J-fashion discord central

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J-fashion discord central Anonymous Fri Oct 26 04:26:02 2018 No.10019867 [Reply] [Original]

Post all J-fashion discord servers here.

1) Please add the name of the server, so that we don't end up linking communities twice.
2) Permanent invites are preferred but not mandatory.
3) Add info about the servers (how much active, salty, etc) at your discretion.

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 26 17:35:58 2018 No.10020328 I’m in the fa/cgl discord but I can’t send invites. Would be cool to have an official cgl server though with categories for everyone like lolita, jfash, cosplay, sewing etc.

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 26 20:56:39 2018 No.10020542 >>10020328 i used to be in it but then got insulted twice on threads when they could recognize my writing style when all i did was casually speak and casually post both on the server and 4chan.

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 26 21:48:37 2018 No.10020601 >>10020328 Copied & pasted this from the recent thread that died: https://discord.gg/kHxyfVM Hopefully the link still works?

Anonymous Fri Oct 26 22:11:32 2018 No.10020618

official cgl discords never work.
4Chan discords always end up being one person or a group of people making a circlejerk and grabbing power before chasing normal people out.

There's a few discords floating around, but all of them have their own circlejerk, generally they attract /pol/tards, /r9k/ losers, or sissies and then the sane people leave and go onto something else.

>>	Anonymous Sat Oct 27 00:03:49 2018 No.10020706 >>10020542 nice try, moldemort. youre banned for a reason.

>>	Anonymous Sat Oct 27 06:41:37 2018 No.10020880 >>10020706 Not whoever this is. If I was banned I would've understood but I really didn't do anything out of the ordinary. Guess it was maybe one person that just didn't like me

>>	Anonymous Sat Oct 27 10:59:14 2018 No.10020966 https://discord.gg/cW66dQ -> "Nanchatte seifuku friends" small but decently active https://discord.gg/kv7bHP -> "J-Fashion Community" unfortunately dead, if someone has another alternative or j-fashion server pls post ;;

>>	Anonymous Sat Oct 27 12:52:44 2018 No.10021034 >>10020880 who.ru?

>>	Anonymous Sat Oct 27 19:17:54 2018 No.10021216 >>10021034 don't feel like giving my username,but i was pretty much a nobody

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 01:43:38 2018 No.10021384 >>10020706 I didn't post that but go off I guess lol. Also tell vqu I love her

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 09:03:13 2018 No.10021489 >>10021384 You could have easily ignored their comment, but you didn’t.

Anonymous Sun Oct 28 14:12:24 2018 No.10021618

>>10019867
https://discord.gg/faPZzH
https://discordapp.com/invite/Cepmcgq
https://discordapp.com/invite/Q3Q7CZy
https://discordapp.com/invite/kHxyfVM
https://discord.gg/XFX4QVy
https://discordapp.com/invite/ZhWputb
https://discord.gg/NmNjr4
https://discord.gg/gkMrhb

This list was posted in the stupid questions thread but a lot of the links are dead

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 14:13:52 2018 No.10021620 >>10020966 The link of the Jfashion one you posted is dead. Is it the same as https://discordapp.com/invite/Cepmcgq?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 14:17:45 2018 No.10021622 Not really cgl related, but in case anyone is interested, this kpop server index also has a short list of Jpop/Jdrama servers https://discord.me/kpopindex

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:10:42 2018 No.10021646 >>10021618 >https://discordapp.com/invite/ZhWputb What is this for? "Yasi's Sorority"?

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:15:47 2018 No.10021648 >>10021646 Visual kei

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:17:43 2018 No.10021649 >>10021620 That one is only a few days old. It had a kimono channel at first but Idk what happened to that.

Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:31:53 2018 No.10021655

>>10021618
This list without the dead links:

(J)Fashion Updates - https://discord.gg/Cepmcgq

Lolita Fashion Discord - https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZy

Fashion x CGL - https://discord.gg/kHxyfVM

Yasi's Sorority - https://discord.gg/ZhWputb

>>10021622
Japan servers from the Kpop index:

Akami Sally Server - https://discord.gg/NgcEeNj

Alternative Idols - https://discord.gg/KMsPRtS

Arashi Fans (Eng Lang) https://discord.gg/dx6gCsk

Codomomental Menhera Hospital - https://discord.gg/PrJ8ujN

Defwill - https://discord.ggr848CAp

Hello! Project Fans - https://discord.gg/M7zjxe5

Hey! Say! JUMP - https://discord.gg/HvmGh92

Jmusic - https://discord.gg/tssUBFY

Johnny's & Associates - https://discord.gg/f3wuRnY

Jpop - https://discord.gg/4tnqaXv

Niji No Conquistador - https://discord.gg/w8CqWS8

Ni Ji Masu's Beach - https://discord.gg/AbxbH5Q

Perfume - https://discord.gg/JbnwMSG

Shitao Miu World - https://discord.gg/cMZ8ffy

Takeuchi Miyu - https://discord.gg/pU6VHJ6

Wa-SpookedYa / The World Standard - https://discord.gg/va8QFtj

Nippon Idol Club - https://discord.gg/S9vxEcK

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:43:39 2018 No.10021659 Fairy Kei discord! Other JFash is welcome too though! https://discord.gg/Bc3yePa

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 15:46:03 2018 No.10021660 >>10021655 >>10021659 Thanks, anons!

>>	Anonymous Sun Oct 28 17:41:43 2018 No.10021703 >>10021620 It isn't, try this: https://discord.gg/5kx87yX I liked this server, it was small and had many harajuku styles. But it is definitely dead. Maybe we can revive it or something

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 06:41:01 2018 No.10021993 >>10021655 Can you please repost this? Thank you. >Lolita Fashion Discord - https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZy

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 07:57:00 2018 No.10022002 >>10021993 Why?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 07:58:05 2018 No.10022004 >>10021655 I want her to make the automatic brand update channels but my social anxiety is too strong to say anything on discord

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 07:59:44 2018 No.10022005 >>10021620 I want her to make the automatic brand update channels but my social anxiety is too strong to say anything on discord

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 08:05:08 2018 No.10022008 >>10022002 Link is expired

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 08:08:17 2018 No.10022010 >>10022008 No it isn't

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 09:32:05 2018 No.10022024 >>10022010 Then I don't have enough permits to join, I'm confused, I have a regular disord account and I've never even joined that discord

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 09:39:58 2018 No.10022027 >>10022024 Okay it was Chrome acting strange, pasting the link directly onto discord works. Sorry for the mess

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 13:29:50 2018 No.10022150 https://discord.gg/wVH6ND ^^ invite to the vetting server

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 13:32:33 2018 No.10022151 https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZy Lolita fashion vetting server. Must submit proof pics. Good place for actual concrit, sales watching, etc.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 13:40:15 2018 No.10022156 https://discord.gg/CnPgjWT Lolita vetting server, must provide proof pics. Active, good for concrit and sales. [fixed link]

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 13:50:54 2018 No.10022160

Fa x CGL discord has a big hive mentality culture where you get bullied for not thinking like the cool kids in there do, there's also minimum lolita discussion and if you enjoy being orbited it's the place for you. i saw mentioned that the admin is a bit of a creep too but that was a year ago
the lolita fashion place without the vetting is best, but sometimes bitchy

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 14:31:35 2018 No.10022178

>>10022160
Uh yeah if you want to hang around a bunch of itas or 14 year olds who think their screenprinted circle skirt and office blouse is ‘loli’. Vetting is absolutely the way to go. Yeah you’re not going to get asspats but you’re also not going to be hanging out with idiots who try to purchase their entire wardrobe from amazon and call it ‘old school’. You can actually hold conversations with people who know what they’re talking about and have the coords to prove it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:10:48 2018 No.10022243 >>10022178 if you accepted me into your 'quote on quote' secret princess discord then maybe, just maybe i wouldn't be complaining about gatekeeping, uh?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:14:44 2018 No.10022248 Is there a lolita server that is neither bitchy nor filled with cringey people? (i guess no huh)

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:15:40 2018 No.10022251 >>10022248 the vetted server allegedly is but i wouldn't know would i

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:19:00 2018 No.10022253 >>10022251 If it's the one with channels for drama I found it bitchy as well t.bh.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:35:52 2018 No.10022265 >>10022160 The server is full of crossposters, the egl channel is dead. Why is it even on here?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:41:10 2018 No.10022269 >>10022265 At least the lolitas wear the fashion unlike the "lolitas" in the non vetting servers

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:49:19 2018 No.10022277
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I wanna make my own lolita discord for people actually wearing the fashion with a more strict vetting process. The vetting server lets anyone as long as they own at least like 3 dresses in.
I'd like a more intense vetting, maybe proof that you own at least 10 dresses and several blouses and accessories and have been interested in the fashion for 2+ years.
I can dream, I guess. I'd feel like a faggot just posting a server with only me and like 3 other people in it. Unless some people would be interested in giving it a go.
I'm mostly just sick of joining servers that let pretty much anyone in.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:55:49 2018 No.10022281 >>10022269 you're comparing a shiny turd to a regular turd the fact doesn't change that they're both turds?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:55:55 2018 No.10022282 >>10022277 sounds like you didnt make it into the vetting server

