/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

[Anonymous No.10409086]

>Comment section is nothing but guys trying to hit on me
Can't someone just admire the hard work I put in?

[Anonymous No.10409089]

>>10409086
nope. men have no self control or dignity. i'm a fat slob and still get hit on constantly, even that doesn't work

[Anonymous No.10409096]

>>10409086
Anon your needlework and craftsmanship are impeccable and i really like how you put your own spin on the design while still keeping it near the original

[Anonymous No.10409105]

Cosplay is now a sexual thing to your average normie, you can thank jnig for that

[Anonymous No.10409118]

>>10409096
sjdjkfkdajjdkkf

[Anonymous No.10409119]

All young scrotes or boring cumbrains now. They're incapable of seeing anything as a fun hobby, they need to make everything about COOOOOOOOOOM. They need to inject sex into fucking everything they do, I'm sick of it. It's their own behavior and scrote cumbrain shit that attracted camgirls and ruined cosplay.

[Anonymous No.10409128]

We don´t even know how your cosplay looks like OP. How is anyone here suppposed to comment on your "hard work"?

[Anonymous No.10409132]

The fact that minor cosplayers have to put that they're a minor in their bios so there are (less) creeps just makes me want to die.

[Anonymous No.10409133]

>>10409132
I almost forgot about the tiktok cosplayers that are minors too that are constantly sexualized.

[Anonymous No.10409137]

>Comment section is nothing but guys trying to hit on me
Stop doing Thotsplays then

[Anonymous No.10409143]

>>10409086
>>10409137
Try this next time and see if you get any sexual comments. I'll give you 10 bucks.

[Anonymous No.10409144]

>>10409137
don't kid yourself, they could be cosplaying in full knight armor with no hint of being a woman but the second a man finds out they are one they'll find a way to sexualize it

[Anonymous No.10409166]

>>10409143
bitches love bara bodies

[Anonymous No.10409168]

>humblebragging: the thread

[Anonymous No.10409196]

>>10409086
Guys are just a bunch of horndogs, I've gotten a few sexually charged comments for my Lolita cosplay before.

[Anonymous No.10409199]

>>10409168
Are there actually people that humblebrag about sexual harassment and being creeped on?

[Anonymous No.10409218]

>>10409199
Duh

[Anonymous No.10409220]

>>10409199
I'm sure there's someone shallow enough to do that out there

[Anonymous No.10409248]

>>10409199
I mean, thats basically what this thread is, right?

[Anonymous No.10409297]

>>10409199
Yes. I once filed a hr complaint at my workplace about my coworker constantly talking about my boobs and the hr lady was like “take it as a compliment! I love getting compliments on my boobs!”

[Anonymous No.10409378]

>>10409086
>If a girl hits on me, she must truly appreciate me
>If a guy hits on me, he's just trying to have sex

[Anonymous No.10409393]

>>10409086
Anon, I love that you worked so hard to click buy on a lingerie listing on Aliexpress, put on makeup, take pictures, and photoshop your face and body into oblivion!

[Anonymous No.10409437]

>>10409168
>tfw I always think this is how people would react if I complained about being hit on by old men at work all the time so I don't talk about it ever
>tfw I know it's taking a huge toll on my mental health but I'm still afraid people will judge me
I hate people like you and I hate that I know the second I actually start speaking up about it I will get comments like this from some people. Disgusting comments from men literally make me want to die, I can't stand that people would think I'm proud of the old men slobberring on me while I'm just trying to fucking live.

[Anonymous No.10409512]

>>10409086
Just shut up and let me love you

[Anonymous No.10409514]

>>10409378
>>If a guy hits on me, he's just trying to have sex
Yes

[Anonymous No.10409515]

One day you'll hit the wall and the comments will stop
But is being seen as undesirable a good thing?

[Anonymous No.10409517]

>>10409515
As someone who was born at the wall, kek.

[Anonymous No.10409518]

>>10409086
>woe is me; I'm so fuckable

[Anonymous No.10409522]

>>10409515
They don’t if you actually take care of yourself

[Anonymous No.10409536]

>>10409514
Can a guy appreciate a woman and want to have sex with her at the same time?

[Anonymous No.10409563]

As a dude I never understood what other guys think they're gonna accomplish by hitting on girls in social media comments, I see it happen to a lot of my female cosplayer friends and it's always either pathetic or creepy.

[Anonymous No.10409565]

>>10409563
I agree. It actually makes me unfollow certain cosplayers because seeing a bunch of emojis by random Brazilians, indians and arabs with some generic "wow so beautiful" comment under a post grates on me

[Anonymous No.10409568]

>>10409297
>>10409437
yikes. i'm so glad my workplace is 90% women.

[Anonymous No.10409572]

>>10409515
tfw i'm over 30 and men still bother me all the time when i'm out alone

[Anonymous No.10409587]

>>10409572
>tfw male
>tfw sexual humour to me is uncouth and cheap
>having to force laughter whenever some guy makes a dick/sex/vagina/etc joke
>want to die inside

Also
>I work in a store in a very upscale nieghbourhood
>Majority of the clientele are instagram influencers, models, TV personalities, singers, producers, politicians, actors, very successful business people, etc
>All of them obviously very good looking people, lots of skin showing all the time, men and women alike
>Get the occasional transient who comes in
>"Aw fuck me cunt, check out some of the tits on these chicks aye? Fuckin' hell you must be in heaven? I gotta come 'ere and get me a load of those melons more often, like they aren't wearing nuthin' you know what I mean?"
>Meanwhile I just have to grin and bear it less I cause a scene and disturb the other customers and have to chaperone this worm through the store ASAP to get him out all the while making lacklustre jokes about tits for the billionth time

YES TITS EXIST, WE KNOW, FUCK OFF, YOU ARE NOT FUNNY

please I just want to do my job

[Anonymous No.10409590]

>>10409572
This. I get hit on all the time and I'm already in my late 20s, and married.

[Anonymous No.10409592]

>>10409572
>>10409590
>tfw the wall just means ugly.

[Anonymous No.10409594]

>>10409515
I'm a lesbian, I never want comments from men in the first place.

[Anonymous No.10409603]

>>10409565
It's not even that for me, it's the local simps who orbit around some of these cosplayers and halfassedly hit on them every time they see an opportunity. The number of times I've seen girls expose these same guys for sending DMs where they get really aggressive and hostile really puts the nail in the coffin too, not saying they're all like that but I'm pretty sure most girls in the scene these days will assume you're one of them if you leave comments like one of them.

Then there's also the really bizarre inappropriate sexual comments that some guys leave in public, too. This one was a prominent and generally well-liked middle aged photographer with a lot of reputation to lose replying to a girl half his age who posted that a bikini she'd ordered from taobao turned out to be way too small to wear, just a picture of it sitting on a table not being worn.

[Anonymous No.10409617]

>>10409603
do men really not realize this is sexual harassment? just because you're on the internet doesn't make it ok to say

[Anonymous No.10409627]

>>10409617
I really don't get it, these kinds of "incel" attitudes seem to be way more pervasive than we'd like to believe and I'm not quite sure how it happened. The guy I screenshotted is older so I don't know his life experience but most of these guys are around my age or younger and they were raised in the same social and political climate I was and yet so many ended up with these batshit insane ideas of what's appropriate, what's effective with women, how dating works, and whatever else.

[Anonymous No.10409654]

>>10409617
Probably in their own versions of reality, they sound really cool, funny and intellectual talking like that. As a woman, theres nothing you can do about men like this, except blocking them and telling them to fuck off. The only people who can do anything about them is their male peers, but even that doesn't work most of them time.

[Anonymous No.10409656]

>>10409627
>so many ended up with these batshit insane ideas of what's appropriate, what's effective with women
>what's appropriate
>what's effective
Do you know who teaches men what's appropriate or effective with women? No one. Neither fathers, nor mothers, nor schools, nor any other type of authority figure approaches this topic. Boys are left to be driven by their instincts, interactions seen in pornography, and wild stories told to them by other boys. And if you have bad instincts, then you're either a loser or a creep.

[Anonymous No.10409658]

>>10409654
>but even that doesn't work most of them time.
Yeah, the second you diverge from their worldview you're immediately written off as a cuck, beta, simp, soiboy, whatever.

>>10409656
Maybe it's regional but we actually DID cover this stuff in school, sexual harassment and acceptable/unacceptable behavior were part of our sex ed classes. That might not be the case everywhere but I'm talking about people who grew up in the same region and school system so they would've had that too. That aside there are just basic principles of decent human interaction that these guys completely disregard when it comes to dealing with women.

[Anonymous No.10409668]

>>10409656
i feel like consent is being taught more and more in schools in these days and that's the most important part. when i was young, i had no idea what consent even was and i was shocked when a guy later in life actually asked for it.

