Feels Thread: i hope those cats soup is letting starve on the street are dead

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Feels Thread: i hope those cats soup is letting starve on the street are dead Anonymous Mon Feb 22 23:41:17 2021 No.10563252 [Reply] [Original]

Old thread is done for.

>>	Yung Nigga Sizzoup Tue Feb 23 00:55:58 2021 No.10563275 >>10563252 Ayo why come you be making a new thread

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:05:02 2021 No.10563280 >>10563275 Fuck off namecunt

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:08:37 2021 No.10563283

To avoid an argument derailing this thing, let’s share some feels.

I shipped my purchases to my parents house by accident. They can ship them to me just fine, but I went on a depression-fueled-shopping spree and I’m concerned they’re going to question why there are around 6 packages, most of which are relatively large

But one of them is a dd of mine so that’s good?

>>	Yung Nigga Sizzoup Tue Feb 23 01:09:40 2021 No.10563284 >>10563280 Shiiiet, don't b hatin

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:16:46 2021 No.10563286 I cammed in cats tea party last week. But don't worry I made sure to tell my viewers that it's lolita fashion and from a brand called Angelic Pretty and that it's not a fetish.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:20:15 2021 No.10563288

>>10563252
I’ve grown distant from my lolita friends because I realized how one sided our friendships really were and that I was the one putting in the majority of the effort.

I’ve been spending time with other friends that actually wanna see me and it’s helping me a lot, but I guess I’m getting to that age where you start valuing quality over quantity.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:23:41 2021 No.10563292 >>10563286 Sure you did, larper.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 01:26:23 2021 No.10563295 >>10563288 Congratulations on spending time with people who truly make you happy, anon!

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:25:13 2021 No.10563390
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I discovered i am obsessed with choco prints !! Fuck just give me all the choco shit! just satisfies me on some carnal level seeing choc prints.
but I was having the hard time finding cute things (i know etc had that one dress...didn’t think it looked good enough to drop $200 secondhand on). I also don’t want to be a q pot whore anymore either.
But I discovered minne jp from a nice anon here. Found my dream chocolate print wallet, bag, and otome skirt there for a way better price and just as cute as q pot (see picrel). So i am very happy. Its weird but i never really liked clothes that much. And then i discovered jp stuff and it’s totally my aesthetic!!

Tax return can’t come in soon enough ;_;

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:33:25 2021 No.10563395

>finally thousands of disposal income a month
>months long huge shopping sprees
>warehouses and packages full with hundreds of liz lisa classics
>one night looking up black x pink trend
>realize that's all i wanna wear now
>no space for anything and don't want to sell incoming LL
fml

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:40:23 2021 No.10563397 File: 67 KB, 575x700, billnye.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10563395 If you have thousands of dollars of disposable income a month... Why not just get a place with a bigger closet?

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:44:27 2021 No.10563398 >>10563397 I actually am moving soon, but the thought of having all of those things, having to wash everything, then moving it etc, tires and stresses me out

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:48:14 2021 No.10563399 File: 2.17 MB, 498x382, considerthefollowingagain.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10563398 Now you're just making excuses. If you have thousands of dollars of disposable income a month, why not pay for private laundry services.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 03:56:43 2021 No.10563405

>>10563399
I get that I should just do that, hire packing service, cleaning service and stuff
But I'm like a perfectionist, everything needs to be done the way I want it, else it's wrong and I don't trust others
I wish I could just be whatever about things..

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 04:08:09 2021 No.10563409 >>10563405 You're not doing a very good job of being perfect if you can't handle maintaining and organizing your own closet, you know. You should have considered it before you went shopping for months straight, dodo.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 08:03:22 2021 No.10563458 I gained weight in quarantine and my weekly runs weren't enough so I bought Just Dance 2021 today so I can have some indoor workout sessions. It's pretty fun, I'm enjoying it. I wanted to get RingFit too but the price is a little on the high side.

>>	soup Tue Feb 23 09:23:11 2021 No.10563477 it's nice seeing the board filling up with cosplay related threads again

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 10:01:16 2021 No.10563489 >>10563395 liz lisa 2nd hand isn't expensive you larper.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 10:08:55 2021 No.10563494 >>10563489 nayrt but if they really have hundreds of liz lisa dresses it could still be thousands of dollars

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 10:53:26 2021 No.10563504 >>10563494 they don't though because i actually do buy atleast 1k worth of liz lisa shit and she's not buying anything.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 10:59:19 2021 No.10563510

>>10563458
Ring fit is 20499403x better than just dance. For one, it's a full game, and just dance makes you subscribe to dance to all the songs... you can literally look up any just dance song on youtube on your tv. I say this as someone who used to love the series

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 15:43:11 2021 No.10563749

i was gushing about how the giant peeps are finally in store to my bf and the immediate response was "i don't have any money". i wasn't begging him for one, i just wanted to drop a hint and be excited about a cute thing. i'm so tired of him being an asshole to me, i sucked his dick this morning and cleaned a fuckton and made breakfast and he sits on his ass watching anime and playing mobile games. i'm so sick of it i deserve better and there are literally men willing to give it to me and he KNOWS THAT, he tells me he feels like he's losing me and that i could do better etc. like i'm crying over a fucking peep plushie because of this broke selfish dickwad

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 15:46:18 2021 No.10563752 >>10563749 He knows he's losing you, but doesn't do anything to fix that? That's a problem. You need to talk about it anon. Why he doesn't feel cared about and why you don't feel cared about.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 15:52:08 2021 No.10563756 >>10563749 Dump his ass

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 15:53:29 2021 No.10563758

>>10563749
How often do you ‘drop hints’ and gush about stuff to buy? If his immediate response was to be honest about not having the cash to splash, maybe he feels like he can’t keep up with your materialism? A lot of guys feel that way these days and a lot of guys care fuck all about being excited about things to buy. Just buy it for yourself and spare him the gushing about stuffed toys, maybe? Why is this even hard?

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 15:58:32 2021 No.10563765

>>10563752
we talk about it so much, it's been countless times that we've had that conversation. bottom line is that he doesn't earn enough for us to live comfortably and he is 100% able to pick up more hours but he doesn't. he /should/ feel cared about given the amount of time and energy i spend cooking and cleaning so that he can work more. but he says i'm detached emotionally, which is entirely true. i've admitted it and told him that if my feelings were addressed and considered continuously (like i do w/ him) that i'd feel a lot better.
>>10563758
i don't do it often, the last time i hinted at something was before v-day when i said i'd like some flowers. i got a bag of gummy bears lmao. he spends his disposable income on games and stuff but honest to goodness i've never received a genuine gift from him since last christmas; for my bday and xmas in 2020 i got a bottle of wine each time.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:01:35 2021 No.10563771 >>10563765 I know it's overused, but please dump his ass. Also I looked up the peep and if you drop your email I can get it for you?

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:05:19 2021 No.10563774 >>10563771 i'm seriously considering it, i just don't want to think about moving on yet. also, i really appreciate the offer and i'd love a seagull souvenir, but i'll have to decline. thank you a lot though anon <3

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Tue Feb 23 16:06:15 2021 No.10563776

>>10563765
fuck your bf anon (but not literally he doesn't deserve sex) you could absolutely do better. if my crazy 6/10 ass can get a sweet handsome (not old) man that buys me lolita "just because" so can you, and it's not like my guy is rolling in it, he makes below the median Canadian salary

go get a hotter guy that spoils you

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:06:49 2021 No.10563777

>>10563765
You say you've talked about it, but nothing you said explains what your could do to make him he feel cared about. It's possible be doesn't know though. You're operating under the assumption doing things for him makes him feel cared about, but if I were him, I'd feel the same. Some people don't speak that language.
You obviously do and you're taking it that since he won't do things for you, he doesn't love you. Give him some smaller things he can do that would show you he cares about you.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:07:58 2021 No.10563779

>>10563765
A bottle of whine, lol. Seems he drops good hints better than you. Why aren’t you working to buy your own things instead of expecting him to work even more? Know what I got my boyfriend for Valentine’s? Chocolate Carmels *and* surprised him with a little nest egg of cash savings so we could clear the last of some debt and start wealth building together. Because he is my partner not my cash cow. I like cute things too, I bought myself an alpacasso - but I wouldn’t expect him to indulge me so often as twice in a month. I’m a grown woman, not a spoiled babby.

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Tue Feb 23 16:09:52 2021 No.10563780 >>10563777 ???????? she wants a PEEPS PLUSHIE and some FLOWERS! how much smaller can you get? >>10563779 you're not a woman you're a maleposter gtfo

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:12:45 2021 No.10563781

>>10563779

>Waiting until some arbitrary date to surprise someone with money to clear debt instead of being upfront with them about it to save on interest

Wtf you are so fucking weird.

Also FYI peeps are like, $25 tops. If you don't eat out 2-3x you can save enough for that even on an extreme budget. Maybe if he stopped pouring money into those games he could afford that for her.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:13:37 2021 No.10563782 >>10563779 I hope you didn’t actually pay off his debt

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:13:56 2021 No.10563783 >>10563777 >things he can do >>10563780 >BUY STUFF Are you confused? That's not an action like anon cleaning the house or making food.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:14:24 2021 No.10563785

>>10563749
Don't even talk to him about it. Move all your stuff and dump him, unless you have no other options. Even then, life's too short to be someone else's therapist AND maid. I understand you need to work through some things with people but there's also a point when issues are so deeply ingrained as a part of them that a outside force can't change them. It's unfair to YOU that your putting more effort into a relationship without your partner putting in a equal or even any amount of effort into the relationship.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:15:18 2021 No.10563787 >>10563783 nayrt but gifts are a love language

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:16:24 2021 No.10563788 >>10563787 Yes, a completely separate one.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:17:11 2021 No.10563789 >>10563749 Dump him anon, he sounds pathetic. picrel is my thoughts on men in general though

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:17:20 2021 No.10563790

>>10563780
Nope, just a woman with self-resepect and independence. Imaging crying because my man didn’t get me a stuffed toy? I don’t drop hints and then cry when someone doesn’t buy me something, that’s way too dependent and weak. I buy it for myself. It’s demeaning and embarrassing to me when women are greedy, grasping materialistic and manipulative. Be strong, earn your coin, buy your own shit. Don’t depend on others to get it for you, then cry if they don’t . That’s so weak.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:18:17 2021 No.10563792
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>>10563789
dropped.
But yeah you should consider dumping him he sounds inconsiderate, selfish, and insecure. A drag in the long run. Get yourself a boyfriend that will care for you, or better yet, a girlfriend

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:19:50 2021 No.10563793 >>10563790 If you had real self respect and independence why are you wasting your time on a man?

