Feels thread

[Anonymous No.10388511]

[Anonymous No.10388602]

Why the fuck have the feels threads been getting deleted left and right lately?

[Anonymous No.10388603]

>inb4 deleted

[Anonymous No.10388604]

>>10388511
Because corona summer means people reply to trolls more often. The last feels thread was a shitshow

[Anonymous No.10388605]

>lost job bc of the rona
>college student living at home, parents claim me as dependent so I didn't qualify for stimulus
>boyfriend lives an hour away, haven't seen him in a while now
>pretty sure i either have the damn virus, had it, or now I have bronchitis because I've been feeling sick for about a month and a half, my mom thought she had pneumonia in late February and gave whatever it was to me
>too tired most days to dress up and feel good
i feel dead inside gulls, i've been sleeping upward of 13-14 hours each day, if whatever i'm dealing with doesn't kill me this feeling of hopeless will finish the job

[Anonymous No.10388607]

>>10388605
you could have changed your info so you qualified for the stimulus idk if it’s too late now though

[Anonymous No.10388609]

>>10388605
Do you qualify for unemployment? It doesn’t urge to try (although some states are being absolute ass about it so maybe check the news first)

[Anonymous No.10388612]

>>10388604
Care to drop some hints what was that about? The latest I saw was people complaining about SJWs in comm.

[Anonymous No.10388620]

It's about to be my birthday. I wanted to buy some things from my favorite lolita brands but what's the point if japan post isn't working and I'm going to get them fucking never.
It also feels irresponsible to splurge money on shallow stuff when corona is probably going to fuck up my economy in the future. I still got a job and my income hasn't changed, but who knows what's going to happen. I have a good amount of savings but still. I know it's first world problems but I feel so depressed.

[Anonymous No.10388623]

>may not graduate because of mental illness and not doing things
>had massive fight with boyfriend might not be in a relationship or have a home
>losing weight from lack of eating and stress

i am so tired. i want to die.

[Anonymous No.10388686]

>>10388605
I'm in the same boat as you, anon. Try to apply for unemployment as soon as you can and hope the next stimulus check includes dependents.

[Anonymous No.10388690]

>>10388612
Don’t wanna get them started but it was one of 3 things that melts down a thread and it wasn’t fattiechans or racism

[Anonymous No.10388691]

>>10388623
Do you have a friend you can crash with? Find food and a home first, then a shower and a good book or the like to distract you for a day while your emotions settle. You don’t need a degree or a boyfriend to have a good life. It will be okay.

[Anonymous No.10388704]

>>10388690
I'm not that frequent in Feels thread. Were that fags?

[Anonymous No.10388705]

Done being upsetti about not having any cons this season. Honestly I can’t even get excited about new ones.
I feel like virtual cons are just dumb

[Anonymous No.10388752]

>>10388705
>I feel like virtual cons are just dumb

I feel the same way. I miss cons so much especially since my favorite con would’ve been next week, but virtual cons just sound like they’d be depressing and make me miss the real thing even more

[Anonymous No.10388763]

>>10388620
Same feel. Happy early birthday anon. Maybe you can splurge on a little something from LM as a treat?

[Anonymous No.10388925]

>>10388511
I want to hug Mana from the behind and see him smile.

[Anonymous No.10388927]

I can't fucking catch a break health-wise, I've had everything except corona it feels like. Latest incident I managed to have bacon I was cooking spit oil in my eye under my glasses somehow, I hate this.

[Anonymous No.10388934]

Man, I'm lonely enough to miss the days of my teenage years where creepy men started claiming that they loved me in their see-through attempts at grooming.

[Anonymous No.10388952]

>>10388934
I glowed up enough to do better than my old "groomer".
They're now trans female, which explains a lot of their little "quirks",
and looking at their old profile makes me feel sooo much better at a time like this because
at least I didn't end up staying attached to them.

[Anonymous No.10388982]

I just want my overpriced lace apron. I'm inpatient.

[Anonymous No.10388983]

I just want my overpriced lace apron. I am impatient.

[Anonymous No.10388985]

Im usually good at getting rid of dresses I dont wear, I usually dont feel regret or agonize about letting things go. But recently Ive become more clingy, come up with ridiculous excuses (“what if I happen to have a daughter, what if she happens to like
lolita, what if she wants this dress”) like I know theyre batshit hoarder thoughts and I just need to sell these 2-3 jsks I don’t wear but I keep putting it off

[Anonymous No.10388989]

>>10388925
I just want to know what makes him smile is all ;-;

[Anonymous No.10388990]

>>10388704
Just check the archive

[Anonymous No.10389026]

I finally filled out my tax return after my first lucrative year working freelance and expected to have to pay thousands of dollars, but because I was diligent with recording deductibles and was also a student and working a W2 job with withheld taxes I ended up only having to pay a couple hundred. So some of that stimulus check is going right back into the treasury, but still plenty left for burando!

[Anonymous No.10389027]

>>10388752
Same, virtual cons are stupid for me. I’d rather watch a professional youtuber with actual good lighting explain the same “basics of lolita” shit or “history of ‘x’ theme in anime” than a depressing, shaky ass zoom presentation
And what makes virtual artist alleys any different than just.... buying merch from artists you like? 90% of the fun for me is getting to see the wares up close and in person. Photos just aren’t the same
Sorry. I don’t mean to shit on people who like virtual cons

[Anonymous No.10389029]

>>10388989
Sea monkeys

[Anonymous No.10389035]

During the first stages of the lockdown, I lost a lot of weight and cleaned my house. It felt good so I started dressing up more and FaceTime with friends. Things were going great until my government issued a prolonged shut down. This is fine, I’m not financially stressed. Days bleed into one another and I have no sense of date or time. I’ve become obsessed with dressing up. I refuse to do anything productive until I’m in a petti. Then the manic wore off....my dresses are on random racks and doorknobs throughout my house. There’s a little pile of accessories that need to be put away but all I can do is shove them in a box and throw it in the closet. I started biting my nails again which I haven’t done in over a year. Picking at my skin is one of my favorite ways to pass the time now. I’m ignoring all my friends, it helps that I was able to return to work despite the continued lockdown so I have an excuse to ghost them.

I hate this.
Why does this always happen? Why must my manic ruin lolita all the time?

[Anonymous No.10389040]

>>10388985
>>10389035
I don't remember posting these. Feels bad man. I am going through LM looking for something to buy because it's the only joy I have left as I work in my semi voluntary isolation

[Anonymous No.10389041]

Man, I'm just sick of being bored and broke

[Anonymous No.10389050]

>>10389040
Same. I’d even justify buying something overpriced at this point. Anything just to feel...something. Wish I could SH but that’s no longer an easy thing to hide.

