Feels Thread: 100% soup free!

[Anonymous No.10554654]

Previous thread >>10550621
Post those feels!

[Anonymous No.10554656]

i plan coords and then never wear them because i'm too sad to get out of bed.

[Anonymous No.10554689]

i ordered a "custom" mold for resin and it arrived gross and dirty and cut really bad at the top. the seller just told me "lol wash it" basically and i am pissed.

[Anonymous No.10554692]

I just got accepted to a school in another province, which is super exciting, but since I'll most likely be living in residence, I can't bring my whole wardrobe with me. Idk how I'm going to choose one dress. It's like choosing a favourite child, but they're ALL my favourite child.

[Anonymous No.10554693]

The only reason I can look forward to every week is that at the end of it I can make another coord and share it with other people, it makes me genuinely sad when mine get less likes than an ita who only got likes because people feel bad for them. My life sucks rn and it just adds to the feeling that nothing is fair. I feel like I should stop using the Internet for a while but then I’d just be fully isolated for 90% of my time

[Anonymous No.10554696]

it feels good to shit on fat body cosplayers

[Anonymous No.10554698]

>>10554654
i keep reading about folks planning coords but i feel like i never plan mine. am i doing something wrong? like i guess i have an okay sized wardrobe and lots of things that match so i just get dressed like i would in normie clothes.

[Anonymous No.10554703]

>>10554698
some people plan for special occasions, or around new pieces they haven't worn yet. i mostly do the same as you though.

[Anonymous No.10554706]

>>10554698
some people pick out normie outfits the day before, it’s kind of like that

[Anonymous No.10554716]

>>10554689
got mad and chewed the seller out. it's not hard for THEM to clean it and then put it in a bag and send me the cleaned item. I know silicone gets dirty, but if taobao/ali stores can send me clean molds, so can you. it's not just like dust particles, it looks like it's been sitting on a hoarders floor.

[Anonymous No.10554719]

>>10554656
At least you get to the planning stage.

I bought so many dresses and accessories over the last few months and came to realize its fueled by depression. At least getting a dress in the mail makes me happy for 5 minutes. All I do every day is go to work and then go home and nap or browse sales. I spend my entire weekends browsing sales.

I don't even know why I'm depressed. I have a good job so I can buy brand, stable relationship, live in nice enough area. I think I'm luckier than most but get so worked up when I can't get some new release from AP.

[Anonymous No.10554722]

>>10554719
>I think I'm luckier than most but get so worked up when I can't get some new release from AP.
mood, i cried for like 3 minutes when i missed my last chance to get petit bouquet on release. would have sulked for longer but my bf was there and i didn't want him to think i'm more immature than i already am

[Anonymous No.10554729]

i want to start streaming art or video games because i need something to do on my days off but i have no goddamn clue where to start with it. i think it'd be pretty fun though

[Anonymous No.10554746]

>>10554729
Develop a fun and interesting personality. Something people could develop a parasocial relationship to. Then simply play game you like and games which are currently popular.

[Anonymous No.10554753]

>>10554746
oh yeah, i think i've at least got the personality thing down, but i'm just not sure about the nitty gritty technical aspects and making things at least mildly professional looking

[Anonymous No.10554756]

>>10554719
mood
except now its at the point where receiving the stuff I bought doesn't give me the serotonin hit like it used to. Got a package with a bunch of things and opening it I felt almost nothing. I took stuff out of the box and put it away and went back to studying. sigh

[Anonymous No.10554757]

>>10554753
Probably just emulate what good streamers tend to do. They usually have a nice looking clean room and use high quality microphones & HD cameras. I'd imagine they also have a computer which is especially quiet.

[Anonymous No.10554760]

>>10554753
if you're going to facecam get a ring light. i personally don't like face cam, maybe just an intro at the beginning of your face talking and then switch to the game. look up what programs and things other streamers are using for whatever you decide to stream, i know there are programs you need to set up for game capture that work differently for different gaming systems, so you'll want to figure out how to get them working first. also, make sure you play games you either enjoy or can pretend to enjoy. and most importantly, be 100% prepared to get simps. i only streamed a handful of times and had people buying me amazon wishlist items.

[Anonymous No.10554772]

>>10554757
>>10554760
i have a ring light already for taking coord pics and i keep my room pretty neat, and i've been considering upgrading my computer setup anyways so i'll look into that. thanks anons :) hope you guys have a good one

[Anonymous No.10554782]

>>10554693
Try being more ita

[Anonymous No.10554785]

Lately the sweet burando prints haven't been giving me joy because it's been the same prints over and over again. I admit I've bought taobao prints that intrigue me and I feel happier wearing my favorite motifs. My other option was to try out gothic lolita and see how I like it. I bought my first gothic piece recently.

[Anonymous No.10554808]

>>10554785
honestly transitioning from sweet to gothic was the best decision i made, good luck anon

[Anonymous No.10554819]

I want to downsize my closet a bit but I have a very hard time letting go of my pieces especially the hard to find ones. The last time I regretted a sell, I never found it again for sale, and I just rebought one for way pricier than I sold it for. Thinking about it upsets me a little bit but man I gotta let go of some pieces.

[Anonymous No.10554824]

>>10554819
i am not selling any of my clothes until life returns to normal. corona has me feeling some type of way.

[Anonymous No.10554902]

>finally have the money and time to afford going to a con and cosplaying
>been working out lately, generally feel way more confident in myself
>mfw we're still in the middle of a fucking pandemic and by the time cons are a thing again i might be too old/buff to pull off the character i had in mind

[Anonymous No.10554903]

>>10554902
>old and buff
pls b my boyfriendo

[Anonymous No.10554910]

>>10554903
anon, i'm 18 and (still) a twunk, it's just that the character in question's pic related. maybe i'm just being autistic, but it'd feel weird cosplaying a 13 y/o by the time i'm in my early-20's

[Anonymous No.10554914]

>>10554910
You're on a board that dresses like adult babies dw about it

[Anonymous No.10554923]

I finally found my ultimate dd on xianyu and OF COURSE it's during cny holidays. Kill me now.

[Anonymous No.10554943]

>see cute dress for sale
>look it up on lolibrary and fall in love with it in another colorway than the one I saw
>wonder if it has ever sold on lm in that colorway
>the only one in that colorway ever listed on lm sold 7 days ago
kill me now

[Anonymous No.10554960]

Getting my COVID vaccine soon. It feels nice to know in a month or two I won't be as in danger doing basic things like picking up prescriptions and going to the grocery store.

[Anonymous No.10554961]

>>10554943
I've had similar feels but where a nonprint dress was sold in a mint x brown colorway, so I check for pink x brown, but the only pink colorway is pink x white and it doesn't look like the cute chocolatey dress I was hoping it was. Now I'm determined to make my own pink x brown dress inspired by it. Being able to sew and having interest in non print pieces is nice sometimes.

[Anonymous No.10554963]

I gained a lot of weight over the past few years, and spent the past 2 years working it off. I can finally fit into my lolita clothes again, including some of my dream pieces I managed to buy but couldn't fit into, and I just feel like... I missed the train? I'm too old now? I don't know.

I turned 30 this year and I look my age. I'm not wearing OTT sweet or anything, the most "sweet" I have is stuff like pic related, but it's to where my older relatives now keep making comments about how I'm too old to wear "cute" clothes, I shouldn't be wearing headbands or bows, my mom lumps me in with her saying things like "welp we're too old to wear stuff like that, time to just buy stuff for (cousin who just turned 18)."

[Anonymous No.10554965]

>>10554963
You're too old to care about what other people think

[Anonymous No.10554972]

>>10554965
Exactly. Fuck it. I'm turning 30 this year and am adding more staples to my wardrobe to wear on the regular. You can bury me in my "cute" clothes.

[Anonymous No.10554973]

i really miss thrift stores...

[Anonymous No.10554975]

>>10554972
It's way more fun as an adult with adult money. I'm also adding staples at the moment and have been buying a lot of old toned down Btssb lately

[Anonymous No.10554982]

>>10554975
Definitely. I'm adding older victorian maiden and innocent world cotton pieces right now

[Anonymous No.10554990]

>>10554963
Why the fuck does she want you to buy shit for your cousin? This sounds like people who are seething you have money to spend.

[Anonymous No.10555067]

I watched a podcast with Belle Delphine earlier. See didn't talk much and she was only responsive, not once being engaging herself. She complained about people reporting instathots, called them things that describe her customers and said they should leave instathots alone because there are bigger fish to fry.
Her laugh sounded the same all the time. Like a sound file, like someone was pulling a string on her back. The hosts had to carry almost the entire podcast themselves and did a lot of basic guy talk that she found amusing and unbelievable.
I used to hate Belle for doing that stupid fucking face and for being shilled around the internet, but I thought that at least she was clever and a form of punishment for her victims. But as it turns out she has cobwebs in her head and her interests are as basic as it gets. Her brain functions are limited to preprogramed routines like "remember to breathe". There's no difference between her and a cardboard cutout. I don't consider her a person anymore and I hate her white knights even more now.

[Anonymous No.10555068]

>>10555067
You watched Phil DeFrancos podcast?

[Anonymous No.10555071]

>>10555067
My worst hate for her is because she says she can't help her body (true) but then she purposefully caters it to pedos.

[Anonymous No.10555072]

>>10555071
If she did the same shit but was curvy would it be catering to pedos?

[Anonymous No.10555074]

>>10555068
It was this one.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rg68p_PdjfU

[Anonymous No.10555076]

>>10555072
I mean, duh?

[Anonymous No.10555078]

>>10555076
Then you're being fair.

I don't know what she does besides coomer "cosplay" and spreading her asshole on onlyfans but if you think it's that hardcore pedobait that it's obvious even if she looked more stereotypically sexually developed, then it prolly is.