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:22:24 2021 No.10563795

>>10563782
It was our debt together, and >>10563781
duh, the money was a windfall savings dividend for me so yes, otherwise I’d have had it paid in before and saved us the interest. We share the main budget mostly but I have my own side hustles too.
She said he works, so why shouldn’t he enjoy some games in his time off?

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:23:33 2021 No.10563796

My narc mom sucked the fun out of wearing lolita. She has hated it as long as I have been wearing it but still has to brag about it to her friends. I had no idea she was this bad generally and still need to kick the witch out of my life (haven't seen her in over a year and it's not like I talk to her even once a month). She is absolutely insane. Used to steal every freaking photo of my ig and probably still hoards them to post them to strangers in her social media. My insecurities and anxiety have taken the best of me and I just can't imagine wearing it in public anymore. I used to be a daily lolita and now it just feels something so distant. Everytime I hear mom telling me how strong I am just reminds me how weak she has made me. I guess I used lolita to shield myself from everyone, found people who loved me as I am regardless but lost the nerves to wear it in progress. Idk why it's so big thing bc I really don't have to post my coords ig to enjoy them but smoking her out from my account has made me wanting to wear lolita again. Well, it's not just my account, it's my life in general. But huh the bitch isn't going down without a fight, threatened me with police today if I didn't pick up my phone. Just makes me think if this struggle is worth it, I have never felt this horrible in my life.

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Tue Feb 23 16:24:53 2021 No.10563797 File: 69 KB, 546x700, 1613694762371.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10563790 hahahahaha "earn your own coin" go back from whence you came

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:27:33 2021 No.10563800

>>10563793
Because I love him and we have similar interests and goals in life? I don’t hate men or just see them as cash-bags. I don’t think they need to provide constant gifts or purchases to ‘show caring’. Especially if they are already supporting the household. But that’s just me and so for me, it works.

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Tue Feb 23 16:28:42 2021 No.10563802 >>10563796 I'm sorry nonny that fucking sucks You could always just post them to CoF, it's a private group after all so your cunty mom can't stalk you there. Plz don't let that bitch suck the joy out of something you love. hugs

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:29:02 2021 No.10563804 >>10563790 you sound like a pick-me

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:33:21 2021 No.10563806 >>10563765 Do you also work? If not, he probably is showing that he's not happy with that arrangement. If it's not agreeable to both of you, this resentment is just going to keep building up, so either change something or split up.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:37:17 2021 No.10563807

>>10563804
Don’t need to ‘be picked’, I am in a good relationship. It’s just really tiresome to hear women basically having a tantrum about what men won’t buy for them so often. You want it? Buy it yourself. Seeing someone have a crying fit over not getting a cheap stuffed plushie gift is pretty pathetic, don’t you think?

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:46:38 2021 No.10563817 >>10563807 You sound like a joy to be around All judgy and shit. Let people be upset about dumb shit and live your own life

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Tue Feb 23 16:51:10 2021 No.10563819 >>10563807 no, I think your attitude is pretty pathetic tho. I would also cry if my bf couldn't be assed to get me some flowers or a plushie. and not just on here, actual tears. but you're pretty obviously a man

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 16:59:47 2021 No.10563822

>>10563807

It's not really about whether one can afford it though, it's about the thought behind it. One of my favorite things my bf got me is that he one day surprised me with my favorite treat from a bakery. Like yes, I could have gone and gotten it myself and I often do, but I felt especially touched that day because he noticed I liked it and thought it would make me feel better. It's a really tiny thing and we've definitely splurged more, but little things like that make it feel really nice.

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 17:12:23 2021 No.10563830

>>10563822
That’s different, it sounds like it was spontaneously done as something thoughtful and nice and not the result of you dropping hints and gushing about things frequently. If plushie-chan is dropping gifting hints as often as twice monthly and keeping a judgement score on past gifts, it doesn’t seem like there would even be time or room for her boyfriend to surprise her spontaneously like yours did - without feeling pressed or nagged to deliver.

>>10563819
If I’m not a greedy crybaby, I must be a man? That’s funny.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 17:25:40 2021 No.10563838 >>10563779 >Know what I got my boyfriend for Valentine’s? Chocolate Carmels and surprised him with a little nest egg of cash savings gimpgirl?? is that you?

>>	Yung Nigga Sizzoup Tue Feb 23 22:30:42 2021 No.10564031 >>10563779 I copped my breezy a Crysler 300 on 22s, only 400 a month, said I got the "you pay your credit" special

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 22:37:17 2021 No.10564034 I got my dream dress! ....none of the pieces I want to make the full coord with it are being sold by anyone in the world....mmm....

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 22:37:50 2021 No.10564035

>financial aid grant money dropped in my account
>did taxes, will be getting the biggest return I've ever gotten in my life
>university asked if I would like even more free grant money so I said yes
>got a scholarship because I have a 4.0GPA
>job is giving me 5k a semester to finish school

all of this money and no fucking AP shit that I want to buy. suffering

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 22:49:29 2021 No.10564043 >>10564035 Buy some nice alcohol

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 23:21:04 2021 No.10564065

I discovered cornet and fell in love with all their sort of plain shit like i never fell in love before.
Then i realize painfully that they’re defunct for probably 15 years at this point.
But then realizing it has gone for really cheap on LM quite often and recently.
>sad sad happy?

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 23:23:43 2021 No.10564067 >>10564034 that is frustrating, but just think if how perfect it'll be when you finally get it all.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 23 23:30:11 2021 No.10564068 >>10563838 I ugly laughed

Anonymous Tue Feb 23 23:31:42 2021 No.10564070

>>10563790
I'm not like those other girls with their...
desire for their partner to make an effort for them and put thought into something that makes them happy?
I am pretty sure most three year olds understand the value of a thoughtful gift but whatever makes you feel superior, sis.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:20:29 2021 No.10564088 >>10564043 meh...I'm a social drinker, and I can't be social right now, so...

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:32:04 2021 No.10564100 >>10563793 based take

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:43:29 2021 No.10564106 >>10563800 then if it's 'just for you' why are you coming down on other anon so hard? Sounds like you just wanted to act holier than thou

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:49:02 2021 No.10564108
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I'm glad I stopped going on LC. My mental health has improved and all the cows I gave a fuck about are gone anyway. Checking up on PT awhile back did make me sad though. I hope the kawaii queen herself can live a good life.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:56:30 2021 No.10564112 >>10564035 Save it for when you get out of school and can't find a job.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 00:59:48 2021 No.10564113 >>10564112 did you miss the part where I said I was already employed and that my job is giving me 10k a year to get my degree

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 01:20:03 2021 No.10564124 >>10564113 Oh my god it's you helloooo again.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 01:25:11 2021 No.10564125 >>10564113 nta but you're either lying, or admitting to stealing financial aid when you don't need it. gross. other people need that.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 01:40:00 2021 No.10564134

>>10564124
I don't even know who you're alluding to

>>10564125
how is it stealing when financial aid has all of my tax and employment information when I file for it? The leftover money I get from finaid means I can afford to work less while still having my rent and bills paid so I can maintain my grades.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 02:04:59 2021 No.10564138 File: 87 KB, 750x750, 1602475872767.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Sure I bought a milky planet salopette in pink... but am I going to wear it? Or is it just going to sit in my closet because I'm too embarrassed to wear it?

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 04:42:52 2021 No.10564213 >>10563756 based DHAanon

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 04:44:12 2021 No.10564214 >>10564138 Wear it if you like it. Life is too short.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 05:22:16 2021 No.10564219 >>10564138 Wear it for yourself and stop giving a shit anon, life is short

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 09:34:15 2021 No.10564280 >>10564125 >nta Return from whence you came

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 09:39:45 2021 No.10564283 >>10564134 You're the other 10k anon with a six figure job lined up at the end of your degree. Like good for you but you've mentioned this only like 20 times here.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 09:46:54 2021 No.10564288 >>10564283 I thought that other anon was whining because she didn’t have money, remove the tinfoil

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 10:10:53 2021 No.10564301 >>10564134 sure, anon. whatever you say.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 10:48:08 2021 No.10564321 >>10564283 that anon isn't me and i haven't posted in these threads in weeks, but gj letting me live in your head rent free lmao

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:04:30 2021 No.10564336 >>10563749 "Women try not to have a psychotic episode because their boyfriend said something the wrong way" challenge (IMPOSSIBLE!)

