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Avoiding edgelords edition

>> No.10277198

>come back to cgl to check if there's a Secret Santa thread after long hiatus from 4chan
>a week late; matches are already sent out
I really love Secret Santas, too...

>> No.10277202
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Same, busy with midterms. I come back afterwards and I was one day late

>> No.10277309

What does kissing someone feel like? Asking for a friend haha.

>> No.10277335
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well maybe...

>> No.10277348

Don't ever do it and don't be fooled by people here telling you its fun, the moment your lips contact a boy's there will be a burning sensation but by the time you try to pull away it will be too late, your lip flesh will have fused at the molecular level to his and you'll only be able to poke at the boy's tongue helplessly and make strange noises for an undetermined length of time.

>> No.10277362 [DELETED] 

Kissing someone hot? Pretty good.
Someone you’re actually in love with who loves you back? No idea

>> No.10277366

>the moment your lips contact a boy's
Anon I'm sorry to dissapoint you but I'm actually a filthy maleposter.

>> No.10277374

I have kissed boys before and it's the same thing. It's great!

>> No.10277378

>crossboarder shitting up the thread with non-cgl related stuff
>thinks he has to point out that he's male

>> No.10277381
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Is anyloli else sick of comm butt inspections becoming more about the cheeks than the hole? Last month, I saw a girl lose 20 points for having a My Little Pony tattoo on her buttock.

Her anus was perfect. I would have sent her to the front of the class ffs.

>> No.10277407

A lot of men don't know how to kiss well, so not great a lot of the time honestly

>> No.10277409

Cosplaying is fun.
I wish the community had less drama.
On a positive note, I'm finally getting back to my ideal weight and should do fine at December's con.

>> No.10277415

Congrats, anon!

I was on some meds that made me gain weight, and now that I'm off them, I'm finally getting back to my former weight. It's a great feeling! Soon we can wear all of our favourite clothes again!

>> No.10277419

It's all these people who think they know what lolita is about when they have no idea of the history. I much prefer the more established comms, none of that buttock bullshit happens there.

>> No.10277421


Why not just wear shirred stuff?

>> No.10277423

A Closetchild employee caught that my address was wrong on the notes and checked my old purchases to be sure before sending it off and sent an email to be sure. Thank, based CC

>> No.10277426

i've experienced more drama in the lolita community this year so far than I have in my 9 years of being in the cosplay community.

>> No.10277429

I just love Gothic Lolita/ Ouji

>> No.10277439

I only own a couple of shirred pieces. I wasn't gonna invest in a new wardrobe for a medication I was prescribed for 3 months.

>> No.10277440

>tfw no cosplay/lolita gf

>> No.10277441

I was starting to wonder whether I'd have to make the threadly post, but glad to see you pulled through instead.

>> No.10277447

man i just really love cosplay

>> No.10277448

You couldve been thicc, it's a shame

>> No.10277470

Wow someone found a good costume on Wish.com

>> No.10277618
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It's all politics anyway.

>> No.10277637

I don't have the proportions to be thicc. I just look pregnant. Almost all of the weight I gained went to my stomach. It sucked lmao.

>> No.10277677
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>Try to get friends at cons
>End up getting friendly with people and drink/hang out with some of them at night
>None of them live near me, the closest people are p much day trip distance
Bros I'm getting fairly lonely

>> No.10277701

It's kinda awkward and you end up out of breath if it goes on for too long, I'd take hugging over kissing anytime, but it's kinda fun once you get used to it.

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Why the hell people won't give feedback to buyers in Lacemarket?
I've bought 6 items and sold 2 this year and I've only got 4 feedbacks. 50% chance not getting feedback.

>> No.10277733

God I feel this, I even send out 'hey I received the item AND GAVE YOU FEEDBACK' messages and they still leave me on read and I'm left awaiting feedback

>> No.10277735

My best friend and I compared ring fingers. Now she's convinced she has a larger penis than I do.

>> No.10277811

>Sit down to craft
>Loads of intricate details
>Adjusts lamp
>Lamp stand snaps
>Light goes out
>Broken irreparably at a touch
>What the fuck

Yeah sure the lamp was old, but I guess I'm just not meant to craft anything finicky today. Fuck me.

>> No.10277819 [DELETED] 

>tfw all women are whores

>> No.10277821 [DELETED] 

>tfw we only made it 33 posts before an edgelord came

>> No.10277827
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Great to hear you are also doing well. How far are you from your former weight?
I still have to gain another 2 or 3kgs to be in my sweet spot again.
I like to be healthy and athletic, anon.
>tfw you live 100 meters away from another cosplayer
>they show no interest in being friends whatsoever
it could be worse, anon.

>> No.10277831

>tfw I love my boyfriend so much
It's nice that he supports me in my frilly shit and gave me the confidence and means to make my own accessories again. I always used to be one of those people who was treated badly by previous ex boyfriends that I found it hard to accept that he could genuinely love me. But he does. And I love him, and lolita. Maybe I'll start my own store when I get good. I owe it to him that I have the confidence to be comfortable in my own skin.

>> No.10277839 [DELETED] 

>be whore
>fuck assholes
>get dumped like the trash you are
>nice cuck comes along to clean up the mess
Makes me laugh every time.

>> No.10277842 [DELETED] 

go back, robot

>> No.10277843 [DELETED] 

How am I wrong?

>> No.10277847 [DELETED] 

Nice try at making me feel like the trash you are, but no, not at all. Your words ha e no power here, incel.
Friendly reminder to the denizens of cgl to ignore and report incelposters.

>> No.10277851 [DELETED] 

HOW am I wrong?

Your boyfriend is a moron for dating used goods like you. You wasted your time fucking other guys and now want to settle down and there will always be some pathetic loser willing to take in the scraps of those men.

>> No.10277870 [DELETED] 

Women have no concept of truth beyond what makes them feel good.

You are used goods. Nothing you do will ever change that. You deny it and use whatever coping strategied you like but this is what is true.

>> No.10277873

My friend just turned 30 and he said he can't costplay no more. Wtf do I doo

>> No.10277904

its ugly

>> No.10277948 [DELETED] 

He can for 5 more years according to this thread:

Let him know that he's quitting early basically if he stops now. He should enjoy these last 5 years he's got left.

>> No.10277950

He can for 5 more years according to this thread:

Let him know that he's quitting early basically if he stops now. He should enjoy these last 5 years he's got left.

>> No.10277973

I'm missing my first AWA after going every year for 9 years. I'm so sad.

>> No.10277978

>be interested in lolita for years but not confident enough to wear
>lurk cgl and blogs for years
>finally gets first brand dress

It’s a 2009 print from Maxicimam, nothing OTT or anything but I almost broke down in tears tonight when I tried the dress on with my blouse and petti. I felt so beautiful and fulfilled, it was magical.

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ex cosplay gf wont stop trying to ruin my reputation after I dumped her for joining a erp group and being too autistic to get why that's not ok for most people

>> No.10277990

So wait you dumped her because she joined an ERP group? Its just an ERP group, would you dump someone if they watched porn too or something? It sounds like you're too controlling.

>> No.10277991

there's erp then there's erp, anon. She became obsessed and started identifying as her favorite ffxiv character she was erping with and had a mental breakdown when she had to kill him in the latest ffxiv expansion

>> No.10278010

Not that anon, sounds like you dodged a bullet.

>> No.10278011

>you end up out of breath if it goes on for too long
>it's kinda fun once you get used to it

If you haven't learnt to breathe through your nose, I don't think you've gotten used to kissing.

>> No.10278017

Wait, you hold your breath while kissing? Well shit I've been doing it wrong.

>> No.10278019

Either you threaten them or you're embarrassingly bad, one of the two

>> No.10278020

Very educational thread so far

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5 years?
Please, people should cosplay for as long as they wish.

I plan to wear Lolita until death.

>> No.10278031

what're you, straight or something?

>> No.10278058

Just cosplay older characters it's not that convoluted

>> No.10278362

Guys I want brolita bf that's not secretly gay wut do?

>> No.10278367


>> No.10278369

Drop ur discord i dont want people to know I'm a weirdo but I'll message u

>> No.10278384

Im too shy !

