Tell me about your community

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Anonymous Fri Nov 16 17:59:10 2012 No.6421158 [Reply] [Original]

Tell me about your community

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:00:10 2012 No.6421159 Its shit.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:04:41 2012 No.6421164 Don't really belong to one, Not interested in belonging to one. I'd actually just like one or two Lolita friends. Max is two.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:06:40 2012 No.6421170 My ex used to go to meets all the time She used to make sure I knew about her hobby, which I didn't mind at all I knew more than the people she met with and I probably look better in a dress as well

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:07:10 2012 No.6421175 The War or the Derps. One comm has declared an war against the main comm because they're "Evil Goblin Lolitas".

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:09:10 2012 No.6421182 When I moved to Chicago last year I meant to attend meetups but I became too scared... Are Lolita's there nice?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:14:43 2012 No.6421190 Is there a group for Washington DC lolitas on facebook?

Captain Insaneway !!6gMVhmbBzln Fri Nov 16 18:19:42 2012 No.6421201

It's awesome.

Everybody seems super nice and well-dressed and I'm excited to participate more. There are also a couple of girls who look really amazing in the fashion and are just general lolita inspiration for me, which is great too.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:20:42 2012 No.6421205

my community is full of elitists who make fun of people for liking anime and not owning brand.
"everyone that likes anime is a fucking obsessed creeper"-says the girl who has a literal shrine of mana in her house
"if you aren't wearing brand, you might as well not wear lolita at all. bodyline is mass produced and looks like shit, and we all know fanplusfriend sells nonprint replicas."

I have been to only two meetups.. but its apperantly always like this. I felt so uncomfortable there.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:34:53 2012 No.6421241 I'm tired of my comm being full of noobs and itas that I stopped going to meetups. > Should I buy from Bodyline? > I bought something from Milanoo! > What do you think about this (non-lolita) outfit?

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:39:23 2012 No.6421255

>>6421205
I'm always curious when this is mentioned. Have people seen said shrine of Mana? Or does she just bring this up in conversation?

Either way, bitch has no business telling people what's 'creepy'. I like Mana and all, but not enough to build a shrine to him.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 18:56:09 2012 No.6421295 >>6421255 its on her tumblr somewhere. If you want I'll try to find it. Its complete with candles, photos, the works.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:01:05 2012 No.6421301 >>6421205 >bodyline is mass produced So are the fucking brands? All it means is that it goes through a factory instead of being made by hand. Wtf.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:03:14 2012 No.6421309
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>>6421205
found (part) of her mana shrine.

if anyone MENTIONS any anime the whole lolita group gets pissy with you
"all guys that like anime will molest you and are creepy stalkers"

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:04:24 2012 No.6421314 we're really laid back and most of us love animu. Can't wait to talk about the new eva movie, there's a meet tomorrow!

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:08:54 2012 No.6421323
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>>6421205
I know who you are, and you are not the only one who felt uncomfortable at those meet-ups. Imagine it from our perspectives.
Get a job, a life and a car. You are way too old to entertain these childish fantasies of 'designing your own lolita clothing' while living like a parasite off've your parents--especially when you know nothing about the fashion outside of your ebay-quality anime cosplay. Frankly, you don't belong in a lolita comm. I'm not sure you even know what lolita is. Beyond that, you're taking two instances of behavior from people who are known to be the extremists of the community and judging the entire group en masse by their behavior. You're a bitch, and I regret the time wasted making your acquaintance and the effort taken to ignore your blatant weeaboo blundering out of pity.
Also, your attempts to be cute by going 'nya' at random intervals are childish and incredibly tiresome.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:10:54 2012 No.6421327 >>6421323 >I know who you are not that person, sorry. could it be that more than ONE person thinks most of the lolitas in your comm have shitty personalities? gasp

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:14:54 2012 No.6421333 File: 601 KB, 320x181, gagaaaa-o.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6421309 Ooo you got burned >>6421323

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:15:15 2012 No.6421337 >>6421327 Oh, you gave away a lot about yourself already. We've met before, remember?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:18:10 2012 No.6421342 File: 448 KB, 500x243, tumblr_m9a2wfqF491r8oo25o1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] > This thread

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:20:40 2012 No.6421353 Mine's awesome and I love it, but we don't get to meet up very often. D:

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:22:40 2012 No.6421358 I love 75% of my comm. The other 25% is tolerable, but very weebish and annoying at times. But nothing crazy.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:24:40 2012 No.6421363 Even though I do not take part in it, it is home to the infamous meow_tan.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:25:11 2012 No.6421364 Since we're talking about this, anyone have any advice to how to deal with weeby itas in your comms?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:25:40 2012 No.6421365 >>6421309 >Tainted Reality poster Oh, she's crazy alright.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:27:46 2012 No.6421366 >>6421364 I ignore them as much as possible. Just talk to the girls in your comm you get along with. If they ask for help and are interested in improving, offer it, but if they won't take advice, just leave it. Not worth the frustration.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:29:16 2012 No.6421374

>>6421364
I'm sorry to point out the obvious, but all Lolitas are weeby to an extent. Nobody 'accidentally' stumbles upon the BSSB website, y'know? It takes a certain (quite high) level of otaku interests to pay attention to Japanese fashion subcultures and read about each of them individually AND become so immersed into it that you JUST NEED to look like that too. Not to mention that listening to J-rock/Visual Kei and worshiping Mana or other Japanese artists doesn't exactly help lolitas break away from that 'weeaboo' title.
Just putting it out there.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:33:17 2012 No.6421380 >>6421374 But, liking that stuff doesn't make you or anyone else a weeb, ya kno?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:34:16 2012 No.6421381 >>6421358 This is how I feel about my comm. Apparently there's a bit of drama every now and again but none of it has touched me at all. We can be pretty cruel to itas though.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:37:25 2012 No.6421383

>>6421363
Meow_tan is from the Rochester, NY community, right? I live in Rochester and I've been wondering what the community is like here since I only recently got into the fashion. I would like to get involved and make some friends, but all I ever hear about it involves Tempest.

I know you said you don't take part, but do you or anyone else here know anything more about the Rochester comm?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:39:55 2012 No.6421389 >>6421380 Liking that stuff on its own doesn't make you a weeb really. Erecting a shrine does.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:40:56 2012 No.6421394 >>6421374 There's being interested in Japan in a mature way, and there's omg gaiz Japan is teh best!! nyan kawaii desu, you know. The latter gets really annoying after a while.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:41:55 2012 No.6421397
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I'm an /a/non first and a lolita second however I feel at every meet up I've gone to before I've never mentioned how much of a huge fujoshi I am. The meets I've gone to so far have been nice though there's a meet coming up that I think their ideas of what to do are pretty stupid and one person suggested a place then says how terrible the place was to attend later in comments. I may just not go to the meet if they pick someone thing and just go to a Big Lebowski screening instead.

There's a few other events happening in the community but I'm just not going because I have no interest in sitting around drinking tea. On the other hand I've met some lovely girls though at a few of the bigger events I've felt like I've put on a slight persona as to not make everyone think I'm a creepy /a/non in nice clothing. Mostly everyone is really well dressed at the ones I've been to before too which I love. I put a lot of effort into my co-ords and I love looking fabulous with a bunch of other good lolitas.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:52:29 2012 No.6421414

I haven't gone to a meetup yet and the next one has been planned by a creepy weeb so it's probably not happening, once again.

