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[Anonymous No.10597059]

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[Anonymous No.10597109]

being a tall lolita is suffering
I'm not even fat but most jsks that are supposed to hit your natural waist end up mid ribcage for me, and long sleeves are almost never long enough. I hate triple checking the measurements when buying something only for it to look weird on me in person. I mainly stick to skirts because of this but damn, I'm missing out

[Anonymous No.10597122]

>>10597109
How tall are you?

[Anonymous No.10597126]

>>10597122
5'2", I feel sick about it

[Anonymous No.10597129]

>>10597126
Shit bait nonners, try again so we can get this thread derailed already

[Anonymous No.10597132]

My dream dress is taobao because I don't expect much from my life

[Anonymous No.10597157]

>>10597122
ayrt, I'm 5'8

[Anonymous No.10597174]

>>10597109
not for me i have a short torso and long legs. bitch i'm sailor moon!

[Anonymous No.10597177]

>>10597132
I'm so sorry anon. Taobao has many beautiful dresses, i'm sure your dream dress is beautiful. I that your life gets better.

[Anonymous No.10597218]

I'm a lonelita and I kinda want to join a local comm and experience meets irl (after vaccination of course.) It's just I know comm groups are all on Facebook and that makes me a bit anxious cause I don't find Facebook trustworty. I do have an Instagram account though so I don't know they are both owned by the same company but Facebook itself has had a lot of problems with userdata and leaks in the headlines. I've searched up the nearest comms before and they are already far from where I live (1-2.5 hour drive one way.) I don't know it's not a con or anything do lolitas drive that far to meet with each other usually?

[Anonymous No.10597236]

>>10597218
You don't need to put anything sensitive on FB, for example your profile pic can be some lolita art, your name can be your instagram username. Basically enough to identify you're a real person but it's clearly a hobby account for lolita. In my comm when girls drive from far out we would try to make a worthwhile nice day for them in the city, hopefully your local comm is the same kind of way. They usually wouldn't come for casual cafe meets but things like holidays, tea parties, ILDs. Maybe once a month or less.

[Anonymous No.10597249]

>>10597218
>I do have an Instagram account
Don't worry, they monitor you with that.

[Anonymous No.10597460]

I bought a dress from an e-famous lolita and I realized it's a replica only after I decided to sell it myself. I'm seething.

[Anonymous No.10597488]

>>10597460
lol how much did you pay?

[Anonymous No.10597491]

>>10597460
tell us who, give us the milk even though isn't the farms

[Anonymous No.10597552]

>>10597460
name and fucking shame

[Anonymous No.10597569]

>>10597218
every single website you’ve ever used in your life has at one point had leaks, or will have leaks in the future, as a general rule nothings safe all you can really do is limit how much info you put out there.

[Anonymous No.10597571]

I am SO . SICK. AND TIRED. Of all these shitty fucking taobao itas running around. I didn't become a lolita to be associated with these cheap cunts running around in their dime store tier dresses. I have more brand than they do normie clothes. I'm sitting here in my unshirred angelic pretty vanilla chan while they're crying that their ita shit meta dress in plus plus size is too small for them. Well boo fucking who, you dumb bitch. Go on a diet like a normal person and maybe stop fucking eating a literally dumpster of food everyday. And gasp maybe if you stopped ordering out and eating so much not only would you lose the half ton of fat you carry around with you every day, you'll have money left over to buy nicer shit than your plastic garbage bag that you call a taobao dress.
I've been in this fashion for 12 years and it chaps my ass to see what a fucking embarrassing dumpster fire that its become. Maybe I should quit but instead of selling my 100+ main piece pure burando wadrobe filled with coveted and iconic pieces, I should just trash it all so none of you nu lolitas can get your mcdonalds grease covered hands on it and pop the seams as you try to stuff yourselves into it. A literal landfill is a better fate.
So honestly you fat fucking taobao cunts can go roll into a ditch and burn. Fuck off.

[Anonymous No.10597578]

>>10597571
Japan deserves the burando more than a landfill.

[Anonymous No.10597579]

>>10597571
Nice b8 but Meta is literally Japanese brand, anon?

[Anonymous No.10597584]

>>10597571
Sadly I agree with this. I don't like what lolita has become

[Anonymous No.10597585]

>missing cons real bad
>reminisce about old local cosplay drama
>remember the time a cosplayer tried to say lisalouwho was stalking her because they cosplayed the same basic bitch characters and took her to court over it
>wonder if that girl still cosplays, haven’t seen her mentioned in forever
>find a gofundme for her posted recently
>she developed several severe chronic conditions and is in pain almost constantly
>her gofundme is for an emergency surgery on her spine and she could die without it

My god I was not expecting that. The woman was acting pretty crazy in the cosplay community a few years back, but damn no one deserves that. Life is scary

[Anonymous No.10597588]

>>10597585
Could be connected. A lot of neurological issues present as psychological

[Anonymous No.10597590]

>>10597109
5'11 here
I'm real fucking sad about this

[Anonymous No.10597604]

>>10597571
Yeah, I generally agree that I don't like the current state of things, and I’m sick of seeing people push tb releases with the same enthusiasm as brand.

Wish those people would fuck off to their own little shit corner so I’m not wading through their crap just to see what's actually worth paying attention to.

[Anonymous No.10597622]

>>10597571
is this a copypasta? I swear I've seen this exact post before

[Anonymous No.10597669]

The absolute state of lolita.

[Anonymous No.10597671]

>>10597669
I lost my mind when I saw this. How fucking sensitive are you.

[Anonymous No.10597675]

>>10597669
I'm a hairy classic lolita and I couldn't give less of a shit if somebody said I should shave. Also
>gender euphoria

[Anonymous No.10597676]

>>10597669
this is what happens when you're overeducated and undersocialised

[Anonymous No.10597677]

>>10597460
nameless poem???

[Anonymous No.10597683]

>>10597157
>Americans think this is tall
I pity your pathetic nation

[Anonymous No.10597685]

>>10597683
Ok troon

[Anonymous No.10597702]

>>10597491
I'd rather not stir up any shit.

>>10597677
No?

[Anonymous No.10597735]

>>10597683
Average height in US is 5'4, average height in Japan is 5'2. So 5'8 is not only tall overall but significantly so for someone wearing Japanese clothing.

[Anonymous No.10597738]

>>10597460
How long ago was it? I don't think it would be awful to reach out to a Lace Market mod to update your feedback. I appreciate you don't want to stir shit, but that type of sales practice people should know about.

[Anonymous No.10597749]

>>10597735
That’s for men

[Anonymous No.10597751]

>>10597669
they typed "thights" so its safe to disregard everything they typed afterwards

[Anonymous No.10597770]

>follow pattern to the letter
>"oh just cut the sleeves perpendicular to the selvedge"
>after assembly realize it's fucking wrong, and they they listed it to be parallel in a different part of the instructions (as it should've been).

First time I follow a pattern and I get memed. Still salty.

[Anonymous No.10597865]

>Never been in a relationship
>Girl hunts me down for a year and asks me out
>Not into her but fuck it why not
>One year later
>She's sweet
>Cares about this relationship a lot
>Still not into her
>Want to break up
>All our friends are mutual
>Her parents love me
>Don't want to break her heart
FUCK.

[Anonymous No.10597882]

>>10597865
Apply for a job in a different city, move and then say long distance isn’t working for you.

[Anonymous No.10597889]

>>10597882
It's the only way lol
>>10597865
Lesson learned I hope. But yeah, figure out if she has any dealbreakers maybe. Or maybe pretend you've realized youre gay or ace or poly or something

[Anonymous No.10597899]

>>10597738
Unfortunately I didn't buy it through lacemarket, but I messaged the seller, she gave me a full refund, and I'm sending the dress back to her so that's that on that. Man I was angry for a second though.

