While I'm in the same boat and agree wholeheartedly with the rest of your points, this
>letting people know to take concrit posted here with a grain of salt
And her coverage of the topic in general is what's problematic. Her advice, while true, was to "do nothing" and then proceeded to call out how much of a cesspool this place is, including the different types of 'meanies' outside of the possible normal individuals, (who were spoken about in a single breath and then completely forgotten, as if to say, "well not everyone/everything is mean here! If I said that I'd look like a meanie myself"). That, and to 'question their credibility', as if anyone who has criticisms is just trolling. This is just the same tired schlock that's been beaten to death by every other famous lolita, just in a new packaging and, thinking about it, that's probably what bugs me the most. It's just another shallow, long winded video making a big bad villain out of something when an actual hot take about what goes on here would have been more substantial and perhaps given the community a better understanding that this is just another place for shared interests, albeit sometimes harsh, crass, and not for everyone - you know, like the real world, or any other community for that matter. She uses this cesspool herself, clearly, so I'm not sure why she wouldn't go for this angle; she's covered deeper subjects in more complex ways before.
Though, much like every other thread, this will be forgotten in a month and it'll be down to brass tacks as usual. Missed opportunity from someone who's essentially biting the hand that feeds her, honestly.