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feels thread soup Tue Dec 8 00:58:37 2020 No.10513406 [Reply] [Original]

>mfw sniped another MRC to add to my collection ed.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 01:08:38 2020 No.10513407 Finally ordered a vibrator. Let’s hope this works.

Anonymous Tue Dec 8 02:56:25 2020 No.10513428

>>10513406
My ED got the best of me over the weekend and my laxative abuse finally caught up.
>Be at very small friend hangout in lolita
>Bathroom is occupied
>No bowel control because of lax abuse
>Pure intestine juice
>Bloomers fill to the brim in liquid shit
>Sneak outside to release the smell and chunks
>Squishy walk of shame home
>No one knows where I went, no one called or checked up afterwards
>Assume they know
>Oh god they know

I can never talk to these girls again. I feel like I have to sell my whole wardrobe I'm so ashamed.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 02:57:47 2020 No.10513430 >>10513428 >pure intestine juice

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 03:07:11 2020 No.10513440 >>10513406 What is MRC

>>	soup Tue Dec 8 03:44:28 2020 No.10513448 >>10513440 Melty Ribbon Chocolate

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 04:27:45 2020 No.10513462 >>10513407 Why not just find a love interest?

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 04:36:35 2020 No.10513463 I can't breed

>>	soup Tue Dec 8 05:06:08 2020 No.10513476 File: 184 KB, 820x851, grr.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] moderate your shitposting anons

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Anonymous Tue Dec 8 05:13:42 2020 No.10513480

Anon from the other thread who got selected for a second round interview after originally applying on a whim.

Went to the second round, got told I was 1 of 4 selected amongst hundreds and the interview went really well. Found out later on this week if I get the job.

Just goes to show, just apply. Worst that can happen is they humiliate you and blacklist you to all other employers.

>>	soup Tue Dec 8 05:18:40 2020 No.10513483 >>10513480 damn good shit dude. more anons need to follow your footsteps and give updates on their feels

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 06:22:13 2020 No.10513490 Just feeling alright lately. I'm excited for snow, excited for spring after and so on haven't felt these things since childhood

Anonymous Tue Dec 8 06:27:12 2020 No.10513491

Sad that being laid off from my job means I'll be in the last group of Americans to receive the covid vaccine around next summer or even later. If I still had my job, I'd be in one of the first groups because I was an "essential worker."

Oh well I guess. I get to soothe my sorrows by buying brand with unemployment money. Even more if a relief bill is passed soon.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 10:08:04 2020 No.10513544 >>10513491 Are you not concerned with paying rent? Also I wouldn't get the first round of vaccines. Seems sketch as it was completely rushed.

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 8 11:07:24 2020 No.10513554 >>10513483 If you want more job feels updates, I'm the anon who had an interview at the fintech company; I got hired and have been using my money to pay debts and fund my need for burando, woohoo! (idk if I ever gave an update already but here it is)

Anonymous Tue Dec 8 18:05:19 2020 No.10513714

>>10513544
Sounds bad, but I live rent-free. Bless my significant other. So no worries there. Although it's pretty disgusting that in my area, maximum unemployment benefits don't even cover 50% of rent costs. (And I actually have the maximum benefits for my state.)

I guess I have the luxury of watching how the vaccine plays out. Just sucks that I can't get it even if I want to. Which means I'll probably stay unemployed for as long as the virus spirals out of control because I don't trust any businesses that aren't WFH to be safe.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 01:46:20 2020 No.10513972 >>10513714 Nah living with a SO that pays rent isn't bad. As long as you're contributing to cleaning the house and other logistics and helping your SO. My max unemployment benefits are terrible too. Fuck California. How come you can't get a vaccine?

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 03:34:48 2020 No.10514050 So many packages coming, I'm so sorry mailman But it's gotta happen

>>	soup Wed Dec 9 04:42:42 2020 No.10514111 you guys are posting in the wrong thread. pls move your feels to the other feels thread. this is a soup thread until the other thread dies. ty >>10513554 I replied to you in the other thread.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 07:31:53 2020 No.10514148 File: 45 KB, 960x808, FB_IMG_1607517052695.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10513428

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 10:33:13 2020 No.10514180 >>10513428 Why do you abuse laxatives?

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 10:35:46 2020 No.10514183 >>10513428 This is probably that poop fetishist troll, but it still hits close to home. I used to abuse laxatives too and avoided meetups for ages because I was afraid of exactly this happening.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 11:09:47 2020 No.10514192 >>10514180 It says first line, the first two words >my ED

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 11:15:48 2020 No.10514194 >>10514192 >ED Erectile Dysfunction?

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 9 11:57:51 2020 No.10514201 >>10514194 Eating disorder you damn scrote, not everything is about dicks.

Anonymous Wed Dec 9 19:02:37 2020 No.10514418

a whole circle of my friends went completely crazy during quarantine. they're in a new idiotic internet fight every fucking week and if you don't share their delusional outrage posts, you're probably next. I cut ties and it's probably for the best but I'm just bracing myself for whatever bullshit they're going to come at me for now. at least they're just con friends so I won't even pass them in a hall for another year or two

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 10 04:41:18 2020 No.10514590 >>10513428 aren't the majority of the calories taken during the first stages of digestion? seems like a really ineffective/ bothersome ED. especially for people who wear expensive dresses with tons of layers

Anonymous Thu Dec 10 06:36:00 2020 No.10514604
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>>10513428
Why the fuck would you use laxatives for your ED? You already digested the food you ate and laxatives are just gonna make you shit out the undigestable waste faster. Maybe just try not eating like a lardass pig all the time fatty.

Anonymous Thu Dec 10 07:43:59 2020 No.10514614 [DELETED]

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>always been fat, quarantine made me gain more weight
>moved in with bf 800 miles away from home
>start taking walks together bc we both want to lose weight
>excited at the prospect of losing weight & exercising together is motivating vs doing it alone
>tfw the realization sets in if i lose 60lbs I'll have to replace all my clothes and not fit the few nanchatte items I own already AND wont be able to buy any more of the cute items I want from hardcandy (sells plus sizes only desu)
>cheapness in me dreads this and contemplates only losing a bit of the weight I want to
>i just want to be beautiful without giving up the few nice clothes I have

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>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 10 08:50:32 2020 No.10514640 >>10513428 >shitposting

>>	Anonymous Thu Dec 10 09:54:30 2020 No.10514653 >>10513406 What are you doing you fucking idiot. The other thread isn't nearly at the post limit. >>10513361

>>	soup Thu Dec 10 10:49:02 2020 No.10514675 >>10514653 don’t let me find out what your dd is anon ong

Anonymous Thu Dec 10 15:25:15 2020 No.10514831

>>10514604
I mean clearly ayrt is trolling but have you never researched anything about bulimia? Lots of mias abuse lax. Telling them it is pointless to weight loss does not compute for them because it's a mental illness.

And if someone is suffering from any form of restrictive ED, your digestion tends to get fucked. I'll go like 3 days without shitting, but I still eat small amounts in those 3 days so the number of the scale goes up slightly sometimes, which is triggering and then I'll take lax so I can take a giant dump and see the number on the scale go down.

>>	soup Mon Dec 14 08:06:36 2020 No.10517017 feeels let’s see. playing less vidya was probably the best decision I made in 2020

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 16 03:35:37 2020 No.10518283 File: 349 KB, 1607x847, dont forget, comrade.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10513406

>>	Anonymous Tue Dec 22 12:48:59 2020 No.10521650 >>10513428 damn you shit your pants AND got a soft dick? that's a raw deal man hope you figure that shit out.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 11:59:51 2020 No.10522114 >>10514418 >(You) of validation It’s not selfish to be looking out for your mental health, and that group sounds like a headache or stress waiting to happen. Good for you to recognize something unhealthy in your life and taking steps to fix it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 12:22:09 2020 No.10522129 My dream dress is quite rare and I currently only own it in the wrong colour (which took me 3 years to find). Yesterday I finally saw it in the colourway that I really want, but the fabric is damaged and it looks very worn. I don't know what to do.

>>	Anonymous Wed Dec 23 12:56:10 2020 No.10522160 File: 82 KB, 736x736, 1602253956859.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >list some dresses for sale >get a DM >"do u have milky planet" >??? yes but it's not for you wtf

>>	Anonymous Fri Dec 25 11:25:13 2020 No.10523114 >>10522160 Did she word it in a bad way? Sometimes when a seller lists things one by one, I ask about the other things they're going to list because I want to combine shipping

Anonymous Fri Dec 25 15:40:31 2020 No.10523201

Merry Christmas gulls! Any heartwarming seasonal cgl tales? Here's mine:

>no job due to corona
>fall in love with a lolita release after years of not buying any new, but the timing is wrong so I'm big sad
>best friend buys it secretly and gives it to me as a surprise for Christmas

I love my friends and family.

>>	Anonymous Sat Dec 26 13:53:45 2020 No.10523591 File: 17 KB, 392x350, _ (3).jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] You all complain about fattychans , yet almost everything I see on LM is size L and up....

