Feels thread

[soup No.10550621]

My cats are doing fine ed.

[Anonymous No.10550623]

Can't wait for this thread to get ruined by incels and femcels arguing again.

[Anonymous No.10550628]

I hate this dogshit weather I can't wear anything nice without melting onto the sidewalk and drenching my bangs. Fuck any and all summer apologists I would die to be able to live in a place with cold weather where I can wear all the nice jackets and dresses I want. I can't wait for autumn and winter when I can wear lolita again

[Anonymous No.10550631]

I got a new spiked collar in the mail, and the leather wasn't as good quality as the pet collars I've bought before. Guess I'll stick to the pet stores on AE.

[Anonymous No.10550646]

mfw I just want to meet people in fandoms and can't cus of covid.

Pic absolutely related.

[Anonymous No.10550682]

>>10550623
Sex work bad

[Anonymous No.10550685]

>>10550623
Well, it is now that you mentioned it you absolute fucking walnut

[Anonymous No.10550708]

>tfw hair is thinning

No please God no. Let me keep my hair.

[Anonymous No.10550710]

i am so lonely every day the fear of being alone like this for many more years stabs me in the heart

[dr. soup No.10550718]

>>10550628
it's winter right now though
>>10550631
are you a cat or dog
>>10550646
join weeb discord servers and meet up irl after you make friends
>>10550708
they have hair products or oils to fix that
>>10550710
get yourself a gf/bf

you done good soup you saved some more lives today

[Anonymous No.10550727]

some times when I'm real sad I like to get real drunk and frankenstein together nightmare coords
any way I hope you fucking hate it

[Anonymous No.10550730]

>>10550718
soup u literally always crack me up ily

[Anonymous No.10550733]

I regret selling my red puppet circus OP and bxn iron gate skirt a few years ago. I’ve have had them for so long, but was in a “These are never the things I reach for, no reason to keep them around”-mood.. I really wish I had saved more pieces from when I started out

[Anonymous No.10550734]

>>10550710
I was there once before, and for a really long time. Try your best to spend time on hobbies and make yourself happy doing what you love. If it works out the same for you as it did for me (and I am a total introvert NEET) you will find someone. Don't give up hope, that just makes it even more crushing to be alone and makes things hopeless.

[Anonymous No.10550892]

The ahegao face masks would fit with pretty much any coord, right?

[Anonymous No.10550940]

My friend came over to my house and we ended up with her trying on some of my dresses. She was wearing one of my most precious AP ones then said she had to go to the bathroom. She took a shit in my AP. She had initially been really interested in the fashion and saying she wanted to borrow things sometimes, I thought it would be fun to have another lolita friend. When she got back fr, the bathroom she elaborated further that she wanted to wear lolita costumes to Halloween, parties, etc. then got pissy when I said I wasn’t comfortable with loaning her my clothes for costumes and parties.
I haven’t worn lolita for a few years but I’m still quite possessive of my clothes and I’m mad that she pooped while wearing one of my dream dresses then wanted to use it to play dress ups at some stupid Halloween party where she’d probably get drunk and spill shit all over it.

[Anonymous No.10550951]

>>10550940
I lost brain cells reading this.

[Anonymous No.10550960]

>>10550940
this has to be a joke. It's your dress, why did you let her do that?

[Anonymous No.10550968]

>finally under 200lb for the first time in too long
>don't know if I want to go full ana for bishonen mode like I want to, or get natty and have huge biceps
>or just go back to eating retarded amounts of food
Whats a man to do

[Anonymous No.10550970]

I just dropped an absurd amount of money on weird bdsm swankiss jackets, cute shit, and AP cutsews. I have never spent this much at once. I’m good after this. I had thrown out my old uggo normie clothes because i realized i want to be jfash and i don’t give a fuck anymore about looking weird since i can work remote anyway. Now I’m excited and crying for my shit to arrive and my 13 year old self’s dreams to come true ;_;

>>10550727
I hate it anon thanks
You made my favorite q pot look horrendous

[Anonymous No.10550975]

>>10550968
just stay squishy and soft and cozy with enough muscle for practical things. comfy strong dad bods are the shit

[Anonymous No.10550987]

>>10550968
why are those your choices

can't you just be a regular average sized dude and have a chill relationship with food? You really gotta be ana chan, ripped, or fat? Sounds disordered my man

[Anonymous No.10550989]

>All my close friends found a new partner in the last weeks even though we're in lockdown
>I still haven't started dating at all, I'm back at my parents in the countryside and I can't go out because of the covid curfew and I still have to find a new flat

I guess that's the proof I'm not trying hard enough.
I hope all that stupid shit is over fast because I'm starting to lose my sanity

[Anonymous No.10551022]

>>10550970
You should live out your 13 year old self's dreams. She's crying, anon. She's saying, "Feed me."

[Anonymous No.10551029]

>>10550987
Supernormal stimuli seeping into body image

[Anonymous No.10551031]

>>10550718
Negative. I am a meat popsicle.

[Anonymous No.10551085]

>>10550628
Where do you live? It's finally getting nice in my area but definitely hot sometimes
>>10550718
Not everybody lives at the same latitude retard

[Anonymous No.10551153]

I want quick money, somebody please convince me not to start an OF because I'm this fucking close and all my friends who have one make it seem so dope

[Anonymous No.10551162]

>>10551153
if you're a lolita, i will find you and i will spam this board with your pathetic lewds.

if you're a cosplayer i couldn't care less but debasing yourself for anything less than six figures is pathetic

[Anonymous No.10551165]

>>10551153
it's not as easy as they're saying, and they're probably just coping.

[Anonymous No.10551168]

>>10550623
I haven't been on this board the last few days, and now it seems like that was a wise decision lmao

[Anonymous No.10551175]

>>10550970
Congrats anon, seems like it makes you super happy
Post what you bought

[Anonymous No.10551183]

>>10551153
pls don't turn this into another camwhore thread

[Anonymous No.10551215]

>>10551175
>>10551022

Thanks anons, yes I am definitely living it up and me and my 13 yr old self is very happy. Here is a collage of the cutest stuff i got <3. Also i told the guy i am seeing about my jfash obsession and he was very supportive. I remember in middle school i tried to be jfash and got made fun of so bad that I stopped, but now I am just doing it. It is a good day

I can’t wait for my poodle comb ;_;
Although now i am not sure if this is jfash exactly but it’s definitely adorable

[Anonymous No.10551218]

>>10551153
If you want quick money, get a part time job. You'll have money in a week or two. There's small shops here hiring all the time, and it's easy to pick up a couple hours here or there.

[Anonymous No.10551220]

>>10551215
That poodle comb would've fit right in back when we had Larme threads. I like the AP hoodie a lot. People will make fun of you no matter what you wear so wear it anyways.

[Anonymous No.10551222]

>>10550970
Don't fret, anon. I spent $2k this week on AP (shopping service orders, etc).

You get one life. Be cute.

[Anonymous No.10551225]

>>10551153
Buy gamestop and dogecoin

[Anonymous No.10551227]

>>10551225
If you’re gonna shill for something retarded at least recommend Chainlink

[Anonymous No.10551275]

>>10551215
Also, in case you're reading that, and going, "'Larme', what?" It's... girlie fashion from the mid to late 2000's. I think you'd like it. There's a bunch of threads in the archives outside of here.

[Anonymous No.10551277]

>>10551215
Some more just because it's totally that comb's vibes in fashion form.

[Anonymous No.10551280]

Hey /cgl/, /fit/ anon here. Sorry about the offtopic.
I'm pretty much happy with my physique except for one thing, my waist is not as small as I would like it to be. It seems to be something genetic so no matter how much I train I can't fix that. I'm thinking about using a corset to reduce my waist, I think this might be the best board to talk about corsets. Do they really work? Should I get a steel boned corset? How many bones should it have?

