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Motivational Edition

>> No.10190724
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>no job all year because school
>apply to no less than 10 places
>only response from any was a denial email
>apply at a resort nearby
>get a call back and interview goes well
>sounds like they're low on people in the position I applied for
>"we'll call you back soon, anon!"
>a week later no call back yet
>mfw lots of nice pieces on lacemarket at a price that would be super reasonable if I had this job
>mfw could afford my next planed cosplays easy if I had this job
>mfw can't even get a job as a busser

>> No.10190751

>>10190724
You can try calling the company back yourself, don't give up hope anon, you'll find a job

>> No.10190828

>>10190662

I gained a lot of weight recently due to stress, depression, poor diet, etc. all my clothes look bad on me. I feel pretty ugly and unmotivated to do anything. Sorry to dump this here I wanted to get it off my chest.

>> No.10190894

>>10190828
I'm sorry friend. And don't worry, that's what this this thread is for. Even if the situation might not be as bad as it seems, it still sucks to feel like something is going downhill. I hope things turn around for you soon and you find something that brings you enjoyment.

>> No.10190925

>cosplayer has crush on me
>I only find her attractive in cosplay

how do I get this to work

>> No.10190951

>>10190925
>>I only find her attractive in cosplay
how so?

>> No.10190970

>>10190925
Just fuck her when she cosplays

>>10190951
he only likes her cosplays, I guess

>> No.10190987

I was physically, verbally and sexually abused by a family member for years. After he got extremely violent on me one day, I called the police on him. And in the process, I lost everything. My home, my possessions, my family and friends who all sided with him over me. Since I managed to find a new place to live, lolita has been one of the only things keeping me going. I've loved the fashion since I was a little girl, and actually collected a few dream pieces back when I was still living at home. Of course, I lost it when I got kicked out but I've been buying and building up some simple coordinates again since wearing the fashion helps me feel beautiful and "clean." But at the same time I know it's very much a crutch. I love the fashion and the way it makes me feel, what I'm going through now wasn't the cause of that. But I know deep down I'm still so pathetic and lonely. I have no one and nothing and everything seems to be getting worse. My physical and mental health is degrading at a rapid rate. My life is completely empty besides for work, and I'm scared for the future since I can't do what I'm currently doing forever. I'm so sick of feeling so disgusting and worthless. I've been seeing a therapist for a long time, but it hasn't been helping. I just hope I can make it out of this alive.

>>10190828
No need to apologize anon, if it helps I'm in a similar situation right now with the extreme stress, depression and poor diet. From one struggling anon to another, I hope you feel better soon. Please feel free to come back and post here again soon.

>> No.10191005

I’ve been browsing cgl less and less after years of calling it my homeboard. Everyone seems to be on the defensive and takes offense to everything. It feels overtaken by lolita now. But I can’t complain since I don’t collect cosplay or other jfashion photos to help balance things. Oh well

>> No.10191017
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>tfw watching videos from my first con
>you can never go back
>haven't been that happy since

>> No.10191026

>>10190987
Damn, sounds sad

>> No.10191054

>>10190951
I like androgyny, and her cosplays are more androgynous, while normal clothes are more feminine.

>> No.10191059

>>10190724
I had the same problem as you for a while. I think I ended up applying to at least 50 places before I even got an interview. A lot of companies will call you about positions months after you apply to them too. I had a coffee shop call me three months after I applied to ask if I still wanted the position.

The best thing that helped me was asking everyone I knew (I mean EVERYONE) if they had a lead and eventually I knew someone that knew someone and got a job. I would also check out your school's job center and possibly a temp agency depending on what kind of job you want.

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>Know teacher that is into lolita
>Found this out by accident one day
>Seen a lot of things she's done on the internet
>Now have a semester of classes with her as the main teacher
>Find her really inspiring because she's done a lot of cool things
>Have to awkwardly sit there in class knowing all of this stuff about her
>Have to not sperg out in class even though I think she's really cool

I'll most likely never say anything about it, even though I want to get to know her better and she has a lot of similar interests that I have. This fucking sucks.

>> No.10191098

>>10191092
Are you in high school or college? Just talk to her during office hours

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>>10191059
>tfw even emailed and applied to all reasonable places at my uni and didn't get a single response besides denials from all of them
what really pissed me off abotu this is I had asked one of my professors about jobs in the building and some OTHER girl who always hops on bandwagon shit or other peoples ideas asked too, and SHE ended up getting a job next semester.

