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10491818 No.10491818 [Reply] [Original]

Link to old thread here: >>10483363
Discuss:
>plush bags
>buyer/seller pet peeves
>When will the Old School revival finally die?
>good/bad buying experiences

>> No.10491838

>>10491818
Holy shit, I’d be pissed too. This isn’t as bad as shipping overseas in just an AP bag which recently happened to me though.

>> No.10491860

>>10491818
Regular boxes can get crushed in transit too? All my items that come from China and the USA in boxes always arrive ripped to shreds. The buyer needs to take this up with the shipping company.

>> No.10491861

>>10491860
I typed too fast and want to clarify that the boxes arrived shred up and rarely the item inside is damaged

>> No.10491871

>>10491838
If it’s properly taped outside of the bag it shouldn’t be a problem.

>> No.10491872

>>10491818
What a Karen kek

>> No.10491887

>>10491860
boxes have durability ratings and lose durability when they are used, so yeah i have gotten damaged boxes from individual sellers who reused a box that was never rated for international travel, but I've never gotten a damaged box from a reputable business.

>> No.10491925

>>10491818
I always ship my items in a bubble envelope and have never gotten any issues. I've also shipped them in poly mailers with the dress wrapped in bubble wrap. The shoe box and trash bag combo is tragic but it's not really anything to lose her mind over.

>> No.10491961
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10491961

JSK + Headbow+ Socks+ Little Cat necklace

>> No.10492099
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10492099

I have nothing to say

>> No.10492107

>>10491838
I also had something shipped to me from overseas in just an AP bag, and I was livid since it was their Twinkle Star Bag. It did get some damage during shipping but nothing major, thankfully. I don’t know what’s so difficult about shipping something in a sturdy box or even a bubble mailer.

>> No.10492108

>>10491818
It's a dress, not fine china. It doesn't even need a box. This poorfag needs to chill. You're not buying from Chanel, Karen.

>> No.10492110

>>10491818
maybe it's just me but I don't see what's wrong with wrapping it in a plastic trash bag and a zara bag as long as they're clean. being upset over the flimsy shoebox is understandable, but if the dress was ok i would have left neutral feedback and just told the seller. she sounds insane

>> No.10492134

>>10492099
i do, how fucking new are you?

>> No.10492143

>>10492134
Lol shut up

>> No.10492190

>>10492110
Trash bags have a weird smell to them though

>> No.10492192

>>10492143
Not that anon, but anyone who disagrees with you needs to shut up?
Lol ok newfag.

>> No.10492253

>>10492099
kek

>> No.10492371

>>10491818
what do you mean your dress was "crushed" LMAO what a Karen.

"lucky it wasn't damaged" of course not, it's a dress not glassware you dipshit.

>> No.10492372

>>10491961
good for them. Money is tight rn.

>> No.10492378

>>10492099
I don't want to be that person but all stores in Japan are charging for bags now. The most expensive one I saw was around 300 yen for the big IW paper bag and the Baby and AP ones are a little less.

If they were selling it for $3 or so, I could understand

>> No.10492411

>>10492378
oops I definitely requested hitotsu zutsu bags with my latest AP haul because I got my friends presents for christmas

>> No.10492458

>>10492378
The lolita stores give you their bags for free when you shop in person and online.

>> No.10492527
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10492527

F this girl and her poor fag pity party.

She has harassed me non-stop on every big them I've sold over the last 18 months with messages asing how low I can possibly go and about how unfair it is that prices have gone so high. And then she's gonna list this raggedy ass bag for $500 and try to guilt trip the whole LM comm because she can't afford it anymore ?
What a dick move.

>> No.10492529

>>10492527
>she's gonna list this raggedy ass bag for $500

500 plus $15 shipping, anon. Every penny counts amirite?

>> No.10492563

>>10492527
>she's gonna list this raggedy ass bag for $500
Who can blame her lmao

>> No.10492566

>>10491818
I always post dresses in bags not box... now I’m worried.

>> No.10492567

>>10492372
So they have to add on cc 250 usd?
>logic
If money is tight rn, then don't buy a full set from a new release.

>> No.10492569

>>10492566
If you're not from the glorious burgerland, you will be fine.

>> No.10492573

>>10492566
shipping bags are different from randomass shopping bags.

>> No.10492575

>>10492527
the price is market rate-ish but dear lord that fucking guilt trip tho

>> No.10492595

>>10492527
>because of price gouging I can't afford this fashion
>proceeds to do the same exact thing that priced her out

lol o k

>> No.10492596

>>10492527
she deleted it

>> No.10492598

>>10492527
She's so annoying, she keeps relisting her usakumya pochette and her fruits parlor to trade for sugary carnival in black. She's literally been at it for a year

>> No.10492603

>>10492527
Why do people feel the need to get so personal on Lacemarket sales listings? I see this kind of stuff on there all the time and I'm just wondering do they really think we need to know?

>> No.10492604

>>10492603
I hate "URGENT" sales for the same reason. Nobody is going to buy something faster because it's listed as "URGENT". In fact it puts me off.

>> No.10492606

>>10492603
For real. I have had a ton of financial troubles this year (like basically everybody) and I've had to sell off many of my most prized items to keep afloat. I have never once mentioned that in a listing because 1. it's irrelevant 2. I think it's actually a turn off for buyers and 3. I don't want anyone's pity money or anyone up in my business.

>> No.10492607

>>10492527
I swear to god this is the same girl who left me neutral feedback because the dress I shipped her was left on her front porch instead of in her mailbox.

>> No.10492610

>>10492527
yeah Ichigo chan here is pretty notorious for sending pretty rude messages about trying to get a lower price. Both me and my bff/twinning mate have gotten messages from her on separate occassions trying to get the "lowest price possible" on items that are selling in minutes.

>> No.10492613

>>10492603
To be perfectly blunt: I also just don't care. I'm not trying to be a cunt, but everybody has problems and in her case, the mismanagement of her money/career is not my problem.

1k a month?!? Really?!? to be perfectly honest if your income is really that little you can't afford any lolita period, let alone the brand items she posts/is looking for.

>> No.10492626

>>10492573
Every time shipping comes up I swear half the posters don't seem to understand this.

Shipping bags are reinforced. They're made of different types of plastic that's designed to deform rather than tear, and they often have threads running through to protect as well. Same with actual shipping boxes vs shit like a shoe box. Thicker cardboard with strings in it. Proper companies use actual packing tape, too.

And you can get envelopes and boxes for free or cheap from any shipping or postal service. There's no fucking excuse to use whatever shopping bag is lying around your house, you're just asking for your item to be destroyed.

>Put the item in a plastic bag, ziploc bag, shopping bag, or plastic wrap
>Put that in a proper shipping box/bag
>Tape up any seams with real packing tape or duct tape in a pinch

Most girls I've bought from follow those steps. One time I left negative feedback on a girl who didn't. She skipped the first step and just shipped the dress overseas in a cardboard box. It arrived smashed up with holes gouged into the box, during a fucking storm. Her thank you card got soaked and bled all over the inside of the box, though thankfully didn't wreck anything, but I was pissed.

>> No.10492628

>>10492604
Especially since the listings usually last for months with no price drop. You’d think if they were desperate they’d want it to sell faster even for a little less.

>> No.10492677

>>10492613
This is something that’s always been a mystery to me. So many efamous lolitas with crazy wardrobes are also broke and/or unemployed. I guess they’re all sugar babies or something? Or maybe leeching off their parents/ SO?