[Anonymous No.10551281]

>>10550628
> I would die to be able to live in a place with cold weather
move then

[Anonymous No.10551282]

>>10551275
2010's*

[Anonymous No.10551283]

>>10551280
We use to have a corset thread. Unfortunately, it doesn't appear to be up anymore. I cannot tell you as I do not wear them. Try the stupid questions thread because someone there could likely tell you.

[Anonymous No.10551286]

>>10551280
Corsets do not really reduce your waist, it requires intense almost all the time wear to only even temp do so. They are mostly about lllusion

[Anonymous No.10551289]

>>10551286
This is also true. With proper corset training, it will give the illusion of a smaller waist. However, anon is right, if you keep it off for more then a day or two, your waist will go back to the original size.

[Anonymous No.10551291]

>>10551286
>>10551289
neither of these things are true. what corset training does is help you lose weight overall by stopping the amount that your stomach can expand, making you feel full when you eat less. it doesn't do anything to your organs or the shape of your torso or anything. literally nothing.

[Anonymous No.10551293]

>>10551286
Oh damn, I heard that if you use them for like 8 hours a day everyday in a couple of months you could see some changes. Fuck genetic.

[Anonymous No.10551295]

>>10551291
It changes the water distribution, and, yes, it does train your waist if you buy a proper one with steel boning. The effect is pronounced enough that upon removing the corset, the illusion will remain for a short while.

No, it's not a weight loss product. What you're saying is entirely bizarre. It's intended purpose is not gastric bypass.

[Anonymous No.10551298]

>>10551295
You seriously believe this shit? What >>10551291 is basically correct.

[Anonymous No.10551300]

>>10551298
No, they're basically wrong, but I'm not going to argue with people who think corsets are a substitute for gastric bypass because that's a losing battle.

[Anonymous No.10551304]

>>10551300
I'm not fat at all, I'm just not curvy, I have a kinda masculine body type.

[Anonymous No.10551305]

>>10551300
>a substitute for gastric bypass because that's a losing battle.
No one said it is? But that's what they accomplish as far as making you skinnier in the slightest.

[Anonymous No.10551306]

>>10551304
Then you should wear a corset on days you wanna' look like a figure 8.

[Anonymous No.10551307]

>>10551304
Don't talk to anon, she's clearly retarded.

[Anonymous No.10551308]

>>10551305
See >>10551291

[Anonymous No.10551310]

>>10551308
That's not the same as a gastric bypass? Corsets do restrict your stomach a bit, that's just a fact.

[Anonymous No.10551312]

>>10551300
>>10551295
anon, what >>10551291 said is actually correct. if you over-eat while wearing a corset you will puke up your food because there's no space for it. it does make it more difficult to eat the same amount as usual, and will make you feel sick. this isn't the same as gastric bypass in any sense of the word, and the weight loss is a side effect of the tightness, nothing deeper. get over yourself.

[Anonymous No.10551313]

>>10551310
Anon, I have nothing to say to you outside your comprehension is lacking.

[Anonymous No.10551315]

>>10551313
Maybe don't be wrong then? You're the one who is overblowing anon's comment.

[Anonymous No.10551317]

>>10551312
Why can't you just be a healthy weight, and wear a corset for waist training? Why do you have this obsession that everyone who wears a corset is trying to diet.

No, that's terrible, and if you have to wear a corset so you puke after you binge eat because otherwise 'you eat too much', go see a psych about your binge eating before you start wearing corsets.

[Anonymous No.10551319]

>>10551317
You sound really deranged, anon. >>10551280 asked if corsets reduce the size of your waist, and they do, but not magically. >>10551291 Correctly responded that it's by making you eat less because your stomach is restricted (much like they force you to take in less air because your lungs are restricted). You're clearly getting triggered over this. Seek help.

[Anonymous No.10551321]

>>10551319
Oh, right, that's why there's no corset thread anymore. Now, I recall. You people are why.

[Anonymous No.10551322]

>>10551293
>What it can do, however, if you are wearing your corset for many hours a day, including through meal-time, it will act as an external lap band and it will reduce the amount of food that you can intake in any one sitting.

>If you’re somebody who tends to pile up your plate full of food, you will not be able to do that with your custom corsets. It will force you into eating smaller, spaced out meals throughout the day, which can result in weight loss.

>But weight loss is not what corset is designed to do.

that's the only way it would have any lasting effects.

[Anonymous No.10551324]

>>10551321
something is wrong with you, we are just answering anon's question about how to reduce her waist with corsets. you clearly haven't gotten over your ED, sis, take a breather.

[Anonymous No.10551325]

>>10551321
There's no corset thread because they fucking suck and are uncomfortable as fuck so no one wanted to discuss them. Take your meds.

[Anonymous No.10551326]

>>10551322
As I said before, I'm far from fat, I just wanted to be curvy.

[Anonymous No.10551327]

>>10551326
no one gives a shit about your weight, we are just telling you what it literally does.

[Anonymous No.10551339]

i said i wasn't going to buy anymore dresses until i lost weight yet here i am buying three dresses in one go please help
not even secondhand, what's wrong with me

[Anonymous No.10551340]

>>10550975
>comfy strong dad bods are the shit
Sure thing scrote

[Anonymous No.10551341]

>>10550975
I feel like this is just a cope that ugly women and ugly men tell themselves because they can't achieve anything better or their too lazy to improve themselves to aim higher.

[Anonymous No.10551347]

>>10550987
Gotta have a goal. Am I going to just eat nothing and walk around or eat brotein and lift? Can't be both.

[Anonymous No.10551363]

>>10551347
As basically an ana-kun, choose muscle. I don't like being thin but I don't have any appetite. Always get passed over by girls for stronger bigger guys, which is understandable but still sucks.

[Anonymous No.10551365]

>>10551363
Who said anything about girls?

[dr. soup No.10551382]

>>10550730
another satisfied customer nice. it's moments like these that I chose to be a dr.
>>10551085
have you seen my title? you don't get one of those by not being big brain.
>>10551031
don't worry anon I gotchu. we'll find you a gf/bf before this thread auto sages. what hobbies are you currently invested in? do you like girls or boys?

>>10550989
well well well looks like you and the other anon are in luck. are you non vegan and how do you feel about ice cream?

[Anonymous No.10551415]

>>10551341
Oh god no. Its very nice.
My husband is tall and big shoulders he was thin while we were dating much comfier with a bit of chonk on to get a hug from him. I remember lying my head on his lap and being comfy without having to readjust myself as he actually had a small belly. No one enjoys having to cuddle with someone who is all jutting bones and sharp angles.

[Anonymous No.10551419]

>>10551218
Yeah but those require me to be around maskless people because everyone where I live is retarded

>>10551162
So what you're saying is you'd sub to my OF?

[Anonymous No.10551422]

>>10551415
you have shit taste. smol, skinny boys are the best option.

[Anonymous No.10551424]

>>10551321
Yeah I don't understand what all the corset misinformation is coming from? It's gotta be dumbass scrotes that don't like the idea that women can use shapewear to permanently reduce their waist by a few inches - and no, not because of the dumbass "it makes you eat so much less uwu"

[Anonymous No.10551425]

>>10551415
>No one enjoys having to cuddle with someone who is all jutting bones and sharp angles
Sour grapes because you can't get someone who's blood sugar levels aren't yes
>>10551422
Thin but tall is the right combo

[dr. soup No.10551431]

>>10551415
>>10551422
>>10551425
as a doctor it's my diagnosis base on observation is that people have different preferences.

[Anonymous No.10551432]

>>10551431
I have preferences, fatties have leftovers, for the first time in their lives

[Anonymous No.10551433]

>>10551425
What are you smoking? He went from bones jutting out thin to a 36" waist. At 6 foot tall I wouldn't call that fat by any stretch of the imagination.

[Anonymous No.10551436]

>>10551341
>>10551340

I'm just one of those short smaller girls who is really into a big cuddly teddy hear of a partner. Not obese and not jacked but enough muscle to look strong with enough body fat to seem less intimidating. Idk maybe I'm just attracted to the opposite of myself/want to be with someone bigger to make myself feel safe?

