used to have drama (riji_pon was Perth after all) but is now pretty quiet. Because neither states get much direct access to lolita/ a large pool of lolitas within the community to get secondhand items from, they relied a lot on ODIP to get their stuff when ODIP visited various cons.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:13:13 2014 No.7445211 >>7445208 Sinny's left lolita, so if you ever feel like joining, there's nothing stopping you now.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:19:13 2014 No.7445212 >>7445211 If thats the case I might poke in, I'm a little new and being on /cgl/ makes me nervous about my co-ords and pieces ahaha

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:23:44 2014 No.7445213 >>7445139 I actually just joined the Melbourne comm on facebook, I haven't made my first co-ord yet though I I have done that introductory post yet though. I'm really looking forward to being part of the community once a few essentials get to me.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:23:44 2014 No.7445214 >>7445189 Yes anon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:26:43 2014 No.7445215 >>7445198 How long have you been lurking? That's a bit harsh. Also a lot of the photos were candid and joking.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:29:13 2014 No.7445216 >>7445215 4 years I never joined the bris comm caus it wasnt worthy for myself and my brand. Don't want sketti murderfaces pawing at my puppet circus. Lol

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:35:13 2014 No.7445222 oh wow, what exactly is a sketti face though? hahaha

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:42:13 2014 No.7445226 >>7445216 I don't think they'd care about your puppet circus to be honest also learn to spell properly. A lot of the girls have rare pieces but don't speak about it like you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:50:43 2014 No.7445227 >>7445216 Anon, the majority of good Brisbane lolitas are actually cosplayers who don't hang out with the main comm (so much cosplay drama to deal with anyway, why involve yourself in more communities?). They have the burando.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:53:13 2014 No.7445230 >>7445216 who the hell has puppet circus in the bris comm.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:53:13 2014 No.7445232

>>7445068
The Sydney comm is huge, it's split into heaps of cliques. No one can be bothered to organise a meet-up for so many people. Old sydney lolis, new sydney lolis, newcastle lolis who come now and then, chinese-speaking only lolis, cosplayers who are also lolis, interstaters, itas who didn't know main FB comm existed.....

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:55:13 2014 No.7445233

>>7445226
U wot mate? I can't hear you over the butthurt yourprobs the megaskettizord of the whole itavegas comm. Idgaf bout spelling on da interwebz i write novels in my spare time i hve more eloquence in one of mah headbows then uv got in ur whole comm....now say itwith me viva la ita haha

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:58:13 2014 No.7445235 >>7445222 If you want all the sketti look at bris comms high te folder lol.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 08:59:13 2014 No.7445236 >>7445233 trololololololololol trollfag. dare you to wear puppet circus at nova bitch

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:00:13 2014 No.7445237 >>7445232 I'm pretty impressed that 30 had no idea the main Sydney comm existed.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:01:13 2014 No.7445238 >>7445236 Sifvid hang out at sketti central lol plus ill be in tokyo then ;3 why do you want me to wear it so you can steal it and sell it to your abbo car thief lolITA ring?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:02:13 2014 No.7445239 >>7445070 Hi Kara

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:06:42 2014 No.7445241 >>7445238 ABBO CAR THIEF WHAT EVEN

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:08:13 2014 No.7445243

>>7445207
You're right that the B/S/T pool isn't huge for the Perth comm but I don't think there was a massive reliance on ODIP.
Most of the girls just go direct through brands or through Bodyline but a few of us are pretty experienced with auctions and second hand sites. Truth be told though most of the girls don't buy a huge amount of stuff because of different financial situations.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:08:42 2014 No.7445242 >>7445241 U CANT EVEN HANDLEME I AM ILLUMEEEEERTE LOLITA THEONE LOLI SQUAD TOSQUASH ITADOM IN BRISVEGAS. Admit ur ita crimesand be done!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:10:42 2014 No.7445245 >>7445242 you win best troll award

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:11:12 2014 No.7445246 >>7445242 * Illllllluuuuurmernate* my mistake ladies lol

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:15:12 2014 No.7445250 saidds of beautiful lolis are at risk from itavegas.... is are at risk from itavegas....

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:17:42 2014 No.7445251 >>7445250 Ooops my boob messed that one up haha

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:18:42 2014 No.7445252 >>7445245 YOU THINK THIS IS A MERE GAME, THOUSANDS OF BEAUTIFUL LOLITAS ARE AT RISK FROM ITA VEGAS....

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:19:43 2014 No.7445253 >>7445242 Puppet Circus official uniform of illumanti rorita.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:21:12 2014 No.7445254 >>7445253 and what group do you get for iron gate and cats tea party ahahah

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:23:42 2014 No.7445255 >>7445254 Iron Gate entails you to become a member of a cult...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:24:12 2014 No.7445257 >>7445255 awesome im in where do i sign up

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:24:42 2014 No.7445258 >>7445253 Fyeah it luresthem in then I employ Mr.Yan to lure the itasto Japanthrough the fabled comm whereI disappear em.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:24:42 2014 No.7445259 >>7445255 The high price is actually just the joining fee.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:35:42 2014 No.7445262 It's easy to pick out the worst of every comm and say that they are all ita. Maybe you can join Misako's super elite group if she'll have you.

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:40:42 2014 No.7445268 >>7445262 I'll text her that haha and maybe showher bris ita comms photos

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:41:42 2014 No.7445270 >>7445258 May the real troll lolita please stand up? Please stand up?