>> No.10191186

>>10190724
You need to be pestering tf outta the jobs you apply for. Most go through sites like Indeed for new employees and are getting hundreds of resumes sent in along with doing tons of interviews. Unless it’s a specialized type of position, they likely aren’t going to remember you after an interview on top of all of their other daily tasks. Call and check up on each application and especially interviews after a few days to a week if they’ve not already contacted you.

>> No.10191212

>>10191026
Your response actually made me laugh and cheer up a little. Thank you, anon.

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>>10190662
>have wedding
>friend shows up in a gray shirt, black pants, and a teal tie with two clips
>mfw he low-key cosplayed Miku to my wedding.

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10191624

I wanna be one of those guys who sells custom buttons and pins at cons, but I'm worried there's too much competition. And the latter would be really expensive.

>> No.10191691

No one in this community gives a fuck about me. I used to find our discord helped me feel less alone but now I look at it and it just makes me feel like shit. I feel incapable of making friends and I’m so lonely and consumed by suicidal thoughts constantly

>> No.10191701

>>10191624
post your art to the AA thread and we'll tell you if you are good enough or not.

>> No.10191702

>>10191691
in general, you have to give a fuck about yourself before people give a fuck about you. I know it sucks but it is pretty much that way across the board.

>> No.10191704

>>10191563
nice

>> No.10191710

I really wish I had a group of cosplay friends. I feel like an outsider in the community

>> No.10191737

>>10190724
welp the place called me today lol, guess I was freaking out over nothing. the call came late because the interviewer was on vacation...
$40-$100 nice solid black pieces here I come

>> No.10191738

>>10191563
d-did you ask to confirm? that's a really bizarre place to pull that

>> No.10191791

I got a dream dress sniped from me today Im really sad about it

>> No.10191835
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>when you forget to wax your butthole before inspection, but the comm mother gives you full marks and says "the hair was a nice touch"

Am I finally a real lolita?

>> No.10191839 [DELETED] 

I don’t know what the fuck is going on but my ear keeps producing a ton of earwax to the point that it covers the whole ear canal and muffles up the sound of anything I fear. I bought this otoscope with an ear pick attachment and I can actually see the earwax completely closing off the ear. I can pull out the earwax too pretty easily and it’s soooooo satisfying to pull out a huge wet clump or earwax. But it just keeps coming back every few days which is the problem.

>> No.10191841

>>10191835
>butthole inspection meme
and here I thought it was going to stay dead

>> No.10191842
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>i'm going to do a closet cleaning!
>only willing to let go of <5 pieces
>sell a couple of them
>still end up buying double the number of main pieces i sold anyway

well that was a bust. but there's a bunch of cute stuff coming in the mail so that's neat.

>> No.10191844 [DELETED] 

I have health anxiety that spawned from smoking weed (one day just had a massive panic attack that ended up putting me in the hospital) and I just miss it so badly.
It was the only thing that helped my anxiety but ironically made it worse, and now I’m too afraid to smoke it again because panic attack and I’m also too afraid to drink alcohol because I think it’s just going to fuck up my heart and also give me a panic attack.

For anyone that has panic attacks, does alcohol make them worse or does it numb the anxious feelings? I know sometimes the next day it makes your anxiety worse but I’m talking about -during- drinking.

I just want something to take away the pain anons.

>> No.10191845 [DELETED] 

>>10191844
have you considered............................ not drinking out of perceived necessity and instead reaching out to someone/going to see a doctor

don't mean to sound like a dick but i also have panic attacks/have had experience with abusing weed and alcohol for self-medicating and it's not fun, just nip it in the bud the right way

>> No.10191853 [DELETED] 

>>10191845
I have seen doctors and that’s when it was formally diagnosed.

It’s just I wish I had something I could do to ‘break away’ from everything like everyone else does.
I’m disgustingly jealous of everyone that’s can enjoy smoking and alcohol.

