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stop replying to trolls and stop bitching at each other ed.

>> No.10490965
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>>10490960
I got into a comm a little back, I am starting in lolita. Everyone's nice BUT one person. Who's very rude and always making drama out of nowhere? Sad it was the comm boss so I never went to meets again... The thing is, she recently burst and shattered the community into pieces, and then she left her place as the leader. I was thinking of going again but she didn't left the comm and is making a lot of passive agressive messages on her social media so i am afraid to return bc that one girl. I think also other people fear her? So what should I do?

>> No.10490966

>>10490965
fucking hell this sounds like something I would’ve written when I was 14

>> No.10490969

>>10490965
Have a couple birthdays

>> No.10490975

>>10490965
Remake the comm without her

>> No.10490978

>>10490965
Just make a separate meet up without her. I had a really rude girl like this in my comm. She was a right twat and thought she was God because she owned holy lantern.

>> No.10491007

>>10490978
omg if you’re in the uk, which comm was this I think I know who this is

>> No.10491011

Anyone who pretends brandwhores don’t exist anymore in lolita are blind, it’s just hidden behind sizeism these days. Look at the recent drama with that girl buying Little Witch and the sneering attitude a lot of people have at her. As someone who’s been in lolita about 5 years, and has been on a weight loss journey for the past 2, it’s really really obvious to me. Back when I was a US10, I could only really fit taobao and stuff like lady sloth comfortably — it wasn’t until last year when I got down to about a US6 that I could zip up brand JSKs without looking like I’d been squeezed into them within an inch of my life, and people’s attitude to me changed so much. Like, people really just have a lot more respect for you because you wear brand. And sure, some parts of it are the financial cost, but I genuinely think most of it is the elitism of knowing only certain size and below can actually fit the precious Burundo. A year on, I’m now a US6 and can fit OPs, oldschool, whatever I want basically, and I LOVE it. But weirdly enough I’ve felt some of that elitism creep in myself — my first reaction to that girl who bought Little Witch was “ugh, how stupid, she doesn’t get to have AP OPs at that size” before realising how vile a thought process that is. Not long ago, I was that girl. And if I’d seen this much bile be spewed at my expense, it would’ve made me so fucking depressed. Elitism, and brandwhore sizism, is still super active in lolita and it’s worth all of us giving ourselves a mental check and just thinking “do I want to be a bitch today?” Because for me, it’s a no.

>> No.10491013

>>10491011
Sorry for the damn essay lol I just had feels to share

>> No.10491014

I’m so sick of having SJW friends

>> No.10491015

>>10491011
Also I made a typo - I’m a US4 nowadays

>> No.10491017
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10491017

lolcow is going downhill

>> No.10491019

>>10491017
It's always been shit.

>> No.10491021

>>10491011
>>10491013
>>10491015
anon it wasn't MuH sIzEiSm. that girl was an idiot who didn't do her due diligence and check measurements first. unshirred AP typically fits 89-92cm bust/70-74cm waist, which is clearly not in the realm of her size. it just shows how new she is and you are that you couldn't comprehend why people were laughing at her

now she's going to alter a dress with questionable results when she could've just waited, bought the JSK, or another dress entirely

>> No.10491022

>>10491011
The sizeism mostly has to do with fat girls insisting on stuffing themselves into dresses that don't fit when there is actually plenty of brand that would fit if they just looked for dresses with more generous sizing. Even when I was a fattychan, I always wore clothes that fit and never deluded myself into thinking I was smaller than I was.

>> No.10491024

>>10491019
now even more than ever though
check /meta/ on lolcow

>> No.10491025

>>10491011
Yeah its pretty obvious you're just a butthurt hamplanet making the whole story up to corroborate your claims that fAtS aRe oPpREsSeD

>> No.10491027

>>10491024
The troonz thing? Idgi. Explain.

>> No.10491028

>>10491017
Everything is going downhill because of whiney sjws and their cultural imperialism

>> No.10491032
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>>10491027
>>10491028
Basically, many milk threads are on life support, and the biggest board, /ot/, was closed suddenly because of "raids" (which no one saw). Everyone is complaining because you can't say anything anymore (especially about trannies) and the current lolcow owner is a piss baby. Pic related
>complaining about being brown and having to moderate a "white bitches website"
I suggest going to /meta/ and asking around. this is a real shit show.

>> No.10491035

Fuck, I gained too much muscle mass during this past months and now my coats are too tight arround the chest, I was already at the limit of most brands. I think I'm gonna starve myself and stop working out, but I don't know how much will it take to lose muscle.

>> No.10491037

>>10491011
Two things are eternal – taxes and Fatty-Chan Internet Defense Force

>> No.10491041

>>10491032
>raids no one saw
I’ve been thinking about this a lot. I didn’t see any sign of a raid at all. Maybe an obvious ban evader but nothing else. Either they deleted them super quick OR they’re hiding something.
Why are the mods here and there so bad lmao

>> No.10491048

>>10491014
Tell them your opinions that differ. If they're still your friends, they don't actually hold leftist views and are just annoying. If they end your friendships with you, then you don't have to deal with them anymore. Simple as that.

>> No.10491061

>>10491025
Nah man you probably follow me on Instagram and think I’m a cute skinny girl.... I’m too insecure to ever have shared pics of me when I was larger. But good cope lol. I do genuinely feel bad for that girl though. Like, a lot of the disdain for her IS people saying she’s stupid for not checking the measurements, and desu I agree, but so much of it is just snarky bitchy sizeism and I genuinely think if you can’t see that, cgl has eroded your sense of what’s actually societally acceptable.

>> No.10491063

>>10491035
Don’t starve yourself to lose muscle for a fucking dress, damn, your strength and health is so much more important. Just buy clothes that fit your new body

>> No.10491065

>>10491048
I agree with this. I’m leftist and I’ve dumped friends before who’ve come out with fucking kekistan shit in the past. It hurts but in all honesty it doesn’t sound like you should be friends with these people in the first place. Be honest.

>> No.10491073

>>10490960
>Finally found a job that pays well after losing my other one to covid
>Can finally start a savings again and even afford brand!
>Job lays off me and a few others after four weeks due to "budget cuts"

Well, at least I was smart and paid off my CC debts

>> No.10491074

>>10491025
lmao imagine thinking it’s literally impossible for a woman who used to be fat to be sympathetic to fat people? you sound like those twitter DHOTYA scrotes, try going outside sometime

>> No.10491080

>>10491014
Mad cause you cant be racist without repercussions huh?

>> No.10491091 [DELETED] 

>>10491080
Yes I love being racist, fuck niggers!

>> No.10491094

>>10491080
Not everyone who hates SJW is racist.
There's also transphobic people <3

>> No.10491095

>>10491091
But you and your other mayo-sapiens are be the first ones to cry whenever someone tells you to wear a mask.

Face it, crackers are the weakest race out there.

>> No.10491098

>>10491094
I snorted. Beautifully put, anon

>> No.10491101

>>10491061
Sure chubbers. Keep crying about sizeism, it's not real.

>> No.10491104

>>10491080
>>10491098
Oh man. You guys should get checked for mental retardation, it seems real bad with you guys.

>> No.10491106

Have no one to talk to about lolita aside from my boyfriend (who's supportive, but not into fashion much himself).

>> No.10491107

>>10491104
t. bigot

>> No.10491108

>>10491098
>>10491094
>>10491080
Newfags kek

>> No.10491109

>>10491107
What was that? I'm not fluent in retardation.

>> No.10491110

>>10491106
Join your local comm’s Facebook/discord

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fell off the diet wagon hard the last two days and it all went to my chest in a display of instant karma.

Thinking about making some ouji/aristo pants but can't think of any cute designs that would make good use of the wool I got.

>> No.10491113

>>10491098
I just farted guys, do you smell that?

>> No.10491116

>>10490965
you described a toxique people, it is better to ignore them, they'll try to make feel you guilty but you all must move on

>> No.10491117

>>10491080
There’s a difference between not being racist and being an SJW. SJWs try their hardest to find issues in every single thing, and it’s exhausting to be around people who are constantly negative.

>> No.10491124

I finally had to acknowledge my slowing metabolism when I could barely squeeze into an old school VM skirt. But I swear to god I'm going to fit into it. I've never been so motivated to get my waist skinnier so I've been even doing morning exercises which is a lifetime first for me.