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 16:57:06 2018 No.10022286 >>10022282 I actually did with a pretty shitty proof picture of a couple items and they let me in with no problem. I left because I disliked the people in the server and felt like half the people there didn't wear the fashion as a fashion.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:01:04 2018 No.10022292 >>10022281 well all I did was answer the question >>10022265 asked

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:01:38 2018 No.10022293

>>10022286
> I left because I disliked the people
that's on you buddy

>felt like half the people there didn't wear the fashion as a fashion
thats ur feefees. not really the truth if you bothered to not be a stuck up cnut

what people also dont realise is that vetting= having items, and that vetting is not an unbreakable promise that you will stay in. there's been people who have been kicked for being shitty

idk what makes you think you're special- having 10 dresses is nothing. being in the fashion for 2+ years is nothing. maybe you should make another vetting server so that we can join and laugh at you?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:03:08 2018 No.10022296 >>10022292 what is better, a server full of crossposters with little to no lolita discussion, or a server full of itas? (neither)

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:04:29 2018 No.10022297 >>10022296 I'd say the crossposter one is better because you can ignore the other channels. In the ita server there's no escape

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:06:07 2018 No.10022298

>>10022293
Sorry that I actually wear lolita almost daily and don't treat it like a costume for conventions. I don't like people treating the fashion I love like something they wear as a costume with some OTT nonsense.
And yes, having 10 dresses is nothing. But your shitty vetting lets people who have like a minimum of 2-3 dresses in. Being in the fashion for 2+ years is also nothing, but better than letting newbies who have no clue about the fashion and have only been interested for 2 months into the server.
It's about experience and actual love for the fashion and wearing it casually/daily. Every single lolita server I've joined has a bunch of newbies in it that just annoy the fuck out of me because they don't know the most basic information about lolita and think buying a couple dresses makes them a lolita expert. Or theres the people that think casual or oldschool isn't 'real' lolita.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:07:54 2018 No.10022299 >>10022293 Why are people from the vetting server so angry all the time? Like are you this personally offended someone left your group? Really?

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:10:17 2018 No.10022300

>>10022298
what the fuck are you talking about? we barely even have ott coords

you must be roleplaying. more dresses doesnt mean you're a better lolita than someone else. being dressed well makes you a better lolita

newbies are everywhere. what is important is that they're willing to learn, and unlike the ita pit, they're willing to invest

>>10022299
stop samefagging lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:14:41 2018 No.10022305 >>10022277 You should make the server. Have 3 coord pics and picture of 10+ dresses as vetting

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:15:50 2018 No.10022307

>>10022300
Not actually samefag, quit reaching.
I want people who have been in the fashion for a fair amount of time (2 years being the minimum) and have a lot of experience. That's all. More dresses typically mean more experience in coording. It's very simple. I've been in this fashion for the past 10 years. I'm sick of being around people who treat lolita like a fad and don't really know what they're talking about.
There's nothing necessarily wrong with newbies, I'm fine with people being new to the fashion, but I don't personally want to have them in my server.
I just want a server with experienced lolitas who have watched lolita grow and evolve over the years like I have and wear the fashion daily/almost daily/as work or school permits. I don't want people who have been wearing the fashion every few months for only a year.
Sorry that some people think your vetting server is shitty. Don't get so offended.
>>10022305
I'm considering it. I'm sure trolls from the vetting server will come but I might set it up with a friend of mine.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:16:48 2018 No.10022310 >>10022281 I found fish fingers! Sorry you’re not getting enough asspats from the Happy Place. Feels bad only being able to get into a group full of itas with your amazon wardrobe huh?

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:21:23 2018 No.10022313

>>10022307
you want experienced lolitas, but also with a minimum of 2 years, which again, is not a lot. ok!

you do realise most people cant even wear lolita on a daily basis because of work commitments?

i'm not offended i really want you to make this server so it will actually just be the vetted server. very much doubt you'll get much other influx

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:23:23 2018 No.10022315 >>10022313 2 years isn't a lot, but it's better than 2 months. And I just said "as work or school permits". I understand some people can't wear it everyday, that's why I said that.

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:25:20 2018 No.10022317

>>10022315
so you do realise that people don't often have the chance to wear it often, but yet choose to label yourself above them? you're making no sense

if you want to make a super special server go ahead, but for god's sake have some clear guidelines

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:27:34 2018 No.10022320

>>10022317
Even people with extremely busy schedules have time to wear the fashion at least once a month.
The people I label myself above, in your terms, are conlitas and people who wear the fashion twice a year and claim they're "such a lolita!!" while owning like 2 dresses from Taobao. And I don't label myself above them, I just don't think I get along with them and they wear lolita in a very different way than I do.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 17:31:58 2018 No.10022322 >>10022320 i literally dont know any of the regulars, or in the server who match that description, but maybe you're just looking for an excuse to start your own server

Anonymous Mon Oct 29 18:51:48 2018 No.10022395

The problem isn't really vetting or not imo. I like the old-school lolita server and they don't have vetting. I also love one of the cooking servers I'm in and they do have vetting. It just depends on if you click with people there and if you're interested in the content of the channels. On discord, like everywhere on the internet, 99% of the people are lurkers. The other 1% is making the conversation and they pretty much decide the entire atmosphere of the server (besides the channels and rules).

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 18:55:57 2018 No.10022399 File: 150 KB, 263x272, Screen Shot 2018-10-29 at 21.39.47.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10022305 Veteran's server is live. Please apply only if you meet the requirements, don't waste the mods' time! https://discord.gg/JRsKKye

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 19:03:06 2018 No.10022411 >>10022305 thats excessive what about capsule wardrobes

Veteran CGL Server ANNOUNCEMEN(...) Mon Oct 29 19:35:12 2018 No.10022434

Hello everyone,

We have had a massive influx of new members and we are trying to pass as many experienced lolitas as possible.

Please DO NOT sign up to the server unless you have your proof ready to go in the near future, as you will be kicked within the next 48 hours if you haven't submitted an application with proof.

We have also had a few trolls try to join but fortunately we have deflected them. They are now banned.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 19:46:12 2018 No.10022441 >>10022411 Too bad

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 19:52:34 2018 No.10022443 >>10022434 How did you get that many responses to your post in 35 literal minutes on a Monday night two days before Halloween? The entire board's not even moving that fast, there's what like maybe 15 active posters currently?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 19:57:31 2018 No.10022447 >>10022443 It looks like there are 25 people in the discord right now, which would mean 250 coords to vet. Just because the board isn't moving quickly doesn't mean that there aren't people lurking.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:01:49 2018 No.10022449 >>10022443 Not a monday night for everyone in the world anon.

>>	Veteran CGL Server ANNOUNCEMEN(...) Mon Oct 29 20:03:18 2018 No.10022452 >>10022443 a lot of people from other timezones, it's what I'm guessing we have had a fair amount of applications, some from competing servers so it's not surprising that word got out so fast?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:04:50 2018 No.10022453 >>10022452 Is eggplant a troll? That is the worst intro I've ever seen.

Veteran CGL Server = Mon Oct 29 20:07:54 2018 No.10022455

>>10022453
nah I checked her up personally. She provided her IG and weibo as proof and had a wardrobe photo with her discord name.

It's safe to say that since this is a server originated on 4chan that we will have some ...... unique characters. I don't plan to have a server which is 100% serious but if eggplant (or anyone) misbehaves in other channels i will give her a warning and in the future, ban her.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:34:14 2018 No.10022486 >>10022443 Only 1% of the people on the internet actively post. There are 99% people watching this thread now but not posting.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:35:26 2018 No.10022487 >>10022399 Who are the mods though? How do we know they are legit

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:35:29 2018 No.10022488 >>10022453 >>10022455 Lol what did she say?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:38:12 2018 No.10022491 >>10022453 I thought it was a joke >>10022488 Bittersweet meme

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:47:41 2018 No.10022504 i suppose we can assume its no boys allowed either huh

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 20:54:06 2018 No.10022510 >>10022504 Idk bro are you an experienced lolita

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 21:34:03 2018 No.10022539 >>10022455 Seconding >>10022487 Who is the mod team? Post coords.

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 21:49:52 2018 No.10022551 >>10021655 Where do I join to get a cute seagull gf?

