Feels thread

[soup No.10547934]

yoinking op to remind this anon >>10547908 to keep lolita related feels to a minimum. you frill seekers already have 100 threads related to lolita. pls be considerate for your fellow gulls and post other kinds of feels.

[Anonymous No.10547936]

>>10547934
I'm a lolita and I agree. 99% of lolita feels could just be posted in the general.

Anyway cosplay is for narcissistic whores.

[Anonymous No.10547937]

>>10547934
>post off topic feels

People already do that in every feels thread

[soup No.10547942]

>>10547936
>>10547937
that’s not how you’re suppose to respond...
I’m feeling brain dead rn so I’m gonna sleep but anyways I been thinking about stuff and if I was a gamer girl my ign would be soupuwu like the car heh

[Anonymous No.10547951]

>>10547934
but if I wear Lolita Fashion, what kind of relevant to cgl feels would I have besides the lolita-related ones?

I'll post a most general one that: good quality fabrics are so expensive nowadays, it's been a hassle to find the fabric patterns I want since I cannot go outside and browse physical stores like I used to do.

[Anonymous No.10547987]

>>10547951
don't talk to soup. he has terminal brain damage.

[Anonymous No.10548000]

>>10547987
AKA autism

[Anonymous No.10548005]

I tried to squeeze in a shoe order from Taobao before the big vacation in China and it's been stuck on purchasing for a week now. I played myself. I fear they'll never see the light of day again.

[Anonymous No.10548008]

This is new, and,Fun, check it out


https://youtu.be/TDMwjT4e3XM

[Anonymous No.10548029]

>>10547987
Ah sorry, didn't notice it was him the OP

[Anonymous No.10548109]

>>10547934
I finally get to a point in my life where I have disposable income to spend on attending cons and not be on struggle life then covid cancels them.

[Anonymous No.10548121]

>>10547934
one of my DDs has been listed on LM but I don't want to get emotionally invested because the person is open to a trade of one of their DDs instead and I don't want to be highest bidder when someone hits BIN to trade...

[Anonymous No.10548124]

>>10547934
I wish I had a somewhat conservative j-fashion friend or at least someone not super woke or toxic levels of liberal. I don’t want someone to talk politics with, I just want someone to agree that what’s going on in our communities is crazy and get back to talking about clothes, dressing up, and having fun. I know it sounds snowflakey, but I just wanted j-fashion to be one of the things free from virtue signaling and cancel culture. I understand that’s selfish of me but I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels that way.

I realize that I could just be a loner and be done with it, but I’ve made close friends in my community. But they have no idea what I really think and I don’t make that clear to them because I know for a fact I’ll get dropped or get treated differently. Sometimes I wonder if I should just let them have it and let them cancel me so I can just do my own thing in peace

[Anonymous No.10548125]

>>10548124
>I don’t want someone to talk politics with, I just want someone to agree that what’s going on in our communities is crazy

If you don't want to talk politics then don't address this shit at all and just talk about the dresses with the friends you do have.

[Anonymous No.10548128]

>>10548121
cough up the 1k then anon

[Anonymous No.10548130]

>>10548128
I would but I just spent $1200 on down payments for my new apartment because I was tired of living in an increasingly dangerous neighborhood in my city and just dealt with an awful break in...the price I pay for general safety is missing out on my burando because of poor timing

[Anonymous No.10548132]

>>10548130
maybe message them and work out a payment plan for 1k? Or just be OK with the idea of not getting it.

I'm a big AP strawberry dress collector, and while this one isn't one I'm looking for (I am printfag), it's the first time I'm seeing it pop up for sale so I'm excited to watch the auction process.

[Anonymous No.10548133]

>>10548128
Nayrt but it just sold for $200 last year; it isn't worth $1k and the seller admitted they put it in there for trades lol

[Anonymous No.10548134]

>>10548125
That’s my issue anon, the friends I do have don’t want to talk about clothes anymore, they want to talk about drama and politics. I understand that it’s important to them and it’s been a struggle though.

For example, when something gets brought up, I just say “hey honestly I don’t want to talk about politics, it’s not something I’m comfortable with” and I get left on read for a week or until something new happens. Or another time where it happens I’ll say “hey let’s talk about something else, I think this has been discussed to death already” and they hit me with the “oh well you should care about it this, this is important to you!” and I’m like ah...not every person wants to discuss things with you that you don’t experience, can we talk about clothes lol...but to be fair it happens with friends who’re the same ethnicity as me. Not being performative is seen as a really bad thing

[Anonymous No.10548135]

>>10548132

It has popped up once a year since 2019. The other two times it sold it was pretty cheap considering old school was/is still trending

[Anonymous No.10548136]

I think this might save someone, some feels when trying to find stuff on jp sites. I have collected this with some amount of stress and hope it helps someone else:

innocent world イノセントワールド
Mary Magdalene(メアリー マグダレン)
ATELIER PIERROT (アトリエ ピエロ)
ALICE and the PIRATES(アリパイ)
Victorian maiden (ヴィクトリアン メイデン)
metamorphose (メタモルフォーゼ)
EXCENTRIQUE(エクサントリーク)
Angelic Pretty メアリー マグダレン
Baby the stars shine bright ザ スターズ シャイン ブライト
PINK HOUSE ピンクハウス (
Moi meme moitié モワメームモワティエ
Leur getter ルルゲッタ
Emily temple cute エミリーテンプルキュート
Ank rouge アンクルージュ (Ank Rouge)
Fint フィント (F i.n.t)
Swankiss スワン キス
Honey cinnamon ハニーシナモン

[Anonymous No.10548138]

>>10548134
Maybe instead of saying "let's talk about something different", you could try bringing up the subject you want to discuss directly? Like "hey this new AP cutsew OP is cute, what do you think of how they've been using this design a lot on new releases?" or "When do you think the Candy Fairy MTO will come out?"

[Anonymous No.10548140]

>>10548136
your angelic pretty reads mary magdalene, i'd correct it but i don't have nipponese keyboard installed on this pc

[Anonymous No.10548143]

>>10548140
Oops, corrected it and also added jane marple! I will learn japanese someday soon:

innocent world イノセントワールド
Mary Magdalene(メアリー マグダレン)
ATELIER PIERROT (アトリエ ピエロ)
ALICE and the PIRATES(アリパイ)
Victorian maiden (ヴィクトリアン メイデン)
metamorphose (メタモルフォーゼ)
EXCENTRIQUE(エクサントリーク)
Angelic Pretty アンジェリック プリティ
Baby the stars shine bright ザ スターズ シャイン ブライト
PINK HOUSE ピンクハウス (
Moi meme moitié モワメームモワティエ
Jane Marple ジェーン マープル
Leur getter ルルゲッタ
Emily temple cute エミリーテンプルキュート
Ank rouge アンクルージュ (Ank Rouge)
Fint フィント (F i.n.t)
Swankiss スワン キス
Honey cinnamon ハニーシナモン

[Anonymous No.10548146]

>>10548138
Oh yeah that’s a great idea! I’ll try that, thanks. I’m also thinking of finding friends outside in the community just to have a change of pace

[Anonymous No.10548148]

>>10548146
***of, not in sorry lol autocorrect

[Anonymous No.10548149]

>>10548143
Good idea anon! Here's another one
Juliette et Justine (ジュリエット エ ジュスティーヌ)

[Anonymous No.10548150]

>>10548128
Nayrt but if I get that stimmy this month I'll cough up the 1k if she won't

[Anonymous No.10548166]

I hate being fat and ugly

[Anonymous No.10548202]

Just got my first AP dress but I have no bag to match it with because all my shit is red and/or strawberry themed, fuck. Where are my pink and white bags

[soup No.10548321]

>>10547987
>>10548000
pls refrain from using racial slurs. I have an autistic niece therefore know the struggles an autistic person goes thru so I’m allowed to call ppl autistic. you anons on the other hand...

>whole thread is lolita related feels

[Anonymous No.10548354]

>>10548321
my bf is autistic. next.

[Anonymous No.10548355]

I desperately want a friend or two that are into lolita...but with corona and my anxiety and my gf being weird and jealous any time I mention trying to make friends that are girls, I'm having a really hard time even figuring out where to start, or if I even should try. I mean I guess I don't mind the lonelita life so far, but I've always dreamt of having a friend to share this fashion with and now I'm worried it'll never happen.

[Anonymous No.10548360]

>>10548355
Probably you should start with the gf problem first
Doesn’t sound very healthy. She has jealousy issues if she’s weird about even online friendship and i bet she does some other things that cause you to feel depressed

[Anonymous No.10548370]

>tfw it's 12am but you're motivated to learn how to type properly

[Anonymous No.10548377]

>>10548360
yeah obviously she has an issue but I really don't know what to do. maybe just make some friends anyway to show her she has nothing to worry about? we've been together for 7 years so I don't know why she is being this way all of a sudden.
sometimes she does do shit that makes me depressed but never anything controlling like this. it's so weird.

[Anonymous No.10548409]

>>10548377
This is a her problem. it’s not on you to bend over and be depressed and lonely just to make her feel better and like she has ‘nothing to worry about’. I mean, be transparent but don’t let her go through your phone or interrogate you.
What does she do for you exactly? Is she trying on her own and getting help for her jealousy issues? Who knows why she’s acting this way. People change. Maybe she thinks she has you by the balls so now she can be toxic to you like she always was deep down.
Do what makes you happy. Go ahead and make friends. She will probably guilt trip you or mope around and get upset.

You are like a wilting sad flower. If you let her trample on you, you’ll just become a shell of yourself. relationships should make you feel strong and happy. I don’t know if the one you have is.

[Anonymous No.10548413]

>>10548125
People have been getting torn a new one on social media for the past year for "not doing enough"

"Just not talking about it" doesn't really work anymore.