[Anonymous No.10389062]

>>10389050
you need therapy

[Anonymous No.10389066]

>>10389062
Yeah...too bad I don’t have medical anymore

[Anonymous No.10389067]

>>10389066
look up NAMI resources for free therapy. no excuses, take care of urself

[Anonymous No.10389068]

>>10389067
Well shucks, I just looked it up and they’ll only use zoom and I’m in a place where I can’t talk about my feelings out loud. In my defense, I haven’t SH’d in 2 years and I did that shit on my own

[Anonymous No.10389073]

>in a discord server with a semi-popular male cosplayer
>he is pretty good looking, has a personality that isn't like most cosplayers, and stuff about him going on
>somehow has no gf yet is popular with girls. For whatever reason last 2 cons I thought he was taken the way he hangs out with people
>we chat off and on but no real advances made other than hoping to see me cosplay next con and small talk
>too scared to message him or approach him about anything scared that I may ruin what I have. Not gay, female approaching male

I'm 25, how the fuck am I still acting like I am 13 trying to give someone a valentines day card. Anyone help me out here

[Anonymous No.10389103]

>>10389073
Iktf anon
>tfw me and con crush were supposed to meet up and party
>I flirted with him over dms and he flirted back when we talked about it
Ugh.

[Anonymous No.10389105]

>>10388602
Uhm eh u guys can't contain you're sperging?!?! If u guyz can't behave, the thread gets deleted! Stop with the back and forth discussion, just stop replying to other people's posts! Like fuck no other board on the chans has this problem, that's how you know I'm an oldfag!!!

[Anonymous No.10389112]

>>10388985
Look at it this way, if your hypothetical situation were to come true then you probably would be able to find the dress in question again/bond with your daughter over hunting dream dresses together.

>>10389068
Idk if this is a useful thing to say on an anonymous Vietnamese basket weaving site but hang in there anon, if you can keep up no SH for two years then you can do it now too

[Anonymous No.10389113]

>>10389103
>met him at a party
>he was the only one giving others attention that looked bored at said room party
>invited me to photo shoots with him
>did karaoke and other shit
>he was actually cool just chilled with me after the con too
>too fucking afraid to ask his if he wants to go out

What the fuck is my problem?

[Anonymous No.10389142]

>>10389113
>What the fuck is my problem?
You are aware he might not want a relationship and that makes you nervous about the making the first move

[Anonymous No.10389144]

>>10388511
Mana's cooking and asmr vids are kino

[Anonymous No.10389163]

This aged poorly :pensive:

[Anonymous No.10389164]

>>10389035
https://local.theonion.com/man-not-sure-why-he-thought-most-psychologically-taxing-1843004933
It's great that you were able to make it productive initially Anon, but there's no shame if you can't do it anymore. I felt good initially too but started beating myself up recently and struggling to be productive. This article gave me a little perspective.

[Anonymous No.10389190]

>>10388989
You buying his burando dressen, duh

[Anonymous No.10389202]

>>10389113
Holy shit anon that sounds awesome. I pray that you're brave enough to pursue him more, he sounds sweet and you sound nice.

[Anonymous No.10389213]

Kind of tempted to do/be a virtual girlfriend online with the gimmick being me wearing lolita (obviously no lewds/nudes). Literally just chatting up to and offering lonely simps some company for money. However I doubt this would work and the shame from the egl community would make it not worthwhile.

[Anonymous No.10389218]

Does anyone here actually have a good experience with birth control?

Why do they always make you feel weird :s it’s like a feeling of being sad and having a fog brain. I just don’t get it. Is getting nut in that worth it? I’ve never had a friend use birth control just for pregnancy and have no problems with it. Why is it so universally bad?

[Anonymous No.10389219]

>>10389213
You can try but you probably won't make a lot of money.
All this camwhore stuff being pushed is just a modern version of girls going out recruiting for massage girls, like girls were doing for Epstein. Promising you don't have to actually get naked but actually you do, and you'll make loads of money, except you don't.
Apparently some of these sites have PR people that post on chans and stuff. They benefit from having fresh new girls rotating in constantly, and push "sex work is real work" and it being a valid and empowering career choice to rope people in for that new content

[Anonymous No.10389220]

>>10389218
Try an iud with low or no hormones

[Anonymous No.10389223]

>>10389220

I highly recommend the ring (idk if there are other brands but I use Nuvaring). It's non surgical and low dose of hormone as well. It allows you to skip, plan, or regulate your periods based on when you insert and remove it as well.

I started using it to skip/shorten my periods and lessen my PMDD symptoms and it's been great. I only ever have problems when I get off of it for a long time because of poorly balanced hormones without it that I had long before I started using it.

[Anonymous No.10389228]

>>10389218
I've had bad experiences with the Mirena and the Nexplanon, but I've had a very good experience with the NuvaRing in the two years I've had it.

[Anonymous No.10389229]

>>10389228
>>10389223
Does it lower your sex drive or make you depressed? Do you trust it on its own as a birth control method?

[Anonymous No.10389232]

>>10389229

I had pretty much the same sex drive (I was single when I first started it though and didn't have a partner though so I could only compare by my masturbation habits), only I didn't have the problem of getting really horny a couple days before my period anymore, but the rest of the time my sex drive seemed the same.

[Anonymous No.10389259]

>>10389218
I do, but I also had hormonal issues. I didn't realize my occasional depression was due to it, because since I've been on it I haven't had a depression period of time. It cleared up my acne, got rid of excessive hair, and regulated my period. I didn't get any side effects from it. I'm on ultra low dose pills

[Anonymous No.10389260]

>>10389213
Mate, the people who look for camwhores don't do it to so they can look at dorky white girls donning even more clothes than usual.
If you want to find guys into lolita, there are better ways to do it. Same story for making money selling yourself (most likely donning someone's waifu cosplay).

[Anonymous No.10389276]

>>10389213
There's actually a small community of people like that out in Japan to help hikkikomoris (they're called "rental nee-sans") but obviously the issue here is that that's IRL while this is all OTI.
That being said, even if it doesn't make you money, I appreciate the thought. You'd be suprised how many people would pay just to have a conversation with somebody.

[Anonymous No.10389278]

>>10388983
Bought an older one secondhand and I, too, want my cute lace apron. Solidarity.

[Anonymous No.10389279]

>>10389259
God damn. Why is birth control so shit. Using it for the basic need of a contraceptive seems to be impossible

[Anonymous No.10389301]

>>10389279
There's no free lunch, anon. The pills already give you more options than a guy ever will have.
If you're so desperate to feel it, you can always play with some fake cum they use in porn.

[Anonymous No.10389308]

>>10389218
I've been on the pill for 6 years with no bad side effects that I've noticed. My acne went away soon after I started, but that could just be an age thing. I really think that a lot of people's negative stories are just them blaming symptoms from other things on the pill because it has always had a bad reputation for giving women sexual autonomy.

[Anonymous No.10389309]

>>10389279
>Why is birth control so shit.
Because it was introduced during the same period as DDT and thalidomide. I think there's still no birth control pill that would pass modern FDA requirements, they just can't forbid hormonal contraceptives for being unhealthy because... well you know why. But if they'd been developed now they would never become permitted due to the frequency and severity of side effects.

[Anonymous No.10389311]

>>10389308
>because it has always had a bad reputation for giving women sexual autonomy.
Not using the pill has never taken my sexual autonomy away, I simply opt for other methods, anon.

Having that said, it will vary from body to body, from organism to organism.

I've had had all the bad symptoms a pill could give me, and that's mainly because I'm allergic to synthetic hormones, as many people are. From thrombosis to migraine, it wasn't a bit healthy for my body.

Whilst, for some people, it's really a must to have pills in order to regulate their body.

So, anon >>10389218, your best bet is to visit a specialist and have all medical exams before choosing a the best pill for you or no pill at all.