>> No.10278393

Get a room already

>> No.10278440

I was really in a dark place last night, lots of dark thoughts, feeling hopeless, couldn't sleep. While I was mindlessly scrolling social media I decided to post someting like "I feel so bad I didn't even check secondhand market for my DD for weeks"

But then decided to just look it up instead of posting. Searched on Mercari and boom, there it was! New with tags! I ended up paying 200 USD for a vest but don't mind it at all, at least now I have something to wait for.

>> No.10278450 [DELETED] 

Congrats anon! More gleams of positivity are soon to come your way

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>Really cute All Might cosplayer posts that he's going to a con I'll be going to next week
>Remember that I'm a short, chubby goblin that's too nervous to go to any meetups or say hello if I run into him

Socializing who?? I'm so bad at this

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>Known I'm on the spectrum for a long time now
>Lolita helps me feel more confident in public and in personal interactions
>Inspires me to finally discuss it with my doctor and a therapist
>They confirm it
>Mother now thinks dressing this way made me "crazy" and "autistic," despite being a weirdo from day one
My mother thinks lolita gave me autism

>> No.10278502

tell your mom it's actually her fault for getting you vaccinated

>> No.10278506

Lose weight dipshit
Literally all you need to do to be attractive as a woman is lose weight

>> No.10278509

this is very incorrect, incel

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>> No.10278556

I set up two mutual friends and they've met up at con and it looks like things are going well! I'm happy but sad. I'm so envious of them having a cute con romance and know it'll never happen for me unless I get outside help too, finding a partner as a lesbian is nightmare mode already without wanting a weeb gf too.

I'm happy to see happy lesbians but sad because I really want it to be my turn soon. I'm so lonely and it's getting to the point where I avoid social media because every time I see a happy f/f couple it upsets me, or sometimes even if I see a picture of a cute girl cosplaying a character I love and then I get that voice in my head 'she isn't into girls and even if she was she wouldn't be into you'.

>> No.10278582

Lose weight fatass

>> No.10278622 [DELETED] 

And have massive boob and butt implants, zero belly fat, and be willing to let a man choke you and fuck your ass raw.

>> No.10278624 [DELETED] 

Stop consuming negro media.

>> No.10278625 [DELETED] 

>Zero belly fat
Lose weight dipshit

>> No.10278626 [DELETED] 

Even if I lost weight their expectations would still be too ridiculous for me to abide to, there is really no point in trying to please men

>> No.10278629 [DELETED] 

>have vagina
>dont stuff face with food
Congratulations, you will live a life without difficulty.

>> No.10278642

You need an attractive face too that matters more than weight

>> No.10278643 [DELETED] 

Moids are all cumbrained scrotes, so there really is no point in trying to please them. Next time a man gives you shit, laugh hysterically and point out their flaws, men hate it when women laugh at them. Tell them how disgusting they look and that they should commit seppuku

>> No.10278646 [DELETED] 

Why do women always try and project their weakness onto men as if you're not utterly pathetic and fragile?

Just call a girl stupid, ugly or fat and she's destroyed. Hell, mocking their clothing or make-up makes them fall apart.

>> No.10278647

Youmacon? Good luck.

>> No.10278649 [DELETED] 

Scrotes are the biggest fucking pussies when it comes to women and their laughter. We are socialized from day one to feel like shit and most women are used to it, scrotes on the other hand aren't and therefore not used to women rightfully shitting on their horrible appearance. I do it all the time and it's a beautiful thing to watch men go from okay to lashing out to the point of crying. Just like a dog when it's kicked.

>> No.10278650

Even the most dogfaced w*men I know have orbiters

>> No.10278652 [DELETED] 

>be scrote
>burn down parking lot because girl ignores you
The sane and rational sex, so calm and collected.

>> No.10278660

Please don't kick dogs; they are to be loved and scritched

>> No.10278662 [DELETED] 

No, more like
>shoots strangers/women because girl ignores you

>> No.10278663


That's the one, haha. TY!

I'm sorry, anon. That's a really difficult place to be in. I used to have the same mindset a lot when looking at cosplayers but at the end of the day you won't know until you put yourself out there y'know? It's definitely easier said than done but worst case you gain a new friend, and best case you gain an SO who's interested the same thing as you.
I'm rooting for you, and if it were possible I'd totally be your wingman. Keep your chin up!

>> No.10278692

Will you post your gapped butthole plz?

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this is you

>> No.10278727

Wtf is wrong with you? For the love of God, don't do this.

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tfw i have a really strong preference for skinny nerdy white boys with dark hair and all my friends say i'm setting myself up to be fetishized bc i'm not dating within my race (being asian)

>> No.10278784 [DELETED] 

An extremely hot guy calling me those things might make me a little insecure.

An ugly incel insulting me just makes me lol

>> No.10278786 [DELETED] 

Your friends are right. You're basic, whitewashed and disgusting.

>> No.10278791 [DELETED] 


They're completely right, but you're fetishing each other so at the very least you guys deserve each other, so there's that.

>> No.10278800 [DELETED] 

Agree OP is also fetishizing them but why should Asians, or any race for that matter, be constricted to dating their own race? That's dumb.

>> No.10278830 [DELETED] 

Never said that she should date her own race learn some comprehension anon

>> No.10278831

Wew lad if your not gonna lose weight and be a bitch then its no wonder no man wants to spend time with you

>> No.10278881

When did incels infiltrate lolita?

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>buy heavily stained brand for crazy cheap
>Stains comes right out

>> No.10278908

The moment beings trans become more acceptable.

>> No.10278910

I just bought a set with a blouse that has armpit stains, I pray I can salvage the blouse and have as much luck as you do. But then again, it goes to show how nasty some people are.

>> No.10278912

I cosplayed for the first time today! It was fun, a simple character from a lesser known series, only one person recognised me and asked for my picture but desu that's enough. Only regrets are that I didn't have all the makeup I was planning on getting and I couldn't change my eyebrow colour, and that I didn't get enough pictures of myself taken from enough angles, only got a few wide shots. Overall, happy happy!

>> No.10278918

I don't know what this girl did, it had big yellow and brown stains on the pits and stains, darker than what you'd expect from just sweat. But Billy Mays, patron saint of stained brand, came through.

>> No.10278920

Pits and waist, I meant

>> No.10278924

Positive feels incoming: every time I go out in lolita I get very happy/positive reactions and compliments, usually from middle aged or older ladies. It makes my day when people are so kind!

>> No.10278928

Anon remind your mum that autism is genetic and not contagious. You've always been autistic, and I'm happy you're comfortable with the diagnosis. I've been diagnosed for a few years now and it feels comfy knowing that I'm not broken, just wonky.

>> No.10278930

not if you want a hot guy like >>10278464 does

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Nobody thinks I should go but I'm still going to go

>> No.10278971


There's nothing wrong with killing people.

>> No.10278972 [DELETED] 

Also, women would kill people too except:
1. No woman ever experiences any difficulty in life
2. Women are incapable of doing anything

Women love to kill children though since that's the mental/physical level they're at.

>> No.10278980 [DELETED] 

Ik that feel anon

>> No.10279029 [DELETED] 

Asian-American women are well documented to have an intense hatred and discrimination against Asian men and worship white men. It's a well-studied phenomenon that other races don't experience, and pretty weird.

>> No.10279030 [DELETED] 

she doesn't like black or hispanic men either. ONLY white men. ONLY the majority race. yeah, that's usually a red flag

>> No.10279035 [DELETED] 

There's nothing wrong with disliking blacks.

>> No.10279040

Why are scrotes so mentally deficient?

>> No.10279041 [DELETED] 

take your meds

>> No.10279042 [DELETED] 

My only medication is ethanol and it sasy I should give all three of yous a suoer comboswirly

>> No.10279049 [DELETED] 

Don't you have a child to murder, tubby?

Don't you have to go and complain about men's natural sexual perference for 14 year olds girls, roastie?

>> No.10279050 [DELETED] 

I have a dork to swirly if you don't give me your lunch money

>> No.10279052 [DELETED] 

I could punch you really hard and you would cry.