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:10:26 2021 No.10564340 >>10564283 Ha! Nope that's not me because, again, I already am working at a job, and once I get my degree I'm more realistically looking at 75-80k starting salary unfortunately. No 100k+ starting for me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:18:52 2021 No.10564343 File: 62 KB, 220x272, tenor (4).gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10564340 Lol just ignore that schizoposter, imagine being mad that there's more than one person thriving during the pandemic.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:25:28 2021 No.10564345 >>10563749 Please dump him, save him from yourself. It's the best thing you could do for him.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:36:45 2021 No.10564351

>>10563749
honestly this >>10564345 , it's been said already but if you have a habit of "dropping hints" about stuff you want then him saying he has no money is a totally reasonable response.

like i don't think there's anything wrong with living off your bf if you do the housework, but if you expect him to buy you fun stuff on his shitty salary then you should probably get a job too. there's nothing wrong with him spending his fun money on himself, especially because you'd probably do the same? like, if you spent all of your fun money on a new release, what would you say if he "hinted" at wanting a $60 game?

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 11:39:04 2021 No.10564352

>>10564351
It's not even the money, it's the attitude that is a MAJOR red flag. Women who play "Now I got you, you son of a bitch," games have anger issues and enjoy the release of their anger over somewhat socially defensible but otherwise petty reasons. They will never have a normal relationship and they will make their partner's lives hell.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:18:59 2021 No.10564379 >>10564351 Man this is why I work. I kind of like having leverage in a relationship and when you're a housewife with no discernible unique skills to contribute, you're very close to being a burden. Also I hate chores.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:22:21 2021 No.10564382 Having unlocked my """latent low-level psychic powers (the ability to predict stupid people)""" I now understand why some people's first response to being insulted is violence.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:26:18 2021 No.10564385

>>10564379
same anon, our household is dual income so i don't have to worry about stuff like that. i'd rather make my own money so i don't have to dip into anyone else's pockets for selfish things. having to hint at things or ask to buy stuff sounds annoying

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:28:20 2021 No.10564387 where is my tax refund? I need burando money

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:28:40 2021 No.10564388

>>10564385
I don't mind if my girl wants me to buy her stuff. I get it, it's nice, it makes us both feel good.
What I don't like are childish women who feel the need to hint at things instead of having the confidence to be up front and honest about their desires, or the inverse, ones who think my very real budget not allowing for a grand piano I know she'll never use means that our entire relationship was a lie and that I'm cheating on her.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:31:20 2021 No.10564391 >>10564388 that's great and healthy! and i would do the same for my partner, male or female. just for me personally, having two healthy streams of income totally eliminates any possibility of contention.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 12:34:34 2021 No.10564393 >>10564382 A gun is the greatest negotiator.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 13:13:33 2021 No.10564418 Guess it turns out that all the LGBT rights activists really cared about in the end was their ability to be an exhibitionist legally and without criticism.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 15:07:37 2021 No.10564475 >>10564301 so it's "stealing" to take money the government gives you to help you? hope you've been giving your stimulus payments back then.

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Feb 24 15:20:36 2021 No.10564479 >>10564388 hinting is kind of weird I'll give you that, when I want something I tell my bf explicitly that I want something and make a pouty face and ask pwease

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:28:24 2021 No.10564604

>>10564125
You can get financial aid for actual financial need, yes. However, they also give financial aid for people who make good grades.

They will pay more for a smart, financially-stable person to go to school then they'll pay for a stupid, poor person. The latter doesn't help them, after all.

Not all poor people are stupid.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:29:59 2021 No.10564605 >>10564604 >they also give financial aid for people who make good grades. that's a scholarship, anon. financial aid is different.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:39:34 2021 No.10564607 >>10564605 Scholarship is financial aid, you dingbat. You're thinking of PELL grant, aren't you? (Scholarships, loans, and grants all fall under the umbrella term 'financial aid'.)

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:45:55 2021 No.10564611 >>10564607 but anon, the OP said she got both, go back to her post.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:49:35 2021 No.10564615 [DELETED]

>>10564611
And? What does it matter if she got 'both'. Yes, I'm aware. I also know she said that she filled out the paperwork properly, and that's the amount she was provided. Just because it bothers you doesn't mean she's a con artist. If you do good in school, you can also get both.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:50:43 2021 No.10564617 >>10564615 we get it, your her. stop defending yourself.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:51:14 2021 No.10564618

>>10564611
And? What does it matter if she got 'both'. Yes, I'm aware. I also know she said that she filled out the paperwork properly, and that's the amount she was provided. Just because it bothers you doesn't mean she's a con artist. If you do good in school, you can also get both.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:55:26 2021 No.10564620

>>10564617
Okay, look, if you go in-state to a community college then, yes, you won't get any money with a 10K job. It's not based on how 'poor' you are, it's based on how the cost of tuition compares to your income. Many universities, especially for out-of-state, easily cost upward of 30K. My local university alone charges 7K per semester for in-state students.

If she went to community college, like my own, with a 10K job then, no, she would not get aid as she could easily afford the roughly 1,200 per semester books and all.

However, if she goes... out-of-state to a med school or something, the closest charging about 26K per semester, she will receive aid because of the tuition/income offset.

You don't actually get aid for being 'poor', you get it depending on how much tuition compares percentage wise to your income even if you have a 10K job.

You do not understand how financial aid is given is what you're showing.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 19:59:59 2021 No.10564621

man all this talk of financial aid makes me wish i had bothered to apply for scholarships so i could have used the room and board money on fun stuff. i'm graduating with no debt anyway though so couldashouldawoulda

anyway cgl feel, my bf finally made a comment about how much i buy and it hit a nerve wrong. i happily showed him some really cute cardigans i bought and he was like, "more stuff? again? just how many packages do you have coming and where are we going to put it all?" we're going to put it in the second bedroom closet with the rest of it, you nerd

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 20:03:52 2021 No.10564625 >>10563749 >>10563765 it won't get better just leave him, he doesn't deserve you trying to make him feel more cared for

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 20:09:37 2021 No.10564629

>>10564620
Basically this. Everything minus the tax return goes into my tuition and I get whatever's left over to help me live on for the next 6 months until the new semester starts.

I'm not getting a 5-digit lump sum and buying everything available on AP's website. It was more of a joke of "I'm getting a surge of money all at once and yet there's no AP I want to buy" because no new releases interest me and the secondhand market's kind of dry.

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 21:46:02 2021 No.10564665
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>>10564629
I wish it were more clear to people that the threshold is based upon the contrast of income & tuition because I feel a lot with well-paying employment skimp on a good school because, "I'll have to pay out-of-pocket, and, therefore, community college will be cheaper." I feel if it were better explained that less would risk receiving a subpar education in which they're spending anyway.

I need to go on a shopping spree because I'm finally in need of a new coat, skirts, & bras (e.g. all the expensive stuff). I haven't been able to find any that strike me though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 22:00:48 2021 No.10564671 >>10563749 the moment you feel like consulting an Internet board of random strangers about your relationship, you know it's time.

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 22:21:02 2021 No.10564680 >>10563749 my niece got one for her bday today

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 22:28:55 2021 No.10564684 >>10563749 >the fact the anons still think this isn't a scrote saying his fantasy

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 22:46:21 2021 No.10564695 >>10564684 >anon complaining about boyfriend being a lazy shit why would a man fantazise about this?

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 22:48:51 2021 No.10564696
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>>10564680
Your niece got a nice gift. I too wanted one of the giant peeps, but $30 was too much at the time for a spur-of-the-moment purchase.

I bought the 9 inch rainbow one instead. He's sitting on my shelf.

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 22:55:51 2021 No.10564698 >>10564696 aren't peeps easter candy? why are they so popular all of a sudden

Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:00:03 2021 No.10564700
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>>10564698
They are. They've started releasing plushies, and while the jumbo ones have been available online, it was the first year that jumbo ones were in mass retailers nationwide. It's like a 2 1/2 foot plushie for $30; it is a good deal.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:05:56 2021 No.10564702 >>10564696 soup is a pathogical liar

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:08:43 2021 No.10564703 >>10564695 scrotes would easily fantasize about having a gf that will be with them despite them being a scrote

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:11:34 2021 No.10564704 >>10564702 Maybe, but we're talking about Peep plushies. What's the worst that could happen?

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:14:28 2021 No.10564705 >>10564702 you're right. I don't even have a niece

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:16:29 2021 No.10564707 >>10564705 The peeps jumbo plushies are really cute though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:19:42 2021 No.10564708 >>10564418 you just put that one together now? didja do it all by yourself champ?

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:21:12 2021 No.10564709 File: 37 KB, 480x360, peeps.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10564705 The giant peeps are really cute though. They had normal colors, plaid, rainbow, and even a mustache one. They're already being scalped online for $85 in one listing.

soup Wed Feb 24 23:21:27 2021 No.10564710

>>10564702
I never cap. not my letters or my posts
>>10564704
wtf anon you're suppose to have my back. I thought we were peeps homies
>>10564705
I do have a niece. she's autistic too. I'll yoink her plushy when she falls asleep and take a pic of it to prove my innocence

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:22:39 2021 No.10564711 >>10564709 wait nvm soup was right I am a liar. my niece's plushy isn't that big

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:23:16 2021 No.10564712 >>10564710 You're my peep homie when we're talking peeps.

>>	Anonymous Wed Feb 24 23:24:18 2021 No.10564713 >>10564711 Did you pick up I didn't check the name before I posted?

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:30:25 2021 No.10564716 >>10564713 what

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:31:01 2021 No.10564717 >>10564710 why don't you use a tripcode? do you not know how?

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:42:48 2021 No.10564719 >>10564717 o-of course I know how to use a tripcode! I'm not dumb or anything, b-baka!

>>	soup Wed Feb 24 23:48:26 2021 No.10564722 >>10564717 when I become an idol someday I can just blame other people for bad logs so I don't get canceled

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 00:41:34 2021 No.10564752 >>10563252 Holy balls, did the last one get deleted AGAIN? Wtf happened to this place?