>> No.10492802

>>10492606
>I don't want anyone's pity money or anyone up in my business.
Well I still feel bad for you anony, sorry you had to sell your prized items. That always sucks.

>> No.10492806

>>10492626
This is it. Shipping envelopes are designed to be tear-resistant and you can use packaging tape to secure the opening so moisture can't seep in. I would never ship anything in a fucking AP shopping bag.

If you move stuff from your wardrobe often, buy a 20 pack of poly envelopes and it'll last a long time.

>> No.10492812

>>10492606

As someone who has to do that, I'm sorry anon. That still sucks.

>> No.10492813

>>10492806
I buy the 100 packs from Amazon. they're literally like $10

>> No.10492815

>>10492812
Thanks. It happens. I work in hospitality so it was bound to happen with the pandemic and all. Lolita is a hobby but with selling stuff I've been able to keep my house/ major responsibilities so I'm happy I even had the items to sell when so many don't have any options rn.

>> No.10493136

>>10491818

Does LM have a block option? I feel like this one or two difficult potential buyers for an item are actual children and I don't want to deal with them. I remember someone mentioning a Chrome extension for it or something?

>> No.10493145

>>10493136
It only blocks you from seeing their listings, they can still bid on yours.

>> No.10493179

>>10493145

Well shit. Hopefully they don't and someone else outbids them.

I'm also just generally tired of getting ridiculous lowball offers from people for stuff that is reasonably priced when I don't have offers open. I should just start ignoring weird entitled messages.

>> No.10493181

>>10493136
I would love this feature. I've gotten such bitchy messages that I would literally rather set the item on fire than sell to them.

>> No.10493182

>>10493179
>I'm also just generally tired of getting ridiculous lowball offers from people for stuff that is reasonably priced when I don't have offers open. I should just start ignoring weird entitled messages.
THIS. Dear lord. If I wanted to sell my $400 item for $250, I'd have listed it at that price. There's so many of them now, and once I tell them I won't lower the price I legit had a girl as me how much I would want for two of the dresses in the background that weren't even for sale. Bitch we both know your cheap ass isn't gonna pay a decent price for those either.

>> No.10493184

>>10493181
Why are there so many entitled bitches in lolita? I've never encountered this kind of thing selling other clothes on sites

>> No.10493186

>>10493184

Do you not use Depop? Never sold there but the WTBs posts make it obvious it's worse and full of more actual children.

>> No.10493188

>>10493186
I do, maybe I've just been lucky.

>> No.10493194
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10493194

I recently had someone on LM ask me about setting up a payment plan when my ToS states that I don't do those.

I also had someone ask me the international shipping price when the post stated I'm not shipping outside my country atm.

ugh and sending me DM's about offers when OBO is not enabled. Most things I don't even get anoyyed at but shit that's literally answered in the listing drives me up the wall. If you're spending that much money on lolita fashion why aren't you reading the posts?

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10493440

It's finally happened, after way too many secondhand lolita purchases I finally had a truly shitty buying experience. I bought MM's Roslynn OP off of Mercari for 300+ burgerbucks, and after waiting well over a week for the seller to confirm the purchase, and then another week for the seller to think about sending out the dress to my SS, it finally arrived and the stitching on the sleeve is completely falling apart (pic related). It's something my tailor can fix, but at the price point I'd expect the item to not have this kind of undisclosed damage. I'm also pretty sure I have no recourse.

>> No.10493444

>>10492527
ridiculous. the most personal I ever get is saying I don’t wear a dress enough and want to have it go to someone who will, not this woe is me I can’t buy lolita bullshit

>> No.10493449

>>10492603
For real, some people's sales listings double as fucking blog posts, it's so awkward. Some small personal detail is fine if unnecessary, e.g., "I'm saving for my wedding/clearing out for a move", but why sperg out about how your cat needs surgery and you need therapy and you just lost your job and you spent your rent money on lolita, etc etc? It just makes me embarrassed for them.

>> No.10493458

>>10493440
yeah, it's an occupational hazard of using an SS, you basically have to trust that the item will be as described because there's no recourse really. Most SS's won't fight it because their entire business depends on having a good purchase profile and Mercari and such. Since you need an official 80 phone number to set up an account it's non-trivial to set up new ones.

>> No.10493460

>>10493449
Do they actually think this will attract buyers? It's such a big turnoff, especially if you've noticed their behavior on LM in the past. So cringey.

>> No.10493462

>>10493458
I just needed to vent; like it's obvious a fattychan tried to squeeze themselves into this dress. Who knew Japanese hamplanets would be such an issue.

>> No.10493468

>>10493460

They may not see it as attracting buyers but the more simple ones that don't say urgent or include extraneous info in the listing title are harmless and aren't really turn offs to me. Ones that in the description mention basic stuff like "closet cleaning", "moving", "didn't fit", "need money for x thing (my pet, a wedding, to buy other stuff, etc.)" stated bluntly and don't go on a whole pity party just strike me as people who are maybe just sharing because they feel a normal level of subconscious urge to rationalize or explain the sale.

>> No.10493473

>>10493468
Yeah when they include little bits like that I get kind of reassured that I’m getting something from an actual lolita

>> No.10493479
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10493479

>>10493186
Depop is such a shitshow. If it isn't a lowballer trying to get me to lower my prices, it's some teen asking if I do trades despite saying I don't do trades in all my listings. oh and there's also the ageplayers. urgh

>> No.10493497

>>10493468
yeah I don't mind a little blurb about why they're selling, it can even be helpful if they say something like "shoes are too small, I'm a size 9" or "quick sale" to explain a low price. It's when it gets into too much detail about medical or financial problems that it gets weird.

>> No.10493541

>>10493449
Because they're attention whores that get off on strangers' pity

>> No.10493564

ITT sad oldfag griping about the golden lj days

Livejournal plus or whatever it was called had a notes feature where you would add a 50 character blurb that would show up when you hovered over someones username but only you would be able to see it. It was an absolute treasure for a comm where buying/discussion were done under the same usernames.

>> No.10493589

I need to vent. A buyer bought a dress from me in September. I had said no international buyers but she’s on a US military base overseas so it’s technically domestic as it never gets handed over to a foreign postal service and the rates aren’t any higher. I made sure to remind the buyer to update her shipping address. A month goes by and the buyer asks where her dress is despite the fact that I gave her tracking info. I replied that it’s taking awhile because it has to go to japan. No response. I proceed to do a package inquiry to find out where it is and it says it’s been returned to sender. Ask the buyer what’s going on. No response. On a hunch I look up her user name in Instagram and there she is. In fucking Texas. That’s why she stopped responding. Has literally not said one word to me since I mentioned the dress was going international and she realized she fucked up. Not an apology, nothing. Meanwhile my $500 dress is still not returned to me and has been literally around the world because this bitch didn’t update her shipping address.

>> No.10493608

>>10493589
Fuck anon I’m sorry, USPS is notoriously bad at returning to sender. Stay on their asses to make sure it gets to you and isn’t destroyed.

>> No.10493771
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10493771

Anyone want to buy a cautionary tale?

>> No.10493772

>>10493589
Hilarious I know exactly the buyer you’re talking about.

>> No.10493854

>>10493772

Damn I want to know so bad now

>> No.10493944

>>10493462
Are you joking? Japanese sellers are sketchy as hell and I've received the wrong items or things that are damaged. Look at the sellers negative reviews before buying with an SS and if they have over 5 bad ratings, run

>> No.10493955

>>10493771

What's the story?