[Anonymous No.10548416]

>>10548413
This person said they at worst get left on read if they don't want to talk about things, please don't bring all the whining into this thread from the comm thread. They already got some advice for how to approach driving the conversation in a direction they can enjoy and seemed receptive to it, no need to start all the complaining.

[Anonymous No.10548417]

>>10548416
>being realistic is complaining

[Anonymous No.10548419]

>>10548417
Idk how you are implying I'm not being realistic when I am going off the fact that we can literally see anon's specific situation as they have described it and people have offered solutions back and forth.

[Anonymous No.10548424]

>>10548416
>>10548417
>>10548419
go to the other thread, cunts.

[Anonymous No.10548428]

>>10548124
I feel you anon. Shit is rough.

[Anonymous No.10548464]

>>10548409
100% this. Not trying to armchair but controlling behavior usually comes from insecurity about something. Might be worthwhile to have a heart to heart about what you two want out of the relationship. Good luck!

[Anonymous No.10548469]

I am literally so anxious and lonely and panicked, I'm not sure how much longer I can keep going like this. I've been on different med trials for over a year now and nothing has given me substantial improvement. I'm perpetually exhausted from my job and feeling miserable all the time, and now more shit got dredged up by my past and I'm at my breaking point.

cosplay related in that the thing that got dredged up was an abuser who was in the cos comm from a while back

[Anonymous No.10548475]

>>10548469
Damn anon I’m sorry you’re going through this rn. I hope you feel better soon

[Anonymous No.10548497]

I feel so exhausted. I have a chronic mental ilness and it takes out so much of my energy, its like a parasite I must fight but would never be able to kill. I depend on my drugs so much, whenever I stop taking them for a couple of days, my ilness hits me hard. And also I realised recently, that during my darkest time I actually had a delusion. It just wasn't bizzare like believing in aliens that can control my mind but It still was illogical and obviously untrue. However I believed it to be completely sane and that it makes sense. And I'm afraid if I have some kind of delusion again I won't be able to tell that it's something fucked up.

[Anonymous No.10548505]

>>10548409
ayrt, yeah the reason I don't know what to do is cause this really seems like something I can't help her with. I've been telling her for months she needs therapy (for this and other reasons) but she won't do her own research to find a therapist and I refuse to do it for her. she's never tried to guilt trip me before or anything like that, she's usually very straightforward, so I'll know for sure something is off if pity parties and guilt tripping start after I start making friends again..thanks anon you've pretty much helped me make up my mind to try and make some friends regardless of her issues.

>>10548464
thats a good suggestion but sadly we have already had a few serious "where is this relationship going" conversations lately and while they've mostly gone well, any time I approach her new jealous remarks she just waves it off as hormones, or bad moods, or whatever. but I think if it was something like that it wouldn't always explicity be jealously related to me wanting to make lolita friends. it really is probably something in her that is insecure and I just hope she tells me what's up so I can help or she gets over whatever it is on her own.

[Anonymous No.10548511]

>>10548469
>want cons to come back
>but when they do ill have a high schance of running into my abuser at some point

I feel your pain anon.

[Anonymous No.10548528]

>>10548124

Those people aren’t your real friends, anon. That said, if you are open to being friends with a straight guy that regularly trolls this board, I’d be interested to get to know you. I enjoy J-fashion, which is why I originally came here a decade ago, but it is naturally impossible to talk about with anybody (either on this board or off of it.) They would think I was gay or something.

[Anonymous No.10548535]

>>10548124
It it tough. People love to argue and talk about stuff to get people going. If u ever wanna chat, just reply to this and I'll give u my discord or something. I'm a sweet/classic lolita, in the fashion for like 4 years, I like to talk about animals, food, and lolita.

[Anonymous No.10548538]

>>10548124
post in the friend finder, or talk to anons trying to reach out. i found my boyfriend from these threads, and he's not super woke or super conservative.

[Anonymous No.10548551]

I'm tired of seeing naked lady bodies everywhere. This sounds stupid and I'm sure I'm the only person in the world who feels this way but damn I'm tired of lazy character designs that are just boobs, and the fact cosplay only gets attention if it's boobs, and streamers with huge followings are boobs, and half of character fanart is boobs. Boobs. Boobs. Boobs. I'm so tired of looking at boobs.

[soup No.10548627]

>>10548354
does your bf play valorant? I'm trying to start an esport team with only autistic ppl for autism awareness

[Anonymous No.10548636]

>>10548528
>>10548535
>>10548538
Thanks, I wasn’t expecting this much support but y’all are great. Super appreciated! My discord is empty -w-#3359 lol

I have a boyfriend, he’s really supportive but he’s not interested in j-fashion. He doesn’t mind listening to me go on about clothes and tea so that’s a plus. I’m gonna take your advice though anons, and post in the friend finder thread. Thanks again!

[Anonymous No.10548665]

Do a lot of buff dudes wear Sailor Moon-like skirt outfits to cons?
I wanna go in a skirt and take a pic with a bunch of other dudes in skirts

[Anonymous No.10548691]

>was really into lolita when i was 15-16 but could never wear anything beyond shitty aliexpress stuff cause poor teen
>finally getting back into it as an adult with an actual good paying job
>missed out on this release by inches

FUCKKKKK I'M GONNA GET SCALPED SO BAD

[Anonymous No.10548693]

>>10548691
You still have a chance for the AP USA drop, though the website will probably crash again.

[Anonymous No.10548698]

I’m in process of purchasing some really scalped piece. Honestly spending money makes me feel so deeply upset, like really much. Even though the item is really cute, I might not wear it at all because I feel stupid about wearing lolita.

[Anonymous No.10548712]

>With the current state of the Rorona epidemy, nobody expect any cons to open this summer, and so far no cons is planning to open.
Ahaha
I'm so sad holy shit

[Anonymous No.10548713]

>>10548691
This literally looks like diy YouTube shit

[Anonymous No.10548715]

>>10548166
Eat less. You can at least just be ugly.

[Anonymous No.10548716]

>>10548691
still poor taste i see

[Anonymous No.10548719]

>>10548713
>>10548716
you aren't wrong but i can atleast buy all the shitty brand i want now

[Anonymous No.10548722]

>tfw get an internship when I've been working a shitty customer facing retail job since I was 13

The enivronments are just worlds apart.
>Nice office
>Quiet and peaceful
>Everyone is very diplomatic and soft spoken
>No one expects the impossible
>Everyone gives their best
>Free to ask what I need to and take the time to learn
>Have all the resources to do my job properly
>Wear basically whatever you want within reason
>Get to go to lunch whenver you want
>Pick your starting and finishing times
>Can go to the bathroom whenever I want
>Rewarded for finishing work ahead of time and with good quality
>Still have 5-6 hours of energy left after finishing.

People who work in offices and bitch about being tired then come into retail shops to take out their anger on employees can go fuck themselves. I would be absolutely ragged after a retail shift and be in physical pain from standing up for 10-11 hours and then add on the hour walk from home and the hour back home.

Being in an office is so damn easy. I'm not stuck in a hellhole full of lazy staff, rude entitled customers, lifelong failure managers, being fucked over constantly by understaffing then being told I still need to do everything I would do with a full-team so slowly it can become the new norm, being rewarded for a good work ethic with other people's work because they're lazy, getting disciplined when I decide I'm going to be as lazy as everyone else, getting death glares for needing to use the bathroom, tolerating being spoken to like I'm an idiot, constant loud noise (music, chatter, children screaming, machines beeping, alarms going off, etc).

Honestly, I really resent my parents for making me work as a kid. We were not poor so it's was totally viable for me to not have to work and focus on my studies. But of course, for some reason, middle class families are obsessed with teaching kids "the value of a dollar" and send them off to be abused.

[Anonymous No.10548724]

>>10548716
>sold out
>poor taste
Pick one

[Anonymous No.10548726]

>>10548722
In addition:

Having to work in a horrible retail job when I was constantly abused by the general public and by managers really did a number on my mental health. I actively dreaded going to work and would deliberately prepare myself to throw up during the first hour just to be sent home and I still have anxiety going into those shops. I could have accomplished so much more if I didn't have to do some shitty job because "muh dollar, muh value." Like being abused makes you value money more, just made me hate it Wouldn't have to worry about the value of a dollar if I had the time to study to become a doctor like I wanted.

I will never make my children work. Fuck that. Their job will be to study and get good grades. Working such a shit job for so long because I was forced to by my parents has made me absolutely hate people, I am hostile towards everyone who tries to get close, I am constantly suspicious of others, I am very combative and defensive, I have low social skills because whilst all my friends in school were out doing regular kid things like getting girlfriends, hanging out, skateboarding, etc. I was working some shit job that I'd come home exhausted from just to have to do schoolwork late into the night to keep my grades up. Ended up self-harming everyday for 2 years just to keep my stress level under control. Completely socially withdrew myself and just barely scraped by into my second choice of degree of engineering, medicine being my first.

Fuck anybody that thinks making their child work for absolutely no pay will teach them anything other than how much they can hate other people. There's a reason that asian tiger parents don't make their children work yet somehow their children come out as good people and great work ethics despite never having learned "the value of a dollar."

Please don't put them through that.

/rant

[Anonymous No.10548738]

>>10548726
Sorry you had such a bad time anon. My “value of a dollar” job was waitressing at a nice family owned restaurant and I enjoyed it. It also helps me understand some parts of my current office job better now because it’s related to food systems. I’d never make my kids put out for minimum wage from a corporation like you did, but working for a small business when you’re young can be good experience, and having pocket money as a teen gives you a lot of freedom.

As for my sister, she’s a lot smarter than me and has been making $30/hr at academic internships since she was 16. So there’s that route too.

[Anonymous No.10548741]

>mfw I keep buying my dream print but in my not dream cut
>so I have like 10 different cuts of my dream print to compensate for not having my dream print and cut

It's a problem. And I just bought another one of them.