[Anonymous No.10597904]

>>10597865
damn anon that must be...
so hard... for you.
damn im sorry.

[Anonymous No.10597971]

Missed not Japan locked Milky Chan in pink with the KC for like $190 while I was hunting for a sturdy boater hat on taobao. I want to go back to me two hours ago and kill

[Anonymous No.10597998]

>>10597865
Please stop wasting her time. You donät want to break her heart, but youäre going to break her heart eventually anyway, might as well do it sooner rather than later. One thing that still bothers me about my longest relationship is that the dude was just using me. I gave it my all and he wasted 7 years of my life. Please just let her go.

[Anonymous No.10598001]

>>10597998
100000% this. Anon you’re being absolutely disgusting and selfish. End it as soon as possible.

[Anonymous No.10598002]

>>10597579
This is a common copypasta, it’s been around a while

[Anonymous No.10598012]

>>10597971
Aww. Was it on fril or something?

[Anonymous No.10598018]

>>10597865
>don't want to break her heart
you don't think that, by using someone who genuinely loves you, you've already done so much worse? she deserves better, quit being a pussy and let her find someone who'll treat her right. spineless coward.

[Anonymous No.10598023]

I have yet to meet 1 (one) stable functioning -ita who doesn’t act like a 8th grade girl with daddy issues. Why do you people suck?

[Anonymous No.10598058]

>>10597865
it didn't work out, you dont love her, let her go

[Anonymous No.10598064]

>>10598023
Its because the functional ones usually hide their power level and are less loud. There's plenty of us who have stable jobs, lives, and a good relationship with our families.

[Anonymous No.10598074]

>>10597971
Anon the kc and upper dress were literally yellow with dirt lmao just wait for a clean one

[Anonymous No.10598108]

>Harmony Gold bends the knee
>get an urge to time travel and cosplay Macross
>at some point in the last decade Arda stopped selling the pink-and-blonde Candy Stripers

Fuck, I don't want to deal with Taobao for this.

[Anonymous No.10598118]

>>10597865
Break up with her and pin in the blame on you and you don't leave her with broken self-esteem. Don't make her in any think that it's her fault.

[Anonymous No.10598143]

>>10598108

Macross Frontier was awful.

[Anonymous No.10598163]

>>10598143
Get rekt RobotechX.com.

[Anonymous No.10598180]

still collecting neetbux. I got 34k so far and to those that said I’d get fuck by taxes I’ll have you know I only had to pay $400. This ain’t too bad I could get used to this neetlife

[Anonymous No.10598195]

>>10598163

I haven't watched the anime since it came out but one thing that really stuck with me was the Zentradi who was singing his heart out in the first episode. Ranka Lee was such a basic, cardboard cutout of a character. Everything was handed to her. She soared to the top with no struggle just because and with an output so bland that it makes vanilla look like a revolutionary flavour. Meanwhile the passionate giant dude got giant pennies for his trouble at best. I could explain everything else I disliked as an acquired taste from a foreign culture except for this and rehashing the Roy Focker twist.

[Anonymous No.10598196]

After a shite week last week, the lolita gods have decided to smile upon me and grant me a high tier wishlist item. I haven't seen it for sale since 2016, yet it suddenly decided to appear.
Thank you, great and merciful mana-sama.

[Anonymous No.10598198]

>>10597460
Name shame and report

[Anonymous No.10598203]

I'm so sad. I just found out that if you add your amex card to your uber account you get $10/$15 credit every month.

[Anonymous No.10598241]

>Go meet a fellow weeb from internet for first time
>We keep our distance and just mainly go around town for a bit wearing masks and shit
>Her friend apparently started the whole covid shaming thing.
I literally fucking hate the internet. "Muh stay inside" "muh I'M a good person but everyone sucks" bitch stfu, a high amount of cases are from schools and work place.

Literally hate covid shamers.

[Anonymous No.10598282]

Nothing particularly special, but I just bought two Baby JSKs on Mercari and I'm really excited. The only Baby piece in my wardrobe right now is a very very casual skirt, so I'm pretty hyped to have something other than AP in my closet.

[Anonymous No.10598294]

>trying to cosplay anything as a 6'5 250lb guy that isn't himbo bait.

[soup No.10598334]

>Be soup
>hadn’t had fast food or soda in months
>was craving some Mickey D’s today so decided to take a cheat day
>motherfuckin bitch ass lied about the McFlurry machine not working. I always thought that shit was a meme but it literally actually for real real happened
>also forgot to give me a straw for my sodapop so I had to drink it from the cup. Ice cubes kept touching my lips making me shiver
Man I wanted an Oreo McFlurry so bad. I bet it would’ve been how you anons would say bussing

[Anonymous No.10598388]

>>10598334
Soup just go to costco and buy an ice cream there it's a lot cheaper

[Anonymous No.10598391]

>>10598241
Just lie and say you're fully vaccinated anon
Alternatively, go and get completely vaccinated

[Anonymous No.10598400]

>>10598334
Soup if a serviceworker ever lies to you about a machine not working or a food unavailable... they're doing you a favor.
>>10598388
seconding costco, you may always want just straight up haagen daas since its the same price as a mcflurry but better qual

[Anonymous No.10598403]

My current dream dress is taobao and none of you can hate me more than I hate myself. I just want my yellow and lavender dress so I can wear it and be properly ashamed.

Psych I’m not embarrassed gimme the taobao dress

[Anonymous No.10598406]

>>10598388
I work at costco and I’m gonna say maybe don’t. They leave the ice cream out on the floor for ages overnight...

[Anonymous No.10598408]

>>10598403
hey I love you anon,
good taste is finding treasure where others can't,
taobao has so many brands but if you found something you like I'm sure it's a high quality design and nice material if its dream dress worthy

[Anonymous No.10598409]

>>10598408
I love you too anon. I’m gonna wear the shit outta that dress and make taobao great again

[Anonymous No.10598417]

>>10598409
And I shall do the same!

Also kinda funny that taobaolitas are looked down upon when Infanta is literally a taobao brand lol a lot of good brands started on there

[Anonymous No.10598418]

>>10598403
>>10598408
poorniggers lole

[Anonymous No.10598422]

>>10598417
Infanta isn't even a good brand though.

[Anonymous No.10598424]

I finally watched the movie Heavy Metal and was astounded at how much it influenced seemingly every anime made after 1981

[Anonymous No.10598428]

>>10597683
I pity the foreign fool who thinks I give a hoot

[Anonymous No.10598432]

>>10598417
My first dream dress and what got me into lolita was taobao (Krad lanrete) too. There’s a lot of shit on taobao that a lot of newbies flock to and gets shoved in your face but there are quite a few gems. APs quality has been hit or miss lately so brand supremacy isn’t all that.

[Anonymous No.10598506]

>>10598195
That's not the reason I was expecting and I can sort of respect it. Just remember that Ranka's rise seems easy because the cyborg mafia was propping her up behind the scenes to turn her into a Vajra-controller.

[Anonymous No.10598579]

>>10598424
Now watch fritz the cat

[Anonymous No.10598581]

>can't get hair cut by a pro because the 'vid
>trim my bangs like i have been
>somehow go full retard and trim them too short
>birthday tomorrow
it's entirely inconsequential since nobody will see me anyway, but i'm still pouting.