>> No.10279053 [DELETED] 

Your face is enough to make anyone cry

>> No.10279054 [DELETED] 

Then men love killing women because they're on the same level? Nice circular logic

>> No.10279059 [DELETED] 

incels are weaker than the average woman so I find that hard to believe

>> No.10279060 [DELETED] 

Men can kill anything because they're superior.

Women are ONLY capable of murdering small children and that's why they do it so often. Women just love the idea of murdering children so much they consoder it a human right.

Can whales like you even cry?

Nothing is weaker than a woman.

>> No.10279133 [DELETED] 

hows it feel to know that every person who has the misfortune of being in your life hates you?

>> No.10279157

I have a cartoonish hourglass but all I want is to be flat chested with a flat ass so I can look cute.

Whenever I cosplay anything it looks slutty af even if I try to hide my curves. I made the mistake of cosplaying a family friendly character and got accused of padding and some mean looks and comments.

I want to be a lilith not a morrigan. :(

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My girlfriend of 1 year and I shared a lot of interests, and cosplay was one of them, we always planned to cosplay together. I still loved her but I broke up with her in April because I couldn't imagine myself with her in the future and she had behavioral patterns she that bordered on abusive and I really wasn't in a state with my mental health to fight with her about boundaries and try to make it work.

She's all I think about and I can't imagine myself with anyone else. I miss her so much.

I never got to cosplay with her.

I really wish we could have.

I'm missing it too but my streak was only for 4 years.

>> No.10279242

Man, I'm always relieved when this happens when I buy stained dresses as well, but it sure does imply some nasty shit about the washing habits of some lolitas.
I mainly buy fairly basic non-OTT pieces too, it's not even dresses with thin snaggy fabric and loads of bows and other details on them. Still inexcusable not to wash those but more understandable than plain cotton dresses.

>> No.10279253

Lace market has been a gold mine lately, yet here I am with no money.

>> No.10279259

Someone's got 3 pairs of otks up that I've been lusting over for a while. Totally expect some last minute bids on them and my budget only allows me to go for one. Bad feels

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>"hey anon we should cosplay Lora and Jin we have the perfect height difference"
>"Sinbad is my favorite character from magi he's so handsome"
>"hey anon you should do watch magi I think you would make a really good Sinbad"
>"hey anon of I ever get around making my Rinea cosplay do you want to be my Berkut?"
Why didn't I pick up on the hints before it was too late? Why am I such a dumbfuck?

>> No.10279268

Alice and the Pirates socks? The diamond ones? Good luck, I got the purple ones on my watchlist myself to match an ouji outfit I'm building but no loss to me if I don't get them.

>> No.10279270 [DELETED] 

I always thought it was an exaggeration or a joke when people say 30 yr old women are desperate to get married. But I just turned 30 a few months ago and now I want to get married so fucking bad.

>> No.10279309

Yes! Eyeing the other two more myself coincidentally so good luck to you too. Judging from the bids on the gold/white ones I should prolly aim for the black/red...

>> No.10279376

I unexpectedly got a 25k bill and I don't have any savings. My lolita wardrobe would pay for maybe 3k if I'm lucky. I'm going to have to make some major changes in my life, like quitting all my hobbies and stop hanging out with friends. I'm going to miss my comm so much. I don't know how to explain this to them.

>> No.10279378

Where do you live? America? That's crazy...

>> No.10279379


>> No.10279382 [DELETED] 

bill for what?! I'm so sorry, that's terrible

>> No.10279383 [DELETED] 

That's private. It was a series of dumb decisions when I look back. Partly because of mental illness.

>> No.10279387

What did you get yourself into that possibly cost so much money and came out of nowhere? It sounds like it must be medical or accident related, i hope you're alright.

Since your collection can sell for so little, you shouldn't sell it. It would be a waste of time that you'll probably have to spend working like crazy to make ends meet

>> No.10279389

I would rather not say. It came out of nowhere to me, but they had been trying to contact me for over a year while the amount kept getting higher. It is completely my fault though. I have mental illness and I literally forgot about this thing I had to pay and didn't check mail regularly.

Thanks for the advice. I guess I just feel guilty keeping it.

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Why do girls only approach me when I crossplay?

Do you think a man in drag is less scary or something? Like when black people wear glasses?

>> No.10279404

I'm so sorry anon. I'm in the Dutch comm too, sad to hear one of our own is struggling like this. That is such a large sum of money. Is there no way you can get help with that bill? Via vraagwijzer, your gemeente? Get schuldhulpverlening? Or a lening (kredietbank)?

>> No.10279410

I'm looking into those things now but I will just have to stop spending money on things, besides the basics like cheap food. Since I don't have children, anything big I can sell, or a physical disability, all the help I can get is basically just them telling me to cancel my videoland account and make a payment plan with me.

>> No.10279414

Yeah, definitely

>> No.10279415

This is why I never buy secondhand. Wouldn't take stained brand even if it was free, paying money and receiving a stained garment is a horror story by itself.

>> No.10279417

Why don't you just buy new socks? They're not that expensive

>> No.10279448

I'm black and I'm scary with my glasses, so whatever black person you know that's not scary with glasses can you like.... Point them here?

>> No.10279454

the new janny is going a bit too crazy with all the deletions. half the shit from this thread is gone now.

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>> No.10279457

for >>10279448

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>Gained weight last year, super self conscious about it
>Don't really see a difference on myself, but..
>My dresses fit me again. ALL of them do.
>In fact, my dream dress that I bought and couldn't wear at the time fits me now

I am so stoked I actually can't sleep rn. I spent the last hour making a coord and it's 3:30am. Not being able to wear 80% of my wardrobe was sad af.

I wonder when I will start actually seeing the change.

>> No.10279531

I fucking hate cosplayers. I’m so sick of all these cliques. I thought I was starting to get tired of cosplay because I’ve been so busy, but after today I realized that wasn’t it. I happily made a new cosplay, I’m really excited about it. But then when I try to reach out to other cosplayers and make friends 9 times out of 10 I get totally ignored. It makes me feel like shit. It’s not even like I’m reaching out to those insta famous 100k follower cosplayers who have people trying to get their attention 24/7. I’m literally just trying to make friends with local cosplayers or people who cosplay from the same things as me. But it seems pretty clear to me at this point that these people have their group of friends and they aren’t interested in letting anyone else in. It all feels like such a fucking joke too. These are the same people preaching about cosplay positivity and making jabs at patreon cosplayers for being stuck up, but these people are way more stuck up than anyone else I’ve met in this hobby. I hate that I feel like my hobby is being ruined for me. And I guess now that I’m aware of this being the reason for why I’ve been losing interest in my hobby, I can try to find ways around those feelings. It all kind of just sucks though

>> No.10279534

maybe you can't make friends because they can sense you're a bitter, desperate autist

>> No.10279538
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It's a shitty hobby anyway. Literally no men or women worth their salt are into cosplay/fandom shit. Why surround yourself with absolute losers? Get into fashion instead. It will boost your confidence every day, not just on days when you want to play fantasy mental illness make-believe.

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>pretending one of these is mental illness and the other isn’t

>> No.10279551

as if most lolitas aren't mentally ill lol

>> No.10279557

Both are fine hobbies imo, but personally I don’t see the appeal of cosplay. It seems like such an investment to then only be able to wear it to cons or events, whereas lolita is meant to be worn in everyday life.

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>tfw no cute cosplay/lolita gf in the northeast to dress up and do cute couple shit with
why live

>> No.10279582

Man, I just really love lolita.

>> No.10279617

>tfw will never travel to Japan because of terrible flying anxiety
It'd be an 11 hr flight. I can do short flights, but it's terrible. I just can't get over that roller coaster/free fall feeling, even if there's little to no turbulences.

>> No.10279626 [DELETED] 

How does this make you feel, fellow femanons?

