Lolita and TradFem Myth

[Anonymous No.10424594]

Does anyone else get pissed off when you wear lolita, some rando guy asks if we're a housewife or looking to get married because they have a well paying job.

[Anonymous No.10424599]

This has literally never happened to me. I'd love it if a guy was jumping to marry me and pay for everything.

[Anonymous No.10424602]

I wish Lolita was full of tradfems instead of what we actually have, rabid SJWs and ethots

[Anonymous No.10424604]

>>10424599
honestly same. i would love for someone to actually want to marry me. I am slightly trad and i would love to be a housewife (work from home ideally)

[Anonymous No.10424606]

>>10424602
I wish lolita was full of girls, and less furious tr00ns

[Anonymous No.10424608]

>>10424606
Me too anon

[Anonymous No.10424613]

>>10424594
I've never had house wife but have had randos say you look like a doll I just want to take you home and keep you in my room. Creepy.

[Anonymous No.10424617]

>>10424594
begone scrote

[Anonymous No.10424624]

>>10424606
Do you mean /less/ furious troons, or /less furious/ troons?
Because I'd take either at this point

[Anonymous No.10424627]

>>10424594
I'm the farthest thing from a tradwife. I got a well-paying job to fund lolita. I don't need to rely on a guy to do it. Also these types of clothes don't fit the raising a litter of kids lifestyle

[Anonymous No.10424629]

Why is there so much political subversion on here lately? Every other sameposter is the same IDF shill looking to recruit lolitas to the ever-present commie agenda. There is literally nothing wrong with upholding a traditional belief system and seeking others like you. Stop shaming everyone who isn't a demothot because they see through the new-age bullshit. I feel sorry for the man who might want to be friendly with you.

[Anonymous No.10424632]

>>10424629
Now that's what I call a scrote-reveal

[Anonymous No.10424634]

>>10424629
Literally no one in the thread has shit on tradwives, you must be awfully mad about something to just assume other people would be mad about it

[Anonymous No.10424647]

>>10424629
begone scrote

[Anonymous No.10424648]

>>10424624
I meant the first one, but I agree

[Anonymous No.10424655]

>>10424629
No one is mad about it cept you.

[Anonymous No.10424656]

>>10424594
Yes and it was awkward af.

[Anonymous No.10424659]

Can you be trad-wife lolita but also in lesbian and married to another lolita? Asking for a friend.

[Anonymous No.10424664]

>>10424659
No. Being gay is against traditional values.

[Anonymous No.10424665]

I'd love a conservative or even just not militantly leftist lolita community even if it was just online.

[Anonymous No.10424672]

Lolita is expensive and selfish and goes against true tradwife beliefs. They only dress the way their husbands want them dress.

[Anonymous No.10424673]

>>10424672
This, real tradwives wind up dressing like laineybot

[Anonymous No.10424675]

>>10424629
> I feel sorry for the man who might want to be friendly with you.
I don't, they can fuck right off.

[Anonymous No.10424677]

>>10424673
>laineybot
Really? Isn’t she some kind of fake ftm? Not very femme

[Anonymous No.10424678]

>>10424677
>if only you knew how bad things really are

[Anonymous No.10424711]

>>10424678
Just looked it up and that really is the definition of a tradfem, huh. Subsuming your whole identity into your husband’s and popping out babies for him while justifying his horrible behavior.

[Anonymous No.10424742]

>>10424599
IVB managed to bag a husband and is now a lolita trad wife despite looking like THAT. It’s possible.

>>10424665
Start a community on Facebook. FB isn’t zuccing conservative communities right now due to them prioritizing removing false coronavirus info.

[Anonymous No.10424754]

>>10424599
I guess I’m conventionally attractive and have a wifeish skill set, because literally every guy I’ve been with, even casually, has wanted to buy everything for me and talked about marrying me. My current bf has very nearly cornered me into marrying him because my work doesn’t offer insurance. I guess grass is always greener on the other side, but I’ve always hated being seen as wife material when I don’t feel like it. I like having a companion but I don’t understand the appeal of being with the same one for life and supporting myself is important to me.