[Anonymous No.10555086]

>>10554960
Eveyone will think this is a troll, but how do you people live? Was this your fist time realizing your mortality isn't entirely within your control? I really cannot imagine ever having been this afraid of covid.

[soup No.10555087]

>>10554654
you can't bar me from the feels thread
>>10555067
can you gulls get Belle Delphine and lolita trending on twitter so that she can pick it up as a hobby. people would get so mad it'll be funny

[Anonymous No.10555088]

>>10555086
I still do the stuff I need but my job was always remote even pre rona and I have a high risk condition and live in a red state so the anxiety was always passively in the back of my mind.

Just nice to be extra sure I'm doing as much as I can to keep myself safe.

[Anonymous No.10555092]

>>10555086
It's not about being afraid, you selfish prick. It's about having compassion and caring about other people enough to want to slow the spread.

[Anonymous No.10555093]

>>10555086
>this afraid

In what world is being glad you can avoid being ill "so afraid"? That's like saying someone happy to get their flu shot is terrified of the flu. You just want to complain about anyone who isn't walking around maskless and licking doorknobs.

I bet you sit directly on public restroom toilet seats, nasty.

[Anonymous No.10555096]

>>10555086
I wonder why people would think this is a troll. the world is full of stupid assholes with no compassion, it's hardly unbelievable.

[Anonymous No.10555098]

I'm really excited to handmake some accessories and wardrobe staples once I set up a sewing room/space in my new home. Sad that I packed all my lolita away for the move though so nothing sitting around for a Valentine's coord and I'm stuck wearing my normie shit and pajamas until I finish moving.

[Anonymous No.10555099]

>>10555086

>ayrt: I am glad my car had functional seatbelts so I don't have to worry as much about crashes when I drive
>you: Omfg how could anyone be this afraid of car wrecks how do you live like this

[Anonymous No.10555103]

>>10554689
name and shame, anon.

[Anonymous No.10555112]

>>10555092
>compassion
>caring about other people
I stopped believing this load of hooey months ago, when over a year of hard fought progress to overcome PTSD evaporated and I started getting flashbacks from being choked as a child again because of some gay little piece of cloth that doesn't even do anything affecting my breathing, plus all of the other disastrous side effects on other people associated with the lockdowns. I was basically met with "well that sucks for you," by the same types braying about compassion, since I guess the mental health of the physically population doesn't matter. The same idiots talking about compassion and sacrifice for the greater good were all to happy to consider me within the realm of acceptable losses, so I just can't take them seriously anymore. "Compassion" is really just about accomodating them

[Anonymous No.10555115]

>>10555112
>PTSD
So you’re not high risk, just mentally ill.

[Anonymous No.10555119]

>>10555112
Do you always have this extreme of a lack of self awareness or...?

[Anonymous No.10555120]

>>10555112
>i have PTSD
>this shit is fucking gay tho too
uh huh.

[Anonymous No.10555122]

>>10555119
People preaching compassion wouldn't bat an eyelash if I became statistic as long as they were safe, so I just stopped caring

[Anonymous No.10555123]

>>10555112
If you have no compassion for others, you have no right to expect anyone to have it for you.

[Anonymous No.10555124]

>>10555112
You must be ugly as shit then because I’m super cute and people get worry about me if I just sneeze

[Anonymous No.10555127]

>>10555124
Seconding this

[Anonymous No.10555129]

>>10555123
Exactly

[Anonymous No.10555155]

>>10554698
You probably just have a big enough wardrobe , I am the same way but used to plan and plan when I didn’t have enough matching blouse and accessories

[Anonymous No.10555178]

>>10554692
You most likely won't be having in-person classes anyway unless your school is on PEI.

[Anonymous No.10555188]

>>10554692
I think about this situation so much. I don't know what I'll do when I have to move out for an adult job/grad school in a few years...

[Anonymous No.10555192]

>>10555067
I had the same feelings. I thought she was smart to keep milking simps for everything while they hope one day she will do hardcore porn. She could still feasibly live a normal life afterwards complete with a job (Yes I know she doesn't have to get a job but it's that or slide into drug overdose from boredom) a husband and even kids who would get a normal life since there's nothing incredibly egregious.

Then she did hardcore porn and I realised she is just as brain-dead as every other whore. She wasn't clever, she was just lucky. She gave them exactly what they wanted and now there's nothing left to offer. Nobody has any reason to continue to give you money. And she knows this, that's why her videos constantly get pulled down when they're re-uploaded. She wants to keep herself as the only source of her porn but she's absolutely retarded to think that she can keep porn off the internet.

[Anonymous No.10555202]

>gf and I had an early Valentine's Day
>Got gf an Apple watch because she's been talking about them for months
>She got me a sexy bunny outfit for herself to fuck in

Clearly one of us got the best deal.

[Anonymous No.10555203]

>>10555202
>not getting a bunny outfit for you
gay

[Anonymous No.10555206]

i got diagnosed with bpd last week, after years of believing i had some sort of bipolar disorder because of my previous psychiatrist. the more i'm reading up on people's previous experiences with people with bpd, the more i want to isolate and never talk to an other humain being again in fear of hurting them. i feel like no matter what i do i'll always be a terrible person.

[Anonymous No.10555215]

>>10555067
She dropped out in 5th grade and became a whore, anon. What do you expect?

[Anonymous No.10555218]

>>10554719
Omg anon are you me? Fuck this hurts. I hate my life

[Anonymous No.10555219]

>>10555086
My mother passed away some years ago. My aunt passed away a few days after New Year's. If you exist you will die. No matter how your life plays out, you will grow feeble and lose your mind. Then your organs will shut down and you will die looking undignified.
I'm afraid of growing old. I'm the kind of person who eats the yacky part of the food first and has to finish all work before resting. It drives me to panic that I can't get the awful things in life done with so I can enjoy the good parts.

[Anonymous No.10555223]

>>10555188
Depends what field you're doing grad school for I guess but in mine(chemistry) we get paid enough to have our own places.* I have a whole studio apartment to myself.

*offer not valid in california/NYNY/philly/austin/boston

[Anonymous No.10555224]

>>10555219
>If you exist you will die. No matter how your life plays out, you will grow feeble and lose your mind. Then your organs will shut down and you will die looking undignified.
These are the thoughts that plague me and make me think that committing suicide at about age 60 (if I get there) is the most merciful way to go

[Anonymous No.10555226]

>>10555206
unrequested scrote opinion but my ex had pretty much the same thought process and would go in cycles of isolation and stuff and it really caused her a lot of problems too, even trying to avoid it. I don't know what to do either, but there's got to be a way to live your life too. Not everyone with bpd is exactly the same, you still have autonomy, it just makes some things hard. best of luck

[Anonymous No.10555229]

>>10555226
>unrequested scrote opinion
Bullshit. Only a couple gulls use that word.

[Anonymous No.10555231]

>>10555229
Way more than a couple use that word, and why would anyone saying anything reasonably sympathetic admit they're male if they weren't when gulls are often hostile and dismissive of males?

[Anonymous No.10555236]

>>10555231
Because you want to normalize that madeup insult that is tossed around here and in Crystal Cafe. No, people aren't saying "scrote". It's always the same angry chicks who write the same way.

[Anonymous No.10555241]

>>10555236
>Crystal Cafe

Who the fuck even uses that cesspool of femcels?

[Anonymous No.10555242]

>>10555229
it's pretty common in all-female online spaces, idg what your damage about it is

[Anonymous No.10555244]

>>10555236

Tbh my dude less people have been saying scrote around here than usual these days but it is still likely far from only a couple people. The last few months mostly male anons have been trying to push the narrative that only two people say it or whatever but I highly doubt it. Who cares if another insult is normalized on a site where people call each other retards, hamplanets, and autists daily and males call females roasties and femcels all the time?

[Anonymous No.10555253]

>>10555241
The muscles freaks from /fit/.

>>10555244
>>10555242
I hate forced memes. Some mofo pushes a meme, people start using it because they see it everywhere, they become his bitches and he gets his ego stroked because he "influenced the culture".
Boomer appeared out of nowhere in all boards at once. Coomer was Discord-coordinated. Wojak edits were started by one guy who commissioned an absurd amount from one artist.

[Anonymous No.10555256]

>>10555253
>they become his bitches
scrote is literally a derogatory term towards men, and one of the few we have in our arsenal.

[Anonymous No.10555259]

>>10555256
Congrats, you're someone's bitch.

[Anonymous No.10555264]

>>10555259
cry harder scrote

[Anonymous No.10555266]

>>10555229
i can't believe you legitimately think i'm not a man on 4chan but whatever. isnt this website like 99% male everywhere but /cgl/?? i just lurk here anyway jeez

[Anonymous No.10555277]

>>10555256
please stop using that terrible word.

[Anonymous No.10555299]

I was really hitting it off talking to this cosplayer on instagram but we havent talked much in the last week and i know its probably because he’s just recovering from surgery but I’m constantly worrying i was annoying or too positive or something but he’s really nice when we talk (albeit a little basic) and he’s gorgeous. I just really want to hold him and im worried I messed things up again.
I really thought he was into me, he seemed so flushed when I complimented his cosplay and hes honestly really down to earth.

[Anonymous No.10555302]

>>10555299
He can smell how desperate you are

[Anonymous No.10555306]

>>10555302
I thought he was too, to be honest.
why would he do that if he knows though. does it make me seem unlovable just because I’m desperate?

[Anonymous No.10555321]

>>10555218
>>10554719
Gulls same. That tiny serotonin boost everytime a package arrives is pretty much the only thing that keeps me going. Nothing else brings me happiness in life. Decent job, good friends, I have all the good stuff. Depression doesn't give a fuck about how good you have it apparently.

