/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

[Anonymous No.10133514]

Let your inner salt or sugar flow

[Anonymous No.10133522]

>>10133514
>ask if I’d be allowed at a lolita meet as a general himekaji / otome with years of ita and CoF thread exp. so I can make friends with any kind of fashion interest for once
>lolitas act like cunts about it
Disappointed but not surprised. Sorry I don’t want to buy even bodyline so I’ll stay home
>inb4 good, we don’t want you
Haha nice

[Anonymous No.10133524]

>>10133522
himekaji is literal normie tier

[Anonymous No.10133527]

I like making more positive images for cgl than negative ones

[Anonymous No.10133530]

>>10133524
No one dresses like that in the USA midwest but ok I guess

[Anonymous No.10133531]

>>10133530
it's normie if you don't live in a shithole

[Anonymous No.10133536]

>>10133522
Bait

[Anonymous No.10133539]

>>10133531
Where do you live where pic related kinda stuff, even just the effort, is the norm? I wanna live there unironically
>>10133536
Why would you assume this lol

[Anonymous No.10133545]

>>10133522
Let me translate:
>I don't wear this fashion but I want to be let into this fashion club
ok???

[Anonymous No.10133546]

>>10133522
Not a lolita, but I think it would be weird to go to a lolita centered meetup dressed in a different jfashion style.

[Anonymous No.10133548]

>>10133522
You are literally expecting to be let into a group that is specifically for one thing while not being involved in that one thing. Stop being so entitled

[Anonymous No.10133551]

>>10133539
Because it's a ridiculous situation. Why on earth would someone like that want to go to a lolita meet

[Anonymous No.10133553]

>>10133546
>>10133548
That’s why I said “not surprised”

[Anonymous No.10133555]

>>10133522
I have a question, why would you want to go to a lolita specific meet not wearing lolita? It’s a very entitled attitude and stance to have. You will be looked down on as a wannabe “rori at heart uwu~” and probably kicked out eventually. Why can’t you spend the money to buy a proper coord before coming?

>inb4 elitists

It’s literally DESIGNED for people wearing ONLY lolita(or ouji) to gather and discuss lolita. I’ve had people like you join my comm before and every single time without fail they get kicked.

[Anonymous No.10133556]

>>10133553
You said you weren't surprised at them "acting like cunts about it" and nothing about being rejected. you seem very entitled.

[Anonymous No.10133559]

>>10133553
>ask question
>answer is no
>get upset that the answer is no even though you knew it would be no

This is why lolitas don’t want non lolitas at their events.

[Anonymous No.10133565]

Lolita is the one fashion style that's got me wishing I wasn't so tall. All my life I've loved my height and now I feel like a massive elephant compared to all my other friends. I've been wearing it for a long enough time that I shouldn't be having these thoughts now.
I never used to care.

[Anonymous No.10133566]

>>10133553
Imagine the following

>there is a club for people playing a specific MMO rpg
>person who does not play this MMO rpg but another one that’s completely different wants to join
>has no interest in playing the MMO rpg that the club is designed around
>gets told no, play the MMO rpg this club is centered around or join another group that’s for all MMO rpgs
>would be newcomer spergs out and calls the group cunts

[Anonymous No.10133568]

I don’t like women, but I hate dating men. If I wanted to date a moody little bitch I’d go lesbian.

[Anonymous No.10133570]

>>10133568
How is this related to /cgl/?

[Anonymous No.10133571]

I know I posted in a previous thread but I seriously can't stand Puvithel's nasty dry hair. She's supposed to be at an upcoming convention I'm going to and while her stuff is really nice she keeps her hair in poor condition and that irks me, I think it's because we have similar hair types and looking at dry frizzy hair like that drives me up a damn wall. I'm seriously tempted to give her a gift that includes hair oil to give her a hint.

[Anonymous No.10133572]

>>10133555
I want female friends who like cute clothes and Japanese shit and going out and taking pictures.
>>10133559
I’m not upset I’m just seeing where the salty cunt stereotype is coming from
>>10133566
Who said I have no interest? Obviously I like lolita or else I wouldn’t bother looking at the threads. It’s just not practical for me to buy and wear it right now as a low self confidence job hunter with extremely limited space.

[Anonymous No.10133576]

>>10133572
Then join a general jfash group or make one if there’s not one around you. Don’t impose on lolitas. You said you don’t want to buy even bodyline, it’s clear you have no real interest. Just entitlement

[Anonymous No.10133577]

Itabaggers are nuts but I respect some of them

[Anonymous No.10133578]

>>10133571
Stop, she’s nice and stressed from her work. Just let her live and be a cunt elsewhere

[Anonymous No.10133579]

>>10133576
Bodyline doesn’t have any classic pieces do they? I’m too ugly for sweet you see.

[Anonymous No.10133585]

I got a couple
>Ita threads are garbage
>AP should make an effort to re release old popular prints instead of the new ugly shit they’re releasing now
>Most anons have impossible standards that even they can’t meet
>Gulls are too hard on themselves and others
>I don’t give a shit about fattychans if they dress for their size

[Anonymous No.10133589]

>>10133585
I agree with everything you said.

[Anonymous No.10133602]

>>10133579
They do, dumbass

[Anonymous No.10133610]

>>10133527
I getcha. I get a huge kick out of complimenting coords I like on the CoF thread. It's a good feel

[Anonymous No.10133611]

I feel like my confidence in my lolita is draining. I’m not huge but im not slim either, and thought I feel my cutest I see a lot of gulls knocking girls in ita threads over breast size and calling them fatties. It makes me worry if I appear to be a fatass to them? I’ve been losing weight recently and really proud of it, and getting closer to my goal size, but wonder a lot if it’ll ever matter. I’ll never be a thin, flat chested ideal lolita but I want more confidence in my own body in these dresses

[Anonymous No.10133612]

>>10133585
I agree 100%

[Anonymous No.10133617]

>people going to cons like Anime Expo just to get laid

[Anonymous No.10133623]

>>10133611
Your mistake is looking at ita threads

[Anonymous No.10133634]

>>10133522
Holy shit, you again? We told you to just buy some fucking bodyline in order to join events but you refuse to because “wah it’s shit tier”. Wear the clothing or stop bitching.

[Anonymous No.10133640]

This is dumb but I do need to get it off my chest.
I speak Japanese and was asked to translate and work as a kind of handler at a local lolita event with Japanese brand guests. The brand held a fashion show at this event and asked attendees who wanted to model to send in photos of themselves and their measurements beforehand. They picked their models and those model’s outfits based on this info without seeing the girls irl first since they would only arrive in the country a few days before the event.
During the fashion show I overheard them complaining to each other in hushed Japanese about how the main model they picked didn’t look like her pictures and was fatter than the measurements she sent. They had to really pull on the dress to get it on her and were afraid this had damaged it. As far as I know they never said anything about this to anyone else and I probably wasn’t supposed to hear it either.
Everyone who knows her knows that she edits her photos heavily but I don’t know if they realize that she managed to dupe and piss off actual Japanese brand guests this way.

[Anonymous No.10133641]

>>10133522
holy fucking shit not you again jesus

[Anonymous No.10133643]

>>10133640
This reads like a vendetta fanfic and I literally do not believe it. Learn to lie better

[Anonymous No.10133644]

>>10133522
>can I join your fashion club even though I don't wear this fashion style? I just want friends uwu
>what do you mean "no" you elitist cunts
You sound like a delight, I hope no comm accepts you.

[Anonymous No.10133647]

>>10133643
If I was making things up for a vendetta I would have said that the dress ripped or something and I would have dropped hints about who she is.

[Anonymous No.10133649]

>>10133644
Nowhere did I call anyone elitist. Idk where that comes from. I fully accept not being able to attend and you forgot the step in between that’s
>reee SO clingers are allowed but cheap normie jfashers get out

[Anonymous No.10133653]

>>10133649
>Nowhere did I call anyone elitist. Idk where that comes from. I fully accept not being able to attend and you forgot the step in between that’s

Yeah that’s why you got salty and called us cunts for pointing out the obvious. Are you retarded to not understand why someone’s SO would be welcomed but not you?

[Anonymous No.10133654]

>>10133649
I like how you’re completely ignoring everyone else in that same thread complaining about normie SO’s and hangers on.

[Anonymous No.10133655]

>>10133649
SOs count as +1, some comms allow it, others don't, but generally non-lolitas are allowed to attend meetups if they're tagging along with an actual lolita, whether an SO or a friend who's interested in the fashion but doesn't wear it yet. If you yourself don't wear lolita and have no intention to, and your only incentive is that you want cute friends uwu, you don't get to attend lolita meetups. It's not your only option for socializing either, but you're being unreasonably bullheaded so frankly any comm would be better for keeping you out judging by your attitude alone.

[Anonymous No.10133656]

>>10133649
Question, are you actually this dumb or amping it up for comedic effect?

[Anonymous No.10133662]

>>10133649
So the issue you have is you’re upset about people being in relationships is what you’re saying? Got it.