>> No.10191856 [DELETED] 

>>10191853
Nayrt, most people have sober ways of escaping. For a lot of people it's video games, or reading, etc. You should get medication, go to therapy, and find your thing

>> No.10191859

>trying to choose between four different items
>all different colors (mint, blue, grey, wine) and all good for different situations
>lonelita so nobody to ask for advice
>help

>> No.10191860

>>10191859
Do you know where you are

>> No.10191884

>>10191860
no

>> No.10191933

ANTIQUE BEAST HAS BONNETS AAAAAAAAAAA

>> No.10191939

>best friend of over five years, who used to be super weeby and tons of fun to hang around with, has now turned into a normie costhot who only talks about her fwb relationship with a total tool and gossips about the shit she sees on her fans' private social media accounts
Time to find new friends I guess.

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>"it's such a shame (anon) ruins all their cosplays with their teeth... no offense tho"
h-hahah

>> No.10191949

>>10191842
Nothing wrong with it if you're actually going to wear them.

>> No.10191951

>>10191941
Saying no offense doesn't stop the pain. You should tell them that they've given you sad feels, and if they want to be nice they should keep such comments to themselves. Fucking rude ass idiots.

>> No.10192013

>>10191841
God i hope it dosent.
I know a lot of people are allergic to fun, but calm down. Its memes on 4chan.

>> No.10192027

>>10191951
what hurts the most is that they're right, i just can't afford braces

>> No.10192040 [DELETED] 

>>10191839
bro go to a fucking doctor holy shit, you're going to fuck up your ear

>> No.10192069 [DELETED] 

>>10191839
Go to a doctor, your ear need to be flushed by a medical professional. You might end up damaging your ear on your own.

>> No.10192099 [DELETED] 

>>10191853
>>10191856
I use sports, exercise, rock 'n' roll, drawing, and doughnuts to cope my crap.

>> No.10192120

>>10191844
I don't have panic attacks when I drink small amounts. I do if I drink too much or get hung over. 1-3 drinks is the sweet spot

>> No.10192129
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My cosplay commission finally came in the mail today, and it’s mostly too big in places like the crotch and thigh. I don’t really think it’s a case of mis-measuring on my part, since they didn’t ask for those measurements at all. Obviously it’s easier to take in if it’s too big than it being too small, and thankfully I have time before the con I’m wearing it to, but I wish I didn’t have to fix it with the amount I paid for it in the first place. (And it’s probably easier to fix it on my own b/c it’d be another $40 in shipping and 2 weeks in shipping to send it back overseas to the commissioner.)

>> No.10192188

>>10190987
hey anon, maybe try getting a different therapist.
someone who has more experience advising and helping treat those who have suffered abuse and incest.
My thoughts are with you. I grew up in a very abusive home and I still am dealing with depression and anxiety, but much less than I was at 18/19. I'm 28 now.
See what kind of local groups you can get involved in. in-person human fellowship in a hobby or activity might help bring you joy in your journey.

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being a sasquatch among smols is suffering
these shoes are to die for but I could never with these 27cm feet

>> No.10192290

>>10192223
wheres this from

>> No.10192318

>>10192223
Those shoes are gorgeous!

>> No.10192337
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I'm 28. Am I officially too old to jailbait-wait cosplay thots?

>> No.10192349

>be extremely poorfag
>get excited for a cosplay
>realize it's far too much more than i could ever afford
don't come at me "buh buh buh you can make it work with little money" bullshit. even if you buy your own materials and make your own shit, cosplay and con going is an expensive hobby if you're not at least middle class.
fuck, man.

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>>10192337

>> No.10192362

>just turned 26
>Everyone I meet seems to be 20 - 24
I-is it time to start moving on

>> No.10192378

>>10192362
Whats wrong with meeting other people also in their 20s? I'm 23 and I have the problem of the only people who want to talk to me and be my friend are between 13 and 16. idk why other adults don't want to befriend me, but kids do.

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>>10192362
>about to turn 20
>mfw oldest in my cos group
>youngest is 12
>somehow most of them are even more mature than me
>somehow some of the 14-15year olds look older (in a good way) than me
>realize how much I've failed to grow up and take the reigns of my life

>> No.10192384

>>10192349
How about Lobbyconning? Also you can legitimately cosplay VERY cheaply, you just need to be creative and don't chose a character with a retardedly complex design, there are some really simple characters which

>> No.10192387

>>10191092
Why not just wear lolita to school one day? Don't even have to go balls to the wall to get her notice.

