Local Lolita Comm Thread

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Local Lolita Comm Thread Anonymous Thu, Feb 14, 2019 05:28:36 No.10104995 [Reply] [Original]

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>>10074924

Talk about your local comm

Anyone planning anything big for Spring?

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 14, 2019 19:20:01 No.10105444 DAE experience the massive influx of crybabies when its time to prune inactive members lol

Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 12:04:22 No.10105927

>>10105444
Don't tell them. Just do it and let the people who get kicked out whine away. Most of them don't even notice.

My comm has almost no gothic or classic lolitas and the few that do wear the style are fat enough that they can't fit into the jp brands of those substyles. I don't have anyone to talk to about Moi meme moitie or Mary Magdalene because the others will just shit on them for not being available in bigger size.
The other part of the comm are coslitas. They don't care about fashion outside of lolita and they dress like crap if they're not going to a meet. I'm not looking for uguu daily life style types but it would be nice to have friends who appreciate nice aesthetics outside of meets.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 12:11:02 No.10105929

my comm's started planning some picnics for spring but the cons of living in the great frozen north is who knows when it will be warm enough for spring activities. my favorite comm members are college kids though and will be going home for the summer which is sad.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 12:25:49 No.10105934 My comm has been pretty quiet lately. We haven't had a popular meet in months. We've only had a handful of smaller meets and a few that got canceled because of little interest.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 15:56:11 No.10106116

>>10105927
I know your pain, anon. According to a poll my comm did classic is the second most popular substyle here, almost tied with sweet, yet I can count the number of people who own anything by VM, MM or JetJ (or for that matter, Moitie main pieces) on one hand. There’s some IW but mostly their sweeter prints. Many people in my comm seem to think that Baby and AP’s regular releases in brown, navy or wine are automatically classic. I’ve gotten used to the fact that whenever someone says they’ll be wearing classic to a meet, they’ll show up in an AP print or Baby rufflemonster with either a flower crown or a satellite dish bonnet.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 16:01:31 No.10106121 There's an e-famous frilly in my comm and she's hosting a meet next week. I want to go but it's expensive and too short notice. I am happy she's active and starting to host stuff now, though. Hopefully I can attend one of her meets in the future.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 18:10:42 No.10106223 >>10105927 How big must you be to not be able to fit ANY Moitie? Their shirred pieces are so forgiving

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 18:12:20 No.10106225 >>10106121 If you are a dfw gull we are in the same boat! I hope to make it work, hope you can too!

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 18:24:46 No.10106237 >>10105444 Unless were in the same comm, yeah. Its silly because the bar to stay is insanely low and you can reapply to be added again, no questions asked.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 18:41:40 No.10106255 >>10106225 Yep, same comm! I might go just to have lunch with everyone, but I know I don't have time to swing the other part. Hope you can go, anon!

Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 19:23:24 No.10106282

our comm is pretty quiet since my city isn't super large, so i'm planning on hosting tea parties when i move into my new house in spring to try to breathe some life back into it.
i was so happy when i moved here to find out there was a comm but i'm sad how inactive it is.
not to mention, the fact that its so small and quiet means the mods will virtually accept anyone even if they just have a vague interest or give off sissy vibes.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 20:59:21 No.10106353 >>10106237 If it just happened within the last few days, we might be! Yea I’m really not understanding how so many people are miffed, people are acting like they’re being personally attacked or something? It’s pretty wild

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 21:37:09 No.10106372 >>10106121 >$20 ticket >$10 parking >$20-30 something on food >expensive

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 15, 2019 21:53:55 No.10106384 >>10106372 What even is the meet?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 08:00:57 No.10106587 >>10106237 >>10106353 i didnt see a lot of crybabies, was a lot of reasonable answers outside of that one chick who was like "go ahead and kick me my experience with the comm was shit"

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 08:50:09 No.10106601 >>10106384 I assume Tyler's/ LWLN meet in Deep Ellum. It's at a sushi place in a gentrified artsy area so it can get a little more expensive to park and stuff.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 10:12:10 No.10106636

>>10105444
>>10106237
>>10106353
Different comm but people in mine reacted the same way. Mods were only wanting to get rid of dead accounts and people who joined years ago and forgot about it, so all they asked was that everyone like a pinned post within a month+ timeframe. They also bumped our introduction thread for people who felt like introducing themselves but made it explicitly clear that this wasn’t mandatory, and nobody would be removed for not introducing themselves.

People in the comments (most of whom I’d never seen before in my 5+ years in this comm) started crying about ‘elitism’, ‘secret clubs’ and ‘muh privacy’ as if the mods had demanded access to their home to personally evaluate their wardrobe or something. But literally all they had to do was like a post...

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 10:17:41 No.10106638 >>10106636 Funny thing is that those who often cry about secrets clubs and elitism, make private meets for “nice Lolita’s” only as well...

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 10:55:03 No.10106653 >>10106601 But >>10106372 said $20 ticket plus $20-30 for food. Is she really charging a ticket price to go to a public restaurant?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 11:13:17 No.10106663

>>10106638
lol true. A couple of years ago someone in my comm made a new group "for nice lollies ONLY uwu" and invited only her friends and a few clueless newbies. Apparently all they did there was repost topics from the main group and bitch about our mods and most prominent members. It was deleted after like two months. I wonder why?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 11:23:16 No.10106668 >>10106653 Maybe she has to pay in advance to reserve?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 11:31:13 No.10106671

>>10106653
>>10106668
After sushi, they going to the aquarium, so the admissions fee is $20. She's just giving everyone a heads up of the pricing. After the aquarium, she's heading to a coffee shop. I think she made a multi-tiered meet so people can join in and drop off where they want to.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 11:33:55 No.10106676 >>10106601 >>10106653 >>10106668 It's a meet to go eat sushi and then go to an aquarium. $60 total isn't expensive for both.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 12:31:59 No.10106697 >>10106676 >sushi and then aquarium cruel but hilarious

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 13:17:40 No.10106742 Hey Eurofags and Brekshits how are your comms doing?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 13:50:36 No.10106773 Ive recently joined my comm and showed up to two meets. Everyone seems nice but theyre all very established friends. How do i become one of their friends too?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 14:05:37 No.10106781 >>10106773 Be nice, host a good meet or two, add them on fb and comment on their instagrams a lot

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 14:07:33 No.10106782 >>10106697 i'm disappointed the meet wasn't called "See? Food!"

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 14:59:22 No.10106808 >>10106773 Try to get into one of their chatgroups.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:32:03 No.10106825

There's this (actually nice,nothing against her) girl in my comm who i discovered (by stalking her a bit too much as i have obsessive tendencies/fixations on random people at times) is into some really kinky shit. Like,degenerate tier kind of shit.
And now I don't know what to do of it. She never brought it up, never posts about it on her main social media either, only this one specific discord server i infiltrated.
It's hard to look the same at her now that i know she's into anthro/furry,futanari (or both at the same time like animal cocks on anthro girls),impreg,mindbreaking,petplay etc... and i wonder if i should out her for being a degenerate?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:36:11 No.10106826 >>10106825 I mean... no? If she's not an ageplayer and she doesn't connect it with lolita, what does it matter? "Outing" her would make you look pretty bad too.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:37:08 No.10106828 >>10106825 stop stalking people you walnut as long as she isn't sucking animal dicks for real who cares

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:38:45 No.10106829

>>10106825
If she makes sure to not talk about it publicly and you had to stalk her and and infiltrate a private discord server to get this info, then YOU are the degenerate and she's a decent human being minding her own business.
Tbh you should never enter a public space again. Just don't go near people. Please lock yourself in your bedroom and never come out again you fucking waste of space. Fucking gross

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:39:48 No.10106832

>>10106825
If she keeps it to herself, no, there's no need to out her. The only reason kinks are such a problem in the lolita community is because of people who display their degeneracy for everyone to see and insist on involving the community in it and/or mention it at any given opportunity, which is fucked up and anyone who does it should be shamed for it. This is not the case here so there's no point in outing her, unless you want to be an asshole I guess.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:41:24 No.10106834

>>10106826
Kek she dislikes DDLG and ageplay and will voice her disgust every time yet she's into being a "pet" for her "master". That's hilarious.