[Anonymous No.10555343]

>>10555206
One of my best friends has bpd. I am not saying its a walk in the park, but even at the worst of times with patience and super good communication we figure it out.
Its very important practice mindfulness and be ready to apologise when you realise you've hurt someone.
I am obviously aware of her condition, but still we have lapses of communication/ fights, where she will be extremely hurtful at points.
The thing is the moment she apologises recognising what went wrong from her end, I always feel better & dont hold any resentment.
Honestly its pretty hard at times, but when everyone is willing to work on it, it gets better day by day.

[Anonymous No.10555360]

>>10554654
I usually don't give a shit about how my friends feel about how I dress as a near daily lolita, but I can't help but feel guilty my boyfriend doesn't care too much for it. He would never tell me to wear something else and is incredibly supportive of me and my interests, but I can't help but feel guilty when I wear a coord when we go places because I feel like I'm embarrassing him or something. I wouldn't feel as bad if I didn't start dating him when I was taking a break from the fashion, it feels like I hid weird baggage from him and now he's stuck with a freak. I know he's probably just happy to see me happy but this shit is making me neurotic about just getting dressed in the morning and I feel like asking him about it would make me sound insane and/or spineless if it doesn't actually bother him.

[Anonymous No.10555361]

>>10555360
jesus christ did not mean for that image to be that big

[Anonymous No.10555366]

>>10555206
Don't worry about it too much anon. Stay off r/BPDlovedones, it's a fucking hate sub and I'd bet money at least 50% of the users on there are narcissists.

Any guy who thinks ill of you because you're borderline is a red pilled dumbass anyway. If anything having BPD is a pretty great way to filter out fake fuckers from your life.

[Anonymous No.10555378]

>>10555361
its hilarious to me ngl

[Anonymous No.10555400]

My bf doesn't really seem to enjoy hitting me and degrading me during sex. Says "you're just so cute and sweet, I can't be mean to you right now," more than half the time and then we just have regular sex. Which is nice and all but doesn't fully satisfy me.

Yesterday he told me he couldn't wait to tie me up and I got really excited because I thought that meant there'd be some fun violent foreplay. But then he just tied my hands behind my back, used my vibe on me for a bit (not even any edging or telling me I can't cum until I have permission, boo), and then missionary. Hmph.

[Anonymous No.10555402]

>>10555400
Literally nothing to do with cgl, fuck off rping scrote

[Anonymous No.10555408]

>>10555402
Neither does >>10555206 or >>10555202 or >>10555067 or a bunch of other things, silly. I thought the whole point was for cosplayers and lolitas to post their feels. I'm a lolita, I actually meant to add another line to my post regarding the fact that at least he bought me the Fancy Hospital jsk I've been really wanting for a while earlier this week.

[Anonymous No.10555410]

>>10555408
Lol ntayrt but to be fair to them we’re literally on 4chan, post something that reads like that and don’t get shocked when people assume you’re a crossboarder

[Anonymous No.10555416]

>>10555410
Literally half or more of the stuff I post here, people call me a larper. I don't even post to any other 4chan boards (I used to very rarely hang around /x/ but that's it). I guess my typing style seems like a man imitating a girl!? And/or my anecdotes are truly that unbelievable.

[soup No.10555417]

MY SLEEP SCHEDULE IS SO FUCKED. HMPH.

[Anonymous No.10555420]

>>10555366
>Anyone who doesn't like interacting with someone who has abusive and manipulative tendencies must be a /Pol/tard

Huh?

I don't hate people with BPD in the same way I don't hate people with schizophrenia. But I don't want to be around them for my own wellbeing.

[Anonymous No.10555423]

>>10555400
you sound boring as fuck

[Anonymous No.10555426]

>>10555112
>were all to happy to consider me within the realm of acceptable losses
yes? why wouldn't they?

[Anonymous No.10555427]

r8 me and my com

[soup No.10555432]

>>10555427
ita af. you give us real brolita a bad name. if you're going to wear the fashion at least do it properly jfc

[Anonymous No.10555460]

>>10555206
You should talk to your friends about this, some people have a lot of money riding on that diagnosis

[Anonymous No.10555464]

I don't really wear lolita anymore. It has been a long 18 years and I guess I am finally done. I cant really sell my stuff though... too many itas and people hopping on the trend who I know wont love the items. I keep hoping to run across people looking for some of the items and dresses I have so my pieces can go to a good home. So far it just feels like a lost cause. Maybe I can figure out something else to do with them.

[Anonymous No.10555465]

>>10555464
I can give your old stuff a good home anon

[Anonymous No.10555467]

>>10555465
No, you'd have to be looking for something I have and I would have to come to that conclusion myself.

[Anonymous No.10555468]

>>10555460
what does this mean

[Anonymous No.10555488]

>>10555464
You could take a look at the wishlists of people in your comm, or even watch the dream dress thread here. Why not put out feeler sales saying you're still in doubt about selling?

[Anonymous No.10555490]

>>10555488
The first two are good suggestions, last one not so much.

[Anonymous No.10555492]

I gained weight and I'm scared I can't wear lolita anymore. I'm not that fat but I can't even look at my dresses and not feel sad.
My plan is to eat healthy and play Ring Fit everyday. Would that work? I feel like I need some sort of support though.

[Anonymous No.10555496]

>>10555490
Why not? You can vet people. I completely understand you don’t want your clothes to go to some ungrateful newcomer but you’re being weird about it.

[Anonymous No.10555499]

>>10555488
I always check the DD threads here, and I am not part of any communities or online groups of lolitas. But I do check! I just want my items to go to people who are actually into the fashion and will appreciate and take care of the clothing. It has been important to me, and I want it to go to a good home, which is why I am not outright selling on LM or anything.

[Anonymous No.10555501]

>>10555492
it will work, especially if you keep it up. I went from 260 pounds to 130 years and years and years ago (have maintained since then, yay me!) just by tracking calories and walking or jogging every other day. I would say diet is the most important part, but working out definitely helps and makes you feel way better about yourself in so many ways. I personally do a keto or carnivore diet, depending on what I feel like at the time, and that has been amazing for me. But as long as you are watching calories and eating natural, healthy foods, you are good.

[Anonymous No.10555504]

>>10555496
I’ve had people harass me for not selling to them, even when I specified I wasn’t sure yet.

[Anonymous No.10555505]

>>10555504
Do you have puppet circus? I regret selling mine. The girl who bought it was a cunt, so I get why you don’t want to sell to just anyone

[Anonymous No.10555541]

>>10555460
ayrt, what does this mean lol i'm genuinely confused

>>10555366
thank you so much. that's the exact subreddit i scrolled yesterday evening and it made me cry all night despite knowing i do my best to never let my symptoms hurt my loved ones, but reading the threads made me feel like i was inherently bad for even having them.

[Anonymous No.10555554]

>>10555541
I think they’re talking about uh that thing when the gov give free money to sick people

[Anonymous No.10555562]

>>10555554
where i live i'd only get about 900 euros per month and they take it from you as soon as you make more than like 300 euros a month. not sure how i'm supposed to make a lot of money with that, unless i'm missing something?

[Anonymous No.10555565]

>>10555554

I'm a burger and I'm honestly trying to figure out how the fuck you'd get disability from just bpd without a secondary diagnosis or some kind of debilitating effect.

Plus disability is really shitty, no one can really make a living off of it. You'd have to be dependent on someone to have enough to even spend on maybe 1 burando dress a month.

[Anonymous No.10555571]

>>10555562
>>10555565
Idk where I’m from you get about $2100 after taxes

[Anonymous No.10555576]

Due to UPS fucking shit up, I technically paid ~$10 for a NWT CTP set...

[Anonymous No.10555577]

>>10555576
Insurance?

[Anonymous No.10555579]

>>10555577
Technically, yes.
The lost the choker for the first set I bought.
I bought a second set (which turned out to be NWT) after they confirmed I was getting reimbursed for the whole cost of the first
I put the incomplete set up for bid on LM and it sold for $10 under the price I bought the second set for.
It was a headache to go through and I am still waiting on the reimbursement (apparently the paperwork is making its way around), but hey. $10 CTP when all is said and done.

[Anonymous No.10555595]

>>10555571
huh. if you get $$$ from the government does that mean you can't have a job as well?

also if someone with BPD can get government handouts can someone with like crippling PTSD get government handouts? how tf does this work

[Anonymous No.10555601]

>>10555595

If you have a local comm I guarantee you will get unsolicited information from the resident munchie on how to do exactly that.

[Anonymous No.10555602]

>>10555579
I’m happy it worked out! I remember your post about UPS losing that necklace from the set, glad you got a perfect one instead.

[Anonymous No.10555606]

>>10555595
You have to prove that you’re not able to work because of your condition. But I don’t know why you would do that. I qualify because I have a neurological disease, but I can’t imagine cutting myself off from society like that. We look down on people who get government handouts

[Anonymous No.10555608]

>>10555595
in burgerland you can’t have a job that makes more than 1k a month, or else you get kicked off

[Anonymous No.10555609]

>>10555606
>You have to prove that you’re not able to work because of your condition
oh ok, not worth it for a piddly $2k a month. i'd rather make my big money even though it's suffering

[Anonymous No.10555610]

>>10555609
I’m proud of you anonski, it’s not easy

[Anonymous No.10555615]

>>10555602
thanks anon! Honestly, I would have been happy of UPS just reimbursing me the price difference of the first set and second set. But apparently because they cannot determine the value of the choker alone, they're required to refund the full amount.

[Anonymous No.10555713]

>tfw politically outmanuevered a person in the university society I'm in to win president by sheer force of bribery

Is this what Ceasar felt like?

