Lolita confessions

[Anonymous No.10617807]

Last thread >>10611530

[Anonymous No.10617859]

I posted this in the feels thread already but I have a beautiful vintage rabbit fur beret I've worn with a lot of coords but have had to lie to people about and tell them that it's fake because people swing into moral panic about real fur. I don't get it, because a lot of the same people who do this are perfectly okay with wearing leather, sheepskin/shearling (like UGGs), silk, and eating meat frequently. And I don't want to hear that meat is a necessity because yeah it is, but not at the amounts your average American eats it (which is far higher per capita than any other country). Is killing animals okay or not?

[Anonymous No.10617868]

>>10617859
I know that feel anon. I had a coat with coyote fur that was given to me and people would bitch at me for owning it even though it was normal to hunt coyotes (without using the corpse) just because they were a nuisance and it was GIFTED to me, did they think I was going to throw away a perfectly good coat?

[Anonymous No.10617878]

>>10617859
Ngl I do feel iffy at first but literally vintage or second hand I don't see the problem since said animal was killed years and years ago, like there is not much you can do now and in a way I think it's more fair to the animal to wear it in than not at all?
If it's newly bought then I don't like it
When it comes to leather the only "new" leather I own are dr Martens but my coats are or fake or vintage and I'm a vegetarian but idk if that makes any difference

[Anonymous No.10617894]

Poofy petticoats are so ugly it makes you look clownish

[Anonymous No.10617899]

>>10617894
Your lack of one looks ita. We only care about appealing to properly dressed lolitas. Not itas that don't understand the importance of a good petti.

[Anonymous No.10617948]

>>10617859
If you care, I don't eat animals and own a rabbit and think it's perfectly okay especially if it's vintage. Raising animals in shitty conditions for fur is considered bad for a reason and I wouldn't buy new fur garments but if you already have one don't let it go to waste. Think how many lolitas order fur pom poms or other accessories from China. It would be hypocritical for someone to go after your beret. Rabbits are cute and I think it's the main reason people care.

[Anonymous No.10618021]

>>10617859
meat isn't necessary for the vast majority of people in the west lol

[Anonymous No.10618024]

>>10617859
isn't silk sourced from insects? people have almost zero empathy for insects, birds, and fish so while the others are definitely hypocritical, i can see why no one gives two shits about silk.

[Anonymous No.10618025]

>>10617894
Do you even go here?

[Anonymous No.10618027]

Fuck it I'm gonna say it.
Almost all prints look like ugly cheap shit, especially sweet

[Anonymous No.10618033]

>>10618021
Oh also yea the reason they react like that is because almost everyone is a massive hypocrite who becomes deeply uncomfortable when confronted with anything that challenges their idea of themselves as a decent person, even if you weren't intending to do so. And fur, being in basically the same form on you that it is on the animal, reminds them of the life that was taken for your fashion. And by implication, for their fashion, and food, and pleasure.

It takes a lot of effort and work to recognize the reflex in oneself (especially regularly), and it's even harder to do so then make changes that bring your behavior in line with your self-perception. Most people never really 'get' there because it's so much more comfortable to come up with a list of excuses as to why you can't possibly change, or it's someone else's fault, or it is in fact a problem but if you were more polite about the rabbit fur or didn't wear it because it makes them uncomfortable they might ACTUALLY consider your points, or or or.

What is a man? A miserable little ~~pile of secrets~~ hypocrite.

[Anonymous No.10618036]

>>10618027
You have shit taste, I will keep my prints thank you

t. grandma couch print loving classicfag

[Anonymous No.10618038]

I laughed really hard at this listing and I (almost) feel bad. egl.circlly /auctions/bust-up-to-110cm-regular-size-pierrot-iridescent-lavender-purple-organza-blouse-by-kaneko-modified-read-description-plus-size-friendly

It's the girl who left a negative review because she was so *fat* she hulked out of the seams while trying it on, cried on camera, and then blamed her "huge muscles" kek. Ugly blouse anyhow, wasn't surprised lor bought it too. It's quite costumey/clownish.

[Anonymous No.10618040]

>>10618036
>>10618027
I think they were referring to border and "theme" prints, not just printed fabric. To which, I can agree there.

>>10617894
No petticoat is ita, but also overstuffing is equally ita.

Tangentially related, but most fat/chubby lolitas could really benefit from smoothing shapewear, even if their clothes fit. Lolita is delicate enough that you can't rely on the clothes themselves to keep shape; like the right petticoat, the right compression garment would probably help a lot of lolitas look less embarassing in the fashion.

[Anonymous No.10618042]

>>10618040
>. Lolita is delicate enough that you can't rely on the clothes themselves to keep shape

This only applies for cheap thin shit or poly. Maybe some light unlined things like thinner BTSSB JSKs but those are not gonna fit a fatty anyway.

[Anonymous No.10618043]

>>10618027
Hard agree

[Anonymous No.10618049]

>>10618042
I would argue that anything with shirring qualifies under the "delicate" umbrella: delicate != cheap

[Anonymous No.10618052]

>>10618049
Partially shirred things can have good structure (like 1/4 shirring, not usually full back/half shirring), but also my FPS fully shirred JSK actually feels quite sturdy and the cotton pretty thick despite it being the MTO. Some BTSSB fully shirred JSKs also feel quite stiff and sturdy and have strong elastic, but I guess if you were fat enough to max out those full shirring items you are gonna look squished by it and weird cause fatties also hate wearing bras in lolita. Really the issue is fatties are too squishy or big and force the clothes out of shape by not fitting in them well a lot of the time, not that the clothes can't keep their shape, at least the nicer stuff from most sweet brands.

[Anonymous No.10618069]

I'm enjoying cgl way too much, lol. Though I don't condone with the hate for fat people the asspatting they get wearing ugly coords and garments that don't fit is just annoying

[Anonymous No.10618089]

i’m considering getting a breast reduction just so i can be comfier in brand OPs without like a binder or compression bra… ALL my other measurements fit AP/BTSSB dresses i just have a tiny ribcage and tig ass bitties :((( but everyone i tell says it’s a really superficial reason to get a surgery?? like it’s the fashion/hobby i love the most and it would make me so much more comfortable in my skin. idk. just thinking a lot lately

[Anonymous No.10618099]

>>10617894
are you chronically stupid? do you know what lolita is???

[Anonymous No.10618104]

>>10618089
I daydream about it too, in all honesty.

[Anonymous No.10618112]

>>10617807
I keep a list of people who lie to fatties and troons about how "great" they look in their ill-fitted, mismatched coords. I need to know who I can trust

[Anonymous No.10618199]

>>10618089
Omg me too, it keeps on popping in my head every few weeks

[Anonymous No.10618209]

>>10618089
I'm thinking about it too. 32D but otherwise a twig here...Can't fit into most IW. boobs won't go away no matter how much weight I lose and I fucked up my ribs with a binder as a dumb teen. I wouldn't mind going flat honestly. I cosplay male characters a lot too and it would be nice to not worry about making my breasts vanish

[Anonymous No.10618238]

>>10618209
YES, there are so many old classic dresses i would love to wear. especially MM. being like a flat A/B is lowkey a dream. having boobs is overrated :/

[Anonymous No.10618243]

>>10618209

IW tube bodice boob loaf is a pain for everyone. I have had A boobs for the longest time and IW STILL doesn't look good on me. I have no idea who they're supposed to look good on.