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:43:43 2014 No.7445271 >>7445270 I think u mean trollita? And no dats mah cousin niggs!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:44:42 2014 No.7445274 >>7445271 Can you please tell me who you are so I can give you some kind of award for troll of the year.

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 09:47:12 2014 No.7445276 >>7445274 I am illuminatiLolita.... Im not the Lolita mentor this comm deserves but im the only one its got right now!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:53:41 2014 No.7445282 Does anyone know how the portland comm is ? I am moving there in a couple of months

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 09:57:11 2014 No.7445287 File: 817 KB, 400x300, adsfkdsfs.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445276 Do I know you?

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 10:03:41 2014 No.7445292 >>7445287 Nope ive never been to bris comm but maybe when i get back from Tokyo I might join.... only to spirit away the itas and save lolikind from the abbo car thief ring. Tbh I could easily overtake that comm ...

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:07:11 2014 No.7445296 >>7445292 Are you serious illuminatilolita? I hope you have fun in tokyo buy all the things. Gosh your so funny. Andrea is this you? You have the creativity and humour for this...

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 10:13:11 2014 No.7445301 >>7445296 Nah not anyone in the bris comm niggs and Im not there for brand going to be Misakos little kinky toy when Im there. Man that gurl got nice meatcurtains.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:14:11 2014 No.7445303 >>7445301 MEATCURTAINS

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:20:11 2014 No.7445307 >>7445301 Oh my gosh this is too golden. Are you going where the stars don't shine bright?

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 10:24:11 2014 No.7445309 >>7445307 Nah niggs when you delve past misakos meat curtain defense you get tosee a pretty sight you could even say it's angelic. Though u plebs probs never gotpast her iron gates!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:27:41 2014 No.7445313 >>7445309 Your my hero illuminati-chan. I can be your hero, baby. I can take away the brand.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:29:41 2014 No.7445317 >>7444989 I can't believe you are crying over that? They obviously have their own personal projects that have nothing to do with a comm or any comm and seem to be geared towards their friends if anything. :/ Bitter much anon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:31:11 2014 No.7445319 >>7445036 Manchester's full of itas, don't know about Staffordshire

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 10:32:12 2014 No.7445320 >>7445313 Oh...A-anon-Chan when I conquer Bris Commone day Iwill post a photo with a signrevealing my identity....With a little sign dedicated to you! Unless ur an Ita then its the Yandy Mans concentration camp for you!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:34:11 2014 No.7445321 >>7445138 Centrelink lolitas! Oh shit bahahah fucking slow clap!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:39:42 2014 No.7445325 >>7445216 not gonna lie... I would paw at your puppet circus anon. Best keep away and stick to cgl.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 10:50:42 2014 No.7445337 >>7445320 Sickly sweet, his prints stink For the young ones who don't understand The danger in his hands With a jaundiced wink see his cunning slink Oh trust in me my angelic pretty one Come walk with me my helpless one Yandyman

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 10:55:41 2014 No.7445342 >>7445337 I seeeeee you anon-chan, I seeeeeee you anon-chan! Do you think milanoo can hide you, right when Yans outside your window, Anon Chan!

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:06:11 2014 No.7445356 >>7445342 I don't know this one.

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 11:08:41 2014 No.7445359 >>7445356 Sweeny todd the joanna song xD

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:16:11 2014 No.7445364 >>7445282 Portland is gross, they all love crappy replicas and one of the girls brings her pet cockroach to meets, even those inside restaurants

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:17:11 2014 No.7445366 >>7445359 Aww I can hear it now! Also I totally know who you are. Reach out and touch brand! Your own personal illuminati lolita Someone to read your wishlist Someone who cares

>>	Panda Pants Sat Mar 22 11:18:12 2014 No.7445369 File: 997 KB, 350x242, XP7FKV3.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445292 oh god! >.< Overtake us Illuminatiloli Senpai! Teach us your ways. I just..... I can't help but think you will never notice me!

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 11:25:12 2014 No.7445377 >>7445366 Nice parody! I will give u my puppet circusi if u honestly know who I am! Normalfag name and erything!

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 11:27:12 2014 No.7445380 >>7445369 Shhhhh little one be still.... whats that u hear? Misakos meatflaps softly caressing your cheeks? You have been noted and have my protection against Ita's. Just call my name while praying over Mana samas photograph and I shall appear.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:30:05 2014 No.7445386 >>7445377 You done have puppet circus do you Andrea?

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:30:34 2014 No.7445383

Opinion question here. I'm really worries about my comm. We have four admins: only one ever comes to meets; she's young and lives a little far but she tries her best. The other three: one "left lolita", one has been too busy with schoolwork for the past few years, and one lives in a city 5 hours away with a different comm and never comes up here anymore.

It feels really weird that three of our admins aren't active parts of the comm and I'm not sure if there's anything that can be done about it. Advice?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:32:04 2014 No.7445391 >>7445386 you done have puppet circus haha *don't.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:33:34 2014 No.7445394

I think you guys are sick of hearing about my comm's bullshit.

> Group A consists of oldfags and requires asskissing to even get near their meetups which involve Japanese TV/VIPs.
> Group B consists of itas and idiots that think they're better than group A
> Recently formed group C has a great sense of style like group A but has a shitty attitude like group B
>Group /cgl/ seems cool from what I see
> I want to hang out group /cgl/ but all my lolita crap is overseas at the moment. Poo.