[Anonymous No.10424773]

>>10424754
Are you bisexual at all?
Im bi but I've decided to stop dating men and only surround myself with women.

[Anonymous No.10424791]

>>10424594
>>10424599

lmao they'd be in for a surprise when they find out how much my wardrobe costs or how much time I spend dressing up and attending tea parties. I'm not about to give up my waistline to pop out babies, and he has another thing coming if he thinks I'm actually going to prepare food risking staining my burando apron. Dude can make his own sandwich, I've got manicures to match to my dresses to bother with his stuff.

Now, if some guy volunteered to pay for all of that, do none of the traditional housewife work, and also provided a maid to run and fetch for me, I'd be in.

[Anonymous No.10424796]

>>10424754
I'm seething with jealousy, ngl. None of my exes ever offered to buy me anything. I'm self-sufficient but it would be nice to know a guy thinks I'm worth spending money on.

[Anonymous No.10424798]

>>10424742
Yeah but... he's an abasolute looksmatch for her. I only date good looking guys, I guess that's part of the problem lmao

[Anonymous No.10424803]

>>10424754
That's...concerning, anon. Get a pet if you want a temporary companion.

[Anonymous No.10424806]

>>10424665
>>10424742
If anyone makes an online comm like this, please let us know. I don't have most social media but I might consider making one for a group like this.

[Anonymous No.10424810]

>>10424803
Sorry, needed to elaborate: if you don't really value your partners outside of the companionship they provide, then it'd probably be easier in the long run to get an animal companion.

[Anonymous No.10424823]

I kind of fit in the description and while it is nice to not have to worry about bills and job security or pregnancy, my life is a bit boring. I've picked up multiple hobbies like sewing and painting, but all of the local clubs are like 50+ early retirees or grannnies and I just don't know where to meet like-minded people like me who are also the same age as me. I'm already looking to back back into a part time job or volunteer work, because I miss to be around people who are not geriatric.
The grass is always greener on the other side.

[Anonymous No.10424839]

>>10424823
Same here. I’m not that bored but I am pretty lonely. I’ve been trying to make local mom friends but can’t find anyone I connect with, and the people my age who share my interests are usually very vocally childfree and regularly make passive aggressive comments even when I don’t talk about my family at all. Also my current lifestyle may be “trad” but I’m not actually that conservative so online tradwife groups aren’t my thing either. It’s a weird in-between kind of existence.

[Anonymous No.10424845]

>>10424798
“looksmatch”?? taking your fucking incelspeak off our board, scrote

[Anonymous No.10424850]

>>10424845
The term is used on FDS/lolcow as well, anon...

[Anonymous No.10424861]

>>10424850
oh, thanks for the info. I’ve never been a lolcow user but my bad if that’s the case

[Anonymous No.10424879]

Have only had men trying to hire me for sexual services while in Lolita. Would find what you are describing a more positive change from that.

[Anonymous No.10424884]

I have the opposite thing happen, many male coworkers have gotten super into me to an annoying degree because of my trad hobbies (cooking, sewing, knitting, etc) and then they’ll see me on a day off and realize I’m a childish freak.

[Anonymous No.10424892]

>>10424806
Y'all will just get called nazis like the other girl. The lolita community is the absolute worst place to be open about any non-leftist political beliefs.

[Anonymous No.10424898]

>>10424665
I'm not super conservative but I would love to see a women-only community, at least. No men, including TIMs.

[Anonymous No.10424901]

>>10424892
This is why I'll forever be a lonelita desu

[Anonymous No.10424902]

>>10424664
Ancient Greece was gay as fuck, so it's actually in line for true traditionalism to be homosexual. The obsession with heterosexuality is nothing but modern propaganda.