>> No.10491128

>>10491080
I hate SJWs because they're fucking racists. I've heard less racist shit from my 90 year old Texas grandma than I have from SJWs this past year.

>> No.10491129

>>10491117
This. I'm liberal/leftist but hate SJWs because conversations with them aren't conversations, they're competitions, and they always HAVE to win. They constantly insert themselves and their issues into normal conversations even when it's casual and the intent is not to harm just so there can be a winner and a loser and they can tell you why you're wrong. reeks of moral puritanism

>> No.10491130

>>10491124
Slowing metabolism is bullshit though. It slows down like, 1% per year after you are 30-40. I'm going to guess you've gained more than 1% and are not 40 so you've just fallen for the bullshit slow metabolism meme.

>> No.10491131

>>10491129
They are just like the religious right was 15-20 years ago. Right down to getting mad at Harry Potter lol.

>> No.10491132

>>10491128
ooh look at that, my corgi’s ears just perked up

>> No.10491134

>>10491132
!!!!! Can I see corgi pics?!!!!!!

>> No.10491135

>>10491116
> toxique
Shut the fuck up

>> No.10491136

>>10491134
Are you dumb? Anon is clearly pointing out that this is a dogwhistle.

>> No.10491137

>>10491136
If you keep hearing dogwhistles, you are the dog.

>> No.10491138

>>10491131
If you don't see the difference in "wizards are evil and an attack on the lord" and "this woman's views are harmful to trans people," I don't know how you made it this far in life.

>> No.10491143
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gentle reminder that soup is a long time /cgl troll and a fat scrote. do not interact with trolls.

>> No.10491145

>>10491124
drinking coffee speeds up your metabolism. you can also Vape to kill your appetite heh

I had to google which pedal is the break pedal today because I haven’t driven a car in forever

>> No.10491147

>>10491143
I believe you but how do you know?

>> No.10491148

>>10491143
how’d you know I was about to post wtf and I’m not fat you’re fat fatty mcfatson

>> No.10491149

>>10491138
Yeah you definitely check out for mental retardation evident by how you missed the point that badly

>> No.10491150

>>10491130

Actually it is about 1% this past year, but either way I need to tone up too.

>> No.10491151

>>10491143
Hi soup

>> No.10491152

>>10491147
>go to /cgl archive
>search 'soup'
>enjoy entries dating back to at least 2015

>> No.10491153

>>10491147
fucking newfag

>> No.10491154

>>10491129
The meaning of SJW is so muddied because conservatives will you call you that just for thinking Americans should have free Healthcare or that gay conversion camps are bad. Anyway, I hear ya. At first when I opened my eyes to SJW cult brainwashing, I thought I was conservative and then realized that I'm still pretty liberal I just fucking hate extremists.

>> No.10491156

>>10491153
Ya

>> No.10491160
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>>10491041
>>10491032
While I didn't see a raid either, I was actually on /cow/ the other day and saw a thread that wanted to target lolcow back in May. It didn't get many replies and going to the thread is broken. I wonder if it was the same anon that wanted to raid /cgl/ but was stuck self bumping his thread with no replies.

>> No.10491162

>>10491152
Delusional. Looked, didn't see anything but a bunch of posts about people eating soup and shit.

>> No.10491164

>>10491147
>>10491153
>>10491156
his insistance on namefagging makes it super easy to look up his old posts

>> No.10491167
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>>10491162
hi soup

so this isn't one of your posts dating back to 2018?

>> No.10491168

>>10491024
Yeah, I'm aware. It's still always been shit. Now it's just shit in a different way. Much like cgl.

>> No.10491173

>>10491152
don’t look that’s embarrassing
>>10491167
I remember that post. Fake soup was responding to me that’s why it says “we”

>> No.10491174

>>10491011
anon how tall are you? i’m a size 4 and i can’t fit into OPs. my waist/stomach is just too large and though i am taking steps into losing weight, i get too impatient and lose motivation quickly, and can’t help but complain about my stomach constantly

>> No.10491176

>>10491174
It's probably just your bone structure and where you carry fat. I'm 5'5 and got down to 117 lbs, my stomach was still pretty flabby and fat. Like more than girls who weighed even more than me and were shorter.

>> No.10491178

>>10491173
Ur valid <3

>> No.10491179 [DELETED] 
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What feel?

>> No.10491180

>>10491174
I’m pretty tall (5’8), though I don’t know if that means I should be bigger or smaller in terms of dress size! I wear a US4 but I carry a lot of weight on my butt/thighs and chest, but my waist is pretty small. I’ve never had a problem with fitting into OPs at this size but sometimes I do just wear a minimizer/sports compression bra if it looks a little tight across my chest. (and obviously having bigger thighs isn’t a problem in lolita so I’m saved there!) Have you tried getting some sort of shapewear for your stomach? Idk if that would help but yeah I find that surprising that you can’t fit into OPs. It might also be a shoulder width thing though? I don’t have particularly broad shoulders.

>> No.10491183

>>10491174
Height has nothing to do with whether or not someone is a size four. You sound like you aren't actually a four, or you're a four in American brands which use a lot of vanity sizing.

>> No.10491184

>>10491180
it sounds like anon is fat.

>> No.10491194

>>10491178
gaaay

>> No.10491197

I was really excited to start swimming again both to loose weight and to hopefully just cheer myself up by creating an exercise regime.
I gained 5-7kg 2 years ago because of entrance exams and I’ve felt awful about it since then because I can’t wear any of my cute clothes that I bought when i was skinny.
But with the way covid is on the rise again it’s not looking like I’ll even be able to get to the pool to sign back up for it after having been out of the country for months with my parents... it’s really disappointing but I’m planning on buying a yoga mat and hoping that I can achieve something or anything at all by doing some dry land exercises by myself in my room this winter.
I hate even the thought of exercising in my room for some reason, it just feels embarrassing and idk why but I’m tired of not exercising and of these extra pounds. I really hope I create a regime I can stick with that’ll bring results because this weight plateau that only goes up occasionally is so shitty

>> No.10491202

>>10491107
You really saying that on this hell website of all places kek

>> No.10491208

>>10491197
Why do anons keep saying exercising in your room is embarrassing? This is not the first time I have heard this on here and it never fails to make me laugh because it sounds stupid as shit. Staying fat and out of shape is way more embarrassing than exercising will ever be.

>> No.10491209

>>10491184
i’m just really fat around my stomach :/ like it all accumulates there and nowhere else

>> No.10491210

>>10491173
There is no fake soup, this is just what I tell people to throw them off.

>> No.10491211

>>10491183
Height definitely plays a part in sizing. Are you retarded?

>> No.10491212

>>10491022
Yeah, I’m actually fat as fuck myself, as is my wife. But we’re both working on it, and only wear shit that fits us and don’t fall apart when we can’t fit. You also don’t fuck up a perfectly good brand piece when you can’t fit it. Just... exercise and make good choices, for fuck’s sake.

>> No.10491213

>>10491210
Wowie nice move bb<33333456

>> No.10491215

>>10491152
>>10491164
Don't forget to search 'puos' too, he spells soup backwards when he's ban evading.

>> No.10491216

>>10491213
hi me! <3

>> No.10491231

>>10491215
stop telling people to look up my past posts. I maybe shameless but that shit is still cringey. I don’t ban evade because I don’t get ban. me and janny are secretly dating, we just don’t know about it yet.

and stop posting using my name. I don’t like it and you’re ruining my rep that I worked so hard to build up over all these years :]

>> No.10491260

I keep stress/depression eating, binge drinking, and trying to exercise through orthopedic injuries. I'm so miserable

>> No.10491263 [DELETED] 

>>10491260
Me n u both buddy

>> No.10491264

>>10491260
U n me both buddy

>> No.10491268

>>10491260
gotta break that cycle if you don’t want to be miserable anymore anon. exercising thru injuries does nothing for you too wtf

>> No.10491273

>>10491268
I literally start losing my will to live without sufficient exercise. Athletics are practically the only thing that give me a sense of purpose and fufilment

>> No.10491276

>>10491273
the longer you exercise through it, the worse you'll be and you could cripple yourself entirely. you have to give it a rest, anon.