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 22:56:11 2018 No.10022606 >>10022487 this, Before I join some veteran lolita server i wanna see what the mods dress like

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 22:56:32 2018 No.10022607 >>10022551 >implying seagulls are cute

>>	Anonymous Mon Oct 29 23:01:58 2018 No.10022615 >>10022607 I'm cute

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 05:22:23 2018 No.10022749 >>10022539 Whether they want to post coords on here it’s up to them, but they are are well known and well respected experienced members of the Lolita discord community.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 08:07:13 2018 No.10022801 >>10022749 Who are they?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 16:45:51 2018 No.10023140 >>10022801 ok... (not a mod) but just theorizing here. I'm guessing they are gulls just like all of us here, and if they are vetting so hard why would they not be experienced lolitas? i guess i'll just join, test it out, if it sucks leave. easy.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 16:55:24 2018 No.10023143 >>10023140 >they are are well known and well respected experienced members of the Lolita discord community. There's a difference between well-known and respected and experienced. If they are vetting so hard, they should be held to the same standard.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 17:16:10 2018 No.10023153 >>10023143 Well, I don’t think you really need to worry. Just join and see for your self.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 17:41:06 2018 No.10023168 >>10023140 >>10022749 If they were that well known and respected they wouldn't be scared of outing themselves

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 17:44:44 2018 No.10023169 >>10023168 why should they be scared to out themself when you can just join the server and look yourself

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 19:06:09 2018 No.10023219 >>10023168 It looks like the same team as the vetting server. I guess the other one crash and burned.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 19:07:36 2018 No.10023220 >>10023168 It looks like the same team as the original vetting server. I guess the other one crashed and burned.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:28:20 2018 No.10023255 >>10023220 They are really not the same people. Wtf are you talking about? The vetting discord is fine too. How could you even know if you're not in it?

>>	Eggplant Tue Oct 30 20:34:00 2018 No.10023259 >>10022455 >>10022488 >>10022491 It was a joke but I am a real person who does wear lolita if that helps

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:38:17 2018 No.10023261 It would be really cool, since there's such demand for this server, if people actually posted in it. Nut up and show us some coords.

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:39:25 2018 No.10023262 >>10023261 you first

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:39:32 2018 No.10023263 >>10023261 you say that here but ain't got the balls to post it in the server huh

Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:40:27 2018 No.10023264

>>10023168
Why are you so anal about this? Like, it’s a discord not joining a cult. Just check it out, don’t be a douche, talk to people, and see if it’s for you. Wait scratch that, you sound like someone who doesn’t want to make friends so maybe stay away~

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:43:14 2018 No.10023268 >>10022399 WHY IS EVERYBODY VEGETABLES

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:48:57 2018 No.10023272 >>10023268 I was wondering that but I didn't want to ask

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:54:02 2018 No.10023279 >>10023264 >>10023268 Is this a larping server?

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 20:55:34 2018 No.10023282 >>10023279 As far as I can tell everyone there is an actual lolita

Anonymous Tue Oct 30 21:14:54 2018 No.10023294

so i’m not in the vet server but like, is there an open channel where everyone can post like a collage of some coords so you can see everyone’s skill level and style, mods included? I think that would be a nice idea, help put a style to a name. Faces could be obscured, obvi

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 21:42:43 2018 No.10023323 >>10023268 veggies are kawaii

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 22:35:42 2018 No.10023385 >>10023294 Can you post an example? This sounds complicated I'm no good at photoshop

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 23:51:47 2018 No.10023433 >>10023268 I WANT TO BE A CABBAGE, A TRUE FRIENDO

>>	Anonymous Tue Oct 30 23:53:46 2018 No.10023435 >>10023433 Follow your dreams and be a cabbage.

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 00:01:34 2018 No.10023440
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>>10023385
sure, i’m using pics of misako and some floords from instagram to illustrate my point
Basically everyone could make something like this and post it in a dedicated server with a brief intro and the members can look back at it and check out your style.
So like we could see our misako-clone likes reds and greys and leans to a more mature sweet style
And if everyone did that you could always look back at it and i dunno, check to see if the girl giving you scathing crit on your oldschool motie coord wears exclusively 2012 OTT sweet

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 00:02:37 2018 No.10023442 >>10023440 and by server i absolutely mean channel, durrrr

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 02:21:01 2018 No.10023505 File: 497 KB, 500x200, 17f8482fbb33fb25e8c43ac30d6a5efccdca3901_hq.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10023433 JOIN THE SERVER AND YOU CAN BE THE CABBAGE YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO BE

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 04:37:45 2018 No.10023553 >>10023440 that is a pretty neat idea. idk how i feel about it being open though. could have been a nice addition to the intros though.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 05:01:52 2018 No.10023559 >>10023294 there are some mediocre lolitas from the other servers but posting the sidebar breaks a rule probably

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 07:24:07 2018 No.10023589 >>10023168 I know you can just see if you join but it is really weird that they don't just want to post their usernames here since it's already obvious they go here anyway

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 07:26:03 2018 No.10023590 >>10023261 >>10022486

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 07:43:02 2018 No.10023597

No offense but what is the point of discord, especially one with mostly gulls? Let's be honest, the reason most of you are here is because it's on anon. People who are used to posting on anon are not going to be active in a place where you have a set username. The people who don't mind posting their name and face everywhere are already on facebook so they don't need discord either. Isn't it just for gamers?

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 08:58:57 2018 No.10023618

>>10023597
You've clearly never used discord. And no, most lolitas comfortable with posting their face aren't on facebook. It's essentially just a chat room with different channels, so you can talk about whatever. Personally, I'm not even on cgl just for the anonymity; plenty of people I know post here, and know I post as well. It's just nice to be able to have conversations with other lolitas that aren't tempered by the need to be polite because your face/name is attached to what you say.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 09:25:35 2018 No.10023624 >>10023597 Are you trolling or just stupid? Discord is just like Skype but better

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 09:40:44 2018 No.10023632 >>10023618 >>10023624 I do use it. For gaming. Are there also a bunch of lolita groups on skype then?

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 09:47:27 2018 No.10023634

>>10023618
personally speaking i've found the discord as a good way to get actual concrit and help. Even experienced lolitas sometimes run into problems or want feedback, and while the threads here are usually not very helpful, the lolitas in the discord will be honest. Posting on FB isnt helpful either bc its usually just asspats and then boom you wind up getting shit talked in cgl. I'd rather just ask a group of lolitas for concrit.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 10:09:32 2018 No.10023640 WHY IS EVERYONE A FRUIT/VEG >>10023559 speaking of mediocre, you're right. why are funk and jennkitty in there?

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 10:11:52 2018 No.10023643

>>10023553
I’m pretty sure you could set the permissions so you can see it as soon as you join the server, but are unable to post in it until they’ve “vetted” you and given you the role that lets you access the whole server. That way it can also work as a preview so you know what you’re getting into before you gain full access

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 10:12:55 2018 No.10023646 >>10023640 yeah why the fuck is funk there? I thought this was for good lolitas

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 10:36:02 2018 No.10023658 why do people always make temporary invites?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 10:56:18 2018 No.10023671 >>10023646 >>10023640 They probably fit the requirements of 10 main pieces and 2+ years

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 11:54:43 2018 No.10023725 >>10023632 No one uses Skype because we've all switched to Discord, lmao.

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 12:39:05 2018 No.10023771

>>10023643
you're sort of treating this like you're an asset of some kind. The server doesn't owe you anything.

In the end if someone is so good and so far above everyone else they shouldn't be afraid of sharing photos to the mods, or leaving if they find the place unsatisfying- as other people have. You're a great lolita, I get it, but you also come across as someone who is a bit cowardly.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 12:45:01 2018 No.10023777 >>10023643 Why not just join, and get vetted, and look at the coord-pics channel? A channel that already fucking exists to post pictures of ourselves lmfao. you're fucking autistic, it takes 2 seconds to join/get vetted.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 13:49:12 2018 No.10023818 >>10023646 Why is funk banned from almost every cgl server? Someone mentioned it to me before but I have no idea why.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 13:55:56 2018 No.10023821 >>10023818 Because he's a dumbass

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 14:20:17 2018 No.10023841 >>10023725 So you we used to have lolita groups on skype?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 14:21:51 2018 No.10023845 >>10023818 he's only banned from the vetted server lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 14:22:20 2018 No.10023846 >>10023777 That's not what autism is lol

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 14:42:43 2018 No.10023861 >>10023846 >using lack of knowledge of 4chin slang as a counterpoint definitely autistic, this one

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 14:56:50 2018 No.10023869 >>10023845 ? Huh ummmm

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 15:00:11 2018 No.10023871

Fine, I'll bite.
>>10023632
I meant that people use discord to talk to their friends just like they did on Skype.

>>10023597
>not going to be active in a place where you have a set username
>the people who don't mind posting their name and face everywhere are already on facebook so they don't need discord either
Do you plaster your name and face all over your discord, then? You could make your discord username something completely random and different from any other handle you have. My discord is completely separate from my non-lolita social media.
Discord is overall better as a messenger service. Why would you use Facebook to DM friends when you could use discord to do that, and to also make new friends with a relative degree of anonymity?