[Anonymous No.10618285]

i dont understand my lolita friends telling me hime lolita is too OTT and that its costume wear and outdated. bitch do you realize in the eyes of normie we are all seen as mentally ill autists? i wear hime lolita because i fucking love it. i feel like a princess and it makes me happy. yes i wear fucking big dresses with a tiara, gloves, necklace, lace fan, parasols, etc and i fucking love it. i dont judge my friends when they wear sweet, gothic etc even though its not my style so why are they judging me? sigh

[Anonymous No.10618305]

>>10618285
Your pic is not even hime lolita, it’s OTT classic

[Anonymous No.10618336]

>>10618305
no thats hime lolita. those type of one-pieces are very popular with hime lolita and the necklaces, hairstyle, parasol and gloves give it away.
hime lolita isnt always pink

[Anonymous No.10618341]

>>10618305
its also in this lol
https://www.misskwonderland.com/hime-lolita/

[Anonymous No.10618385]

my friend makes me feel bad for wearing AP because its not plus size friendly

[Anonymous No.10618387]

>>10618385
She's jealous that you're able to wear it

[Anonymous No.10618413]

I'm so glad I left sweet. Now I can wear all brand coords I'm much more comfortable in that are also well within my budget.

[Anonymous No.10618419]

>>10618209
Are you sure you’re a 32D? Because I’m the same size, and IW bust fits best on me

[Anonymous No.10618428]

>>10618285
That's probably because the items you're buying look cheap irl and you look ridiculous and unflattering as a result.

Taobao nu-classic is a cancer, if you were less of an ita you would have more positive reactions.

>t. A classic lolita who's normie friends genuinely like their style

[Anonymous No.10618433]

>>10618209
>32D
unless you're a giraffe, you can easily just go down a band size and fit in. I'm 28FF (more like 26 but that's hard af to find) and still manage to fit into brand because of the small band

[Anonymous No.10618437]

>>10618209
>>10618419
I hate to be preachy like this but 32D is on the smaller side when properly fitted, contrary to popular belief. It should mean your ribcage is about 32 inches and your bust is about 36 inches (the D stands for 4 inches difference). You might not be wearing the best size for you and from personal experience I've found that everything fits way better after getting properly sized. I'm not saying getting a new bra will magically make you fit into IW but it might help a little or at least make you more comfortable with your chest.

It's best to go to a professional fitter (avoid Victoria's Secret and other shitty mall-tier shops) but I get that that's not easy right now. The most accurate online calculator I've found is https://abrathatfits.org/calculator.php.. I'm not exaggerating when I say that getting the right size has changed my life, please give it a chance.

[Anonymous No.10618440]

>>10618433
I am tall. Additionally my breasts are extremely firm and don't compress much. Also like I said earlier my ribcage is fucked up from binding as a teen so I don't even wear bras anymore because it's just too painful (I only wear jsks with blouses underneath and sometimes stick on those silicone nipple covers so you can never tell)

[Anonymous No.10618444]

>>10618433
NAYRT but I had a breast reduction after being 30F... that's not how that works. Unless anon is wearing the wrong bra size (is your underwire sitting on the line where the breast tissue stops? Is the center gore laying flat/the back laying straight?) Wearing a sister size of a smaller band isn't going to make your breasts smaller.
If you can afford it, a breast reduction with a good surgeon is godly though. I'm down to a 30D and while my size didn't change too much the difference has been well worth it

[Anonymous No.10618458]

>>10618444
You'd only be wearing a sister size after weight loss if you lost none of it from your breasts. This isn't how weight loss works.

[Anonymous No.10618548]

>>10618305
It's a princess costume that's what it is.
My confession is that i think these types of dresses aren't lolita. It looks costumey as fuck and yes i am aware of what lolita generally looks like but ever since the last 2000s this fashion became such garbage focusing on how many likes it can gets

[Anonymous No.10618650]

>>10618243
Really? I'm a 34a and they look fine one me? Granted, my chest is really small but you must have bigger a cups?

[Anonymous No.10618797]

>>10618243
you're definitely not an A cup

[Anonymous No.10619112]

>>10617859
Eh. It's vintage. You didn't directly support a fur farm. I don't see an issue. And you're right, people are very hypocritical. They'll freak out about fur but turn around and eat beef. Is it because they consider rabbits to be cute, but not cows or pigs?

I think anyone who balks at the idea of killing a 'cute' animal for consumption, but is okay with killing an 'ugly' one, should think about why that is. Arguably, it's worse to kill the cow or the pig because they are intelligent and social creatures, moreso than a rabbit.

tl;dr wear your vintage fur. If people get mad about it, and they're still eating meat, they are hypocrites.

[Anonymous No.10619117]

>>10618089
> it would make me so much more comfortable in my skin

It's your body. You don't need people's approval to do what you want with it. You're the one who has to live in your body, at the end of the day.

[Anonymous No.10619119]

>>10618089
you might regret it. Fatties keep their fat and just tailor dresses around their bodies, why don't you do the same and tailor it around your boobs? If Stocking can wear burando you can too

[Anonymous No.10619123]

>>10618797
>>10618650

My bust is barely 30 on a good day, but a a tube is still a tube on me. I haven't gotten posted here yet though so maybe it's just me being self conscious.

[Anonymous No.10619129]

>>10618027
This has been said by others for years, covidlita.

[Anonymous No.10619130]

>>10619119
stocking isn't real and is also an ita

[Anonymous No.10619146]

I hate the new mid calf length trend in lolita, you cant escape it in classic

[Anonymous No.10619149]

>>10619146
I agree. It might be ok if the designs had a more structured bodice, or a nipped waist or more details but mostly they just look like muumuus made out of curtains

[Anonymous No.10619181]

>>10619149
its either a mumu or the vertical split in the middle. Perfection and then it splits.

[Anonymous No.10619188]

I hate the lack of structure a lot of dresses have now, even gothic and classic are just sacs now. Why?? It all has the same shape

[Anonymous No.10619189]

>>10619146
I think it's really pretty.

[Anonymous No.10619566]

>>10618385
Cancel that friendship

[Anonymous No.10619583]

>>10619123
You know that say absolutely nothing without an underbust measurement, right?

[Anonymous No.10619585]

>>10619188
this ugly shit is popular in china with chinese lolita types. jfash right now is also being heavily influenced by kpop and china in general, so from the mainstream down things are getting more identical. shit like mass production style especially is staining the alt jfash world right now. all the trends are awful baggy edgy-desu stuff.

[Anonymous No.10619591]

>>10617894
i agree that lower poof like the OP pic looks way better
kek at all the people missing the point

[Anonymous No.10619595]

>>10619585
ugh that explains it. That can only looks cute on an emaciated, starved from a young age thin boned girl. Or someone so fat they lost all their curves.

[Anonymous No.10619811]

I get a strong sense of superiority over the fact I'm not an embarassing edgelord like the rest of you. The bulk of you talk like 13 yo boys trying their hardest to sound edgy for their COD buddies. It literally makes me cringe at times to see how tragically classless you behave.

[Anonymous No.10619813]

>>10619811
Good. No one cares about your sensibilities, snowflake. Look at where you are. You chose to be on this website and that is the culture. Gb2gaia newfag.

[Anonymous No.10619818]

>>10619813
The ~muh board culture~ cope doesn't make you any less trashy, nonnie. Sorry the truth hurts.

[Anonymous No.10619822]

>>10619811
>get a strong sense of superiority
>It literally makes me cringe
>talks like this
you were saying?

