[ 3 / biz / cgl / ck / diy / fa / ic / jp / lit / sci / vr / vt ] [ index / top / reports / report a bug ] [ 4plebs / archived.moe / rbt ]

2022-05-12: Ghost posting is now globally disabled. 2022: Due to resource constraints, /g/ and /tg/ will no longer be archived or available. Other archivers continue to archive these boards.Become a Patron!

/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

View post   
View page     

[ Toggle deleted replies ]
File: 103 KB, 900x675, 1546794619886.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
10076981 No.10076981 [Reply] [Original] [rbt]

Since none of you are brave enough to make a new one when the old one got deleted.

>> No.10076999

>tfw having kind gullfriends

>> No.10077002 [DELETED] 
File: 261 KB, 551x491, 1530359388102.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Met a girl at a con who I'm pretty sure is not into me but I am into
How do I get rid of these fucking feelings
Talk to more girls isn't exactly an option as I talk to a decent amount of normie/weeb girls that I'm not interested in.

>> No.10077006

> comment on listing on LM, no reply after full day
> decide to PM
> read 1.5h ago, no reply

aaaaand my interest in the item is dropping fast

>> No.10077008 [DELETED] 

go out meet another girl, if you get crazy feelings about her too, you probably have an addictive personality, try drugs

>> No.10077013

Can I ask what seller this is? Something similar happened to me not too long ago.

>> No.10077023 [DELETED] 

shit how old is Clef now? 38?

>> No.10077042 [DELETED] 

>Go out and meet another girl
I mean I've been doing this all year (both genders, wanted to make some new friends) but this specific grill is the only one that I ended up interested in.

>> No.10077043

Idk if I can really name them here? But listing is a blonde wig with 2 ponytail clips.

>> No.10077071

Just looked at it, guess its not the same seller. Sorry to hear about your experience anon.I hope things turn out alright!

>> No.10077081

Sorry you got to deal with the same, let's hope both our would-be sellers lose the attitude!

>> No.10077093

can I ask what you asked in your pm? shipping price or payment plan offer?
if its something like the latter they could be thinking it over/need more time to make a proper reply

>> No.10077104

I first made a comment asking for shipping cost, then a pm with the same. Its for a wig, no payment plan needed for 20$ unless she plans on shipping it in a gold box haha

>> No.10077115 [DELETED] 

>tfw no finsub to spoil me on makeup and kawaii clothes

Not just doin it for the cash, I get off on those things desu

Where are theeeeeey

>> No.10077155 [DELETED] 
File: 46 KB, 889x500, 28130C17-F9C6-4613-A4BE-6F2979564B1F.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>got fired from last job
>can’t find work
>living as a neet for the past month
>tired of it
>want to die
>have to get rid of lolita wardrobe before offing myself
any gulls interested in sweet/casual/classic dresses? Not sure whether to donate the money to a charity or idk maybe to fund a new shitty life as a hobo or something

>> No.10077162
File: 43 KB, 474x600, Pokémon.the.Movie_.Wish.Maker.600.2262292.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Noooooooooooo anon-chan, don't do iiiiiiiit!

Seriously. Don't. Your life is precious and valuable and good things are on their way, you just have to wait a little longer.

>> No.10077163 [DELETED] 

That a okay anon dont feel bad.

All women are lying whores just like you

>> No.10077165 [DELETED] 

I'm going to do it. Just downed two packets of tic tacs and a couple paracetamol. This suicide attempt is real

>> No.10077166

Those are pretty much my exact tastes. But that's like robbing the dead, even if you give it away while you're still alive. Considering your shitty life situation I take it that you're US-based?

>> No.10077169 [DELETED] 

fuck off incel

>> No.10077172

I appreciate the sentiment. I want to believe things will get better, I’m just so tired.
yeah, I live in the worst of all the states too: California.

>> No.10077174 [DELETED] 

>omg buy me stuff because I'm a dumb materialistic whore and... uh... it makes me hornt or whatever.... just buy me shit betas
>no no no no I'm not a whore I'm a QUEEN yass slay
I wish someone threw acid in your face.

>> No.10077175


Nah New Jersey's definitely worse.

>> No.10077177

There's no way I'd be able to get your dresses. I'm way off in Sweden, thinking about your pain. I'd love to be there, cook something basic and brutal, because that's the best food there is when you're down, and go through your wardrobe and fawn over your collection. I'm happy for your past-self who managed to get all of those main pieces, especially those with a matching headbow (even if it's not technically from the same set.) I could do the dishes, mixing the water with both hot tap water and a dose of kettle-boiled stuff. The foam feels so nice when it's properly hot... None of this is going to make you feel okay. It's just some nice thoughts.

>> No.10077180

It’s a nice thought, thanks anon. I’m legitimately crying.

>> No.10077181
File: 195 KB, 600x600, Jirachi.full.1063731.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I'm sending my best wishes to you, anon-chan. I hope you can wear your dresses and feel happy soon.

>>10077177 nayrt but damn, that melted my heart you're super sweet

>> No.10077184 [DELETED] 

want a lolita buddy to talk to anon? i have enough dresses so i'm not really after yours. i just know what it's like to be alone and go through hard times all by yourself.

>> No.10077185 [DELETED] 

I wish girls actually killed themselves instead of just pretending.

Remember, suicide is ALWAYS an option

>> No.10077187 [DELETED] 

>I know what it's like to be alone

>> No.10077190 [DELETED] 

You've never been alone in your entire life

Just check your Facebook messages lmao.

>> No.10077193 [DELETED] 

Hey now, no need to be so extreme. If I'm now on the road to finally overcoming having been raped and had some similar stuff happen in my childhood, you'll be able to find a new job. Life suck sometimes, but all you can really do is roll with the punches and put one foot in front of the other.

>> No.10077195 [DELETED] 

same boat :/ my job let me go due to moving my department to another country. i just wish i had a job so i can buy more lolita lol.

sitting at home makes me depressed too, maybe try to find excuses to leave the house? idk what corner of the world youre in but hopefully its not to cold to atleast take a walk

>> No.10077201 [DELETED] 

Stop. I'm literally crying.

>> No.10077202 [DELETED] 
File: 1019 KB, 250x239, 5D09213C-21DD-4229-BD04-B5EAEF79DCE7.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Men were a mistake

>> No.10077203 [DELETED] 

Why in the world would you say this? I wish people like you disappeared.

>> No.10077207 [DELETED] 

>I'm alone
>500 guys stumble over each other just to talk to you about your day
>50 girls there to talk to you
>wow it's so difficult being a woman. I'm so alone. I have no support.
Literally every problem in your life is your own fault.

Sweetie, I just want you to disappear. Of course you'll never do it though because no girl actually believes they have a bad life.

>> No.10077217 [DELETED] 

fuck off incel no one wants you here

>> No.10077220 [DELETED] 

Your father didnt want you after he was done molesting you and you became a whore.

>> No.10077227 [DELETED] 

Bro anon here. Don't listen to this faggot.

>> No.10077230 [DELETED] 

And literally no one wants you. Ever. The very sight of you repulses even the most vile of creatures. You will never be loved.

>> No.10077232 [DELETED] 

Save these ladies, gentle sir.

You're so bitter. Was it the molestation or was it being discarded like the trash you are afterwards?

>> No.10077237 [DELETED] 

Let's not feed the troll, gulls.

I just want to hug you and tell you you're worth everything. Don't listen to this worthless scum.

>> No.10077239 [DELETED] 

Girls can't even respond to antagonism.

They're so weak and pathetic they just shut down the instant they hear anything they dont like. They're completely inferior and useless.

>> No.10077240 [DELETED] 

And you're so pathetic you come here to pick up on people who are feeling suicidal. And moreso, on an anonymous board. You're a coward piece of shit. I swear to God, if I were face to face with you, I'd stab you in the fucking balls.

>> No.10077242 [DELETED] 

No girl actually feels suicidal. It's always for attention. This is why they can't even justify their feelings so they have to blame it on "oh, daddy touched my boobs once and it ruined my life"

You will learn these things in time, young one.

>> No.10077243 [DELETED] 

Dishwater-anon here. I kind of wanted to leave the rest unsaid since my last thoughts reached you so well. But I guess I've got some more to say.

Crying is kind of good. I often feel alive when I'm bawling my eyes out, and afterwards amidst the exhaustion my head is clearer. But you don't owe anyone knowledge of your tears. You can cry alone, loudly, and curse their name in solitude. To be honest I think this troll gets his kicks from hurting women emotionally, if not physically. But he can't hurt you, unless you let him. At the same time I think it's hard to block punches on 4chan. If he does hurt you, why tell him that his strike struck home?

Ignore the trolls, and cry over what you need to. Tears transport stress hormones out of your body, in case you didn't know.

You're sweet too. Chiming in to confirm my haphazard thoughts reached and were appreciated by another anon on a South African grass harvesting forum makes me feel happy.

>> No.10077244 [DELETED] 

Yep, I'd very gladly stab you in the balls.

>> No.10077246 [DELETED] 

Jesus,man, do you have some molestation fetish or something?

>> No.10077249 [DELETED] 

Aw someone’s sad because they’re sexually frustrated so they take it out on anonymous people online! Go jerk off again.

>> No.10077251 [DELETED] 

Yes? Little girls are hot. Get over it.

Are you a woman? Do you know how physically inferior you are? Do you understand how little of a threat you are? Nobody is scared of being hurt by a woman.

>> No.10077252 [DELETED] 

>there's people unironically using their money to buy pieces of fabric
Its like you want a crappy future not just investing your money into Bitcoin.

>> No.10077253 [DELETED] 

How can someone be sexually frustrated when theres thousands of 12 year olds posting bikini pics on instagram?

>> No.10077255 [DELETED] 

Men are still a mistake

>> No.10077265 [DELETED] 

Women growing up is a mistake. They keep the same child brain permanently while their body deteriorates.

The prime female age is 11 years old then it's all downhill from there.

>> No.10077266 [DELETED] 

Still a mistake

>> No.10077269

How often does this retard have to sperg all over threads for you to stop replying and report him?

>> No.10077273 [DELETED] 

How does a nice guy like me get s girlfriend?

>> No.10077283 [DELETED] 

this 100%, and also mods what the FUCK are you guys doing????? how has this man not been banned yet? or at least banned enough for him to be gone and stay gone, his shit always gets deleted but he is here every single thread, fucking do something jesus christ

>> No.10077285 [DELETED] 

fucking kill me, i meant to respond to >>10077269

>> No.10077286 [DELETED] 

Based and redpilled.

Thanks for agreeing with me.

*dabs on roasties*

>> No.10077288

Do not engage with incel shitposters.

>> No.10077293 [DELETED] 

*snuggles up beside you*
*protects you from the incels*

>> No.10077295 [DELETED] 

Still a mistake

>> No.10077297 [DELETED] 

So how's your life going?

>> No.10077299 [DELETED] 

Hey, troll, what happened in your life that led you to this point?

>> No.10077303 [DELETED] 

You first, lad. Tell me about your life.

>> No.10077308 [DELETED] 

Give me several hours and I'll be back with a total blogpost, if it'll get you to interact genuinely for once.

>> No.10077311 [DELETED] 


>> No.10077316 [DELETED] 

It won't. You're wasting your time, and this thread will be nuked before then.

>> No.10077324
File: 275 KB, 667x636, oceanwater.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Tfw my friend is cosplaying the same character as me, but better.

Also, I turn 30 this year and I want to die.

>> No.10077332 [DELETED] 

This shit can fly while i get banned for anything oh so slightly off topic, dem priorities.

>> No.10077348

Man I just really love cosplay

>> No.10077353

i do too
why dont we have threads where we share our cosplays? We have lolita threads and fashion threads for that..

>> No.10077358

No one self posts in those threads either.

>> No.10077368

I've literally only seen people post their own coords on the draw thread

>> No.10077374 [DELETED] 

My holes smell really bad all the time. I have a mental illness that makes things like personal hygiene difficult and i don't like wearing underwear so i get smell all over anything i wear. I love cosplay and lolita, it's one of the few things i enjoy in life but im scared to spend any real money on it for the reason i just described.

>> No.10077379 [DELETED] 

Just wear underwear for the couple of days that you'll be in lolita or cosplay. Spend the rest of your time with your flaps out.

>> No.10077381
File: 79 KB, 306x286, notpoo.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw the QT you met at the con is in a relationship

>> No.10077385 [DELETED] 

It feels like someone is groping me when i do that though, it makes me paranoid.

>> No.10077395 [DELETED] 

Wear looser underwear made out of something like modal. You shouldn't be able to feel it.

Otherwise, learn to wash your twat.

>> No.10077397 [DELETED] 

Have someone actually grope you so you can learn how to tell the difference.

>> No.10077401 [DELETED] 

No, you don't understand what it's like to be me, fuck off

>> No.10077407

Have any suggestions on where to find such a thing? I've tried boxers before and they were worse than panties. I've kinda given up on peoples suggestions for unders at this point. I can't try them before i buy them and they usually just waste money.

>> No.10077412 [DELETED] 

Have many people grope you so that the sensation becomes normalized and no longer bothers you.

>> No.10077419 [DELETED] 

Just get off this thread anon.

>> No.10077422 [DELETED] 

I'm just responding to a troll in kind.

>> No.10077425 [DELETED] 

Just take a fucking shower

>> No.10077442 [DELETED] 


Not even that guy; you're a faggot and the "incel" is absolutely right; a woman who complains about being along especially in COSPLAY has got to be fucking bullshitting lol

If you think for even a second any of these bitches are "alone", you will either never have pussy in your life or will be cursed with a shitty marriage

>> No.10077504

>spot gorgeous 6' tall model-thin Japanese girl in nanchatte at the mall
>want to go up to her and just say "hey nice outfit"
>but just got done with seven hours of sport so I'm sweaty as fuck and smell awful so I'd look like a creep
>just walk past instead

>> No.10077517 [DELETED] 

>see nice-looking girl
>remember I'm hideous and will never be loved
>die a little more

>> No.10077551

You only think that because you love your friend and it's easier to find fault in yourself. It's possible that your friend is thinking the same. Just have fun together.

>> No.10077552

Because no one wants to open themselves up to mockery

>> No.10077556

I wasn't here to read your full story before it got deleted, but please talk to a therapist. They can be very creative in finding ways to circumvent our fears through simple solutions. Like the woman who was so afraid that she left her hair curler turned on that she was late to work everyday just to make sure it was off. Many therapists tried to force her to get over it and it never worked, but one simply offered that she should take it to work with her so she could see that it was unplugged. It sounds like you need a solution like thatf for whatever ails you. Also, I think a therapist would be very beneficial in helping you sort the feelings behind your struggle.