[Anonymous No.10424907]

>>10424902
“true traditionalism” doesn’t exist, as every culture in history across the world has wildly differing ideas of masculinity and femininity. modern traditionalists are just right wing misogynists who want to impose their worldview to treat their wives like baby machine housemaids and anyone who is a poc/gay/other minority like literal scum under their shoes

[Anonymous No.10424945]

>>10424823
>>10424839
I'm extremely jealous of you two. I hate both working and meeting new people, I'd love to be able to just work on my hobbies and keeping my home nice all day. I'm very left-wing too, I just think getting fulfilment from work is for chumps.

Well, my boyfriend might eventually be able to make enough to support both of us plus a kid, but I'd probably be consumed with guilt if it ever actually happened.

[Anonymous No.10424967]

What kind of guy randomly walks up to a woman and asks if she's looking to get married? I hope such men end up with an insane woman that milks him for all he's worth.

[Anonymous No.10424974]

>>10424773
I am, and spent most of my academic, social and professional life surrounded by women, but nothing ever worked out as a relationship. I think I’m more nervous around women than men because I admire women more, which makes it harder to get close.
>>10424803
I wish, but I’m allergic!

[Anonymous No.10424975]

Was this thread in response to this story?

[Anonymous No.10424976]

>>10424975
Who's this?

[Anonymous No.10424977]

>>10424975
Who is this? She sounds annoying

[Anonymous No.10424978]

>>10424975
Who is this? She sounds awesome.

[Anonymous No.10424981]

>>10424978
Lol I agree. Although my hopes will likely be immediately dashed if she turns out to be more liberal feminist than rad

[Anonymous No.10424982]

I'm a femme lesbian, I want to marry a butch woman and I fucking hate men. I feel bad for a lot of tradwives I see online who are clearly being taken advantage of by men who just hate women. I don't understand why rightwing "conservative" women want to align themselves with misogynists.

[Anonymous No.10424984]

>>10424982
>I don't understand why rightwing "conservative" women want to align themselves with misogynists.
Generations of brainwashing. Some women out there truly believe it's their place to submit to a man.

[Anonymous No.10424985]

>>10424984
That's true. I pity them greatly.

[Anonymous No.10424987]

>>10424975
But her life seems kind of...... miserable

[Anonymous No.10424989]

>>10424982
God do i fucking agree.

[Anonymous No.10424991]

>>10424987
Kek I actually correctly guessed who it was solely based on this comment. She does seem pretty miserable, but I at least agree with the sentiment of >>10424975

[Anonymous No.10425008]

>>10424987
She does seem sad lately, but she has friends and spends time with them doing things she liked. But what happened to her husband? I thought she moved to Japan with him on a dependent visa?

[Anonymous No.10425038]

>>10424945
I can’t speak for the other anon but for me, there’s definitely guilt. One major reason I haven’t been able to connect with other local moms is because everyone I’ve met is super career-oriented and it’s all they really talk about once you get past the kid stuff. They keep asking me what I do for work even after I’ve already told them countless times that I’m not working at the moment, like it doesn’t register in their mind. My husband makes more than enough money to support us and I only use my own savings for lolita and other hobbies but I still feel guilty about it.

[Anonymous No.10425078]

>>10425038
Why don’t you want to work if you feel guilty about it?

[Anonymous No.10425121]

>>10425078
I do want to work, but the job market is oversaturated and childcare is very expensive. COVID-19 of course isn’t helping either.

[Anonymous No.10425178]

>>10424845
Lol what is this newfaggotry

[Anonymous No.10425413]

>>10424632
>>10424634
>>10424647
>>10424634
>>10424647

how you look

[Anonymous No.10425417]

>>10425413
You need to be pinkpilled, sweetie

[Anonymous No.10425419]

>>10425413
you're just making yourself more of an obvious scrote with each post. most lolitas look like the one on the left unless they're hambeasts from the American midwest

[Anonymous No.10425426]

>>10424967
Only thing wrong with this picture is the lack of weight gain after having 4+ kids. Only women I've seen retain their pre-pregnancy bodies are celebrities who have personal trainers/dietitians/personal chefs to get their body back in shape.