[Anonymous No.10133663]

>>10133653
Legit why? Why do they get a pass?
>>10133655
I never said I didn’t have an intention of wearing it someday, but it is impractical for me now for reasons I don’t have to explain. I feel like I would be inspired by meeting lolitas irl as well.

[Anonymous No.10133666]

>>10133662
Do you absolutely HAVE to go wherever your bf/gf goes? That’s sad to me and shouldn’t be enabled by comms. Let them be their own person.

[Anonymous No.10133669]

>>10133663
Why do you need inspiration if you're not going to wear the fashion in the near future at least? Why can't you wait with joining a comm until you can actually wear the fashion? You can just join a Jfash or alt fashion community in your area in the meantime, and join your local lolita comm when you actually wear the clothes.

[Anonymous No.10133674]

>>10133666
>>10133663
Why are you so triggered over people being in relationships supporting each others hobbies? And why would you need lolita inspiration if you aren’t a lolita?

[Anonymous No.10133676]

>>10133669
I found a jfash comm of only 50 members in the meantime and am awaiting acceptance so there’s that. But yeah this is the vent thread so.
I like LOOKING at lolita but for now can’t see myself wearing it. I thought maybe seeing them irl and how much fun they have at meets would inspire me to pull the trigger and buy some for myself. But I’m going to just stay home since it’s obvious I’m not welcome lol.

[Anonymous No.10133677]

>>10133676
Hmm yeah you still sound delightful. Stop being a baby and look up inspiration online like everyone else.

[Anonymous No.10133678]

>>10133676
>I like looking at the girls in the community I want to join even though I’m not in their hobby

Do you realize how creepy you sound holy shit

[Anonymous No.10133681]

>>10133676
Go to conventions. Do not go to a lolita specific meet.

[Anonymous No.10133682]

>>10133666
You're clearly a single and very lonely person.

Many of my fashion friends have SOs that aren't part of the comm but still attend because they are being supportive. This means that there is opportunities for my bf to make friends with other guys who while don't dress in the fashion, still would like to go out and socialize. Plus they're always willing to take coord shots, group shots, etc.

That's what having support is like. I feel sorry for you, but I can't help but laugh at how bitter you are that you are literally blocking potential friendships out because of how entitled you are. Learn some social skills, and if you're so dead set on finding friends by your standards, make your own comm. Good luck!

[Anonymous No.10133686]

>>10133676
>I like LOOKING at lolita
You sound predatory. please never join a comm

[Anonymous No.10133688]

>>10133682
>very lonely person
No shit. I’ll probably be dead in 5 years desu.
>>10133686
>>10133678
Don’t flatter yourselves, please.

[Anonymous No.10133690]

>>10133676
Please do stay home you fucking dumbass.

[Anonymous No.10133692]

>>10133688
>I’ll probably be dead in 5 years

Hopefully sooner with your terrible attitude. You don’t get a free pass to be a raging cunt just because you get to spend x amount of days less on this earth than the average person.

[Anonymous No.10133696]

>>10133688
>doesn’t get the sympathy wanted no matter how much you bitch
>I know let me just tell them I’m dying maybe they’ll feel bad for me

You just keep getting more pathetic.

[Anonymous No.10133708]

>>10133692
If anything I said reads raging cunt to you, you are way too easily triggered.

[Anonymous No.10133710]

>>10133708
>calls people cunts
>gets offended when called a cunt too

End yourself sooner than later

[Anonymous No.10133714]

>>10133682
This is what you and your bf look like when you bring him to a meet. No one actually wants SOs there even if it’s allowed, I promise.

[Shoutout No.10133719]

I just wanna shout out the OC community of Southern California for being an amazing group of girls, who because of the group are now my friends outside of the fashion too love y’all so much! ( not being salty just being sweet for this one)

[Anonymous No.10133722]

>>10133719
This is a cute sentiment but you shouldn't openly post about your comm here unless you want them to become a target.

[Shoutout No.10133726]

>>10133722
I just joined the fashion a year or so ago, and just wanted to say that I’ve meet some great people in the comm is all. But thank you for the warning aha

[Anonymous No.10133730]

>>10133522
get the fuck out of here normie
>>10133579
how can you claim to have been "interested" in the fashion for years and then not know bodyline doesn't just make sweet. Again fuck off normie

[Anonymous No.10133747]

>>10133730
Their old school OPs and “classic” prints are ugly af.

[Anonymous No.10133783]

>>10133708
don't dish it out if you can't take it. you're obviously bothered if you're posting it in the vent thread

[Anonymous No.10133785]

I go to a few cons a year, but rarely cosplay because I'm an ugly dude with no skills and would rather just go unnoticed all day than risk being made fun of, and I don't have any friends to do it with anyways

[Anonymous No.10133788]

>>10133747
Then buy secondhand. If you’re really that fucking poor it might take a while but you can find second hand brand for the price of new body line sometimes.

[Anonymous No.10133793]

>>10133788
Guys, i think this is troll trying to stir shit up, it's best you ignore them.

[Anonymous No.10133796]

>>10133788
Wouldn’t the other lolitas get annoyed at someone wearing the same JSK or skirt for multiple meets? I only would want to go to a few to try to connect like >>10133726 did (deleted post said since she joined the [redacted] comm she has made the lolitas her friends outside the fashion)

[Anonymous No.10133798]

>>10133796
If you literally wore the exact same coord over and over yeah. But if you own a few main pieces and swap them out nobody will care unless they’re a nosey cunt

[Anonymous No.10133846]

>>10133647
You literally did drop hints about who she is in the entire post. Low quality b8.

[Anonymous No.10133850]

>>10133798

Even if someone wore the same coord again and again, whatever. As long as they weren’t a sissy I wouldn’t give a shit. I’d just assume they were a poorfag and move on.

[Anonymous No.10133877]

my first blouses came in the mail today and I'm honestly just filled with excitement and happiness. I can't wait to make my first coord!! Even just trying on the blouses with jeans made me feel so pretty

[Anonymous No.10133886]

>>10133565
I’ve always hated being tall but lolita made it so much worse, it used to just bother me a little, but because I’m so tall I feel like I have to me super skinny to make up for it and I just started starving myself, I nearly killed myself cause I did that for a couple years and now I’m starting to recover, I hate that tall Lolita’s get so much hate, it makes me hate myself so much

[Anonymous No.10133890]

>>10133886
>I hate that tall Lolita’s get so much hate
Do tall lolitas get hate? They get criticism for wearing dresses that are too short for them but that doesn't qualify as "hate".

[Anonymous No.10133894]

>>10133886
No one hates tallchans as long as your thighs are covered for modesty’s sake. I see people talking about this a lot but I feel like I only ever see fat hate.

[Anonymous No.10133895]

>>10133890
>They get criticism for wearing dresses that are too short for them
When you get to a certain height, everything is too short on you, and no matter how you wear it, some salty bitches will complain about you looking too sexual. I think it tends to happen more to taller lolitas that like sweet, since you can get away with it a bit more in gothic.

[Anonymous No.10133897]

>>10133890
>>10133894
I’ve seen a lot of people say things like Lolita just looks awkward on tall girls, or like tall girls can’t pull off most cuts,or just people implying that short=cute, there’s also been a couple girls I’ve met say “uwu my friends said I should be a lolita cause I’m so short, I’m 5’0” OwO”, just things like that I see quite a lot and they all build up and make me feel really bad

[Anonymous No.10133900]

>>10133666
My bf attends events with me because of my own social anxieties and discomfort with being out alone in lolita. It's more of a me problem than him, but it really helps. I slowly try going out alone little by little in lolita, but until then I kinda need his support or I'll get uncomfortably nervous and wanna go back home. I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who'd willingly give up hours of his free time to support my hobby when he could be doing his own hobbies.

I'm trying, Anon. I drove to the bakery 15 minutes away all by myself in lolita last weekend and only got uncomfortable when someone in the parking lot stared at me leaving my car.

[Anonymous No.10133901]

>>10133895
If a dress is so short on you that you get comments about your coord looking "sexual", it's a sign that you should either wear an underskirt, modify the dress in some way, wear something else, or not take criticism, if that's what you prefer. No one on COF is going to confiscate your wardrobe if you choose to not accept criticism, after all. Regardless of what you decide to do with this comment, that's still not "hate".
As an aside, brands have been releasing quite a few longer pieces in recent years so tall girls have many more options other than just slapping an underskirt under everything.

[Anonymous No.10133904]

>>10133901
I’m the anon that you originally replied to, not the one talking about how all dresses are too short or whatever, I feel like I look pretty regular in Lolita (I’m 5’9”) but I just feel incapable of being cute because I tower over all my lolita friends like a lumbering giant

[Anonymous No.10133907]

>>10133714
I love being lectured by the person who can't join a comm bitching about the fact I've been in comms for years and never had an issue. Jealousy is a sickness, hope you get better soon :)

[Anonymous No.10133908]

>>10133904
Ayrt - That's completely understandable, considering comments of the sort >>10133897 mentioned. Personally I think that if you're dressed well, you can be cute no matter how tall you are. There's a girl in my comm who's very tall and she looks adorable in everything she wears. It's a self image thing more than anything, but I hope you feel cuter and more confident in lolita sooner than later.