Low estimates indicate a significant portion of men are sexually aroused by female children (<12 years old)
>26.25% [a]
>12-32% [a]
>21%-22% of males
>25% [c]

High estimates indicate the vast majority of men are sexually aroused by female children (<12 years old)
>58% [d]
>70% [e]
>89% [f]
>88.7% [a]

a. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0005789405800395
b. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1020699013309
c. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1996-14627-001
d. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/17746172_The_structure_of_erotic_preference_in_the_nondeviant_male
e. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1975-21378-001
f. https://www.mayoclinicproceedings.org/article/S0025-6196(11)61074-4/abstract

>> No.10279629

It's more like most of the thread was being clogged up by the same pedoposter and once they got banned you could see just how hard they were samefagging in here.

>> No.10279644

It makes me hate men because they ruined my childhood

>> No.10279650

It makes me feel like this is completely off topic and had nothing to do with cgl

>> No.10279653

Why do Male posters post this random weird shit?

>> No.10279662

It makes me feel indifferent because physical arousal studies are notoriously bad at aligning with preference (like those studies on women where they all got aroused by watching monkey sex)

>> No.10279666

You got a 25K bill over a Netflix clone?

>> No.10279788
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Went to a friend's wedding recently. Lately I've been depressed and some difficult things have happened, so I haven't really put effort into looking nice for a while. For the wedding I went all out, make up, hair, new dress. I felt really cute for the first time in a while. But once people started posting pictures online all of my confidence evaporated. I've gained so much weight. I knew it before but I didn't think it showed so much. It's probably because I'm extremely short and have a naturally stocky build. I don't get plump and curvy, I just look like I should be harvesting beets in the old country. I want to be pretty and feel good about myself and maybe have the confidence to cosplay again one day. It's so frustrating. When I was younger I'm not sure if I necessarily had an eating disorder but I'd skip meals a lot, and I was pretty skinny. It's messed up but that's the best I've ever felt about myself.

>> No.10279790

It's like giving yourself awful morning breath on purpose, but with added germ transfer from someone else's food hole. 2/10 would not recommend

>> No.10279794

God I completely know where you're coming from. It helps to remember that your metabolism was probably a lot better when you were younger too, I used to have big hangups over this but eventually you just have to realize that you can get back to that shape. It takes time, and patience, but it can help a lot with your depression to have something to focus on. If you can, try to find that confidence that you felt before seeing all the photos and hang onto that feeling, I know it's not easy but it's a good motivator to building up to finding that feeling all the time.

I'm sorry that a bunch of difficult times happened in your life but just know you have someone rooting for you to get out of that bad place and being someone happier. You got this!

>> No.10279800

Oh gosh, thank you! Your kind words have been received and I very much appreciate them. Having someone, somewhere cheering me on is comforting. I hope you're doing well and you enjoy all the holidays coming up

>> No.10279803
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>Wasted almost 300€ in Lolitawardrobe
>There's a dress even more cuter than I bought
What am I doing in my life?!
Fucking end me!
How do I ever give them back or exchange for another one?

>> No.10279804

>There's a even more cuter lolita OP than the one I bought
Fixed a typo.

>> No.10279806

Why would you spend 300 euros on taobao when you could easily afford a really nice brand dress with that

>> No.10279808

what did you get? If you only just ordered you might still be able to change if you message them?

>> No.10279811

Too late.
It arrived at my house.
How do I give them back now?
The stuff I paid is a JSK Miss Lady Vintage Classic Lolita.

>> No.10279817

Videoland is superior and so is npo start. Anyway obviously that's not the bill I got. I just know when I seek help, a counselor or something will "help" me by asking me to write down all my expenses and then point out that I can cancel my videoland account to save money. They are not actually going to help me with the bill lol.

>> No.10279822

Why should they take back items cause you want buy another dress? That is your problem not theirs. Learn to manage your money better.

>> No.10279828

bad luck but as >>10279822 says if you already have it then its not their problem you now realized you actually want something else more.

save up again, that's life

>> No.10279843

Based on your wording I thought that you said the bill was from them which is why I was so confused.

>> No.10279859

feminine clothing is generally less intimidating than masculine clothing. Its also looks better than generic walmart tier clothing, which might make someone want to talk to you because you look special.

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>tfw you were simply created for amusement
>fake vs real hmm
>Help me out b-Bros, which w-one do i choose?
VS. Superwoman btw (WAKANDA forever)

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Bad news. I have to marry a girl in my sister's comm because I accidentally saw her panties.

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>> No.10279931

>Either you threaten them or you're embarrassingly bad, one of the two
While the second item could be true, I'm not they'd use cosplay ability as a criteria to choose whether or not to befriend someone.

>> No.10279952

I was enjoying the race discourse, that's gone too

>> No.10280044

Are you having a stroke?

>> No.10280067

Don't be so shy.
Gently and carefully act like a girl.
Do some selfies with them without talking if they approach you.
If you do that, they'll probably call you a crazy man with a drag.

>> No.10280089 [DELETED] 

My morning routine has dramatically improved since I've started wearing full body pyjamas. It took a while to get used to, but it was so worth it!
In the past I slept in only my underwear, tore any pyjamas off in my sleep and then didn't want to get up in the morning. It was cold outside the cover! I didn't want to start my day.
Now I've found a comfortable pyjamas, don't take it off in my sleep, and it brings the warmth of sleep with me when I get up. As a bonus I'm always presentable, should the door ring early in the morning, and I look cute. I want more cute pyjamas! I want to nurture this positive change in my life!

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>mfw a girl in my comm starts talking about r/femaledatingstrategy and spouting their incel/TERF rhetoric

>> No.10280106

why is that bad news?

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>> No.10280110 [DELETED] 

>lolita butt inspection
how can I inspect lolita butts, can I make dick into ass inspection as well?

>> No.10280119 [DELETED] 

Go away, crossboarder. You aren't funny.

>> No.10280121 [DELETED] 

>"this lolita is missbehaving, we gonna need rectal exam on her"

>> No.10280123

I'm so used to being selfish with my very limited amount of energy that anyone that encroaches upon it, even reasonably, makes me feel bitter and brittle and grumpy.

>> No.10280127

Nayrt but this is like saying "why would you spend 300 euros on Angelic Pretty when you could afford a nice BTSSB dress?"

Sometimes people buy a taobao dress because they want that taobao dress.

>> No.10280138

i wish i had nice friends to dress up and do cute things with. i don’t know how to make friends and my face is intimidating. it’s been like this my whole life..
im going to be a lonelita forever.

>> No.10280221

I legit only get a bunch of dudes that want selfies when I crossplay tf

>> No.10280269 [DELETED] 


Females r dumb

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females are pretty fucked up, not gonna lie, but...

>> No.10280280

Oh no why did I look that up?

Organise some meets. It's easier to make friends if not many people attend.

>> No.10280283

idk then. I don't crossplay, but I wear cute clothes and makeup, and its always women who compliment me.

>> No.10280286

>TERF rhetoric
Neck yourself troon/patriarchal handmaiden

>> No.10280290 [DELETED] 

I just kind of don't like women lads.

>> No.10280291 [DELETED] 

i have tried for years..

>> No.10280299 [DELETED] 

I'm honestly scared that I've become bad at kissing after kissing the same man who isn't great at it every day for over five years.

>> No.10280301

Never, ana-chan. Congrats tho

>> No.10280312
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>close group of lolita friends
>tfw I'm the ugly friend

Women lads are a strange people, agreed

>> No.10280448

Have you tried just minimizing your group instead of closing?

>> No.10280463

cheerleader effect my dude. You aren't ugly when you're around them.

>> No.10280479 [DELETED] 

>tfw want to disfigure women for fun
Why bros?

>> No.10280539 [DELETED] 

Seek therapy asap

>> No.10280558

I get that Arda makes their wigs so thick because it's easier to remove hair than it is to add it, but I'm so tired of having to take wefts out of every wig I buy.

>> No.10280636

Good feels!
>See btssb crown bag on LM for $80
>Buy it on y!a for 2300¥
Aw yeah, bargains!

>> No.10280642

lol I meant that I have a group of close friends. I guess I worded that badly.

Nah, there's always one ugly/mediocre cheerleader who doesn't get picked on but everyone ignores their existence. That's me.

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I swear this board has been raided to shit for the last week or so. I'm guessing by a discord rather than /pol/ or /lgbt/ since they seem at least a tiny bit familiar with board culture. Or maybe I'm just paranoid, I don't know, but it's stressing me out.