>> No.10192390

>>10192383
Try to hang out with people your age. I'm not saying that in a mean way. You'll learn how to behave your age and you'll feel more at ease about your own situation.

>> No.10192394

>>10192383
Because children don't have the hang ups adults acquire like grime on a windshield (over time until it becomes the only thing they experience)
Yeah, getting new adult friends is hard, but if you never try you'll never succeed.
At this point you ought to concern yourself with taking >>10192390 advice.
At least to get away from the creeper self you will one day become if you continue along your present path.

>> No.10192395

>>10192387
>inb4 teacher posts here and complains about ita student of hers

>> No.10192398

>>10192383
Do you go to college gull?

>> No.10192403

>>10192378
>Meeting others in their 20s
Absolutely nothing, but entering the later half of my 20s and hanging out with people who have only just graduated, are still in college or in some cases still can't even drink feels a bit... off? I don't know man.

>>10192383
Tbqh I'll try to avoid being around or hanging out with legit kids like that.

>> No.10192408

>>10192403
I dropped out of college and don't drink, so I can't relate.

>> No.10192494

>>10192359
CURSED.

>>10191710
Just talk to people at the cons.

>> No.10192539

>>10192398
Not him but college means nothing, i went and talked to no one for 4 years. Still better than high school

>> No.10192542

>tfw you don't feel anything anymore

>> No.10192592

I just feel awful gulls. No matter what I do I never look as good as my friends in Lolita. It's not even a matter of having a deflated sense of self worth (but that probably matters too). They get huge numbers of likes on their photos, have made lolita friends online through Cof and Instagram, and no matter what I do I just fall short and get overlooked.
I work so much that I barely wear Lolita more than once or twice a month, and somehow they can afford brand and still have time to post ootds every two days.

Every time I remind myself to just do it for myself and enjoy Lolita as much as I can, I see another post with 1k likes or hear them talk about their new online friends or whatever.

I don't want to be the nasty envious friend who begrudges but I just feel dumb. Even my friends don't put me in those "people you should follow" instagram stories.

Sorry for blog post, there's nobody else I can really vent to.

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>haven't been on /cgl/ for over a year because it felt like every thread devolved into personal squabbles
>come back today
>nothing has changed
See y'all in fall 2020

>> No.10192620

poorfag finally turned newfag im so excited :'^D i can also afford to move away from my abusive parents and have been on a good prescription and therapist for a little while. all my weaboo and depression fantasies are turning real.
been going through my dreamies and goddamn poorfags have shit taste

>> No.10192662

>>10192290
BPN (rip)

>> No.10192663

>>10192592
just sounds like you need more practice and experience coording.
Because of your work schedule, you don't post enough to curate that many followers. But that shouldn't be your goal. I know how you feel, wanting acceptance and recognition from the online community, but maybe you should focus more on the art, craft, and feel of lolita.
Let it be the fun creative outlet that you need to balance all of your work.

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>have to spend all my earned money on medical bills due to being a genetic failure and shit healthcare system where I live
>mfw even if i spent it on cute clothes it'd be a waste because I can barely muster enough strength to walk outside anyway
>slowly losing more and more energy to pretend I'm fine and bubbly to people

>> No.10192685

Welp buyee actually sets up bots to upbid your auction until it reaches your max bid. Just wow. This is the last time I'm using them.

>> No.10192688

i feel like the more i lose weight, the worse i look. 30lbs down and my legs are as lumpy and misshapen as ever, but now my stomach bunches up weirdly too. 30 more until im at my goal weight but it feels pointless to go on.

worst part is everyone giving me shit over trying to lose weight because its unhealthy. im just super pear shaped and only wear black jeans or compression leggings so they have no idea how fat i really am. people say they have no idea ive lost weight because i look the same. Literally. Why. Bother.

>> No.10192691

>>10192688
Losing weight is only part of the story. Keep working out and it'll pay off in the long run.

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>wanting to join discord because you’re lonely as fuck and want to find friends
>not even memeing am practically borderline hermit
>too embarrassed to admit that to those I’d like to befriend
>too embarrassed about this trainwreck of a life
>too embarrassed about my voice
>too embarrassed about fucking everything
mfw

>> No.10192749

>>10192672
I relate to this so much. Do you have to spend a maximum out of pocket amount before insurance kicks in and covers everything? I hope you get treated properly and are able to wear cute clothes again soon, anon.