[Anonymous No.10409689]

>>10409668
I think that's a good thing but I also think it's somewhat responsible for why dating/getting laid has become so hard in recent years, especially in more "woke" places like LA where a decent number of men actually make an attempt to do things the right way. The old, broken rules have been thrown out, and good riddance to them, but the problem is that a new dynamic hasn't really developed to replace them and nobody's really confident about how they're supposed to do things. We understand what we're not supposed to do but not how you're really supposed to flirt, initiate sex, or whatever else in a way that's acceptable without totally killing the mood, and I think on the other side a lot of women also haven't really learned how to show clearer signs of interest of consent so that us guys don't have to feel so much like we're playing Russian Roulette when we think about making a move. I think the younger generation will probably figure it out but I'm not sure we millennials will.

[Anonymous No.10409697]

>>10409689
Yeah, I've pretty much given up on romance. I'll just work and adopt a kid or something

[Anonymous No.10409701]

>>10409658
>>10409668
>we actually DID cover this stuff in school, sexual harassment and acceptable/unacceptable behavior
>consent is being taught more and more in schools in these days
The problem is that these are always "How to not be legally culpable of rape" classes that cover all of the things you shouldn't do.
>Don't do this
>Don't do this
>Don't do this
>etc.
The reason they are focused on this in high schools and colleges is so that the institutions don't have to deal with the legal ramifications of a rape happening on campus.

What these classes fail to teach are
>How DO you properly communicate romantic/sexual interest
>How do you enter into a relationship with someone
>What ARE the stages of a relationship and how should you navigate through them

That's why you still get guys doing awkward shit, or some guys just being afraid to talk to women because every action seems like a potential "don't do that" landmine.

[Anonymous No.10409706]

>>10409701
I see a lot of these guys doing shit they should know not to do, but you've got good points. In a way I guess it kind of parallels the way sex ed spends so much time trying to push kids into abstinence, seems like they're kind of pushing "romantic abstinence" on kid. Probably doesn't help either that most of our parents are boomers who met during that one brief sex and drug positive blip in history that was the hippie era and didn't have anything useful to teach us.

>because every action seems like a potential "don't do that" landmine.
This definitely is a familiar feeling to me. I wouldn't go as far as being "afraid to talk to women," but approaching random women in public places, or trying to move conversation into something more? That's where shit's fucked up.

[Anonymous No.10409709]

>>10409594
kek, this is why I come here for

[Anonymous No.10409730]

>>10409689
>clearer signs
"yes" is consent. anything else is not. i can't tell you how many times guys just tried to fucking grope me without asking for consent in any way, it is horrifying. a girl consenting to kiss you is not necessarily consenting to more than that, you really need to ask.

[Anonymous No.10409732]

>>10409706
>approaching random women in public places
no one should still be doing this anyway. dating apps exist for a reason and women don't owe their attention when they're just trying to shop or whatever

[Anonymous No.10409736]

>>10409168
The only people who would see this as bragging are people who never get hit on

[Anonymous No.10409741]

>>10409730
That goes without saying, I'm talking more about the situations that lead up to that point. The "meta" of male/female interactions still largely boils down to the girl sending subtle hints to the guy that he should make a move himself and I think women really underestimate how terrible a lot of us guys are at identifying those hints correctly. Now that we live in a time where it's pretty well-understood that we can't just act on what we THINK are those hints I think it'd be a lot more productive if women got used to giving us a clearer picture of *their* intentions. It's not like it's only a problem for guys either, I know plenty of lonely and frustrated women who'd benefit from a more straightforward dynamic, and it'd keep either side from wasting their time on people who aren't interested if that's what they're looking for.

>>10409732
Yeah, I probably should've phrased that differently, I was thinking more of social events or places like bars, clubs, parties, etc.

[Anonymous No.10409745]

>>10409086
Men don’t care and just wanna put their dicks in stuff. I’m engaged and they’ll still come from all angles and just be creepy. Do they think they’re being flattering???
Because it’s fucking creepy for a stranger to tell you they’d tap it

[Anonymous No.10409858]

>>10409745
They must assume they're big dick-swinging alpha studs or something.

[Anonymous No.10409875]

>>10409745
Feel like women have a perception bias. Obviously you notice these men a lot because they would be the majority of men you interact with. Whereas the men who don't approach you never come into your perception.

Most guys (In their early 20s anyway) are too nervous to cold approach girls whatsoever. All my single male friends range from apathetic to scared when it comes to the idea of talking to a woman they don't know if it's in a romantic context.

[Anonymous No.10409950]

>>10409199
>Being praised and called hot is being creeped on
Stop being such a sissy.

[Anonymous No.10409954]

>>10409594
Do you want sexual comments from women? Is that even a thing?

[Anonymous No.10409997]

>>10409954
Yes but you to at least be an 8

[Anonymous No.10410012]

>>10409393
>>10409512
>>10409515
>>10409572
>>10409137
> t.creep
Stop sending women creepy DMs you freak.

[Anonymous No.10410021]

>>10409875
They definitely do. Though I'd note that it's not even guys being scared per se, a lot of them (I'd go as far as to say most actually) just don't see the point in a cold approach. Very few guys I've known would do anything like this shit.

I am also pretty convinced there's a chunk of the male population that does do all this stuff, and they do it so damn much to so many women that the collective experience feels like every dude is a fucking open horndog

[Anonymous No.10410031]

>>10409086
Blame nature

[Anonymous No.10410192]

>BOOHOO I'M JUST TOO PRETTY
Fuck off

[Anonymous No.10410211]

>>10409954
No, I have had some strange/creepy interactions with other women too, but men are 10x more frequent and tend to just be... worse. Nothing quite beats a dude older than your dad making sexual comments about your body while you're at your minimum wage job.

[Anonymous No.10410257]

>>10410012
>t.creep

[Anonymous No.10410287]

>>10410021
I agree. There are some guys out there that just do it for kicks. If a girl actually said yes I'd bet actual money that they would immediately back pedal and pussy out if a woman took up the offer.

[Anonymous No.10410343]

>>10410287
I've never heard of a man who would say no desu.

[Anonymous No.10410355]

>>10410343
If a reasonably attractive girl straight up said "let's have sex" to me I probably wouldn't refuse but I've definitely passed up opportunities and shut down girls who were flirting with me before. To be fair in most of those cases it was either because I just didn't want to take the risk of making a move, being wrong, and making a fool of myself, or because I was focused on somebody else at the time.

[Anonymous No.10410366]

>>10410343
Then you've never met me before.
You underestimate just how much of a virgin some guys can be.

[Anonymous No.10410378]

>>10409950
>If he's ugly it's creepy
>If he's hot it's romantic
Always remember the golden rule

[Anonymous No.10410380]

>>10410343
the girl who raped me out of my virginity apparently hadn't either desu

[Anonymous No.10410383]

>>10410343
In my experience, guys usually don't cat call or harass (in person) attractive girls. Because they know what their doing is unattractive but it's funny watching women get so butthurt about it. So rather than forever ruining their chances with a hot girl, they harass an ugly one because it's no loss if the ugly one wouldn't touch you with a 10ft pole.

So if an ugly girl turned around and said, "You know what, sure, I want you to skull fuck me, faggot." No way would a guy accept.

[Anonymous No.10410404]

>>10410383
as someone who has been both fat and skinny, no they don't do that. i got catcalled zero times as a fatty and now i get hit on almost daily

[Anonymous No.10410414]

>>10410383
This literally never happens faggot

[Anonymous No.10410415]

>>10409196
>lolita cosplay

Sit the fuck down

[Anonymous No.10410447]

>>10410383
Bullshit, attractive girls definitely get it the most. I am pretty ugly and I have never been hit on unironically. It makes me feel better about being a uggo.

>>10410404
I don't think weight has any kind of bearing on this. My sister is fat, but I guess she is good with makeup and looks decent, she still gets hit on a lot.

[Anonymous No.10410464]

>>10409563
Same. Maybe it’s because I don’t date cosplayers, but I don’t get how guys think,”If I say she looks hot she will get with me!”

[Anonymous No.10410479]

>>10409950
I know you're baiting but there's a big difference between being given a compliment in a friendly, non-threatening manner and being told by a rando in the street that they'd rail you, or being followed by some guy trying to ask you out who won't quit when you say "no, thanks".

[Anonymous No.10410481]

>>10409086
Every heterosexual male is biologically wired to impregnate any female who exhibits above average breeding fitness. The slightest hint of this is enough to trigger the response. There are no 'good guys', men just differ in the way they go about attempting impregnation. The only way you can avoid it is with outfits that are excessively cute or prudent.

[Anonymous No.10410489]

>>10410404
>>10410414
>>10410447
Alright, shit I concede defeat.

[Anonymous No.10410524]

>>10410343
Speaking from experience: Men do all the time. *I've* turned down approaches from women, and I'm not even attractive

[Anonymous No.10410525]

>>10410383
This wasn't really my point with the "not all men" post, and I disagree with this pretty hard, though there is something to be said about catcalling largely being a power play. My point was more along the lines that all it takes is 5% of men harassing 20 women each over a reasonable period of time and you've got a world where virtually every woman has been sexually harassed

[Anonymous No.10410579]

>>10409086
Pretty sure they are admiring the hard work you put in.