>> No.10077557 [DELETED] 
File: 162 KB, 402x420, jirby_is_SUPRE_mad.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>deleting only the posts shitting on women but not on men

>> No.10077561 [DELETED] 
File: 170 KB, 900x900, 7095163F-DE56-4DC0-BF43-167FB59E23EE.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10077563

6 foot tall Japanese girls exist?

>> No.10077565 [DELETED] 

Why do girls rub up against you then get grossed out by an erection?

What the fuck do they expect to happen?

Can anyone explain this?

>> No.10077566 [DELETED] 

We're only grossed out when we were hoping it'd be a bigger erection

>> No.10077570

She probably has some anglo blood, her skin was significantly paler than usual for a Japanese person

>> No.10077571 [DELETED] 

That's what I figured.

Why are women so cruel?

>> No.10077573 [DELETED] 

Because it strikes home exactly what she is doing and she is ashamed of it. Rather than being disgusted with herself, it's more convenient to be disgusted with you and tell herself she was just having some innocent fun until you ruined it.

>> No.10077609 [DELETED] 

I jump on your car, break all your windows, all while vigriously masturbating...
Break in your home, eat all your food, cum on your pan, cum on your oven, make a small fire, then I'm done.
Go in your room, jump on your bed while your sleeping, knock over your lamp, all while I'm vigriously masturbating, cum on your dog, cum on your bed, steal all your cash, then I'm gone.

>> No.10077636 [DELETED] 

How do I get nice 12-14 year old girl to cosplay with me?

>> No.10077637 [DELETED] 

Depends. Are you male or female?

>> No.10077639 [DELETED] 

Does it matter?

>> No.10077641 [DELETED] 

Yes. That's why I said it depends.

>> No.10077642 [DELETED] 

Be 12-14 years old yourself.

>> No.10077643 [DELETED] 

I dont believe in antiquated, binary notions of Male and female or gender roles.

I dont think it matters.

>> No.10077647 [DELETED] 

How do you feel about biology? Because someone's going to have to get pregnant.

>> No.10077648 [DELETED] 

I've had to get up super early all this week and I was looking forward to sleeping in today, and I guess my landlord decided that 8am on a Saturday is the perfect time to rip up and replace the flooring in the hallway.

>> No.10077650 [DELETED] 

Only if I fill her up with cum.

>> No.10077651 [DELETED] 

A necessary step to having and raising a daughter you can cosplay with.

>> No.10077652 [DELETED] 

And you weren't informed in advance?

>> No.10077653 [DELETED] 

Cant I just adopt?

Or can I get rid of the mother easily?

>> No.10077654 [DELETED] 

It's only a legal requirement to give notice if it would mean they're coming into our apartments or if they start before 7am.

>> No.10077660 [DELETED] 

In your case, I think finding the mother would be the more difficult part.

>> No.10077701

I'm working on a costume as part of a group but it's not going right at all and has too many techniques I'm not used to (such as armor making), it's honestly too above my skill level at the moment. Its causing me so much anxiety and stress, not to mention that I dumped way too much money into it only to fuck up really badly and need to spend more money on it and it's making me resentful.

I really want to quit it and instead work on something I actually enjoy and look forward to but I also don't want to disappoint my group members who are actually close friends of mine and are still managing to work on theirs despite having to work 50+ hours a week or physical health issues which seem worse than the mental blocks I keep putting myself in. I'm pretty screwed at this point I suppose?

>> No.10077715

Communication, anon. Talk to your friends.

>> No.10077747

>scroll through list of almost 50 people attending a meet
>maybe 3 are well dressed and not obese

why are lolitas like this

>> No.10077749

Par for the course for any fringe hobby, to be honest.

>> No.10077751 [DELETED] 

Where did he come from?
Where did he go?
Where did he come from, Cum in his Eye Joe

>> No.10077815 [DELETED] 

Have you ever loved a girl so much you learned how to sketch just to draw a picture of her that she will never see?

>> No.10077875

Must be nice to have friends

>> No.10077884 [DELETED] 

>>living as a neet for the past month
only a month and you've given up all hope? wow

>> No.10078111
File: 159 KB, 1280x1622, penisparker.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw you want to know if your con crush is single, but she shares an account with her friend and you're not sure which one of them is dating the guy in their pictures

>> No.10078151

he comes back every time his ban expires. the bitterness has no limits.

>> No.10078162 [DELETED] 

You cant hide from truth forever, roastie.

>> No.10078262
File: 266 KB, 1280x960, tumblr_o0ltzjGQlC1v48d3co2_1280.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>Tfw people keep favoriting your listings on LM but not buying anything

>> No.10078263

Is too expensive.

>> No.10078266

i'm a lonelita and usually i'm okay with it but recently i've started feeling like i'd like someone to talk about lolita with.

but then i remember the last time i introduced a friend to another of my hobbies she made it her entire life. she has more money and free time than me and she dedicates all of it to that hobby and has far surpassed what i'll ever be able to do. i worry i'll just have the same experience with a lolita friend, and somehow they will just make me feel worse about myself.

i'm aware this is because i'm easily jealous and not really a good person so in the end it's probably best i am a lonelita after all

>> No.10078267 [DELETED] 

Why dont you find a man who supports your interests but doesnt compete with you?

>> No.10078270

But I'm too impatient to wait, gimme your money nooow

>> No.10078271 [DELETED] 

I've never met an attractive man who can hold a conversation about lolita and doesn't want to wear it himself.

>> No.10078272 [DELETED] 

Well... obviously... what kind of retard spends time learning about clothing?

Just hope for a guy with a fetish.

>> No.10078286 [DELETED] 

Is there anything funnier than hearing a story about some girl being raped and beaten?

>> No.10078289 [DELETED] 

I missed you. There are always stories about false rape accusations getting revealed and the women landing in prison.

>> No.10078312

i have a boyfriend and he’s accepting of but not interested in lolita.

if you mean just a guy who is a friend and interested in lolita then that sounds nice but difficult to find.

>> No.10078322

>Three dresses I want are on sale
>Not dream dresses but still ones I DEFINITELY wouldn't mind to have in my wardrobe
>Can only afford one of them
>Can't choose which

>> No.10078327 [DELETED] 

Try camming for some quick cash or look into escorting. It won't take long to get the money for two dresses and it would really suck to miss out and not know when they'll be available again.

>> No.10078328 [DELETED] 

>these objects/animals demand equality and respect
Oh I am laffin'

>> No.10078333

>See beautiful velveteen dress on LM
>has 4 days left, enough time to consider whether I should get it or not
> I love it but I'd already bought 2 dresses in December and there's one I like on the local comm page too
> Look at the only bidder's page
>Fatty in a ratty twin-tail split wig

I've already bought too much lately but I don't want the dress to be destroyed, I feel bad for the dress.

>> No.10078336

>Just read the story of ampu-tan and nurse-kun.
Crying like a small child.
Wonder how it ended up.
I hope she's ok.

>> No.10078344 [DELETED] 

awkward rant incoming

in a happy relationship with boyfriend (straight)
> meet this girl at a convention
> grow close to her over the time
> admit feelings for her, feelings pretty much returned
> conversation made us seem impossible to be together, boyfriend.exe
> cosplays match up, ship our cosplay characters
> remain besties
> still confused about feelings

I can't really talk with anyone as I feel like I consider her a huge crush
I feel like my body wants to say yes and enjoy these feelings, but my head tells me I should stop being so confused.
It's been a long time I had such a close best friend, and being together like this doesn't mean we have to be partners.

Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is the perfect match for me and I love him endlessly. I just wish In could hold onto both somehow.

>> No.10078353 [DELETED] 

If you want to do it, do it.
But be honest and make your choice - don't be a slut and string anyone along.

>> No.10078358 [DELETED] 

>you and your friend admitting you want to bone eachother and continue to cosplay/hang around eachother while your boyfriend presumably knows nothing
Gross as fuck

>> No.10078363

>muh relationship drama
>oh btw conventions
>>>/crystal cafe/

>> No.10078367 [DELETED] 

How fat are you?
When's the last time a man said you were attractive?

>> No.10078373

save that beautiful velveteen, anon!

>> No.10078375
File: 101 KB, 290x387, vm.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Every day I regret just a little bit more not getting the Jasmine OP in greige. I got it in black because it will be easier to coordinate, and I'm very excited for it, but the greige is just calling out to me...

>> No.10078377 [DELETED] 

>tfw no lolita gf to spill the beans with til dawn
I think I'm gonna need more than just one drink

>> No.10078389

Maybe someone has the same feel, why don't you post a WTT?

>> No.10078397
File: 119 KB, 245x174, o no.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Sorry, I'm keeping my black OP. I was regretting not getting the greige as well as the black. Right now I'm hoping there's leftover stock for the greige once the dresses are sent out.

>> No.10078433

I can't seem to shake the guilt of spending so much on lolita. All the bills are paid, and my husband said it would be ok to order something off of LM but I still feel guilty spending so much money on myself even when its second hand.

>> No.10078438

Don't think about the money. Think about the joy you'll get from wearing whatever you buy. If you ever end up in an economic rough patch, because that sounds like your underlying fear, you can wear these clothes and remember you've had it good before, and will probably get good times again. If push comes to shove you can resell them?

But treat yourself. If you've got the budget, invest in your hobbies.

>> No.10078535
File: 122 KB, 585x318, then perish.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10078605 [DELETED] 

I'm about to make a big mistake!!!

>> No.10078607

>she shares an account with her friend
What a thot.

>> No.10078609 [DELETED] 

You'll be fine, Anon. Are you living with your parents right now? Or unemployment checks?

>> No.10078615
File: 188 KB, 1200x1500, blahniks.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw $600 designer shoes are the cutest you've seen in 3 years and they aren't even lolita
I don't have that kind of money right now and I know it will be sold out and never show up 2nd hand.

>> No.10078622 [DELETED] 

Yeah, and I really hate it. Not because of rules or something petty like that but because I feel like a burden. I only worked part time previously before my last job so unemployment bases my income on that and not my last job which made significantly more and had more hours. Because California I guess.

I tried looking for work but because my old boss really didn’t like me I feel like every attempt I make to get a job that last job hinders me from getting hired anywhere.

Not even sure why I bother desu.

>> No.10078645 [DELETED] 

wait what

>> No.10078646

This concept is really cute but those roses seriously look like wads of old chewing gum. Maybe the color is different in real life, but judging from this pic I'd say save your money anon chan

>> No.10078651

They are made of real leather, they don't look like that in real life. Maybe you should stop buying off Taobao.

>> No.10078654

>sold out in my size
guess I'll just die

>> No.10078662

You could probably go a half size up or down. Up since Blahniks run small and down because with some initial pain the leather will conform to your foot.

>> No.10078670

>cosplayed from favorite anime but it's old as fuck
>only one recognized me
It's a bittersweet feeling.

>> No.10078677

>Cosplayed from an obscure series
>Someone mistakes me for another obscure character
I didn't have the heart to correct them

>> No.10078679

The worst part of nu-fandom is how fucking seasonal and trendy weebshit has become.

Early conventions where literally anything from 1970-2000 was fair game and everyone recognized the classics? yep those were the good days *sips*

>> No.10078682
File: 28 KB, 550x467, karl.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

My con sister has been ghosting me. She only does that when she's depressed and I don't want to annoy her. Maybe she just got a new boyfriend or something.

>> No.10078687

I know that feel. I have a old friend who ghosts for months at a time and its completely due to her being depressed in a bad relationship and living situation. Don't take it personally, some girls are like that because they don't want to show weakness.

>> No.10078760

>take up wig-making so i can make realistic hair pieces from scratch for cosplay
>taking class at my college in it
>actually not bad at it and enjoy it
>don't have any time to do any pieces for cosplay because my projects for the class are so time consuming
goddammit. At least I'll have a new skill set when this is all over

>> No.10078763

Think in terms of the positives - after this you'll have a marketable skill.

>> No.10078767

I just wish there were a way I could say this to her without seeming like a desperate hanger-on.

>> No.10078771

I am jelly because I want to learn to turn the hair that I cut off anyway into hair pieces/extensions since I am au natural and grow it long. When am I 90 and people ask if its my "real hair" I can answer "yes" without it being a lie.

>> No.10078777

Oh that's just making wefts and attaching some clips to them, that's really simple. If you have a sewing machine, even one of those tiny portable cheap ones, you can do it with some patience. If you have a full-sized machine that can use a double or triple needle, it can go even faster since you'll need to make less passes. See this video
You can makes wefts by hand too like wigmakers in the 18th century did, however it's very tedious. There's also some no-sew methods but I prefer to sew my wefts for durability

>> No.10078783

thanks for the tips! I can totally handle sewing this.

>> No.10078788

you sound bitter anon, maybe it's time you find your own non-obese well-dressed friends to start a comm with

>> No.10078905
File: 1.10 MB, 1079x1088, 1545109722686.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>bought my ultimate dream dress
>it arrives tomorrow
>but I'm really ugly so whats the point

>> No.10078908 [DELETED] 

Use it to hang yourself.

>> No.10078910 [DELETED] 

You sound fat. Maybe you should stop being fat.

>> No.10078911

The point is that you only need to be beautiful for yourself. Don't compare yourself to others, if anything simply take inspiration from others if you wish; otherwise, wear your beautiful dream dress for your own enjoyment, don't seek approval from anyone but yourself.
I hope you love your dress when it arrives, anon.

>> No.10078912 [DELETED] 

>*pretty girl wears bikini with pikachu ears and gets 500x the attention you do*
It's n-n-not a c-c-competition

>> No.10078926

>Took a gap year before university and in my free time made 3 full armor builds, had so much fun messing around in my garage.
>Have no room/will to make cosplays on that scale (2 years later), and I'm growing apart from my weeb friends so I don't even go to cons anymore.

woops, i guess.

>> No.10078938 [DELETED] 

What mistake, anon?

>> No.10078943 [DELETED] 

Google Nurse-Kun and Ampu-Chan.
It's probably fake and gay, but soppy shit like that makes me want kids.

>> No.10079003

What was the character?

>> No.10079095 [DELETED] 
File: 96 KB, 321x306, nervous4.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

w-what are you doing anon

>> No.10079147 [DELETED] 

>tfw being ghosted by someone who i thought was building towards a long term relationship
hold me gulls

>> No.10079193 [DELETED] 


Shit like this makes me so excited to have kids.

>> No.10079202

>find something on Lacemarket I really want to buy
>seller has good feedback emphasising good communication
>message seller about shipping quote
>seller views message but never responds
>guess I won’t buy your “urgent sell” item then

>> No.10079203 [DELETED] 

>tfw cousin will never fall in love with and marry me

>> No.10079228

This might actually be the second most chilled thread on 4chan

>> No.10079255


Now it's the most chilled thread on 4chan.

>> No.10079263

What's the first most chilled thread?

We need to nuke it.