[Anonymous No.10425442]

>>10425426
>>tattoo
So she's a slut who aged out

[Anonymous No.10425461]

>>10424902
ancient greece was actually just so misogynist that it got gay ("women are so subhuman that even if you have to fuck them to make babies, REAL closeness is with men"). you can bet your ass they wouldn't support a woman having a lesbian relationship.

>>10424907
traditionalism was Women Are Property the entire time

[Anonymous No.10425487]

>>10425426
>"tradwife"
>working as a substitute teacher
looks like someone's trad hubbie couldn't make enough to keep her at home
also she calls that sleeveless dress "modest"? pfft, what a whore

[Anonymous No.10425489]

>>10425426
I just looked up her instagram and saw her teeth.....my god.

[Anonymous No.10425549]

>>10425426
What is BISsisterhood?

[Anonymous No.10425551]

>>10425413
The wife would be the fat one from constantly being pregnant.

[Anonymous No.10425553]

I really wouldn't mind being a housewife, but i feel like having more than 2 kids would make me miserable. I'm not very attractive and i'm kind if autistic, so my picks in men are slim, not that i am that attracted to them to begin with. I just don't want to work because i hate dealing with strangers and being a housewife or working from home are my two only options. Being a house wife actually isn't an option because i've never come close to having a relationship.

[Anonymous No.10425571]

>>10424796
Same lol. All my exes were broke tho. But having men want to pay things for me makes me uncomfortable, i feel like i owe them something. I'm more looking for a man that can physically threaten people i dislike desu, making money is something i can do on my own.

[Anonymous No.10425585]

>>10425461
>Sapphos

[Anonymous No.10425628]

>>10424902
That's incorrect as fuck. Greeks didn't have a concept of homosexuality. They had the idea of pairing an old man with a teen boy apprentice and it was seen as seemingly normal that the bonding had homo elements to it. But as soon as the boy stopped being an apprentice, it was seen as very shameful to be the submissive partner in a homo relationship. That role was reserved for women and the man was expected to ditch his homo desires and be an upstanding citizen and make babies.

The only times when it was somewhat okay in the antiquity is if the person was of extremely high status think Emperor Hadrian who had Antonine as his butt buddy.

[Anonymous No.10425638]

>>10425549
Judging by the other tags I'd say it stands for "Blessed is She". So some Jesus shit.

[Anonymous No.10425645]

>>10425413
Begone scrote

[Anonymous No.10425648]

>>10425489
jfc you got me curious, those are bad. Also kek she's only been Catholic for a month? As someone who was born and raised in that bullshit, that makes perfect sense. The converts are always batshit.

[Anonymous No.10425654]

>>10425628
why did they have ancient gay porn then

[Anonymous No.10425655]

>>10425654
Fuck tradfem gimme sum of this

[Anonymous No.10425659]

>>10425461
>tfw fucking a man was considered less gay than eating out a woman

[Anonymous No.10425660]

>>10424796
Treat yourself so nicely that they feel like a scrub for not stepping up. My boyfriend buys me nice gifts regularly, he's learned what a nice gift is for me by seeing me pick out my own.

[Anonymous No.10425661]

>>10425654
Because I didn't say the Greeks weren't degenerates.

[Anonymous No.10425662]

>>10424839
You don't sound trade, just like a sahm. Nothing wrong with that! You can cosplay a 50's housewife without the weird conservative values imo.

[Anonymous No.10425714]

>ITT future OPP delusional cat ladies that will die unfulfilled and full of regret.

But at least you'll have a nice wardrobe that'll get donated to the local thrift stores.

[Anonymous No.10425716]

>>10425714
Sorry you need a man stepping all over you and kids that'll grow up to resent you to feel fulfilled in life.

[Anonymous No.10425718]

>>10425426
She has crazy eyes

[Anonymous No.10425719]

>>10425714
Being a cat lady>being a cuckquean. Cat lady is not a slur.

[Anonymous No.10425721]

>>10425714
Stop projecting scrot. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean we need to.

[Anonymous No.10425722]

>>10425721
>>10425719
>>10425716
Imagine taking bait this obvious

[Anonymous No.10425723]

>>10425585
guy buddy, other greek writers of her time considered it fucking slander when people suggested she might be gay

[Anonymous No.10425726]

>>10425716
>>10425719
>>10425721

>overweight roasties with daddy kinks spotted.