>>10106828
>>10106829
Triggered much? She's disgusting and I feel like people deserve to know she isn't as cute and sweet as they think she is

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:46:57 No.10106837 >>10106834 Well you are disgusting for stalking and fir being on cgl in the first place. How about you out yourself first then? Aren’t other people allowed to know you are a piece of shit as well?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 15:54:07 No.10106839

>>10106825
You're a douche. High-school bully douche.
She isn't being gross in public. She isn't doing anything illegal. She's keeping it where it belongs. Why the fuck are you in that server if you're not looking for similar things?
God fucking forbid someone discuss their interests in a place where that is invited and accepted.
Please, throw your computer away. You are way too immature to be using it.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 16:03:57 No.10106844
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>>10106825
I'm into some fucked up shit, and it doesn't come up in front of my comm members. Just leave it be. Most people keep those sort of things to themselves, and you'd be surprised how many other people are into weird shit too. You might end up alienating yourself from people you thought you knew who may have similar inclinations.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 16:06:25 No.10106845

>>10106742
for where I used to live (I moved to a neighbouring country mid-last year) - alright, but we have almost no active members (something like 4 people showing up to meets if we're lucky). everyone is nice and we get along, but it gets kinda boring with the same few people over and over again.

where I am now, I haven't bothered to join yet because I feel weird being (likely) the only foreigner, but from what I've heard it's pretty alright. I'll probably join whenever I start wearing the fashion again regularly and speak the language slightly better

>>10106834
you literally creeped on someone to dig up dirt on them and now you're expecting us to pat you on the back and call you a good person
good job you're a literal fucking walnut

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 16:16:54 No.10106853 >>10106587 That girl was BS-ing. She got lost trying to get to a meet and everyone was trying to help her but she just bailed anyway

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 20:12:21 No.10107006
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>>10106825
Maybe you should stop having
>random fixations
On people in your comm. Or just accept that she dresses better than you and quit trying to ruin her life, you weirdo.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 20:28:46 No.10107013 >>10106834 Do you not understand how creepy you are? I'd rather not have someone like you in my comm.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 20:47:03 No.10107028 >>10106782 Looks like Tyler missed another joke.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 20:49:40 No.10107030

>>10106671
>>10106676
In that case it’s no big deal an not what I would call expensive. If you can’t afford it skip either food or the aquarium. You don’t have to do both. God I hate people like that. If you don’t have money don’t go and don’t bitch about it, Jesus.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 21:02:16 No.10107035
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Are all the LA/OC comms dead? I am trying to join, and noticed most of their Facebook groups had had less than 2 posts in the last month. My friends live in other states and their comms are very active on Facebook, I'm extremely jealous. I just want to join a comm and find more girls into EGL that aren't trying to borrow my clothing.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 16, 2019 22:46:34 No.10107117 >>10107030 They aren't really bitching. >>10106255 already said they'll only go to the lunch. You seem more pissy than them, anon.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 00:05:02 No.10107145 >>10107035 LA's dead besides their giant ILD meets. OC is more active on their discord server.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 00:21:52 No.10107148 >>10107145 How are they dead? They had a Valentine’s meet like two weeks ago.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 00:23:44 No.10107150 >>10107035 LA has one of the most active communities in the west coast. It’s just a matter of trying to get to know members through the LA Facebook page or Instagram.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 00:57:42 No.10107160 >>10106825 >shit that didn't happen

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 04:12:00 No.10107205

>>10107148
>>10107150
I've been trying to find some way to get information on meetups and knew that they used to use Facebook a lot more. I knew people had to have migrated to something else. It's hard to try joining a comm where you can't even attempt to get invited to meetups. You're right though, I should just message an admin. Got nervous and don't like the idea of putting people on the spot.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 13:52:36 No.10107445 I love the Finnish comm!

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 14:24:29 No.10107452 My comm is dead but it's for the best. They're itas with unfortunate faces.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 14:39:45 No.10107457
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>>10106834
everyone here: you're being a fucking creep and its kind of weird that you care so much about what someone is doing in their private life.

you: not guys please its JUSTIFIED. my creepy, stalkerish behavior is totally fine and you guys are just TrIgGeRrrEd.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 15:32:02 No.10107486

Is the Atlanta community dead? I applied to join months ago and it's still "pending". I messaged two different mods and neither have seen my message. I thought the Atlanta community seemed at least a little active since there's brands at AWA every now and then?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 16:54:53 No.10107563 What do you do when there is a sissy in your comm? I want to host a meet but the last event someone had held a sissy attended. I also noticed they are friends with comm mods so how can I prevent this from happening at my meet?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 16:57:57 No.10107566 >>10107563 Maybe you could block him so he can't see the event?

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 16:58:01 No.10107567

>>10107563
Why would your mods encourage a sissy to attend meets and be a part of the community at all, is a far more pressing question imo. Either that person isn't really a sissy or there's something else you're not telling us because this doesn't make sense to me.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 17:09:06 No.10107572

>>10107567
This happened in my comm before I bounced. The mods protected and praised an obvious sissy who had AP OPs altered to fit him, and while I commend him on going for brand, I also know exactly what he does in it. Disgusting. One of the mods had befriended this sissy before he knew of lolita, and then urged him to join the comm when he started wearing it. They think he's safe.
I've seen this disgusting fetishist in action, wanting to wear other girls' dresses and asking about foundation garments. He even goes as far as wearing bras for fun. When I see him in public, he always has ratty hair and his dresses are in horrid condition. When they put him in the fashion show, I had to leave.
Block him so he can't see your event.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 17:17:43 No.10107580 >>10107572 Oof, you did the right thing when you left your comm, that's horrid. I hope anon's situation is different but something tells me it probably, unfortunately, isn't.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 17:25:19 No.10107584

>>10107567
He's not a sissy, just a middle aged brolita. Anon is being a paranoid sexist bitch and starting drama for no reason.

To the anon with the vendetta, host the meet privately with girls on your friend list if you don't want a man at your meet. Stop trying to get him banned just because you don't like him.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 17:58:39 No.10107607

>>10107584
But I don't know him? I'm honestly just trying to not have a pervert ruin a meet of mine. Also has anyone actually met someone who was a middle aged brolita that didnt fall into the sissy category?
Maybe I'm ignorant but I just dont want an older guy in a horrible coord ruining the look and feel of a meet.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:05:25 No.10107611 >>10107607 I agree with you. What could a middle aged man, or even a strange young man, contribute to a meet anyways??

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:05:47 No.10107612

>>10107607
You know him enough to post him in the ita thread, stalk him online to figure out that the mods are friends with him, and try to start shit on here. There are girls in the comm who dress a lot worse than him, just admit that you don't want an old man attending. Again, make the meet on your personal page so it's private if you don't want him going. He's not active in the comm enough to cause issues, he literally went to one meet last year.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:16:06 No.10107617

>>10107612
Are you a paranoid sissy? We may not be talking about the same guy considering I never posted any sissy to the ita thread so calm down.
I only know he's a sissy via the pics on the comms meet and his own fb, and I looked at his friends list to find this out. That's not stalking.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:22:57 No.10107621

>>10107617
So there's two people posting on here about him then? Seems oddly convenient that he was posted to the ita thread with the caption 'how do you keep a sissy from attending a meet' the day before the meet happens and then >>10107563 is posted the day after. You can stop trying to play dumb now.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:29:51 No.10107628

>>10107621
I looked in the ita thread and this is in fact the same person I am talking about. I'm not the person who posted them originally though. Sorry to double up or try to bully on someone I just find it a little weird he is friends with at least one of the mods of the comm. Again, what could this guy add to the comm besides everyone feeling uncomfortable.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 18:37:43 No.10107633 >>10107621 Nayrt, not even in your comm, but that guy looks horrifying and the fact you enable him is what's wrong with lolita communities these days.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 20:19:51 No.10107692

>>10107611
This. Men should stay out of lolita. They make me uncomfortable. Men in drag just creep me out in general even those who manage to look good.
I want to see cute girls around me,no men, I already gotta deal with those idiots on the daily at work.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 20:27:07 No.10107697 >>10107612 I was the one who posted about him in the ita thread and I don't know what anyone right now is talking about. my comm is a fairly small com in medford oregon...