[Anonymous No.10133913]

I am confident on my image to cosplay characters but im anxious about someone asking me if i played, watched , read the work im cosplaying in the fear of being looked at as a poser

[Anonymous No.10133914]

>>10133900
>”All my myself!”
Now this is pathetic. How have you stayed alive up until now if you’re that crippled by what other people think of you?

[Anonymous No.10133915]

>>10133913
If you cosplay characters from franchises you know and love, that won't be an issue. No one is going to expect you to remember entire lines of dialogue on the spot or "test" you on it, but someone striking up a conversation with you about the game/series/work you're cosplaying from isn't outlandish or strange.

[Anonymous No.10133916]

>>10133682
>>10133907
Damn you’re bothered. Please at least tell me your bf isn’t THAT ugly.

[Anonymous No.10133923]

>>10133617
>not losing your v-card to some who ~looks~ like your fave weeb chara

[Anonymous No.10133927]

>>10133923
>not losing your v-card to your SO who constantly cosplays your waifu/husbando to please you

Kek fucking pleb.

[Anonymous No.10133930]

>>10133886
here is a beautiful tall lolita! >>10133918

[Anonymous No.10133931]

>>10133634
> we told you to just buy some fucking bodyline
> "but bodyline is for poor people!"
> doesn't own a single piece not even brand
then...why are you complaining that you can't be allowed? itas like her are the reason why other itas think lolitas are gatekeeping cunts

[Anonymous No.10133935]

>>10133696
jesus these itas are getting so pathetic that they threaten us with suicide so we feel bad for them

[Anonymous No.10133936]

>>10133714
bitch you don't even own a fucking piece, let alone a $43 Bodyline piece. Sit the fuck down. You're single and sad you don't have a SO to take with you to the comm meetups you cant attend because you dont even wear the damn fashion.
i bet that dude is a pic of you at the meetup in the other lolita comm you had to beg to let you in.

[Anonymous No.10133952]

>>10133565
I'm short and it feels weird wearing huge platforms in lolita. I go from being a few inches under average to being able to see over people's heads in crowds, it's a very odd, but kind of good feel. I feel so noticeable in lolita

[Anonymous No.10133966]

>>10133931
I mean...they sure look it when they let in +1s but not other people actually interested. I think we have to go all or nothing here.
>>10133936
Could you get any angrier?

[Anonymous No.10133969]

>>10133522
Why not just join a harajuku fashion group you dweeb

[Anonymous No.10133971]

>>10133969
The state-wide jfashion group I just joined has 0 new posts and 0 new members in the last 30 days. Looks grim but I’m gonna try to rally em for a meetup once I’m in.

[Anonymous No.10133972]

>>10133971
I feel sorry for the group you join. You’re throwing up red flags left and right.

[Anonymous No.10133973]

>>10133966
The +1s are with people who actually do wear lolita. You don't wear it, have no intention to wear it, and have no relation with anyone in there. I also see most lolitas sideye +1s but they don't usually say anything because they're with an actual lolita and/or don't want to upset the current comm dynamic

[Anonymous No.10133974]

I need to stop falling in love with pieces until I’m 1000% sure I have it. I get too down in the dumps when I get excited about an item and then lose the auction.

[Anonymous No.10133975]

>>10133972
Well, I’m sorry you feel that way. I can lie too.

[Anonymous No.10133977]

>>10133975

And you wonder why you don't have friends...

[Anonymous No.10133978]

>>10133977
>”Stop trying to be happy!!”
this is you rn

[Anonymous No.10133979]

>>10133978
>lying to people makes you happy

Nayrt but jesus

[Anonymous No.10133982]

>>10133966
The +1 ones in my comm dress is ouji with their lolita SO or they wear a button up and slacks so they look nice. none of them looked like that weird disgusting weeb that's clearly you

[Anonymous No.10133983]

>>10133973
I assume youre from the comm she wants to join
please do not let her in. just from reading this shit thread she cries that she wants to be in it but calls you guys cunts and then even insults your SOs/+1s

[Anonymous No.10133984]

>>10133978
okay newfag. you clearly dont even know how quoting works. just leave before you somehow further embarrass yourself. the lolitas you call cunts and their +1s dont want you in their group, so kindly fuck off~

[Anonymous No.10133996]

>>10133982
I can’t believe you think thats me lol I’m a thin short girl. You are THAT crazy
>>10133984
>>10133983
You literally said you feel sorry for the jfash comm I’m going to try to join and organize a meet for. Do you not want people to have friends or something? You need more mental checks than even me.

[Anonymous No.10133998]

>>10133996
I was the anon who said they felt sorry for the comm you join, but I’m not either of those posts. You have a lot of people thinking you’re retarded.

[Anonymous No.10134002]

Why are fatties so common at conventions? I always found anime to be pretty motivating since the characters tend to have great bodies. It seems so bizarre to me. Like how hard is it to not be 300 fucking pounds? If you can use your stomach as a shelf you need to get the fuck to the gym before you try to squeeze into a sailor ham planet cosplay ffs

[Anonymous No.10134005]

>>10133998
Well, question still applies. I’m going to make an effort to be happy and gulls assblasted over their ouji bfs (I would like to see them honestly) and the word cunt can’t stop me.

[Anonymous No.10134006]

>>10134005
You were the one calling people cunts to start with, why are you upset over it?

[Anonymous No.10134007]

>>10134005
>I’m going to make an effort to be happy
why you still posting here then LMAO

[Anonymous No.10134008]

>>10133916
You’re the one who posted in a salt thread about being unable to join a comm. We’re sorry you can’t sit with us but the fact that you’re actually calling OTHER people bothered is hilarious.

[Anonymous No.10134010]

>>10134006
Gulls assblasted over their ouji bfs *and* (assblasted over) the word cunt. It doesn’t bother me because I’m not a baby

[Anonymous No.10134011]

>>10133682
Wow, codependent much? You sound like a teenager. Having support is not having a bf who goes everywhere with you. It is having someone who loves and trusts you enough to let you have your own hobbies and has some of their own as well.

[Anonymous No.10134013]

>>10133996
I didn't say that shit. i said they shouldnt let you in because youre fucking stupid and cry that you cant be let in a comm when youre trash talking them here and their SOs. and the fact you dont even wear lolita is just fucking pathetic if you want to join.
its like trying to join a professional sports team when you never played. it doesnt work like that, idiot.
you created this thread to cry that the comm wont let you in. im not even from the comm but i saw their comments saying they gave you chances to purchase cheaper lolita so you can join. if your cheap ass thinks that bodyline is for poorfags yet you dont own brand then wtf are you even saying?

[Anonymous No.10134014]

>>10133998
i was one of the posts. yeah looks like she has several people who thinks shes retarded

[Anonymous No.10134016]

>>10134011
> Wow, codependent much? You sound like a teenager.
says the retard who cant enter a comm
> Having support is not having a bf who goes everywhere with you
just because they go with them to the meets doesnt mean they go with them everywhere. some of our comm's SOs actually offer to be photographers for our meets.
> It is having someone who loves and trusts you enough to let you have your own hobbies and has some of their own as well.
ironic because i doubt anyone loves or trusts you after this shit you did

[Anonymous No.10134018]

>>10133916
whats your boyfriend look like then lol lets see him

[Anonymous No.10134020]

>>10134013
I did not create this thread lol, I was just first post. I don’t think bodyline is for poorfags, in fact I have the three-fourth sleeve sailor set but I don’t have a petti and it’s pretty costume-y...and I look like a man in it. I’m too ugly for lolita and don’t deserve these clothes, but I like looking at coords online. If anyone could read here they’d know I want friends interested in the same things I am, friends who are girls not guys as I have enough of those, and the easiest way to do that is to find any kind of jfashion aficionados. But, lolita meets are not the place if I can’t buy lolita clearly. I just hope the jfashion group’s inactivity isn’t due to everyone’s distance but because of a lack of leader/direction/whatever. I can change that if so. If not then I’m SOL

[Anonymous No.10134023]

>>10134018
Multiple strangers at conventions have told him he looks like Mako from Korra if that’s an image.
>>10134016
That wasn’t me lol

[Anonymous No.10134024]

Honestly, I just can’t wait til this retarded is turned away by a comma when she tries to force her way into a meet without any attempt at a coord

[Anonymous No.10134025]

>>10134024
Holy fucking autocorrect

[Anonymous No.10134026]

Somebody cap me saying I was going to try to join a lolita comm after my inquiry post. I’ll wait.

[Anonymous No.10134027]

>>10134023
i highly doubt that.
>That wasn’t me lol
if it wasnt you then why are you replying to it? rather, why are you the only one here bitching about other peoples SOs at meets?

[Anonymous No.10134028]

>>10134027
It’s true. It happened three times. He has the same hair and expression. Not as tall though.
Because I don’t want that anon getting blamed for my shit?