>> No.10192752

>>10192685
Holy shit I didn't know this, how did you find out?

>> No.10192799

>dress bought from Facebook comes
>Seller says the it's got a 76 cm waist.
>Never looked at her picture, just took her word for it.
>Bullshit
>Elastic so stretched it might as well not be there.
I was a fool

>> No.10192810

>>10192595
>and nothing of value was lost

>> No.10192859

>suddenly laid off from first ever decent job two weeks ago
>no responses or leads on other jobs
>no friends or family to ask for leads from
>only have 2 year degree, no real qualifications
>still live at home, one parent is sick and cannot work and other has always been vocally nasty to me.
>still stay in room all day like a teenager to avoid family
>fighting a lot with long-term boyfriend of almost 10 years, my only friend, who does not make enough to provide for both of us and also now lives with parent due to roommate scam.
>occlusal trauma manifests suddenly a few months ago and have to spend bulk of savings on braces or lose front teeth. worst pain of my life.
>never able to make friends online
>never able to make friends irl
>humiliated about myself even if I were to meet someone
>almost 26
I've done it all wrong. I'd kill myself if I didn't just spend $6000 on my mouth.

>> No.10192867

>>10192859
Have you tried /soc/ threads? Discord groups? Make sure you follow up on ALL jobs. 26 is still young, no matter what you think, you have time. You can work on learning new skills, there are so many online resources.

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>bought a ton of new lolita shoes, knew the size was right
>didn't know that losing weight can reduce shoe size by one so now they're too big
>have to use two socks for them to fit nicely

>> No.10192962

>>10192859
I highly recommend finishing your bachelor's degree online. It's fast and easy, and will open up a lot more opportunities. If nothing else, you can easily become a teacher in a private school with only a BA and no experience (you can thank the mass teacher shortages for that)

>> No.10192968

Kinda depressed so I placed a big order of stuff on Mercari. The shipping service emailed me to make sure I wanted to pay commission fees for so many items... I feel judged...

>> No.10193014

>>10192752
Because they were upbidding my item by 1000 yen for almost two hours exactly 2 minutes before the auction ended everytime. I had several similar experiences where I was sure no one but me would go as high as my max bid but then a similar bidding style happened. But going on for 2 fucking hours confirmed that it wasn't just another angry bidder.

>> No.10193045

>>10192867
>>10192962
Thank you for the encouraging words. Are there any tips in particular about online resources for learning new skills? I am aware of Western Governors University, I just was always worried it would be a black mark against me for employers.

>> No.10193100

>>10193045
Fake it till you make it.
No bullshit

>> No.10193122 [DELETED] 
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My girlfriend wears very strange dresses and looks like a French child from the 1700s now, so I hate her that she has wasted so much of my money, does nothing in the house and looks like a garbage pedophilic bitch. It gets worse when she gets offended that I tell her I pay the most in this house and that she needs to be a bit more normal and at least not wear this autistic ugly shit in public and keep that shit as nightwear or something and if she has weird fetishes she can just wear it as some fucked up twisted dark fantasy. I said all of this before in a basically very nice way but I should have known that being a nice guy does not work with women like her. When her "teaparty gathering" ends I will text her that she must either sell all her shit OR I will kick her out of the house if she won't go back to her parents that hate her. And I understand now why they do, she has done far worse stuff before to her parents but I thought they were actually abusing her. But I guess she suffered from first world problems and that I should have seen that. My bad.

Worst of all is that if she at least wore overpriced "burando" western clothing she'd look cute and attractive and I'd complain less but this is just garbage-looking and I tried to be less pessimistic about it and see a good thing in this retarded hobby but there are honestly none.
And when I found out she started posting on /cgl/ and 4chan, it was the straw that broke the camel's back. I won't be spiraled in her mental illness any longer and she can be here from now on to vent about living still with her "abusive" parents and not having enough money to look more cute or something.

At the moment I am rubbing my hands, because I know she won't comply and will use her victim-complex again. I actually wanted to pack her shit clothes myself, by cramming her shit clothes in her shit "kawaii" suitcases.

If you're a lesbian/guy and you are dating a weeaboo, don't do that. Even koreaboos are better.

