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>>10824163 autosaging again
>>10827284Despite the absolute tragedy that is this "coordinate", I bet she was real comfy while wearing it.
>>10827283the expressions of the lolitas in the audience as they question this design decision. :)
>>10827283I this was Billie Eilish
>>10827308lolita or not, this looks like horseshit on her and makes her look 3x her size.
>>10827286Ita but also I like the aesthetic
>>10827299this is literally fine, the photos just taken from too low down lmao
>>10827299Is this some kind of severe lens distortion effect or is she actually shaped like a skinnier Eldritch?Either way the dress is too short for her and she needs to find a more flattering hair and makeup style
>>10827331camera angle + perspective distortion
>>10827329she looks greasy as fuck
>>10827289White woman dreads will always make me think of Margo Palermo
>>10827286This is god awful
>>10827299That dress is way too short for her. I saw the photo set on instagram, and it doesn't look good. She either needs an underskirt or sell the dress.
>>10827302This makes me want to kms
>>10827299I’m having twootie flashbacks.>>10827308What is it about lolita that makes professional stylists collectively drop the ball? Despite having all the resources in the world they always make their clients look worse than the average COF poster, which is saying something.
>>10827395I can’t tell if they’re amerifats or greasy brits.
How the hell do you manage to make your hair look this bad?
>>10827407She has such a pretty face, it's a pity her coord is so bad
>>10827411Downsy the Stars Shine Bwight
>>10827430Could very well be.
>>10827395Are these people all related?I was under the impression Finnish people had good looking faces on average, this just crushed that.
>>10827286I mean this looks very coquette-esque so it's not wrong to call it lolita since women who are into the coquette thing adores that book even if they did miss the entire point of it but I digress. If this was tagged lolitafashion then it's fair to call it ita
>>10827465nah this is cute af
>>10827465this is fine. vendetta?
>>10827465completely fine coord. I smell a vendetta.
>>10827417Smh couldn't be bothered to coord her bra with the rest of the outfit
>>10827465This looks fine?
>>10827472It explains a couple of these posts honestly.
>>10827486Besides the Crocs this looks fine and honestly sometimes Crocs are needed
>>10827487Are you blind? Her disgusting cowtits are about to tear through what's meant to be a baggy, oversized hoodie and are spilling over the skirt's waistline.
>>10827492The coord itself looks fine. Seethe
>>10827465Nah, this isn't her best but it doesn't belong here.
>>10827492>spilling over the skirt's waistline.Nta and say what you will about the sweater but this is the salopette not the skirt, and it sits at the underbust even on Risa, who's known to be a little waifish even for a Japanese woman.
>>10827465Isn't that the girl who bragged about having the nazi coord?
>>10827532"Sitting at the underbust" doesnt mean your fat tits should be flopping over it like a cows udders
>>10827534that's what will happen in any regular bra if you have big boobs. You would need to hoist them up to above your armpits to avoid it
>>10827533A nazi coord?! What the hell
>>10827532anon, this isn't a salopette.
>>10827534I feel like you don't know how tits work
>>10827405Isha is looking busted as ever.
>>10827548You’re not funny
>>10827452>Finnish people had good looking faces on averageHave you ever been to Finland, nonny? That's how the average Finn looks
>>10827284Haha idk this is not be a cute coord but it is a cute pic>>10827399It’s not lolita, it’s a Simone Rocha dress. I think the stylist was just inspired by the vibe of that Rocha collection in general since it involved a lot of stacked ribbons and red shoes iirc. The fact that it looks so much like a bad taobaolita coord is a happy accident>>10827533>>10827538every time someone mentions this woman’s Forbidden meta set an angel loses its wings
>>10827487>sometimes Crocs are neededCrocs are never needed.
>>10827395How is every person in this picture so ugly? This picture looks like a group of inbred sister wives in the South or something
>>10827284She looks like the comfiest teddy bear and I'm here for it
>>10827557>>10827567I was surprised because I though northern europeans were generally pretty.They do look related because a lot of them have very upturned noses and wide faces.
>>10827573>I was surprised because I though northern europeans were generally pretty.Only the ones you see on TV are, same as every country.
>>10827544Youre not supposed to tuck your salopette under your tits you fat retard
>>10827536Imagine wearing clothing that fits instead of tucking it into a fat fold
>>10827554>replying this quicklyIt’s pathetic how the discord girls refresh here constantly. A diff anon mentioned L not even by name and got banned within minutes. So much for your ilk laying low and trying to stay in the good graces of your comm members. Hope you get perma banned from all lolita groups eventually
>>10827599isha wasn’t even in the discord retard
>>10827600Nta but wasn’t she a comm leader and in charge of its discord?