I also kinda wish that there's a general J-fashion group that doesn't suck, has meetups that is 90% lolita, and didn't crash and burn like the first meetup.

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 11:35:04 2014 No.7445396 >>7445386 Sorry nigs wrong loli...to the Milanoo dungeons with you.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:38:04 2014 No.7445397 >>7445396 Who else loves musicals and knows of Depeche Mode? Huh huh huh hu-uh huh I know this much is true Huh huh huh hu-uh huh I know this much is true.

>>	IlluminatiLolita Sat Mar 22 11:49:06 2014 No.7445406 Anyways my fellow Lolitas I'm off to bed need mah swag sleep. Dont let the yandy man bite.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 11:54:36 2014 No.7445410

>>7445394
There was a Jfashion group. It had like three meet ups and then died. Most of the people were from group B with a few random special Keis thrown in. I left the group because it was cluttering my list with it's emptiness.

One of the meets we went to a very cool dinner that had pretzel burgers and the waiters sung show tunes. If only Cgl didn't hate me I'd join their meet ups.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 12:00:06 2014 No.7445415

>>7444732
>I'm really disenchanted with the Ohio comm. Itas and fatty-chan's everywhere. I want to be friends with beautiful girls who know how to dress themselves, why can't I be part of the Austalian comm instead?

No joke, Ohio is the worst.

Not only is it run by fatty-chans, but the thin-but-still-ugly girls think they are amazingly beautiful and need to take charge of everything.

Stupid fatty-chans follow, because they're fat.

EVERYONE's ita, with the exception of like.. 5 people.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 12:16:06 2014 No.7445436

>>7445415
I don't know what the fuck you are on or what high horse you rode in on. Nobody tries to take charge of anything, and nobody blatantly thinks they are amazingly beautiful at least it's not made public if they are. I don't get where you are seeing this. Oh that's right, you're pulling it out of your ass.

I'd much rather have fatty-chans and people not dressed to the 9's at every meetup that are pleasant and enjoyable to be around than half the drama, cliquishness, queen bees, and what have you that a lot of other communities have.

Here's a shovel to go scrape that sand out of your nasty ass puss.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 12:16:06 2014 No.7445437 >>7445410 There's also Rune's "fashion circle" but she's rather delusional with her flowers and her internet princess bull.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 12:26:06 2014 No.7445455 >>7445415 >need to take charge of everything Ugh tell me about it. A brolita is running a fancy tea party meetup in April.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 15:17:00 2014 No.7445677
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>>7444990
there's a difference between a beanie and a beret.
>you idiot

>>7444996
her wig looks like a cheap cosplay buy and the rest of the coordinate is super gross besides the dress. she's wearing a men's shirt and a bow tie? wat
also
>coording navy and black together
I hope you don't think this is acceptable.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 15:23:55 2014 No.7445685 >>7445319 >>7445036 From what I've seen, so is Staffordshire. Then again, I thought they were the same comm?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:13:55 2014 No.7445735 >>7445677 If it's a beret, it's a shitty beret and it's in no way lolita. Also the gloria girl's co-ord might not be perfect, but she's a LOT better than everyone else in that picture.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:20:25 2014 No.7445745 >>7445677 don't most aatp navy prints have... black details? Pretty sure gloria in navy has black trim and black outlines in the print

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:20:55 2014 No.7445746 File: 32 KB, 340x300, Storytime.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445364 oh great...

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:22:55 2014 No.7445754

>>7445677
I don't think it's a men's shirt anon, it's got ruffles on the cuffs. It looks like a regular blouse. Also I don't think the black shoes look out of place with Gloria, and I'm usually vehemently opposed to navy x black.

That beret is not a nice beret. It's easily mistaken for a beanie.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:25:56 2014 No.7445759 >>7444811 >>7444963 >>7444966 >>7444985 auckland comm are being stripy kneesocks offenders

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:31:25 2014 No.7445771 >>7444884 everything's pretty calm. heard that a former chicago comm dramallama who moved away for a while is moving back to chicago in the summer, though.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:34:57 2014 No.7445774 >>7445437 she dates a lanky dude that wears a fedora and has a neckbeard any respect for her that I ever even had was lost when I saw pictures of him.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 16:38:55 2014 No.7445782 >>7445383 The girl that left lolita isn't an admin anymore. The "few years" is exaggerating, she was regularly planning meets until last June. You're more then welcome to nominate yourself or someone else as a mod if you want to help out.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 17:22:55 2014 No.7445835

>>7445735
it's really common to see berets in lolita, they just have to have a stiffer shape than this girl's.
felt > knitwear
but she tried, whatever.

however, there is literally nothing good about gloria's outfit besides her ~burando~ dress. your newfag is showing.

>>7445745
and it still looks like shit. white socks or tights would have balanced the blouse/pearl chains out, and black shoes could have been overlooked as an accent color if the lace is black, too, but right now this just reminds me of an office worker who just got off their shift and realized there was a meetup in fifteen minutes. why would you not...just...wear the bow on your head if all you had was that sad thin headband as your alternative? why would you put it on your shirt?