[Anonymous No.10551438]

>>10551433
>6 foot
>tall
Scrote please

[Anonymous No.10551439]

>>10551438
6 feet tall is just listing his height, not saying he is horribly tall. But 6 foot is the minimum to be considered kind of tall in the US for most people.

[Anonymous No.10551440]

>>10551436
>trying this hard to justify being attracted to an obeast
I'm sure if you didn't pig out during your 20s you could have found someone decent

[Anonymous No.10551443]

>>10551439
>6 foot
>kind of tall
SCROTE
PLEASE

[Anonymous No.10551445]

>>10551425
delicious short boys are better.

[Anonymous No.10551451]

>>10551440
I'm 5'1 and 102 lbs so perfectly normal for my height but okay lol

[Anonymous No.10551452]

>>10551445
Sorry pedo, I like my men grown

[Anonymous No.10551453]

>>10551445
This sounds like some Lady D coomer fantasy talk and like no real woman wrote it. Only Amazonian tops prefer shorter men.

[Anonymous No.10551454]

>>10551452
Short men don't look like children, creep.

[Anonymous No.10551457]

>>10551451
I'm don't doubt you weighed 102, just not since 2nd grade

[Anonymous No.10551459]

>>10551443
I find manlets kinda gross (they're always way too sexually agressive and overcompensating with small dog syndrome type behavior) but claiming 6 feet isn't taller than average in the US is retarded and sounds like those incels who think they can never please a woman unless their dick is 6.5-9 inches.

[Anonymous No.10551463]

>>10551436
you're probably arguing with incels and/or femcels

Nothing wrong with being attracted to fluffy chubby guys (assuming they're not so fat they are classified as obese, because you really shouldn't be okay with your partner jeopardizing their health so blatantly).

Personally I prefer men that fall within the average range of the BMI spectrum, middle to high end. I also prefer average height men (5'8-5'11ish). Seems like a lot of girls prefer dudes on the extreme ends of the spectrum, which I find kind of odd, but whatever there's nothing wrong with that either.

>>10551438
>>10551443
I'd say 5'11-6 foot is considered kind of tall in the US. Stop being such a rude femcel. I know incels are ruthless about their stupid ass aesthetic standards for women, but that's a fight where fighting fire with fire is just going to give everyone life threatening burns and make the incels even more forcefully misogynistic (and give regular dudes more of a push to subscribe to stupid red pill ideology).

[Anonymous No.10551465]

>>10551457

Nayrt but you sound like an American, is that how much your second graders weigh in burgerland?

[Anonymous No.10551466]

>>10551453
that is what i am...

[Anonymous No.10551468]

>>10551466
by that i mean amazonian top. i'm a big body bitch.

[Anonymous No.10551474]

>>10551463
>I'd say 5'11-6 foot is considered kind of tall in the US
6' is pretty much average.
>>10551465
Not that anon either, I teach in a shitty neighborhood and most of the kids are fucking fat. Rona is making shit worse, remote gym class is no more intensive than wii fit.

[Anonymous No.10551479]

>>10551463
Yeah I have my sort of in my own head preferences but don't think a specific guy is better. My current bf is actually way different than my stereotypical "type"; taller than average but not super tall with big shoulders and slim body, muscular but not as large and fluffy as I thought I preferred. At risk of sounding like a weeby fujo I would say he has one of those bishounen Ouran High School Host club bodies like Mori or Tamaki lol. He and I both gained a bit of weight cause of corona life (me at 102 instead of 98 and him at like 150 instead of 145) but we're still both happy with our bodies and love each other so that's all that matters.

I wish other anons happiness and luck finding good partners and working on their bodies for themselves too!

[Anonymous No.10551480]

>>10551468
Fair point the. I feel like really large women just for some reason gravitate toward manlets. More power to you

[Anonymous No.10551486]

>>10551479
150lb is fluffy? Is he 5'6"?

[Anonymous No.10551490]

>>10551480
Fat girls and short guys are both undesirable, so it makes sense they'd get together.

[Anonymous No.10551492]

>>10551490
Large as in tall, not fat.

[Anonymous No.10551494]

>>10551486
Nah 5'11 but he just carries a good bit of his weight in his belly. He may have gained more weight that he is letting on or willing to tell me which is fine; he's a healthy size and probably way more in shape than me.

[Anonymous No.10551496]

>>10551490
First of all Shrek is Life; I'd fuck drag Shrek.

[Anonymous No.10551499]

>>10551494
Basic bmi math says unless he has zero muscle mass 150 is kind of light to have a belly. He could be gaslighting you.

[Anonymous No.10551503]

>>10551499
He doesn't owe me an explanation for having a bit of a tummy; if he is too insecure to really tell me then that's whatever.

[Anonymous No.10551508]

>>10551503
>needing to lie about your weight to your wife
For the first time in /cgl/ history, it's not the guy who's the fucked up one

[Anonymous No.10551512]

>>10551503
why the fuck would he be insecure about the number? it's not like you can't see it.

[Anonymous No.10551513]

>>10551508
Yeah that's a classic sign of a toxic person. I don't know who hurt her, but she needs to stop.

[Anonymous No.10551515]

>>10551508

how is the girl in this scenario fucked up just because the guy possibly is lying about or just not aware of his actual weight when she doesn't seem to care either way?

[Anonymous No.10551518]

>>10551508
Shut the hell up. I'm not a toxic person. I'm a 5'0" 101lb bundle of joy so back the fuck up or I will claw your fucking eyes out.

[Anonymous No.10551520]

>>10551512
Idk, ana-chans are like that despite being obviously thin. But as >>10551515 said he may just genuinely not know. He hasn't bought new clothes since high school so he may just think his weight is the same too since he still wears the same clothes. He doesn't own a scale so maybe he is guesstimating poorly.

[Anonymous No.10551522]

>>10551518
Jesus

[Anonymous No.10551524]

>>10551518
This is pretty funny but I don't think anyone who knows me would call me a bundle of joy. I'm a really awkward introvert with anyone but close friends who I act like a total crackhead around lol

[Anonymous No.10551526]

>>10551522

>taking the obvious bait post seriously

[Anonymous No.10551532]

>>10551518
Blink blink

(Well anyways I've never known so many 100lb and below ppl in my life but apparently they all live on cgl. Wild.)

[Anonymous No.10551534]

>>10551532
That post (obviously) wasn't me and yeah the lolita community is full of ana-chans and also Asian or other petite women of normal sizes for our height who have liked that the fashion fits us better than normie clothes (or at least it did before IW decided they hate short people, RIP), so why wouldn't more of us exist on a lolita board?

[Anonymous No.10551536]

I just wanted to know if I should get ripped or be bishounen skinny so I can get a bf

[Anonymous No.10551538]

>>10551536
Skinny, twinky bottoms are in high demand.

Actually fuck I just realized so are bara titties...just do what you want.

[Anonymous No.10551543]

>>10551538
I'm not really into bara, except for Dick Gumshoe. Just somethin bout him.

[Anonymous No.10551544]

>>10551543
But if you're anon I responded to the point isn't that you like bara tiddies, it's that other boys WANT bara tiddies

[soup No.10551559]

>>10551536
>>10551538
arent gay dudes normally fit?

[Anonymous No.10551584]

>me trying to get an appointment at AP SF to get some unpopular shit that i want in store
>never been
>first they give me the wrong schedule
>they correct it and then I tell them yes I want to do new time
>no response for 2 days

Why is this so hard ffs i’m just gonna call them geeze

[Anonymous No.10551585]

>>10551544
I'm just talkin bout bara with the fellas
>>10551559
No tard, we like lemon flavoring. Get the stereotype right.

[Anonymous No.10551586]

This thread is already cancerous gr8

[Anonymous No.10551591]

>>10551586
Not my fault these mooorons fall for my bait every single time

[soup No.10551592]

>>10551585
>lemon flavoring
I don't know what that is
>>10551586
what's wrong with it anon? do you need to talk to a dr. about it?