>>10827465You can't post her. She and her simps same fag about how sweet and holy she isThe skirt looks like shit the way she coorded this to the point it almost looks photoshopped on. The whole outfit just looks akward and her waist looks the same width as her bust you can see the contours of her fat rolls underneath the blouse
>>10827533You may also be thinking of wonderfinch/purestmaiden, or the COF mod.
>>10827610not every woman is a giant whale like you. sorry you can't wear dresses without looking like a busted can of biscuits. maybe someday you'll learn to wear garments without tucking them into your fat folds
>>10827609I agree that the coord sucks - the fit/silhouette and color balance is off, there's nothing cohesive about the outfit and the bare neck with her super short haircut really bothers me, but come on... That is obviously the blouse being too frumpy, which is also a bad thing, but I doubt anyone her size could even have fat rolls that big.
>>10827627nta but you must be anachan if you can’t see the difference between her loose blouse and an obese person like >>10827486 who’s actually tucking clothes in between body fat. get help
>>10827600Three minutes to respond? How sus. Kek.
>>10827534fuck off scrote
>>10827573This meet-up is from the very north of Finland where the population is small. They could be closely related.
>>10827609You sound jealous.
Stop bitching, post more itas
I know this is a babylita so I hope they’ll learn but good lord why did they think this looked good.
>>10827659because theyre inexperienced nonny
>>10827602why would i know or care? i don't keep tabs on minors. she wasn't in #seagull, though.>>10827639oh please, there's plenty of gulls who refresh frequently. /cgl/ and the farms are a haven for the chronically online. post time policing is retarded and means/proves nothing.
>>10827639Take your meds anon
>>10827407This is actually cute. As a goth, I can see this being passed off as a "cute outfit" instead of being lolita.
>>10827540>this isn't a salopettehttps://lolibrary.org/items/ap-photogenic-pallet-salopetteAP disagrees I guess. Salopettes come in different styles. It has adjustable overall style straps.
>>10827567I laughed way too hard at this.
>>10827659This could be coorded so much better even if the dress isn't lolita. Unasked for concrit but-Remove the blouse, white otks, white petti, blue tea party's and remove the bad quality collar necklace thing.
i had to read this shit so you all do too. reading the description made me violent
>>10827575if that's the average Finn then the average Finn is ugly, I'm sorry.The little piggy eyes, the piggy noses, the super wide bulky facial structure.I swear a 5/10 in germany is a 7/10 in finland if that's what average looks like.>>10827687>skirp, diff, socc, shoossomeone tell her to stop please
>>10827687maybe they're 15 and they'll grow out of it. and then they will learn not to shoehorn stuff in. and they will wear makeup and not have ratty lel nerd girl hair.
>>10827698Great now I cant see anything else
>>10827627Self projecting pretty loud scrote.
>>10827701unfortunately that is a college student. she's used that retarded spelling of sock before, but this is the first time i've seen her go full tumblrina megaautist in her descriptions. OP, if you're reading this, please put on a wig and spell like a normal person. >>10827690why would you make me look at those gross fucking feet
>>10827703Learn what projecting means
>>10827687>>10827687how could you hit the jackpot of finding two perfectly matched tartans and then ruin the coord with those shoes (sorry, I meant shoos) and that hair :( she doesn’t need a wig though she needs bangs and maybe better shampoo to get more volume.
>>10827559>this woman’s Forbidden meta setit's not her forbidden meta set anymore, she sold it lasst year iirc
>>10827645>Jealous of bean-chan And her farquaad hairAt least farquaad looks more like a woman then she does
>>10827683maybe if the wig was styled better
>>10827656somebody get her a lint roller
>>10827687What’s with all this ABDLesque language
>>10827710Learn what bait means
>>10827302I don't like this as an outfit but there's something endearing about it, if this is a first coord it's a cute attempt at getting into the fashion.
>>10827286Why do they look like they smell like armpit
>>10827289The way that literally NONE of the pinks match is killing me. Amazing.
>>10827609You are hilariously jealous as fuck but you're right that the skirt in this coord makes no sense.
>>10827739I feel this way about anyone who wears sleeveless cutsews
>>10827786sleeveless cutsews,,,,, you mean camisoles? Tank tops?