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 02:39:33 2021 No.10528889 File: 117 KB, 613x688, 1609743318542.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Please stay safe everyone and take care of yourselves

Anonymous Mon Jan 4 03:37:04 2021 No.10528906

I’m feeling really sad about the future tonight. It’s honestly so dumb and selfish, but my two best friends who are a couple casually mentioned wanting to have kids. I’m not really a kid person myself and up until recently they always told me they never wanted kids either. It was just nice to think that as I got older I would still have friends my age who’s lives didn’t revolve around children and we’d be able to hangout anytime. I’m just very very bummed out now. I do still have other friends who say they don’t want kids and those people are aro/ace so they seem more likely to be serious about it, but hearing this stuff from my closest friends is depressing the hell out of me

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 03:44:11 2021 No.10528909 >>10528906 At least you know you're dumb and selfish.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 03:52:19 2021 No.10528910 >>10523591 That's because petite and normal/healthy weight people are getting sized out by the obese/morbidly obese. Just look at meta. They have a line for literally medically obese individuals.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 03:56:26 2021 No.10528912 >>10528910 God I fucking love petite girls so damn much.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 04:13:55 2021 No.10528915 >>10528889 Thank you anon, you too. I wasn't familiar with Jarod but may he rest in peace.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 08:45:59 2021 No.10529016 >>10528909 The child free will always be insufferable

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 15:14:16 2021 No.10529212 >>10529016 People having kids and never shutting the hell up about them are the insufferable ones. Acting like their child doing average things is so special and interesting

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 15:21:21 2021 No.10529213 >>10529212 Basically anyone dull enough to base their identity on a label someone else made up, whether child free or pro life, asexual or polyamorous, trans or trad, is insufferable.

Anonymous Mon Jan 4 15:21:57 2021 No.10529214

>>10529212
I think people with kids see children (or at least theirs) the way most people see cute animals on the internet. They are inherently cute to them because they're vulnerable and dumb and/or theirs so they're very proud or sort of excited when they do even the tiniest of things.

As someone doesn't want kids and who had shitty parents I find very excited and proud parents endearing as long as they aren't all hardcore Karen soccer mom about their children.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 15:26:31 2021 No.10529215 >>10514418 Lots of people are at their worst right now and its good you learned what they are like now. If they are prone to turning on people for stupid shit it will happen whether or not they have pandemic boredom

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 15:29:05 2021 No.10529218 >>10514831 Can confirm, was bullemic for a decade. We know its dumb, it doesn't work, and its killing us. Unfortunately, we are also insane. Hence the disorder part.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 4 17:06:07 2021 No.10529300 Someone in a local sales group just posted several AP dresses for dirt cheap. Ofc I missed out.

Anonymous Mon Jan 4 18:12:43 2021 No.10529321

I have money. I have so much money. I don't understand what's holding me back.

Maybe it's the shame of feeling like A BASIC BITCH for falling for Elizabeth Bride of Death, and because I SUPRESSED MY LOVE FOR A FUCKING DRESS in a vain attempt to feel special. When I finally realised I wanted it, really really wanted it, I find my preferred cut and colourway sitting on LM, nwt, for about the full price of it in store. Why didn't I buy it? Why didn't I just smile and nod, press purchase and fulfill that dream?

It's going to be relisted for the sixty eleventh time soon. I'll buy it, just you watch me.

I think I know what's holding me back. I think I'm in love with a dream dress to long for, strive for, to actually dream of... I'm such a phony. My striving is superficial. I'm frugal to a fault and need to loosen the fuck up.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 03:44:07 2021 No.10529542 I think, overall, I'm not a fan of discord.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 17:48:20 2021 No.10530018 >>10529542 why not?

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 19:35:28 2021 No.10530123

>love the experimentalness of Japanese street fashion
>get into it, join american lolita groups
>get fucking roasted and called ita when I wear jfashion and lolita
>push myself to do cookie cutter coords, get praised
>see a jfashion snap of some japanese girl being praised by cgl
>everyone praised her for the exact shit they condemned me for

Weebs just have a fetish for Japanese people and will look at then starry eyed even if they look like shit. I stopped caring about what I wear at that moment and its been liberating

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 19:43:15 2021 No.10530129 >>10530123 I really feel you on this. Fashion is all about experimenting shit.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 19:47:23 2021 No.10530131 >>10530123 >>10530129 that’s true I’m starting to get into waterproof lolita. It’s like the techwear of lolita so it’s incredibly niche but idgaf I like it

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 20:03:22 2021 No.10530136
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Friend of mine knew I was into lolita fashion and asked me for advice on how to get started. Spend like 2-3 hours telling her about all the different second hand stores, helping her figure out substyles she likes and the brands associated with them, even tell her how to buy new if that's something she's interested in. She sends me a message the next day, "I just put an order in with Milanoo! Thanks again for all your help anon!"
I immediately told her to cancel and that she was getting scammed, but why didn't she just listen to any the advice I have her before? I'm sad.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 20:31:49 2021 No.10530162 >>10530123 What did you expect? Did you really anticipate that there wouldn't be a double standard? Even Japanese people do this. When a foreigner is into anime it's cool but when a Japanese person is into anime, they're cringey.

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:02:09 2021 No.10530180

>>10530123
Sorry you had to go through that. It's true and you shouldn't be afraid to say it. Whenever you call cgl out on how the looks they love would get shit on if they were on a white person, they start screeching about how you're blind and retarded. I'm tired of seeing the ugliest coords get commended just because they were worn by a Japanese person.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:31:53 2021 No.10530194 my bf was trying to be a Good Lad and do laundry but he put my wool pink house skirt in the dryer she's dead... i cried for like 1 minute but just have to suck it up so he doesn't feel too bad. time to window shop for a replacement rip

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:33:24 2021 No.10530195 >>10530194 make him buy you a new one

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:33:38 2021 No.10530196 >>10530194 I'm sorry anon. Why are men so retarded? I hear way too many stories of men fucking things up in the laundry.

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:37:01 2021 No.10530197

>>10530195
he offered to buy me a replacement but it's secondhand pink house so i'll just have to shop around unfortunately... agh

>>10530196
i was surprised because he wears pretty nice /fa/ clothes but i guess he's never had wool. it wasn't like it was something extraordinary but i did love it and didn't have it for very long ;; que sera sera

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:38:35 2021 No.10530198 >>10530162 I thought they saw both as cringey. Is this really a thing?

>>	soup Tue Jan 5 21:44:38 2021 No.10530200 >>10530197 can't you stretch it back with lukewarm water and hair conditioner?

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:52:13 2021 No.10530202

>>10530198
Japanese fetishises western culture as much as we fetishise Japanese culture.

In Japan, I've found that Japanese people are very reluctant to talk about anime in groups of other Japanese people but when it's just them as the only Japanese person in a group of anime loving foreigners, they'll spill.

You see this in itasha shows on niconico or on noriyaro's YT channel when he covers itasha. On niconico with a japanese host, the car owners will be very understated "Oh yeah, I like the show but anyway...". Whereas on Noriyaro's channel they will gush about how much they love the character especially if the host shows enthusiasm about it too.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 21:58:30 2021 No.10530205 >>10530200 you may be onto something soup, it just kinda looks so bad i almost want to write it off as a lost cause. i'll try it tomorrow and report back because it really was a favorite and now it's a mori skirt for dogs

Anonymous Tue Jan 5 22:17:59 2021 No.10530217

>comes from nouveau riche Chinese money
>lived alone abroad since high school, monthly allowance enough to buy all the burando i want
>doesn't because cheap and paranoid
>cut self off financially from family last year
>"fun" money drops exponentially

It feels good to not rely on daddy's credit card for everything, but I also miss not needing to think about the cost of things.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 22:18:40 2021 No.10530219 >>10530217 Wanna get married?

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 22:45:13 2021 No.10530241 Work is insanely business so I volunteered to work some extra hours this week, and while I'm dreading it now, I know that the giant paycheque will be worth it.

soup Tue Jan 5 22:45:33 2021 No.10530242

>>10530205
>it just kinda looks so bad i almost want to write it off as a lost cause

I’m sure it’ll be fine. I did something similar before and it turned out okay. just gotta believe in yourself. In the wise words of guy sensei
“It's not always possible to do what we want to do, but it's important to believe in something before you actually do it."

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 23:27:10 2021 No.10530263 >>10530217 why the fuck would you cut yourself off of free money that your parents have plenty of? as someone from a poor ass family, i wish i had that option

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 5 23:29:41 2021 No.10530266 >>10530217 It's always been a dream to date a rich Chinese girl and for her dad to hate me.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:00:20 2021 No.10530272 >>10530266 Me too, but I'm a girl.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:09:04 2021 No.10530274

My bf is so fucking weird and hard to be around. Like on paper he seems like a great bf, he showers me with gifts and treats. but day to day interactions are such a crapshoot. Is he gonna snap about something I say? He tells me to remind him of stuff he needs to do (around the house, in general) and then he'll be petty af when it comes time for me to remind him. Earlier today I reminded him that something needed to be fixed and this man baby fucking says "well I was just about to do it, but now that you've annoyed me I'm not going to fix it for another week" wtf?!?

I don't feel like I have any say since I don't pay bills (I have a job, I've offered to help - I can't afford half but I can afford to help out - he insists he doesn't want/need help paying for anything). He's even encouraged me to quit my job. But randomly he'll go off about how I don't contribute to the household and tell me to pack my shit and leave. Everytime I start packing my shit he grovels and is all sweet and buys flowers and stuff and sucks me right back in.