[Anonymous No.10134029]

>>10134020
you didnt make the thread yet were first to post in 14 minutes and then end up running the whole thread with your stupidity? i find that hard to believe.
if you have bodyline then why arent you in the comm? when several members of the comm have said to just wear bodyline and you can join?
you think youre too ugly for it yet you insult the comm's SOs appearances. do you not see the irony

[Anonymous No.10134030]

>>10134028
>That wasn't me lol
>Because I don’t want that anon getting blamed for my shit?
>my shit
youre embarrassing yourself dude

[Anonymous No.10134032]

>>10134029
>thread
You have no reason to believe a stranger on the internet but I’m telling you it’s 100% true I didn’t make it.
>why not in comm
Because I look ugly in it
>irony
I only shot at that anon because of her tirade shooting at me first.

[Anonymous No.10134033]

>>10134032
Also
>ruining the whole thread
It takes two to tango.
Sage

[Anonymous No.10134039]

>>10134032
>why not in comm
if youre going to quote me at least do it right. you must be really insecure if you love insulting other peoples SOs appearances because you know youre ugly
>I only shot at that anon because of her tirade shooting at me first.
what is this? thats the same as saying "no u"
grow the hell up. this is why no comm wants you

[Anonymous No.10134063]

>>10133952
Thanks for making my feel about you I guess? On a real note I'm glad you're able to feel tall, it can be a pretty good feeling when you're not insecure about it.

[Anonymous No.10134068]

>>10134063
Stop being such a whiny pussy and just wear the damn clothes. I'm 4 inches taller than you and wear lolita. The only one stopping you from doing it is you.

[Anonymous No.10134075]

>>10133914
Not the same anon but you sound very ableist

[Anonymous No.10134078]

>>10134075
You're so cringey; its embarrassing.

[Anonymous No.10134079]

I know I shouldn't be salty, and I know it's been beaten to death, but it really grinds my gears when sellers on LM won't ship outside the US. I've missed out on a few dream items because I didn't want to be that asshole asking if they'd ship anyway because it's my totemo kawaii dreamu item~

I still don't understand what the deal is though, it's not like the seller is paying for shipping?

[Anonymous No.10134080]

>>10134075
>ableist

[Anonymous No.10134099]

>>10134079
I don't understand that either. I've gotten dresses from different parts of Asia and I'm in America. They were willing to ship and I paid the shipping of course. Took awhile to arrive but at least they shipped it.

[Anonymous No.10134107]

being tagged lolita doesn't automatically qualify something for the ita thread. lots of irrelevant bullshit gets posted because "it was tagged lolituh!!!!" but a lot of the time people probably just found the tag through one of those related tag aggregators because it's clear that they're going for a different style. ita threads are for people wearing lolita badly, not people who are going for nanchatte or mallgoth, many of whom don't even look bad

likewise, NOT tagging a clearly-intended-to-be-lolita coordinate as lolita doesn't DISqualify it. like in the ita thread a bit ago there was someone with a badly altered brand skirt and a clearly lolita blouse and someone came in to say it wasn't relevant because it wasn't ever described as being lolita. but if you're taking lolita pieces and wearing them in a lolita way, then it counts

[Anonymous No.10134113]

>>10134079
I find it irritating too. If I'm willing to pay the postage what's the issue in sending to another country? It's not really much more hassle than shipping domestically and if it's because they're concerned about something going awry just ship everything tracked and insured. I've shipped items to the US, other parts of Europe and asia and it's easy, nothing has ever gone wrong.

[Anonymous No.10134114]

>>10134079
It’s because Europoors don’t want to spend more than 20€ on shipping. I am willing to ship internationally but I’ve had potential European buyers bitch about the “high cost”. That or they’ll try to lowball/guilt trip me. And then there is the issue of customs declarations. It’s honestly not worth the headache to ship outside of the US/Canada.

Now that being said, many of my fellow Burgers love to bitch just the same to Europeans about shipping as well. It seems a lot of lolitas like to cheap out when it comes to shipping.

[Anonymous No.10134133]

>>10134079
>>10134114
I always ask why they don't want to ship to my country, there's no rule against asking after all. They always say it's because it takes more time. I don't know how shipping works there but I guess it's less effort to ship within the US.

[Anonymous No.10134139]

>>10134107
Ita threads are the cancer of our community, I hope people keep posting irrelevant shit

[Anonymous No.10134141]

>>10134133
I buy from US brands (nonlolita) in sanfran and it takes around two weeks with standard shipping. Usually my package is 1kg or less and the cost is 8€. I don't think it's a lot at all...

[Anonymous No.10134145]

>>10134141
I mean they say it takes longer for the seller to ship it to a country outside the US

[Anonymous No.10134146]

>>10133895
I recently saw a tall lolita wearing a dress with no bloomers. When she bent over you could see her ass. If tall classic is probably easier because you can get away with underskirts more. Just like people say with fatties, be aware of your size and realize what looks good and what doesnt.

[Anonymous No.10134147]

>>10134146
Why didn't you tell her to wear bloomers?

[Anonymous No.10134150]

>>10134147
It was a casual meet-up, she was wearing lolita brand but in a more like normie way? Bloomers didnt seem to fit her look. I wasnt really bothered by it, just mentioned it as in I can understand how short these dresses can get to tall lolitas.

[Anonymous No.10134153]

>>10134150
>Bloomers didnt seem to fit her look
Bloomers don't have to be seen. Even wearing shorts would've been better than nothing at all.

[Anonymous No.10134156]

>>10134079
Just ask and say you’re willing to pay expensive shipping. I’ve had too many flakey European buyers click BIN and back out when they hear the shipping cost even though I say to contact me for a quote first

[Anonymous No.10134158]

>>10134002
>I always found anime to be pretty motivating since the characters tend to have great bodies

Good for you and i think the same too,but for most otaku they use weeb stuff as escapism from their social reject status caused by body image
But hey i live in America, almost all the otaku in comiket are skinny

[Anonymous No.10134169]

>>10134079
I'm from Canada and while I don't restrict shipping, the cheapest I can send something to certain parts of europe with tracking costs me about 40-45USD and that tends to scare a lot of them off. I will not ship without tracking because I don't want to get scammed.

[Anonymous No.10134170]

>>10134147
Nta but how would you tell someone this without embarrassing them or being weird? Lots of girls in my comm don’t wear bloomers and I’ve seen more of their underwear than I’d like (no wonder our picnics attract creepers every year) but I can’t think of a way to ask them to wear bloomers without being like “hey I can see your panties”. I’ve already tried bringing it up in a very casual non-personal way by saying that bloomers are an underappreciated part of lolita coordinates and that imo everyone should wear them or at least safety shorts, but several girls said they didn’t wear them and didn’t think they were necessary at all. How do I convince them that they are necessary without telling them I’ve seen their ass? I don’t even want to remind myself of that.

[Anonymous No.10134175]

>>10133897
Same, senpai.
It is definitely not meant to hurt us, but it does.

[Anonymous No.10134179]

>>10134146
>tfw I lost my bloomers so it's probably me

[Anonymous No.10134180]

>>10134068
ayrt, I doubt you're taller than me. I'm 6' so good luck.

[Anonymous No.10134191]

I want lolita to die. I'm tired of the new people who join nowadays, I'm tired of increasingly shit quality brand, I'm tired of dumb trends and I'm tired of the majority of lolitas.

[Anonymous No.10134192]

>>10134191
Considering the fact it went from a street fashion with an emphasis on garment, construction and material quality, to costume-tier nonsense for girls to play kawaii uguu dress up in at conventions and events, it might as well already be dead.

[Anonymous No.10134218]

>>10133923
>mfw I got laid cosplaying as Soos at a con with another dude

[Anonymous No.10134221]

>>10134191
just don't use social media?

[Anonymous No.10134223]

>>10134191
I do agree that brand quality is dropping, but I don't hate where lolita is going. Old school is a trend again, which is nice. I do feel frustrated with new-litas but they were always a thing, and they always will be a thing.

[Anonymous No.10134240]

>>10134180
I'm 6'1. Learn basic math dumbass. 5'9+4=6'1

[Anonymous No.10134247]

I judge everyone who uses fag or autist just because it's cgl. Instead of saying newfag, samefag or amerifag I like to say newfriend or amerifriend. Samefag is extra stupid because people say it when they can't believe more than 1 person disagrees with them.

[Anonymous No.10134250]

I love old lolita releases but I hate old-school

[Anonymous No.10134252]

>>10134247
Fag

[Anonymous No.10134253]

>>10134192
Lolita died in 2012 when peak OTT sweet started its decline.

[Anonymous No.10134254]

>>10134240
Ntayrt I’m the one who’s 5’9” and I’m not the person you replied to, I never said it stops me from wearing Lolita I’m actually a daily Lolita I just said that a lot of comments I hear from short Lolita’s make me insecure about being tall

These are the only things I posted
>>10133897
>>10133886
>>10133904

[Anonymous No.10134259]

>>10134250
Mix it with new stuff and wear it the modern way.
If that bothers someone, that is their problem.

[Anonymous No.10134261]

>>10134247
Bait

[Anonymous No.10134262]

>>10134254
Who cares about those manlets? Just sit on them next time they talk shit.

[Anonymous No.10134295]

>>10134247
>Samefag is extra stupid because people say it when they can't believe more than 1 person disagrees with them.
I agree with you on this but the "-fag" suffix is just something that is done on 4chan in general... so like why are you on this site to begin with.