>>10827781>jealous of that fucking ugly haircut and man faceAnon please. Next you’ll say we’re jealous of Josine.
>>10827681Sorry you got busted for keeping tabs on who talks about you. Why be this defensive over posts that supposedly dont apply to you kek.
>>10827786slander :( sleeveless cutsews are really cute if they’re actually sleeveless cutsews and not a random tank top like the left girl in >>10827286 is wearing. stanky itas will sweat through any number of layers
>>10827739because they're sweating so hard that their makeup is smeared
the damage lor has done to the community is irreparable
>>10827809"lolita is whatever I say it is" is a bad and ita take, let's just say I was not surprised when I saw the username.
>>10827781Jealous of what? Making old expensive clothes look like absolute shit. Atleast most Itas wear cheap costume tier taobao. Being a brand ita is the most disappointing and embarrassing
>>10827286>newfags not recognizing proto again
>>10827903are we looking at the same image right now
>>10827903that shit isn't real, stop. and if it was, this normie boho shit ain't it.
>>10827933They're both wearing brand?
>>10827903Stop trying to make Proto-Lolita happenYou can also wear brand in a non lolita way or lolita adjacent way. And you don't have to call it lolita.
>>10827809>and to me??? That was lolita.Why do itas think their opinion is the cream of the crop? And if by "play" with the rules she means looking like absolute shit and pretending it's avantgarde, sure, kek. Sometimes you're not a rule breaker or a rule bender you're just somebody who doesn't know how to dress.
>>10827903only newfags say proto-lolita fucking dumb fuck
>>10827809Hopefully this is just a Lolita at Heart bystander who will never get into the fashion because they think we're all evil meanies or because Lolita Fashion is classist or whatever
>>10827809i mean you can play, just dont get mad when people criticize it. this develops fashion even more
>>10827925It’s giving nymphete
>>10827712Is the dress on the left badly altered AND cheap af? Why not get something custom made if you're already choosing off brand
>>10828006it does look badly altered offbrand. But chinese brands often don't do custom or when they do they have limitations.He's built like a truck so maybe they couldn't.
She's so proud of this awful alteration.
>>10828021This is old af. The discord seagulls were harping on it. Which one of you posted it kek.
Girl on reddit is patting herself on the back for dying this dress black. She claims it's AP, but it looks so horrible (maybe just because she's too big for it). Is it from a lucky pack? I couldn't find it while looking through solids on lolibrary.
>>10828021The coord is ita but the alteration doesn't seem terrible?
>>10827933>>10827959I agree that the coords in that photo aren’t “proto” they’re just bad, but I’m so tired of this argumentthe way language works is that communities can adopt words and phrases for things that we want to be able to describe Simpler lolita/lolita-adjacent styles that predate the frillier offerings of Pretty and Baby are becoming influential again in our fashion, so we have a phrase for that now. It’s called “proto lolita”. It’s “real” because people are consistently using the phrase, and most people here understand what is meant by it
>>10828070It probably is ap, Looks like it. But it wouldve been easier to just stain remove or sell it off instead of stretching it with her fat body and dying it black
>>10828070The influx of newbs who think that if an ita owns it it's fake or if it's a lower quality item. Not all ap is $200+ and covered in sparkles and rainbows I've certainly never paid more than that for anything from them
>>10828070it looks fine in black, better than the stained slop it was before. the funniest part was the way people lost their minds over a pretty mediocre looking AP dress covered in stains being "defiled" by being dyed.
>>10828110>it looks fineAnon, look at all those white threads
>>10828112compared to how it was before? its "fine". go over with a black synthetic dye and the ribbons and threads will turn black as well.
>>10828070>can't effectively use LolibraryJust how new are you?https://lolibrary.org/items/ap-going-out-for-a-sunny-day-jsk-set
>>10828113no they won't. you're that idiot who doesn't know how dye works.
>>10828133Apparently the colorway was "pink x white" and I had the tags set to "pink," so I completely missed it. It looks a lot better here than on her though.
>>10828145>phone mirror selfie>not even a coord, likely just put it on for the picOf course a stock picture looks better.
>>10828090>we have a phrase for that nowThere were already phrases for it. Some of which have always been: not lolita, j-fashion, lolita-adjacent, fruits style (for things inspired by that specific magazine) and more.There are words you can use and that have been used for decades before proto-lolita and are more accurate because they don't imply it's a substyle or subcategory of lolita when they aren't.