[Anonymous No.10619826]

>>10619818
>Your Asperger's is showing
You're the black sheep, here, and on a specifically anonymous website. Blending in is part of social etiquette. If you don't like it, use another website newfag.

[Anonymous No.10619829]

>>10619826
You do realize this is the confessions thread, right? I am confessing something in the appropriate thread for it. Perhaps you should take your own advice and avoid the threads where it's most likely you'll see an opinion that you feel personally attacked by?

Also, accusing someone of having aspergers because hearing truths you don't like triggers you- how original and not predictable on the slightest. You guys really might want to reevaluate your bizarre obsession with using autism and aspergers insults beyond just ~muh board culture~. It really comes off as some kind of strange projection cope type of thing.

Also, for the record- not that I'm proud of this, but I'm not new. I've been coming on amd off to /cgl/ since 2009. I just haven't let the 4chan brain worms rot my mind and corrupt my normal meter like the rest of you.

[Anonymous No.10619835]

I don't ever want lolita friends and I don't participate in the online fandom because I like being the token lolita in a group of weeb girls. I would probably be very upset if another lolita entered the group of if one of my friends wanted to join the fashion.

[Anonymous No.10619840]

I think all modern lolita is ugly and boring. Classic, gothic and sweet used to be so much nicer pre 2010.

[Anonymous No.10619844]

>>10619835
>fandom
yeah we can tell you're weeb trash

[Anonymous No.10619884]

>>10619811

Oof the irony in that entire statement. Calling kettle black much?

[Anonymous No.10619887]

>>10619835
Lmaaoo fandom

[Anonymous No.10619888]

>>10619844
Fandom isn't a weeb word, anon. It's used to refer to literally anything, even normie shit like sports.

[Anonymous No.10619889]

>>10619811
I don't get why y'all are so butthurt over this post, as if people feeling superior to one another over every little thing is a forgein concept here. This is simply just taking it to its final form.

[Anonymous No.10619890]

I think I’m developing a mania or something. Yesterday, I browsed dresses for 12 hours in one sitting.

[Anonymous No.10619892]

>>10619890
...That's not manic, that's what I do for the majority of my day and I feel fine

[Anonymous No.10619896]

>>10619188
This desu. Can’t buy fucking anything since they don’t fit on normal petticoats, and there is no point in buying a tallfag petti just for them as a shortfag.

[Anonymous No.10619898]

>>10619892
You're mentally ill.

[Anonymous No.10619899]

>>10619892
Imo it’s fun to arrange a coord from 10 separate tabs, and then change your mind on a spesific item for reason x, and then find out that another item has issue y, and so on. And in the end, not getting anything since you’re so deep in the rabbit hole that you cannot decide what to wishlist.

[Anonymous No.10619900]

>>10618548
How is it not lolita when lolita is inspired from victorian or rococo fashion?
It looks better than 95% of shit posted here

[Anonymous No.10619901]

>>10619899
Oh anon, same. I am also supremely bored though.

[Anonymous No.10619905]

>>10619896
unless your legs are thin and bonespo it'll look weird and gross on you no matter what height

[Anonymous No.10619920]

I enjoy the occasional ban. It’s like a nice little 3-day vacation

[Anonymous No.10619924]

>>10619920
It’s concerning that you need to be banned to take a break from here

[Anonymous No.10619928]

>>10619920
Just start posting lolitas and calling them fat and you'll get a ban in due time by triggering one of the jannies panties into a wad.

[Anonymous No.10619931]

>>10619188
omg that's it, that's why I don't like lolita from now it's the fucking shape

[Anonymous No.10619949]

Any OP worth more than 600$ is fucking overpriced. How the fuck is a dress i want 2k? Fuck you

[Anonymous No.10619951]

>>10619949
Im talking about this dress. Fucking 2k even on lace market. I pray one day ill be able to afford it

[Anonymous No.10619957]

>>10619951
>>10619949
That’s a typical price for that kind of dress though. It’s nothing outrageous?

[Anonymous No.10619959]

>>10619951
What are you on? These kinds of dresses are always at least 1-2k retail. You sound new.

[Anonymous No.10619961]

>>10619951
You're just salty you can't afford a BTSSB wedding dress?

[Anonymous No.10619967]

>>10619957
How is it not outrageous? Even harietta dresses are so much bigger than this and they dont even cost 1k. How is this 2k worthy? Thats just retarded

[Anonymous No.10619968]

>>10619967
You’re the retard

[Anonymous No.10619969]

>>10619961
>>10619959
calm down im allowed to think its overpriced. Just because its your precious japanese burando doesnt mean i cant criticize it.

[Anonymous No.10619971]

>>10619968
im not but keep defending overpriced shit if it makes you feel more japanese i guess

[Anonymous No.10619972]

>>10619971
Everyone here thinks you’re retarded and the price isn’t outrageous, newfag

[Anonymous No.10619973]

>>10619972
i dont care. youre acting as if your opinion matters lol you old hags are triggered and its funny. Its not worth 2k. Seethe more.

[Anonymous No.10619974]

>>10619973
>old hags

Oh you’re back. Thought you had learned your lesson Hagsperg-chan

[Anonymous No.10619977]

>>10619969
>>10619971
>>10619973
Okay we all know you're 13 years old. Please leave. If you don't want to pay the actual retail price for something, get over not owning it. No one is going to sell you a couture dress for under $600.

[Anonymous No.10619978]

>>10619974
>not knowing the insult old hag is common in imagebords
i dont know who that anon is but that dress is still overpriced asf and should be 800$ max so stay mad i guess.

[Anonymous No.10619979]

>>10619978
We can tell it’s you. And no, it’s not common. In fact until earlier this year you can see it was almost never used in the archives.

[Anonymous No.10619980]

>>10619977
im allowed to complain and im not underage so stay mad. yall bitches defend brands as if they care about you. get a grip and take your meds

[Anonymous No.10619981]

>>10619979
Its literally not me. I just started posting on cgl for 2 days even though ive browsed it for years. i guess that triggered you though?

[Anonymous No.10619982]

>>10619980
Let me put this in a way you can understand underageb&

Go touch some grass

[Anonymous No.10619983]

>>10619978
>should be 800$ max
Can you articulate exactly why anything above $800 is too much?

[Anonymous No.10619984]

>>10619980
No one is defending brand for the virtue of the brand, dipshit. They just think this a reasonably priced and well made dress. Get over it.

[Anonymous No.10619985]

>>10619981
>I just started posting on cgl for 2 days

I believe that

> even though ive browsed it for years

This is a blatant lie though

[Anonymous No.10619986]

>>10619984
Im allowed to think otherwise so get over my opinion. a mentally sane person wouldnt care this much if someone thought something was overpriced its not that deep

[Anonymous No.10619988]

>>10619986
Nayrt but it’s obvious you can’t explain why you think it’s overpriced because you’re embarrassed that the real reason is you’re just too poor

[Anonymous No.10619989]

>>10619985
its creepy how you’re acting as if you know me.

[Anonymous No.10619990]

>>10619989
You’re batshit crazy we can tell from your posts

[Anonymous No.10619993]

>>10619980
Anon, this dress was sold for ¥220,000 originally. It's one of BtSSB's specialty dresses that people had to reserve through a lottery in 2019. You're fucking lucky that's someone's even selling it secondhand because they're probably only a handful in existence.

You're freaking out that you can't get a wedding-tier type dress for dirt cheap. Manage your expectations or gtfo.