[Anonymous No.10410580]

>>10410383
THIS!

[Anonymous No.10410582]

>>10409086
No, all your value comes from how attractive a partner you would be.

[Anonymous No.10410602]

>>10409086
Tits or gtfo.

[Anonymous No.10410603]

Can't be fucked with e-girls ruining cosplay and enabling the creepy old fuckers with their antics. So they think all cosplayers do that. And of course, pointing out that old men perving on you should make you uncomfortable is a "bad look" as long as they have money.

[Anonymous No.10410604]

>>10409143
But if the thots did that, they'd make less money and get less validation. Completely defeating the point of cosplay.

[Anonymous No.10410617]

>>10409137
You can be in a t-shirt and jeans and still get sexual comments. Clearly you're what op is complaining about.

[Anonymous No.10410622]

>>10409536
It's literally the same thing for men. If a healthy male complements your cosplay, unless he's a pro cosplayer, photographer, or tailor himself, the point of the comment is to get his dick up in you. Why is it gross or icky? Don't demean sex workers, because you are one, just softcore.

[Anonymous No.10410629]

>>10410604
baste

[Anonymous No.10410632]

>>10410525
So? Teasing with attractive cosplay and then not putting out is sexual harassment too. What if a hunk made you super-horny and then told you that you're dirty because you're attracted to him? That's what happens to guys all the time. Stop being a stuck up bitch and own the sexuality.

[Anonymous No.10410633]

>>10409143
I mean, space marines are hot sooooo

[Anonymous No.10410634]

>>10410632

Nayrt and not a costhot but most women wouldn't care about being "teased" because we don't usually feel entitled to men's bodies just because we're sexually attracted to them.

[Anonymous No.10410637]

>>10410634
you don't even know your own entitlement because you've legitimately never been turned down in any substantial way compared to what men encounter on a good rejection

[Anonymous No.10410641]

If I reciprocate male sexual attention then I'm shunned as a slut. I want to flirt more and do sexy things in all my cosplay but I can't risk getting a bad rely to keep my industry connections, invitations to model for live events ($$$!)

I seen girls still basically blacklisted for twerking in one video months afterwards. If I could do lewd without consequences I would.

[Anonymous No.10410645]

>>10410637

I've been rejected by guys a lot when I was younger (like school aged). I told guys I had a crush on them and was horribly rejected. Once in response to telling a guy I liked him he started a rumor that I had sex with him in a bathroom even though I was a virgin. Later in high school a guy who said he wanted to date me changed his mind and said instead he didn't want to date a gkrl of a different ethnicity and when I questioned his dishonesty he nade fun of me for being a rape victim and said I deserved it and gave my phone number tl his girlfriend so she could harass me and threaten to hurt me. It only stopped when I told my friends in the same group who made then stop and ostracized them for being huge bullies.

I have only ever had 2 boyfriends despite being in my early 20s (both during uni, the 2nd is my current boyfriend) and my current partner rejected me at first after one date, and said he just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that and then he suddenly asked me on a second date a few weeks later and we ended up together after he changed his mind.

Everyone is different and women experience horrible rejections too. So do men, sure, but romance and dating is hard for everyone. I have had guys reject me asking them out and say I was not their type and they wanted me to wingman them for my cuter friend instead. I've never even been into "Chads" so it was just average guys whose personalities I thought would have been nice being awful at times.

Don't pretend that men have everything worse. And don't be surprised when girls want more than just sex and are able to tell by your advance that that is all you actually want.

[Anonymous No.10410648]

>>10410641
I want to be a booth babe again so bad. I got my first casting call for a late July event but it's basically for an extra in a commercial but not an actual live event.

[Anonymous No.10410652]

>>10409378
Most girls who hit on me just want to fist me. How is that any different from guys who just want to fuck me?

[Anonymous No.10410657]

>>10409086
>not even knowing boner algebra
with the penis you are admired.
art=beauty.
beauty+female=boner.
thats how it works.

[Anonymous No.10410661]

hmm its almost like you're doing it for attention
shut the fuck up bitch you love the attention and you're lying if you say you dont
"waaaa im publicly posting pictures of myself in a demographic thats widely sexualized" shut the fuck up

[Anonymous No.10410665]

Lol just shut up women

[Anonymous No.10410684]

>>10410657
>>10410661
>>10410665
Real Girl Here.
Gimme!!! More!! Attention! UWU

[Anonymous No.10410688]

>>10410632
kek
I'm a dude though

[Anonymous No.10410694]

I hate men so much it's unreal

[Anonymous No.10410695]

>>10410694
Same. Thank god they don't live very long.

[Anonymous No.10410700]

>>10410695

As that one anon always says, reminder to abort your sons ladies.

[Anonymous No.10410704]

>>10409105
pornstars are more modest and true to canon these days

[Anonymous No.10410707]

>>10409137
based, holes are retarded

[Anonymous No.10410762]

>>10410704
>tits smaller than her gunt
Was that part of the Advent Children or the remake?

[Anonymous No.10410865]

>>10410694
>>10410665
Both of you are the cancer that are killing this board.

[Anonymous No.10410893]

>>10409086
>Can't someone just admire the hard work I put in?
No. Post bob.

[Anonymous No.10410895]

>>10409617
Hahahahah holy shit how fragile. That guy's pathetic but getting upset about this and pearl clutching about how it's JUST NOT OKAY TO SAY STUFF ON THE INTERNET is orders of magnitude more pathetic.

[Anonymous No.10410904]

>>10410704
Tifa is not fat

[Anonymous No.10410913]

>>10410704
>Tifat

[Anonymous No.10410943]

>>10410694
>>10410695
>>10410700
Women will be irrelevant once the sex robots become widely available

[Anonymous No.10410972]

>>10410943

Imagine being such an incel that you think all relationships between humans are only about sex.

[Anonymous No.10411013]

>>10410943
>a man implying that all men are sociopaths who only care about sex and don't have emotions
well, ok. thanks for confirming

[Anonymous No.10411029]

>>10410943
Yes, and men will become irrelavent once the artificial womb and IPS is implemented. Then, whoop de doo, we won't have to deal with each other anymore.
But both of those days are nowhere close to now, no matter how hard you want it to be.

[Anonymous No.10411045]

>>10411013
>woman proving they don't have emotions AND have no sex drive

Truly just a parasite.

[Anonymous No.10411122]

>>10410700
Or force them to be trans.

[Anonymous No.10411123]

>>10410943
Looks like you touched a nerve.

[Anonymous No.10411155]

>>10410762
>>10410904
>>10410913
>t. low test

[Anonymous No.10411158]

>>10409196
>coomer pic
>lolita cosplay
larper confirmed

[Anonymous No.10411180]

>>10409086
are there any actual women on this board

[Anonymous No.10411224]

>>10411180
No.

[Anonymous No.10411297]

>>10410972
>>10411013
>>10411029
Lose weight

[Anonymous No.10411300]

>be lesbian
>like cosplay girls
>scared to talk to them since they're probably super jaded from men being gross about cosplay 25/7

why must it be like this

[Anonymous No.10411302]

>>10410972
it's pretty much all women have to offer

[Anonymous No.10411310]

>>10411300
I can't help but I can definitely empathize. Creepy scumbags have fucked all of the decent people over and it's become so damn hard to make a genuine connection with girls in the cosplay community, and yet after years in it it's so hard to even consider dating "normies." I don't want some random person, I want somebody who understands and shares my hobbies and understands the con world I've been in for so much of my life, and we just can't have nice things because a few douches ruin it all for us.

[Anonymous No.10411314]

>>10411300
>looking a gift horse in the mouth
>not becoming a master seductress super dyke and fingerblasting all the straight girls who want to "no strings attached" experiment

[Anonymous No.10411323]

>>10411314
ew anon, why would I want those, I want a qt gf who actually likes women

>>10411310
don't give up hope anon, I'm actually talking to a TOTAL qt from bumble right now. Only a very casual cosplayer, but she's really into gaming and jfash and she's adorable. Good luck!

[Anonymous No.10411325]

>>10411323
>has the opportunity to outfuck even douchebag celebrities and rockstars
>doesnt take it
whatever pillow princess, enjoy your attempts at re-enacting romantic comedies

[Anonymous No.10411357]

>>10411325
Lol, does it upset you that I have potential access to pussy and choose not to use it because I prefer relationships? How sad. I'm so glad I don't have to date untermensch like you.

[Anonymous No.10411361]

>>10411357
>implying sex isnt a mutual sharing of energy and connection
>implying your relationship isnt anything but a exercise in conceit and self validation

[Anonymous No.10411364]

>>10411361
That's some impressive projection there anon.

[Anonymous No.10411374]

>>10411364
>posts self aggrandizing insults
>gets called on it, deflects and claims theyre projecting

[Anonymous No.10411375]

>>10411374
I wasn't that anon, I'm just saying you certainly sound like you're projecting.