In my comm it seems made up of like 50% good lolita, 50% ita or weebs that dont even wear lolita. I cant figure out which events to go to that wont be just full of the latter half. Weh :c

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:55:59 2012 No.6421422

>>6421374
Actually, I did just stumble onto lolita fashion. I wasn't interested in anime or manga, I was only interested in unique fashion. I've always been interested in clothes or fashion, and so started googling stuff. I found japanese street fashion by doing this, and then lolita. Still don't really have any interest in Japanese culture, don't know any japanese, don't know any animes except for what I've seen here and there on tv. So yeah, no weeb here.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 19:56:29 2012 No.6421423 My town doesn't have one.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:00:01 2012 No.6421433
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I hate it. I have been to about 3 meetups in my area and swear never to do another with these girls. I mean, they really try ~ the community has leveled up from ebay and milanoo to taobao and bodyline. The sad thing is, the girls are either entitled brats and immature bitches and I have yet to get to know one that hasn't disappointed me or left me out to dry... Even if they dressed nicely, I'm not sure I would want to go to their meetups.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:10:41 2012 No.6421449

>>6421337
Actually that quote from your comm,
"all guys that like anime will molest you and are creepy stalkers." Is really famous and has been referenced in these threads before. Your comm also has a reputation of being very snotty to noobs...so she actually revealed nothing.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:10:41 2012 No.6421450 Is there any in upstate NY? I'm not involved in the fashion, but I hear there's a huge lolcow in one of the groups in NY. I think she did a Yoko cosplay that was awfully shopped, I don't remember her name.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:19:43 2012 No.6421466 >>6421450 I think you're referring to Brittany Bors. She's also from Rochester, and friends with meow_tan, I believe.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:29:13 2012 No.6421478 >>6421466 They're friends? Oh lord.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:34:47 2012 No.6421489 >>6421190 No, it's just MD and NoVa

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:39:46 2012 No.6421495

>>6421374
Not all lolis are. There are a fair number (mainly classic or gothic lolis) who came to the fashion from non weebish areas. One of my best loli friends HATES Japan. (just mention the place and she will go off on a rant) She came to the style via the blouses showing up in searches for Victorian clothing.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:47:34 2012 No.6421509

My comm is lovely, but the girls who have tea parties and meets regularly are at an entirely different age and stage to me; those who are at the same age/stage have all left the community and don't bother with meet ups. I have met a few friends through the comm, but I don't bother with meetups that much any more as I'm too busy most of the time and I'd rather hang out with my friends.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 20:50:11 2012 No.6421518

>>6421449
Only one particular lolita said that on the boards.
>>6421309
>>if anyone MENTIONS any anime
>>Two lolita related events for the past two years at local ANIME con
How long ago was this, now? Someone holds a grudge for an eternity. Also, one girl =/= "ALL OF THEM HATE ANIME!!111"

Get over your bad interaction with one girl. You post in every thread about communities. Grow some tougher skin, get off 4chan and meet some lolis.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:05:47 2012 No.6421544 >>6421518 stop assuming and singling out people. there is more than one person that hates your shitty com.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:12:18 2012 No.6421554 >>6421544 What comm is this anyway?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:21:18 2012 No.6421575 >>6421554 If I'm remembering this correctly, I THINK it's Alabama?

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:21:48 2012 No.6421576

>>6421554
midsouth lolita meetup comm.

and on top of that we have our OWN pedophile brolita who jizzes his pants every time he puts on his dress, and is currently trying to hit on this 14 year old girl.

They like to blame everyone else "oh no, this community was perfectly fine until so-n-so started drama" no. the community is bad, and will always be bad. because they have shitty attitudes.

I have to admit, a couple of them are really really nice. but the overall bitchiness is so overwhelming its not worth the trouble.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:23:49 2012 No.6421582 [DELETED]

>>6421544
>>Singling out.
>>Assumes EVERYONE hates anime.
OK. But believe it or not, you're the only one(s) with the drama women. This post was more for "HEY MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE IT MORE THAN TWO CHANCES....3 YEARS AGO."

Also I will add one girl outed herself in all of these threads by posting their tumblr and also was the one who started the rumor of "EVERYONE HATES ANIME." So singling out is done on the basis of her being the ONLY one that experienced it.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:26:18 2012 No.6421589

>>6421449
Local from this comm. The first time I ever came to a lolita meet-up in this city, I was wearing all off-brand. The closest thing I had to owning actual lolita brand was Bodyline. I have no idea where you're getting this 'snotty to noobs' thing. Everyone was perfectly civil towards me, complimentary even. Since then I've expanded my wardrobe and become friends with several of the members of the comm, so I really think that this sounds like some kind of personal problem on your behalf, not the rest of the comm.

Also, why are you so offended by this one girl's 'shrine'? So she has a collection of Mana's merchandise. Other people collect video game paraphernalia or limited-edition vinyls or anime figurines. She works hard to be able to afford to support her hobby; honestly, I think that's pretty admirable.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:28:48 2012 No.6421596 [DELETED]

>>6421576
PROTIP: learn to reject men before they get to the point of admitting nasty secrets to you. It's obvious you were too socially awkward to push him away. The fact that you know what he's currently doing means you enjoy leading men on and getting favorable attention.

Honestly, the accusations made are untrue or outdated for most. You're the one who sounds bitchy. Nice facade. You sure like to pretend that you're a sweet girl, but you go out and judge more than anyone else does.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:33:00 2012 No.6421601

>my simple solution for those in the midsouth comm that don't like their comm shitalked about:
-nip those bitchy attitudes in the bud, if you see someone else being a bitch, change the subject, and if that doesn't work, call them out on it.
-stop the replica shaming. Its one thing to replica shame in your own time, but another to replica shame when someone is wearing a replica right next to you. this girl that wore the replica is wanting to leave lolita because of you girls. (replicas are bad but that was pretty damn bitchy of you)

its not that hard.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:39:50 2012 No.6421606

>>6421601
>>ASKS FOR CHANGE
>>HASN'T COME TO A MEETUP FOR YEARS
I pity the girl that wants to leave a fashion because of a group of girls that share a common hobby. If you're in this fashion for other women, then you're not doing it right. You're either "this girl" or just using some bullshit excuse to make the community sound worse. "LEAVING LOLITA" doesn't fucking exist.

I'M LEAVING THE INTERNET GUIZ

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:43:50 2012 No.6421611 >>6421606 your terrible attitudes are making our lolita community look even worse. I can understand, we all get very protective of our comm-but coming in and blasting a shitfest isn't really going to help us any. :/

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:47:20 2012 No.6421615 >>6421611 I'm not from this community.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:47:50 2012 No.6421617
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nyc comm has so much drama jesus christ. there are two different groups and the 'ita' group is always saying retarded shit and wearing ill-fitting replicas
also home to simply and mia carla SIGHS

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:53:21 2012 No.6421620 >>6421617 Mia Carla drama? You'll like this facebook. com/events/116436871830605/

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 21:55:51 2012 No.6421625 File: 778 KB, 830x608, wkeaop.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6421620 yeah i remember getting the invite to that event a while ago as soon as i saw this image and the people on the 'going' list i NOPE'd the fuck out of there

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>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:01:51 2012 No.6421631 >>6421629 >sponsored by yesstyle.com

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:02:52 2012 No.6421636
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>tfw just getting home from christmas event
>see drama about local lolita community

well.. they will probably think it is me...
I hope you are happy anon. you know that when something they don't like surfaces they all link eachother to it (hence the sudden influx of butthurt lolitas)
ugh.. I thought the drama was over. dammit...
why...

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:03:21 2012 No.6421637 File: 393 KB, 800x800, 1286769751556.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6421636 jesus christ its like a whiny gaiaonline gold begging post in lolita form

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>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:09:53 2012 No.6421649 >>6421637 I'm scared of my local comm, what can I say?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:14:59 2012 No.6421657 >>6421641 She writes like she has Downs Syndrome...I wouldn't trust her to run a damn thing.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:17:28 2012 No.6421664

There's one girl in my comm who kind of ruins it for everyone. She plans everything and think she runs the comm because she plans everything, going so far as to delete comments and when people say anything remotely criticizing about a place she picked she takes it as a personal attack. She has to make it about her all the time and jokes how she likes attention and buying brand for status but everyone knows it's not a joke. Her bf pushed a girl at a meet (another girls birthday party that she was forced to make a joint birthday party because her birthday happened to fall on the same day) which ripped her stockings and she couldn't even apologize, she just laughed. Then she got everyone to ditch her when she went to the bathroom. She acts like she knows everything and is really condescending to people. She tries to get all the new people Under her wing and if theyre weeby or not good dressers, she drops them. I've wanted to make a secret about it but I don't want to deal with the bad karma that comes from it, so I just hold it all in :/

She's better than a butt ton of weebs and noobs we have lately, though

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:20:58 2012 No.6421674 >>6421620 http://mialerda.wix.com/lolitadayny#!home/mainPage The event website

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:21:00 2012 No.6421675 File: 75 KB, 472x257, Ball.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6421620 If your guests don't know what a formal ball is, I have no hope for the event.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:38:31 2012 No.6421709 What is the Boston community like? I live in Cambridge and have thought about joining.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 22:49:01 2012 No.6421728 My community is really awesome, at least what I've experienced sofar. No drama. Everyone dresses decently to really well. No real sign of any itas. I see the itas all the time at conventions but they don't seem to attend any of the meetups.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:03:12 2012 No.6421765

>>6421709
A friend of mine has gone to a couple of the Boston meets. She said everyone is really nice. There are some itas, but they don't outnumber the well-dressed girls. I guess there's a brolita who is really dramatic and he likes to exclude people from meets he hosts and act like he's better than others in the group. That's all I know.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:23:51 2012 No.6421816

>>6421765
There's only one brolita that I can think of and I'm not sure what you mean by he excludes people? If anything he's overly accepting and waaaaaay too nice because he lets everyone wear whatever they want because everyone is special. That secret about that girl on btb a few months ago dressed in terribad decora inspired by lady gaga? Tht was his meet. >>6421664 is so obviously Boston it's not even funny

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:35:20 2012 No.6421838 >>6421816 Who's she talking about??