[Anonymous No.10619994]

>>10619986
Oh my God you're the one who's been saying this whole time that anyone who disagrees with you is a hag or nuts for disagreeing, while providing no explanation for thinking it's overpriced. Are you this bad at manipulation in real life?

[Anonymous No.10619995]

>>10619988
i dont owe you shit. i said its overpriced and you will deal. also i have AP dresses and a 5k wardrobe and i get free shit often. i still wouldnt spend 2k on a dress. keep projecting i guess lol its not that deep but youre acting as if i killed you.

[Anonymous No.10619996]

>>10619995
5k is literally nothing in terms of wardrobe building. You are pathetic and poor

[Anonymous No.10619997]

>>10619994
>>10619993
>>10619990
>being this triggered someone thinks a dress is overpriced
i hope yall have a psychiatrist irl

[Anonymous No.10619998]

>>10619995
>UwU check out my 5k wardrobe senpai~~

[Anonymous No.10619999]

>>10619995
>5k wardrobe
Do... you think that's impressive?
>get free shit often
That explains a lot

[Anonymous No.10620001]

>>10619995
Kek this is such poorfag cope

[Anonymous No.10620004]

>>10619997
I love when people who are triggered call others triggered. It always gives a chuckle. It's nice to laugh.

[Anonymous No.10620005]

>>10619996
get help

[Anonymous No.10620006]

Can you all just chill, it’s obviously that one anon who purposefully come here to start shit because “gulls are bipches and arguing is fun”.

[Anonymous No.10620007]

>>10619995
>bragging about getting free stuff

Poorfag confirmed

[Anonymous No.10620008]

>>10620004
>>10620001
>>10619999
>>10619998
stay mad at a harmless opinion <3

[Anonymous No.10620009]

>>10620006
no. all i said was a dress was overpriced and anons are mad as if i killed them. its sad how grown ass women act like that. id expect that behavior from 12 years olds then again this is cgl

[Anonymous No.10620010]

>>10620008
Have fun buying literally anything, ever.

[Anonymous No.10620011]

>>10620009
Why do you think anyone is mad

[Anonymous No.10620012]

>>10620009
It's because grown ass women know that a dress like that is going to cost $$$. Go crawl back to Wish and your $5k taobao wardrobe lol

[Anonymous No.10620014]

>>10620009
You’re clearly the one who’s mad anon

[Anonymous No.10620015]

>>10620012
>>10620011
>>10620010
seek help

[Anonymous No.10620016]

>>10620014
im not mad. its funny to see anons being mad and offended i think a dress is overpriced lol

[Anonymous No.10620018]

>>10620016
You're upset you can't buy the dress though. That's the whole reason you posted.
>I pray one day ill be able to afford it
Remember...?

[Anonymous No.10620020]

>>10619949
>>10619951
Yeah anon is right these two posts don't sound the least bit angry or salty, anon is just praying one day they can afford it lmao

[Anonymous No.10620021]

>>10620016
You are mentally ill

[Anonymous No.10620023]

>>10620020
>>10620018
>>10620021
keep hating on someone you dont know because of a harmless opinion lol seek help and grow up

[Anonymous No.10620025]

>>10620023
Nobody is “hating” on you. You are entertainment because you are insane.

[Anonymous No.10620027]

>>10620023
It's an anonymous message board it's literally built to mock idiots you've never met

[Anonymous No.10620028]

>>10620025
insane because of i think a dress is overpriced? ah yes that makes sense. and yes yall are hating on me and acting as if you know me. chill

[Anonymous No.10620029]

>>10620028
Honestly anon I’d block you if I knew you. I don’t deal with crazy on a more personal level

[Anonymous No.10620031]

>>10620029
once again youre calling someone crazy for thinking a dress is overpriced. do you realize that? the irony

[Anonymous No.10620032]

>>10620031
It’s not because you think a dress is overpriced. It’s because of your behavior

[Anonymous No.10620034]

>>10620028
Insane because you reject the reality that the dress is going to always be worth $2k. And then not being able to justify or give a single reason it shouldn't be over $800. I'm still waiting to hear why.

[Anonymous No.10620035]

>>10620034
I accept the dress is 2k it doesnt mean i cant complain. its not like i can change the price? People can have different opinions who gives a shit let it go
>>10620032
Its not that deep really

[Anonymous No.10620036]

>>10620035
It really is though. That’s the reason you’re getting this response

[Anonymous No.10620038]

>>10620036
Youre acting as if i killed someone.

[Anonymous No.10620040]

>>10620038
No, we aren’t. We’re giving you valid criticism and you’re throwing a tantrum like an unhinged downs child

[Anonymous No.10620042]

>>10619119
Basing your wardrobe off anime is ita as hell

[Anonymous No.10620043]

>>10620040
>valid criticism
calling me poor, mentally ill, insane, etc isnt criticism.

[Anonymous No.10620044]

>>10620038
Anon, if we thought that, it would be much, much worse.

[Anonymous No.10620045]

>>10620042
how do you feel about people mixing lolita with anime? thank god thats not a trend anymore

[Anonymous No.10620046]

>>10620043
Yes it is lmao

[Anonymous No.10620047]

I have a huge crush on someone from my comm. I always look forward to seeing them when we have meets and I absolutely melt whenever they compliment my coords.

[Anonymous No.10620048]

>>10620046
its not constructive criticism. come on anon

[Anonymous No.10620049]

>>10620047
Thats really cute anon. How often do you see her?

[Anonymous No.10620051]

>>10619188
I hate that shape it makes everyone look fat if that makes sense

[Anonymous No.10620052]

>>10620048
Nobody said “constructive” they said valid

[Anonymous No.10620053]

>>10620052
either way its just shitty

[Anonymous No.10620054]

>>10620038
Wow that's dramatic lol

[Anonymous No.10620055]

>>10620053
Welcome to 4chan, newfag

[Anonymous No.10620057]

>>10620054
Ganging up on someone and acting as if you know them, assuming everything about them and throwing the same insults over and over again for one opinion is dramatic

[Anonymous No.10620058]

I've been thinking about being a lolita youtuber and I do want to do it but the problem is that I don't want to show my face. This wouldn't be a problem but since it's based on looks/ fashion I'm scared people won't take me seriously or think I'm some kind of werido

[Anonymous No.10620059]

>>10620057
Lmao you certainly seem to think so, yes xD

[Anonymous No.10620060]

>>10620058
>lolita
>worrying about being seen as a weirdo

[Anonymous No.10620061]

>>10620058
Honestly anon do it. Lets be honest many popular lolita youtubers we have are ugly anyway. no one cares about that anymore. People dont expect lolitas to look like models

[Anonymous No.10620062]

>>10620045
Mixing anime and lolita is textbook ita behavior

[Anonymous No.10620063]

>>10620059
>xD

[Anonymous No.10620064]

>>10620058
I think if you wanna do that you kinda just have to expect a negative reaction, putting yourself in the limelight will automatically open yourself up to bring criticized and nitpicked. You have to make a clear decision as to whether or not you're okay with that. It's not a possibility, it's inevitable.

[Anonymous No.10620065]

>>10620061
Yeah but I guess the main reason I don't want to show my face is to stay anonymous but I also wouldn't want people to not watch me because I'm ugly or vise versa

[Anonymous No.10620070]

>>10620065
You could always wear a mask. That way the focus would be on your coord and your content.