>> No.10079264

Make a big mess out of everything! Hurt people! Make risky moves! But I have to! Hope for the best.

>> No.10079268

Crabs in a bucket isn't very chill.

>> No.10079272 [DELETED] 

Super chill thread.

Let's talk about the problems with our daddies.

>> No.10079275

Well you go first, rules I guess

>> No.10079279

>tfw daddy was never there for me

>> No.10079285

Same anon, dad left when I was a wee toddler

>> No.10079288


>> No.10079311

My only problem with my dad is that we live so far apart, and I miss him. Maybe I'll go book a plane ticket right now.

>> No.10079324

I haven’t been to a con in years due to friends dropping off: Marriage, careers, or kids. the last one I ended up going alone and had the worst time. I went to events and panels and cosplayed but couldn’t break the ice to make any new friends. I’d have conversations but there was never a moment of “we’re getting food do you want to come?” Halfway through I just reserved myself to the hotel room and watched bad discovery channel shows until finally deciding “im getting THE FUCK out of here”
Enjoy the magic while it lasts because it eventually leaves.
And it doesn’t come back

>> No.10079327
File: 2.98 MB, 540x304, 1545056422336.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>daddy did not like me too much, because I was slow
>daddy absolutely hated me when he found my sewing machine and dresses

>> No.10079347

I don’t see why he would hate his daughter for that, it’s quite weird

>> No.10079349

Yeah, I'm not sure what else he would expect from a daughter. Maybe anon is a boy though.

>> No.10079351

My father is secretly very jealous of the fact that I grew up to be smarter and more handsome than him

>> No.10079354

Is anon a boy?

>> No.10079358 [DELETED] 

If you're living with parents, try getting a temp agency? I was able to land my current job from a temp agency. It sucks because you have sizable periods without work until you can get lucky enough to land a long term temp position, and with those you have a good chance of getting hired permanently if you're a good worker and show off a skillset they need.

I started out at the bottom of the bottom grunt work and landed a nice lax office job from it. Temp agencies are great for when you're down and out but don't have actual bills and stuff to pay off. Give it a shot, it'll probably help confidence a bit too. You'll have some stuff every now and then to work on while job hunting, and possibly will get an unexpected job offer from your temp work.

>> No.10079378 [DELETED] 

He was a pedo wasn't he?

>> No.10079421

I am indeed a boy

>> No.10079435 [DELETED] 


>> No.10079453 [DELETED] 

It's obviously fake. From the beginning with the whole "half Japanese former gymnast" bit, it's obvious that this dude was catering to channers.

>> No.10079454 [DELETED] 

Guys how do you deal with ghosting?

>> No.10079455


>person i have an on and off friendship with is quitting the fashion
>only hits me up when she's feeling lonely, but leaves my invitations and icebreakers on seen
>decided to hit me up to get me to buy some shit
>mfw she has a dress i wtb
>ask her for pics
>sends me stock image first, then someone else wearing dress in different colorway
>basically ask her for a proof pic and she ghosts on me, no real explanation
>im left to wonder if she got cold feet, wanted to scam me, or found someone else to buy

idk how to cut her off other than ghosting her myself. but based on the behavior, she'll likely take it personal

>> No.10079457 [DELETED] 

A Fenton thermos usually.

>> No.10079459 [DELETED] 

funny cos i'm in a ghosting situation

if you're not close to the person, just let it go. don't invest time in people that dont want to really spend time with you or give a shit how you feel

if you are close and it is constant/toxic behavior, here's my rule of thumb:
graciously invite them to talk to you, make things right or set ground rules, etc. give it a reasonable amount of time for someone to get back to you (i usually do a week after i contact them). if they don't respond or leave you on seen at that point, just make it clear that you are not going to pursue the friendship/relationship anymore and why. then go ahead and cut them out of your life, unless they have a really good reason for ignoring you.

too bad i can't take my own fucking advice lmao, hope that helps!

>> No.10079461 [DELETED] 

LOL you win.

>> No.10079464 [DELETED] 
File: 911 KB, 240x133, 1541130628063.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

He's very old and may die in the next 5 years and I live in another country and I miss him so much

>> No.10079481
File: 50 KB, 642x642, 18556039_362186800850979_7653872158478008147_n.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>browsing BTB
>suddenly get text from comm president
>"Attention, lolis. Senior members can now take their anal inspections by phone."
>pull down my panties, snap a few pics of my melty doughnut, and send them her way
>wait for a response
>starting to get impatient
>message comm president on Fb, asking what the holdup is
>she doesn't know what I'm talking about
Who the fuck did I text, gulls????

>> No.10079483 [DELETED] 
File: 464 KB, 263x903, v6ngoUX.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10079500
File: 940 KB, 450x253, InfomercialSasuke.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>New circle lenses
>Two pairs, four separate bottles
>Open them up for first soak and etui placement
>Cut myself three times
>Big blood on all cuts
>Look like some anime character who can't cook, hands plastered in bandaids
>Am I retarded?
Is it just me or have those metal things around the lids gotten harder with the years? The first ones I ever opened were soft and easy to handle, but these were straight up evil.

Don't worry about hygene, I took care of each cut as soon as it happened, and didn't let any blood or bandaid touch the lenses. You can imagine why this process and gradually losing fingers to work with made it all the more frustrating. Pic somewhat related.

>> No.10079508

It was a cute pic :3

>> No.10079516

>Trying to get the perfect color for a coat I'm sewing for cosplay
>Ordering fabrics online
>First fabric arrives looking too faded
>Second fabric too dark
>Third fabric not quite the color I was after


>> No.10079597 [DELETED] 

this is good advice. I've also learned new skills from doing temp work and then I was able to put those skills on my resume.

>> No.10079601

>not requesting fabric samples or swatches

>> No.10079603
File: 1010 KB, 275x275, 0E96FBF8-C3B7-49A1-80AE-B17010456F5B.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>melty doughnut
So you sent a stranger a pic of your leaky prolapsed anus? Most embarrassing behavior, thot.

>> No.10079669 [DELETED] 
File: 125 KB, 1080x1147, Screenshot_20190115-072735__01.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Why are mods deleting feels in a feels thread?
Are they chain deleting?

No, just a early 2010's btard/edgyboi.
Yeah, I know it was obviously fake, but I've been reading a lot of stories about adopting, real and fiction and it makes me want kids so much.
It's so strange, like 5 years ago I couldn't think of anything more vile - I kept thinking of how they'd ruin my hobbies and turn me into the parent with the screaming child, but I guess my biological clock is just ticking and I feel like being in my mid 20's I'm now mature enough to see the rewards in raising a child and making their life as good as it can be.

>> No.10079700 [DELETED] 
File: 129 KB, 216x378, 1508034322423.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

The car fire incident just makes me feel even more awful for being a guy.
Full fucking disclaimer, yes it was shitty that this happened and it shouldn't have at all.
But it's just check one thousand on another list of "reasons why people might avoid you: you might set their car on fire, because you're a guy".
I'm a guy, so I must only be capable of destruction and hurting others. I'm a guy, so I MUST be a stalker or murderer or rapist or what the fuck ever.
And I follow a bunch of cosplayers and they all have stories about awful men. Maybe not to that extent, but they all have something.

It's already hard enough for me to make friends. That's why I go to cons and cosplay, to find other people who like the stuff I do.
And... I do want a gf down the line that's also into the same stuff I'm into and would cosplay with me but honestly, it really feels like I have no choice in this matter. As long as those disgusting men exist, we're all seen as that. And that's just something I have to face, I think.
I just have a ton more reasons why I want to fucking die.

I won't out of stubbornness. I'm not even sure why I'm here. I just am.

>> No.10079706 [DELETED] 

>the thot who got her car burned out got $15k in a night on Gofundme
>my aunt who got shot in the face got $76
Why do hot white girls get all the love?

>> No.10079709 [DELETED] 

You sound like my bf before we got together. Spoiler alert: he got a gf into the same things as him, and he doesn’t seem to want to die anymore. Not that the two things are necessarily consequential.
I agree that guys cause most of the world’s problems, but I’d rather the nice ones stick around and help fix it instead of dying or going into hiding.

>> No.10079710 [DELETED] 

I hate the biological clock meme. It isn't that you are suddenly realizing you want children. It's that you were basically a child yourself previously when you were thinking about it.

I mean, yeah, it's shitty that a lot of the time you're going to get thrown in a group with the dudes who are giving you a bad name, but it's way worse for the women who actually have to navigate that shitty pile of dudes to find a good one than it is to be thrown in there.

>> No.10079725

I hate costhots and the men who support them. Sex is fucking stupid and all the people that do it should be put down.

>> No.10079728 [DELETED] 

>I’d rather the nice ones stick around and help fix it instead of dying or going into hiding.

That's a fair point. Rather than run or accept this fate, I guess the idea is to try and still set a good example no matter what.

>but it's way worse for the women who actually have to navigate that shitty pile of dudes to find a good one than it is to be thrown in there.

And another fair point. After all, women are the ones being hurt here, so it feels like I have no right to say anything on this matter.
Like... it feels discouraging knowing that I can't just walk up to a girl at a con and chat like that's okay, since I'm almost certain they're gonna be on guard because I'm a guy but there's a good fucking reason why they think that, and that's just... how life is. A bunch of shitty fucking dudes hurting others and... I want to say ruining everything for the rest of us, but they're actually hurting people then that's no good.

So... I don't know, maybe the idea is to shut up and obviously don't hurt people, but if people have a preconceived notion that I will because I'm a guy, then there isn't anything I can do to change that, I just have to keep like... being good or as best as I can regardless, no matter what.

>> No.10079753

God I'd be pissed if that heppend to me.

>> No.10079771 [DELETED] 


You're a guy, I'm a guy- chin up, that's just how it be. Be a good person; that choice is entirely on you, and other people can't take away your goodness even if you fall into a category that is vilified. This is a little sus I guess, but you should be a good person for your own sake, not to find a girlfriend, or to prove a point to a community

>> No.10079772 [DELETED] 
File: 49 KB, 1048x207, Screenshot_20190115-085412__01.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I think it's just my hormones settling, you know?

Also, mods are being autistic, did I need to specifically say that my hobbies that I feared would interfere with kids/vice-versa were cosplay and cosplay related?

>> No.10079781 [DELETED] 

That's all very true. My desires shouldn't be the basis for being a good person, otherwise that just becomes ulterior, right? One should try to be good for... well, goodness sake, because you choose to and want to be good and do good to those around you.

>> No.10079798

Found my dream dress, message ss to get it and it turns out the seller has disappeared. I am so sad rn. It's silly, I usually don't get this sad over dumb shit but I just am.

>> No.10079801 [DELETED] 

>I just have to keep like... being good or as best as I can regardless, no matter what.
I mean that's what most nice people with friends do

>> No.10079808 [DELETED] 

It's no different to generalisations that, say, black people have to deal with because of shit other black people do.

>> No.10079868 [DELETED] 

>ugh, dont worry girls, not all men are bad guys. I'll be your white knight protector.
>please forgive my stupid gender

>> No.10079873 [DELETED] 

>After all, women are the ones being hurt here, so it feels like I have no right to say anything on this matter
You're literally begging to get your jaw broken, you nice guy.

>> No.10079888
File: 427 KB, 500x533, bh3EOmh.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Do I cosplay my waifu or do I cosplay a character from the anime my waifu is from in an attempt to find my waifu?

>> No.10079890

that 400 day old ladybug thread that is some how still alive.

>> No.10079896
File: 218 KB, 839x938, Ein_Koyubi.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw man
>tfw I pull off dressing up as a 1980s rock n roll jet fighter pilot cowboy tough guy
>tfw I actually can become something close to this ideal if I so choose

>> No.10079898

Which anime? Will you find other cosplayers?

>> No.10079907

That thread should be some kind of 4chan record now. Have respect.

>> No.10079946

I am sorry anon. It's not silly! I hope you find it again soon.

>> No.10080012

Sweet Bro and Hella Jeff

>> No.10080071

I 'member that thread on /i/ that was like 5 years old.

>> No.10080074 [DELETED] 
File: 1.69 MB, 1656x1656, 20190115_044045.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I wanted to post this hoe for months now but I've never had the courage to do it.
No one thinks it's cute when you take panty shots and flirt with other men when you have a husband. Most toxic person I've ever met, medically bipolar and a frequent liar, no one wants to be your friend because you talk so much shit behind are backs and you're a child in a thirty year old body.
If your husband ever saw what you've been saying to all your "fans" who know your with someone. He would have already divorced you

>> No.10080084 [DELETED] 

Sounds like a borderline or narcissistic personality hiding behind the label of bipolar...

>> No.10080086 [DELETED] 
File: 73 KB, 750x620, majima.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I keep wanting to ignore this but I can't because I used to be the same way.

Here's a hard pill you're gonna need to swallow: right now you're playing the victim in response to other people being *actually* victimized. Not only do you look spineless to everyone, to women who are already on the defensive because of these events, you look like you're overcompensating for potential bad intentions.

You need to accept that as a man, you *are* dangerous. That's just in your blood. You can't change that, and attempts to change it just make you look creepy and predatory, like all those Twitter male feminists who wind up being sex pests. Embrace that and master that so you gain confidence in your ability to keep that danger in check. Lots of "nice guys" out there who are so unacquainted with their own potential for violence they don't even realize they have it until they unleash it on someone.

As for women treating you like shit for the crime of being a man, fuck 'em. If they're gonna paint an entire sex with a broad brush, they're not smart or mature people and they are unworthy of your time. Do what you think is right, talk to people worth talking to, do things you think are fun, hold morals you think are worth holding, tell everyone who tries to cram you into a box you don't belong in to go fuck themselves.

There are a lot of people in the world you simply cannot do enough good for to make them consider you a good person. Don't waste your time trying to change that. I spent years trying to be that person for others as best I could and it wasn't enough, and coming to the aforementioned conclusion was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. These days my friend circles are much smaller, but you know what? I've never felt more free. The people I think are worth my time know better than to stereotype me. They know who I really am. My actions speak for themselves and yours should too.

Your legacy should be your own, not that of some ALA incel arsonist.

>> No.10080087 [DELETED] 

>tfw want make babby.
>tfw post feels relating to babby and cosplay in /CGL/ feels thread.
>tfw mod keeps deleting the posts.
>tfw 'melty donut' posts stay up.
Mod must either be barren or a tranny.

>> No.10080090 [DELETED] 

Have you found a father for babby?

>> No.10080091 [DELETED] 

I'm married.

>> No.10080092 [DELETED] 

Does he need the help of a young virile buck?

>> No.10080094 [DELETED] 

No, but if I needed help, last person to contact would be the beta orbiters of /cgl/...

>> No.10080096 [DELETED] 

Fucking whore bitch. Hope you have a miscarriage whore and they have to scrape the dead fetus out of your cunt and destroy it in the process.