[Anonymous No.10548743]

>>10548741
what dream dress, anon? Think on the bright side, even if it's not your dream cut, you probably now have enough blouses, socks, accessories etc to go with it and ways to coord it, so eventually when you get your dream cut, you'll be able to coord it in various ways

[Anonymous No.10548748]

>>10548712
2022, right guys? Hahaha...

[Anonymous No.10548750]

>>10548738
Yeah I think working for a massive national retail business where your treated as a dispensable cog was really horrible but I did also work at a family run fish and chip shop, which was equally as horrible and I'd scrub dishes until my hands were raw, bleeding and burnt from chemicals, only to be constantly screwed out of my pay by my boss. But I would tell my parents about how awful it was, that I just wanted to study and not work in retail hell and they'd just tell me it can't be that bad and that the real world is much worse.

I plan to give my children a substantial allowance in exchange for good grades and chores. So they still have the freedom of buying their own things and have understanding about what things cost but without exposing them to situations their emotional and underdeveloped teenage brains can't handle and giving them the best chance to succeed where it really matters.

I'm just extraordinarily bitter about having been told for years about how hard and cruel the "real world" is and to basically shut up beacuse everyone has it hard. Slaving my guts out to afford the basic ability to house and feed myself and do well in university because my parents also believed in the whole kicking your kid out of home once they finish highschool and severing financial help meme aswell; all the while having ideas in my head that things will only get worse when I get a 'real' job causing me to be incredibly depressed because I believed this was all life was. I was just another Sisyphus, doomed to slafe away forever at this stone less I stop and be crushed.

I'm just so angry I was lied to all this time. My youth was sold for minimum wage because I was scared to become homeless, so I let myself be trampled, never did fun activities because I wanted an emergency fund and took extra shifts to put myself in the good books.

I am angry. I am in shock. I am bitter. I am resentful. I feel betrayed by everyone who ever told me my life was easy.

Fuck everyone.

[Anonymous No.10548764]

>>10548722
Most of people in office are complaining because they are jaded and fooling themselves in thinking their job is totally not a bullshit job.

The 'Rona have changed that a lot, with the working-from-home stuff being more popular than ever, most of the middle management realise they are only paper-pushers and powerpoint-presenters, so tons of peoples are having massive existential crisis because these are usually the most well-paying jobs, but also the most meaningless.

When an office worker is saying his job is hard it's usually :
- His boss is putting ton of pressure on him, so the difficulty is mental and not physical, and the pressure is coming from someone else.
- The worker is overworking himself to death to prove himself he's really useful when his jobs is just sending emails all day.
- Commuting can kill a man

I don't care personally, I'm WFH, I can sleep more, wake up 15 minutes before the start of the day, I accepted I'm just a small cog in the big machinery, but at least I have money.
Maybe one day I'll quit my job and brew my own beer or something.

[Anonymous No.10548859]

>>10548511
oh god I fucking feel you. Shit sucks so bad.

>>10548475
Thanks anon. I hope I feel better soon too. Sick of all these med trials. The only silver lining is I;m really getting into menhera clothes.

[Anonymous No.10548860]

Remind anon

Here

https://youtu.be/TDMwjT4e3XM

[Anonymous No.10549004]

>>10548124
waahhh wahhh racism is being addressed in my community and i get held responsible for my actions now WAHHHHHH i dont like that waghhhhhhhhh
>>10547934
im getting strong and buff as shit during quarantine and i genuinely look forward to having 3 girlfriends

[Anonymous No.10549011]

>>10549004
>racism is being addressed in my community

lmao we all know woke culture has nothing to do with addressing racism.

[Anonymous No.10549015]

>>10549011
Tru lol woke culture is just the newest trend in gossip. They could care less about rights and activism.

[Anonymous No.10549024]

The skirt I thought might not fit fits perfectly and the print is so crisp. I’m so happy. Now I just have to wait for my blouse to come in so my SS can send my stuff to round out my wardrobe. *~*

[Anonymous No.10549031]

>>10549024
what skirt is it?

[Anonymous No.10549038]

>>10549004
maybe if you're an americuck you can believe some little woke crusade is exterminating racism in lolita rofl

[Anonymous No.10549054]

>buy stuff on ali for me and my bf
>all his packages arrive first
>all of mine are stuck in limbo
whyyy?

[Anonymous No.10549072]

>>10549031
IW’s Mucha skirt from the original 2013 release in beige. It doesn’t hold much petticoat, but it’ll be perfect for causal and toned down days. I just love the print and that it’s cotton.

[Anonymous No.10549079]

>>10549072
I fucking love IW skits for casual looks. Good shit.

[Anonymous No.10549099]

For some reason I just don't get happy feelings from looking at kawaii and jfashion content on instagram anymore. I thought I was just depressed or grew out of the aesthetic. But I still love the old stuff like original old school and sweet
street snaps.

I realized that what really made me feel like that was the egirls and ethots taking jfashion and kawaii aesthetics and turning it into the male gaze versions. Kawaii is sexy now and it just kinda bums me out somehow. Its no longer a pure reclamation of femininity separate from sexualization.

[Anonymous No.10549101]

>>10549099
jfashion in general has never been all about being non-sexy, there have been many sexual jfashions, did you get this triggered by gyaru?

[Anonymous No.10549106]

>>10549101
I know what jfashion was. Gyaru was pretty cool. Sexy but also their own aesthetic. Plus most normies didn't even consider them sexy or attractive. We had the sexy gyaru but we also had lolita and decora which was not for being sexy. Nothing was ever specifically about being non-sexy on purpose. But it was the fact that it was for pure expression. Now a lot is just for insta likes and also coopted for porn.

[Anonymous No.10549110]

>Brother lost money on a bet recently
>Never knew how much it was
>Today his gf slips that it was 500 $
>About to laugh at it
>Realise I've frivolously spent just about 500 $ this month
>On my dream dress and other orders
>The former I can justify
>The latter I can not
>Feels like I've thrown money away just like my brother
>Guilt

[Anonymous No.10549114]

>>10549054
serves you right for buying from there

[Anonymous No.10549117]

>>10548741
i-is it milky chan

[Anonymous No.10549119]

>>10549106
there was also lolita porn 10 - 15 years ago. you just sound kind of new to me.

[soup No.10549123]

>>10549106
>>10549099
this is my exact thoughts on belle delphine. she was such an inspirations to myself and probably many others with her own kawaii aesthetics that I planned on cosplaying as her when cons opened up again. I was so sad when internet culture groomed her into what she is now and all the egirls/ethots that made her aesthetics into male eye candy versions.

[Anonymous No.10549132]

>>10549110
I know that
I send 140 bucks on some hobbies stuffs and I still need to convince myself it was a good buy.
Being risen in poverty seriously sucks.

[Anonymous No.10549137]

>>10549110
At least you got something out of that $500, and you can always resell if you need your money back. Lost money on a bet is just lost money.

[Anonymous No.10549170]

>>10549011
>>10549015
>>10549038
wuuaaaayyyyuaghh wauuuughhh when people try to bring harmful actions to light it makes me feel uncomfortable so i belittle the subject as a whole in the hopes to convince everyone its useless when in reality i probably am a problem myself waaauuugh waaaaaaaahhh wahh!!

>>10548741
Don't do this to yourself.

[Anonymous No.10549171]

>>10549123
Wait, Belle was active before she started doing SW? Was she active in jfashion??? This is news to me.

[Anonymous No.10549174]

>>10549171
please don't reply to soup, he's a liar and a faggot. i think he's pretending to be a girl right now again.

[Anonymous No.10549200]

I miss cons so much, gulls. Lolita is nice but it's a weekly thing for me and kind of loosing the "special outfit" feeling for me. And even though cons are dead this yer, too. I got sucked into a nostalgia pit and am thinking of doing a touhou cosplay. Which would bring the total of female touhou cosplayers up to five jk\
Seriously, though, It feels nice to think about a cosplay again, even if i'm not going anywhere. Maybe I'll get off my ass and do this, but probably not

[Anonymous No.10549218]

>>10549137
> you can always resell if you need your money back
It depends

[Anonymous No.10549253]

Man, I just love lolita

[Anonymous No.10549258]

>>10549253
Based

[Anonymous No.10549260]

>>10548551
I love boobs.

[Anonymous No.10549267]

>>10549054
What did you get?

[Anonymous No.10549273]

I just want to be able to enjoy looking up cosplay pictures without it all being stupid coomer bait. I just want to look at cool costumes and not countless pictures of moderately attractive women being simped by degenerates.

[Anonymous No.10549277]

>>10548750
>>10548726
>>10548722
Wtf is wrong with your parents?

[Anonymous No.10549281]

>>10549273
It's over anon, it's not possible anymore.
Patreon, OF and shit absolutely nuked that hobby.

It was just a question of time, but I think there's no turning back.

[Anonymous No.10549284]

>>10549281
You know how the military tried making a bomb that would turn people gay? They need to make a coomer bomb that castrates degenerates. Burns up their nutsacks.

[Anonymous No.10549289]

>>10549284
It is the coomer's fault if the cosplay community went to shit though?
They always been there, stalking in cons alleys, trying to take creepshots with their shitty phones and harassing women online for nudes or whatnot, but the community was still strong and fine.


But nowadays, aren't the thots who happily and willingly clothed themselves as some coomer-bait characters at the first opportunity for money also at fault?
Coomers are providing the money, sure, but all these girls are providing the service without any second though.

Cosplay basically went into virtual prostitution nowadays, and I'm pretty sure some girls are extremely pleased with that. All the benefits no drawbacks.

[Anonymous No.10549294]

I really want to join a lolita comm and start posting my coords publicly again, I haven't posted any in years.

But I started camming, and I'm fucking TERRIFIED of anybody in the lolita community finding out about it. I use a totally different name and don't have my lewd accounts connected to my lolita accounts in any way. But you can see my lolita shit in view when I'm camming because I do it in my room.

