Geek Love & con dating

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Geek Love & con dating Anonymous Thu Mar 21 16:18:25 2013 No.6711881 [Reply] [Original]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jL6j0nz3U2Q

While back we had a thread talking about this show. I didn't realize it was still going!

Would you do speed dating at a con?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:16:55 2013 No.6711993 >>6711881 >Speed dating at cons >Not implying you will not encounter underaged and/or socially awkward fools with no type of social skills and you won't encounter creepers.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:22:55 2013 No.6712001 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJJ3XmCJtoU&t=3m50s&noredirect=1 lol @homosuck

>>	Jezebel !lfueK7pnvc Thu Mar 21 17:28:25 2013 No.6712014 >>6712001 HAHAHA! OH GOD! She described herself as "Sea Hitler"! TO ACTUAL PEOPLE!

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:36:55 2013 No.6712026 >>6712001 oh god she has a shiny madoka and ranka costume

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:40:55 2013 No.6712033 >Would you do speed dating at a con? No, then again, I wouldn't do speed dating in general.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:46:26 2013 No.6712043 >>6712001 >http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJJ3XmCJtoU&t=3m50s&noredirect=1 this was at NYCC 2012? geezous..how embarrassing.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:47:56 2013 No.6712044 What the fuck is this show?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:52:25 2013 No.6712051 The host is so damned annoying. He's seriously the most annoying part of this show.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 17:55:55 2013 No.6712055 >>6712051 I thought that too. Then Hitler here came along. Oh my god.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 20:48:55 2013 No.6712404 >>6712001 >I want to find a man >oh im a sea hitler yeah thats attractive to people

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 21:17:55 2013 No.6712490 I want to try it this year. Worst case scenario is creepers, which tend to happen anyways so no big loss there. Best case is a qt3.14 bf. Either way, I at least get a good story out of it.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 21:23:55 2013 No.6712510 put on a wig~!

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 21:34:56 2013 No.6712551 Reminds me. Does anybody remember that one white guy that had the Japanese girlfriend, and the guy seemed like a total weeb? I've been looking for that/those video(s) for a long ass time but I haven't been able to find them.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 21:35:55 2013 No.6712554 >>6712404 That's that special entitlement feeling that everyone who tuly loves them will accept them regardless of what spews out of their mouthes. That's not lacking acceptance, that's lacking general "watch what you say" norms.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 21:53:25 2013 No.6712604 >>6712490 Are you me? I came here to make basically this exact same comment. >>6712551 Well maybe he's a weeb with a heart of gold? There's a dude at my work who is one of the dorkiest people I have EVER met, and yet he got married to an Asian girl.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 22:57:25 2013 No.6712814 >>6711993 But the morbidly obese Jedi Master asks them (on camera ! ! ) if they're 18 or plus. So it's quite obviously their fault if they lie.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 23:00:55 2013 No.6712824 >>6712604 Have you met his wife, though? She might be just as dorky.

Anonymous Thu Mar 21 23:20:55 2013 No.6712871

Wanted to do speed dating at megacon but they were turning girls away. Surprised at that but whatever.

Lol'd when they clearly let in under 18s and saw that most of the guys in line were in their mid to late 20s.

I think it would be a fun thing to do. Yeah you'd get a sea of neckbeards, but hey, at least one in there can probably charm a date out of you.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 21 23:40:26 2013 No.6712942 >>6712871 >turning girls away ...of all the problems I expected them to have, that wasn't it.

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 00:47:26 2013 No.6713197

>>6712604
No, I wasn't saying whether or not he was capab;e of being a loving person and landing an Asian girl based on the fact that he was a weeb, I just want to see a video that I haven't seen in over a year because it's driving me nuts. Like a song stuck in your head that you remember the lyrics to. Plus, how else am I supposed to describe the video. That's exactly what it is. This weeby white guy living in Japan with his Japanese girlfriend/wife making videos about doing just that.

Also some of my friends that are extremely dorky are some of the sweetest, kindest and most sincere people I ever met.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 01:44:26 2013 No.6713330 >>6712871 wow, really? always thought they'd be begging girls to go this thing. Yeah I plan to go to one this year, just to see what it's like, I'm a dude though, so I hope I get in.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 01:54:55 2013 No.6713350 >>6712942 >>6713330 It's a new world, with a lot of fat, lonely, legbeards in it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 02:23:56 2013 No.6713403 >>6713350 Well if the hair on top meets with the hair on the bottom, then we're good. So when is the next one of these?

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 02:47:26 2013 No.6713448

I almost did speed dating until it fell apart because some of us LGBT wanted to join which wasn't a big deal then one guy made it all into his one-man mission to bag him a man and another person suggested they just put tape down on the floor and divide the room into a "gay" and "not gay" section.

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 04:38:26 2013 No.6713625

>>6713448
Besides the ingrained notion that segregation is wrong; I really don't see a problem this that suggestion. I mean you are going to speed dating with the ultimate goal of finding someone to date right? So why would you look filter through candidates that are not going to find you sexually attractive, and not because they don't find you attractive based on your looks but because they are not interested in someone of the same sex or gender? I think a better compromise would to have LGBT nights and sort the dates based on whichever criteria they have listed. Moreover breaking this down into L G B and T to increase the possibility of a match occurring.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 04:40:56 2013 No.6713629 >>6713625 Yeah, I'd have to agree. If you're gay you're not going to be interested in girls. As well as if you're not gay you might disappoint a gay guy by being interesting to them but not in them.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 05:00:57 2013 No.6713641 >>6713448 It would probably be better if you set up your own night/time for that. Not calling for "segregation" or anything, but it would cull a lot of the confusion, and you would know everyone at the event is on the same page.

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 05:10:28 2013 No.6713649

I would definitely try it out.

Meeting women my own age who are into my hobbies is getting tougher. I've had a good number of relationships, but mostly with girls still in their "college" age bullshit where they just skip around to new guys every few months. (Some will call BS on me, but no, I've literally seen the girls I used to go out with hop onto two or maybe four different relationships or flings after me with no end in sight)

When I was 17-25, I cosplayed a lot more. It's a good opener for talking to women, lets you both see you have something in common.

Recently I've fallen off the cosplay wagon, due to needing to focus on work and a career. This has made me totally unseen by the nerd dating community, since I can't even make an appearance. Not to mention the girls I "want" to date (age 26+) are usually taken this late in the game, or even married.

Speed dating might be a good idea. I know I'm actually a pretty good looking guy, but there is a severe lack of time that I can invest into meeting women when not working. Also, I find online match making too impersonal.

sorry for tldr, just explaining why a speed dating event at a nerd convention could probable be a good idea. Some of us older nerds just aren't in the right environment anymore to meet our own people anymore.

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 22 05:30:27 2013 No.6713661 >>6712814 unless its a girl mang, sleep with an underage girl you going to jail end of story.

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 05:43:28 2013 No.6713671

>>6713625
There wasn't anything wrong with the suggestion on its own other than we had already agreed on colored stickers for everyone at the event to show who wanted what and up until that point the person who suggested taping a divider had been utterly unhelpful. They also suggested we make tshirts with our sexuality on it.

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 05:51:57 2013 No.6713681

>>6713649
>where they just skip around to new guys every few months

This... made me feel really strange. Although I do kiss and make out with more people and more often than I should (one every month, sometimes more, sometimes less) every single one of my relationships (totaling two, lol) lasted almost or over two years.
And yet I'm always hearing about girls who'll have a different bf every month.

I wish I had friends and talked to people to have an idea whether or not that's such a common thing.

(sage for unrelated + rant)

Anonymous Fri Mar 22 10:33:01 2013 No.6713886

>>6713649
Except for the part about dating for just a few months being "bullshit" (what's so bad about that?) I am TOTALLY in the same boat.

When you're rockin the 9-5 work week as opposed to sporadic college classes, meeting people is harder, ESPECIALLY nerdy people. Which is ironic because now I have the budget FOR cons and cosplay and stuff.