I might leave him once I'm vaccinated and can safely date while living with my parents without worrying about bringing the rona home to them. My parents will also pay the bills, and they're not fucking assholes.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:16:33 2021 No.10530277 >>10530274 He is negging you and trying to gain control over you financially. Find a job and leave.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:21:27 2021 No.10530280 >>10530277 This. Your Bf sounds like a pos

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:25:53 2021 No.10530284

>>10530263
NTA, but I've seen it happen a lot. Tons of families with big $$ are also big time controlling. For some people, it's worth taking the financial risk to have some personal freedom. I guess it's different depending on your background, but being treated like you're 12 years old for your entire life isn't always a great tradeoff for some cash and burando that you can go earn yourself anyway

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:32:06 2021 No.10530289 >>10530131 I cant tell if you are joking or not but that sounds fun

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:44:50 2021 No.10530302

>>10530263
I realized that I had zero sense of money or budgeting and I figured this was the easiest way to force myself to learn. And I can collect free money again any time I want. It's just nice knowing you don't need it in case shit goes sideways.

And honestly it's not really like my lolita spending habits have changed that much. Most of the stuff I'm into are obscure 2000's stuff that rarely show up for sale so I usually only buy something once every few months anyways.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:47:02 2021 No.10530305 File: 83 KB, 500x473, 1601726951999.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw i met my boyfriend in one of these feels threads

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:51:23 2021 No.10530311 >>10530305 how lmao

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:54:26 2021 No.10530312 >>10530311 magic. it was a series of really specific events that made it possible. but yeah, magic.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:54:51 2021 No.10530314 >>10530289 100% srs. you can buy wax to wax some of your main pieces to make them waterproof and just coord stuff around it to make it more techy :]

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 00:58:53 2021 No.10530315 File: 80 KB, 496x449, 1608403306238.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10530311 Same way I met my SO on VF in the Industrial music chatroom, by being sad and lonely on the internet. >11 yeeeears ago >still with them >mfw

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:07:53 2021 No.10530326 >>10530305 >frog and toad cute i used to frequent video chatting websites like a lonely delinquent, made a friend there, and he introduced me to his /fa/ roommate. the internet has made telling relationship origin stories a lot stickier.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:10:27 2021 No.10530329 >>10530305 I met my boyfriend because someone here was complaining about getting unwanted dickpics on soc and I posted there for shits and giggles, we've been together for almost 5 years now and plan on getting married

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:16:52 2021 No.10530339 >>10530305 Same here

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:25:00 2021 No.10530344 >>10530329 Oh shit, it's you. I remember when you first started talking about it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:27:39 2021 No.10530346 >>10530344 Oh damn, wasn't expecting anyone to remember. Good memory, anon. Can't believe it's been so long already...

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:40:12 2021 No.10530359 >>10530346 I'm just a not-quite-oldfag passing through anon, first time popping in and posting in about a year or so. Time really does fly.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 01:45:03 2021 No.10530364 I wish I had someone to cook for. Cooking for one is just depressing.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 02:58:39 2021 No.10530409

>>10530364
>tfw cook for 2
>GF tries her hardest but she just can't cook, even following the recipe it just turns out bad
>She's okay at baking but that's it
>Meanwhile, I fucking hate cooking but am good at it and just know how to edit recipes
>Gf always asks me to cook because she feels embarassed by her cooking
>Became the house chef
>Fucking hate cooking

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 05:00:31 2021 No.10530460
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>>10530364
Tell me about it. I've got all my nice knives, utensils, and recipes ready to rock and roll, but all I ever do is heat up some canned ravioli or ramen noodles. I'm not gonna put in the effort if it's just for my sorry ass.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 05:14:47 2021 No.10530465

Used my stimmy for some much needed and deserved retail therapy.... I wanted some lolita pieces that have been on my wishlist for years, hit with the influx of sweet scalping I didn't bother this time around.
But..... It felt good not to worry about price while shopping this time around

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 05:24:20 2021 No.10530470 >>10530460 Fuck, canned rav sounds so good rn

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 05:35:02 2021 No.10530473

>be me
>lived in LA most of my life
>never fit in here or liked the whole LA attitude/vibe
>most of the friends I did fit in with moved away ages a go
>have to move soon anyway so I'm gonna get out of LA and probably out of California
>no clue WHERE I'm gonna go (education/job opportunities are a major factor and keep me from going places I'd really like to live)
>afraid I'm going to end up alone with no friends or relationships (not that I'm much better off here but at least I've got a few people that don't seem to hate me for some reason)
>afraid everybody's gonna be hostile because I'm from CA and everybody everywhere else seems to hate Californians these days
>afraid I'm gonna have a hard time renting because I haven't had a normal apartment since 2013
>pretty much just generally freaking out

>>10530305
>>10530329
I have a few friends IRL who met on 4chan. One couple even met on /r9k/ of all places. Makes me wonder what could've happened if I weren't so paranoid about this place.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 06:55:16 2021 No.10530494 TIL Karl is a creepy sex obsessed /fit/izen crossboarder trying to find gulls to be his gf and that is honestly worse than the autistic weeb I expected him to be somehow. His match this year was a total bitch but that doesn't make him any less weird.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 07:09:57 2021 No.10530499 >>10530494 I heard he was from /k/ which doesn't make it any better.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 07:29:08 2021 No.10530501 >>10530364 I agree with this. What helps me is that my LDR man and I take pictures of our meals and share with one another (we also eat on discord together) which gives me motivation to make my meals yummy and attractively presented.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 08:04:22 2021 No.10530518

I miss being a 14-year-old weeb just discovering lolita online. I was absolutely in love with it, spent hours every day looking for more pictures and fantasising about my first coords. I remember going to my first meetup in a crappy handmade dress and the excitement of seeing others wear Burando(TM) in real life for the first time. When I got my first brand dress I was walking on clouds for a month. I still have it.

Nowadays lolita doesn’t do anything for me anymore. I feel... oversaturated? Desensitised? Occasionally I do like a new release but deep down I know that if I get it, taking it out of the box and putting it on won’t feel magical like it used to and I’ll probably just sell it after wearing it a handful of times. When I put on my first brand dress and look in the mirror I just feel stupid. It doesn’t suit me, but I can’t bring myself to sell it.

How do I get the magic back, anons?

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 11:26:14 2021 No.10530588 File: 5 KB, 208x208, 1607982467654.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I got dumped right after Christmas, now I'll be single on Valentines day again.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 12:09:23 2021 No.10530613 >>10530518 Sounds kind of like art block for fashion. I would try taking a break for a while and trying something new and different that might get you excited. You can always come back to Lolita if you start to miss it

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 12:30:01 2021 No.10530624

>>10530518
What you are describing is merely a part of the human experience. When we are young, we discover new things about ourselves. This feeling is exhilarating. It's novel and feels as though whatever we discover will never wear out. When you have grown older, these things you discovered - that you loved absolutely - are now just routine. You have already experienced the essence of the thing, what now? You could dive deeper down the rabbit hole, but then your personality revolves around some transient thing. You could try to discover something new, however, that youthful curiosity and boundless enthusiasm for the unknown is waning. All of that is now filled in with experience. Experience let's you know things without experiencing them, novelty is hard to come by.

The truth is, you need to accept that life changes. You can still love these things, but now that love requires more commitment. Even then, the interest will fade as your priorities in life change. However, given enough time you will inevitably be reminded of those times you did things when you were young. Then you'll get curious, and you'll start looking for those old dresses and trying them on. A deep appreciation for the past will wheal within you, and you might find yourself re-exploring that favorite thing you used to do. It might not be the same high you remember from before, but you will be glad to have this new - more subtle - happiness when you are older.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 13:02:02 2021 No.10530639 >>10530494 Keep your bullshit in the SS thread

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 13:07:00 2021 No.10530646 >>10530639 this is the containment thread, Karl.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 13:17:38 2021 No.10530655
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>>10529214
That's a very 16-22yo take anon
For most people, raising kids is the single most rewarding experience they have to show out of their ghettoshit life.
>Something something, passing on my knowledge and living vicariously through a much more successful and happy offspring something something.
The sense of purpose and clarity it gives you, and the overwhelming support people shower you with reinforces the behavior everyone here dislikes, but it's also why one should drum up more than a crumb of enthusiasm when it's their friend they're listening to.
>mfw I'd adopt before I'd breed
>mfw thinking about teaching some littler me how not to fail at life like I have
>mfw adoption kids are their own barrel of shit I'm not ready to handle

>>	soup Wed Jan 6 13:53:37 2021 No.10530674 >>10530588 how do you feel about bows anon?

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 15:15:54 2021 No.10530721 >>10530518 Don't force yourself to keep loving it. I've had periods where I lose interest in lolita, and during those times I just take a break and come back when I regain interest.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 15:28:29 2021 No.10530726 >>10528909 >>10529016 You got it backwards >>10529214 People have children because they're naive and or selfish. They want a mini me; a cute baby.

Anonymous Wed Jan 6 15:40:47 2021 No.10530730

>>10530473
OP here, i have been friends with trips from here and went to gull meets at cons in the distant past, so i was already fine with chatting up randos. the funny thing is that he wasn't even posting to try to meet people, i just replied to his feels post and other insanely lucky events led us to be together irl

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 16:08:40 2021 No.10530742 >>10530655 I'm mid 20s and I just give people too much credit/try not to assume the worst of them I guess.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 18:00:24 2021 No.10530803 >>10530460 Shinya Arino would want us to persevere, anon.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 19:39:52 2021 No.10530865 >>10530726 based and truthpilled

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 19:49:33 2021 No.10530874 >>10530674 Bows? Like the kind you put in your hair?