[Anonymous No.10551597]

Since this thread has already been shit up, I share what's on my mind.

My therapist thinks I swinger and start going to sex parties. Should I do it?

[Anonymous No.10551602]

>>10551597
Good question anon. Post the coord/cosplay you're planning to wear to the swinger club, and I'll give you my answer.

Also are you a man or a lady?

[Anonymous No.10551607]

>>10551602
I'm a rough, tough, manly man

[Anonymous No.10551626]

>>10551597
I think you need to find a new therapist.

[Anonymous No.10551629]

I live in a small country which used to have a nice small lolita community but now it’s gone and lolitas only hang out in their own friend groups and organize meets by themselves. I took a break from lolita and now that I’m back it makes me sad that there’s no comm anymore. It’s so lonely to dress up by myself without any lolita friends.

[Anonymous No.10551632]

>>10551629
Same.. Let's suffer together anon

[Anonymous No.10551649]

>tfw I literally haven't met up with anyone since Feb last year
model citizen right?

One month of hard lockdown and this shit would have been over but no, normal "people" cant even handle a week without going out.

[Anonymous No.10551653]

>>10551632
Where is your country located? Maybe we’re from the same country lol

[Anonymous No.10551667]

>>10551653
Europe, and the comm is small enough that we probably know each other if we were active around the same time lol

[Anonymous No.10551669]

>>10551629
It's not like commss can organise anything now since it's against the law to hang out with more than one person. Perhaps it'll be revived once measures are relaxed?

[Anonymous No.10551674]

>>10551669
We don’t have that kind of laws though, but yes I get your point. I hope there’ll be some public lolita events here after covid.

>>10551667
Which part of Europe?

[Anonymous No.10551676]

>>10551649
>laughs in Australian

Sucks to be the literal rest of the world right now.

[Anonymous No.10551678]

>>10551674
Why don't you just say what country you're in

[Anonymous No.10551714]

>>10551559
>tfw I realized Barney Stinson's actor was gay when he got naked for an episode

Not gonna lie though. I wish I looked as good.

[Anonymous No.10551813]

I had stuffed a bag full of accessories so they wouldn't get lost, but of course I forgot where I put them.. found them today, suddenly remebered after 4 years. I am so friggin happy

[Anonymous No.10552040]

I need to get my haircut and it's like medium length on top ( I can pull the front strands to just below my eye) I've always gone to a barber but I just feel like they struggle when my hair starts to get longer and they just don't know how to deal with it.

Would it be better to go to a salon?

[Anonymous No.10552118]

I'm a lolita who bought roughly $100 in Bitcoin in 2010 on a IRC dare.

Last month, I cleaned out my old external hard drive and the Bitcoin I bought is still there.

I still cannot find my dream dress.

[Anonymous No.10552123]

>>10551339
based if brand

[Anonymous No.10552152]

I’ve gained a lot of weight during the plague and now I’m a fatty chan. Skinny by American standards (America is just fat desu) but my AP is getting snug and my tights don’t wanna go over my butt.

[Anonymous No.10552170]

>>10552152
If you're snug in AP or brand tights you're definitely not skinny even by American standards. Maybe "normal/average" but not skinny lol

[Anonymous No.10552171]

>>10552170
Nayrt but she might just be tall

[Anonymous No.10552210]

>>10552118
Prove it

[Anonymous No.10552211]

>tfw you remember the time you called someone baka as an insult
stop hurting yourself brain

[Anonymous No.10552242]

I haven't taken a shit since Wednesday and I really don't want to have to take lax but it's looking like I might just have to. Hoping a cup of coffee will do the trick.

I drink plenty of water and get at least 15-20g of fiber a day, idk wtf.

[soup No.10552265]

>>10552242
I think you're constipated

who puts real flowers on cupcakes? I just ate a fucking flower because I thought it was fake and edible.

[Anonymous No.10552276]

> someone claiming to find 50 million on a hard drive
> someone claiming their therapist is recommending going to swingers parties
> bickering about how fat people are

has cgl always been a dumpster fire

[Anonymous No.10552284]

>>10552118
Literally could put out a wtb for millions. I'm sure you could.

I'l do you one better, I had thosands of the fuckers from 2009. I gave my brother my old computer, cleaned it off first. Bitcoin wallet went on a disk I can't find. Ive had a lot of thoughts about it over the years. Especially after 2017. They were 300 each then. They are 35k each now. Fml.

[Anonymous No.10552294]

Man, I just love lolita

[Anonymous No.10552296]

>>10552171
Yeah I’m 179 cm

[Anonymous No.10552315]

> selling a JSK, set a starting bid (ready to lower if it doesn't sell)
> get a message
> excitement.png

>open it to see someone asking if I can hold it for two weeks
>it's $120

I see what everyone is talking about now with getting messages on auctions

[Anonymous No.10552376]

>>10551629
>>10551653
I wonder why people from small countries are always so hesitant to say what country they're from, as if they think their country is so small someone will recognise them here or something lol

[Anonymous No.10552384]

This is a $140. Someone stop me.

>>10552376
That's how it goes when your country is small.

[Anonymous No.10552393]

>>10552384
Why would we stop you this is a masterpiece

You could even make a vtuber model in the outfit and apply to be gawrgura's plucky stingray sidekick

[Anonymous No.10552394]

>>10552393
kill yourself.

[Anonymous No.10552397]

>>10552394

I'm not the one debating spending $150 on a glorified poncho. Might as well get some simpbuxx out of it.

[Anonymous No.10552406]

>>10552393
>vtuber
Absolutely disgusting.
I don't want the poncho anymore, so thanks for that. Please never reply to any of my posts again. Thank you.

[soup No.10552435]

>>10552393
you just save anon $140 nice. i don't watch vtubers but I seen some funny clips I dunno why those two anons hate vtubers so much

[Anonymous No.10552438]

>>10552406

brittany venti is that u?

[Anonymous No.10552439]

>>10552435
Me either, soup. The english speaking ones are generally cringe but the Japanese ones are amusing in small doses of random clips.

Either way the vtubers themselves are just the talent. The concerning ones are their grody male fans.

[Anonymous No.10552583]

I hate being an AP fag. I just want to be able to get a full set of anything without scalpers

[Anonymous No.10552586]

>dream dress shows up on mercari
>looks good upon initial inspection
>looks at additional images
>absolutely stained to hell

[Anonymous No.10552589]

I'm trying to recover from anorexia, partially bc the physical aspects of being underweight suck, and also I want to go to grad school, but fuck I'm so scared my lolita won't fit anymore

[Anonymous No.10552590]

>>10552589
former bulimic here, just because you recover doesn't mean you have to get fat

[Anonymous No.10552594]

>>10552589
Former anorexic. Your lolita will still fit, you just need to transition your eating and exercising gradually. Then just try to maintain when you are at a healthy weight. I can almost guarantee that as long as you don't start going the nikocado route, your lolita will still fit you just fine.

[Anonymous No.10552595]

>>10552590
I only need to gain 10-15 to be in the "safe" zone but even a bmi of 18.5 seems so scary, and I worry that lolita won't fit? I have on skirt with a waist of 64, and rn mine is 61, but part of me even wonders if this is all worth it for 1 skirt///

[Anonymous No.10552599]

>>10552589
well,anon, you can't live your life this way forever,you'll have to recover eventually but ,like bulimia anon said, the weight difference doesn't have to be huge
just dont go hungry so you can fully enjoy wearing your cute burando ^^ if it only fits you while being a skeletor the fit probably doesn't look that good anyway,just pick some new pieces, there's more to life than this !!1

[Anonymous No.10552606]

I'm so fucking tired of custom fees and dealing with custom people... I hate my country so much, anything outside of europe gets a custom fee if it's value incl. shipping is above 22 euros i hate having to fill out forms all the time and pay for literally nothing

[Anonymous No.10552607]

I'm so fucking tired of custom fees and dealing with custom people... I hate my country so much, anything outside of europe gets a custom fee if it's value incl. shipping is above 23 euros i hate having to fill out forms all the time and pay for literally nothing

[Anonymous No.10552609]

>>10552607
>war flashbacks to that one time bodyline split my order into 4 and my local postal service made me pay a 20eur handling fee four times over

[Anonymous No.10552612]

>>10552609
i'm so sorry that happened to you anon

[Anonymous No.10552636]

whats with the utter lack of good red accessories? i've been looking since halloween for cardigans and socks with zero luck. is it an xmas/v-day thing?