>>7445754
I'm pretty sure I remember seeing a close-up of this coordinate in like a drawthread or something ages and ages ago, it was literally a men's button-up. Idk if she's wearing wristcuffs here or recycled the coord & exchanged it out for a different blouse, but the bow tie was still an awful idea.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 17:25:57 2014 No.7445839 >>7445835 Yeah I agree the outfit is shit I just don't think navy and black are off limits for that dress as well as many other navy prints with black trims and accents. Would never wear solid black legware with it though

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 18:18:52 2014 No.7445922 >>7445771 Who?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 19:35:58 2014 No.7446044 >>7445922 ellejay

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 19:41:58 2014 No.7446058 >>7444740 I-is it bad that I like the videos?

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:01:00 2014 No.7446091

>have a meetup next week
>haven't been to one all year
>really wanted to go
>get cystic acne break out all over face/jaw/neck

I really don't want to go if my skin looks this bad by the meetup, but I don't want to be a flake again. I wouldn't mind quite as much if people weren't so obsessed with taking photos too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:13:31 2014 No.7446113 >>7445394 It's ok, NYC friend. My friend and I want a good J-fashion group too. You should join us for lunch and crepes one day.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:27:30 2014 No.7446132

>>7445068
Any tips on breaking into the Sydney Loli community? I'm moving there next year from NYC, so I'm used to drama/split up comms, but I'm a bit disheartened to hear that I'm going to have to break into a new friend circle all over again in order to get into a decent group. Oh well, there's always being a lone loli.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:29:00 2014 No.7446139 File: 171 KB, 290x429, 1392616038968.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7445255

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:33:30 2014 No.7446150

>>7445383
does being an admin on the group page really matter though? Being an admin on facebook doesn't translate to leadership, it just means they sort through posts to make sure they're on topic. If you know someone better suited maybe pm them and the admins and discuss it with them.

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:34:32 2014 No.7446154

>>7446132
Join the Facebook group and post regularly. Don't be afraid to talk to people, and don't pay too much attention to anyone talking drama. If someone tries to engage you in gossip, just divert the subject. There are littler groups within the community that get along better than others (partially dictated by the area you live in, partially dictated by age group/uni/etc.), you just have to talk to everyone and figure out who you want to be friends with. There's a LOT of girls in the community, so you'll probably find at least a few to hang out with.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:36:01 2014 No.7446160 >>7446058 Every normalfag likes the videos. People dislike the hype and the itas that like the videos.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 20:38:00 2014 No.7446164 >>7446091 A girl in my comm has pretty bad eczema, you could ask people to be considerate about taking photos or to let you subtly shoop them.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 22 23:42:17 2014 No.7446533 >>7445394 How is group C's attitude shitty like group B? NYC drama is so interesting

Anonymous Sat Mar 22 23:46:46 2014 No.7446541

>>7445436
>I don't get where you are seeing this.
The FB group, mainly.
>
I'd much rather have fatty-chans and people not dressed to the 9's at every meetup that are pleasant and enjoyable to be around than half the drama, cliquishness, queen bees, and what have you that a lot of other communities have.
Most of them don't even know a thing about lolita at all.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 00:25:46 2014 No.7446603 I'm starting to feel like I'm in the minority. I'd much rather be in a comm that's full of drama, but the girls can dress well, than a comm full of itas and replica fatty-chans.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 00:57:47 2014 No.7446678 >>7445394 I wasn't aware there was a Group C now, but I'd love to hear more about it. Group /cgl/ here btw, eagerly awaiting news of next meet.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 01:45:17 2014 No.7446736 Anyone know how the New Jersey comm is? I keep hearing about them. All I know is that it's an "ita-comm".

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 01:50:47 2014 No.7446746 >>7444772 Out of pure curiosity, how often does the average comm get together? ATX has meets at least once a month, and often more frequently. (This month we had one almost every weekend, lol.)

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:07:20 2014 No.7446784

>>7445016
This. It sucks that that comm has itas but in the end you have to dress for yourself and you can't magically make other people dress better. in the end the OP should find a comm that fits her standards and move on to it rather than shit posting a mediocre comm (cause god knows there are worse looking comms) to cgl.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:23:36 2014 No.7446813 >>7446784 That's just it, OP's 'standards' are kind of meaningless, they don't even dress lolita at all yet!

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:26:37 2014 No.7446817

>>7446603
I would too. You can pick and choose among the good ones who dress well but if your comm is full of bad dressers, it kind of defeats the purpose of a fashion comm.

I guess most places, the main public comms pretty much let everyone join but that's also why you often get little cliques who meet outside the main comm if it's not very good.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:27:06 2014 No.7446821 >>7446746 Our main comm, about every other month. Private Lolita friends group, at least once a month some of us go do things together.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:50:06 2014 No.7446855 >>7446603 Nah, I agree with you on this. It's a fashion community, so looking good should be the main priority and that includes looking good as a group. If a comm was full of itas, I wouldn't want to be part of it.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:53:06 2014 No.7446862

>>7446784
Did you miss the point of this thread? It's a rant thread, op can rant about her local comm all she wants. At least she didn't clutter other threads with it.