[Anonymous No.10598587]

>>10598294
I dont know what you want to cosplay but I'll cosplay anything if you're my bf

[Anonymous No.10598588]

I got a cute burrand blouse for cheap. Why it was sitting there for what seemed to be a while I don't know. happi

[Anonymous No.10598598]

>>10598581
If it makes you feel better one time I went ham on the scissors when cutting my bang and cut off half of my eyebrow on one side. Had to fill it in with black eyeshadow for a few months.

[Anonymous No.10598624]

>gf's birthday is coming up
>she's not a lolita but always says she'd love to have one outfit to dress up in
>find the perfect print and cut for her on lady sloth, bookmark the link to buy on payday
>reservation period closes
>FB message lady sloth in a mad panic
>don't hear back, get sad and mourn qt mouse dress gf would have loved
>hear back a week later
>she might have enough leftover fabric to make the dress after all

i have so many feelings

[Anonymous No.10598639]

>>10598624
>one outfit to dress up in
>lady sloth mouse dress
>no petti or accessories

It’s a nice story anon, but if you don’t get your gf all the other parts of the outfit she’s going to end up posted here on the ita thread.

[Anonymous No.10598641]

>>10598624
WHY lady sloth

[Anonymous No.10598642]

>>10598624
If you're into that please consider getting your gf a secondhand dress on lacemarket (https://egl.circlly.com/)) because it will be higher quality, not lady sloth and you might be able to get some other accessories that go with it on there. You're a good partner, we just want you to know you have options

[Anonymous No.10598667]

>>10598639
oh yeah I'm getting all that too! just wanted to sort a dress first

>>10598641
a lolita friend recommended it and the print is exactly what she wants (mice/rats + food motif)

[Anonymous No.10598670]

>>10598667
lady sloth is horrible quality, do your gf a favor and get her something else

[Anonymous No.10598674]

>>10598670
I don't like their prints but their quality is decent

[Anonymous No.10598710]

>>10598670
This isn’t true. Their prints are ugly as sin (galaxy witch and spooky macaroons make me want to die) but I’ve seen those dresses in real life and they’re pretty well constructed, much better than most taobao, especially for custom sizing.

[Anonymous No.10598714]

>>10598667
here's a listing on egl for what I'm assuming is the print your talking about. (You can message the seller it was listed at 200USD and expired like about a week ago) https://egl.circlly.com/auctions/relisted-tea-time-at-grandma-s-set
also I found this one that could work but there is a tiny cat I think instead of a mouse. (you can check the print in detail on the reference linked on the listing) https://egl.circlly.com/auctions/btssb-salon-de-the-minette-jsk-headdress-set-pink

[Anonymous No.10598825]

I hate being told to take risks and put myself out there. Literally every single time I muster the courage to choose the riskier option, I always get the bad ending. Every time. Then people question me why I never take risks and why I'm so cautious.

Every risk I've voluntarily taken has always ended up costing me more money or humiliating me.

[soup No.10598826]

>>10598388
>>10598400
I like dippin my fries in my ice cream when they're hawt. I'll get a costco membership card when i start going to the gym for bulk food.

[Anonymous No.10598852]

The blind french girl comics are doing things to my heart.

[Anonymous No.10598856]

Ugh. Just got my first bad buyer, she found a slight discoloration in a spot I didn't notice on an older dress I sold disclosing multiple stains. She is demanding half the cost of the dress back, and is refusing to just send it back for a refund. It's kind of pissing me off because normally I'd be willing to help the buyer get a refund to get the dress cleaned but I really think she's just a cheap ita trying to extort me for money. Paypal will side with me if I offer a full refund as long as the dress is shipped back, right?

[Anonymous No.10598886]

>>10598856
Tell them to eat shit and die. Make a new account.

[Anonymous No.10598895]

>>10597585
LMAO I cosplay pretty regularly at several cons but I don't get involved with the local people ( sometimes I wish I did, so I had people to talk about cosplay crafting techniques and such).

Anyways, I follow a couple of people I see every time on insta, and their stories are so... cringy that I just can't get into that part of the community. It's just people reposting the same stories and reacting to shit, or circlejerking each other. Really cringy. Not to mention the drama (as you've said) which is something I don't really need. Still, tho, wish I had pals to cosplay with

[Anonymous No.10598900]

>>10598856
If you want a compromise, even if she is a cheap ita trying to extort you for money, I suggest you bring up refunding her the money to clean it if you haven't already.

I state in my terms that I'm an amateur at inspection and, whilst I try my best to identify all damages, stains, etc etc, there's a chance I could miss some details. I always took that, if that's in your terms then PayPal would surely be on your side, particularly in this instance? So that's another step to take to deter buyers from trying to twist you over minor discolourations in the future.

I wish you luck, anon.

[Anonymous No.10598910]

>tfw attained cosplay gf
Help me not let this (first) relationship go down in flames please gulls.

[Anonymous No.10598912]

>>10598910
I do not have the money to support my cosplay gf lol. I work as an accountant and had no idea these dresses would be this fucking expensive even second hand

[Anonymous No.10598916]

>>10598912
Cosplay or egl dresses???

[Anonymous No.10598926]

WSC i miss you and i wish things were different between us. i will wait for you if you let me.

[Anonymous No.10598932]

>>10598856
Yes, PayPal will side with you. Continue to offer a full refund only if the dress is returned. Just wait for the buyer to open a claim, then offer that as an option. If the buyer refuses, it can be escalated to PayPal and they should side with you because you gave the buyer a legitimate option.

[Anonymous No.10598936]

I’m a new Lolita and now a new lonelita. A friend who did something really messed up to me told the comm she was the victim before I could explain my side of the story. They all blocked me I didn’t even get to attend a meet yet. This has now even extended to other alt fashion comms, I just wanted to make friends.

[soup No.10598940]

dad talked me into getting a $300 ping pong table.

[Anonymous No.10598945]

>>10598936
What did she do?

[Anonymous No.10598949]

>>10598936
It's okay, how old are you? You may find more luck in other hobbies. Lolita is just clothes after all you can rejoice online. I also am a lonelita and I feel your pain but you have options other than irl comms.

[Anonymous No.10598984]

>>10598916
both

[Anonymous No.10598993]

>>10597059
Well it finally happened. My big old titties fell off and rolled away. I wouldn't even care except the nipples grew back weird. At least the itas offered to mop up the blood and milk.

Has this happened to anyloli else?

[Anonymous No.10599012]

>>10598910
any first con-related fandom relationship is going to go down in flames naturally, just like the cycle of life and death as we speak

[Anonymous No.10599013]

>>10598714
>https://egl.circlly.com/auctions/btssb-salon-de-the-minette-jsk-headdress-set-pink
That cat dress is super cute. Tbh if I see a good deal on lacemarket before LS comes back to me I'll go for it, I just really fell in love with the tea party mice. But somehow trying to pick a brand dress she'll like is 100x more intimidating to me than taking a chance on offbrand.

[Anonymous No.10599033]

Prior to COVID I got into fasting and lost some weight from it. Then during COVID, food security became an issue so I basically fasted every day. I lost so much weight, I’m able to wear short sleeve brand blouse without the sleeves being tight!! I look so much better in lolita now than I did when I was heavier.

But why don’t I want to wear it anymore? All I want to wear is jeans and a tshirt. Something similar happened to me once before. I was chubby and loved lolita, but once I lost weight, I lost interest. Maybe I use lolita as a boost to feel better about my body when I’m bigger? Who knows. I wonder if I’ll feel more inclined to dress up again if I lose enough weight to fit unshirred OPs? I feel like I keep telling myself that as I frantically comb through auctions and look up measurements on lolibrary

>the compulsion to continue buying despite not wearing tho...major FOMO

[Anonymous No.10599036]

>>10599033
idk anon when you're skinny you have so many options and the feeling of approval is addicting.