[Anonymous No.10134302]

>>10134191
Maybe you're just getting old anon

[Anonymous No.10134305]

>>10134240
Learn to actually look at who you're replying to, dimwit.

[Anonymous No.10134308]

>>10134305
I did you whiny fag. Learn to read. I hope you get shit on next meet anon

[Anonymous No.10134314]

>>10134247
>amerifag
They're burgers get it right

[Anonymous No.10134332]

>>10134170
I don't wear bloomers and I don't care if you see my ass. Other people share this opinion and there just isn't anything you can do about it.

[Anonymous No.10134334]

>>10134139
Same.

[Anonymous No.10134335]

>>10134332
Okay then? Just please wear clean underwear at least.

[Anonymous No.10134338]

>>10134335
No. If I have to suffer through the taco bell stench cloud so do you.

[Anonymous No.10134339]

>>10134308
You're such a tard it's hilarious.

[Anonymous No.10134342]

>>10134339
Ok whiny fag

[Anonymous No.10134344]

>>10134170
Just say that bloomers are kinda needed because of the petticoat making panty flashes much more likely.

[Anonymous No.10134346]

>>10134247
>judging anonymous posters on cgl
Who cares. You're obviously new when you use your snowflake terminology so it's convenient for us.

[Anonymous No.10134352]

>>10134344
That’s what I said, but they insisted that the length of the skirt would make it impossible for anyone to see up that far. Even when sitting on the ground, apparently.

[Anonymous No.10134353]

>>10133617
>Hooking up with strangers you meet for 1 - 3 day event

this is how HIV/AIDS spread

[Anonymous No.10134377]

>>10134353
You rarely hear about people getting AIDS/HIV anymore however.

[Anonymous No.10134378]

>>10134338
Please do not pretend to be me with your lame fucking trolling.

>>10134335
>>10134332 here
I don't wear any kind of underwear. I don't need to. My vag doesn't leak or anything. I'm ok with seeing other girl's behinds. I swear people come to cgl just to larp as a fucking woman with a stick up their ass.

[Anonymous No.10134383]

>>10134378
No body wants to see your pussy holy SHIT were you raised in the woods? I don’t care if you’re fine with it, you can’t just assume everybody else is.

[Anonymous No.10134388]

>>10133900
>I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who'd willingly give up hours of his free time to support my hobby when he could be doing his own hobbies.
I feel seriously bad for your boyfriend. You realize you're holding him back, right?

[Anonymous No.10134391]

>>10134378
Stop samefagging

[Anonymous No.10134397]

>>10133682
You've already sperged out at someone else so right off the bat - I am not the anon you were replying to.

I am part of a comm and I find it annoying when other girls drag their SO's to meets. I have no desire to be around any man that isn't my boyfriend so it makes me really uncomfortable when some chick's bf is asking me questions and trying to talk to me.

And I sure as fuck don't want some guy directing me when I'm taking photos. That is something I would only want my bf to do... I think it's creepy when these dudes hang out at meets. I'm there to hang out and socialize with other women, not their boring ass boy toys.

[Anonymous No.10134399]

>>10134383
Well I'm also not stupid enough to bend over in lolita. I bend at the knees to pick something up off a table or whatever. People who bend over while wearing a dress are fucking retarded.

>>10134391
I'm not.

[Anonymous No.10134401]

>>10134075
So are you saying you support someone who is literally dragging someone else down all the time?

[Anonymous No.10134407]

>>10134388
nobody is perfect. i'm sure he has issues too that she supports him with. why do some people always act like you don't deserve to be in a relationship unless you've got your shit together?

[Anonymous No.10134410]

>>10134378
>My vag doesn't leak or anything
You should see a professional about that

[Anonymous No.10134411]

Being a cosplayer doesn’t put you in a higher status among con attendees

[Anonymous No.10134413]

>>10134150
Bloomers are essential in lolita. If it didn't fit the look, she wasn't wearing lolita.

>>10134170
You tell them the same way you would tell someone they should wear a petticoat with lolita or that they have food on their teeth. It's awkward, but it's worse for both of you if you don't say it. Your comm sounds horrible.

[Anonymous No.10134414]

>>10134344
Also the fabric of bloomers is much more comfortable than the average petticoat

[Anonymous No.10134418]

>>10134295
I know but I think "it's done in general" is a dumb excuse. I know people who say that when they throw trash in the river. People who piss in the pool say it too. I'm not going to stop thinking bad behaviour is bad just because they say everyone does it and it's normal. Maybe it's time 4channel gets with the times.

[Anonymous No.10134419]

>>10134410
So you think it's normal to have a leaky vagina?

[Anonymous No.10134420]

>>10134418
finally someone with some sense on this dumb fucking website.

[Anonymous No.10134421]

>>10134418
I know what you mean but I only apply it to those who come here specifically to shit on people who don't deserve it.

I remember when saying "fag" wasn't a bad thing. You sound like you're from one of the newer generations who has attached this evil meaning to it.

[Anonymous No.10134422]

>>10134419
Nayrt but it's normal to have some whitish discharge.

[Anonymous No.10134424]

>>10134421
>The word faggot with regard to homosexuality was used as early as 1914
How old are you?

[Anonymous No.10134425]

>>10134419
See a gyno anon. Or just google “ovulation” and stop being illiterate

[Anonymous No.10134441]

>>10134422
>>10134419
Both clear and white discharge is completely normal. It’s actually a little concerning if you have absolutely none, as that discharge is your body cleaning itself out. Having an overly dry vagina can be a sign of health problems. I’d go to a gyno just to make sure everything is okay and your body is able to maintain itself without interference.

[Anonymous No.10134444]

>>10134441
Also for got to add on, if your vagina smells like fish there is something wrong. Media would have you believe that all Coochies smell like that, but that is not true. Your vag should smell a little like sweat and a faint whiff of yoghurt. If you eat a lot of fruits it can smell sweeter. But if it smells bad and it’s not just temporary from you sweating something is WRONG and you need to go to a gyno because you most likely have an infection.

[Anonymous No.10134455]

>>10134425
I take pills to not ovulate so yeah, it makes sense that I wouldn't be doing that.

>>10134441
>>10134444
Not according to my gyno but ok. My vag is only wet when I'm turned on.

[Anonymous No.10134459]

>>10134424
Back in the 90's no one was thinking of it that way.

No one on 4chan using the suffix casually is trying to be homophobic.

[Anonymous No.10134462]

>>10134455
I’d seek a second opinion, it’s weird, concerning(not to mention factually wrong) your gyno told you the only way your vag can have moisture is when you’re turned on.

[Anonymous No.10134473]

>>10134459
People throwing trash in the river aren't trying to destroy the earth either

[Anonymous No.10134484]

>>10134462
My gyno didn't tell me that. I'm saying that.
My gyno asked if I had any discharge and I said no and she didn't say that was abnormal. She didn't say anything about it and went on to do my pap smear etc.

Also I take birthcontrol to not ovulate. So there's no reason for me to be ovulating - if I was that would mean the pill isn't working.

thanks for being concerned but I'm not taking medical advice from randos on cgl.

I don't even know what country your from so who knows where you are getting your medical advice.

[Anonymous No.10134486]

>>10134484
Then why did you bring up what your gyno said? Fuck you sound like a moron. Google it dumbass

[Anonymous No.10134489]

>>10134484
You literally didn't even know what discharge was until today and proved it by having the gall to criticize others for "having a leaky vagina". If you have no discharge, that means your dead cells and bacteria are literally just sitting in your vagina since they're not exiting. That's disgusting.

[Anonymous No.10134493]

>>10134484
It's abnormal to have such a dry vagina but it isn't life threatening (unless it's because you have anorexia or something) and it's certainly not an issue if you never want to get pregnant.

[Anonymous No.10134507]

>>10133514
I HATE FABRICS
I HATE COLORS
TRYING TO FIND THE EXACT MATCH TO THE SOURCE MATERIAL IS FRUSTRATING AS HECK
Thank you.

[Anonymous No.10134509]

>>10134486
Those were two separate sentences, but wow. Also I don't trust everything google says...

>>10134489
They can't be because I wash it with water only.

>>10134493
I never said it was dry, I just said it wasn't leaking. Like I'm not 2 out 3 women who need to use panty liners because they just have discharge or actual urine just leaking out.

[Anonymous No.10134510]

>>10134507
This off-white JSK I just bought is driving me fucking insane.

[Anonymous No.10134511]

>>10134509
Holy shit, you're such a fucking moron that you think all your discharge can be "washed out" of your uterus with water.

[Anonymous No.10134514]

>>10134511
I never said that. I am saying that there is nothing "sitting" in my vagina because I do wash it with water only.

Vaginas are supposed to have bacteria because they are self cleaning. I just wash my pubes but water gets inside too.

[Anonymous No.10134519]

>>10134509
Your cunt is dry as fuck if nothing comes out every now and then without you being aroused. It’s not a ton where most women need panty liners, just a tad bit here and there.

[Anonymous No.10134521]

>>10134514
So you douche with water, therefore your vagina has NO bacteria or dead cells? That's not how the human body works. Are you 15?