[Anonymous No.10555723]

>>10555713
Ave!

[Anonymous No.10555738]

>>10555541
I think they're taking about your friends placing bets on what you get diagnosed with

[Anonymous No.10555746]

>>10555206
are you me? I also just got diagnosed and panic sent my boyfriend a bunch of posts from subreddits where people recount their horrible experiences with BPD exes and family members, asking him if I'm really like that, if I will end up hurting him or ruining his life as well. please find other resources that aren't written by deeply resentful and traumatized people, ones that don't paint all sufferers with the same brush, citing the most severe cases that frequently coexist with other personality disorders. human minds are so complex and this isn't as one-dimensional as you might be inclined to believe. be aware that there are a lot of misconceptions about BPD, and it's very unfairly stigmatized. you're self-aware enough to accept your diagnosis, which means you're not a terrible person and will never let yourself hurt anyone. if anything, we hurt ourselves the most when the chronic emotional pain and constant self-doubt becomes too much to deal with. please don't give up and continue going to therapy, and make sure your loved ones are educated so you can work together towards a better future. there are people who want nothing more than to see you better, to have you be healthy and happy alongside them for the rest of your lives. please don't push them away.

[Anonymous No.10555752]

>>10555206
>>10555746
I'm a guy and my experience with BPD exs has been awful. Like trauma-level awful. The sex was incredible, but I can guarantee you're both extremely sexual and extremely masochistic because BPDs are just so cookie cutter in their personalities. BPDs are attracted to hobbies like cosplay and lolita too.

When I think about my BPD exs now, I just feel rage. I want to hurt them. I want my hands wrapped around their whore necks and I want to squeeze until they stop breathing.

[Anonymous No.10555767]

>>10555752
Sounds like you have some issues too. Makes sense though, cluster b’s tend to seek each other out in relationships and its always a mess.

[Anonymous No.10555780]

>>10554990
Oh, it's not specifically like "Hey you need to buy this specific item for cousin," but more that my mom uses my cousin as deflector shield against the idea of me (or her, apparently) wearing anything remotely fun or unusual.

>>10554965
I am, but it definitely kills my confidence when I put on a nice outfit and whereas my mom or aunt might have said 6 years ago, "ohh that's really pretty," they'll now say something like "Aren't you a little old to be wearing a skirt that puffs out?"

[Anonymous No.10555812]

>>10555752
Yo I think that's a disorder too, get it checked out.

[Anonymous No.10555819]

>>10555780
Hit them back with “sorry did I ask for your opinion? aren’t you a little old to be so judgemental?”
So what if they think you look like giant baby. If it makes you happy, it makes you happy.

[Anonymous No.10555885]

>>10555812
Your face is a disorder

[Anonymous No.10555910]

i think the sweet boom has encouraged some unhealthy buying habits in me because i have 0 time to really think about a purchase. like, if i see something that sparks my interest and isn't a crazy price, i know i have to buy it right then because it won't sit on the market.

i know i can also just resell something easily if i end up not loving it in person but i don't want to be targeted as a scalper if i mark up the price a little for the higher shipping fee i paid or whatever

[Anonymous No.10555913]

>>10555780
Maybe try saying something along the lines of at least you're dressing modestly? Not that there's anything wrong with not, but I know my parents are just grateful I outgrew my slutty goth phase and wear something that usually covers almost every inch of skin now. Boomer parents usually like that part.

[Anonymous No.10555919]

>>10555752

looks like BPDs attract BPDs
lmao

[Anonymous No.10555923]

>>10555752
you sound rather psychotic yourself

[Anonymous No.10555939]

>>10555752
You sound like you've got ASPD there cowboy.

I'm glad your BPD exes traumatized you, you sound like a piece of shit. As a person with BPD, the only ex I don't regret being shitty to is my NPD ex. Fucker deserved all of it and then some. I started cheating on him and using him for money when I found out what a piece of shit liar he was, when he found out I was cheating he came over to my house and physically assaulted me (twisted my arm around). Thankfully even though he was like 6'2 and 220lbs and I'm like 5'3 and under 100 lbs, I'm crazy and I managed to pull his entire body to the ground. He has permanent back injuries from that altercation and it's so satisfying. Fucker.

[Anonymous No.10555959]

>>10555492
I've been playing Ringfit for about half a year now and loving it still. I will say don't push yourself to do it every day, that will quickly make it feel like a chore. I try to do a session every second day but sometimes when i feel like it i will do consecutive days. Good luck on your journey!

[Anonymous No.10555962]

>>10555959
Nayrt but I really wanna buy and play ring fit for fun and it seems like an actual workout which is kinda cool.k

[Anonymous No.10556048]

>badly want to get into cosplay
>all the characters i want cosplay are the opposite of my birth sex
>don't think i will look good unless i put in a ton of effort
>willing to put in that effort but scared people will think weird shit about me for going that hard

why do i care so much about what other people think

[Anonymous No.10556056]

>>10554963
Personally I find super vibrant pastel stuff to be better on me than stuff like pick related as I’ve gotten a little older. I know that sounds counterintuitive but hear me out. When you’re wearing something that’s sweet but in subdued colors, jewel tones, ginghams, etc. it can look like you’re actually trying to look young and cutesy because in my opinion dresses like this jumperskirt look closer to what actual children’s clothes that look like. When you wear something super super vibrant like milky planet it’s more obvious you are just doing an alt fashion thing and it looks better. I know that sounds weird and most people think that as you get older you should move from sweet to classic but I have found the opposite to be true for me personally. I’d rather look like I’m doing a pastel out there alternative fashion and idgaf then like I’m trying to look like an actual kid. Does that make any sense to you? Basically the more OTT I go the less I feel it looks too young

[Anonymous No.10556058]

>got yellow HC socks from AP Japan
>UPS says they delivered my Yamato package, check, nowhere to be found despite my residence having a locked package room
>investigation with UPS going nowhere

My first time having issues with Yamato/UPS. They were the only thing in my order and Yamato shipping isn't cheap so I'm just out $70 over one pair of AP socks. RIP.

[Anonymous No.10556067]

>>10554654
>have so far been really lucky buying second hand in Japan
>never a problem with hygiene with the items
>never major damage
>always excellent cost/performance
>find an XL cardigan, not my size but buy it for that cozy oversized look
>get home and discover something gritty in the right pocket
>dried up rice stuck to right pocket
Fuck fatties eternally.

[Anonymous No.10556068]

>>10555939
All of you deserve each other, jfc, try acting normal for a change.

[Anonymous No.10556072]

>>10556058
Was this today or like a week ago? It's very rare, but UPS might have marked it delivered before actually delivering it (sometimes the drivers are desperate and don't want to get knocked for not delivering all the packages on their route). I've had it happen once and it sucked, but I eventually got the package.
I'm sorry anon. I hope it works out.

[Anonymous No.10556074]

>>10556072
Package was marked delivered Feb 9, started the investigation Feb 10, no updates yet. Hoping it turns up.

[Anonymous No.10556080]

>>10555306
Desperation is overall unattractive to men. Treat yourself with respect and don’t grovel for a man and you’ll pull way more attractive and interesting ones.

If he’s not responding to you, that’s your answer. He’d be in your inbox right now if he wanted to be.

[Anonymous No.10556082]

>>10556080
>Desperation overall is unnatractive to men

This is a lie.

[Anonymous No.10556084]

>>10555752
/r9k/ bait

[Anonymous No.10556085]

>>10556074
Check the dumpster, no really.

[Anonymous No.10556092]

>>10555939
Sounds like a pos, bet he was cheating on you too

[Anonymous No.10556093]

>>10556080
He just had major surgery and its not like we aren’t both busy normally... i think I just got too attached too fast. i really don’t know how to flirt with people, especially not cute afab guys

[Anonymous No.10556096]

>>10556074
My only other piece of advise is if you used an SS, have them file a mail search in Japan.
My CC order was lost last year and I think the only reason it turned up was because there was an international push.
I still hope it gets to you.

>>10556085
Okay I need a story time, because imagining a package winding up in the dumpster is a nightmare.

[Anonymous No.10556098]

>>10556096
Jerk off steals you packages, opens them, dumps what he doesn't want.

[Anonymous No.10556099]

>>10556098
Got my wallet and most of the stuff that matters back this way. ID, work badge, AP discount booklet, etc. all dumped in the closest garbage can after he took my bank cards. Those are a breeze to cancel/replace. It’s the other stuff that’s the bitch. If they don’t want it they dump it ASAP

[soup No.10556100]

happy new years. lets get this thread rollin so I can start a new one

[Anonymous No.10556103]

>>10556082
Sorry, I should have been more clear. Desperation is unattractive overall for men in a partner. They’ll happily still fuck you, though!

>>10556093
If he’s afab then that might change things a little, I was coming from the assumption that this was a cis dude with cis dude emotional immaturity. I’d still give him some space, reach out in a week or so checking up on him. I would try to levy your expectations still... major surgery or not, it’s not difficult to respond to an IM if you really, really want to.

[Anonymous No.10556115]

>>10556098
>>10556099
Thanks for the life tip, anons. I fucking hate people who steal.

[Anonymous No.10556140]

Holy hell gulls! I’ve been accumulating quite a few things through a SS lately and I’m finally ready to pull the trigger and ship. Shipping + GST is almost $400!! I miss EMS...