>> No.10280652 [DELETED] 

>it is very easy to be attractive as a woman
>no it isn't!
>there are indeed many women with ugly faces that have many admirers
>yeah, but none of them are Chad!
nice movement of the goalpost, roastie

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Quick reminder to sage and report off-topic bullshit

>> No.10280662 [DELETED] 

>there are indeed many women with ugly faces that have many admirers
You know those men just want to fuck them once and then drop them

>> No.10280670 [DELETED] 

I've seen a handful of maleposters throwing around /soc/ terms in the last week, so it could be a board. Could just be a server like you said, though, since /soc/ is pretty normie.

>> No.10280672 [DELETED] 

I would think it's /r9k/ considering how bitter they sound. Eh, ignore them.

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Friendly reminder that big boobs never make life any better and only attract unwanted attention.

>> No.10280676 [DELETED] 

but the whole conversation started because >>10278464 had a crush on a "cute All Might cosplayer"

>> No.10280678 [DELETED] 

Stop replying to the scrote. They don't listen to reason, they are too drowned in their own self pity.

>> No.10280679
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>steadily saving up for ALA
>job I’m working for became a fucking shitshow out of nowhere
>planning to quit after ALA
>found out a friend of mine i haven’t seen in 15 years is going to Anime Expo 2020 and also my nieces want to go as well so it’s now a vacay I can’t back out on
>tfw I can’t quit at least until August next year
Should I quit after ALA or should I grin and bear it for the next 8 months?

>> No.10280691

Search for a new job while at your current job, obv.

>> No.10280710 [DELETED] 

>every man that is interested in a woman wants sex and nothing else
that is false

>> No.10280712 [DELETED] 

It's objectively true. Men want sex no matter how much they lie to you.

>> No.10280717 [DELETED] 

2 or 3 /pol/tards are here memeing, not too much though, I'm one, not coordinated with anyone, but I'm here because I'm legit interested in the topics covered in here. Still triggering the shit out of you "gulls", not my intention, you're just to used to your own circlejerck.

>> No.10280719 [DELETED] 

I am a male that believes that pre-marital sex is wrong. Your claim has now been disproved.

>> No.10280722 [DELETED] 
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Their sex drive is what makes men weak. They can either use their brain or their dick but not both at the same time.

>> No.10280724 [DELETED] 

>implying whamen can think when they're horny

>> No.10280738 [DELETED] 

"want sex" and "want nothing but sex" are two very different claims.

>> No.10280739 [DELETED] 
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And what do you think the reason was your bf talked to you?
>oh man her petty looks amazing, i really want to be with a woman like that
>oh man that girl looks hot i really want to bang her

get real

>> No.10280740 [DELETED] 

Wow, a femcel in the wild.

>> No.10280763 [DELETED] 

i'm male.
Some people date other looking for love. Others date looking for sex appeal. I actually talked about it with a female friend a few days ago. I essentially said
>oh man her petty looks amazing, i really want to be with a woman like that
while she said
>oh man that girl looks hot i really want to bang her

I want to date someone I see as a best friend. She thinks thats weird, and only wants to date someone who looks hot.

>> No.10280764 [DELETED] 

ntayrt but I met my husband online and he fell for me before even seeing a picture of me, which I didn't send for like a month because I had an anxiety disorder.

>> No.10280765 [DELETED] 
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>too used to your own circlejerk
>says the /pol/tard

>> No.10280767 [DELETED] 

I'm not your usual /pol/tard, I despise stereotypical /pol/tards parroting the meme of the month and popular opinion #3123123, but to each their own

>> No.10280768 [DELETED] 

Don't waste your time on these assholes, they'll never listen to you. They just want to be right and reinforce their own mindset. Just let them jerk each other into submission

>> No.10280770

I share it more for any lurkers on the fence who are at risk of succumbing to a false and evopsych-loaded belief system about men/women

>> No.10280771

Damn, that's actually pretty sensible. I didn't think of that. Carry on, friend!

>> No.10280783 [DELETED] 

If you stick around the board enough to claim you came from there, you are the typical poster, sry2say.

Evopsych is obviously bullshit, but pointing out that men often view women as objects and not as humans has nothing to do with that.

>> No.10280785 [DELETED] 

yeah, nah fuck what you got say stupid bitch you don't know me and never will

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and btw, remove your tumbrl™ buttplug so you can maybe stop spewing your retarded "opinions" some fucking kikes planted on your head and the whole herd of tumblrinas like you as facts, after that you can kys

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Describe your bf in 3 words or less!

>> No.10280798 [DELETED] 


>> No.10280800 [DELETED] 

Cosplay? Lolita? Neither.

>> No.10280805 [DELETED] 
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Guess you can't describe what you don't have

>> No.10280809 [DELETED] 


>> No.10280824 [DELETED] 

So you're a religious scrote who obsesses over women having premarital sex. Not much better mate

>> No.10280828 [DELETED] 

Is a bottom.

>> No.10280840 [DELETED] 

Yeah? Well at least I can open jars with and without a boner, so there!

>> No.10280842

This is a good post.

>> No.10280848
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>bid on that one dress for days
>finally get it
Truly ecstatic

>> No.10280849 [DELETED] 

>implying most women don’t have an equally high sex drive

>> No.10280850 [DELETED] 

Sweetest boy ever

>> No.10280855 [DELETED] 

We really don't.

>> No.10280857 [DELETED] 

Where are all the male costhots at then? Why do incels exist? Why do men complain about women not sleeping with them? Why does male sexual interests fuel the porn industry so much?

>> No.10280860 [DELETED] 

Then why are most women I know way more addicted to sex than any man I’ve ever met?

>> No.10280864 [DELETED] 

I've never met anyone addicted to actual sex. I have met a bunch of men with porn addiction though

>> No.10280865 [DELETED] 

I’ve met too many people addicted to actual sex. All women

>> No.10280870 [DELETED] 

Not saying your lying, but that kind of behaviour in women is largely associated with mental illness. Most women who are sexually promiscuous do it for attention. There's a reason why such women are called whores, but not men, because calling a man a whore is redundant because the two titles in interchangeable.

>> No.10280871 [DELETED] 

Every single one of those women I’m talking about is mentally ill and craves attention, so makes sense

>> No.10280879 [DELETED] 

Men would be the same if women were as desperate to sleep with them, but we aren't.

>> No.10280882

>Where are all the male costhots at then?

>Why do incels exist? Why do men complain about women not sleeping with them?
because they are 1/10 men who think they deserve 10/10 women

>Why does male sexual interests fuel the porn industry so much?

does it?

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>saving money for cosplay and con
>computer breaks almost 1 month before it
there it goes.

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Who still uses a computer? Don't you have a phone?

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I'm really anxious. I just want this to go well and I want to make some new friends at Blizzcon but I'm also a skinnyfat 30 year old autismo with nothing to offer fug

>> No.10280956

Work out and eat better if your weight bothers you, and if you want to have "something to offer," be nice, help those around you when you can, be polite, and always have gum/mints.

>> No.10280959

Good advice but how to eat better if I am carrying candy around at all times?

>> No.10280965

Gum and mints aren't candy, and they have like 1 calorie per piece.

>> No.10280966

Being skinny fat, you don't have much weight to lose.

>> No.10280969
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My boyfriend poo'd himself at Carl's Jr last week. And refused to leave until he'd finished his chicken strips.

>> No.10280982

Today this older guy said to me "that's a classic look, my mother used to dress like that and she was a feminist!"

bless him lmao

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I hate using phones to death. Never got used to touch screens. I still do most of my things from a computer (including my job).

>> No.10281111

I'm sure you do fine

>> No.10281227 [DELETED] 

My girlfriend has a roastir vagina.

Should I dump her for being a whore?

>> No.10281232 [DELETED] 

No because the way a vagina looks has nothing to do with being a whore.
Mine looks probably just as awful, but I’ve never had sex and never will. Partly because I don’t want it to be seen, and partly because sex is a disgusting, stupid waste of time

>> No.10281233 [DELETED] 

Why do you feel entitled to reply to me?