>>10828166You do realize that there was a style that we now no longer recognize as lolita was called lolita back then? That's what proto lolita is. It's the style that was called lolita back then that evolved into the style we recognize as lolita today. Your other suggestions for terms we can use for that encompass too many other styles.
>>10828110It looks cute here but the threads are still white/baby pink and the dye will most likely start fading noticeably the next time it gets washed.
>>10828166Noones calling proto a substyle. Its a similar descriptor to old school in the sense that it refers to a time period.
>>10828166"fruits style" makes no sense because fruits magazine documented a truly massive variety of unique outfits. J-fashion isn't appropriate here either because it's a blanket term encompassing any Japanese fashion subculture. "not lolita" is basically fucking anything. and "lolita adjacent" could be anything that's just that. the idea of "substyles" as anything other than a verbal tool for communicating what general aesthetic flavor of lolita coord we're talking about has always been cringe-- you don't need to painstakingly compartmentalize individual fashion choices into some kind of nonexistent clubs
Everything doesn't need to be neatly labeled based on it's proximity to lolita fashion.
>>10828186>>10828192>>10828207proto lolita doesn't exist. it's just some made up thing zoomers came up with so they could dress in a more unique y2k style that wasn't oldschool because it was trendy.
>>10828186>>10828166Stop with the dumb zoomer labels. Proto lolita and fruits style sounds stupid. Fruits showed a bunch of different fashions during the time period it was in circulation retard.
>>10828221nta but fruits showed a bunch of outfits not styles. another reason proto lolita is stupid. not disagreeing with you obviously, and infact the opposite. not every outfit is a style.
>>10828221You are the newfag. Fruits style has literally always been a term for deco but more toned down.
>>10828221good lord not this shit again. no one in 2023 cares what oldfags called something 10 years ago. some of us recognize a cohesive style adjacent to oldschool lolita but that is not lolita, and are going to call it proto-lolita. if you think it's stupid no one is forcing you to wear the clothes, it suits teenagers and early 20s girls better anyways.
>>10828237I just hate men so much
>>10828246>cohesive style adjacent to oldschool lolita but that is not lolitathis is literally not correct.
>>10827399>What is it about lolita that makes professional stylists collectively drop the ball? Despite having all the resources in the world they always make their clients look worse than the average COF poster, which is saying something.This. Every single time.>>10827559>It’s not lolita, it’s a Simone Rocha dress.Whatever it is it looks like shit.>>10827712The dress on the left truly is an abomination. Is that a tiny corset lacing on the side? Lol. The skirt, there's not a single good thing on that.>>10827407Cute.>>10827408I wonder where some ppl get their fashion sense from. We can argue about something being lolita or not, but there's no way in hell that is going to work anywhere. Here we have exhibit A.>>10827659And here B.>>10827465Eh, acceptable.>>10828237You can almost feel Usakumya's pain.>>10828240This is rather cute.>>10828241Ffs.
>>10828246>some of usJust say you’re a newfag zoomer and go next time. Only your ilk calls it that. Browse through Fruits once I’m begging you. It’s not a lolita magazine.
>>10828283zoomers like that also wear kogyaru socks with literally everything and call it y2k. it's a mess. you can kind of blame tiktok for their revisionist attitude since chinese videos co-opting japanese fashion are everywhere.
>>10828218Tell me you know nothing about proto without telling me you know nothing about proto.
>>10828301No one knows anything about something that doesn't exist.
>>10828030Don’t you Texas bitches got something better to do?
>>10828606Nta but the Texas bitches ARE the discord seagulls. Or at least some of them were.
>>10828665They love to talk shit about minors
she's whining about being posted here because her "coords have won awards before," she's quickly approaching lolcow status
>>10828693looks like a melanie martinez wannabe
>>10828693Kek she "won" a coord contest because she handmade it. People who handmake clothing always win
>>10828693who is she anyways?
>>10828697just looks like a clown/jester to mestill bad but much better than melanies ageplay stuff
>>10828241realizing those aren't pumpkin shorts they are bloomers. dude put on some pants your in your underwear
>>10828693A literal who.
>>10828806>It took forever to get all the parts for this but I love this outfit. I want to wear the fluffy paw handbag everywhere.
Damn, this is looking rough
>>10828863>job interview this bitch would get turned away from unpaid volunteer work looking like this. it's always unkempt itas doing this shit.
>>10828863>>10828868Came here to post this. The worst part is that someone commented and didn't know what wristcuffs were. (Bonus: the girl in the photo says she's a furry in her profile)Seriously, what is reddit laced with to make people this stupid? It's actually upsetting.