>> No.10491277

>>10491273
Just do drugs bro lol wtf

>> No.10491280

>>10491273
Check yourself into the nearest psychiatric facility. Simple.

>> No.10491282

>>10491273
workout the part of your body that isn’t injured or find a different hobby. there are many hobbies out there dude. also try and drink less. take care of yourself

>> No.10491284

>>10491277
>>10491280
Shit advice.

>> No.10491285

>>10491284
I mean the psychiatric thing isn't shit advice. If you can't control yourself then you need to seek help.

>> No.10491290

>>10491285
I always wanted to see what it’s like in a psych ward. seem quiet and peaceful plus you might meet a cute alt girl and it’ll be like “it’s kind of a funny story.”

>> No.10491291

I want to wear lolita so badly but im so uncomfortable with any attention, negative or positive. I hate when people make a big deal about me at all, It's awkward. I'm also scared my boyfriend will make fun of me, or think I'm just really silly.

>> No.10491293

>>10491282
It's not a hobby thing. I have an almost compulsive need to physically exert myself daily and become very unhappy if I can't

>> No.10491294

>>10491291
start small then move on from there. you can also wear it at home to get used to it too. as for you bf casually bring it up with him. like show him pics of other lolita and mention how pretty the dresses are and you can jokingly mention that you’re interested in the hobby to gauge his reaction. your bf doesn’t know what you’re thinking and I’m sure he’ll be happy that you’re sharing something that interests you with him.

>> No.10491296

>>10491293
what injuries do you have? have you tried cycling? It’s better on the joints and you can just ride till you’re worn out. I like riding at night because it’s peaceful and the nighttime breeze feels nice. I can’t do it rn since I moved back home and in this area I’m at now it’s kinda sketch to be riding at night. I really miss cycling you should give it a try if it doesn’t impact your injuries too much.

>> No.10491297

>>10491296
I seem to have given myself nagging tendonitis in my left elbow back in like July, but I ignored it. My right elbow also started to experience similar problems presumably from compensation. There's also a muscle or tendon injury in my right foot from overexertion that hasn't gone away in the 3 weeks since I got it. I can't run more than 1/3 of a mile without it starting to tense up.

Biking is great. It's my primary transportation, but it doesn't compare to spending almost two hours 6 days a week in the gym followed up by running a couple of miles.

>> No.10491300

>>10491297
You sound like an orthorexic. Yikes.

>> No.10491301

>>10491297
>>10491293
>>10491273
Holy shit you're such a whiney baby just shut up

>> No.10491303

I think im just gonna stop wearing pants altogether. I feel like such shit in them. I'm not apple shaped, I have 8 in dif between my waist and hips, but pants are either comfy in the waist but super loose and saggy over my ass, or uncomfortably tight around my waist but my ass looks good. I just want to wear cute mom jeans but high waisted pants make me look like an actual egg. I hate not being able to wear what I want. I guess I should just wear lolita all the time.

>> No.10491305

>>10491293
Are you my hamster?

>> No.10491307 [DELETED] 

>>10491080
Shut up nig you’re overreacting

>> No.10491309

>>10491307
Are you black? No?
That slur isn't for you :)

>> No.10491315 [DELETED] 

>>10491309
I don’t think this website is for you lmao

>> No.10491316

>>10491315
I dont think the n word is for you lmao

>> No.10491317 [DELETED] 

>>10491316
Ok nigger

>> No.10491318

>>10491317
Ok racist bigot

>> No.10491319

>>10491315
This website is for everyone, it's not your safe space sweetie :)

>> No.10491320

>>10491297
that’s true but you need to give your body time to heal before you go at it again

>> No.10491322

>>10491319
For everyone? Including racists? Awesome! Now I can be a bigot in peace

>> No.10491324

>>10491303
you can get a couple of pairs you really like tailored

>> No.10491330

>>10491322
Mad cause people dont agree with u huh, snowflake ?

>> No.10491331

>>10491330
No, you just said this website is for everyone and that includes racists. I'm just glad we're both on the same page :o)

>> No.10491337

>>10491331
You're free to be a garbage excuse for a human being, just don't cry when you get called out for it :)

>> No.10491339

Would you ignorant noongas shut the he'll up?

>> No.10491342

>>10491330
>>10491331
>>10491337
Get a room and stop shitting up this thread.

>> No.10491347

>>10491303
Seconding tailoring. If you're in the US, I've also had luck checking out stores that are aimed at black chicks (stuff like Rainbow for standard and plus sizes, Ashley Stewart and Lane Bryant for plus sizes, etc). I still tend to prefer skirts/dresses just because it's easier to get a good fit, but it's nice to be able to have some jeans in rotation or find pants suitable for a job interview.

>> No.10491348

>>10491337
You're free to be a fragile fagbaby, just don't get upset when people call you out for it

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>>10491337
kek

>> No.10491353

>>10491337
Piss and shidd

>> No.10491355

my sister got my niece a ukulele and she in my room trying to play it. she’s horrible at playing the ukulele

>> No.10491357

>>10491303
Just give up on them. I switched to 99% skirts and dresses with tights a few years ago. I didn't even own pants for a few years after that. I look like shit in pants and hate buying them. Skirts and dresses are much cuter anyway.

>> No.10491365

>>10490965
you laugh at her lol as you get older you genuinely gain the ability to ignore ppl hang in there anon

>> No.10491367

>>10491303
I don’t wear pants either. Embrace the pants free lifestyle, dresses and skirts are where it’s at

>> No.10491372

did you guys here nasa’s news? we might live long enough to live in space

>> No.10491373

>>10491372
We already fucked up the Earth, we don't need to fuck up space.

>> No.10491374

>>10491373
Fuck you bitch. I’m going to space pirate your ass once we’re in space

>> No.10491375

>>10491374
I’m into it

>> No.10491376

>>10491374
Did you just admit to being an asspirate?

>> No.10491377

>>10491367
How do you stay warm? I don't tolerate cold very well and live in kind of a cooler area

>> No.10491380

>>10491374
Come at me, bitch. I'll fuck your shit up.

>> No.10491382

>>10491377
You can buy warm tights like heattech. And since they hug against your skin they are really not that cold.

>> No.10491383

>>10491375
>>10491376
>>10491380
Did I fucking stutter? me and my homies got the freshest space pirate co ords. we coming for those booties cause you ita ass hoes ain’t got no brandos worth taking. and that’s on period

>> No.10491387

>>10491377
Long skirts are much warmer than pants ime. They block the wind from reaching your legs much more effectively than something like jeans or trousers. It's the same concept as wearing a long coat. Even shorter skirts are fine so long as you've got thick tights or socks. I wear skirts year round and it gets well below freezing where I live, and it's not a problem even when I'm outside in the snow for an hour or more at a time.

But also, you just have to get used to colder weather, rather than hiding from it.

>> No.10491389

>>10491383
the way this post sounds like something soup would write

>> No.10491390

>>10491372
Gonna be lame as hell

>> No.10491395

>>10491390
Prepare to get pegged by the space ass pirates.

>> No.10491399

>>10491389
or a twitterfag

>> No.10491401

>>10491383
Sounds like something a poor fag would write t b h

>> No.10491408 [DELETED] 

>>10491309
Nigger faggot nigger nigger faggot nigger hahahahaha

>> No.10491412

>>10491377
Long coats, tall boots, and fleece-lined tights.

>> No.10491414

Dropped my dress off at the tailors for the first time. The reviews looked good, they work with bridal wear, and do custom embroidery as well so I have faith. But the tailor spoke half English half another language that I couldn't pick up. She pointed out and told me what she was going to do and confirmed that I was okay with it but I'm still nervous on how it'll turn out. I'm getting some inches added to the bust and provided the fabric so surely this will be okay, right?

>> No.10491417

>>10491383
Did I fucking stutter? Bitch, I said I’m into it. Wreck me, my space pirate waifu

>> No.10491419

>>10491412
You can also add on some nice thick long socks! You'll be super cozy and way cuter than the pant-wearing plebians.

>> No.10491421
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10491421

>>10491389
I wouldn’t type something like that. that’s sus :^) I’m busy looking at sweaters and rings on aliexpress

what do you think about this bracelet? I’m keeping the white one and throwing away the black one.