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:36:50 2012 No.6421843 >>6421838 Derp, I mean who is >>6421664 talking about. Not the brolita.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:38:51 2012 No.6421849 >>6421641 Why does she need 3 caterers? She's doing it wrong. Plus, most catering companies won't work with other ones because it becomes a mess.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:44:52 2012 No.6421857

>>6421709
I'm from the Boston comm. Everyone is really friendly, there are some newbies but there are also a lot of people who are really into the fashion. We get posted on secrets sometimes but we don't actually have that much drama during meets themselves.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:54:21 2012 No.6421882

>>6421843
>>6421838
I'm 99% sure that anon is talking about sew_sweet/Caitlin. Though I don't know for sure. But it makes sense if you think about it. I can see it because she's really nice to people's faces but doesn't actually feel that way and is could be viewed as prejudiced but I'd rather not elaborate on that

>>6421857

Tbh I think that's every comm ever. Nobody has balls enough or is childish enough to pop off at meets.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:56:56 2012 No.6421889 >>6421882 This is what I thought. She seems pretty chill though sometimes, I came over from the RI comm like last summer and she invited people to her house to toke up and stuff. Still though, something didn't seem right.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 23:57:57 2012 No.6421892 Pretty fucking empty to say in the least.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:00:56 2012 No.6421907 >>6421889 I think I know who you are, lol.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:02:26 2012 No.6421910 >>6421907 Hah, well hey then. I hope that's a good thing.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:04:56 2012 No.6421919 >>6421910 If you have a separate lolita Facebook I just sent you a message ahaha

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:10:49 2012 No.6421929

>>6421182
Chicago is huge so people tend to gravitate towards other people they seem to have things in common with so it can seem cliquey, however overall the lolitas in Chicago are really accepting of new members and love seeing new faces! There are girls who have never been to a meet-up before as well as girls who have been in the fashion for 7+ years and everything in between in Chicago. Join the facebook group and go to a meet or two to see how you like it!

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:14:17 2012 No.6421938 >>6421641 Reminds me of that Facebook post where the guy's like "YOU CALL ME GAY I HAVE THREE GIRLFRIEND"

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:50:59 2012 No.6422005 >>6421889 Oh man that's awesome. I wish I had another lolita to smoke with.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:51:29 2012 No.6422009

I used to love my comm but we had a couple of crazies that went off on everyone. They started attacking people in Facebook and being generally cray. But they weren't even really lolita either.

Then one girl went crazy post-election and told us all to go fuck ourselves for voting for Obama...

Then one girl sent me rude messages because I got into an artist alley and she didn't.

I just feel uncomfortable now. At first I only felt bad because the aforementioned girls pointed out how I have brand and they don't. I love about five girls but the rest make me not want to be involved at all.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 00:53:29 2012 No.6422014 >>6422005 Most of the comm smokes, it doesn't make her awesome. Shitty people smoke too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:01:00 2012 No.6422024 >>6422014 >>Shitty people smoke too. trufax. stoners aren't all calm collected individuals. I've known some mental stoners. Also highly irritable.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:04:02 2012 No.6422028 >>6422014 I never said she was awesome. I thought it was cool that she was offering to smoke with people and I assumed that she was giving out free pot if people came over? Or maybe she wanted people to bring their own. What do I know.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:21:34 2012 No.6422057

I'm so sad because my comm has a great combo of factors - everyone dresses pretty well, we're all over 18, most girls are cuties, the brolitas are superb, people are nice, not too many flakes - except for the one or two bad apples that ruin everything.

One girl has a severe case of pseudologia fantastica (pathological lying) and constantly tries to pick off girls, especially new ones, to be in her private lolita comm. Another girl is just very socially awkward, but the kind that talks way too loud and too much instead of being shy. I don't want to exclude these people since I feel for them (they both complain of being lonely) but it's hard to gently let people know they need to chill out.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:32:53 2012 No.6422072

>>6421929
This, there's behind-the-scenes drama but everyone's very welcoming to newbies and pretty sweet. I joined this summer and I was stunned by all the great coords a lot of Chicago lolis have. It can be cliquey but once you find a few friends it's easy to talk to anyone. A lot of the Milwaukee lolitas like to come down for bigger events too which is fun.

There might be an ice skating and then Kristkindl Market meetup sometime between Thanksgiving and the end of December, so maybe you could come to that. There's a swap meet coming up too.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:32:53 2012 No.6422075 >>6422057 >very socially awkward, but the kind that talks way too loud and too much My community is almost exactly like this, and I'm afraid I'm the obnoxious awkward one

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:56:56 2012 No.6422126 My main complaint is that there are just too many itas in Phoenix. Christ.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 01:58:26 2012 No.6422128

>>6422075
It's probably not the same comm, but I would suggest trying to listen to other people's conversations a bit more instead of going off on things that don't interest others, don't talk about things that are too personal, and try to modulate the volume of your voice to match the rest of the group. Old habits die hard, but try to step back from yourself a little and think "am I being annoying right now? Let me just listen and chime in to other's conversations instead of making it all about me."

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 02:14:01 2012 No.6422155 >>6421422 same here. Im not interested in japan besides lolita and the odd bit of j fashion (and that came after lolita) and it is actually pretty grating when people assume that we all like anime.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 05:11:45 2012 No.6422383 What's the savannah,ga group like? The LJ isn't active and I can't find the new Facebook.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 06:40:22 2012 No.6422426

I left my comm because everyone were sheep.
If they were upset about something, they said it to each other, but not to the person in question.

Even though they might have been very upset by something someone did or said, they wanted to stay 'in' with the group. I spoke up about it one day, and found I was being invited less and less to meet-ups because I was 'rocking the boat'

Most of the girls I met were little more than Girl-Fashion equivilants of Anime Guy Nerds. Little self confidence, obssessive about something alternative culture, bizarre and awkward conversations. Of course they looked lovely, but thats where their niceness ended.

Several of them got drunk at a party one night, it was not a pretty sight, it felt like they were just spoiled self absorbed brats waiting to get out. I can understand why so many of them have had failed relationships now.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 06:48:22 2012 No.6422430 File: 200 KB, 249x699, 1330106944365.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] My comm has Hildekitten.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 06:55:39 2012 No.6422433

Most of my local comm is actually pretty good but there are a few girls who, often don't go to most meet ups (because they feel like they're above them), yet think that they're somehow the queen bees and the pioneers of fashion in our city. Despite the fact that they both have no fucking decent co-ordinating skills. One makes her own clothing and is fucking colour blind (pairs green wigs and shit with pastel blue dresses and thigh-high mint boots, dafuq?) and insists that brand is shit, while the other pines over brand but always pairs it up with ugly off-brand crap and tries to put a cyber punk or raver spin on everything.

The sucky thing is that many newbies seem to pander to them, despite the fact that they're giant walking vaginas who do nothing but talk down about EVERYONE who actually does attend meet-ups. I always hate when they RSVP yes, I pretty much never go to anything they go to.

Other than those two though, everyones pretty lovely actually.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 06:56:09 2012 No.6422434 Anyone from the Texas communities? If so then what has been your impression of the girls in them?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 06:59:39 2012 No.6422435 >>6422430 Is there a story behind this pic? I've always wondered...