[Anonymous No.10411381]

>>10411375
He's hilarious because it's not even like I said sex is bad or anything. I'm just over sleeping around. How is that so incomprehensible for scrotes?

[Anonymous No.10411382]

>>10411374
>projection via greentext

[Anonymous No.10411391]

>>10411323
Yeah, I'm still holding out a bit of hope, but no cons this year really sets it back and it's a real bummer.

>>10411357
I definitely get this feel too. I guess the push to take advantage of every opportunity you get transcends genders. I never got much out of banging chicks I didn't have much interest in myself.

[Anonymous No.10411402]

>>10411314

Wow, it's almost like...there are things worth doing in life besides sex?

[Anonymous No.10411520]

>>10411155
I can handle a slampig but their tits need to be proportionately bigger than their stomach, it's basic math

[Anonymous No.10411521]

>>10411402
Like what

[Anonymous No.10411530]

>>10411520
you are blind

[Anonymous No.10411531]

>>10411530
I may be blind but I can tell the difference between a fat broad and one in shape. Grab their wrists, you cal tell by that.

[Anonymous No.10411559]

>>10411314
lesbians aren't sociopathic predators who want to trick and use women like men do

[Anonymous No.10411561]

>>10411531
tfw i'm fat but have tiny dainty wrists and forearms
men need to stop pretending that they know anything about women's bodies

[Anonymous No.10411563]

>>10411559
>having sex makes you a predator

[Anonymous No.10411564]

>>10409137
>>10409196
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>>10409248
>>10409393
>>10409512
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>>10409950
>>10410192
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>>10411531
Here's your (you)

[Anonymous No.10411568]

>>10409196
.. .. .. lolita cosplay

[Anonymous No.10411589]

>>10411564
What is this? Misandry for ants?

[Anonymous No.10411599]

>>10411564
>women
>saving thumbnails

Pick 2

[Anonymous No.10411831]

>>10411391
no cons makes it more difficult, but dating apps are actually easier in terms of meeting a girl imo- for one, it's a context where they actually want to talk to you, and they're not busy with friends, panels, shoots etc. Secondly, there's little risk of coming across creepy as long as you have some basic social intelligence. The only difficulty is finding them I guess, but keep trying!

[Anonymous No.10411843]

>>10409086
the other day i had a guy just DM me oppai....

[Anonymous No.10411888]

>>10411831
I'm just horrible at the online thing, I'm a good conversationalist IRL but I just can't do it online for some reason, I guess some combination of having too much time to think before I type, delays between messages, and the lack of real life body language cues etc. I also just tend to find people substantially less attractive in dating site profiles than I do in real life when they're right there in front of me so it's hard to motivate myself for it.

[Anonymous No.10412153]

>>10411843
What did he say?

[Anonymous No.10412179]

>>10409086
Make cosplay work that focuses more on the cosplay and less on "How to make myself look hot?"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZh6PB243YY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0HiiZGle6c

>Inb4 "But it's not that easy to have a good looking cosplay that doesn't revolve around making me look physically attractive. Yes it fucking is, grow up.

[Anonymous No.10412184]

>>10409086
Fuck off this isn't your blog you disgusting roastbeef larping troon.
Also cosplay was coopted by jnig costhots years ago. You're clearly one of them if you're getting sexual comments instead of mostly girl followers.

[Anonymous No.10412192]

>>10409437
>Wah someone hit on me, I want to die.
Do it. Stop being such an utter pansy. You got hit on by someone who was attracted to you because you wore something that was attractive in some way.
Whoop de fuckin do.
If you aren't prepared to go outside in public and be seen and reacted to by people, then why would you post it or allow yourself to be seen in it. Don't go on a walk through the woods if you aren't prepared to get your shoes muddy.
>>10409536
Yes but she needs to have appreciable traits that aren't bodily or sexual. If she can last without drawing attention to her sex, then she can be appreciated because there's more to her then her sex.
>>10409654
>As a woman.
Fuck off. You think it's easier for men to change a person? To reach in and connect and alter a persons heart and mind, while being connected to the in turn?
It's not easy, but cmon, grow a spine and at least try yourself first.
>>10409701
True. It's only compounded by the fact that a lot of places are single sex, so relationships afterwards are even more strained because no mixed gender relationships in puberty years.
>>10409732
That's just dumb. It's not just a matter of walking up to someone and saying "Hi wanna fuck", but meeting new people at random in public is fully fine. Not everyone out there is purely interested in fucking you.
>>10409730
The issue gets complicated because a lot of women have idealized versions of male interactions and relationships as either the Lover, or the Provider, which men don't have nearly the same understanding of. So while the straightforward 'ask for permission at every stage' path is what many people, especially young men, are comfortable with, a ton of women have idealized views of men and masculinity that act differently, often contradictingly. My first ever partner had both ravishment and gender roll fetishes, and enjoyed being submissive, a concept I at the time, assumed was equivalent to actual sexism and lack of rights, a concept I loathe.

[Anonymous No.10412195]

>>10410343
>An entire thread about being upset over being hit on and untoward sexualisation of women.
>Nah men would never say no to sex.
I mean, I know you didn't outright state it, but is this seriously your view on the male side of the issue?

[Anonymous No.10412196]

>>10410972
The average woman on this board and in this thread already thinks all male-female relationships for men are for sex.

[Anonymous No.10412198]

>>10411559
Neither are men you coward.
Men form deeper, more solid, and far longer lasting relationships then women do anyway.
If anything, women tend to sociopathy and manipulation more.
Hell, the average woman on here seems to think men function entirely from aspiration to have sex with them, and they get stuff from them by hinting at it.

[Anonymous No.10412209]

Jesus christ the sheer misandry and contradiction exhibited by femposters on this threat.
You can't complain about men being objectifying or stereotyping with wild fantasies, and then do the same thing back.
You can't complain about men being sociopathic or predatory, then make sociopathic statements.
Seriously, if you want people to change, perhaps start changing yourself, and not thinking of them as 'men'. They're not part of some legion of doom, or some shadowy creep organisation. They're each an individual with a history and a logic and a perspective leading right up to that moment, and if you're not strong enough to find that logic, that history, and see things from their perspective WITHOUT scapegoating them or degrading them, giving them the benefit of the doubt as sentient creatures, then you don't deserve to go online and spout this bullshit.

>Inb4 not possible. It is, I've sorted far more complicated, interconnected, and deep seated issues, some that took two years with seven in history, between four parties, that was centered around me.
>Inb5 men don't know what it's like. I do. I've been hit on my my girlfriends best friend who was jealous and tried to literally seduce me. I've been objectified walking down the street. I've been sexually harassed in boarding school more then I can count, and I've been sexually assaulted in the middle of the night, multiple times, once by multiple people.

In all of my experience, none of the female participants were able to solve things for themselves, and required my assistance, as they were pretty broken, but with the stuff I've gone through, of which above was a mere fraction, if I can turn around, put myself through more shit, and fix far more complex issues, you can be a little bit stronger, not be self absorbed, think from other angles and mindsets, take charge, be the bigger person with a bigger spine and actually fix your problem instead of running and coming up with excuses why you can't.

[Anonymous No.10412231]

>>10412209
Misandry is based you dumb nigger

[Anonymous No.10412259]

>>10412231
No one will ever love you honestly

[Anonymous No.10412308]

>>10412196
>tfw I just want a qt bf who isn’t insane

PLS

[Anonymous No.10412314]

>>10412308
too bad all good looking men are sociopaths

[Anonymous No.10412355]

>>10412209
How can you expect them to change their mindset when men constantly act in a way that reaffirms every negative criticism they have. We can have a civil argument about the problem some women have, but the moment you criticise a man for being predatory or sociopaths or porn sick, suddenly we all go to war for hurting mens fee fees. Obviously this thread was created for the sole purpose of pissing fem posters off (because they always are) since nothing of value is going to be had from this discussion. People will believe what ever the fuck they want, talking to anybody about anything doesn't change shit.

[Anonymous No.10412549]

Lol this thread

[Anonymous No.10412661]

>>10412549
>"cosplay I worked so hard on"
>its essentially a tank top and shorts

[Anonymous No.10412741]

>>10412661
>the wrong color
>sunglasses all wrong
>random nylon straps

[Anonymous No.10412780]

>>10411888
Oh word, just TALKING online is hell, but what i did is mention in my profile that i wanted people to play animal crossing with- casual games are a nice icebreaker. End of the day dude if a fat homosexual in the smallest dating pool can manage, you can too.

[Anonymous No.10412783]

>>10412549
That looks like it hurts, there are way better angles to get the illusion of ass

[Anonymous No.10413561]

lmao, BRUH
what the fuck is going on in here

[Anonymous No.10413750]

I have never opened /cgl/ before and this is the first thread I saw and read through.
Is the board usually this shit?
It's like I stumbled into a weird mutant form of /r9k/ with more estrogen.

