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Feels thread Anonymous Mon Dec 14 10:54:07 2020 No.10517088 [Reply] [Original]

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How's everyone feeling with only a week and a half until Christmas?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 10:58:37 2020 No.10517091 >>10517088 Things are going ok, I guess. I just won an auction for my first kimono!

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 11:03:11 2020 No.10517093 >>10517091 Congrats! I hope it arrives quickly.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 11:24:53 2020 No.10517102

>>10517088
My best friend wanted black tea for Christmas, and I found the perfect one for her! She is a big fan of tea leaves, and the tea shop stocked a very special black tea which was extraordinarily sweet. How, you may ask? Apparently the tea bushes had been invaded by a special kind of locust, which made the leaves turn out this way!

Inb4 not /cgl/ related, please it's tea.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 11:29:46 2020 No.10517105 >>10517102 it's automatically /cgl/ related because of how autistic it is.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:04:17 2020 No.10517140 I want my gf to feel comfortable during her monthly discomfort.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:08:14 2020 No.10517141 Fell off the band wagon eating healthy and exercising for a while, but I'm finally back at it. I'm just doing 10 minutes a day while I do CICO right now, but I'm still really happy to be back working out.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:32:12 2020 No.10517153 >>10517140 >Pot >Ibuprofen >Remove uterus

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:44:29 2020 No.10517155
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I wish I wasn't too socially retarded to be a decent buyer on lacemarket. There's been multiple occasions where I'd win an auction and the seller would send me an invoice or send a message asking for my address and I'd just not respond for more than a week. It's incredibly stupid, for some reason I get this anxious feeling in my stomach when I see a message notification and it takes me ridiculous amounts of willpower to actually respond. I consciously know that making the paypal transaction or whatever only takes a minute and it's no effort at all, yet I keep avoiding it. I feel worse about myself the longer I postpone it and constantly think about how I still need to do it. I feel so guilty being this unreliable.
This has never happened on LM but on less niche secondhand sites I've ended up completely ghosting the seller numerous times. I'd feel too embarrassed and guilty about the time that passed so I just don't respond anymore altogether even though I still really want the item.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:49:03 2020 No.10517157 >>10517155 Man this describes me so exactly, I know what you feel. I don’t know how to get rid of this, shame? embarrassment? frankly childish behavior (in my view) I just wish I was normal and capable of handling anything social

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 13:52:28 2020 No.10517161

>>10517155
how about you do everyone a favor and never use LM again so you can stop wasting people's time? you're saying you actively worry and think about responding but you can't even take the time to be considerate enough to make a payment and tell a seller your address. being a decent seller is one thing, but buying requires zero effort on your part and all you're doing is screwing people over. """"muh anxiety"""" lmfao you are just a whiny cunt creating a problem out of literally nothing

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 14:02:34 2020 No.10517166

>>10517155
I understand how you feel to some extent because I have this problem with responding to my friends' messages but not with buying things. I find it very easy to reply with my address and pay the invoice, the latter doesn't even require you to talk to the seller so what seems to be the problem? You definitely don't want to keep this up any longer because not only will you not get the items you want, you'll get negative feedback, be put on a blacklist, and ultimately get banned from LM. Not trying to be mean here, just wanted to be honest with you and give you some incentive to change if you haven't realized it already.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 14:02:58 2020 No.10517167 >>10517161 I get what they say about feeling nervous about replying (I get it too!) but if it is affecting them that much it sounds like actual mental problems. I agree she shouldn't be buying at this moment if she can't even send a reply.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 14:09:35 2020 No.10517171 >>10517091 Nice! Pics?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 14:51:09 2020 No.10517187 >>10517155 stop buying stuff to cope and go to therapy, unironically

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 14:56:45 2020 No.10517193 File: 808 KB, 1200x1200, 9682.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10517171 Just a simple second-hand komon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:00:26 2020 No.10517195 >>10517105 Whenever I'm excited about my feels in these threads people tell me I'm autistic... I know it has been a couple lf hours, but this sure dampens my holiday spirit.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:11:20 2020 No.10517198 >>10517193 lovely! >>10517195 sounds like you probably are.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:23:26 2020 No.10517204

>>10517195
It sounds like you found a cool gift, I'm happy for you and it's nice that you want to show your friend you care with a thoughtful present. But what kind of a response do you expect when you post your completely unrelated diary entry to a /cgl/ thread and then complain when someone mentions that?

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:43:55 2020 No.10517216

>>10517204
I'd expect people to leave it alone and let it sit there like a happy toad in an indifferent pond? Then the ones who just read can nod at my weird tea trivia and go on with their day, hopefully a little happier that another person has happy feels.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:45:14 2020 No.10517218 >>10517204 Nayrt, but the two posts after hers had nothing to do with cgl either lol

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 15:53:53 2020 No.10517222

>>10517161
This desu. I've dealt with a lot of social anxiety in my life. I know how it feels, trust me. But the day I stopped wallowing in self pity and called myself out for being a whiny little shit is the day I finally made some progress. I know how dumb it sounds to say 'just do it' but just facing your fears and swallowing your pride for one tiny second is all it takes to start getting better.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:01:51 2020 No.10517228 >>10517218 If first anon hadn't pointed out that it wasn't /cgl/ related, no one would have made the joke.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:03:54 2020 No.10517232

>>10517216
Personally I don't mind off topic posts, especially when they're positive, but your reaction comes across as a bit oversensitive. Honestly I don't even think >>10517105 meant it in a mean-spirited way. There's no need to let that affect your holiday spirit so severely.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:12:00 2020 No.10517236

>>10517228
Ah, I see there's been multiple miscommunications. I'm just a little bummed out that it has happened multiple times, which in turn lowers my holiday hype. It's not like I'm crying about it. You're right about them probably not meaning it in a mean-spirited way, we're all on 4chan after all. But being repeatedly called autistic in the very specific situation of happiness made a feel of its own, and then I posted that? Please don't worry about me in regards to oversensitivity. My holiday spirit is not severely impacted, just a little down for the evening. It's not even Christmas yet.

>>10517228
Point taken, I'll stand for my off-topic happiness without flagging myself as off-topic in the future. I'll just be a happy little frog.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:17:56 2020 No.10517238

Ive got some happy feels- I found out today I'm getting backpaid extended unemployment benefits for up to another 6 weeks- I haven't had any real income since august and was living off savings. After months of struggling financially and desperately searching for jobs things are looking up- that money plus the fact I FINALLY started a new job this week (YAY!) means I can get back on track, refill my savings, and set some money aside for Sugary Carnival next year.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:22:25 2020 No.10517239

I wish I could post pictures around here without being worried about people from my comm discovering I'm using cgl. I prefer sharing and discussing my handmade pieces over here than on any other online platform, but being outed would be quite bad for me.

So, in the end, I don't post neither here nor anywhere.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:56:41 2020 No.10517250

>>10517161
>>10517222
Thanks, I probably needed to hear that.
Constantly getting angry at myself for being like this is just a stupid way to cope with the guilt by making myself feel bad, while still not getting the thing done. It's still taking the easy way out by self-flagellating instead of solving the problem. I used to feel like, well, at least I have the self reflection to know that I'm being a piece of shit and can adequately beat myself up for that. But in reality it doesn't matter that I do, because it doesn't change a thing about my actions.

The only way to try and improve at this is to get over my bullshit and bite the bullet and do it anyway. Every time I do succeed in responding right away makes the next message a little bit easier.
It blows that something so small seemingly takes such an unreasonable amount of discipline, but all I can do about it is suck it up and do the thing.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 16:57:58 2020 No.10517252

>>10517088
Country's going back into full lockdown until deep into January at least, but it's not like it matters because most of my friends live on the other side of the country anyway and the one friend that was willing and able to help me with cosplay stuff moved to the UK to study there.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 17:09:10 2020 No.10517260 >>10517088 you bitch >:(

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:11:38 2020 No.10517262

I got home and then I just laid down on my bed and started crying for a bit. Stopped crying now but I feel really down. Have been listening to Komm Süsser Tod on repeat ever since before I got home.
I got no motivation, my life is so empty, so much time wasted. What I want is just to be a part of a group and feel like I belong and I'm wanted.
And the world just keeps getting worse too. I used to be able to go to the train station and creep on the nerds who hung out there, sometimes I'd meet people, there were meetups. But really that wasn't so good either, I didn't have anyone, but now I can't even wish I had anyone. I don't know when I gave up, but it's been a while.
Even when I go to cons I meet strangers who let me hang out with them much more rarely. Am I too old? For some reason those kind people were almost always 17, and now I guess I look visibly much more than 17 so maybe they don't want anything to do with me anymore. Or maybe the cosplay community just changed and doesn't care about being social anymore. Or maybe I don't have any fandoms in common with people anymore.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:11:49 2020 No.10517263

Even though I realize people don't owe me, I feel resentful towards drawfags who won't take two minutes to do something that would take me years of study and practice to learn. Stuff that would benefit them one way or another too, mind you. Because of people's attitude I've been forced to pick up a bunch of ultimately useless skills over the years.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:12:56 2020 No.10517264 >>10517260 Woof woof motherfucker.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 17:27:44 2020 No.10517269 >>10517264 can't believe you would do that and so meticulously too with your drawing, linking threads and corny responses to people's posts. good job anon I'm proud of you.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:31:53 2020 No.10517270

>>10517263
Are you talking about not getting a drawing in the coord draw thread?
If you or your coord look too shitty for people to want to draw you, you can always get a commission. It's not their fault that you decided to learn how to draw instead of paying a couple tenners to get some artwork made.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:31:59 2020 No.10517271

>>10517239
Is posting on cgl still even considered a bad thing? Most lolitas I've met either already post on cgl or are super hugbox-y, with little in-between. The latter are usually not well-dressed, either. I suppose if you're a comm mod that might scare some people, but you know your situation best.