Also the NZ lolita community looks pretty tiny, there probably isn't another comm in her area let alone one with good standards. I'd be frustrated too.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:58:06 2014 No.7446869 >>7446746 My comm meets a couple of times a month. There's usually two organized meets, and sometimes there are small/private meets in addition to that. But we're one of the busier ones, I think.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 02:58:36 2014 No.7446867

>>7446813
>mfw op's standards were higher than some people on /cgl/'s

I don't think it's a bad thing, she sounds like a perfectionist and would probably be very good at co-ording, but I wonder if her high standards are a product of lurking rather than experiencing the fashion first-hand? Online community standards tend to be a lot higher than irl comm standards I've found, maybe she thinks it's the standard that everyone has to be held to

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:01:36 2014 No.7446870 >>7446867 As if that's in any way a bad thing. If only more newbies thought like this, higher expectations should be the norm

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:04:36 2014 No.7446878 >>7446870 This. >>7446813 If anything, OP's post was a tribute to the benefits of lurking first. She's not going to make the beginner-tier mistakes that even 'veteran' lolitas make

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:07:06 2014 No.7446882 File: 2.92 MB, 250x411, 1395558459764.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7446678 >>7445394 >>7446533 Also curious to hear about group C.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:10:36 2014 No.7446885

>>7446867
And that's all well and fine until most of them start coordinating and building a wardrobe and find that it's a bit more of a challenge than just sitting there critiquing from the outside.
It's easy to pick on others' efforts but I don't think it's that relevant when you have no effort of your own.
I'm sure many wannabe Lolitas have plenty of opinions but I'm not in the habit if listening to anyone not even active yet in the fashion.

I think it's fine to have opinions on what you like and don't like, aspirations too. If the local comm isn't for you then be a lone lolita or travel occasionally for bigger meets.
But a big post ripping a local comm when you aren't even really a lolita yet just smells a bit too much of jelly to me.
Not of their style, obviously, but of them just doing their lolita thing.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:14:06 2014 No.7446891

>>7446870
>>7446878
I'm not debating the benefits of lurking, learning or having high standards.
But surely you've seen the ones who do that kind of critiquing and then show up looking less than stellar themselves once they actually get into wearing things? It's much more common than a princess and the pea syndrome where one lone noob has such impeccable taste, generous budget and perfect hair, skin, shape and everything else that her locals are so far beneath her once she deigns to actually get active. That's pretty rare.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:20:36 2014 No.7446902

>>7446885
Cut her a break, it's a rant thread. It's the first time I've ever seen anything of the sort regarding this comm, so it sounded like she just wanted to get it all out in one go. I don't sense jelly from her either, just a lot of frustration and disappointment. I had a very similar situation when I first started out in lolita - the only comm in my area was terrible and there were no other comms in the near vicinity. It really did kill my motivation to keep building my wardrobe.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:27:36 2014 No.7446916

>>7446891
I've seen noobs doing the kind of critiquing where it was obvious they didn't know what they were talking about and then show up looking terrible sure, but I've also seen lots of new lolitas who took the time to research thoroughly before they started show up to meets and outshine older lolitas. All the experience in the world can't save someone with bad taste in general, and it won't change someone who had good taste in the first place much.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:35:06 2014 No.7446932

>>7446902
So what did you do once you got your first coord together? Or did you wait? I'm kind of curious. I wonder why she doesn't just either dress up with her friend or be a lone lolita unless she really wants (or maybe has) to wait several years until she lives somewhere else to even start dressing Lolita?

>>7446916
I think it just gets up my nose when it's someone who doesn't even plan to jump in for a while already calling it 'my fashion' and harshly critiquing those actually doing the wearing. If she shows up well turned out someday then bully for her. I'm not saying she won't.
I guess meanwhile, I'll just be skipping armchair lolita opinions. They bug me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:42:36 2014 No.7446941 >>7445232 This explains a lot about that discussion on the Aus page about having an ambassador.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:52:06 2014 No.7446960

>>7446941
Okay, the ambassador thing. Can someone explain the point? I've been following the JLA Facebook and reading posts from a few of the ambassadors and what not, and I really am baffled. Everything so far looks like a way for Misako to get lolitas abroad to pay for her to make appearances in their community, as organised by her chosen ambassadors. Is that actually what's going on? Or am I just really jaded/not seeing the whole picture? Because I really haven't seen any ambassadors reaching out to other communities or the public at large, which is what I had assumed would be the goal of having a representative for each country or community.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:54:06 2014 No.7446967

>>7446932
I waited until there were some better dressed lolis in my area and we ended up forming our own comm (the old one had died out).

As for anon, I kinda got the impression she was going to join because her friend wanted her to, but she realized the comm wasn't what she was looking for/wanted to be associated with and didn't want to spend a lot of money on something she wasn't going to enjoy. Probably didn't help that her mother's first impression of lolita was a bad one. People on /cgl/ make fun of people whose parents won't let them wear lolita and tell them to grow up/be more independent, but that's not so easy when you're young. And I personally think it's silly to move out for the sake of a hobby if you've got a good home life otherwise. Either way, I hope that she finds a better comm when she moves.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 03:56:36 2014 No.7446971 >>7446960 How many ambassadors are there?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 04:03:41 2014 No.7446989 >>7446971 So far, I only know of a handful having been selected. Argentina, Chile, Mexico, Canada (has three), Brazil, and Hong Kong? I tried to find a list, but couldn't find anything more than a handful of names.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 04:07:11 2014 No.7446996 >>7446989 And found a name for Taiwan's. But that seems to be it. Only nine so far.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 04:24:41 2014 No.7447026 >>7446996 Misako will elect the French ambassador this summer apparently.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 04:29:12 2014 No.7447030 >>7446736 Kinda boring and ita-ish tbh, I think you're best off as a lone lolita.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 04:33:41 2014 No.7447033