[Anonymous No.10134523]

>>10134519
I fuck someone daily so no. There's plenty coming out daily.

[Anonymous No.10134526]

>>10134521
I never said I douche, I said I wash my pubes and some gets inside. I'm not taking a showerhead and inserting it.

Every anon that replies to me takes something I have said and twists it to their liking.

[Anonymous No.10134529]

>>10134526
You wash your pubes.....but somehow that's enough water to remove all bacteria and dead cells from inside your uterus and vagina so that you have absolutely NOTHING exiting it and it NEVER leaks.

You're a moron. Please stay in school.

[Anonymous No.10134530]

>>10134523
Oh my god this makes it so much more disgusting that nothing is coming out at all. This is just getting better and better

[Anonymous No.10134531]

>>10134523
Really, because you would think anyone who actually has sex would know you aren’t just wet when aroused and as the day goes on if you fuck someone stuff normally leaks out.

You sound more and more like an uninformed man larping

[Anonymous No.10134537]

I came here to talk about fashion and all I get is the intimate details of a stranger’s genetailia

[Anonymous No.10134540]

>>10134537
Threads get derailed like this, it happens. Still plenty of posts left until the thread goes into autosage, it's not too late to post your fashion-related confession if you want to.

[Anonymous No.10134546]

I hate that current sweet = ageplay is a meme. I have a large wardrobe consisting of sweet, old school, and gothic, and the only one I’ve ever gotten people assuming is an age play thing or me dressing up like a little girl is old school. With current sweet if you explain “it’s a Japanese fashion” or “its street fashion” most people have it click in their heads, with gothic you can just say “it’s gothi-“ and people just ah and nod and accept it but I haven’t had the same experience with old school.

[Anonymous No.10134552]

>>10134546
Yeah there's something more "unrefined" about old school with the maxipads/pigtails and ridiculous amounts of lace. The newer ones look more intentional, if that makes sense?

[Anonymous No.10134556]

>>10134546
I think it's because of all these shit-tier documentaries going around lately about "living dolls.".
Normies think they know what we are because they watched a 4 minute video produced by the facebook equivalent of TLC and they won't listen when we try to explain otherwise.

[Anonymous No.10134560]

>>10134556
Isn’t she talking about other lolitas saying sweet is ageplay, not normies? I’ve only ever seen modern sweet in those types of documentaries

[Anonymous No.10134562]

>>10134556
Living dolls aren't portrayed as ageplayers in the media

[Anonymous No.10134564]

>>10134562
Is anyone portrayed as ageplayers "in the media"? I only ever see it on the internet.

[Anonymous No.10134565]

>>10134560
I think she's saying that despite everyone saying "sweet=ageplay", she only gets oldschool confused for ageplay.

[Anonymous No.10134572]

>>10134565 is right
>>10134560
I’m saying that it’s a meme that sweet is age play but I’ve only ever had people assume that when I wore oldschool. Every normie who’s ever talked to me in sweet just accepted that it was some whacky Japanese fashion but when I wear oldschool I’ve had two separate people assume it was a fetish thing. Granted I was wearing tartans so maybe they associated it with small children’s uniforms but I’ve worn tartan sweet no problem.

[Anonymous No.10134574]

>>10134564
Yes you have adult baby my strange addictions and shit like that.

[Anonymous No.10134577]

>>10134537
Literally every feels thread

[Anonymous No.10134579]

>>10134026
heh

[Anonymous No.10134587]

>>10134574
American television sounds disgusting

[Anonymous No.10134589]

>>10133585
Gulls made me self conscious about my nose, despite me never even being posted here and having a nose that’s pretty much the ideal. But now I’m worried that it’s too big, too thin, too pointed...yeah. Thanks, anons.

On a side note, I’ve gotten some great advice on here, so thank you to the (helpful) anons in the odottemita, lolita, and gyaru threads! Especially the gyaru threads, because as of now I’ve found quite a bit of gyaru-style clothing for super cheap. Y’all may be salty, but some of you are good eggs

[Anonymous No.10134594]

>>10134587
It is. On “the learning channel” there was an episode about some guy who fucks pool inflatables.

[Anonymous No.10134605]

>>10133585
I’m convinced most gulls are bordering on ita themselves. Especially the loud edgelords.

[Anonymous No.10134620]

I think people bitching about no cosplay GF or BF (hell relationships at all)are pathetic and I never understood people being afraid of rejection.
>why the fuck can't people get with someone and convince them to cosplay with you if you want it so fuckin bad ?

[Anonymous No.10134623]

>>10134620
Possibly because these people assume that finding an SO that shares a hobby with them, would ensure that said potential SO won't judge them for it and will be more agreeable to couple cosplays etc. I can understand that, but I have some doubts about the effectiveness of posting >tf no qt cosplay gf memes here.

[Anonymous No.10134633]

Vic Mignogna is an average voice actor and only has two voices, the smoker voice and his high pitched squeel.

His fans are some of the worst fans, either mysognistic people who use buzzwords or naive teenage fat girls

[Anonymous No.10134638]

>>10134633
Sooo, like Johnny Yong Bosch?

[Anonymous No.10134642]

>it’s another anime expo where it is overly crowded episode
>it’s another anime expo where the obviously unsanitary hot dog venders are borderline predatory episode
>it’s another anime expo where you need to lineup 6 hours early just to see what Studio Trigger is up to episode

[Anonymous No.10134644]

>it’s another anime expo where it is overly crowded episode
>it’s another anime expo where the obviously unsanitary hot dog venders are borderline predatory episode
>it’s another anime expo where you need to lineup 6 hours early just to see what Studio Trigger is up to episode

[Anonymous No.10134645]

I look like a chad and I'm generally confident in nearly everything except flirting to girls. I'll be shooting the shit with one of my female friends and she'll make some flirtatious remark and I just go "haha, I guess..". The shitty thing is, I'm not autistic in conversations or anything, I just never learned about it in middle school and high school because I was a huge nerd and looked like one, so I had no chance to begin with.

It's stupid fucking annoying and probably my least liked thing about myself. It's annoying seeing all the girls mire and stare at you, in cosplay or without, and knowing you literally can't fucking flirt. How embarrassing is that? It's the one thing about me that isn't improving

the looking like a chad is actually a pretty spicy meme because

[Anonymous No.10134647]

>>10134577
This is the confessions thread though. Did anons assume it was feels and that's why the thread went to trash?

[Anonymous No.10134656]

>>10134638
yes but he doesn't seem to have a bad rep and his only flaw is having roles that don't match his voice when it comes to the japanese version or using the same voice in all his roles,

[Anonymous No.10134669]

>>10134645
It's crazy how one can be super off topic and then throw in the word cosplay or con once and be safe.

[Anonymous No.10134676]

>>10134669
oh, sorry mate, I thought this was "feels thread"-tier where 80% of the people are complaining about their SOs, depression, or weight loss rather than cgl-related stuff

Here's a different confession then. I wish cgl was more cosplay focused. Or, at the very least, we had more sewing-related threads (xd). There are some really skilled people here, and seeing what they make would be p interesting. There's too much drama and petty conflict here, which might be the appeal for some but just gives the board a shit undertone imo

[Anonymous No.10134677]

>>10134645
Find a dom, anon. Problem solved.

[Anonymous No.10134685]

>>10134647
Yeah it’s a no complaining allowed type of confession thread I guess. Very high quality.
>>10134669
100% truth, it’s annoying
>>10134676
First paragraph is also a truth and I agree with the rest too. I’m glad the individual threads for each lolita brand thing didn’t stick.

[Anonymous No.10134758]

>>10134378
youre disgusting and need help

[Anonymous No.10134759]

>>10134388
i read way too many read flags from that person as well
like i have extreme anxiety but my boyfriend and i have separate lives. i dont even make him go to meets with me. im my own separate person, i dont need someone holding my hand everywhere

[Anonymous No.10134762]

>>10134397
tell them that and leave. you clearly have issues if you cant even handle another guy talking to you. either that or your bf is overprotective and controlling as fuck

[Anonymous No.10134769]

I fuckin hate how on /cgl/ the response to disagreeing with literally anything is >"HURRRR SORY U GOT POSTED"
Like, do we really have to be that much of a hivemind?

[Anonymous No.10134771]

>>10134769
Sorry you got posted.

[Anonymous No.10134782]

I'm ace and not interested in relationships with most ppl, usually including con friends who take interest in me, but then i keep end up being made out to be the bad guy for a) not wanting to date all my friends who like ME, and b) 'well you can have anyone you want! ppl LIKE you' like its some how my fault they're not hooking up like they want to.

This past Katsu my partner and I started flirting with a friend of ours who we're mildly interested in, and who's interested in us. A very mutal thing, we're all ace so we're not like, fucking in the hotel room or anything- we literally traded 2 cheek pecks each all weekend. But several people in the usual con crew lost their shit over it. One because 'how dare you flirt with them but not me, i told you i was crushing LAST YEAR and you turned me DOWN, why him and not me?' and another because they liked the guy we were flirting with and 'save some partners for other people, you've already got one let me have a chance'????