[Anonymous No.10389313]

>>10389164
Thanks for the article, it was hilarious. As fucked up as it sounds, it’s comforting to know other people are feeling the same way as me. And don’t worry, I most likely won’t SH since open wounds isn’t the smartest thing to have during a pandemic

[Anonymous No.10389319]

>>10389308
I don’t know anon. It feels like the frequency of side effects (depression, no sex drive and worse) are super common. It feels like for 50% of women birth control fucks their mind and body up. It’s terrible.
>>10389309
I wouldn’t be surprised if your experience was really common

[Anonymous No.10389325]

>>10389319
>It feels like for 50% of women birth control fucks their mind and body up.
It's hormonal therapy, anon. Of course it fucks with people's minds and bodies, that's the whole point. If you gave those pills to a guy he'd start growing breasts.

[Anonymous No.10389326]

>>10389319
I’m not saying many women don’t experience negative symptoms, but I think the frequency is blown out of proportion anecdotally. Just like how many people blame their migraines on MSG, when it’s been shown in numerous studies to cause no more negative effects than table salt. It has a bad reputation, so people blame it for any unpleasant sensation they happen to have after consuming it.

[Anonymous No.10389336]

>>10389326

Similarly, people keep mentioning THE PILL. Many anons here have said (including myself) that lower dose hormone BC like ring and other forms are great and we have good experiences. Similarly, friends of mine who specifically opt for low dose pills also have had no problems either.

The high hormone dose of more common pills are not the only choice.

[Anonymous No.10389349]

I wish my clothing style was more consistent because I can't afford all these different Japanese brands that don't go together. I would have a much better wardrobe if I could just choose one jfashion and stick to it.

[Anonymous No.10389363]

All this talk about birth control keeps reminding me that I’m no longer going to be on my parents health insurance soon. I started looking at rates and it makes me want to just die. How do you gulls afford all these different bills and still have money left for hobbies?

[Anonymous No.10389369]

>>10389363
be in not-america

[Anonymous No.10389372]

>>10389349
I feel this anon

[Anonymous No.10389374]

>>10389363
employer sponsored health insurance

[Anonymous No.10389416]

>>10389363

get a job with benefits

[Anonymous No.10389423]

>>10389363
I have a job and get my insurance through there... it's not rocket science. If you're some jobless college kid, you shouldn't be participating in any expensive hobbies anyway

[Anonymous No.10389424]

>>10389213
The only guys who would be into that are ddlg pedos and idk why you would want to encourage those kind of creeps.

[Anonymous No.10389429]

>>10389218
I love BC. I've been on it since I was a teen for hormonal balance purposes - without it, I have two periods per month which is hell. Never had any side effects.

I don't let guys "nut" in me despite the BC because #1 it's not 100% effective/still a risk and #2 you can't even feel it when the guy cums inside, so it's pointless anyway. No additional pleasure for the woman and not worth the risk. Don't let men pressure you into that shit.

[Anonymous No.10389431]

>>10388511
Did you ever felt that /cgl/ is the same half dozen of people?

[Anonymous No.10389443]

>>10389423
No need to be rude about it. I had a job up until lockdown, but since I’m in college, I could only work part time, which means I don’t qualify for benefits through them.

[Anonymous No.10389446]

>>10389443
Why are you still in college at 25?
If you’re traditional college-age, aging out of your parents insurance is further off than you think. I didn’t expect to get a job with insurance by 26, but I did. And there’s also the possibility of going on your partner’s insurance.
Also, if the main thing you need from insurance is birth control, you can always pay out of pocket. It’s just $10-$20 a month, which is a lot cheaper than insurance, even if you have to pay $50 out of pocket to talk to a clinic doctor to get it.

[Anonymous No.10389452]

>>10389431
It probably is desu.

[Anonymous No.10389455]

>>10389443
What kind of shitty college do you go to that doesn't have a free campus clinic? It's usually included in your tuition

[Anonymous No.10389456]

>>10389326
I agree, people like to blame whatever condition they have (or don’t have, there are a lot of hypochondriacs online) on pill HBC. I got sucked into the “hormones are bad it’s not NATURAL” shit and got a non-hormonal IUD and it was the worst decision of my life. I got it removed and went back on the pill (low dose which I’ve always used), give me synthetic hormones, I love that shit, science is great

[Anonymous No.10389460]

>>10389446
Some peoples careers go to shit and their prior degree is worthless, not everyones life goes on rails perfectly.

I had a shitty bachelor of arts and a failed career, went back to school at 28, and graduated at 30 in IT with a 70k a year job out of college in a midwestern city. Before that the most I had made was 12$ an hour. FUCK llustration.

It also meant I didn't save anything at all and had no retirement. Also made me undatable (im male)

A lot of people also just plain dont go to college until way later

[Anonymous No.10389461]

>>10388927
Iktf. I missed out on work, school, and meetups in the beginning of the year because of spoopy heart issues, and I'm not amused with corona looming around. I hope things improve for you health wise and you manage to dodge the virus, famalam

[Anonymous No.10389466]

>>10389446
> Why are you still in college at 25?
Two reasons: I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do and I couldn’t afford college straight out of high school. I worked and saved up for a few years and during that time I determined what it was I wanted to do with my life.

>Also, if the main thing you need from insurance is birth control, you can always pay out of pocket.
My parents are pretty adamant that I should have health insurance in case of an emergency or unexpected illnesses, which has gotten me super paranoid.
Tbh though the only times I’ve been to a doctor in my adult life has been to replace my nexplanon so idk

[Anonymous No.10389469]

>>10389460
>Also made me undatable
Sorry to break it to you but your looks are what made you undatable. There are plenty of hot broke-ass guys who rake in chicks.

[Anonymous No.10389473]

>>10389363
Do you live in a country or state that doesn’t have some kind of government issued health care option? Im in the US and my state has a medical plan that’s either free or low cost should you be unemployed

[Anonymous No.10389475]

>>10389469
>but your looks are what made you undatable.
I guess looks are even less important if he has a fucked up personality,which I tend to assume every guy who comes into 4chin has.

[Anonymous No.10389507]

>>10389326
Sorry but this is total lies. All my friends and other women in my life have something bad to say about birth control. The two biggest ones are
>it killed my sex drive
>it made me depressed

I hear this from almost everyone. I suspect most other women think they have low sex drives when it IS the pill or other bc. If it works for you, great. Have fun being moody and having no sex drive. But don’t act like it’s “blown out of proportion” a good 50-70% of women have shitty side effects from birth control

[Anonymous No.10389508]

>>10389326
Also studies have shown that msg is bullshit and I agree.
But studies have also shown that 1 in 10 women get clinically depression on bc and 5 in 10 get their sex drive killed

[Anonymous No.10389509]

>>10389456
I have to say anon, low dose pills are less effective. Don’t use it on its own or you’ll get pregnant

[Anonymous No.10389513]

>>10389475
Nope, good looking assholes and psychos still get chicks. Let's be real.

[Anonymous No.10389517]

>>10389507
I’ve literally never heard this before but I’m curious how many also started taking other kinds of medication (for anxiety or depression) roughly around the same time.