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 16:21:50 2018 No.10023923

>>10023559
excuse me???? what the fuck do u think this is? amateur hour? u think we're fucking around here- we are not. this is a server where u need to have 10 COORDS NOT 9 or 8 and 2 YEARS of experience, not 1 year 11 months and so on. i take this server very seriously. i have put a loot of work and time to vet the best of the best. the creme de la creme if u might say. i am not fucking with anyone- this is the definitive and the only veteran lolita discord and you will provide me witht eh photos of u will not waste my time or the mods time, capiche bitch?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 18:09:44 2018 No.10023973 >>10023861 I'm not the person you're arguing with, and again, you're using autism wrong

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 18:12:06 2018 No.10023975 >>10023559 Posting the sidebar doesn't break rules because you're not singling anyone out.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 19:57:07 2018 No.10024015 >>10023640 Damn you have a vendetta. Go away Autumn

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 20:06:51 2018 No.10024023 >>10023923 I am now convinced that either this thread or that server must be 99% larpers trying to stir shit

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 21:49:52 2018 No.10024063 >>10023268 Sounds like same faggy inside joke

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 21:59:54 2018 No.10024067 >>10024023 I'm guessing this thread is full of larpers because everyone who has joined the discord has been awfully quiet

Anonymous Wed Oct 31 22:02:44 2018 No.10024069

>>10023559
If you're going to call people mediocre then you need to be posting coords on the server

I was genuinely interested in seeing coords from people who think they're hot shit, but so far only a couple of people have come to play. Suspicious desu

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 22:08:29 2018 No.10024075 >>10023559 I think it's a bit of a drama/trolling server. The introductions seem really fake. CTP and puppet circus in 3 colourways? Yeah right, and I'm the queen of Sheba.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 22:11:46 2018 No.10024076 >>10024075 I think you're going to get a hard time getting people to post real introductions in a server that was started by this thread that was clearly posted in bad faith, probably a collab between known bad actors jennkitty and funkbros

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 22:45:13 2018 No.10024084 >>10024076 Neither of those people are mods of this new server, take your vendetta to your server if you want to complain. Not sure why you hate them but it’s embarrassing at this point to call them out. Just block them and move on

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 23:23:38 2018 No.10024099 >>10024015 She's not even in the new server. It's embarrassing at this point. Just block her and move on

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 31 23:28:57 2018 No.10024103 >>10024075 mine was real.. (´・ω・｀)

Anonymous Thu Nov 1 01:20:46 2018 No.10024133

>>10023841
Not that it matters and I'm not that anon but yes, for the record there were skype groups for cgl and for lolita in general. That was like, the bronze ages though. I don't think anyone but Discord themselves actually thinks Discord is "for gamers only" anymore, its just a more lightweight and enjoyable version of skype. I'm in servers for everything from webcomics to friends groups to cooking to fuckin tarot. If you're resistant to using it thats fine, but I promise its gonna end up being like facebook was to livejournal where there comes a point that you are either on that platform or you aren't actually connected to the community at large in any meaningful way.

Anonymous Thu Nov 1 03:02:32 2018 No.10024159

>>10024133
Yup, I used Discord for different friend groups - girlfriends, college buddies, content creation, etc. Way better than Skype, literally had someone who worked at Microsoft tell me not to use Skype because it fucking sucks ("It just doesn't work sometimes"). A few years ago you could dox people just by knowing their Skype username and get their IP from it. Facebook messenger sucks ass, and you have privacy concerns there. The different channels you can make in each Discord server is reminiscent of Teamspeak, but with way more functionality, text, uploading files/images, and shit is free + anonymous.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 04:02:16 2018 No.10024179 >>10024075 You're making this up. No one said that they had CTP and PC in three colourways in the intros. Get better reading comprehension.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 07:56:48 2018 No.10024244 >>10024133 Read the thread

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 08:59:58 2018 No.10024275 >>10024069 >so far only a couple of people have come to play That's exactly what I would expect of people who come here to shit on coords and will defend and justify their behavior to no end because they just absolutely neeeed to shit on people.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 09:02:45 2018 No.10024276 >>10024159 Name fagging isn't completely anonymous tho.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 10:53:45 2018 No.10024349 >>10024276 Did you know that there's a middle ground between being anonymous on 4chan and using social media connected to your name and face?

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 11:22:23 2018 No.10024362 >>10023640 >speaking of mediocre, you're right. why are funk and jennkitty in there? >>10023646 >yeah why the fuck is funk there? message your complaints about the users to the mods in the server.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 12:29:34 2018 No.10024396 >>10024362 mod here , they met the requirements of 10 coords and 2+years of experience, as cgl requested, cannot personally comment about my feelings on either.........

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 14:49:02 2018 No.10024461 >>10022395 The old school lolita server DOES have vetting actually

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 14:57:49 2018 No.10024466 So if 2 years and 10 coords isn't making the kind of server that people are actually interested then what sort of vetting do you all ACTUALLY want? >>10024461 What is their requirement?

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 15:08:06 2018 No.10024473 >>10024466 Same as the regular vetted cgl discord (not the retard one up thread)

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 17:26:29 2018 No.10024554 >>10024179 Reread it, apparently she has CTP in both colorways and puppet circus AND iron gate. Disbelief, unless proof photos are provided I'll keep on thinking this is a joke. I proved I'm real, the mods should too.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 17:37:24 2018 No.10024559 >>10024554 Yeah after seeing one of the mods literally posting her plans to troll some girl I'm really uncomfortable and think they should post some proof

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:09:10 2018 No.10024565 >>10024559 If you’re uncomfortable about a minor joke please leave thanks

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:20:37 2018 No.10024570 >>10024554 I re read that. Good catch. Mods should really pin their coords or something to the top of the coord thread. Otherwise I'm not a fan of this server, it seems like a more circlejerky version of cgl.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:23:09 2018 No.10024571 >>10024570 Why so much focus on a bunch of people? Most discord mods are just there to clean up channels and make sure that it’s peaceful. They’re not representatives lol

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:26:06 2018 No.10024576 >>10024571 it's not an unreasonable request to post one old coord. I don't see any coords from the mods yet despite them mucking about in all the other servers.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:35:52 2018 No.10024588 >>10024576 Have is crossed your mind that they don’t want to be under malicious scrutiny, since you and others keep posting their discord activity on other servers on here? It’s a tad creepy and obsessive

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 18:56:15 2018 No.10024599 >>10024588 This

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 19:29:41 2018 No.10024623 >>10024588 Well I won't post my coord in the coords thread unless the mods are posting too. Something is really weird or shitty with this server.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 19:54:43 2018 No.10024635 >>10024623 >coords thread lol

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 1 21:24:25 2018 No.10024679 >>10024623 Then leave, lol

Anonymous Fri Nov 2 00:04:32 2018 No.10024900

>>10024623
Cry about it then leave ASAP, the mods will post coords whenever they want to. We don’t owe you shit

It’s also pretty obvious who you are and it’s laughable at this point. Reason is because 95% of the people there already know the mods are actual Lolitas from other servers and have seen their coords before. They wouldn’t be there if they didn’t know.

You could’ve got what you wanted and we would’ve posted coords if you weren’t so creepily obsessed about it

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 00:38:04 2018 No.10024960 >>10024900 There's at least two others here who aren't happy so good luck singling people out I guess.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 01:31:41 2018 No.10025014 >>10024900 >its pretty obvious who you are Who is it

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 05:31:27 2018 No.10025121 >>10024960 We are not singling anyone out if we're doing nothing about it lol There's only 4-5 people on there which haven't seen or have known the mods for a while- fewer that share servers with the mods. It's not that hard desu,

Anonymous Fri Nov 2 05:44:01 2018 No.10025124

Everyone: it would be nice if we had at least one bit of proof that it's not a massive joke
Mods: OmG sO cReEpY aNd ObSeSsIvE, why do u want to sniff our panties so much? Jeez we're under constant scrutiny, you wouldn't know what that's like! Just leave the server if you're going to hold us to the slightest bit of critique!

Lol, mods, u so mad

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 05:47:25 2018 No.10025126 File: 8 KB, 100x100, thenkang_1.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10025124 Not involved with this shitshow at all but Could it be that the over the top "omg why are you obsessed with me" response IS proof that is a massive joke???