>>7447026
There is an application on the Lolita association page so I guess people just apply and when there's a few or one who stands out, she gets chosen? But I'm not really sure about the association goals for outreach and networking other than to host Misako's appearances. For her having created and then being the head of the global association promoting the fashion, it doesn't seem to be that huge of a push. The language barriers are fierce but it seems more information could be translated and shared.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 06:16:48 2014 No.7447094 File: 97 KB, 720x960, 1395569798031.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Thanks SBS for letting everyone know we have this in our comm. fb /photo.php?fbid=726522284058596

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 06:18:18 2014 No.7447097 >>7447094 Terrifying.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 09:03:56 2014 No.7447177 >>7447094 i hope he mentioned he was from MELBOURNE and not the sydney lolis

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 14:12:59 2014 No.7447599

>>7446932
I have a feeling a lot of people doing the bitching are under this assumption. I'd like to think most people who are experienced enough know what it's like to try to build a large, cohesive wardrobe and they know it takes awhile before you can put together "interesting" looking coordinates (and even then, after awhile they still look the same). As well as knowing that "shit I just want to be cute today fuck the hassle".

I really feel like half the people bitching about boring, "shit" coords (where one item is off or the petti isn't perfect, or the bag doesn't perfectly match) are girls with armchair lolita opinions who probably have nothing in their own wardrobe outside a cheap bodyline dress or two. That's why I don't give half those opinions the time of day, unless they're from the fucking Russian comm, then I'll excuse them.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 14:38:59 2014 No.7447667 OP here and still generally curious, does any other comm also have openly selective events? I feel like exclusivity has its place when something is commercial or competitive, but elitism is inexcusable without reason.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 14:59:07 2014 No.7447710

>>7447667
NYC definitely does the openly selective meets. I don't think it would fly in my comm. The group values inclusiveness above all. Sometimes that attitude is annoying because members complain if a meetup doesn't cater to their interests or budget.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 15:00:38 2014 No.7447712
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This girl just joined my comm, and within 2 minutes of browsing her various social media pages (which she posted with her introduction), I already hate her.
Sometimes I wish I was more accepting of shitty self-promoters and lel epic MeMes!!!, as I feel like half of the people I meet, irl or through lolita, are like this, but I really can't.
Sorry for bitching about you online, comm.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 15:05:37 2014 No.7447714 >>7446882 >>7446533 >>7446882 They just think they're high and mighty because they're "nicer than group A." A friend of mine from group A went to a small NYC event and greeted group C but they told her to gtfo.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 15:07:07 2014 No.7447717 >>7447094 What is going on with that wig???

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 16:23:07 2014 No.7447859 >>7447712 Oh, that makes me cringe...

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 16:26:37 2014 No.7447867 >>7444732 >>7445415 Alright which one of you was the one who made the wall of text about "fatties stretchin muh burando" I'll agree, OH isn't the best dressed but they're all pleasant to be around.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 16:35:37 2014 No.7447888 >>7445383 rofl it looks like you got one to speak out in the comm. gj anon

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 16:39:37 2014 No.7447896
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>>7447712
>This is literally futanari weekend
>literally

You know what, I'm fucking tired of people using that word incorrectly, so we'll pretend that she's using the actual denotation of the word.

She's got a giant dick. Spread the word.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 16:45:07 2014 No.7447906

>>7447867

Do you mean the one in this weeks secrets? That wasn't about fatties stretching brand, it was about alteration of brand and it was just the girls opinion. She never said it was fact or that everyone must adhere to her line of thinking and the kicker is that she isn't even an entitled skinny bitch like a lot of people seem to assume. She followed that post with another explaining how she bought the Sugary Carnival JSK but couldn't wear it due to her chest size I think but instead of altering it, she sold it back into the community to someone who could wear it. Another thing is that she never said 'you can't alter brand because I said so', in a previous post in the same thread she'd said that you can do whatever you want to these clothes because they're yours but in her opinion altering is wrong.

I don't see how this line of thinking is any worse than being of the opinion that replica's are wrong since the same excuses are used for both. I'm too big/too tall/too small for brand so I need to get it altered/a replica. I'm just saying that a single post in a much bigger conversation was singled out and people are jumping to the wrong conclusions about her intentions.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 17:11:01 2014 No.7447937 >>7447712 >>7447896 You're just jelly she probably gets more dick than both of you combined.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 17:30:01 2014 No.7447979 >>7447714 I hung out with group C a couple times. Never again.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 17:31:01 2014 No.7447981 >>7447937 The best way to respond to posts about you is to not respond at all. Especially not in a manner that cancerous, Dick-chan.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:26:47 2014 No.7448068

>>7447667
What do you mean by "openly selective"? Because when our comm has meets that are less inclusive, it's generally because someone is hosting it at their house. And frankly, I think it's fair enough to exclude people in cases like that, because you really can't fit 50+ people into one apartment or house without chaos ensuing.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:30:17 2014 No.7448075 File: 475 KB, 588x579, 1376064382815.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7447906 lmao there she is