[Anonymous No.10599039]

>>10599033
I've had something slightly similar, but I think it has more to do with me wanting to wear a variety of different styles when I feel better about my body and look better, so I like lolita but am excited to wear other things I usually don't because I feel comfortable in them for the first time in a while. Like I rarely wear jeans/pants, but when I lose weight I wear them a bit more because I like how my legs look better, so I may wear jeans and a top one day instead of a dress.

[Anonymous No.10599191]

>>10598936
This happens a lot. This happened to me in the online comm but now i just mostly do my own thing and sometimes lurk here

[Anonymous No.10599248]

>>10599033
I actually stray further and further from normie clothes the more weight I lose because western fatty sizing doesn't fit me nicely anymore.

[Anonymous No.10599259]

>>10598949
Thanks anon! I’m 18 so maybe I’m just overreacting about the need for a comm

[Anonymous No.10599275]

>>10598993
Yes, it happened to me as soon as I reached the ripe old age of 30. Luckily I had my Moitie implants ready to go for the exact moment! Now even my titties are burando.

[Anonymous No.10599405]

Does anyone even miss me?

[Anonymous No.10599461]

>>10599033
People ree when others say lolita is about escapism, but it kind of is. You don't need to escape anymore (or not as much, at least). Shopping addictions are universal however!

[Anonymous No.10599584]

>>10599405
no

[Anonymous No.10599598]

>>10598993
I wouldn't mind dating a girl like that in your pic. And dedicate my life to her. And after she is gone. Prob won't date any other. To love and lost and never love again.

[Anonymous No.10599603]

>>10599405
i miss you. please come back

[Anonymous No.10599607]

>>10599405
yes. you are loved and cherished by more people than you think

[Anonymous No.10599617]

>>10599033
Oh well doesn't really matter much since you're just going to get fat again since that's what fasting does. Quit buying up everything if you're just going to let your clothes sit in your closet and rot. People like you are killing the fashion.

[Anonymous No.10599621]

>>10599617
I'm pretty sure it's the salty hags like you that's killing the fashion actually

[Anonymous No.10599627]

>>10599598
Sad. It is my goal to find someone who will be like that wish me, despite my limited time here.

Hoping that there are more out there like you, anon. Thanks for giving me hope at least. Hope you have a wonderful day.

[Anonymous No.10599634]

>>10599627
It's the journey that counts not the destination. I treasure my time with everyone no matter how short it is. You have a good day too, Im sure you will meet your goal. If not kick my ass if we ever meet in the next life lol.

[Anonymous No.10599657]

I have a boyfriend but I can’t stop thinking about my childhood friend who I was friends with up until three years ago. He admitted he had been in love with me for a long time as much as I was and that he’d be my friend forever. We stopped being friends because I visited my hometown and we were suppose to hang out but he bailed on me at the last second without warning. We stopped talking for almost five months after that and I got mad one day and told him off and blocked him. I wish I could talk to him again, but I tried reaching out last year and he blocked me.

[Anonymous No.10599662]

I know when I go back to work I'm going to have a harder time focusing after a year and a half of working from home and being able to browse ceeg and second hand sites. Half the reason I've survived bloodbaths were because I was at my laptop when they hit.
Maybe work will do hybrid hours and I can WFH on fridays?

[Anonymous No.10599665]

>>10599662
Make your demands anon, they need you more than you need them.

[Anonymous No.10599666]

Man I just really love lolita. Been padding out my wardrobe over lockdown and I can't wait until it's properly summer and warm so I can wear it to the park every day.

[Anonymous No.10599709]

>>10599666
Are you going the lonelita route or having a tea party? would u invite me

[Anonymous No.10599745]

>>10599709
No, I won't invite you because you're a crossboarder and probably a dude. spoilers don't work here

[Anonymous No.10599748]

>>10599745
If not a crossboarder they're probably from the farm, which is just another sign you don't want to interact with them kek

[Anonymous No.10599830]

>>10599657
Just go to his house

[Anonymous No.10599835]

I know this is really shallow, but I wish the girls from my comm were pretty. Around 30% of them are itas and, aside from me and two other girls, all of them have really unfortunate faces. I wish they were at least average and had better coording skills. I feel embarrassed everytime I share a meetup pic because of how they look. I know I shouldn't and I still love them but they all have terrible faces for some reason.

[Anonymous No.10599838]

>>10599830
Lol

[Anonymous No.10599864]

>>10599835
You must be in the US community, because it feels like chronically an issue with most communities in the US

[Anonymous No.10599891]

>>10598825
This! The people who keep telling others to take risks are ones who've either gotten everything handed out to then or are just lucky.

[Anonymous No.10599893]

My boyfriend was mad that I bought a dog, so he trained him to respond to V-Tech (a car part he likes), so when he was hanging out with his friends he yelled "v tech kicked in yo!" And Bakugo came running, which they thought was hilarious. So now I'm trying to teach him to respond to Bakugo but he's not listening. Why? Why are boys like this?

[Anonymous No.10599894]

>>10599893
V-Tech is a way better name than Bakugo but both of you sound cringey and should probably break up.

[Anonymous No.10599898]

>>10599893
Dudes rock

[Anonymous No.10599903]

>>10599893
Bakugo is an absolutely shit character and I feel sorry for your dog to be named after worstboy

[soup No.10599905]

>>10599893
>>10599894
it's vtec ya goofs

[Anonymous No.10599908]

>>10599838
I'm serious lol.

[Anonymous No.10599910]

>>10599905
More like v-pet

[soup No.10599915]

>>10599910
noice jajaja

[Anonymous No.10599946]

>>10599893
Real ass dude of the year

[Anonymous No.10600036]

I’ve had the biggest crush on my best friend (who’s in my comm too) for like a year... she just recently got a boyfriend, and I love seeing her happy, but i’m legit so heartbroken at the same time T_T she’s bi so I thought I had a chance, but as long as she’s happy I know the heartbreak will pass. our friendship is more important. I’m just gonna treat myself to a buyee haul or something now to feel some joy lmfao

[Anonymous No.10600074]

Today is the day I've gotten almost the full sets that go with my first dream dresses (save for some small accessories). I cant stop smiling. The stuff I just got is more suited for winter and fall, but I can't wait to wear it.
2014 me is crying so hard right now. She can't believe where I am at now.
Good job.
Snazzy apartment lined up in a classy downtown area.
Closet full of burando.
Many good frens. (Both irl and online.)
Honestly, I just need my own cat and I will have it made.

[Anonymous No.10600083]

>>10600036
She prob wants kids, it's better this way. 2 mom's makes one jealous and is a recipe for disaster.

>>10600074
Proud of you.

[Anonymous No.10600153]

>>10600083
we’ve talked at length about how much we dislike kids/don’t want to raise them in this current climate lol... rip

>>10600074
i’m so happy for you, anon! i hope rven better things keep coming your way. you deserve them. take care^^

[soup No.10600170]

>>10600036
you’ll find someone new to crush on in no time anon. might be harder for you tho since not only do they have to be a lolita but a gay/bi non ita lolita. your pool of candidates is pretty small, like my penis.

My new sleeping bag came in the mail. It’s light, cozy and silky smooth. I like it a lot very comfy.

[Anonymous No.10600190]

>>10600153
I understand, I wouldn't want kids in this climate either. No worries you gonna be fine. Feelings will chance over time and you will find another person that you will feel strongly for again.

>>10600170
Will the sleeping bag hold up in sub zero temps?