My feel is in the past year I've worked a lot on my anxiety and perfectionism and have been both wearing lolita daily and sharing photos near-daily to keep a log of my past coordinates, and I'm very proud of how far I've come. I'm obviously not getting much attention due to IG tag shenanigans, and it isn't the original reason I started keeping a log, but I'm worried about getting into the mindset where I judge outfit quality by the number of likes I get. It's only a small worry, and I've met some cool people in the process, but it's something I'm cognizant of.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:34:18 2020 No.10517275 >>10517263 >people won't cater to my every whim and this is clearly their attitude problem and not mine

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:40:40 2020 No.10517281

>>10517271
Well done on keeping up with posting your daily coords! It takes a lot of effort to take photos consistently, I could never.
As long as you're aware of the possibility that you could get into that mindset I think you're fine. Remind yourself of the coords you've seen getting a lot of IG likes. Chances are that most of them aren't coords that you would find particularly good. Likes tend to be a reflection of trendiness, photo quality and OTTness rather than quality of the actual outfit.

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:48:34 2020 No.10517288

>>10517271
>is posting on /cgl/ a bad thing?
I imagine it depends on the comm. 4chan in general is still seen as a "scary" internet hate machine (co-worker said he didn't want to visit the site because he was afraid he might get "hacked" by just opening a page) to people so I wouldn't let too many people know I'm here. Plus if something gets posted to the ita thread from that comm, they're going to look at you first with suspicion.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 17:49:23 2020 No.10517290 File: 119 KB, 720x491, erjhdasgf.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10517269 Nah, I'm not really OP. I'm just pulling your leg before I pull my dick to something beautiful.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 18:09:25 2020 No.10517300 >>10517290 that's cool, i wish i had a di*k

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 18:25:14 2020 No.10517309 >>10517300 We'll share mine. Perhaps you could be my something beautiful.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 18:53:15 2020 No.10517325 >>10517309 haha you flirted with a dude, gaaaaay. that's what you get for pretending to be the SHAMELESS OP

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 19:32:12 2020 No.10517347 >>10517288 >co-worker said he didn't want to visit the site because he was afraid he might get "hacked" by just opening a page lmao that's actually amazing, I love how after all this time that image still lives on

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 20:05:32 2020 No.10517365 >>10517325 I'll screw anything that is legal, gives conscent and turns me on. You're funny though, so here's something beautiful. https://twibooru.org/1756779

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 20:15:15 2020 No.10517372 Man, I just really love lolita

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 20:30:38 2020 No.10517377 >>10517262 Maybe it's just me, but it feels like people are more apprehensive these days. They'll instantly think you're a weirdo if you try chatting them up, both online and offline, even on cons.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 21:09:47 2020 No.10517391 >>10517365 did you just link me lewds without asking for my consent?? that's sexual harassment anon how could you. >>10517262 you could always give me (you)'s. I'll be here for you anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 21:15:22 2020 No.10517393 >>10517372 ily anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 22:19:35 2020 No.10517426 >>10517393 just because we share the same hobby doesn’t mean you can confess your love for me weirdo.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 22:41:16 2020 No.10517440 >>10517102 that was a very fun chain of posts to read. I blame the OP. If I was OP I feel like you wouldn't have mentioned it not being /cgl/ related, therefore your holiday spirit would be left intact.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 22:43:39 2020 No.10517442 >>10517393 ily too anon, the other response wasn't me

Anonymous Mon Dec 14 23:11:57 2020 No.10517458

Day 10 of waiting for my 2DAY PRIORITY SHIP dress i won off lacemarket. It's a dream dress and i'm freaking out everyday thinking it will get lost/ruined. Plus USPS is just terrible right now, everything is backed up.
Luckily the seller said if it does become lost or arrives completely ruined she was going to refund me all my money. But i just want my dress.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 23:23:55 2020 No.10517466 >>10517458 Check the tracking. I haven't had any delays and I've received about 10 packages this month. Maybe just lucky?

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 23:24:04 2020 No.10517468 >>10517458 Probably because of the holiday rush.

>>	Anonymous Mon Dec 14 23:56:37 2020 No.10517476 >>10517458 Same boat, all my secret santa gifts are delayed

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 00:18:44 2020 No.10517483

>>10517466
Most people i've talk too are waiting for packages from all the way back from mid Nov.
>>10517468
I'm guessing so but it gets stressful. And im sure the workers are just as stressed.
>>10517476
Sorry to hear that anon hope your packages get delivered soon. We all deserve our cute stuff. Plus this is my first big purchase in a year.
AND i have an order with Wunderwelt through yamato, so i'm hoping they don't transfer their packages off with USPS once in the states, cause that has 3 MMM items.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 00:56:59 2020 No.10517491 >>10517483 UPS handles Yamato once it reaches North America, I believe.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 01:01:20 2020 No.10517492

>>10517263
>implying that it would somehow benefit drawfags to draw her for free
>proceeds to call drawing a useless skill that she was forced to take up because drawfags didn't draw her shitty coord
Lol... why don't you just tell us how you really feel.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 01:42:16 2020 No.10517494 I’m a simp for soup but senpai will never notice me uwu

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 01:51:16 2020 No.10517496 >>10517494 Ok Soup.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 01:53:42 2020 No.10517497

>>10517483
Damn that sucks. USPS can always be depended on for their unreliability, but I've been lucky af. I've gotten a few packages from Europe and AUS all within ~2-3 weeks. The one from UK took like a week not even. I feel unironically #blessed.

Hope your RNG gets better!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 02:14:49 2020 No.10517504 When will my SAL package return from the war...

>>	soup Tue Dec 15 02:18:27 2020 No.10517510 >>10517494 >>10517496 well that's embarrassing. how'd you know it was me?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 02:21:58 2020 No.10517516 >try to encourage gf to wear nicer clothes, even say I'll buy them for her if she's not confident in spending her money >Wears bootleg jeans and an oversized linen shirt day in, day out

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 02:35:12 2020 No.10517521 My huge haul over seashipping from october still hasnt arrived and i wont be at home til late january. Please let shipping and my roomates be attentive and kind. Shipping limbo gives me nausea

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 05:09:49 2020 No.10517550

>>10517458
All my packages to the US are stuck in shipping limbo right now too and haven't updated for days. Paypal holds the money of half of them until they arrived and I can't even get in contact with USPS because I need an american address and phone number for it. Sorry anon but god does your country's shipping service suck.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 05:12:38 2020 No.10517552 >>10517521 >seashipping Sorry anon but you're in idiot. Sea takes 3-5 months minimum even without covid and holidays.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 05:14:11 2020 No.10517553 >>10517521 >seashipping Sea takes 3-5 months minimum even without covid or holidays.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 05:50:00 2020 No.10517561 >>10517521 Shut the fuck up. I ordered gym equipment early Setember from a domestic seller, SEPTEMBER and they've delayed the shipment twice now and I won't be seeing it until early January. Fuck off. I hate you.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 06:17:22 2020 No.10517569

>>10517504
Mood.
I shipped with SAL on February (an item I bought in January) and it got returned because it took forever to actually ship out and everything got cucked by covid in March lmao. It's going to be sitting there for literally a year with all the +30 other items I bought this year. Fuck seamail, not gonna take a risk and dhl is stupid expensive.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 07:27:19 2020 No.10517573 Feeling really good. Thanks to AP I’m probably going to hit 100 main pieces next year.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 10:05:24 2020 No.10517608 File: 104 KB, 1247x388, soup.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Lol, what the fuck was this?

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 10:14:18 2020 No.10517612

>Be gothic
>Majortity black and white wardrobe
>Colour? Don't know her
>Enjoy this kind of living thoroughly
>Come today
>Out bra shopping
>Need a new skintone one to wear under white stuff
>Get great service in covid-empty boutique
>Basically just chilling in the changing room while the lady runs about to find my size
>She hands me a "skin tone" one
>It's super comfy and my preferred model
>But ma'am this is pink
>"Yes, a rather dusty pink, but it suits white skin colour quite nice"
>"Why don't you take it home and try it with your white stuff?"
>"Just come back here and exchange it for the black model if you don't like it"
>Do as she says
>The bra is invisible from the outside, like I want it to be
>Despite being clearly pink in my b & w eyes
>Stare at it for minutes on end

Gulls, I feel like a comic book character. I'm gonna keep the bra, and stop overthinking this business as soon as I've vented about it.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 11:54:26 2020 No.10517654 >>10517612 Sorry madam, your goth card has been revoked, please drop it off at your local DMV

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:02:15 2020 No.10517658

I can't stop thinking about all the lolita items I want but they never pop up on auctions and I get no response on the BST thread. There must be someone out there who has them sitting neglected in their wardrobe...