[Anonymous No.10389523]

>>10389446
Life doesn't always move in a straight line anon

[Anonymous No.10389525]

>>10389509

I don't use pills. I use the ring. And when used properly it's the same 99% or whatever effective rate as other highly effective birth control but still low dose. I don't use it primarily as pregnancy prevention though. It's for the regulation of my period and hormones in general that it provides. I don't have unprotected sex at all right now even on BC bevause my partner and I aren't taking any risks, not during corona season and not any other time.

[Anonymous No.10389526]

>>10389517
It’s super common. I think 1 in 10

[Anonymous No.10389534]

>>10389507
50-70%? Where did you get that enormous number you’re dropping like it’s a fact, your 5 closest friends?

[Anonymous No.10389543]

I had a traumatic experience in lolita as a teen, and I stopped wearing it then. I spontaneously decided to get back into it this week. I haven't been this happy for a while. I bought my dream dress today, something I wanted way back then but couldn't dream of affording, and I'm feeling really great.

>>10389220
Do you have experience with a low hormone IUD? I want to switch but I'm unsure it's worth it, especially during quarantine.

[Anonymous No.10389544]

>>10389220
I second this. I love my paragard iud because I lose my shit on even low hormone doses

[Anonymous No.10389545]

>>10389431
Yeah, but it kinda warms my heart to think the same two people being super nasty to each other one thread are maybe being super friendly and helpful to each other on another thread

[Anonymous No.10389546]

>>10389469
I’m with a poor, ugly man because he’s kind. Personally matters more than anything

[Anonymous No.10389547]

I feel like I’m outgrowing lolita/jfashion and it scares me. it’s been a part of my identity for so long, and i still love it, but i’m in my 20s now. guys don’t find it attractive and i’m scared i’ll never be able to be in a relationship unless I start dressing normally. I tried wearing sexy insta baddie clothes and it looks so fuckin wrong

[Anonymous No.10389551]

>>10389547
Anon there are billions of people on this planet. You’ll find someone who loves you for all of you. Don’t give up something you love for a shitty boyfriend who only loves you when you act like a “normie”

[Anonymous No.10389557]

>>10389543
Yes, I have the Skyla iud. I think I ended up with it because I didn't want one with a lot of hormones, but had concerns about heavy periods with a pure copper iud.
Anyway, for the most part it's been great. What sucks though is that it only lasts three years and guess whose appointment to get it replaced got cancelled because of a pandemic? It would have been nice if it lasted a little longer like other iuds.
I also recall the first six months having some cramping and irregular periods, but after that it was so smooth I forgot about those issues.

[Anonymous No.10389558]

>>10389547
Are you really outgrowing it or are you just afraid that you won't be able to have a relationship because of it? Because if so, I hope it helps to know that the overwhelming majority of lolitas I've seen have boyfriends or husbands. Some men may be turned off by the style, sure, but if it's something you truly like and identify with, you shouldn't give that up just so some random guy will like you. Also, it's not like your only choices are between loud, crazy J-fashion or insta baddie. There are more casual styles in both J-fashion and mainstream fashion. At the end of the day, just wear whatever it is you're comfortable with. That way, any guy who eventually comes into your life will be liking you for who you really are and not the front you're putting on just to impress him.

[Anonymous No.10389560]

>>10389546
To unattractive women, sure.

[Anonymous No.10389561]

>>10389547
Are you dense or something? Lots of lolitas have boyfriends, probably the majority.

[Anonymous No.10389572]

>>10389229
Sorry I went to sleep. I honestly haven't experienced any changes to my mood or sex drive from the ring, but I've never experienced any of those side effects from other types of BC I tried either.

[Anonymous No.10389576]

>>10389551
>>10389558
thank u anons, i guess it’s a mixture of both? I want to be seen as more mature but I also don’t want to give up a huge part of my life

>>10389561
It’s not popular where I live. I have no sex appeal at all because I look younger than my age in addition to wearing lolita. I’ve literally had guys ask me why “i dress like a baby”. that will fuck up your self esteem.

[Anonymous No.10389588]

I wish I could wear tooth rotting sweet lolita but I’m beginning to realize that my face is better suited for gothic. I try to keep the dream alive by making sure all my sweet coords are toned down, but it’s not always as fun and whimsical. I’ve been in the fashion for a long time as a sweet lolita, so I’m worried if a dramatic style change like this might end my willingness to dress up. Also it doesn’t help that I’m skinny fat so that limits my brand options in gothic. Maybe I’ll splurge and buy one epic gothic piece and see how I feel after that?

[Anonymous No.10389597]

>>10389576
It's not popular where anyone lives, the key is to find a boyfriend who doesn't mind it but isn't turned on by it.

[Anonymous No.10389598]

>>10389547
Men are stupid, we should be lolita gfs together. Too bad there's no other lolitas near me. Don't waste your youth settling for losers

[Anonymous No.10389601]

>>10389557
Thanks anon! I'll look into it. I'm on Mirena rn but have had some weird physical side effects over the past few years :-/
I hope you're able to get a safe appointment soon!

[Anonymous No.10389606]

>>10389429
>you can’t even feel when a guy buys inside
EXACTLY! It does literally NOTHING for us!

[Anonymous No.10389633]

>>10389588
>face better suited for gothic
same, bitch.. i feel you.

[Anonymous No.10389635]

>>10389547
>>10389576
where do you live, if you dont mind me asking

[Anonymous No.10389657]

>>10389576
haha loli-bab

[Anonymous No.10389659]

why do these threads always end in either fights or talking about how horrible bc is

[Anonymous No.10389666]

>need gabardine fabric for blazer
>find good fabric on etsy @ $4.50 a yard, free ship at $35
>no idea how I'm going to use 8 yards of fabric

also have a $50 joann gift card, but their fabric is overpriced and they kind of have a shitty selection for what I need. Still.... I would rather use the joann monopoly money instead of actual cash for this.

[Anonymous No.10389679]

>>10389469
It's never quite so simple
t. hot guy and resident female-on-male rape victim

[Anonymous No.10389696]

>>10389666
You should use organza instead because you seem indecisive.
Obviously use the gift card you fool

[Anonymous No.10389731]

>>10389666
50% off coupon for one cut of reguular priced fabric

[Anonymous No.10389734]

>>10389349
just choose lolita

[Anonymous No.10389755]

>>10389731
For whatever reason, the exact thing that would work is always on a very light sale (like 20-30%) and that coupon doesn't work on sales. It's annoying af. I could do the 20% off total purchase which I think might be the move, but $ wise it comes out close to $35 regardless

>>10389696
Organza is too sheer, and joann's suiting fabrics are limited and expensive af (and it's for a cosplay, so I don't want to fully splurge). Gabardine is the cheapest substitute I can find.

[Anonymous No.10389769]

>>10389696
who tf makes a blazer out of organza?

[FunksBrother !!sEQILr75Rya No.10389775]

>>10389163
thanks for screenshotting my troll post, anon

[Anonymous No.10389789]

>>10389659
Because anons don't report enough and jannies don't care either way.

[Anonymous No.10389955]

>>10389775
it was a good post

[Anonymous No.10390021]

>>10388511
Well I poo'd my $600 cos pants...