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 06:12:15 2018 No.10025132 >>10025121 I'm one of them. I have no idea who these mods are to be honest.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 06:14:37 2018 No.10025133 >>10022551 It requires a bullet to the head.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 09:31:54 2018 No.10025166 >>10024349 I wouldn't want to be known as so and so from discord. If anything getting branded is worse.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 10:03:19 2018 No.10025188 >>10025121 Responding to a concern by going "lol I know who ur!11" is not a way to inspire confidence or new people to come to a server. But have fun with it. If you wanted your own secret club where you know everyone why bother advertising on here?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 11:05:13 2018 No.10025212 >>10025188 Are you retarded >>10022277 >>10022286 >>10022298 >>10022307 >>10022299 >>10022305 >>10022315 >>10022320 It's not a secret club, it was made to appease these whiny anons and any other lurkers

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 11:14:58 2018 No.10025214 >>10025212 so you're admitting this is a troll server to "appease these whiny anons"?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 11:29:18 2018 No.10025221 >>10025214 Confirmed retard, why would it be a troll server because of that? Most of the other lolita discords were made to appease anons

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 11:52:04 2018 No.10025227 >>10025221 then why are you lashing out at other anons who want to know more about the mods? its contradictory. we just want to know if it's a joke server or not and your over the top backlash is kind of embarrassing in itself.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 11:58:42 2018 No.10025230 >>10025227 Are you seriously assuming all those posts are one person? I posted >>10025212 and >>10025221 and that was it

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 12:09:45 2018 No.10025236 >>10025230 it still doesn't explain their attitude but thanks for butting in.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 14:11:34 2018 No.10025294 >>10025227 If you think it's a joke server and can't trust the mods, make your own that is not a joke and screen people yourself. This one is probably going to die anyway as long as you "super elite lolitas" are too chickenshit to even chat.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 16:00:30 2018 No.10025319 >>10024900 Yikes

Anonymous Fri Nov 2 16:04:11 2018 No.10025322

>>10024900
I'm not sure I have understood everything but imo if joining requires showing coords and dresses as proof I do think you owe these things to people who get to join. It's really weird mods would get to refrain from this and it really seems unequal for other members of the server.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 16:37:42 2018 No.10025340 >itt: why we can't have nice things

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 16:46:13 2018 No.10025345 >>10025322 exactly this

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 16:56:32 2018 No.10025351 >>10025322 Thank you for saying this. It's ridiculous that the mods are getting that defensive about this.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 17:00:21 2018 No.10025355 >>10025121 It's a bit arrogant to think people who are in other servers with you must have automatically seen your pictures there and remembered your usernames as well.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 17:13:21 2018 No.10025363 >>10025355 I mean >>10024576 and >>10023559 recognized usernames so

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 17:31:54 2018 No.10025374 i’ve only seen one or two mods’ coords, but i dont think i know anymore because everyone is a fruit now. it honestly doesn’t matter to me, it’s just a chat group... y’all taking it too seriously if you want to see a mods coords, just freaking ask

Anonymous Fri Nov 2 19:06:19 2018 No.10025407

The way so many people are losing their shit over not seeing the mods' coords and trashing the discord just because of that one thing absolutely reeks of people that don't meet the requirements. It takes ten minutes to join and get verified, and then you can check yourself.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 19:29:55 2018 No.10025422 >>10025407 How can you check if they didn't all post their coords lol

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 19:32:38 2018 No.10025424 >>10025422 >DM >hey, can I see your insta? >yeah, sure. it's blahblahblah

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 19:42:32 2018 No.10025432 >>10025422 just dm the mods privately and ask to see their coords, that's what everyone did to get in the server. nobody's required to post their coords in the public channels

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 2 22:23:11 2018 No.10025536 Sooo is there anyone who is satisfied with the new lolita server? Are the requirements too lax?

Anonymous Fri Nov 2 22:25:57 2018 No.10025538

>>10025536
>Are the requirements too lax?
I think they're just fine. 10+ dresses in two years is a reasonable requirement. The way some of these posters are acting, you'd think the mods said you have to have forty dresses and been in the fashion for a decade.

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 7 15:57:27 2018 No.10029207 >>10020601 link is dead anon

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 8 06:29:02 2018 No.10029646 >>10022160 -sips tea- Nah this channel is pretty comfy. And I love the banter.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 8 07:23:00 2018 No.10029663 Could I get invited to cgl/fa and the Nanchatte rooms please?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 9 17:28:58 2018 No.10030713 What do you think of the admins/mods of the servers listed here?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 9 18:49:38 2018 No.10030740 File: 798 KB, 350x257, f0d62aca141684606258915784_700wa_0.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10030713

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 9 23:01:54 2018 No.10030897 You guys know who you are -sips tea violently- how dare you kick me out of the server. I demand trial by combat to let me back in!

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 10 00:11:37 2018 No.10030929 >>10030897 You're not getting your fish fingers anywhere near us.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 10 00:43:01 2018 No.10030935 File: 133 KB, 1275x715, E77F8F8F07EC4EEFADA326560551228E.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10030929 It was comfy while it lasted. Y'all will always have a comfy spot place in my heart.

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 10 08:07:51 2018 No.10031070 >>10024461 Does anyone have a link to the old school lolita server?

Anonymous Sat Nov 10 16:55:05 2018 No.10031321
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>joins several discord servers
>All fatties and ugly trans even a mixture of trans fatty
>Guys pretending to be girls
>All the rest of the servers are dead
>There is a only decent one but they all already made they friendship circle

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 10 17:19:38 2018 No.10031341 >>10031321 >>All fatties and ugly trans even a mixture of trans fatty >>Guys pretending to be girls jc where did you join anon

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 10 19:07:06 2018 No.10031393 >>10031341 Any public one.

>>	Soup Sun Nov 11 21:09:47 2018 No.10032352 >>10031321 maybe look for a sever that isn't linked on 4chan

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 11 21:45:02 2018 No.10032367 https://discord.gg/Srf7XDY

>>	Anonymous Sun Nov 11 21:56:56 2018 No.10032376 >>10032367 >pigpen Ok.

Anonymous Mon Nov 12 02:41:21 2018 No.10032555

>>10025536
I think the requirements are fine, especially since they were tailored to the community's wishes. The attitude in there is not fine, because nobody will post anything in there (esp not coords, though the ones posted are generally solid), but people have been bitching in this thread the whole time.

Anonymous Mon Nov 12 02:47:04 2018 No.10032559

>>10025322
>>10025351
Look, all the mods did was set up the server. Because people here wanted it. If you got in, why are you complaining? That means the mods did their job: they vetted you effectively and let you in. The rest is in your hands, senpai.

Since the vetting is relatively stringent but also straightforward, the mods seem to be using a light touch so far. If you're complaining about the mods... Then you probably didn't get in in the first place.

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 12 21:02:23 2018 No.10033289 >>10031321 >>All the rest of the servers are dead They wouldn't be dead if you said anything or responded to anything other people said

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 12 21:13:33 2018 No.10033292 >>10031321 >already made they friendship circle There's still room, that's the beauty of discord. Keep participating, you'll find your niche

>>	Anonymous Mon Nov 12 21:41:20 2018 No.10033306 >>10032555 I mean, I really was going to, but after >>10024900's very weird reaction I think I'll see how things turn out first.

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 00:04:07 2018 No.10033391

I'm looking for a good vetted lolita server that has decent activity levels and a low numbers of itas and lolita roleplayers. I know I have options here, but... the horror stories have me dissuaded. I know a girl who came to a meet a few weeks ago had horrible problems with the vetted server. She joined and made some posts, and then the mods kicked her out because they thought she was someone else. She's never caused any drama... it was pretty sad to hear about how she was treated by them. Is the veteran server run by the same idiots?

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 05:07:53 2018 No.10033482 >>10033391 Why don't you make one

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 05:37:01 2018 No.10033489 >>10033391 Veteran server is not run by same people but it's dead quiet

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 05:50:05 2018 No.10033493 I wish the updates server was active

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 09:15:16 2018 No.10033557

>>10033391
Your friend was most likely kicked for inactivity and can re-join.

Unless she's that diaper girl than please stay the f away.

Idk why /cgl/ thinks the vetted server bans everyone. They just do regular inactivity purges which is not the same at all.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 09:18:18 2018 No.10033558 >>10033557 Why do people take inactivity purges so personally? It's not a judgement against you if you're purged. It's purely that they want to keep an active discord.

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 09:55:16 2018 No.10033576

>>10033557
I'm still in that server but out of curiosity, why do inactivity purges? I'm in a number of servers with over hundred inactive members and nobody gives a shit. Maybe someone is just busy for a few weeks but will be active again later. It just seems like a lot of extra work.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 10:10:22 2018 No.10033594 >>10033576 well you dont know if those people are inactive because theyre just away for a bit or are serial lurkers/creeps so, out they go! bye!

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 11:53:08 2018 No.10033654 >>10033557 Ewww how tf did a diaper girl get in? Bad vetting?