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 00:59:36 2021 No.10564758 >>10564752 The last one is still there It just devolved into some dumb shit covid arguing Like can we just talk about cute shit ffs, dumbass people being idiots trying to win internet fights

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 06:26:49 2021 No.10564897 >>10564214 >>10564219 Thank you for the advice, anons. I need to start wearing lolita in public more often.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 09:42:31 2021 No.10564940 >>10564758 The one before the last got baleeted

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 15:43:18 2021 No.10565062

I always used to get sort of upset and confused whenever an anon would say angry things to random, innocuous posts I made. But now i don’t care. I realized Half the anons here are probably suffering from ana-induced insanity and the other half are upset they cant fit into burando or win AP bloodbaths probably. Ofc there are some very nice anons here but yes, just ignore anyone trying to fight with you

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 15:45:41 2021 No.10565064

>want to make friends with IG mutuals but conversations always end quickly because I feel like people aren't interested
How the hell do y'all make friends now meets and events have been dead for a year? I'd try the friend finder thread here but I'm pretty sure that's just scrotes and larpers/

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 16:31:16 2021 No.10565088

>>10565064
get a hobby, join a discord or other social media group for that hobby. you say you want friends but seem unwilling to actually make the effort, stop making excuses and send a nice message to someone. the worst they can do is leave you on read, but not trying yields no result at all.
do you just like, stop talking to people if there aren't cons or meets wtf? do you not retain the friends you made pre-covid?

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 16:35:02 2021 No.10565091 >>10565088 there’s a lot of projection in this post. are you ok

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 16:40:51 2021 No.10565093 >>10565064 If I knew how I wouldn't be here

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 17:22:03 2021 No.10565121 >>10565062 Good for you anon. Remember that this site is just a hub for mentally ill people.

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 17:24:58 2021 No.10565124

>>10565064

Sometimes you don't click with people and that's ok. A few tips are to see if there are similar interests and keep an eye on stories for non lolita interests you can talk about - release talk gets stale quick but talking about other interests will keep the conversation going. Keep trying, it's a bit of a guess if it'll work out and it's often frustrating but I'm sure you'll find other nice people very soon!

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 17:58:28 2021 No.10565138

>>10565064
idk anon. i find most lolitas boring as fuck to talk to, but i also find most people boring as fuck to talk to. it's hard to want to reply to somebody when all we have in common is liking the same dresses

i'd recommend looking into other communities for things you're interested in. it's pretty individual and depends on what you value t b h

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 19:15:47 2021 No.10565168

I get so guilty and stressed whenever I buy nice things for myself and I have no idea how to stop it. I've not long started a new job that's giving me a little more disposable income than I'm used to, but even with that spending just 20 quid on a pair of otks is just filling me with anxiety. I just wish I could spend my money without nearly having a meltdown every time.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 19:53:02 2021 No.10565176 >>10565091 I dont think you know what projection means

soup is actually retarded Thu Feb 25 20:52:31 2021 No.10565186 [DELETED]

I bought a camera and a good portrait lens and I rly want to take cute pics of cute lolitas but there aren't any meets and I'm too awkward to only hang with one or two people to take pics.... I guess I should try the photography community until I build up confidence

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 21:29:02 2021 No.10565203 >>10565064 Being honest, most people past 22 probably aren't looking for more friends unless they are new to a community.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 21:29:49 2021 No.10565204 >>10565203 let me guess, you're under 22.

Anonymous Thu Feb 25 21:35:05 2021 No.10565208

>>10563758
I agree with this as a guy.

My gf and I split things 50/50 but she is always the one to initiate purchases despite earning less money than me and spending more on personal items. Every time she'd bring up something we "need" to buy I'd be the bad guy explaining that her savings won't last forever and we don't really need it. So I just gave up and thought the only way she will learn is if I say yes to everything until she runs out of money.

Eventually she ran out of money and was gobsmacked when she looked at her account and then asked me to make a budget for her and has basically stopped asking to buy things unless we really do need them.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 25 21:36:39 2021 No.10565209 >>10565204 I'm turning 25.

Anonymous Fri Feb 26 02:30:49 2021 No.10565330

>>10565138
I'm primarily just a huge weeb but the only other weebs in my comm are 16-year-old itas so that was a bit of a bummer. I've made most of my current friends at cons but you know, those aren't really happening either. Unfortunately most of my other interests are pretty solitary.

>>10565203
Moght be the case for you but I see posts about wanting friends here plenty of times. I'm 24 but still not really up on the friend cap. It's not really something anyone wants to admit un-anonymously I guess.

I have gotten to very occasional casual talk with mutuals but I never know how to grow it into anything beyond that even if we do have things in common other than lolita>>10565204
.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 10:59:14 2021 No.10565426 >>10564418 Don't lump LGB in with T.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 13:25:15 2021 No.10565471 File: 233 KB, 526x538, afeel.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] A feely feel.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 13:44:45 2021 No.10565479 >>10565471 >654 I'm the anon whose HC socks went missing with UPS and I feel this so hard...

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Fri Feb 26 13:48:30 2021 No.10565482 >>10565479 that sucks. have you filed missing mail reports?

Anonymous Fri Feb 26 13:59:08 2021 No.10565487

>>10565482
I filed a report with UPS and they replied with the usual script asking if I'd checked around my front door with my neighbor or leasing office/etc. (my apartments use package locker rooms with cameras and codes and whatnot, there is no way it got delivered and me not be able to find it, so the driver straight up lied), I told them this and that I'd checked everywhere and wanted to know if they can find the package anywhere or redeliver it and they haven't responded to that email. Tenshi suggested I contact Yamato's English department to request they look into it if it can't be found and I want to initiate an insurance claim so she can get the money back and refund me. I may have to give up and do that.

Anonymous Fri Feb 26 14:53:23 2021 No.10565525

My body is so disproportional. my top half is fine and i can fit into any liz lisa, axes femme, jane marple,, any blouses and dresses. It’s my bottom half. Everything past my waist is cursed. I do a lot of uphill hiking. So i have tree trunk legs, an ass and cant fit into cute jfash pants. I couldn’t even fit into western pants before i got into jfash. Had to get everything tailored to not fall off my waist.
I’ll see if I can lose some more weight hopefully and it might work out. Just feel sad i can’t put on my new honey cinnamon pants that just arrived :((

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 17:55:07 2021 No.10565608 >>10565525 Stop buying pants, thick-chan. Skirts and dresses are superior most of the time anyway imo

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 19:27:51 2021 No.10565631 >>10565525 i don't wear any pants because of this. i have 30in waist and 42in hips...

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 19:58:25 2021 No.10565638 >>10565209 Not that anon but i just turned 24 this year and good luck

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 19:59:38 2021 No.10565639 >>10565631 This must be a hard hobby to get into because of body size and shape huh?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 20:01:18 2021 No.10565641 >>10565639 not really. i can fit in to basically anything shirred with no issues and i have a smaller upper body. plus my butt helps add poof. pear is a good shape for lolita.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 26 20:04:20 2021 No.10565644 >>10565641 Oh well thats good to know, I wish I had more butt for more of my costumes and a stronger looking upper torso

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 05:15:37 2021 No.10565806

>been prepping for a prestigious scholarship for 2 years
>Scholarship is basically, "go wherever you want and the government will cover your tuition and living expenses including rent"
>Only one more year to go until I send in my application
>Everything I've built up comes together this year to build the best application possible
>Everything must go right

I swear to Christ if I get rejected I will just kill myself.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 07:45:20 2021 No.10565828 >>10565806 So pathetic

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 08:16:46 2021 No.10565834 >>10565828 Is working hard pathetic?

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 08:28:58 2021 No.10565839

>seller on FB agrees to sell two AP dresses i really like to me
>week with no responses or invoice, ask her if we're still on
>she says we are
>1 month later
>nothing

nyoro~n. It's really annoying that she couldn't at least tell me the deal is off. i have a feeling someone offered her more $ last minute, which is fine but like... be decent enough to tell me + i would have upped my offer.

fb sales have been the worst for me, both buying and selling

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 08:42:40 2021 No.10565842

>>10565834
uhhh nayrt but it's not the working hard that's pathetic, imo it's putting all your eggs in one basket to the extent that you'd kys if it didn't work out

smart people have backup plans. it sounds like a pretty sick deal for a scholarship, so i don't doubt a lot of people who are more than qualified are applying. are you a graduate student or is this for undergrad? reads like an undergrad

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 20:13:36 2021 No.10566065

>>10565842
Undergrad.

There really isn't a contingency since there can't be. I don't have the money to replicate the scholarship and there's no other scholarships like it.

The only thing that would be a silver lining if I didn't get it is all the work I've put into it looks good on a resume.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 20:44:17 2021 No.10566086 >>10563765 He's a narcissist gamer, he'll probably troon out any day now, dump his lazy ass.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 21:11:54 2021 No.10566103 >eat big ass bowl of nillawafer banana pudding to avoid mother's narc rage >Narc rage ensues regardless >Now my guts hurt Just like old times

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 21:58:14 2021 No.10566110

I had a comfy time today playing tabletop roleplaying online today with friends that I miss. The /cgl/ feel was that it gave me time to sit down and idly handsew in the new zipper of a dress that broke. I'm confident the new one won't be kill as easily as the cheap taobao Zipper the dress came with. Sewing something simple was so relaxing and rewarding.

Anonymous Sat Feb 27 22:24:06 2021 No.10566120

>mfw moved during covid so no meets but the local comm says is active
>mfw comm isn't active besides tight nip friends doing meets only
>mfw no online meets even
>mfw only fucking gothic Lolita in a sea of sweet

My new comm is nice, and I'm sure people are busy and social distancing is important. But it sucks to not have a chance to really get to talk and meet anyone. Then everyone being into sweet makes me feel alone. Both my last comms had plenty of other gothic lolitas so I always had someone to chat with on common ground. I even tried talking about maybe planning a small social distancing park picnic but people didn't like the idea as it was too soon for irl meet even though I said mask would be required and everyone bring their own food and space out seating. Then just yesterday someone posted pictures of a lolita picnic they did with other people from the comm and everyone praised them. I want covid to be fucking over and want my old comm.