>> No.10080099 [DELETED] 


>> No.10080101 [DELETED] 

Excuse you, I am a shitposter, not a beta orbiter, thank you very much

>> No.10080102 [DELETED] 

>I was merely pretending to be a cuck.

>> No.10080137 [DELETED] 

Worse things can happen - you're living proof.

>> No.10080141 [DELETED] 

Anons can I hang out with you guys this morning

>> No.10080146 [DELETED] 

No fuck off, pools closed.

>> No.10080156 [DELETED] 
File: 227 KB, 1200x1166, DsLn0svUUAIHBBe.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>all these girls marrying in their 20s because they think the clock is ticking and no one will want them later

>> No.10080162

Sure. Hang out with me. How are you this morning. Are there any cons you looking forward to?

>> No.10080165 [DELETED] 

Since you've come this far, why don't you post some caps of what she's saying to these dear fans of hers?

>> No.10080188

Different people enjoy cons differently, anon. I love going alone, taking all the time I like to do what I want, look at what I want, only going to the panels I want to.

>> No.10080198

I think I'm too ugly to wear lolita in public.
It doesn't matter what anyone says about loving oneself, it doesn't matter how often I see kind people say nice things about other uncute girls in lolita, it's just plain depressing to look in a mirror and see my ugly mug and broad upper body ruining a cute coord.
>inb4 kys bitch

>> No.10080211

I’m not gonna tell you how to feel anon, and honestly it just sounds like you need a hug and a drink. Maybe a friend

>> No.10080225

Why do you have to have a hobby that’s so appearance-based? No one will care about your face and chest if you take up Cyclocross or something.

>> No.10080226 [DELETED] 

It's been a long time since I've read someones post an been embarrassed for them. It's absolutely pathetic that you act like men are the only problem in this world when there are terrible human beings all around the world no matter what gender. Open you eyes and look around you, no one is perfect.

>> No.10080243 [DELETED] 

Just because you mention cosplay somewhere doesn't automatically make it a cgl feel.

>> No.10080248

All you can do is work on being your cutest self. Try losing weight or exercising more, practice your makeup skills, wear wigs, circle lenses and false lashes, heck, get plastic surgery if you think it will make you feel better about yourself in the longterm. Regardless, no matter how uncute you may be, I still think wearing cute clothes is much better than wearing ugly clothes. I believe in you, anon!

>> No.10080257
File: 70 KB, 600x389, 1545115135083.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>logic and good advice on my 4chan(el)?

>> No.10080258

What happened to that cosplayer who’s husband pretended to be her online and gave her stuff to fetishes and shit?

>> No.10080264 [DELETED] 
File: 104 KB, 1280x720, LL (137).jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Sure anon, take a seat. How are you doing?

>> No.10080272
File: 63 KB, 650x369, 1546319863898.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Why do you think these threads are still around and popular? Sometimes they let us gulls genuinely connect and help each other with our feels.

>> No.10080287 [DELETED] 

I’m just alone and watching some netflix.

Actually glad I finally got some time to myself to relax it’s been a long week

>> No.10080334

Thanks anon, I try. Some lessons are hard-learned without personal experience; hopefully my advice ensures he doesn't have to learn the things I did the hard way.

Crystal Graziano/Precious Cosplay, I think? She's okay and bouncing back; iirc she's divorced now (obviously) and focusing on her art for the moment.

>> No.10080377

I’m glad to hear I was really pissed off at her ex and super enraged on her behalf. I probably would have sued his ass too

>> No.10080379

>put some items in my wunderwelt basket
>hope and pray that they stay in stock until i can buy all the items when i get to the US in February so i can avoid bullshit EU fees
>half the shit i wanted is now out of stock
>btw it was all wunderwelt fleur shit
Fuck my life, all i want is to have the lolita wardrobe of my dreams.

>> No.10080381

Thanks anon, this is very sound. It's a harsh truth but one that I have to deal with, and it sounds like one you've had to deal with, but you did.

>> No.10080409

Yeah, it was a serious "what the fuck" moment when I found out too, since I knew her husband from my days on OPERATORChan (which is how I found out about her) and he never seemed like the sort. I'm not sure if she's doing any sort of defamation lawsuit or anything, but I couldn't blame her if she just wanted to wash her hands of the whole thing with the divorce rather than have to relive that mess over and over in a courtroom.

You're welcome, anon. Bear in mind that what I say isn't gospel, it's just what's working for me at the moment. It might not work as well for you, but hopefully it gives you some things to think about because this sounds like a struggle for you, but that's good because struggle makes you grow.

If you're constantly worried about what other people think about you, you'll never grow. You'll always be worried "well what will so-and-so think?" It's fine to consider what public perception might be, but you do have to draw a line at some point and live life by your own rules a little bit. Push your boundaries, learn what it's like to be uncomfortable, to be unsatisfied, to be scared, to be in pain, to be frustrated. When you learn to manage those emotions, you'll be in better control of yourself, and that self-mastery shows in your actions and attitude as confidence.

I found my confidence through competitive shooting. I'm very open about doing it, talking about technique and mindset, etc. It's harshly juxtaposed with my cosplay hobby, and it paints me as extremely dangerous to a lot of people, but the women in my life trust me because they know I've gotten where I am through that self-mastery. They know I'm better than the sort of men they worry about. I'm a person to them, not a stereotype. That's the sort of rep you should work towards, but the only way you'll get there is by refusing to be bound by the closed-mindedness of shitty people.

You've got one life, dude. Don't waste it walking on eggshells.

>> No.10080412

>expecting everything you want to buy to stay in stock for a month
Did you discover lolita today?

>> No.10080416

Anons give me a reason to continue to keep trying to find love while cosplaying?

>> No.10080417

Nope, i just have unrealistically high expectations. But in my defence, the stuff i wanted have been in stock for several months.

>> No.10080419

Don't. You don't find love.

>> No.10080420

Poetic, I’m sure I’ll be alone for the next decade or so but atleast I have my looks

>> No.10080511

Yeah, sure, I'll just go on /v/ and blog about how I'm afraid the prospect of kids will interfere with cosplay.

>> No.10080547


this is actually some good music

is this chillhop or something different?

>> No.10080624

/cgl/ judges too much and people are afraid of self-posting I feel

>> No.10080626


>> No.10080627

because this is 4chan
/cgl/ does have its unique culture but not everyone is fine with sharing with the world they post here

>> No.10080631

What's the worst a bunch of random anons can do? Plus these "negative" comments usually include critique on how to be better.

>> No.10080639

In my experience with cosplay threads, self proclaimed "experts" come out of the wood work and nitpick alot of posters. When I posted mine awhile a ago, all I got was "looks like shit" no other critiques, like that really helps.

>> No.10080641

You can't really take stuff like that personally though. Is it really that bad?

>> No.10080649

I don't really care a lot about some anon in a Japanese stationary design board.
Don't get me wrong, there are some who fall flat, they do get criticism. It just can be disheartening when you work hard on something and the only thing someone responds to you is "looks like shit"

>> No.10080652

I guess, but I feel like that's just a signal going "well alright, I need to be better"
Although if it's just that and nothing constructive, then yeah, that's pretty lame, since you wouldn't exactly know what it is you need to fix

>> No.10080657 [DELETED] 

1. Reverse image search to find if you posted the same pic somewhere else (perhaps under a nickname or a real name).
2. Someone recognize you and try to hurt you some how (for example, linking it to your boss together with an article badmounthing 4chan)
3. Similar to 2, someone try to associate you with shit other boards say (think /pol/)

>> No.10080658

1. Reverse image search to find if you posted the same pic somewhere else (perhaps under a nickname or a real name).
2. Someone recognize you and try to hurt you some how (for example, linking it to your boss together with an article badmounthing 4chan)
3. Similar to 2, someone try to associate you with shit other boards say (think /pol/)

critiques/negative comments are the least of your problems

>> No.10080733

>the lolitas claiming to love VM and commenting that they were sad VM closed
something tells me they didn't care all that much

>> No.10080791


>> No.10080825 [DELETED] 

How do I find a girl who will love me?

>> No.10080850 [DELETED] 
File: 35 KB, 500x359, skeletor.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10080856 [DELETED] 
File: 43 KB, 450x484, 321.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

If you post here and make it known you're looking for someone to love, a suitable girl will surely fall in your lap. Pic related.

>> No.10080860 [DELETED] 
File: 521 KB, 720x1324, 5jtf1oqc0ba21.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Just BEE URSELF. If you don't like yourself or aren't confident in who you are, then work on becoming who you want. If you're already fine with who you are then just make more connections. Relationships are widely about luck, as everything in life. So even if you're not a bad person or aren't unfortunate looking, you may just not be at the right places at the right times. Put yourself out there more.

Also look into getting better clothes. Don't have to be /fa/ but just stuff that you enjoy wearing. clothes that make you actually consider what you'll wear for the day instead of just pulling a random shirt and jeans from your hamper. Something to take from the lolitas on this board, it's the satisfaction they get from wearing what they want to express who they are confidently. I mean, if you feel that hobocore is who you are then I mean, go for it and try to find someone into that look (they exist) but know you'll probably have to put more effort into making that connection with then first.

My suggestion? Get out of /cgl/ and back to /r9k/ cause this advice probably triggered you. All women are bitches and whores who will ride any cock without your name on it. They're all shallow and only want Chad, who will talk to them about sports and protien powder while cherishing their Juicy Cherry. And when he Melty Cream Donuts deep inside their Princess Cats, she'll say

>"Thank you, Chad. I'm so glad you aren't Anon. I chose not to have sex with him, not because of his own faults or my lack of meaningful connection with him; but because he is Anon."

And Chad will respond:

>"lol did you see the Bucking Broncos game last night? Dude, I lift like 300 lb.???"

And even though you say you're not a cuck, you know you'd pay top dollar just to sit in a corner and see all of that happen. Get the fuck >>>/out/

>> No.10080862

>girl posts long WTB in lolitas sales group
>I own pretty much everything that's on her list
I do want her to find the pieces she's looking for, but I feel kind of smug. is that weird?

>> No.10080874 [DELETED] 
File: 86 KB, 636x544, IMG_20181127_110501.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I love you from this post already. Are you single???

>> No.10080882 [DELETED] 

>just be yourself
>hey if you want to be a hobo then be a hobo
>also, dont just dress in a random shirt
I sincerely hope a guy isn't stupid enough to write this.

>> No.10080888 [DELETED] 

Are you implying only women are stupid enough to write that?

>> No.10080889 [DELETED] 


>> No.10080892 [DELETED] 



>> No.10080896 [DELETED] 

This is why you won't get a gf, Anon. Neither of those are contradictory to one another within context. Re-read and you'll see that the hobo wear comment is a caveat for if that's who you are. Embrace it, but just realize you'll have to put more effort into finding someone into that. Most people have the propensity to express who they are with fashion, but just never consider it. Hell, most guys I see who complain like this don't even buy their own clothes or just go for the cheapest bargain bin stuff at Macy's without a thought. And if that's you, then that's you, but if you're not trying to present who you are visually then you'll have to try harder in other areas for people to know you.

>> No.10080900 [DELETED] 

What are you guys arguing about this time?

>> No.10080902 [DELETED] 

I wonder if there is some weird pathology where people feel a sense of virtue by trying to convincing others to be themselves even more. Like, you have to convince yourself and others that the reasons why people fail in life is because they're just not being themselves hard enough.

Is it an extension of the just-world fallacy?

>> No.10080905 [DELETED] 

You don't.

>> No.10080906 [DELETED] 

Fine. Then how do I get away with rape?

>> No.10080907 [DELETED] 

You also don't.
Just die alone.

>> No.10080909 [DELETED] 

I will if I really put my mind to it!

Always try your best!

>> No.10080911 [DELETED] 
File: 957 KB, 574x571, 1547005260686.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10080914 [DELETED] 
File: 10 KB, 179x189, 1543439266122.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Just be yourself.

>> No.10080915 [DELETED] 

Wow, thanks for the encouragement!

>> No.10080916 [DELETED] 

>Anon cries about not getting girls
>Anon gives advice
>Anon cries that the advice isn't what he wants to hear ("I'll be your gf!" Post your email~ <3")

>> No.10080918 [DELETED] 

Be a woman.

>> No.10080919 [DELETED] 

I've taken the advice though.

I'm going to be myself and pursue my desires of rape.

>> No.10080922 [DELETED] 

Not that anon but would you like to go out on a date?

>> No.10080923 [DELETED] 

Not that anon, but I would.

>> No.10080926 [DELETED] 
File: 222 KB, 1161x1629, Dwo_nt9VAAAaJ_s.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Sorry, unlike incel Anon I have a cosplay and lolita gf who loves me very much.

>> No.10080927 [DELETED] 

Haha it was a trick! Now I am going to rape you like daddy did!

>> No.10080928 [DELETED] 

Where would you wanna go?

>> No.10080929 [DELETED] 

Unfortunately I am a dude so sorry anon

>> No.10080933 [DELETED] 

I don't know.

>> No.10080938 [DELETED] 

Do you wanna drop a contact?

>> No.10080947 [DELETED] 


>> No.10080950 [DELETED] 

Want to see a movie

>> No.10080951

Man I just really love lolita.

>> No.10080952 [DELETED] 

Depends which movie.

>> No.10080953
File: 1.15 MB, 228x173, so rori.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Me too anon. It's had such a positive influence on my life, I don't know what I'd do without it.

>> No.10080954 [DELETED] 

Man I just really love being molested by an older relative.

>> No.10080957 [DELETED] 

Jurassic Park?

>> No.10080958 [DELETED] 

Make it Broly and it's a date.

>> No.10080960 [DELETED] 

I didn’t want to be weird, but I actually am looking forward to watching it, when do you wanna see it

>> No.10080964 [DELETED] 


>> No.10080969 [DELETED] 

Why are you like this

>> No.10080970 [DELETED] 

Take your fucking erp to discord. Yikes.

>> No.10080972 [DELETED] 

Holy fucking shit you think that's funny

>> No.10080973 [DELETED] 

posts with "lmaoo", "lol", "y'all" and the like make me cringe internally.

>> No.10080974 [DELETED] 

Then leave lad

>> No.10080975 [DELETED] 

What's wrong with 'lol' and what would you use instead? Please don't suggest 'haha'.

>> No.10080976 [DELETED] 

It's the pedo shitposter again (>>10080954 >>10080906) who for some reason didn't get a rangeban yet. Meanwhile, only namefagging as the Proud Asian who was at least entertaining gets you automatically nuked.

>> No.10080978 [DELETED] 

Like what? I'm just answering your questions honestly.