>> No.10281234 [DELETED] 

I answered your question, dumbass. Don’t dump her unless you have more solid proof of her being a whore

>> No.10281235 [DELETED] 

All women are whores.

I'm going to beat her now and spit on her just because you're such a cunt.

>> No.10281237 [DELETED] 

Why did you date her if you knew she’s a whore?

>> No.10281239 [DELETED] 

God you cunts are so dumb and disgusting.

>> No.10281240

it's a special kind of retarded to ask something in this thread and expect only someone who agrees with you to reply

>> No.10281242 [DELETED] 

Maybe just don't be so toxic?

Maybe then you could also find a man to love you...

>> No.10281275

Thank you, I posted it when I was slightly delirious from lack of sleep earlier this week and I didn't expect anyone to reply. He's a quality lad and everyone deserves to have a partner that loves them. I hope everyone here has a good Halloween!

My condolences to you and your man's anus.

>> No.10281337

Glad to hear you're doing great with your bf. Happy halloween!

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My ex hates me and it's my fault but we're both here and we're going to run into each other at some point and she's probably not going to be chill. I hope she's chill. I made this costume in 2 days and it's not very impressive but a couple people have been genuine in their praise and it brightens my mood quite a bit

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>> No.10281377

Funny, I posted mine when I was also sleep deprived and miserable. Hope your Halloween is great too!

>> No.10281519

Looking to cosplay for the first time, gonna be Boomer Dante. Making sure I get everything in real leather makes it all kind of expensive, projecting 6 months out current budget. Is this how everyone of you feels talking about money? This is kind of a strange feeling.

>> No.10281558

As someone who's been planning a DMC3 Vergil for a long-ass time now, yeah this shit gets really pricey.

>> No.10281652

Damn, still very excited to get started however. Will be fun as fuck to pull off and show people at a convention

>> No.10281661

Found this post.
Holy shit saltines if this is true. Lol

>> No.10281668

>The videos were well received and peeked the attention of the cosplay department heads for THE-CON. I met with them and asked if I would be interested in filming the mascots for the following year allover THE-CON and make ads with the mascots in-advance to help promote. The offered hotel stay, and food for the weekend. No pay, but this is because it was “my first year volunteering” and not being a department head.

Rookie mistake. Say no unless you get atleast minimum wage

>> No.10281685

>lost a bar costume contest to some faggot in an inflatable trex suit with a baseball hat taped to the top

>> No.10281723

i want to host an itabag meet at my local con next year but every bag i saw at this year's con were shitty con bags with random weeb, LGBT and fandom pins and i don't want people or bags like that at my meet.

>> No.10281767

Used to going to cons with my now ex. First time going alone. It's really lame. A lot more lonely than I thought it would be when I have a really hard time socializing with strangers. It used to be so fun.

>> No.10281771

what's wrong with lgbt? I can't have a yaoi or yuri itabag?

>> No.10281778

Pick up smoking

>> No.10281779

I already do, how would that help?

>> No.10281782

>just do drugs!
the absolute state of america

>> No.10281783

Isn't weeb fandom shit the whole point of itabags

>> No.10281785
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I'm sure being all haggered and shit would make anybody feel better

>> No.10281808

Nah bro, you can have the thinnest, hottest body but if you have an unsymetrical or toad face it'll be shit

>> No.10281815
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>be me
>professionally diagnosed retard, i have BPD as well as a whole stew of other mental illnesses
>BPD flare up due to my own retardation
>use healthy coping mechanisms to get through it
>Girl in my comm makes a tiktok on me, is hellbent on getting me banned from my comm
>buy a new dress to cope and end up pissing away $200

I wish I wasn't a fucking retard, I now have no savings all bc some other retard started drama with me

>> No.10281820

That's fine if it's two characters. It's not fine if it's just a collection of various rainbow flag pins with "Gay" or "trans" Etc written in them.

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>> No.10281830

pls cosplay sinbad i'll be ur new gf

>> No.10281843 [DELETED] 

>tfw all females are worthless whores

>> No.10281857

>tfw older with more money
>tfw starting to grow out of lolita

>> No.10281862

Can u sell the dress? You might get 150$ out of it

>> No.10281870

It's taobao so I could probably get $130 for the set and id be alright if unexexpected bills came up but I do still love the dress a lot even if it was a stressful impulse purchase. I think I'll just budget better for my next few pays and take more commissions, and be more careful in the future.

I'm seeing my therapist next week so I'll ask her about techniques to stop impulse spending

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>Tfw things working out too well in my life
>super paranoid as this always proceeds something horrific and stressful
>20 hours of OT approved
>I sold several things easily on lacemarket no cheap people attempted to lowball me
>Took a risk even doing a payment plan and you know those have a potential to go very poorly and it was super streamlined
>Sudden illnesses for multiple people in my household
>multiple trips to urgent care and hospital
> I should have known it would never be so easy this pain is inevitable

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She doesn't understand that I've battled my whole life to not be the person she thinks I am but due to my poor communication skills I really don't know if it's possible to atone for being such a fucking sperg

>> No.10282049

>brolita bf that's not secretly gay

I know there are a couple of gay brolitas out there, but is it really that prevalent?

>> No.10282080

All the good ones I've ever met IRL have been loudly gay except that one Euro ouji with all the Moitie ever. He sometimes wears lolita and has a cute girlfriend.

>> No.10282100
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Sometimes I want to switch from gothic lolita to sweet lolita. Especially when I see new releases from baby the stars shine bright and emily temple cute. I have poor impulse control so I've bought things from baby more than a few times, only to sell it a couple of weeks after receiving it because I don't like actually wearing it. I think it would be easier for me if gothic brands released more actually new things. Looking at you Atelier Boz and Moitie. There's only so many basic black dresses I need. Why don't they make more original lace and hair accessories like baby does? Why do I torture myself by following their twitter?

>> No.10282109

My fucking SS didn't comment on my dream dress even though they had all night and the status was updated to "waiting for response from seller".

It's sold out now. Someone else bought it.

>> No.10282131

Which SS was it?

>> No.10282146

He's an autist.

>> No.10282161

From Japan. They're usually pretty good, idk what went wrong.

>> No.10282180

I have a similar issue. I'm primarily sweet but I actually really want to wear gothic, it's just that gothic brands don't release enough things I want to buy. People keep recommending Moitie but I hate the direction they've been taking lately. And it doesn't help that the secondhand market sucks for gothic.

>> No.10282183

Grandma died last night and I don't know how to handle it.

>> No.10282188

When my grandmother died I took time to cry and mourn like a normal person, but my uncles divided all their stuff with a few days and I was left with nothing to remember her by

>> No.10282189

My condolences anon. Let the mourning period pass instead of trying to deal with everything now, it'll help you heal better in the long run.

>> No.10282191

Ty I'm just stuck at blizzcon for a couple more days, everyone's looking at me when I try to do anything I'm sure I look like a mess. This is literally my nightmare.

>> No.10282236

>emily temple cute.
I have been uninterested in new jfashion releases for a long while, but you made me look them up again and I literally opened my mouth without meaning to. I love their new collection so much.

>> No.10282268
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>at a con
>wearing full lolita, minding my business
>normie walks up
>”what’s your costume?”

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Same. My family thinks im crazy

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>Finally have a job and steady income
>Can finally invest money into lolita and buy some decent everything
>See the sum that I would pay if I were buying everything
>Guilt overcomes me and I become hesitant to buy anything at all

There's even enough money left after the purchase and I don't really intend to buy more until spring next year and yet I feel bad thinking about it.

How can I combine being responsible and being good to myself without overdoing it gulls?

>> No.10282313

I forgot how much I love thrifting

>> No.10282341

Just say it to her jeez.

>> No.10282343

When my grandfather died a year ago I spent two weeks making really elaborate recipes to give myself something to keep my hands and mind occupied for a couple of hours, with something yummy to eat at the end. It helped me get through the most difficult period.