Feels good to have my life together on all that, but now I gotta look for my qt 3.14 gf

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 23 22:12:20 2013 No.6717434 Y'all niggas now that almost everything you see is scripted right? Maybe the losers who get about ~5s of screentime are genuine but the 'main characters'? Sheeeeeeeeeeeeit.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 23 22:16:21 2013 No.6717443 >>6717434 >Reality TV >Scripted No way. I think the thread was part "lol look at this" and "would u do dis"

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 23 23:55:50 2013 No.6717713 >>6713448 Sounds like Animazement

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 01:05:20 2013 No.6717834 I would be super uncomfortable with this kind of thing.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 01:10:20 2013 No.6717844 >>6717713 It was. I think that whole thing made a lot of us LGBT AZers wary of hanging around with Grell with the way he flips his shit on Tumblr about dating site guys not liking him.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 09:41:15 2013 No.6718295 >>6717844 Who?

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 23:47:20 2013 No.6720144 File: 67 KB, 462x395, 1326408932939.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] If they had something like this at london MCM, sure why not. Can't hurt can it? right?... riiiight?

>>	RedDickies !!BvBZJIM+I1V Sun Mar 24 23:53:20 2013 No.6720161 i did this once only cause the announcer for it pulled myself and a bro out of the crowd as we walked by. Never again.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 23:54:20 2013 No.6720162 >>6718295 NekozawaFan

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Sun Mar 24 23:54:50 2013 No.6720165 File: 87 KB, 500x333, manyfeelsfelt.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no gf >tfw a sea a no gf feels Anyone wants to be my gf? I can teach you how to DotA...

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 24 23:58:50 2013 No.6720175 I want to do this. To bad I am in a relationship. This would be fun as fuck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 00:15:21 2013 No.6720220 >>6720175 Go polyamorous! All the cool kids are doing it.

>>	Iris Mon Mar 25 00:26:51 2013 No.6720253 File: 406 KB, 275x207, tumblr_ltwaemw7sz1qm3rg0.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] NGL I was considering doing it at NYCC last year. I'm tempted to go this year but since it's mainly comics, it's extremely slim pickings

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 00:35:21 2013 No.6720274 File: 181 KB, 422x392, 1364043941468.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >People actually do speed-dating seriously What the fuck?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 00:44:20 2013 No.6720296 it's sad that's she so thrilled to be the dude's plan b

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 00:45:51 2013 No.6720299 she will be hot when she loses 60 lbs

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 00:51:50 2013 No.6720316 this sucks, I have been watching this shit for hours now and cant stop.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 01:03:50 2013 No.6720344 >>6720296 who are you talking about?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 01:45:20 2013 No.6720438 >>6720274 It's a new day, anon. In our high speed/lack of social interaction nerd world, there are few chances for nerds to actually meet. Why not expedite the process? If there's one things nerds love, it's efficiency.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 01:57:20 2013 No.6720454 >>6720438 >lack of social interaction nerd world Have you ever been to a fucking convention You don't need to speeddate to ask someone out, damnit.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:06:20 2013 No.6720465 >>6720454 not that anon but **dammit there are 2 Ms in dammit

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:08:50 2013 No.6720471 File: 93 KB, 505x379, feelsatcomputer.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] seriously tho, anyone wants a fun, ongoing and nerd bf? pls

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:13:20 2013 No.6720477 >>6720471 Lyper man, tripping on /cgl/? What the hell dude.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:16:20 2013 No.6720480 File: 53 KB, 900x849, thatfeelforhim.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720477 >tfw you make someone dissapointed that probably knows you >tfw I keep doing it w-who are you?

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:23:20 2013 No.6720486 File: 111 KB, 430x615, feelcoaster.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Posting feels in a feel thread

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:28:20 2013 No.6720496 >>6720486 >>6720480 >>6720471 dude I don't know you but this is hell of depressing

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:30:20 2013 No.6720500 File: 31 KB, 500x461, that_feel_hug.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720496 Welcome aboard.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:31:20 2013 No.6720502 >>6720465 Actually, either one works. It's a slang term.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:33:20 2013 No.6720505 File: 366 KB, 1500x1089, Toeto.full.408883.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I just want friends ;___;

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:33:50 2013 No.6720504 >>6720502 Actually, it's in the dictionary.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:37:50 2013 No.6720510 >>6720505 I haven't spoken to anyone other than family for over a year

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:42:20 2013 No.6720516 >>6720510 ...are you a NEET?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:44:21 2013 No.6720521 >>6720516 Yep.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:46:50 2013 No.6720526 File: 212 KB, 922x882, canadafeelins.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720505 ;__;

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:47:21 2013 No.6720529 >>6720521 Why?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:48:20 2013 No.6720534 >>6720505 Fucking go out and talk to people then. Do something new. Don't feel sorry for yourself, and definitely don't make excuses; those will kill you. I love you, Anon. Good luck.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:48:50 2013 No.6720535 >>6720505 What are your interests?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:53:20 2013 No.6720552

>>6720505
Me too, anon. Me too.

>tfw qt looking female and literally everyone I meet is either completely uninterested (female) or wants me to be their gf (male)

I will never have a friend. And then I have to see people saying I'm too pretty to be a shut-in NEET.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:53:50 2013 No.6720550 >>6720529 I'm unsure. Probably because I'm a trust fund baby who has been sheltered. I won't complain, because I don't mind it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 02:56:20 2013 No.6720560 >>6720552 You sure it's not your personality that's the problem here?

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 02:57:51 2013 No.6720565 File: 3 KB, 104x124, rainfeel.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] i-i'm still here

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:01:21 2013 No.6720576

>>6720560
Maybe. I've always been bullied in school without a proper reason (was not specially nerdy, or fat, or anything, really).

I really dislike the way people talk about "personality" being the problem like it's something changeable and that if people dislike you for that reason it's totally your fault for CHOOSING to be that way.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:05:20 2013 No.6720583
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>>6720576
Outside of a few fundamental characteristics, personality IS changeable and you ARE choosing to be that way. Perhaps for good reasons, or very difficult to change reasons, but it's still a choice.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:09:50 2013 No.6720590 >>6720576 >I really dislike the way people talk about "personality" being the problem like it's something changeable >implying you're stuck in your ways forever and have no room for growth or improvement ever Personality is constructed.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:11:50 2013 No.6720592 >>6720590 but changing it for other people is just putting a mask over your true self.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:13:20 2013 No.6720593

>>6720583
No, it really is not. If I'm an introvert I really cannot become something else without years of therapy and lots of meds, like gay people trying to be straight.

Unless you are talking about being a proud, arrogant bitch or something like this. English is not my first language, so just making it clear: what I mean and understand by "personality" is the way I talk and act.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:14:20 2013 No.6720597

>>6720592
There's no such thing as a true self. That's just an excuse to stubbornly hold onto undesirable traits.

People with that kind of attitude are the ones who don't change their hair or clothes for 15 years, never take time to be introspective, and wonder why they can't get dates. You have to adapt.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:15:50 2013 No.6720598 >>6720592 >implying who you are right now is your 'true' self Your personality right now is constructed and arbitrary. Defense mechanisms are not "your true self."

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:18:50 2013 No.6720604 >>6720593 Okay, "introvert" is one huge blanket term. It doesn't define everything about you.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:19:50 2013 No.6720611

>>6720593
Introversion is one of those few characteristics that can't entirely be changed, it's true. (One of the big five, which is about half -- only about half -- genetic.)

Personality is indeed the way you talk and act, and it is incredibly malleable.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:40:50 2013 No.6720650

>>6720611
Tips, please?

Even though I'm ACTUALLY crippled by it (can't have a normal job, can't study, quite literally cannot function because of it, on such extreme levels I would probably kill myself on the occasion my parents or family died) I have such a high level of anxiety I cannot talk to therapists or anything of the sort.

I can't explain it but... it feels physical. You know when you run for too long and your body is so sore and tired it literally keeps you from running any further? That's what this is like.