TLDR
friends are getting mad at me because people take interest in me, while theyre sad and lonely i guess? ):

do i need a new fucking friend group? they're normally decent roommates and con buds but holy shit.

[Anonymous No.10134785]

>>10134397
>I have no desire to be around any man that isn't my boyfriend so it makes me really uncomfortable

anon you sound insufferable if you're this uncomfortable and creeped out by a regular guy making conversation with you. Honestly, I have no idea how the fuck half of you social anxiety freaks have boyfriends at all.

[Anonymous No.10134790]

I hate how it's so hard to find cheapass thrift store clothes as a dude. Every secondhand/consignment store is like 2/3-3/4 womens clothes, and apparently only fat dudes donate stuff because there's usually less than a dozen pants that I can wear without needing so many belts I become a Nomura character. Womens clothes come in all sorts of colors and patterns and cuts, but if you're a man fuck off trying to buy anything besides earth tones.

[Anonymous No.10134792]

>>10134782
your friends sound stupid as fuck because they expect you to fuck them since theyve liked you for so long. trust me, ive dealt with that as well.
get new friends. why do you live with them? not to go overboard but if not one but several people like you, you turned them down, then get belligerent over a cheek peck, then theyre going to do something to you, all of them

[Anonymous No.10134795]

>>10134785
they probably have autism or something if they cant even handle small talk from the opposite gender.
theres so many people like this here too, its funny because all the social anxiety freaks are the same people who will talk shit about each other but cant even handle a conversation

[Anonymous No.10134801]

>>10134792
I meant like con roomies ): my partner and I have had a hard time finding ppl who are decent to room with at cons- so many people just aren't considerate when it comes to sharing spaces, and while this crew IS, they sure don't know how to share people as friends or otherwise.
I don't think they'd physically do anything to me, but coming home from con to very mean messages wasn't great ): I've had worse friend groups that spread rumours when i was no longer useful to them, stole money, ect... so i'm having a hard time seeing the current crew as 'bad' in comparison I guess?

idk man, it's all on this stupid crash course because my partner and i are still spending time with the Interest (we've got a date planned for 2 weeks from now), but we don't feel like we can let any of our crew know because people are just gunna get mad about it. But they're going to find out eventually, and I'm kind of jsut hoping they clue in they don't get to decide who we date, and that they dont control who i show interest in just because they threw a fit over it.

[Anonymous No.10134815]

>>10134801
sorry for misunderstanding.
yeah you need to find new friends. since theyre spreading things about you you need to take screenshots and gather evidence. there are facebook groups for each convention typically so you can post the evidence there. dont be afraid to name and shame.
theyre pushing their crush on you and you arent interested and thats fine because you dont have to do anything with them if you dont want. theyre sexually harassing you and thats just gross.
if you cant even go on a date with your partner and interest then what the fuck?
just get evidence and block them.
its very hard to tell people why they shouldnt room with people without evidence.

[Anonymous No.10134817]

>>10134795
I’m not them nor am I a feminist type but meets are clearly women’s spaces. I wouldn’t want men there either. It’s the same reason I hate when gay guys are out with the group for girl shopping days, or are in otherwise all girl dances (idolshit or whatever) etc. it’s not the same, let women be by themselves.

[Anonymous No.10134820]

>>10134817
but what if the guys want to be there? what if the gay guys want to go shopping with their girl friends?

[Anonymous No.10134822]

>>10134820
They can go shopping with their gay guy friends. It’s ok if it’s “a group of friends” but I hate having a “girls day” to find out there’s a goddam gay male there.

[Anonymous No.10134825]

>>10134397
I agree with you. I have no problem talking to men in general but the boyfriends dragged to lolita meetups are a special breed. I’m actually starting to prefer the greasy weebs who spend the whole time on their DS because at least they don’t bother us. The worst are the “normie” types who I guess feel awkward being surrounded by a bunch of women in frilly clothes and react to that by becoming obnoxious assholes who think they’re god’s gift to comedy. Some guys spend the entire meetup basically heckling us in the same way randos in the street do, and thinking they’re the first person to ever come up with those comments. No I know it’s not Halloween, I have no sheep, I’m not bringing cookies to grandma, I know what modern appliances are, I’m not worried about tentacle monsters (seriously?) and can you please fuck off already? At least go bother your girlfriend instead of me.

In my ten years in this comm I’ve met one (1) male SO who actually treats us like normal people and can hold a conversation about something other than how wEiRd lolita is. It probably helps that his wife has been wearing the fashion for a long time so he’s used to it and doesn’t have this constant need to prove himself. He can stay. The rest can stay home.

[Anonymous No.10134842]

I think lolita and cosplay should split boards.

[Anonymous No.10134852]

>>10134825
i pity everyone who has had shit SOs at the meets
we have really nice dudes at ours who sometimes dress in ouji or some of us have girlfriends and not the boyfriends you guys describe

[Anonymous No.10134870]

If you're not wearing bloomers, you're not wearing a full coord

[Anonymous No.10134871]

>>10134852
Question to everyone, what does the average ouji bf look like? Assuming he’s not actually into the fashion and didn’t buy pieces just because he’s a +1. I cannot imagine it going well. I saw one good looking one in a drawthread ages ago but other than that I don’t think I’ve seen a noncringy one (not that I go looking though)

[Anonymous No.10134875]

It shouldn’t piss me off when I see people replying to the threads retarded crossboarder men make on HOW DO I MAKE THIS WHERE CAN I BUY THIS IM BEING THIS FOR A PARTY CAN YOU LADIES HELP ME?? but it does. I browse a few other boards and I think cgl is the dumbest, and also hella gullible.
I used to just put “it’s always men” and sage hoping it’d catch on but it never did. I mean I guess it shows gulls can be nice?

[Anonymous No.10134877]

>>10134817
They’re there for a woman (their gf) who wants them to be there for support. Not the same thing at all as an unwanted rando invading your safe space. Stop being such pussies about basic smalltalk.

[Anonymous No.10134878]

>>10134870
Honestly, when I first started, no one told me exactly how essential bloomers were. Too many of the lolita 101 introductory sites exclude them altogether.

[Anonymous No.10134879]

>>10134875
Do you mean for cosplay shit or lolita shit? A lot of cosplay shit here involves men so if it’s on topic, whatever.

[Anonymous No.10134892]

>>10134879
Cosplay but either way, you encourage this spoonfeeding? I know the board is slow and threads dying for them doesn’t bother me but the fact they know they can come in, not look for the help thread, and gulls will help them anyways is super annoying.
>>10134877
Yeah well she’s a baby, her “support” makes more people annoyed/uncomfy than happy. You can always tell who brings their SO to meets and who doesn’t lel.

[Anonymous No.10134895]

I want to kill all sandniggers

[Anonymous No.10134897]

>>10134892
That's so true, if you absolutely need your SO at a meet for "support" then you're either too anxious at best for a healthy relationship or straight up codependant.

I get it if it's say, a lolita tea party, those are cute and can be a really cute date. But a harajuku picnic meet? How are you so anxious that you'll drag your stinky bf who stands in the corner playing Pokemon go and clearly barely wants to be there?

[Anonymous No.10134898]

>>10134892
Yeah she is a baby, but shit on her for it. She another social anxiety freak just like the person too uncomfortable to hold small talk with her boyfriend.

[Anonymous No.10134901]

>>10134875
Hah, Gull-ible!

But same, I feel so sorry for these dumb threads being bumped and giving the crossboarders hope.

[Anonymous No.10134906]

>>10134871
im sure when you say average that everyone gets a gross crusty dude in a vest in their mind.
it was one or two guys dressed very nicely in ouji

[Anonymous No.10134907]

>>10134877
Theres nothing wrong with having a plus one if they're allowed. I really don't get why people can't just bring their SOs without /cgl/ crying that they're codependent

[Anonymous No.10134916]

>>10134907
Because it’s not the place for your bf. It also is worse on you, since 100% of the time these girls are just awkwardly trying to include some dude in a situation they aren’t wanted. People just are too nice to say no to +1 stuff.

[Anonymous No.10134919]

>>10134762
..you seem to be over reacting to this.
Anyways, I have no trouble talking to my male coworkers. I just don't care for it at lolita meets because I'm there to get away from men at that time.

>>10134785
>>10134795
I never said it gives me anxiety and I don't have autism although I'm sure you were both using the incorrect 4chan meaning of autism and not the actual mental problems that people have in reality.
I just don't like talking to some chicks fuck toy at meets.

I agree with >>10134817
Its supposed to be a space for women. I get uncomfy when dude bros show up because I can no longer talk about girl shit and the conversation goes to stupid guy stuff or all the guys go hang out together to have their own personal sausage party. Theres just something off putting about it.

>>10134820
I have never actually witnessed this.
Its usually some girl who is obviously dragging her man around and making him do shit he doesn't really want to be doing which is even more uncomfortable to see.

Like really, it just gives me secondhand embarrassment.

[Anonymous No.10135061]

>>10134919
>Its supposed to be a space for women

I disagree, I wish more guys went to meets because I love the mens side of the fashion and want to see more of them participate in it. Don't scare them away just because you can't share a social space because of your personal problems.