I know everyone goes through these feel and i'm nothing special. I just want to see more beautiful clothing in my wardrobe.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:05:56 2020 No.10517662 tfw 29 >>10517102 I drink more tea than is probably healthy.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:13:33 2020 No.10517664

>>10517658
I know that feel, anon. A lot of my DDs are older pieces and I often think about the fact that they're probably gathering dust in someone's closet. It's so weird because I got back into sweet this year and I'm a little late to the party after being strictly old school, so I ruminate and get pissy about the fact that my DD sold 5 years ago for a fraction of the price it would sell for now. Sometimes I get the urge to message people on LM asking if they'd sell it to me but I don't want to be an asshole, even though I might get a chance to buy it before someone else.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:15:30 2020 No.10517665

>>10517516
>tfw want to be fashionable but have to conceal carry a gun daily
>in effect the only outfit i can wear is jeans and an oversized jacket/hoodie
>actually bought an armored hoodie so now it looks like i stole it from my bf's closet
i have pretty dresses that do nothing but hang in my closet. there was a story of homura-cosplay anon who cc'd a 1911 in that and i wish she would come back and tell me how tf. my only hope would be moving to the nice area of the city which i can't afford to do. rent there is literally double. (purse carry is a big no-no.) homura-anon where are you?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:19:55 2020 No.10517666 >>10517665 can't you get a thigh holster, or a holster belt to wear? if you're a lolita that could easily be concealed under a dress or petti.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:21:10 2020 No.10517667 >>10517664 AYRT - I completely agree. I see one of my dream dresses went unsold 5 years ago but I'm assuming they sold elsewhere. I just wanna collect instrument/music and chess prints and then prance around in art galleries and museums.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:23:20 2020 No.10517670 >>10517496 >>10517510 You lie.

soup Tue Dec 15 12:27:13 2020 No.10517673

>>10517608
that was supposed to say farmers. I was going to say cows since the site is called lolcow, but I thought about it and people might take it the wrong way. I just wanted to be the op of the feels thread since the one here got stolen from me.
>>10517612
you’re really good at storytelling
>>10517662
Happy birthday anon. If your mom held on for 10 more days you would have the same bday as our lord and savior jesus christ

>>	soup Tue Dec 15 12:29:38 2020 No.10517676 >>10517670 we woke up at the same time. coincidence? unlikely, soup

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:31:45 2020 No.10517677

>>10517666
Thigh holster is super impractical for a number of reasons. weight (it's heavy), access, printing (where you can see the outline through clothing and tell it's there), fabric rubbing (will ruin anything it rubs against except more durable/heavy cotton linen denim etc.), maintaining concealment (dress lifts up leg when you sit down? enjoy chatting with police.) I'm more interested in nanchatte and j-fash than lolita.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 12:43:45 2020 No.10517681
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I'm so sad my comm is full of poorfags and kids who can't afford brand yet. I don't really mind Taobao dresses (I own a couple and they're great for casual wear or busy days when I don't want to ruin my burando) and I don't exactly look down on people who wear offbrand/indie, but I just wish for a cute friend group to twin OTT sweet AP with.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 13:18:04 2020 No.10517698 >>10517573 Damn son how long you been at it? In the words of chappelle "I'm rich bitch"

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 13:42:15 2020 No.10517708 >>10517681 same here, my comm's full of brandwhores but all of them are into gothic lolita, i'm the only one here that wears 2010 sweet AP.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 13:47:07 2020 No.10517710 >>10517698 About 3 years? I'm at 80 right now (no taobao or handmade)

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 14:15:59 2020 No.10517722 >>10517681 >make good friends who like cute things and aren't ugly >let them wear your dresses with you >??? >profit

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 14:30:12 2020 No.10517735 >>10517681 I wear unshirred classic that no one else in my local comm can fit into, despite owning certain dresses in multiple colorways. Feelsbadman

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 14:40:38 2020 No.10517741

>>10517722
As if I'd let anyone touch my brand, lmao, no thank you. Only lolita related item I've let someone borrow ever was a wig that came back to me tangled so bad I had to throw it away, it looked like they put it in a fucking blender. So that's a no from me.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 15:30:35 2020 No.10517767 >>10517662 Happy birthday, anon!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:03:30 2020 No.10517792 >>10517741 you realize wigs are much easier to ruin, yea?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:16:58 2020 No.10517799 >>10517792 It takes 1 second to ruin a dress from spilling/falling/accident/ripping/tearing A world of difference between a ratty $30 wig, and a damaged $300 dress

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:18:17 2020 No.10517801 >>10517799 This. >>10517710 Are you the person with the sugar daddy who bought them 50+ dresses this year? Or one of the software engis with 100k expendable income?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:36:32 2020 No.10517816 >>10517673 did you get banned

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:38:18 2020 No.10517817 >>10517801 No lol. My living is just cheap so all the money goes to the fashion.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 16:47:42 2020 No.10517826

>>10517801
nta but it's pretty easy to amass a lot of brand. i mean it depends heavily on what the individual pieces are, but if somebody's buying a dress or two a month for some years they'll end up with a lot.

for someone with a good income, $200-$600 a month isn't much. the real question is, why don't you have 80 dresses too?

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 17:01:58 2020 No.10517839

>>10517826
Live in CA and save more than half of my salary a year, max my 401k, and invest in the stock market, etc etc. I just started collecting dresses again and I don't spend a lot on really anything due to wanting to purchase property on the down slump of the market. Even 150k salary isn't enough to really buy decent property in an area that is safe unless you're saving a lot and sacrificing in other areas.

Also, 600$ a month probably won't get you 2 new dresses a month due to tax(10% in LA area, fuck income tax as well) and shipping costs if ordering from abroad.

>>10517817
Has 100+ over 3 years. A dress or two a month isn't difficult to buy, but an average of a little under 3 dresses a month over 3 years at around 300$ a dress is a lot more than $200-$600. I'm just assuming they are all new. But it makes sense to be able to spend a lot on brand if your living costs are like $500 or whatever a month and you're buying second hand.

TL;DR I don't make enough money to justify spending $300+ a month on one dress and CA is expensive as shit, and my desire to own property is higher than my desire to own a lot of dresses aka priority.

If I get a better job though, you best believe I will be spending more.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 17:06:46 2020 No.10517845 >>10517839 She said she has 80, not 100, and that she's probably going to buy 20 next year. 2 dresses a month is not outrageous especially if she's getting some secondhand

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 17:12:23 2020 No.10517848

>>10517845
Oh my bad. I think I read in this thread or another that someone will hit 100 with the releases next year.

And yes, 2 dresses a month is totally reasonable if some are secondhand and your living costs are low and you prioritize brand.

I'm really looking forward to the wardrobe posts at the end/early next year. They always motivate me to work harder and pursue higher paying jobs.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 17:30:54 2020 No.10517865 File: 28 KB, 500x500, FB_IMG_1572813822917.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I had a dream last night that the SC MTO was this weekend

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 18:06:04 2020 No.10517901 >no friends despite living in a huge, diverse city >no one to send weeb shit to or play games with >no one to cosplay with since my only friend moved away save me from my autism. I just want a friend

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 18:16:32 2020 No.10517915 >>10517767 it's...it's not my birthday. i was just whinging that i was an old hag.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 18:23:28 2020 No.10517922 >>10517088 I paid extra on express shipping for a dress which was supposed to „arrive within a week“ and now it’s been almost two weeks with very little updates. I just feel scammed paying for express shipping.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 18:29:09 2020 No.10517925 >>10517915 you should've been more specific then also >29 >old honey you better buckle up then cause it's only gonna get worse from here

>>	soup Tue Dec 15 19:06:19 2020 No.10517949 >>10517816 yes, apparently there’s alreay a positivity thread. >>10517925 damn wishing someone happy bday when it’s not their bday but them complaining about being old is messed up tsk tsk.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 19:10:09 2020 No.10517951 File: 855 KB, 803x632, momsan.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10517088 My area is about to get assblasted with snow and all my incoming packages are still days out But it's okay, I still have faith

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 19:34:07 2020 No.10517960

just put in a deposit with my SS for all of the AP rereleases plus accessories if they come out. ofc i'll be disappointed if NB and SC aren't cotton but if i hate them that much i can sell to someone who doesn't care.

after a year of seeing absolutely nothing i want from AP (even secondhand) this is a magical time!!!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 19:49:38 2020 No.10517968 >>10517960 They are confirmed cotton

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 19:53:10 2020 No.10517969 Nigger

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 20:46:20 2020 No.10517997 >>10517922 It's the busiest time of the year for shipping. You're dumb if you don't expect delays.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:05:22 2020 No.10518061

>no idea about what to make for cosplay
>thinking of what to read/watch for inspo
>might as well read Ouran since it's so well regarded even though it's not really my genre
>actually end up liking it
>thinking about cosplaying Tamaki now since I'd fit hit well with features, etc.

The only problem is, the blazer is lilac. WHY IS IT SO GARISH?? Also, slightly concerned about fujos but w/e.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:15:12 2020 No.10518066 >>10518061 >blazer is lilac are you colorblind, friend? periwinkle maybe, lilac not at all.

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:18:03 2020 No.10518072

>>10518061
I remember making my own back in the day and finding that right lilac in appropriate suiting material was a bitch. All the ones sold online were like blue for some reason?
I think they’re releasing a second season in the near future so the timing is good so go for it!

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:26:30 2020 No.10518080 >>10518066 Actually, his coat is a deep periwinkle, you fake anime nerd

Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:28:14 2020 No.10518082

>>10518066
I'll just round down to "purple" and call it a day, I'm terrible with describing color
>>10518072
God, I hate picking out fabric for cosplays. It's always "do I want to go as close to source material as possiblr and look like a circus clown, or do I want to go for a more muted but nicer to look at color?"

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:29:41 2020 No.10518085 >>10518082 it's closer to light blue is what we are trying to say.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:32:43 2020 No.10518092 >>10518085 >>10518082 >>10518080 >>10518072 >>10518066 >>10518061 Uh excuse you? this is a lolita feels thread. Get out of here with your cosplay feels

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:40:49 2020 No.10518108 >>10518092 you forgot to namefag, soup.