[Anonymous No.10413850]

>>10410343
hahaaha

[Anonymous No.10413852]

>>10410481
the sad truth

[Anonymous No.10413854]

>>10413750
yes.

[Anonymous No.10413905]

>>10413750
/cgl/ is usually not so femcel-y, it's just threads like these that let the lolcow farm users out of thier cage.

[Anonymous No.10413916]

>>10409565
I think it's part of Indian culture or something.

[Anonymous No.10414014]

>>10413750
Usually when men can't get positive attention from women, they settle on negative attention by making shit threads like this. The idiot jannies don't bother removing them and women take the bait.

[Anonymous No.10414024]

>>10414014
this, gulls love shitty bait

[Anonymous No.10414037]

>>10412192
Spoken like a true scrote that can't empathize and would rather justify creepy actions. Here's some advice; sometimes people want to look good and not seen as a sexual object and want to vent about it instead of staying quiet. I know it's a hard concept to grasp because most think attractive = potential sex partner but try your best to actually think about it and consider it. You might understand people more.

[Anonymous No.10414062]

This is an interesting read. I am new to the convention scene but I've never cosplayed before. I do love people who actually look like they put in a ton of preparation to their cosplay. Though I do gaze a bit at some places and I need to stop doing that honestly. I do give compliments, while always genuine I do it to spark conversation and practice my social skills because I go alone. I feel like I'd be more relaxed and open if I did cosplay, since I would feel more of a part of the convention.

[Anonymous No.10414233]

>>10413750
I am a dude, and I visit /cgl/ a few times a week, and there are always a few "all men want is sex" and "all men be like (somehting)" replies. Which is a bit disheartening. But I am not about to let a few of those keep me away, since there is some pretty interesting threads from time to time I like to read through. Even though I'll probably never do cross dressing or wear lolita, I still somehow find that interesting.

But do look out for cursed cosplay threads, those are pretty goddamn good!

[Anonymous No.10414467]

>>10414037
>sometimes people want to look good and not seen as a sexual object
God, who cares what you WANT? Nobody owes it to you to do what you want. What if you're ugly? Then you won't look good anyway and your wish are equally futile. You have to live in the world, you're not the boss of it. Deal.

I don't understand who's raising bitches to be this entitled, or why.

[Anonymous No.10414469]

>>10414467
lol yep, that's what men sound like alright.

[Anonymous No.10414475]

>>10414233
You can blame people like this anon here >>10414467
and the people who make really shit fap threads with low quality cosplays.

[Anonymous No.10414480]

>>10414037
it sucks when sometimes dressing like you want also makes people attracted to you.

[Anonymous No.10414522]

There's an easy fix for this OP. Make a post telling them to stop being thirsty or reply saying "Hey can we not". But you won't because you like that small social media clout to get your dopamine high. Plus you probably like/heart those comments that hit on you anyways and maybe reply with something like "Thanks!!" Or kissyface emojis.

It's ok to admit you want attention, a lot of us do. Even I like that high of mexicans weebs occasionally commenting "oler" on some of my pics.

[Anonymous No.10414525]

Why is this thread still up? The OP is a blatant troll, the replies are a blatant troll. This thread will produce nothing but more misandry and misogyny than there already was, which I guess is an accomplishment in itself but is it really something to be proud of?

[Anonymous No.10414616]

>>10414480
It's more about people not keeping that attraction to themselves. Not everyone wants to hear about how someone wants to touch and fuck them.
" You look good."
" Thanks. "
Why is that so hard? Instead you get
" God the things I would do to that body. "
" Imagine what they look like underneath all that "
Keep it to yourselves or talk about it in the appropriate channels. This kind of commenting only encourages more attention seeking thots that people like to hate and discourages others that want to show off their craft.

[Anonymous No.10414624]

>>10414480
There’s a difference between people liking what you wear, complimenting you and moving on with their lives, and shouting at you from across the street, calling you weird stuff(both catcalling and really over the top compliments are weird), sending you an awful amount of sexual comments and not leaving no matter how visibly someone is feeling is creepy. Really subtle, you see?>>10414525
Yeah, complaining about unwanted sexual attention in cosplay specifically seems like a larp. It happens in normal live, most women would know that much.

[Anonymous No.10414704]

>>10414525
our current jannies are shit. see also: the weight wank thread that's still up too

[Anonymous No.10415059]

[Anonymous No.10415217]

>>10409437
Jesus women are entitled. If you were a 29 year old scrote like me who has never been hit on youd wish you had validation and ego boosting constantly

[Anonymous No.10415219]

>>10409745
As a guy you literally can't get a girl unless you approach them since women are too scared to. Do you just want all men to be alone?

[Anonymous No.10415221]

>>10413750
This is easily the worst board on the site there's a reason it's weird and mostly women. It's almost entirely the bottom 5 percent of women who post here. I'm a guy that's met a ton of girls at cons and none of them are awful like here

[Anonymous No.10415237]

>>10415217
you want 40 yr old men telling you they wanna rape you? or spamming your DMs with pictures of their dicks?
Even if I was some 29 year old forever alone loser i don't think i'd want that lmao

[Anonymous No.10415275]

>tfw old gay dudes add me on facebook

[Anonymous No.10415279]

>>10412661
>>10412741
This is what 99% of thots are like. They call putting on a wig and some makeup "hard work" and whine about how people only sexualize them instead of admiring their "work" when they're the ones posing with their tits out and doing the ahegao face.

[Anonymous No.10415648]

>>10415219
ugly boy cope lmao. attractive men get approached by women all the time. i'm one of the ones who approaches them

[Anonymous No.10415649]

>>10415217
go to a gay bar. you will get hit on tons. men are just creeps regardless of orientation whereas women are not

[Anonymous No.10415675]

>>10415219
I think you're confused. People in this thread are complaining about men coming up to them and being vulgar and obvious about their intentions.
>>10415648
Also this. I'll go up to a guy and just strike up a conversation and pick up signals if he's worth my time or not.

[Anonymous No.10415686]

>>10415649
>whereas women are not

You haven't been on this board for very long have you?

>>10415648
Not him but I'm sure you do.

[Anonymous No.10415687]

>>10415648
>>10415675
>tfw this happens to me regularly but I'm too much of an anxiety-riddled sperg to go anywhere with it

[Anonymous No.10415706]

>>10415648
>attractive men get approached by women all the time.

Lmao no they don't. I personally rub shoulders with a lot of bodybuilders (not your avergae dudebro bodybuilder, think Arnold Classic comps; guys who use inject more testosterone than a bull) and lookism nerds and the general consensus is "Women are fucking pussies."

They will approach a man only if they know no one else will find out about it because they fear the social repurcussions and if they are certain they are more attractive than him because they can't handle the ego blow if a person who is just as or more attractive than them rejects them.

Most of the guys I talk to say the only times they get approached is on tinder because a girl can hide behind their phone.

[Anonymous No.10415718]

>>10415686
How is talking about your bodies with each other the same as creeping on people? Get better material that makes sense.
>>10415706
Who wants to approach a bodybuilder that can snap your neck when you can walk up to a normal guy? You're comparison is also lacking.

[Anonymous No.10415731]

>>10415686
how is any of that the same as being a sexual predator?

[Anonymous No.10415735]

>>10415706
spoilers: your friends are actually ugly. look at all the good looking dudes out there who post proof of how many tinder matches and first messages they get. they get absolutely flooded with attention lol

[Anonymous No.10415740]

>>10415706
>approaching first on dating apps doesn't count!!!
LOL cope harder. women don't approach first in person because we actually have respect for other people and don't want to bother randoms, unlike men who feel entitled to the attention of any and all women. women approaching first on dating apps is extremely common for good looking dudes, and yes it counts

[Anonymous No.10415746]

>>10415718
>>10415731
>Women aren't creepy
>They're not X type of creepy

Women are fucking creeps too, your sex isn't perfect.

[Anonymous No.10415754]

>>10415718
>Who wants to approach a bodybuilder that can snap your neck

Body builders are weak as fuck and couldn't snap fuck all. Also the comment was against the "attractive men". Normal men by definition are not attractive, they're average. Bodybuilders by classical definitions and most modern definitions are physical attractive.

>>10415740
> we actually have respect for other people and don't want to bother randoms

I can't tell if your the anon who I replied to. If you are, you just suicided your own point of approaching men, if you aren't, read the fucking post I replied to because your comment is moot.

>yes it counts
It doesn't count for shit because 'approaching' on dating apps doesn't risk anything. It's a cope for lack of confidence and saving your own massive fucking ego. It's the keyboard warrior of dating.

[Anonymous No.10415764]

>>10415754
>doesn't risk anything
it risks being ignored and rejected just like irl, and constant rejection/ghosting does in fact fuck up women's confidence too, stop coping so hard bruh

[Anonymous No.10415765]

>>10415754
>Bodybuilders by classical definitions and most modern definitions are physical attractive.
According to other men. There's a reason why popular actors and boybands are ottermode pretty boys and average looking guys and not roided out-looking waxed up walking sculptures.