[Anonymous No.10600192]

>>10598826
You can get protein powder at GNC, but I'll be the first to shill for Costco's selection (last bag I got there was "COMBAT protein powder" a 6lb bag with 25g a scoop and a nice spread of ingredients)
If you're after REAL bulk food though, their pizza is hard to beat (and high in protons as well).
Have you considered visiting /fit/?

Good news anons! My local sewing shop has actually managed to weather COVID! I was taking a break from them for forever while the coof was in full swing, but I guess being in Texas has to count for something right?
Any gulls here have experience in fabric crafting while in a small apartment? Is it better to wait until I have a larger house before investing in a sewing machine?

[Anonymous No.10600195]

>>10599627
Deets gull, deets

>>10599033
Don't rebound gull

[Anonymous No.10600197]

>>10599748
Is the farm properly considered an extension of cgl?

[Anonymous No.10600209]

>>10599893

This is more serious than it looks. Are you living together with your boyfriend?

>>10599908

Imagine if the roles were reversed. People would call anon a loser and liken him to stalker, then tell him to move on. The ship has sailed.

>>10599745
>>10599748

What is this crossboarder segregation. No healthy person has a single interest. People will browse around according to their interests and curiosity.

[Anonymous No.10600213]

>be salty that men aren't welcome in lolita and people assume bad things about me
>search #brolita on twitter
I am so sorry... I had no idea it was THIS bad. This is the worst thing I've ever seen.
I don't even wanna post my findings here. They're that bad.

[soup No.10600214]

>>10600190
>it’s lower tested limit is 14F / -10C.

[Anonymous No.10600228]

>>10599893
WHITE BOY SUMMER IS HERE FELLAS

[Anonymous No.10600240]

>>10599709
These suspicious anons are not me. I would definitely invite you to my tea party anon! I don't mind if you're a farmer but if you're a scrote we might have issues

[Anonymous No.10600262]

My Bfs con friend group recently became friends with a girl that refers to herself in the third person, its infuriating to listen to. Everyone is late 20s or early 30s not teenagers. I cant help but wonder if shes acting like this or she really talks like that to everyone
Thankfully were on opposite coasts so I won't need to meet her any time soon.

[Anonymous No.10600264]

I know this guy who is interested in doing aristocrat but he keeps calling lolita a costume. I have been trying to point out everytime they are not a costume, just my clothes but I feel like he is making a point to call it a costume everytime.

Trying not to be an autist, but it is pissing me off. I don't care when a normie on the street does it, they don't know better, but if you want to come be a part of the group stop acting like this is some cosplay.
Am I being a jerk?

[Anonymous No.10600357]

>>10600264
Have you tried using the words "getup" or "style", or getting them to use it?

[Anonymous No.10600359]

>>10600264
you're not being a jerk at all, he just sounds like he's being dumb or not taking you seriously.

[Anonymous No.10600373]

>>10600264
Do you wear lolita often? If not, he probably sees that as a costume, and is why he keeps doing it. Tbh if you wear something regularly, it is clothing, but if you just do it every now and then, it is a costume.

[Anonymous No.10600381]

>>10600213
Post them nonnie

[Anonymous No.10600382]

>>10600373
Damn, guess me wearing jeans is a costume then

[Anonymous No.10600392]

>>10600381
Please don't make me post the truly bad ones too..... The ones where the other tags are #sissy and #femboy

[Anonymous No.10600499]

>>10600357
No, but I refer to it as my outfits.

>>10600359
Thanks. I feel like I am crazy. I get they are weird clothes but...

>>10600373
I wear it mutiple times a week. I do chores like grocery shopping in them so I don't really think of them as FANCY PARTY CLOTHES or anything.

[Anonymous No.10600509]

Bought a dress from yahoo Japan about two months ago and it’s still not here. Didn’t get tracking. Extremely worried it’s lost to the void.

[Anonymous No.10600545]

>>10600264
Is he interested in aristo because of liking historical clothing? Historical clothing makers use the words “costume” and “costuming” more neutrally and he may have picked it up there.

[Anonymous No.10600572]

>>10600545
No, he likes it because of the connection to lolita. He is an otaku.

[Anonymous No.10600579]

>>10600572
anon... if he is over 21 and calls himself otaku....

[Anonymous No.10600633]

>>10600579
It's worse than than, Jim... He's an autist.

[Anonymous No.10600772]

>>10600170
thanks soup. always warms my cold dead heart to hear from you

[Anonymous No.10600773]

>>10600392
Wait this is a guy?
I thought it was just a very overweight girl

[Anonymous No.10600838]

>>10600214
Not bad what is it called?

[Anonymous No.10600840]

>>10600262
That's kinda cute

>>10600209
At least get closure you know?
And of course I would tell a different resolution depending on the gender. My ex flew over to me unexpected once I find it cute. (We were broken up for a couple of month met her on /soc/)
And of course it do be creepy if a guy did that.

[Anonymous No.10600841]

>>10600036
Almost the same thing happened to me recently nonny, except her boyfriend is a piece of shit. Thankfully the romantic feelings are kinda passing but it's still really hard. I need to make a haul to fill the void too T_T

[Anonymous No.10600843]

>>10600841
Feeling and relationship are trivial. Future survival should be on your mind. When the world collapse. You must be ready young one.

[Anonymous No.10600905]

>>10600841
Seething

[soup No.10600920]

>>10600772
you know what else would warm your heart up? a nice cozy sleeping bag. it's like having someone cuddle you all night when you sleep in one.
>>10600838
nemo disco

[Anonymous No.10600967]

>>10600392
You weren't kidding, this thing will now forever haunt my nightmares, kek. Please post all the worst ones in the ita thread, I will love you forever if you do

[Anonymous No.10600974]

>>10600392
Why are sissies obsessed with satin?

[Anonymous No.10600978]

I did it! i got a job at a much safer to live in state, with an active egl community in the city i will be in. I’m leaving this hellhole of san francisco. I’m very sad to leave the baby store and the city for lolita. but I wanted to live somewhere much safer where they don’t have to lock the doors like for AP.
I have a last shopping appointment before i go, and reserved myself an usakumya bag already:)

I cant wait to walk around in lolita in my new state without being worried of crackheads yelling at me and making kissy noises.

My ticket is booked for next week. So excited. But also sad.

[Anonymous No.10600987]

>>10600978
oh you sweet summer child

[Anonymous No.10601017]

>>10600987
Yeah? Got anything else to add or do you just like trying to rain on people’s parades?

I’m moving to a rich town known for being safe and a place to raise a family. Yeah I’ll probably get looks and catcalls still. but literally anything is better than sf lol

[Anonymous No.10601044]

>>10600974
Not sure about this guy but satin fetish definitely overlaps with the sissy fetish. Satin was a typical material for women’s lingerie and nightgowns when middle-aged men were kids and many of them are acting out the weird obsessions they took on as young boys rifling through their mothers’ things.

[Anonymous No.10601046]

>>10600974
I accidentally red this as Satan at first not gonna lie

[Anonymous No.10601048]

>>10600978
>>10601017
Anon, I don’t know where you’re moving but I grew up in a rich and snobby town on the east coast and now live in the Bay Area and it’s a thousand times more fun and less aggravating to wear lolita in SF than it is in my hometown. SF isn’t much a hotbed of counterculture as it used to be, but alt fashion is still accepted there and I feel like I fit into the texture of the city in my weird clothes. Meanwhile I can’t step a foot outside my parents’ house in lolita without a bunch of chads or a scandalized Karen laughing at me behind my back. I’d rather have winos catcalling me than that any day — most SF homeless people have only had nice (if crazy) things to say anyway.

[Anonymous No.10601049]

>>10600978
Should have gone further north or further south of LA. Anyone who leaves California regrets it unless they’re massively wealthy.