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:37:47 2014 No.7448090 >>7444963 Third from left... What is up with her face...?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:42:17 2014 No.7448099 >>7447714 >>7447979 Is "Group C" the mysterious "chinese lolitas" comm that's started to be mentioned a few times in past months? Or is this a different comm entirely? I've not noticed there was another popping up.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:45:17 2014 No.7448105 >>7448099 >nyc chinese lolitas comm I have a feeling that all they do is speak Chinese to each other the way all chinatown chinese I know tend to do.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:59:47 2014 No.7448137 >>7448105 Well yes I'd assume so, but then I'd assume that's why there's a chinese comm in the first place.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 18:59:47 2014 No.7448138 >>7448099 Nope. It's a bunch of white girls with 2 or 3 Asians. The Chinese NYC comm is just as snobby, tho. Don't get me started on the big parasol order disaster.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 19:23:39 2014 No.7448201

>>7448137

Not necessarily. They could speak English and just be really racist. Speaking from personal experience, there's a huge divide between the more 'fob' chinese and the more 'banana' chinese, so it wouldn't be uncommon for each to have their own group. ABC's tend to mix more with other races, but you can still get the only asian group from time to time (e.g. my neighboring high school, which had a huge social group of basically all english speaking asians who clumped together like oil on top of water).

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 19:24:39 2014 No.7448202

>>7446091
That really sucks, Anon-chan. I've been there before. For the most part, I drowned my face in benzoyl peroxide cream, salicylic acid face washes, and a crap ton of moisturizer; and it went away. Perhaps you can wear a high neck blouse to cover some of it, and just ask if you could not be in the pictures?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:02:06 2014 No.7448293 >>7448138 >Don't get me started on the big parasol order disaster. Please, do.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:36:06 2014 No.7448394 >>7447094 whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and he's wearing bodyline fuck. why couldnt they interview the /actual/ lolitas that were there

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:40:07 2014 No.7448410 >>7448138 deet it or beat it, anon

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:49:00 2014 No.7448431

>>7447667
Most comms don't, which is why I'd never volunteer to mod or admin a comm.

Hostesses of private meets <within> a comm invite whomever they please and do not need any reason at all to do so.
I think it's polite and reasonable not to let your private gatherings conflict with the general comm meets of course, but honestly...there are people I'd never invite ANYwhere and I'm really not sorry about it.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:51:00 2014 No.7448440
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>>7448293

>Chinese loli hosts group order for these nice looking parasols (pic related) at $10 each
>Not bad. I'll buy one in every color.
>Order reaches limit in hours
>Other people want to know where to get said parasols
>She claims she gets it from taobao and will not give out the link because it's her super secret source that only she and her friend is allowed to know.
>Forgets to factor in the paypal fee and keeps badgering everyone to pay 80 cents to cover it
>One girl doesn't pay on time
>Host keeps putting off the order saying "it's okay, we just have to wait for her."
>Keeps waiting for girl because she doesn't want to poke her.
>Publicly calls her out saying that she'll give away her parasols if she doesn't pay the 80 cents.
>Everything is paid, things are going smoothly now
>Original host disappears. Host's friend appears.
>Announces that they're scheduling a pickup day and location
>At the entrance of Bryant Park
>Bryant park has more than 5 fucking entrances
>Everyone asks which entrance
>"Just look for me and my friend ^.^"
>Asks again
>Gets phone number instead
>Everyone is getting frustrated
>"Oops! The one facing 6th Ave!"
>Get parasols, go home
>See same bitch posting a coord and another announcement for a group order
>Asks for taobao link so I can check feedback and stuff
>Acts like it's her super special secret brand that she and her friend can only know about
>The cycle continues

Fuck these bitches

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:57:00 2014 No.7448451 >>7448440 So now whole comm is running around with identical cheap parasols together with their $$$ coordinates? Must look so nice...

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 20:59:00 2014 No.7448460 >>7448451 The irony is that I haven't seen one girl use their parasol yet.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 21:19:30 2014 No.7448498

I really want to start a comm in my area but it's a tiny rural town (a la Kamikaze Girls) so nobody but the two local manga club girls would show up and one of the two would most definitely be ita as frick without me holding her hand every step of the way.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 21:21:01 2014 No.7448506 >>7448460 What do those parasols look like irl? Are they at least worth a quarter of the trouble?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 21:38:00 2014 No.7448549 >>7448506 It's decent sized but it has the same feel as those overpriced Asian stationary shop umbrellas. I wouldn't take it out on a windy day.

indie anon !!gduXTuPrAo+ Sun Mar 23 22:12:23 2014 No.7448643

>>7447667
Yeah, there are reservation issues to deal with and if a venue can accommodate a humongous group. For events at restaurants, you need RSVPs and then have a waitlist for the eventual conflicts to cause someone to drop out.

Like I'm planning an afternoon tea meetup and I want everyone to come, but the venue has limits for a certain price and if I allowed more people to come, we need a minimum $2000 combined purchase without tax & gratuity to get the room. So for the cheaper tea options, I'd need 77 people attending (this is a group with less than that number in our FB group, so need to invite neighboring comm lolitas + their guests) or 67 people for next tier tea service.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 22:51:53 2014 No.7448783

Another Ohio (Columbus) lolita here. I don't understand the hate. The few girls I have met are very pleasant, although a bit young, and incredibly new to the fashion. Instead of calling them fatties and itas, I see it as more of my duty to help them out and help them learn.
Although admittedly, sometimes it would be nice to be able to find some over 21 and more veteran girls in any of the Ohio cities.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 22:56:24 2014 No.7448804 >>7447867 I want to know who wrote that too...