>> No.10491424

>>10491138
How exactly is talking about a woman’s biological reality harmful to trannies? There was literally nothing she said that was mean, fucking grow up

>> No.10491425

>>10491138

it really says something when her casual racism doesn't raise eyebrows for two entire decades but then y'all lose some shit over some questionably anti trans comments and a novel based on what happens IRL (eg men pretending to be women so they can molest women in bathrooms)

>> No.10491429

>>10491425
The fact is that most out trans people are white and rich (takes privilege to get those diagnoses and drugs) and have a lot more power than the black and brown people that the Harry Potter books were always very explicitly racist towards. That’s why no one who has a soapbox to stand on gives a shit about the super obvious latter, yet they’re giving themselves an aneurism trying to wring anti-trans drops out of Rowling’s tweets.

>> No.10491436

>>10491128
Sure Jan

>> No.10491447

>>10491211
Not in whether or not you wear a size 4.

>> No.10491448

>>10491424
I didn't say anything about her views themselves, just that there's a vast difference between being mad at a children's book for having magic in it VS calling out someone's political views.

>> No.10491461

Why would you refer to a release as a "drop". Why why why.

>> No.10491467

>>10491425
>>10491429
yall seriously need to expand yourselves. people have been pointing out and mocking jkr for her racism (and many other isms and phobias) for years. if anything the terf fiasco just brought the entire discussion back.

>> No.10491468

>>10491408
I hope you're black and gay >:[

>> No.10491469

>>10491467

I'm sorry but very few people have cancelled her until this trans fiasco. It's ridiculous.

>> No.10491476

>>10491469
i have to disagree, harry potter has been widely criticized for years. i do think part of the reason the outrage is so bad this time though is because of how explicit jkr's been. sure, she wrote a character named cho chang and bank goblins, but she didn't straight up say "chinese and jewish people are bad," so it was easier for most people to brush off. on the other hand, her recent tweets are a bit harder to ignore. i think the use of the word "cancelled" here is kinda weird too. she's not exactly "cancelled," like i said yall need to expand yourselves. talk to someone irl, your average person won't even know about the terf drama. harry potter is still a well-loved series despite everything. hell, even a lot of the people jkr's been discriminatory towards will still enjoy the series despite acknowledging its flaws and criticizing them because it's special to them. there's a lot more nuance to this dude

>> No.10491479

>>10491476
Ur faggy

>> No.10491485

>>10491476
You're valid <3

>> No.10491487

>>10491436
Valid af <3

>> No.10491497

>>10491447
Thats a valid opiniom but its not realy true because my bone strucshure makes me too tall for size 4 pants even tho my waist is small enouf

>> No.10491500

My bf is incapable of recognizing when an outfit looks good if it isn't super figure hugging. Like if I wear an outfit that looks good but is a little loose he's all "why don't you wear something that shows your ass more?" and has the most basic taste in women's fashion. If he dressed me in what he thought looked good i would look like a white girl clone, it makes me feel like shit because anytime I wear something that doesn't look like that he thinks it's ugly.

>> No.10491505

>>10491500
So dump him

>> No.10491511

>>10491505
Something tells me most are like this

>> No.10491526

>>10491291
Same, I was afraid my bf gonna laugh at me.
I think when you first introcuce it, it's better if you just call it jp alt/street fashion, and when he gets comfortable with it, you can start calling it lolita. It's much easier to get him to like it without the name's other connotations. I also tried to show him nice coords of others beforehand, but he didn't like them. So before a local meet I showed him the dress first with all the cute details, and then the full coord I was wearing.
Now he drives me to meets, because public transport is just so much stress for me in lolita. I wore toned sweet coords but people still staring and pointing at me and I just hate it so much.

>> No.10491528

>>10491500
i dated a guy like this and it sucked. i look back at some of the photos of me wearing stuff he thought looked good and i look trashy af and like i dont know how to dress myself. anyway i dumped him and life is great, can recommend

>> No.10491545

>>10491468
I’m neither a nigger nor a faggot, nigger faggot

>> No.10491550

>>10491528
I had an ex like this. Lots of bodycons and miniskirts and the most BASIC white girl shit. My current boyf isn’t super into cutesy pastels but absolutely adores when I wear more gothy/preppy fashion (I think people call it dark academia now? basically a lot of dark colours and tweed and tailoring) but supports me whatever I wear and ugh it feels so good to be around someone who hypes up my style and also supports my foraying into more alt stuff? Don’t put up with someone who can’t appreciate that - they don’t have to love your fashion, but they do have to love you in it.

>> No.10491552

>>10491421
>throwing it away
>when it's brand new
Fuck you, this is why the planet is going to shit. At least give it to your autistic niece or something.

>> No.10491553
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10491553

Swimmer is back aahh
I'm so happy

>> No.10491554

>>10491032
kek even the owner cant stand low ow no more.
That is some Oedipus level tragic irony .

>> No.10491555

>>10491550
Give recs for this fashion style because it sounds lit and I need something more casual than lolita now that I'm never leaving the house. Any brands or people with neat outfits I could follow?

>> No.10491556

>>10491555
Literally just google "dark academia"

>> No.10491557

>>10491552
Just doing my part to speed up the process so that we can be space pirates a tad bit sooner. plus I can’t just give one niece something and not give the other one something too. they already throwing hands if one toy is better than the other one.

the black cat bracelet reminds me of mamoru. I swear that little fucker told the tri-color cat not to come visit me anymore because I haven’t seen her in the last few days. that one time they came to visit together mamoru kept glaring at me while he was eating. then the next day the tri-color cat came back by herself but she was acting a bit more twitchy and now I haven’t seen her for awhile >:(

>> No.10491559

>>10491550
>dark academia
sounds kinda pretentious but its cute

>> No.10491562

>>10491559
>sounds kinda pretentious
cause it is. love the style, hate the tryhard culture around it

>> No.10491563

>>10491562
Reminds me of the art hoe style but they were pretentious about art and van gogh and shit

>> No.10491565

>>10491562
yeah it’s defo pretentious but it’s also super cute if well done! I’m the original anon who was talking about my boyfriend and I’d definitely recommend it if you’re already into lolita, because it has a similar focus on good fabrics, quality and construction, but it’s also a good fashion in which to be thrifty and shop secondhand!

>> No.10491566

>>10491556
Uh, okay salty-chan, sorry for trying to have a discussion about fashion on the fashion board.

>> No.10491567

>>10491566
It wasn't that salty, get over yourself.

>> No.10491568

>>10491555
Hi ayrt here!! Honestly tumblr is the home of the aesthetic much as 4chan hates tumblr so I’d really recommend having a browse through the tumblr tag, a general google search might be a bit dead. But there’s also some semidecent fashion accounts on insta, you just have to make sure to avoid the pretentious 18yo depoppers

>> No.10491569

>>10491568
nta but yeah thats very true. It's still a good place for pics. Same for pinterest.

>> No.10491570

>>10491526
when I told my gf that I was getting into aristo she started teasing me saying that I would look like a vampire or a butler, I played it off but it made me feel so insecure. With time she ended up liking it, but the problem is that she fetishizes it too much sometimes and it's unconfortable.

>> No.10491571

>>10491568
Is Tumblr even still alive these days? I keep assuming it's dead and everyone just migrated to Twitter since the porn ban.

>> No.10491572

>>10491568
As for brands a lot of it will depend on your budget and what country you live in - higher end places to start might be ralph lauren and vivienne westwood, allsaints is an absolute dream for dark academia stuff, mid end you can find stuff at places like scotch and soda and jack wills, I also wear a lot of my frilly jfashion blouses under tweed blazers and sweater vests, and with structured skirts or trousers - short tartan skirts are also good and they’re really in fashion lately so you can find them anywhere - just make sure to try and focus on quality! Jack wills and scotch and soda have some good stuff, but thrifting is also really encouraged in the community, especially for wool and cashmere, good quality European style overcoats, silk, cotton, and tweed are desirable fabrics. Similarly to lolita, there’s an hatred of polyester, but in contrast to lolita, there’s not much of a brand culture - it’s more just who can put a good aesthetic together.