I feel like everybody was handed this neat little manual on how to live life and talk to other human beings, whereas I did not so I have no idea what I'm supposed to do.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:45:20 2013 No.6720654

>>6720650
Anxiety is probably one of the most intense emotions people experience and it's natural to attempt to avoid it. You can buy yourself DBT/CBT handbooks and shit and do exercises yourself (if you built up to therapy that would be the ideal).

http://www.amazon Dialectical-Behavior-Therapy-Skills-Workbook/dp/1572245131/ref=pd_sim_b_1

http://www.amazon Shyness-Social-Anxiety-Workbook-Teens/dp/1608821870/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1364197398&sr=1-3&keywords=cbt+workbook+for+anxiety

Here you go anon. Your neat little manuals on how to live life and talk to other human beings. (Try to disregard cheesiness, it comes with the territory.)

RedDickies !!BvBZJIM+I1V Mon Mar 25 03:47:20 2013 No.6720657

If you're anxiety prone just go to Amazon and buy Niacinamide in quick release tabs. Take like 500-1500 mg at time depending on your size. Works great.

Xanax was apparently modeled after Niacinamide, so they share similar sides. I feel like I'm chilling in the fridge for like 6 hours at time.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:50:51 2013 No.6720661 >>6720657 Holy shit, dickies is a pseudo-benzo addict. I feel like this explains a lot.

>>	RedDickies !!BvBZJIM+I1V Mon Mar 25 03:52:20 2013 No.6720663 >>6720661 Nah I've been sober, save for the odd weekend at Momocon, for months. Focused on dat bulk, little girl.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 03:53:50 2013 No.6720666 >>6720663 That's good, dickies. Benzos are a difficult beast to shake.

>>	RedDickies !!BvBZJIM+I1V Mon Mar 25 03:54:50 2013 No.6720667 >>6720666 Gotta quit dippin' doe

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 04:28:20 2013 No.6720695 File: 4 KB, 125x126, feelfit.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] It was fun feeling with you guys tonight.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 06:24:51 2013 No.6720773 >>6720661 No, he's just beta.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 06:46:50 2013 No.6720778 >>6720165 I would never date a misogynistic creep who thinks that just because I'm a girl, I can't play Dota and need to be taught.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 07:18:21 2013 No.6720786

>>6720560
yeah, boy, everybody should suppress their natural instincts and change fundamental aspects of themselves in exchange for bottom-level acceptance from conventional society

It sure would be nice to have the world be so bland that everyone reacts to you in the exact same way

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 07:27:21 2013 No.6720789 The guy in ep. 7 looks exactly like Valle.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 07:29:21 2013 No.6720792 >>6720552 Stop being a 'lesbian' special snowflake then.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 07:46:51 2013 No.6720810 >>6720778 >Implying girls play video games for any other reason than to get attention from men

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 07:51:52 2013 No.6720816 >>6720778 why would he assume that 100% of females on here play a specific game, and play it well if someone said to me "I'd like to teach you X" I wouldn't accuse them of hating an entire gender, regardless if I could already do X or not

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 09:02:51 2013 No.6720866 I wouldn't date any of the girls from this board that go to cons. Mostly because you're all crazy and have freaky fetishs, like rape fetishes, and I want my dick attached to me for my lifetime.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 09:26:21 2013 No.6720881 File: 22 KB, 188x204, 1330897343797.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Don't worry friend, I don't want to rape you, I just want to pee on you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 09:27:51 2013 No.6720886 File: 22 KB, 188x204, 1330897343797.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720866 Don't worry, friend. I don't want to rape you, I just want to pee on you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 09:30:51 2013 No.6720891 >>6720778 You probably fucking suck at dota judging from your shitty attitude.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 10:07:21 2013 No.6720920 >>6720161 >No story I am dissapoint. As for the speed dating seems like it could be fun, but the "first person to sprint and sit" for the perfect match thing would be rather awkward.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 10:35:22 2013 No.6720936
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So here's a question. When speed dating, EVEN though it's at a con, how much should one control his or her power level?

I mean I think it's safe to say if you're at a con there's at least one show/game you can get REALLY amped about. I dunno if going full power level beyond just "yeah I really like blah" the first time you meet someone is a good idea.

in slightly related news, anyone looking for a tall guy who likes going out and partying some nights and cuddlin' on the couch playing vidya other times? :D

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 10:46:22 2013 No.6720948 >>6720936 You're at a con, it's fine unless you go full weeb.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 10:46:52 2013 No.6720947 >>6720936 I don't know, all the people in the show seemed open about how autistically obsessed with their fandom they are. I'd say it depends on how socially acceptable your thing is.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 10:54:23 2013 No.6720953 >>6720936 >control his or her power level Half of them are dressed up as cartoon characters. I think the fact that you're at a speed dating pannel at a comic book/anime convention speaks for itself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 11:03:22 2013 No.6720966 I would if I attended a con that had one. I believe Anime Revolution (in Vancouver) had a panel last year, but I didn't attend that con. Hoping Cos&Effect has one, I'm interested in checking one out.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 11:36:52 2013 No.6720995 >>6720936 >anyone looking for a tall guy who likes going out and partying some nights and cuddlin' on the couch playing vidya other times? Wtf? Can you be any more generic with your description please?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 11:39:52 2013 No.6720999 >>6720995 well what else are you into? How does clean-shaven, well dressed, white, dark hair, swimmer and social drinker sound to you?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 11:47:53 2013 No.6721006

>>6720947
>>6720948
>>6720953

Fair enough! I always have a weird ~thing~ about showing my power level around people I might be interested in. (friends? Fine. Strangers? Fine. Maybe it's a holdover from being weeby in HS long ago.)

>>6720995
...Do you want a better one? I was mostly just generically venting over being single.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 12:04:52 2013 No.6721037

If this is turning into a speed dating style hook up thread then im in:

I am 6 foot, I work for my dad, I work out all the time because I want to be more like naruto. I drive a sweet car but its always breaking down. My hobbies include spending a considerable amount of time on 4chan, painting everything in my apartment black, and playing the mandolin. I once didn't change my underwear for a week to set a personal record and my favorite food is pad thai

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 13:23:23 2013 No.6721144 >>6721037 Not a bad idea.. . But maybe we should have a separate hookup thread? Have people say age/location, if they want friends or more... I'll start one in a bit if no else does.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 13:32:52 2013 No.6721175 maybe. Not to sure. Guess I would give it a try. But I would not expect much. I would see mainly guys I think. So I would go to give it a shot, and expect to leave with nothing.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 13:42:22 2013 No.6721202

>>6711881

The last geek love ep was so horrible... That really cute Relm cosplayer was a disappointment because that short dork wanted to get with the fat Dr Who cosplayer... Then he brings her to meet his huge overbearing mother the first day.

It's no wonder she "had to study". Jesus I couldn't have run away faster if that were my first date with someone.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:11:22 2013 No.6721331 >>6720886 Women can't rape men, lol. What are you an MRA?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:27:52 2013 No.6721378 >>6720866 >Mostly because you're all crazy and have freaky fetishs, like rape fetishes Don't forget the daddy issues

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:31:22 2013 No.6721393 >>6721202 I was watching that, it was pretty terrible. Why would you ever bring a girl to meet his mom. Although the Relm cosplayer (I think there was a later bonus episode with her) seemed really young and kind of weebish.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:36:23 2013 No.6721415 >>6721393 Meeting parents early is ALWAYS a warning sign. If it's something that can't be avoided (ie you live at home, it's a shit economy, I get it) that's one thing. Going out of your way to do so suggests some immaturity stuff.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:41:22 2013 No.6721427
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>>6721331
Sure they can't.

Anyway, speed dating at a con sounds like a nightmare. The majority of congoers are awkward as fuck and not mentally in the real world by any means.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:43:52 2013 No.6721434

>>6721393

She was super cute and seemed a bit earnest and innocent. Could have been wife material. The guy was just incredibly lame. The fact that every girl had him on their list really says something bad about the sort of women that were at that event.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:49:53 2013 No.6721447 >>6721393 She was 19, he was like 26.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 14:49:53 2013 No.6721448

Did it once, not even again. The males were made to move from chair to chair, and the girls sat with their backs to the front of the room. The screen there would flip through slides that allowed for icebreakers.