At first I thought this was some babby's first sewing (by which I mean I thought some underage child tried to make a jsk, not a newbie tried to sew a dress) and then cluelessly tried to sell the mess instead of just binning it.

Then I noticed the filename and there's no way it's milanope? In this day and age?

>> No.10493958

>>10493955
When in doubt, assume sissy

>> No.10493970

>>10493955
>>10493958
it was listed earlier in the day on lm as milanoo

>> No.10493974

Damn, a DD of mine finally came up on LM yesterday and after I bought it I realized I didn't update my PayPal address on my profile, so I did so and apparently it made my account unverified again. Now I can't even reply to the seller's messages. I've immediately sent an email to the mods but I don't know how long it will take for them to reply and I'm afraid the seller is going to think I'm ghosting her.

>> No.10493981

>>10493974
Is there anyone you know that could message the seller for you? Someone in your comm? They could send a quick message explaining what happened and that you’ll get in touch once you hear back from the mods. It’ll sound a little sketchy but it’s better than ghosting

>> No.10493982

>>10493771
Cursed image

>> No.10493993

>>10493974
email me and i'll message the seller for you, sorry that happened to you anon

>> No.10494002

>>10493981
Sadly I'm kind of an hermit so I don't know anyone that could PM the seller.

>>10493993
Thank you very much anon, I've just sent you an email !

>> No.10494007

>>10493970

Damn. Thought either people would stop buying from them or they'd have cleaned up their act.

Thanks for clearing it up!

>> No.10494098

>>10493589
wait so someone is this retarded to pay $500 on a dress and let it travel around the world?

>> No.10494099

>>10493440
happened to me too, bought a baby jsk and bonnet and the dumbass seller washed it and dried it in a machine with high heat, causing the dress to shrink. how do I know? i had the jsk already but in a different colorway and i've shrunk normie clothes by drying them too hot

>> No.10494109

>>10494099

Weird that a Japanese seller would do that since a lot of people hang laundry to dry there (I hang my lolita clothes in a ventilated room away from sunlight to dry to avoid damage or fading, rarely put any lolita clothes I don't sew myself into a dryer on high heat

>> No.10494158

>>10492527
I used to follow ichigo chan on insta (they deleted their old one last year and recently popped up again this year) and at one point they posted their bank statement showing they were like -$500 in debt and still bought something from LM.

She found and pestered me on depop this month looking to trade her crusty ass fruits parlor for my pony bags (she was two pony bags or a dress set) despite none of my pony bags being for sale.

>> No.10494159

>>10493771

Its been ten fucking years of people posting to warn of this company so if people are still buying from them its on them.

https://getoffegl.livejournal.com/tag/milanoo

>> No.10494162
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10494162

The shoulders look super stretched out for something listed Like New

Also *URGENTT!!11!11!!!* sales

>> No.10494166

>>10494162
I cant figure out if it is just the lighting or if the fabric is filthy and dingy. I do really love this dress though, I've never paid attention to it before

>> No.10494168

>>10494162
This clearly isn’t the same dress. Is it a replica?

>> No.10494170

>>10494168
Its the same dress. The front jabot thing can be removed from the buttons. I used that photo because it showed the mini sleeves more clearly than the full dress stock photo

https://lolibrary.org/items/ap-dreamy-dollhouse-op

>>10494166
That could also be the case but its at the very least stretched out. The mini sleeve OPs cannot be kept on a hanger like that (especially the 2010 and before) because the weight of the skirt will damage the elastic.

>> No.10494190

>>10494170
It breaks my heart every time I see a dress with elasticize shoulders on a hanger. Ffs just fold it over the bar or use skirt clips

>> No.10494194

>>10494099
AYRT that's awful I'm sorry! At least mine is fixable. Also, as expected, after a polite inquiry to my SS nothing can be done. A lesson learned, I suppose.

>> No.10494310

>>10494162
This is the one thing that drives me up a wall especially with older dresses. Fold it in half and hang it on the bottom rung of the hanger

>> No.10494385

>>10493589

I know who this is. She was bidding on a dress today and beaten out on it. When I saw her bid I thought about this post.

>> No.10494408

>>10494385
Name and shame so no one else has to sell to this loon

>> No.10494642

You know you're in for a ride when girls ask you "what's the longest possible payment plan you could do?" on a $150 item LMAO.

That's literally the worst possible phrasing for trying to get somone who clearly states in the TOS that they don't do payment plans to do one.

>> No.10494643

>>10494408
+1

>> No.10494646

>>10494166
Lavender is so hard to photograph. Most people have yellow lighting, so the result is this weird dingy gray. I own this dress in lavender and it's tough as hell to get good pics of.

>> No.10494805

The amount of people messaging me asking if they can outright buy my auctions is really annoying. It used to be very rare that this would happen and therefor not bother me, but since the market boom it’s seriously every listing I make now. I had a listing go up for bidding and didn’t get a single bid the first day, but had four low-ball BIN offers, then others with multiple bidders that people are trying to weasel in on and buy like I can even cancel the auction at this point. Just fucking bid like everyone else, you cheapasses.

>> No.10494856

>>10494805
It’s because this is a thing people do now so they think it’s okay.

>> No.10494857

>>10494856
Adding that I don’t think it’s okay and find it annoying as hell too. But it’s becoming the norm.

>> No.10494902

>>10493440
>that pilling
My condolences, anon. That was truly a bad deal. The overall condition just seems so bad, not just the fucked up seams.

>> No.10494917

>>10494805
Yes ugh so annoying. Every single sweet auction I do I get “generous” offers for $250 on items I expect to go for $400+

>> No.10494922

>>10494902
It's a heavy enough fabric that I might be able to take care of some of the pulling, and I'll have to baby it, but I'm hoping with some TLC it'll at least be wearable in the future. We'll see.

>> No.10494924

>>10494805
The COVID money is gone and newfags are trying to speculate and scalp secondhand because of the sweet boom

Give it a few months and Christmas money and events will bring back normal buyers

>> No.10494928

>>10491818
Some old horror story: years ago I bought my original Honey Cake switching JSK and shelled out 400 bucks for it plus shipping. The seller shipped it quickly, but I suspected a scam when I picked up the package. It was so dang small, I‘d use a box like that to ship two pair of OTKs .I opened it with utmost care, but the dress basically jumped out of the box like a jack-in-the-box. It’s a miracle I didn’t cut into it. Also it was just loosely thrown in a grocery shopping bag, which was no protection at all. I can’t fathom how much force the seller must’ve used to pack that up.

tl;dr please don’t squeeze dresses into ridiculously small boxes.

>> No.10494929

>>10494805
Relatable. Dumb shits don’t realize that once the bidding starts I can’t even cancel it if I wanted to.

>> No.10494931

>>10494928
They probably used a vacuum thingy to pack it.

>> No.10494936

What are other secondhand places besides LM, Wunder and Closet Child?

>> No.10494947

>>10494936
Onegaishi is pricey and sold out most of the time, but they sell a ton of older AP prints. There’s also mercari in japan, and yahoo auctions occasionally. There’s also general thrift stores with online shops, most of them cross post with yahoo auctions.

>> No.10494951

>>10494947
Second on the general thrift stores. I found an MMM JSK at a super hidden one online for 9000 yen. Had to use tenso to get it here tho.