>>	soup Wed Jan 6 20:39:22 2021 No.10530897 >>10530874 ya those bows. do you like them bows?

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 21:19:16 2021 No.10530911 Trump supporters need to be round up and shit for treason

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 21:20:21 2021 No.10530914 >>10530911 shot

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 21:33:53 2021 No.10530918 fuck trump supporters hang them by the neck

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 21:40:27 2021 No.10530923 >>10530874 Don't respond to the bait, anon.

>>	soup Wed Jan 6 22:28:28 2021 No.10530939 File: 288 KB, 569x288, anonlovesbows.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10530923 how r00d. I was just wondering if anon likes bows so that I can get them a valentines day teddy bear so that they don't have to spend valentines day alone this year.

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 22:51:01 2021 No.10530953 >>10530646 >everything i dont like is Karl

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 23:06:24 2021 No.10530965 >>10530939 the teddy on the right is cute can you get me a teddy? i'll name it soup jr

>>	Anonymous Wed Jan 6 23:11:09 2021 No.10530974 >>10530953 it's soup, it's still bait.

soup Wed Jan 6 23:52:12 2021 No.10530987

>>10530965
if you name it karl and punch it in the tummy when you get it sure. add it to your wishlist and post the link.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B008AZB00G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_G9O9Fb7DB3R5Q?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

>>10530974
teddy karl is going to pay for what you said about me

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 7 00:13:00 2021 No.10530996 >>10530742 'Assuming the worst of someone' implies that there's something wrong with regular people finding a regular means of abating the crushing weight of reality.

Anonymous Thu Jan 7 06:01:25 2021 No.10531062

I love lolita fashion, but don’t like the vast majority of coords I see in my feeds. Mostly I feel the coords are uninspired/boring/formulaic in a way that I don’t feel lolita has to be. I’ve also been feeling as though the online lolita community has been seriously overrun by newfags. Does anyone else feel this way?

Anonymous Thu Jan 7 06:05:04 2021 No.10531063

>>10531062
Me too. That’s why I stopped using social media to focus on what I really want to wear in terms of coords.

Unrelated to this reply, I have successfully listed at least 10 main pieces and want to downsize more. It’s hard deciding what to sell but in the long run it’s been making me happier.

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 7 08:23:58 2021 No.10531101 >>10531062 Anime has become mainstream. Therefore all the Japanese subcultures associated with pop culture are going to become more popular.

Anonymous Thu Jan 7 08:34:26 2021 No.10531102

>>10531062
Difference is the youngers wear it as a dress up (or theres too much taobao imho those frilly whispy blouses do nothing for a lolita outfit) and the olds don't post their sitting around in frills. I don't mind. I wear it daily but would I post myself in a 12 year old baby motorcycle jacket cutsew and an applique skirt-no. I don't even know how there is what little content there is up with covid. Wait til spring and summer when people will be outdoors and you will see more coords

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 7 10:07:22 2021 No.10531134 >>10530987 https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38L8NSZTB0PMU?ref_=wl_share i can't tell if you're joking but bear too good to resist. i will give him 2 (two) swift punches

>>	soup Thu Jan 7 15:54:27 2021 No.10531350 >>10531134 it'll be beary dumb of me to spend 59 shekels on something that started out as a shitpost. and my mommy ain't raise no dumbass.

Anonymous Thu Jan 7 16:41:10 2021 No.10531374

>>10530730
Yeah it's actually kinda the same for me, I've been to meets and know a bunch of /cgl/ people (mostly ones from like 10 years ago) but that's a bit different since you're meeting them IRL first and get a better sense of what you're dealing with before you give contact info. I always assume people on 4chan are full of shit and never post my own info here though.

>>	Anonymous Thu Jan 7 19:34:10 2021 No.10531497 soup is annoying and needs to get a life.

>>	soup Thu Jan 7 20:34:03 2021 No.10531526 File: 17 KB, 1207x333, nobearsallowed.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10531497 r00d ppl don't get teddy bears

>>	soup Thu Jan 7 21:12:30 2021 No.10531540 >>10531497 ????

Anonymous Thu Jan 7 23:41:27 2021 No.10531604

I used to have a huge wardrobe of only super sweet AP. I've always been petite and looked pretty young for my age, so lolita was perfect for me.
A few years ago I wanted to look more mature and normal, so I sold my entire wardrobe, changed my look, and even got a boob job.
2020 made me realize how much I miss lolita, and now I regret selling my burando and getting the work done.
I want to get back into the fashion, but I have to rebuild my entire collection again, and I'm worried I won't fit into AP anymore. I definitely can't fit into unshirred stuff...
Kinda hate myself now. Did I waste my money?

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 00:23:45 2021 No.10531628

>>10531604
A lot of new AP is 90cm which really isn't that small. You say you're petite and petite people with boob jobs don't really have insane bust measurements. My friend is still only around 78-79cm and she got large for her size implants. She also doesn't weigh 100lbs so she's truly petite.

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 00:52:27 2021 No.10531633

>>10531628
Thank you. I'm just a few cm bigger, but that's made me feel better. I guess I'm being more self conscious than I should be. I've only had them for about a year and a half, and I'm not fully used to no longer having practically no boobs at all.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 02:11:12 2021 No.10531668 I stumbled across an upskirt video of a cosplayer earlier that was obviously taken at AX and was almost certainly non-consensual. I wish these creeper fucks would stop doing this shit.

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 05:08:43 2021 No.10531752
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I finally found a comm in my state, it's not very active because of the pandemic and has like 50 people but I'm one step closer to being out of lonelita hell I'm so happy you don't even know

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 05:51:11 2021 No.10531771

I feel horrible for admitting this, but I really don't miss meetups. It's nice to have one or two big events a year, but I don't miss every few weeks dealing with newbies and whiny shits who don't know how to act in public, people bragging about how disabled they are, etc

I love the fashion and love it even more now that I don't have to "dress up" for meets. I never used to understand the appeal of being a lonelita, but now I get it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 07:49:44 2021 No.10531807 >>10531604 >Tfw no petite gf

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 10:18:23 2021 No.10531838

I finished making my dream cosplay during lockdown, and it came out really well because with wfh I had a lot of time to work on it. but since cons are obviously canceled for the foreseeable future, I've never worn it except for trying it on inside the house and that makes me kind of sad. I guess it's just lockdown feels, but here in California it's been months and its only getting worse.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 11:19:27 2021 No.10531889 >>10531752 desu being a lonelita is so much better, especially now that everyone has to make everything all political and sjw+ish

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:16:36 2021 No.10532000

I know this is a dead meme at this point but

MAN I JUST REALLY LOVE LOLITA

I got dressed up today and spent my free time watching lolita vlogs from my comm. I'm so filled with love and thinking of all the sweet connections I would otherwise never have made. I just really love this fashion and hobby, damn.

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:25:08 2021 No.10532009

>>10532000
I went looking through daily coord photos from AP SF today and had the same feeling; I just fucking love this fashion and wearing it myself and seeing it on others and seeing styles I don't even like/wear and just...fuck I love lolita fashion too senpai.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:38:52 2021 No.10532026 >>10531889 That's a good way to justify that no one wants to be your friend.

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:38:55 2021 No.10532029

>>10531633
I'm around 94cm but I'm taller at 5'8 ish and my torso is long so it's harder for me to fit many pieces "correctly." If you're petite and around the same measurement it will be a lot easier for you to fit and I doubt you will have many issues if any. My main issue is the shoulder straps always being so short which really cannot be remedied unless I lose a truck load of weight, and even then I can't change my height nor the distance between my shoulders and bust line. I can only make the bust flatter and the dress lay flatter giving me more room so to speak.

My I ask what your prior bust measurement was and what size (cc) implants you got?

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:40:10 2021 No.10532031 >>10532026 No comm doesn't mean no friends

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 13:40:38 2021 No.10532032 >>10532026 nta but triggered sjw detected.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 14:06:45 2021 No.10532075 >tfw you get doxxed by your comm

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 18:12:08 2021 No.10532269
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>be me
>mega tall (5'9/5'10), black, and have been lurking lolita/ouji comms and secondhand markets for a decade
>too scared to jump into the fashion bc i feel like i'll look like an ugly 14 year old fakeboi and nothing will fit me
>move to a new town for university, start making more money doing freelance job
>finally take the leap and buy my first ouji main piece
>it comes, fits great. i feel cute and princely and like i can actually have fun
>start crying in front of my mirror

finally it's happening... idk if i have a comm in the specific area of my state but i'm excited to look around and find out

my roommate (who is an avid cosplayer and j-fashion wearer) even started getting interested in the fashion because of me... i can't wait for us to do matching coords together :')

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 19:18:02 2021 No.10532327 >>10532026 >You cant have friends unless you prescribe to my political ideology The joke writes itself doesn't it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Jan 8 19:40:45 2021 No.10532345 File: 16 KB, 236x307, 1606589590957.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Surprise bonus >Still plenty of money for burando after stashing some away in savings We're gonna make it, gulls!