[Anonymous No.10552794]

My feels. Was suppose to be moving to Japan due to SO’s work at the beginning of 2020 but been delayed with the prospective move to this fall or whenever Japan decides reopen their borders for new work visas. Was hoping I’d buy less lolita until the move but I feel like I’ve been spending more than usual cause WFH and sheltering in place. I guess the upside is that all of 2020 was a trash fire so being isolated in Japan during is a blessing in disguise?

[Anonymous No.10552797]

>>10552794
I had a stroke trying to understand that and I still don't

[Anonymous No.10552800]

>>10552797
Was suppose to move to Japan but can’t cause covid and closed borders

[Anonymous No.10552803]

>>10552800
RIP but also Japan isn't that great anon. There are nice things about it but also shit or annoying things too.

[Anonymous No.10552841]

>>10552803
Yeah I know it’s not that great but a change of scenery would be nice if only for a few years. Also taking advantage of the location and exploring other Asian countries too.

[Anonymous No.10552845]

>>10552803
Nayrt

I just want to live in Japan because I don't want to deal with crackheads anymore, I don't want to be constantly begged for money and cigarettes and then abused when I say no, I want to be able to catch public transport without worrying about staring at that one asshole blasting music and looking around to see if anyone is staring so they can start screaming at them, I want to be able to walk around at night without worrying about being mugged, I'd like to feel confident that my things won't get stolen if I just need to leave for a second.

TL;DR: I just want to be able to go outside without worrying a crime will be committed against me.

[Anonymous No.10552852]

>sell 1.5k worth of old lolita stuff I'm not into anymore
>"great, now I can buy new lolita without guilt!"
>think about how I haven't left the house in 11 months
>only ever get dressed for lame ass online meets
>spend it all on doll shit instead
>feel guilt anyways even though it was equally pointless

[Anonymous No.10552916]

>>10552852

All hobbies are pointless, anon. Even if you learned to play the guitar that's just learning how to make noise that isn't annoying.

Take it from Momoko, you're born alone and die alone, so you might as well enjoy doing whatever you like while you can. As long as you still have money squared away for a rainy day, just enjoy your hobbies.

[Anonymous No.10552945]

>>10552845
Honestly do we live in the same city and are we the same person
I have to train my eyes on the ground because if I even glance at a dude in a bad part of town i start gettin catcalled and their friends laugh and yell things at me. I’m so tired of it :(

[Anonymous No.10553010]

I hate selling to lolitas, I hate buying from lolitas, I hate

>Asks for hold, then flake at the last min
>Buy from some bitch on LM, item comes in shitty condition
>Same week

Why are we like this? Are we here just to suffer?

[Anonymous No.10553013]

>>10552845
You do realize that you'll be mocked if you wore lolita on a train or sexually harassed if in normie clothes?

[Anonymous No.10553040]

>>10552852
What dolls anon? I was big into Dollfie Dreams and have a decent collection of pullips (incuding the AP collabs). But dolls are one of the hobbies I let slip after rediscovering my love for lolita and otome-kei, and picking up target shooting as a hobby. My DDs still make me smile though, and I always make sure they're dressed just as nice (if not better) than me.

[Anonymous No.10553041]

>tfw when my dream dress in on LM right now for dirt cheap
>but it's in the wrong colourway

[Anonymous No.10553042]

>>10553041
What dress anon?

[Anonymous No.10553045]

>>10553042
gardening teddy

[Anonymous No.10553061]

>>10553013
I'm not a lolita nor am I a woman. I'm just a man who wants to left alone.

[Anonymous No.10553065]

>>10553061
then move to the middle of nowhere instead of a xenophobic country that will never accept you, despite your commitment to your 12 hours a day job where you become your boss's bitch.

[Anonymous No.10553067]

>>10553065
I would like the benefits of metropolitan life without being harassed every day. Why is it of any concern to you if I want to live in Japan?

[Anonymous No.10553069]

>>10553067
if you don't want people to respond, don't post. this isn't a weeb safe space.

[Anonymous No.10553074]

>>10553010
replace lolitas with americans

[Anonymous No.10553106]

I want to distance socially from lolita, but I have no idea how to make new friends outside the fashion. I'm really tired of most lolitas currently since SJWism took over. Meet someone new, get along irl, add on social media, and then get hit with a barrage of their woke virtue signaling and hating everyone that disagrees with them 1%. It has gotten so much worse since the lockdown, it's like virtue signaling online is the only thing left in these people's lives. You are literally Hitler if you don't asspat black people and men.

I have met a lot of great people from lolita over the years, but this is taking over everything. How do people find friends outside of hobby groups?

[Anonymous No.10553111]

>>10553106
Welcome to the lonelita master race. You probably won't have much luck right now, considering you're locked inside, but just frequent where other people frequent and sooner or later you'll find people you mesh with.

[Anonymous No.10553124]

>>10553106
they have apps for finding friends now, and those work well as long as you are uprfront about who you are. a lot of those sites have weebs on you, but you can become friends with more normie alt girls who will repsect your style too.

[Anonymous No.10553128]

>>10553111
I used to be a lone lolita way back. It was alright, but I really did benefit from comms. They helped me come out of my shell, learn how to speak to people I don't know, organization skills for meets. It's been great, unfortunately, now I feel they are mostly adding negative feelings.

>>10553124
I would love to meet more normie alt girls, or honestly just straight up normie girls at this point. I don't look down on them dressing normal, and I think they might be more chill and accepting. What are some of those friend finder sites?

[Anonymous No.10553141]

>>10553074
Funny. I just had two not as described condition items come from France and Australia.

[Anonymous No.10553147]

>>10553128

Nta but meetup.com. I thought it was ok but I'm biased since I met my fiance there. They will have a lot of interest groups there and while some of them tend to be glorified speed dating groups I know people who have made good friends from there too.

When I was in a coffee shop once too, I saw a group specifically for making friends so maybe you could google search some in your area?

And if you're kind of weeby, I did make really close friends from my pokemon go group that I still keep in touch with. Again due to pandemic and all it might be harder, but coordinating those raids really forces a closeness and you usually end up talking other things with the people involved. They tend to be more my speed than lolitas desu.

[Anonymous No.10553152]

This board used to have decent discussions for cosplay and now it's just femcels and incels arguing with each other all the time.

[Anonymous No.10553153]

>>10553152
Maybe if you're skipping over all the actually useful content. It's very easy to do the opposite and only read the questions and answers and new releases.

[Anonymous No.10553155]

>>10553074
I'm so angry, I turned down two potential buyers for this bitch and then she just ups and flakes

[Anonymous No.10553156]

>>10553153
Yeah useful if you're into lolita. Every top thread is the same crap every single day. I liked this board because I could find cosplay discussion and pictures without it all being stupid tweens shipping their autistic pairings. Now it's all coomer threads and a help thread.

[Anonymous No.10553160]

>>10553156
Blame the coomer crossboarders. The larp threads are still decent though.

[Anonymous No.10553162]

>>10553160
Coomers should be crucified. I hate that every time I try to look up cosplay its a bunch of guys simping for mediocre women who are good at photoshop and makeup. I blame anime for spreading this further with their autistic waifu culture.

[Anonymous No.10553189]

>>10553162
They don't even have to be good at photoshop or makeup, or a girl. They just have to have tits and ass.

[Anonymous No.10553194]

>>10553189
You need to go back

[Anonymous No.10553196]

>>10553194
Are you fucking retarded? They are agreeing with your point. God.