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 20:43:51 No.10107711

>>10107697
Then why did you post it with the caption >any idea how to keep sissies out of meets?
He doesn't live anywhere near you, so you don't have to worry about him showing up. If you want to bitch about sissies then at least post one who lives in the same state as you.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 20:59:42 No.10107728 >>10107711 I'm in the same comm he's in and will probably not attend any meets in fear he will be there. I feel really unsafe now. I think the mods should do better.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 21:06:00 No.10107737 >>10107711 Because we keep having sissies wanting to come to our meets... wtf, why else?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 21:07:03 No.10107738 >>10107711 I think we're talking about two different sissies here.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 21:19:39 No.10107747 >>10107728 Calm down, anon. He's not Vic Mignogna.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:22:18 No.10107783

what do you do if you suspect you have a ddlg in your comm? follow up, do people use "stuffies" to refer to stuffed animals if they are not into ageplay? i've only heard the word in that context so hearing a comm member say it caught me super off guard.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:26:46 No.10107786 >>10107783 I think they call them stuffies in Europe too?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:26:54 No.10107787 >>10107783 Gross. Age players sure have a way of making most innocent childhood things into some sick perversion. What fucking kid calls their stuffed animals “stuffed.” I hate them.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:34:00 No.10107793 >>10107783 Sometimes I call them stuffies or plushies but now this makes me never want to call them that again

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:38:30 No.10107796 >>10107783 I called them stuffies when I was twelve. I definitely grew out of it. Some people just didn't get the memo though.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:41:41 No.10107799 >>10107786 >>10107787 >>10107793 >>10107796 my comm is far from europe but this gives me hope that maybe she just uses the word since she seems otherwise normal

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:41:57 No.10107801 >>10107783 I know that furries will call them stuffies sometimes. Definitely a red flag either way.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 22:51:44 No.10107807

>>10107801
It's not a red flag, it's just a weird thing. If this idiot was bringing their 'stuffies' to meetups or doing other dumb stuff, then I'd be inclined to worry. But... even if they are a little, unless they're hopping up on the table to be changed by daddy, who cares? Just don't befriend them lol

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 23:20:46 No.10107819

>>10107783
So DDLG and/or age play imo is gross. BUT, if they’re isolating their behavior and not bringing it out, there’s not much you can do but avoid him or her. If they try to talk about it at meets or in the comm, get the mods on it. Otherwise, it’s their personal (albeit perverted) life.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 23:21:22 No.10107820 >>10107783 I have only heard of them being called stuffies. >but canadafag so yvwv

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 23:24:35 No.10107821 >>10107572 If you're talking about the person I'm thinking of, they're a transwoman in transition. They're clueless on hair and makeup. Not a sissy or a creep, just very socially awkward.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 23:35:06 No.10107824

>>10107821
So they're an autogynephile then. They care more about being a twirly prissy princess than about taking care of their clothes so I'm skeptical about letting them stay in the comm. They are one step away from seriously overstepping some boundaries already. I'm creeped out and hate being associated with them.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 17, 2019 23:35:14 No.10107825 >>10107205 LMK how it goes anon, I'm in LA too and haven't been able to join the comm.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 01:19:34 No.10107870

Old comm members, who were poisonous/elitist themselves, are now playing the victim role and are spreading a negative image of our local comm. This would have been really funny, if it wasn’t for the fact that everyone, who has not been around long enough, actually believes those girls. Will there ever be a moment that our local comm is not known for being poisonous/elitist?

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 02:38:12 No.10107899
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>>10107825
I'm glad I'm not the only one. I've tried adding the facebook groups. I know they must have some sort of discord server or something now, because as others said, they aren't inactive. I don't want to DM a bunch of people I don't know begging to be invited. I'm not stupid, they probably doubled down to protect their members over something weird, but it still feels really sad to have my requests just sitting. I want to be an active member and show up to meetups.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 03:02:45 No.10107906 >>10107692 >no men around me! nayrt, but that really sounds more like a you problem. Have you spoken to a therapist?

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 05:42:30 No.10107958 >>10107870 The nerve of K to badmouth our comm for being "unwelcome" to her when she never made any effort to speak to any girl outside of her clique despite being a moderator. I met her once and she pretended I didn't exist.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 07:42:58 No.10107985 >>10107906 There's nothing wrong with not wanting men in the fashion that's for women.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 09:02:30 No.10108030 >>10107870 Maybe stop bringing it up yourself? And maybe stop being poisonous and elitist. But I don't know, maybe not. The comm is not that special anyways. Stop bawling. Lol

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 10:51:15 No.10108079 >>10107958 Aren't you kinda doing the same here?

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 10:58:35 No.10108088 >>10107825 You can join. There is no exclusive waiting list.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 11:43:55 No.10108127 >>10108079 This bitch and her friends posted the entire comm to an ita thread. They even posted the girl with special needs. That's how fucking petty she is. No, calling her out for her bullshit is not the same thing.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 11:50:29 No.10108135 >>10108127 How do you know it was them?

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 11:57:32 No.10108138 >>10107870 What comm is this?

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:04:54 No.10108143

>>10108135
I don't think they were even keeping it a secret. They were actively discussing it on Facebook as it was happening. The last time there was a vendetta post against the comm it was them as well and they went as far as posting what they said on Facebook to show each other. The odds of someone posting their own friends and themselves to /cgl/ to blame them is slim as most of them comm doesn't even know who they are. The only reason they cause drama is because they try their hardest to stay relevant by doing shit like this.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:12:08 No.10108147 >>10108143 This sounds too far fetched for me. Why would they do that if they're old members. Just to be relevant? It makes no sense.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:26:54 No.10108158

>>10108127
>>10108143
Plus those pictures were specifically the ones that people posted in the introduction thread which was created when the whole ghost members drama was going down.
>thunking_emoji.gif

>>10108147
I think it was just plain old salt. The comm was changing and had been for a while, people wanted the mods and the comm as a whole to be more social and approachable to which they were very resistant, and most of their original clique wasn’t into lolita anymore. I think they were just lashing out. It’s no more far fetched than saying people posted themselves and their friends to the ita thread to make the other side look bad.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:36:26 No.10108173

>>10108147
Two of them were moderators till last year. One did minor moderating but the other did literally nothing. They got very upset when someone suggested cleaning up the comm page by removing ghost members because they weren't consulted. The issue of ghost members was a common thing discussed at meet ups but they never went. They were incredibly inactive so they were unaware of most comm issues. They threw a fit about it and asked all of their friends to join in on the conversation to defend them. These friends had to have been inactive for at least 7 years. After this they quit and most people didn't care because most of us had never met them anyway. It was clearly a status thing for them. They made the ita thread a few days after quitting.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:39:16 No.10108177 >>10108147 I don't have anything to do with this but people are totally capable of being monsters for no fucking reason what so ever. Sometimes, people just want to be assholes.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 12:44:30 No.10108186 >>10106773 Be nice and ask about them! I’m always trying to be more friends with people in my comm and some of them talk to me about things outside of Lolita.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 13:07:22 No.10108212

>>10106825
What the fuck is wrong with you? It's fine for people (yes even uwu lovely Lolita's) to have some nasty fetishes as long as they're mature enough to keep it separate from their public life. Why on Earth would you consider it your duty to "out" her when she's handling her kinks privately and appropriately and your the one infiltrating private servers to gain info on her? Maybe don't be such a fucking stalker if you're not emotionally mature enough to handle the things you find out, you creep.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 14:11:34 No.10108286 >>10108173 If you believe that they made that thread then you really are stupid. Nobody in their right mind would do something like that after such an exit. It was bait and you all chomped right onto it.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 14:49:17 No.10108318

>>10108173
But there are even fewer meets than before and also that superelitist swap meet totally backfired because of the prices everyone had to spend :'). Ppl are really bawling about the prev mods while the current community is horrible. Also the theory about the old mods doing the ita posts don't add up as the comm is worse after they left. Sounds like a set up for a final slammer to make them leave. Well played though. You probably have quite a few fans who believe you.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 14:51:44 No.10108320 >>10108318 I knew M would be gloating about the swap meet as soon as I saw the announcement.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 14:58:37 No.10108331 >>10108320 Dropping initials and being suggestive to het ppl right were you want them. No wonder your comm is so toxic.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 15:05:42 No.10108341 >>10108177 Yeh I heard that people got excluded and bullied. Hoping they'll leave on their own initiative. I wonder why lolis want to be part of a community like that.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 15:11:00 No.10108346 >>10106825 >>10106834 I hate people who mix their kinks but if she's not mixing it and keeping it private, it's her business.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 15:53:18 No.10108395 >>10108341 >>10108331 >>10108320 >>10108318 You're same-posting is pathetic. Why are you so obsessed with us still? It's been months. Get over it.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 15:59:36 No.10108399 >>10108395 I like how you are desperatley trying to distract everyone from what is really going on.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 16:03:35 No.10108404

>>10108399
Like I am supposed to believe those five posts are from different people especially if they have been posted that close to each other? There isn't anyone in our comm that even likes you enough to defend you. You were shit mod and a shit person.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 16:05:05 No.10108407 >>10108404 :'). I support this.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 16:06:45 No.10108409 >>10108404 Is that the tactic you used posting the entire Dutch comm in the ita topic?

Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 18:44:23 No.10108649
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While everyone else is arguing about who posted who, I'm going to inject some positivity into this thread. I love my comm. I full well believe it's one of the most active comms in the country (maybe the world). We have shit going on every weekend and we help better each other (most of the time). I'm so happy that I'm here and not somewhere where the salt rules.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 19:02:57 No.10108667 >>10107783 >do people use "stuffies" to refer to stuffed animals if they are not into ageplay? Yes. It's a normie term. I'm in a facebook giveaway/free group for parents and literally every soccermom under the sun calls them stuffies.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 20:29:51 No.10108743 >>10108649 Cherish and protect that comm anon

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 18, 2019 23:01:26 No.10108876 >>10107035 I stopped going to OC meets because that annoying girl from SF moved here and she has to argue with everyone she makes eye contact with

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 00:08:39 No.10108920 >>10106773 If you want lolitas to like you, just look at them and smile a lot and laugh at everything they say, even if it's not funny.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 00:14:14 No.10108924 People still dress like this? Whew.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 00:18:02 No.10108927 >>10106834 anon, i'm sure almost everyone else who you find "cute and sweet" is also secretly into some weird shit you don't like. as long as she's keeping it private and not hurting anyone, it's none of your fucking business.

Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 00:23:42 No.10108930

>>10108667

Maybe it's a generational thing. I'm a millennial and always called plush toys "stuffed animals". Didn't even learn the term "plushies" until I was, like, in high school. Then as adult, I heard my retirement-age uncle call my baby cousin's toy a "stuffy". I thought it sounded so weird. I like "plushie" better.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 05:24:11 No.10109061 >>10108399 nayrt, but i have no idea what is going on. can someone give me cliff notes?

Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 09:16:50 No.10109146

>>10108318
Tbh the reason they wanted a swap meet like that, is because several people were upset with what they got at the previous swap meet and wanted one without claires stuff for once. But in the end the comm is cheap and doesn’t want to spend over €25 on a meeting, so it was a failure.

Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 09:25:44 No.10109149

>>10107486
It's not dead but quiet, who did you message? (Gimme initials) I'll poke them for you.

There's also yoyogi fashion club in Atlanta and a lot of the meets get crossposted.

I'm hosting a meet 10th of March in ATL, its in both groups too :)

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 09:40:06 No.10109155 >>10108876 The vegan girl?

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 12:54:48 No.10109299 >>10109061 Dutch com is filled with petty girls who are arguing about who is more toxic on 4chan

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 14:50:34 No.10109370 >>10109299 "Girls"

Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 15:18:53 No.10109391

>>10109299
I don't get why people are dredging up this old mod drama anyway. It's boring and in the past. Our comm is fine now, there's a decent amount of meets, although I wish the meets not organised by the most well-established comm members would have a higher attendance.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 15:53:40 No.10109415 >>10109299 ty, anon

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 16:20:17 No.10109426 >>10109391 You mean elitists?

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 16:27:00 No.10109429 >>10109426 No, that's not what I meant at all.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 19, 2019 18:19:17 No.10109517 >>10107035 Like the other anon said, OC is mainly on Discord now because FB is a creepy and gross platform that a bunch of us don’t want to use. Just message a mod for an invite to the server, no one will mind.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 09:03:38 No.10109958 >>10109149 Oh I'm glad to hear it's not dead! I had messaged MS and CB. Thank you anon!

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 10:18:37 No.10109991 >>10109958 I gave CB a poke, she said to send her another message, as it looks like Facebook has eaten your first message

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 14:52:44 No.10110131 >>10109991 I resent my message! It's probably in her "other messages" folder since we're not friends on Facebook. I also changed my profile picture to me in Lolita to make it easier to see why I'm sending her a message!

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 15:39:42 No.10110151 >>10107611 fuck off stacey my wardrobe is twice the size of yours and i am much more knowledgeable about fashion than your ita ass

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 15:47:58 No.10110156 >>10110151 You're still ugly Funk.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 15:58:07 No.10110163 >>10110151 You hate women yet want to mingle with them. Troons never fail to amuse me.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 19:29:14 No.10110304

I have an issue. Two mods in my com have been shit talking about people in the com. I don't know how to go about this because many people do not know how extremely two faced they are and while I do have proof, I don't feel my community will be there to back me up on my "accusations" and it can backfire on me because I've known about this for so long.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 20:21:50 No.10110337 >>10110304 I feel like I know what comm you mean... Usually there's only one toxic person in a group but my comm has two and they aren't subtle about it

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 23:19:37 No.10110469 I am a new Lolita, but I love my com, and cannot wait to learn more. :)

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 20, 2019 23:46:55 No.10110504 >>10109517 Thank you! I will.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 00:38:59 No.10110549 >>10109155 That’s a different person living in LA now but she’s a cunt too

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 02:51:32 No.10110599 >>10110163 Other men won’t pat his ass and tell him he’s pretty.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 03:09:55 No.10110604 What's everyone's opinion on themed meets? Do you prefer them so you have vague outfit plans/ everone is somewhat cohesive or would you rather just wear whatever the fuck you want?

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 07:23:32 No.10110658 >>10110304 Just out them. Air that shit.

Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 10:17:36 No.10110732

>>10107607
>>10107611

There is a really sweet middle aged brolita in my comm. Never gives any creepy vibes. Has a background in historical fashion and fell in love with egl late in life. Follows new releases, talks about sewing, engages in conversation, talks about tea, and more. They DO exist anon.

Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 11:12:48 No.10110758

>>10110604
Sometimes they work because everyone who has something that fits the theme will want to join. But some people come up with the worst themes. For example a royal theme meet works for every style but a cake themed meet excludes everyone with a gothic wardrobe.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 16:49:39 No.10111004 >>10109429 You're either stupid, biased or just another bitch.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 17:03:04 No.10111012 >>10110732 So you can say 100% he's not a sissy?

Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 18:48:20 No.10111090

posted on confessions but it's relevant here too and i'm interest in others' experience with this.

i side eye a lot of my comm's ticketed meets. we used to only do ticketed meets for like teahouses to make reservations, or if we needed to reserve a venue, or if the host was bringing a lot of things on their own dime (food, clothing racks, etc). i also understand the need for ticketed meets if a comm is very large, or wants to provide a barrier for entry for sissies, underage folks, etc.

but lately it seems like we've seen a spike in ticketed meets and our comm doesn't have the latter issues, and many of the "ticketed meets" are "teehee let's meet at the park for photos and then wander around downtown to find a restaurant or a museum, tickets are $15" like wtf are people even paying for

Anonymous Thu, Feb 21, 2019 20:27:30 No.10111145

>>10110604
I have a love hate relationship with them. Usually I hate when someone else hosts them because I never have anything to wear for their themes. Yet I crave themed meets that match things in my wardrobe. I also hate when people go to themed meets without wearing a themed coord and don't butt out of photos. I know lolita isn't just for photos but if you're there for a cohesive theme you kind of want cute themed pics.

>>10110758
Definitely agree. Sometimes my comm's ILD is even too themed and definitely leans much more classic and gothic while I'm very sweet. Ofc I can still go but I'd prefer to be able to participate in the theme without buying a whole coord that doesn't go with my closet.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 09:01:29 No.10111462 >>10111090 Ask because it might be arbitrary to discourage people who rsvp and bail because it’s annoying regardless of comm size OR the people hosting the meet just want their friends to show and said friends know full well the charge is bogus.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 09:53:02 No.10111486

>>10110604
I much prefer themed meets. It gives me motivation to think out of the box when I make a coord for a meet. The theme is always optional so idk why anyone would feel bothered by it.

Even there are some themes that I can't do with my wardrobe, like anything pirate or sailor related, I would still go because it'll probably be the only time I ever get to see someone wear pirate lolita irl.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:24:55 No.10111603

>>10111462
This is happening in more communities. Not only to have only your friends at the meeting, also to outcast unpopulair and unwanted Lolita's, even though they do nothing wrong. It's an elitist club. I've seen it happen in the Dutch comm and the current mods do nothing about it. It's As if they encourage it.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:32:29 No.10111608

>>10111603
>I've seen it happen in the Dutch comm and the current mods do nothing about it. It's As if they encourage it.
I thought the last time that happened was in 2017 and even then it was because they just posted it to the Zeeland/Zuid-Holland comm page, it wasn't actually secret.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:33:35 No.10111610 >>10110337 My comm is already under a lot of drama. On top of that, I've been attending different meetups in other comms only to find out we're essentially a joke. We're not very welcoming either.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:44:50 No.10111618 >>10111608 Well if you are not aware of this you're probably naive or you are just looking the other way. It's happening right under your nose. Maybe not as explicit as the 2017 event. But it's happening.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:49:30 No.10111626

>>10111603
>Bringing up the Dutch comm despite it having nor relevance to the subject.

It's been several days. Get over yourself. We don't even have ticketed meets unless it is for capacity reasons. Ticketed meets would not cast out unpopular lolitas as they could just buy a ticket.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 14:56:48 No.10111633 >>10111626 The comm needs to be outed. You're gastlighting everyone.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 15:10:56 No.10111644 >>10107607 Who the hell are you. I know you're in my comm and I'm guessing you went to my meet that he showed up at. Seriously cut that shit out.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 15:13:00 No.10111648

>>10111618
If I remember it correctly it was a meet on a weekday somewhere in Zeeland. Beside lolitas from Zeeland few would have wanted to go because even other cities in Zeeland are to far apart.