>>	soup Tue Dec 15 22:55:07 2020 No.10518131 >>10518108 uh how do you anons keep finding out it’s me?? spooky. btw the color is light blue or sky blue there’s no need for fancy names when it’s all the same thing.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 22:57:15 2020 No.10518133 >>10517968 oh man. if the bunny headdress and all the matching OTKs come out too, there really is a god.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 15 23:36:22 2020 No.10518170 >>10518131 i am stalking u, baby.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 00:09:15 2020 No.10518198 >>10518131 >light blue >sky blue I know men are worse at seeing colour, but thinking those jackets are light or sky blue is laughable.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 00:30:09 2020 No.10518220 The OTT sweet hype is reminding me how much I dislike OTT sweet. Then again, I'm not a fan of modern sweet either, so maybe I just dislike sweet in general. 2015 sweet was nice though, bring that back.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 00:32:33 2020 No.10518222 >>10518061 Ouran was a really nice read, maybe I should go re-read it. I'm still holding out for a season 2 of the anime ;_;

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 00:38:00 2020 No.10518225 >>10518220 what exactly do you mean by 2015 sweet lmao

soup Wed Dec 16 00:39:40 2020 No.10518227

>>10518170
let me visit japan at least once before you murder suicide us
>>10518198
I will not stand here and be laughed at for my disability. I'm part of the 4% that makes up the world's population of people with protan color blindness. I'm proud to be a Protaner and won't stand for your insult. just you wait anon, I'm posting this injustice, discrimination, grievance, villainy and wickedness on kpop twitter to have army rewrite this wrong that have befallen upon me this day.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 00:58:01 2020 No.10518235 I always feel out of place. >Don't really relate well to people my age >People older treat me like a kid >People younger treat me with distance >Anytime I do relate to people I'm putting on a fake personality I feel so alone.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 01:03:36 2020 No.10518238 >>10517553 Oh christ thanks anon >>10517561 Take your pills... Or rather get off the roids freak

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 01:12:55 2020 No.10518242 >>10518225 I mean the releases around that year. Cream Cookie Collection, Crystal Dream Carnival, Mercator Antique Shop, Luminous Sanctuary, Castle Mirage, Antoinette Decoration, etc.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 02:47:47 2020 No.10518271 >>10518220 I really don't care for it either. The thread someone started is full of awful coords. Some of the prints are very cute for sure.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 05:57:45 2020 No.10518306 >mfw gained 25lbs >mfw too scared to wear my dresses because I’m afraid to find out they don’t fit anymore I wanna be 120lbs again.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 06:12:45 2020 No.10518310 >>10518306 Are you me? I gained like 15lbs from 125lbs and I feel so bad now. One of my AP low waist skirts is a bit tight now and I'm panicking

Anonymous Wed Dec 16 08:13:22 2020 No.10518338

>>10518061
>>10518222
God ouran was so good, I remember following it back in the day on onemanga. Sure it's cringey now, but there was something comfy about being a babby weeb.

>>10518225
>>10518242
2015 was a good release year for sweet, wow.

My tangential-related feel is modern classic makes me sad. I know the fashion evolves and that's a good thing, but it feels like the three classic camps are:
> Basically Aristocrat
> OTT rococo dress up
> Sweet but in jewel tones/muted colors

I'm just nostalgic for 2010 era classic, but it isn't what's trendy

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 08:48:31 2020 No.10518357 >>10518338 Nah, those weren't all 2015 AP. Those releases are from 2014 to 2016, but I thought it would be weird to call it "2014 to 2016 sweet".

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 13:31:39 2020 No.10518469 >>10518357 That's fair, wasn't British Bear/Classic Fairytales a product of that same era?

Anonymous Wed Dec 16 15:10:40 2020 No.10518508

>>10518306
tfw. i just realized i gained weight (don't own a scale) because my thighs mush in the shower and my jeans are too tight now. i'm going on an emergency diet to knock the flab off. how do people get fat? i barely qualify as mildly plush and i feel completely disgusted with myself.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 15:28:40 2020 No.10518513 >>10518338 I’d argue that Ouran is self aware enough not to be cringey. My bf, who’s not much of a weeb, watched it last year and thought it was hilarious.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 15:29:42 2020 No.10518514 >>10518508 Just get a scale so you can keep track of the loss and catch gain before it gets too far next time. They’re very cheap.

Anonymous Wed Dec 16 15:38:25 2020 No.10518516

>>10518514
I don't want a scale because badfeels. My appetitie has crashed to zero recently so I'll just live on salad and miso soup for a few months. Before this I was binging too much on junkfood.
I think using a pair of jeans to measure is a valid metric.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 17:10:28 2020 No.10518558 >>10518516 Ok, so you’re a mentally ill brainlet and no advice is going to help you.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 17:28:04 2020 No.10518565 >>10518513 I agree with that assessment. The nostalgia makes me want to wear my Ouran cosplay when cons are a thing again

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 18:08:58 2020 No.10518581 Was on the phone with employment insurance on hold for 2.5 hours, only to have them hang up on me.

>>	soup Wed Dec 16 18:43:22 2020 No.10518595 my metabolism finally slowed down. first time I ever hit 120 lbs hopefully I can bulk all the way up to 140 lbs. ^__^

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 19:02:48 2020 No.10518607 >>10518513 Oh, Ouran wasn't the cringey part (AYRT I just showed it to my partner who has watched zero anime and he thought it was great too), being a babby weeb was cringey.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 20:07:48 2020 No.10518619 >>10518558 kinna harsh fren

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 20:10:47 2020 No.10518621 Someone bought something I wanted before I could I'm so sad

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 22:01:41 2020 No.10518658 >>10517161 Based

Anonymous Wed Dec 16 22:18:49 2020 No.10518666

>>10517187
Literally this.

Wtf is America these days. All these entitled, no common sense idiots are running around with these "problems." Kids are starving in other countries and people are getting their fucking organs harvested and killed. How the hell is buying items causing you anxiety. Literally wtf. I fucking hate this country lol.

>>	soup Wed Dec 16 22:52:08 2020 No.10518676 File: 164 KB, 1060x1094, 0d6cf7348a4e3b2de3607965ca9e9534.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I want to build a camper van so bad

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 02:37:49 2020 No.10518748

I have a massive passion for history. I love to read about the massive impacts such few people had on history. Alexander, Ceasar, Augustus, Napoleon, etc. But it's making me miserable. Alexander had conquered the entire known world in his 20s, Ceasar had risen to be the most powerful human being in the world against all odds, Augustus became the first Roman Emperor in his 20s, Napoleon was a Army General at 24.

All these people managed so much in their 20s and here I am posting on a shitty image board because it's impossible to avoid people dredging up old internet history of you as soon as you attempt to do something ambitious. It makes me feel inadequate and makes me hate studying history.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 03:00:12 2020 No.10518751 >>10518748 they were like, super rich though or born into some sort of royalty. so don't worry about it. you'd more likely be some sort of roman or french commoner

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 03:11:13 2020 No.10518753

>>10518751
I guess.

It feels like we live in the age of no heros. Morals and ethics shifts so fast that people can't remain heros for long before they're demonised.

Modern politicking makes sure that any and all possible indiscretions of a person whether or not they are reflective on that person today are brought up.

Cancel culture basically makes sure that unless you have the forethought of a god to not do something that may or may not be controversial in 10 years, that if you're at any time in the public eye, you're completely fucked.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 03:50:26 2020 No.10518759 i got such a good haul on CC this week, can't wait for it to arrive

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 04:13:58 2020 No.10518763 >>10517088 I fucking hate Kokoro and that other LM shop that makes their description in bold Who even are these bitches? Do they even wear lolita?

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 04:17:07 2020 No.10518764

>>10518753
No, it's just rich people wised up and shut the hell up.

Not even joking, back then you would want people to know your names, because if they did they would fear/respect/follow you. Now though? All it takes it some bored loser online to fuck up your plans.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 04:56:15 2020 No.10518767 I bought my best friend a Victorian Maiden dress for Christmas and she hasn't texted or called to tell me she's got it or to thank me (it's her first brand dress). I'm kind of hurt that she messaged her boyfriend about it but not me.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 05:27:12 2020 No.10518781

>>10518763
Kokoro is such an unpleasant seller, no idea why they're even still on LM with 15 negs! Had a very unpleasant experience myself with a sale that fell through and since then I give all her listings the stink eye. She has to be buddy buddy with the mods to still be there

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 07:18:31 2020 No.10518802

my two best friends started dating.

I can always tell when the other gets home now, not because they post in our groupchats like they used to, but because the one i'm playing with will just suddenly go afk without warning
When the three of us are together now, they just talk to eachother without room for me to really say anything
Sometimes it's really just pillow talk and I'll just, afk i guess?
the girl has been my best friend for over 10 years, ive known the guy for 4 years.
Its not that I don't want them to be happy or anything its just that, they deserve eachother and im glad they have a nice relationship.
the loneliness is just really crushing

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 07:21:22 2020 No.10518803 >>10518781 She also recently kept everything overpriced on her shop and sold it on LM cheaper lol; now her shop is password protected. Fuck her desu, glad no one bought her overpriced resale taobao shit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 07:22:30 2020 No.10518804 >>10518802 oof

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 07:31:00 2020 No.10518806

>>10518764
There's plenty of regular people today who have had their rags to riches just to turn to rags again because 10 years ago they made an edgy joke. It's hardly got anything to do with wealth, plenty of YouTubers, indie music artists, game devs, etc.

Also plenty of people from regular backgrounds have changed the world for better and for worse.
>Mao
>Lenin
>Stalin
>Hitler
>Mussolini

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 08:52:35 2020 No.10518824 Just started getting into lolita this year and already at 10 dresses. Can't wait to wear them out, so far just wearing them at him and breaking in shoes.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 09:47:42 2020 No.10518835

>>10518666
I low key hate moral high ground takes. In the grand scheme of things those starving kids and other issues like that would be insignificant too so why would you stress about something you can’t ‘fix’. anon is doing more by ‘coping’ than you are by acting like oh so virtuous.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 09:59:07 2020 No.10518838

>>10518835
NTA but it's more "why get stressed out over something so small?" I understand some people can't help it but it often feels like people who complain about these little things haven't experienced harsh realities of life yet. I have to remind myself that they probably have and not to judge so quickly, but that's where the mindset comes from.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 10:31:34 2020 No.10518847 File: 24 KB, 640x640, 1604884673139.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10518753 There are still some heroes left

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 10:57:59 2020 No.10518853

>>10518838
People also are overdramatic for effect. When most people write something like, "didn't get my dream dress, gonna go off myself," they don't mean it literally. It's just funnier and more succinct than, "didn't get my dream dress, kind of let down since I was already having a bad day and things have been hard lately, and this was something I've been looking for for years, and who knows when it will come up on the market again."