[Anonymous No.10553206]

>>10553189
ew you browse reddit and a sub like dankmeme

[Anonymous No.10553211]

>>10553189
You need to be 18+ to be here

[Anonymous No.10553213]

>>10553194
I don't use reddit, this was just the first example of someone reworking the "she don't even gotta be cute" part of the meme with "she don't even gotta be a girl" on google images. I had seen a better edited one in the past with Astolfo and other traps as the joke but I was too lazy to look all that hard

[Anonymous No.10553224]

>>10552845
Some real dogwhistles here

[Anonymous No.10553226]

>>10553206
>>10553211
what's your issue?

[Anonymous No.10553298]

>>10553152
Only the feels thread unless useless threads knock the good ones out of the catalogue.

[Anonymous No.10553300]

>>10553152
And, hey, adding to that. I miss being able to see more cosplay threads too where people actually posted photos of cosplays of different characters and series. I only use the fashion threads now.

[Anonymous No.10553303]

>>10553069
Literally not what I asked.

[Anonymous No.10553306]

>>10553224
What does this even mean?

[Anonymous No.10553398]

I told my friends i’m into jfash, wore some things i got and they were very supportive if a bit confused on what that was exactly
My other friend told me to give her a heads up if I start dressing gothic lolita so she can prepare her mind, but she is still supportive
I’m very happy currently

[Anonymous No.10553402]

>>10553398
Your friends sound really weird and judgemental

[Anonymous No.10553425]

>>10553398
Seconding >>10553402 your friends sound weird as hell. Are you from a third world country or something?

[Anonymous No.10553426]

>tell my bf to invest in specific crypto cause I had a dream about it where he got a lot of money really easily and quickly
>He listens to me without question bc when I have specific dreams like this they're often accurate predictions of the future
>Just call me Dale Cooper I guess
>Triples his investment in a week, making him a month's worth of pay
>Gonna buy me a moco moco bunnies set

[soup No.10553428]

>>10553426
are you one of those tiktok witches I been hearing about?

[Anonymous No.10553429]

>>10553425
Wait i thought the other anon was trolling.
How are my friends weird as hell? They are happy for me if I’m happy, why is that weird.
My other friend asked me to give her a heads up if I ever dress gothic lolita because before this, i dressed very european-sexy style.
I’m in america in a city you don’t see gothic lolita, not some third world. Y’all need to calm down, some people need time to wrap their minds around stuff

[Anonymous No.10553434]

>>10553428
I'm not a zoomer so no. I'm just vibing, being a witch is a bit too much work. I don't want to invest in crystals and candles and stuff.
Just your friendly local first house Neptune conjunct ascendant spacey psychic dream bitch. Dreaming is free and I don't need supplies for it.

[Anonymous No.10553436]

>>10553429
It's not like you're coming out as gay. It's also weird how you have to announce that you're into jfash.. it's just clothes

[Anonymous No.10553439]

>>10553436
?? Are you projecting anon? I just mentioned I was into jfash while we were talking and they asked me more questions. I’m just being happy that i feel accepted. because I used to be bullied for trying to wear jfash.
i did not make a weird big ass announcement out of it. Even if i did, if my friends didn’t think its weird that i did so, then there’s no issue. Lets all be supportive

[Anonymous No.10553441]

>>10553436
you definitely do have to kind of explain yourself. do you even wear jfash, or do you just have no friends.

[Anonymous No.10553442]

>>10553439
Nayrt but it's weird for someone to tell their friend they have to prepare their mind for her clothes. That's what's striking people as weird.

[Anonymous No.10553443]

>>10553441
Your friends sound aggressively normie. Most I did was be like "wow this style is so neat I'm buying some stuff and am gonna start wearing it!" And theyd be like "cool, can't wait to see your outfits!"

[Anonymous No.10553445]

>>10553443
you realize talking about fashion sense is normal. people who wear western alternative fashions also tall to their friends about it.

[Anonymous No.10553446]

>>10553442
I still don’t understand how that’s weird? I mean jfash,especially gothic lolita is a big change and a bit of a shock to suddenly see your friend wearing when they used to just wear t shirts and shit and never publicly expressed interest in jfash before.
so I get where my friend is coming from.
I mean we can agree to disagree here. My friend didn’t have any bad intent and i don’t feel annoyed at all to give her a heads up, if I ever decide to wear gothic lolita. I mean i don’t have a problem with it at all. and thats what really matters

[Anonymous No.10553467]

>ppl itt freaking about anon's friends and not the actual chuuni with the definitely-happened stock market prediction dreams

[Anonymous No.10553510]

>>10553434
I need to start sacrificing some animals to Odin or some shit.

[Anonymous No.10553525]

Losing my mind over a package I sent via surface mail. Never again! Next time I'll cough up whatever cash for better shipping because this is a goddamned nightmare

[Anonymous No.10553532]

>>10553525
I had a package mailed out from Japan last February when they started to stop all EMS, surface, air, etc and it got to me 3 or 4 months later. So I learned from the start to only go with private carriers cause that's the only way I'll know I'll actually get my shit.

[Anonymous No.10553533]

I really hate the lolita community which makes me really fucking sad cause I want to be in the community so bad.

I sold some dresses, family emergency happened (it was a false alarm) and I refunded everyone since I knew I wouldn't have a time frame to get these dresses mailed off. I was in a rush and didn't explain to them, I just refunded them. Which I know is bad but I didn't have time.

A post was made about me, I received insults, they came up with crazy ass conclusions and just a bunch of other dumb shit. Because of TWO days, it took me TWO fucking days to respond. This shit is just clothing!

When I did respond I was told to maybe explain next time. Like holy fucking shit. What is wrong with people?

[Anonymous No.10553537]

>>10553533
I understand the 'emergency' situation, but honestly, it sounds like an excuse. You have a responsibility to communicate effectively with your buyers even if it's just a note to say: An emergency came up and I can't sell this right now. I'm refunding your money. I'm sorry but I cannot expain at the moment. Thank you so much for your interest and I hope to be able to explain further when I'm at better liberty to do so.

Two days is a long time for silence from a seller- and like it or not, the consequence might often just be negative reviews. As adults, we have to be ready to accept the consequences of our actions. If you can't accept them, anon, then all I can tell you is: too bad. I hope your emergency situation has been sorted.

[Anonymous No.10553538]

I feel so much more depressed than usual these days... I feel so lonely and disconnected from other people even if I AM connected through some Discord servers and some Facebook groups.

I feel like even my EGL servers and interests just aren't cutting it anymore... and I don't know what to do. I feel like I have zero friends anymore, absolutely zero. Nobody close who will just listen and say, I know what you mean. You can talk to me anytime.

I wish my comm was more active online.

[Anonymous No.10553540]

>>10553537
If they don't have time to explain the situation they prolly don't have time to say an emergency came up in the detail that you're suggesting lol.

I do feel like buyers are a bit impatient at times, but if you put in your TOS a time frame and it isn't within that time frame they have a right to be upset tho.

[Anonymous No.10553541]

>>10553538
Have you been in actual isolation? I strongly suggest seeing some people irl for an extended amount of time whether it's family or just one friend.

[Anonymous No.10553543]

>>10553540

I didn't put a time frame in my TOS.

>>10553537
I think it depends on the emergency I was told my 1mo nephew would have to have heart surgery sooner than expected. Luckily he can still wait until later but it's like come on. People aren't even in the right state of mind when hearing stuff like that.

[Anonymous No.10553548]

>>10553543
Nah we know exactly who you are and we were talking about you on here too. Based on your feedback you even had someone on radio silence for a week, not just two days. You had all these people messaging you multiple times. I get family emergencies, but if you can spare the time to refund everyone you can spare two minutes to mention “hi sorry an emergency came up and I cannot ship these items any time soon therefore I need to refund you. we can discuss rebuying once the emergency has passed”. If you can’t take responsibility then you take the L

[soup No.10553550]

>>10553434
can you read my palm?