[Anonymous No.10601052]

>>10600153
>we’ve talked at length about how much we dislike kids/don’t want to raise them in this current climate lol... rip

hating kids is reddit core

[Anonymous No.10601073]

>>10601048
I guess we have different preferences. I really would prefer chad and karen laughing at me. like i wouldn’t even care, and i have experienced that before when i dressed up in a sleepy town where nobody knew wtf lolita was.

Much better for me than being by a homeless screaming crackhead every time i walk home and worrying if today i will get raped or attacked.

I’m a classic lolita anyway, if I were sweet or ott then I’d probably need to take your words in a lot more but I will be fine
>>10601049
Nah i’m good. I lived all around california my whole life, both south of La/sf and north. I know what it’s like. Ca is not where i want my life to end up being.

I need to leave. It was nice and I met so many friends and had fun, but I gotta go. I have visited my future town and i love it.

[Anonymous No.10601085]

>>10601052
Having kids means there is a likely hood they gonna be crazy liberal cucks that might become trannies. I'm more worried of that then my kids becoming prostitutes.

So having no kids is a good alternative.

[Anonymous No.10601089]

>>10601085
Why do you care if your kids are trans?

[Anonymous No.10601091]

>>10601089
Why are you ok with letting your kids mutilate their bodies?

[Anonymous No.10601092]

>>10601089
Don't you have a discord server full of kids to groom into taking HRT, tranny-kun?

[Anonymous No.10601093]

>>10601092
I'm cisgender, but thanks.

>>10601091
I don't have kids, but I believe in agency and liberty so long as it harms no one else.

[Anonymous No.10601094]

>>10601093
So if your hypothetical children wanted to self harm you’d be ok with that too?

[Anonymous No.10601103]

>>10601093
>Doesn't have kids
I don't think you understand what it's like to care for a child and want them to have the best possible life.

>As long as they harm no one else
So you would let them harm themselves?
Being a tranny is most certainly a death sentence and lonely mental road. I rather spare my children's going down that path.
There are to many child groomers out there. To many media brainwashing the youth.
I have a friend that is trans despite them changing gender I don't thing she is happy and still depressed. And I'm okay with whatever sexuality you are. I'm just agents body mutilation. Sometime it feels like some people in the lgbt community have fallen into the deep end, like a cult they being manipulated into doing things because of social pressure and the friendship group they in.

[Anonymous No.10601121]

>>10601093
Stop being dumb

[Anonymous No.10601148]

>>10601103
I don't think your argument is very good, but i don't think either of us stand a chance to convince the other on an anonymous image board. So. You can do what you like, that's between you and the world

[Anonymous No.10601165]

I think I'm becoming a hypelita

[Anonymous No.10601175]

>>10600978
Sounds like you are coming to Texas. We have been getting an influx here lately and I am seeing it in the local comm. If my guess is right, I hope you love it here. I know I did when I made the move. People in DFW have been nothing but nice to me when I wear it.

[Anonymous No.10601191]

I want to join a comm, but I am just sick and tired of people. They're so predictable, and so needlessly dramatic. Instead of just wearing clothes, hanging out and living life, they always need to find someone/something to bitch about. Constantly. I'm too tired for senseless drama at this point in my life. I just want to wear my cute, frilly clothes and sip tea. I don't want to talk about how some chick is too this or that, and all of the backdoor conspiracy theories and cloak and dagger nonsense that every single social group seems to succumb to in an endless, psychotic loop. Why can't people just be secure and keep their dramatic bullshit away from me. But, no. Instead I always sit there, space out and conveniently think up crafty, dismissive answers so I don't have to deal with people's drama bullshit 24/7. Is it so hard to just shut the fuck up and make your fucking coordinates, people?... God, I want to get into a local comm, but everytime I think about having to listen to bitching and drama that I don't care about, I'd almost rather drown myself.

[Anonymous No.10601195]

>>10601148
Just stating where I'm coming from wether my argument is strong is or not it doesn't really matter. True, it's what it is.

[Anonymous No.10601197]

>>10601191
Boredom causes drama with drama comes peace with peace comes boredom.

>>10600978
>Leaving cali
We are full, you just shitting up our state. Where californians go, they only leave behind destruction and dispair.

[Anonymous No.10601200]

>>10601175
DFW is probably the best area to wear it. Best dressed Texas comm imo, everyone there is nice, even Tyler as she is toothless irl. Austin is okay but people on the street are a crapshoot as to whether they'll shit talk you or tell you how adorable you are, the people appreciating "weird" stuff there is not really a thing anymore. Houston is just...a place no one should ever go. God, I hate Houston. I have no idea if there is a super active SA comm or if they just join in with Austin.

[Anonymous No.10601205]

>>10601200
I would rather sell all my burando than be forced to be in the same comm as Tyler

[Anonymous No.10601206]

Y’all going to meets yet? I’m getting bored.

[Anonymous No.10601208]

>>10601205
I thought Tyler was a dude for the longest time. I’m still not convinced.

[Anonymous No.10601209]

>>10601206
DFW and Austin had some small meets based on lolitas I follow (like 3 or 4 people, outdoors or in very open spaces, but not all official comm meets)

>>10601205
She rarely attends smaller stuff and is relatively quiet. She's more talkative at cons where she is engaging with her "fans" at panels, but at private events she is super toned down.

[Anonymous No.10601210]

>>10601200
Well, that's not very reassuring... I'm moving to Houston soon and I was hoping the comm was decent. Do you hate Houston because of the comm or the city itself?

[Anonymous No.10601212]

>>10601210
Just the city lol I know little to nothing about the comm cause I avoid visiting Houston and moved away before I could afford burando so I never went to a meet there. Kuroshiro Kawaii makes me want to go just for their secondhand sales for potential good deals though.

[Anonymous No.10601213]

>>10601209
I don’t care. I can’t stand her or Lor. They’re WAY too far up their own asses for people who have horse faces and shit coords.

[Anonymous No.10601216]

>>10601213
I don't like her or Lor but wouldn't say they're annoying enough in person to warrant not interacting with an otherwise good comm just because they may sometimes show up to larger events. That'd be like avoiding Paradiso if it happens again or never attending any Texas cons for lolita stuff since Tyler is often there just in case you brush shoulders with her.

[Anonymous No.10601217]

>>10601212
Right, I'm excited for that too! Plus having somewhere I can sell my dresses that aren't worth the effort of putting on LM seems nice

[Anonymous No.10601220]

>>10601217
Yeah I imagine there is a chance they may offer better rates than Closet Child for people selling to them.

[Anonymous No.10601224]

>>10601216
Good for you. Not everyone wants to be around such self important cunts.

[Anonymous No.10601229]

>>10601224
If you hate her so much you can't possibly enjoy the company of the other comm members then yeah, prolly better you stay away.

[Anonymous No.10601231]

>>10601210
Houston comm is the least clique-y of all the comms in Texas that I’ve visited. Sure there are close friend groups, but they’ll make sure you’re engaged at the meet and talking with people so you don’t ever feel left out.

[Anonymous No.10601232]

>>10601231
That's good to know! I feel like some comms are clique-y unintentionally because they just want to enjoy time with their friends and forget about other people when the group gets really big. It's nice to hear they are actually trying to keep people from feeling too isolated or left out or anything.

[soup No.10601242]

roundtrip tickets to japan in march 2022 is only $250

[soup No.10601243]

>>10601242
from texas*

[Anonymous No.10601244]

>>10601243
My bf told me about this today, pretty cool deal.