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 11:25:00 2020 No.10518859 I really like some of the aesthetics of nymphet fashion but am scared to wear it in case I'm called out as being into DDLG or whatever.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 11:41:06 2020 No.10518862 >>10518859 Wear what you like but don't advertise it as nymphet and you're fine. It's just normie clothes

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 11:57:28 2020 No.10518866
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I’ve decided to pay out the ass for decent shipping on the stuff I had stored at the shopping service I use. I don’t trust sea mail because the two times I used it in the past my packages were lost. At least I didn’t order much this year and got a lot of money from working, it cancels itself out in a way

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:03:19 2020 No.10518867 >>10518835 Only an American could defend such an entitled American perspective on life.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:05:31 2020 No.10518869 >>10518802 Make more friends

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:15:16 2020 No.10518873

>>10518835
>low key

Ok zoomer. Your generation is uneducated, apathetic, and the individuals most likely obese given the current CDC metrics.

There are still some individuals that try to help as much as financially and reasonably possible. Not everyone is a fake virtue signaler in this world and not everyone lacks empathy for those that have faced true atrocities and truly hard lives. Being "anxious" about not paying for an item after you have willingly purchased it is not a problem. It also shows the Anon's complete disregard for the time and effort of the sellers they are interacting with. They need to grow up so stop coddling them.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:35:45 2020 No.10518881 >>10518873 nayrt but you sound dumb as fuck

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:36:22 2020 No.10518882 >>10518866 Sorry that DHL or Yamato just stole your wallet. At least you'll have some nice new things soon!

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:38:22 2020 No.10518883 >>10518881 Lol have fun with your coping over buying problems issues, "nayrt."

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 12:42:18 2020 No.10518884 >>10518873 'low key' has been around forever and is more a millennial than zoomer thing anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 13:25:03 2020 No.10518900 >>10518884 None of my millennial friends nor I use slang terms like that unironically. From my personal experience only really young teenagers and maybe early 20s kids use language like that.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 13:29:10 2020 No.10518902 >>10518900 And yet you used unironically unironically. You're a lying dummy

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 13:32:30 2020 No.10518905 >>10518900 >I don't use that term >That must mean no one else does!! The phrase "lowkey" has been used since at least the 1800s in a non-musical context. You are retarded

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 13:50:28 2020 No.10518911

>>10517088
I think I hate someone at my lolita comm.
I'm starting to thing her behavior is quite toxic... acts all cute, says how beautiful you are or anything related, and then she'll snap at you for the most random things. She mocks us for being happy about our purchases (...isn't purchasing clothes a big part of lolita?) and if you ever try to do nice for her, she acts like it's stupid or nonsense. She takes every possible chance to make memes, even if it's to talk crap about you.
I think she's just terrible at socializing and pandemic didn't do any good to her, but it's becoming problematic... Any thoughts?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 14:16:20 2020 No.10518922 >>10518902 >>10518905 Damn you angy

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 14:23:24 2020 No.10518925

>>10518922
There are at least 2 or 3 people who agree your assumptions are retarded. And even if that anon was a zoomer, you're the retard for stereotyping an entire generation considering you're a millennial and complaints about our age group basically make you only a step below boomers as far as being fucking annoying and insufferable.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 14:51:36 2020 No.10518937 >>10518922 >saying low key is a zoomer term >uses angy

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 14:58:02 2020 No.10518941 >>10518900 You must live under a rock

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 15:52:17 2020 No.10518974

>>10518838
syrt
an issue that might seem small to everyone else might be hard for that anon to overcome. Sonder, everyone has their only journey in life to go through. It’s a feels thread the whole point is to talk about your problems and worries no matter how ‘little’ it is. anons won’t solve world hunger itt.
>>10518867
okay and?
>>10518873
you’re a fake virtue signaler in my book when you start gatekeeping what people can and can’t be empathetic towards lol.
> There are still some individuals that try to help as much as financially and reasonably possible
not going to touch that because I think it’s great people are helping out regardless of the reasons.
> They need to grow up so stop coddling them
pretty sure they know it’s a problem and they’re in the process of working on it since they posted about it in a feels thread.
>not everyone lacks empathy for those that have faced true atrocities and truly hard lives
I never said I don’t feel for those starving kids anon, c’mon now I’m not a monster. what do you want people itt to do about it though other than sending a dollar and some of our prayers? I’ll tell you what anon if you find a cause out there that’s ‘truly atrocious’ I’ll pledge my time and go out there with you to volunteer and help those that really needs it :)

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 16:04:08 2020 No.10518982
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>>10517662
hat tea are you drinking? I'm drinking Harney&Son's Paris blend to stay warm in this chilly weather.

to stay on topic, I saw a dress and I'm torn between buying it or refusing to dip into my savings. I really want to end the year with a certain amount in my savings but I'm also unlikely to see this dress for a while if it gets sold while i'm waffling.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 16:08:58 2020 No.10518986

>>10518753
Heroes become heroes with age. There's no moral ground until history is written.

Regardless, it's pretty stupid you assume cancel culture or whatever dumb crap is the reason you can't succeed. It's no wonder you're not achieving anything with that pathetic attitude. A real history maker holds no one but themselves accountable, you're not going to do anything blaming other people for your own shortcomings.
It's not like we don't have young people achieving great things either, look at Malala. She became the icon of women's education at 15 years old.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 16:31:40 2020 No.10519010 >>10518676 one of my close friends just diy'd something like this from a shitty $1000 van in less than 2 months. it's possible anon. :)

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 16:50:37 2020 No.10519020 File: 166 KB, 927x859, bb hell.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10518982 Someone bought it already, it can't be helped.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 17:18:25 2020 No.10519030
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I've been dying my hair black for the past few months but i stopped doing it because the blue undertones were so strong that my hair turned blue after one wash. It's been a few weeks and it's now a disgusting desaturated green color. I tried dying it brown again but it just turned my hair color into an uglier shade of green. Should I try salvaging it by dying it red to get rid of the green of should i just go to the hairdresser at that point? I wear 2010 sweet so my hair matches nothing in my wardrobe.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 17:20:19 2020 No.10519031 >>10519030 Go to the hair dresser. Don't make it worse

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 17:34:00 2020 No.10519039 >>10519031 You know what? You're right, thank you anon

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 18:08:41 2020 No.10519050

>>10518986
I agree with everything you said.

You can tell which people in this thread are American based upon their lazy attitude, entitlement, and general victim complex over literally anything. And they believe every word they say deep down in their little obese hearts.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 18:29:12 2020 No.10519062 >>10519050 So you’re American?

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 18:37:21 2020 No.10519068

In the process of buying a house, I don't think I've ever experienced such a rollercoaster of emotions, despite having more than enough money it all feels incredibly reckless and scary, too scary to get excited, you can't treat this as an emotional impulse so the excitement of buying a home has to be pushed aside until everything actually works out.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 18:37:49 2020 No.10519069
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>shipping only took two days from japan so I didn't anticipate it coming so quickly
>it rained randomly today
>nothing is damaged thank fuck
>got non scalper price for ICP Jsk

Bless up

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 18:39:53 2020 No.10519070 i am worried i fucked up something i really wanted by being too needy and paranoid. god i wish someone could help me...

soup Thu Dec 17 19:04:21 2020 No.10519081

>>10519010
I'm at the point where I have to seriously consider if I want to do something that's practical or step outside my comfort zone and do something that's reckless but more f u n.

>>10519050
I think anon was talking about you but you were too mad at my post that you missed what they were trying to say.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 19:26:38 2020 No.10519092 >>10519081 soup gimme your discord. i need to talk to someone who is a piece of trash.

>>	soup Thu Dec 17 19:31:04 2020 No.10519096 >>10519092 >>10519070 give your SO some space and find a hobby so that you aren't so needy. there no discord needed :]]]

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 19:39:20 2020 No.10519100

>>10518982
i get bulk sacks of tea because i will literally drink 4 pots a day. mainstays are english or irish breakfast and whatever green is on sale, right now gunpowder. i have fancier stuff too like jasmine dragon pearl, puerh, and fancy matcha and sencha, plus hojicha and genmaicha and the other standards. out of oolong at the moment though. also have rosebuds, licorice, chamomile, and sometimes a lavender mix like with earl grey. all looseleaf.

i wanted to buy this teapot that looked like a duck but the inside smelled like paint so i didn't. i thought it might be decorative-only. i wanted a pot slightly smaller than my current one, but still larger than the metal single-cup brewer. i also have a variety of fancy teacups of all sizes, mainly japanese style.

tea has no calories so it's the wise gull's choice for staying slim. i don't know how people drink caloric beverages all day and still fit in fancy clothes.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 19:39:40 2020 No.10519101

I hate men. I genuinely wish they were all gone. Why can't they all die. I want every single disgusting scrote to vanish off this Earth. They're repulsive and sickening and wish they would all hang from their dicks, dying the way they all lived. Filthy worthless perverted sacks of shit. Fucking die. Die

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 19:40:09 2020 No.10519102 >>10519096 wtf?? how?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 19:41:11 2020 No.10519105 >>10519096 how did you know this? plz explain.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:03:15 2020 No.10519113 >>10517088 I finally bought my dream dress! Its the first one I ever saw some Lolita wearing, Squirrel Party goes great with the accesories I have

>>	soup Thu Dec 17 20:04:07 2020 No.10519114 >>10519102 >>10519105 What can I say I’m soup. I’m too tired from shitposting to give out real advice but you probably shouldn’t spam your SO with messages or add random soups on discord. try communicating your feelings or something I dunnooooooo

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:16:49 2020 No.10519120 >>10519114 i diiiid that! they are the one not communicating.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:18:07 2020 No.10519123
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>>10519100
>4 pots
What the hell do you do for a job that you can drink 4 pots a day?
Got any recommendations on tea cups? I want to exchange my piecemeal partial sets for one full set but I can't ever find one i like enough to commit to. Part of me wants to custom commision a set with iron gate or Vampire Prelude on it. I've got three second hand teapots, silver coated, two 2cup sized pots, one larger pot and a couple silver serving trays. Part of me wants to search for Pic Related but there's no way in hell I'll ever find a set.
lavender and earl grey sounds like heaven. Where are you ordering from? How fast to they ship on average?