>Tldr: salty, lonely gothic lolita

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 22:42:25 2021 No.10566127 >>10566120 >tight nip

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 27 23:09:42 2021 No.10566143 >>10566127 Ugh fuck this phones auto correct

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 02:15:33 2021 No.10566219 God I love femcels

Anonymous Sun Feb 28 04:53:14 2021 No.10566264

>>10563802
I have been thinking about your words for a while and if you really have bpd it's kinda sad you have so much compassion for others but beat yourself up over attention whoring here. But yeah it's not only her direct influence in lolita but for how I feel about myself. I'm sure you can relate to these feelings. I don't necessarily feel ugly but so stupid, shallow and well I have been generally thinking about ending my misery, especially feeling it today and that's why I came back. Have been thinking how to get rid of my wardrobe or make it easy but legally this bitch would be able to get my stuff and even my pets which I absolutely can't allow to happen. What a week, so amazing how one cunt can keep ruining my life over and over. But not so easy to kick that cunt out when it's your mom.

Anonymous Sun Feb 28 05:17:57 2021 No.10566265

>when it had been 15 minutes and not one thing has been bought from the 7 pages of cc update today
>but also everything decent is fucking expensive as wunderwelt for some reason

. Really hope this is not a trend for the future. Feeling nervous. Seems like someone in management fucked up and tried to go wunderwelt style

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 05:25:54 2021 No.10566266 >>10566265 Anon... you missed everything. Not sure what page you were looking at. There was a giant AP jewelry bloodbath.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 05:29:57 2021 No.10566267 >>10566266 For real? Good to know ;_; My internet must have crapped out.i saw zero ap jewelry.I was right there at 2am my time too and went from yesterdays page to a bunch of $$$ dresses in 5 seconds

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 05:50:26 2021 No.10566272 >>10566267 Same thing happened to me for some reason? I just went and checked and I see all the sold out AP jewelry now, but when I first checked it went from yesterday's stuff to 30k yen OPs

Anonymous Sun Feb 28 05:57:13 2021 No.10566274
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>>10566265
>>10566266
All the damn bots were fighting over the Milky Dream Star necklace and Hanikami stuff that I somehow checked out with the Lyrical plush pouch. I feel blessed. Please jesus christ don't cancel my order CC.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 07:48:56 2021 No.10566306 File: 61 KB, 600x600, b7f047c0-a20a-54f9-8f70-a84e02b8764d.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] i still miss excentrique. can't think of another brand that releases so many sailor sack dresses.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 28 08:23:34 2021 No.10566314 Maybe i just don't know how to find new brands but i'm really bored with jfashion. I've been wearing lolita for over 15 years and i want to quit, but other styles have such boring releases

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 00:44:34 2021 No.10566781 >>10566314 Make your own or commission a dress maker (a real one, not one that advertises on Facebook community groups)

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 01:16:51 2021 No.10566789 >>10566314 just leave then

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 01:26:44 2021 No.10566792 >>10566789 >>10566789 Nta but do you want this already niche community to die because this is exactly how you do it

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 02:04:14 2021 No.10566801 >>10565426 go away terf

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 02:12:13 2021 No.10566802 >>10566801 No, no. She's right. Even the pre-Christian Romans and Greeks thought trannies were absolutely unnacceptable.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 02:22:46 2021 No.10566805 >>10566802 They also thought women shouldn't vote, dummy

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 02:23:27 2021 No.10566806 >>10566805 based on this board, yeah we probably shouldn't

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 02:24:09 2021 No.10566809 >>10566802 >Romans and Greeks

Anonymous Mon Mar 1 03:19:21 2021 No.10566829

>>10566805
The point went over your head. Pretty much every single society that EVEN had democratic voting prior to the extremely late 19th century did not let women vote. So if your discounting entire civilisations by whether or not they allowed women to vote means you have to throw all history and lessons learnt before 1900.

Let me explain it since you're autistic. Pre-Christian Roman and Greek societies were relatively okay with homosexuality, sexual openness and sexual promiscuity in general but found transgenderism to be unnatural, abnormally fetishistic, socially dangerous and disgusting. The point here is that something that even the homo-loving Greeks or orgy obsessed Romans found to be unnatural should demonstrate some innate sense of wrongness in transgenderism that for some reason people today really do not want to admit.

For example, Emperor Hadrian considered one of the best emperor's in history loved greek twinks so much he got the nickname "Greekling" and when his favourite twink died he basically ordered every single sculptor in Rome to preserve his image in marble. An insane percentage of current human sculptures are just of this twink.

The Spartan Agoge would pair young boys training to be Spartans with older men who would be their mentors in all things including sex. This was seen as normal and even critical to the development of boys into men.

Another example. Caesar's mistress Servilla was something like 3 times divorced and an elderly women at the time yet most Romans had no issue with her have an affair with Ceasar apart from Ceasar's wife of course.

TL;DR even people who were more socially progressive than us in terms of sex didn't like transgenders. Give it some thought.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 03:22:48 2021 No.10566830 >>10566829 nta but anyone who thinks that greeks and romans are socially progressive is the only autist here.

Anonymous Mon Mar 1 03:32:00 2021 No.10566832

>>10566830
>Ancient Greeks and Romans
>Not socially progressive
Said the person who's never picked up a history book.

>Voting
>Democracy
>Codification of law
>Human rights
>Religious tolerance
>Cultural tolerance
>Social mobility
>Modern welfare state including land redistribution and free food
>Currency
>Property rights
>Divorce
>Homosexual acceptance

Rome and the Greek states were not perfect but to say they werent more socially progressive than 99% of European states which came after them up until the Enlightenment is completely retarded.

Anonymous Mon Mar 1 03:51:26 2021 No.10566835

AHHH I GOT THE CORNET JSK and it even had the hair bow too!!! from the cc update i was shaking.
Now i will have 3 cornet jsk!!!
The other two are still in the mail, and i have 2 vm jsk coming in as well.
I actually don’t have any jsk with me, at all. Shipping takes a long time since I got into cgl :(
Anyway, I am so excited. I finally went for it after 10 years of lurking here on and off. Hope you don’t see me in the ita board anytime soon

Anonymous Mon Mar 1 03:59:27 2021 No.10566836
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it makes me really happy when my boyfriend gets compliments too when we go out. i always wear lolita when i leave the house so i get comments anyway, but he's so not used to getting complimented on his look and he gets all bashful. he doesn't dress up but he's a beautiful boy who wears all black, so together we give off a juxtaposition. i'm happy that i frame him well enough that other people see him how i do when we're together.

>>	Anonymous Mon Mar 1 05:50:16 2021 No.10566869 File: 88 KB, 640x360, 1479931756252.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] How did someone manage to message this FB seller before I did? Only I'm allowed to be awake at 4 am to check listings

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Mon Mar 1 06:30:21 2021 No.10566877

>>10566264
anon... that sounds so hard to deal with. if you don't mind, can I ask how old you are? I know it's super cliche but things really do get better even if it seems like it takes forever. I tried an hero-ing a few years ago when my life was at what seemed like rock bottom and within 6 months of the attempt everything turned around (not before I did my best to self sabotage the success but thankfully my attempt at ruining my life was unsuccessful, kudos to my partner for putting up with my bullshit and being my rock).

narcs are hard to deal with especially when they are family. escape can seen impossible or entirely improbable but it's not! plz hang in there, there's so much more to life than tip toeing around untreated cluster b cunts

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Mon Mar 1 06:36:26 2021 No.10566880

>>10566836
this is so fucking cute! reminds me of me and my partner. I have picked out/purchased him literally every one of the shirts he currently owns and they're so much fun. he gets compliments everywhere we go and it makes me so proud that he loves the shirts and others love the shirts I get him.

when we get our weekly donut treat at the local independently owned donut shoppe downtown it's always the same guys working there and they especially love his shirts. the front of house guy will often go grab the owner/donut maker to come peep my partner's shirts. recently the biggest hit was his egyptian mew shirt, the donut dudes started collecting pokemon cards recently and were hype about it. most of partner's shirts are pokemon or trippy cat themed. partner looks kinda like a mediterranean andrew vanwyngarden and is a handsome man and I love going places with him. these are A+ feels

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 19:32:17 2021 No.10567882 Other thread saged. Continue from here?

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 19:34:39 2021 No.10567883 >>10566836 i've been buying my boyfriend EGA and he got complimented recently while we were out and was happy about it all day.

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 20:28:26 2021 No.10567923

shoes stress me out so much. i want to look cute but i have to walk 5+ miles a day and most walking shoes are ugly as shit with a huge profile and that disgusting looking sole that is larger than the shoe body. it triggers my autism when i see it. i like the profile of cheer shoes but i'm hesitant to try walking 10 miles in something designed for jumping and tumbling. i just want a daily wear shoe that looks good dressed up and isn't a fucking autistic new balance or an overdesigned athletic shoe, and that i can walk huge mileages on. women's shoes are GARBAGE all designed for fashion and then they tear your feet up and leave you crippled and bleeding. fuck this. fcuk everything

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 21:34:43 2021 No.10567984

>>10567923
Get a pair of boots you autist. They're comfy (once broken in, I genuinely thought mine were the wrong size with how much they hurt), last forever (3 years of daily wear so far), good in all conditions and look good.

You can also hide a knife-holster in them.