>> No.10494952

>>10494947
onegaishi is just a reseller/scalper, not sure if it's something you should be promoting

>> No.10494957

>>10494952
I mean did they not ask for resellers?

>> No.10494969

>>10494952

It's one persons running it tho and not neccesarily as good of a deal or as trustworthy/hassle free as real established SS

>> No.10494975

>>10494952
Idk I got jewelry jelly from them for $250 total. They do charge a lot for their full sets tho

>> No.10494998

>>10494805
I hate people that do this. Don't give in, anon. Any bids you get will be better than any offers. They are just trying to undercut the competition.

It's also really frustrating as someone who bids pretty high, and then I find out the seller sold something for LESS than I was bidding. My absolute number 1 pet peeve.

>> No.10495004

>>10494975

I have a hard time believing lots of people have suddenly had a good experience with them when they haven't existed that long. Feels like self promo

>> No.10495005

>>10494998

In the context of LM and the commitment and terms sellers and buyers agree to, YES, I get how you feel, but part of me interprets it as this sort of "I have the most money so I should get whatever I want by paying the most and people who get it cheaper upset me" vibe that some people have. Not you in particular but some people are like that and it's also annoying.

>> No.10495012

>>10495004
It's a mixed bag. I had a really good experience and then I bought another dress and it ended up having undisclosed damage, and the price was kind of a lot for what it was. I guess it wasn't her fault, she's just the middleman. What can you do.

>> No.10495015

>>10495004
Her LM is like 10 years old and has over 250 positive feedback anon, the site/insta is new but she’s been an SS in Japan for ages.

>> No.10495017

>>10494928
International shipping is expensive in my country so unless if you want to pay 60+ US dollars for shipping, your item is going into a smaller sized box

>>10494805
This started happening to me too and the offers are around $10 more than the bidding price? How is $10 more than what I'm asking enticing at all? Pay more or stfu

>> No.10495019

>>10495005
Well. I mean LM is a free market. If I bid the highest I absolutely should get the item.

>> No.10495020

>>10495019
The seller can sell for however much they want, that includes less than you're willing to pay. Tough shit

>> No.10495021

>>10495020
Not if it’s an auction anon that’s kinda the whole point

>> No.10495042

>>10495019
Not if the seller doesn't want to sell to you and it's in their terms. What are you going to do about it

>> No.10495043

>>10495021
Oh well, boohoo, it's still the sellers choice to sell to whoever they want and you're not entitled to things just because you have money.

>> No.10495052

>>10495020
>>10495042
>>10495043
Why is it suddenly a controversial opinion/debatable topic that the winner of an auction should get the item they bid on. That's how auctions work.

>> No.10495053

Please post more direct information regarding these shitty buyer so that other are warned. Military base shipping buyer, fruits parlour trade buyer, etc. Directly posting usernames will be deleted but its possible to give more direct informaiton than the vague info above.

>> No.10495055

>>10494975
congrats on paying $250 for a dress that regularly sold for $80 the past 5+ years

>> No.10495056

>>10495053
Military base buyer bought Carnival from me in September. That should be enough info and hopefully I don’t catch a ban

>> No.10495059

>>10495055
Someone gonna tell this bitch that market prices for sweet have risen ?

>> No.10495062
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10495062

Is it just me or does this review read like a joke?
> I'm literally shaking !!!11

>> No.10495064

>>10495059
just because market prices are high doesn't mean it's gonna stay that way forever. Buying shit like Jewelry Jelly and Decoration Dream right now is a stupid investment when prices are likely to drop soon. Look at Sugary Carnival, one sells for $1600 a couple months back, now people are having trouble getting rid of theirs for $400-500.

>> No.10495065

>>10495062
I know it’s the buyer’s responsibility to read the invoice, but it’s shitty to not post you’re selling from a smoking home directly in the listing. This is a bit melodramatic but I see where they’re coming from.

>> No.10495066

>>10495064
The dresses are getting old. I'd rather buy it now for 200+ than buy one later for 80$ when its in shit condition from all the trendlitas

>> No.10495067

>>10495064
jewelry jelly is gonna look even worse in 2 years so paying more now isn't that unreasonable

>> No.10495068

>>10495065
I know you're right, it was just really dramatic and that's why I found it amusing. I've never seen someone unironically say that they're literally shaking.

>> No.10495076

>>10495064
What if. What. If. I told you I didn’t buy it as an “investment”. I bought it because I really wanted it and I wanted to have it in my closet to wear and enjoy.

>> No.10495077

>>10495068
I completely agree, it does come across as ironic. She probably wrote it in the heat of the moment and she’ll look back and cringe.

>> No.10495078

>>10495064
I swear all you poorfags and your “investment” logic. Not everyone buys Lolita to shill it later for twice the price you twat.

>> No.10495081

>>10495062
I fucking hate tumbr

>> No.10495083

>>10495064
> t. salty poorfag seething because they can't afford sweet

>> No.10495084

>>10495081
Same, anon, same.

>> No.10495094

>>10495062
Ok but I know what seller that is and I had issues with them too.

>> No.10495095

>>10495094
Like what? Just curious

>> No.10495096

>>10495052
Some of us care about where our dresses are going? I don't even sell to my friends who turn over their closet every three months. Of course we're looking at your feedback and judging you.

>> No.10495097

>>10495096
Then don’t make it an auction you dipshit

>> No.10495098

>>10494951
which stores anon-chan?

>> No.10495099

I agreed to a payment plan for a buyer, she backed out and now she wants her non refundable deposit back. Looks like she’s going to ruin payment plans for everyone else, I’m going to stop allowing them.

>> No.10495101

>>10495099
Tell her to fuck off. Don't give her the money back, its a fee for wasting your time.

>> No.10495102

>>10495101
Yeah. And then she makes a PayPal claim and you not only HAVE to refund you, they hit you with the charge back fee of $40 too

>> No.10495103

>>10495102
Yup, she opened a claim. And even though the non refundable deposit is in the invoice ToS Paypal is still likely to side with her. I've done successful payment plans with buyers before but this one bad experience is turning me off them.

>> No.10495106

>>10495102
I wish there was more protection for buyers. Sorry you have to deal with that anon

>> No.10495108

>>10495095
Nayrt but I've seen this seller's feedback and there are quite a few neutrals. Most recent one being for undisclosed damages and another one also mentioning their dress had a horrible smell. They have a popular sweet print jsk listed at the moment that they reduced the price on, bet that one stinks too.

>> No.10495110

>>10495103
Yeah I only do them for like $1000 or more

>> No.10495113

>>10495066
it's already in shit condition, it was printed incorrectly and it's already a decade old

>>10495076
>>10495078
"investment" has more meaning than just monetary

>>10495083
sure, whatever you have to believe to make you feel better about overpaying for an old faded dress

>> No.10495115

>>10495099
>>10495103
In the future, always get your non-refundable deposit as friends and family payment so they can't claim it back.
Leave negative feedback, they broke what you agreed to.

>> No.10495116

>>10495108
I have to wonder wtf she's doing to make the dress smell so fucking bad. My boyfriend smokes weed in our room (granted usually with the windows open) and I've sent dresses out but they've never smelled or anything, at least not that I've been made aware of.

>> No.10495118

>>10495113
Definitely salty because she can't afford sweet kek quit embarassing yourself. $250 isn't expensive, sorry you're a poorfag

>> No.10495119

>>10495113
Actually it was basically nwot and I LOVE the print, mistake or not. Point being, you don’t get to decide what’s worth it for other people poorfag anon

>> No.10495120

>>10495119
Never believe a seller that says NWOT

>> No.10495121

>>10495120
> reading comprehension, what is that?