[Anonymous No.10601245]

My sister is in poor health and I want to make her happy. She likes lolita fashion and always complains about not having a lolita friend so I thought I could be the lolita friend. When I told her she was so excited and happy and that made me feel happy. I thought it would be kinda fun to dress up like a big disney princess and see what that's like at first but the more I've looked into brolita the more I've realized that everyone finds it cringe as fuck. I don't want to be cringe. I asked about ouji and she said that was fine but she seemed kinda disappointed.

[Anonymous No.10601249]

>>10601197
Boredom only causes drama if you're an uncreative, basic piece of boring shit.

[Anonymous No.10601250]

>>10601224
You better not go outside, ever. I can't imagine being so turbo-jealous that you let the existence of people you've barely met influence your ability to literally exist. Sorry, are you sad that you don't get as much attention? Weak.

[Anonymous No.10601252]

My biggest gripe about having a huge wardrobe is that my closet is average size. All my dresses are jam-packed in there and they come out extra wrinkly. Back when I only had 60 or so main pieces this wasn't a problem. I hate that I have to make extra time in the evening to iron what I wear tomorrow, I don't have the time to be spontaneous and just grab something that I ~vibe~ with to wear to work.

[Anonymous No.10601266]

>>10601245
The only question that matters is would she find it cringe or would it make her happy

[Anonymous No.10601268]

>>10601245
Just wear a mask

[Anonymous No.10601273]

>>10601245
You are comfortable wearing lolita correct? You maybe just looking at cgl, from what I see it's widely accepted everywhere else (western social medias.) My advice is to not care about what others think of you online and care more about the people close to you (your sister.) Also it's not like you have to post yourself online or anything. If lolita makes you uncomfortable then don't wear it.

[Anonymous No.10601275]

>>10601252
I suggest getting a separate clothing rack and plan your outfits a week in advance so you can just grab and go. Alternatively, you can declutter or cut back on your purchasing.

[Anonymous No.10601279]

>>10601273
I think I'd be comfortable wearing it. It doesn't really feel like crossdressing since its so out there compared to regular clothes to me. I think maybe if I just go as hard as I can at looking as good and competent as possible maybe I won't feel cringe.

[Anonymous No.10601280]

>>10601275
>cut back on purchasing
You have a point but I'm going to pretend you didn't say such a thing.

[Anonymous No.10601306]

>>10601245
Bruh just be cringe, I would be the cringiest fucker alive just to see her smile. If I am willing to you should be too. Man up and don't be a bussy.

[Anonymous No.10601317]

>>10601306
>>10601273
>>10601266
If I end up doing it would it be nicer to make my own coord since that means I'd be willing to put in my own research and time into the hobby she likes or should I ask her to pick out the stuff for me so she can be more involved?

[Anonymous No.10601325]

>>10601317
Ask her to teach you, ask her that you're thinking about making your own vs letting her pick. It could be a pretty good bonding moment. Maybe one day ask her on a date.

[Anonymous No.10601327]

>>10599893
Based boyfriend. Enjoy your /o/ meme dog

[Anonymous No.10601338]

>>10601252
If you have enough money to have a huge wardrobe you have enough money to invest in more storage space.

[Anonymous No.10601340]

>>10601338
nayrt but if you live somewhere with high rent it’s exponentially cheaper to have a large wardrobe than more storage space

[Anonymous No.10601342]

>>10601340
You can still have some storage options that maximize a smaller spaces storage capacity.

[Anonymous No.10601355]

>>10598624
Why would you want to insult her like that?

[Anonymous No.10601369]

>>10601340
A larger wardrobe is more storage space....
A wardrobe is quite literally storage

[Anonymous No.10601396]

>>10601242
Can you actually go tho?

[Anonymous No.10601523]

I hope Genshin Impact brings thigh straps into fashion

[Anonymous No.10601530]

>>10597109
>>10597157
>>10597590

I know I’m late to this convo but IMO the taller & thinner you are, the better lolita flatters you since full skirts & blouses can easily really widen a person. I say this as a 5’3” gull. Maybe the grass is always greener though

[Anonymous No.10601572]

I hate asexuals.

[Anonymous No.10601574]

>>10601572
why? im asexual

[Anonymous No.10601575]

>>10601574
So you're a sociopath who can't experience love.

[Anonymous No.10601577]

>>10601575
Nayrt, but is this bait? That's not what asexual is.

[Anonymous No.10601578]

>>10601572
Asexuals aren’t real when it comes to humans. They just either have trauma or a hormone imbalance they haven’t addressed.

[Anonymous No.10601579]

>>10601577
Asexuals don't experience sexual attraction. Therefore, they can't feel romantic love, which is sexual attraction. Asexuals are the most unloving barely-human beings on earth.

[Anonymous No.10601581]

>>10601579
Did you get led on anon

[Anonymous No.10601582]

>>10601581
Worse. I dated an abusive asexual once who refused to enjoy sex with me even when I persuaded him to

[Anonymous No.10601585]

>>10601582
Why would you even date an asexual? These people are literally telling you “ I am not fit to be a romantic partner” and here you are trying to make it happen anyway?

[Anonymous No.10601586]

>>10601585
I thought he would understand love when he finally had sex with me. But that asshole didn't even enjoy it.

[Anonymous No.10601587]

>>10601582
That sucks that they were abusive and I'm glad you're not with them anymore. But does that really have anything to do with the fact that they were asexual?
>asexual
>refused to enjoy sex with me
>had to be persuaded
anon... this like if a girl tried to have sex with her closeted bf and came here posting "I hate gay people"

[Anonymous No.10601590]

>>10601587
>But does that really have anything to do with the fact that they were asexual
It has everything to do with that. He was abusive because he denied me sex. Also, gay people are still capable of feeling emotions because they still have sex. Asexuals don't have sex, therefore they don't have emotions.

[Anonymous No.10601592]

>>10601587
To be fair, if someone’s in the closet and leading someone on like they actually are attracted to them that’s a valid reason for hating someone, and I can see how it would make you hate gay people as a whole. Using someone as a beard is disgusting

[Anonymous No.10601593]

>>10601579
There's more to love than sex anon. If you loved your cat would you fuck it
I mean if your not Shane Dawson

[Anonymous No.10601594]

>>10601590
That's not what I meant by the gay analogy, nevermind. You sound like the abusive one for coercing them into sex. Also sex doesn't equal emotional attachment/romantic feelings?

Idk why I'm bothering, you're obviously a troll... I hope.

[Anonymous No.10601596]

Here we go again

[Anonymous No.10601601]

>>10601593
Romantic love is inherently sexual, retard. If you don’t want to fuck them it’s not romantic love, it’s platonic/familial

[Anonymous No.10601603]

>>10601586
Maybe you're just shit at sex

[Anonymous No.10601674]

tfw long limbs
i just want to be comfy in daily lolita

[Anonymous No.10601690]

>>10601585
>>10601587
don't take the bait retards

[Anonymous No.10601710]

>>10601530
That's true for literally all fashion

[Anonymous No.10601712]

waho ss nabbed me a rare thing when it was like 5 am japan time lol, I am very grateful to her

[Anonymous No.10601714]

>>10601530
There's upsides and downsides I guess. I look nice in what fits me but my DD is a 2009 Meta JSK that's so short it would look terrible on me haha. Basically any older dresses are off limits for me unless I'm going for ero lolita. I envy girls who can buy dresses without worrying about the length

[Anonymous No.10601776]

>>10601710
It is, but IMO it’s doubly true for a fashion that involves wearing huge petticoats. Fat people look worse in lolita than they do in ‘normal’ clothes

[Anonymous No.10601783]

>>10600264
just start telling him you like his costume every time he wears anything, maybe he'll get the point

[soup No.10601889]

>>10601396
that's the gamble

[Anonymous No.10601891]

>>10601530
Lolita is not made for tall people though and dresses end up being too short on them as a result.