[Anonymous No.10415768]

Body builders a fucking ugly.

[Anonymous No.10415769]

>>10415754
do you know what board you're on? we like twink pretty boys here, or at the very most lightly muscled

[Anonymous No.10415770]

Body builders are fucking ugly. The level of male cope going here is juicy and hilarious, keep it up.

[Anonymous No.10415775]

>>10415764
>oh no I got ignored by someone who I haven't met, been near or has any social connections to people I know, heavens whatever shall I do...My huge ego can't take this...

Get over yourself. Getting rejected on dating apps is the most mundane experience ever. Nobody knows you were rejected except you and the other person. If you think that is a bad experience, you need to try a little harder.

>constant rejection/ghosting does in fact fuck up women's confidence too,
I didn't say it wouldn't, but being rejected on a dating app is nowhere near close to being rejected face to face. You have to put yourself in a very vulnerable and weak position, both physically and mentally when you approach someone because they have to make a very split second decision based immediately on your appearance and how you presented yourself in those 5 seconds.

Whereas on a dating app, you message 'Hey', they don't reply. You move on down the list like nothing happened. You are much more invested in the apporach of a real life person than the interactions through an online platform.

>>10415765
Popular actors like
>Chris Hemsworth
>Dwayne Johnson
>Arnold Schwarznegger
>Brad Pitt
>Christian Bale

I can cherry pick all day, just like you can. I never said ottermode wasn't attractive, it definitely is and I know guys who aim for that aesthetic specifically. There is the idea that steroids=MSUCLEMOSNTER when most of the guys on steroids are ottermode or athletemode. Their experience is very much the same other than a few exceptions.

And I agree there is an appeal for your pretty boys too but in the bodybuilding community there is a very real idea given people's experiences that girls like to cheat on their mediocre looking boyfriends because inside they want that muscle-man archetype. However, they don't want to sacrafice the stability and ease which they control their mediocre partner versus competiting in attraction with their own mudcle bound partner.

[Anonymous No.10415780]

>>10415769
Of course, I understand different strokes for different folks and /cgl/ is definitely different but isn't it safe to say that /cgl/ doesn't represent the popular opinion?

It all has little to do with the core point.

[Anonymous No.10415789]

>>10415780
The core point is that women here get annoyed with men talking to them and commenting to them in sexual ways that is not wanted, and that some of us are perfectly fine with approaching men. You got offended by such a thing happening and trying to defend yourself to the point the topic gets changed.
>>10415775
Like this whole post. You are speaking from personal experience not even as the man dealing with women but as a second hand accoint whereas we are speaking from our own direct experiences. All you have is the voice of other men and what you've learned from the internet instead of listening to the women here. How about you talk to the women that are attracted to these bodybuilders that you keep speaking for and hear both sides?

[Anonymous No.10415790]

>>10415789
My core point was, attractive men don't get approached because women are too scared to have their ego get crushed.

[Anonymous No.10415791]

>>10415790
Yet we have stated we have approached attractive men.

[Anonymous No.10415792]

>>10415789
My core point was, attractive men don't get approached because women are too scared to have their ego get crushed.

As for the idea about women wanting or not wanting to be approached, I don't have a stake because I'm not a woman.

>>10415791
And I call bullshit simnply because my sample size of attractive men that I have a personal relationship with is much larger than your sample, if we are speaking in general terms. Yes of course there are going to be statistical outliers.

[Anonymous No.10415795]

>>10415792
And your sample size are bodybuilders which are generally not attractive to the average woman. Anon, if you want to stay in your closet world of greasy men and the bimbos *they* talk about, go right ahead but if you want to understand people more, I'd say expand your horizons. Grow some ovaries and go talk to some girls without mentioning anything sexual and you might learn something.

[Anonymous No.10415804]

>>10415795
My sample size is not only bodybuilders, I also said lookism nerds. Beyond that I have friends who are also elite athletes including swimmers, rock climbers, power lifters, gymnasts etc. I also have mates who are jolly fat pieces of shit and they know it. My sample covers a wide base of body types. Sure the personalities which determined athletes and bodybuilders have will attract certain types of girls but the physical spectrum is wide and attractive to a wide range of differing female tastes.

> generally not attractive to the average woman
The very fucking vast majority of women when asked what body type they like will say "A little bit of muscle but not too much." Whatever that means. But when given pictures and told to place them in order of attractiveness, yes obviously HGH freaks rank lowly because yeah, they're not attractive. But most girls will go for a guy who has a BMI in the high 20's with a low bf%, which is the aesthetic of most amatuer bodybuilders.

Also in general girls rate the facial attractiveness of a man much higher for overall physical attractiveness than men do for women. So girls generally will match a face to a body type and pick that bodytype even if it isn't their abolsutely preffered body type.

>the bimbos
wew, leaning into the female stereotypes a little far. As if only bimbos can be attracted to muscly men. If that is how you think, that demonstrates a large insecurity and inferiority you experience against other girls.

>Grow some ovaries and go talk to some girls without mentioning anything sexual and you might learn something.
I work in a female dominated workplace, majority of my coworkers are female, my boss is female, my boss' boss is female, the CEO is a female.

Stop acting like because someone has an opinion that differs from yours it comes from a place of ignorance.

[Anonymous No.10415815]

>>10415804
All I'm seeing here is you proving my point as you continue to widen your range from what was stated and then backpedal from your original generalization. If you work in a place dominated by women, have they told you themselves how they're too afraid to approach men? I work with avid sports fans yet I don't know dick about football nor claim that I do just because we work together. Yet you claim that you've talked with all these attractive men and make assumptions about the women that *don't* approach them and know why...based on what the men have told you. Are you going to change your story and now claim that you're good friends with all your female co-workers and bosses and they've talked to you about it?

[Anonymous No.10415818]

Imagine trying to change the mind of someone who already thinks you are evil and hates you despite not knowing you. I wish I was as oppressed as male anon.

[Anonymous No.10415829]

>>10415815
>they're too afraid to approach men?
Yep. I've been asked for advice on how to get specific guys to approach them, rather than advice on how to approach a man successfully. They ask what type of girls that x type of guys like in efforts to appeal to x type of guys to get them to approach them.

>based on what the men have told you
This is just based on the views we have of society mixed with our own anecdotal experience. Society in general places an extremely heavy weight on female physical attractiveness so any real life failure of a female's attractiveness is very detrimental to her mental health (ie. ego) and her social standing with other females since women are by far more socially adept and intuitive than men. Women are also vastly more aware of their own attractiveness against other women. So the obvious strategy would be to never put yourself at risk.

I don't think that it's neccesarily the wrong thing to do but it supports my point that women will not approach attractive men.

[Anonymous No.10415859]

>>10415804
>>10415829
When will gulls ever learn

[Anonymous No.10416202]

I never have men harass me or make comments about me. I must be super ugly :(

[Anonymous No.10416294]

>>10415859
what's a gull?
is it a seagull?

[Anonymous No.10416307]

>>10416294
obviously not you.

[Anonymous No.10416317]

>>10416202
Post in Indian or Chinese communities.
If you don't get one minimum you are in fact ugly as sin.

[Anonymous No.10416319]

>>10409143
Dude, that's hot as shit. Praise the fucking Emperor.

[Anonymous No.10416323]

>>10416307
is that a good thing?

[Anonymous No.10416360]

>>10415829
Women approach me relatively often and I'm not great to look at, though I'm not bad either. That's particularly the case in situations that are already social, parties and so on. I can just never really tell if they're just being friendly or if they've got intentions beyond that and I'm too afraid of making things weird and awkward so I never really have the confidence to try and turn it into something more than a conversation.

[Anonymous No.10416383]

>>10416202
You can't be any worse than half the misandrists in this thread playing pretend.

[Anonymous No.10416386]

>>10416319
I'm a World Eater, but I agree 100%.

[Anonymous No.10416395]

>>10416202
sign up for tinder. swipe on every guy. you will get plenty of your craved sexual harassment

[Anonymous No.10416440]

I feel like I'm objectively decent looking, and I get a moderate amount of attention online for someone who's not e-famous, but no guy ever approaches me irl. Not that I want to change this, but Im kinda curious why that is.

[Anonymous No.10416441]

>>10416440
Couple of things

1. Men don't want to get charged with sexual harassment if a girl turns out to be fucking nuts. Regardless of their innocence, they will be witch hunted to the end of time with their reputation, career prospects and possible their family/friend relationships destroyed.

2. They don't know how to approach girls in real life without being creepy.

3. It's way easier and less risky to just DM a girl. It doesn't put her in an awkward position where she has to immediately evaluate this person and usually given the stress people will just say no. It also allows the guy to save face, it's humiliating getting rejected. It's very easy to just send a message versus muster up the charisma to talk to a girl face-to-face, it allows more time to think of responses rather than getting forced to on the spot.

4. The sheer quantitity of girls you can message over IG or whatever is way bigger than the quantity you can don in person.