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 12:13:30 2018 No.10033664 >>10033654 Shit happens? The vetting is just to prove you have/wear lolita.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 12:40:01 2018 No.10033674 >>10033664 So she wanders in and starts dropping gross pics? That doesn't just happen desu

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 12:40:04 2018 No.10033675 >>10033594 You know they're lolitas because they were vetted

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 12:48:33 2018 No.10033686 >>10033674 I'll bet 20 dollars that you're her and trying to get the dirt on how we found out you're an ageplaying diaper shitting freak

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:05:04 2018 No.10033695 >>10033686 desu ok I've never been in the vetted server and I'm not going to join it. I'm not even a lolita, I'm a cosplayer Just wondering how dumb the mods are to let a diaper fag in and allow her to shit up a server. Keep being salty frillfriends

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:10:38 2018 No.10033699

>>10033594
This sort of nasty attitude is why so many of us look at the vetted server with disdain. You've got these grand expectations for behaviour and posting habits, you have a high turnover rate because you've chosen your clique, and you keep whinging and complaining about people not liking you so you turn on the defensive. I left the server after it was found out that you allowed some fairly disgusting things to happen because it was all "good salty fun". Make up your mind, are you mean because you're insecure or are you insecure because you can't keep a friend?

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:10:52 2018 No.10033700
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>>10033695
>>10033674
Nah dude, she's dumb and used the same name she uses for other shit. Someone noticed who she was and she got banned.

She wasn't screeching about pee pee poo poos everywhere, just being a little weird and then someone put two and two together

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:29:57 2018 No.10033711

>>10033699
Please, those of you who think the vetted server are a bunch of bitches and all the other ones are shit, and then come here asking for a good active server, make your own server and vet it yourselves. That's the only way you will get a server to your standards.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:38:35 2018 No.10033717 >>10033700 Someone noticed who she was? So you had two diaper shitters in the server and only kicked one? desu did no one realize the person who noticed her needed to have some knowledge of diaper freak usernames to be able to pick that one out

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:41:54 2018 No.10033721 File: 92 KB, 1280x850, 24883359_10215990272936216_6053836291679586805_o.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10033717 I'm not a mod so I don't know the details. Plus I'm being vague on purpose because diaper-chan goes on here.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:47:26 2018 No.10033725 >>10033721 4-chan is a diaper for us all, you're letting your shit out here too.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:50:39 2018 No.10033729 >>10033721 I'm going to start a wardrobe and get into the vetted server so I can experience this clusterfuck myself desu

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 13:59:03 2018 No.10033733

>>10033576
The inactivity purges are simply to promote activity. I don’t want to look at a member list and think “who are these people”

Also whoever is white knighting the vetted server is being really annoying; if people don’t like it they don’t like it. Who cares.

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 14:06:10 2018 No.10033740 >>10033711 >just start your own REEEEEE Way to go, you've proven some points here

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 14:42:30 2018 No.10033752 >>10033717 Hey now, some people who go on fetlife are into perfectly normal and respectable things like being choked and spat on

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 14:54:36 2018 No.10033764 >>10033717 What if someone just googled the username

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 14:57:06 2018 No.10033766 >>10033764 I was going to suggest that as something the mods should have done first but how often are you really going to google someone desu Maybe they were looking for an instagram or something. You could be right.

Anonymous Tue Nov 13 15:03:55 2018 No.10033769

>>10033594
kinda depressing desu, I was in that server and fairly active for a few months but apparently got kicked out at some point just because I didn't say anything for a few weeks
the mentality isn't great either imo, lots of people who don't dress near well enough for the amount of shit they talk, and there's a few people with serious personality issues
server itself is still good (probably the best place around for discussing the fashion without constant uwu luvlies bullshit as you get on facebook), but a few drops of tar really spoil the pot of honey at times

>>10033717
have you ever been part of an actual online comm? those creep names travel at the speed of light, it's common knowledge within a few days

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 15:11:49 2018 No.10033778 >>10033769 I'm surprised there isnt a public list posted of known diaper freaks

>>	Anonymous Tue Nov 13 20:47:55 2018 No.10034009 File: 3.20 MB, 480x270, popteamepic_lemon.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Girls calm your tits, could someone please send new links of servers I may join. -sips tea-

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 14 08:57:05 2018 No.10034365 >>10034009 all of these except the fa x cgl one still work >>10021655

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:11:40 2018 No.10035186 [DELETED]

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Wow、 I got kick/ban from the
Fashion x EGL discord just because I was apart of /r9k/ trans server. A server that got deleted.

Just because you found a freaking collage image of collected screencaps from our server 、proves nothing、I didn't do anything wrong. That collage was made by haters from 4chan、 server raiders、and a competitive server. There was so much dramatic because they were shilling lies about server.

In /r9cute/

There was no CP, forced hrt pushing, pink pill pedalling, doxxing, grooming, cutting/suicide promotion or any other activities those ****wits have come up with to spawn drama on our beloved server. It got us deleted.

/sad

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:16:39 2018 No.10035189
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Wow、 I got kick/ban from the
Fashion x EGL discord just because I was apart of a /r9k/ trans server. A server that got deleted. NOT FAIR AT ALL!!!

Just because you found a freaking collage image of collected screencaps from our server 、proves nothing、I didn't do anything wrong. That collage was made by haters from 4chan、 server raiders、and a competitive server. There was so much drama because they were shilling lies about our server!!!

In /r9cute/

There was no CP, forced hrt pushing, pink pill pedalling, doxxing, grooming, cutting/suicide promotion or any other activities those ****wits have come up with to spawn drama on our beloved server. It got us deleted.

/sad

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:38:10 2018 No.10035207 File: 29 KB, 480x360, 1540783788729.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10035189 Yikes...

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:41:07 2018 No.10035213 >>10035189 I mean to be fair can u blame them?

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:42:32 2018 No.10035214 >>10035189 get owned lib

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:42:41 2018 No.10035215 >>10035189 being friends with pedophiles is not cute

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 10:55:56 2018 No.10035222 >>10035215 There was NO any pedophiles at or pedophilia. We didn't allow anything like that.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:00:43 2018 No.10035231 >>10035222 people bragged about the age cp images that they had, just give up. in general its very cringe to be in a r9k server anyway. let alone one like that.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:07:53 2018 No.10035237 File: 342 KB, 1200x800, 44054512_1901908706589835_5106703320236425216_o.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10035189 >going on /r9k/ No wonder you were banned.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:08:58 2018 No.10035239 >>10035237 Nice Homu.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:17:55 2018 No.10035246
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>>10035189
>cutting/suicide promotion
>Included in this pic are pictures of people saying "cut my name into your skin and I'll give you x"
>Followed by images of said person's name cut into someone's skin

Hmmmmm...

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:23:30 2018 No.10035248 >>10035246 Oh wow kinda wish I saw this shit show go down

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:28:57 2018 No.10035252

>>10035246
It's really easy to take screenshots、 then crop the images and put them together as a collage /titled *welcome to /r9cute/ to throw everything OUT OF CONTEXT.

You guys are literally being memed by a bunch of 4channers posting that image around various boards.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 11:31:30 2018 No.10035255 >>10035252 how in tarnation are you going to argue the absurd amount of images of self harm scars posted in the discord as "out of context"

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 13:23:18 2018 No.10035321 >>10035252 HOW CAN SELF HARM SCARS BE TAKEN "OUT OF CONTEXT"

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 13:35:44 2018 No.10035332 >>10035252 stop using pedo syntaxys please

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 13:36:47 2018 No.10035333 I just want a lolita discord that I can lurk and in which people will keep me updated with the new collections and good coords.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 13:38:09 2018 No.10035335 >>10035333 why lurk, its social thing

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:18:33 2018 No.10035364
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>>10035335
Because no one likes a dude that is only in there because he likes to shitty draw lolitas, design new lolita style clothing and learn what and what isn't ita, as well as learn the current trends.
I'm still learning how do fashion designers design a print and then apply it to a cloth pattern, and then how it will look when it is wear.

And no, I don't like /fa/, I like lolita fashion, j-fashion and cyberpunk.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:36:31 2018 No.10035374 >>10035364 why not just lurk cgl then

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:39:54 2018 No.10035378

>>10035374
I already do, but there's too much drama and too few source of what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is ita.
Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:49:49 2018 No.10035386

>>10035378
>too much drama
Man up and lurk anyways. Cgl was 98% of my lolita education because everywhere else was too much of a hugbox to actually offer any advice or non-basic information. Any worthwile lolita discord is full of lolitas who already know their way around the fashion and you'll rarely get good crit or info there either.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:58:57 2018 No.10035392
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>>10035386
>Man up and lurk anyways.
That's the problem. The servers that seems to be alive requires you to post whatever clothing you have or fill some info about yourself.
Who the fuck would let a dude lurk(and maybe comment if X piece with Y piece is ok) if he isn't a brolita, lolita and just like the fashion and drawing?

>Any worthwile lolita discord is full of lolitas who already know their way around the fashion and you'll rarely get good crit or info there either.

Then, could you please recommend me some of these or other that would accept a non-lolita, non-brolita that just want to learn the fashion and how to make good coords?
My main source of information is /cgl/ and /cgl/'s question threads, as I'm not THAT much to make some fake facebook/instagram/flickr/whatevergirlsusestoday to stalk a bunch of random people for their clothes and ask them what must be dumb questions.