Anonymous Fri Jan 8 23:51:33 2021 No.10532517
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>tfw see an obscure dress I owned in the past up for sale
>baby's first direct brand purchase, still remember how much I liked the details of that piece even though it's not my style anymore
>get nostalgic and go to read the listing
>realize from the details and sales history that it's the person I sold my dress to years ago
>seller is leaving lolita and sounds equally nostalgic towards the dress

I'm glad they liked the dress enough that they held onto it all the way up until they left the fashion. I hope whoever buys it loves it just as much

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 00:12:12 2021 No.10532533 >>10532269 Uwu I'm happy for you anon!

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 00:20:18 2021 No.10532537 >>10532269 This is so cute.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 00:22:29 2021 No.10532538 >>10532517 I thought you were going to buy the dress you originally owned back.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 01:59:43 2021 No.10532570 >>10532517 this gave me warm fuzzies, i hope to encounter the same one day! ty for sharing anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:09:30 2021 No.10532577 File: 53 KB, 645x645, 8E19B3CF-466C-4E48-A877-D3D8499B2922.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] You know all the bitching about Die Walkure kinda just made me want it more.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:11:22 2021 No.10532580 >>10532577 Been on my list since 2006 ayyyy

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:16:31 2021 No.10532583 >>10530364 Don't despair anon, I was in the same boat and am now happily cooking for my gf while she does the cleaning for me, your time will come

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:18:18 2021 No.10532587 >>10532577 The way people talk about this made me think it had swastikas on it or something

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:24:15 2021 No.10532589 Is it just me or stuff on CC sells out much faster than usual? I don't know what to do to snag some good pieces anymore, how are people checking out so fast? I just want some cute dresses damn

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:38:05 2021 No.10532595 File: 393 KB, 500x534, 888.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10532031 >>10532032 >>10532327

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 02:38:33 2021 No.10532597
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>>10532580
You have good taste anon.
>>10532587
The issue people have with it is the imperial eagle on the hat and armband details. I think it's the most tasteful execution they could have gone for while attempting to maintain historical accuracy. I'm a fan of military-style detail on pieces and "uniform" themes as well as history in general so I've always liked it. But probably not enough to ever wear the hat in public or in a serious manner. It really does look beautiful worn.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 07:35:18 2021 No.10532712 >>10532595 >I don't want friends who are SJWs >>SJW: YOU DONT DESERVE FRIENDS Irony

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 07:46:36 2021 No.10532717 >>10532577 It really is a beautiful set, I'd just never wear it out.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 07:48:16 2021 No.10532718 File: 54 KB, 640x853, akko.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10532577 same, but idk how it would look since I'm not white. I wonder if lolitas will still be angry abou it

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:17:43 2021 No.10532725 >>10532718 >I wonder if lolitas will still be angry abou it They will.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:19:47 2021 No.10532729 >>10532595 Nta but you're projecting that they're incapable of making friends when they implied that they made the choice to be alone.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:20:11 2021 No.10532732 >>10532589 Bots

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:21:02 2021 No.10532733 >>10532589 People are saying it's bots. Apparently it's been going on for a long time now.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:31:54 2021 No.10532737 >>10532732 >>10532733 tfw you will never have a bot snag cute and cheap pieces for you

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 08:37:52 2021 No.10532739 >>10532737 Probably isn't very hard to make.

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 11:29:22 2021 No.10532776

>>10532595
No one wants to contribute money to watch you eat an antire picnic of stale cucumber sandwiches while your Arda cosplay wig slowly slips back revealing your massive fivehead. No one is interested in hearing you rant about social injustice, as you were preaching to the choir until you brought up how AP owes you larger sizing; you claim you're just as oppressed as black people. Nor do they want to help you take high angle coord pictures to hide your unfortunate chin, as your coord is embarrassingly ita and is drawing negative attention from passersby.
>and then drive 1-2 hours back home afterwards.

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 11:51:56 2021 No.10532790

>>10532776
I will say, despite being fairly lefty and my comm all being on the same page as far as being opinionated but respectful and reasonable about social and political opinions (a trump supporter wouldn't really be super but if you don't want to discuss politics no one would force you), I hate fat white girls acting like they're so oppressed. I'm larger and nonwhite and generally when sizing comes up people in my comm are sweet and talk about sewing tips for alterations or japanese brand options that are more plus sized than you think, etc., but online a lot of fat lolitas just go on and on about how opressed they are I guess cause they're really "woke" and want to feign solidarity or shared experience with PoC and it's weird.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 12:18:28 2021 No.10532800 >>10532776 >>10532790 lol at people thinking being fat is on the same level as racial oppression. just lol.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 13:50:18 2021 No.10532830 >>10532589 >>10532732 Someone on the chinese comm probably revealed a secret and now they're all exploiting it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 14:55:17 2021 No.10532869 >>10532776 I don't even wear lolita, lmao.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 15:50:31 2021 No.10532912 Why do I still go here, ugh. Fucking salty newfags with no sense wishing us out of existence

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 16:11:16 2021 No.10532929 >>10532912 I feel the same, anon. It's depressing.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 16:14:03 2021 No.10532932 File: 60 KB, 1011x494, FB_IMG_1607896458782.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] My stimulus came right on time for SC!!!! Had me scared for a second there

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 16:21:35 2021 No.10532941

>>10532577
Same, always loved it even though I'm Jewish. Could have to do with my dad being a huge history nerd who collects military uniforms, propaganda posters, old weapons used in war, etc.. I'm not nearly as interested in history as he is, but I love the military aesthetic. Funny thing, when I told him about Die Walkure and the controversy, we started discussing how good nazi uniforms looked. My dad's side of the family is Jewish, for the record. You can like how something looks while acknowledging that the people who wore it were pure evil.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 16:24:02 2021 No.10532943 >>10532941 They were designed to look good for a reason, and I'm right there with you anon. Hugo Boss was a real piece of shit for being on the wrong side, aside from the pink and greens American uniforms are trash.

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 16:38:45 2021 No.10532961
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>>10532533
>>10532537

thank you everyone QQ we sat in my room together and looked at taobao listings bc we want to do a haul after CNY... it's really nice because we haven't really had a common interest like this in a long time that we do together

>>10532577
it's such a shame about the hat & armband because DW is truly such a lovely set. if it had shorts instead of a skirt i'm not going to lie i would have to really convince myself not to buy it because military lolita and ouji are so clean and aesthetically pleasing

speaking of military lolita i won't lie i'm a little sad that one of my dream sets is not only impossible to find but i would have to go full ana-chan to fit the 65cm waist measurement.... one day i'll get you AP AYA Army.... i swear....

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:19:32 2021 No.10533003 >>10532912 >us and who would that be, oldfags?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:24:05 2021 No.10533007 >>10530726 Humans are inherently selfish though so who cares

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:25:53 2021 No.10533008 >>10528906 Their life doesn't revolve around you anon. Make other friends

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:29:09 2021 No.10533011 File: 26 KB, 250x326, hm.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] This board was always shit but wow has it gotten bad. At least some threads are still intact

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:32:30 2021 No.10533014 >>10533011 Covid really did a number on this place

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:43:50 2021 No.10533019 i finally have enough money after making some investments, to basically buy my dream wardrobe but i'm just not. It's super super tempting tho. I know that money will become more later on down the road.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:44:34 2021 No.10533021 File: 152 KB, 340x332, 1525382343399.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >look up momokun >Looks worse than ever how do you fuck up this much

>>	soup Sat Jan 9 17:47:55 2021 No.10533028 >>10532912 >>10533003 >>10533011 >>10533014 kick rocks ajoommas this board belong to us newfags now

>>	soup Sat Jan 9 17:52:51 2021 No.10533032 >>10533021 deserved for calling my favorite streamer an asshole. that wasn’t a very xqcL moment.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 17:53:22 2021 No.10533033 >>10533028 >>10533032 cringe

>>	soup Sat Jan 9 18:15:57 2021 No.10533044 >>10533033 modCheck looking modCheck for modCheck who modCheck asked modCheck ? modCheck

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 18:31:40 2021 No.10533054 >>10532269 I love this so much, I've had a similar experience and I only got the courage to jump into lolita and buy a real piece in 2019. I've been lurking for a decade straight like you but the courage was never there.

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 18:37:38 2021 No.10533056

>>10533054
it really can be so hard to find the courage, but i'm so glad i took the leap!

i was nervous because while i had seen tall lolitas and black lolitas i had never really seen both (god forbid ouji) and i didn't think i'd be able to relate to anyone or find a lot of pieces that would fit me properly without looking like an idiot

but then i realized: i really really enjoy this fashion and the community and even just shitting around on /cgl/ makes me really happy, so why not at least try? one of the best things about lolita is that because the secondhand market is such a large part of the community, you always have the chance to at least make back some if not all of the investment you might have made if you end up not liking it

i think the fact i've made friends with people as interested in the fashion as me in the past few months has helped reinvigorate my love for it too

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 18:51:10 2021 No.10533067 >>10533028 Call me noona.

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 19:47:00 2021 No.10533105

>>10532800
>Imagine thinking you're racially oppressed in the most equitable and egalitarian societies in the entirety of the world and history and that maybe your circumstances have more to do with your own personal actions and views than anybody else's

But no, it's definity Aunt Jemima that has been causing it all.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 19:52:38 2021 No.10533110 >>10533105 are you just a triggered fatty or

>>	soup Sat Jan 9 19:56:18 2021 No.10533112 >>10533067 are you going randomly buy me boba once in awhile?