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 21:58:11 2021 No.10568003

>>10567923
I have no idea what you are complaining that womens shoes are garbage. Have you been shopping at walmart?
Get in the $150 usd, preferably $250 range and up. Especially leather made in italy.
thats when women’s shoes start to become an art form and are actually really comfortable. But you have to break them in or you get blisters.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 22:09:33 2021 No.10568012 I would like to have a committed non monogamous relationship

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 22:20:20 2021 No.10568017

Well, fuck. I decided to take a shot with xianyu. I’m an experienced lolita and I was careful not to buy a dress commonly known for having replicas and checked all the photos and records of known replica sellers and I still ended up with a fucking replica. I’m too embarrassed to sell it so I’ll probably just donate it.

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 22:29:38 2021 No.10568018 >>10568017 What dress is it? I’m always curious to know which dresses have replicas

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 22:31:44 2021 No.10568020

>>10567923
I wear my made in England dr martens daily and walk about four miles a day, but you have to be careful to get the made in England ones because those are the only ones that are real leather anymore. And basically any leather boot will be your friend. You don’t have to get ugly orthopedic shoes

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 22:46:57 2021 No.10568030 >>10568012 I’m in one and it’s great

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:00:52 2021 No.10568039 >>10566880 stfu go blog somewhere else

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:03:05 2021 No.10568044

>>10568018
Perfume of Wonderland. I’d heard it has replicas but it didn’t seem to have a lot, so I thought it might be safer than Dream Marine or Misty Sky? The price was market value and the pictures looked good. It’s honestly a really good replica...if not for the fact that it has zero tags of any kind, I’m not sure I’d be able to tell. I probably should have asked for tag pictures, but hindsight is 20/20. I still don’t think I’ll be using xianyu again.

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:06:19 2021 No.10568046

>>10568044
if you're crafty maybe use the fabric for kumya dresses or a tote? it doesn't make up for your loss at all but maybe making a project out of it will make it suck a little bit less.

otherwise if you donate it i'm inclined to be selfish and ask for it so i can craft with the fabric ha

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:06:44 2021 No.10568047 >>10568044 Damn, I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s a gorgeous dress

>>	Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:15:18 2021 No.10568057 >>10568030 How did you find each other? Also, where can I learn more about this without shitting up /cgl/ even more?

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:16:19 2021 No.10568058

>>10568046
That’s not a bad idea, maybe I’ll think about it? I do like making kumya dresses. If you wanna drop a throwaway though I can email you if I decide not to or have extra fabric, I’d be happy to send it to you rather than donate it.

>>10568047
Thanks, I’m pretty crushed. I’m sure it’ll turn up on the Japanese or western market again for a less inflated price at some point, so I’ll try to be patient until then!

Anonymous Tue Mar 2 23:34:50 2021 No.10568075

>>10568057
We don’t all date each other as a group, it’s more like a molecule, it’s all separate relationships. Communicate a lot and be open, listen to boundaries and if someone’s uncomfortable talk it out. Jealousy happens and you need to work that out to make things work.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 00:17:41 2021 No.10568104 >>10568044 Perfume of Wonderland was a limited set only for tea party attendees and a well known replica maker in China did a replica of it since the print is popular in China. Sorry you got scammed.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:18:34 2021 No.10568123 I want to play pool somewhere laid back in lolita, but the only place to play around here is a bar that really really wants to be a night club (it's loud, there's flashing lights, the cops are always there, but there's no room to dance, just tables.)

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:24:06 2021 No.10568125 >>10568123 God that sounds amazing. Or karaoke even? But the only bar here that has pool is a heavy smoking place where Mexican gangs hang out. There are seriously constant shootings, drive bys, and stabbings that have occurred.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:32:54 2021 No.10568129 >>10568123 I want to go somewhere period. Damn quarantine. I just had a visceral reaction of yearning when I thought of what it feels like to be in a crowded ass bar on a Friday night

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:38:09 2021 No.10568135

>>10568125
There's a place a few towns over that hosts tournaments where the owners is adamant about people not smoking over his expensive table, I've played there a few time and it was great. That place actually does have karaoke too. I haven't done it while wearing lolita before, but it sounds really comfy to play and sip cocktails if you can find the right atmosphere.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:39:11 2021 No.10568137 >>10568129 I miss fucking farmers markets. I hate farmers markets.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 01:47:58 2021 No.10568150 >>10568137 They’re the worst but yeah, I even miss those. Just sell me overpriced local honey and $10 broccoli dammit

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 02:40:14 2021 No.10568180 >>10568129 Ugh you just gave me super visceral flashbacks too anon. Being able to see crowds of people again is gonna be so surreal and enchanting when this is finally over.

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 02:44:12 2021 No.10568184
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>>10568039
I'm sorry not everyone can have an idyllic small town life with a handsome/generous mediterranean andrew vanwyngarden look alike

>>10568012
I've always wanted a reverse harem of men, like brother husbands. they all get along and we live together like a bunch of besties but they're also all mine and don't get to fuck anyone else but me. partner isn't down though and I love him more than I love my reverse harem fantasy by an infinite degree, but the fantasy has been there since I was like 12 so idt it's going anywhere.

also wouldn't a brother husbands show on tlc be amazing?

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 02:47:28 2021 No.10568185 >>10568184 what if the brother husbands fuck each other tho

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 03:02:07 2021 No.10568191
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>>10568185
no, but they could gangbang me. I'd only want like 3 brother husbands, I think I'd already have a hell of a time finding 2 other people partner and I got along with enough to live with. I'm a germaphobe (I lied about not washing my clothes lmao) and very few people can be trusted to not be gross - like, come on, apparently some people didn't already carry sanitizer everywhere with them and would just touch their faces after touching keypads and public touchscreens? disgusting, anybody who didn't already carry sanitizer everywhere precovid is disqualified.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 03:04:15 2021 No.10568192
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>>10566880
>tfw you're an ugly bastard
Why does this world curse me, caged in this mortal body.
To never be able to find such love as you described.
But to only ntr. Such is my fate.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 04:39:07 2021 No.10568207

>>10566877
I'm already 24 and she left us when I was 16, so we are not actively in contact. Haven't seen her in over a year. I discovered she was trying to get my health information on purpose a while ago (she works on the field so she knew what she was doing) and I had to really face how awful she really is and how I need to get rid of her. Being raised by narc means a lifetime of gaslighting and I guess that's the painful part - realising everything. And due to generally shitty and neglectful upbringing I have no ways of dealing with this shit and also feel completely unworthy and ashamed of myself due to parents' fucked up ways of dealing with me when I was just a baby. My menthal health contact has made me admit I have no family and damn it's a crushing feel to realise that.

Actually, I have never been this good. I feel bad but for the first time ever I have caring people around me. My bf was the first one to actually tell me that my mom absolutely is a raging narc and supported me through it. I just have years of depression and anxiety behind and I'm so worn out I feel like I can't go on much longer. Not wearing lolita is the most apparent sign of my mental health decline. I used to be a daily lolita. I just want to enjoy things again but all this bs keeps happening.

Btw, wouldn't be surprised if I got diagnosed with bpd. Shit like this makes me behave atleast very similarly. Also, you seem like a sweet person bpd chan. Certainly nothing like housewife-chan lol.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 04:44:19 2021 No.10568211 >>10568192 For most women it only matters that you've got a cute personality anon. My boyfriend is homely but I think he's a cutie cause he's a sweet pea. You'll find someone someday babe :)

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 04:53:04 2021 No.10568214 >>10568184 >Thinking any man worth anything would be in a reverse harem That would attract the literally bottom of the barrel men who are so unfuckable to everyone else that they have to submit themselves to sharing a singular woman.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 04:54:56 2021 No.10568216

>>10568211
This is a total lie anon, don't believe her.

Dating data shows that women are much harsher on men's looks and women always pursue the best looking men if they can. Hence why since the explosion of casual sex and hookup apps, male celibacy rates have gone up and female celibacy is almost 0.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 05:00:19 2021 No.10568217 >>10568216 Aite scrote, the only reason you don't have a gf is cause of your shit personality, but go off about your anecdotal evidence or whatever.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 05:06:37 2021 No.10568221 >>10568217 I've had a girlfriend for 3 years. Cope harder about your boyfriend being ugly cunt.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 05:07:29 2021 No.10568222
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>>10564684
yeah dude
it's every man's fantasy to support a worthless NEET gf who thinks that cleaning and cooking (like shit most likely. women can't cook, save for julia child and marcella hazan) are exceptional tasks to be praised and rewarded with gifts. Most adults who work full-time (not just men) ALREADY do all that, and more efficiently. Every gf and bf I've ever had have worked part-time at least.
they're not even married/have a child for fuck's sake. She's a parasite.

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 05:20:34 2021 No.10568229 File: 71 KB, 600x769, c62.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10568221 >>10568222 >>10568216 >>10568214 aht aht! -sprays with water bottle- go back to your corner

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 05:33:27 2021 No.10568234 >>10568229 i'm a bisexual mulatto and you're a fucking white girl stupid, dumb mayo with nasolabial folds.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 05:35:24 2021 No.10568236 >>10568234 >Nigger scrote has the audacity to be racist towards others

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 05:38:16 2021 No.10568237
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>>10568207
I'm glad you've cut contact and that you have a great support network anon! it's so difficult to leave situations like that. narcs make you feel shit 24/7 and they do so much psychological damage. and then you have all this stuff to deal with because you don't feel worthy for treatment etc. you are absolutely worth it!