A lot of the guys seemed incredibly forever alone.jpg, but I did get one guy who cosplayed as Hard Gay, freaking loved that guy.

Almost immediately afterward I recieved a man dressed in a cheetah-print leotard with ears and a tail who told me he was a "16 year old boy stuck in a 34 year old man's body."

I was just. . . No. A lot of socially awkward people, they'd just sit there in pained silence after asking a question or two, severely hinting that they wanted your phone number. Badly.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:13:22 2013 No.6721515 >>6721447 >She was 19 Best part about this girl was she cosplayed a character from a game older than her. 10/10 would waifu. Poor guy was so focused on the Dr Who cosplay

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:13:22 2013 No.6721520

>>6721448
Pretty much this. A lot of speed daters do not know how to hold or keep a conversation. It's usually like this:

>I like your costume
then
>How do you like the con so far
then
>silence
girl tries to talk about something
>answers with "y-yeah" or "uh hunh"
more silence

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:18:22 2013 No.6721528 >>6720999 Still boring, honestly.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:23:22 2013 No.6721547 File: 329 KB, 803x641, beta2_zps01b02bdd.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720999 >>6721006 I imagine you're like this. EXACTLY LIKE THIS.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:23:23 2013 No.6721541 >>6721528 What's funny is that guy is NOT the one who posted the original comment. I am. But he managed to describe me anyway! Though it's all for naught as clearly we just aren't meant to be.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:24:22 2013 No.6721548

>>6720454
Yo don't make cons awkward and ask people out (unless you came with them and know each other). We've had threads about this. Most of us aren't there to date. We are HELLA ready to make friends and maybe someone will like the shit out of you, but don't fuckin ask them out there. Leave contact info so you can chill outside the con. Then take it from there.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:26:22 2013 No.6721553 >>6720165 You sound ugly and boring tho. Plus, no one wants to learn DotA from you. That's what tutorials are for/PLAYING the game. Which you have none of, btw. Don't hit on anything with that

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:30:53 2013 No.6721564
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>>6721553
Anybody who is looking for a GF on the internet is Beta.
Anybody who is looking for a GF on 4chan is omega.
Anybody who is looking for a gf on /cgl/ is Moses Garza III

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 15:38:22 2013 No.6721570 >>6721547 Oh god, I hope not. He looks so confused in every definition of the word.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 17:54:23 2013 No.6721876 File: 88 KB, 650x842, anonfeelcar.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I'm back. Still looking for a gf. I'm not misogynistic person, I am just against feminism that brainwashes pretty "nice" females into monsters. Don't hate.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:02:23 2013 No.6721891 >>6721876 You're a misogynist.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:07:53 2013 No.6721907 >>6721891 >anyone who is against feminism is a misogynist. Why are feminists so stupid.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:08:23 2013 No.6721908 >>6721876 >I am just against feminism Well fuck you then. Might as well tell me I belong to the kitchen. I bet you're not even Platinum.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:09:53 2013 No.6721910 >>6721908 Please go back to tumbler. It's okay if somebody doesn't like the things you do, but don't be mean about it.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:11:53 2013 No.6721915

>>6721910
This is not a "opinion" thing. It's like supporting genital mutilation or women being the property of men like they used to before 20th century. You can have a opinion on ice-cream, but here, your "opinion" makes you an intolerable human being.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:12:54 2013 No.6721918 >>6721910 >don't be mean on 4chan!

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:13:53 2013 No.6721920
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I would go, but I would probably chicken out after starting, tell myself "these people are below me" and act extremely haughty/unimpressed/sarcastic throughout the entire thing in order to defend myself from being emotionally damaged.

The last time I had social interaction with someone who wasn't my parents, it was while I was walking home and these two people were fucking in their car parked alongside their house. I heard a knock on the car window, and a guy stuck his head out and said "I'm was getting raped in here! Don't you care?!" I guess he was trying to be funny. My autism blaster was automatically shifted into 3500 and I said "not really" and walked away. The average person is... something special, though I suppose the average person at a con is a bit different. Maybe if they had a friend meetup thing, I would do it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:14:24 2013 No.6721921 >>6721427 >picture I don't see how that's supposed to be not consensual sex...

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:16:23 2013 No.6721924
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>>6721908
You exactly know what I mean. Feminism is long done, females have their place in society. Now it's a balance issues, I think females are overpowered in the law system, they need a nerf.

Also, I am 2k dbr and I often play on the first page. 2 days ago I had 700 spectators, first game first page. I am in the upper 1%.

Follow me soon, I'll start streaming and I'll have some VoDs of my tournament.

>>	Poolboy "The Slutmaker" !!FxpWWedJUtg Mon Mar 25 18:16:53 2013 No.6721926 File: 2.00 MB, 391x237, 1345249435716.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6721920 >not really >yfw alphaasfuck.avi

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:16:53 2013 No.6721927 >>6721921 He's poisoned/drugged and saying "No, don't touch me" You sound kinda rapey

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:17:24 2013 No.6721928 >>6721924 You seem really fat

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:17:54 2013 No.6721929 >>6721924 > females have their place in society. Wow. This made me so angry that I am at a loss of words here. Fuck you forever.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:19:23 2013 No.6721934 >>6721927 And he's also about 180 lbs of muscle whilst she's 100 lbs tops.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:21:23 2013 No.6721941 >>6721934 >poisoned/drugged

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:21:23 2013 No.6721942
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>>6721929
Wait, I think you didn't get what I meant to say.

I actually see what you think I meant to say, I say that females can now do pretty much anything they want, the social pressures are not as big as they used to be. You were probably thinking I'm saying "hurrdurr they kitchen" etc.

Seriously now, stop cherry picking a little part of an entire dialogue to make it out of context.

>>6721928
Working on it, it's not respectable for a human being to let himself go, so I am working toward becoming an honorable human being in both mental and physical aspect.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:23:54 2013 No.6721947 >>6721924 >Now it's a balance issues, I think females are overpowered in the law system, they need a nerf. It really depends on the country/society. You can't make blanket statements like that and expect to be taken seriously.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:24:53 2013 No.6721952
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>>6721926
It's all a defense mechanism, man.
I actually give so many fucks, if fucks were a tangible thing to give, I would need an extra house with a lot of kitchen cabinets and bedroom closets to put my fucks in.

FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT I GUESS

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:25:24 2013 No.6721954 >>6721942 What the fuck kind of gif IS that?! Also, good luck on the healthy path. You are not alone.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:26:23 2013 No.6721961 >>6721924 >>6721942 the fact that you, as a man, think you have the right to decide when feminism is "long done", is proof that it's still needed.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:26:54 2013 No.6721962 >>6721954 It's Girls Bravo. I don't know if you were actually wondering about the source but, uh, there it is.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:27:53 2013 No.6721964 >>6721941 >he thinks that would actually make a difference Maybe in the fantasy world. Which is why it 'occurred' in one, and cannot IRL.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:28:23 2013 No.6721965 >>6721934 He's passing out on the floor and she just got on top of him. Are you dumb?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:29:53 2013 No.6721967 >>6721965 No, you just don't know how reality works from watching too much make believe cartoons. Brute strength is all that matters.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:30:23 2013 No.6721969
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>>6721947
It's 4chan, I'm not studying country politics and I'm not informed enough to make any valuable statement. I'm just another player in a sea of ignorance, so I just state what I see from my little biased hole. I, however, try to become less biased and learn more about each sides before making a statement about how I feel.

I don't hate anyone or anything before I meet them. I rarely hate them even after, because everyone preach their own life experiences. Some people are really shitfaces however.