[Anonymous No.10390036]

>>10389659
because women

[Anonymous No.10390041]

>became friend with a cosplay girl
>suddenly became her simp
>pay her 200 a month to pretend to be my gf
>she keeps telling me she is willing to do it for free
>still pays her
>cheats on her with all the cosplayers on onlyfans

I just wanna share with the world how broken I am and get it off my chest.

[Anonymous No.10390051]

I was excited when i saw my package had moved but now I fear it may be stuck in chicago forevermore.

[Anonymous No.10390068]

>>10390051
It took mine about 3 days from Chicago to get to me in Indianapolis. All hope is not lost, anon.

[Anonymous No.10390071]

>>10390041
Why do you do this? I really want to understand simp psychology

[Anonymous No.10390076]

three of my package all had estimated delivery dates and now they're all unknown.
one girl gave me "free shipping" and fucking sent it retail ground. its going to take 4-6 more weeks and its already been 3. fuck this.

[Anonymous No.10390089]

things have gone to shit in my group of friends because of something pretty bad coming to light. i have nothing to do with it but i'm so stressed out and i just want us to be able to move past this even though i know it's going to be a long hard slog. i hope all the fun ideas we've been working on together don't fall to the wayside. also i fuckin miss cons

[Anonymous No.10390091]

Happy feel!!! I just bought my first *new* brand blouse! I usually buy second hand but since shipping from JPN is difficult, I decided to splurge and help out the US storefront instead! Hopefully my order comes in soon, I can't wait!

[Anonymous No.10390095]

>>10390091
Congrats anon, what brand?

[Anonymous No.10390100]

>>10390095
Thank you!! I bought some blouses from Angelic Pretty. It would be a shame for that storefront to fall during the pandemic, it's my small town dream to visit!

[Anonymous No.10390101]

Lack of cons ruins my desire to lose weight. I've been breaking fast left and right and it's probably been about a week since I last threw up when I used to do it almost daily.

[Anonymous No.10390104]

>>10390101
you need therapy

[Anonymous No.10390107]

>>10390101
wait u bulimic? that’s some crazy shit right there

[Anonymous No.10390108]

>>10390091
AP blouses are amazing, enjoy. I love all the little details and nice material and lace.

[Anonymous No.10390116]

>>10390104
>>10390107
>ur crazy
Every.
Time.
Enjoy your keto diet, fatty, they don't work.

[Anonymous No.10390118]

>>10390116
Keto is the only diet i've ever tried that actually had an effect on my mental health. I felt a lot sharper and smarter in my daily life, so take that for what you will

[Anonymous No.10390120]

>>10390118
You probably have gluten intolerance or something cuz everyone I've know who did keto was a fatty that got fatter

[Anonymous No.10390122]

>>10390108
>Eagerness intensifies
I only have one other AP blouse and the details are to die for! But it’s more decadent than the ones I bought. I hope there’s no inventory issues...idk if I could handle the devastation

[Anonymous No.10390128]

>>10390120
you know having an ED isn't normal right.

[Anonymous No.10390134]

>>10390071
Sometime you meet a girl that just does things for you. It's like collecting rare yu gi oh cards, you get something no one has seen before. You never know when you hit a triple rare. Same concept for me.
And kinda makes you powerful to be able to give them anything if you want. But for other people it's prob cuz they just wanna be close to someone, and that's the only way they know how.

[Anonymous No.10390140]

>>10390128
Fuck off

[Anonymous No.10390144]

>>10390134
Wow men are really pathetic

[Anonymous No.10390148]

>>10390144
Society made them that way. It's up to us to harvest the gains gulls.

[Anonymous No.10390150]

>>10390134
Can I be your pretend gf next? I won't judge and don't give af about the onlyfans hoe's.

[Anonymous No.10390182]

>>10390140
Get therapy anon

[Anonymous No.10390193]

>>10390101
>Lack of cons ruins my desire to lose weight.
You need more mirrors in your house.
Also, just eat less. It's not rocket science. Always drink some water before eating, learn to eat more slowly/enjoy the thing a bit more, smaller portions, always try to eat sitting down, do some basic calorie math, if you gotta eat something sweet, always do it before food rather than after it (at least for me, it restarts my appetite).
Throwing up fucks up your teeth and health. And it's no good for anything since the moment people find out, you're gonna dig yourself a grave on the spot.
t. A skelly

[Anonymous No.10390211]

>>10390150
How hot are you on a scale of 1-10?

[Anonymous No.10390234]

>>10390148
Make his pockets hurt

[Anonymous No.10390242]

>>10390150
Sure, post contact. But I'm not sure she has been pretty good to me. Maybe ones I'm tired of her. You can be next. Until then I hope you are ok being just friends with occasional gifts.

[Anonymous No.10390255]

Wanna buy a short sleeve blouse to deal with the coming heat but there’s no good ones on lm and shipping from jp is kill. Bah

[Anonymous No.10390275]

>>10390193
Man, fuck Matador I'm playing Nocturne atm and hes just fucking toying with me

[Anonymous No.10390276]

>>10390255
Try Maxi on cdjapan?

[Anonymous No.10390282]

>>10390276
isn't that shipped from japan?

[Anonymous No.10390284]

why is it that the prettiest/rarest things pop up when I don't have the money for it, and when I do get the funds I find that nothing catches my eye

[Anonymous No.10390286]

>>10390255
Taobao

[Anonymous No.10390288]

>>10390284
Solution: keep the funds until something pops up that does catch your eye

[Anonymous No.10390290]

>>10390282
Oh shit, I completely forgot

There's a few on AP USA site, but try Facebook sales and american indie? Kind of a shitty time to buy desu

[Anonymous No.10390295]

>>10390290

CDJapan is still shipping via DHL. My order shipped yesterday and I placed it after Japan announced no EMS. It's estimated to arrive tomorrow; we'll see if they have any unexpected delays in timing.

[Anonymous No.10390311]

>>10390134
Cool, thanks for responding

[Anonymous No.10390351]

>moves into new place 6 months ago
>threw all of my Lolita and historical underthings up on a top self
>no folding, everything is the same aged white
>stare up at the mountain of matter

"Don't do it, okay?" I say to the mass above my head.

>pull down the top thing
>it catches on everything else
>instant regret as a sea of Meta bloomers, actual 1890s bloomers, petticoats both original era and contemorary Lolita brand bury me alive

[Anonymous No.10390376]

>>10390286
You must be joking

[Anonymous No.10390425]

>>10390286
I just want an IW blouse that isn’t in Russia

[Anonymous No.10390427]

>>10390351
you left all of your lolita and actual antique garments in an exposed pile on a shelf?
christ, anon. at least have the decency to leave it into a box or vaccuum seal it and make some kind of attempt to preserve your clothing, that's how shit gets ruined.

[Anonymous No.10390438]

Well it's been another week and there's 0 movement for all my packages in Japan (I live in the US).

Please just kill me.

[Anonymous No.10390444]

>>10390116
can I suggest Whole30, anon? Just try it for 28 days. It's ok to cheat a little (I ate peanuts and some small amounts of rice on sushi). But it changed my life.

[Anonymous No.10390497]

>>10390438
Everything is still closed here.

[Anonymous No.10390499]

>>10390351
That illustration is hilarious

>>10390427
I don’t think they left out the main pieces. It sounds like they’re just talking about pettis and bloomers

[Anonymous No.10390502]

I have a big wardrobe and I'm unironically feeling like I need to sell it to get into a better relationship. I wear a few sweet and classic brands.