>>10828863Gaping blouse definitely caused them to forfeit a callback for her. Can’t even put the effort into using button stays let alone the tragedy of this soggy coord.
>>10828863did she put a blouse over her dress? or is her bra just super visible?
>>10828863I wore Moitie to an interview and got the office job. The ita's probably applying for a job at Claire's or Spencer's...
>>10828893She said it was for a vintage store which is honestly really embarrassing. If it were classic lolita she'd be fine but I wouldn't take her serious if I were them.
>>10828893that's totally different. you can definitely wear lolita to an interview if you try to keep close to normie business dress code rules. toned down solids of any major style can look pretty professional. i used to wear innocent world blouses and skirts to my office job and got tons of compliments (many from a girl who wore 50s vintage clothing). even specialty retail has a certain look they want their workers to have. hell, i can imagine a dolled up OTT sweet could find somewhere that appreciates the style. but that girl's outfit is just bad looking.
I wish some itas would understand that they don't have to wear Lolita. You don't like concrit and the general community? You don't like the rules or try to change almost everything? How about if you just .. stop calling your fashion Lolita. You can still wear it, heck you can still buy Lolita pieces and wear them in a non Lolita way. But why do some try to brute force their way ? Like wouldn t they just be happier with saying that just their fashion style it doesn't have a name or give it a completely new name instead of nagging all the time about the evil evil rules ?
>>10828908Ah there is nothing like the classic Lolita and vintage clothing solidarity
>>10828913because they love the label and want to be part of something. But they want all of the benefits without any of the requirements.
>>10827903>calling people newfags>using a term a term made up by a sperg who wasn't alive in 1990newfags leading newfags
>>10828090>people are consistently using the phraseyou mean O and her newfag orbiters? Lolitas at heart and newbies don't count toward clothing or language trends. In reality one person uses this term, and some newfags think having a blog means your opinion matters.
>>10828156to be fair, the ap mannequin they use for photos is TINY. If you look the side fronts of any dress pictured in their stock photos are pulled all the way to where the side seams would usually sit. Unless you're anachan or naturally thin and short, you'll never compare to AP stock photos.
well, it's finally happened: someone tried to coord a selkie dress
>>10828958*sigh* I knew this day would come. I'm surprised it didn't happen sooner.
>>10828958That literally looks like a sissy dress off etsy, jesus christ.
>>10828722@theacalix, obnoxious perma-ita who claims they "win awards for [their] coords" despite constantly looking like they got dressed in the dark
disney adults are a plague
>>10829038Was posted in the last thread.
>>10828958The shoes are cute, what are those?
>>10828693Did she use this awful McCalls pattern?
>>10829063Her pose is so stiff, it reminds me of a store mannequin
>>10829074I thought she was trying to look like a doll
>>10828958Selkie dresses are so ugly, I hope the trend dies soon
>>10829036And what 'awards' did she win exactly?
>>10829036Of course it's someone who collects those cheap children's dolls kek
>>10829063I think although this is probably a Wednesday Adams cosplay dress, the sewing is impeccable and if she ever got into lolita she would give all the other handmade itas a run for their money,
>>10829108are you retarded? anon said this is by McCalls
>>10828958I dont think the selkie dress fits them, which is pathetic when that brand has a range of sizes
>>10828958ofc it’s this sjw wank
>>10827807How is she larger than taller
>>10828958Did they even tag this as EGL?
>>10829127I know this is old, but is it so hard for these pattern companies to just find some pics of basic brand dresses and copy what they see? What the fuck even is this cut? It’s like a bunch of different costume patterns frankensteined together, and I think they actually appliqued on that fake front ribbon lacing which is just bizarre, not to mention the clown collar.
>>10829195What a shameful waste of a Gloria jsk.
>>10829063The dress is AP but it's possible for her stupid black accessories.
>>10829195She talks a lot of crap for someone with no neck
>>10829195Imagine being so fat that you don’t need to wear a blouse because you produce insane amounts of body heat. Not to mention her face is busted to hell and back. My bet is she’ll make a post on twitter about how nOt BoThErEd she is after reading these comments that aren’t kissing her ass.
>>10829195She always looks like she reeks of sweat
>>10829209it took me a minute but I realized she looks like Doris from Shrek and now I cant unsee it.
>>10829195if she wore a blouse I think it would be a pretty coord, but I just can't get over how the sleeves look like socks
>>10829196milkychan chan is cute imo
>>10829276good thing no one cares about your opinion.