>>6721961
I don't have any rights, when did I ever claim to? I'm not even in the grand scheme of employment and career, I have absolutely no rights to claim. I just, again, from my perspective of the entire thing, only see male shaming and "check your privileges" from every angles. I am aware it's due to the fact I come on this website quite often, which is mainly malechildren dominated, but a good deal of it comes from the unfair treatment of females in the law system.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:31:23 2013 No.6721972 >>6721942 Do you ever get introspective as to WHY you don't have a girlfriend? Because you seem really unappealing and maybe if you understood that you could change and get things you wanted/would now deserve since you wouldn't be so shitty anymore.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:32:53 2013 No.6721974 >>6721967 Yes, brute strength will help you when you're unconscious. Use your brute strength to not be that way.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:33:23 2013 No.6721975

>>6721972
This.

I suggest that
a) you stop being a misogynist;
b) start playing League of Legends - tbh all Dota players are gross, have anger management issues and stuff;
c) be less ugly (just losing fat won't necessarily do);
d) lower your standards appropriately.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:34:24 2013 No.6721979

I ended up being chosen by someone at the time who was my friend, I knew all the 'right' answers so that she'd pick me when it came to the last few guys left in the dating panel.

...Ignoring 97% of the other back-and-forth bullshit that defined that friendship, that was a really fun dating panel. I wasn't a part of it and I ended up sitting on the panelist table behind the MC. They're a lot of fun to just watch sometimes to either see people crash and burn or sometimes even succeed.

Last time I ever sweep a girl off her feet at a con, that's for sure. I think if you are honest with yourself and your expectations and know what realistically then it can be worth a single person's time.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:34:53 2013 No.6721980 >>6721975 Seconded. There, you have a game plan now. We literally helped you get laid. Go do it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:36:23 2013 No.6721985 >>6720866 >>6720886 That's kind of hot.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:36:53 2013 No.6721986 >>6721974 Exactly. Haven't you been listening to the great wise teachings of Nippon in their master piece Wan Pissu, where we follow the adventures of Master Ruffy and his road to wisdom.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:38:24 2013 No.6721990 >>6721975 Better yet -become a feminist. Every man who doesn't identify as a feminist lives a half life at best.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:38:53 2013 No.6721992

>>6721975
But LoL sucks.

You can still play Dota but don't be a faggot about it.

The "lower your standards" thing should be applied to everyone on this website. You're not going to find Ariana Grande or whomever you nerds fantasize about nowadays on your first try. I know it sounds juvenile and icky, but being friends with people before deciding you want a different kind of relationship with them might prove to be helpful. Probably. Make female friends at a con or whatever, and then zone in on one of them and go for the kill.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:39:24 2013 No.6721995
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>>6721980
I think you don't understand what I look for in a female. I want a relationship, not "getting laid", sorry.

>>6721975
a) I use my brain to gauge the situation, I'm not liking any of neither sides.
b) I won't, I like using my brain to the maximum of it's function to play a videogame. The upper bracket of both game is full of elitism, it's literally the same thing.
c) I could actually listen to this, take better care of my aesthetics. It's not that important, but thanks for the feelings.
d) Which standards? I don't have any standards. I have not even said anything about this.

>>6721990
2/10, get some critical thinking skills.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:39:53 2013 No.6721996 >>6721992 >Make female friends at a con or whatever How do I go about doing this without being invasive or getting in the way?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:39:53 2013 No.6721997 >>6721986 You're right, I'm so sorry! I shame myself. May Oda never take another break

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:43:23 2013 No.6722002
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>>6721996
I'd tell you, but the internet made me feel like a fucking creep whatever I do. It's so hard to even talk to a female without thinking she's thinking I will rape her.

God fucking damnit this is so stupid.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:44:54 2013 No.6722010
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>>6721967
>implying i can't boner time in my sleep
>implying boner doesn't happen randomly
>implying Dick asked for it

>>6721952
pic related, learn to let go of these fucks, otherwise they will consume you...

>>6721942
i get what you were trying to say, maybe that's just 'cuz i'm a dood tho...
i'm guessing you're in 'MURICA like myself?
'cuz the laws are skewed in a lot of circumstances, like rape, possession and custody of your offspring...
if you rigged the rules in your favor that hard, why imply that you're still playing the same game?

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:45:24 2013 No.6722017 File: 2.89 MB, 320x200, this_isnt_even_my_final_form.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722010 I'm Canadian.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:45:53 2013 No.6722012 >>6721996 Approach a female with the idea in mind that the moment you are invasive or getting in the way, you leave. Cosplay, take photos of others, attend panels/dances. Smile, and put away the sex for the first 5 minutes.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:45:53 2013 No.6722013

>>6721996
If they start off as strangers do what I/people that made friends with me did maybe: have a cool time even if it's a brief convo you KNOW you both enjoyed and leave them whatever internet contact you have while still being relevant to what you're talking about.
"Oh, I post a lot of this on my tumblr/...pinterest I guess? I'm not up on the best social media"
They may say
"OH, what's your tumblr[/internet thing you're on]"
THERE YOU GO!!!

If nothing remotely like that comes up, maybe it's just lousy luck or you can find another way to keep in touch that's relevant to both your interests.

I kind of want more friends like that too, so I guess that's what I'll be doing
"

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:45:53 2013 No.6722014
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>>6721996
In the interest of getting this thread SORT OF back on track (because what the hell), this is a good question.

I want to open dialogue with someone cute/seems cool, but I also wanna respect that she might just want to get her con on without having a dude all up in her grill. How do I do it?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:46:23 2013 No.6722020

>>6721995
Let me clarify, then: We tried to help you become a better person, worthy of a relationship, since you speak like someone not worthy of 80% of the population's attention, much less a relationship.

We failed, most likely. You seem unhelpable as well.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:46:23 2013 No.6722021

>>6721996
I don't think I'm qualified to give you advice meant for dudes, but something I noticed from my own adolescence was that people really hate it when you act like you're not good enough to hang out with them or talk to them or whatever. Try not to come off as apologetic, but don't be an asshole. Show you're interested in other people without being the "ay bby gurl u want sum fuk" guy. People often go to cons to meet others who like the things they do, so your best bet is to find people who share your interests, be it a certain game or anime. Striking up a conversation may fail at first and some people will be too stuck up or uninterested to talk to you. Don't worry about those people. For every nerd with an upturned nose, there are probably 100 of them who would grab your arm to tell you about Precure or Homestuck.

If you're literally autistic, this might be difficult. You have to be able to recognize when someone doesn't want you around and move onto the next schmuck when this occurs, or else you will waste your time.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:47:53 2013 No.6722024 >>6722020 If I'm worth something to 20% of the world, I'll take it. You know that's a lot of nice people, right?

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:50:23 2013 No.6722028 File: 510 KB, 324x216, laser_quest_in_brazil.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722021 >Precure sweatman.png

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:50:23 2013 No.6722029

>>6722002

Step 1: Erase that thought

Your thoughts play out in your actions and even if people can't read your mind, they can read your hesitation and fill in the blanks.

Think positive thoughts and be mindful of finding things in common. Try to put yourself in her shoes and actually think in her best interests.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:50:23 2013 No.6722030 >>6722024 Not the 20% I was setting aside for you there. No, it's mostly unpleasant middle to old aged men there. I guess they'd like you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:51:59 2013 No.6722034 >>6722002 Honestly, I think people are trying to save you from yourself, because you're coming across as someone who's really creepy IRL

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:52:00 2013 No.6722038 >>6722024 The fact that you'll 'settle' makes you appear more desperate and the more desperate you act the harder it is to find someone. The way you stop settling is you improve yourself. Your natural 'standards' grow with your personal growth.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:54:31 2013 No.6722040 >>6722002 >talk to a female >a female That right there is one of your problems.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:55:31 2013 No.6722044 >>6722040 Let's not be hard on the guy either. He's figured out what sex he likes, don't be a jerk.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:56:30 2013 No.6722047
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>>6722030
Eh, I'll be with them then. They seems to be logical and diverse.

>>6722034
Ho? How come? I'm definitely not aware of that.

>>6722029
I see, that's pretty thoughtful. I'll keep that in mind.

>>6722038
Yes... and? What?

>>6722040
My english is one of my problems? Welp.