Do you guys think people would freak out if they found my lewd accounts? Or that I'd get a boat load of hate and criticism? I'm a really sensitive person and that shit would destroy me. But I want so badly to be involved in things and share my coords. Halp

[Anonymous No.10549295]

>>10549294
Take coord photos outside of your room and put a sticker over your face. You would likely be dragged if people find out you're a camwhore, though have rest in mind that lolitas dont tend to use such websites so you're not super likely to be recognised anyways. It would also be a good idea to move your lolita clothing out of the way when you film

[Anonymous No.10549296]

>>10547934
We're in year 2 of covid closures and a lot of cons will not survive going into '22-23 and that shit hurts to see.

[Anonymous No.10549299]

>>10549294
Charms?

[Anonymous No.10549302]

>>10549294
>>10549295
>have rest in mind that lolitas dont tend to use such websites so you're not super likely to be recognised anyways.
This

[Anonymous No.10549322]

>>10549277
The middle class value system is what's wrong with them.
>Learn the value of a dollar, by getting your spirit broken
>Do it tough like we did, forgetting that we were raised during the boomer economy
>Grades won't get you everywhere, that's why your doctor, dentist, optometrist and surgeon receieved full financial support from their middle class asian tiger parents
>Your on your own at 18, ignoring that wages haven't kept pace with inflation since the 70s since mass immigration has artificially kept low-skill wages stagnant in an effort to prop up the wealth of the boomer generation creating a massive squeeze on the poor of society to get into the upper classes before they get trapped. Which means going into debt to fund a degree that wasn't necessary 20 years ago but is a basic requirement now thanks to mass immigration

Also my mother was never home because of shift work. My father worked from home but was abusive. So I usually completely isolated myself in my room and my parents rarely had any idea of what I was doing. Hence why I could slice up my arms and legs for 2 years daily without anyone noticing.

[Anonymous No.10549324]

>>10549294
>I'm a sensitive person
>camwhore

You don't get to be treated as a delicate flower when you degrade yourself willingly.

[Anonymous No.10549325]

>>10549324
This
You need thick skin for Lolita and cosplay
you need ever thicker skin to Camwhore if your so afraid of being found out

[Anonymous No.10549329]

>>10549325
Anon should just own her camwhoring and combine it with lolita to make bank. The whole double life thing sounds exhausting

[Anonymous No.10549332]

I regret following this cosplayer. I did not realize how into everyone else business they are. Its black history month an they are going on and on about 'checking on if white people are retweeting enough Black cosplayers' and which ones will stop after February is over. It seem so exhausting to care about how much of a tag other people are retweeting

[Anonymous No.10549333]

>>10549332
And people wonder why fascism and euro-ethnocentrism are on the rise.

[Claudie !!5M+s+ZHeFhU No.10549334]

Was gonna get into cosplay today, but am too achy to

Bright side is that I got my covid vaccine tho!

[Anonymous No.10549337]

>>10548124
>>10548134
>>10548428
Kek, i never tought i'd see the day when conservatives unironically start asking for safe spaces.
Feels good tho, once 4chan is gone you'll have nothing left.

[Anonymous No.10549338]

>>10549337
Yes. Keep pushing the people with all the guns and actual beliefs further and further into a corner. This surely has never ended badly.

[Anonymous No.10549340]

>>10549338
>Yes. Keep pushing the people with all the guns and actual beliefs further and further into a corner. This surely has never ended badly.
Fuck yeah, by all means they should chimp out again.
Every time rightoids chimp out it just exposes them to the public as the inhuman bloodthirsty lunatics that they are, it's only a net benefit for everyone else.
The problem all these years is exactly that they haven't been bullied hard enough.

[Anonymous No.10549342]

>>10549340
Lmao, okay BLM turn the US into another South Africa.

[Anonymous No.10549346]

>>10549123
Poup.

[Anonymous No.10549347]

>>10548109
Same here anon, got myself a good paying job but i can't meet with any friends. It sucks! I'm saving some of my money to go on vacation or to a popular convention instead.

[Anonymous No.10549348]

>>10549123
>I was so sad when internet culture groomed her into what she is now
You guys weren't kidding when you said soup is literally retarded.

0.1 seconds looking at her feed and the girls she was following makes you realize she was always a gigantic kinky bitch very specifically interested in masochism of various types, rape play etc.
I mean i don't give a shit either way but you gotta be very, very, very dumb to think she was some kind of innocent angel just interested in aesthetics and the internet "ruined" her, goddamn.

[Anonymous No.10549351]

>>10549348
Belle Delphine was always a thirsty whore; she was able to easily monetize coomers paying her to keep being a thirsty whore. Living the dream for someone like her desu.

[Anonymous No.10549361]

>>10548722
Well said anon! I come from a rough enviroment so when it came to doing retail and fast food there was sometimes fights or stupid drunk people walking into my previous job. My manager would always try and get me to work overtime and would call me in on my days off. Worse part was when I needed help none of my colleagues helped me, they would just stand at the back chatting. I only thing motivating me to stick around was mainly the nice customers and the training I did to get out of that position.

Since getting an office job things has been so much better. I have flexible hours while working at home, everyone is hardworking and willing to help you. They also offer optional webinars on LGBT+ and have mental health first aiders.

[Anonymous No.10549364]

>>10549324
I don't find it degrading. Sluts have feelings too and I have a lot and I get flustered and cry easily. Nobody's ever been mean to me while camming and the worst reaction I've gotten in lolita were Karens glaring at me.

>>10549295
I can't feasibly move my wardrobe out of view with the way my room is set up, it's hard to explain.

>>10549329
See, I don't want to do this. I don't want to perpetuate the idea that lolita fashion is a fetish. They're my clothes, I love lolita fashion, and I'm very passionate about teaching people what it is. Sometimes people notice my wardrobe and ask about it while streaming and I explain they're not fetish wear and therefore I won't ever wear it on cam because lolita fashion isn't sexual and I don't want to perpetuate the idea that it could be in any way. They accept that explanation and think it's pretty neat most of the time.

>>10549325
honestly if I was found out I'd probably have an anxiety attack for days and then just be like fuck it and throw my principles out the window and cam in lolita because damned if I do damned if I don't and if I do as that other anon said I can make decent bank off all the creepy pedo-adjacent dudes

>>10549295
My room is the only place that isn't drab as hell though. I'd be fine with a sticker over my face but then the room is still problematic. But you're right I don't think lolitas are frequenting cam sites and I'm far from super popular because I randomly get anxiety issues and drop off the face of the earth for months

my anxiety is really getting the best of me sorry nobody else understands this worry of mine and isolation is making me extra fucking weird man

[Anonymous No.10549366]

I'm so envious of my cosplay friends having bf and someone to be with during the pandemic. It would be so great to have a partner to help with making cosplays or walk around the convention and stay in a hotel with

[Anonymous No.10549368]

>>10549299
Also, not Charms, but this made me chuckle. Didn't she completely quit lolita and become everything she always hated?

[Anonymous No.10549369]

>>10549364
god no one cares. go to therapy.

[Anonymous No.10549371]

Dream dress get! Plus matching headbow. I legitimately cried

[Anonymous No.10549374]

>>10549371
great taste, anon. congrats!

[Anonymous No.10549377]

>>10549374
Thanks nonny! This is the image that made me fall in love with this colorway. Yellow a best

[Anonymous No.10549416]

>>10549337
I’m not conservative but thanks for confirming that if someone’s not part of the tribe 100%, they’ll get cancelled lol

[Anonymous No.10549421]

>>10549377
very cute! i have the skirt in yellow. that entire photo just makes me feel nostalgia.

[Anonymous No.10549444]

>>10549260
Most people do, which is why they're everywhere.

[Anonymous No.10549507]

Feeling extremely guilty and depressed anons.
I feel trapped and I want to fuck around with people but I'm in a serious long term relationship. My partner is great, supportive, and successful but I still find myself wanting to go out and be a thot. Really I just want the freedom to fuck around, and I feel shitty about it.

[Anonymous No.10549511]

>>10548166
Pixielocks is *still* vendetta-posting her old friends? Cows never change.

[Anonymous No.10549512]

>>10549507
is this a scrote post meant to defame women?

[Anonymous No.10549514]

>>10549512
No, and now I feel even shittier.

[Anonymous No.10549516]

>>10549004
>>10549170
>fake woke
>actually just a sex pervert
like clockwork

[Anonymous No.10549519]

>>10549514
>wanting to thot around
>when you have what sounds like a perfect partner
>during a pandemic

look at your life choices

but seriously - if your partner was truly great, supportive, and successful then would you really be finding yourself wanting something else? i feel like once you're imagining fucking around the relationship is over mentally/emotionally. i'd break up.

[Anonymous No.10549522]

>>10549519
I feel like the issue is I might be polyamorous or whatever they call it these days. My partner is definitely not, but is open to inviting other parties into the bedroom, which is okay I guess.
I just really miss the rush of flirting with and/or shagging someone new.

[Anonymous No.10549528]

>>10549522
this makes me so glad that i'm on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. ace as fuck, but i please my partner and he's thankful for it.

please don't cheat on your partner for temporary adrenaline, that's disgusting.

[Anonymous No.10549533]

>>10549528
Thankfully I'm not completely stupid, so I don't feasibly think I would. This feeling caused me to stop talking to a long time friend because I found that they were too much of a temptation. Feels bad

[Anonymous No.10549535]

>>10549507
bitch, it's 2021, get a partner who is okay with that lifestyle. why is this so hard? the only people who cheat are doing it because they get some kind of mental rush from it.

[Anonymous No.10549554]

>>10549511
i doubt pixielicks gives two shits about some altright fag who used her for clout back in the day

[Anonymous No.10549557]

>>10549522
Then break up with him lol and thot around as much as you want. Or play a dating sim idk

[Anonymous No.10549558]

>>10549364
>I don't find it degrading

Cool. It still is.