5. You probably look better in the pictures you post. Not calling you out but of course everyone only posts photos of themselves from the best angles, with the best lighting etc. So probably IRL you are attractive but not attractive to have a guy overcome his nerves of approaching a woman in person.

[Anonymous No.10416444]

>every other post gets a rando commenting some foot fetish type crap
These are my least favorite

[Anonymous No.10416448]

>>10416441
>They don't know how to approach girls in real life without being creepy.
This is a big problem for me. Everybody tells me I'm not creepy but I'm always terrified of being creepy and it holds me back a lot.

I never DM girls though, if I talk to a girl it's in person, just in some kind of situation where it's not weird to do so, like a room party at a con or she's in a group with people I know or whatever. Never really got how guys can just fire off endless messages to random girls, first of all it's just awkward in general (I find in-person charisma comes much more naturally than trying to seem interesting or attractive in a first written message) and secondly it's probably an account that's traceable back to you and if you say something creepy or stupid there's a permanent record that can be shared.

[Anonymous No.10416453]

>>10416448
I personally feel you.

I wouldn't call myself unnatractive but when I used to try to approach girls in real life, I would just say "Hey, I think you're cute. Would you like to hang out some time?" or some other variation depending on the circumstances, nothing that I believe would be considered creepy. Most of the time I would get a silent sort of shocked reaction and then a restrained "mmm...no sorry."

So I just stopped ever approaching girls, since I had more success with girls who I already knew through work or university and for most of them I didn't really have to do anything.

[Anonymous No.10416458]

>>10416453
I never approach girls like that, if I start up a conversation it's just a friendly one about something relevant to the situation. I'm not gonna lie, if I start talking to a girl it's often because I find her attractive, but I NEVER try to make any kind of overtures toward her unless we've been talking for a while and I feel like she's interested. It doesn't lead to me getting laid much but neither would shooting my shot up front and getting rejected endlessly and at least this way I don't make things awkward or uncomfortable for either of us.

[Anonymous No.10416484]

>>10416448
>>10416458
You see the reason that all feels so stilted and unnatural is because it is. Any social interaction without context is awkward - it’s an emotional intrusion. All the /r9k/ pick up artist autists and Indians in every girl’s DMs are guilty of this which is why they’re so creepy. Flirting isn’t a videogame. If what you’re saying feels unnatural it means there’s traumatic cringe just around the corner

>>10416453
>Hello there Random Person, you seem friendly. I would like to be your friend. Shall we hang out?
This is what you’re doing

[Anonymous No.10416495]

>>10416484
>This is what you’re doing

IMO it doesn't seem like that. To me it's

>Hey, I find you physically attractive and I would like to get to know if your personality is attractive. Do you find me physically attractive enough to want to learn more about my personality?

[Anonymous No.10416499]

>>10416495
Hmm ok you completely missed the point. I know what you literally mean. It was an example with a similar vibe

[Anonymous No.10416501]

I wish there was a way to block all straight men from viewing my egl instagram.

[Anonymous No.10416514]

>>10416499
I know what you mean and it can certainly give off that vibe in certain circumstances where it's just fucking weird and uncomfortable like on public transport or eating at a restaraunt.

Most of my interactions have just been in the inner city, I spot a girl who I think is cute and I know I won't ever see her again so I walk over to them and just ask. Most are polite in the rejection despite their shock and I walk off to wherever I was supposed to be going. So I intended to always keep the awkwardness to a minimum.

But like I said, this strategy is fucking garbage because I think it places way too much pressure on the person in the moment and even if they wanted to they wouldn't say yes. So I mainly just go through mutual acquantainces at work or university which is much easier since I'm usually being introduced/recommended by someone else.

>>10416501
Just put in your bio
>Butch

[Anonymous No.10416518]

>>10416501
I'll wait for you to post it here then personally spam it on /pol/ so you get nothing but the absolute worst incels all over your shit.

[Anonymous No.10416523]

>>10416441
Lol thanks for the analysis, you hit some good points. I thought about it for 5 seconds and realized it's because I
1. Look underage in casual clothes
2. Am always with a group of friends or family when I'm out
3. Have RBF
4. Just...not that good looking in person

[Anonymous No.10416921]

>>10415648
This happens to .03% of dudes lol. Even slightly above average to good looking guys don't get approached and I wouldn't consider average ugly.

Do you consider the average 5/10 man ugly? Because that just means you have ridiculous standards like a lot of the entitled young women on here in their prime.

In reality you're just an incel trying to bait the retarded gulls and other incels here.

[Anonymous No.10416925]

>>10415804
Don't even reply to these dumb gulls, they're LARPing r9k incels trying to get people mad at dumb women. Or they're just dumb women.

>>10416360
I've been told I'm a solid 6 and I've NEVER been approached in my life, are you sure you aren't good looking? I've also been told I'm intimidating looking. I've also never had a girl tell me I look cute or attractive which sucks.

>>10416501
You like the attention. Women make IG accounts literally for it and to be validated because you can be really below average looking but still get a bunch of autistic Pajeets commenting how sexy you are and how great you look.

[Anonymous No.10416931]

>>10416925
Are you sure you're not the incel? What the fuck are you doing on this board. Duh, of course you have an Instagram account for attention but a fashion account is for attention to our outfits not to how attractive we are to men.

[Anonymous No.10416970]

>>10416925
>I've been told I'm a solid 6 and I've NEVER been approached in my life, are you sure you aren't good looking? I've also been told I'm intimidating looking. I've also never had a girl tell me I look cute or attractive which sucks.
Maybe slightly above average at best. I look a LOT like Seth Rogen, only without the curly hair. I think it's more about how you present and carry yourself and the situations you put yourself in, if you don't seem approachable people obviously won't approach you.

[Anonymous No.10417013]

>>10416925
a 6 will not get approached. that's barely above average. 8+ will get approached often

[Anonymous No.10417018]

>>10416925
well I'm a female who's at least a 7 and possibly 8+ with makeup/cute outfit and I've pretty much never been approached either. Probably depends more on the environment and what kind of vibes you give off.

[Anonymous No.10417025]

>>10413750
Same here anon, and I had the same impression.

[Anonymous No.10417026]

>>10417013
My personal experience says otherwise, and I'm sure as hell not an 8+. Girls don't run up and jump on my dick or anything but they certainly initiate conversations with me on occasion and sometimes they show clear signs of interest when they do.

[Anonymous No.10417038]

>>10417026
Where the fuck do you people live?

I live in the third biggest city in my country (2+ million people) and I am regularly inside the inner city for university. I have never been approached or had a girl initiate conversation. Maybe because I always go to the silent areas to study and I don't sit around like a coffee drinking muppet but fuck I might start.

[Anonymous No.10417043]

>>10417038
LA. I'm not talking about random women coming up to me on the street though, that shit doesn't happen, I'm talking about social events like cons, parties, music festivals, occasionally at school or work, etc.

I actually had a weird one on campus last fall that stuck with me because it was so out of the ordinary and I still don't quite get what happened. I was waiting outside my professor's office to talk to him about something and this pretty cute girl from my department but not my class struck up a conversation with me out of nowhere and for some reason seemed SUPER into me, like she'd just run into her favorite actor and couldn't believe she was talking to him or something. It was really strange, like I say I'm decent looking but not great and women talk to me here and there but never with that kind of enthusiasm. I'm still wondering what the deal was and kicking myself for not getting her number or something.

[Anonymous No.10417045]

>>10416317
What Indian comms? And yeah I've never had Indian guys DM me on facebook before lmao.

>>10416395
I get plenty of matches (because I'm female) but I feel like i get a below-average amount of dms from my matches. Also guys on tinder almost send me weird or sexual messages either. I've never gotten a dick pic on tinder lol

[Anonymous No.10417164]

>>10417045

Larper. How would you get a dick pic on tinder when it’s literally impossible to send pictures on the app?

[Anonymous No.10417231]

>>10417164

Nayrt, it used to be possible to share photos

[Anonymous No.10417257]

>>10409086

Could be worse. Imagine if you were a guy. You'd get 4-5 comments at best, none of which would be sexual.

[Anonymous No.10417270]

>>10417231
>>10417164
Yeah I think I'm getting it confused with the times you could send photos on tinder. I've used it sporadically since 2016, so it looks like you're the larper.

For example, here's a link where it says the option to share photos was removed

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/9z94ug/cant_send_pics/

Anyways I very rarely get sexual messages. I have no idea what kind of harassment women are supposed to receive there because I get none of it. I've matched with hundreds of guys and none of them have even flat out asked to hook up in their opening line.