[Anonymous No.10556142]

>>10556140
Me too. USPS is usually too lazy to charge customs even when packages are well over $800, but DHL and UPS almost always do

[Anonymous No.10556163]

>>10556142
I've never been charged customs in the US from any courier

[Anonymous No.10556171]

I have been feeling a bit underwhelmed since getting back into lolita fashion. I'm not really hunting any specific dresses and mostly just keeping an eye out for old Baby and Meta. I found this skirt and the thought of not buying it was worse than paying $350 I am so friggin happy. Also now I understand why ppl are willing to pay for overpriced AP lol

[Anonymous No.10556215]

>>10556142
? USA doesn't have customs on personal stuff unless it's over $1500 or something

[Anonymous No.10556217]

>>10556171
Congrats! Personally I wouldn’t pay that much for this but I’m sure people think I’m insane for how much I pay for scalped AP. We’re all in the same boat.

[Anonymous No.10556240]

If I see one more LM listing with "choker" spelled as "chocker", I am going to scream.

[Anonymous No.10556247]

>>10556098
I don't think this is the case for me as we have a 24 hour live security monitored package room you need a key fob to get into in plain view of the leasing office during the hours UPS would stop by.

But my SS did tell me if I contact Yamato's English division they will probably be faster than UPS in the USA, based on the one other time a customer had issues with UPS in the states with a Yamato package.

[Anonymous No.10556256]

>>10556240
Not everyone is a native English speaker

[Anonymous No.10556257]

>>10556256
Google exists.

[Anonymous No.10556280]

>>10556103
Thanks anon. Yeah, I’ll give him some time. Maybe I’ll text him next friday. I got so excited...

[Anonymous No.10556305]

>>10556280
How long have you been talking? And have you ever met him irl?

[Anonymous No.10556306]

>>10556256
use a spellcheck extension you lazy fuck

[Anonymous No.10556330]

I bought one of my favorite AP prints ever and I love it, it's over 10 years old and the glitter is still intact and overall in amazing condition. Honestly the only reason why I got such a great deal and nobody bought it before me was because the seller's pictures were awful and it seemed to miss an item but when I received it everything was there. I even got free rare socks that sold for over 50 buckeroos on LM recently. Haven't felt this nice in a long time

[Anonymous No.10556338]

>>10556305
Couple months on and off. Nope. I think I’m just going mad in my apartment

[Anonymous No.10556360]

>>10556338
You really need to get off the internet for a while. Binge watch a netflix series, make a good meal, or get wrapped up in a project. You sound really codependent not only in a hyperfixated way, but an addicted way, to the internet and also romantically.

[Anonymous No.10556376]

>>10556360
I think you’re projecting a bit. I know I get too infatuated too quickly but it happens like once every two years.
Also, I have a job that takes up most of my time. Would like to pick up cosplay again but I have no motivation with no cons

[Anonymous No.10556384]

After wasting my time in adult day care college to get a non functioning degree and working a heavy reasturant job the entire time I finnaly got my foot through the door in an office job as a receptionist. The time I wasted going to school to get my "dream job" has made me realize that I don't even care about the type of job I want so long as it's easy and I can have a life outside of it. Which from seeing my peers pursue the type of job I thought I wanted I realized their life just became their job and it's a miserable existence. Worse even more when I would make more money than them working a low skilled job.
I've become so fucking jaded at the work market in the US. I just want an easy cushy office job now where I can have some of my anime figures in my cubicle and use hello Kitty sticky notes. What type of cushy jobs do you gulls have to make your lifestyle possible?

[Anonymous No.10556391]

>>10556384
Just do onlyfans

[Anonymous No.10556423]

>>10556384
I’m a freelance writer and it’s super cushy and easy but it takes a while (and probably some talent) to get to a point where you can actually make a living.

[Anonymous No.10556494]

>>10554692
just bring your whole wardrobe and leave something else behind, that's what i did

[Anonymous No.10556504]

>finally get a conjugal visit approved after nearly a year so I can see my bf (thanks corona!)
>period starts out of ducking nowhere
Every time I think things are going to get better, nope.

[Anonymous No.10556506]

>>10556504
Why does it matter if your period starts? Period sex is a thing you know.

[Anonymous No.10556507]

>had an breathtakingly awful year
>been out of work 9 months, no financial relief
>divorce
>tried dating
>too soon, fizzled after 5 months
>imnotokayipromise
>is going to have to start selling brand, losing everything, weight, the apartment, etc.
>Just got hired at $23 an hour
>sniped a dream dress been searching for since 2014
>old school BBTSB JSK for a great price
>first main piece purchased in 3 years

What is this feeling / so sudden and new

[Anonymous No.10556510]

>>10556504
Dump him

[Anonymous No.10556520]

>>10556504
>conjugal visit
please don't date criminals

[Anonymous No.10556529]

>>10556384
Just find a bf that will let you move in and not make you pay any bills, then you can get a part time job and all your income is disposable! And your bf will probably buy you gifts too.

Don't purposefully seek out a sugar daddy, though, they're fucking creeps and expect too much (plus most of them are old and/or gross). Just find a regular guy somewhere out in the world or on a regular dating app.

[Anonymous No.10556542]

>>10556384
i did my time in college to get a computer science degree and now i'm a cybersecurity consultant. it's cushy and the pay has me around America's upper middle class--which for someone who was born a poorfag like me, is really awesome.

it's a meme at this point but if you have the drive to teach yourself basically any tech skill and work on projects, you can get a job somewhere. the degree just means higher starting income without having to grind by myself but people can succeed without them in this field

[Anonymous No.10556546]

>>10556542
I also am a cybersecurity major and I've gotten paid internships that started around $15/hr and maxed out after 3 years there for 30 an hour. The work isn't really fun by any means but I was also born dirt poor growing up and the numbers comfort me. I feel like many gulls here who have known poverty and hardship are super hardworking and grateful for the financial security they created. Nothing feels better than having pocket money for burando.

[Anonymous No.10556549]

>>10556546
nice anon! i'm not sure if you've graduated yet based on your post but the "big 4" multinational accounting firms will pay out the ass, even for interns. my first go with one was about $46/hr for... learning about SCRUM best practice. if you're not graduated yet/ever looking for a cushy high paying job, i'd point you in that direction.

there's a special place in my heart for other lolitas who've built themselves up. go anon go!

[Anonymous No.10556550]

>>10556542
>>10556546
This is nice to read. I’m forced to do a complete career change and decided on going back to school for computer science

[Anonymous No.10556552]

>>10556550
I'm in the same boat as you anon, trying to go back to school to get a certification and new job skills

[Anonymous No.10556556]

>>10556550
Same here...

[Anonymous No.10556557]

>>10556384
Geez, I understand. I worked hard to get my degree and made less many than people with no degree and worked hours at home unpaid. I just want to go to work and go home. I like my field, I don't like the job culture.

[Anonymous No.10556577]

>>10556520
Really dog whistling here huh

[Anonymous No.10556592]

>>10556577
Is the dogwhistle anon telling you not to date people who are in jail and you assuming they're being racist? That's not a dogwhistle, that's just you assuming black people are criminals

[Anonymous No.10556596]

>>10556520
He wasn’t a criminal when we met
>>10556506
I’m going to run this red light but I just wanted it to be special

[Anonymous No.10556597]

>>10556596
What did he do?

[Anonymous No.10556603]

>>10556596
>I just wanted it to be special
Sex is always special when you're in love no matter what day of the month it is

[Anonymous No.10556611]

>>10556597
He didn’t do anything

[Anonymous No.10556613]

>>10556611
Then why is he in jail?

[Anonymous No.10556670]

>>10555112
You sound like the pancakes are my trigger Tumblr person.

[Anonymous No.10556682]

>>10556670
Or the "tag your fucking gore/pomegranates" people

[Anonymous No.10556687]

>>10556550
>>10556546
>>10556542
STEMlitas rise up

[Anonymous No.10556694]

The stemlitas on this board make me feel like I picked the wrong career. I'm so jealous of yall, especially the ones who can dress however they want at work. Law isn't bad either but imo it's less flexible and the dresscode is stricter.

[Anonymous No.10556696]

>>10556549
Thanks! I've been looking around since I will finish soon, but I've been considering those firms for consultation! I was originally only a codemonkey, but realized that cybersec is more secure and pays better for a lot less work. It's good to know there are other gulls on the tech track to escape the lower class. My family thinks I'm fucking nuts for going into STEM because they're broke losers that think a day job means giving up your happiness. Personally I can't wait to stare at a screen all day in my dresses for a fat check.
>>10556550
That's lovely to hear nonny. You picked the right thing to do. As with all things, stick it out and stick your nose in the books, and you'll end up just fine. I'm cheering you on!
>>10556687
Seriously. Compsci and tech makes the most sense for dedicated lolitas. It's cozy, no dress code, and you learn how to write scripts for CC. Kek

[Anonymous No.10556702]

>>10556694
Lawyers are up there with stock brokers, cars salesmen, career politicians, hedgefunds managers and casino operators as the most morally bankrupt people on earth.

[Anonymous No.10556703]

>start dating bf in february 2020
>pandemic hits and so does the depression
>can't find ever motivation to dress up at all, don't even attempt any virtual meetups
>spend most of 2020 being a sad and sloppy sack of shit
>finally motivate myself to dress up by telling bf i'll put on a mini fashion show for him with my cutest coords
>he seems enthusiastic, has never seen me in lolita because i don't take pictures, but has seen dresses in my closet
>spend a bunch of time putting on makeup for the first time in a year, doing my hair, and putting on outfit
>walk out to show bf and he bursts into laughter and can't stop
>try my best to hold back tears and spend then until now feeling like i took one step forward and ten back

might murder-suicide desu

[Anonymous No.10556704]

>>10556703
Please don't do that. Do dump him though.

[Anonymous No.10556706]

>>10556687
Also in tech with a big boy paycheck as of this year and I actually wonder how some people involved in this fashion afford their wardrobes. I'm finally at a point where I can afford whatever brand I want purely with spending money instead of having to budget around it or forego close releases or when I also have to pay for rent.