I hope you feel good enough to be a daily lolita again. if you have bpd I hope you can get an accurate diagnosis and find a good therapist for dbt, it makes a huge difference. learning about the disorder has helped me recognize my own toxic behaviors and become a better person.

thank you nonny. I like to stir shit every now and then but I like to think I'm not a huge bitch, just annoying

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:26:57 2021 No.10568250 feeling better about laughing at pt all these years after supporting her gofundme. idgaf what she does with the money

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:40:09 2021 No.10568259
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>Buy things in January
>Feel regret for spending money
>Be frugal all of February
>Get immense need to splurge in March

How do I stop flip flopping like this? I've usually been good with money by saving for cons, larps and ren-faires, but since everything is cancelled I've started leaning more into purchasing lolita things online. I never regret the purchases themselves, since it has always been things I genuinely want. But it felt like a rush of cold water in February when I saw that I had spent more than I earned in January... So how can my heart be hell bent on blowing money like hell now that a month has passed?? This wavering financial heart of mine keeps reassuring me that I am good with my finances, have more savings than most people my age, and since February passed frugally I am obviously able to live through rougher times if I decide to rein the spending in.

My main tripe is probably how I'm troubled if it's actually a wise decision to even TRY to buy an Enchantlic Enchantilly lucky pack. I like the brand, but what if I get colours I don't like? I haven't bought a lucky pack before.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:45:00 2021 No.10568262

>>10568259
Put the money that you allow yourself to spend on lolita in a separate checking account then your regular money. That way you don’t ever have to feel bad about splurging because you know that as long as the money’s in the lolita account then you are OK financially and that if you go for two months without buying anything and the money builds up in your account then splurging is OK.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:46:02 2021 No.10568264 >>10568216 Spoken like a true incel

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:48:51 2021 No.10568266

>>10568259
Figure out where the need comes from. For me it helps just to make a Pinterest board of things I want to buy, instead of actually buying them. Then wait a few weeks for the stuff to sell out and I don't feel bad it did. I usually forget about it after a few weeks anyway.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 06:50:07 2021 No.10568267 >>10568216 You are talking about casual sex, not a boyfriend with the prospect of marriage, which is almost impossible to find unless you have very low standards

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 07:32:43 2021 No.10568273 >>10568234 Multiethnic societies were a mistake.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 10:33:24 2021 No.10568338
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>>10568211
This is where I gained hope

>>10568216
This is where my hope died

I know I'm just an ugly bastard, prob will never find love.
I just want someone to come home to. And cuddle, someone that can hold me up hen I'm down. Have my back when I need it. Sometime I just think I should end it all maybe then I can find my peace. Sometime live is just to lonely to go thru.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 10:49:00 2021 No.10568344

>>10568338
Try focusing on making yourself happy and enjoying life rather than focusing on not having a partner. Eventually if you make friends or have a social group, etc. you'll likely meet someone with similar interests, and relationships work best when people are complete on their own and come together to increase their happiness and love, not when the relationship is the only thing holding each person together at all.

>I just want someone to come home to. And cuddle, someone that can hold me up hen I'm down. Have my back when I need it.

Also I mean this completely unironically, this sounds like a dog. Definitely get a dog. It would probably make you happier and be far less work than a relationship with a human.

Also that incel above is totally lying to you and like >>10568267 said, people who are looking for an actual long term partner are more concerned about personality and compatibility than the hottest stereotypically attractive male. And everyone has different standards for what they find attractive. Generally just keeping up with self care, hygiene, and health is all a guy or girl needs to be reasonably good looking to people with normal standards. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone, what they're like as a person is going to take priority over what they look like, and I think a lot of women agree.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 10:52:12 2021 No.10568346

Update from missing HC sock anon: MY SOCKS HAVE BEEN FOUND!!!

I contacted the company that manages the package lockers for the place I live and they found out the UPS driver just fucked up big time and delivered it to the wrong unit number for no apparent reason??? Anyway fuck yeah I get my socks!

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 11:10:45 2021 No.10568350 The missing CTP choker anon here. I finally got my refund last week. That saga is finally at a close. All things considered, I feel like I came out on top. Always said I didn't want to pay market price for CTP. Little did I know...

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 11:24:38 2021 No.10568356 >>10568338 Don't worry, once you hit your 40s a three time divorcee will think you're the most viable option to settle down with

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 11:56:03 2021 No.10568374 Don't let things get to your head. Free your mind and your assistance will follow; the kingdom of heaven is within

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:02:23 2021 No.10568377 >>10568259 I buy lucky packs when I like pretty much everything a brand has put out that year.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:28:03 2021 No.10568390 >>10568216 I mean, have you seen the average guy? 5' 5" if you're lucky, and those are two measurements

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:36:20 2021 No.10568397

>>10568390
If 5" is a dick comment, you do realize that 5"is totally normal and satisfying for most women? When it's below 4 then it becomes a problem depending on your particular partner. The average vaginal canal is like 4-6" so 6" is actually oversized even though about that length or a little less is a "common" dick size. Even then though that's still casual sex or sex only, and has little to do with finding a long term partner.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:39:11 2021 No.10568398 >>10568390 why is it the stereotype that women want 8 inchers? sex already hurts for me with a regular size. do women have cavernous vaginas or are you just pornsick

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:41:16 2021 No.10568401 >>10568390 ITS AVERAGE! ITS AVERAGE SO ITS GOOD! SHUT UP! ITS A SCIENTIFIC FACT THEY CANT FEEL MORE THAN 3 INCHES ANYWAYS.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:42:31 2021 No.10568402 >>10568401 fucking coomers and their retarded arm sized dick ad standards. men are more toxic about small dicks than women could ever be

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:44:57 2021 No.10568407 >>10568398 Thats how I know you're a guy. There's more than missionary out there, ask your gf what she actually likes sometime.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:48:20 2021 No.10568412 >>10568402 Men dont come to these threads, they're busy making underage tiktok threads

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:48:58 2021 No.10568413 >>10568407 i'm a guy because i... don't want to have sex with huge dicks? retard, women with small vaginal canals exist and it makes it unpleasant either way

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:49:18 2021 No.10568414 >>10568407 you sound more like a man comparing dick size to positions

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 12:50:07 2021 No.10568416 >>10568412 Males are very present in feels, con, and larp threads. Sorry you're illiterate anon.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 13:50:45 2021 No.10568462 >>10568344 Speak for yourself. Looks are my number one priority. Why would I date a man who isn't stunning instead of just dating women? I get what you mean, but personality isn't going to cut it with me when it comes to manlets or balding dudes.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 14:22:04 2021 No.10568487 >>10568123 Have you tried checking local bowling alleys? A lot of them will have some pool tables near their arcade area (although there's still the issue of cigarette smoke).

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 14:41:14 2021 No.10568499

>>10568487
ick, where do you live that people are allowed to smoke in bowling alleys? otherwise yeah most bowling alleys I've been to in my life have pool tables, though I've not been to many bowling alleys. I managed to get a gutter ball with bumpers on once :^)

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 14:52:25 2021 No.10568504

>>10568462

I mean I think my comment was more for average looking dudes/people who are presenting as healthy, which was why I added the self care part. If you look unhealthy (really fat, way too thin, balding prematurely, deformed or abnormally short or tall, etc.) It will be harder for people to be as attracted to you. For a girl it's the same though height is less of an issue for most women beyond legit dwarfism.

In general if you are just middle of the road looking and it's facial features/weight or fitness that make you feel ugly, regardless of gender some basic exercise and healthy eating will be enough to make you a reasonable choice so long as you have a decent personality and are compatible with the other person. And even if not doing those things will make you feel better about yourself overall and in men in particular a decent amount of self confidence/esteem/respect is appealing

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 14:52:59 2021 No.10568506 >>10568499 The first world

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 14:57:42 2021 No.10568509
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>>10568338
looks really don't matter as long as you take showers/wear deodorant/brush your teeth lol, personality is what's important. one of my exes is 5'5 and was already balding at age 20, both things a lot of guys think would make them ugly or undateable or whatever. I think most girls are way more likely to focus on what they like about a dude the most physically, I don't know many girls that have a long list of physical attributes that make a guy undateable. now my ex is a stay at home bf and has a gf (his age, not a sugar mama) who isn't a chestlet like me lol so I'd say he got his happily ever after. he's pretty head over heels and I'm happy for him. they have cat children.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 15:16:49 2021 No.10568517

Why are Lm sellers so shit at photos. I bought this dress and it arrived a beautiful gorgeous dark green instead of the sort of fugly mint turquoise the pics showed. There was no lolibrary for it so i couldn’t check that way either.
It looks about 10x better than it did in the pics so I’m no complaining. But i just bought accessories i thought would match. and now they won’t.
ffs i guess this is an excuse to buy a mint jsk

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 15:17:54 2021 No.10568519 >>10568509 One of my colleagues is married to a guy who balded early but he is rocking the Charles Xavier look desu. So there's that with balding too.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 16:24:30 2021 No.10568540 >>10568397 Bros mad (x24)

>>	soup Wed Mar 3 16:33:37 2021 No.10568542 I HAVE A BIG PP LETS FUCKIN GO

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:14:35 2021 No.10568559 The guy I was talking about texting a few threads ago finally texted me back he’s just been really busy and not using social media! It feels good to know he doesn’t hate me at least lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:18:39 2021 No.10568561 >>10568559 The guy who was at the hospital?

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:19:19 2021 No.10568562 File: 362 KB, 500x289, judgingyou.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10568184 is this for real? like, the cringe coming out of this one, ugh. The absolute state of CGL

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:21:15 2021 No.10568563 >>10568540 I'm just a woman who finds penises over 5" kinda painful.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:23:06 2021 No.10568567 >>10568561 yeah!

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:41:25 2021 No.10568578

btw to whatever anon told me i need therapy for hyperfixating on any attention i get you’re not wrong but i barely have anything else and if i don’t have a person to think about the deep pit inside me starts to open and eat me and i think i’d just die of loneliness if it ever gets all the way open

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 17:59:01 2021 No.10568590 >>10568509 Do you live in Canada by any chances? You sound like someone I know.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 18:51:59 2021 No.10568618 >>10568563 Thanks for making me feel bad about my 8.4 inch cock.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 18:56:56 2021 No.10568623

>>10568618
Not that anon but yeah that’s too big. The best is average length and slightly to moderately above average girth. I’d prefer a guy that’s 4” but thick over you and I’m sure like 90% of other women would too. Some size queens would love you I’m sure. Gay men care more about length than women from what I’ve seen.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 19:36:24 2021 No.10568639 >>10566802 The pre-Christian Greeks thought that young boys before puberty were also prime fucking material of which women couldn't compare. You weren't anyone unless you had a prepubescent boy to bone. What's your point?