I drink hot chocolate, apple cider or soda once in a blue moon but it's mostly tea or water for me as well. As long as you brush your teeth thoroughly it's basically a Free space in calorie bingo with no downsides.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:20:44 2020 No.10519127 >>10519114 how do you know this?

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:28:50 2020 No.10519133

>>10518986
>Heroes become heroes with age.
That's not necessarily true. Sure some people become heroes with age because their beliefs were beyond their time and only with our modern morals and virtues do we see them as such but plenty of people become heroes in their day and stay as heroes. St Patrick would be one.

I've achieved things in my time. I have a good education, a successful career and I've contributed significantly to charity. But it's all for naught because it's not really that impressive and hasn't made a lasting impact.

The primary problem with cancel culture is that they don't just come after you. If it was just me, I wouldn't have a problem. They attack and harrass anyone close to you including family to drive you into a corner of involuntary social isolation because your family can't take being attacked anymore so they denounce you (at least publically).

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 20:48:01 2020 No.10519142 >>10519114 tell me your secrets!

soup Thu Dec 17 20:53:17 2020 No.10519148

>>10519127
>>10519120
i dunno the context but just do stuff you enjoy doing. just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to be around each other and do stuff together 24/7. I hope you have hobbies that you can do on your own. if not you can pick up a book or read some mangas. don't take reading recommendations from Saikano-anon tho they're a terrible person.

also stop giving me (you)'s. I'm ocd about responding to people. I only like (you)'s if they're in response to funpost tho. any other type (you)'s are not welcomed

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 21:07:50 2020 No.10519151 >>10519148 saikano is trash. all i remember from that is fur seals.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 21:54:53 2020 No.10519181 [DELETED]

I hate women. I genuinely wish they were all gone. Why can't they all die. I want every single disgusting hole to vanish off this Earth. They're repulsive and sickening and wish they would all suffocate in their vaginas, dying the way they all lived. Filthy worthless perverted sacks of shit. Fucking die. Die

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 22:00:17 2020 No.10519184

>>10519133
Cancel culture is an excuse made up by complete losers to blame others for their own failures. Politicians have hundreds of scandals every year and still get reelected, movie stars get cancelled and still get cast for movies, musicians get exposed and still sell out concerts, influencers start drama and still maintain a large following. Where does cancel culture exist? Fact is you can do a ton of awful shit and millions will still be stupid enough to follow you.
If you care so much then get off your ass and do something. You think you're impressive because you've accomplished the bare minimum of what's expected from someone of a middle class upbringing? Yea right.

>>	soup Thu Dec 17 22:09:22 2020 No.10519192 >>10519151 it was pretty horrible

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 22:45:51 2020 No.10519226 >>10519184 This, if CC existed Trump wouldn't even be allowed in the country

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 22:51:47 2020 No.10519229

>>10519123
>where from
amazon but /ck/ can rec better sites.
>teacups
I like the piecemeal stuff. usually goodwill, i live in a city with a lot of asian immigrants so the real deal ends up in the goodwills here a lot. i don't need 5 teacups that are exactly the same. i like having different ones.
>job
work from home. also unemployed pretty often in between gigs.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 22:55:02 2020 No.10519232 >>10519184 It exists for regular non celebrities though. Especially in academia.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:07:59 2020 No.10519238 >>10519232 Just don't be a garbage excuse for a human being and you'll have nothing to worry about. It's literally that simple.

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:10:40 2020 No.10519241 File: 80 KB, 600x900, EE05UceVUAEork4.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Man I really want to get myself some big bara tiddies but it'll take years to get them. Anyone know how to eat 10'000 calories a day to speed up the process?

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:10:48 2020 No.10519242 >>10519148 >>10519151 >>10519192 you don't deserve saikano you fucken pleb also i'm sure this is just soup samefagging

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:13:08 2020 No.10519243 >>10519238 what about people who used to be real shitty but decided to change? those are the people typically getting cancelled

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:16:11 2020 No.10519245 >>10519243 Should've thought of that in the first place. I repeat, just don't be a fucking garbage excuse for a human being.

soup Thu Dec 17 23:24:36 2020 No.10519248

>>10519242
stop pointing out my rp and embarrassing me. you wouldn’t point to someone with autism and call them the r word in public so why would you call me out for samefagging? I hope Santa gifts you the ability to have good taste this holiday season to save you from reading poopie literature.

Anonymous Thu Dec 17 23:25:33 2020 No.10519249

>>10519123
For a used full set try checking out antique stores, antique auctions, estate sales, and the old standby of Craigslist/Facebook Marketplace; there's a generational disconnect that has led to a lot of younger people inheriting nice china they have no desire for and are willing to let go of for relatively cheap. No idea where would be good for a new set of more European-styled teacups, but nicer Asian groceries often stock fancy Asian-style sets.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:11:33 2020 No.10519257 >>10519184 You just sound bitter

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:15:49 2020 No.10519260

>>10519238
The problem with cancel culture is that things that people did 10 years ago which were considered okay if not a bit edgy are now being classified as equivalent to Hitler. Your actions right now might be considered to be garbage in 10 years, there's absolutely no recourse in that methodology for rational thinking unless we all suddenly become clairvoyants.

It's an ironic hypocrisy of the left that they think the prison system should be reformed into rehabilitation because people should be given a second chance but if you're from any of the bad groups (white, male, middle class and up, conservative, Christian, old, etc) then you should have your entire life pummelled into the ground for things you could not have possibly foreseen as being equivalent to Hitler.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:17:49 2020 No.10519262 >>10519245 You're just a ravenous leftist who thinks anything that disagrees with your extremist worldview is problematic and should be met with extreme methods.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:20:56 2020 No.10519266 >>10519245 Also lmao >Cancel culture doesn't exist >But it's your fault you couldn't see into the future and now you're being cancelled Which is it retard?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:38:04 2020 No.10519273 >>10519262 This >>10519266 Also this. That Anon clearly has never done anything wrong is their lives. It's probably some Karen who refuses to wear a mask then gets corona and yells at the doctor for whatever stupid reason.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 00:48:15 2020 No.10519277 >>10517088 I want this to be over so bad

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 01:03:04 2020 No.10519283 >>10519273 The type of person you're describing is the exact person who says cancel culture is everywhere. Are you dumb?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 01:05:36 2020 No.10519284 >>10519283 L2read kek

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 04:42:55 2020 No.10519355

It’s a good day, gulls. I bought a damaged dress and in the photos it looked pretty bad but in person it looks...surprisingly fine? It’s clearly seen better days but it’s definitely wearable, most people won’t notice anything off about it. I’m so happy.

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 06:00:48 2020 No.10519384

>Moitie winter special set: ≈$220
>Cost of shipping if I have to trade for the colorway I want: anything from $15 to $60
>Minimum cost: $220
>Maximum cost: $280
I dunno...I wonder if the dress alone will cost more than $280 when they release it later. Probably not.
I don't understand why they made the colourway random.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 07:41:05 2020 No.10519406 >>10519030 This is why you go to a professional and not use box dye.

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 08:22:27 2020 No.10519418

>gf isn't a weeb but humours my interests by learning some names of characters and watching certain movies with me
>Meet a girl recently who is full weeb
>Feels like a part of me was unfuffiled until I met her
>Sharing a major interest is incredible

It's not that my gf and I don't have anything in common. Our personalities are very similar and people have commented we are just the male/female version of the other but I've never felt so free to indulge in my interests when I'm talking to this girl.

Anyone else experience something similar?

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 09:57:07 2020 No.10519433
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This probably seems autistic but I feel conflicted about wearing makeup whilst wearing Otome and lolita, especially its was originally a feminist fashion that was made to make men feel uncomfortable (which I'm skeptical whether or not it's still feminist since trannies, ''''trad'''' men and sissies constantly bombard this fashion). I believe that makeup part of compulsory femininity that is made specifically so that women end up hating in their own natural bodies and profit male-owned buissnienesses who use child labor in order to harvest the ingredients needed to make the makeup and clogs up your skin etc. But even so, I want to pull my coords together using makeup.

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 10:41:37 2020 No.10519442

>>10519418
You can have a friend, who is a girl, that is into the same hobbies/interests as you, and not be romantic in any way

My bf likes lolita but doesn't participate in the fashion or wear it at all, but I have friends who do that we wear and discuss together. That's pretty normal. It is rare to have a partner that is 100% into everything you do, and that's why there's groups or friends or communities to join to fill that void.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 10:43:20 2020 No.10519443 >>10519433 Many women wear makeup because they like it and it's fun for them, not because anyone tells them they have to

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 11:35:52 2020 No.10519457

>>10519433

Men feel uncomfortable with loud makeup actually. No one puts on green and pink eyeshadow with star eyelashes to attract men, it's all for us women.