[Anonymous No.10556707]

>>10556702
someone is mad

>>10556703
dump his ass

[Anonymous No.10556710]

>>10556694
tbf i picked my career path entirely on its potential to make money/the more "lax" culture

like being a lawyer or doctor might have set me up to make more but i concluded in hs that i didn't have the chops for either. tech confy. not too late for you to learn!

[Anonymous No.10556727]

>finally "out" myself to my mom about my wardrobe.
>mom is a boomer Karen, didn't use the L-word once to avoid having to explain it
>mom says I look like a "little girl's doll" and that it's weird
>go out in public in a super casual coordinate with her on the same day for errands
>anyone who liked my coord dead ass said "oh wow, I really love your LOLITA coordinate!" with extra emphasis on "lolita" as loud as possible in front of my boomer mom
>mom has a heart attack and now thinks I'm in a giant online sex cult

anyways, how is yall's Friday?

[soup No.10556738]

>>10556703
lolita is kind of a niche fashion. did you sit him down to tell him about it before hand? you should give him a heads up next time when you decide to wear it so that he can prepare himself mentally that way he knows he's not suppose to laugh.

[Anonymous No.10556743]

>>10556694
tbf you'll probably make more money in the long run but us compsci-ers have an easier job with less schooling and still a pretty decent pay

>>10556706
>>10556696
feels nice that at my big boy job 90% of my paycheck is now mostly disposable income when before my rent and utilities were took 60%
my past couple of jobs haven't had a dress code either but that aspect is also pretty nice.

really should get around to making that STEMlita discord but I don't use discord enough

[Anonymous No.10556745]

>>10556743
If you or another anon ever get around to it I'd join for sure.

[Anonymous No.10556747]

>>10556703
idk. if my bf told me he was going to do a fashion show for me and came out in something completely unexpected for him to wear like 70s era goth or something after seeing him in nothing but sweats for the past year (thanks corona) I would probably laugh too. doesn't mean i necessarily dislike it.

before breaking up maybe try talking it out first?

[Anonymous No.10556749]

>>10556745
hoping if I keep talking about it enough, someone else will take the initiative because I'm equal parts lazy and shy.

[Anonymous No.10556755]

I got a pull in the fabric of my dream dress while laundering it tonight. The only reason why I didn't cry was because my boyfriend's brother is staying with us and I didn't want him to see me cry over a fault nobody would ever even notice on a dress I never plan on selling.

[Anonymous No.10556764]

>>10556755
clothes are made to worn and will naturally degrade with things like pulls, tears, stains, fading, etc. It is unavoidable but a loved worn piece of clothing with a rip is worth so much more sentimentally than a pristine dress locked away in a closet unseen

[Anonymous No.10556777]

>>10556391
I honestly considered doing a zit popping onlyfans for a second. I'm not conventionally attractive, and that market leans more towards gross twink pizza faced boys.

>>10556529

I'm engaged and tryna live this dream so bad. He works in IT, I've wanted to get married for fucking years already. I got pilled by feminism to think that I had to be a cog in the machine but I really do just want a simple life.

[Anonymous No.10556790]

>>10556747
This. A lot of people laugh as a nervous response when they're not sure how to respond to something. As long as he's not actively mean about it, I think there's hope

[Anonymous No.10556792]

>>10556743
i feel like someone has posted about this before (you?) and i want it but we're all too shy

we're in stem, what can we expect haha

[Anonymous No.10556795]

>>10556542
I wish I was as smart as you Anon. I wasted my time getting a graphic design degree, I was going back to focus more on video editing but I hear graphic design jobs are becoming super social media management-y and I could really care less about that.
Idk if video editing gigs are a good deal, I don't want to move to LA. I've heard some folks say video editing has good jobs.

[Anonymous No.10556803]

>>10556743
Exactly! I'm actually trying to save money for a house which is something I never thought I'd be able to do. Btw I'm super interested if you do make a stemlita discord, but I don't think I'd join unless you posted it publicly. I don't want my account attached to 4chan cause big scary SJWs. :/
>>10556795
There's definitely high paying jobs for graphic design but yes, you'd likely have to move somewhere like LA or Bay Area if you want those tech-bucks. It sucks, but at least you can buy endless brando. Just save a ton of money, retire at 30 and move wherever you want.

[Anonymous No.10556810]

>gf and I are both in uni
>I do engineering
>She does design
>She knows that my degree will give me a substantially better paying job than her
>I have told her that my ambition is to be more successful than my grandparents, who are millionares of some degree (nobody but them know how much money they actually have)
>She's been subtly and not so subtly mentioning how good of a house wife she would be
>Has recently been doing all the laundry, irons my shirts, takes care of organising appointments, baking treats for me, etc while I've been working 60 hours a week at an internship. But we still share who cooks diner.
>She's been mentioning that her sickness might one day end up flair up to point she can't work
>She's been mentioning about having kids once we're graduated
>She wants to have a house further in the countryside
>Wants to spend her time gardening, interior decorating and raising children

This is all very strange since when I met her she wanted to make it very clear that she wanted a serious career and wanted to be independent and beholden to no man.

Is she just preparing me for the big reveal that she never wants to work again?

[Anonymous No.10556814]

>>10556810
Lol. I used to think I wanted to be a Barbie career woman too and dumped that idea too.

[Anonymous No.10556816]

>>10556803
I hate LA so much. I live in the Bay area so maybe there's hope. Maybe I'll finish my degree and try to get my foot into that door and go hard into investments and ira's with my money. I really do not dream of labor. I don't want to live to work.

[Anonymous No.10556817]

>>10556795
I have a general design degree and wanted to do UX for money but got a good in house design job at a company doing graphic stuff and they pay me pretty well. Design degrees aren't useless if you are someone who really knows what they want or like and didn't just barely pass your way through school.

[Anonymous No.10556818]

Anyone else /nuke/ here?

[Anonymous No.10556819]

>>10556810
Yeah that's probably exactly what she is doing. If you're not into it you should be straight-up about that. Especially if you're not ugly.

[Anonymous No.10556821]

>>10556817
What site do you use to find graphic design jobs. This may be a dumbass question but also I had not great teachers in school.

[Anonymous No.10556824]

>>10556702
Anyone who goes on 4chan is already morally bankrupt

[Anonymous No.10556826]

>>10556384
job is too specific but basically i went the corporate route of a usually creative career and so glad i did. if you chose an arts major see if theres a corporate outlet for it, you'd be surprised what you can find.

[Anonymous No.10556831]

>>10556821
I used all the basic ones as well as my unis job board and career services. LinkedIn, websites of companies I eanted to work at, a network of previous grads advertising when their places were hiring, indeed, my local AIGA chapter job board, glassdoor, just using Google and checking for new results every few days...and staffing agencies like Robert Half, Paladin, Creative Circle, and others. At first I only got contract work with various places.

I ended up getting my full time job via a staffing agency after a month and a half of contract work through them. I kept getting tons of nos for jobs in my current area, told yes for jobs that were too far away, or just ghosted because of COVID related hiring freezes and not being as "normie" in my portfolio or projects as a lot of trendier design grads. But this one company in finance was expanding an in house team and happened to be using the staffing agency I signed up for and it all went well. I had a lot of work experience via contract jobs in school and internships, so that was always going for me. I've never interviewed for a job and not gotten an offer, so maybe it's also partly knowing how to talk to people but even getting to the interview stage can be exhausting for non-internship roles.

Definitely really put your resume and portfolio out there and be prepared to send out a hundred applications or more, have people look over your cover letters and review them, and do your best to be yourself and open eith your personality, interests, and skills and how those all overlap to inform and improve your work. It's more about being relentless and selling yourself over and over than it is about any particular job board or strategy.

[Anonymous No.10556838]

I just want an easy job where I don't have to think to the point of burnout. I'm the person people go to when they can't figure shit out on an organizational level and that shit turns my mind into a husk at the end of the day.

The guy that worked with me took a 60k pay cut to go work for the government pushing papers to get away from the stress. I laughed at him at first but I found out that job of his allowed him to leave the expensive DC area and work from home in a low cost of living area. He is living my dream.

[Anonymous No.10556862]

>See DD pop up on Frill
>$1000 bucks
>Try to get From Japan to negotiate a lower price
>Still have to pay a $1000 as a sort of deposit
>Transfer money to my online shopping bank account
>No action according to bank
>Told by From Japan that the seller isn't looking to sell lower
>Cope by buying a bunch of accessories on Mercari
>Leave $200 in my online shopping bank account and transfer $800 to my main account
>Cry
>Check bank account just because
>In debt by $900 for my online banking account
>what
>WHAT
>Apparently From Japan withdrew $1000 from my account and was going to refund it, but it was.taking it's sweet time being pended by PayPal
>I was penalized for EVERY SINGLE THING I BOUGHT FROM MERCARI
>Lost $168 for over draw fees
>$10 Bodyline wristcuffs cost me $38 dollars due to my over draw penalty

[Anonymous No.10556868]

>>10556862
Get help. You have a problem.

[Anonymous No.10556880]

>>10556810
Girl is stupid if she wants to be a first whife and ditch her career for your potential

[Anonymous No.10556885]

>>10556814
>>10556819
>>10556880
I'm not opposed to the idea. I'd much prefer children be raised by their parents rather than outsourcing love to a daycare. I do love her and want to support her in her dreams if she wants to support me in mine.

I was just taken aback by the sheer 180 of it all. She goes from
>i'm a strong, independent, self-made woman. If you don't like that, you can leave.
to
>Welcome home. I baked you brownies and put our your pyjamas. Do you like my outfit?

I am a bit of tradbf but she's only dated guys who were into hookup culture prior and was burnt quite badly. So I think maybe she wanted to be a homemaker all along but took an aggressive posture towards relationships when all she found was men being pathetic.