[Anonymous No.10601914]

>>10601891
Short dress ain't a bad thing -smug face-

[Anonymous No.10601923]

>tfw bought a maid costume, bunny suit, and virgin killer sweater for my tall bishie bf

primo

[Anonymous No.10601927]

>>10601923
do you peg him too?

[Anonymous No.10602027]

>>10599603
>>10599607
thank you for taking the time to reply. i really appreciate it

>>10599584
even you, sour patch

[Anonymous No.10602050]

One day, I will evolve from being a poorfag, lolita at heart with a $60 taobao dress and an aliexpress petticoat but it's not going to be anytime soon.

[Anonymous No.10602058]

>>10601914
>-smug face-
Kill yourself newfag

[Anonymous No.10602059]

>>10601923
>being a paypig

[Anonymous No.10602087]

>>10601923
whered you get them? I want to buy those for my bf

[Anonymous No.10602090]

>>10601927
nah

>>10602059
he paid for them, dummy

>>10602087
bodyline! it kind of pained me as a lolita but it came extremely fast, like a day after i ordered it. all of their (lewd) costumes are advertised for women but they fit well

[Anonymous No.10602094]

>>10602090
how did you buy something for someone if they are the one that actually bought it

[Anonymous No.10602101]

>>10601923
Make sure he doesnt troon out

[Anonymous No.10602107]

I was okay with idol lolita until Ellie Vyra decided to show us her entire snatch jfc.
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=an-bMwPE114&ab_channel=EllieVyra

[Anonymous No.10602143]

>>10601200
DFW is just the most based city in Texas
Anyone here go to UrbanSpools?

[Anonymous No.10602147]

>>10601712
But what about the /cgl/ SS gull?
Don't you like bows?

[Anonymous No.10602148]

>>10602143
>UrbanSpools
i've never been, but thanks for pointing it out! i just started sewing and now i really want to go. too bad it closes at 5 or i would have gone immediately.

[Anonymous No.10602161]

>>10598587
I'm flattered albeit unfashionably late. A Hoozuki.

[Anonymous No.10602164]

>>10602058
-sips tea-
I have been here longer then you faggot

[Anonymous No.10602171]

>>10601210

Houston comm is pretty good and since the pandemic started extremely little drama. I'd go to at least a couple of meetups, most of the people are pretty friendly, and it's easy to avoid the drama even when it becomes more active again.

[Anonymous No.10602176]

>>10602143
No, but I was looking for a good place for apparel fabric so I will check it out! Thanks.

[Anonymous No.10602197]

I have been having gi issues after over exerting myself with weightlifting and have not eaten very much for 2 weeks and lost maybe 5 pounds. At least my brand fits me a little looser now, which is nice.

[Anonymous No.10602291]

>>10602148
>>10602176
I mainly found out about them because of their classes, those can be in the later evening as well (7 or so)
I'm not very well educated on their prices, but it's a great club atmosphere for sure yeah.

[Anonymous No.10602324]

I can’t wait to get vaccinated so I can have sex with someone. I know that sex is special and personal and should be only done with someone you love, but I’m single so I’ll have to go with the next best thing. I just need to teach myself to enjoy sex no matter what. I can’t keep not wanting it. That’s not right. And even if I won’t enjoy it, i’ll do it anyway. I’ll keep trying it until I have no choice but to like it.

[Anonymous No.10602328]

>>10602324
have you considered fucking someone you love?

[Anonymous No.10602330]

>>10602328
Yes, and I hate the thought of it as much as having sex with anyone. But since I’m single right now, my only option is fucking someone I don’t love. Really I jus need to do anything to get myself to like sex at all.

[Anonymous No.10602332]

>>10602328
Something I forgot to add in this post>>10602330 is that if anything, I hate the thought of having sex with someone I love even more because it feels even more like I have no choice. Sex is part of love, and I feel pressured to provide it because I know I have to. At least fucking a stranger gives me the illusion of having a choice, even if it really isn’t any better.

[Anonymous No.10602343]

>>10602330
>>10602332
Have you considered fucking someone you LIKE instead?
Get a fuckbuddy maybe, one that won't be particularly clingy, but is more than willing to help you practice.
You could probably find one at your local gym without too much issue, pick the schlep with a decent body but wearing an anime tank top, generally a safe bet they're autistic and willing to do this for the validation you would give them.

[Anonymous No.10602345]

>>10602324
if the idea of sex is not appealing in any way you may be asexual, either just naturally or by hormone imbalance so you might want to get that checked out

[Anonymous No.10602350]

i pissed on my waiste ties today...

[Anonymous No.10602368]

>>10602350
F

[Anonymous No.10602413]

>>10602350
Your waist ties became waste ties

[Anonymous No.10602459]

>>10600840
tried to contact him again (stupid I know) and he blocked me once more. It's done over, ship has sailed. At least now I feel completely over him and can focus on my boyfriend who is really sweet and caring of me.

[Anonymous No.10602470]

>>10602345
Yeah I’m most likely asexual, unfortunately. Nothing was wrong with my hormones when I got them checked. I still want to try to change it and become normal though. No one deserves to date someone who won’t fuck them.

[Anonymous No.10602478]

Gulls! The weight loss worked! I am really tall for lolita (5'9"). I always thought since I wasn't overweight and no matter what a lot of the clothing wouldn't fit my frame it wasn't worth doing.
I just tried on a dress I was planning on selling that I haven't tried on since ten lbs ago and it looks leagues better! It is still shorter than ideal and the waist sits on my ribcage, but it looks better somehow. I lost most of my weight in my lower body so I thought it wouldn't change much. It is wild how much a cm or two off the bust can change the look.
I have about 10 more lbs I can lose before I hit the lowend of a safe BMI but it is so exciting! I am so glad I decided to commit and just see what happened. I am doing only 1/2lb a week off and it has been easy after getting over the hump at the start. I feel like I can really maintain this with limited effort. I am just feeling really good.

[Anonymous No.10602650]

This ita from my comm keeps messaging me on facebook complaining about how she can't fit into brand and every time I try and give her advice she says "yeah but you're skinny"

[Anonymous No.10602725]

>buy cute dress
>get excited for the dress and hunt down the matching OTKS and bonnet, plus a perfectly matching blouse while I'm waiting for the month long shipping from Europe
it's been almost 2 months now and I think my dress is officially lost in the mail... Now I have these matching accessories for a really nice coord and no dress

[Anonymous No.10602785]

>>10602650
Just ignore her messages moving forward. She clearly is a hopeless case not interested in bettering herself.

[Anonymous No.10603222]

>>10602478
Good job gull
Make sure you don't go overboard
If you plateau AND you're still healthily in the safe zone for BMI, consider fasting once a week

[Anonymous No.10603242]

>>10602459
Have you tried sending a nude pic? Lol jk
At least you tried, maybe break up with your bf?

[Anonymous No.10604162]

>>10597669
I am going to spend about $600 on a coord in the ultimate feminine presenting fashion with the highest regard to quality. Then I am going to ruin that feminine look by presenting stereotypical male. Not shaving your legs draws attention to your body. Lolita is about drawing attention to the clothes to take away attention to the body. Not shaving just makes you look lazy, masculine, and draws attention to your conflicting feminine style against nasty, unkempt legs. They will stick out like a neon sign.

[Anonymous No.10604934]

My package from Btssb San Fran may be lost. Got an email of it being delivered and signed, but wasn't at my doorstep. My luck with USPS has ran out. I just hope it's an error and it will arrive tomorrow