[Anonymous No.10549559]

>>10549554
She posted a twitter status about her a few months ago iirc.

[Anonymous No.10549565]

>>10549364
>I don't find it degrading
>I get flustered and cry easily
>Nobody's ever been mean to me while camming
>if I was found out I'd probably have an anxiety attack for days
>I randomly get anxiety issues
>nobody else understands this worry of mine

Fucking stop being a camwhore for your own mental health. You're obviously not proud of what you're doing and need to talk to a therapist about your low sense of self worth.

[soup No.10549567]

>>10549171
>>10549348
>>10549351
lot of girls in this hobby got groomed by the internet to be who they are today. another example would be jnig. she found her own creative aesthetic for cosplay but ppl made it out to be something sexual. here's a pic of belle when she was into gothic lolita. the pic is a bit wonky because it was from a long time ago.
>>10549346
you spelled my name wrong it's soup

[Anonymous No.10549569]

>>10549364
All your anxiety issues are you really sure you want to be camming? I saw some thread on twitter going around where some girl thought OF and camming would be so glamorous and help her anxiety but instead pushed her into the deep end of addiction and mental illness in months. Hardly a unique story you could be the next girl like that.

[Anonymous No.10549584]

>>10549569
Anon it's her body, who are you to tell her what to do? Camming is very empowering and healthy for a lot of women.

[Anonymous No.10549586]

>>10549569
>Tfw you see 17 year old girls counting down the days until they can open an OF

I can't tell if I'm just getting old but Jesus fucking Christ what is wrong with society that being a whore is something to aspire to? Do these girls not understand that once it's on the internet, it's there forever and people WILL dox you?

[Anonymous No.10549588]

>>10549584
>Healthy and empowering
>Designating yourself as masturbation fodder that people only pay attention to when they want to jack off
>As soon as you stop being attractive they won't care about you
>Your future career is also totally fucked

Yeah really healthy and empowering.

[Anonymous No.10549589]

>>10549586
Anon this is just concern trolling. It's pretty easy to hide your face or limit your profile. The chances of anybody finding out who you are are really low. There are thousands of camgirls.

[Anonymous No.10549595]

>>10549589
If someone wants to find you. They will. Remember when the autists went after Shia LaBeouf?

It's easy to track someone down after they constantly let slip details of their life. For example I can see Lolita dresses in the background. Not many people like Lolita so that's an easy way to whittle it down to maybe 10-20 thousand people (if we're being generous) out of hundreds of millions in the US.

Each Lolita print is unique and lolitas are not opposed to buying used and reselling their dresses. It'd be easy enough to go onto lacemarket and dig for specific dresses and colourways.

It's easy to see what part of the country someone is in based on the features of their room (eg materials of wall, floors, approximate age, built in features like wadrobes indicate it was probably built during or after the late 70s) and at what times they are active especially if natural light exists.

You are delusional to think people doing this type of activity are safe from their clients who are some of the most disgusting human beings. Especially if they are scorned, they will make it a vendetta to find you and make your life impossible.

It's a very shortsighted occupational choice and is an obvious gateway to less safe ways of earning money.

[Anonymous No.10549596]

>>10549559
If she has twitter why would she come here to post. You've just disproven your own point.

[Anonymous No.10549599]

>>10549595
Existing as a woman anywhere, especially in the US, is dangerous, anon. Should women not work either because of workplace harassment and because walking to work can be dangerous?
The fact is that a lot of sex workers are happy and making a lot of money. I'm sorry that makes you bitter, anon. I'm glad to see young women taking what they can. They can easily invest the money and do anything they want to later.

[Anonymous No.10549607]

>>10549599
You do understand the more girls do this type of thing the further it drives down the price? Increased supply, fixed demand, price must come down to be competitive. Everyone loses except coomers.

Also comparing a standard white collar job is going to put someone in as much danger as camwhoring is laughable. Yes women get harassed, this is bad and there are many companies and government mechanisms in place to stop this and at worst you have marketable real skills that can get you another job. Camwhoring has no such mechanism, once you're found that's it. You move to another site? They'll still find you. You can't leave because you have no marketable skills other than being a whore and even if you did, you've been doxed and no reputable company will want you because why the hell would they risk it and you've done nothing to show you can actually utilise your skills.

>Invest
>Implying any regular camwhore will make anywhere near enough in the maybe 7-8 years she's still attractive to make investment enough for retirement. That is if you are literally going to camwhore for 8 years. You will definitely be found unless you are MI6 levels of careful.

You also want to ignore that many girls in sex work are mentally ill or have some sort of complex and aren't thinking long-term. The massive stress it places on women to stay young is torture and will damage someone. Yeah it's very likely some girls love it and will make enough to fund their entire life but this is not the norm and you know it.

There's no reason to be a camwhore other than laziness and zero forethought. Anybody can learn to program from home and work remotely or be freelance which can be very lucrative.

Beyond that there are plenty of social consequences. Many people aren't going to be happy with the choice and might result in abandonment from friends and family. It also makes you undateable to anyone who isn't abusive, ugly, old, perverted or a door mat of a man.

[Anonymous No.10549612]

>>10549607
I want to add. I don't hate camwhoring as a profession. It's easy money and women are sold on it as easy money with no downsides.

I fucking hate the pathetic excuses for men who create the demand.

[Anonymous No.10549624]

>>10549599
sex work makes me bitter but not because i'm jealous, i just hate men and that women degrading themselves (and forsaking their futures unless they become belle delphine rich [unlikely] or marry and become dependas [more likely]) is an actually feasible market.

if someone has ANY anxieties about being connected to their work then they shouldn't do it and pick up a different way to make money. especially in this community--we're so small and someone will inevitably pick you out of the crowd.
there are other feasible routes to making money, they just require more brain power than cosplaying bunnysuit d.va

[Anonymous No.10549654]

>>10549607
>>10549624
Camming isn't brainless or low effort at all, it's a ton of work marketing yourself, figuring out what works all and what doesn't, editing pictures, etc. It's a full time job. It also requires a TON of empathy and knowledge of psychology when you are talking to your customers. You also have to be really brave to put yourself out there like that. Any idiot can go and get a marketing or psychology degree orbe a therapist, but sex workers have to be smart enough to learn ALL this as they're doing it. It's also pretty much running your own business with all those responsibilities. It's a shame more companies won't acknowledge that and refuse to hire former sex workers, but that's patriarchy for ya.

[Anonymous No.10549658]

>>10549654
>any idiot can go and get a marketing or psychology degree or be a therapist
>implying educated people are idiots

the sex worker cope ITT

[Anonymous No.10549670]

>>10549567
>lot of girls in this hobby got groomed by the internet to be who they are today

take some fucking responsibility for yourself, did online comments offer you candy behind the van?

[Anonymous No.10549672]

>>10549588
To add onto this - there were some stats like less than 1 in 20 end up making any money that's better than working retail. As a wise anon once said, i google big boob eight trillion result.

[Anonymous No.10549673]

>>10549654
lul hurr hurr sex work requires intelligence!!11

[Anonymous No.10549676]

>>10549654
literally every woman with 4 working limbs has the "intelligence" needed to be a sex worker.
>thank you for the donation bigdickjim74!!!
>hey everyone, do you like my [flavor of the month lingerie cosplay]? check out my ppv~!
>meitu intensifies
>here's my amazon wishlist! make sure to tell me when you gift me something and you'll get a special treat uwuwu
>ahegao
>#egirl #bodypositivity #lewd

[Anonymous No.10549679]

>26th year without a gf
it's gonna be a tough year bros

[Anonymous No.10549693]

Are we ever going to have another (good) plus size coord thread again without ED-chans and /fit/ crossboarders sperging and shitting it up again? And without non-plus coords being posted out of vendetta? Or is that a pipe dream?

[Anonymous No.10549695]

>>10549654
This is the single biggest cope I've ever seen.

>Sex work is actually really hard
>That's why brain dead whores who don't want to do actual work choose to do it

[Anonymous No.10549699]

>>10549654
>Anyone can get a degree
So why didn't you? You do sex work because it's easy money but then shit on people who complete University degrees because apparently that's easy but it's different because sex work is actually really hard.

The cognitive dissonance is just through the fucking roof. Sex work is somehow both easy and hard.

>Patriarchy is the reason people don't hire sex workers

Couldn't be
>Lack of willpower
>Lack of skills
>Lack of teamwork
>Lack of forward thinking
>Lack of fortitude
>Lack of social awareness
>Lack of confidentiality (if you can do easily fuck yourself on camera which for most people is a very private thing, why should you be trusted with anything private?)

Beyond just personal attributes when a hiring manger look at a candidate for their company and they Google their name and it comes up with videos of them cramming a dildo down their throat. That's not what they want potential clients to see linked with their company.

[soup No.10549700]

>>10549670
>did online comments offer you candy behind the van?
yes the candy is in the form of views, clout and $$$. this is my safe space and you're not going to sit here and devalue my suffering.

[Anonymous No.10549718]

>>10549599
>especially in the US
You wanna tell that to the 3rd world countries or

[Anonymous No.10549723]

>>10549607
>makes you undateable to anyone who isn't abusive, ugly, old, perverted or a door mat of a man.

what's wrong with old and door mat?
old = rich
door mat = does whatever you want and buys u things

[Anonymous No.10549737]

Am I the dumbest piece of shit ever or?

I ordered a cute lolita mask from Poland 13 days ago. I've been so careful with all this Covid shit that when I got it I put it on my face without blinking an eye.

Jesus. What's the fuck man?

[Anonymous No.10549739]

>>10549737
I don’t understand whats wrong with this
It seems covid stays on fabric for 2 days and then dies and 13 days should be fine

[Anonymous No.10549756]

all the things i dont wear any more that i havent sold are things ive held on to because of sentimental reasons. logically i know i should just sell them but got too many feels.