>> No.10491573

>>10491570
Embrace the vampire aesthetic, I’m the dark academia anon from above and desu I dress like how I imagine a tired modern vampire would dress most of the time lmao

>> No.10491580

>>10491571
it is sorta. Most fandoms/subcultures exist in very small pockets now. Crazies and sjw zoomers are still around but aesthetic blogs without that garbage are active at least.

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>>10491580
I miss tumblr. It was a nice hub for so many things. Even the old abandon homestuck cosplay blogs I use to follow make me feel something.
Twitter is such a fucking shitshow and I hate it.

>> No.10491583

>>10491581
As much as the pervasiveness of SJW politics on tumblr was annoying, Twitter is about a thousand times worst for actually sharing anything. Wish we could just go back.

>> No.10491596

>>10491032
I think in their minds it was a “raid” but was actually more along the lines of obvious scrotes posting to the site on a regular basis. More NOT ALL MEN replies and people sperging about women’s issues (not even regular feminist type issues, just stuff like periods and vaginas) and obv scrote bait posts and replies caused mods to work harder. They’re probably crying because lolcow refuses to get more than 1-2 mods a year and there’s also been an influx of pull users since it was kill so even more posts being moderated and reported. I don’t think the new site admin or mods actually have encountered a raid to the site and are just whining that they need to put in more effort.

>> No.10491597
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10491597

>that sweaty girl at the con who doesn't shave her pits.

>> No.10491598

>>10491032
Somebody posted about us posting about them here on /meta/. Inception.

>> No.10491610

>Buy new items from AP Paris
>Order goes trough
>Get order confirmation
>Suddenly get a refund and whole order cancelled, without any message why
I just wanted cute jewelry and other accessories

>> No.10491611

>>10491597
>typicalcglposter.png
You're gonna need a fat ita for that one.

>>10491610
Can't you ask them?

>> No.10491620

>>10491583
that stuff is worse on twitter, and the people on there are even more rude. racists and sjws agreeing on so many points its insane. don't get me started on the shit takes people have about lolita on there that get popular.

>> No.10491633

>>10491583
>>10491620
Twitter is worse because on tumblr the focus was on pictures, however with clarifying text underneath. So people could at least make nuanced points even if often they didn't. And most of the time it's actually fairly easy to ignore because all the posts are huge pictures with some Arial font underneath. On Twitter, you have 250 characters to express your take. The hotter and more gimmicky it is, the more likes it will get. Pseudo intellectuals like it because it doesn't "prioritise your face" or how pretty you are unlike other SM sites, but honestly I think it has contributed to the polarization of viewpoints because now literally everything on this site is a headline for itself, and thus more hard lines without context or clarification.

>> No.10491639

>>10491633
Tumblr was bad, but Twitter has been something of a minor disaster for humanity. Just the Arab spring stuff alone would put it in that category, to say nothing of the legitimization of far left viewpoints and the media's increasing use of reporting what people say on Twitter as though it's representative of anything as well as all the problems you and others have pointed out.

>> No.10491655
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10491655

>hetalia is returning
There's no way this isn't going to be a minor nuclear meltdown in the cosplaysphere.

>> No.10491657

>>10491500
Your boyfriend is objectifying you, get out of there.

>>10491511
I've been upfront about my tastes and general distaste for anything super form fitting and I have only had issues with one boyfriend (who had entitlement issues anyways).

Not to generalize, but it helps if they aren't straight.

My feel is I feel old and out of touch when it comes to the Lolita community, everyone in my comm is older than me but still keep more up-to-date with releases and such than I do. I feel like I have the most in common with old-school lolitas, I just don't dress in old-school myself. I wear lolita for myself, but sometimes I definitely feel like an outsider and it sucks a little.

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>>10491655
Now is not the time to be dressing up as Nazis, dumbass weebs are going to get (rightfully) knocked out

In fact, the only thing worst than a Hetalia reboot would be a Hellsing reboot.

>> No.10491681

>>10491500
You should break up with him

>> No.10491691

>anon: so my boyfriend...
>/cgl/: break up with him

>> No.10491695

>>10491691
Yes.

>> No.10491701

>>10491461
Because they’re dropping new merch ayeee

>> No.10491709

>>10491691
>also /cgl/: I'm soo lonely ;_;7

>> No.10491716

>>10491709
You don't need a man (or woman if you're gay) to fulfill that void. Just good friends unless you're confusing "lonely" for "horny"

>> No.10491718

>>10491664
Hellsing already had a reboot it's done and done.

>> No.10491725

>>10491011
I admit to internally thinking lolitas who wear brand are better than taobaolitas, because brand just looks better 99% of the time. Lose me with the cheap wrinkly polyester, ugly or just lack of lace, and quirky, blurry prints.

>> No.10491728

>>10491716
What if I'm both

>> No.10491735

Wait, is ame actually playing the switch version of W3?

>> No.10491736

>>10491735
Sorry, ignore, I'm an idiot with the wrong tab open.

>> No.10491738

>>10491728
Have you ever heard of masturbation?

>> No.10491747

>>10491716
This, no one needs males in their life.

>> No.10491755 [DELETED] 

>>10491017
I'm a guy and I post there :)

>> No.10491756

>>10491017
I'm a guy and I post there :^)

>> No.10491757

>>10491756
Explains why it's going downhill

>> No.10491758

wish I drank more milk when I was little so that I can be taller. I just wanna mog people where ever I go :(

>> No.10491759

>>10491757
I've never had arguments with any posters, I usually just lurk, and I've never purposefully revealed my gender there. No men allowed is a stupid rule, given that most lolcow posters post on imageboards and social media with men anyway, gender is irrelevant to a lot of the topics discussed on lolcow.

>> No.10491761

>>10491758
well u better start now or else u'll shrink when u get old

>> No.10491764

>>10491758
Drinking milk to get taller is a meme. I drank it all the time as a kid and I'm still a midget.

>> No.10491766

Stop replying to soup everyone here is so fucking dumb

>> No.10491770

>>10491759
>No men allowed is a stupid rule
You may not know this, but it was a reflection of 4chan where it was "no girls allowed" long ago. Mainly because of 2 reasons
1. Attention whores that would throw the thread off topic
2. Male posters begging for nudes/harassing/shitposting that would send the thread into off topic.
For lolcow male posters are mostly there to shitpost and troll because let's be real, male 4channers hate women and will take any opportunity to seek revenge on them in place of the girls they couldn't get. It's also annoying when a guy tries to talk about a female issue when they know jack shit about it, spreading more misinformation than what's already out there. For example, the dick size thread. It revealed that the perfect dick size girls want is average 5-7 inches and this varies per girl because, believe it or not, girls have various vag depths. Meanwhile on somewhere like /fit/, the guys will have you believe you need 8 inches minimum which is retarded. And not suprisngly, even a lot of girls believe that because that's what the (male) world has told them.

I for one would like more women only spaces because this world is mostly unisex or male dominated, and it's nice to connect with others like me, even if we are all bitches.

>> No.10491773

>>10491764
That only works with breast milk, shoulda sucked harder on your mama's tiddies

>> No.10491774

>>10491761
probably wont care anymore when I’m old
>>10491764
well milk and get enough nutrition from food. I didn’t eat much growing up and now it’s too late feels bad.
>>10491766
your gonna stunt your growth if you keep stressing all the time anon. gotta chill out and not be angry over stuff that can’t be helped

>> No.10491780

>>10491770
Thiisss, bitch.

>> No.10491790

>>10491028
Agreed. My entire comm has become an SJW cesspool. All of the comm leaders had to apologize for something that apparently offended a black lolita. Something about someone having cops in their family and not thinking acab.It's not her fault and not all cops are racist. Grow up.

>> No.10491794

>>10491790
Oh god that is really embarassing. I hate to say it but people have really turned into giant pussies, you shouldn't have to apologize for your own views unless you're actually racist.

>> No.10491796 [DELETED] 

>>10491770
women aren't people

>> No.10491797

sometimes i remember my trash ex and his trash family, who collectively shamed me for wearing lolita/called me a whore because they googled lolita once. what a sad existence to fear and hate things you aren't familiar with. i'm convinced he hated that there was something in this world i genuinely enjoyed, and it wasn't him.