[Anonymous No.10135067]

>too rainy for lolita
>too hot for lolita
>too lazy for lolita
>90% of wardrobe is lolita
>not depressed, just avoiding the petti
Damn it, I used to wear this stuff daily for 4 years straight. How did I become so damn lazy in a few months? When did clothing become a chore for me?

I'm thinking about journaling again to motivate me to dress properly and look forward to doing it. Does anyone else here keep a private outfit diary? Advice when you hit those slumps?

[Anonymous No.10135077]

>>10135061
mte, lolita has never been only for women. some people even argue it's about rejecting gender altogether since girls wear ouji and boys wear lolita and nobody bats an eye. only on cgl i see people constantly complaining about sissy's and men.

[Anonymous No.10135083]

>>10134002
Reading books, watching shows, and playing videogames are all sedentary activities. The hobbies that often go hand in hand with those hobbies, like writing, drawing, programming, and shitposting, are also sedentary activities. It's easy to imagine how a lot of people who consume media as their passion/primary hobby end up in wholly sedentary lifestyles. I'm not excusing it, but you can surely figure out WHY so many con-goers are fatties.

[Anonymous No.10135112]

I think I love conceptualizing projects and buying supplies more than I love actually starting and working on projects.

[Anonymous No.10135114]

>>10133514
I'll never get to do a couple cosplay with a cute gal cosplaying as my waifus. That's just kind of the reality I live in and I have to deal with it.

[Anonymous No.10135115]

>>10135114
>waifus, plural
Scum.

[Anonymous No.10135120]

>>10135077
That's because there's been an influx of vocal radfems who whine about males any chance they can get.

[Anonymous No.10135124]

>>10135120
That's a big true too, I'm gonna neck myself if I see anyone here (who isn't obviously from /tttt/ and referring to hons) calling some brolita an "agp"

[Anonymous No.10135135]

>>10135077
In the live journal days people used to complain about sissies all the time, this is not a new thing. Even in ruffle chat as hugboxy as it can be, people there have a distaste for sissies and age players. Let's be real, sissies and age play have unfortunate aesthetic overlaps with lolita so of course they are going to try and infiltrate the community.

Let's not forget that a lot of men who ask for help on a co-ord's in the crossplayer thread are autogynophiles from r9k who don't care about fashion.

I'm all for men who are generally interested in the fashion, but they are super rare in reality. Men don't tend to engage in female dominated interests unless they are gay and gender non-conforming or have ulterior motives.

[Anonymous No.10135188]

>>10135135
Did I say it's a new thing? I'm saying I've only seen it online. I've never seen a sissy irl and the men who come to our meets wear lolita or ouji.

[Anonymous No.10135189]

>>10135135
Did I say it's a new thing? I'm saying I've only seen it online. I've never seen a sissy irl and the men who come to our meets wear lolita, EGA, or ouji.

[Anonymous No.10135193]

>>10135189
>I've never seen a sissy irl
Consider yourself lucky, then.

[Anonymous No.10135209]

>>10135061
Then they should show up wearing ouji just like women are expected to show up wearing full lolita coords. Either they are there for fashion or they aren't.

[Anonymous No.10135210]

>>10135189
I envy you. My comm has had three sissies show up to meets in the past couple of years.

[Anonymous No.10135211]

>>10135135
>Let's not forget that a lot of men who ask for help on a co-ord's in the crossplayer thread are autogynophiles from r9k who don't care about fashion.
>I'm all for men who are generally interested in the fashion, but they are super rare in reality.
Yup this. This is why I don't want dude bros in jeans and a t shirt asking to help with my photos and no I don't care that cheryl brought him a long as a plus one. Being in a relationship has never stopped anyone from their ulterior motives.

[Anonymous No.10135222]

>>10135210
which comm?

>>10135189
i wonder if sissy's are just an american thing. i've never seen one irl either.

[Anonymous No.10135266]

>>10135222

We had a couple try to infiltrate ours and we weren't in burgerland.

[Anonymous No.10135279]

>>10135222
They definitely aren't but there are a lot of countries where being trans is actually illegal so its possible you just never saw them but they do still exist in hiding.

It's just more acceptable in the US and Canada.

[Anonymous No.10135284]

>>10135279
i live in the netherlands, it's not illegal here

[Anonymous No.10135288]

>>10135279
What does trans being illegal in certain countries have to do with sissies? They aren't trans, just men who get off on wearing hideous frilly dresses.

[Anonymous No.10135309]

>Buyer puts off actually shipping my stuff for a month
>After telling me she'd ship it the next day.
>Doesn't inform me of the delay until I contact later
I'm more mad about how rude that is then not havinging my package.

[Anonymous No.10135320]

>>10135288
There are lots of sissies who call themselves trans and people take them seriously because they don’t want to be called transphobic. If a cis female called a sissy out publicly for hiding behind the label, I guarantee you random “non-sissy” trans women would dogpile her for it.

[Anonymous No.10135328]

>>10135320
It's really unusual that there are lots of people like that around you/in your comm. Are you sure you didn't accidentally joined a sissy group?

[Anonymous No.10135336]

>>10135189
just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. My comms had two fetishists, and no i'm not american.
I don't care if men wear lolita enough to hate them or call them sissies by default, but I am wary of them. I think it's reasonable to worry that someone sees you as jerk off fuel rather than a person.

[Anonymous No.10135342]

>>10135328
That was my first post I’m not talking about sissies claiming to be trans in a com I’m talking about sissies in non-lolita and online spaces
I’ve seen it happen many times, particularly with sissy pedophiles. I support the trans community but you can’t criticize it at all without getting death threats or called a terf

[Anonymous No.10135354]

>>10135342
But have you actually seen it irl or are you talking about the internet

[Anonymous No.10135372]

>be in cosplay club
>only there because I cosplay and want to learn new techniques and teach others how to sew/make props and shit like that
>club is like 3 people, we just shoot the shit about cosplay, vidya, etc while working on projects
>suddenly several new people join, okay, cool
>one of them is a non-passing MTF
>okay cool
>these new people are all queer and literally insert their shit into every single conversation we have
>"Oh I LOVE overwatch, I love how they made Soldier:76 gay because he's the straightest man there haha! I always go for and play the QUEEREST character in any game! *insert several jokes about how they're all queer*"
>The original 3 people, including me, just don't say anything or just nod along
>mention TF2 because I love the game and the characterization
>"hurr durr cast not diverse!! Not a SINGLE women!"
>just shut up because they're insufferable and there's no winning without making them booty blasted

I have no fucking problem with your sexuality/activism shit, but stop injecting it into every single fucking conversation we have. We can talk about Bayonetta without you whipping out your "oh I LOOOOVE HER she's such a great role model for WOMEN".

it's a big part of why I dislike cons and cosplay culture, because there are so many of these insufferable people

[Anonymous No.10135376]

>>10135354
Online with randoms, online with public figures, and in the news which is irl

[Anonymous No.10135400]

>>10135372
God I feel this. There always seems to be an tranny like that in every cosplay club or group. They can’t ever be normal, they always have to be about the activism stuff.
>tfw at least three of the staff of a midwestern convention gameroom supplier are trans
That doesn’t happen by pure nature I’m sorry.

[Anonymous No.10135411]

>>10135400
yeah you also get the opposite too. I was an officer in GSA in high school and instead of making meetings where we educated or discussed actual issues the cringe autogynephile cis female president just wanted to sperg out about steven universe and jefree star and every meeting made me want to kms

[Anonymous No.10135433]

>>10135400
I'm not even trying to be negative about it, like I literally don't give a fuck about your condition. I call every single person I see "dude" or "bro", guy girl or in between, and they're the only ones who don't want to be called that SPECIFICALLY. Like who the fuck cares? "Dude" is practically gender neutral!

their entire desire to push their shit into everything and the sheer presence of people trying to push their little headcannon onto every character in every game/anime is why cons are losing a lot of the interest for me. I'm there to listen to devs speak about past and future projects; not theories about gender for fucks sake, which is what the norm is for cons.

It's just all so tiresome. Can't we talk about vidya/anime plots, subplots, lore, power levels, or any of the multitude of things that make these things fun without bringing up gender/self identification 99% of the time?

[Anonymous No.10135567]

>>10135284
We’ve had at least one very obvious sissy in our comm.

[Anonymous No.10135647]

>>10135288
>What does trans being illegal in certain countries have to do with sissies?
Because one gets confused for the other by those who hate them as a group so you would be less likely to come across one while you are out and about or in your local comm. Just like in places where it would be frowned upon.

[Anonymous No.10135745]

>>10133640
Was this Triple Fortune?

[Anonymous No.10136174]

>>10135567
Lonelita here. Do sissies try to hit on you? I thought they were looking for like dommes or some shit. I don't get why they'd want to spend time with a bunch of soft women who are serious about the fashion instead of just going to a sex dungeon.

[Anonymous No.10136249]

>>10136174
Predators don't care about where it happens. They just go where they think they have a chance to get some.

[Anonymous No.10136336]

>>10133617
But I do that