[Anonymous No.10549757]

>>10549739
NTA I think it's more that you can be so careful and then just immediately throw all caution out on accident.

[Anonymous No.10549761]

>>10549699
Who TF uses their real name whilst doing sex work though.

[Anonymous No.10549762]

>>10549567
why would you defile Mana like that

[Anonymous No.10549767]

>>10549761
most costhots, are you a retard?

[Anonymous No.10549772]

>>10549565
All my friends and family know I do it. I'm not worried about them finding out. I'm worried about the online lolita community finding out and people not wanting to buy from me on LM. That's my specific fear.

>>10549569
I've done it on and off for years now, my specific fear is that lolitas will be meanies lol. I find it fun because I've always been a huge slut. It's a nice outlet for my sluttiness. I don't even fake orgasms while camming because it's legitimately something I'm into. Some girls sext a bunch of guys on dating apps for free, because they enjoy it. Why not monetize it?

>>10549607
It's not my career. It's something I do for extra money when I'm bored and feeling cute. My goal in life was always to be a stay at home spouse, I've fulfilled that pretty much, I'm set for life.

I think you have a very narrow view of the world and live in a strange social bubble because the only guys I know who wouldn't date someone who has done/is currently camming/posting to OF are whacko trumpers or red pilled weirdos. So the exact opposite of what you're saying. My partner is not abusive, he's not old, he's not ugly by any measure, he's not fat, he's not a door mat (though I don't see how that's necessarily bad?). You could literally call any man perverted, idk what your definition of that entails, that may be the only box he ticks but if so I tick it too.

I have friends who have respectable jobs and also do sex work online. Probably the only careers it's really gonna hurt you in would be like, teaching or childcare.

[Anonymous No.10549775]

>>10549772
we really don't care.

[Anonymous No.10549780]

nobody:
sex workers: i really love being a sex worker it's an amazing profession!

[Anonymous No.10549799]

>may bells in lav sold out
I knew i shouldn’t have procrastinated, ugh, so disappointed in myself

[Anonymous No.10549803]

>>10549780

Honestly just came to the realization that sec work is kind of like an mlm.

Nobody:
Sex workers: wanna know how I became a ~BoSs bABe~?

[Anonymous No.10549805]

Going to conventions was the only time I could genuinely be happy and get to interact with people with the same niche interests as me. I just want the vaccine so I can go back to them again.

[Anonymous No.10549813]

>>10548166
me too. I'm on my way to being less fat, at least, but my hair is falling out thanks to early menopause (can't take HRT) and meds that I can't stop taking. guess it's time to start looking at cute hats that will fit on my gigantic head. maybe berets...

[Anonymous No.10549825]

>>10547936
>Anyway cosplay is for narcissistic whores.
cosplay is for fun!

[Anonymous No.10549827]

>>10548370
I agree man, fuck dynamic languages. we should type everything

[Anonymous No.10549828]

>>10549723
Doesn't sound like a fulfilling relationship to anyone who is a normal human being. Also old != rich.

>>10549761
Nobody, if they're smart. But if they're smart they wouldn't be doing sex work.

Even if someone doesn't use their real name, it will likely be found out if they are in anyway successful. And because once something is on the internet, it's there forever, people can take as much time as they want to figure out who you are and then, years later, it comes back to bite you.

[Anonymous No.10549834]

>>10549772
>You have to be a weirdo to not like the idea that your wife, future mother of your children, has videos of her being a whore publically available on the internet forever

Guess I'm a weirdo for wanting exclusive intimacy with my partner like has been the norm for the past 2000 years.

>Respectable jobs
Sure. And do their employers know about their second income stream? No? Why? Is it because they'd probably be fired given most reputable companies have social media policies and external behaviour policies to avoid have their reputation ruined by retarded employees? It's only a matter of time.

Also
>Stay at home spouse
>Sex worker
1. You're partner is a cuck and deserves no respect as a man.

2. You've literally made yourself completely dependent on a man because you have zero skills to support yourself. Doesn't sound very empowering to me.

3. When your looks dry up, what becomes of you? You have no skills since you are a stay at home spouse so you can't make any money. Even if you do have skills, you have such a massive employment gap, good luck explaining what the fuck you were doing all this time. Your partner is now being baggaged by his girlfriend who doesn't make any money, is an ex-whore and isn't even good looking anymore and given he's making enough to support two people and apparently a good looking guy, I think many girls who don't have a history of being a whore, earn good money and are attractive will come along to take your place since you're literally a deadweight.

[Anonymous No.10549835]

>>10549834
>exclusive intimacy with my partner like has been the norm for the past 2000 years

The norm is people rushing or being pressured or sometimes forces into marriages without sexual or emotional compatibility and then getting divorced or cheating anyway (men and women are both whores)

But yeah it's like not wanting to date a famous person. People don't neccesarily want to date a famous pussy or pair of tits either, makes sense. Nothing wrong with not wanting to be with someone who has "overshared" online regardless of if it's their thoughts/opinions or their body. If their identity wasn't known or couldn't be determined though I don't think I'd care personally, but it is still a little weird.

nayrt btw

[Anonymous No.10549836]

>>10549772
Ok but why aren't you just covering up your dresses with a sheet or something when you cam? Like i'm sorry if thats your issue right now, it is that easy to solve.

[Anonymous No.10549837]

>>10549836
because she's a retard. she's probably going to admit that she's been camming in lolita. she's drip feeding.

[Anonymous No.10549890]

>>10549835
Wanting exclusive intimacy with your partner doesn't have anything to do with marriage.

[Anonymous No.10549903]

>>10549834
Don't worry about me anon, luckily my partner is neither an incel nor a red pilled dumbass. You should try acid sometime!

[Anonymous No.10549904]

My gf came out of the blue and asked me to pick out an outfit for her and she will buy it and wear it for at least a day since she knows I like alternative fashion.

What jfash do I pick out for her that won't make her hate me?

[Anonymous No.10549906]

>>10549834
Why are 4chan scrotes so obsessed with a woman's age? Do you think we just melt at a certain age? Most men think the woman they love is the most beautiful person in the world, even when they're old. Not everyone is as youth and looks obsessed as your social circles may make it seem. The real world is a very different place than the internet.

Nayrt

[Anonymous No.10549911]

>>10549906
I said literally nothing about age. My point is that the idea of relying on fleeting sexual beauty to claim your status as an equal partner in a relationship and provide for yourself if need be is a bad one.

[Anonymous No.10549923]

>used to be super into X jfashion (won't name because it's very small and will probably identify me easily)
>briefly and VERY messily dated a girl in my local comm
>stopped going to meets a couple years ago to avoid her and some other drama llamas
>now I have qtgf who also likes this jfashion and I'd like to take her to meets to meet my old friends but I don't want her to have some kind of run-in with my ex


aaaaaaaaaaa

[Anonymous No.10549927]

>>10548722
i'm so glad i work in a quiet and peaceful office job even though i struggle to keep going with that. i get the impression that retail is to a large extent held up on the backs of young adults burning up their remaining youthful vitality for shit pay
i would understand it if there were opportunities to get a good life through that struggle rather than treading water forever but i don't think there is
it's probably ultimately a good thing if retail gets phased out in favour of delivery even though the jobs will be lost

[Anonymous No.10549930]

>>10549522
>I feel like the issue is I might be polyamorous or whatever they call it these days
i believe it's called 'infidelity'

[Anonymous No.10549931]

>>10549906
it'll make more sense when you turn 30, good luck

[Anonymous No.10549932]

>>10549931
I'm 36 my man

[Anonymous No.10549935]

>>10549932
well i hope you are living a fulfilling life with a family

[Anonymous No.10549938]

>>10549935
I hope she isn't and she's a career baller just for the sake of upsetting vile scrotes like you who want us to be your pregnant underclass. You will never procreate. You will never live out these patriarchal fantasies. You will die alone in mommy's basement.

[Anonymous No.10549942]

>>10549938
it's unfortunate you feel that way

[Anonymous No.10549943]

>>10549931
Have you never been to a bar? Or an old folks home? Normal human beings tend to be most attracted to people within about 5 years, plus/minus, of their own age.

I found teenage girls attractive when I was a teenager. Now that I'm in my late 20s I can't imagine wanting to fuck any chick under 24? Maybe 23? It's just creepy as hell to even think of getting with a girl so much younger than me. Normal people's age preferences for partners age with them. I assume dudes such as yourself get out into the real world about as much as an indoor cat.

[Anonymous No.10549949]

>>10549938
>be me
>literal fascist
>not what leftists define as fascist (i.e. Trump[autistic]) but a literal national socialist
>cybersecurity software engineer
>Have an apartment in the city for weekdays
>Recently bought a house in the countryside for weekends
>Get to tour Europe as my ancestral homeland twice a year
>have qt3.14 gf who adores being able to be a homemaker and practice her art and design in peace away from the world
>wants to have my children in the next fews years once her condition gets better
>Love her to absolute death
>Couldn't be happier

Why do you hate me?

[Anonymous No.10549950]

>>10549943
You are objectively incorrect and are simply coping because you're probably ugly.

[Anonymous No.10549951]

>>10549943
A good friend of mine is 29 and will soon marry his gf which is 23, they're happy and live together fine.

[Anonymous No.10549952]

>>10549950
Graphs from pol aren't sources

[Anonymous No.10549953]

>>10549950
Graphs like this make me wanna kill myself, men are disgusting. I will never procreate.

[Anonymous No.10549954]

>>10549952
>I am absolutely retarded: The Post

It's from a book called Dataclysm which was written by a guy with a mathematics degree who co-founded OkCupid.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_Rudder

Get btfo

[Anonymous No.10549955]

>>10549953
Don't worry anon, they're pol crossboarders coping with fake graphs because they can't accept the fact that they're abnormal and on the borderline of being a pedophile. Go in the real world some and you'll realize this isn't the case. Macron is pretty hot, his wife is 25 years his senior. I know two guys I grew up with who married women that could be their moms age, and THEY are the ones that are the breadwinners. They didn't get sugar mamas.