[Anonymous No.10556893]

>>10556885
Its cute now but the housewife thing gets old after a while, for her anyways. It makes an unequal dynamic for spending and responsibilities if you dont balance things and communicate. Might be ok with kids but people need things to do or they go fucking bananas. Maybe encourage her to get a career that she can do part time or something? It sounds like you're pretty serious.

[Anonymous No.10556900]

>>10556885
The thing is, even with a high paying job it's going to be difficult doing what your grandparents did, when have to support another human + your child. You have to give her spending money and pay for EVERYTHING at the beginning of your career. It's her new dream to become a housewife, great, but what about your dream?

[Anonymous No.10556917]

>>10556885
Good thing she’s having romantic sex with someone who loves her now. Hookups ruin the whole point of sex.

[Anonymous No.10556943]

>>10556745
>>10556749
I'll do it. I'm new to using discord and still have to figure it out, but feel free to add anpanman#4045 until I get STEMlita up and running and I'll invite you

[Anonymous No.10556950]

>>10556885
guess she's settling down

[Anonymous No.10556957]

>>10556885
I'm glad I found a childfree trad husbando, I get to be a housewife and I never have to breed.

[Anonymous No.10557047]

>dress I want is up for auction
>'hey it's not that popular right, I think I'll just put a sniper bid for the lowest price'
>have a change of heart, end up putting my max bid for the lulz
>missed the end of the auction
>SS sends me an email saying I won
>check price
>it was my maximum bid
close call

[Anonymous No.10557050]

>>10556810
>>10556885
>>10556885
because she’s in design she could pick up the ocassional contract job working from home. it’s also better for her to not be completely financially dependent on you

[Anonymous No.10557076]

>tfw the only person that's ever shown you love is gonna' die soon.
>tfw they told you recently, 'You have to be happy being alone.'
>tfw when they told you to prepare to be alone your whole life.

The clothes don't make me happy anymore, anon.

[Anonymous No.10557079]

>Just realized I have constant tinnitus in my left ear since a few days
Fuck this shit ass of a life

[Anonymous No.10557138]

>>10556376
>you’re projecting a bit
lol okay nutso

[Anonymous No.10557151]

man I feel so disgustingly fat today even tho I know logically I am not. I fit into my unshirred OP's, but seeing the XL tag in some of my blouses is killing me inside. I worked so hard to get down to wearing an XS after being 250+ lbs most of my life and now it feels like my clothes are moking me. Plus I have some difficulty with extra skin from the weight loss that also makes me feel disgusting and undeserving of wearing these pretty clothes. I wish I could go back to seeing a therapist for my dysmorphia but I don't have good enough internet for online appointments so idk what to do besides vent and cry about it.

[Anonymous No.10557241]

>>10556862
Yes, fromjapan will fxck you like that, I've had a similar situation. condolences

[Anonymous No.10557242]

>>10557079
I have mild tinnitus in both ears from my antidepressants. It's worth it because I don't wanna kill myself everyday. Just make sure there's always some form of white noise around you and unless it's real bad the white noise should drown it out. I tell my google mini to make thunderstorm noises at night and usually have some relaxing or concentration music going on youtube during the day. You can also put your hands over your ears and use your index fingers to thump rhythmically on the back of your head 30-40 times and that usually lessens the buzzing as well.

Are you taking any new meds btw?

[Anonymous No.10557245]

>>10557151
Are you saving up to get all that skin removed or are you keeping it for when you inevitably need it?

[Anonymous No.10557247]

>>10556529
i want this so bad. but even when i date loaded guys they never buy me anything or offer to help me financially

[Anonymous No.10557252]

>>10557247
You need to be more pitiful, when I still lived with my parents I had rich and not rich men offering to let me live with them rent-free left and right and wanting to take me on expensive outings. I was just hung up on my ex but then my ex got a good job and bought a place and I'm happy I didn't move in with any rich randos, since I'm back together with him. Maybe my life would be cushier with the 6 figure randos but I def wouldn't be as happy.

[Anonymous No.10557253]

>>10557079
I have bad tinnitus as well.
I use a campfire and crickets noise on
the tmsoft white noise app. I messed with the pitch of crickets to match my tinnitus so it masks it.
Helps me a lot especially to sleep.

[Anonymous No.10557265]

>>10557252
If 6 figures is rich to you, I’m sorry for you anon. I got into the above situation (totally disposable part time job bc bf pays the bills) with a guy who makes a lot more than that from tinder. But as long as you’re happy I guess.

[Anonymous No.10557266]

>>10557265
nayrt but six figures ranges from 100,000 to 999,999...

[soup No.10557273]

My autistic niece is so nosey. a seagull in the making

[Anonymous No.10557275]

>>10557265
I don't even live in a low cost of living state but anything over 45k a year seems pretty decent to me. My bf makes just under that and we have everything we could want, large emergency fund, and can afford yearly nice vacations. We have a decent small home in the nicest area of town. I get new brand releases every month, I'm a pretty happy camper. He's gonna be making double his current income in the next few years and I can hardly imagine the luxury we'll be able to afford then.

My dad raised me, and my mom was able to be a stay at home wife on a 55k a year salary, and I always felt like a fairly spoiled only child and got everything I wanted it seemed. IDK what people do with 6 figure salaries desu. Seems like more money than I'd know how to spend unless I wanted a huge mcmansion and in some HOA neighborhood and new cars every couple years, which I patently do not want.

[Anonymous No.10557282]

I ordered a dress through clobba in july of last year and it still hasn't gotten to me due to production delays. The taobao shop offered to use black lace on the bottom instead of the usual red and even though I don't like it as much I think I might just take the loss and give them the ok. Probably just going to sell it the second I get it though.

[Anonymous No.10557283]

>>10557245
yeah i am saving for skin surgery but also....yeah. what if I go back? like.....fuck. I've been below 130 lbs for two years but that doesn't feel long enough to say I've lost the weight for good. I also feel, for lack of a better word, shallow, for thinking I need surgery anyway. shouldn't I be happy with my results? shouldn't I be proud of the body I worked hard for, even if its not perfect? I'm so unhappy with this shit though and I feel so guilty and just....gross. so gross.

[Anonymous No.10557290]

>>10557283
Get therapy, work on the root of what made you obese in the first place so it doesn't happen again. Life is too short to carry the baggage of your mental illness around with you like a ball and chain. If your therapist thinks you're healed then you'll feel safe in getting it removed knowing you wont regress in your eating disorder. Sometimes your brain thinks it needs the "permission" from a person in a position of power, ie. a doctor or therapist, to tell you that you did it and you're allowed to be happy and move on.

[Anonymous No.10557291]

>>10557283
Same anon, but it is NOT shallow to want it removed. You don't need a constant reminder that you were mentally ill and physically killing yourself with food.

[Anonymous No.10557297]

>>10557151
Do you mean Chinese XL? It’s like a medium so... just go to a western store next time you’re out and grab some cardigans or tshirts in a small size to feel better

[Anonymous No.10557300]

>>10557275
how much is your mortgage and other monthly expenses? I live in a moderate cost of living state and 45k is decent but not buy-new-brand every month level for me.

[Anonymous No.10557301]

Gulls, you ever finally buy a dress that comes up for sale a lot that you've been waffling on grabbing for years, and then you finally get it in your hands and the fabric is SO nice and the dress looks great on you and you wonder why you didn't buy it sooner?

>>10554698
When I buy a new dress I often start planning out ideas for what I have that could be interesting with it while I wait for it to arrive, but generally I just make my outfits normally, like on the spot.

[Anonymous No.10557319]

>took a break from going to cons from 2013-2018
>go to a con in 2019 and had the most fun I've had in years
>corona happens and local con cancels their 2020 event
>local con is scheduled to return in July this year
>tfw regret not going to cons during my hiatus, but was a NEET and couldn't afford it anyway

[Anonymous No.10557320]

>>10557300
$1000/month for mortgage, $500-600 for groceries. $250 for utilities. $50 a month for pet supplies. Car insurance is about $115 a month and the car is paid off, gas is a wild card since working from home started. $150 a month for random fun stuff, $150 for investing. Leaves about $900 or so, plenty for a new release every month or stashing for vacation fund.

[Anonymous No.10557322]

>>10556862
learn how credit cards work and use those instead

[Anonymous No.10557323]

>>10557275
You're not wrong exactly because it depends heavily on location but considering the fact that the GOP proposed cut-off for the stim checks is 50k, basically is saying 50k and under is poor time. 6 figures means you can have kids comfortably, I'm betting if you tried to have kids you'd need welfare. But having kids is for suckers anyways.

[Anonymous No.10557324]

>>10556957
my dream desu but i have never met even one male who did not want children

[Anonymous No.10557327]

>>10557323
Don't want kids so it's a non issue that saves us minimum 14k a year per child we aren't having. We wouldn't qualify for welfare even if we had a kid though.

[Anonymous No.10557328]

>>10557265
6 figures is upper class, if you want to use that term instead. Most people do not make 6 figures

[Anonymous No.10557329]

>>10557324
Seriously? Out of the 10 guys I've dated only one thought they would want kids in the future (didn't last long with him). I've never had trouble finding a man who wants a childfree lifestyle.

[Anonymous No.10557330]

I have a heartfelt confession to make here and would like to ask for advice, even though this is probably the worst place to do it. At least I'm anonymous.
I am so viciously, seethingly, jealous of other women, I am jealous of how they seem so effortlessly beautiful and feminine, how they're admired and hit on and can go out to places like clubs without being ashamed of themselves. I'm jealous that they get to be slutty if they wanted to, and even have fun doing so. I'm jealous of the clothes they wear, and how most of them are quite decent with makeup. I'm not trans, I'm not fat, and I'm an honest 6 or 7/10 in the face, but somehow still just seeing beautiful people fills me with hatred and rage. How can I get over this? I'd love to have female friends and be more confident in my own feminity, but I have a massive inferiority complex and I just can't help but hating anyone I perceive as better than me, which is everyone. How can I admire them instead? I don't want to be like this.