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 07:22:11 2012 No.6422454 >>6422430 What's she like? Obviously she can't dress herself for shit but she seems somewhat likeable at least. I imagine her spouting stupid fandom references all the time.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 07:31:50 2012 No.6422463 >>6421158 The one on the right could be attractive without the silly hat and with a better haircut.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 08:09:52 2012 No.6422498

>>6422454
When you're talking to her on her own, she's actually quite friendly. But in group, ugh. She's constantly jabbering about her Japanese friend this, Japanese friend that, J-Rock bands, Dr. Who, etc etc. Overall dealing with her goes well until someone snaps a picture of her without her permission. That's when hell breaks lose.She snapped on some kid's parents because the kid took a pic of the forest and she happened to be in there. It was so, so embarrassing when she started harping on that poor kid and his parents. At conventions she also keeps people from taking pics when we are taking a group shot because her husband is the ~*photographer*~ and the others should just gtfo. wat

tldr; nice face to face, but actually a huge bitch.

I just don't want to deal with her anymore. I'm seriously considering semi-leaving the community because she practically took over the comm and I'm sick of putting up with her. The only reason I'm staying is because the one who used to be in charge is such a sweetheart and genuinely trying to do her best for the comm.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 08:21:53 2012 No.6422507 >>6422498 That sounds horrible, what a contolfreak! Maybe she doesn't want any pictures to surface were she isn't doing her supa kawaii pigeontoes...

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 09:10:55 2012 No.6422551 The Boston comm is rather meh. Lots of weirdos. But there's also many girls who dress well and are nice.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 09:46:01 2012 No.6422567

>>6422498
I feel sorry for you!!!

But honestly, who needs meet-ups?

Just because you share a similar interest doesn't mean you get along.
I don't need other people to dress different.
I don't like to hang out with teens, whilst I'm 33.

Although there are quite a few nice people in my community (whom I've met to sell/buy ), I would not go to a meet-up. I would hate to bump into people I know. Honestly, I would just be ashamed.

What I would like though, is to start a group with people and to make things together. I can't sew, but I would love to learn it.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 09:51:30 2012 No.6422569

>>6422498
She/you are from Belgium, right? Aren't there some really good lolitas in Belgium? Do they put up with that shit or do they just hang out by themselves?

>>6422507
It sounds so embarrassing. I totally get not liking candid pictures of yourself, but if you're out in public dressed like a weirdo you have to accept that it can happen.
I do wonder what she looks like in candid pics, because her 'staged' pictures with the strange posing and the huge wrinkly toothy grin is what I tend to look like in candid shots. Does a candid hildekitten look like me in posed shots? Or does she look even worse than I do? Questions, man.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 09:54:53 2012 No.6422573 >>6422569 >6422569 Not the person who posted about hildekitten, but yes there are: lunie_chan, kitch, annsooo, bircka to name a few

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 10:04:24 2012 No.6422585

>>6422569
Yeah, there are good Lolitas. Some of them hang out by themselves now because Hildekitten's been a total dick to them but some of them just keep up with it and try to make it fun anyways. Also, a lot of the great Lolitas that are known online are from the French part, and we don't really have a lot of meets with them, sadly.

And it is so so embarrassing. She once started cursing very loudly to some tourists who snapped a picture of us when we were posing for a group shot. Some lolitas had to walk away a little because they were too shocked and embarrassed and didn't want to be associated with her. As for the candid shots, I don't know, she's always a bit derpy so meh. I don't like to post pictures that I took myself here.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 10:09:54 2012 No.6422589 >>6422434 I wanna know too. I live in a city with a comm and I've been wary of going to a meet because they all seem weebish but some of the other TX comma seem awesome

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 11:01:50 2012 No.6422660 >>6422585 how old is hildekitten? 35?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 11:03:22 2012 No.6422662 >>6422589 I think we might be in the same comm. I'll admit other Texas groups have a higher percentage of good lolis. The weebs are the most prominent online but the meets aren't so bad. Now I want to know who you are...

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 11:06:22 2012 No.6422666 >>6422660 I don't know precisely, but she's definitely in her thirties.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 12:26:51 2012 No.6422745 I haven't been to any of my local meetups yet. What's the word on the community in so cal?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 12:49:07 2012 No.6422780 >>6422430 Were you at that Paris AP tea party where she whined about discrimination because she was in ~steampunk lolita? Did she ever bring that up at meets? Is she a really, really big special snowflake?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 12:50:07 2012 No.6422782 basically theres about 7 other people and theyre all itas, weebs, I wouldn't mind so much if they were nice people but theyre obnoxious and hideously boring as well. so yeah its shit

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:01:06 2012 No.6422800

>>6422780
Nope, I wasn't. And I can't quite recall her bringing that up on meets but I do have a horrible memory. She is a really, really big special snowflake though, no matter which way you turn it. She does often go on that "she's like the only Steampunk Lolita in Belgium" and she's so *~special~* and she doesn't care what other people think because she does what she wants!! The Belgian Cupcake Magazine that she makes also almost ALWAYS has pictures of herself in it when there's a certain style they discuss. Usually with her doing it the wrong way.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:05:06 2012 No.6422811
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I always find it funny to read that mag. Her Mori-outfits were hilarious.
I'm glad I don't know her or have to deal with her although I do admire people who create their own style (but I don't admire "dikke nekken").

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:14:38 2012 No.6422823 >>6422745 pretty good. Most of the lolis have been doing it for years and are in their early 20s. I'd say everyone's really welcoming (though occasionally you'll have some misguided weeb show up in bad homemade cosplay).

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:30:39 2012 No.6422841

It's a blend of the older girls (usually college age or older) that dress well, have manors, and are fun to be around and some super annoying girls. Luckily the regulars are the good ones and we only occasionally have to deal with itas or immature idiots.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:41:41 2012 No.6422850 >>6422841 >>have manors ain't that fancy!

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 13:48:11 2012 No.6422861

I suppose that this would be the best place to ask this: I just moved to a small army base in Germany (Hohenfels) and I would really like to get in contact with the local community but i haven't had any luck on LJ or Facebook. Could anyone direct me to where ever they have an online presence? Even something like a larger Bavarian comm would be great.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 14:08:59 2012 No.6422883

Welcome! You can find the german online community either at 'dunkelsuess.de' or at 'animexx.de' we use circles on animexx. Just look for the Gothic Lolita Zirkel and you will find us. i'm not from bavaria so i don't know much about their local community, but I hope you will find other lolitas here soon :D

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 14:19:30 2012 No.6422893 >>6422883 Thank you so much! I'll be sure to look into both of those.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 14:37:33 2012 No.6422918

>>6422745
Pretty good. There's three smaller region-specific groups--LA, SD, and OC--but they all get together a couple of times a year for huge meetups (usually organized by the LA group).

For the most part, people are well-dressed, and generally friendly. There can be a bit of drama because it's such a large group, but it's usually not too bad.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 14:45:04 2012 No.6422928 What's a comm? I'm new to this board, are there any comms with down to earth dudes that don't do gay anime cosplay?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 14:57:35 2012 No.6422950 >>6422745 As the other poster said... pretty good, laid back. Some drama but a lot less than you would expect from an area as huge as So Cal. If you specified LA, OC, Or Sand Diego we could get into more specifics.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 15:17:05 2012 No.6422995 Anyone in the seattle/washington comm? I kind of want to join but I really don't want to go to meets with a bunch of bitchy gig harbor girls.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 15:39:36 2012 No.6423024 >>6422950 Interested if there's a Burbank community, or if they just join the San Fran or LA comm. Diff anon. I have an internship there in the Spring.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 15:54:59 2012 No.6423050

>>6423024
Burbank would probably be up in the LA comm, which I'm a member of. Gonna say the same as the other anons: nice girls, well dressed, a little drama but not much for the amount of people we have. I've heard that the San Diego comm is a little more 'fun', but I really enjoy the LA group.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 15:58:30 2012 No.6423056 >>6422589 >>6422434 >>6422660 The Texas comms are all very distinct from each other, but I have heard nothing terrible from any of them.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:15:25 2012 No.6423079
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Never been to a meet up. Never met. I moved to Mississippi a few months ago and made a thread asking about this community and recieved this picture. I'm not one to immediately judge, I'm sure they're fine people. However, I'm not sure it's worth the trouble to attempt getting a hold of anyone.
> no facebook
> no livejournal
Quite honestly, I'm too lazy to bother.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:24:55 2012 No.6423104 >>6422995 Bitchy Gig Harbor girls? Are there even lolitas in Gig Harbor? Seattle community is okay. There are some nice girls, but lately there have been some extremely awkward weirdos coming to meetups and making everyone feel uncomfortable.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:24:55 2012 No.6423107

>>6423050
I would say that the SD comm is "less formal". Not in dress or anything (everyone typically dresses well) but in attitude. Everyone is very friendly and open, and tend to get along as friends as well as all members of the same fashion group. Makes meetups a lot more fun, in my opinion.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:27:25 2012 No.6423118 >>6423107 The downside being that when people are more open it can cause a little more drama, but it's not at an annoying level or anything.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:49:58 2012 No.6423157 >>6422995 Washington Community has pretty much moved to Facebook for planning meets, but some people still post on the LJ community.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 16:59:58 2012 No.6423188 >>6421664 How did you even find out about this? Did she laugh to you about it, asked you along with everyone else to ditch?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:28:35 2012 No.6423473 >>6422662 Haha if we are the same comm then I'm reassured, and you'd probably be able to guess who I am when a new face pops up at a meet :D

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:39:06 2012 No.6423515 >>6423473 If we really are in the same place, you should come to the next meet that's on Sunday. The people on the attending list so far are all really cool, I think it would be the perfect first meet for you!