>> No.10495123

>>10495120
Stay mad that $250 is expensive to you, that's just sad desu

>> No.10495125

>>10495120
Hell, never believe a buyer that says NWT, either

>> No.10495131

>>10495108
Which print is it so I know what to avoid and so you don't catch a ban for posting names?

>> No.10495134

>>10495131
CCS

>> No.10495135

>>10495125
very true

>> No.10495144

>>10495062
>>10495094
>>10495108
>>10495131

Item sold for this feedback was
"Rose Knitwear Brand Pastel Rainbow Sparkly Fairy Kei Sweater"

I fucking hate that we have to speak in code ahaha

>> No.10495148

>>10495144

ALSO the seller appears to be the same buyer who wanted to split a $40 3x offbrand beret set after purchase discussed in the last thread cool coool

>>10485477

>> No.10495150

>>10495148
Kek

>> No.10495161

>>10495134
>>10495144
Thanks for looking out, anons

>> No.10495165

>>10495097
Because BIN is obviously better.

>> No.10495173

>>10495165
Well if you’re trying to screen out people you don’t want to sell to then yes BIN is a better option. Or better yet, why don’t you just not sell anything at all if you’re that worried about selling it to someone you disapprove of. It’d do a lot of people a favor you stuck up cunt

>> No.10495189

>>10495094
I talked about it on the last thread but they had already BIN something and then tried to have me cut the price and not sell them one of the items. Just obnoxious.

>> No.10495195

>>10495189
I’ve had this happen several times. Most of the time they say they’d pay the price but were really hoping that I’d be able to take some off. 10/10 negotiating right there

>> No.10495203

>>10495062
I bought something from this person off depop before and the smell was pretty awful, and I think they've posted some scammy listings before? Using photos from fril and deleting the listing when asked for more photos, ect. I'd avoid them.

>> No.10495218

>>10495056
Sugary or Daydream?

>> No.10495219

>>10495203
They're most recent photo is stolen from another listing

>> No.10495220

>>10495219
*their
Fuk

>> No.10495225

>>10495218
How do you not know which dress Carnival is. It's even had a rerelease, newfag. It's neither that you named

>> No.10495226

Someone with less than 5 feedback with an inactive seeming account who hasn't contacted me has suddenly bid on multiple things I am selling despite my ToS mentioning needing to message me if anyone has no or negative feedback in the last year. Should I message them to possibly request they provide me alternative feedback of some sort? I feel worried they're not going to pay or something.

>> No.10495278

>>10495218
It's called Carnival you clueless dolt. Way to show your newness

>> No.10495282

>>10495218
cdc

>> No.10495284

>>10495282
no. it's not even hard to find with just carnival even if you don't know what dress it is...

>> No.10495320

>>10495226
I wouldn’t be too worried. Less than 5 isn’t 0, and if the account is older that actual seems more legit to me

>> No.10495327

>>10495284
i was making fun of her.

>> No.10495329

>>10495320

It's only one as a seller and zero as a buyer, I just didn't wanna specify since they haven't done anything wrong snd I don't want them to feel called out if they browse here, was just asking for advice. I guess it's less concerning than a new account, you're right.

>> No.10495339

>>10495329
I think at the very least confirming that it's an active account, not necessarily asking for alternate feedback, would be beneficial. Idk if it's happened on LM before but I've had my eBay hacked and someone bought stuff under my name and account that I had to dispute. Confirming that this person is definitely wanting to buy won't hurt.

>> No.10495348

>>10495339

They sent me a PM asking about shipping to their location so I think they're alright. Fingers crossed it's alright as I really need/want the cash and don't want to have to relist. Plus it will be nice for the dress to go to someone who really wants and can enjoy it as soon as possible.

>> No.10495385

>>10495327
mb lmao, i thought multiple people genuinely were that lazy

>> No.10495394

>>10495056
>
Thanks anon. I'm the one who originally posted the question and I was able to find the buyer.

>>10495218

AP Carnival OP in black/white sold at $500 even in september.

I feel like I'm a broken record but its shit to have to hint like this. On EGL if someone was a shitty buyer/seller or just annoying they would get a getoffegl post with their name in the title. For a small community with this much money involved there should be an easy way to warn others of poor behavior.

>> No.10495426
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10495426

someone needs to tell this chick to stop commenting on everyones sales and wtb posts on facebook

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10495509

Jfc can you put a little more effort into laying a shirt out in a way that isnt a fucking maze for my eye to navigate. If you are going to be that shit at flat laying clothes put them on a hanger. Reeeee

>> No.10495913

Not LM-related, but has anyone here successfully ordered from Luminescentea/applesaladtea? Someone listed some of her wrist cuffs and it reminded me she exists.
I ordered some stuff from her earlier this year and she just... didn't deliver. Messaged her a few times, nothing. There are more reviews saying the same happened to them, too, yet the shop description now has something about a black friday sale lol? I'm still baffled and wondering what happened, back when I ordered she was at least active on insta. Now it's like she dropped off the face of the earth.

>> No.10495917

>>10495913

Huh I never knew she even had a store. I just looked at it now - it costs money to keep those listings up so I'm always a little baffled at how people keep stuff up when they don't intend to do anything about it. Sorry about that anon, that's pretty frustrating.

>> No.10495929

>>10495509
This is the kind of photo where you know the item will come smelling like mildew and wrinkled so badly that you can't iron the wrinkles out.

>>10495913
Her Etsy says it was opened in 2014 and the sale is the store's 5 year anniversary sale, so the announcement is a year old. She probably stopped posting so people can't flood her comments with questions about their orders.

>> No.10495942
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10495942

so tired of seeing this bitch's shit clogging up lacemarket

>> No.10495962

>>10495942
And here I am occasionally feeling guilty for listing ETC/JM non-lolita stuff even though there is an otome category

>> No.10495966

>>10495942
Report her

>> No.10496061

>>10495942
I'm just sitting here wondering how she could both wear a childs size 12 shoe, and need a 40 inch bust ??? fatty proportions are weird

>> No.10496064

>>10495942
how does she get past the rule of three? She must be mis-labeling the brand in her listings to get around the flag

>> No.10496071

>>10495962
I feel you, anon. I have some items from normie brands that actually look good paired with lolita/otome like cropped cardigans and hats, but I’m hesitant to list the things I no longer wear on LM because I don’t want to be That Bitch.

>>10496064
I looked up her listings and she has 4 items correctly listed as offbrand. Maybe mods just don’t give a shit about this rule anymore.

>> No.10496102

>>10492806
I still will ship in AP shopping bags. Even internationally. No complaints yet.

>> No.10496104

>>10496061
because it's probably a junior 12 which is a woman's 10.

>> No.10496135

>>10496104
she pretty clearly size Child. A chid's 12 is intended for children between the ages of 4-7

>> No.10496151

>>10493440
That's terrible. I remember my first bad Japanese second hand experience was with a MM jsk that came in worse condition than they described.
For some reason they sewed a lopsided black ruffle to the hem, to cover up all the holes on the hem. I had to rip out the stitching and try to not to make it worse. Definitely more cautious about buying now.

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10496656

Do people even fucking read the terms of service? Making the buyer pay paypal fees is against Lacemarket's AND Paypal's TOS.

>> No.10496657

>>10496656
Im sorry but i cant read Ant TOS. Do you have a human copy?