>>10829264i see this girl in my fyp a lot. I'm sure she's nice but my god her content just pisses me off like... it just feels so corporate. also not Lolita lol.
>>10828021idk anon, it fits her like she's normal chubby now. I think she did well.
>>10829219this desu, I've been cold since September. I'm almost jealous of her haunches.
>>10829281Apparently she has a history of spreading misinformation. The comments are calling her out on it and the fact that it's not lolita at all.. she's actually trying to defend herself saying it's a more "casual school appropriate lolita outfit"
Simplicity Strikes Again
>>10829309Where to even start here? It pisses me off that this is something being sold to people; this is probably how middle aged Karens perceive the fashion.The blouse, totally unfitted at the wrists, in an eyelet cotton (why?), topped off with the stupidest pink ribbons at the elbows, are they even part of the blouse or just tied on?The Pepto Bismol pink joylessly crafted bows without an ounce of detail, plopped on, complete with matching shoes and polyester amazon socks!!I don't even want to touch the jsk or makeup, just kill me already.
>>10829312Nah it is for cosplayers who don't know shit about lolita. Karen's just did the pattern.I'm not excited for the number of newlitas who are gonna post this pattern asking for tip.
>>10829313Ugh autocorrect turned "Karens" into "Karen's"
>>10829309>>10829312I think the Derpy Chan fabric is fucking hilarious
>>10829296fat lolitas saving on the energy bill are probably the only ones in europe who still have any buying power.
>>10829321omg I didn't even notice that. So they just got whatever #lolita fabric they could off Spoonflower and didn't even bother to check it?
>>10829331Nta but wasn't the agreement for LHDC that you weren't to make a profit off what you make with those prints?
>>10829341If you make a profit you’re supposed to donate it to charity
>>10829312Swiss dot* sorry I was traveling and frothing at the mouth>>10829321It's so bad lol>>10829331I've tried to look on Spoonflower for some good indie prints (out of curiosity, not to actually but bc Spoonflower quality is trash) and yeahhhh...either I'm not searching correctly or lolitas haven't tackled that outlet yet.
>>10827289I’m sorry, but her hair looks like literal worms
>>10829379I was waiting for someone to post this. I don't even have the energy for everything that needs correcting. She looks like a clown.
>>10827289This girl goes to fetish events and flaunts her kinks. She keeps it on her side account which is linked to her lolita IG.
>>10829394Is any of us really surprised that the one with the dreads flaunts her kinks?
>>10829341Simplicity doesn’t give a shit, weren’t they the ones that bought indie brand stuff from a lolita event to rip off for their patterns?
>>10829341Theyre not selling the print, though, just the pattern. But I cant stop laughing at the fact they're using this print, what the fuck
>>10827487Needs a bra and a fitting top. And crocs cannot go with lolita imo. But it’s salvageable
>>10827528Agreed. Many posts seem nitpick in this thread. Some people on cof are looking worse than the people here kek
>>10829469This is fine, take your vendetta/stupid internet drama elsewhere
>>10829469for once this is a nitpick. one of cait’s better coords
>>10829195What did this girl do to piss her community off so bad?
>>10829470>>10829472Sorry for your shit taste. From the skirt down sure but the blouse style doesn't go, hair looks like shit and whatever is in the hair looks retarded. When half the coord looks off its not a nitpick.
>>10829470>>10829472are you guys joking? this looks like shit. the hair alone is a travesty
>>10829470Not everyone has a vendetta nonny. Her coords are all bland and "first coord" looking. Her hair alone puts her here. Anythings shorter than a bob looks terrible on 99% of people and she's not the exception.
>>10829505She looks better in ouji and should stick with that imho.
>>10829483What's a better blouse style to pair with this skirt?
>>10829552Something fitted that buttons down the front.
>>10829469The coord is meh, but by God I wish I had clear skin like her
>>10829561Without getting too ot try tretinoin or see what else a dermatologist can do for you. Good luck nonna.
>>10829561>>10829582her face is caked with makeup. you can see covered acne on her chin and cheeks.
>>10829309>>10829312Insane styling aside, as a patternmaker I am bothered by the way the princess seams and the straps are far too wide set for the model, the bodice is cut too high at her armpits, and the shirring of the skirt isn't distributed evenly, collapsing into two deep valleys at the front and billowing out at the sides (could be a fucky petti tho idk). It makes me think they made a large size dress and tried to pin it to fit this model. The model looks oddly masculine and I think that it's partly an illusion created by the poor cut of the jsk. Her chest appears so broad and flat.