I just want a nice guy or girl to be my partner and do their share of housework! So tired of my partner.
Is Innocent World too weird for normie guys? I've sold almost all my AP and now have mostly BTSSB and some Meta. What brands would you use to still be lolita but attract normies

[Anonymous No.10390512]

>>10390502
Why would you want a normie bf? They or their family will pressure you to drop your non-normie hobbies.

[Anonymous No.10390516]

>>10390502
Is this a joke?

[Anonymous No.10390523]

>>10390502
You can't be serious, anon. Burando>bf anyday

[Anonymous No.10390524]

>>10390502
Fuck normies. Stop being such a beta.

[Anonymous No.10390525]

>>10390512
I am starting to realize that a relationship is more important than hobbies as I get older, when you're in school it's easy to find a new relationship. But as an adult working it's really hard

[Anonymous No.10390532]

>>10390525
It's possible to have both. You can't just abandon every that you love to just please others, you will be miserable. Most romantic relationships aren't even successful, so there's a chance you put yourself through all that for no reason.

[Anonymous No.10390554]

I wish boys did as much revealing cosplay as girls did!

[Anonymous No.10390556]

>>10390525
Is it that hard? For a girl you get swamped with what are essentially job applications from guys on dating sites. Bumble is nice because you can be the one to choose instead of being a living honeypot like on Tinder

[Anonymous No.10390564]

>>10390556
Most guys are trash, I wish I had a cute gf or a guy who is sensitive and romantic. Seems like everyone I've met was either crazy and abusive, or lazy and not willing to make an effort past the first year

[Anonymous No.10390570]

>watch romcom anime
>sudden desire for relationship
>literally only had hook-ups

Also too afraid to actually fall in love and worried I'd take the fallout too hard, so I just play aloof and die a different way

>>10390525
God do I relate. Just graduated and I have no idea how to do the relationship thing. Didn't have any in college, let alone work. Dating coworkers sounds like a shit idea, dating apps for relationships sounds kind of wonky as well. Just like... What do people do?

[Anonymous No.10390571]

>>10390570
>What do people do?
Go to social events, apparently. Not that I have a ton of experience in that field.

[Anonymous No.10390574]

>>10390556
The catch being that 95% of guys on dating apps are ugly.

[Anonymous No.10390575]

>>10390574
Don't forget about the "i just wanna fuck" and fake profiles.

[Anonymous No.10390577]

>>10390570
Yikes, good luck with this. When a guy hears you've never been in a relationship, he's going to assume you're a virgin (which is a reasonable assumption) and uh... yeah good luck.

[Anonymous No.10390582]

>>10390571
Even that's not a guarantee. I like weeb and nerd shit but keep it under wraps around randos, but I'd want to date someone who's into it. I wouldn't pull it out at a social event. Cue heavily insinuating I like weeb and nerd shit and trying to play down the "oh, I like sewing, like garments and stuff."

>>10390577
Yeah, uhhhhhh I am a guy. Interesting to hear that though, I bet that's the assumption going the other way as well then?

[Anonymous No.10390590]

>>10390582
Someone who's in the exact same boat as me huh? At least I know I'm not the only one.

[Anonymous No.10390608]

>>10388511
>I am a guy
Oh, you'll have a different problem. Girls will assume you're a virgin but they'll reject you for that because that's not an appealing trait in men like it is for women.

[Anonymous No.10390609]

>>10390582
>I am a guy
Oh, you'll have a different problem. Girls will assume you're a virgin but they'll reject you for that because that's not an appealing trait in men like it is for women.

[Anonymous No.10390611]

>>10388511

[Anonymous No.10390612]

>>10390609

[Anonymous No.10390621]

>>10390564
are you really looking for a girlfriend anon?
I'm a lesbian, so I'm not looking for a relationship with men at all. I was hoping to someday meet a girl who's into lolita, or at least some kind of jfash that I could have a serious relationship with.

[Anonymous No.10390623]

>>10390571
>Go to social events
kinda hard to do right now

[Anonymous No.10390625]

>>10390623
This.
I'm in a lock down state so no one is meeting up anywhere unless they're with their families and shit. You know, people are going to the beach with people they already know, breaking the rules and what not.

I have a group of friends but I can't date any of those girls; they're all taken or not interested in me and I'm not really interested in dating them either.

Is there anywhere else to meet girls online besides dating apps? Dating apps suck ass.
I miss meeting people in chat rooms. Every discord I'm in is dead as fuck.

I thought everyone was supposed to be staying home? How come no one is online.

[Anonymous No.10390633]

>>10390621
Yes but I want kids, that's the only reason I bother with guys. But if a girl were okay with raising kids and using in vitro that would be the dream

[Anonymous No.10390667]

>planned trip to Japan for over a year with a working holiday visa despite being poor and having shitty luck in general
>finally graduated last year and managed to save enough money to go
>suddenly had to postpone trip because of the typhoon in October
>then my doctor refused to write me my letter for the application for the visa unless I get a bunch of weirdly specific vaccines that are useless for Japan, just because she suggested it'd be useful if I want to go visit Cambodia or some other shithole, which made me lose even more time
>then got sick from all the vaccines and had to get some rest for a few more weeks
>only able to go in late January
>only got to have fun for a month and a half, had a very hard time finding a job in Tokyo because everything got closed so there were way less job opportunities than usual
>managed somehow to get sick twice since then
>now have to go back to my country in three weeks because plane tickets for after June cost at least 2000€, I still haven't fully recovered from whatever the fuck I had, places are still closed down and will be for a while, and staying there for longer would just be a waste of time and money
>can't even buy cute clothes anymore because most stores are still closed down
>can't even visit the Kansai region because I won't have enough time for that since I still need my job

[Anonymous No.10390668]

>>10390582
>I like weeb and nerd shit but keep it under wraps around randos

Honestly keep at this, it will work eventually if you're not a total sperg. Weebs with well-hidden power levels and decent social skills will find each other in the end.

[Anonymous No.10390672]

>>10390625
Bumble isn't bad if you get good pics desu and the girls are way less shitty than Tinder (fewer bots too). Online dating is your only realistic option in 2020 especially with corona virus.

[Anonymous No.10390673]

>>10390574
You're just getting unlucky and need to have better senses of a guy in the first couple dates (look for controlling behaviors, manipulativeness, etc...)

>>10390574
Stop being so shallow and picky. You probably aren't a looker yourself, every average 5/10 girl thinks they deserve Romeo but they aren't going to get it; not without some serious defects.

Y'all need to chill out. Lower your appearance standards and heighten ones involving prevention of douchebags. I don't know if you guys are young, but in my 30s I've found you should look for someone just attractive enough not to be repulsed and focus on their personality traits. You're much likelier to have a happy match and the more average looking people tend to have better personalities because life has shat on them so much harder than attractive people.

[Anonymous No.10390674]

>>10390577
Guys fucking love virgins what are you going on about? Women are the one that are cruel to male virgins because they assume there's something wrong with them and they don't want to put in the effort to break them in. Double standards suck for both sexes.