Also I can't think of any ticketed meet that wasn't ticketed in order to secure a venue. Like swap meets or Behind the Mask. And literally anyone can go to those meets.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 15:19:10 No.10111654 >>10111648 That's not true, sorry.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 15:19:45 No.10111655 >>10108743 Same with my comm too <3 Such a cool group.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 15:24:15 No.10111663

>>10111626
>Ticketed meets would not cast out unpopular lolitas as they could just buy a ticket.
lol this. That one super awkward girl shows up to tons of ticketed meets so you’d think that if the hosts’ intention was to keep her out they would’ve figured out years ago that it’s obviously not working. People who only want to hang out with their friends just make friends-only events among themselves, no need to announce it on the comm page or go so far as to charge for tickets.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 16:00:01 No.10111688

>>10111663
Well it worked at one point. But it totally backfired. Because almost no one RSVP'd. :').

And of course. As long as the unpopulair Lolitas van buy themselves into meetings you can still ignore them, hoping they'll never show up again after that.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 18:40:59 No.10111771

>>10111644
Ntayrt but oh my fucking god. There's an older guy in my comm who comes off like a sissy and is friends with the mods, but I'm not assuming some girl from my comm is posting about it here.
Quit playing detective on an anonymous image board. You're going to end up falsely accusing someone.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 18:46:02 No.10111775

>>10111145
>Sometimes my comm's ILD is even too themed and definitely leans much more classic and gothic while I'm very sweet. Ofc I can still go but I'd prefer to be able to participate in the theme without buying a whole coord that doesn't go with my closet.
Fucking same. I did buy a coord for one and I actually do like the dress but I rarely wear it as much as anything else I own. Its not out of my style but is out of my color range for the most part. And my comm just loves themed meets. They do it way more than just ILD. And I always get the stupid "you can still come" comments even though I was once vaguely called it out for not being on theme. I didn't go to meets for awhile after that.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 19:15:29 No.10111790

>>10111603
I don’t even create meets for my comm anymore because it attracts the annoying/bitchy/flakey people and creepers that mods do nothing about (fun fact: one of the mods is that bitchy person.) I’ll make reservations and invite some close friends that don’t cause drama and that won’t flake. Otherwise it’s a gamble with making meets for comms. Sorry that you’re not in a circle that invites you to private meets

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 19:15:53 No.10111791 >>10111775 What was the comment?

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 19:17:58 No.10111793 >>10111618 Well if it's a secret meet how the hell are we supposed to know about then. Post pics or it didn't happen.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 19:21:54 No.10111794 >>10111618 >>10111633 You're not outing anything, just vague-posting. Probably too afraid to out yourself.

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 21:01:10 No.10111860

>>10111090
Lol one of the mods in my comm tried to host something like that for winter ild and no one signed up. Why are you paying if you don't think the money is going to the actual event? Just host your own non ticketed meet or have private meets with your friends

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 21:02:48 No.10111864 >>10110604 Dislike them because themes are too hyper specific and substyle specific most of the time

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 21:20:15 No.10111876 >>10105444 Edmonton?

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 22:27:07 No.10111926 >>10111610 LA by any chance?

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 22:34:41 No.10111932 >>10111926 LA comm is def problematic, but not every cgl comm drama is about us

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 22:35:30 No.10111934

>>10111791
I don't remember word for word, but she mentioned that she wouldn't want to be off theme. She was closer than I was and I was aware that I stuck out like sore thumb- so why else make a comment like that? She was just being snarky. I've talked to her since then and she's pretty cool.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 22:39:00 No.10111937 >>10111610 Chicago?

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:28:19 No.10111970 File: 364 KB, 1024x689, 16659006855_1fb1d3f0d3_b.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10111937 Why do American comms have so much more petty drama than Euro comms?

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:34:06 No.10111973 >>10111970 ah yes. I have no idea which comm this is but this pic is adorable and sparks so much joy

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:40:39 No.10111980 >>10111970 >mfw the one goth buried in the crowd of sweet Yes good, a few more girls and she'll be completely invisible. Goths always ruin group pics.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:42:28 No.10111981 File: 34 KB, 175x175, 16659006855_1fb1d3f0d3_b_mh1550896919875.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10111980

>>	Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:44:27 No.10111985 >>10111970 > sees constant shit talking about the dutch coms, traumeri (don't judge my spelling) etc etc are you sure you want to be chucking that around

Anonymous Fri, Feb 22, 2019 23:48:30 No.10111991

>>10111985
>Dutch comms
That's one dramatic comm vs loads of dramatic American ones

>Traumerei
That's not a comm and the drama was mostly about it being a badly run event with organizers who lied about German law and a lot of ridiculous gatekeeping and favoritism with ticket sales. It was a bit petty but there were legitimate concerns

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 00:11:05 No.10112010 i might be moving soon. i have 3 options 1. Join Comm that closest to me 2. Join Comm that is a bit further ~50 miles further, but better 3. Be lonelita

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 00:48:00 No.10112022 File: 205 KB, 800x800, 1537766560917.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10111980 that's just like your opinion, cunt.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 01:59:00 No.10112055

>>10111688
I seriously don’t understand your logic.
>ticketed meets are used as a ploy to exclude unpopular members!
>but unpopular members can and do buy tickets, and have been doing so for years
>nbd the elitists can just ignore them :’)
...Then what’s the point of the tickets again?

I don’t know how your comm handles ticket reservations but if it’s done in a non-publicly visible way e.g. through email like in my comm, sneaky elitist hosts could easily pretend that the unwanted member’s reservation came too late or didn’t come through or whatever. That’s how you can abuse the ticket system to exclude people. If they’re not doing something as simple as that, then I really don’t get where you’re coming from with these accusations.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 02:53:12 No.10112075 >>10111794 No I'm not outing anything. Just saying that it needs to be outed. You can't fucking read?

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 02:54:33 No.10112076 >>10111790 I appreciate your honesty.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 04:04:43 No.10112093 >>10111934 I think you took that comment too personally. Nobody cares if you don't wear a themed coord, as long as you don't place yourself in the middle of their pictures

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 04:05:58 No.10112094 >>10111985 >traumeri Most of the drama is because of non-euro organisers

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 04:31:51 No.10112095 >>10111985 One vendetta-chan does not make us a dramatic comm. It's clearly the same person throughout the thread.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 07:07:55 No.10112130 >>10112075 We can't out anything about the Dutch comm though. Because nothing happened related to meets since 2017 and even that was only a small issue.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 08:04:37 No.10112139

>>10112130
I don't get why that small meet in Zeeland in 2017 on a weekday is a problem again. There is a yearly meet-up in Zeeland nowadays. And why is there drama about private meets again? There always were private meets, that's something going on for years. Not everyone wants to invite the whole community for a birthday meet or some small get to together. Especially when organizing something can be a lot of work, I've heard. There are difficulties with food issues like allergies or vegan options or restaurants/museums/other facilities are not able to receive big groups. Then again, there is a small group in this community who loves to complain about things and not doing anything about it.

Secondly there is always drama when old comm members meet up. For example the drama with the shiny shoes last week.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 08:09:55 No.10112140 >>10112139 Because one anon is being shady about secret meets and that's the only one I can think of

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 08:35:29 No.10112142 >>10111970 Ha ha that's funny. Nice try.

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 08:46:23 No.10112149

>>10111626
>Ticketed meets would not cast out unpopular lolitas as they could just buy a ticket.

nayrt but providing a barrier for entry does generally exclude some groups of undesirable folks, mostly underage folks who don't have any money and people who RSVP "yes" to everything and don't show. probably also rules out the itas who just stand around complaining about elitists and about how they can't afford brand

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 08:59:53 No.10112154

>>10112139
Was there anything more to the shiny shoe thing than what was posted on RC? It sounded like something minor that was being blown out of proportion but I wasn’t there, so maybe I missed something.
Honestly I think most ~drama~ that makes it to cgl is due to misunderstandings or social awkwardness that gets blown out of proportion and then propagated by people who weren’t there and don’t know what happened but are thirsty for drama, either out of boredom or personal vendetta. It’s pretty easy to make mountains out of molehills on anonymous platforms like cgl and btb.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 11:23:00 No.10112202 What is up with people inviting their non lolita friends to lolita meetups? I dont get it. Why force lolitas to hang out with someone not even interested in the one basic thing we all have in common?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 13:11:18 No.10112292

>>10112202
They're usually newbs who are like "I dunt wanna be alone!!1!!!11" so they drag their friends with them but the problem is that they spend the whole time talking to the normie friend and never actually make Lolita friends, so they have to bring their friend to the next meeting
It's a cringey cycle

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 13:54:42 No.10112330
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It's really hard for me to get to my local comm's meets, especially in the winter weather. They're about an hour away by car, an hour and a half by local transit. I've considered trying to start a smaller comm in my smaller town, as I think there are a few people who might be interested, but I don't want to step on anyone's toes. My biggest worry is that someone from the bigger comm will take issue with it...