>> No.10282417

>Second real Con experience
>First time doing something that's not just closet cosplay, let alone something I stitched myself, wig etc.
>both really happy with how my first sewing project game out, and feel like I look like a scrub compared to all the really impressive cosplays
>feeling kinda defeated but also kinda motivated to keep grinding

feels weird man

>> No.10282421

She has blocked contact with me after the last autistic misunderstanding and is coping with the breakup through hardcore erp and telling lies about me to her new erp friends that don't know me.

>> No.10282425

>brolita bf that's not secretly gay
>I know there are a couple of gay brolitas out there, but is it really that prevalent?
It's a hobby that basically consists of paying a lot of money to dress up and hang out with notoriously bitchy girls. What kind of men do you think that's going to attract?

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>> No.10282467

Me and the girl I like are going to homecoming in lolita together, theme is "Lunar Nights" and we both have coords to match the theme! Eeeee

>> No.10282498
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Am I the only one who goes to cons with no plans to bang thots? Some of these hoes be thirsty.

>> No.10282532

to most people we all look like weirdos in frilly costumes, anon. only very toned down coords seem to escape scrutiny. don't sweat it, I'm sure you looked cute!

I feel you, I've been in your shoes. getting over spending guilt when you've spent a good amount of time fretting about money is hard. just pace yourself, don't try to buy everything at once even though it's tempting. maybe pick out a few things you really want immediately, the few items on your list that would make you most happy, and only buy those now. or, if that would still seem too expensive, ease yourself into it by buying the cheapest item or two on your list this month, and then buy another couple of items next month. large expenses aren't as scary if you break them up. good luck!

>> No.10282535

find funkbrothers

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>order a shirt on Etsy
>seller dispatches it, but no tracking number
>think "This is weird, considering nothing on their page states that they don't do tracking, and this is an international order."
>message them asking if it will update with a tracking number
>it's been two days with no response, and yesterday they were posting publicly, so they probably two
Should I request a cancellation? It's been 3 days since I ordered, and their policy is that you can request a cancellation within 2 days, so they might deny it if I try that.
I could also either try to open a case now, or just wait until the day Etsy says I can leave a review and open a case if (more like when desu) it doesn't show up. What do?

>> No.10282613
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>order a shirt on Etsy
>seller dispatches it, but no tracking number
>think "This is weird, considering nothing on their page states that they don't do tracking, and this is an international order."
>message them asking if it will update with a tracking number
>it's been two days with no response, and yesterday they were posting publicly, so they probably saw my message
Should I request a cancellation? It's been 3 days since I ordered, and their policy is that you can request a cancellation within 2 days, so they might deny it if I try that.
I could also either try to open a case now, or just wait until the day Etsy says I can leave a review and open a case if (more like when, honestly) it doesn't show up. What do?

>> No.10282616

Why do I feel like these listings are sold for a fetish purpose?

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It is.
Pic related, comment on a (sold) listing for dirty socks.

>> No.10282627

>notoriously bitchy girls
Only people who spent too much time on cgl and never actually interact with lolitas irl think this way

>> No.10282673

Only met 3 out in the wild and they were all massive cunts and actually insane

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>tfw too skinny to cosplay all my favorites without looking like a tryhard
time to gain 60 pounds bros for a fucking bmi change of 5

>> No.10282961

It's been really hard for me to go to meetings and enjoy wearing lolita with friends after two former friends caused our circle of friends to split up. I just don't know who still likes me or who is keeping distance to make them happy. I have noticed some girls acting cold all of a sudden and it is causing anxiety because I don't know why they are acting cold. Only one girl was kind enough to let me know they were shit stirring and starting rumors. I feel like everyone else just keeps quiet to me about it.
I don't get why no one else brings it up to me. If you are going to behave differently towards me or avoid me at least explain why. I can easily explain my side of the story and even have receipts but I just don't get the opportunity to do so because no one will talk to me about it. I still don't know what they are telling other people but our falling out was about them getting angry over a really petty thing that no else bothers. What's worse is that one of them already has a reputation of shit stirring over petty things.

>> No.10283008

I'm glad I'm in a small comm. There's no drama.

>> No.10283011

Finally got a 9 to 5 in a field I love and I'm making enough money to fund my hobbies... But I'm exhausted.
I spent the last 5 weekends trying to make the first cosplay I've handmade in a year and I've got 2 weeks to go, I'm just mentally gone. I sat and procrastinated on something simple that took me 5 minutes to sew. I'm considering not going to the con and dropping to hobby and just living in adult paycheck to paycheck misery.

Hell, the last 2 months I've been considering selling all my lolita dresses. I just don't have the energy for what I love anymore.

>> No.10283027

This, most of them are sensitive little snowflakes.

>> No.10283044

it depends if you like the person/have chemistry

if there's no chemistry it's just bumping nasty mouths

if you're horny or into the person it's like...fireworks in the middle of the night

like a cool glass of water after a hard workout

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>> No.10283134

Looks like you and I need to switch places they all avoid me.

>> No.10283176

Every guy i try to get to know at cons blocks me sooner or later for no fucking reason

>> No.10283181

I wish i had a boy that is my slave with a mouth and a dick that I can have sex with. I would also dress him in lolita but have no emotional attachments to him and he would wear lolita while doing slave chores

>> No.10283185

You're probably clingy

>> No.10283186

Nobody cares you degenerate

>> No.10283264

Sat with my gf and my friend with a girl sitting in front of us by herself. When something interesting happened at the panel or when we made comments she would look at us with a genuine reaction as if we were her pals, or she were part of the group.

I wanted so badly to introduce myself and welcome her to be our friend but my gf gets really jealous and I didn't want to ruin the mood. I had to leave before the panel ended and feel even if she wasn't going to become our friend, her being alone but still trying to connect with us as another human being made me feel such a strong desire to be open and kind and welcoming.

Most people I know do not have this kind of empathy and I wish I could have done more. I hope she had a pleasant weekend and that she found some sense of companionship from our trio even from one row away in that short time.

>> No.10283267

God I love Battler x Beatrice.

>> No.10283289 [DELETED] 

Why are females so utterly devoid of thought and so boring?

>> No.10283306

>Euro ouji with all the Moitie ever
Who this?

>> No.10283313

Can't you help your gf work on her jealousy issues? She is making you a less kind person..

>> No.10283319

>be tog
>go to fandom meet
>meet some nice local cosplayers who wanna do a location shoot
>one of them is really cute but i'm more interested in the shoot opportunity at this point
>some time passes
>other two cosplayers look likely to drop out
>might just be me shooting the cute girl solo
>she's been liking a lot of old stuff on my social media in a way that suggests she's been creeping

I wanna test the water, but there's no way i can do that ahead of a solo shoot right? Like i don't think there's anyway to do that without being creepy and risking giving her the impression that I only offered the shoot out of wanting to bone her. Wat do?

>> No.10283343

>Cosplayed for first time ever as a Deku
>Didn't see any obnoxious BNHA fans
>Didn't have any crazy Togas after me
>Had a lot of compliments on cosplay
>A few normal people outside of the con liked my cosplay and knew who Deku was (BNHA is popular with black people?)
>It was a fun experience
10/10 will do it again

>> No.10283355

Hello there. I'm looking for power ranger cosplayers who are into sexual talk about the franchise. Bulges and pic trading (of the series, not of your cosplay if you're not comfortable). Discord is blueranger#2189

Thanks in advance.

>> No.10283356

Get ready for spam

>> No.10283435

>Most people I know do not have this kind of empathy

Being nice to strangers is a pretty common courtesy. If you think this is abnormal, surround yourself with better people, starting with a girlfriend who won't be jealous of you interacting with another woman.

>> No.10283438

Do the shoot, and after it's done, say she was fun to be around with and ask if she'd be interested in hanging out some time.

>> No.10283444

nayrt, but my wild guess would be sorgevinter

>> No.10283452

>been sewing for several years now
>Sewing quality doesn't really look that much better, I'm self taught so I'm definitely going past some important basics
>Think about and read about sewing all the time, but when I sit down I just think about how much I just want the project to be done, so I rush and fuck up my work

It's annoying as hell, and I know it's not a very difficult hobby and just takes time and patience. Genuinely annoyed at myself, the less I like a project/work, the faster I rush.