>>10021655
>>10021618
>>10020966

A lot of these ones needs some kind of proof of lolihood, which I can't give.
So it is either ask for discord lolita servers, or go back to ask random people on /ic/ and /fa/ servers, and as I said, /fa/ and lolita/jfashion/cyberpunk don't mix well. And in /ic/ they care more about my shitty technical drawing skills than actual cloth design and coords.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 14:59:06 2018 No.10035393 >>10035364 I'm not any of these anons, but yay cyberpunk~! I'm an old school lolita most of the time, but the rest of my time is dabbling in cyberpunky fashion

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 15:02:56 2018 No.10035400 [DELETED]

>>10035364
>>10035378
>what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is ita
It's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably coord.
>learn the current trends
Yeah, good luck. It's pretty obvious that /cgl/ has a really diverse taste. Most of what brands make today isn't what some lolitas want. That's why we have old-school and stuff. It would be better if you made a thread asking what would lolitas want.
>shitty draw lolitas
We have a thread for that.
>Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.
I don't go to the feels and ita threads and I get all my informations. Just ignore the obvious bait.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 15:05:10 2018 No.10035402

>>10035364
>>10035378
>what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is ita
It's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably a good coord.
>learn the current trends
Yeah, good luck. It's pretty obvious that /cgl/ has a really diverse taste. Most of what brands make today isn't what some lolitas want. That's why we have old-school and stuff. It would be better if you made a thread asking what would lolitas want.
>shitty draw lolitas
We have a thread for that.
>Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.
I don't go to the feels and ita threads and I get all my informations. Just ignore the obvious bait.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 15:12:43 2018 No.10035414 >>10035392 Have you tried lurking the COF threads here?

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 15:30:15 2018 No.10035428
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>>10035400
>t's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably coord.

There are things that I like and they are called ita, and if I ask why, generally no one bothers to asnwer.

>We have a thread for that.
I know, I posted there some times.

>>10035393
> I'm an old school lolita
Example of my ignorance, for me old school lolita is someone that dresses like out of Gothic & Lolita Bible(managed to download it from 1 to 37 and from 41 to 42 plus boudoir, ensemble and extra 1 and 2 ), with which I started to get interested in lolita fashion, and Kera got me into j-fashion, cyberpunk is more because I fucking love sci-fi.

I've been trying for years to make a space ship commander lolita uniform, an official dress for formal occasions and a every-day including battle-dress.
Skirts and petticoats don't fare well in null-g or micro-gravity making the official dress the only one that is bearable and the every-day with the battle-dress modifications for null-g, no atmosphere and boarding being a fuckup to try to keep it lolita.

A space worth it cutsew with a null-g petticoat is a fuckup to design, unless you throw lots of "fiction" in "science fiction". But at some moment I'm going to concede to Rule of Cool in this matter.
But I will still work on it until I manage to do it.

>>10035414
I lurk any lolita related /cgl/ thread as my mainly source of lolita fashion information, and try to download some fashion magazines too, and from time to time(mainly when /cgl/ tells me X bran made new collection) go the brand's sites and see what they got.
But anyway, all the servers that look active require you to post some kind of proof of your lolihood or fill questionnaire to see if you are worth to be in said server.
It sucks to be a man and not liking brolita. just lolita and J fashion.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 15:59:55 2018 No.10035450
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>>10035333
>>10035364
>>10035392
I already told you no, second-life furry roleplay kun.

The lolita discords are for people who wear or want to wear lolita, if you're not going to wear the fashion in real life, you're not welcome. End of story.

There's plenty of lolita blogs you can read if you want to find information. Use a search engine and stop trying to intrude into our communities.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 16:29:24 2018 No.10035468

>>10035333
There is a server that's mainly about new releases and magazines that get automatically updated through a twitter bot and it's pretty much dead so I'm sure they don't mind lurkers. Not sure what the name was but it was linked in this thread before.

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 17:34:18 2018 No.10035516
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>>10035428
I'm really not understanding your autism here...
>I want to draw lolitas!
Lurk draw thread.
>I want to know what is and isn't ita!
Lurk the ita thread.
>I want to see what good coords look like!
Lurk literally any inspo-related thread. Or just go to CoF and you get to see what people consider ita and good in the same fucking page.

Just lurk...You don't need to be in a discord for any of what you're saying. Nobody wants a random dude in the discord because they almost always inevitably end up being orbiters who come in "just to lurk" but then find a girl or two they fall for and go after. Just lurk /cgl/, it'll fulfill every criteria you feel you're missing out on. The discords are for people who are in the fashion to discuss without crossboarders or potential creepers.

Also, some girls like talking about their fishy smelling hands and don't want boys reading in on that kind of conversation!

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 17:41:54 2018 No.10035521 >>10035333 >>10035468 https://discord.gg/Cepmcgq

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 17:49:25 2018 No.10035530 File: 71 KB, 626x631, 69B0D5847E2C4B8BA7324F0C611EA0BF.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>10035189 -slurps tea- All I ever did was give a guy some dating advice on that server. And they have banish me too. >tfw I miss they verbal abuse

Anonymous Thu Nov 15 17:50:28 2018 No.10035532
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>>10035428
>women won't let me into their fashion groups when i don't participate in the fashion
>it sure is hard to be a man :(
if you really care about the fashion, why don't you do what all of the actual lolitas do? no one learns how to coord from fucking discord chats, they actually ~read~ and learn about color balance, construction materials, the history of the fashion, general principles of overall fashion, and current/older styles. they develop an actual sense of what lolita is and a sense of aesthetic that functions in AND out of lolita. people did this on LJ long before things like discord chats existed. there are countless resources for what you say you want. it's fucking obvious that what you really want is to be spoonfed and jerked off by pretty girls that know more than you.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 18:19:45 2018 No.10035555 >>10035532 omg you are making it sound so difficult lol. I never did any of those things, i literally just looked at the brand i liked and how they coord it and looked in the mirror to see what suits me.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 18:20:55 2018 No.10035557 but then again i also get so confused when i see itas without petticoat or ''''lolitas'''' who don't use bloomers. like seriously, all you have to do is look at a japanese magazine or brand blog and do what they do >>10035555

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 15 19:10:27 2018 No.10035600 Goddamnit I just want a server to discuss cosplay and techniques, all of the ones I'm in is pathetic and annoying orbiting/drama What is up with people being 10x cringier in discord than on /cgl/? Makes no sense

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 02:24:02 2018 No.10035885
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>>10035516
>>10035532
>>10035450

>thinks I haven't been lurking /cgl/ for years
>thinks I haven't posted in the draw thread from time to time
>thinks I don't download japanese fashion magazines for few years now

Also lolita blogs are 50/50 some do coords that by /cgl/ standards would call ita, some do nice coords, some say its a "lolita fashion blog" and they post about everything but fashion, all in a mixed bag and I have to follow them, plus all the brand webpages I have bookmarked that I have to periodically check. And the monthly magazines I need to scavenge from the internets to download.

> Nobody wants a random dude in the discord because they almost always inevitably end up being orbiters who come in "just to lurk" but then find a girl or two they fall for and go after.
>The discords are for people who are in the fashion to discuss without crossboarders or potential creepers.
Ironic enough I do chip in discussions, asks questions about possible coords and brand collections, and I only can do that in /cgl/ because I'm an Anon in here.

I already know that the average internet lolita is too much like pic-related(and you girls are even proving more the salt-mine you are personally), to go to a Discord server to discuss fashion as a dude, and not get shitted upon endlessly. Even in the ontopic threads, the lolita community drama bleeds to the point that derails some threads.
And because I refuse to pretend that I'm a woman or anything else, I just want a server I can just lurk.

Hell, just look at all the angry salty (You)s I'm getting because I said I'm a dude.

>>10035468
>>10035521
Thanks, I'm already in it.
Given the amount of salt I'm taking in here, I guess I should do like in that server, and program a Python/C# app that gets the twitter feeds and new arrival/newcollections out of the brand websites. That would at least save me up the work of checking on them, minus the how are the trends going, but I guess I'll just have to keep using /cgl/ for that.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 03:07:56 2018 No.10035899
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>>10035885
Bro, you're getting salty over all those comments. Calm your balls. You know the truth, the truth that you were in that server just to orbit. It's ok, all man have this beta mind set that if they orbit enough they will get laid. Also no one is gonna waste they time reading that. Everyone knows males aren't humans, we're just objects, that orbit around shedding money upon the goddesses.-slurps tea-

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 04:20:47 2018 No.10035927

>>10035392
have you considered that these discords want proof of being a lolita because the people in them want to talk to other lolitas? not random lurkers.
>>10035885
you're not getting angry salty (you)'s because you're a dude. it's because you aren't actually part of the fashion. you're getting pissy because you're not wanted in a discord for a community you aren't a part of. none of these discords owe it to you to let you in. get over it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 04:32:55 2018 No.10035930 >>10035927 -slurps tea-

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 05:10:26 2018 No.10035937 >>10035248 No you don't. It was a bunch of forced drama created from nothing by bad actors. You genuinely didn't miss out on anything of value.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 05:25:43 2018 No.10035940 Gosh it makes me sad that guys are treated this badly in lolita communities. Both because of the latent hate towards men and the fact that sometimes it really is justified, given how many creeps there are.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 06:13:15 2018 No.10035953 >>10035940 We like men who actually wear the fashion. We just aren't interested in people lurking in our comms so they can use us for "research", man or woman.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 06:38:28 2018 No.10035957 >>10035953 See >>10033012

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 07:52:26 2018 No.10035980 https://discord.gg/JjadjRV Uk/britgulls Active with a good crowd.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 08:31:55 2018 No.10035990

>>10035957
Drawing doodles on paper do not make you part of the fashion. There are guys who actually put their money where their mouth is and wear the fashion, and they're already in the discord. Lolita communities are fine with men, just not witless bores who have nothing of substance to contribute.