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 23:00:23 2014 No.7448817 >>7447717 Evil things, Anon...evil things... Poor comm. why didn't someone step in and refocus the reporter? That's unfortunate.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 23 23:03:23 2014 No.7448831 >>7448783 There are older lolitas up north. I know of a few that are in their mid to late 20's, a few in their early 30's and there's some that are older.

Anonymous Sun Mar 23 23:37:53 2014 No.7448927

>>7446960
I dont think lolitas actually pay for her to come and visit. Its seems to be a backed by a company who is making it her job. Im not sure what it really is going to mean in the end though.

>>7448643
Thats kind of an extreme example, but really it is standard for places to want you to rsvp beforehand. It isnt a lolita thing but a business thing. If you are occupying seats, the business will want to have a deposit for big groups, and flakiness is common.

Anonymous Mon Mar 24 00:17:48 2014 No.7449039

No one gives a shit about the Aussie comm. shut the fuck up don't you know that ODiP and WAMH and that fugly copyright infringing "brand" has already ruined your reputation for the rest if the world? No one cares because everyone knows you're all bat shit crazy.

For the 1% of normal bitches I feel bad that you're now lumped in with them all. Move the fuck out of the country to salvage your reputation while you still can!

Funk Brothers !!sEQILr75Rya Mon Mar 24 00:30:44 2014 No.7449078

>>7448643
>>7448927

Hey I know we're friends, but I am too dealing with the same thing. I'm hosting a tea party next for our comm and we're having it at an Austrian Tea House setting. I'm in contact with the event planner for the tea house about renting out an event room. The place wants a $100 an hour for a minimum of two hours which totals to $200. If 15 or more RSVP'd for the event then yes we would rent out the space since the party is large enough for a private event. You need to have economic sense when you host an event. It doesn't make sense if only 5 lolitas show up and you're renting out a space for $200 for a two hour use that can hold 40. Currently the number of lolitas that have RSVP'd does not warrant renting the space, but it is an option when our party becomes too big. We're here for the tea and to socialize and not for renting the space.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 24 02:32:21 2014 No.7449389 File: 979 KB, 500x269, 1366744799460.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>7449039 wow, you're a fucking racist.

Anonymous Mon Mar 24 02:45:24 2014 No.7449425

>>7449389
Umm...how is that racist? I'm pretty sure the majority if that comm is white...nothing was mentioned about race...diff.anon but seriously, even me and my comm trust them Aussie bitches as far as we can throw them. We've geared so much wo don't want to deal with any of them now

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 24 02:46:24 2014 No.7449428 >>7449389 I don't think racist means what you think it means

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 24 03:56:07 2014 No.7449543 >>7447094 Endless. Fucking. Embarrassment.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 24 10:48:42 2014 No.7449860 New thread: >>7449856

Anonymous Mon Mar 24 22:44:37 2014 No.7451574

I think the Brisbane comm is...okay...but they tend to go to more bars/pubs and drink. I tend to prefer more meets involving art galleries, high teas, picnics, etc. Something to make the whole day seem like it's in a different world/time period as opposed to just going to have dinner and a drink which i can do any day, wearing anything.

The girls are nice but i'd say half dress well and 1/2 dress like....well they dress like shit. If you check out their Facebook comm pics and compare the "Lolitas" (i say that in quotation marks cause most of them sure as fuck aren't lolita) from the Spaghetti House meet to the High Tea Meet, the Spaghetti girls look ita as hell, while the High Tea meet girls look much better.

I've even seen a Lolita wearing flipflops in Brisbane! I know it gets hot and humid but farrrrkkkk I haven't seen the Sydney comm girls but i think the Melb girls, and Adelaide girls are better. Not perfect but better. Maybe because Brisbane is just more of an overgrown country town. whatever.

Anonymous Wed Mar 26 03:39:06 2014 No.7455186

Melbourne is filled with drama, it's just swept under the rug.

First is the lovely Marie at ODIP. She bullied customers, convinced multiple melb lolis to work for her with the promise of clothing and money but never produced either, never paid local designers for stock she made a profit from, and skipped out on paying the rent on ODIP Melbourne store. For more drama, check out Marie's international drama:
http://getoffegl.livejournal.com/tag/name%3A%20mariko_senpai

Then there is the other lolita shop in Melbourne. Though Miss Kittiness has stayed relative under the drama radar, the fight she had with one of her models leaked out into the community. >>7445157
For juicy drama and screen shots see link.
http://sweetesttart.tumblr.com/post/76428625756/my-not-very-nice-experience-and-the-lesson-i-had-to

Then there is the resident bitch Sinny. Tormenting cosplayers and lolitas at every chance. Also had drama with Marie(ODIP) that was all over livejournal a few years back.

Then there is the melb brolitas and aristocrats. Most can't dress for crap, >>445168 but the one that does has a seedy side. Victor is known for his love of young lolita meat, preying on every Lolita under the age of 18 even though he himself is pushing mid 30s. But his behaviour in this department goes uncheck because he knows how to dress. Why kick out the one person who makes the male side of the melb community look good to the rest of the world.

Don't forget our resident secret maker, pitting everyone in the community and other Aus states against each other. This secret maker has been around since the early days, ruffling feathers at every chance.

Then there is the Melbourne Facebook mods carefully covering up all the drama with policies >>7445149
Any time someone makes a post deemed slightly offensive they delete it. Claiming it's at protection of the newer members.>>7445168
They even let Marie and Sinny remain in the community even after multiple complaints.

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