>> No.10283584

Note to self: Stop giving a fuck about halloween at work

>> No.10283585

I really want to give my lolita friend something special. Idk her measurements, so I can't really buy her a dress, so should I just buy some nice accessories for her, or just give her money or ask her to send me a link to a dress and buy it for her?
What would you want your best friend to give to you?

>> No.10283596

If you have pictures of her coords through FB or insta or something, figure out what the prints are called, and then buy her something that matches a dress. A headbow, jewellery, wristcuffs, or socks are all welcome gifts.

>> No.10283638
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No spam.
No one contacted me.

>> No.10283642

I get impatient and distracted easily when sewing too. I've found that either listening to an interesting podcast it or watching something that doesn't require me to look at it all the time helps me with focus and patience. Sewing is kinda boring when you're actually doing it.

>> No.10283679
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Just turned 30.

>> No.10283680

I think spam from people replying to you. I hope you grow out of your weird fetish because there clearly isn't a single woman who has it. Your only chance is to pay someone to pretend to care.

>> No.10283694

>tfw no loli gf
>tfw old hags hate love

>> No.10283699

Ill do it for $1000

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Same only the girls just never say anything past the forced online reintroduction then eventually block or unfriend. I've got pretty bad self esteem issues though so that's probably got something to do with it. It's a shame because I'm pretty good at fabricating props and costumes but I'm too shy to wear them. All I want to do is be a packmule for a nice cosplay gf who wont disrespect me or ignore me for days on end like my last ones did. I feel like that's not very unreasonable to expect from a partner, but I dunno maybe I'm just wrong here

>> No.10283724

What about if I only want to look at pictures of Jiro Okamoto's ass?

>> No.10283744

Ok nonce

>> No.10283779
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Anyone go to Momocon? I saw a dealer forcibly removed by security for selling stolen wood carvings.

>> No.10283852

Where do i find a gf to play video games with?


>> No.10283874
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It's the tedious ritual you go through before sex, you both have to pretend you enjoy smashing your food holes together before mashing your other bits together.

>> No.10283886

>If you're not paying attention
Sorry. Typo.

>> No.10283897
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Two cute girls in cosplay approached me at blizzcon at different times and they wantes to talk about our costumes and I was so awkward I couldn't hold any kind of conversation and they both just moved on. I think I'm going to die alone. How do I stop being like this? I'm not unattractive, I just stammer and can't get the right words out, my few friends and family left are just patient with me and my barely high functioning autism, I can't really expect that from strangers

>> No.10283901

practice makes perfect

>> No.10283908

This is absolutely solid advice but that's a month away and i don't wanna like... risking going too far the other way and making her think im not interested? She just reblogged one of my selfies with a lewd reaction image implying she wants to fuck so I'm AAAAAAA.

The thing is we're both girls so i don't even know whether she genuinely wants to fuck or is just doing the girl social media support thing. Like you know how some girls go really OTT complimenting each other's selfies?

>> No.10283909

it sounds to me like she really wants to fug, but some people are too brave on social media and when there's the chance to do something about it they shit their pants and do nothing, she also seems like that kind of person

>> No.10283921

Date an autistic girl

>> No.10283931

Yeah... I've experienced a lot of the latter. They're often the type who'll make a big deal about girls online and only actually date guys, too, so I'm a little wary of that. Especially in the cosplay community- everyone's gay as hell according to their social media but you don't see many of them in serious homosexual relationships. It's so hard to tell.

Thanks for listening to my whining anon, i know it is only tangentially relevant.

>> No.10283933

The reality is that the majority of women are only interested in men either for attention or sex. It's rare that you'll find one that actually wants a real friendship or relationship.

>> No.10283936

Men are the same, honestly.

>> No.10283938 [DELETED] 

I don't believe females can even feel emotion except greed for more attention.

>> No.10283939

It seems like to me that some girls just want to "try it out", like it's some kind of experiment or phase to them to be in an homosexual relationship.

>> No.10283951

Not really, pretending to be into girls is a pick-me tactic to get attention from men.

Most men aren't willing to offer anything beyond that since most men hate women and only view them as holes.

>> No.10283953

Go back to your containment board, retard. This isn't r9k.

>> No.10283959

Then you're more than welcome to send me some so I can admire it.

>> No.10283968

This is unfortunately true
t. demoralized handsome man

>> No.10284069
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I'm pregnant. What do I cosplay?

>> No.10284070

Joe's Wife from Family Guy

>> No.10284075

Cosmo from Fairly Oddparents.

>> No.10284088

feels like every cosplayer in my area hates me. theyve all blocked me on twitter and i dont 100% know why. cant meet cosplayers without someone being related to someone else who hates me. i want to quit cosplay but i love doing it i just get tired of being so hated

>> No.10284094

most cosplayers are only "gay" for show. unless she's been in a ltr with another woman i'd write it off as the girl social media thing

>> No.10284121

Girls are only gay if they're scared of men or too ugly to find a man.

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>> No.10284136

too rigid to be a rule, but I'd add some might go that path due to coming out of a bad experience with other men

>> No.10284234

I need to stop with my obsession/objective of wanting a cosplayer friend with benefits/seek specific fandoms to find partners within.

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I don't even want people to do things. I'm surely far away from anyone in this whole board.

I just need someone who likes the same fucking thing so I can have a escape vent to it.

Nah thanks.

>> No.10284238

It's called being bi-curious and it's a valid thing

>> No.10284305

If you have a chubby face try to chew gum, or anything if that matter so you’re jawline can get stronger and you’ll lose weight on your face. Jumping jacks also help but honestly face fat is probably the hardest fat to get rid of

>> No.10284321

Me too anon, and I very quickly became addicted to it too. Watch out if you're prone to over-shopping.

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I feel this entirely right now. Oh, fuck, the suffering.. I try to make myself feel better because it wouldn't have worked out anyways... the last time we hung out, him & company kept making jokes I looked like a twelve-year-old because of my attire and ragging on my hairstyle. Image related since I couldn't find my usual one regarding men & seagull attire.

>> No.10284471

Nigga i just love pussy stay mad

>> No.10284500

Pancha's wife

>> No.10284560

I love new groove

>> No.10285008

Nagisa Okazaki

>> No.10285070

Isn't it a fact that if you date a girl who isn't a virgin then you are stating to the world "yes, my girlfriend has fucked other guys and I'm okay with that.”?

>> No.10285105

It's like a used car. As long as the last guy didn't break it too much, it's not a problem.

>> No.10285287


>> No.10290116
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I just want real friends. I’ve met a lot of cool people through this hobby and I run into the same friendly faces but nothing really comes from it. I just want friends to geek weeb shit with but I’m so bad at socializing outside of cons.

>> No.10290243
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Completely ruined a friendship & damaged another while under the influence. Even worse these amazing folk are the only people in my life other than some family & previous teachers that have truly been there for me when I needed them . It kills me inside knowing that it won't ever be the same & that this all could have been prevented if I just drank in moderation. I dont deserve, or want sympathy/pity. All I want is for them to know that I'm doing my goddam best to make sure this never happens again in the future . This was a painful wake-up call & I won't let it go to waste. I should have took their advice much much sooner. I regret my decisions & wish I could go back in time.

It's raining.

>> No.10291289
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Thought I was only a nuisance while drunk but I guess it turns out I'm also one while sober. I've been making many new healthy decisions but it feels like it's for absolutely nothing if I have nobody to share it with, my friends are now talking without me. Moreso I'm the one whos to blame for it all. I just don't know what to do. I feel so lost, alone & sad having nobody I can really talk to anymore.

will it ever get better? is it too late?
My mind is telling me to just remove my entire prescence altogether but I know isolation won't help, just like alcohol won't.

>> No.10292733

Crossplaying signals that you're decently secure in your masculinity. Few things are bigger turn offs for most women than men with fragile masculinity.

>> No.10292984

Time to make new friends. Ones who also make healthy decisions or will still include you even if you don't partake in their vices. I'm the sober DD friend when my friends want to go out for a couple drinks. They don't get sloshed and they buy me dinner as a thank you for driving.
Good luck, and I hope you make better friends anon!