>> No.10496683

this second hand boom has been going too far.
people are selling second/third hard cornet for 100 dollars now da fuck?

>> No.10496691

>>10496683

Second hand boom? People have been selling shit secondhand forever, genius.

>> No.10496732

>>10495113
i feel the same as you. Also I love people callig yourself a poorfag simply because you spend your money wisely. Actually most people that actually get rich are p close to their money.

>> No.10496749

>>10496732
If you like spending your money wisely you probably shouldn’t buy any Lolita at all then. You could also just like not buy the thing. There are TONS of other things for sale at any given point in time.

>> No.10496750

>>10496732
Also what is, someone testing a new comment bot? What a weird ass samefag comment

>> No.10496794

>>10495913
>Luminescentea
Dude I just bought from her the other night and didn't bother looking at the reviews. I now feel like an absolute retard. I might order something from someone else now just incase I have problems. I'm not too worried about it cause it was only 10 but like I'll open a case after a couple weeks of no shipping.

>> No.10496799

>>10496691
I think they mean old-school rising in price

>> No.10496804

>>10495509
This looks like some abstract art piece

>> No.10496807

I hope the oldschool revival doesn’t end anytime soon. I’m a basic af AP print whore but I adore seeing oldschool coords, it feels like people celebrating our roots

>> No.10496811

>>10496732
Most of the time it's poor anons spamming "poorfag" comments here the loudest in some weird deflection/trying to compensate.

>> No.10496813

>>10495098
probably one of the rakuten ones

>> No.10496815

>>10494947
>>10489909
>>10495015
please stop shilling your shitty scalper shop, sunkittystudios. We can use second hand websites ourselves.

>> No.10496819

>>10496815
My biggest problem with them isnt the scalping but how much they cater to fatty-chans. Some nice rare print and they have to put front and center "140cm bust!!!!"

>> No.10496874

>>10496813
Nope, I used google translate to search lolita thrift store and found some really off the path stuff. I swear, some of ya'll forgot that google translate exists

>> No.10497113

Bought my dream dress from a US seller, everything seemed ok but I checked the dress again today and noticed slight fading and yellowing in the armpits. Sigh. This is why I hate buying used OPs.

>> No.10497127

>>10497113
Oh noes! Not the "slight fading and yellowing" God. Get a dry cleaner dip shit

>> No.10497130

>>10496804
Straight up...

>> No.10497148

>>10496691
things had normal prices indicative of their value & wear.
that is not a thing anymore

>> No.10497150

>>10497148
Oh god. Here comes the poorfag train. What if I told you it's "normal" for prices of any collectibles to fluctuate drastically over time. Their "value" is whatever price people would bid to own them and most of the items are permanently limited in quantity, so the "wear" portion doesn't factor in. Your idea of what it's worth means nothing if someone else bids higher.

>> No.10497151

>>10497127
some retard bought a dress from me that had a tiny yellow spec, paypal sided with the buyer and I had to refund them $200. the stains were shown in the detail shots too.

>> No.10497152

>>10497151
Shit like this drives me nuts. It's a used dress. I d my best to do a thorough check but I can't check every fiber, or take responsibility for manufacturing errors.

I sold a NWT bodyline blouse, and the buyer left negative feedback for hanging threads. I didn't take even take it out of the bag, so it obviously came like that cause BL sucks at QC.

>> No.10497156

>>10497150
kek I dont want to pay 100 dollars for a cornet dress and I am a poorfag?
I just feel that people are more interested in making money from the second hard market rather than actually selling clothes they dont want.

>> No.10497180

>>10497156
two birds, one stone anon. Besides if someones gonna pay me $500 for milky planet, then I no longer want it. Not exactly mutually exclusive there.

But yeah you a poorfag. Go check wunderwelt. The average price for cornet is $100 and if it's something you want enough to be butt hurt about it, but won't cough up $100 for it you're in the wrong hobby.

>> No.10497182

>>10497180
the average price for cornet 2 years ago was 20 dollars.

>> No.10497186

>>10497182
I paid $90 for a cornet jsk 5 years ago, it was gorgeous but a little short

>> No.10497190

>>10497180
nayrt but you can't really judge the state of the secondhand market by Wunderwelt's prices

>> No.10497192

>>10497180
>Besides if someones gonna pay me $500 for milky planet, then I no longer want it.
Nayrt but kek. As I said, it's always the actual poorfags yelling the loudest.

>> No.10497198

>>10497190
Maybe not, but point being, $100 for a dress that you really want shouldn't be the sticking point at all, there's taobao that costs more.

>>10497192
Maybe. Idk. not the best wording there. Everyone values their dresses differently is what I'm getting at. I'm so tired of the whole "it's not worth it for me, therefore selling it for x price is absurd and ridiculous." argument or saying things like "it's not actualy worth x price". When I list something for sale, I list it at the price that I'd part with the item for, so it is, in fact, worth that much.

>> No.10497203

>>10497198
I am >>10497148and my issue is more on the people trying to make money from lolita.
Second hand costs as much as new and that is a bad sigh for the lolita industry.
just saying

>> No.10497206

>>10497151
Did they at least send the dress back?

>> No.10497240

>>10497152
>>10497151
What the fuck is with buyers nowadays? It's been a few years since I've sold lolita stuff and I have NEVER dealt with anything like this. I'd be pissed and would definitely dispute the negative feedback. I have over a decade of nothing but positive feedback and I'm a perfectionist, I'd be beside myself with anxiety if some dumbass child broke my streak. Does LM actually do anything if you dispute feedback or no?

>> No.10497266

>>10497240
They do but it takes awhile.

>>10497203
God anon this has been rehashed so money times on here. Rare prints are collectible. They appreciate in value over time depending on the state of the market. The same girls who are “making money” by selling over retail are also buying other people’s dresses and directly from brands, keeping LM active and brands in business.

>> No.10497276

>>10497203
That’s actually a great sign for the “Lolita industry” you dingbat.

If dresses were like cars and depreciated sharply in value from the moment you bought them, few people would justify buying straight from the brand, and brands would struggle and fail. It’s harder to spend $250-300 on a dress if you know that you can only resell for $125-150. So yeah. Things cost money anon. Get over it.

>> No.10497277

>>10497266
i have no issue with rare stuff being expensive I am really weirded out when people try to sell anything like its rare.
I Understand there is some money recycling going on, I just feel weird that "I" have to pay for "your" new dress. Some things are (obviously in my opinion) overpriced just because its lolita.
I just feel there could be a much better pricing system.
I understand nobody is making me pay any prices I dont find to be fair. I am just ranting on the chaos that (in my opinion always) is lacemarket pricing

>> No.10497284

>>10497277
Sigh. The pricing system is fine anon. It’s a free country for now at least so people can choose their own prices and adjust them lower if they’re motivated to sell. This be basic economics anon.

>> No.10497288

>>10497277
I don’t get your problem. If the prices weren’t justified, the items wouldn’t sell and either sit around or get reduced. The market sets the price.

>> No.10497296

>>10497277
>>10497203
I get what you're saying and I agree that it's getting ridiculous. I think due to the corona-year, a lot of sellers are also more desperate for money, wether it's because their financial means aren't that stable anymore or because they spend more time online shopping. But I think the root of it is that lolita becomes less of an actual fashion and, like other anons already said, a pure collectors hobby with occassionally playing dress-up instead. And the market changes according to that viewpoint.