[Anonymous No.10553554]

>>10553434
>tfw i am a cancer moon psychic dream bitch but i never get money dreams
>just doomer ones
feelsbad

[Anonymous No.10553558]

>>10553426
Damn Dale Cooper please be my bf, I’ll make you cherry pie and damn good coffee anytime

[Anonymous No.10553563]

>>10553548
It was two days, even the OP of the facebook post said it was two days since they got refunded.

One person I honestly forgot to tell her when I would mail it out but that was before the refunds. And when she reached out I responded asap and apologized.

It's not even about taking an L it's about people going crazy over two days, getting a refund and wanting people to think rationally during emergency situations.

I bought from a seller before, she went silent for a week and a half, her dad died. I told her to just ship it out whenever she can.

People acting like they're gonna die over 2 days.

[Anonymous No.10553566]

>>10553533
I bet it was longer than 2 days and you're underrepresenting it in your mind.

It takes less than 1 minute to give someone an update. Less than 60 seconds.

[Anonymous No.10553570]

>>10553566
They got refunded on Thursday and made a post on Saturday.

That's two days, again she even said it in her post she got refunded on Thursday and hadn't heard from me since.

Wow two days with someone dealing with an emergency situation, better freak the fuck out.

[Anonymous No.10553573]

>>10553570
Unless their house was continually on fire for 48 hours straight and they were just standing there screaming at it I don't really care.

[Anonymous No.10553574]

>>10553570
Anon you're going to make yourself look worse/make gulls wary about buying and selling with you if you keep arguing, just drop it. You aren't an evil scammer but buyers have a right to be upset even if posting on fb is excessive, a few anon cgl posts trying to figure out what might be going on aren't crazy.

[Anonymous No.10553584]

>>10553573
Because you're obviously crazy lol.

>>10553574
I honestly didn't see the stuff posted on cgl I don't lurk here often. It was mainly the stuff I saw on facebook calling me a scammer. And I'm really not worried about people not wanting to buy/sell my stuff.

To me all the extra is just crazy, I get them being upset and never said they shouldn't have been. But they messaged me Feb 5th and I responded Feb 7th and people are acting like I didn't respond for a whole week+ or some shit.

[Anonymous No.10553587]

>>10553574
Also why tf you coming to cgl for sympathy? We aren’t going to pat you on the back and tell you it’s okay to not deal with situations like an adult and then whine about your buyers being confused and upset. The community doesn’t want you either, if you’re going to be a whiney baby when you get justly called out. You fucked up, you apologized, move on.

[Anonymous No.10553592]

I really wanted the strawberry-chan OP but when I saw how high the bidding got decided not to jump in at the end. Instead I bought myself some nice, cute strawberry allover print cotton and some good lining material and cute lace and will make my own strawberry dress instead of holding out for something that'll just get pricier. Luckily I enjoy sewing and have made myself some nice old school inspired pieces before so it'll be fun taking a dress I really love and making something of my own inspired by it.

[Anonymous No.10553593]

>>10553587
Sympathy? I came here to complain.

Calling a bunch of pyscho white bitches with zero hobbies crazy isn't being a whiney baby.

Being a whiney baby is getting your money back hassle free and bitching about it and trying to find people's social media.

You also can't talk about what community wants me or not lmao you're on cgl they don't want you either. That's why you gulls here do everything you can to make sure the community and your local comms never figure out who you are lmao.

[Anonymous No.10553637]

>>10553558
Sorry anon I'm a vagina owner and my bf makes me coffee every morning because he's a gem. That's a sweet offer though.

>>10553550
No but if you tell me the exact time and place of your birth I can give you some insight into random areas of your life. I'll post your natal chart here soup senpai

[Anonymous No.10553647]

>>10553593
Maybe write in your diary and not easily out yourself on public forums? You came to complain about being treated unfairly when from the sound of it was valid curiosity and criticism so that sounds whiney af to me. Now you pull the race card for no reason. You're making yourself out to be a right cunt. I imagine no one wants you around irl or online lmao.

[Anonymous No.10553649]

Lolitas trying to get popular on tiktok are so pathetic.

[Anonymous No.10553656]

>>10553593
Lmao behold.

[Anonymous No.10553657]

>>10553649
To be fair are they really lolitas or are they e-thots
Isn’t lolita about femininity and classy modesty and shit, so i’m pretty sure whatever goes on in tiktok sure as hell ain’t that

[Anonymous No.10553660]

>>10553593
>a bunch of pyscho white bitches

God it feels good to get my views about non-whites validated every now and then.

[Anonymous No.10553661]

>>10553660
>feels good to use a handful of shitty people to justify my racism

[Anonymous No.10553662]

>>10553657
>Modesty

Really depends on your definition of modesty. Sure they're not leaving their boobs out but styling yourself as Marie Antoinette is far from modest.

[Anonymous No.10553664]

>>10553661
>Handful

>Looks at every African country
>Looks at every African community in western countries

>Looks at national crime statistics
>13% but 52% of murders
>13% but 90% of interracial violence
>6.5% but 29% of all rape

Yeah I'll keep my views. Thank you.

[Anonymous No.10553688]

>>10553657
I'm referring to actual lolitas who have recently jumped onto the tiktok bandwagon purely for clout

[soup No.10553756]

>>10553637
it's okay I didn't want to post my info so I looked it up myself and it's totally wrong I'm the complete polar opposite.

[Anonymous No.10553766]

>>10553661
why do/cgl/fas have the innate ability to not take obvious bait? or think they can convince racists on anonymous imageboards not to be racist? Is it because of an innate feeling of catharsis caused by pointing out racism, despite the fact, nothing worthwhile will come from it, aside from 2 or more anons replying to a troll?

[Anonymous No.10553804]

>>10553766
There are worse bait posts with far more responses on cgl than that one. Have you not seen some of the coomer bait threads that don't die because of gulls trying to one up scrotes?

[Anonymous No.10553842]

>>10553804
Oh fuck off you stupid whore. You are baiting with misandry all the time and you dare tell others about baiting.

[Anonymous No.10553845]

>>10553842
I think the camgirl lolita bait last thread was some of the best recent bait since it wasn't obviously a scrote from the get go.

[Anonymous No.10553917]

>>10553688
I wouldn’t consider them actual lolitas anymore, like maybe they were before but now who knows. Like you can’t dress classy and then do attention shit on pedo bait tiktok app and think your lifestyle is still classy and lolita.
I just feel they are cosplaying or larping at this point

[Anonymous No.10553931]

>>10553688
>>10553917
>>10553649
I get such bad secondhand embarrassment when I see yet another video of a lolita doing a little frou frou dance about some dumbass SJW thing

[Anonymous No.10553940]

>>10553533
People waited a week for updates and it takes literally less than 5 min to write up an apology and copy/send it to everyone. You brought this upon yourself

[Anonymous No.10554014]

I'm so tired of all these questions lately asking where to get uncommon sizing, high quality, comfortable, amazing stuff for cheap. Like, you can't have huge and uncommon demands then expect to get it cheap. But lately, at least one person a day comes asking the community about it.

Similar tired feelings to people asking questions that are asked 3 times a week and can be found with the most basic and default keywords even in the (horrible) FB search engine. At least try man...

[Anonymous No.10554027]

>>10550970
>i don’t give a fuck anymore about looking weird since i can work remote anyway
I hope for you this stays true after Covid, else you might end up having to spend a lot on new normie clothes because of a moment of impulsive happiness.

[Anonymous No.10554030]

>>10551218
It's not that easy everywhere. I've been applying af every store since I lost my job months ago, but they all think I'm too expensive with my minimum wage due to my age. Yet I'm still in uni so I can't work anywhere that requires you to have finished studying, which is almost all places that hire people my age. Also,. Not delayed in uni, it's just that horribly in between where no one wants you unless they want cheap educated part time people, which is super rare here.

[Anonymous No.10554031]

>>10554027
Thanks anon, no worries it will be alright!