>>10829479As a mod, she talked mad shit about others in that discordgate
Snapped a photo at today’s meet up. The black lolita in purple look like a hot mess and wanted a photo with us. I wanted to say no but they huddle us together. Won’t be shocked if we get posted here
>>10829582Where do you get tret in Asia? The doctors I’ve gone to try to prescribe benzoyl peroxide which obviously isn’t the same. Accutaine isn’t prescribed here either.
>>10829644There’s a group chat for community mods
>>10829781Noooooo I hate the rise of kink gear in Lolita. Please just don't
>>10829782Idk why but this gives me heavy nostalgia vibes
>>10828110Update to this, the Reddit OP is so delusional, holy shit. When asked why, she replied it's because she's an "adult man" who can't find anything that fits. Ok everyone knows you're a fakeboi with big fatty tits.
>>10829811Dropped pic like an idiot retard
>>10829808Do you consider lace kinky due to its use in lingerie?
>>10828806Besides her being ugly how is this ita? The dress, shoes, and tights aren't terrible together. I like that meta cat dress also.
>>10829781The harness doesn't even follow the cut of the dress and it looks ill-fitting, and what look is this supposed to be going for?
>>10829812Not even trying to make a passable coord
>>10829813are you trying to defend the harness? i dont see what point you’re trying to make here
>>10829813nta but lace has been used on outer clothing for hundreds of years. Also sexual isn't the same as kinky.
>>10829812My god that's not a coord at all. I'm not even that opposed to the dying but the OP could at least think a little bit about what they're wearing before posting a picture online. And maybe shower a little bit lmao
>>10829813You're retarded nonny. Lace doesn't make something kinky. Lace is just a trim and type of fabric.
>>10829817Pastel goth probably
>>10829812Im getting real tired of these people assuming that minimal effort= casual. Thats not how it works at all.
>>10829814People get posted here over nothing.
>>10829851As someone who is more of a noob I'd say casual takes way more effort bc it still needs to fit together and to give off Lolita but without coming across over the top OR underdressed like it's something you're wearing as a fetish. The lack of socks really is disturbing and seems really fetish-y
>>10829814If someone is fat, older, or homely, they'll get posted regardless of how nice the coord is. And especially in the modern era of lolita being plus size friendly, skinny snowflakes seem to rage that they have to share their precious hobby with average-sized women.
>>10829782>>10829809I get the same vibes too. Reminds me of 2010 when ita's ideas of lolita was wearing a dress that vaguely looks like a kimono and an anime wig. The sleeves looks like something a 2000 anime "lolita" girl would wear. I can't hate this it's not lolita but it makes me miss those days where an ita's biggest crime was buying from Milanoo contra today where its wearing kink gear and clown make up.Her dress looks like to be higher quality than a Milanoo dress too it's a cute dress desu but it's not lolita
>>10829851That's not why she was posted. She did a shitty job of dying a dress. The thread and ribbon are polyester and she didn't even try to dye it again to fix that. She just did a cotton dye and wanted everyone to suck her dick for it not looking as bad as other dye jobs people have attempted.
>>10829866I agree but my statement still stands
>>10829856Average sized women have always worn lolita, chubby women can fit most non old school brand. Plus MAM is great for short plus sized women. It's really only if you're tall or have a larger bust that it's difficult, but most of us with big boobs just manage with alterations and carefully choosing certain cuts over others.I guess if you're tall and plus sized it's been a little harder in the past but Meta has been putting out 2 new plus sizes and longer cuts in general for many releases, BABY has always had multiple sizes by having multiple cuts and their printed skirts are usually fit for up to 120cm waist which is crazy accessible for plus sized people and skirt cuts are cheaper. And all brands seem to have been in general making cuts longer.The vocal minority of people who hate on well dressed plus sized people in lolita as often as poorly dressed ones aren't really representative of the fashion as a whole and availability of plus sized items for people who are overweight but not morbidly obese is pretty broad unless you only want pastel 2010s AP prints and refuse to buy anything else or alter your clothing.
>>10829781Not sure why you cropped the other girl out when they are both itas
>>10829812i honestly kinda like the pink ribbons, even if it's due to their ignorance concerning fabric dyeingbut holy fucking shit what is this legwear ??????