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 20:08:05 2021 No.10533123 I changed emails on my LM account and now it's saying I'm unverified. Sigh, Hope nothing good comes up while I email the mods about this

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 20:52:21 2021 No.10533162 >>10533110 Not fat, just angry.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 22:52:20 2021 No.10533216 >>10533105 >Imagine seeing the events in the US this week and thinking it's anywhere near equitable or egalitarian

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 23:39:21 2021 No.10533237

>drove roomate to his mom as shes on her deathbed because of covid
>stay in a hotel overnight
>one of those aloft hotels i've stayed in a few times at cons
>all i can think about is all those times me and my friends have gotten drunk in cosplay in rooms like these

i;m so fucking done with everything right now

Anonymous Sat Jan 9 23:43:23 2021 No.10533238

>>10533216
>Imagine ignoring the last 6 months of left wing violence which resulted in over a billion dollars worth of damage, attempted annexation of American territory which resulted in a lawless community which ended with 3 innocent people being shot, numerous people raped and business destroyed for not paying for extortion, arson, at least 18 innocent deaths and countless more injuries and countless countless lives ruined whilst the left-wing goernments which run these cities and the media all run a massive propoganda campaign saying it's peaceful and having people justify the looting and arsonng but playing a No-True-Scotsman fallacy and saying people have insurance and people's right to defend what's there's comes before people's right to loot.

>All because of a single death which was already being dealt with under the law

But no, because some people got sick of the government and went after the government (not innocent businesses) therefore they are the devil and this somehow retroactively justifies the absolute warrantless violence done by BLM.

Fuck off.

>>	Anonymous Sat Jan 9 23:48:03 2021 No.10533239 >>10533238 no one cares chud go to parlor.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 00:00:24 2021 No.10533241 >>10533162 kek well your anger is misguided, fatties still don't deserve to reee as much as actual minorities

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 00:09:47 2021 No.10533247 >>10533241 Minorities are born with a certain skin color. Fat people are not born fat. You literally have to consume more calories than you burn to become overweight and obese. The whole "racism against fat people" movement is the stupidest shit ever.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 00:59:39 2021 No.10533262 >>10533247 >racism against fat people my fucking sides

soup Sun Jan 10 01:18:56 2021 No.10533270

I'm noticing a lot of posts heading in the body shame direction and would like to remind a few of you anons that we have all kinds of body shaped gulls here including plus size yas qweens. the feels thread is a safe space from normal gull behavior so if you guys could tone down the racism a bit that would be great.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 01:24:23 2021 No.10533273 >>10533239 >No one cares bootlicker, Wakanda Forever. >>WAAAAHHHHH THEY CANT JUST STORM THE CAPITOL BUILDING!!! SHOOT THEM OR SOMETHING! The hypocrisy is clear to everyone

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 02:11:20 2021 No.10533287 >>10533270 Gtfo soup.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 02:43:15 2021 No.10533296

>>10533216
LOL. The fact that blm and trumpers are able to protest peacefully as well as violently riot proves that there is equality and freedom in this country. Please go somewhere else where people are actually oppressed. You are so woefully ignorant and you're parroting the narrative that is used to divide this nation.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 02:51:40 2021 No.10533298

>>10533262
God I wish I was making this shit up. American is so incredibly fucked up and divided. Everyone is triggered at literally anything and refuses to accept accountability for anything. Obese people like virgie tovar(spelling?) are trying to claim that people who are of healthy weight discriminate and purposely go after overweight people based upon their choice of eating a smaller slice of cake. No one else has control over your overeating jfc. This shit could only happen in America where everyone is entitled and ignorant af.

>>	soup Sun Jan 10 03:53:48 2021 No.10533311 >>10533287 you can’t talk to me like that, I’m the op

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:20:00 2021 No.10533326

I got a new job as a tutor at a middle school where I can wear whatever I want. Thinking of buying some cheap lolita main pieces and just wearing them to work. I'll be really ita but I'll be the coolest person at school. kek

Hope no gulls snap a pic of me.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:22:37 2021 No.10533328
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>>10533298
For a while the right conceded a lot to the left then with the rise of SJWism, the left went incredibly left and the right has refused to make concessions only to be labelled as white supremacists, racist, Nazis, x-phobic, etc for holding views that only 3-4 years ago were considered the norm for the left. This drove a lot of moderate right-wing people to the extreme right.

I was a relatively moderate conservative with views that were consistent of liberals in the late 2000s, now I don't see any compromise with the left as being in anyway beneficial and have been driven extremely right.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:36:22 2021 No.10533334 >>10513406 Girls, what are your opinions on crossdressing and crossplaying? Those of you in heterosexual relationships, how would you feel if your husband or boyfriend crossdressed or crossplayed?

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:39:08 2021 No.10533335 >>10533328 Interesting gif. We iz fucked in muricah

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:54:54 2021 No.10533351 >>10533328 Likewise the right took a hard nosedive into fascism when it became apparent that the majority of people didn't like their ideals anymore.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 04:57:33 2021 No.10533356 >>10533328 overton window.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 05:31:41 2021 No.10533391

>>10533328
This this this.

I'm a die hard leftist but I've been saying what you just said for years.

I hope trannies having a safe space and crucifying anyone who has ever said the n word was worth it, my fellow leftists. Seriously fuck SJWs, they have their heads so far up their own asses that they don't realize the damage they're doing to the left as a whole. Fucking identity politics.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 06:20:02 2021 No.10533406 >>10533328 >>10533391 if seeing a proportionally small section of idiots in a large group of people who want more equal rights for people pushes you farther away from humanitarianism out of spite, that says more about you

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 06:59:49 2021 No.10533408 >>10533406 This Don't claim to be a "die hard leftist" and then go an spew nazi shit. I stg, I have the government shuts down this hellhole after what happened on 1/6

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 07:01:47 2021 No.10533410 >>10533334 I’m androphilic so I’d hate it. However, I would hope it’s okay if I were to cross dress/play.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 07:33:22 2021 No.10533418 >>10533351 I disagree. Fascism is always reactionary. The right didn't nosedive into authorotarianism away from conservatism just as a natural progression, it was a reaction to the extreme takes of the left.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 07:38:14 2021 No.10533419

>>10533406
You keep saying equal rights. But everyone already has equal rights, this is embedded in the constitution. What you want is priviledges at the expense of others.

This is the exact line of thinking that is driving the right-wing into fascism, if you keep pushing these inane ideas which force other people to adopt behaviours they don't want to, then people will eventually push back and you will get a Civil War 2.0 and right holds an exlusive monopoly on the ability to wage war. It is a war the left will lose incredibly badly. Just stop pushing this retarded post-modernism shit and things will calm down.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 09:41:28 2021 No.10533458

>>10533419
what are you talking about lmao lgbt people are constantly getting their rights taken away and put back back and forth like it’s fucking hopscotch. idek if i can get therapy or health insurance in my state anymore and my hormones were naturally fucked up it’s not even like i started hrt or anything, right wingers were trying to roll back gay marriage laws, trump just rolled back discrimination laws like yesterday as a final fuck you

that’s not even getting into black issues involving class segregation and treatment by police esp in huge cities and super right wing areas, c’mon use your eyes

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 09:46:36 2021 No.10533460 >>10533238 >a single death lol >already being dealt with under the law L M A O >>10533296 >b-b-but both sides are bad!!! What a revolutionary statement, fence-sitter.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 11:12:38 2021 No.10533482 >>10533008 Did you even read the whole post? Or do you just have no reading comprehension whatsoever?

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 11:37:23 2021 No.10533488 >>10533480 Ah yes, we must maintain only the highest level of discourse in this esteemed anonymous imageboard.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 11:57:08 2021 No.10533493 File: 55 KB, 922x852, 1607536932850.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >Tfw your local communities don't exist anymore and are only here to resell their old stuff because they "grew out" of alternative fashion T. French ouji

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:00:35 2021 No.10533494
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I was honest and apologized last night to my bf for spending money i honestly didn't have on lolita around my birthday. I was at a breaking point and was starting to self harm again and feeling (more so) suicidal. I understand that wasn't a great redirection of my pain but it did relieve my stress and sadness. But he seemed much more angry about it then he has been about anything. Telling me that i relapsed (shopping addiction) as if the other option is health... He said can i just sell everything i just got because i dont deserve it. The sadness and stress are back 10x.

>Tl;dr bf is mad i spent money, i cant have things that make me smile without feeling guilt.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:01:16 2021 No.10533495
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I've finally gotten to the point where it feels like I'm doing serious "looks" with my makeup instead of just shyly brushing it on. My confidence is rising, and it's great!

But now I'm looking into buying more makeup. I feel bad looking at more eyeshadow options when I've barely made any dents in the few palettes I already have. I feel guilty wanting to buy new colours, or even vaguely similar colours in larger palettes... How do I make these feelings go away?

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:02:56 2021 No.10533497

>Started selling shit online
>Local post office doesn't fucking have mailers it's been like 5 days, they were supposed to get them Tuesday, and nothing.
>I'm freaking thinking about this girl who wants to buy my thing thinks I'm lying/faking/making up excuses
>Go out of my way to call super far post office to see if they have mailers.
Why are there delays about this shit.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:13:53 2021 No.10533498 >>10533497 Are you in the US anon? You can order priority mail supplies on the USPS website for free. Shipping is also free. Takes like a week or two but you can stock up.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:28:14 2021 No.10533506 >>10533498 Unfortunately, I am not. I'd def order if I could. Thank you though. Much love to you.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:44:17 2021 No.10533515

>>10533494
What the fuck? It's one thing to be upset about the money and another to tell you to sell your items because you don't deserve it. Of course you deserve it and even more so if it made you happy enough to stay alive. Fuck that, it's your money and your property

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:46:31 2021 No.10533516 >>10533494 Did you spend money on a credit card or did you take his money?