[Anonymous No.10390678]

>>10390674
>Incels fucking love virgins
ftfy

[Anonymous No.10390679]

>>10390678
naw, the concept of women that are virgins being "pure" goes back hundreds of years. For whatever reason it's okay for guys to be complete man sluts (they get called studs) but a woman sleeping around is a massive whore.

[Anonymous No.10390693]

>>10390577
The only thing dudes don't like about virgins is the like stage 5 clinger nonsense, which if it's for a relationship then that's a non issue.

>>10390678
>immediately jumps to incels
lol No anyone who's even remotely possessive or dominant is going to love a virgin GF. The idea that they are wholly yours and nobody elses is a huge turn on.
Also DON'T go off on some tirade about how women aren't objects or something like that. Having your woman be /yours/ doesn't make her an object baka.

>>10390679
Pretty spot on though I'd disagree about studs, that was more an early 2000 "A key that opens any lock is a master key huehuehue" society than it is now. I've actually been slutshamed quite a bit by younger (early 20s) women for having around 40 partners. I think we're simultaneously becoming more sexually progressive and regressive at the same thing. A bunch of people are like "Hey it's your body I'm not gonna judge you." and a bunch of other people are like "If she/he breaths she/he's a thot/simp" mentality.

[Anonymous No.10390696]

>>10390577
are you on drugs? Guys dont care if youre a virgin, or in some cases even like the fact.

[Anonymous No.10390698]

>>10390625
Is there something making you feel like you need a GF right now? Its almost always better to meet people IRL, this lockdown isnt going to last forever.

[Anonymous No.10390702]

>>10390577
>>10390678
incels like virgins because they can't stand the idea of their gf having another dudes dick in her mouth. for normal people it might be a cute novelty for a minute but teaching your gf how to have sex and make themselves orgasm, trying to figure out positions and kinks, it takes forever if your relationship even lasts that long and they're usually not self confident enough to try anything very exciting

[Anonymous No.10390704]

>>10390702
That's not even an incel instinct though? Why's this board always jump immediately to incels, why the obsession?

[Anonymous No.10390711]

>>10390704
crossboarders get out of my feels thread

[Anonymous No.10390716]

>>10390704
Because this board is fucking flooded with radical femcels and ugly fat chicks from Reddit/Tumblr/Twitter. They get off by thinking they've above "scrotes" and incels when they're just a female reflection of that.

[Anonymous No.10390717]

>>10390693
40 partners?! How old are you?

[Anonymous No.10390719]

>tfw I want to share several /cgl/-related feels but feels thread has been taken over by offtopic shitposting and will probably get deleted
>again

[Anonymous No.10390725]

>>10390612
>TGI
>GAB
Thank God it's Gabriday? I don't get it.

[Anonymous No.10390729]

>>10390719
At this point we're better off just making a seperate, actual /cgl/ feels thread.

[Anonymous No.10390730]

>>10390693
>40 partners
Whoa anon are you a whore?

[Anonymous No.10390731]

>>10390717
29? I lost it at 22 and I had an easier time sleeping with women than I did actually dating them.

[Anonymous No.10390732]

>>10390730
Not anymore, but I spent the middle 20 years of my life on the hunt for women. I even payed for it. If I could go back I would still be a virgin desu, sex is fun but not at the cost of mental health. Wholesome relationships are where it's at.

[Anonymous No.10390733]

>>10390711
I'm in ur board, tainting ur feels
lmao get over it this board is just too slow for me to remember it exists half the time.

>>10390716
I mean I realize that but still, they're on 4chan where incels were fucking made lmao.

>>10390719
so post them, they're your feels. Far more valid than my shit posting and don't worry this thread is hella old and hasn't been deleted. Go ahead and post your feels and bring it back to a more on topic.

Though you could argue considering the subject, incel/femcel is certainly a feel.

>>10390729
Go for it, call it stinky ita girl hour (S.I.G.H) or something lol.

[Soup No.10390734]

I let my gf cut my hair cause she wanted to do one of those tiktok quarantine haircut vid and boyyyy did she fk my shit up :(

[Anonymous No.10390735]

>>10390734
Soup you worthless piece of shit... I've been thinking about you. Do you play Animal Crossing? Somebody named Soup visited my island through /acg/ and I've been feeling tainted ever since. Was it you?

[Anonymous No.10390737]

>>10390734
Just shave the sides bro and you'll be fine. high n tight looks good on dudes.

[Anonymous No.10390738]

Is anyone else afraid of the collapse of lolita Facebook. I hated it, but now that it looks like our only other sources of lolita content are places like Insta am so Youtube I kind of want to die. I don’t want lolita to become a bunch of people flocking around popular content creators when it has been an actual community for so long.

(No fault to the content creators and insta popular lolitas here. They didn’t invent social media)

[Soup No.10390757]

>>10390735
Last game I played with anyone from /vg/ was tera so you good my n***a. you can have your tea parties in pieces

[Soup No.10390772]

>>10390737
I’m just gonna let it grow till shit opens up

[Anonymous No.10390774]

>>10388511
>Watch prop on ebay
>Lose motivation
>Get it back, start getting funds ready for materials
>>Prop sells, no alternatives, fucked over entirely
Still crying internally

[Anonymous No.10390781]

>>10390757
Oh dang, I miss playing Tera back when it was new. I remember loving how pretty the characters were. Really miss my Elin Slayer named catpee.

[Anonymous No.10390782]

>>10390738
I agree, but I welcome the collapse of Facebook. I wish someone would make a forum and make it modern/integrate an app. I know it's possible, but getting people to switch will be difficult.

[Anonymous No.10390786]

>>10390717
Is 40 really that much for someone middle aged? I was a virgin until 24 and I I had 20 partners in the 2 years after that. Most of them were guys my age and some said they had been with 30-40 women. Now I’m in a committed relationship but if I wasn’t I’m sure I’d get to 40 before too long

[Anonymous No.10390787]

>>10390738
I would hate that too, but facebook is such a crappy platform. My dream is for us to all head back to life journal, but the chances of that happening is slim.

[Anonymous No.10390789]

>>10390716
Radfems and ugly fat chicks are superior to incels though. Almost anybody is superior to incels.

[Anonymous No.10390841]

>>10390782
It’s a shame Amino consists entirely of 13 year old lolitas-at-heart because it actually seemed like a decent platform in the five minutes I spent on there.

[Anonymous No.10390910]

>>10390786
i felt sick reading this

[Anonymous No.10390914]

>>10390786
This is mental illness.

[Anonymous No.10390928]

>>10390789
radfems are just female incels.

[Anonymous No.10390929]

>>10390910
>>10390914
Honestly, this number of partners (1-2 a month) is pretty normal for single people in the outside world. Just not for the kind of incel/femcel types who live on 4chan, which is frankly what I was until 24. Back here for corona summer and it’s kind of like visiting your childhood bedroom and cringing at your middle school diaries

[Anonymous No.10390990]

>>10390928
No it's not. Plenty of them have partners. It's mainly about dunking on trannies and the inferior psychology of males.

[Anonymous No.10390998]

>>10390929
I've never known any normie that does this, but ok, keep being delusional.

[Anonymous No.10391003]

>>10390929

what a cope.

[Anonymous No.10391008]

>>10390841
Yeah it's not bad, but still has the Facebook/social media feed which doesn't help foster conversation. I prefer boards separated in categories, threads like cgl, linkable topics/help, rather than self-centered blog posting.