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 19:38:18 2021 No.10568641 >>10568618 That's way too big, anon. >>10568563 I prefer a toy that is 5.5 max, yeah. Anything more is really, really uncomfortable.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 19:42:28 2021 No.10568643 >>10568618 Dayum nigga, you got a permit to pack that kinda heat?

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 20:33:04 2021 No.10568673

>>10568618
there are people out there that would enjoy/prefer your size, much like there are people even in this thread wanting below average. Everyone is different. It's just annoying to see your size being the "ultimate goal" for every woman to want/men to have thanks to porn pushing large dicks as the norm.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 20:35:40 2021 No.10568674

>>10568267
That's complete bullshit. There are plenty of guys who want long-term monogamous relationship. What women who complain about their being no "real men" don't like is that most of those guys have relatively conservative views which means they would also like a relatively conservative partner.

>I want a man who believes in traditional marriage and monogamy
>You want me to conform to traditional feminine roles? WHAT?
They want to have their cake and eat it too.

I'm a high-achieving engineering student, have a health-focussed diet, workout regularly, already have a job in engineering, been rated by gulls on here as good looking, I volunteer to lead a department for a local charity, give my 2 cats the best care possible and I strongly believe in monogamy and long-term relationships.
But I also believe in being a dutiful man; to be a strong leader and willful provider. In return I expect my partner to be a dutiful woman which can take many forms depending on the stage of life. That's what I find girls really hate, when expectations are reciprocated onto them.

It's the exact same logic as men who expect their future wife to be a pure virgin but also an expert whore just for them whilst they themselves have treated women like sex toys for the past 10 years.

It's all the same thing.

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 20:40:09 2021 No.10568675

>>10568590
lol someone already told me that I remind them of another Canadian who is a cosplayer. yes I'm Canadian but I'm a lolita not a cosplayer so if you're thinking of that person it's just someone who is uncannily similar to me. do they also have a bf who looks like andrew vanwyngarden kinda sorta? what does this person look like? I know both of us have doppelgangers that are also a couple (or were a few years ago) I've always hoped to meet them someday

>>10568562
uwu

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 20:47:52 2021 No.10568679 >>10568675 Do you/did you post on any other boards? Also do you have an affection for heroin?

>>	bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 20:58:43 2021 No.10568683 >>10568679 I've posted on other boards but I rarely venture outside of cgl. never done heroin and no plans to try it. sounds like her life is a lot worse than mine if she's doing heroin.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 21:02:00 2021 No.10568687 >>10568683 Nah. She's happy. She does heroin like 2-3 times a year for special occasions. But she does live in Canada, has a diagnosis for BPD and spoke of her ex with fondness.

bpdcamwhorechan !/FMfV/3FwU Wed Mar 3 21:09:14 2021 No.10568691

>>10568687
that sounds like a really lame way to spend a special occasion, doesn't heroin make people like, all blah? idk I've never done it. but seems like it'd be like taking a bunch of benzos before a special occasion which sounds awful. but I'm glad she's happy and not a miserable junkie.

I just smoke weed erryday. and take LSD ~6 times a year as my celebratory drug of choice

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 21:23:17 2021 No.10568694
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i think my commitment to lolita has kind of shocked my bf since we moved in together. he knew about it and i made jokes about my oversized wardrobe in passing, but when the time came for me to move hundreds of frilly things in he had shocked pikachu face. on top of that i don't think he realized the extent of my buying habits until now, when he gets the mail and hauls in like 6 packages a week. rip...

it's no issue financially because we're both tech people who make more than we deserve, but i'm worried he thinks poorly of me because of how entrenched i am in this lifestyle. he's supportive and has happily bought me things before, so maybe i'm reading into it too much

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 21:31:20 2021 No.10568699 >>10568020 >>10567984 i've never heard that boots are comfortable before. are they really? for multiple miles? what kind of boots are you guys talking about?

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 21:37:05 2021 No.10568705

>>10568699
The good ones are. I think my cheapest pair of comfy cute boots(cute for normie,not lolita. but just an example) are timberlands. I hike up and down sf hills for 6 miles in them and have no issues at all. When you get to shoemakers who actually care about wearability, style, and don’t cheap out on materials (so like the $250 range) you get what you pay for and it’s good.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 21:39:14 2021 No.10568706

>>10568699
After the break in period which is torture, a recommendation is to wear them in the shower as the moisture and heat softens the leather and molds it to your foot. Boots are extremely comfortable and durable. Why do you think every single military in the world uses them for their troops? Use a relative thin sock once you're done breaking them in so your foot doesn't become damp with sweat.
I have both a pair of Timberlands and Solovairs. I'd advise being careful of buying Timberlands, make sure you buy Timberlands made in America, made anywhere else they are total third world garbage.

Obviously you can buy more expensive premium boots but I'm happy with my purchases.

Anonymous Wed Mar 3 22:00:29 2021 No.10568715

>>10568694
>we're both tech people who make more than we deserve
Oof. Don't worry then, anon.
How long have you been together?
My relationship is 10+ years strong and my partner has just learned to be entertained with all my purchases. We have completely opposite buying habits (I buy everything, while he buys nothing) but he's also in tech. He knows all the burando and lolita memes now because I'm always talking about auctions and the secondhand market.
If you had any other hobby, you'd have stuff too. He probably didn't know so many cuts/colors of things even existed. I'm sure if he's a good guy, he'll see that it brings you happiness and won't judge you for it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 23:24:11 2021 No.10568759 Yall need dating advice that isn't from an incel/mra/pua/mua https://www.doctornerdlove.com/

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 23:30:55 2021 No.10568762 File: 90 KB, 641x530, 1494173692549.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10568759 What the fuck is that

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 23:41:00 2021 No.10568765 >>10568759 this guy has been through 2 divorces and got cheated on lmao

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 23:50:32 2021 No.10568769 >>10568674 you cannot be trad while also socializing on 4chan. thats not how it works. decent, trad men who actually do take care of their wives don't spend their time bragging about how amazing they are on anonymous forums that are 90% racism.

>>	Anonymous Wed Mar 3 23:59:39 2021 No.10568776 >>10563252 Feel free to shit your burando, but I never liked ita culture. Seems unfar

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 00:04:44 2021 No.10568778 >>10568694 >he's supportive and has happily bought me things before you're fine then

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 00:06:55 2021 No.10568780 >>10568759 >mua ..Make up addition?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 00:44:29 2021 No.10568799 >>10568769 >Because you visit 4chan everything else in your life and values are invalid >I say this, whilst posting on 4 chan Okay retard.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 00:52:01 2021 No.10568801 >>10568765 I did not know that, wow. I always thought his advice is pretty good, makes you wonder now... >>10568780 Make up artists???

Anonymous Thu Mar 4 01:26:03 2021 No.10568807

>>10568801
I don't know what that shill was thinking.
I can't take any dating advice people seriously, because I only want to take advice from people who have been successful in things. But how would you define a dating coach's success.
Successful with many women just means he wasn't able to hold it together with one of them. But having married their first relationship, which could be indicative of a good understanding of picking a compatible partner and maintaining a functional relationship, is an anomaly.
And if what the previous guy says it to be believed, who in their right mind would take advice from someone who got divorced twice and cucked?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 01:28:02 2021 No.10568809 >>10568799 i'm not the one looking for a tradwife

Anonymous Thu Mar 4 02:53:49 2021 No.10568838

uggggghhhhh my dream dress set from when I was like 14 just popped up on lm, but I really shouldn't buy it, I'm saving to move. and even if I did, I have no where truly safe to ship it to now. fuck. I've been waiting so long for the full set to pop up and I just want to cry. fuck my life.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 04:27:07 2021 No.10568865 I still don’t really know if they were really trying to get me to sleep with them or not but I regret not ever letting myself relax enough to make out with any of my friends before I graduated from college/moved away/got a job.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 07:00:47 2021 No.10568891 >>10568674 How big is your fedora collection?

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 08:25:08 2021 No.10568928 >>10568250 BASED

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 08:27:25 2021 No.10568929 >>10568250 i bought art from her lol. shit's so funny. i don't feel bad supporting her because she's not, like, heinous. she's selfish, self-centered, and just completely insensitive to everyone else, but that's just pt and it's not really her fault.

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 08:30:58 2021 No.10568934 >>10565426 based

>>	Anonymous Thu Mar 4 08:58:27 2021 No.10568965 >>10565471 You can't make me. Compulsively tracking packages is an addiction.

Anonymous Thu Mar 4 13:18:02 2021 No.10569135

>>10568344
Don't get me wrong I am happy with my life. It's hard to make friends specially since now days people aren't so open to see eye to eye anymore. My social group consist of dudes that have even less chance with girls then me kek.. crossing my fingers that I find a girl thru ntr, me being the ugly bastard of course. I am a dog hear me bark...

>>10568356
Anon I have something called self respect still. I not desperate.

>>10568509
Glad that a fellow ugly bastard made it and is comfy

>>	Anonymous Fri Mar 5 13:14:20 2021 No.10569806 >>10568759 PUAs actually fuck though.

>>	Anonymous Sun Mar 7 18:30:05 2021 No.10570995 >>10566314 I switched to buying pink house, it’s so cute and a nice comfy break from lolita. But only buy the cute new stuff, their old stuff was ugly

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