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:43:36 2012 No.6423538 >>6423107 uh huh. i am part of the LA frillies, but SD meets are a little more kickback in comparison. there must be drama, but if you're not deply involved in the community, you can be delightfully ignorant of any drama going on, like i am :D

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:46:36 2012 No.6423550

>>6423515

Awww noo we're totally not in the same comm! My comm doesn't have a meet planned for a while. Well not at all really tho I'm assuming we're meeting on loli day

You might be in a nearby comm, though, which I have been thinking of checking out via fb since mine seems less than active and I need more excuses to get dressed up.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:49:38 2012 No.6423560
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>>6422072
>>6421929
This. Aside from normal issues of people not agreeing 100% on stuff and a couple vendettachans, I really love the Chicago group. Totally worth getting involved. Look up the Facebook gorup.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:52:39 2012 No.6423568
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>>6422126
THIS THIS THIS THIS

I love the phoenix comm for how great the girls are, but we've had such a huge influx of newbies in the last two years we've been over run by teenage itas.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:55:23 2012 No.6423576 >>6423568 The one with the cane looks hilarious. More of her please.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 18:57:53 2012 No.6423585
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>>6423576
She's in this group image, too. There aren't a lot of pictures of her.

Front and center. Girl's a total sweetheart, but can not dress herself to save her life.

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 19:20:57 2012 No.6423669

>>6423568
this sounds like my comm but for the most part the really bad itas are in the other comm. there are a lot of lolitas who live in the state but i only see them at the conventions because they're either in high school or don't have cars and can't get out. that or they plague the fb group with boo hoo i'm broke all the time whenever there's a meetup

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 19:46:29 2012 No.6423754
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Besides Boston, is there any other active comm in Mass? I'm in the western part of the state and it seems kinda dead out here.

(Pic because it never fails to make me laugh.)

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:06:32 2012 No.6423820 >>6422918 the OC group would be the closest one for me I guess.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:28:04 2012 No.6423924 >>6423079 they look really happy, like they don't give a fuck what we think...that's cool

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:29:04 2012 No.6423928 >>6423568 I want to go to a Phoenix meet up, didn't realize they were that bad though haha.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:30:05 2012 No.6423938 >>6423585 hnnn the one in the red plaid mini skirt no thanks

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:31:04 2012 No.6423940 >>6423928 The meet-ups are fun, just don't expect people to be well dressed.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:32:04 2012 No.6423945 >>6423585 I wish I was a member of this comm. Hanging out with itas to make myself look better.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:40:53 2012 No.6423984 >>6423924 So which one are you?

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:41:53 2012 No.6423986 >>6423945 No shit dude, that girl on the far left looks amazing next to all the other girls.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:52:32 2012 No.6424025 File: 58 KB, 553x759, 1337718803851.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Dear god, I thought the other boards were exaggerating about the catty bullshit that takes place on /cgl/

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 20:59:04 2012 No.6424049 File: 561 KB, 1001x1001, 1308967061122.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6424025

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:01:34 2012 No.6424053 >>6424025 These are the lolitas mostly They can be incredibly catty INCREDIBLY

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:07:34 2012 No.6424068 >>6424053 you sound mad

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:08:04 2012 No.6424071 >>6423945 seriously I just...man the only one who looks passable is the shiro loli

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:08:04 2012 No.6424073 >>6424068 hella mad

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:13:36 2012 No.6424081 >>6424053 >implying cosplayers aren't just as bad if not worse

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 21:45:54 2012 No.6424175 >>6422383 nonexistent

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 22:04:15 2012 No.6424237 There arent many in my area :/ from at least what I know.. Im from Indianapolis midwest sucks..

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 22:16:39 2012 No.6424270

I should have stayed a lone lolita. I didn't know there was a fucking insane snowflake in the Las Vegas comm. Her bullshit completely fucked things up. It's just not the same anymore and I don't enjoy lolita like I used to. She left lolita but she's still trying to keep an eye on what's happening in the group.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 17 22:55:35 2012 No.6424387 >>6423754 There's a lot of people in western mass in the boston comm and western mass meetups get posted to the comm as well

Anonymous Sat Nov 17 23:22:19 2012 No.6424450

>>6423473
I was the person who brought up the question about the Texas community. I worry I have been removed from Lolita too long to really connect with the girls currently active. I don't really know what's going on in the EGL community as a whole so my fear is feeling out of place and uncomfortable. It worries me.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:07:10 2012 No.6424566

There's a new girl in the Boston comm who is really weeby and is just not good for lolits yet she posts everything she does to the facebook group. She seems okay, kind of a tryhard, but she hasn't worn anything completely ita yet.
Also has anyone outside the Boston comm heard about the ~*Gothic Lolita Army*~ in Mass. run by manic weebs?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:17:12 2012 No.6424599 >>6423754 there was a post in the boston fb community about western mass lolitas and there were about a handful of people there. join the fb community to talk to the people in the area.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:26:41 2012 No.6424628 Toronto Comm anyone? Only heard nasty things and drama but also know a few of the girls through friends of friends and they seem nice?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:30:12 2012 No.6424640 is there a link to the Chicago facebook page? I have looked, but for some reason can not find it

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:33:12 2012 No.6424654 >>6424640 It was made secret. You need to contact a chicago lolita to get sponsored or whatever to get in

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:41:02 2012 No.6424680 >>6424654 how the hell am I supposed to get into a comm in the first place if I dont know anyone ><; lol

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 00:49:33 2012 No.6424696 >>6424680 Exactly. I hope the mods change that soon.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 01:47:52 2012 No.6424806

My comm was really nice and only 4 or 5 people for a couple years. Then more people started showing up and a couple were nice, some were weird, and apparently there has been a bunch of itas coming in. I stopped getting invited to meet ups. They said it's because they organize them over fb, so I get forgotten because I don't have fb, but I'm always worried that they didn't like me. I'm the youngest in the group and met them when I was like 15 and they were all 18+. They're all lovely and I used to hang out with some of them outside of lolita sometimes, but I can't stop being worried that I made a bad impression by being so young and they didn't want to deal with me anymore.
Sad because I'm turning 20 in a couple weeks, so I think I've grown up a bit since I met them.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 03:42:44 2012 No.6424908

>>6423107
There's actually A LOT of drama in the SD group. the girls actually vote to kick out people that they don't like personally. the group is no longer about liking lolita, it's about who is friends with who and kissing the ass of the new the admin

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 04:45:36 2012 No.6424957 >>6423050 Really nice to hear so; I too am in LA and am nearly ready to plunge into the world of Lolita and was wondering what the comm was like.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 05:25:31 2012 No.6425000 >>6423568 Why is the Riddler there...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 07:39:44 2012 No.6425119 >>6421363 >meow_tan ugh, kill it with fire.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 10:07:30 2012 No.6425275 >>6425119 Does she talk about social justice bullshit in real life too?