>> No.10497364

>>10497152
You sold something without taking it out of the bag to look at it?? Anon youre the fucking idiot. It could have been damaged, missing items, etc. What the actual fuck.

>> No.10497399

>>10497277
>I just feel weird that "I" have to pay for "your" new dress.
>>I want to buy something borderline irreplaceable from you without even compensating you enough to replace with a (usually) lower quality and commercially available dress.

>> No.10497401

>>10497277
mental illness

>> No.10497442

> Once was selling an authentic dress.
> Someone asks to buy it.
> We start talking and negotiating.
> States they found the dress for cheaper and want to negotiate the price with me.
> Proceeds to show me a replica.
> Explain my dress is authentic.
> Buyer decides to go with replica.
> I wish them well. Going to let them make their own mistakes since my gentle correction was not enough.
> I sell the real dress.
> Potential buyer approaches me asking to buy the real dress once she realizes the replica is worthless.

>> No.10497446

>>10497442

See:
>>10497401

>> No.10497449

I bought a strawberry beret from mercari user "ฅʕ •ﻌ• ʔchiuʕ •ﻌ• ʔฅ" and it arrived to me covered in not only dozens of brown stains, but covered in dead bugs of some kind. Absolutely the most vile, disgusting thing I've ever purchased secondhand, both Japanese and western secondhand. How did they package and ship that without noticed it's covered in dead bugs???

It's a cute beret, I want to save it, but I'll never forget how it was covered in dead bug carcasses...I think I will have to give this beret a viking funeral, it's the only way.

>> No.10497457

>>10497277
>I just feel there could be a much better pricing system.
>t. Karl Marx, boutta set off two centuries of absolute bullshit

>> No.10497458

>>10497449
Sell it on instead, to someone who does not know that it was ever covered in dead bugs. They will not know, and will be able to enjoy the piece instead of you destroying it.

(Note: for this to work, you must not cover the beret in dead bugs)

>> No.10497463

>>10497449
I hope you gave them appropriate feedback

>> No.10497464

>>10497458
even if I sell it, it's covered in stains. I dunno if I'll be able to get them out. And I don't know if I have the conscience to sell it to someone else

>> No.10497466

>>10497463
It's Japanese, there's nothing I can do feedback-wise

>> No.10497468

>>10497449
I'd throw it out at that point. Sorry they sent you something so disgusting.

I bought a dress off Mercari last month and it was listed as brand new condition. It arrived with two holes and stains all over it that looks like they dropped macaroni and cheese all over it. It wasn't a cheap dress either, and the seller refused to do anything about it.

>> No.10497471

>>10497449
Pics?? Or I don't believe this, sorry

>> No.10497486

>>10497471
I don't want to take a picture because I don't want to touch it again

Believe it or not this isn't the first time I've bought secondhand clothes from Japan that had dead bugs in it but it IS the first time there was 10+ dead bugs. Even WITHOUT the bugs, the beret is still extremely stained/damaged.

>> No.10497492

>>10497486
You don’t have to touch something to take a picture of it. This seems faker by the minute

>> No.10497520

>>10497492
anon probably didn't leave it out, i know if i didn't throw it out inmediately it'd be deep within like 5 layers of bags in the meantime

>> No.10497532

>>10497520
seriously, like I would have immediately taken it outside and dusted all the bugs off and thrown it in the laundry

>> No.10497542

>>10497486
This sounds like a storage problem with your ss...

>> No.10497548

>>10497532
i'd just toss it, not worth it, but in that case i also wouldn't want to risk live bugs or eggs dropping off in that process so i'd rather ensure they're suffocated first

>> No.10497560

>>10497492
I started to do this: >>10497532 but after getting all the bugs off, realized how fucking grossed out I was and put it back, sealed, in the bag it arrived it where it's been since

>>10497542
My SS doesn't open or repack anything when it arrives to them, so this is straight from the seller. Only the hat was covered in bugs and stains

>>10497548
Didn't even think about this, I regret opening it and trying to salvage it now. Sigh.

>> No.10497571

What I really want from LM is some kind of trading system. The bst thread here and FB groups are dead so it’s hard to find trades. An iso system on LM would be nice too.

>> No.10497575

>>10497486
This reminds me of the time I pulled an old beret out of the closet and noticed some weird lines etched into it, and a dead bug at the end of the lines. I pointed it out to my boyfriend and said "I think this dead bug ate these lines into it" and he said "I don't think that bug is dead"
>He was correct
Anyway I'm pretty sure they were carpet beetles? Not sure how that helps

>> No.10497576

Can't believe someone is trying to sell JUST the Candy Sprinkle jsk for nearly $400.

And someone just listed a Dreamy Baby Room jsk in blue, missing the star brooch and corset lacing, for $450 starting bid, $500 BIN, plus shipping. Jesus.

>> No.10497584

>>10497571
Some people put ISO lists in their bio, if that could become standard it would be nice. I'd put my ISO and current wardrobe up but I wouldn't want people without something I'm looking for trying to buy things off me like we've seen in the past. For it to work I think LM would need some sort of blocking system, so rude messages have a downside to being sent.

>> No.10497585

>>10497571
Same. I hate ISO posts on Lacemarket because they make me hopeful, but if there was a separate feature that would be cool

>> No.10497591

>>10497576
Holy shit you didn't even mention the worst part. That's the most stretched out dress I've ever seen.

>> No.10497593

>>10497206
They did and someone else bought. The second buyer said the stains were easy to remove. First one was just stupid as hell.
>>10497240
I left negative feedback and mods changed it to positive or neutral.

>> No.10497594

>>10497576
Scalp me but dear lord I hate it when somebody nickel and dimes me on domestic shipping

>> No.10497596

>>10497594
You're ok with scalping but not paying an extra $5 for shipping? Sounds kinda backwards.

>> No.10497597

>>10497571
i really wish there was a trade system, I own some popular pieces I don't want to sell but would trade for other things I'm looking for

>> No.10497718

>>10497575
Anon that's actually really helpful, the larvae of the carpet beetles look like the dead bug carcasses that covered the thing. They probably ate some of the beret, too.

I'm just gonna toss it.

>> No.10497719
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A seller's pics of a navy skirt looked black and when i saw they had bought this from another LM seller, i went to see the original listing to get a better look at the item. Only to discover they're upcharging by 33% for an item they bough less than two months ago. The price goes down as it gains previous owners, not up.
No it wasn't sweet either and not a super popular cut.

>> No.10497720

>>10497719
I've seen this happen multiple times with items the seller bought less than a month ago with 100% markups. At this point 33% barely feels like anything.

>> No.10497721

>>10497719

Was it the Gothic Arch skirt?

>> No.10497722

>>10497596
It’s just insult injury. I saw this chick selling a set for $800. Plus $10 shipping. Really? It just feels kinda tacky imo.

>> No.10497724

>>10497719
>The price goes down as it gains previous owners, not up
No anon. No it doesn’t. While delist Chan is annoying once a dress has been used it doesn’t really matter how many have owned it as long as it’s in good condition. Oh and market price shifts still apply. Remember 2 months when damaged milky planet in lavender went for like $800 or something?

>> No.10497735

>>10497449
I had that thing with bugs in packages from japan too, thrice. I know it's disgusting, but just wash it anon, as long as they don't look like bedbugs or clothing months you will be fine. Throw everything else away asap though.

>> No.10497756

>>10497735
I bought a pair of pants that had no discolorations but 2 dead bugs - I washed them and it was fine, but that association and knowledge is always there.