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 15:08:19 No.10112367 >>10112154 >shiny shoe thing than what was posted on RC Caps? I can't find it

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 15:33:42 No.10112385 >>10112330 I'm sure just explaining why might help so they know your intentions. Also, if you're up to it, you could always just plan meets in your area?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 17:32:45 No.10112447

>>10110604
I don’t think ILD meets should be themed and I think it is ok to ask some ‘theme coords only’ photos at themed meets in addition to the whole group photos. In a smaller comm, I think you need at least 3-4 people committed to the theme to make a themed meet work and to be prepared for quite a few people to pass on the meet if they don’t like the theme.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 17:39:05 No.10112454 >>10112010 Join both and then just also be lone when you feel like it? Join the local one, become meetup hostess, plan meets for weekends when the further comm has no meets, enjoy best of both?

Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 20:33:19 No.10112605

>>10110604
Themed meets can work if a large percent of the comm have coords that work with it. It’s easy if you put a broad theme in instead of a really specific one, eg using colours instead of just sweet/dessert prints (to cater for classic/gothic). People can still be creative and have nice coords and photos and won’t look like a jumbled mess when it’s a whole comm photo. Venue should also suit the theme/occasion.

There was a comm meet that was a ticketed event and yet again a splinter group decides to hold their own event at the same place on the same day. Guess we aren’t perfect enough ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>	Anonymous Sat, Feb 23, 2019 20:59:03 No.10112634 >>10112093 >I think you took that comment too personally. I didn't state word for word what she said, so how can you possibly know that? She looked right at me when she mentioned not being on theme. She was directing her comment at me.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 06:49:27 No.10112868

>>10112330
If you are an hour away in another town, there’s nothing wrong with starting a comm for your town, as long as you can plan and attend all the meets yourself at first, without exception, That’s what it takes for a good year or more, usually. I’d avoid planning meets on the same weekends as the existing comm for a while as well. But other than that, no reason not to, really. More and more people are attending the closest meets then traveling some to nearby comms as well so if you had a closer group maybe a few of you could carpool or travel together to the larger meets in good weather as well.

>>10112202
Requiring everyone to dress in lolita for lolita fashion meets solves that unless your mods can’t enforce the dress code?
‘Can I invite my friend?’
‘If they wear lolita, ouji, aristo, yes’

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 11:59:33 No.10112974 File: 88 KB, 640x665, 1550788615464.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10112022 Wtf is that caption?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 12:19:08 No.10112983 >>10112974 it's one of those dumb tag yourself memes, how is that hard to conclude?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 12:45:28 No.10112999 File: 920 KB, 3110x2073, T4jQt2F.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10112974 >>10112983 I thought it was a reference to that /fa/ meetup meme?

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 12:52:58 No.10113005 File: 277 KB, 600x338, sena-laugh.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10112022 omg I needed this thnx

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 13:21:32 No.10113029 >>10112983 I've never seen them with long ass captions and numbers.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 13:25:34 No.10113035 >>10112999 Oh of course /fa/ would come up with something this autistic. Thanks for the clarification.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 14:56:46 No.10113112 >>10112974 >>10112983 nah, one of the anons here on /cgl made it a while back, i liked it and kept it.

Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 19:49:45 No.10113412
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Are there any gulls in Louisville, KY? I can't find a lolita comm even for the entire state. Seems like there'd be at least one. I guess a Louisville comm would be rife with edgy itas with bad tattoos but still, so many great photo opportunities downtown. Feels bad.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 20:20:55 No.10113444 >>10113412 There's a comm in Cincinnati if you can't find anything in KY

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 22:33:28 No.10113538 >>10108876 > I don't even live in your country and have heard about this girl because friends from that comm are so annoyed by her.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 22:42:48 No.10113545 >>10113412 I’m a little less than 2 hours away from you in IN. I’d come down for a meet if it was big enough! I drive like an hour and a half for IN meets anyway.

>>	Anonymous Sun, Feb 24, 2019 23:48:52 No.10113561 >>10113412 Try Kentucky EGL or something like that. Comms had to change their name a while back because Facebook is stupid

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 04:20:34 No.10113687 I’ve been searching for weeks but have come up empty handed- are there ANY comms in italy? Like at all?? I’m basically coming to terms with becoming a lonelita but I know theres at least SOME here... I just can’t find any pages on it

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 04:34:08 No.10113692 How are the comms in Germany? Full of itas?

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 04:59:53 No.10113700 >>10112022 >7. Dan. Just Dan.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 05:04:10 No.10113701 >>10112999 I hope these retards don’t breed.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 05:06:46 No.10113703 >>10106223 I mean there are ham galaxies attempting this fashion while weighing well over 300 lbs....

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 05:13:34 No.10113705 >>10106825 Lolitas often have the nastiest fetishes so I’m not sure why you’re so shocked

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 06:39:59 No.10113729 >>10113687 I would just ask Italian lolitas on instagram

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 06:41:38 No.10113731 >>10106825 You are way weirder than her. Wtf. You are a literal stalker.

Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 16:16:41 No.10114112

I've been really frustrated by underaged comm members showing up to meets. I'm a high school teacher and it really wigs me out when teenagers show up to meets. They never have any money and I look like a rude asshole when I want to order a drink when we eat anywhere. I may sound like an old fart when I say this, but when I was in high school I was way too busy to attend meets (only hanging out with my friends and an occaisional local con) and I was totally weirded out by the prospect of hanging out with random strange adults

Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 16:31:54 No.10114128

>>10114112
Maybe host some 18+ or 21+ meets? You can find a bar, absinthe room, adult event or just make up a reason for the age restriction, because who really cares. The teenagers might get defensive about it, but I'm sure there's plenty of other members that feel the same and will back you up.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 16:44:12 No.10114139 >>10114112 The teenagers in my comm are so dumb and I can't even be angry about it because it's not their fault their brains are underdeveloped

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 21:35:58 No.10114447 >>10112385 Problem is I haven't been to a meet in a long time because of the travel difficulty. I feel like I need to go to a meet and talk about it with them face to face instead of just being a lurker who hasn't been active in the comm in forever.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 23:06:45 No.10114489 >>10106834 Bud, pet play is way less degen, lemme tell you that that rabbit hole isn't as deep as you seem to think it is.

>>	Anonymous Mon, Feb 25, 2019 23:41:41 No.10114506 >>10114489 AHAHAHAHAHA rabbit hole Anon, thanks for that

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 03:41:52 No.10114636 >>10113687 Anon, unfortunately no. We only hold international events now and then, but locally its very lonely

Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 08:55:58 No.10114736

>>10112330
>>10114447
>travel difficulty
>1-1.5 hours
That's... not that long? It takes me at least an hour to get to any meetup for my local comm and know many people who travel upwards of 2 hours each time. And that's with pretty good public transit. It never really occurred to me to start a new comm in my town but then again, I'm pretty sure I'm the only lolita here.

Of course that doesn't mean that you can't start a smaller comm in your own town, if there are enough lolitas living there. I'd start by just organizing a few local meetups first, though. Like >>10112868 said you'll have to lead by example if you want to kickstart a new community and I think it would be good to first gauge interest with other locals.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 09:58:35 No.10114761 >>10113687 >>10114636 You should start a comm. I'm 100% sure there used to be one.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 17:42:39 No.10115227 It looks like the San Diego Community hasn't used their public FB page in a while, would it be best to message the mods and ask for a link to the private group, or have they stopped using FB to plan meets? Thanks!

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 18:48:02 No.10115287 >>10106825 Those kinks are pretty tame anyway imo.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 19:00:37 No.10115293 >>10113412 >>10113545 If you haven't already, join the Midwestern EGL Community.

>>	Anonymous Tue, Feb 26, 2019 19:03:14 No.10115295 >>10115227 They have an active private fb group, definitely message the mods.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 10:06:25 No.10115800

Oh I want to scream at the mods of my comm for letting that sissy David to join our comm.(the one that is joining all the comms he can) I hope he never comes to a meet and quickly booted. The worst part it the mods are on here and already know about him. Like come on, there is a reason why he’s banned from a bunch. Morons.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 11:14:52 No.10115829 >>10115800 Did he do anything to be banned or it was just found out he was a sissy in his own time?

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 11:26:48 No.10115837 >>10115800 Maybe they don't know who he is and that he's been banned from a bunch of comms. I'd suggest you message your mods about your concerns, if they're worth their salt they'll prioritize the comm's safety over being "inclusive".