[Anonymous No.10425729]

>>10425417
Never forget what happened to shoeonhead

[Anonymous No.10425730]

>>10424967
FUCK I love this image

[Anonymous No.10425734]

>>10425722
This whole thread is bait by a confirmed scrote and half of the anon itt are seriously replying.

[Anonymous No.10425736]

>>10425714
>ITT future OPP delusional cat ladies that will die unfulfilled and full of regret.

[Anonymous No.10425740]

>>10425729
Kek, being a roastie cat lady is feeling amazing right now.

[Anonymous No.10425741]

>>10425740
Came here to say this holy shit lmao

[Anonymous No.10425742]

>>10425487
Honestly, the idea of women not working was only true for the upper middle class. Everyone else either had small jobs, sold crafts, cleaned or babysitted.

Men helped out around the house too, even if they were emotional detached from their kids

[Anonymous No.10425743]

>>10425729
Imagine a 5-year relationship and being long-distance the entire time.

Oh gee I wonder why things didn't work out. What a mystery.

[Anonymous No.10425744]

>>10425726

[Anonymous No.10425745]

>>10425743
Imagine getting dumped on your birthday, and your ex fiancé and fanbase immediate replace you a day later with an ethot skinwalker
Ouch!

[Anonymous No.10425746]

>>10425745
>>10425743
>>10425729
Is there somewhere I can get a rundown on this drama? I've tried googling Armouredskeptic/shoe0nhead but I'm getting very little.

[Anonymous No.10425747]

>>10425746
Try the farm, friend.

[Anonymous No.10425748]

>>10425747
Much obliged

[Anonymous No.10425749]

>>10425746
I've only seen bits and pieces myself and am short some details.

But what I saw is

>Shoe and Skeptic suddenly not together
>Skeptic made a long post about long-distance = oh noes things not working out we totally wanted to move in together such hard times so saddddd
>shoe deactivated social media, I assume to avoid the thirst tidal-wave and simps
>Skeptic seems to be getting friendly with an e-girl that kinda resembles shoe

>>10425747
I'm off to get more info too. To the farm!

[Anonymous No.10425751]

I’d love to be a stay at home mom, at least until the kids are in school. But I make more than my husband so he’ll be staying home instead, oh well. I’m just thankful I live in a society where I can make as much or more than a man. But I really don’t understand the point of a stay at home spouse once the kids are in school. Unless you make less than what a maid costs to help out with cleaning a few times a month it’s a net gain, have the second spouse work and hire a maid to cone a few times a month to help with chores that would have been done by the stay at home spouse. What’s the point of having someone stay home alone all day? Dinner isn’t that hard to cook that it can’t be started after work or batch cooked or made in a crock pot during the day

[Anonymous No.10425809]

>>10425008
I guess they separated but did not divorce.
- she still complains about dependent visa
- she lives with a roommate and has to support herself (and therefore broke)
- she does not respond to questions about her personal life and family.

[Anonymous No.10425821]

Tradfem is just strange to me, because I grew up with family and friends where parents both worked and most of the time the wife made more money (not that it really mattered) It feels like such a waste to just sit at home and leave all the financial pressure onto one person to feed an entire family. Like what's the tradfem plan for a global recession? Crisis like pandemics? How are they going to take care of their kids if the husband gets sick?

[Anonymous No.10425845]

>>10425821
Tradfem is based on the '50s, where being tradfem was easier since 1 man could make enough money to feed a family of 6 ,including himself

[Anonymous No.10425854]

>>10425809
That's what I guessed, too. They were together for a long time before they moved to Japan, so it's not like he was a visa husband like some other weeb girls in Japan have. Kind of sad, though I agree with her thoughts on marriage.

[Anonymous No.10425856]

>>10424987
i agree. she comes across as very depressed. i guess she must love japan if she wants to stay there...? i imagine living alone in isolation and depression can't be fun.