>>6722044
ho yeah gurl, u kno it hurr

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:57:30 2013 No.6722051 >>6722044 I'm betting missionary, lights off, eyes closed. Wait a minute

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:58:30 2013 No.6722057 >>6722044 It's not suggesting he should go for men. It's that referring to a woman as "a female" sets off tons of red flags, because it's associated with "nice guys" and a general attitude that women are a separate species.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 18:59:03 2013 No.6722062

>>6722047

When you stop sucking, people who suck less will also be interested in you, so in turn what you're 'used' to receiving for attention will have a more positive reception.

People aren't logical and diverse simply because they accept or acknowledge you. That's how you delude yourself into your own corner and nobody will want to play with you, brat.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 18:59:31 2013 No.6722059 File: 3.00 MB, 320x180, notsureifwant.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722051 c-can the hands t-touch?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:00:00 2013 No.6722066 >>6722051 I've fucked in public. Why are you people awful at guessing shit.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:00:31 2013 No.6722065
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>>6722057
I mean, English is not my first language and I never knew there was even a nuance to for this. Thanks for the English lesson, sensei.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:01:00 2013 No.6722072 >>6722065 OOOH, you're a French Canadian too? This explains..... sooo much....

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:01:30 2013 No.6722071 >>6722057 I think anon was joking around (at least I kinda hope)

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:02:00 2013 No.6722074 >>6722057 But see, he didn't say everything you just said. You simply prejudged someone over 1 word. You are not a professional profiler, no one is paying you, this individual will not rape you, calm down, etc.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:03:30 2013 No.6722076 File: 293 KB, 983x881, 1363654625067.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6720886 y-you can pee on me anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:05:00 2013 No.6722083 >>6722002 >It's so hard to even talk to a female without thinking she's thinking I will rape her. I'm really getting the feeling that you're a fucking creepy guy. I'm socially awkward as fuck, but I can still hold a fucking conversation with a woman.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:05:00 2013 No.6722084
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>>6722062
Now you're starting with the ad-hominem over absolutely nothing. If you want an intelligent conversation, you should refrain from using that kind of language. As of your statement, you're making such huge statements it would take me about 2 hours of writing to say everything that's needed to say to defend myself.

>>6722072
What does that explains? I'm always amazed at the shit people try to come up with.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:05:00 2013 No.6722085 >>6722074 >this individual will not rape you, calm down, etc. Let's be honest here. If you were a cute petite girl that looked like that 2hu he likes (chouli or something) and stood next to him in an empty room in an empty mall - he probably would.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:05:30 2013 No.6722082 >>6722066 Lyper, not you...

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:06:00 2013 No.6722086 >>6722074 It's a shitty way to refer to a woman, full stop. And it smacks of the sweaty underarms of a fat MRA's t-shirt. Fuck yourself

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:07:00 2013 No.6722089 >>6722074 Dude, he's kinda rapey

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:09:01 2013 No.6722093 >>6722083 I know, right? He's making it seem like he's either THINKING about doing it or gets way too close for comfort ALL the time and it makes conversations almost impossible. THEN he starts talking

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:09:01 2013 No.6722094

>>6722084
Because you remind me so much of this guy
http://www.youtube.com/user/BroTeamPill/videos
I couldn't figure out why until now. He's also fat, virgin and a French Canadian.

But he also says bad jokes in a good way. You say bad jokes in a bad way.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:10:00 2013 No.6722096
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>>6722085
Ho god, I give a fucking 10 bucks you're the dude that made that steam account with the patchouli called "LypersWaifu".

That was hilarious. Anyway, the only thing I can say for myself, while nobody knows me anyway, I'm not psychotic. I have no mental problems, as the medicine defines them.

I'm just bad with girls because I've been fat all my life and played videogames. That's all there is to it. You can lose the fat pretty fast, to lose a life of having this attitude is much more harder.

>>6722083
I can, but I can't START a conversation. Once it's started I am a really nice talkative person, but to approach a girl is welp tough shit buddy.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:10:30 2013 No.6722095 File: 74 KB, 1280x720, 1338696343134.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722086 I say male and female exclusively and I'm a ~female~. What are you gonna do about it, faggot?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:11:00 2013 No.6722101 >>6722084 If I wanted intelligent conversation, I wouldn't be coming to /cgl/ to talk to you about International Relations. >>6722085 That isn't for you to decide if he would or wouldn't.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:11:30 2013 No.6722099 >>6722095 Timestamp or gtfo. Girls don't use the f***** word.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:12:01 2013 No.6722103 >>6722074 >judged over 1 word But he's a tripfag, we have plenty of past experience to judge him by.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:13:00 2013 No.6722106 File: 92 KB, 300x365, 1361804191385.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722099 Eh, you're pretty subtle. Someone might fall for it. 7/10. I saw you on /x/ too.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:14:30 2013 No.6722107

>>6722096
...no I just saw your name on /vg/ chat and when I checked your Steam Profile (to see if even losers like you have more friends on Steam than I do) I saw a pic of a naked loli girl in your friend list. I thought you were some sort of moron who roleplays his own cartoon girlfriend who pretends she likes him... which still seems more legit than what you're telling me.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:15:00 2013 No.6722111

>>6722103
This so much.

I mean he's the last bastion of the "pedophile creeper noncosplayer crew" of 2012 (which used to be lead by Cpt. Falcone) - all the others either stopped posting, or (more unfortunately) started dropping trip so that I can't filter them. Why don't we make fun of him because of that?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:15:30 2013 No.6722110 >>6722095 Meet me by the jungle gym, 3p.m. fucker, refer to me by my sex like a loser to my face see what happens.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:16:30 2013 No.6722113
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>>6722101
Welp, I see.

>>6722103
I rarely post here. Plenty of past experience? Am I missing something?

>>6722107
>roleplay with myself
I must say that would be hilarious. Are you like doing an investigation to know what I get off to too?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:17:00 2013 No.6722118

>>6722084

If I wanted intelligent conversation, I would talk about things like International Relations. I won't find truly meaningful conversation on that level here

>>6722085

You don't know that, you can't decide for him.

>>6722086

It's also a word to define a gender. You're also just as quick to judge; can I say that because you're on /cgl/ that if I guessed you were among the fuggo seacows with awful costume construction, would I be on the money?

Statistically I'm likely to guess right. Enjoy your homestuck. I can also look like an assbag and work off of assumption like you, all day

>>6722089

Proof?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:18:30 2013 No.6722120 >>6722113 No, I'm just checking every time I see a /cgl/ poster in there. So far I saw you, smoker, that Arab guy who doesn't speak English and Voldemort.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:19:01 2013 No.6722124

>>6722111
>Pedophile
The irony of this statement is that it's one of the few shit I really hate about the whole /a/-/jp/ mentality. I can't prove an undisprovable statement, I can only say so much.

>>6722120
Smoker is a bro. Holy shit he's bad at DotA, but fuck he's fun to play with.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:19:01 2013 No.6722125 >>6722118 >that ferocious whiteknighting of a tripfag no one likes I see, you must be this "LypersWaifu" totally-not-Lyper-guy. Or wait... oh shit. Not again. Fucking Falcone. I guess pedo creeps stick together?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:19:01 2013 No.6722127

>>6722012
I've been told that I assume too much about what other people think about me, and since I have social anxiety issues, it's tough. But I don't want to go too far the other way and be in the way without realizing it.

I've been watching this guy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jYBsjkag5Bo&list=PLFDC8930B4ECAD00C
to tell myself what NOT to do.

>>6722013
I don't have any social media profiles. Will my cellphone number and/or email be enough?

Maybe I need to get a social network. It would bother me in terms of privacy and the way people generally act on them, but part of me thinks it would be a good thing.