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 12:59:56 2021 No.10533521 >>10533494 >Money I honestly didn't have. >He seemed much more angry about it. >I relapsed (shopping addiction). Sus asf. With that being said, take care and see a doctor. Shopping and lolita fashion especially is not essential to living. Get help.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 13:01:43 2021 No.10533522 >>10533515 Can you read

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 13:25:06 2021 No.10533527

>>10533515
Ayrt Thank you for saying this. It was hurtful to hear but im not selling the things that bring me joy and i had been hunting down for months/years anyways.
>>10533516
It was my money, it was just taken out from my savings (barely an 1/8th was spent) i just knew better then to spend "money i didnt have" because i lost my job during the pandemic, im only scraping by on commissions and selling clothes.
But i will never go hungry im stable and secure in my housing.
>>10533521
Thank you i knew it was wrong but just didnt expect the reaction to be so harsh, maybe he's starting to resent me...

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 13:59:35 2021 No.10533538 >>10533527 Oh, then fuck him. Telling someone they "Don't deserve" something they've bought, especially when it's a mental health buy, is super fucked up and not how to talk to someone. Get some help, but like, not from him

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 14:15:10 2021 No.10533547 Wt mfing shit it is.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 14:42:19 2021 No.10533561 >>10533527 so which is it? is it money you didn't have or are you stable? it can't be both. if a dress is 1/8th of your savings then it sounds like your bf is right to be mad.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 15:25:48 2021 No.10533576

>>10533419
>privileges at the expense of others
Holy shit please say it louder for the people in the back. The level of entitlement the radical left has is just insane. What's worse is all the Democrats are pushing and accommodating and validating these entitled attitudes. People want to pretend that not being addressed by their "proper pronoun" is oppression, when these kids in America aren't educated enough to even understand the word. Americans are so out of touch with reality and the narcissism of the radical left is being protected and encouraged by all the radical so Democrat politicians. It fits their BLM/Blame white male patriarchy for everything narrative and they are using these tactics to divide the nation.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:04:58 2021 No.10533591

>>10533495
Honestly this isn't a bad instinct. Consider buying singles. Don't become someone who has a bunch of pallets that are super similar. It is a waste.
Lots of brands sell awesome singles. Get a few pallets with some base colors and you are on a good path!

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:11:15 2021 No.10533595 >>10533458 You really have no idea what a human right is... Also majority of studies on racial discrimination by police show little or no discrimination on race when criminality of communities is taken into account.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:30:58 2021 No.10533613 >>10533576 The Dems are literally a centre-right party, but ok.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:34:55 2021 No.10533614 >>10533613 You have no idea what being 'center' is.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:38:21 2021 No.10533615 >>10533561 You are someone who either lives paycheck to paycheck or uses their savings like an extra checking account.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:38:37 2021 No.10533617 >>10533614 The party itself is more moderate/center than the people who vote with them purely because they aren't republicans and have no viable third options.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:40:09 2021 No.10533618 >>10533617 As I said, you have no idea what you're talking about.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:40:28 2021 No.10533619 File: 807 KB, 245x195, 1592590485915.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10533613 >centre >not even close to center, let alone 'center-right' not even fucking close, bucko

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:45:29 2021 No.10533622 >>10533618 >>10533619 Someone not being a fucking fascist doesn't make them radical leftists you chuds

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 16:49:24 2021 No.10533627 >>10533622 Sucks to be retarded doesn't it?

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 18:13:22 2021 No.10533676

I've hacked what makes a COF post good instead of cringe: all the cringe posts are made by teenagers who visibly lack confidence in themselves / the fashion, whereas the good posts are made by those who are experienced enough to feel confident in how they've dressed. Armed with this knowledge, I will create the algorhithmically perfect COF post.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 18:16:09 2021 No.10533679 >>10533595 Literally this. Some anon may have cited in a previous thread how Native Americans are the minority that experienced the more racism related oppression and deaths by the government.

Anonymous Sun Jan 10 18:35:39 2021 No.10533694

>>10533614
>>10533619
Sorry that living in the US has made you believe that the Dems are actually a left-wing party. I'm sure they feel like when your other choice is a far-right party, but compare them to any other left-wing party on the planet, and they simply aren't one.

>>	Anonymous Sun Jan 10 22:25:20 2021 No.10533872 >be me >cutting fringe >cut too much >it's above my eyebrows >it's uneven but i'm scared to cut further >put on glasses >find out I accidentally cut one of my eyebrows too fml

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 01:13:11 2021 No.10534013 >>10533694 Hun, it's the same party.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 01:14:17 2021 No.10534015 >>10533872 This is why we cut in stages, if you do it in layers it won't matter so much if one layer is trash

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 01:28:09 2021 No.10534017 >>10533676 Aside from having confidence, what else have you noticed? Stylistic trend hopping? Square photos instead of portrait? I'm actually very curious.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 03:03:43 2021 No.10534045 >>10533694 >Arguing over which oligarchs get to fuck the poor over this election cycle We all lose.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 04:19:51 2021 No.10534070 I hate how useless my regional thread is. If you post about anything other than convention or cosplayer drama your post will go completely ignored.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 05:32:02 2021 No.10534085 >>10534070 I'll listen to you anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 05:37:59 2021 No.10534087 >>10534017 I personally can't figure out what aspect ratio people like. Sometimes mirrored photos get a ton of likes despite being blurry and small, sometimes clear artistic portraits of ita or basic coords get a lot of likes

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 05:54:10 2021 No.10534091

I'm always a little wary of newblita claims of being into lolita fashion since the 90s/00s when they post dresses (coord help/wtbs/whatever) that lean towards OTT. I mean yeah, this fashion has evolved and there's nothing wrong with evolving with it, but I would think if you got into the fashion because of old school styling, when you're finally able to wear lolita, you'd go for old school or something along that line.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 08:46:23 2021 No.10534142

I put in with a shopping service for a dress on Mercari and someone snatched it out from under me before they bought it. The SS was a website one that took automatic payment, and the dress sold 8 hours later without a word from them. I’m pretty sure someone else grabbed it. Pretty damn bummed, since I did everything right and still lost.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 09:29:35 2021 No.10534152

>>10534070
You can say Canada.

>>10534142
This happens sometimes with SSs. It sucks, but someone who can buy directly always has the chance to do so while we wait around for someone else to buy things. Sorry you missed your item. I hope it comes up again soon for an even better price.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 12:10:17 2021 No.10534214 >>10534091 I adore old school, I would absolutely not suit old school.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 14:11:10 2021 No.10534287

>>10534152
Yeah, I know. But it was a cheap-ass dress these days, and I was hoping to snag it cause it was the cut and colorway I really like. I hope whoever bought it gives it a good home... and that my shopping service doesn’t fucking fight me over a refund

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 14:54:52 2021 No.10534311

>>10534045
Literally this.

The middle class is always going to shoulder the taxes that all these corrupt and rich af politicians' spend on whatever stupid shit they push. At the end of the day we all lose. We don't have enough money to lobby for our interests like big corporations and the left and right have strategically divided the nation. We're all too busy constantly fighting each other rather than fighting against the real 1% villains up top. It sucks because you have to get stupid rich or create a huge movement to effect any kind of significant change. BLM for example still fits into the narrative the Democrats have been pitching and therefore are able to be heard and taken seriously. I honestly wouldn't even be surprised if the government on both sides created BLM, proud boys, etc movements as a way to control the population's thoughts and actions. Politicians and the ultra wealthy have unlimited resources and power. The common citizens like us are pretty much less than pawns in their games. FeelsBadMan.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 15:26:46 2021 No.10534331

>>10533679
op from before, this is absolutely true and i think native americans get so shit on more than any other race in the US across the board but that doesn’t negate the fact that police discrimination against other races and especially people who are black or immigrants exists. like i’m sure if you ask a cop they’re gonna tell you they’re not racist but that’s how dominant group bias works.

the same goes for the medical system: there are studies proving that black women, even by black doctors, consistently receive lower quality care and are more likely to have their issues ignored or waved off. it’s not because those doctors are explicitly racist it’s because the way they’ve been educated and socialized makes them less likely to take black womens complaints seriously .

>>10534087
i feel like if you take a mirror photo and whats being seen behind you in the mirror is aesthetically pleasing w your coord you’re more likely to receive positive attention? idk if that’s just me but im always drawn towards mirror selfies if the persons room is really cute or elegant

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 16:38:20 2021 No.10534393 >>10533021 She's always looked busted. There's some photos from like 10 years ago and she looks like that

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:27:00 2021 No.10534454 >>10534393 she looks way worse now with the face surgery.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:33:24 2021 No.10534459 >AP USA releases details about SC MTO >$1400 unemployment money drops in back account Today is a good day.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:34:43 2021 No.10534460 I was hoping to see if I could get brand for my birthday, but my brother is now moving in to my dads so it's put him in a bad mood, thus eliminating my chances. I wish my mum would celebrate my bday tho

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:42:51 2021 No.10534464

>>10534311
I mean it's pretty telling that in the middle of a pandemic with the government screwing everyone over everyone suddenly decided to protest for BLM instead of you know... an issue actually related to the pandemic response/lack of.
It's 100% a group of attack dogs for the left. Just wait and see, now that the left is in power they won't do a fucking thing for BLM for 2/4 years until they need them again for an election. Then suddenly blm will be all over the news again.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:45:17 2021 No.10534466 I'm addicted to female attention.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:50:11 2021 No.10534467 >>10534466 Are you a man?