Most men irl are pretty normal. Most men on 4chan are degenerates who fap to loli porn.

[Anonymous No.10549956]

>>10549954
Wow. You really don't get out much if you think the lunatics that populate OKC are indicative of normal average people irl. I'm sure that is true for the crazies I've met on OKC, that place is a black hole of fuckery.

>To make these charts, Rudder looked at the preferences of OkCupid users.

[Anonymous No.10549958]

>>10549955
>most men irl are pretty normal
>marrying a woman twice your age is normal
>but marrying a woman half your age is not
Hypocrisy.

Also
>expecting men to ever express their real opinions in front of women
I see it all the time at my work, as soon as there are no women within earshot everyone speaks their free and true opinions.

Even within my friend group which includes a doctor, a police officer, a furry, a roidmonkey, an accountant and a bitcoin millionaire, we all agreed that the youngest age for a girl that we'd have sex with was 14. We all then agreed to never tell our girlfriends of this conversation.

>>10549956
>people who use dating apps to find their partner are freaky weirdos not indicative of the population

So do you think that women who are attracted to men around the same age are freaky weirdos too? You can't disagree with one statistic but then agree with another statistic from the exact same source representing essentially the same data set.

[Anonymous No.10549959]

>>10549958
The women on OKC and the men on OKC are not the same. Go back to pol.

I didn't say marrying a woman twice your age is normal btw. I said it happens. I think it's pretty nasty but incels act like it's impossible for men to be attracted to women over 25, let alone prefer them.

Sorry you're a pedophile, but like attracts like.

[Anonymous No.10549961]

>>10549959
So the women who use OkCupid are just regular everyday people but the men are all weirdo social rejects? Ever heard of the principle Occam's Razor which essentially states that the hypothesis with the fewest assumptions is generally the right one? You're making a lot of assumptions.

Yeah no I'm calling bullshit and given OkCupid has had millions of users that is a large enough sample to be representative of the population

>but incels act like it's impossible for men to be attracted to women over 25, let alone prefer them.
It's totally possible to be attracted to older women but ultimately as the data shows, men would prefer the older woman be in the body of a younger woman.

[Anonymous No.10549963]

>>10549958
The length 4chan scrotes will go to attempt to justify and normalize their pedophilia truly amazes me each and every day.

[Anonymous No.10549964]

>>10549949
>Get to tour Europe as my ancestral homeland twice a year
>Tour Europe as my ancestral homeland

Nayrt, but out of everything you wrote this is what creeps me out the most. I want to encourage Americans to visit Europe, but you keep being weird about it. You're just so off... Could be the nazi-syntax.
t. European

[Anonymous No.10549965]

>>10549961
Yeah that's actually exactly what I'm saying. Men on dating apps are notoriously terrible. Most women are just normal chicks.

[Anonymous No.10549966]

holy shit can lolitas here please stop taking the bait. the /pol/ scrotes here aren't gonna change their mind or stop.

[Anonymous No.10549967]

>>10549965
That's completely autistic unless you've got evidence to back up your autism.

[Anonymous No.10549968]

>>10549967
>unless you've got evidence
look in a mirror

[Anonymous No.10549969]

>>10549964
I understand. But Europe ultimately is my home. It's where every single one of my ancestors up until 40 years ago lived. Being there gives a sense of nostalgia and sonder that the parts that make up me experienced the same sky, stars, buildings, roads, cold, rain and sun hundreds and thousands of years ago.

[Anonymous No.10549987]

>>10549366
Anyone gonna give me some advice on getting a bf in this community and how people are able to be in long term relationships in this community?

[Anonymous No.10549988]

>>10549507
This >>10549519 if you are really happy in your relationship why would you want to fuck around with other people. This honestly sounds to me like you got into a long-term committed relationship while young and now you're regretting not being able to fuck around

[Anonymous No.10549989]

>>10549987
why get a boyfriend when you can be content in your own company?

[Anonymous No.10549990]

>>10549767
I know so many cosplay friends and cosplayers who's usernames are "[insert first name]cosplays" luckily one of my friend changed her username once she got herself a job.

[Anonymous No.10549992]

>>10549987
Do you want advice on how to approach a guy at a con or you just want general relationship advice?

[Anonymous No.10549993]

>>10549951
Is getting married and having kids in your mid/early 20s good?

[Anonymous No.10549995]

>>10549993
I don't know, it is supposed to be bad?
Seems like the general idea is that girls wants kids around their 25s.

[Anonymous No.10549996]

>>10549989
Thats true, I do love having my own company but I hate being reminded that people are making the next big steps in their relationship while I haven't experienced one long term relationship in my early 20s

>>10549992
I'd like advice on both please, I do know how to approach a guy in general at a con but most of the times they want fwb or they are already in a relationship.

[Anonymous No.10550008]

>sees lot of basic AP staple accessories on Mercari w/ a particular item I've been looking for
>wait it out to see if seller separates them like they did with AP necklace lot
>someone buys the whole fucking lot
Well fuck me gulls I regret it now that I realize how good of a deal that lot was.

[Anonymous No.10550009]

>>10549996
Guys are flexible, obviously most guys would prefer a FWB because all the benefits of girl without the negatives of girl. But if you gently nudge, don't push, them in the direction of relationship most guys will view a relationship as good too. It's what guys do to girls. The girl wants a relationship, guy wants FWB, girl relents. Just do the opposite.

As for approaching them at a con, just find a common interest
>If they're in cosplay, ask them about it
>If they're viewing a particular store, ask them if they're a fan or be bolder and ask them what they think you should buy if it is a series you actually like

Beyond that it would be trying to find an excuse to spend more time with them
>Are you going to any panels?
>>Yes
>Oh me too, do you mind if I sit with you?
or
>>No
>Oh really? I'm going to x panel, would you want to join me?

Or ask them what they'll be up to for the rest of the con and just politely try to squeeze yourself into their plans. If they have at least 3 brain cells, they have figured out what you're doing by now. So if you have that excuse to be near them, get flirty. Mention they have some lint on their back and take it off for them, it's a good way to initiate physical contact. Or if they are in cosplay, ask for a photo and ask if you can touch them in some way like a hug. You're demonstrating to him that you want to touch him and he'll feel more comfortable touching you in return so he doesn't labelled a sex offender.

You can also ask subtle probing questions to determine if he has a gf or not. Ask about if he's with anyone, he might mention a girlfriend, ask if he travelled to be there or lives near by, ask if he lives with friends etc etc.

Also a big disclaimer, you're a approaching a con goer. Most people at cons, let's face it, aren't the most socially adjusted so he might not display the right signs or give off counterintuitive signs like being silent because he's too scared to say something stupid.

[Anonymous No.10550011]

>>10549930
Heh you're right, I deserve neckrope
>>10549988
I'm worried about that actually. I haven't lost feeling for my spouse or anything but I think I'm afraid I settled down too quickly.

[Anonymous No.10550022]

>>10550009
Thank you anon so much, the guys who want or have fwb always bugged me and it would put me off getting closer to them. I honestly hate being seen as a sex object just because I have curves. I will try to give them nudges.

I had a situation before where i got friendzoned twice by my friend who ended up dating shitty e-girls and he would always come back to me to flirt. I gave up one him and stuck to being his good friend, everytime he tries to talk sexual to me I shut him down

I also had another guy friend who recently reminded me that i should've made a sexual move on him when he was single but I just genuinely like him and wanted to spend more time with him in general first rather than sexually. I did invite him to resturants and met up with him but I don't know if he got the hint.

I will try some of those suggestions whenever cons start back up and hopefully I find someone to connect with.

[Anonymous No.10550023]

>>10550022
If you want to chat more or ask for advice in the future, here's my discord CRCY#0217

[Anonymous No.10550029]

>>10549903
>posts looking for validation about being a whore
>people tell you being a whore is not a good idea
>haha you should try drugs sometime!

classic nasty whore, you have to rewire your brain to doublethink yourself into selling your body lmfao

[Anonymous No.10550031]

>>10550029
begone, scrote. From a radfem perspective, I agree that >>10549903 should probably stop with the camming, as it's dangerous, not a sustainable career, will hurt future job prospects, only benefits scrotes, etc. It's probably best for your mental health not to do so because, even though while camming you haven't been disrespected directly yet, no scrote that watches you actually respects you and by continuing to cam you're letting them control you, as you're completely financially dependant on them. Most of those scrotes won't have any problem contacting your husband, boss, parents, etc years later when you've moved on. Also read Andrea Dworkin

[Anonymous No.10550088]

My wardrobe is 9:1 AP:Baby and I finally bought some Meta main pieces. I'm so fucking happy, anons. They fit beautifully and the construction is incredible. I can't believe I've been missing out so hard.

[Anonymous No.10550112]

>>10550088
Meta is the best and they really appreciate their international customers

[Anonymous No.10550125]

>>10550031
Geeze what an ugly hag this woman was no wonder people on here would like her so much.

[Anonymous No.10550226]

im so tired of being poor on a country with no future, my wardrobe is so tiny and last year only managed to buy a baby cape, everything is out of my financial situation

[Anonymous No.10550237]

>>10550125
don't you dare say that about my wife

[Anonymous No.10550240]

Im so tired of flakey buyers, like why waste my time asking a bunch of questions when you're clearly aren't going to buy

[Anonymous No.10550260]

>>10550112
Meta is a sweet brand primarily but they have stuff that works well in both gothic and classic wardribes. Honestly they're a gem.

[Anonymous No.10550330]

I always avoided AP because I’m 5’11 and gulls said it would never fit.
I think you’re actually fatties and in denial now, AP fits me height and all. Lose weight if the dress doesn’t fit you and stop blaming it on height!

