>if a guy is going to fuck me in the ass and then complain about a little smear, he can go straight to hell anyway. like, ungrateful bastard, i just let you put your dick into my lower intestines.
>women go through hell to look pretty inside and out and men just don't appreciate our efforts.
Bad attitude to have on the matter. let me give you some advice
clearing out your ass is a two part process.
first of all, you need to keep track of what you eat and when you ate it. if you regular do enemas you'll find a "window" where you'll be clear for a number of hours. if you really really like anal for some reason, you'll have to get used to fasting and lay off snacking. also include more fiber
second, you need to prepare well before you attempt anything. There's a limit to how much water you can contain in the rectum before it overflows into the colon. Generally if you clear out the rectum 3-4 times and it remains clear, you should be good to go. If not, you'll have to get in there deep and that'll take a while to clear through. Not something you want to do if you're strapped for time. If it still looks bad, you'll just have to call it off and try again some other day.
>if a guy is going to fuck me in the ass and then complain about a little smear, he can go straight to hell anyway. like, ungrateful bastard, I just let you put your dick into my lower intestines.
You're clearing out the designated hole that shit comes out of, so you can't expect it to go smoothly every time. If anal is that important to you, it's your own responsibility to see to it thoroughly. Consider that gay men have one less option than you do and NOBODY likes touching shit.
If that's too much for you, you have a vagina. Use it.