>> No.10491800 [DELETED] 

>>10491797
nobody gives a fuck dumb whore go cry

>> No.10491809

I read THE BOOK this year and... Isn't all of this sexualisation pushed on the very character Lolita some kind of slut shaming or rather victim blaming? Man... Protect your kids everyone, no matter what. Teach them a better future.

>> No.10491811

>>10491809
Yes it is, although its more that people never read it and so assume that its something it isnt. In its own context the society of the 50s would have thought a girl being sexually active was a slut no matter what, but now we should know better.

>> No.10491812

>>10491655
I FUCKING KNEW IT
I thought I saw a Russia nendo staring me in the face. Rip in pieces for another round of country autism

>> No.10491813

>>10491809
Yeah, its from the perspective of a pedophile (an unreliable narrator) so of course he tries to justify it and pin it all on her behavior like most pedos would do.

>> No.10491814

>>10491620
Watching twitterfags, especially ethot Twitter fags complain about how Lolita is classist was probably the funniest thing I’ve seen on there. However the ones thinking the fashion is related to pedophila and the Lolita book are cancer.

>> No.10491815

>>10491633
>tumblr focus on pictures
YES this is also why it was great for posting art and stuff. Take me back to 2011 tumblr please somebody PLS

>> No.10491821

>>10491809
Yep the narrator (not author!) spends a lot of time victim blaming, especially near the end of the book.

>> No.10491823

>>10491813
>>10491821
I’ve sperged about this on here before, but you guys should read the vaguely autobiographical Ada, or Ardor before you decide that Nabokov wasn’t sympathetic to pedophiles.

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>>10490960
WHY THE HECK when i see costplay gril my PP stand up????????

>> No.10491829

>>10491823
I can sympathize with pedos only because I know nobody would ever choose to be one and I can't imagine how awful one would feel knowing thats what they are. It really depends on what you mean.

>> No.10491837

>>10491825
It means you like girls. could be gay if you’re a girl yourself or straight if you’re a guy.

>> No.10491839

>>10491837
how are they a girl if they have a penis

>> No.10491842

>>10491839
girls don’t have pp’s? how do people know if they’re turned on then?

>> No.10491843

>>10491842
Squish squish

>> No.10491862

>>10491837
I am mail

>> No.10491866

I don't know how to not be serious, how to relax, how to "live in the moment," any of that kind of shit, and it's fucking killing me.

>> No.10491867

>>10491866
be more like me :)

>> No.10491868

>>10491691
>also /cgl/
>>10491570
>almost same issue than >>10491500

>so my gf....
>its okay anon you will get used to it

Why women doesn't voice with their own boyfriends this issues?

>> No.10491870
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10491870

I got my first angelic pretty piece tonight....... I'm so in love!!! cherry marguerite jsk in mint and IT FITS LIKE A GLOVE!!! I never thought I'd be able to fit into AP lol

>> No.10491873

Instead of taking the easy way out and talking shit about your SO on an imageboard, why don’t you seagulls tell your SO how you feel. most people are clueless about relationships anyways and they won’t know how you feel unless you tell them. they probably don’t even realize what they said hurt your feelings. you have to put in some effort and communicate with one another if you want your relationship to work out. so you tell them 1) they overreact and take it the wrong way or they already knew that what they said was insensitive 2) they didn’t know what they said made you sad and you guys work on it so that it doesn’t happen anymore. you make your next course of action base on the outcome. AaaaaaAaaaaaaaassAaaaaaaAaaasasaaaaAaaaaaasAsaaaaaaaa
and don’t reply saying some random ass shit to make yourself feel better. Just talk to your SO you dumbfucks

>> No.10491874

>>10491870
no one cares about your ugly dress poorfag

>> No.10491876

>>10491870
congrats on the weight lost and the jsk.

>> No.10491878

It's been 6 years. I'm as successful as ever; top of my game physically, financially, and romantically.
But I still miss her.

>> No.10491879

>>10491878
What do you miss about her?

>> No.10491880
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>>10491874
How exactly am i a poorfag...? I only got into buying lolita last year but I already own 4 meta dresses, 3 btssb, and 1 piece from innocent world. My closet is bolstered and growing constantly since I got a fat raise, I'm just happy about finding an AP dress I actually like/that fits. ???
>>10491876
Thanks so much :)

>> No.10491882

>>10491876
>>10491880
loss*
yw. some anons are just bitter and making fun of others make them feel better about themselves. If they would just figure out what makes them so depressed and fix it they wouldn’t have to be bitter all the time. that or they just like to shitpost than you just have to ignore them.

>> No.10491883

>>10491870
Congrats, same for me a few days ago.
>>10491880
>I'm just happy about finding an AP dress I actually like/that fits. ???
Also same for me as well. I have no money issues and can drop $400 on a dress easy. Just when it came to AP I hadn't liked anything they have been putting out recently. I considered a few meta dresses but I don't know...

>> No.10491886 [DELETED] 

>>10491770

Anon those men are trolls. They are not there because they hate women and seek revenge, but because they want to have fun seeing you mad.

All male spaces ive saw would love to have more women around. Men are not told jackshit about anything women related and all we are left is to trust one another. That is where creepy behaviour starts to rise. Just read any "how do i get a gf" on /adv/. Not saying that this kind of behaviour is valid, but saying it would be great if there was a girl there to call out what is bs or not.

But the point is not even that. The point is that, in men spaces, we want you. We want you to be around. Absolutely the opposite of hating you.

But we cannot unfortunately provide a safe space for you. In men spaces, there is no such thing as safe space, and nobody that arrives there should expect it. Many women dont understand that. If we dont expect a safe space for us,why should you?

So yes, unfortunately in men spaces you will be subjected to any kind of assholes, just like we are, and you will be expected to know how to defend yourself just like everybody else. It is just the way it is. It is not a way to seek revenge/gatekeep.

Men in general want you on their spaces, but do not expect them to protect you. There we all watch our own backs.

>> No.10491888

>>10491886
can't tell if this is a joke or if this dude is fr
too stupid to be real but too long to be bait

>> No.10491889

>>10491888
NOOOO he deleted it, it would've been such a good copypasta :(

>> No.10491891
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>>10491889
I got you, senpai. In two formats, even.

>Anon those men are trolls. They are not there because they hate women and seek revenge, but because they want to have fun seeing you mad.

>All male spaces ive saw would love to have more women around. Men are not told jackshit about anything women related and all we are left is to trust one another. That is where creepy behaviour starts to rise. Just read any "how do i get a gf" on /adv/. Not saying that this kind of behaviour is valid, but saying it would be great if there was a girl there to call out what is bs or not.

>But the point is not even that. The point is that, in men spaces, we want you. We want you to be around. Absolutely the opposite of hating you.

>But we cannot unfortunately provide a safe space for you. In men spaces, there is no such thing as safe space, and nobody that arrives there should expect it. Many women dont understand that. If we dont expect a safe space for us,why should you?

>So yes, unfortunately in men spaces you will be subjected to any kind of assholes, just like we are, and you will be expected to know how to defend yourself just like everybody else. It is just the way it is. It is not a way to seek revenge/gatekeep.

>Men in general want you on their spaces, but do not expect them to protect you. There we all watch our own backs.

>> No.10491892

>>10491886
>All male spaces ive saw would love to have more women around.
To hit on, fap to, or think they have a chance of dating. I've been in enough male dominated spaces to know this because a lot of my hobbies tend to be male dominated, even the girly ones. When I pretend to be a man in these spaces it's a whole different experience. I'm treated the same as others, people don't try to suck up to me, randomly message me or berate what I say based on me being a girl. The only spaces I can confortably be a girl in without putting up a false wall are those filled with gay men or majority of women.
>Men are not told jackshit about anything women related and all we are left is to trust one another.
It's because they don't want to learn. They're told plenty about women but grow tired of it and disregard it because it makes them feel "less". They rather hear about the great deeds and sacrifices of their forefathers than that of their foremothers.
>but saying it would be great if there was a girl there to call out what is bs or not.
You know, I used to help random guys online. I'd give them my handle/Open my DMs/IMs, etc. because I felt bad for them. I wanted to cheer them up. But you know what happens? 9 out of 10 times they eventually ask for weird things. "Can I see your tits? Just once? " " Can I call you mommy? " " What's your fetish? " " How long do you think you and your bf will be together? " " Would it be weird if I sent you a dick pic? " and so on.
>But the point is not even that. The point is that, in men spaces, we want you. We want you to be around. Absolutely the opposite of hating you.
Because they want us to be an emotional dump and a potential cum dump. Dare we say otherwise and suddenly we're bitches.
>But we cannot unfortunately provide a safe space for you.
Of course not, we make our own.