>>10829812I don't even care about how they look anymore, the more ita thing is them posting this trash opinion in the comments:>it is your job to bring up the new members of this communityFuck no. Itas have this stupid expectation that older lolitas are here to coddle them and helps them grow. We don't have to. It's fine for us to just express criticism. If we don't ~accept~ you or whatever, maybe take that as a sign you're doing something wrong or your coords are simply bad. I will never be someone's mentor just because I have more experience, and I owe nothing to anyone. Being "part of the community" doesn't shackle you to a life of pandering to newbies.
>>10829856>average sizedkeep telling yourself that
>>10829856“average sized” where? in Japan the average BMI is 22 and height is 160cm. That’s who the clothes are designed for.In the USA the average BMI is 26 and height is 162cm, so yeah, you might be “average” in Texas but you’re not going to look good in lolita. I doubt itas being posted here are even in the healthy BMI range. Obesity alone makes a coord look bad.
Fatty Chan? CheckGenderspecial? Check Ugly hair and outfit? Check
>>10829892Everyone is kissing her ass too. This community needs to be gatekept harder.
>>10829921They always kiss the asses of AGPs and genderspecials. Smh
>>10829892It needs to be gatekept harder if anything. If this fashion is to stay alive at least.
>>10829896Thats the average height for men. For women its 148.9 cm roughly 4'9"
>>10829896And its about 5'4" for westerners. Around 162.56 cm
>>10829814Pretty sure that's a man but the taobao paw purse and the chainmail tights don't stand out to you? The wig bangs swept to the sides because they haven't bothered to trim them?
>>10829891i like the pink ribbons too but the white threads throw it off
>>10829964The average height for women in Japan is over 159cm/5’3. Where did you get 4’9 from?
>>10829863That's what it reminded me of, thank you
>>10829469Does anyone know what brand that skirt is?
>>10829812What do her delusions about being an adult man have to do with her not fitting into clothes OP, I'm confused?
>>10829902Don't forget she's also uwu autistic so her super cereal sensory issues prevent her from dressing nicely or taking any good advice she might get.
>>10830228Honestly though if it gives you sensory issues to the point your outfit cannot register as lolita then maybe lolita isnt for you. Try a different aesthetic. Why does it HAVE to be lolita fashion when theres a multitude of 'cutsey' styles out there where you dont need to have things like a petticoat and lolita shoes. Why cant they just wear some hot topic dress with sneakers and call it a day??
>>10830227She's obviously a fatty genderspecial and in order to validate herself, she blames it on the fact that she's "an adult man" as the reason why dresses that fit are hard to come by. Delusional cope.
her fucking legs
>>10830446lol this girl was whining in the subreddit questions thread that she's 'super impatient' so she only buys dresses from Amazon and then throwing a fit and deleting all her comments when everyone told her that her shitty dresses aren't lolita
>>10829196Looks like three badly dressed fatties and a dude in a pink wig
>>10827452most Finnish lolitas look bad no matter what.
>>10830619I love that she said Shein was slow fashion. Girl is dumb as rocks. I wonder where she found that has "real" lolita for $20. Probably a scam shop. I hope she has fun wasting her money.
>>10830619Damn I must've missed out on the drama before she deleted the post. Anyone know her username or have screenshots?
>>10830749KawaiiCandiiLoveShe edited her original "ask us anything" question but you can still see all of the deleted responses on her user profile. She's honestly so pathetic. kek
>>10830738Probably Milanoo, waiting for her to post her trashbag 'kawaii lolita dress' and the get mad that we're all racist meanies again
>>10830222Souffle Song but it's shit, the print is super blurry IRL and the fabric is cheap af.
>>10830774>>10830775Thanks for the great evening read. The fact that she's an adult Bluey fan tells me all I need to know about her emotional maturity.
>>10830775Thank you anon>>10830881Well that's unfortunate, thanks for saving me the disappointment
>>10830775Does anyone have photos of these $20 sweet lolita dresses she's talking about? I'd love to see them
>>10830774>>10830775>"i don't have to please you!111!!!"This girl really doesn't get that it's not about one person's disapproval. It's the entire community. Anyone who can't take a $20 loss and correct their mistakes is a lost cause. Those dresses should indeed rot in her closet. They honestly behave like a child and I'm scared to know how old this person is.
>>10830921She bragged about getting 5 dresses for $200 on Amazon but somehow "can't" spend $200 on one dress. She wouldn't even listen to anyone saying not all dresses are that expensive. I also want to know how old she is. She acts like a spoiled child but complains about bills.