[Anonymous No.10620072]

>>10620065
Anon just make a youtube channel and if it bothers you then you can always delete it. Life is too short.

[Anonymous No.10620073]

>>10620065
If you want to remain anonymous don't bother trying to become a content creator.

[Anonymous No.10620076]

>>10620073
There's plenty of faceless content creators

[Anonymous No.10620099]

>>10620076
Not in small fashion based communities like lolita.

[Anonymous No.10620106]

>>10620058
kind of same, but /cgl/ knows my face and it doesn’t feel worth making content when half the comm is just going to shit on me no matter how inoffensive it is.

how did princess peachie manage to go unscathed? the only negative thing i really hear about her is replicas (which is good, she hasn’t really done anything). or did she actually get a lot of flack when she was relevant?

[Anonymous No.10620111]

>>10620106
She kept to herself, made videos on lolita (mainly) and didnt post unhinged rants on social media. Its really that easy. Her content was pure and wholesome. I dont remember any drama with her. I will say that many people thought her makeup made her look like she has down syndrome but thats all i can think of.
The reason why theres many drama nowadays is because people are very “political” and rant all the fucking time.
Treat youtube as if it was your job. Would you want to rant to your boss? I guess its the same concept. Thats how you can remain “unscathed “ in my opinion

[Anonymous No.10620113]

>>10620111
Also be cordial to other youtubers but know most of them will try to start some shit so keep your distance with them

[Anonymous No.10620116]

>>10620106
She did catch flack and accusations of being an age player idk what >>10620111 is on acting like there wasn’t any drama surrounding her

[Anonymous No.10620120]

>>10620065
Lor is plenty ugly and people still watch her

[Anonymous No.10620128]

>>10620116
>She did catch flack and accusations of being an age player
Why do people care so much about other people's private sex lives jfc

[Anonymous No.10620132]

>>10620116
Well i personally i dont remember any drama with her. On lolcow the most i can remember was people saying her makeup is trash

[Anonymous No.10620134]

>>10620120
dont forget her makeup is fucking horrible yet shes still popular so people just dont care a lot

[Anonymous No.10620142]

>>10620116
that was a big thing iirc

[Anonymous No.10620143]

>>10620134
>>10620120
people watch her because she's ugly. either they're gawking at her or they feel validated by her being ugly like they are.

[Anonymous No.10620144]

>>10620128
>Why do people care so much about other people's private sex lives jfc
because they broadcast it out in the open? if you don't want people to talk about something, don't put it out in the open.

[Anonymous No.10620149]

I’m scared of trying gothic lolita, since I didn’t have a goth phase in my teens.

[Anonymous No.10620152]

>>10620149
then have one. Become the angst

[Anonymous No.10620168]

>>10620134
Side note: why does she do her makeup like that? It looks like that bit from key and peele when they do whiteface.

[Anonymous No.10620174]

>>10620168
NTA but she just seems like she has no idea how to do anything for her own face. Like when people follow makeup tutorials exactly without accounting their own features only, she does it with everything. That's why everything like color or shade is off on top of her doing things like wearing the worst blush on the worst part of her face. And considering she also wears literal clown makeup, which is about hiding your features with an easy to follow tutorial, she's definitely not used to actual makeup. The most important part of wearing makeup well is to wear it with your features in mind, not making them something to hide. That's why she looks so bad, trying to hide her own features coupled with her inexperience and inability to take actual criticism on that kind of thing (she would change her makeup immediately if someone said it was racist)

[Anonymous No.10620175]

>>10620174
We’ll there you have it anon. Maybe if we all told her that her makeup is a racist parody of whiteness that’s scaring people she’d change her ways lol

[Anonymous No.10620178]

>>10617859
Idk who needs to hear this but real fur is so much better for the environment than fur fur, especially if it’s used. Maybe it’s just cause I’m n8 and will sport buckskin till the grave but a well kept fur/leather piece is a fucking heirloom, faux fur is a slowly degrading environmental nightmare.

[Anonymous No.10620181]

>>10620175
Only if the right people did, otherwise she would just whine about how people expect her to fit into some kind of meany standard that doesn't exist in the beautiful community of lolita that she surrounds herself with(as she shills more resellers who who send her free taobao crap).

[Anonymous No.10620236]

>>10620149
Literally no one gives a single fuck
You're just being a simple coward

[Anonymous No.10620252]

>>10620128
If it was private we wouldn't know about it

[Anonymous No.10620268]

>>10620252
unless you're that GASB guy, most of the time that stuff IS private or at least anonymized but gets leaked

[Anonymous No.10620278]

>>10620268
being on a private blog isn't private, child.

[Anonymous No.10620301]

Are shiro lolita coords fine or are they ita?

[Anonymous No.10620310]

i have about 2k in lolita debt because i just graduated and my job doesn't start for a month (but i keep buying stuff anyway). however, i'm getting a 10k signing bonus after the first week so i don't really care. i'd rather do this than have to pay 3x as much getting the stuff i want secondhand.

still kind of stupid tho

[Anonymous No.10620317]

>>10620310

I mean I did the same. I now have a really good paying job and no debt so it's fine. Just make sure to take into account the taxes on the signing bonus do you don't get a bad surprise. If you're buying, make sure to buy on a cc with like a 6-12 month grace period - you can always transfer your debt to a new card if you need to to avoid interest fees. It's not a big deal if you pay it off, just make sure you stay within the budget of your expected job.

[Anonymous No.10620319]

>>10620317

Oh and samefag, but I would honestly resist the temptation to pay it off immediately with the signing bonus and instead would invest the bonus and pay off of your regular salary. If you're in burgerland, having a small amount of debt <50% of your max credit will actually boost your credit score as long as you pay the bill on time. You can either pay the min amount per month and bulk pay at the end before you get hit with interest, or pay in equal amounts each month with a rough calculation to pay everything before interest hits.

[Anonymous No.10620321]

>>10620317
i wasn’t expecting a helpful response lmao, thanks anon! yeah same boat, it’s a good job and i have no student debt so even without the bonus i could pay it with no issue. my spending will go down since the brand i like isn’t releasing anything good for the rest of the year anyway.

gonna try to enjoy this weird limbo period with little guilt

[Anonymous No.10620324]

>>10620321

Please do - 9-5 is a grind even if you enjoy your job, so just enjoy yourself right now. Hope your buying sprees are filled with joy haha

[Anonymous No.10620370]

>>10620310
This makes me nervous because the job could easily fall though. It would be rare, but it's still a possibility.

[Anonymous No.10620417]

I have an interview for a super part time job this Friday (like 5 hrs a day for min wage) and I really hope I get it!

It's for a teaching position even tho the wage is low, but I'll be getting dental and health care! Ive decided that if I get the job I'll treat myself to some AP C:

[Anonymous No.10620419]

>>10620301
Is this a joke
You might as well ask if (insert any substyle here) is ita

[Anonymous No.10620425]

>>10620417
Good luck anon! Hope you get that job

[Anonymous No.10620494]

>>10620370
i feel you anon. i would be more nervous but it's pretty secure (i work in tech and specialize in doing something nobody else wants to do--writing in assembly language lmao) plus if it falls through i have backup.

but i definitely would not recommend it, esp now during weird covid times

>>10620324
thanks anon! may you find your wishlist dresses for a reasonable price and your SS respond to you swiftly

[Anonymous No.10620858]

>>10620310
Eh that's kinda stupid if you are accruing interest on the debt, why didn't you just wait until a bit closer to your job starting/signing bonus? I don't like giving banks extra money, so even when I first graduated I held out until I actually started the job (which was a week before I got paid) to start spending money I didn't have.