>> No.10193124

>>10192359
what's the story behind this

>> No.10193126

>>10192387
I could try, but I'd rather wear a casual outfit if I'm going to do that, and all the coords I have right now are OTT. Maybe I will if I get an outfit together and work up the courage to.

>> No.10193127 [DELETED] 

>>10190662
I wish puberty was illegal for women.

>> No.10193139

I hate all the no petti coords people are posting now. Get a hoop skirt or a light petti or fuck off and don't post

>> No.10193142

>>10193122
Just make a fanfiction.net account already.

>> No.10193143

>Been looking for dream dress for a good while
>Never pops up in the colourway i want
>"New listings for dream dress on lace market"
>SHID
>It's the colourway I want
>It's the cut I've been considering since my ultimate dream cut is nearly impossible to find
>"Great condition just some fucking SWEAT STAINS on the FRONT BODICE LACE"
>$50 more than the most expensive past auction of that cut but in perfect condition
The stars really do be not shining bright anons

>> No.10193146

>>10193142
>fanfiction.net
I feel like all the memories of my dark past that had been sealed away just came flooding back.

>> No.10193193
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>Tfw cosplay friend kept literally asking to suck your dick, saying we would fuck if you had a condom, showed her tiddies & kept sucking on your finger/ear/neck throughout the weekend and "kissed" you (she initiated and tried actively kissing while I just stood there unironically not doing anything, I probably thought it was funny to just stay still i don't know man, was high) and you S T I L L thought she was just fucking with you since she probably just enjoyed seeing a flustered virgin.
>She also, not sarcastically, asked how I'm still a virgin since she apparently genuinely thinks I'm objectively attractive

>> No.10193215

Oh man, I just really love lolita.

>> No.10193220

>>10193193
What is this humble brag? No one cares. Either go for her if you really want to, or stop waving your 'popularity' around here.

>> No.10193228

>>10193220
Fuck, rereading it yeah its just coming off as a humblebrag.
Didn't really mean for it to come off like that, it was moreso wanting to vent about having a bit of body image issues where, even after all that I was sure she was still just fucking with me & still don't think anyone would actually find me remotely attractive. This thankfully hasn't happened to me but it's like that feel when you're asked out but you're ghosted and later find out you were only asked out as a joke/dare.

>No one cares
Isn't the point of these threads just to vent/blogshit or spill your feels? How many of these stories do you actually care about?

>Too old to delete
S-sorry gulls.

>> No.10193250

>>10193193
Sounds like something that'd happen to my dumb ass

>> No.10193252

>>10192620
Congrats!!

>> No.10193256 [DELETED] 

>have casual sex and use Tinder to fill the void
>still can't help but compare them to, want and think about gullfriend who ghosts me constantly
Write back to me you fuck

>> No.10193301

>>10193122
Is this a new pasta?

>> No.10193306

>>10193122
This is such a shitty rp

>> No.10193309

>>10193193
You can post any off topic shit you want here, put "cosplay" in it and somehow think it's on topic

>> No.10193341

>>10193127
your ban expire already, pedo chan?

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>>10193122

>> No.10193350

>>10193228
Sorry dude, I didn't mean to rip you up if you were being serious about it. Putting it that way, I hope you find more confidence from this and that it goes somewhere good for you. I'm so used to people trolling.

>> No.10193400

>tfw you would like to wear make up
>tfw you have barely any eyelashes
>tfw anything you put on hurts after an hour
>tfw just thinking about it makes your eye line hurt

why?

>> No.10193442
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>GOing through a really tough time fincancially in life
>Can't afford to dryclean my brando regularly
>Afraid to wear it because "what if" I need it later
>negative cycle emerges where I just don't dress up anymore
>sad i'm not wearing lolita, but too afraid to still
>wake up one morning and decide to sell all the delicate brando
>generate a lot of money out of it
>spend half on new, washable brand dresses and keep other half in savings

I feel like I got the best of both worlds. I have money in the bank now AND I can wear lolita whenever I want.

>> No.10193447

>>10193442
good on you anon

>> No.10193734

>>10193400
You might have an allergy, or you're being too heavy-handed with applying, or using a rough brush. Makeup shouldn't hurt you anon, look into brands with ingredients for sensitive

>> No.10193742

>>10193400
Clean your brushes.
Don't complain, do it.
Also replace your 8 yo tub of eyeshadow and that crusty mascara you can't bear to get rid of, and if that doesn't help, you should get a new eyeliner.