I have friends that are girls in school, but it never gets past the occasional conversation in the classroom. I guess it's partially my fault for not being assertive/talkative enough, but then that gets back to my point of not wanting to get in the way. I'm an 18-year-old high schooler, so I'm hoping that college will be better. Anyways, I'm blogging about my life, so I'll stop there.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:19:01 2013 No.6722128 >>6722072 Dose Quebecers, eh?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:20:01 2013 No.6722130 >>6722103 Anons have a history of misinformation, especially on /cgl/. You can't trust the assumptive information here

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:20:01 2013 No.6722132 >>6722124 Yes, I once watched his replay and holy shit, it just hurt to watch him trying to be funny yet being so horrible at everything he does at the same time. Is he even Silver?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:21:00 2013 No.6722133 >>6722095 Hunt you down

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:21:00 2013 No.6722134
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>>6722110
FEMALE

FEMALE FEMALE FEMALE

Get at me, bitch nigga. I'll rip your arms off and beat you with the drippy ends.

>>6722124
>Smoker is a bro
Okay, see, now I know why these people dislike you. They are latent psychics.

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:22:00 2013 No.6722136
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>>6722124
Ho, and btw, that means I don't like Lolicon and I wouldn't even touch cp or the likes with a 10 foot pole.

>>6722125
Who the fuck is this "Falcone"? And you're probably that anon that spouts "Pedophilia" like it's something.

>>6722132
He's like at 25% I think. So he's in the really shit tier.

People get better, I believe in him!
>>6722134
What?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:22:30 2013 No.6722135 >>6722127 Yeah, or how about skype? AIM, even. E-mail is nice, but IM is more likely to net you more conversation time and it's more casual

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:23:00 2013 No.6722137 >>6722118 It defines sex, not gender. How do you not know a basic thing like that and then go on and on about 'intelligent conversation'? Stop embarrassing yourself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:24:00 2013 No.6722140 >>6722127 Print out some fucking business cards with a rad logo and your e-mail on them Bitches love business cards

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:25:00 2013 No.6722143
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No seriously, who is this "Falcone" guy and what is even being said about me? High school misinformation really amazes me.

I was once said by someone in HS I was doing cocaine while playing computer games. For some fucking reason.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:25:31 2013 No.6722141

>>6722118
>It's also a word to define a gender.
"Man" and "woman" are the generally used terms used to describe adult humans. "Male" and "female" are generally used only in medical settings to describe a patient or in scientific settings to describe a subject or non-human animal. Using "male" or "female" in place of "man" and "woman" in other settings gives the implication that you consider yourself separate and "above" them. Neckbeards have a tendency to use "man" and "female", which is why it sets off red flags for a lot of people.

tl;dr words can have subtleties, context is important

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:26:00 2013 No.6722145 >>6722130 You say that as if we anons are incapable of reading posts ourselves.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:26:00 2013 No.6722146

>>6722125

You said nothing to refute the points I've made, just a baseless assumption. It's like you don't read jack shit

>>6722127

Just try to appeal to people's interests, be mindful of their motivations. When you speak to someone for the first time, don't be hung up on the moment. The more relaxed and naturally let the words roll off, the more at ease you'll put your audience.

Social anxiety is ok! In fact, being forthcoming about being a little shy at first can cue the other person in and they will try a little more to meet you half way in conversation.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:26:31 2013 No.6722144 >>6722134 I'll fight you too nigga we can form a gang fight It'll be just like West Side Story but less gay

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:27:12 2013 No.6722148 >>6722143 >No seriously, who is this "Falcone" guy A cancerous tripfag. Some people think he stopped posting but all he did is stop tripping. Aka he's the worst kind of tripfag.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:27:12 2013 No.6722149 >>6722134 FUCK YOU I'm gonna BEFRIEND the SHIT OUT OF YOU and you will REFER TO ME by my NAME and then a NICKNAME which you will CREATE and then how you gonna call me female, eh? YOU CAN'T, IT'LL BE TOO LATE

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:28:12 2013 No.6722150 Can we move past lyper's social ineptitude now

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:29:00 2013 No.6722156
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>>6722144
Why can't it be just as gay?
Or perhaps gayer.

Let's be gayer than West Side Story.

In fact, forget the gang fight. Let's just have gay sex.

>>6722149
I'll call you by your name in private and then when we see others, I will introduce you as "My FEMALE friend Anon-chan." And you will love it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:29:30 2013 No.6722155 >>6722136 >>6722136 > And you're probably that anon that spouts "Pedophilia" like it's something. Ladies and gentlemen. We were right all along. Don't let this guy procreate and don't ever let him next to little girls. /thread

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:32:13 2013 No.6722160
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>>6722149
fund it, now. AotY.

>>6722155
Why are you trying to take everything out of context so much? People like you make me sad. You're playing a little game of cat and mouse, while waiting for the next post to say something out of context again.

Welp. I just fucking said that because you use the term to probably even refer to 16 years old and up.

If I date a 21 years old you'd call me a pedophile, right?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:34:31 2013 No.6722169 >>6720165 P-please add me, here's my steam account /id/fempowered

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:36:00 2013 No.6722178 File: 137 KB, 471x750, Volume_107.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] does anyone want to be my gf I have no social life and like jojo and a bunch of moeshit pls respond

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:37:01 2013 No.6722179 File: 105 KB, 456x356, spaghettifrog.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722169 >keep your spaghettis in your pocket It begins.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:37:01 2013 No.6722180 >>6722156 >In fact, forget the gang fight. Let's just have gay sex. *gayng sex [godiwishcglhadspoilertags]But I'm a guy, how will it be gay if everyone else is a woman[/thiswouldhavemuchbetterdramaticeffect]

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:38:00 2013 No.6722182 >>6722180 Have sex with Lyper, duh.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:39:00 2013 No.6722185 File: 203 KB, 1024x1152, 1298354403338.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722182

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:39:30 2013 No.6722183 >>6722156 >implying I won't pretend to hate it B-baka..! Introducing me to your other friends like we have a significant relationship!

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:40:01 2013 No.6722187

>>6722135
I'll probably get a skype at some point. One of my friends and cousins were bugging me and trying to get me to sign up on Facebook or Skype.

>>6722140
That's a normal thing to do? Hand out business cards instead of just a scrap of paper with a phone number?

>>6722146
>When you speak to someone for the first time, don't be hung up on the moment.
I do have trouble with this.

>Social anxiety is ok! In fact, being forthcoming about being a little shy at first can cue the other person in and they will try a little more to meet you half way in conversation.
How should I bring this up? If there's a silence or break in the conversation, should I say "sorry, I'm terrible at having conversations" and laugh about it?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:40:30 2013 No.6722186 >>6722182 [fuckingspoiler]Since when is he part of the gang fight Also, he clearly doesn't know how[/spoiler]

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:42:00 2013 No.6722197 >>6722187 >That's a normal thing to do? Hand out business cards instead of just a scrap of paper with a phone number? Not really, but some people find that kind of thing cute if you're confident enough pulling it off.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:42:30 2013 No.6722195
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>>6722180
>>6722182
Great idea anon. We'll cut off Lyper's dick, sew it onto a belt, and use it to have gay intercourse.

Everybody wins.

>>6722183
That's okay my female compadre Anon-chan. I like a good challenge. Would you like to join our gay sex?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:42:30 2013 No.6722196 >>6722187 >How should I bring this up? If there's a silence or break in the conversation, should I say "sorry, I'm terrible at having conversations" and laugh about it? Yeah, that or 'Sorry, I'm kind of shy' works, just laugh it off.

>>	Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 19:43:31 2013 No.6722199 File: 6 KB, 334x330, 1300404633160.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722195 N-not everybody wins...

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:43:31 2013 No.6722202 >>6722169 >>6720165 >>6720165 m-m-me too pls! steamcommunity.com/id/lumberjackgirl

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:44:31 2013 No.6722204 >>6722199 Just go with it lyper, this is the best chance you have of getting some

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:44:31 2013 No.6722205 >>6720165 And my axe! http://steamcommunity.com/id/basedTubbi

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:45:01 2013 No.6722209 >>6722202 >>6722169 >Both joined on the same date, only have played Dota, have barely played

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:47:31 2013 No.6722216 >>6722209 That's weird... B-but I'm a girl for sure and I am not like them at all! steamcommunity.com/id/yukapon

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:48:30 2013 No.6722219 >>6722216 oh lawd, I think I lost it

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:49:00 2013 No.6722224 >>6722209 Tells me the first one's private. Are you a wizard?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:51:00 2013 No.6722226 >>6722224 Didja get the link right http://steamcommunity.com/id/fempowered

smoker !HOZlQYR1MY Mon Mar 25 19:51:00 2013 No.6722228
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LYPER-SAN.