[Anonymous No.10620865]

>>10620858
i’m not going to pretend it’s a good choice. i’m an APfag so if i want something new i need to get it on release or risk never seeing it again/paying 2-3x the price secondhand with the current market. same but to a lesser extent with secondhand deals—in the past month i’ve gotten ~3 dresses secondhand that i hadn’t seen on the market in like 5 years.

i will admit i’m kind of privileged so throwing the bank an extra couple hundred doesn’t make me mad at all. but also in my case interest isn’t accruing for like another 6 months so it’s irrelevant

[Anonymous No.10620874]

Let’s hijack the drinking in cosplay thread to talk about the thing

[Anonymous No.10620929]

>>10620310
I can't imagine going into debt because of lolita, glad you know it's stupid though.
Don't count your eggs before they hatch, especially in this economy. If your job falls through you're kind of fucked.

[Anonymous No.10620999]

I am unreasonably attached to stuff and I don’t know how to get out of this mindset. I’m torn between wanting to sell some main pieces that I don’t wear often, and being scared that I’ll regret it and never find them again. Up until now I haven’t regretted selling anything I have sold (actually I have felt good about all of it) but just the idea of regretting a sale makes me sad.

[Anonymous No.10621044]

Young teens/early twenties at meets annoy me.

[Anonymous No.10621089]

>>10621044
Old people at meets really annoy me, like damn, try to learn to interact and get along with newer people in your comm for once

[Anonymous No.10621094]

>>10621089
NAYRT but it's hard to interact meaningfully when all they can talk about is anime, school, and how overrated/overpriced brand is,

[Anonymous No.10621097]

>>10621094

This.

What's more embarrassing though is when 30 year olds get gleefully wrapped up in whatever young drama is happening at the moment and thinking they're the "mentor" when in reality they're shit stirrers.

[Anonymous No.10621125]

>>10621097
I remember going to a meet and i was the youngest person there at 21, and all of them talked about really old drama while telling me they don’t tolerate drama in their community. It was really embarrassing

[Anonymous No.10621135]

I had a dream about a lolita fashion show hosted by my local comm. Beautiful dresses worn by beautiful girls walked down the aisle one by one. Alas, I wasn't allowed to be in the show because the comm leader didn't like my dress. Then at the end of the show a lolita came down the aisle wearing an OTT coord with a floaty veil and pristine white and red roses adorning the floor-length skirt. The veil was removed, and the lolita wearing this gorgeous coord was revealed to be a fat gross neckbeard. My dream became a nightmare as the comm cheered and hooped, saying "yaaaasss queen" and "you go girl." They pushed me aside to go oogle this obvious man in a dress. I could only open my mouth in horror as the dream melted away and I woke up with my eyes wide open.

Please don't let this dream be my reality...

[Anonymous No.10621137]

>>10621135
this is a stupid dream to make up. it's not even the real issue. if men in the comm wore even just okay coords they would be fine. but they don't.

[Anonymous No.10621161]

>>10621125

Every comm I've been to is like this. This is why I find one or two people to break off into our own little group these days. Much easier, much better vibes.

[Anonymous No.10621172]

>>10621094
i'm one of the youngest people in my pretty big and active comm and i have probably the second biggest wardrobe desu. there's been countless fat itas in their late twenties or early thirties who have come for like 2 or 3 meets and do the same thing you described (minus talking about school)

i can at least agree that teens are annoying, it does feel strange to hang out with people who aren't adults yet. but young adults are fine.

[Anonymous No.10621266]

There is a lot of ugly shoes in lolita with awful styles and silhouettes. If you really have to wear tea parties, please go with a pair with at least a kitten heel. Sick of seeing those boring, flat things with every coord.

[Anonymous No.10621284]

My seagull friend has been asking me for *years* to try brolita for her and I said yes. I don't know anything about lolita so I told her to pick the clothes and she put together a sweet lolita coord for me. I feel like it'll be cringe that haunts me for the rest of my life but she's so giddy and happy I keep telling myself to do it for her especially since the last year has been hard on her. But I'm so incredibly anxious about it.

[Anonymous No.10621287]

>>10621284
Maybe ask if she can put together a more toned down lolita coord, be it sweet or otherwise.

Is she also asking you to go outside in it?

[Anonymous No.10621288]

>>10621172
I started in the fashion when I was only 15, which is now 14 years ago. Everyone in my comm was relatively nice and knew how to keep it together except one lady who would say she's so grumpy and old she's allowed to gossip. Even then I found her immature and insufferable and frankly I don't think anyone bought her "I'm old~" schtick. But hopefully that experience will keep me from having a bad influence on younger lolitas now that I'm nearing 30.

[Anonymous No.10621289]

>>10621287
Yeah she wants to go to a meet up when conventions come back here

[Anonymous No.10621290]

>>10621266
okay but i’m 5’10” and really don’t want to be 6’ towering above all my friends T__T i basically only wear flat lolita shoes to go to meets, when i’m out by myself i wear heels more often

[Anonymous No.10621299]

>>10621290
weak, be the giantess amongst womanlets you were meant to be

[Anonymous No.10621310]

>>10621094
Yes, like all I want to talk about are things like investments, my 401(k), small business, state of the world/current affairs but noooo, I don’t care about your TikTok Rebecca!

[Anonymous No.10621313]

>>10621310
I don't want to talk about any of those topics. You sound boring as fuck. I also don't want to talk to teenagers.

[Anonymous No.10621351]

>>10621313
Go back to making Tiktoks Rebecca.

[Anonymous No.10621397]

>>10621290
Towering over other gulls just sets you apart as a queen amongst princesses
Be the tall powerful presence you deserve to be and hold your head high with grace

[Anonymous No.10621455]

>>10621266
I have the same gripe with tea parties but it's not about the heel height. It's the bulbous toe box for me that is just exceedingly ugly and clown looking. Flats are alright but the toe box should be tapered. Having a heel height is optimal though because it lengthens your legs and nicely displays the front of your socks if there's details there.

[Anonymous No.10621475]

>>10621397
>>10621299
this was so encouraging gulls thank you <33

[Anonymous No.10622506]

I know this is a bit weird but I'm a guy that just turned 20 and I'm in love with the fashion. I stumbled upon an ita thread when looking at different boards and I thought it was hilarious that a bunch of women were being so toxic over dresses. I kept on coming back and at this point I'm 3 months in and now I smile like a fucking idiot whenever I see a really nice coord with a woman smiling. I dont think it's the male gaze or anything sexual at all. I just REALLY like how cute the dresses look and all the attention to detail that goes into a nice coord. My guess is that I just like the amount of femininity in the fashion. I don't know the point of this post, I just wanna say keep being cute. Also, smiling makes even really ita coords look a whole lot nicer!!

[Anonymous No.10622508]

>>10622506
Great another man who can't understand how sick women are of being told to smile

[Anonymous No.10622580]

I'm probably just a bad person, but here we go.

This is the worst and most terrible time I've had in the fashion. I feel like I can't relate to anyone anymore. I started in 2016. People who have been in the fashion longer say I'm "new" and people who are been in the fashion for shorter just seem shallow to me and can never talk at the same level. It's extremely lonely and frustrating. I kind of hate the fashion right now because of it.