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>>10193124
Someloli stood in some water.

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was out in town wearing old school today. on my way to language class a fat dude approached me and complemented my shoes (the most normie part of my outfit) introduced himself and shook my hand. Instantly recognised this as textbook internet pick up artist methods, especially as he told me he was 41, and I’m 19 but often get told I look younger, which he did say. asked me for a hug and I declined. he left me alone after that and didn’t ask for my number, must’ve realised I’m just as autistic as he is.
Never thought I’d be approached like that, especially in lolita. I feel kinda bad for incels sometimes because their view of romance is all wrong and it’s hard to change their minds, but then again he did approach some rando underage looking girl for a hug so yea... might’ve pulled him aside into a nearby Mickey d’s or something and chatted about how he might be able to get his life back on track if I wasn’t so shocked in the moment or on my way somewhere.
anyone else had experiences like this?

>> No.10193831

>>10193829
Don’t be sorry for a 40 year old man looking for jail bait. Next time just politely ignore these kinds of people especially if you look underaged

>> No.10193845

>>10193829
I think every woman has been hit on by a creepy old guy at some point, sadly. It's so fucking gross.

>> No.10193847

>>10193045
I recommend Excelsior College. Tons of military people who missed out on college when they were younger go through the online program and get great jobs afterwards. So an older student such as yourself would fit in pretty well.

>> No.10193850

>>10193829
Don't fix broken people.
Especially when the red flags are fucking screaming.

>> No.10193927

>huge identity crisis a few months back
>sell all my j-fash clothing like an autist
>still depressed
>bf dumps me
>even more depressed

i miss my cute clothes

>> No.10193963

I’m a lonelita and I’ve never been in a comm. There’s one lolita friend that I made online that I’ve kept contact with but sometimes it’s sparse and I get nervous bringing up conversation topics because I know she has other lolita friends and I don’t want to bother her. I’ll be in her area towards the end of the year and I want to ask if she wants to meet up to get coffee or lunch or something and hang out for a bit but I’m worried about that bothering her.

She always seems happy to talk to me but I just get it in my head that I’m a burden to everyone around me and that if I ask she’ll say yes but only because she feels like she has to, not because she wants to.

>> No.10193969

>>10193927
Time to buy some new clothes and find a new guy. A fresh start can be a great thing.

>> No.10193972

>>10193927
I'll be your new boyfriend

>> No.10193973

>>10193963
Do it. Don’t let your doubts ruin your life. The worst is that she will politely decline if she doesn’t want to. Best case is that you meet a friend irl and get closer

>> No.10193977

>>10193963
That's probably just social anxiety/lack of self confidence talking and nothing based on reality. Just tell her you'll be in her area and when, and suggest meeting up, chances are she'll be excited to see you. Don't deprive yourself of a good experience because of self doubt, you deserve to have fun!

>> No.10193984

>>10192859
Degrees are mostly useless anyway and fuck the traditional application process. Your biggest issue are your social skills. You need to get out there and build up connections then the job will find you. As shitty as it sounds, nepotism is your biggest friend in this day and age.

>> No.10194005

Feel like I can participate because I'm so short. When I cosplay no matter how nice the craftsmanship is I always look terrible. I can't just take close up pictures because I need my arms in the shot so people don't think I'm fat because of my round face that makes me a whale even though I'm 110. I wish I wasn't so self conscious so I could do Lolita again like I used to because it will just get worse. Gulls, is this depression?

>> No.10194143

Was at a convention today, but didn't get a waifu

>> No.10194180 [DELETED] 

I'm tired of being alone, but I haven't made any friends in my comm after nearly 2 years. I don't get why. I easily made friends in my previous comm. Since I moved to another country I've only made one irl friend and I'm not even sure if I really want to be friends with him or if I'm just too lonely.

>> No.10194183

I'm tired of being alone, but I haven't made any friends in my comm after nearly 2 years of living here. I don't get why. I easily made friends in my previous comm. Since moving here, I've only made one irl friend and I'm not even sure if I want to be friends with him or if I'm just too lonely. I miss having lolita friends.

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