>> No.10080979 [DELETED] 

I'm really hard on clothes

>> No.10080980 [DELETED] 

Nothing wrong but be a real spanish and use jajajajajajajajajajaja

>> No.10080984 [DELETED] 

So do you want to go on a date, we could see broly tonight

>> No.10080985 [DELETED] 

Get raped lol

>> No.10080989 [DELETED] 
File: 385 KB, 1282x721, eGQ0Nzf.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

to stay true to our weeb roots

>> No.10081036 [DELETED] 
File: 70 KB, 960x540, 187A908F-A674-4CB7-8FD5-A7EFF250CBD9.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Long time know speak gulls n guys how’s it been since the holidays I’ve been swamped and tired with school but I’m glad to get one post out and talk to you all

>> No.10081049

Thanks anon. by some miracle the next day somebody else put the same dress up for sale and I got it this time! I'm so happy, my closet is only missing one dress to make it perfect.

>> No.10081055 [DELETED] 

good post

>> No.10081057 [DELETED] 
File: 99 KB, 1280x720, 465276234563456.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Glad to see you're still alive rider anon.
Holidays were pretty unspectacular since I was mostly alone. Only on nye I could bring myself to join a friend's party and socialize with a bunch of random people. But generally the last few days have been rough on my mind. Need to pepare for exams in a few week, which one of them will decide whether I'll drop out or not. And increasingly having self-doubts about wearing lolita doesn't make it any better. Maybe watching Gaim will give me some balance to all the bad feels of recently.

>> No.10081060 [DELETED] 

Women are all whores and should kill themselves before they reach 18.

>> No.10081062 [DELETED] 

They'll be sure to fuck several guys (none of whom are you) before then though. Sorry, Anon.

>> No.10081065 [DELETED] 
File: 193 KB, 2048x1152, A49C7FFA-E5C1-4385-83B4-7F92884B95DD.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I’m glad to hear you’re alive my dear rider pal, I am also completely swamped with exams and work but i did buy a lot of rider drivers from mandarake so big excited about that. Also I am watching gaim too and I thinkkkkk we should watch it together and have a good time granted I am a big idiot and idk if I have a project due because I missed class yesterday due to over sleep

>> No.10081067 [DELETED] 

Of course they will... because they're whores... all women are completely disposable holes that can be replaced at any time.

What's your point?

>> No.10081072 [DELETED] 

How do I convince more girls to cut themselves, lads?

>> No.10081076 [DELETED] 

Keep calling them fat. They'll handle the rest

>> No.10081084 [DELETED] 

lol this girl asked me over to her place once to drink vodka and I told her that we would never ever do it. The next time I saw her she had burn marks all over her arms.

Literally had to walk away to avoid laughing in her face. Women are so fucking sad and pathetic.

>> No.10081092 [DELETED] 

So how about that Hazukari, my gulls?

>> No.10081093 [DELETED] 

How about you stop that and just cut them yourself?

>> No.10081096 [DELETED] 
File: 980 KB, 500x382, a3eabeb7154714bf727316a660a4b5f8.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10081098 [DELETED] 

I'm going to kill myself if this incel keeps posting.

>> No.10081100 [DELETED] 

Then you lost the game.

>> No.10081120 [DELETED] 
File: 27 KB, 507x504, 16711781_999363376875234_7182897419514151601_n.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

i have a crush on a qt girl but i have no chance bc i'm not her type at all
we will cosplay from the same show though (and our characters a kind of popular ship too) and i can't tell if that's gonna be fun or painful
hold me, i just want a cute cosplay/ lolita gf ;_;

>> No.10081153
File: 317 KB, 600x637, 1544199530636.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


Damn, based mod went Sicko Mode on this thread. That's like half the thread gone in an instant.

>> No.10081163

Cosplay Reimu, gull.

>> No.10081170

>Been interested in cosplay
>Not very good at being a weeb
>Considering cosplaying to meet women after my first con
>Considering Junkrat (Or maybe Junkenstein so I can wear my glasses?) since he's someone relatable
I have trouble relating to people who are outside of 4chan.

>> No.10081175

Don't cosplay to meet women. Cosplay because you think it would be fun.

>> No.10081181

solid advice

>> No.10081183

>Considering cosplaying to meet women after my first con

Don't, you rapist.

>> No.10081206
File: 249 KB, 650x686, 1534036021581.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

So socializing with people who have a common interest is a bad thing? Isn't that the whole point of a con anyways?

>> No.10081211 [DELETED] 

>starts seeing new doctor and therapist
>get prescribed new meds and starting to feel decent
>suddenly feel this extreme urge to lose weight NOW
>has started restricting, only eat dinner and nothing else and light exercise in the evening. Spend days only drinking green tea and regular water
>lurks myproana forums every day for advice
>now getting nasty headaches so I can’t work out

I’m a self-sabotaging piece of shit I don’t want to talk to anyone I know, including my doctors. It’s embarrassing. I just want to lose between 5-10cm around my waist

>> No.10081212

They read too many stories about Hazukari.

>> No.10081216

That is the point, but if you're going just to meet women, then you've got ulterior motives.

>> No.10081218 [DELETED] 
File: 3.33 MB, 4032x3024, 20190116_160144.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>birthday today
>all alone
>doctors appointment result in a birthday present of a prescription increase.
>buy self a tiny cake to feel happy, basically pseudo Christmas cake.
>light some candles, manage to briefly set my hair on fire, fuck.
>realize how incompetant I really am at everything in life.
Pic related is said cake, at least it looks and tastes good...

>> No.10081220 [DELETED] 

happy birthday anon, nice taste with the cake

>> No.10081222 [DELETED] 

happy birthday loser KEK

>> No.10081224 [DELETED] 

Cute cake, hope you have a good one

>> No.10081232

You've fallen into the trap of extremely similar phrases having different meanings/implications

"To meet people" is harmless and if you'd used that no-one would bat an eye because you're just being social, "to meet women" carries the idea that you're looking for a hookup rather than conversation

>> No.10081244

No, I've had a hookup before. I would prefer to find a real relationship. I mean a hookup is fun and all, but I want a family someday.

>> No.10081251

I think you're looking in the wrong place for that, unfortunately.

Most gulls either don't want families or think the men in the community are equally nuts and already picked someone outside of it.

>> No.10081255

I'm starting to think no one who has similar interests as me is sane, and I have trouble relating to people in normie space.

>> No.10081265

And you would call the people posting here "sane"? They tell you that you can't look for prospective partners at a con because "muh creepy", "muh ew", "muh yikes" or whatever other teenage buzzwords they want to use.

Just talk to people, see if where this takes you, you just might find someone you fancy and they fancy you back. Good luck and I'm rooting for you.

>> No.10081278

I generally don't come to this board. I'm sure there are some bad examples of man children, so I wouldn't blame them for being weary of me.

>> No.10081318

>They tell you that you can't look for prospective partners at a con because "muh creepy", "muh ew", "muh yikes"
But it's fucking true. Who goes to a con for the purpose of finding a partner? Cons aren't fucking dating services. Just because girls cosplay your waifu does not make them yours.

>> No.10081321

It's not, but they are admittedly a good start for the sort of people who are into these things.

If the person you're interested is already aware you're a dorky cosplayer because they're one too, you've already cleared a major hurdle.

>> No.10081323

> can't look for prospective partners at a con
a nice chat is always fine anon, but girls don't go to cons to get picked up by guys. If you're seriously only going with the intent of scoring a date or more you're basically going to act like you're in a club or sth, at a con. Where girls just want to do con-related stuff, hang out with friends either in cosplay or not. It's not a dating scene, and getting hit on while in cosplay always has that 'are you interested in me or the outfit I'm wearing...' vibe

tl;dr girls don't go to cons to get hit on by guys, so guys shouldn't bring that intent to a con

>> No.10081324

But those people don't go to cons for the purpose of dating or finding partners. They just happen to also be into the same stuff you're into, but they're there to have fun, not hook up with some creepy fucker.

>> No.10081342

Even though some were wrongly nuked, Mana bless the jannies

>> No.10081353 [DELETED] 


>> No.10081362

>tl;dr girls don't go to cons to get hit on by guys
Speak for yourself.

>> No.10081392

>join college cosplay club
>literally only guy in a 12 person club
>one of the few people who sew on a regular basis, and I don't know anyone else IRL who sews so I'm really excited to meet and discuss techniques and shit
>hit it off with this one girl (also because I want to date someone to do qt couple cosplays with)
>she tells me about a past experience where she left a club after some guy asked her out
>don't want the rejection to fuck up the club experience since I'm just happy to talk about sewshit with people

on one hand i told myself I'd be more outgoing about relationships and this seems like a good match, on the other hand I'm just happy to have someone to talk about sewing with

>> No.10081394

Just go for it. If she says no, you don't need to make it weird.

>> No.10081396

Do you go to cons to hit on guys??

>> No.10081399

Girls don’t go anywhere to hit on guys because they don’t need to. Guys hit on them everywhere.

>> No.10081400

She said she left a former club because someone asked her out. That was her way of telling you she doesn't want you asking her out.

>> No.10081401

Unfortunately true.

>> No.10081411
File: 266 KB, 612x612, sadafharley.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

My sister turns 18 tomorrow and she's already planning a MeMeMe cosplay with buttcheeks.

>> No.10081418

Give it time. If you're getting a slight crush, enjoy the rush of hormones, but don't ask her out immediately. Chances are that your club activities bring you closer as friends who will develop mutual feelings by the time you cosplay at your first con together. Imagine, to find that among the thousands of people on an anime convention, you'd rather just spend more time with your club buddy. That's a romance if I ever heard one.

So take it easy, and give it time. Sewshit is more fun if you have friends to do it with.

>> No.10081421

>(also because I want to date someone to do qt couple cosplays with)
Fuck off. The world has enough of you fucking creeps.

>she tells me about a past experience where she left a club after some guy asked her out
Then don't, simple as that. You already have your answer there.
Talk about sewing and cosplay stuff with people there and nothing more.

>> No.10081422


>> No.10081447

who hurt you anon? half of /cgl/ is literally girls/guys thirsting for the other mostly to do couple shit together. Why do couple cosplays set you off?

I thought this but I brought up the topic of that particular club (anime club for reference) and that it was too cringy for me to join, so then she brought up said story about how she used to be in it and then quit. Either way, I think >>10081418 is right about the waiting it out.

thanks friendos

>> No.10081453

>Why do couple cosplays set you off?

I just don't get why people want to be with someone for this purpose. You should be with someone because you connect with them, not just "hey you should cosplay my waifu".

>> No.10081455 [DELETED] 


Women are so indoctrinated they literally have to constantly virtue signal about how horrific it is for men to try and date them. Women cannot and will NEVER empathize with men, especially with the kind of media they consume.

The old adage about women not having a clue about what they want is absolutely true. They say one thing and do another. Please, please, please dont ruin your life by listening to the advice from women.

>> No.10081456

Right, but she didn't think Anime Club was cringy. She liked being in it. And then someone asked her out, and she left. She was telling you not to ask her out. Stop dancing around the obvious.

>> No.10081458 [DELETED] 

>how horrific it is for men to try and date them.

This is true. Men drive buses into innocents, set cars on fire, murder, and rape women every fucking day. All because they can't get fucking laid and they take their anger out on women. They're all filthy, disgusting beasts.

>> No.10081460 [DELETED] 

this isn't /pol/

>> No.10081462 [DELETED] 

>The world has enough of you fucking creeps.
can you explain what was creepy about his statement?

>> No.10081464 [DELETED] 

Literally, who hurt you?

What man in your life betrayed your trust?

>> No.10081469

you might be right desu. I think I'll just bide my time and see how it plays out. she's a fun enough person to be around that i wouldn't want to lose my friendship if it doesn't work, which is coincidentally why I never ask girls out :^(

I mostly just want to be with someone who has similar hobbies, since I literally can't think of why you'd want to date someone you can't talk about hobbies about. sewing, anime, cosplaying, and vidya are my hobbies, and so are hers

>> No.10081471 [DELETED] 

>I want to be with someone so they can cosplay my waifu

Female cosplayers don't exist just to be your irl waifu. Entitled pricks seem to think otherwise, and that's what leads to shit like incels believing they matter.

>> No.10081475

>Either way, I think >>10081418 # is right about the waiting it out.
It sounds like you're only here to see an answer you like desu. It looks like she's not interested in you.

>> No.10081484 [DELETED] 

Too old.

>> No.10081491

Then again, don't. You wanted friends, and that's why you joined that club, right? You have a friend. She told you about a bad experience about someone asking her out in a club and she left.
Don't ruin that friendship and don't ruin this club for her. Simple as that. She owes you nothing.

>> No.10081500

club anon here, I think most of you have been right, and I'll sleep on it. there were some other things I noticed about her from the previous time I saw her (which was roughly a month ago, and also when she mentioned the club thing) in how she changed and how she acted that gave me positive signs but I think I might be going too NCIS overanalyzing it.

the less I think about it the better i'll feel, so good night anons

>> No.10081504 [DELETED] 

No man will ever love you.

Your father didnt love you.

You are an object to men.

You will always be ugly.

Your boyfriend will forever look at more attractive girls while you will remain YOU.

>> No.10081527 [DELETED] 

No man will ever love you.

Your father didnt love you.

You are an object to men.

You will always be ugly.

Your boyfriend will forever look at more attractive girls while you will remain YOU.

>> No.10081535
File: 294 KB, 902x526, 1525408760873.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

You must be on the autism spectrum to think anon meant that he literally only wants a girlfriend for the sake of couple cosplay. Your Tumblr-tier anger is really cringy considering it has nothing to do with you.

You can do couple cosplays without being a couple. Just mind her boundaries, and she might grow to like you. Don't get angry if she doesn't though.

>> No.10081536

Couple cosplays literally mean being a couple and doing cosplays together.
You can't do that with someone who's not into you.

>> No.10081544 [DELETED] 

I want to fucking die. I'm ready to go. I never was pretty enough for lolita or skilled enough for cosplay either. Goodnight cgl see ya on the flip side

>> No.10081545 [DELETED] 

I never hit on anyone. As >>10081399 says, I have no need to. I just wish I didn't always attract such assholes.

>> No.10081547 [DELETED] 

No no no no no no no

This is incel propaganda


No no no no no no

>> No.10081548 [DELETED] 

Anon pls no don't do it
Funk wears lolita and has friends
So do loads of ugly people
Lolita is for dedicated people, not cute people. And even if cosplay in Lolita turn out to not be for you, there will be other Communities that will love you too. Pls hold on anon

>> No.10081549 [DELETED] 

>Lolita is for dedicated people, not cute people.

Isn't the whole point to look pretty in big dresses and shit though?

>> No.10081550 [DELETED] 

Every man is an asshole though, so pick your poison

>> No.10081551 [DELETED] 

Do you think the janny is a homosexual or a woman?

Only they could be so psychotic to delete anything they are moderately offended by.