Sometimes I feel like quitting because the fashion feels so diluted. It felt like a small space before (I know, it was much smaller before I got into it too). Now everything feels like a giant free for all and the quality of the average person is so low. I can't quit though, because I love the clothes. I just wish 80% of the community would disappear.

[Anonymous No.10622586]

>>10622580
I’ve been feeling similarly. It’s fine to quit the community, but continue to participate in the fashion on your own. It helps me to spend time looking through my magazine collection and just focus on why I fell in love with the fashion to begin with.

[Anonymous No.10622587]

>>10622506
No one cares

[Anonymous No.10622602]

>>10622506
>I dont think it's the male gaze or anything sexual at all
You are infantilizing grown women by calling it "cute" and telling us to "smile" which is also a form of male gaze you will always sexualize us even if you think you're not

[Anonymous No.10622604]

>>10622506
We are not a zoo for your entertainment

[Anonymous No.10622730]

I used to be miserable and lonely, then I discovered lolita fashion.
There is so much coords to plan, content to consume, and the dresses feel like someone hugging me all over the skin.

[Anonymous No.10622858]

I want to make an account on tiktok just to hate-flex.
I realized today have roughly $2.5k in just AP headbows (65 x $40), which is more than some people's entire wardrobes.

[Anonymous No.10622867]

>>10622858
Anon I know you want to do it for others to be jealous but DO IT
I love seeing others flex their wardrobes desu

[Anonymous No.10622869]

I am just buying random shit i see that i like because i have the income, it makes me happy, and then hoping it will come together somehow.

I probably have about 3 actual full coords.

I have worn a coord outside in public twice so far, so i am still a lone-babylita . but I am not a closetlita anymore. Tiny steps!

[Anonymous No.10622870]

>>10622858
i don’t think that’s much of a flex t b h, myself and my friends average around there (i know one in particular with like 90 or 100). plus having more of one inexpensive thing doesn’t really mean much

tiktok isn’t fun to flex on anyway, lolita content doesn’t get much traction unless it’s “anyone can be a lolita, especially if you’re fat”

[Anonymous No.10622871]

>>10622867
I actually love seeing people's huge stash of items too. So part of it would be for the flex, and the other part would be for me, in a way.

>>10622870
Oh yeah, I know it's not super impressive to have 65 headbows or anything. I just thought about it today and realized that a relatively insignificant part of my wardrobe is still worth thousands (not even calculating what the headbows might sell for currently). It's not like the headbows I have are throw away items either. A lot of them are in high demand right now, so I guess that would add to the flex or whatever.

I think in general it's more impressive to have a cohesive wardrobe. I have a 100% AP pastel sweet wardrobe and it's been that way for years, so right now I could see me throwing all that on tiktok and nu-litas would grovel.

[Anonymous No.10622873]

>>10621135
oh shut up

[Anonymous No.10622882]

>>10622580
>>10621097
>>10621094
I'm new/newish (lurking for 2+ years, ordered first JSK but it hasn't arrived yet) and I have no intention of joining a comm, mostly because of this. I'm old and I have no idea what I'd talk to anybody about. Also the comm in my state only has a Facebook page and I can't stand to go back to using Facebook, so I'd be out of the loop.

[Anonymous No.10622884]

>>10621094
Its a lolita meet. What do you expect people to talk? Of course people will tak about lolita, anime, trendy things etc. Go to a business class if you wanna talk about that shit then. Dont be bitter

[Anonymous No.10622885]

>>10622858
I dont think thats a flex. no one will even realize your headwear is burando unless its sweet shit (and sweet lolita looks like ageplay anyway)

[Anonymous No.10622886]

>>10622858
>caring this much to flex on strangers who are most likely broke teenage girls
get therapy anon

[Anonymous No.10623152]

I'm selling all of my clothes, even though I still like them because I suddenly feel too old, fat and ugly to wear them, though I'm still in my mid 20s and healthy weight. Every day I list a few more, starting with small and cheap things I don't care that much about and working up. Soon I'll get to the dresses I bought in my first year that I had coveted for years before that. They're rare pieces so I hope you anons like them.

[Anonymous No.10623155]

>>10623152
noice I hope you ship worldwide

[Anonymous No.10623157]

>>10623152
Anon I can feel sadness oozing from your reply. I don't want to tell you what to do, I'm new myself and can't relate to your feelings about the time passed in lolita, but consider waiting a little longer. You've cherished this and collected slowly and maybe it isn't time to let go yet.

[Anonymous No.10623161]

>>10623152
You can do whatever you want, but consider working on yourself first and figuring out how you really feel and the root of it. If you still feel like your clothes aren't for you, then sell. But I really think you should first try to look inside and try to fix your problems first so there isn't a chance that you have crazy regrets later. Best of luck to you anon.

[Anonymous No.10623167]

>>10623152
>>10623157
Yeah, as long as you've thought about the decision carefully. I guess that's why it's good you're building up to it. Consider why you feel old, fat and ugly in the mean time and try focus on reflecting on those feelings. At the end of the day, they are just clothes, and despite being in this hobby I think clinging onto clothes in can easily get unhealthy. Just don't be harsh on yourself, especially in your mid 20s/healthy weight. Mid 20s isn't old and it's good for yourself you're at a healthy weight.

All that being said, if you do decide to sell, I, too, hope you ship worldwide :)

[Anonymous No.10623173]

Sad that japan doesnt ship to canada currently.

[Anonymous No.10623180]

>>10623173
Nani? I've been getting packages from Japan every month now, and just shipped one out last night.

[Anonymous No.10623186]

I buy pieces to incorporate into my regular wardrobe because I love how beautiful and elegant they look compared to most normie brands, but I have never actually put together a proper coord.

[Anonymous No.10623187]

>>10623173
use fedex or dhl, poorfag.

[Anonymous No.10623196]

>>10623180
>>10623187
Wow i didnt know. I do know EMS is closed. Ill try to ask if my shit can get shipped with DHL

[Anonymous No.10623233]

Has anyone ever bought a dress from lace market with stains on it?

[Anonymous No.10623245]

>>10623233
Not lace market, but I got some pieces from mercari that were so cheap I didn't mind some minor staining, almost all of it ends up coming out after a few hand washes anyway. If there's some slight staining left over, I just wear it places that are more accident prone anyway, so I can eat spaghetti without having a conniption or whatever.

[Anonymous No.10623246]

>>10623233
Yes

[Anonymous No.10623248]

>>10623233
I bought one a little while ago with undisclosed stains. Now the seller has all but disappeared.

[Anonymous No.10623257]

Fuck im waiting for lace market to verify me but the dress i want ends in 4 days

[Anonymous No.10623262]

>>10623248
Did you try filing a claim?

[Anonymous No.10623291]

Im so excited. Im going to buy japanese burando for the first time!

[Anonymous No.10623300]

>>10617807
I want to buy taobao but it almost all looks like incomplete thoughts or just cheap. Even compared to bodyline.

[Anonymous No.10623467]

I’m going to pretend to be some normie, that just admires lolita fashion, until I can fit brand, or at least good offbrand.
I hate how unflattering my obese body looks with dresses, and how I have to hunt for some obscure low quality taobao pieces with 300% markup.
Oh, and the other fat (lol)itas are the worst, why are they always so try-hard cutesy or funny?
Comes off as posey.
Especially as they can’t even put on make-up, brush their teeth, poof their hair or wear a wig ffs, god it looks terrible and makes me even more self-conscious.