>> No.10491893

>>10491892
>In men spaces, there is no such thing as safe space, and nobody that arrives there should expect it. Many women dont understand that. If we dont expect a safe space for us,why should you?
Apparently you're giving up to easily. Women had to fight for their shelters and spaces and still do. Yet it seems when men try to start one these days, the second someone tells them no, they cry and give up then get pissed when women do it.

No one is asking men to provide us with a space, just leave us to our own and stay out of it. If we fail, then we fail on our own.

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>>10491017
>>10491019
>>10491757
>>10491759
>>10491770
>>10491780
This is why this should be a thing. I would add a cosplay, jfashion and lolita board too to make it perfect

>> No.10491908

Why are men so stupid that they never consider the obvious reason for why women want their own spaces? As in, women are smaller than men and men more often than not act like testosterone ridden gorillas. Of course men don't feel like they need a safe space or expect it, their biological weaknesses aren't exploited the way womens' are. Would straight men feel comfortable in spaces full of ultra jacked and horny gay dudes twice their size? Probably fucking not. Especially if they had previously been subjected to sexual harassment over and over at the hands of them, like women have from straight men. How are men so fucking oblivious to the female experience?

>> No.10491909

>>10491907
>>10491892
>>10491891
Just leave lolcow to their shitty administration, and make a better all female imageboard

>> No.10491910

>>10491907
People have tried and failed, friend. 90% of the time they just get invaded by men anyway.

>> No.10491911

sjw’s r the worst

>> No.10491912

>>10491910
Where, when and how? CC is shit with a lot of trannies, and AG is just empty and for radfems only (even if I like radfems I also like other kinds of people). I think right now is the perfect opportunity to start a new board since lolcow is turning to shit and they don't allow pink pilled threads anyways, it's just shit and infighting

>> No.10491913

>>10491912
That's my point. If all of those have failed, why do you think a new one would work now?

>> No.10491914

>>10491910
Example: the numerous subreddits for women that inevitably get taken over by creeps hornyposting and pretending to be women, always resulting in new ones being made and then the cycle repeats. It's painfully obvious by the fact that the opposite never happens that men don't perceive women as people, just playthings for entertainment and sex.

>> No.10491915

>>10491913
Because lolcow is clearly failing too. kek

>> No.10491917

>>10491915
Well, I'll leave you ladies to it. Make sure not to let any scrotes like me come in. Not sarcasm. I'm well aware of what males do to websites like CC and lolcow, you might want a better method of screening for it if you want it to be a successful venture.
If you have decent mod team, maybe cropped/edited drivers licenses would work? I dunno.

>> No.10491918

>>10491917
I like scrotes like you! not sarcasm either.

>> No.10491919

>>10491907
I disagree. I think the farm should stick to drama and drama only and if anyone wants to discuss anything else, they can take it to the respective board on 4chan.

>> No.10491920

>>10491918
>implying implications
The only way an all-female imageboard is literally if no men are allowed in. I'm convinced at this point.

>> No.10491921

>>10491918
Can I get your sm so we can talk more?

>> No.10491923

I want to drop like $200+ on a new wardrobe because my current one makes me feel really crap about myself since none of it is flattering, but im a poorfag and I know I shouldn't.

>> No.10491924

>>10491923
go thrifting. you’ll never know what you might find and for a low cost too. a lot of people do it now so the stigma isn’t there anymore

>> No.10491926

>>10491924
I only shop secondhand, mostly on depop but I know that's still expensive. I'll have to try some cheaper thrift shops.

>> No.10491927

>>10491921
I'm fucking dying, proving >>10491892 almost immediately. Also great job dude patting yourself on the back for coming up with the brilliant idea that we should keep men like yourself out. All while bothering us here in the first place.

>> No.10491928

i'm gonna keep it real w yall, men aren't like. literal beasts you need to be protected from. i don't really get the "all female safe haven board" thing, like it's really not that deep.

that said, in reply to scrote anon from earlier: the way you talk about women in your post is like you view us like cute little commodities to have around. i'm not gonna throw myself into a circle of complete jackasses just so i can coddle you and make you feel better about being incompetent at socializing like a normal human. i'm not your fucking babysitter and i have enough respect for myself than to hang around people that act like literal animals. i'm friends with plenty of men and hang out in "men's spaces" and have a great time because they act like actual people. the problem isn't "women have too many feefees," it's that you're an incel.

>> No.10491932

>>10491891
The idea that men would ever care or listen to woman "calling out bs" is laughable. Men will literally side with their friend even if they're a rapist, and just assume the woman is lying for fun. Men don't give a shit what women say and its not our job to teach you how to behave yourself, you're not a child.

>> No.10491933

>>10491910
It's just null samefagging and quoting himself again. Notice how that image only has pics from the meta thread after /ot/ shut down. When /2X/ got shut down, anons searched for an alternative and AG got opened before he could, he started spamming on /2X/ and /meta/ how the creator of the site wants to doxx everyone.

>> No.10491935 [DELETED] 

>>10491933
...I think I'm out of the loop. The fuck is AG?

>> No.10491937

>>10491932
I've unironically been browsing lolcow and /cgl/ to try and improve myself as a male by looking at girls' complaints.
...is that a bad thing?

>> No.10491942

>>10491937
jfc

>> No.10491943

>>10491937
Unless you're trying to build a tolerance for gossip, weight complaints, and bitching about clothing manufacturers, yes, youre doing it wrong.

>> No.10491944

>>10491943
...in the feels threads and man hating threads.

>> No.10491948

>>10491937
No. As long as you're looking to learn and not expecting women to handhold and coddle you, you're fine.

>> No.10491949

>>10491937
>>10491944

you remind me of those fake feminist males who pretend to be ‘Mr. nice guy’ to get closer to girls. “But I’m not like all the other guys!”

>> No.10491950

>>10491949
Nonononono, honestly I have a lot of serious insecurities due to reading these threads and seeing how men treat their significant others. I want to have a successful relationship in the future, and moreso want to learn to STOP being an incel scrote, but I don't really have much of a way of doing that outside of doing so covertly.
I try to read these things because I KNOW I'm like other guys, and I don't want to be that way, y'know?

>> No.10491951 [DELETED] 

>>10491950
If it's wrong and there's not much I can do in the way of improving myself, I'll happily resign myself to my fate of being a wizard. But until then I at least wanna try, I'm relatively young and still uninformed in a lot of social nuances between men and women due to being caught in a sausagefest at my college. I just want to overcome my hormonal stupidity but it doesn't feel like it's really that easy to just "treat them like people" when every single hormone in your body is saying "MAN WANT PARTNER. WOMAN SIGHTED. ENGAGE WITH WOMAN TO FIND PARTNER."

>> No.10491952

>>10491951
See a therapist

>> No.10491953

>>10491909
>>10491907
asherah's garden is already a thing, there's even /mh/ for man hate. it's slow and not focused on gossip but scrotes are banned, haven't seen it mentioned yet

>> No.10491954

>>10491951
>it doesn't feel like it's really that easy to just "treat them like people" when every single hormone in your body is saying "MAN WANT PARTNER. WOMAN SIGHTED. ENGAGE WITH WOMAN TO FIND PARTNER."
oh my god just a-log yourself off of this planet already.

>> No.10491955

>>10491866
try yoga

>> No.10491956

>>10491937
I suggest you go read r/FemaleDatingStrategy if you’re serious.

>> No.10491957

>>10491951
this is a good thing, if you're genuine.

>> No.10491958

Does anyone have that tied up Leon Kennedy cosplay

>> No.10491960

I keep a list updated with all things I have coming in the mail with *pictures* and looking at it makes me feel all giddy

>> No.10491963

>>10491956
my boy is already trying too hard already. If he wants to learn about relationships he should read up /r/relationships_advice. /r/askmen or /r/askwomen for gender related questions. and ffs stop doing w.e tf he’s doing it’s not cute and cringey af. It’s like he think he’s in an anime or some shit. like bruh just stop thinking about getting a gf so much and find a hobby you like doing and talk to girls about that hobby.

and what made you think /cgl/ or lolcow was a good place to understand girls more. /cgl/ is just girls tearing other girls down for being fat or dressing like shit. as for lolcow that place is a cesspool.