>> No.10081552

>don't hit on girls at cons
>don't hit on girls in college clubs
>don't hit on girls ever
How are you supposed to find someone outside of existing social circles if you never show that you're interested?

>> No.10081554

You don't.

>> No.10081555

just be yourself

>> No.10081556

You have to let girls make the first move so you know it's okay, but you also have to not kill or rape them.

Even then, they're going to be afraid of you no matter what, so you might as well just die alone.

>> No.10081557

Tinder or dating apps, where everyone is because they want to find a date or at least some fuck

>> No.10081558

Girls go to cons to have fun and make friends

Girls to go to college clubs to have fun and make friends

Getting hit on is not fun. So don't do it.

>> No.10081559

Don't "hit on". Be you. Treat them like a slightly more fragile bro. Eventually one will like you and we'll tell her friends and they'll gossip it around and eventually you will know. Well, that's how lolita crushes seem to work at least.

>> No.10081560

Unironically this
At least with that, you know what you're in for, so that does make it a little easier
Only a little though

>> No.10081562

maybe just start getting to know people as a friend instead of going ham and hitting on them? just a suggestion. Most girls I know, and myself included, like getting to know someone and becoming a friend before random flirting.

>> No.10081564 [DELETED] 

>Don't hit on girls inside your social grouos because then things will be awkward if they reject you
Or... maybe just dont fucking ever listen to women, you idiot. You're going to live a miserable life if you take women seriously.

When girls say they dont want to be hit on, they mean by unattractive guys. Seriously. Stop listening to what women say and look at their actions. Just fucking keep trying until one girl finds you attractive and reciprocates. You will die alone and miserable if you listen to women.

>> No.10081565

this >>10081564 but without the random misogyny. Girls are very likely to be turned off by that.

>> No.10081566 [DELETED] 

Even if you dont take me seriously, just please understand - women have absolutely zero empathy for men. They cannot comprehend your situation and any advice they give you is formed from a completely skewed and bigoted perspective.

Sure. Never be cynical or honest to women because they hate it. Just understand what I say and keep it to yourself while pretending whatever women want to believe.

>> No.10081567

How many times a day do you report posts? I feel like I'm always reporting incel bait in lolita threads. I just wondered what the rest of you do, especially on the cosplay side

>> No.10081568 [DELETED] 

>Just fucking keep trying until one girl finds you attractive and reciprocates.

So find one that pities you, got it.
One of them's bound to have Stockholm Syndrome after all.

>> No.10081571 [DELETED] 

That incel attitude is going to hold you back. People have all kinds of likes and dislikes, even people who look absolutely butt ugly to most of the world can be someone's type. A confident and friendly demeanour is extremely helpful too. Thinking this way is just going to keep you alone, or if you're lucky or conventionally attractive it may get you on several dates where the girls bail on you because you have a sad, bitter personality and aren't fun to spend time with.

>> No.10081572

This x1000

>> No.10081575 [DELETED] 

A personality is as malleable as your intelligence. You cant "just change it".

>> No.10081578 [DELETED] 

I'm trying to come to grips with the fact that I'll probably die alone. That way, I won't hurt anyone.
That's probably for the best at least for me, and you know what, maybe that can work for others too. That way they don't hurt other people as well.
Getting close to people just means you're going to hurt them.

>> No.10081581 [DELETED] 

You can, though. You can work on being nicer, less judgemental, more open, more honest, more outgoing, etc.

>> No.10081583 [DELETED] 


>> No.10081584 [DELETED] 

You don't change it, you just learn how to act. Most people are fake as fuck anyway.

>> No.10081585 [DELETED] 

How naive of you to assume that men can be nice, less judgemental, open, honest, and outgoing at all

>> No.10081587 [DELETED] 

You laugh but I agree with that anon. I was a horrible person 10 years ago. I was also incredibly depressed and dealing with a long string of rejections and the death of my father. All I did was smoke, drink, play vidya, and shitpost online. Ten years later, I almost can't recognize who I was then, and it feels good. It is genuinely possible.

>> No.10081588 [DELETED] 

I believe everyone has the ability less than 1% of people will actually put in the work for it

>> No.10081589 [DELETED] 

Bullshit. After ten years you pretend to be better but you continue to lie about who you are.

As long as other people believe that lie, sure, maybe that's what all that matters.

>> No.10081591

Incels go home!

>> No.10081592 [DELETED] 


Isn't this from evangelion? lol

>> No.10081594 [DELETED] 

It's not a lie if I mean it and genuinely feel better, look better, act better, etc. Obviously there are many things that fundamentally make up my personality that have not changed. I can still be gloomy, I still snap at people very easily, I'm still a lazy ass with little motivation. I just am not existentially angry and I'm not convinced that everything is shit and my life is a failure any more. Back then I would have completely agreed with you. Now, I absolutely don't. Maybe you're correct for yourself and you can't change. I don't know. All I know is, I'm personally much better off now.

>> No.10081595 [DELETED] 

Some can, anon. Just like some women can. Like >>10081588 said though, most cba

>> No.10081597 [DELETED] 

You're so cute. If you were a virgin I would sweep you up immediately and cuddle with you until you felt loved.

I wouldn't deny one could recover from a certain mental state (antidepressants work) but to say that someone can just change their personality is absolutely false. One can be intelligent but not have proper education which results in them not having knowledge to actually Express their true intelligence. This doesnt mesn that they can change their intelligence later in life but they can educate themselves. This is how I view personality.

>> No.10081599 [DELETED] 

Anon, if being honest is equal to being cynical for you it only means you’re a shit person. Believe or not but normal people don’t have that much shit inside. Your vain prevents you from realizing this fact and this is sickening.

>> No.10081600 [DELETED] 

Ah that's fair then. Yeah, you can't change the basic traits that make you who you are. You can learn emotional literacy though and things that will bring out the better sides of you. You are right that you can't just scrap yourself and make a new you, but the same ol' you probably is salvageable if you go about it in the right way. Could even be there are better parts of you you've never had a chance to grow. It's a hard thing to do and can feel like it's going nowhere at times, but it's worthwhile to nurture the better angels of your nature.
>vaguely namedropping one of the books that encouraged me to work on myself there, even though the book really isn't about that it had that effect on me

>> No.10081602 [DELETED] 

People cant handle honesty. People dont like cynicism.

>> No.10081603

>Getting hit on is not fun.

>> No.10081604

Nothing more satisfying than finally figuring out a good layout for your itabag so that everything looks balanced and well laid out.

>> No.10081605

This is also my preference, but people were just telling that guy in the cosplay club not to ask out the girl he is apparently hitting it off with.

>> No.10081606

>trying to enjoy the con or whatever
>trying to have a good time
>some asshole wants to fuck you and tries to make advances on you

It's always unwarranted and never welcomed.

>> No.10081607 [DELETED] 

>guy compliments you
>but guy isn't attractive
>you try to hunt he should leave you alone subtlety but because you're a woman by herself you have zero courage to just explicitly tell him you're not interested
>conversation goes on if hes assertive
>eventually he gets your contact info because you're a weak-willed woman
>blame him for everything and say this is the greatest atrocity anybody has to face

>> No.10081608

Except he wasn't hitting it off?

He said that she literally had a bad time when someone asked her out at a club. That's a no. That doesn't sound like hitting it off.

>> No.10081609 [DELETED] 

Being a judgemental dick and being honest aren't the same thing bro, and a lot of people use cynical words and mindsets to protect themselves from ideas they're scared of or unwilling to engage with. Healthy scepticism alongside curiosity is generally more effective.

>> No.10081612

It's more like:

>guy compliments you, thinking he's being subtle but is being entirely obvious
>it's offputting and unwanted when you're just trying to enjoy yourself in a public space
>guy ignores social cues or never learned them due to lack of seeing women as people and doesn't take your soft "no"s
>give him a firm no to finally get him off your back
>get your car torched when he goes apeshit for not getting what he wants

>> No.10081613
File: 58 KB, 495x623, 1540903726400.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Finally a feel I can truly relate to. It is indeed the best

>> No.10081614

And that's why guys shouldn't talk to women at cons. It leads to shit like that, and nobody fucking wants this.

>> No.10081615

And then the truth is probably somewhere between these two.

>> No.10081618 [DELETED] 

>bro just dont judge
This says to me "just dont think". Go fuck yourself, you dishonest moron.

You've never once said "no". Women cant be this confrontational in real life despite literally no threat to them.

The difference between harassment and flirting to women is looks.

>> No.10081619

>It's always unwarranted and never welcomed.
How is he or she suppose to know you aren't interested without asking?

>>get your car torched when he goes apeshit for not getting what he wants
LOL, what? What fantasy land are you living in where every man who gets rejected torches cars?

>> No.10081621

He literally says:
>hit it off with this one girl
He also gave further context to that story that makes it sound like it wasn't a hint.

>> No.10081623 [DELETED] 

Taking advice from women on how to find a gf is like taking advice from a guy who's never cooked in his life on how to hand-make a croissant - they probably think it starts with boiling pasta.

>> No.10081624

Because people go to cons to enjoy whatever it has to offer. Guests, panels, whatever it is. You're not gonna want to be hit on by some random creep.
So no, they're not interested in unwarranted, creepy advances. Don't hit on girls at cons, simple as that.

>> No.10081626 [DELETED] 

You have to boil pasta if you're gonna spill spaghetti

>> No.10081627 [DELETED] 

Every man is capable of lashing out like that. Enough have done so that every woman fears every man.

>> No.10081628 [DELETED] 

Of course you gotta use your ability to reason and judge, or you'd die. Should be pretty obvious from context that when someone says something like "don't be judgemental", what they actually mean is to think things through carefully and try to examine why you feel particular ways about things. Like, to turn the judgement on your own beliefs and attitudes as well. Instantly assuming everything is awful and out to get you and everyone is lying to you or pretending to be something they're not, for example, is a set of judgements that don't necessarily make sense. They're more assumptions. But you seem uninterested in an actual conversation, so I'll just shut up and let you have the last word. Hope you eventually learn to deal with whatever is making you so angry and uncomfortable.

>> No.10081631 [DELETED] 

>when people say dont judge they actually mean do judge
Ha! Fucking retard.

>> No.10081633
File: 146 KB, 625x626, 800.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>> No.10081635 [DELETED] 

>Instantly assuming everything is awful and out to get you and everyone is lying to you or pretending to be something they're not, for example, is a set of judgements that don't necessarily make sense. They're more assumptions.

Whether or not they "make sense", they keep you safe.
I can't say "better safe than sorry" because more often than not it's "better safe than fucking dead"

>> No.10081638 [DELETED] 

>How is he or she suppose to know you aren’t interested without asking?
Are guys not taught how to interact socially? Or do they never learn how because being socially inept doesn’t physically endanger them?

>> No.10081640 [DELETED] 

>Are guys not taught how to interact socially?

Evidently not, considering how many creepy fuckboys are out there.

>> No.10081644 [DELETED] 

He doesn't have to directly ask, but he does have to show interest and gauge your reaction.

>> No.10081664 [DELETED] 

Honestly, no, guys aren't taught how to interact socially and you basically have to figure it out on your own unless your parents take a very active role in your development (which most won't because they're busy having a job to support you).

>> No.10081666 [DELETED] 

Not to mention the amount of misinformation put out there by women.

>> No.10081670 [DELETED] 

Not with that attitude you can't.

>> No.10081671 [DELETED] 

Like what?

>> No.10081672 [DELETED] 

Personally I'd say women have actually been quite helpful to me and it's mostly the media that peddles harmful misinformation but maybe you've had some shitty female friends

>> No.10081673
File: 55 KB, 625x626, 1382846582850.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

don't respond

>> No.10081680 [DELETED] 

>just wait for them to come to you
>just be a nice guy
>date girls "with experience"
>always treat women with respect
>focus on education and studies and you'll find a nice wife some day
>be yourself
>be honest
>dont judge
>put yourself out there
>dont approach women
>only personality matters
>of course girls dont like you if you're not attractive
>opposites attract
>find a girl who's interested in the same things as you

>> No.10081685 [DELETED] 

Outside of the last two points (as they contradict, someone who's opposite of you probably wouldn't like what you're into), what exactly is wrong with this?

>> No.10081686 [DELETED] 

What the fuck happen here? The one time the mood should be deleting stuff and she's not doing.

>> No.10081688 [DELETED] 

Personally as a guy I'd say the only ones that are wrong or bad are:
>just wait for them to come to you
Being passive gets you nowhere in life. If you want a relationship, you need to at minimum be able to tell them you like them.
>dont approach women
This is one big "it depends" thing to me. Where and how are you approaching women? Walking up to some rando and flirting is not great, having a casual chat with a woman at some social activity is fine, etc. You can approach women, they're not some sort of fine art that needs velvet ropes around them to prevent the plebeians from being near, just have some respect and understanding, y'know?
>only personality matters
Personality is incredibly important and I definitely wouldn't have had any of the relationships I've had without my personality, but that doesn't mean it's the only thing that matters. You should put effort into your appearance and be the best looking you that you can.

>> No.10081697

I just got back into lolita and cgl after kind of taking a break for the last year and I can't believe misty sky is STILL selling for as much as it is holy shit

>> No.10081721 [DELETED] 

Funnily enough probably the reason this "misinformation" is contradictory is because....surprise surprise, women are not a homogenous group and all have their own preferences.

>> No.10081729 [DELETED] 

You'd think they'd stop trying to speak for all girls then.

>> No.10081733 [DELETED] 

Wow its almost as if people will blurt out random advice they dont even abide by themselves, that they haven't even spent a decent amount of time ruminating on, to people they cant even empathize with as if it is objective truth and only [bad people] would disagree with.

>> No.10081743 [DELETED] 

I've very disappointed when all the girls here try to speak for all women in general. People are individuals with their own wills, likes, and dislikes. Please stop painting a whole gender with the broadest brush possible.

>> No.10081745 [DELETED] 

All women have a story about a creepy guy though, every last one. So it's okay to be wary of all men.

>> No.10081748 [DELETED] 


Men are not people. They're monsters.

>> No.10081750 [DELETED] 

You're doing it again. It's better to say that every person here has experience with another terrible person regardless of gender. That's just how humanity is, it has bad and good eggs.

>> No.10081752 [DELETED] 

You throw a bone to a dog and you know exactly what it will do.

You can easily generalize women. They're all whores after the goal of increasing their own status.

I guarantee you cant find a single woman who defies this stereotype.

>> No.10081753

Instead of giving retarded incels the time of day, just report their posts for being offtopic and move along. It really ruins every feels thread when half of it is arguing with some pathetic beta male who is likely here to troll.

>> No.10081754 [DELETED] 

Stop using buzzwords introduced to you by the media.

>> No.10081756 [DELETED] 

What's she going to do? Think for herself?