This beret however is 5x worse in bug carcasses and overall staining/damage so I'm not even sure if it's worth trying to save because I'll always know that when I received it, it was covered in stains and dead bugs. You know what I mean?

>> No.10497757

>>10497735
Who are you guys using as your shopper? Jesus. I ship 5-10 items a month from Japan and have for about a year and a half no and NEVER had that problem.

>> No.10497765

>>10497757
Anon, it's probably not the SS but the seller. I had a dress from mercari arrive reeking of cat piss. That was my only major issue after years of ordering from mercari but still, some people just get unlucky.

>> No.10497779

>>10497757
It's not the SS it's the individual seller - the SS doesn't open and re-package any of the items, they're shipped to you as-is/as it was shipped to them.

All of my other items were fine, and last time too, with the shorts - it's specific items from certain sellers due to improper storage or bug infestation

>> No.10497781

>>10497765
Why wouldn't your shopping service tell you that though? If they aren't inspecting the packages how do they know the seller sent the right thing?

>> No.10497783

>>10497781
Non personal SS don't inspect packages. You get what you pay for, I don't have an issue with it but I'm just saying that's why

>> No.10497799

>>10497721
No, it's a boz skirt and jacket set.
>>10497724
No I do not. It's shitty anyway.

>> No.10497820

Anon! I just opened a package two days ago and a beret had three dead bugs on it. I quarantined the entire order in a gasket tote and I'm doing the freeze+thaw+freeze+thaw method to make sure I kill off anything that might be on other garments.

It was from the seller あき / aki on Mercari and my SS was Japonica.

I inspected the most expensive items in the box and I didn't see any other bugs but I figured I could wait a week of containment to make sure there was nothing else. Sorry anons I dont have photos because I figured the SS wouldnt do anything about it anyway.

>> No.10497824

>>10497765
>>10497779
>>10497783
I’m just wondering if it’s maybe a problem with the area they store packages in because I’ve bought high and low for ages and never had issues

>> No.10497825

>>10497824
Or at least not with bugs. I’ve had undisclosed damage before, but I’ve also bought without proof photos and been fine so idk.

>> No.10497826

>>10497820
I have an industrial steamer so everything is also getting steamed. For the beret, I put it in a zip lock bag with water and left it in the microwave until it was boiling, lol.

They looked like larvae or casing for something. I just tried to search google for the right bug but I'm not sure what it was. They are not bed bugs or carpet beetles because I have seen those in person before (bed bugs in a shit hotel and carpet beetles in my friends basement).

>> No.10497828

I have a big order coming with a bunch of secondhand wool items, this thread is making me want to put everything in the freezer immediately when it arrives

>> No.10497830

>>10497824
I know moths are attracted to natural fibers like the wool in berets so it could be the bugs only went to the beret but if it was a storage issue I would have expected to see more bugs on the items that had been sitting in storage for 6 weeks while I collected purchases.

In any event this can serve as a heads up to others to check packages as they are coming in

>> No.10497833

>>10497828
In uni I worked in a historical costuming department and we would freeze old garments as they were donated. You want to freeze it for 48 hours to kill the adult bugs, then thaw for 48 hrs at room temperative and then freeze again. The double freeze will kill any eggs/etc because they will not die in the first freeze. They just hibernate until its "springtime" aka the thaw and then you freeze them.

You can probably visually inspect anything cotton/thin but velveteen, wool, shoes, fur, etc can hide things. Sorry to make you worried!

>> No.10497837

>>10497833
This is super helpful, thank you so much! Do you know what temperature it should be at?

>> No.10497854

>>10497837
I'm not sure exactly but it think it was around 25-30F. It was not a special freezer by any means just one of those larger top opening ones. We would thaw at room temp which I would assume is 70-80F depending on the season.

>> No.10497871

>>10497833
Thanks you so much anon! I‘ve been finding these bugs since a year, but only under our bed where some socks land. Yesterday I found one in my wardrobe and I‘m freaking out now (though I only have a few items with natural fibers).

>> No.10497874
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10497874

Obviously bought this just to scalp.

>> No.10497886

>>10497560
>Didn't even think about this, I regret opening it and trying to salvage it now. Sigh.
Laundry will kill bugs/destroy eggs anony, wisest course of action is to run it on its own in a wash, if that's possible. If you're really cutting your losses and don't care if the beret survives, run it on hot.

>> No.10497902

>>10497874
Who cares anon. It’s fugly

>> No.10497932

>>10497820
Alright, I'll freeze mine on and off as well

>>10497781
>>10497783
it's not their job to and even if there IS something wrong with the item, they don't want to risk bad feedback and get banned even IF the seller is indeed in the wrong. What SS are doing is technically not allowed, so they want to keep the peace.

>>10497830
Yes, nothing else had bugs on it - I hope, I'm starting to doubt myself, but the beret was like, covered in them.

>>10497886
While cute, I only paid like $10 so if I have to toss it it's not a huge loss financially. It just sucks because it's a cute handmade beret.

>> No.10498324

>>10497874
>necklaces are around 50, rings around 30, after tax
>plus shipping fees

Stop.

>> No.10498360

I feel like I’m going to be seeing “free worldwide airmail white adjustable petticoat” in my nightmares, it’s always there when I search by new on LM and I’m tired

>> No.10498362

>>10498360
Same, but with those ugly ass blouses

>> No.10498394

>>10497820
Is their name spelt with a single kanji? They mailed me a damaged dress that was listed as brand new with the tags still attached. They're a cunt

>> No.10498400

>>10498360
Has anyone bought that petticoat though? I need a new one.

>> No.10498468

>>10497932
I didn't know personal shoppers were illegal in Japan. Makes sense that they would want to keep their heads down; don't know how that makes buying the right thing not their job. I wonder how Buyee and other big names avoid getting in trouble.

>> No.10498491

>>10498360
Me too anon. I wish they would get banned for something obvious reseller-ish like spamming the same listing over and over. LM is not a shopfont.

>>10498400
yes they regulary get bought and I don't understand why

>> No.10498492

>>10497757
>>10497824
>>10497825
Like the other anons said, I don't think it's a matter of the SS. I'm the anon you originally quoted and I mostly just buy very old items and some listings that had been sitting on websites for years. I figured the person just had it long in their storage and japanese summers might be full of bugs.

>> No.10498493

>>10497756
Yeah, I get what you mean. Maybe it will get better after a few wears? Seeing it all washed and clean after a (or more) good handwash(es) might also make you feel a bit more satisfied. Even if it wasn't that expensive, it might be worth a try.

>> No.10498508

>>10498400

They're not particularly good though.

>> No.10498534

>>10498468
That's actually not true. They are perfectly legal, and use Japanese export law to gain tax benefits. The issue is that they are against the terms of service of many resale websites, which is why you've got official ones like Buyee on Mercari, and unofficial ones that have to operate under the radar, and generally won't c the boat if anything goes wrong with your order.

>> No.10498589

>>10497719
A couple years ago I bought a coat with undisclosed damages so I filed a claim for the cost and sold the coat for only the shipping price I paid, about 50 bucks. I saw the coat up again on egl for 250 dollars a month ago, and I think it sold. Such a scummy thing to do.

>> No.10498674

>>10498672

New thread here

>> No.10498732

>>10498468
>>10498534
didn't say it was illegal, just that you aren't technically supposed to have SS accounts for fril/mercari, and many individual sellers won't do business with them and/or will report their accounts if they find out