>> No.10491964

>>10491960
I do that too but some items I’d be like why tf did I buy that shit. especially for the ones that take forever to arrive.

>> No.10491965

>>10491960
Ooooo me too anon!
It also helps me keep track of how much I spend and on what. I also make collages of what I have in my closet so I don’t end up buying something I don’t need


>>10491963
Yeah he might be better off talking to normies. Unless he wants a weeb gf

>> No.10491968

>>10491886 (Dead)
>All male spaces ive saw would love to have more women around.
This is such bullshit. I've been in this hellhole since 2008 and I can count on my hands the amount of times I announced my sex (outside of maybe /adv/ and /cgl/ where it's usually implied). Most of these times whatever I said was completely ignored and all I was met with were insults, ridiculing, thirstposting etc.
Men simply can't behave and have a meaningful discussion when they know women are on the other side of the screen. Rational sex my ass.

>> No.10491975

>>10491965
Oh, that's a really good idea! I'm going to make a list like that now, too.

>>10491964
On the contrary I think it helps me to have the visual, to know what I should and shouldn't get. If I see something cute, but I check & I don't have some things coming that might match, it lets me know it's going to be a money sink just to coord that one item. And having a second list like >>10491965 mentioned will help even more!

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>>10491862
Sorry the post office is being destroyed.

>> No.10492023

>>10491879
Her personality, demeanor, and wit. I've always been proud of my intellect but she trumps me there as well. She challenged me. And I miss that.

Thanks for letting me voice it out, buddy.

>> No.10492025

>>10491759
>No men allowed is a stupid rule
holy fucking faggot

>> No.10492040

>>10491908
this

>> No.10492076

>>10491937
It's probably not bad as long as you keep in mind they don't represent all women, and that people will say they want something when they don't know what they want.
I actually feel like as horrifying as it was, reading redpill stuff improved me as a female because it showed me a few things to avoid. But I don't take it too seriously and my bf's wants align little with what that crowd wants or says they want.

>> No.10492081

>>10491937

Why would you read what a bunch of (internalized) misogynists have to say?

>> No.10492085

>>10491928
>i'm gonna keep it real w yall, men aren't like. literal beasts you need to be protected from. i don't really get the "all female safe haven board" thing, like it's really not that deep.
You're right, a good chunk of men are just normal guys that would leave women alone. The problem is online it's another story because it's the percentage of the loud, misogynistic trolls and self righteous troons and grooms that are the ones that cause problems making a a bad name for all men just like SJWs and Karens make a bad name fow all women. You're right it's not that deep, and yet it's difficult as fuck to achieve. If a bunch of girls want a no boys allowed club house, let them. If boys want a no girls allowed house, let them.
>>10491950
It should be simple just don't view women as potential wives/girlfriends/fap material. I feel that's the biggest problem as it feels like it all comes from a sexual desire and how men process it. They
1. Bend over backwards to try and get a chance at the puss
2. Pretend to friends just so they can get puss
3. Hate and resent for lack of puss

I actually have a tad more respect for some of the /fit/fags mindsets of "disregard women. Lift for yourself." because even though they can be mysoginstic assholes, they are at least trying to focus on bettering themselves FOR themselves and women are an afterthought. I'm mildly proud of them. Too bad all the high test and roids make them want to tear someone's head off.

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>uwu pls donate to my gofundme to get me out of my abusive household in which my cis male father yells at me for not doing the dishes umu Dx
>$7029/$10000 donation progress

>> No.10492179

>>10491926
yeah depop and grailed is nice if you don’t want to pay full price for brand items but irl thrift is better at finding deals. If you don’t mind fast fashion h&m sales are nice too.

>> No.10492180

>>10492138
That kid won't survive on their own.

>> No.10492199

>>10492138
I want free neetbux

>> No.10492271

>>10491907
The dream of a /lit/ where I can discuss fanfiction made a shiver run down my spine...

>> No.10492281

>>10491891
>All male spaces ive saw would love to have more women around.
This is not true

>> No.10492296

not sure how to introduce my parents to lolita. i already dress weird as hell and have had a matching idgaf attitude since i was born, but this fashion is so out of the norm idk how they'd react. it's not like i need their approval, they already hate the way i dress myself now and i'm like whatever but idk it'd still kind of suck and hurt if they reacted super negatively. i think what i'm scared of is the initial reaction. i don't care if they tell me i look dumb once they see me the second or fifth time, but i'm scared of that first response. for now, i'm just gonna keep hiding all my stuff in the corner of my room. hopefully i get the courage to just rip off the bandaid soon.

>> No.10492301

>>10492281
Men aren't monolith. Some want women in their spaces and some don't.

>> No.10492311

I miss when cgl was more snarky

>> No.10492314

>>10492296
depends on which lolita style you're wearing desu

>> No.10492317

>>10492301
My noongar, I have been playing contact sports my whole life and worked some construction. Women would have been a hindrance on the field/mat and the site. They probably didn't want to be there with us anyway.

>> No.10492324

>>10492317
this is why you're still a virgin

>> No.10492325

>>10492324
I did ur mom last night

>> No.10492334

anyone else fucking sick to death of menhera? It's always the same types wearing it and selling it. No, I don't want to wear pills and crying anime girls on my coord. I don't want to be "cutesy depressed" for lack of a better term. And 99% of the time, the indie stores that sell these things also sell "kink" themed stuff like cutesy shibari, pastel vibrator earrings, and other stupid, ugly perverted bullshit. I hate westerners in this fashion and indie shit at this point. I'm American but I'm fucking sick of this.

>> No.10492348

>>10492317
I refer you back to my previous post

>> No.10492349

>>10492317
Did you not realize female construction workers exist and they're not just their to feel special? They actually do their job? Jesus men are retarded.

>> No.10492351

>>10492317
Are you so bad at reading context cues you didn't realize that we were probably not talking about spaces where physical strength is an important factor?

>> No.10492370

>>10492348
Sorry for your loss
>>10492351
Men love sports, but they sure fuck don't want women in the way. I bring it up, because it is the most obvious example of men not necessarily wanting to have more women in a male space. Are you bad at reading context clues?

>> No.10492389

>>10492370
No shit, women don't want men in their sports either for good reason. That was obviously not what anyone was referring to dumbfuck.

>> No.10492428

Decided to start applying for another job after mine continuously tried to fuck me into an availability I don’t have. I was hoping to ride it out until after COVID settled, but today my GM try to guilt trip me into working off the clock. I am done. “It would look better on you if..” nah dude. I’m on emergency furlough because of COVID, and granted while I am still on the payroll, I didn’t agree with any of my managers that I was returning. And the person who’s trying to schedule me (without actually putting me on any schedule), isn’t even in the same department as me. So fuck this shit, I’m done. I can’t work for a business as unprofessional as this.
The downside is can’t buy any lolita for a long while...plus side I might actually work with people who aren’t fucking lunatics who marry the job and expect everyone else to do the same.

>> No.10492532

>>10491664
nah think it’ll be more weebs just whining they can’t dress up as nazis instead of actually doing it because they’re too scared. anyone with their toe in the cosplay community has heard of the sieg heil in front of the holocaust memorial and everyone is more concerned with looking #woke in 2020 to pull a stunt like that again

>> No.10492547

>>10492428
God, I really hate those types of workplaces. Sending you strength in your last bit of time there and hope you can find a better job soon.

>> No.10492652

>>10491907
No /tg/
Dropped.

>> No.10492654

>>10492428
UI

>> No.10492778

>>10491770
One thousand percent correct.

>>10491907
The problem with every idea like this is that trannies are extremely online due to not being welcome anywhere in reality, and they thirst to invade women's spaces. They have a terrible advantage in time and autism so they're practically impossible to avoid.

>> No.10492841

>>10492778
i've said it before, but yall really need to interact with trans people irl. could you imagine if someone based their ideas on lesbians around 2015 tumblr steven universe fans. that's how yall look