[Anonymous No.10623495]

>>10623186
Considering you're wearing the clothes daily rotation it's more than what most on this board do

[Anonymous No.10623842]

This is very uwu sentimental but I can't wait until I can work part time and be less of a poorfag to participate on cgl's secret santa. I really enjoy gifting and it'd be so cool to be able to do it with others that share the hobby I love

[Anonymous No.10623857]

>>10617807
Saw this and inmediately thought about "high quality prints" for lolita. You like it girls?

[Anonymous No.10623861]

>>10623857
Could be made into a tasteful prints but onlly a minority likes wa

[Anonymous No.10623862]

>>10623467
I don't think every other fat lolita is like that, this comes off as a bit "I'm not like other fatty chans". Wearing wigs is also not necessary but maybe that's easier for me as a classic/gothic fag to say.

I waited for a bit until I lost weight to wear lolita. I still have some to go but I fit well into most brand now.

Use it as motivation for your weight loss anon! Don't let it get you down, have a more positive outlook on it.

[Anonymous No.10624106]

>>10623257
Message them on FB to get verified faster

[Anonymous No.10624123]

Idk if you have talked about this but i would NEVER buy something of a breastfeeding lolita like @lolitamummy. I know perfectly how much dirty are kids and i cant believe how she make that shit wearing expensive clothes as moities. She recently updated with a video breastfeeding her toddler outside and i think it is the anti-lolita mood.... Opinions please

[Anonymous No.10624129]

>>10624123
>i cant believe how she make that shit wearing expensive clothes as moities

I feel sorry for you if you think Moitie is expensive compared to any non-fast fashion clothes.

>I know perfectly how much dirty are kids

I mean... if she lists a dirty item for sale then the joke's on her. If everything's okay then what's the difference.

[Anonymous No.10624139]

>>10624123
It's just clothes. If she manages to clean them then who cares

[Anonymous No.10624350]

>>10624123
You seem like you have a complex here. She's got a kid. She breastfeeds. Sounds like a whole lot of nonyabusiness to me.

[Anonymous No.10624359]

>>10624123

Just don't buy it.

In the same vein though, I can't stand the new group of mommy-lita bloggers. I have a couple of friends who are also moms who have kids and incorporate lolita and family together. But the way the mommy bloggers do it feels gratingly like some christian mom's blog, but lolita. I had to unfollow them as a result desu.

[Anonymous No.10624371]

Y'all complain about men being creepers in the community but I literally have an obsessed pervert femcel that literally said she's gonna kill herself if I don't date her
My friend told me she obsessively asks her questions about me
I'm the primary target of her gothboy fetish and while it's nice to receive attention, it's freaking me the fuck out at this point

[Anonymous No.10624378]

>>10617859
I don’t mind vintage items because they weren’t “fast fashion” like what we have today.

[Anonymous No.10624487]

>>10619811
You're right anon.

Most of the people who use this board and have this attitude are new and trying their best to blend in because they think lolitas are supposed to act like "mean girls".
/cgl/ get boring very fast because of how repetitive it is, due to this attitude, among other things. People here take bait super easily- I mean, look at how mad people got at your comment. It's pathetic.

[Anonymous No.10624489]

>>10624487
FWIW I actually don't believe that any more than 50% of posters on CGL are actually lolitas irl.

[Anonymous No.10624492]

>>10624371
I feel like I’ve read the other POV to this recently somewhere on the board

[Anonymous No.10624494]

>>10624492
You did from brolitas dragging on lolitas.

>>10624371
>Gothboy fetish
You don't sound like you're into lolita.

[Anonymous No.10624498]

>>10624494
>You don't sound like you're into lolita.
More of a vkei guy if I'm being honest. I own Boz and Moitie so I'm not completely detached from it either

[Anonymous No.10624501]

>>10624498
Boz is mostly Aristo, but I get what you mean. I think if you do any sort've visual kei, you're going to have autist lolitas foaming.

TBF most lolitas are pretty inept socially as are the random goons we usually get, I'm sure you've had the experience of knowing that. I mean if you stay clear of lolita spaces, then you don't get literal autist girls crawling on you. It's just kind of the expectation with it being an all girl (relatively) community.

[Anonymous No.10624849]

>>10623186
Honestly I'd love to see how you incorporate lolita items into your normie wardrobe.

[Anonymous No.10624854]

>>10624849
Nta, but i have worn meta blouses with nice black pants. and it just looks very french. I haven’t tried doing it with any sort of skirt yet but it’s probably similar

[Anonymous No.10624856]

>>10623862
Thanks anon!~

[Anonymous No.10624872]

>>10624854
That sounds really pretty anon, I wish more people would share photos of that.

[Anonymous No.10624889]

>>10624371
Oh the guy who wouldn’t “smash” Lor is back. Fuck off scrote you don’t even go here.

[Anonymous No.10625059]

I throw my old school pieces in the washing machine all the time and don't feel any shame about it

[Anonymous No.10625094]

>>10624872
people do this kind of thing often they just dont tag it lolita so it's hard to find

[Anonymous No.10625095]

>>10625059
Good, you wash your fucking clothes. Congrats.

[Anonymous No.10625098]

>>10619811
>feel superior over 4chan users
Literally the lowest of hanging fruit kek

[Anonymous No.10625101]

>>10625095
That's an achievement in lolita apparently, some of you hoes are nasty lol

[Anonymous No.10625108]

>>10625094
NAYRT but well if you know any @'s that do it please do share!

[Anonymous No.10625124]

>>10625095
You'd be surprised at the number of people that are terrified of washing their brand. I get it with prints on cotton/other natural fibers because a lot aren't very colorfast but all my pieces are solids so I don't feel bad about tossing them in the machine on a cold gentle cycle and then laying flat or line drying

[Anonymous No.10625130]

I personally like Elpress L's dresses so much that I actually have a hard time deciding if I should buy AP brand jsk's or just get another Elpress dress. Plus some of them cost a similar amount to AP dresses too.

[Anonymous No.10625133]

>>10625130
this doesn't look like lolita to me, just like a fantasy aristocratic european dress.

[Anonymous No.10625134]

>>10625130
very overwhelming dress
doesn't read as lolita to me either

[Anonymous No.10625177]

>>10622871
God, this is pathetic. You're flexing on teenagers.

[Anonymous No.10625194]

>>10625130
I agree that this doesn't read as lolita, but if it makes you happier than AP you should go for it! It's your money.

[Anonymous No.10625223]

>>10625108
nayrt but you might like @lisafikawonderland depending on what your style is. she mostly wears vintage/cottagecore these days with a focus on Laura Ashley but is a former lolita and throws in some IW, JM, milk blouses/bustiers/the occasional print every once in a while. she styles them really well

[Anonymous No.10625270]

I had a friend whom I gave one of my old dresses to. It was a cheap aliexpress dress, nothing worthy. Later I discovered that she's a camwhore and wears her 'lolita coord' during her streams

[Anonymous No.10625276]

>>10619146
But it's not... new

[Anonymous No.10625334]

>>10625133

I guess this website does false marketing :/

[Anonymous No.10625340]

>>10625334
Anon, I...

[Anonymous No.10625344]

>>10625130
This is lolita. Anons are just used to the same boring shapeless sweetfag dresses. Dresses that are more inspired by rococo fashion are still lolita

[Anonymous No.10625346]

I hope EMS will resume in canada soon i got a btssb dress an im waiting for them to ship it but ems isn’t available right now