She is a WOMAN

>> No.10081759

Whenever a dress goes for this much, I don't understand why AP isn't just re-releasing it until it gets stale. Why let the secondhand market get that money when they could be getting it?

>> No.10081766
File: 227 KB, 1200x1166, DsLn0svUUAIHBBe.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>people with significant others met at cons tell others not to talk to people at cons to meet their significant others

>> No.10081809 [DELETED] 

Quick question.

If I marry a girl who's not a virgin can I buy her a second-hand ring?
Also, is it offensive to ask her not to wear white since she is... used?

>> No.10081813 [DELETED] 

No, you can only buy second-hand rings for divorcees.

Yes, it's offensive. It suggests she's not already aware she shouldn't wear white. Like how dumb do you think your future wife is?

>> No.10081835 [DELETED] 

Literally wtf? I'm not letting you delete this shit.


>> No.10081839 [DELETED] 





>> No.10081847 [DELETED] 
File: 166 KB, 377x1282, 2981BEF4-BAF9-4C90-B5F9-6893F7EABA6A.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Good morning gulls n guys, how’s it going in the morning. I’m glad that the mods are still hard at work and anal

>> No.10081874
File: 75 KB, 703x625, image0.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

it seems the mods don't really like kamen rider

>> No.10081877 [DELETED] 
File: 55 KB, 600x423, Eggsaido.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

it's not cosplay so i'm not surprised, but who doesnt love kamen rider???

>> No.10081879
File: 224 KB, 400x400, 1543182387128.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

You'd think this, but there are so many times where I try to imply "hey, ask me out dum dum" and then say something that implies the opposite. Usually in the form of "oh, this other guy (who I wasn't into) did THIS in the past that I didn't like (but would like if you did it!)" and don't realize until after I say it. Then I just internally yell at myself for sending the wrong message and know that I can't correct myself without making it obvious that I want him to do it. My favorite example:

>Guy at con that's in my friend group but doesn't actually interact with me is creeper
>Pretty much following me the entire con
>Tell him like "I'm going to go meet up some friends now"
>"Oh, can I come with?"
>"...No, um, I kinda haven't met them in a while and wanna catch up so it'd be awk!"
>"O-oh, okay..."
>Meet with friend (who I have crush on)
>We spend the rest of the day together
>Think it'd be a funny story while also hinting that I prefer his company to tell him "I hate when guys stick around with you the whole con and don't get the hint that you're just too shy to tell them you don't wanna hang!"
>He responds "Ah, yeah, I people cling around to me too sometimes and overstay their welcome so I know what you mean."
>Tell him I'm tired and wanna head back to the hotel room for the night
>Get so stressed out that I get shitface drunk to try forgetting everything
>Wake up next to con creeper
>Was probably so depressed and felt so stupid that I went to his room to vent and wounded with that outcome

I WISH THIS WAS A SHITPOST. I REALLY DO. I HATE MYSELF. Moral of the story - sometimes we just fucking stupid.

>> No.10081882

People still cosplay MeMeMe?

>> No.10081883

that was a really sweet reply. thanks for existing

>> No.10081884 [DELETED] 

Don't hit on girls unless you're a hot guy. If you're a hot guy, it doesn't matter where you hit on them. You can literally go into the women's bathroom, wash your hands, and say "Oh man, I knew something in here smelled delicious so just had to see for myself." to the first girl who comes out the stall and their reaction will be a laugh followed by an exchange of contact info. But when you're ugly, you're about to get arrested for that. And probably rape allegations. And because you're ugly, you're more likely to get convicted for it.

>> No.10081885

I'm not into people so desperate that they'll use dating apps. It takes a certain kind of personality trait to list yourself on those things, and that trait is something undesirable. It's kinda like people who smoke? The act of smoking isn't the issue, more the kind of things that lead them into smoking that's a no-no.

>> No.10081886

What was the second guy supposed to think? Not wanting to fucking hurt you or overstep boundaries, he agreed. Maybe he thought you were talking about him.

You have the power here. If you want to run that risk of him hurting you, then just be straight up about it.

>> No.10081887

I don't know, I feel like people who use dating apps are just there for hook ups or to fuck and hardly anyone actually finds a partner there. If you do, great, but more often than not, that's not the case.
Maybe it's desperation in a way, but it's also just honest. No bullshit, you're just there to fuck.

>> No.10081895

Because they’re kind of retarded, plus their audience will buy anything and let themselves be crapped on if it meant AP was doing it.

>> No.10081902

Holy shit, anon, I feel this so hard. I already started investing so much money into this cosplay, and then they did a closet version that blew mine out of the water. All I can say is embrace your dual love of the character, and let them be fuel to better your own. I know for myself it's going to take both weight loss and a shit ton of makeup and sewing tricks to look half as good, but I refuse to give up because I know I'll be happier with my results if I try twice as hard now. I may still be a little bitter, but I value our friendship way too much to let that ruin things. There are some things you just can't change, so enjoy everything you can.

>> No.10081951

I go to cons hoping to meet people with similar interests. Thats not an unusual thing to do at all.

>> No.10081968

Being open to meeting and making new friends is not the same as being hit on, and you know this, and acting as if they're the same statement is disingenuous.

>> No.10081971

>Being open to meeting and making new friends is not the same as being hit on
I genuinely don't know the difference.

>> No.10081981 [DELETED] 
File: 71 KB, 980x720, kampeki.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw lolita gf

>> No.10081983 [DELETED] 

I hate sex and sexuality

>> No.10081985
File: 254 KB, 980x720, kanpeki.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>tfw lolita gf

>> No.10082043

>tfw hit on cosplayers, lolitas, and general con-goers at every con I go to
>have yet to not get my dick wet

Anybody here saying people shouldn't try to hookup at cons must be the ugly friend who gets jealous that their frumpy ass doesn't get dicked.

>> No.10082150
File: 116 KB, 1084x926, choco.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Teenage thots do, yeah.

>> No.10082153
File: 31 KB, 400x400, EA2C86D5-D187-4BEE-8ABA-8E2C335F9385.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Everyone what are you doing?

>> No.10082158

Not making progress on the cosplay I've been wanting to do for the best part of a year now

>> No.10082165 [DELETED] 

I've just come back from a walk. Recently I haven't left the house much, and neglected both eating and sleeping out of stress for other things. It was cold outside, but my head feels way clearer after an hour of low-intensity excercise. Probably because of the fresh air and other gay shit.

So now I've sent some emails and done some stuff which actually help with my stress, instead of just loathing myself in apathy. Life isn't good, but it is going to get better.

>> No.10082167
File: 805 KB, 332x227, giphy.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Scrolling cgl on the couch in my pyjamas. Pic related

>> No.10082182
File: 989 KB, 334x294, 1546679981060.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Waiting to get out of work, so I can work on cosplay

>> No.10082186 [DELETED] 

Cleaning up my place before a friend comes over for food and anime. What about you?

>> No.10082203
File: 94 KB, 853x482, 5A92A11B-8BDC-445B-A17E-CE9D9DAE6B87.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I was not expecting all of you to answer but I’m glad all of you are doing well, it’s been awhile since I posted in this thread I’ve been tired lately just being lazy and watching kamen rider. I really hope you guys are thriving with your cosplays and such

>> No.10082207

>meeting and making new friends
>you cosplay from something, meet people who also cosplay from the thing, talk to them about the series/show/game/whatever, about their cosplay, yours, about the con
>it's a good time
>being hit on
>you just get complimented on your looks, there's clearly a creep who wants to make an advance on you and doesn't really care about anything other than wanting to be with you or fuck you

The former is good, the latter is bad.

>> No.10082214

Watching Netflix and looking for some cute shoes! Hope you're doing well anon

>> No.10082220
File: 12 KB, 76x90, ASGDNSGNFX.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

What kind of cute shoes my dear gull

>> No.10082258

But the former can still be hitting on someone. Flirting with someone isn't exclusive to being a dude bro.

>> No.10082264

Some half boots and possibly a pair of lolita heels, trying to decide how many I actually need, life has been not so good in the last few years but at least now I have a job and can afford to treat myself

>> No.10082265

How? Flirting is never a good or fun time. At least not at cons. No one goes to cons to be hit on or flirt with.

>> No.10082276

I guess we have different ideas to what the word flirting means.
To me flirting is literally just showing interest in someone and hoping to be more than just friends. The only difference is the intensity of the conversation. I may want to miss a panel to hang out with someone i'm interested in, but wouldn't miss the panel if it was just someone I wanted to be casual friends with.
I think you gulls just have an unhealthy view of relationships.

>> No.10082278

>No one goes to cons to be hit on or flirt with
None of my friends goes to them specifically to be hit on, but some do like it. I think it's ok as long as no one acts like a creep.

>> No.10082279

Not really feels, but that's a nice Piccolo.

>> No.10082287

What even constitutes a creep nowadays?

>> No.10082299

Be a man, you're creepy until proven otherwise, and even then you have to keep proving that you're not

>> No.10082301

>To me flirting is literally just showing interest in someone and hoping to be more than just friends
But are cons really the place for that? Showing interest in someone to be friends is more than fine, that's what cons are there for. If you want to be more than friends, that sounds like you want a hookup.

>> No.10082302
File: 980 KB, 500x382, a3eabeb7154714bf727316a660a4b5f8.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


>> No.10082304

Guys who are too forward with their advances and don't understand subtle social cues that are telling them to fuck off
ie guys not understanding boundaries and personal space, not understanding when the girl has no interest, that kinda thing
It's a really, really prominent thing at cons because guys at cons are nerds who never learned how to socialize, so they see pretty girls dressed as characters they like and they try talking to them, only to fail spectacularly at best, and at worst, creep them out

>> No.10082306

You make it sound like the girls there are somehow in a better position when it comes to understanding social cues. I swear this fucking board sometimes.

>> No.10082310

You know what's weird? The best responses I've ever gotten to my advances have come from being 100% up front and blunt about it.

"hey I think you're cute and I enjoy being around you, wanna go on a date some time? if not nbd but can't hurt to ask"
understandable have a nice day
cool let's plan where and when

Just gotta know when to back off and respect boundaries. Simple shit. Don't play fuck fuck mind games and life's a lot easier.

>> No.10082313

When does those situations even come up though? Girls flirt with guys at cons?

>> No.10082314
File: 153 KB, 1242x1406, A469C0B8-B21D-4CCA-85F1-F62815C64C5D.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Anon I absolutely love that idea, I want to see what boots you are gonna get I’m genuinely curious. Also why was your life so down?

>> No.10082316

Somewhat true, but this 100% applies to all men that derail feels threads with their cries of a lack of a GF. Most men are grossly obsessed with female attention, even the ones who are hate women are and will don't care about boundaries. Since they don't care, the best thing we can do when we see such sad losers is to ignore them, which all y'all retards are incapable of doing. They aren't going to listen, they don't care about how women feel, only how their dick feels.

>> No.10082317

This is why all men are a plague, and men at cons are no different, just a different flavor of poison. The kind that acts entitled to female cosplayers because they like the character or think they're cute or whatever.
Stuff like Patreon definitely hasn't helped in that regard.

>> No.10082321

>But are cons really the place for that?
I don't see why not. The social aspect of conventions is a big thing.

>If you want to be more than friends, that sounds like you want a hookup.
Have you never heard of dating, or have you just never dated someone?

i've had two girls flirt with me at cons. They later asked me out after the con ended. It happens.

>> No.10082322

Well how would you fix this, I want to attend to my first con, and frankly I don’t want to be seen as a creep if I ask a girl for a picture just because I admire her cosplay. I just want to have a good time without worrying everyone at the con for their misconceptions

>> No.10082323
File: 90 KB, 700x395, rip.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Feeling bad about myself. I should go out more often.

>> No.10082324

Asking for a picture is fine. Ask for a picture, if she says yes, take it, leave. If she says no, then leave her alone.

Simple as that really.

>> No.10082325
File: 70 KB, 960x540, 3F82217F-7A05-413B-A51B-D042D1A49FFF.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Why do you feel bad anon and how can I help another rider friend out

>> No.10082330

Well I’m glad it’s that simple, I don’t want to get in any issue over other guys bullshit

>> No.10082331

The social aspect of conventions is a big thing for making friends. I get that befriending people is what (should) lead into dating first, but going to cons for the sake of being social and just to find a partner just doesn't seem right.
Like do these guys fully expect to have a girlfriend by the end of the con?

>> No.10082334

Yeah, just don't overstay your welcome and you'll be okay.

>> No.10082335

>Like do these guys fully expect to have a girlfriend by the end of the con?

Not just expect, they feel it's owed to them.

>> No.10082336

>Like do these guys fully expect to have a girlfriend by the end of the con?
idk about other people but I don't expect it, but it would be nice. Not sure why any single person wouldn't hope for that.

>> No.10082338

Because as >>10082335 points out, they feel like it's owed to them. And that's not okay.

>> No.10082340

Nah. I go in expecting to meet people, we'll see how it goes from there.

>> No.10082343

Guys who don't know that no means no, and keep going on after they've been denied.

>> No.10082344

I'm just glad /cgl/ is like a handful of bitter people and does not represent the cosplaying and con-going demographic in the slightest. You are a bitter and salty fringe.

>> No.10082345

Girlfriends are hard work there is no point sometimes unless you’re really into it

>> No.10082347

>they feel like it's owed to them.
i don't.

>> No.10082353

>uh, not all men.

>> No.10082357

Then that statement doesn't apply to you.

>> No.10082363

Then don't direct it to me.

>> No.10082375


>going to cons for the sake of being social and just to find a partner just doesn't seem right.
>Like do these guys fully expect to have a girlfriend by the end of the con?

Either you're in this category and it applies to you or you're not and it doesn't (and you need better reading comprehension).

>> No.10082376

I've made maybe two actual friends in the entirety of the time convention-going. Granted, I'm probably in the bottom 5% of congoers social-skill wise, but I don't think it makes sense to even have expectations of making genuine connections with people who you'd talk to after the weekend is over, it unironically seems like a ridiculously high expectation.

>> No.10082379

I go to cons for the sake of being social and hope to find a partner. I don't expect it to happen.

I've been going to cons for 8 years. I've made minimum a dozen friends (two that ended up dating) whose friendship lasted at least over a year.

>> No.10082380
File: 107 KB, 1280x720, gaim.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Just having a bad day today. I'm already feeling slightly better seeing you bringing some good feels to the thread. Please keep it up rider anon.

>> No.10082396

Sick in bed, scrolling, taking NyQuil so I’m slow and stupid. Trying to find something amusing to read since my head feels too slow to read subs on something to watch.

>> No.10082408
File: 95 KB, 595x394, 1438697372389.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>go to a big meet
>recognize ex-popular girl who bullied me in highschool
>shit coord, flat unstyled hair, no burando, everything ill-fitting
>she doesn't recognize me because i glowed up after putting up with her shit
>mfw decked out in brand as she fawns over how cute i am and asks me how i do my hair and makeup

fucking lol it's a small world

>> No.10082410

Congrats. Did you spit in her face and shittalked her coord?