Also if you really want to only support women there are plenty of female owned brands like Coloured Raine, Julia's Place, and Fenty beauty (all black owned too).

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 13:30:50 2020 No.10519500 >>10519433 people like you shouldn't even get into jfash. your life sounds tiring both for you and to be around. ugh.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 13:59:08 2020 No.10519508 >>10519500 nta but i can just tell you're defensive because you wear makeup lol

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 14:45:12 2020 No.10519537 >>10519508 people who are so ignorantly opposed to shit are really tiring.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 14:57:55 2020 No.10519552 >>10519537 why can't we critique the makeup industry?

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 15:04:38 2020 No.10519556 >>10519537 >ignorantly pretty sure you're the only one being ignorant here

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 15:16:31 2020 No.10519564

>>10519433
I feel the same way. I want to look cute but I feel like I'm betraying the version of myself from a few years ago who was all "I don't need to wear makeup or do traditionally feminine things to be cute!!!!" Especially because that attitude came from fighting against my insecurities. It feels like I'm just letting myself feed into them again.

>>10519500
This has potential to be an actually productive discussion on this shit board don't fuck it up

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 15:31:30 2020 No.10519576

>>10519433
it is pretty weird to think about how makeup is often the default and women are often perceived as lesser without it. past boyfriends i've had have said things like "wow! you actually look pretty/the same without makeup!" but it didn't feel like a compliment because... what, were you expecting me to be "ugly"? idk

i also can't get behind women criticizing other women for wearing "too much" makeup or "too little" or anything inbetween. wear makeup if you want, i like it because i find the ritual relaxing. will probably only get shit for no makeup if you post online (which i don't agree with, but it's happened)

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:16:38 2020 No.10519624 My SO told me they'd buy me a sugary carnival set and a lucky pack this year, but since all the lucky packs suck that means they'll get me 2 SC sets. Hell yeah gulls.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:18:58 2020 No.10519626 >>10519576 it's weird because i FEEL ugly without makeup, but my gf and all my friends tell me i look the same, just with makeup on.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:30:43 2020 No.10519629 >>10519626 you've been played by patriarchy and you've been made the punchline. The men who run the makeup industry profit from this line of thinking and condition women to feel this way. You gotta reconnect with your barefaced self

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:32:24 2020 No.10519631 >>10519433 holy shit go outside

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:34:55 2020 No.10519633 >>10519629 Why do women blame this on 'the patriarchy'? Majority of marketing exec's are women.

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:49:14 2020 No.10519640 File: 22 KB, 500x607, (You).jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10519631 >don't think >only consume makeup

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:53:40 2020 No.10519643 >>10519629 not exactly, i feel fine going makeup-less in everyday clothing but if i wear lolita or other feminine clothing i feel like a bridge troll. the first time i bought makeup was when i started wearing lolita

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:57:37 2020 No.10519647 File: 42 KB, 553x579, 1596843527195.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10519631 holy shit develop critical thinking skills

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 18:59:06 2020 No.10519648 File: 111 KB, 500x250, 824ca21064bd3_9284a125_500.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10519629 They benefit more from the insecurity imo

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 19:27:21 2020 No.10519650

>>10519640
>>10519647
>Everything must have been implanted into my brain by corporations to make me think a certain way
>Except that idea, because that's wholly original and mine

You're both retarded. There's pleasure in willful conformity and pleasure in willful rebellion, you can do both without being an insufferable 'everything is [insert group I don't like here]'s fault' psuedo-intellectual.

This is what happens when people who have based their lives around consumption of product finally gain self-awareness and they don't like it. So they lash out at the easiest target.

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 20:10:21 2020 No.10519664

>>10519626
Make the choice to go without makeup for some time, maybe a month. Give your mind time to readjust your self image to that of your naked face. You don't have to find it beautiful, just find some comfort first. I look like this. This is what my face looks like. After more than a month, try applying makeup again for special occasions. At that point your naked face will be your perceived ordinary, which will definitely make your painted face extraordinary! If anything it will reignite the thrill of becoming even more beautiful with make up.

But the point is to take a break, and have time to reflect on if you want to look extraordinarily beautiful all the time. Your ordinary beauty will only get noticed if you give it time to show.

soup’s cat Fri Dec 18 20:21:48 2020 No.10519671 [DELETED]

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>>10519433
meow meoow meoww meow meowww meow meowwwwwwww!! meow meoww meow meow meow meow meoww meoow meow meow mew meoow meow meeoww meow meow meeeeeowwwwww meow mew mew meow meowww meoooowwww meow

soup’s cat’s Fri Dec 18 20:25:40 2020 No.10519674 [DELETED]

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>>10519671
mew mew mew meww meow mew mew meww meow meow meooww meow meooooww meow meooooow mew mew meeeew meow meow meow meeeeeeeeooooooooowwwwwww

soup’s cat little bro Fri Dec 18 20:28:26 2020 No.10519676 [DELETED]

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>>10519671
mew mew mew meww meow mew mew meww meow meow meooww meow meooooww meow meooooow mew mew meeeew meow meow meow meeeeeeeeooooooooowwwwwww

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 22:43:49 2020 No.10519710

>>10519633
This, guys literally don't give a fuck and can't tell the different types of makeup and if you have it on or not. You could wear no makeup and if your skin is healthy, guys won't see a difference. The issue arises from having your pores always fucked up from constant makeup that when you go bare, you just look ill.

>>10519433
Then just don't wear makeup and see above, nobody is forcing you to wear it aside from yourself and peer pressure from your girl friends lmao, guys couldn't be assed to care.

Anonymous Fri Dec 18 23:10:07 2020 No.10519711

>got all the way down to 165 in June
>gained a bunch of weight back from being depressed and injured
>body heals
>semester ends
>shit now unfucked up
>go back to cutting hard
>results plainly visible in just 2 weeks
Hell yeah, I'll be an even sexier son of bitch by the time cons and stuff come back

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 18 23:16:50 2020 No.10519714 >>10517155 You should be spending your money on therapy not clothes you absolute idiot

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 00:41:50 2020 No.10519731 >>10519714 This. But that awful anon doesn't even pay. She just wastes people's time.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 03:01:33 2020 No.10519770 Some days I wish I bought the 20th anniversary VM set, some days I'm glad I didn't

>>	soup Sat Dec 19 06:20:09 2020 No.10519809 >>10519647 this uggo cat gets to stay but my cute cat's posts got deleted, r00d.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 10:34:33 2020 No.10519872

>ask gf what she'd do if she won the lottery
>Pay off student debt, travel, own a nice house, drive a nice car, invest.
>She returns the question
>>I want to buy a really nice place the country and have lots of children, give them the best start in life and live out my days with the occasional holiday, reading books and farming
>She looks at me in disgust

Hmm.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 10:53:33 2020 No.10519876 >>10519809 based jannies erasing soup from existence

soup Sat Dec 19 11:02:39 2020 No.10519879

>>10519872
>win fuck you money
>instead of enjoying it, want kids
>wonder whys his gf looks at him in disgust

I'd move to a nice country and open up a cat sanctuary. has to have good internet and heating tho. read/try differnt hobbies for f u n. for human interaction I'd open up the doors to my home once in awhile to let people come in and adopt cats that have been banished from my sanctuary. when I'm old I'll release the army cats I raised and have them destroy everything in their path.
>>10519876
it wasn't me, I taught my cats how to post on 4chan. janny didn't even give them a warning or anything they just straight up deleted the posts. asshole made my cats cry

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 11:07:31 2020 No.10519880 >>10517664 Which dress anon?

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 11:09:09 2020 No.10519881

>>10519872
your plan sounds like my retirement plan, minus the lots of children.
>work my overpaid office job, plenty of money to put away while still buying fun stuff
>when i get sick of work/have plenty in my bank account, buy a nice place with land in the country
>raise alpacas, sheep, maybe have a pond with ducks
>sell the wool, or spin it and make it into yarn, or sell the knitted goods (low income but i wouldn't need the cash anyway)
>wear mori/comfy lolita, knit and embroider in peace with a glass of iced tea and a rocking chair

that's it, that's my end game

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 11:17:01 2020 No.10519882 >>10519872 Your goal is also my goal. Sigh.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 11:25:28 2020 No.10519884

>>10519881
Theres a good reason I want lots of kids.

I grew up relatively poor and so my mum who at the time worked in a nursing home had to bring me along during school holidays since she couldn't afford a baby sitter. I spent a lot of time with very old people and without fail everytime I visited the entire room lit up with smiles and the ones that were especially happy were those who never had children of their own. It was fun as kid but as an adult I realise how absolutely fucking depressing their lives are.

They would sit there just waiting for death. Not even waiting for family to visit or to receive a letter, just death. Even those who didn't get family visits often still spoke about their children all the time and loved showing me their photo albums. I asked my mum about her experience there a while ago and she always said the most miserable people were those without children, the ones that committed suicide the most were childless. I asked her about their friends, she told me that ultimately at this age, their friends are either dead or spending the rest time with their own family. Friends won't be there when you die.

All their work, effort, hardship and memories would vanish the minute they die. No one will remember the story of their first kiss, their first job, their childhood stories, mischief as a teen, the scary encounters in adulthood. No one cared about them enough to preserve their memory or their life stories. One of the saddest ends to a human life.

So my goal is to have children and raise them well because I think it's a fulfilling choice, I give myself the best chance at not dying miserable and ultimately my life and my values get carried on.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 13:51:25 2020 No.10519957

I need to rant a little. I was posting in my stories that I maybe might consider selling a dress, because I just received a different colorway of it. I have not even decided yet and didn’t post a price and I‘m already getting lots of lowball offers on it. Like, below the going rate. God, I‘m almost keeping it for the principle.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 14:22:41 2020 No.10519964

>>10519881
Am currently in the house buying phase of this dream, hoping it all works out, the pandemic made working from home possible so nothing is keeping me in the city anymore. Once you have plenty in the bank and even before that you can invest it and use the gains to pay off your house so that while you're in debt, if the interest on your mortgage is low enough, you're still making money.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 14:53:04 2020 No.10519975 >>10519964 Hope escrow goes well for you Anon!