[Anonymous No.10391013]

Whenever my comm's resident ita(s) are posted in the ita thread I feel that. It seems like the entire comm has sworn a pity-pact of human decency to not post them, but the internet is public and sometimes they show up here... I don't like our ita members all that much, so I don't want to try and defend them. Much like I don't dislike them enough to try and fuel the fire with more it's details about them...

It's like walking into a room where there's a gun on the table. Because you know it's wrong, you're tempted to pick it up and try the trigger.

[Anonymous No.10391016]

>>10391013
My comm has the same pact. Even though it’s secretly kind of satisfying to see the more annoying itas get posted it’s also very annoying because they ALWAYS blame our comm, even if it’s a photo they’ve just posted to COF or their public Instagram.

[Anonymous No.10391017]

>>10390928
The vast majority of radfems are in relationships, try again scrote

[Anonymous No.10391018]

>>10388511
Who else is 25+ here? I'm nearing 28 and feel like shit.

[Anonymous No.10391019]

>>10391018
Nearly all of us. Check the census

[Anonymous No.10391023]

>>10391018
"Only" 24

[Anonymous No.10391030]

>>10390731
Jesus I'm 30 and have only had 3 partners. I don't believe in casual sex though so to each their own

[Anonymous No.10391035]

>>10390990
Yeah I wouldn't say you rad fem retards are better psychologically. If you weren't female you'd literally be unable to get laid because of your terrible personalities and traits. But alas vagina inherently has a high price

[Anonymous No.10391041]

>>10391035
You can be a flaming asshole as a woman and still get laid. Men don't care about looks or personalty. Only holes.

[Anonymous No.10391046]

>>10391035
But the difference between you and the average radfem is if that radfem were born male with the knowledge radfems have, they wouldn't give a shit about getting laid. Unlike you retards that sperg and bitch about it 24/7

[Anonymous No.10391050]

>>10391030
I'm 39 and have only had 2... both long term. I don't get people having sex with so many people either though. To me it's really gross! but to each their own.

[Anonymous No.10391057]

>>10391046
You're only saying that because you have easy access and don't have to try to get laid though. Men get more lonely because it's more harsh trying to traverse the dating scene. I don't think the average woman understands how ego bruising it is to be constantly rejected and have the weight of initiation put on your shoulders. Especially because women are more picky than males.

Can't really blame 50% of the population because of biology.

[Anonymous No.10391061]

>>10391013
>>10391016
same. my comm is really good about encouraging crit and keeping drama offline, but there's a few itas whose coordinates get pulled from COF or Instagram every once in a while. I just sit back and watch it happen, it's funny seeing anons say the same crit people in the comm have already given that the ita ignored.

[Anonymous No.10391077]

>>10391057
Jesus christ men really have no problems. remember to abort all your sons ladies.

[Anonymous No.10391079]

>>10391077
Can you point out major life issues where women have more problems than men? The ones typically I see are getting jobs but there are women only scholarships and hiring initiatives that men don't have. That's the only one I can think of.

[Anonymous No.10391084]

>>10391077
Or ya know, just teach them to be better.

[Anonymous No.10391090]

>>10391079
I love how you neglected to address the sexual degeneracy in men that goes unchecked because apparently it's either kink shaming, sex negative or make you a femazi bitch for saying the truth. So many men have thrown their whole life away just for pussy, it doesn't matter what they achieve in life, every they do it for pussy, nothing else.

[Anonymous No.10391092]

>>10390929
>>10390786
>>10390693
The average number of LIFETIME partners for people in any given country is between 7-10. Y'all have had 2 to 4 times more than that before you even hit 30 years old. No, that's not normal, and I'm sorry about your mental illnesses.

[Anonymous No.10391093]

>>10391030
>>10391050
Yeah no like I said it was a bunch of mistakes that only degraded my mental health. Like drinking salt water because I was thirsty. I regret every single one other than like 5 lmao. I lost it to the first chick to actually be interested in me as an adult and went from there. Doesn't help that most men in the military subscribe to the idea that sex fixes everything (even when it doesn't).

[Anonymous No.10391094]

>>10391077
lolfemcel if you abort your son who's gonna take care of you when your tits are saggy and you wasted your your selling your body for quick cash with no long term plan in mind.

[Anonymous No.10391096]

>>10391092
averages are effected by highs and lows anon, compared to the highs less than 50 is incredibly low.

Don't get me wrong I regret being a slut and wish I'd been able to make one of them work as a relationship but that just wasn't in the cards.
Can't change the past though, I just hope me having been a slut in the past doesn't ruin potential relationships in the future.

[Anonymous No.10391104]

>>10391079
sexual assaults, sports, physically demanding jobs, biological issues (period, menopause),

[Anonymous No.10391113]

Somehow I recently got into Warhammer 40k and now I am considering spending more of my burando funds on minis... I'd ask god why it has forsaken me, but then I remember Khorne.

[Anonymous No.10391114]

>>10391104
Literally man can have all those issues too. Except periods. At least girls don't have small pp problem. Or erectile dysfunction. Being socially outcastes for being virgins.

Being a girl is literally playing life on easy mode. All your need is onlyfans and you can retire.

[Anonymous No.10391115]

>>10391113
You should get into kingdom death, way cooler board game. And way better minis.

[Anonymous No.10391121]

>>10391096
It will definitely limit your choices, same with the guy who's had 40 partners. Don't expect wholesome, low count men/women to accept you. Though of course other people with high counts will.

[Anonymous No.10391122]

>>10391115
But I love 40k lore super hard.

[Anonymous No.10391123]

>>10391104
There's been a large stigma towards men who've been raped so it's been under reported for literal decades. Nobody believes them and when it comes out as real they're seen as less than a man. Some people actually think it's impossible to be raped as a dude because we get erect even though it's simply a biological response to stimulus.

>sports
lol

>physically demanding jobs
You mean the same jobs that end up killing shit tons of men? Oh no!

>periods
You get an excuse to go home early and be a bitch what exactly are you complaining about. (Not just guessing that shit happened all the time when I was in the military)

>menopause
Old age sucks for everyone dude.

[Anonymous No.10391124]

>>10391114
>At least girls don't have small pp problem.
Small breasts problem or being fat problem.

>Or erectile dysfunction.
Sex drive fucked up by hormones or BC.

>Being socially outcastes for being virgins.
Being social outcasts for having sex at any rate.

God, men are so whiny.

[Anonymous No.10391125]

>>10391079
Sexism, period. Men as a whole think they are naturally smarter, stronger, and more capable than women in any and all situations. It's disgusting.

My favorite is 5'5 manlets thinking they're better than like 6'2 female basketball players who could easily kick their ass.

[Anonymous No.10391126]

>>10391096
I'm the 39y/o up there and I have had possible partners who have had tons of partners and it's a really big turn off to me. Especially if I know some of their past partners and know how promiscuous they are, as well. Nope.

I hope that you do find someone who can look past that though! I realize that sometimes we make choices regarding things that we might not have if we would have thought about the future, and we do all deserve compassion regardless of some of those choices, especially if we have changed our ways. You'll probably have the best luck with other people who have had lots of partners in the past though!