[Anonymous No.10417390]

>>10413916
what to be fucking creepy

[Anonymous No.10417391]

>>10410603
this. costhots fucking ruined the perception of cosplay for everyone>>10410604

[Anonymous No.10417392]

>>10409105
>pornhub now has prominent cosplay tag
>it's just random sluts in colored wigs and basic bitch makeup

[Anonymous No.10417415]

>>10409105
>>10417392
>tfw still no good Asuka vid after all those years

[Anonymous No.10417418]

>>10417390
>>10413916
idk how true it is because I've never been there but I've heard from Indian people that a lot of sheltered middle-class Indian guys have been told that western girls are easy, so they think that means that they can get tit pics if they just simp or beg hard enough

[Anonymous No.10417943]

>>10417418
>western girls are easy
All of Asia believes this, not just India. And compared to Asian girls, pretty true honestly

[Anonymous No.10418352]

>>10417418
>>10417943
Omg Indian guys are the most fucking thirsty guys ever, I'm a guy but the way they stare at girls creeps me the fuck out, freaking rape eyes

[Anonymous No.10418371]

>>10418352
Most indian men are rapists, their culture is misogynistic as fuck and women and girls are treated worse than animals over there

[Anonymous No.10418468]

>>10417415
This looks like some annoying little boy.

[Anonymous No.10419411]

bumperino

[Anonymous No.10419525]

>>10418371
>>10418352
never trust poo in poos

[Anonymous No.10419672]

>>10417943
doubt

I can pay like $5 to facefuck a Phillipino/Thai/Viet girl til she pukes.

Japanese and Korean girls are prolific cheaters.

Chinese girls in my experience only care about status and money.

[Anonymous No.10419687]

I guarantee if you suddenly stopped getting any attention you would kill yourself in record time.

[Anonymous No.10419774]

>>10419687
women who are ugly, fat, or old don't get attention and still don't kill themselves. they're not entitled like men are

[Anonymous No.10419823]

>>10419774
>women who are ugly, fat, or old don't get attention
Lol.

[Anonymous No.10419842]

>>10419525
*Pajeet eye rapes you*
Pajeet: you dont smell of the poo poo and pee pee of old country want to get into my 1987 sedan.
*EyE RaPe InTeSfIeS*
Normal Becky: no, thank you.
Pajeet: WHORE I SHALL THROW MY SCENT ON YOU FOR SPEAKING.
*Throws poop on becky*

[Anonymous No.10419849]

>>10409089
Guy here, can comfirm. Send feet pics you disgusting whale.

[Anonymous No.10419939]

>>10419774
>women who are ugly, fat, or old don't get attention

[Anonymous No.10419944]

>>10419687
Nah, I’m plain looking, don’t get attention and don’t want to kill myself over it lmao. Men are such whiny pissbabies about it.

[Anonymous No.10419951]

>>10419823
>>10419939
The point anon is making is that they don't kill themselves over it and deal with being ugly and don't go around with testosterone fuelled rage over chad not wanting to fuck them.

[Anonymous No.10420135]

Lol I'm decent looking and maybe above average and I never get hit on by men. Not gonna get sad over that, it is what it is.

[Anonymous No.10420138]

>>10419823
>>10419939
incels: *constantly talk about women hitting the wall and losing all the attention*
also incels: nvm the wall doesn't exist, ugly old women are still roasties somehow!!!!

[Anonymous No.10420142]

>>10419687
You realize how stupid this sounds? /cgl/ isn't full of hot girls who have men at their every beck and call since birth and would die if they suddenly lost it. This place consists of women who either never got much attention to begin with and don't care or actively work to make themselves better and it's usually to looks good for other girls. Lolitas and jfashion girls here step up for each other's attention. Getting male attention is stupid easy because they'll stick their dick in even the fattest slob around. Show tits and that's it. Litterally no challenge.

[Anonymous No.10420155]

>>10420138
>Completely misunderstanding the point just to get a jab with a buzzword

"The Wall" is nothing more than continual decreased percentages at finding someone to start a family with. Most people are either married or with someone they plan on marrying by the time they're 35. If you're at the age and still don't have someone to settle down with, you still CAN find someone but your chances get lower and lower; and that's not just women, it's men too. All those stories of rich old fucks in their 80s getting married to some hot 25yo bimbo mean jack shit when she's just gonna divorce him and take half his money. Why? Because it shows there might be an underlying problem with you that prevents you being able to form a long lasting emotional relationship with another individual.

This doesn't decrease chances at having sex, just getting married and starting a family. We all know the Tinder game, and to say it hasn't had a negative effect on people forming relationships with each other in general is just straight up bullshit, but it'd also be dishonest to say it doesn't punish men more than women. However, this is all a fruitless point, this thread is still an obvious troll post and it's pathetic that its managed to stay up this long, the faster it hits the bump limit and dies the better.

[Anonymous No.10420212]

>>10409089
>men have no self control or dignity.
>I'm a fat..

Why is this so hard to understand?
You won't come up to us, even when you are craving cock.
We just always have to ask or the answer will always be no.

[Anonymous No.10420213]

>>10420212
if we just want cock, we can go on tinder for 10mins and score an absolute chad for the night with no effort. it's getting a real relationship that is nearly impossible for us.

[Anonymous No.10420217]

>>10420213
And you think you are going to find a real relationship online in the facebook comment section?

Pfffffffff.

[Anonymous No.10420222]

>>10420217
No but apparently men think so with the comments they make on posts.

[Anonymous No.10420229]

>>10420222
See pic related?
Obsessed with E-girls.
Spent his family's life savings on cam girls then murdered them after they kicked him out of the house.
This is the kinda guy creeping facebook posts online.
What are you looking for? Some successful doctor who's just as crazy about sewing as you are?
Idk why you expect to meet these people online under your comment section.

Fish in the ocean catch salt fish, fish in the river catch freshwater fish.

[Anonymous No.10420239]

>>10420229
...what? I don't follow this thought process
>I hate when men try to hit on me online when I want my work to be recongnized
>That's because men that do that can't help themselves. They have no dignity or self control
>Well how else are you going to date someone? Women don't come up to us
>But I don't want to fuck I want a relationship. Comment section is not the way to go
>Look at this serial murderer that proves the original point of this thread

Don't know if you misunderstood the conversation flow or what.

[Anonymous No.10420243]

>>10420239
>If I wanted to just have a guy fuck me I'd go on tinder, I want a real relationship.
>Stay the fuck off FB comments!

I'm not defending creep's behavior on someone's FB feed, but no one should be looking there either.

[Anonymous No.10420249]

>>10420239
Yea we are misunderstanding each other.
The point I'm trying to make is you catch the kind of fish you go fishing for.
Creepers lurk on facebook and other easily accessible places looking for fap material, so posting there is going to attract them. That's just given.

If you want to meet men that are not like that, go where men are not like that.

[Anonymous No.10420272]

>>10420249
I guess that's where I am lost because I thought this whole conversation and thread was about avoiding men and not dating at all.

[Anonymous No.10421568]

>>10412314
You find them attractive because they are sociopaths, now go and kill yourself

[Anonymous No.10421600]

>>10421568
if incel culture is any indication, ugly men are also sociopaths. so nah

[Xer0 No.10421703]

>>10409086
Very insightful information femanon, now I know what to say when I want to hit on a cosplay girl and look better than all the other retards in the comments ; )

Nice hard work by the way

>>10409105
I feel that though, it's dumb that what should be considered a work of art is put in a catagory that would take it for granted, jokes aside, I like cosplay girls because to me it translates that they actually have a personality, and set of interests besides just TV and magazines.

I'd expect the same repulsion from high value women towards guys who's only two interests are sex and watching football on tv.

[Anonymous No.10421972]

>>10418468
You say that like it's a bad thing.

[Anonymous No.10422043]

bump

[Anonymous No.10424986]

We coomers are a proud race, we need to rise up

[Anonymous No.10424990]

>>10424986
Coomers are not capable of achieving anything in life.

[Anonymous No.10424998]

>>10424990
One time I attempted nofap and lasted 6 whole days, the effort required was herculean and quite the achievment

[Anonymous No.10425076]

>>10424986
Thanks for bumping this garbage thread that should've died over a week ago.

[Soup No.10425223]

When I was 7 my sister caught me kissing some milf on the lips through the tv. She threatened me with it for the longest time but now i realized it’s not that embarrassing

[Anonymous No.10425236]

[Anonymous No.10425238]

t. OP

[Anonymous No.10425241]

[Anonymous No.10425243]

[Anonymous No.10425244]

[Soup No.10425246]

Stop spamming pics I’m still waiting for my (you)

[Anonymous No.10425249]

>>10425246

Happy now? Everyone wins; you get your precious (You) and this cancerous off-topic thread will finally die.

[Soup No.10425271]

>>10425249
is it really off-topic though. Have you never seen a comment on one of your pics and wonder what's going on in that person's mind.

[Anonymous No.10425294]

>>10425271
Not that anon but the OP is on topic but thread was ruined by scrotes.

[Anonymous No.10431398]

>>10409086
Chicks use 4chan? Talk about a rare breed.

[Anonymous No.10431417]

>>10409086
Cosplay isn't hard work you dumb bitch.

[Anonymous No.10434345]

>>10420272
Well then where are hidden those men ?