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 15:08:28 2020 No.10519983

I met a guy while playing some online games with friends. He seems really sweet and kind, and we have the same sense of humour. I already have a little crush on him. But he is incredibly similar to an ex of mine (same job and hobbies, similar looks), so I'm worried that I'm projecting a lot onto him without even knowing him.

Not that I even expect anything out of this since we're half a country apart, but I guess I'm worried about feeling overly familiar with this person who is ultimately a stranger.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 16:06:41 2020 No.10519991 I want a part time job so bad someone please hire me

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 16:44:47 2020 No.10520016 >>10519872 >Lots of kids Absolutely disgusting.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 16:48:22 2020 No.10520017

>>10519884
I don't know any of those stories about any of my grandparents. Even if you have kids there's no guarantee they're gonna give a shit about you. The vast majority of old people do have kids, AND grandkids. Very few older people were childless, like literally less than 5%. So 95% of lonely old people dying in nursing homes have kids that they wasted their youth and middle age caring for only to be abandoned anyway.

This is actually one of the most selfish and retarded reasons to want children holy shit.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 17:23:59 2020 No.10520030

>>10519884
>>10520017
I was going to reply something similar. You only want kids to be remembered and to (begrudgingly) visit you in the nursing home? Write a book, hire a caretaker. Save yourself a million dollars. Haven't spoke to my parents in decades and they died alone.

You can live, and die, and not be remembered, and that can be ok. Accept that you are not special. Live ephemerally.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:29:14 2020 No.10520053 >>10519872 Dump her. She's not love material.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:35:30 2020 No.10520055 >>10519884 > All their work, effort, hardship and memories would vanish the minute they die This is what makes humanity. Once you accept this you will be much happier. Live for yourself alone.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:45:46 2020 No.10520060 >>10520017 >>10520030 >>10520055 You all sound so white.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 18:49:34 2020 No.10520061 >>10520060 I’m not but feel free to live your life raising kids who will eventually despise you and dump you in a nursing home because you only want someone to remember your sorry ass rather than because you actually want to love them.

>>	soup Sat Dec 19 19:02:21 2020 No.10520067 >hmm no talk about asexual, love is only real if you have sex with your lover, bought a dildo to learn how to like it etc anon itt that mf’in anon is the op and doesn’t want to shit in their own thread.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:35:47 2020 No.10520084 >>10520017 I know a ton of my grandparents stories and even know about my great grandparents and great great grandparents. We were raised differently then.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:47:07 2020 No.10520086 >>10520017 Literally what other reason is there to have children other than legacy and fufilment?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 19:47:21 2020 No.10520087 >>10520067 Nah, she's not been shitting up the other threads either. Maybe she finally got a temp-ban and we're safe for the next couple of weeks.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:13:18 2020 No.10520095 >>10520017 >>10520030 God you people are depressing.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:47:16 2020 No.10520108 >>10520095 what's depressing is bringing life into the world so you will be remembered and you will be taken care of >>10520060 not having kids for selfish reasons is white now, ok

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:49:31 2020 No.10520109 >>10520108 See>>10520086 People don't have children for any reason other than selfish reasons.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:54:02 2020 No.10520112 >>10520017 You would probably think childless old people would be disproportionately represented in nursing homes.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 20:58:38 2020 No.10520117 >>10520084 Is your family religious?

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:06:37 2020 No.10520121 >>10520108 It is definitely white culture.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:13:40 2020 No.10520124 Much regret for not joining the AP virtual Christmas tea party this year. I want to know what was announced.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:23:44 2020 No.10520132 >>10519884 Being forgotten is inevitable And once you're dead, you won't even care. Just an irrational fear. You are going to pass that fear on to your children.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:33:25 2020 No.10520140 >>10520086 >>10520109 To put more decent human beings in the world. If you seriously can't see any non-selfish justification, then maybe it's you.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 21:58:48 2020 No.10520147

>>10520108
>>10520109
This is exactly what I mean. Life isn't all analytical, people are guided by emotion. You can not want children, I share that mindset, but genuinely thinking child rearing is selfish and then shitting on other people for wanting children is so stupid. There's many things that people can be selfish for doing, but having children is not one of them. No offense, but I imagine you're unpleasant people to be around.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:06:52 2020 No.10520153 >>10520147 Having kids just to stroke your own ego is selfish, yes

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:09:17 2020 No.10520156 >>10520153 So you're not admitting to the idea of having kids as selfish, just that you see his reasons for having kids as selfish. Consider your goalposts successfully shifted.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:42:58 2020 No.10520170 >>10520156 You're talking to more than one person about this so your "gotcha" moment isn't really real

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:51:26 2020 No.10520173 >>10520156 There are multiple posters ITT criticizing his reasons for wanting kids and not the general idea of having kids you retard

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 22:57:29 2020 No.10520177 >>10520156 It's the very definition of selfish, why do you need to bring life into this dystopian hellscape so badly? What a sick joke.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:12:56 2020 No.10520182

>>10520117
No. My family hasn't been religious since my great great grandfather who was a non-practising Jew

>>10520140
So why do you want to put more decent human beings on the earth? Does this give you pleasure? Do you want your legacy to be you made the world a better place by raising good human beings? That's selfish. Also why is it wrong to be selfish? It's not like legacy isn't a reasonable thing to want.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:15:28 2020 No.10520185

>>10520177
You call this a dystopian hellscape not worth bringing life into yet you haven't killed yourself yet. So obviously there are reasons worthy to live in this world.

Stop being so retarded and morally righteous. You sound like the classic upper middle class white people "the world's already over populated, I don't want to contribute to that." When the world isn't overpopulated and you not having one child won't stop a middle-eastern Muslim family having 15 kids.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:19:31 2020 No.10520189

>>10520132
Then really what's the point of life if not to have a long-lasting contribution to humanity? The best contribution is to bring children into the world and instill them with every advantage to make good things happen when you're gone.

Also being forgotten is not inevitable. Just look at any historical figure who has lived on in people's minds and books hundreds if not thousands of years after their death.

Ceasar, Alexander and Jesus are household names known by everyone.

Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:30:51 2020 No.10520194

>>10520189
Nyart but
>why
have fun, smell the roses, wear the roses, put the roses on your dress
>people remember famous people, its not useless
I'd like to introduce you to my friend Ozymandias and all his great works. Or perhaps heat death of the universe.
DESU this whole conversation is kind of out of place here. Just take a nap, get a snack, drink some water and relax a bit.

CGL related feel: diets are still hard but i can't wait until i get to 28 inches. I want to fit in smaller clothes (i'm 32 now, its progress but not enough)

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 19 23:56:50 2020 No.10520202 If I’m late 20s but look like I’m in my teens would it be weird to like a girl that’s in her mid 20s but look like she’s in her teens too?

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:20:27 2020 No.10520216 >>10520202 no

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 00:33:54 2020 No.10520221

>>10520185
Well said. This entire discussion is so autistic.
>Contribute to humanity
>Raising kids is selfish
Who fucking cares. I can feel your social incompetency through the screen. Sorry you choose to live in shit believing in your weird ass dystopian fantasy.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 01:08:16 2020 No.10520229

>>10520194
Why have fun if you're going to die and not remember it anyway?

Heat Death of the universe isn't guaranteed and I have faith that somehow humanity can overcome an end of the universe type event (given we've so far overcome a bunch of natural phenomena designed to kill us) by the time we get to it, either by dimension hopping or some other way.

>>	soup Sun Dec 20 02:08:20 2020 No.10520248 TACOBELL $5.00 TOASTED CHEDDAR CHALUPA BOX sounds pretty good right now yum >>10520229 yolo

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:03:35 2020 No.10520309

>>10520185
>>10520182
>So why do you want to put more decent human beings on the earth? Does this give you pleasure? Do you want your legacy to be you made the world a better place by raising good human beings? That's selfish. Also why is it wrong to be selfish? It's not like legacy isn't a reasonable thing to want.
The amount of mental gymnastics here is astounding. Children are an enormous burden if you actually give a shit about them. Putting better people in the world helps everyone. I honestly don't think I can dumb this down anymore and suspect your ego is too big to accept that you're wrong.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:23:31 2020 No.10520314 >>10520185 >When the world isn't overpopulated I wasn't even one of the anons you were talking to but I just had to hop in and tell you that you're retarded.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 09:27:02 2020 No.10520316 New thread: >>10520315

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 10:48:36 2020 No.10520333 I just want this year to end already

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 12:55:18 2020 No.10520398 >>10520333 Me too

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 16:33:53 2020 No.10520517 >>10519241 Drink at least 4 gallons of whole milk a week. I lived with a body builder and the man would go grocery shopping every other day.

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 20 20:17:35 2020 No.10520669 >>10520309 Nice way to say you won't answer the question. >>10520314 Nice non-arguement. It isn't overpopulated, regions are overpopulated, the world is not. And nowhere in Europe or North America is overpopulated.

Anonymous Sun Dec 20 22:39:22 2020 No.10520743
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>will never be /fit/
>will never be kawaii
>will look like that one dude who dumped his family to live as a six-year-old girl regardless of how much weight I lose

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 03:28:12 2020 No.10521993 >>10517088 I'm crying to myself because I miss cons and it being almost christmas means it's almost time for ALA, which was my biggest yearly con. So basically in the same boat as 80% of this board

>>	Anonymous Sun Dec 27 02:53:00 2020 No.10523805 >tfw no seagull gf M E L B O U R N E

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