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 12:18:51 2012 No.6425571

>>6424628
Toronto community is fine, overall. There was that infamous split more than a year ago, and the girl that "caused" it is pretty drama- and fame-hungry (but she's otherwise fun to keep as a CASUAL acquaintance). Otherwise, the regulars are nice and try to be inclusive of newbies, as long as you're not one to sit quietly in a corner all meet, and then complain how no one talked to you.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 12:27:53 2012 No.6425589

>>6424908
You seem pretty uninformed. I don't know where you got that idea, but I'm pretty sure the decisions are based on bullying/disruptive behavior, NOT personal preference. I don't know who your source is, but it sounds like they just want to cause drama by making the leaders look bad.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 12:42:55 2012 No.6425622

>>6421929
It's hard to join a facebook page when it's been made secret and you don't really know anyone in the group. I was in since summer, and I guess I didn't post enough, so when the page got made secret I was removed from it.
The LJ comm is starting to become a bit more active now if you want to try that instead. There's a bit meetup planned for the second weekend of December that looks fun.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 12:46:26 2012 No.6425630 Are there any Lolitas in Las Vegas? I just moved here and was wondering if there was a community or not...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 12:48:25 2012 No.6425632 >>6425622 >bit meetup yea i dunno what i was trying to say there... i meant BIG meetup. BIG! well it would be cool if it was big anyway...

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 13:30:00 2012 No.6425732

>>6425589
One of the other "mods" openly talks about all the drama. and how they ARE kicking out a girl because one of the mods has personal issues with her.
It doesn't really matter, the group has a bad rep anyway, and are not even being invited to the local con anymore after attacking the conchair last year.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 13:33:00 2012 No.6425740 >>6425732 Huh, that's pretty crazy, and the first I've heard of it. Especially the bit about the con chair. That sounds like complete bullshit to me. Not gonna comment on the rest of it...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 13:38:00 2012 No.6425754 >>6425732 No worse a rep than any other big comm. Every large group has drama. It's pretty much inevitable. All it takes is one or two people to fuck things up for everyone.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 13:39:30 2012 No.6425758

>>6425740
There was a whole thread involving the lolita fashion show last year, where they proceeded to personally attack the person running it and calling the conchair a faggot when he tried to defuse the situation. they've since then deleted all evidence of drama to try and make the community look "Cleaner" including getting rid of any guys who are not photographers who were in the group, whether or not they were into the fashion or not.
I've been in the group for two years, I've seen it all happen and I've watched the group literally turn into a shit hole with a nice front to hide it all

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 13:56:48 2012 No.6425796 >>6425758 Woah, crazy. That must have happened before I joined, because I had no idea. Everyone seems to be on good terms from what I've observed, but I guess anything could have happened in the past.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 14:10:11 2012 No.6425833 >>6421664 sounds like Chicago

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 15:36:11 2012 No.6426088 File: 27 KB, 94x100, 25016155.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6424680 http://chigothloli.livejournal.com/ hey, anon, I'm a chigothloli. Comment on the the first post and I'll add you to the facebook group.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:21:39 2012 No.6426227

>>6421158
I used to be in the Mid-South comm. I wasn't even from there. BUT I GOT OUT AS FAST AS I COULD.

In other news, now my area has enough lolis for a comm. We do a few meetups and panels every now and then, Only drama is this chick who refuses to go out to the meetups I go to, because I said I hate Chick-fil-a, and she thinks me a heathen. Thankfully, I go to ALL the meetups, so,haven't had to deal with her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:45:57 2012 No.6426310 >>6425758 This is all complete bullshit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:47:27 2012 No.6426316 it seems really nice but language barrier is a p. big problem.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:48:57 2012 No.6426322 Any drama in the UK comms? I live in the midlands.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:53:00 2012 No.6426336 >>6425758 >>6425732 >>6425732 You need to stop spreading lies. None of this is true. There is absolutely no way you've been involved in the group for two years, considering how much of your information is wrong.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:55:30 2012 No.6426341 >>6426336 >>6426310 smfg

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 16:57:30 2012 No.6426348

>>6426310
>>6426336
I have other people who witnessed this drama, INCLUDING the convention staff. They all agreed that they would rather bring in another cities comm than to invite the local one again.
Several of the lolitas personally attacked the con chair and the fashion show coordinator.
They called the con chair a faggot and other shit when he tried to defuse the situation, and pretty much told the fashion show coordinator to not even bother and just invite girls from the LA and other communities that were near by

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:02:30 2012 No.6426366 >>6421301 I'd say that brand and maybe bodyline are made through batch production rather than mass production

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:03:00 2012 No.6426369 >>6426348 That's completely untrue. I witnessed what happened first hand and it wasn't anything like what you're describing. The only fashion show that happened within the last two years at Anime Conji was coordinated by a San Diego lolita.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:06:03 2012 No.6426380

>>6426369
I'm friends with the coordinator of the fashion show. she is not a SD lolita, she was only invited into the group after the show.
I've been friends with the coordinator for about 5 years now. She doesn't like the SD lolitas at all after the drama last year

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:06:33 2012 No.6426378 >>6426348 If you knew any of the girls from the san diego community, you would know that there's no way they would toss around language like "faggot."

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:11:12 2012 No.6426391 >>6426378 >>6426369 >>6426336 >>6426310 Oh Hei There Jess. Stop trying to cover up your dirty laundry, I saw this happen on your group as well, it's why I quit before conji and joined the LA lolita community 2 hours away.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:13:42 2012 No.6426397 >>6426378 Ugh, this. I smell a vendetta-chan. I don't know what happened with Anime Conji, but I do know that none of the girls I know would call someone a fag. Either you are severely misinformed or deliberately causing drama. Not cool.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:14:12 2012 No.6426406 >>6426391 Vendetta moar plz

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:14:42 2012 No.6426405 >>6426391 Woah woah woah. Namedropping is not cool, guys. Vendetta or dirty laundry notwithstanding, don't attach names to it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:15:42 2012 No.6426409 >>6426380 Larissa has always been invited but she had drama with Courtney.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:16:42 2012 No.6426410 >>6426391 >>No one from that time has left to join the LA comm. okayyeahsure.gif

>>	Kitsune Sun Nov 18 17:20:42 2012 No.6426426 >>6426348 I have to say, that I also had witnessed this thread.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:24:15 2012 No.6426444 >>6426426 I saw the thread on the SD lolitas page but nowhere was there mud-slinging or calling anyone a 'faggot.'

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:27:45 2012 No.6426455 >>6426348 LOL STEPHANIE MOORE are you stirring shit again?

>>	Kitsune Sun Nov 18 17:36:16 2012 No.6426472 >>6426455 Nope, Just a lolita who is tired of the drama in the SD group, and tired of how the mod team hides it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:36:19 2012 No.6426475 >>6426472 Kitsune, you aren't even a part of the group. There is no "mod team" really.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:42:07 2012 No.6426497 Does anyone know anything about the NY Lolitas?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:46:37 2012 No.6426501 >>6426497 what do you wanna know?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:47:08 2012 No.6426505 >>6426497 here >>6421617

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:55:10 2012 No.6426530 File: 55 KB, 450x600, picnic2420v.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6426472 Oh yeah you're a real hot lolita.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 17:56:11 2012 No.6426534 File: 51 KB, 450x600, anconj847v.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6426472 god I love your coordinate here.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:00:10 2012 No.6426543 Wow, SD lolitas confirmed for crazies.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:02:40 2012 No.6426555 >>6426472 lolol did you delete your replies?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:04:55 2012 No.6426561 File: 50 KB, 600x450, anconj299v.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] hottest lolita ever.

>>	Kitsune Sun Nov 18 18:06:26 2012 No.6426563 >>6426555 No they probably did. >>6426530 >>6426534 >>6426561 Real Mature, just shows how your group handles themselves

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:07:58 2012 No.6426565 >>6423079 Two of the girls in the picture are alright, and have gotten better. I really feel sorry for them. Because they have a girl in their group who is weeby and batshit insane You're better off going to the neighboring states communities.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:07:58 2012 No.6426566 >>6426563 I'm not a lolita but I go to Conji. You constantly talk shit about the lolitas when you don't even know them, Kit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:08:58 2012 No.6426568 >>6426561 .. Is that a frosting stain?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:11:58 2012 No.6426572 >>6426566 I've been part of the SD lolitas for a while now, and I have never met this person in my life... What the hell is going on now? I'm so confused.

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:21:29 2012 No.6426605

>>6426572
I don't really know what she has to do with lolitas either. I met her once when I was volunteering for ComicCon before I even got into lolita and she was an absolute bitch to me. And I had to deal with her for three hours because we were assigned to the same area.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:26:32 2012 No.6426624 Man, all this shit about SD lolis now makes me GLAD for once that I'm stuck with all the NYC lolita drama BS to handle.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:28:02 2012 No.6426630 >>6426624 SD just has some weeaboo stalker crazies and a couple of drama queens.