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:53:10 2021 No.10534471

> didn't ship my things from Japan since spring/autumn 2020
> asked SS to keep these hoping that EMS is restored
> EMS is not restored
> turns out Surface Mail is okay-ish and seing your stuff in one piece ever again doesn't take some extraordinary luck
> I could've received my stuff already even with slow shipping

what a dumbfuck idiot I am, ugh

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 17:53:38 2021 No.10534472
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>>10534467
I am nothing but a lowly man, hanging on his last knee.
As I beg with what little amount of money I have left. Will there any girl on this board allow me nothing but a pig covered in dirt, to simp them?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 18:05:01 2021 No.10534474 >>10534466 a lot of you are yeah

>>	soup Mon Jan 11 18:42:41 2021 No.10534501 >>10534472 don’t do it anon think about your 2d waifus

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 18:48:45 2021 No.10534504

>>10534464
BLM the movement is regular people anon, it's media and instigators that are 'attack dogs' for the authoritarians.
Sit down or fuck off to /pol/
>>10534472
You must have a thing for fatties and other men anon, if you're that set on simping for gulls.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:00:08 2021 No.10534516

>>10530494
Or I was a shitposting retard who found a 4chan discord, thought like a dumbass that the same anonymity rules more or less applied, then got drunk during a low point in my life (and when I just turned 21) and almost made a serious mistake.
It took like two years, but I'd say I'm better now.
I'm probably still a creepy weirdo tho, just in a less overt way. I remembered that like two years ago though shit crossed into the feels thread when I fucked up my gift to belgianon, so that's why I was curious and checked now.
I hope my matches like the rest of their gifts.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:02:12 2021 No.10534520 >>10513406 Is this a dude with a wig? So fucking ugly.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:06:19 2021 No.10534525 >>10534520 You must be 18 to post here.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:07:23 2021 No.10534527 >>10534516 Oh my god there's more still to come.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:08:57 2021 No.10534530 >>10534527 Well yes anon, I did 3 tiers (including card) but both of my gift matches were upset with their gifts. The right move here is to make it up to them.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:09:42 2021 No.10534531 >>10534459 Honest question, how do you people who clearly can't afford lolita, paying for rent and buying food? Like are you forgoing those items in order to buy dresses? Wtf lol. Do you have any savings?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:34:13 2021 No.10534547 >>10534504 Yeah and those regular people just listen to anything the media tells them. I see this all the time with my friends who love blm, the degree they love it is entirely based on how much the media is talking about it at that moment.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:42:39 2021 No.10534553 File: 46 KB, 360x480, 61205ba7-6cec-5e47-b7de-42e97c906507.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10532961 >if it had shorts instead of a skirt I have good news for you, anon.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 19:49:06 2021 No.10534556

>>10534531
My husband pays for living expenses honestly. I'm a bit of a freeloader, and others can hate me for it, but I moved to his career's place of choosing years ago and the trade-off was that we knew he'd be making a lot more money than I ever could this way. The $1400 every two weeks is more than I made at my last job, so that kinda answers your question on why I'm able to afford anything. I also do have savings. Not an immense amount, but apparently a lot more than the average American. I was laid off directly because of COVID, if that helps any.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:18:40 2021 No.10534568

>>10534556
To follow up, since you're making more on unemployment than you did at your job, does this motivate you to go back and find another job? Do you plan on collecting the entirety of your unemployment or intend to find a higher paying job in general? I'm guessing you work retail.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:19:47 2021 No.10534570 >>10534568 Also is he mad that you don't pay for rent and use your money and savings for lolita? Not trying to derail shit. I'm just genuinely curious how these relationship dynamics work.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:31:02 2021 No.10534578 >>10534570 They probably do stuff around the house anon Or they're madly in love and he doesn't care either way because they're pretty well off

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:35:19 2021 No.10534584

>>10534570
Nayrt but my bf is happy to let me use my money for lolita stuff. I'm a freeloader too, I guess. He still buys me lolita stuff every so often. He always says he wishes he could give me an allowance instead of me having to work at all.

Idk how I found such a gallant trad man that's also a childfree leftie. Not a manlet/dicklet nor ugly/fat, either.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:43:53 2021 No.10534595

>>10534584
Also very lucky to have trad husband who says he wishes I didn't work. We are childless, he has a really good but hard job, I have a degree but choose to work a low-paying job that I don't have to drive 2 hrs to, so I am a freeloader. We live in the sticks so cost of living isn't a lot. We both cook and clean, me moreso.

Anonymous Mon Jan 11 20:54:08 2021 No.10534603

>>10534568
I'll be honest again (thanks for asking sensible questions and not automatically "reeing" about it) - I do not plan to look for work as long as I'm being paid unemployment. There's a couple reason why. Number one is the amount I'm getting right now. It seems like a complete waste of time and effort to get a job that would likely pay the same or $1/$2 higher. I essentially have my 40+ hours back a week, while still getting paid for them. The second reason is COVID. I really don't feel comfortable working at any in-person job right now and my husband has been working from home since March last year. We agreed that it compromises us to the virus if I were to work right now, because we both only go outside to essentially buy groceries. As for my job, I actually worked in an office. I was an administrator for one of their corporate departments. The pay was pretty dismal.

>>10534570
Nah, he's never been mad at that. For reference, we've known each other for 10+ years. We draw the line at him paying out of pocket for lolita, even though he could comfortably (He gives me other presents, and I've never expected him to get as good at sniping listings as me). Basically any money I make is completely mine to spend in any way I like. I realize that makes me completely spoiled. I pay for little things, like for my own car registration and whatnot.

>>	soup Mon Jan 11 22:25:42 2021 No.10534703 what tf is a trad man?? is it some new zoomer word or are you guys larping

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 22:29:35 2021 No.10534708 >>10534703 It's what the kids call a guy that like.........has traditional...leanings I guess. Wants to be the provider. Doesn't see anything weird about partner staying at home. But I live in the sticks so most are like that. /shrugs

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 23:00:22 2021 No.10534776 >>10534703 You're cute, soup.

>>	soup Mon Jan 11 23:02:14 2021 No.10534783 >>10534776 did you get karl jr anon?

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 23:17:42 2021 No.10534819 >>10534776 stop.

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 23:19:00 2021 No.10534825 >>10534783 Off topic I usually lurk but sometimes I get worried someone will impersonate soup.

>>	soup Mon Jan 11 23:30:17 2021 No.10534847 >>10534825 why would anyone want to do that >>10534708 oh

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 23:33:38 2021 No.10534853 >>10534776 shut up you filthy cocksucker

>>	Anonymous Mon Jan 11 23:53:11 2021 No.10534875 >>10532000 this meme is never dead

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 12 00:06:21 2021 No.10534893 >>10534530 Chotto mate kudesai. The right move is to learn how to gift give, then make it up to them.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 12 00:08:33 2021 No.10534897 >>10534531 It's called saving a little at a time anon, if there's still girls in Venezuela that can choke for a few million bolivar, then some hick in the sticks can do it too.

Anonymous Tue Jan 12 02:18:39 2021 No.10535005

>>10534603
>>10534595
>>10534584
Ayrt, for the ones that are not working, do you guys ever feel a lack of purpose? What are some of the hobbies you have? Do your husbands/partners have expectations of sex on a regular basis/whenever they want it? Do you all share joint bank accounts? I know a lot of couples do when they get married.

Thanks for the insight.

Anonymous Tue Jan 12 02:37:26 2021 No.10535024

>>10534504
>The media
>The fucking media

You mean the same media which labelled all the 6 months worth kf riots as peaceful protests to a fault?
"Fiery but peaceful" comes to mind.

Also literally every single major business in the US has voiced their support for BLM. Many indie brands were beheaded before the altar of social media if they didn't do some performative pro-BLM dance. I'm also reminded of the guy who nearly got lynched at a cafe because he didn't put his fist up in support of BLM. If you think you're not on the side of the authoritarians, I have bad news for you.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 12 05:26:11 2021 No.10535104 >>10532000 trips for truth

Anonymous Tue Jan 12 05:53:17 2021 No.10535108

>>10535005
I'm the unemployment anon. I've never felt my identity or purpose relied on a job. Actually, working drained me of all creative energy and I was always the odd-one-out where I worked because I didn't live and breathe for my boss. It's kinda always been like that. Maybe I have yet to find a job that really fits? Honestly I'd be happy with a desk job somewhere that just stays out of my personal life/time.

My hobbies are all art or foreign-language related. I'm always busy with something. Obviously I'm pretty hard-core into jfashion too. There's no expectation of sex outside the norm. We have a shared bank account, but I also have a separate one in my name that's where most my money goes, just so I know what's truly mine to spend on whatever.

>>	Anonymous Tue Jan 12 12:07:22 2021 No.10535284 >>10535024 If you don't get that the media is deflecting resentment and hatred for the oligarchy back so that people tear into each other rather than sharpening pitchforks on politicians, you gotta guess again.

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