I’m finishing my degree in programming in a few months and that was among the remote jobs even before the pandemic.
Plus, i also am way more confident in myself now after covid soul searching. half of my new wardrobe is flexible stuff that i can dress up to be jfash or dress down for work, and the other half is cupcake otome :) it is not as impulse buy as i made it sound

[Anonymous No.10554043]

>>10554031
fellow programming STEMlita with a year of school to go - my "real" job is remote right now but even if it wasn't they let me wear whatever I want as long as it's not like outwardly obscene.

[Anonymous No.10554044]

>>10554027
nayrt but some people have jobs that were remote pre-pandemic and will remain remote after (like myself). I just need one or two business casual normie outfits for pitch calls or in person career conferences with people outside the company once the pandemic is over but otherwise I can do everything in lolita or literal pajamas and I just get compliments from all my coworkers about how cute I look every day. It's great.

[Anonymous No.10554047]

>>10554043
if you're a student ofc your real job lets you wear whatever you like

in the real world, even in stem, when you go to the office (assuming you work for a respectable company and not some garage game dev) you cannot wear lolita. i'm hoping remote employment stays after the 'vid because i don't feel like digging my blazers out the back of my closet

[Anonymous No.10554054]

>>10554047
>in the real world, even in stem, when you go to the office you cannot wear lolita
and I'm telling you that I can and that work is ok with it, sorry your job sucks and makes you wear stuffy office clothes though.

[Anonymous No.10554055]

>>10554047
Eh, not completely true. Devs of both genders often wear jeans and t-shirts even in an otherwise business casual or relaxed environment (maybe because they're really useful at something only those with their skillset are good at or understand well they get away with it if they aren't supposed to be I guess), lolita and jfashion is less casual than that, so really a dev would be dressed up at work showing up in lolita.

[Anonymous No.10554057]

>>10554054
>your job sucks
i work for a multinational firm and make six figures my first few months out of school, so no it doesn't suck. i was just making a point that that's not the norm.

[Anonymous No.10554060]

>>10554057
your job sucks in that you have to wear clothes you don't want to wear

I had 3 job offers and none of them had a dress code because yeah like >>10554055 said most people wear jeans and tshirts so in comparison I actually look fairly nice and presentable

[Anonymous No.10554062]

>>10554060
i'm assuming your job isn't client-facing, unlike mine.

[Anonymous No.10554085]

>>10554062
So you're claiming the real world is always client facing.
I also work in STEM and my boss literally wears sweatpants.

[Anonymous No.10554087]

>>10554085
two completely different posts? by "real world" i meant not virtual. idg why people are getting defensive lol

[Anonymous No.10554090]

I just want an actual gothic gothic lolita community, everything is sweet focused only and even thinking about having around ppl who used to browse vampire freaks is despairing me.

[Anonymous No.10554091]

This week I was supposed to be planning to go to Katsucon but it got canceled. I miss doing my traditional road trip to that con. I wouldn't be surprised if people still booked hotel rooms for con parties.

[Anonymous No.10554096]

>>10554087
Everyone on /cgl/ will take any post as a personal attack because gulls apply tone to everything. Honestly worst board when it comes to discussions.

[Anonymous No.10554099]

>>10554096
>gulls apply tone to everything
like you’re doing?

[Anonymous No.10554103]

>>10554090
Goth subculture is dead.

[Anonymous No.10554106]

>>10554099
Case in point.

[Anonymous No.10554143]

>>10554087
I just don't get why when I said the job that I work at allows me to wear lolita that you, who does not even know my workplace or job designation, said "no they don't"
do you not realize how silly of a reply that was? that you somehow know my work dress code better than I, the actual employee?

[Anonymous No.10554268]

>>10554143
that's not at all what i said though. are you esl?

[Anonymous No.10554289]

>>10554268
Nayrt but are you? You came off incredibly condescending and assumed that every stem office job has the same dress code

[Anonymous No.10554402]

>>10554090
>browse vampire freaks
If you want to reconnect with anyone on there lemme know, I've got the leaked database. I can search emails on there too if that's something you're into.

[Anonymous No.10554511]

Saw my DD pop up on fril in it's JSK form, its ridiculously expensive and have sent off $1000. I hope From Japan can actually get the bidding price I'm requesting, or else I'm going to short a grand with a DD I may not fit in.

[Anonymous No.10554524]

I found a dress I've been wanting forever, the price is fine...I scroll down, the seller is a smoker. I'd happily pay the listing price for the dress in good condition but not for one that smells like an ashtray. Back to the drawing board.

[Anonymous No.10554537]

>>10552800
Me too. Got a workplace set up for me already, but due to loosing my job because of corvid and closed borders it's likely not possible anymore. It makes me sad because I've been preparing for years already.

[Anonymous No.10554580]

>can't concentrate on uni
>avoid readings and assignments
>surf second hand sites
>add to cart
>add to cart
>add to cart
>feel guilty
>feel like I'm not doing enough
>try and force myself to study
>rinse and repeat

[Anonymous No.10554618]

I'm 23 and have never worn makeup my whole life because I've always thought I've never had to, but seeing the amazing looks people come up with makes me a bit jealous, and I think it's pretty necessary for a coord unless I want to keep blocking out my face in pics forever. I have some basic products like foundation, eyeliner, concealer, a couple eyeshadow palettes, mascara, falsies, blush, highlighter, and a couple different lip tints and glosses, but it's so difficult and I feel discouraged because most women have been doing this since they were teenagers and most of my attempts are mediocre at best, and laugh worthy at worst. I'm going to keep trying but I'm afraid I'll never get better at it.

[Anonymous No.10554624]

>>10554618

I started makeup for cosplay when I was 20 ish? It takes time and practice and looking back it took years for me. But I think it will be faster for you because there are so many more tutorials around than when I started our. I'd start with something more comfortable for yourself that isn't as glam, but still a look that you like, then work up from there. The kawaii patteen tutorials by Misako and co are pretty basic, but give a basic cute look. I'd also look at korean tutorials as those tend to be simpler and not revolve around layering which can make you look cakey.

And on the other hand I honestly think makeup isn't that important especially for styles like toned down classic and old school. But it sounds like you want to learn and I don't want to discourage that.

[Anonymous No.10554625]

>>10554624

Sorry I meant to say I started out with cosplay makeup before I went into lolita. It was a pretty different landscape back then and since I was asian I felt like it took even longer because I only had Japanese magazines and a few youtubers who did only certain styles of makeup, vs now.

[Anonymous No.10554637]

>order on aliexpress in early jan
>package has been in customs for 2 weeks
>wanted it for valentines
>get every other order but that one
why am i so unlucky!

[Anonymous No.10554647]

>>10554637
my tracking literally just updated to say it will be here friday. the feels thread is truly blessed!

[Anonymous No.10554651]

I wish there was more cosplay discussion on the cosplay board. Instead lolita has swallowed the board.

[Anonymous No.10554653]

>>10554651
there's no cosplay related anything going on. no one is building anything or doing photos or going to cons. lolitas are only still active because 80% of their activity is instagram posts.

[Anonymous No.10554660]

>>10554654
new thread

[Anonymous No.10554870]

>>10554580
https://pomofocus.io/

First break down your assignment into major parts, then break each major part into minor parts. Depending on how large the assignment is or material you need to learn is will change how many parts there are.

Use the timer, work for 15-30 minutes depending on how strong your focus is, when the timer goes off, have. 5 minute break. Make sure you get up and get away from your desk, preferably not in the same room or at least so you can't see it. Do this cycle 3-5 times. Then you have a 30 minute break. Repeat until your work is done. Have a goal to complete a minor part each 15-30 minute timer and a major part every 3-5 cycles.

This helps not only relieve that procrastination but gives you rules to follow, so you can't just fool yourself into thinking "Yeah I've done so much work, let me browse for 6 hours." It also improves your focus, you might start only being able to focus for 15 minutes but you will be able to focus for longer and longer after a while.

Helped me massively.

[Anonymous No.10561260]

>>10554870
Nyart, but thank you so much anon, this will save my life - I’m in a similar situation

Good luck to >>10554580 !! Cheering for you.