>>	Kitsune Sun Nov 18 18:28:02 2012 No.6426631 Does it matter at this point? Your group is horrible and your all to fat to be wearing dresses covered in cakes

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:30:02 2012 No.6426634 >>6426631 Not sure you should be talking about anyone's weight, going by the picture that were posted earlier on in the thread...

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:31:02 2012 No.6426636 >>6426631 Did you just call someone else fat? >>6426561 >>6426534 >>6426530

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:34:02 2012 No.6426647 >>6426631 So you're the one creating vendetta threads about the SD lolitas? sad.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:35:02 2012 No.6426651 >>6426631 Yeah okay Caitlin. >>6426534 Nice lolita tag on your badge.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:38:05 2012 No.6426663 >>6424628 Toronto's only drama is age old and nothing bad has happened recently. By recently, I mean in over a year.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:40:33 2012 No.6426671 >>6426663 You mean calling Aya all of those nasty names?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:43:33 2012 No.6426681 >>6426630 So every other big metropolitan lolita community. Got it. Cool.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 18:53:03 2012 No.6426712 >>6426671 I don't follow what you're talking about, but even if people still continue calling her nasty names it's over drama that happened a pretty long time ago.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 19:39:20 2012 No.6426862 I can't wait for the drama to surface in the Boston community.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 20:10:49 2012 No.6426956 >>6423568 >>6423585 Not sure if any phoenix are still hovering, but how do you guys feel about Jessica, the tranny the joined the group some while back?

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 20:15:51 2012 No.6426976 >>6426671 Boohoo poor Aya. I don't remember people calling her nasty names, unless you're referring to some old and untimely secrets (in that they were made after the drama was over and done with).

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 20:27:35 2012 No.6427019 File: 493 KB, 350x197, tumblr_la0bpyyovE1qbjtzz.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6421323 >>6421327 >>6421337

Anonymous Sun Nov 18 20:48:47 2012 No.6427092

>>6426681
Basically, yeah. Every big group is going to have drama, but that doesn't mean it's a bad group. It just means it has a higher likelihood of crazy because of the size. I think probably all the big groups have their own vendetta-chans and creepers. SD just happens to be the loud ones today.

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 18 21:52:21 2012 No.6427267 How the central Florida group?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 00:03:35 2012 No.6427568 >>6425630 There is a community here. Search for "Las Vegas Lolitas" on facebook.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:06:50 2012 No.6427716

>>6426862
It already did, unfortunately. Just in private. I'm actually impressed with the amount of MA lolitas that have posted on this thread, since most people always talk about how mich of a cess pool cgl is. Usually they never show themselves. Not surprised how many of them come here even though they hate it.

I wonder if>>6421765 and
>>6424566 are talking about the same person and >>6424566's friend thinks that person is a boy? I could see it, since their name on FB could be seen as a boy name

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:08:50 2012 No.6427719 >>6427716 Ahh I meant post ending in 65's friend

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:09:20 2012 No.6427721

Lolieodette: the child pokemon

Lolieodette is known for its cute charms and its hobby for wearing different clothes. Lolieodette only approaches those with a pure heart and will always try and have fun with its trainer, although it is said to get jealous when its trainer hangs around with other pokemon

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:15:23 2012 No.6427735 >>6427721 what's this?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:39:28 2012 No.6427795 File: 50 KB, 619x346, jojo.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Made this secret about someone from my comm. She's never been to a meetup, she just shits up the FB page a few times a week.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:45:04 2012 No.6427809 File: 46 KB, 455x567, 465.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6427795 >kitteh

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:48:04 2012 No.6427814 >>6427735 /vp/ is "raiding" the other boards pokemon they make up related to said board

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:49:04 2012 No.6427817 >>6427814 raiding other boards **with

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 01:58:38 2012 No.6427839 >>6427814 Well, as raids go, I think that's kinda nice. God bless, /vp/. God bless.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 02:13:01 2012 No.6427873 >>6427839 yea, its kind of cute

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 03:37:55 2012 No.6428103 >>6427795 She really posts all the garbage to the comm? Wow.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 03:52:42 2012 No.6428138 >>6427721 ;__; I want this to be real

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 04:14:34 2012 No.6428160 >>6421374 Considering my friend got into lolita while completely avoiding all anime related subjects, I'd vouch to say this isn't all that true. I totally traveled the weeb path though. Local comm is also still perf.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 04:37:08 2012 No.6428184 >>6427814 Aw, so cute! /vp/ has never been this sweet before. Why can't all raids be like this?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 04:38:08 2012 No.6428185 >>6428184 Seconded. That is the cutest thing ever.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 04:51:59 2012 No.6428211
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Hurr hurr hurr...This thread is full of comms that just have a portion of itas in them. How about Cosloli? A comm just for itas and shit tier cosplayers? I'm enjoying whoever keeps posting secrets about them every week. Also enjoying the LeLe dramu that I haven't even put any input into. Basically someone mentions on /cgl/ that some ugly shit singer calls herself famous and a jfashion pro, next thing you know she's on cosloli whinging about it. Self-posting drama whore hahaha
Pic related, best kawaii meet-up ever, you gaiz!

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 05:50:49 2012 No.6428284 >>6426631 I'm sorry that you're a giant fatass and you probably have legitimate aspergers, but your trolling of the local lolita comm is really pathetic. It makes Anime Conji look bad that you're behaving like this.

>>	Captain Insaneway !!6gMVhmbBzln Mon Nov 19 06:03:53 2012 No.6428296 >>6426322 Nothing new, as far as I know. People always bring up old drama about the UK cons, but I think things are pretty peaceful.

>>	Captain Insaneway !!6gMVhmbBzln Mon Nov 19 06:19:57 2012 No.6428306 >>6428296 Oops. Should say comms, not cons.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 06:52:45 2012 No.6428335

Can we go back and talk more about mia carla?

She says she has 3 caterers, but it looks more like she has 1 person selling desserts, 1 person selling fake desserts, and 1 actual caterer but it's listed under vendors so it sounds like people are going to have to pay for food on top of their ticket.

Also, it's supposed to be an elegant formal ball but the music is all kpop and "sneki" and "america's akb48"

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 06:53:15 2012 No.6428338 File: 629 KB, 1226x1585, wutrudoin.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6428335 dropped picture

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 08:41:16 2012 No.6428438 >>6428103 Yeah, and her profile says that she graduated from high school in like 2004, so that'd make her like 25-26. I wonder how she's doing in criminal justice?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 08:49:06 2012 No.6428453 >>6427716 Caitlin has been confronted about the thread? I want to know what the earlier anon meant about her being prejudiced - there are a lot of POC in the comm.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 08:52:44 2012 No.6428457 >>6428453 I wanted to know this as well.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 09:00:13 2012 No.6428466 >>6428453 Nobody will care about this. Just like nobody cares about what Lara did. The newbies will continue being ita & unaware of the drama, and the cycle will continue.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 09:07:43 2012 No.6428475 File: 49 KB, 400x550, so kawaii.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>6428338 >Cosplay or Ethnic Ensembles >inspired and or constructed with a Formal or Lolita flair >mfw This has so much potential! Please, someone report back with pics.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 09:10:44 2012 No.6428482 >>6428466 Lara left though didn't she? So did Adrienne.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 10:16:22 2012 No.6428585 >>6428482 She's still around. She went to a meetup in the summer. >>6428466 This x1000000

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:09:51 2012 No.6429034 >>6428585 >>6428482 >>6428453 What should happen: this thread and the caps from Lara's thread to be posted on the Boston fb, effectively ostracizing both Caitlin and Lara from the group What will happen: absolutely nothing.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:16:17 2012 No.6429045

>>6429034
I messaged the mods of that comm about Lara's thread, they messaged me back but I don't think they did anything about it. I was talking with one of my friends about it and she said to give Lara the benefit of the doubt and that it was probably Adriane since Lara told her she was at the museum that day so she couldn't have possibly posted it, (she just flat out asked her after we talked about it) but if you know her you know how manipulative she can be. It's bullshit noone cared she tried to scam people, or that she kept throwing her friend under the bus, or kept making secrets, or bragged about lying about the condition of a pair of shoes. They just care that she's pretty. WTF. So basically, yeah, nothing will happen.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:22:25 2012 No.6429055 >>6428211 The Milanoo is strong with these ones.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:39:31 2012 No.6429084

>>6429045
Welcome to Boston! This bullshit is why I have never gone to a meet. The drama/bitches/ita outweigh any decent people that are involved in the group.
sew_sweet/Caitlin is a mod on EGL, which is probably the root of why she thinks so highly of herself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:41:01 2012 No.6429089 >>6429045 Good on you for trying. Since Caitlin's a mod I doubt anything would happen, unless she left the group on her own. And since she does the majority of event planning, Boston will crumble.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:41:31 2012 No.6429087 >>6429045 They probably didn't do anything about it because I don't think Lara sells anymore. She's way too manipulative in any case . She's also pretty fucking crazy which leads me to believe it was her. Plus she admitted to leaking the mod posts.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:42:01 2012 No.6429091 >>6429089 Her events aren't very good anyway.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:51:34 2012 No.6429116 I think it's hilarious how hard Boston is pressing the F5 button right now.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:56:01 2012 No.6429134

>>6429089
She's not a boston mod, just EGL. She has no mod power in the boston comm.