>> No.10082439
File: 17 KB, 400x400, buh.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

That actually makes me blush alot because I'm just a simple anon who loves to bring good vibes to my sad bois

>> No.10082444

This post summarized it perfectly. It's those 2 things:

1. People not understanding boundaries and personal space, or not understanding when the other party is not interested
2. people at cons are nerds who never learned how to socialize, so they see pretty cosplayers dressed as characters they like and they try talking to them, only to fail spectacularly at best, and at worst, creep them out

I specifically said people because some girls fail to notice boundaries too (on top of my head, I've seen some flirting with cosplayers in front of their gfs, even after they introduced the girl as gf).

Just be up front about it (like >>10082310 exemplified) and remember that no means no (like >>10082343 said).

>> No.10082458

unfortunately i have more class than that, but not enough to keep myself from shitposting about it


>> No.10082471

Do you really still hold grudges over shit that happened in high school?

>> No.10082477

I hold grudges over primary school shit.

Found myself managing two guys who used to bully me me back in like grade 5 - gave them the shit shifts, short shifts, worst jobs.
It was glorious.

>> No.10082480


>> No.10082513

Justice served. Did they recognize you?

>> No.10082523

And they say Canadians are supposed to be nice.

>> No.10082527

Fuck yes.
Best thing was that they were paid basically nothing and had no other options.
They were still there when I left, but I made their lives hell for a couple of years.

>> No.10082531

Don't say people specifically, you know it's mostly a guy problem. Sure, girls can be awkward, but it's nowhere near on the same level.

>> No.10082532

If it's about being awkward, I agree with you. However, I've had more issues with girls not respecting space than guys. Specifically, touching and grabbing cosplay parts/accessories without permission.

>> No.10082551

Considering highschool was like a year ago for me, totally. Not everyone here is a hag like you.

>> No.10082555

Aren’t you a spiteful little spitfuck

>> No.10082563 [DELETED] 

Why do elderly women (those over 21) get so upset about their age?

>> No.10082574

I'm the complete opposite. I was the bully in school and now I have a perfect GPA for my engineering course. I live in australia so it's common to run into people and it's funny seeing them die a little inside when they realize that just because I was into fitness and sport in school that doesnt mean I'm a stereotype.

>> No.10082583

>and it's funny seeing them die a little inside when they realize that just because I was into fitness and sport in school that doesnt mean I'm a stereotype.

First off, not all fitness and sport people are assholes, so that's one stereotype you're perpetuating lol. People are probably cringing at how unaware of yourself you are, but that's perfectly fine. You do you.

>> No.10082587
File: 791 KB, 2419x3226, WQ6uZoF.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>Tfw stealing another lolita's boyfriend

>> No.10082592

Have you ever considered that people act differently online than they do in real life?

>> No.10082593

Am I the only anon here that would date an older Lolita, idk what it is but I like girls why are in there late twenties early thirties that do cosplay and Lolita it’s just so attractive

>> No.10082594 [DELETED] 

Theres lots of desperate guys out there.

>> No.10082595


Yes. I was commenting on their real life interactions.

>> No.10082598

I hope you just act like a fat retard online.

>> No.10082599


That's exactly what a fat retard would say.

>> No.10082637

A fat boi got mugged at ALA.

>> No.10082662 [DELETED] 

Serious question.

I'm marrying a girl who has been with other guys before me. We've talked and I'm sure shes not a virgin. Is it acceptable to buy her a second-hand ring for our wedding?

>> No.10082667 [DELETED] 

>my girl isn’t a virgin
>is it okay to buy a secondhand ring
How are these even mutually related? Just buy any damn ring, I highly doubt the girl will care that you’re a cheap fuck.

>> No.10082668 [DELETED] 

I think the argument would be that she herself is used goods, so she can't complain if that's what she's given. Which is fair, I suppose, unless that anon is also used goods.

>> No.10082671 [DELETED] 

>girl not being a virgin
>used goods
lmao if anon is this concerned about his girl having dick before him he shouldn’t be getting married in the first place. he should be happy a girl chose his insecure ass over someone who generally wouldn’t care about her lack of virginity.

as for the ring I doubt she would care. what’s more concerning is his skewed viewpoint as to why he thinks she deserves a secondhand ring.

>> No.10082672 [DELETED] 
File: 52 KB, 444x287, wat.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>people are goods

>> No.10082673 [DELETED] 

Why are you so insecure about perfectly good ring?

Stop being so entitled jesus....

>> No.10082674 [DELETED] 

literally no one cares about the ring genius, it’s your shit reasoning behind it.

>> No.10082675

wtf jannies? None of those responses warranted deletion.

>> No.10082677

I'm a girl who sucks at picking up on subtle social cues, so I tend to appreciate a direct, no guessing approach like this. I wish more guys would just go this route.

>> No.10082678
File: 424 KB, 720x707, 237B7A78-D386-4B96-8C24-C6457185D9AE.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Jannies are based af, what’s new?

>> No.10082681 [DELETED] 

Why should a used-goods woman not expect used-goods?

>> No.10082683

Not denying it, especially with pedo-poster still lurking. But there wasn't anything weird or creepy about the comments deleted for that post, which is why I questioned.

>> No.10082688

Probably for avatar usage since those anons were posting Kamen Rider pics for no real reason.

>> No.10082689 [DELETED] 
File: 199 KB, 439x392, 06FB141B-E0B4-44A1-828E-082D6023FFC0.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

I hope you plan on telling her the reasoning behind it. Just don’t cry like a little baby backed bitch when she dumps you for someone better.

>> No.10082691 [DELETED] 

And then do what? Go speed dating at cash converters?

>> No.10082783 [DELETED] 

>what is a metaphor

>> No.10082838 [DELETED] 
File: 83 KB, 531x900, DvyH08HUYAEETdW.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>Get raped by high school friend
>Meet again 10 years later
>"Lol do you seriously still hold s grudge against me? Sorry!!! That was in high school!!!"


>> No.10082847 [DELETED] 

When you say rape do you mean actual rape or being taken advantage of (possibly while drunk)? Either way, I'm sorry to hear, anon. That's more than a grudge though.

>> No.10082850 [DELETED] 
File: 2.97 MB, 200x144, E4DD99F6-4E4E-4420-AAD3-E0DCBE4F0E31.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

just live the rest of your life alone and never reproduce.

>> No.10082857 [DELETED] 

>Be man.
>At high school party back in year 10.
>Girl I know is disgusting drunk on couch.
>She's not a total cunt and I grew up with an alcoholic family so looking after drunks is ingrained in me.
>Also can't not help drunk people, the idea of just ignoring them terrifies me.
Still does, but a lot less now after seeing a therapist.
>Check on her and get her water, get her a bucket.
>Her slightly less shitfaced but still shitfaced friend sees me and rushes over - she slaps the water out of her hand.
>Starts screaming.
And that's how everyone at my school thought I tried to rape a girl.

>> No.10082901

same anon, same
late 20s/early 30s cosplayers and lolitas are the best. still look pretty good (some even better than when they were younger), more mature, their lives usually are more sorted out than early 20s

>> No.10082915

God I’m glad an anon, agrees with me.

I thought that was weird for me to post that.

>> No.10082951 [DELETED] 
File: 2.68 MB, 634x384, momopunched.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>at high school party
>girl sitting next to me stands up
>lie down where she was
>face goes directly into the warm spot her ass left
>people are looking at me like I'm a pervert
Thanks for sending this cringe rushing back to me man. Just did a full body shudder.

>> No.10083072

I know that feeling anon. I remember introducing one of my friends to a hobby and she got exponentially better at it than me and could afford so much more than me and all I felt was burning jealousy instead of happiness that I had someone to talk to. I feel like I'd probably feel the same way too if I got a friend into Lolita and they went balls to the walls and were able to buy all brand coords and look really nice while I'm still in pieced together cheaper brand and bodyline stuff. What's weird though is I don't think I'd feel the same way if I became friends with someone who was already an established Lolita with an extensive wardrobe. Weird how those emotions work.

>> No.10083075

It’s rare that people that try to pick up chicks at a con aren’t full blown ephebo/hebe/pedophiles or other degenerate creepers. Imagine that.

>> No.10083271
File: 188 KB, 907x1250, Amazoooon.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Evening anons, It's be ya boy. Today has been a long day but I cant wait to finish my cosplay.

>> No.10083312
File: 3.46 MB, 480x360, period.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Depressed because ghosted by con friends. And now I've got period.

>> No.10083317 [DELETED] 
File: 1.32 MB, 972x1400, 1539720819790.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

New janny is fucking retarded.
Keep deleting my posts and I'll spam /cgl/ with so much cunny that you'll need to be working 24 hour shirts to clean this shit up. Don't test me, bitch.

>> No.10083318 [DELETED] 
File: 401 KB, 842x1100, ae19fe1e3d1cd886070fc5bc4d44e74a4385c537.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Feels thread is inherently a containment thread. Moderate it to a minimum or shit will spill, fucking dumb ass.

>> No.10083320 [DELETED] 
File: 411 KB, 1075x1518, IMG_20181108_072456.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

So go ahead and ban me. I'll be back tomorrow. But take my fuckin warning, you dumb cunt. Deleting posts here and there isn't a big deal, but if you're going to nuke every single feels thread then you'll see shit spilling everywhere. Not just from me either.


>> No.10083322 [DELETED] 
File: 438 KB, 960x640, 1538229917363.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>> No.10083324 [DELETED] 
File: 264 KB, 864x1080, 1538229797691.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Per hiroshit rules, every board is allowed 1 off topic thread. That's the feels thread. Learn your own Boss' fucking rules before you take the job, bitch. I know who you are too, don't make me contact you in discord either. You're not good at hiding it. You're in the vetting discord with me.

>> No.10083325

Who is the sperg posting porn on a blue board and acting like it getting deleted is weird?

>> No.10083327 [DELETED] 
File: 1.85 MB, 3264x2448, 20181022_001641.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Me. Do something.

>> No.10083329 [DELETED] 
File: 329 KB, 1055x1621, IMG_20180726_131425.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>> No.10083331

You need to be older than 13 to post on the blue boards :/

>> No.10083334 [DELETED] 
File: 891 KB, 1000x827, 1538238624788.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]


Go the fuck back to Gaia, faggot.

>> No.10083335

I'm not a janitor, I'm just confused as to what your damage is.

>> No.10083340 [DELETED] 
File: 416 KB, 1447x1996, IMG_20180817_153842.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

New janny gets hired, doesn't know what the fuck they're doing, nukes every feels thread. Doesn't understand that restricting people too hardly makes them lash out more. Teaching them a lesson in how to do their fucking job. Strike a balance. Also feels thread is a containment thread, nukung it will make shit spread elsewhere (as it has been, the past week). Have you noticed the influx of r9k shitposts in lolita threads? Those aren't me. I'm pissed off that new janny is ruining the threads I actually like because she's a fucking moron.

>> No.10083342

Posting porno in a thread you DON'T want to get nuked seems really counter-intuitive, especially if you are, as you say, in a discord with the janitor doing the deleting of feels threads. Why not just talk to them on discord?

>> No.10083345 [DELETED] 
File: 304 KB, 637x812, 1531534997373.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Keep the dumb shitposting happy in this thread and they won't shit up my lol a general. Remove then from this thread and they'll fuck up actually important threads in the board. Nobody cares about the feels thread, let it stay how it is.

It's about sending a message. This thread is already juked to oblivion, and the last few feels threads have been as well.

>> No.10083347 [DELETED] 
File: 181 KB, 848x1200, 1530026389395.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Also won't talk to her on discord because she'll just sent she's a janny. This way gets the message across better. If she keeps on, I'll probably out her to the vet ingredients discord though.

>> No.10083349 [DELETED] 
File: 37 KB, 780x759, file.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

She'll deny she's a janny. I'll put her to the vetting discord. Yes I'm phone posting while literally taking a shit at work.

>> No.10083352 [DELETED] 
File: 181 KB, 1024x768, 1521855076251.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Wow, mods sleeping? Sad. At this rate, they're just confirming that I have free reign to spam cunny across every fucking thread before they do anything about it. Nice.

>> No.10083357 [DELETED] 
File: 875 KB, 1024x640, art_is_an_explosion.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Come now, it's been 30 minutes. You really do suck at your job.

>> No.10083358 [DELETED] 
File: 116 KB, 746x1058, DZ4wXUeVwAAScgc.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

She comes in and deletes a whole slew of posts in waves, so have fun seeing these a little longer.

>> No.10083361

You're a fellow lolita?? I'm kind of impressed. I thought you were some crossboarding incel. Well, do what you need to do, I guess

>> No.10083362 [DELETED] 
File: 313 KB, 600x800, 17f75bc319f03e8bb2e1214e13c8173dca3e566a.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

>> No.10083363 [DELETED] 

I was having medication induced uncontrollable horniness and basically just fapped in my can for 2 hours and STILL couldn't cum and am still horney. I threw a blanket over me so no one could tell what i was doing, so i couldn't move my hand too fast or it would be obvious. Very frustrating

>> No.10083365 [DELETED] 
File: 1.58 MB, 1200x1117, DqByfSmU8AEimxq.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]

Yes,no already said I'm in the vetting discord. I don't even frequent the feels thread, I just got pissed that I keep seeing dumb "all women are sluts" posting spilling into Lolita general and other threads. Because dumb ass new Janny doesn't realize she's doing more harm than good by nuking the containment thread of the board so hard. There's a reason why Hiro allows 1 off topic thread per board.

>> No.10083381 [DELETED] 

Doing God's work anon.
I'm fucking fed up with people shit posting everywhere BUT the designated shit posting thread.

Then come in here to see what the fuck is going on and see the janny deleting actual gull feels.
What the fuck is she doing?

>> No.10083397 [DELETED] 

Women truly are inferior

>> No.10083439

>in my can
What did she mean by this?

>> No.10083453 [DELETED] 

>Janny powertripping and deleting posts criticising her

Jesus Christ.

>> No.10083454 [DELETED] 

So much repressed sexual tension in here, I like it

>> No.10083541 [DELETED] 


>> No.10083558 [DELETED] 


>> No.10083921

I think I have apendicitis should I go to the tea party tonight?

>> No.10083927

Man, it's the worst feeling, just tell someone you don't like them and move on.

>> No.10084157

Shit, i meant "car"

>> No.10089648

>How are you supposed to find someone outside of existing social circles if you never show that you're interested?
If we're interested we'll make a move, if no ones making a move on you then maybe you're gross or weird. Lift weights and get a job and maybe you'll have better luck.

Delete posts
Password [?]Password used for file deletion.