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 12:36:30 No.10115885 Are there additional Ohio groups aside from Ohio EGL? I am looking specifically for the Columbus area.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 13:07:44 No.10115899 >>10115885 Cincinnati has a page somewhere.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 13:18:33 No.10115907 >>10115829 Being a sissy in his own time is reason enough to ban him. That's disgusting enough and probably mixes it with Lolita.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 13:21:17 No.10115909

Sometimes a new lolita will suggests a meet idea and people will reply all enthusiastically even though they have zero intention of going. I hate this so fucking much. It's always the same people including that one girl who doesn't even have any lolita. Why can't these bitches not get a new girl's hopes up?! Quit pretending you are going to maybe someday come to a meet up. The older members already know they are full of crap and ignore them but a new girl doesn't. Now this girl has created an event page that they put effort into only to have four maybes. The reason other people aren't interested is usually because of the location or because it's and idea that sounds good to a beginner but is bad in practice like alpaca farms, ice skating, or tourist spots. I don't blame the new girls for suggesting these ideas. I am just completely done with flakes ruining their first experiences with organizing.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 14:39:27 No.10115967

>>10107824
if only you were judged on presentation when you were a preteen&teen the same way you are judging this person who is in transition and learning how to style their body...
like honestly. these things are learned, they aren't inherent or natural.
Saying that any unpolished person is an automatic sissy is extremely unfair. treat them the same way you treat other itas who you allow in your comm. If you are too chickenshit to give vocal crit to itas in your comm then I don't think you have a right to bar anyone based on their coording or presentation if they are at least attempting the style.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 14:43:11 No.10115969 >>10110156 why would funky post as anon? like, did you find CGL yesterday?

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 14:44:14 No.10115971 >>10115967 >if only you were judged on presentation when you were a preteen&teen the same way you are judging this person Because no girl/young women ever gets shit for the way she looks...lol

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 14:47:00 No.10115974 >>10115971 This, it’s part of the initiation into womanhood. They should feel validated!

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 15:20:14 No.10115999

>>10115967
I hope this is sarcasm because otherwise you sound like a dolt. Every young woman is picked on and ridiculed when their body is changing.
It isn't the unpolished-ness that makes them a sissy, it's their behaviour and habits.
Childish bedroom, badly cared for wardrobe, tendency to make a fool of themselves in public... I recall them telling people they were as young as a child as well.
They're not a good fit for a lolita comm. I hate being associated with them. I refuse to go to meets where they will be present.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 16:11:30 No.10116076 >>10111980 >le black=gothic uninformed opinion dude, she's literally wearing tea parties. it's quite possible either kuro or sweet.

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>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 16:17:45 No.10116088 >>10113412 I'd legit move to Kentucky if I could own that house on the right.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 16:24:52 No.10116099 >>10112999 >2 Hey it's whatshisface from Stranger Things

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 16:48:12 No.10116123

There's a meet planned in my comm coming up and it's a capped event. The event location can only have so many people show up and there's a girl who says she's going to like every event and then rarely ever shows up. I've seen her like 3 times out of all the meets I've gone to over the past 4 years.
I wouldn't be upset if it wasn't for the event location not letting us in if the required amount of people don't show up. I've already gone to one meet where I had to pay for her share of the meet because she didn't show. She's really nice and cute too. I wish she wasn't so damn flaky.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 16:59:56 No.10116134 I wish the comm in my area didn't seem to be filled with spergy people, I just want at least one lolita friend but michigan seems to be full of conlitas or hamplanets that can't dress themselves feels bad man

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:00:00 No.10116135 >>10116123 Just make people pay in advance for their spot. Simple as that, there is no reason for you to pay for her sorry ass. This used to happen a lot in my community before we implemented payment upfront.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:03:20 No.10116136 >>10112022 Does anyone have the original picture? I know I've seen it before but I forgot to save it.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:29:25 No.10116168 >>10116135 >Just make people pay in advance for their spot. I didn't plan the meet so I can't do that. The only meets my comm has where people have to pay up front are ILD.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:32:46 No.10116176 >>10116134 I live near michagan.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:35:37 No.10116180 >>10116168 Well if it keeps happening maybe bring it up with the event organizer or a mod so they could give her a warning so you don't have to pay for her out of pocket all the time.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:46:31 No.10116195

>>10116134
I really love the Michigan comm. There's some girls like that yes, but quite a few who are not. You just need to find the right crowd. Try a swap meet to get a feel for most of the girls as we all usually try to attend those. Or one of C's large meets.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:49:08 No.10116200 >>10115885 Columbus comm doesn't have a page to themselves but we try to stay active in the columbus area and on the ohio comm page since the mods refuse to do anything outside of cleveland.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 17:54:15 No.10116204

>>10116180
It's only happened once where I had to pay for her, and there were a few other people paid for because they flaked as well.
Most meets aren't paid so the real issue is just her saying she will go and then not showing.
She's also friends with the mods and hangs with them on a regular basis.
Its actually been brought up at meets but the discussion was more like "aw I wish she was here" but people are aware that she flakes a lot. They just don't care to do anything about it.
The event organizer would most likely see this as shit stirring.
I just wish she wouldn't snag a spot for a capped event when she's so flakey.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 18:31:03 No.10116223 >>10116134 There's a rule in my community that if someone flakes out of a meet that requires payment 3 times they're banned.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 18:32:20 No.10116225 >>10116123 >>10116223 whoops

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 18:50:55 No.10116237 >>10116223 The only meets that you pay in advance for in my comm are ILD. Honestly we wouldn't have that many comm members if we banned people for that. As sad as that sounds.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 20:15:25 No.10116305

>>10106825
>i wonder if i should out her for being a degenerate?

For what? Drama? You're just making an ass out of yourself by doing that. She's keeping it contained to appropriate places and not bothering people that aren't involved or in your com.

>by stalking
>i have obsessive tendencies/fixations on random people
>discord server i infiltrated

You need help.

>>	Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 20:33:28 No.10116326 >>10115971 >>10115974 Right I read that and was like "obviously you didn't know a single preteen/teen girl"

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 23:05:41 No.10116468

I've planned a good number of meets in the last couple of years and I want to graduate to hosting a bigger teaparty like ILD.

However I don't quite understand how people get a lot of nice and expensive items for raffles without donations. Also how do you budget the raffle? Do you actually collect a decent amount of money after the fact to makeup for the prizes or do you just use it up for either a tip for the venue or save it for the next event?

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 23:12:00 No.10116471

>>10116468
I haven't seen an ILD raffle where the prizes were donated. It depends on your comm, how big it is and how many people actually participate in the raffle. You can makeup for some of the costs with the raffle, but just know that usually large ILD parties are not "moneymaking," in fact you're guaranteed to end up paying out of pocket. Usually raffles and tickets don't fully cover the price of things like venue and food.

Anonymous Wed, Feb 27, 2019 23:17:02 No.10116474

>>10116468
I write a really nicely formatted letter in a business professional tone explaining what the event I am asking for sponsors is, how many people attend annually, and what we will do for the sponsorship before asking for donations. I then just mass email shops that have things relative to the fashion and lifestyle of lolita fashion that I think comm members would enjoy. Sometimes we take money out of the currently existing comm fund for shipping purposes, but I personally have not yet had to pay for raffle or goodie bag items for ILD or other events I have hosted.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 00:55:18 No.10116522 >>10116195 I'll try that thanks anon!

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 01:24:55 No.10116542 >>10116200 Columbus has an absurd number of indie designers yet no Comm. Voodooodolly, Elegy, thefabledfawn, and now idodeclare.

Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 04:14:29 No.10116605

>>10113729
I’ll look around, I’m still new but I’ve actually been finding italian Lolita’s on Facebook so it’s not completely disheartening.

>>10114636
Yeah I’ve noticed that in my research the past few days. At least there’s that and not completely nothing at all!

>>10114761
Not going to lie, I think I will. It wouldn’t be the first time I get a comm together from the ground up (granted it was a different hobby but still)
I’ve been starting to go to cons here (I just moved to the country desu) so maybe I can gather some conlitas to get the word out and then make a public page! I live in one of the major cities so I’m sure there has to be some other Lolita’s around here! Thanks for the incentive I’ll likely start trying to get something together in the summer

Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 04:48:42 No.10116626

>>10116326
Guys pay so little mind to unattractive and unhappy girls that in their worldview, they might as well not exist. Incels and sissies think all women have it better than them because the hot and happy ones are the only ones that register on their radar. Then when they try presenting as female themselves and encounter the same kind of shit we deal with every day, they act like it’s a huge injustice and they’re the only ones to ever suffer so. I like to think it’s karma.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 06:15:37 No.10116661 >>10116136 It one egl just search the tags photos and you will find it. I think it is around the 2010 mark

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 11:07:03 No.10116793 >>10112454 That may do. I found there's a third comm nearby, but wonder if it's even active.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 21:43:28 No.10117261 >>10116542 Someone could always step up and form a Columbus comm group. There are plenty of columbus and surrounding lolitas that would join.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 21:48:06 No.10117267 >>10116200 Make your own event where you live! If the regular organizers don't know the area its kinda hard to make an event in Dayton.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 21:53:28 No.10117275 >>10115885 Cincinnati is the only separate comm but I don't think they're very active? Most of the Ohio action is in the NE or Columbus so you will be in luck when everyone comes out of hiding after winter weather.