[Anonymous No.10557332]

>>10557328
The median income in the United States is just over 31k. That's not even poverty, that's the median.

[Anonymous No.10557333]

>>10557320
nayrt but i thought you meant before tax. 45k after tax is a dream for me desu

>tfw no rich bf

[Anonymous No.10557337]

>>10557330
>I have a massive inferiority complex
address this and everything else will fall into place

[Anonymous No.10557338]

>>10557333
Oh I do mean after taxes, so total is like $3150 a month plus whatever I make from my job which tends to be an additional $800 a month. So yeah it's almost 4k a month with roughly half being disposable but I use a lot of my money on impulse amazon shit and skincare/makeup I don't need so I don't count most of it towards our monthly income lol. I'm going to start investing my money instead of buying useless amazon crap, though.

[Anonymous No.10557339]

>>10557329
well, i date asians so it's partly a cultural thing. i feel like childfree is more a white people thing because your families don't pressure you so much into grandchildren

[Anonymous No.10557340]

>>10557339
That's fair, I've only ever dated white millennials.

[Anonymous No.10557341]

>>10557339
Every asian guy I’ve dated has had an extreme mother complex

[Anonymous No.10557347]

I want to get into lolita as a male but the stigma is too discouraging. I feel like I would do it justice too because I have a super neotonous face and I'm skinny, the only issue is my height but I think I could work around it.

[Anonymous No.10557348]

How much is too much for a dress you won't wear often? I can afford to exorbitant price, I just feel really damn guilty about it.

[Anonymous No.10557350]

>>10557339
>Letting thousands of years of genetic lineage die out because you want to consume more [product]™
>Nobody will ever care that you lived.
>Your life in its totality is completely inconsequential and for future generations you may as well haven't existed at all
>All because you want to consume more [product]™
How sad.

[Anonymous No.10557351]

>>10556613
Criminalized poverty

[Anonymous No.10557352]

>>10557347
are you going to jerk off to wearing lolita? do you have the look of someone going to or trying to jerk off to wearing lolita? no? then you're probably fine.

[Anonymous No.10557353]

>>10557347
If you aren’t a creep or a sissy there’s no reason to be worried. You’re just gonna have to prove it to people, or only hang around with other men that wear the fashion. Honestly maybe consider NOT pushing your way into spaces for women though

[Anonymous No.10557355]

>>10557350
Who said anything about consuming more product

[Anonymous No.10557356]

>>10557351
AKA
>I did a bad thing because I'm a bad person but I'll blame it on being poor because critical self-reflection is something good people do.

[Anonymous No.10557357]

>>10557355
The primary motivating factor for people not having children is more financial freedom. Everything else is secondary.

[Anonymous No.10557358]

>>10557350
you do know not everyone would make a good parent right? better to not have kids than to abuse, neglect, or abandon them.

also fun fact, asians believe that only men can pass on the family lineage. so a women choosing not to doesn't really matter...

[Anonymous No.10557359]

>>10557357
Maybe for you

[Anonymous No.10557360]

>>10557358
95% of people will be good parents. Humans, like most mammals are physiologically designed to be good parents.

The fact that people think they wouldn't be good parents is evidence of moral thinking which makes them a good parents. The people who wouldn't be good parents never consider that.

>Asians believe in this pseudoscience
Okay.

[Anonymous No.10557361]

>>10557356

There are tons of illegal things that don't make you a bad person for doing. Tons of (especially white) middle class teenage girls shoplift but then grow out of it and every white middle class woman isn't a bad person as an adult. Some people litter which is inconsiderate but not morally some awful thing and if they can't afford a fine they are jailed. It really depends on the specific crime.

Obviously people still have a choice but when there aren't really many or any good options they tend to just take the option that lessens their own suffering or improves their survival short term.

[Anonymous No.10557362]

>>10557359
And the majority of people.

[Anonymous No.10557364]

>>10557360
why are there so many single moms and kids in the foster system if nearly everyone is a good parent?

[Anonymous No.10557365]

>>10557353
No and no. I'd like to be "one of the good ones" I guess.

>Honestly maybe consider NOT pushing your way into spaces for women though
Does showing up to events for my local comm count as this?

[Anonymous No.10557367]

>>10557361
Stealing shit makes you a bad person. Not that you can't grow as a person and understand that what you did as bad. But as an adult you should have grown well out of "I break the law for fun" phase which is what teenagers do. If you won't understand that it's bad to break the law as an adult, you're a bad person.

Literring is morally awful. You are destroying the environment for convenience. Also if you can't pay a fine, most governments offer payment plans. So that's a load of bullshit.

[Anonymous No.10557368]

>>10557364
Post numbers. Saying "so many" doesn't mean anything.

Also the majority of children per capita raised by single mothers have black fathers. And whether you want to admit it or not, there is a severe problem within black culture and fatherlessnes.

[Anonymous No.10557370]

>>10557357
I don't want children because a lot of health issues run in my family and I have a lot of family abuse, trauma, and dysfunction I don't want a future child to be born into the aftermath of. I also don't think I am capable of handling the responsibility of a child ever. Better people who don't want kids avoid them than have them and either stress themselves to death trying to do a good job or do an awful job.

>>10557360
>95% of people will be good parents.
Child abuse/neglect and poverty rates, among other things, say otherwise. Even when some stats say only 1% of children in America for example are reported as being abused, that is still millions of children who would have rather just not been born. Most of the ones abused and neglected are under the age of one or two and many die. If up to 5% of parents are bad parents, that puts even more millions of kids at risk still. It's normal to want kids but it is just as normal for humans to not particularly want them and better for the ones who don't want them not to have them than to have them and not be able or willing to treat them well.

[Anonymous No.10557371]

>>10557350
>Letting thousands of years of genetic lineage die out because you want to consume more [product]™
have brothers/sisters/cousins/relatives that are free to breed if they want to
>Nobody will ever care that you lived.
my family cares? my friends care? my partner?
>Your life in its totality is completely inconsequential and for future generations you may as well haven't existed at all
this may shock you but that's totally a fine thing to have happen
>All because you want to consume more [product]™
there are tons of reasons people don't want children outside of "i want to buy things"
health concerns? inability to? family history of terrible genetics? and what about adoption and fostering?

[Anonymous No.10557373]

>>10557368

Why do you care so much that others don't want to have kids? And why does it matter if the kids who are in foster care are black or not? They are neglected children.

[Anonymous No.10557376]

>>10557367
My point is being in jail doesn't automatically make you a bad person. Does smoking weed make you bad? I hate potheads desu but they don't deserve jailtime for wanting to get high. And doing something morally wrong or making a bad choice doesn't permanently label you as a bad person. You can change. You are not stuck as "bad" because you did something wrong once. Whether or not anons bf is actually a bad human being really depends on the actual crime and the impact it had on others, whether the person feels remorse, and a lot of other things all together. Rape? Yeah objectively a bad person. Recreational drug use? Probably fine. Speeding? A safety hazard to others and really irresponsible and selfish, borderline bad person. Murder? Unless the person eas some sort of child abuser or someone who seriously deserved it, probably a bad person.

[Anonymous No.10557377]

>>10554963
Just wear what you want and ignore your family. Plus, I feel like I see so many women who make themselves look so much older because they go "well I'm 30, time to wear """mature""" clothing" and it just seems to age them more. Women who confidently wear what they like always seem more youthful to me, desu.

[Anonymous No.10557417]

>>10557376
I would argue that smoking pot does make you a bad person. However, I think our definitions of a bad person are different.

I take the Kant definition of morality where an action is defined as moral or immoral based on whether or not everyone doing it would be good or bad.

Yes some individuals might need it for medical purposes, that's fine. But people using it purely recreationally are engaging in slothful behaviour and requiring a drug to enjoy yourself is a dangerous route.

>But Muh alcohol
I hate alcohol too.

[Anonymous No.10557420]

>>10557417
Uh oh the mormons found cgl. Don't you have doorbells to ring?

[Anonymous No.10557446]

>>10557417
>based on whether or not everyone doing it would be good or bad.
>Yes some individuals might need it for medical purposes, that's fine.

So not everyone smoking pot is objectively good OR bad then? Meaning your definition makes no sense because you're making exceptions.

You really wasted no time proving yourself to be horribly wrong.

[Anonymous No.10557469]

>>10557446
>I have no idea what a Kant is
The post.

[Anonymous No.10557477]

>>10557242
Not taking any meds, but i am extremely tired these days. I don't know if it is related.

>>10557253
I'll check this app out, It might help me sleep.

[Anonymous No.10557583]

>>10557417
Kant lived his entire life by the ocean and never saw it because it “wouldn’t have been productive”.
Fuck Kant

[Anonymous No.10557635]

>>10557469

Nayrt but you can know who Kant is and think he's still retarded, ex: >>10557583

Besides no normie gives a shit about moral philosophy unless they watched The Good Place anyway.

[Anonymous No.10557636]

>>10557469
Imagine thinking someone isn't educated on a subject simply because they disagree with the notion that sweeping generalizations are how we should define who is good and bad.

[Anonymous No.10557706]

Sometimes I'm amazed at how small the lolita community actually is considering how quick some shit goes on the market. But really at most a few thousand worldwide probably wear it regularly.

[Anonymous No.10557922]

>>10557706
Check your math, there's WAY more than a "few thousand" lolitas. At least 10-20k, it's mainstream in china after all.