He reminds me a ton to me when I was with my ex gf, I'd fuck her, then play be playing videogames in front of her fucking face, she was "ok" with it, but that's obviously not ok, not when you see her like once a week at least, see I'm venting too lol, but specifically the part about being edgy some times to your partner, like yeah, probably fapping or videogames. I once told her I was not in the mood for one of her emotional outbreaks through email, and that pretty much set me up for the break up unknowingly.
We just autistic and selfish, and you're exactly like mom bothering us at that exact momment, so we treat you as such, like leave me the fuck alone I wanna fap/play videogames / get involved in my e-dramma right now.
About if you mean something to him, well that's a fucking mistery. You will probably never know unless you try something. I know females have a wide range of tools to use in those occasions, you could be upfront about it though, that way you know for sure, but he could sperg out and ruin it unintentionally... so many things. All in all I can't read his mind but I can see he acting cunty some times due to "something", at least I feel like I can relate to that, if I was with a girl now I'd never do the same again.
I'm gonna show my perv side now if you don't mind, why don't you bait him into you sending him nudes? Start innocent and if he responds the right way push him to the next level. This might be a retarded idea though, I don't know, just brainstorming.
He should be the one making the move, but yeah, he probably isn't in that situation, as is not interested or too autistic to make a move. If hee sees this maybe he gets a clue. Dude get her fucking n00ds and impregnate this bidj. Anyways, godspeed my dear grill.