>>	Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 21:55:00 No.10117279 >>10116200 Would you want to host events in a city you're not familiar with?

Anonymous Thu, Feb 28, 2019 23:31:35 No.10117326

>>10117267
Columbus isn't really that hard of a city to learn. It's fairly compact honestly. Plus they could always add a mod or two who actually live in columbus.
I've been thinking of several different things to host when the weather stops being a bitch.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 05:53:01 No.10117432

>>10115885
Make a Columbus group.
>>10116200
Yeah, they do that. T doesn't even host meets anymore, or active. Why shes still a mod, I dunno. M only became active after she got posted negatively on previous comm threads.
>>10117326
There IS a mod who lives in columbus, T.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 08:47:20 No.10117482 >>10117432 T lives in Newark

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 09:57:39 No.10117507 >>10115909 What's wrong with ice scating? We have this kind of meets, older girls participating, we have a lot of fun.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 10:02:53 No.10117511 >>10117432 T hasn't been active since 2017. It's safe so say that she basically isn't a mod at this point.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 10:09:47 No.10117517

>>10116200
It's not only up to the mods to host events. If you live in Columbus, there's a better chance you know of good meetup locations than they do, given that all the active ones live up north and also have lives and jobs.

How about you get together with other Columbus lolitas and plan a meet at a nice location?

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 10:15:13 No.10117518

>>10116134
The Michigan comm is really great, actually. The issue is that the people who talk the most on the FB page are the people who you're talking about. We have a very good, steady group of well-dressed lolitas that have been in the comm for a few years. As other anon said, C's bigger meets usually have a great turn-out.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 10:15:41 No.10117519 >>10116084 >You know, you walk out the door. You see someone that you know, and they ask you how you are, and you just have to say that you're fine, when you're not really fine, but you just can't get into it because they would never understand.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 11:30:44 No.10117556 >>10117507 We only have seasonal rinks that are way too fucking busy and you can only do it when it is really cold out. And no one wants to ruin their dress.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 11:50:20 No.10117568

>>10115909
This happens in my comm too! Every so often someone will come up with a meet idea that’s definitely not going to work out (trampoline park, hanging out in IKEA (???)) but a bunch of people reply to it super enthusiastically like it’s the greatest idea in the world, and those of us who point out that it’s not practical are shushed as unimaginative debbie downers. Then when the person actually tries to organize something nobody wants to come because nobody actually wants to jump on trampolines or hang out in crowded IKEA on a Sunday in lolita.
Occasionally when this happens some salty-chans try to spin it as our comm being too elitist to attend meetups organized by “nobodies”, but the real problem is that these newbies have no idea what makes a good lolita meetup and a bunch of dumbasses don’t think things through before hyping up the newbie’s impractical idea. I don’t think people are intentionally being two-faced, just dumb and impulsive.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 13:46:50 No.10117620 >>10117511 She stepped down and made a post about it last year. Didnt you see? Columbus anon, just make your meet up, I want to go

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 14:14:42 No.10117629 >>10117511 >>10117620 seconding this anon, I'm definitely interested in a Columbus meet up.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 15:13:27 No.10117655 >>10117629 >>10117620 >>10117517 >>10117326 >>10117275 >>10116200 A lot of us in pittsburgh would be happy to come visit again if there's a tea or something! We had a ton of fun at the Halloween tea a couple years ago

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 16:53:05 No.10117709

>>10117629
There’s like 4 meet-ups planned in cbus in the next few months
I don’t think splitting ohio comm is a good idea, there’s really no reason to split since we’re such a small statewide comm. If we could have a mod that maybe lived not in cleveland and also gave a shit that would be super.
I’m still salty about that ohayocon tea fiasco

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 17:08:55 No.10117722 >>10117709 What happened at ohayocon?

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 19:04:54 No.10117767

>>10117722
mods booked a “”tea party”” the same time as a comm member was planning a meet-up after said comm member specifically asked if anyone was planning a meet-up after the lolita specific programming. This was asked like two weeks in advance, an event made, and then the mods stormed in a week before the con saying “uhhhh this conflicts with our tea party”, didn’t release info for the tea party until like 3 days before the con starts, hostesses is left to change the date of the previously planned meet-up.
It was a pain

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 19:08:52 No.10117770

>>10117767
Also, since the tea party was planned so obviously last minute the kitchen was unprepared to accommodate any dietary restrictions, one dairy-free girl was left paying 20 dollars for a piece of biscotti, a scone, and two tea sandwiches she didn’t eat because they both had cheese on them. Luckily a few ppl at the table gave her their scones & biscotti that they weren’t going to eat

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 19:31:39 No.10117777

>>10117568
SF (I think?) comm did a trampoline park meet once that looked like a lot of fun years ago, but everyone wore pretty casual stuff. The photos of all the fluffy floaty petticoats were kind of great, though.

I've got nothing for IKEA, though. As much as I enjoy wandering through their displays, I don't think it would make for an interesting meet.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 20:25:12 No.10117798

>>10117777
I remember Voldie talking about doing an IKEA meet. From what I remember they all showed up and took pictures in the fake rooms??
I never saw photos from this meet other than her sipping on an IKEA smoothie.
Something tells me you would get kicked out for not being a real customer.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 21:26:38 No.10117834 >>10117798 Voldie's insta story said she was in the states for an mtg meet. Is she welcome at any us comms?

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 21:28:45 No.10117837

>>10117326
This gets said a lot, but you don't need to be a mod to host an event. Most mods appreciate when other members host them because it gives new ideas and places to go to. Mods don't have to host all the time, we don't have the time or energy.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 21:29:48 No.10117839

>>10117767
If I remember correctly, mods did not book the tea party.

Ohayocon booked and arranged the tea party. It was a convention event and for some reason they didn't even advertise it and then wondered why there was no interest. I think they talked to the mods last minute before the con. Sounds like a con fuck-up to me.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 21:30:47 No.10117840 >>10117620 Agreed, I want to come down to Columbus for a meet.

Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 23:08:35 No.10117870

>>10117770
I sat next to her at the tea!! We traded biscotti and I gave her something else off my plate too. There was another vegetarian girl sitting next to me who couldn't eat her tea sandwiches either. They literally didnt tell us the menu and the kitchen couldnt answer questions about what was in the food. The tea was the best part but totally not worth my $20. The food was super bland.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 23:14:57 No.10117874 File: 156 KB, 1019x881, spider scared.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10112022 Scared me for a moment there. Fortunately my identity is still a secret.

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 23:18:59 No.10117878 >>10117507 >Scating Ewww tf

>>	Anonymous Fri, Mar 1, 2019 23:41:10 No.10117886 File: 12 KB, 250x333, scatman crothers.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10117878 >ain't nothin wrong with a little scat

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 01:08:33 No.10117918 my comm made a girl admin and now shes making meets that she can make excuses to drag her crusty boyfriend to. greaaat

Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 02:59:41 No.10117938

>>10117777
>>10117798
I’m not in Voldie’s comm, but the main problem with the IKEA meet was that they wanted to go during the weekend when the store is always insanely crowded and full of families with small children. It’s literally worse than the zoo, and even as a serious customer who only needs a flower pot or two you often get stuck in foot traffic. Maybe on a very quiet day it could be fun to take pictures among the model rooms but during the weekend it’s like an overstuffed theme park without the attractions. Well with one attraction, if you count the group of strangely-dressed girls who seem to be just hanging out and waiting to be photographed and climbed on by hyperactive kids...

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 03:14:45 No.10117945 >>10117874 Are you Dan?

Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 04:39:29 No.10117964

>>10117767
Actually, I think mod M planned the tea party, I had enquired to her about non dairy options and she told me she'd have to check back with the Hyatt and never did. She posted about the tea party way late saying that she was just too busy. This is common behavior with M. >>10117770

I was afraid this was going to happen because M never got back to me about non dairy options. I'm glad I didn't go.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 08:48:58 No.10117998 >>10117938 Haha oh wow. Yeah, even when I bought furniture at IKEA I didn't go during the weekend. I feel the rooms aren't even that cute.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 10:18:39 No.10118021 >>10117945 We are all Dan.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 18:14:33 No.10118235 >>10117964 I'm pretty sure the convention center planned it, so they were in charge of what happened with the menu. No one had any say in it. You should have asked the con staff.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 20:09:09 No.10118318 >>10117964 What part of "the con planned it" can you not get through your head? Stop playing the gd victim.

Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 20:25:47 No.10118332

>>10118318
I don't care that the con planned it, I just think it's crappy that a mod couldn't be bothered to say 'we didn't hear back from them' and check in. >>10118235
I did ask con staff but they directed me to ask a moderator in the community since she was directly in contact with the restaurant.

>>	Anonymous Sat, Mar 2, 2019 23:46:09 No.10118430 new thread >>10118428

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