>>6429084

Welcome? Child please, I've been here for years. It was never this bad until Lara/Adriane came around.

>>6429087
Well, they (the boston mods)
haven't banned her from the group so I don't think they give a shit if she were to even try it again, and since none of them care that she is manipulative and has scammer qualities, they deserve it.

>>6429116
This.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 14:59:06 2012 No.6429148

>>6429134
>It was never this bad until Lara/Adriane came around.
No, it was always kind of shitty. I am not in the comm anymore because of some drama from like 5 or 6 years ago. I think I may know who you are. You love to stick up for the comm no matter how awful it really is. The truth is that it's just been eating itself from the inside long before Lara or Adrienne entered.

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:01:24 2012 No.6429153

>>6429134
Without outting yourself, do you still go to meets or are active in the community? I want to tell a friend about this thread since she's gone to a few meets recently but I don't know if I should or not. Do you think the community will improve or just implode on itself?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:03:09 2012 No.6429157 >>6429116 Isn't the GTFO mod from the Boston comm?

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:04:42 2012 No.6429162

>>6429148
I actually think I know who you are. There was probably drama before I joined a long time ago (I know of a few, and maybe your drama just wasn't recorded or shared with me), but there wasn't really any drama in my years until the two of them joined. Even when someone tried to start some, it just fizzled out. Some people suck at dressing, some people are great. That's every comm. How can you even know anything if you weren't even in it for like 5 or 6 years?

Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:07:02 2012 No.6429165

>>6429153
Sort of. Most of the girls are really awesome to be around. Personally, I don't think you should since it looks like basically every largeish comm came up in this thread. There was never much noise about us until very recently, because of a few rogues who've already been mentioned in this thread. Lots of noobs now, but they get better with age.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:07:48 2012 No.6429167 >>6429162 Well I don't go to meets, but I lurk regularly and I still pay attention to the drama and secrets. I also know people who are still actively in it and I get info from them. I know the whole Caitlin drama too.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:09:22 2012 No.6429171 >>6429167 Melissa, dat u?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:10:52 2012 No.6429173 >>6429157 Yeah, rocketlaunching.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:15:14 2012 No.6429185 >>6428338 cosplay is allowed as long as it has a formal or lolita flair. oh lurd, i'm ready for photos.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 15:37:42 2012 No.6429235 Why is it always bitches named Caitlin?

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 19 17:06:51 2012 No.6429533 >>6424025 Didn't you know that /cgl/ actually stands for Catty Girls and Liars?

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 17:20:43 2012 No.6432284 >>6429167 Out of curiosity, what happened with Caitlin?

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 17:34:15 2012 No.6432310 >>6429034 Link to this? What happened? >Boston loli here

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 17:42:45 2012 No.6432327

>>6432284
AFAIK only two things have happened with Caitlin. She screened some girl's comment on a meet-up thread a long time ago. And recently there was some sort of misunderstanding where her boyfriend accidentally pushed a girl at a meet-up and for some reason the girl thought it was on purpose and told a couple of people that she thought Caitlin hated her, which turned out not to be true.

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 17:52:48 2012 No.6432349

>>6429185
This is what I get for being a cheap bitch and buying tickets to this shitshow.
I should've signed on for amanikitty's meet but I was a little worried about having to sit around a table with a bunch of people I barely knew and make conversation- cause I can be a little awkward.

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 17:58:47 2012 No.6432365

>>6432310
I think it's somewhere in the lolita secrets thread here
>http://archive.rebeccablacktech.com/cgl/thread/S6310249

Long story short Lara admitted to scam attempts under Adrienne's account as well as to leaking the mod caps. But someone earlier ITT said that ~Lawra~ was conveniently out all day at the museum during that time. As well as people bringing up all of her past wank with gyaru nails and the manasamadramallama.

To the person talking shit about the Mana Shrine girl. mooseyfateeee Tue Nov 20 18:17:32 2012 No.6432388 [DELETED]

My community has the most hot ladies that I've ever seen in any comm. They're beautiful, loving, have fantastic personalities, and work their asses off for what brand they have.

To the people talking about the girl with the "Mana shrine"-She's never said a damn word about your stupid animu. Get a life, and try getting to know someone before you start talking crap about them. She's a fierce friend, and one of the most genuinely wonderful people I've ever met. Why don't you get off of cgl and actually come to meetups instead of trifling on wank communities.

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 18:54:03 2012 No.6432469

Oh, this thread is back. Every boston loli needs to fucking show themselves and stop talking shit about CGL because you're all goddamn hypocrites. I knew as soon as Mic made that status everyone would be rushing in here.

>>6432327
Not just screened, but deleted. There was a poll about it and everything.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 19:20:25 2012 No.6432537 >>6432469 Lol I never denied being on /cgl/. I'm here all the time, just never said I was from Boston.

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 19:22:42 2012 No.6432543

Im new to my comm and Im honestly scared to go to a meet-up or anything.. :/

Theres not very many girls as it is, and they have all been together for quite some time now. I feel like if I just stepped in I would get ignored/shunned because Im new. idk.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 19:50:43 2012 No.6432607 >>6432349 Take pictures and post them here for the win, you will be a martyr for the cause of lolz, and we will sing your praises.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 20:19:06 2012 No.6432663 I never seen posts on /cgl/ about the South Carolina loli comm. don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing...

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 20:24:09 2012 No.6432678 i have the pleasure and misfortune of being in north NJ. I went to one NYC meet and was an awkward turtle. I just watch the New Jersey lolitas on FB. They seem nice, but there's still a lot of questions about milanoo and bodyline.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 20:30:39 2012 No.6432694 >>6432537 You don't but pretty much everyone else does.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 20:32:39 2012 No.6432697 >>6432678 I used to be a member of NJ Lolitas. I met some of them at a Mitsuwa event and they were saying how replicas are just as good if not better than brand. I ran for the fucking hills and didn't look back.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 22:06:55 2012 No.6432958 >>6428338 fb /InternationalLolitaDay This will be a quality event

Anonymous Tue Nov 20 22:56:08 2012 No.6433123

>>6421309
omfg suck my dick YOU ARE SO BUTTHURT. What in the hell did I ever do to you? If the comm dislikes you I'm fairly certain you brought it on yourself. We don't auto-judge and sit there hating on people. We're laid back as fuck and 99% of the members would agree. YOU are that 1% that doesn't. So what if I'm passionate about something? Why in the hell do you care? Who DOESN'T have a fandom these days? Its no different than having your room be decked out in Hello Kitty, o k. Also, I have NEVER made fun of anyone for liking anime. I don't give a shit if you're an anime fan, okay -- but a comm for LOLITA FASHION is not a place to yack about it. Do you see anyone else doing that with their personal fandoms? No.

Furthermore, a 'shrine' is where you worship something and I do not worship that jackass. I admire him, and I like to collect his merch -- and what do you expect me to do with nice quality shit like that? Pile it on a shelf, out of sight/mind? yeah no. Pretty sure you wouldn't do that with whatever you like collecting, mmkay.

get a life.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 23:02:10 2012 No.6433139 >>6433123 you admire a jackass? oh dear.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 20 23:11:16 2012 No.6433162 >>6433139 jackass is a term of endearment... sort of. but he is one. lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 09:33:37 2012 No.6434014 >>6421182 >Lolita's gurl bye.

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 17:18:43 2012 No.6434871 >>6421309 what the fuck is your problem? So she has mana shit it isn't a damned shrine. someone sounds like a jealous cunt.

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