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 08:37:30 2018 No.10035991
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>>10035927
> it's because you aren't actually part of the fashion
I've been lurking /cgl/ for a few years now, and doing the odd posting discussing or asking lolita related things, and no one has ever told me that. Until now, that I said I'm a dude.

>>10035953
>We like men who actually wear the fashion
Not everyone can be Mana.
>We just aren't interested in people lurking in our comms so they can use us for "research", man or woman.
I wouldn't only lurk in IM platforms if you girls weren't that anti-males.

>>10035990
That anon wasn't me by the way. And unless you are another angry girl you are contradicting yourself with
>Lolita communities are fine with men, just not witless bores who have nothing of substance to contribute.
>We like men who actually wear the fashion

>>10035899
Nice one.

Now to wait for more (You)'s telling me how much I am wrong, and how I don't even deserve to browse and even less to post on /cgl/. And God forbid I keep drawing lolita or J-fashion.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 09:21:32 2018 No.10035999 >>10035991 Hey anon out of curiosity what exactly do you need from joining a discord?

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 09:27:43 2018 No.10036002 >>10035999 Read the thread

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 09:31:17 2018 No.10036003 >>10036002 Great so I think >>10035516 answers all your questions then, please have a good day anon and eat well

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 09:31:22 2018 No.10036004

>>10035991
You seem clueless about what you are. You are the same as "lolitas at heart" who the vetting is for.
I know it's shocking, but lolitas that are on that server had to start somewhere too. And no one held their hands all the time. Stop being entitled. It's not about you being a guy, it's about you being a moron.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 10:01:14 2018 No.10036028 >>10035530 you was banned because you suck you pathetic shitstain

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 10:05:02 2018 No.10036032
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>>10035999
Lurking to know about the latest news(as /cgl/ is slow at times) and probably the occasional question about coords or a particular thing that I need a quick answer/opinion about it.Which in turn would be me mainly lurking and only participating when I need/want something.

>>10036004
>You seem clueless about what you are.
Indeed I am.
> Stop being entitled. It's not about you being a guy, it's about you being a moron.
According to that other anon is either me not being part of the fashion or not wearing lolita.

Now to wait more (You)'s again, about how wrong I am.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 10:11:51 2018 No.10036041 >>10036032 are you >>10035450 in the screenshot

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 10:16:11 2018 No.10036046 Stop feeding this dude >>10036032 he's either socially retarded or out for a laugh. Let him figure this shit out himself.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 10:20:42 2018 No.10036052 >>10036041 No, I'm not that guy. >>10036046 They simply can't help themselves. Which is ironic because they answer me in other threads.

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 16 12:15:23 2018 No.10036101 >>10035991 The fact that you think the only male lolita we like is Mana means you are full of shit and have zero knowledge of the fashion and our culture. All that lurking and you still don’t know shit. You kinda sound like an incel desu lol

Anonymous Fri Nov 16 14:00:44 2018 No.10036158
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>meanie girls won't let me orbit them in their private discords :( you just hate me because I am male!
>dumbass anons are still taking the bait 50 replies in

/cgl/ is a shitshow.

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 15:09:05 2018 No.10040576 Would anyone be willing to create ana lternative fashion server and keep it alive all the ones i was in are dead

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 15:12:24 2018 No.10040579 >>10040576 like, thinspo lolita?

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 15:18:36 2018 No.10040583 >>10040579 more like typo

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 15:20:32 2018 No.10040586 >>10040576 Did you talk in the dead ones? All it takes is 1 person to start a conversation

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 15:59:23 2018 No.10040610 >>10040586 >All it takes is 1 person to start a conversation Wish this was true anon, 1 person can only make a monologue :c

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 16:08:49 2018 No.10040615 >>10040579 You joke but half of cgl would join that community if it existed.

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 16:14:52 2018 No.10040624 >>10040610 It takes one person to start silly, don't expect someone else to start talking the exact same moment

>>	Anonymous Wed Nov 21 19:52:38 2018 No.10040771 >>10040624 how was your day?

Anonymous Wed Nov 21 20:20:27 2018 No.10040793
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>>10033675
>>10033594
>>10033699
It isn't really a nasty attitude, they just don't want to have to explain in detail because at least to me, it seems completely reasonable.

People would talk about things like their mental health and weight issues in the appropriate channels, and then get shit talked on cgl for it. The same reason you shouldn't add randoms on facebook, anyone can creep and post your personal information.

If the person posting people to cgl is an active member that's just two-faced, they're a slimy cunt, but that is harder to account for than the possibility of shit-stirring lurkers.

You could argue that maybe TMI on a chat server with a lot of people on it is just a bad idea, but having to be guarded about what you share and watch what you say, isn't a great way to create any sense of community support and friendship.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 22 10:32:38 2018 No.10041122 >>10040793 I support kicking inactive members but god, the off topic TMI and mental illness channel were why I left the vetting server. Some of them should spend more money on therapy than on brand lol. I guess I'll be a lonelita online too

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 22 12:25:02 2018 No.10041210 >>10036158 frequent 4chan use is a symptom of /a/utism.

>>	Anonymous Thu Nov 22 12:50:59 2018 No.10041236 >>10040771 It was actually a very productive day but the bad mood of the people I live with bring me down

Anonymous Fri Nov 23 10:16:28 2018 No.10041690

>>10041236
that's good to hear, being productive is the basis of your existence of a human being - without getting shit done life is just a vapid unfulfilling experience that turns you into a husk
getting motivated can be hard but you can endure and do it not only for yourself but those ones around you; I know that's tempting to just ignore and remove negative stimuli while you struggle yourself but think about how they suffer, bad mood doesn't come from nothing - be an example of strong will to them and never let the circumstances dictate your emotional state

laugh against all odds even when the world is crying

>>	Anonymous Fri Nov 23 12:57:03 2018 No.10041756 >>10041210 stop being such a dumb shitlord

>>	Anonymous Sat Nov 24 06:27:48 2018 No.10042096 >>10041756 > Le high iq ad hominem Thank you for post anon. You've really added a lot to the conversation, I had to sit back in my chair for several minutes to ponder the implications of such a profound argument. I thank you sir.

Anonymous Thu Nov 29 09:22:00 2018 No.10046266
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I was thinking about creating a (SFW) discord server aimed at people who feel lonely or would like to make new friends. It wouldn't be focused on lolita, cosplay, Japanese culture etc but it would be for people with these interests. People could share everyday pics, thoughts and more generally chat with others about whatever. Staying anonymous would also be okay as long as the user takes part into the conversation.

The server would have different private channels and every channel would be restricted to 5-10 individuals, who could access that only channel and not the others. This way people could get to know each other. After 2-3 months, inactive users would be kicked (not from the server, only from the private channels). The active ones would randomly be redistributed among the channels. Basically you would change channel, thus getting to know new people and maybe re-meeting old ones. This method is inteded to make things a little more interesting and different, people shouldn't exchange contacts to chat on other platforms, at least not from the start.

I think this would be fun especially if you don't have any IRL friend that shares your interests. I would need 1 mod + at least 4 other people per private channel. I think the discord can be opened with at least 2 private channels (so 10 people) but more would be better. I'd also need some civility. I don't like drama.

If you are interested, send me your discord username here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfuqc1bEhvStf7qq8GGTVGbFVUOmdXRmAO7SXqFtctSiplqXA/viewform?usp=sf_link (don't worry I won't be able to get any other info about you).

When/if I get 10+ people in, I'll open the server and get back to you.

Anonymous Thu Nov 29 13:04:05 2018 No.10046380

>>10046266
I like this idea in theory but people aren't going to stick around if they don't like the random people in the channel they're assigned to first, and there's always a chance they would've liked someone in another one. Without turning it into one big group after everyone has met one another feels kind of pointless. And people will just leave if they make one or two good friends who they're then not in the same channel as. The way you want to do it is guaranteed to have people just exchange info and chat privately once they know who they like.

Also five people per channel isn't enough - consider timezones and people's schedules. If you want five active people per channel you need to actually have at least ~15 members.

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