[Anonymous No.10550333]

>>10550330
It depends on proportions as well as height, you can have 10 people all 5'11" and they won't all be proportioned the same. It's just the taller you are the more dicey the length of stuff on you gets.

[Anonymous No.10550337]

>>10550333
It’s a gamble for sure. I do apologize for my cheekiness, I look like an awkward anachan without all the poof so I shouldn’t be bragging.

[Anonymous No.10550340]

>>10550330
5’9 here, anything shorter than 85cm is a bit risky to me, but I was also surprised by how fucking big most of the dresses are

[Anonymous No.10550342]

Lolita is the one thing in my life that makes me glad I'm short. Every other instance though I wish I was taller.

[Anonymous No.10550345]

>>10550342
Meanwhile I avoid lolita and some j-fashion in general because I'm tall

[Anonymous No.10550355]

>>10550342
This, but the opposite.

>Use to love having big breast
>Got into lolita
>Wow, what a curse

[Anonymous No.10550357]

>>10550355
>tfw no busty Lolita gf to cheer up when she complains her boobs are too big

[Anonymous No.10550358]

>>10550357
Begone, scrote.

[Anonymous No.10550361]

>>10550358

[Anonymous No.10550366]

>>10550361
That’s disgusting and creepy. You should be ashamed of yourself for shitting up the thread. Begone, scrote. May your dick develop necrosis and fall off!

[Anonymous No.10550383]

>>10550366
>I have been on the internet for less than 5 years: The Post

[Anonymous No.10550385]

>>10550023
smooth move scrote

[Anonymous No.10550386]

>>10550383
I’m dying anon thanks for my first laugh of the day

[Anonymous No.10550390]

>>10550125
based Dworkin-sama

>>10550355
Yeah. Great for cosplay but bad for everything else

[Anonymous No.10550393]

>>10550366
>necrosis
More like nigrosis

[Anonymous No.10550405]

>>10550393
Whats that do, make it bigger?

[Anonymous No.10550414]

>>10549516
Are you stupid or something?

[Anonymous No.10550416]

>>10549654
This. Takes a quick google search and some basic reading to realize that pretty much every other person who replied to you either A) is case #103810930 of internet clowns sounding off on something they've done zero research on or B) jelly because they don't have the balls to acknowledge that women are pulling income off of something they aren't willing to do (so they shit on it).

Which.. is fine. It's normal to not be able to handle sex work or want to do sex work. You're not a weirdo for not wanting to expose yourself, it's deeply personal etc. But reducing sex work to >>10549673 hurr durr is just an obvious cop out to complex, modern thought. Just say you're not interested in the field and move on. Otherwise you just look like a clown.

[Anonymous No.10550418]

>>10550416
we don't like libfems here.

[Anonymous No.10550426]

>>10548166
I'm aware this is fishing, but I'll bite. Neither of these girls are fat, and are in fact very pretty. <3

[Anonymous No.10550432]

>>10550031
I actually have a degree and all that (not a gender studies major but I took a gender studies course as an elective, interesting to know such perspectives as Dworkin but it didn't influence me), I don't consider camming/sex work to be anything other than a hobby. I wouldn't want it to be my career because then it becomes a job which becomes something you have to MAKE yourself do even when you're not feeling it. I only like to do sw stuff when it's going to excite me sexually and I wanna earn some extra $$ in the process. It's not something I put work into like a lot of people are talking about. I agree that making sw a career is difficult but when you're a casual like me, I just start streaming when I already feel like 'batin. I listen to music, chat with randos who think I'm cute (though desu I mostly just chat with friends or scroll through SM on my phone) and then when enough randos have given me enough money to reach the tip goal I do my thing and logoff. I don't do anything that I wouldn't already be planning on doing by myself, the one time I did it was really soul sucking and I vowed to never do it again even if it was a shitload of money. I think sex work as a career, for me, would be soul sucking. I'm not saying it is for everyone - you do you - but I don't like pretending to be sexually excited or into gross shit that doesn't sexually excite me, or pretending to be horny when I'd rather be doing anything else. I can't imagine faking orgasms all day, I can proudly say I've never faked an orgasm except for the one time while doing the thing I wasn't sexually excited by in the first place. Faking feels phony. The girls who have set schedules for when they cam and put all that effort in, that's just not me and never will be.

But as for a career I don't want one anyway so there's no future prospects that this is hurting. God forbid my partner leaves me, my parents/inheritance will take care of me just fine. I hate working with a fiery passion.

[Anonymous No.10550434]

>>10550432
imagine having no future aspirations.

[Anonymous No.10550436]

>>10550434
My aspirations are to travel and do whatever makes me happy.

[Anonymous No.10550437]

>>10550436
that's not the world we live in, anon. you're useless.

[Anonymous No.10550438]

>>10550432
So did you decide on joining your local comm or nah?

[Anonymous No.10550441]

>>10550438
Idk yet, for now all I've done is bite the bullet and post a recent coord to CoF.

[Anonymous No.10550448]

>>10550441
Are you the fat redhead?

[Anonymous No.10550450]

>>10550448
can't wait to see her in the ita thread. only an ita would be this braindead and blogpost about her shitty fetish. i wouldn't be surprised if she cams in lolita.

[Anonymous No.10550459]

>>10550441
let's be friends anon, it's fun that you're ballsy enough to be a camgirl with no life aspirations, you do you and all that

[Anonymous No.10550462]

>>10550432
You still haven't answered why you can't just cover your Lolita clothes with a sheet and be done with it

[Anonymous No.10550463]

>>10550432
literally no1curr, keep working for pennies so you can afford the new releases that daddy boyfriend can't buy for you

[Anonymous No.10550467]

>>10550462
because she obviously wears them to cam.

[Anonymous No.10550469]

>>10550462
this, if you don't cover them up i'll make it my personal mission to find you. it won't be hard lmao

[Anonymous No.10550470]

>>10550467
I honestly believe that at this point.

[Anonymous No.10550472]

>>10550416
even if that's the case, the girl ITT sounds absolutely braindead. her entire life and self worth revolves around men. disgusting.

[Anonymous No.10550473]

>>10550469
I double dog dare you to google "lolita camgirl"

[Anonymous No.10550476]

>>10550473
>implying
literally just filter through camsites for weeb egirls with cute rooms that are a little too visible. easy. hope this retard gets a clue

[Anonymous No.10550478]

>>10550472
This doesn't sound like a very conservative viewpoint.

[Anonymous No.10550479]

>>10550476
sorry, I don't know how cam stuff works

[Anonymous No.10550483]

>>10550469
Post her handle here if you think you got her anon

[Anonymous No.10550486]

>>10550479
Don't feel bad anon, most of us don't have any clue how this stuff works, but good thing you don't need to be a chef to know food tastes like shit. Or that someone's occupation makes them a garbage person, whether it be sex work, drug dealing, or a sanitation worker.

[Anonymous No.10550487]

>>10550462
Because it's not real
>Literally everything in my life is amazing and absolutely nothing is wrong in my perfect amazing life except that i'm scared the lolita community might be mean to me in the future. What do I do?

I can actually sympathize, I'm a billionaire and I'm terrified if the lolita community finds out that will hate me. How can I prevent them from finding all the photos I post of my mansion and exotic vacations? I don't want to stop posting them

[Anonymous No.10550494]

>>10550487
is this "I'll give you $10,000 to be my friend" richanon again kek
>/s

[Anonymous No.10550497]

>>10550487
this. she's coping hard.
>haha i am just camming 4 fun
>i have a bf who supports me and parents who would anyway
>i just like 2 masturbate 4 fun!
>somehow my lolita dresses are in the background of my camming, which i enjoy, help me!

[Anonymous No.10550500]

>>10550497
And the dresses can't possibly be moved. But life is amazing

[Anonymous No.10550501]

>>10550432
>I'm so confident and smart
>Watch me paragraph about how confident I am
>This doesn't show that I am in fact incredibly insecure in my choices because I am also downplaying my commitment to sex work and I feel the need to defend and justify them to strangers on the internet

[Anonymous No.10550503]

>>10550416
Honk honk clowny

[Anonymous No.10550505]

>>10550503
shut up u clown whore

[Anonymous No.10550512]

>>10550501
Yeah how could anyone find amusement in trolling the most easily baitable board on this site.

She made more than 2/3 of every reply in this thread be either responding to her, or talking about her in some after her initial post. And now the thread is going to hit autosage.

Never change, gulls.

[Anonymous No.10550543]

>>10550434
Imagine thinking the only future aspirations that count are how someone plans to fulfill their role as a cog in the corporate capitalist machine.

Even the people who enjoy their jobs rarely enjoy them everyday. That's why work is work, but hobbies are leisure. Maximizing leisure time should be everyone's goal in life, sw anon seems to have a good head on her shoulders.

[Anonymous No.10550549]

Feels thread.

[Anonymous No.10550561]

>>10550549
feelsbadman

[Anonymous No.10550564]

>>10550549
>Feels thread giving me more feels

[Anonymous No.10550568]

>>10550543
i hope anon doesn't get abused by her husband who is letting her live off of him...

[Anonymous No.10550570]

>>10550568
shh let anon believe it's love

[Anonymous No.10550597]

>>10550549
It’s made by soup so you know it’s doomed

[Anonymous No.10550606]

>>10550597
God I fucking hate soup.

My absolute bully of a boss resigned today after HR began an investigation into her behaviour. I’m so thrilled!

[Anonymous No.10550614]

>>10550512
Oh no the thread hit autosage, whatever will we do, it's not like can't start a new thread.

[soup No.10550622]

>>10550606
>>10550597
I didn't even do anything wrong D: here's a new thread for a fresh start
>>>10550621

[Anonymous No.10550817]

>>10549993
50 years ago yea

[Anonymous No.10550819]

>short enough for lolita and jfash

>Have huge tits and thicc thighs

Why