S-SNAP OUT OF IT! FOR YOUR FEELS WILL NEVER BE MET WITH ANYTHING UNTIL THEY ARE MIGHTY FEELS THAT WILL PIERCE THE FEEL SKY! IF ONLY YOU LISTENED TO ME MORE, THEN SHE WOULD BE YOURS AND THE WORLD WOULD BE AT YOUR FINGER TIPS!

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:55:00 2013 No.6722234
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What the hell is going on in this thread?

To answer OP's question, I would probably do it if I was single. Is it possible to meet friends in speed dating? That might be a silly question since it is "dating" but I just want to know. Ever since meeting my boyfriend I've found myself locked in a room along with losing the ability to socialise with people with the occasional take away given to me by my significant other.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:57:00 2013 No.6722240 >>6722234 Some cons have speed-friending

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 19:58:00 2013 No.6722241

>>6722187

Mmm, sort of. Instead of prefixing it with an apology, just say what it is, if it's the truth you don't have to be sorry about
it.

And if it's the truth it'll reflect in your actions, it's the difference that makes shyness creepy or endearing. Your thoughts will betray you, so if you're constantly thinking all the ways it could go wrong, it likely will. Just don't think anything and be in the present. Thinking too far ahead and you'll make plans that aren't there, too far behind and you'll miss cues in the moment.

Think good thoughts, positive thoughts, and think in mutual best interests.

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:02:31 2013 No.6722248
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>>6722240
So it's possible for me to make friends then? Most of the people I'm surrounded by are normalfags so this would be a breath of fresh air. How exciting.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:08:30 2013 No.6722263 >>6722241 >>6722196 >>6722197 I'll keep these in mind! I appreciate it. Would it be appropriate to say "I'm new to conventions, so I'm trying to make friends with common interests"?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:10:00 2013 No.6722270 >>6722248 Oh great, that's what we needed, more tripfags who don't want to be ignored.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:14:01 2013 No.6722277 File: 451 KB, 813x627, 1.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722270 I've always thought it would be neat to meet 4chan tripfags IRL.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:15:31 2013 No.6722280 File: 15 KB, 317x382, 1360176324993.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] WHAT THE SHIT IS HAPPENING IN THIS THREAD?! I leave asking when these mofos will do another dating panel and you inbreds fuck this up!?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:16:00 2013 No.6722284 >>6722283 it's happening

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:16:30 2013 No.6722283 >>6722280 I'm so sorry anon I tried to stop it

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:23:30 2013 No.6722295 >>6722270 Using an avatarfag's usual character =/= tripfag

Lyper !!gAyq5lzi952 Mon Mar 25 20:28:00 2013 No.6722301
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So yeah, sorry guys, I have some DotA to master. Speed dating is a nice thing, to answer OP. I think it's mostly speed friending more than anything else, but it's nice to find similar interest people.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:52:00 2013 No.6722347 >>6722195 Yes

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:52:00 2013 No.6722349

>>6721393
>>6721415
According to her followup video/comments, the producers were the ones who basically persuaded them to visit his parents on their first date. She was really uncomfortable with it; his house is all the way in Jersey and she wasted four hours of the Sunday of NYCC, and regretted being on the show at that point.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 20:58:30 2013 No.6722365 >>6722301 More like speed friend zoning.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 21:05:30 2013 No.6722378 File: 338 KB, 1176x959, 1358559209606.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722365

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 21:21:00 2013 No.6722420 >tfw I want to try speed dating at a con for shits and giggles, but can't because gf

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 21:24:30 2013 No.6722424 File: 45 KB, 475x400, 1353717440140.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Is there a schedule of what con(s) are having speed dating events? I'm in.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 21:34:00 2013 No.6722448 De fat

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 21:40:00 2013 No.6722461 >>6722420 I had the same idea until I saw the room was full of 30 something tanks

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 22:44:17 2013 No.6722664

>>6722277

I'm anon but once you get over the anti establishment hipster phase, tripfags consistently are more fun to hang out with than anons.

Whenever I've splintered off with other anons at conventions, it's usually anons making fun of other people having more fun. I just couldn't do with the extra attention tripfagging brings online

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:08:47 2013 No.6722728 File: 525 KB, 1280x800, m3gnnnHdbx1ru7hdio2_1280.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] How popular are virgin nerds who watch moe anime and buy games for the cute girls in this thing? Assuming average looking and not too autistic.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:16:47 2013 No.6722743 /cgl/ im scared how do I be a more attractive guy and keep myself away from thinking speed dating is a good idea?

Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:23:47 2013 No.6722762

>>6722743
Take care of yourself. Don't dress like a slob; flatter your body. Have a good haircut. Staying clean-shaved can help you look younger (looking older can make you seem intimidating depending on what age group you're hoping to date). If you have facial hair, keep it well-groomed and not douchey or "ironic" (e.g. curly moustaches). Try to stay in relatively good shape. Caring about your appearance is attractive, so long as you're not some vain dbag about it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:27:17 2013 No.6722769 >>6722248 Pls Elsie-anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:31:47 2013 No.6722779 I would do this except I pass for socially normal. Too awkward

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:46:17 2013 No.6722821 >>6722728 What anime/game/midia are these girls from?

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:47:47 2013 No.6722826 File: 137 KB, 1280x720, 1291539449231.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6722821

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:49:17 2013 No.6722832 >>6722826 I reverse searched on tineye and ended up with no results at all. But, hey, thanks, I guess posting an image is a thousand times easier than just saying.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:50:47 2013 No.6722835 >>6722821 hyper neptunia

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:57:48 2013 No.6722861 >>6722762 O-oh. I meant more about attitude/personality.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 25 23:58:17 2013 No.6722866 >>6722861 >how do I be a more attractive guy Ah, you probably should have been more specific than this. What are you normally like?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 00:01:17 2013 No.6722873 >>6722835 Thank you, anon~

Anonymous Tue Mar 26 00:26:48 2013 No.6722923

>>6722866

Chubby, could lose some weight and heading back to the gym to fix that, big frame, personality is kind of awkawrd I guess? I joke a lot and I can go on for hours about stuff but I find myself really bad at small talk and introductions. I guess I'm annoying too, or so I've been told, people say I always have to comment on something.

Anonymous Tue Mar 26 01:11:47 2013 No.6722992

>>6722923
I used to be really awkward and bad at conversation, I still am a little bit, but I've improved a lot. And sadly there's no trick to it. It just comes from lots of practice.

The qualities you like in other people are probably the same things you should strive for yourself. Show interest in other people, don't dominate a conversation talking about yourself; ask questions and really listen. Be genuine and friendly. Make jokes if a good one comes to you, but don't force yourself or feel the need to make jokes all the time. Stuff like that.

I wish I could give more helpful advice as far as getting over my own social problems, but it's hard to explain. I guess if you have specific questions I can try to answer them.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 01:20:17 2013 No.6723008 >>6722923 Damn son you're unattractive as fuck. How tall are you?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 01:22:17 2013 No.6723012 >>6723008 6'0 ;_; I have a mesomorph type body but I have a linebacker type frame, very broad. I'm losing weight and I have a decent face, and thick hair so I'm not worried about all that but I'm worried over my personality.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 01:51:47 2013 No.6723065 part of me wants to go in a shirtless cosplay to one of these things, as I'm ottermode, just to see the differing reactions I'd get.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 01:57:18 2013 No.6723078 >>6722424 i keep seeing this character but don't know where it 's from and or why the honking intensifies... halp?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 02:05:17 2013 No.6723089 >>6723078 Its a girl named Chen

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 02:21:17 2013 No.6723117 >>6723089 it's also a champion in dota

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 26 07:44:29 2013 No.6723461 >>6722923 >>6723012 I'd ask if you were me, but I don't go to /cgl/ to bitch about my problems.

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