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Post all J-fashion discord servers here. 1) Please add the name of the server, so that we don't end up linking communities twice. 2) Permanent invites are preferred but not mandatory. 3) Add info about the servers (how much active, salty, etc) at your discretion.
I’m in the fa/cgl discord but I can’t send invites. Would be cool to have an official cgl server though with categories for everyone like lolita, jfash, cosplay, sewing etc.
>>10020328i used to be in it but then got insulted twice on threads when they could recognize my writing style when all i did was casually speak and casually post both on the server and 4chan.
>>10020328Copied & pasted this from the recent thread that died: https://discord.gg/kHxyfVMHopefully the link still works?
official cgl discords never work.4Chan discords always end up being one person or a group of people making a circlejerk and grabbing power before chasing normal people out.There's a few discords floating around, but all of them have their own circlejerk, generally they attract /pol/tards, /r9k/ losers, or sissies and then the sane people leave and go onto something else.
>>10020542nice try, moldemort. youre banned for a reason.
>>10020706Not whoever this is. If I was banned I would've understood but I really didn't do anything out of the ordinary.Guess it was maybe one person that just didn't like me
https://discord.gg/cW66dQ -> "Nanchatte seifuku friends" small but decently active https://discord.gg/kv7bHP -> "J-Fashion Community" unfortunately dead, if someone has another alternative or j-fashion server pls post ;;
>>10021034don't feel like giving my username,but i was pretty much a nobody
>>10020706I didn't post that but go off I guess lol. Also tell vqu I love her
>>10021384You could have easily ignored their comment, but you didn’t.
>>10019867https://discord.gg/faPZzHhttps://discordapp.com/invite/Cepmcgqhttps://discordapp.com/invite/Q3Q7CZyhttps://discordapp.com/invite/kHxyfVMhttps://discord.gg/XFX4QVyhttps://discordapp.com/invite/ZhWputbhttps://discord.gg/NmNjr4https://discord.gg/gkMrhbThis list was posted in the stupid questions thread but a lot of the links are dead
>>10020966The link of the Jfashion one you posted is dead. Is it the same as https://discordapp.com/invite/Cepmcgq?
Not really cgl related, but in case anyone is interested, this kpop server index also has a short list of Jpop/Jdrama servers https://discord.me/kpopindex
>>10021618>https://discordapp.com/invite/ZhWputbWhat is this for? "Yasi's Sorority"?
>>10021620That one is only a few days old. It had a kimono channel at first but Idk what happened to that.
>>10021618This list without the dead links:(J)Fashion Updates - https://discord.gg/CepmcgqLolita Fashion Discord - https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZyFashion x CGL - https://discord.gg/kHxyfVMYasi's Sorority - https://discord.gg/ZhWputb>>10021622Japan servers from the Kpop index:Akami Sally Server - https://discord.gg/NgcEeNjAlternative Idols - https://discord.gg/KMsPRtSArashi Fans (Eng Lang) https://discord.gg/dx6gCskCodomomental Menhera Hospital - https://discord.gg/PrJ8ujNDefwill - https://discord.ggr848CApHello! Project Fans - https://discord.gg/M7zjxe5Hey! Say! JUMP - https://discord.gg/HvmGh92Jmusic - https://discord.gg/tssUBFYJohnny's & Associates - https://discord.gg/f3wuRnYJpop - https://discord.gg/4tnqaXvNiji No Conquistador - https://discord.gg/w8CqWS8Ni Ji Masu's Beach - https://discord.gg/AbxbH5QPerfume - https://discord.gg/JbnwMSGShitao Miu World - https://discord.gg/cMZ8ffyTakeuchi Miyu - https://discord.gg/pU6VHJ6Wa-SpookedYa / The World Standard - https://discord.gg/va8QFtjNippon Idol Club - https://discord.gg/S9vxEcK
Fairy Kei discord! Other JFash is welcome too though!https://discord.gg/Bc3yePa
>>10021620It isn't, try this: https://discord.gg/5kx87yXI liked this server, it was small and had many harajuku styles. But it is definitely dead. Maybe we can revive it or something
>>10021655Can you please repost this? Thank you.>Lolita Fashion Discord - https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZy
>>10021655I want her to make the automatic brand update channels but my social anxiety is too strong to say anything on discord
>>10021620I want her to make the automatic brand update channels but my social anxiety is too strong to say anything on discord
>>10022002Link is expired
>>10022008No it isn't
>>10022010Then I don't have enough permits to join, I'm confused, I have a regular disord account and I've never even joined that discord
>>10022024Okay it was Chrome acting strange, pasting the link directly onto discord works. Sorry for the mess
https://discord.gg/wVH6ND^^ invite to the vetting server
https://discord.gg/Q3Q7CZyLolita fashion vetting server. Must submit proof pics. Good place for actual concrit, sales watching, etc.
https://discord.gg/CnPgjWTLolita vetting server, must provide proof pics. Active, good for concrit and sales. [fixed link]
Fa x CGL discord has a big hive mentality culture where you get bullied for not thinking like the cool kids in there do, there's also minimum lolita discussion and if you enjoy being orbited it's the place for you. i saw mentioned that the admin is a bit of a creep too but that was a year agothe lolita fashion place without the vetting is best, but sometimes bitchy
>>10022160Uh yeah if you want to hang around a bunch of itas or 14 year olds who think their screenprinted circle skirt and office blouse is ‘loli’. Vetting is absolutely the way to go. Yeah you’re not going to get asspats but you’re also not going to be hanging out with idiots who try to purchase their entire wardrobe from amazon and call it ‘old school’. You can actually hold conversations with people who know what they’re talking about and have the coords to prove it.
>>10022178if you accepted me into your 'quote on quote' secret princess discord then maybe, just maybe i wouldn't be complaining about gatekeeping, uh?
Is there a lolita server that is neither bitchy nor filled with cringey people? (i guess no huh)
>>10022248the vetted server allegedly is but i wouldn't know would i
>>10022251If it's the one with channels for drama I found it bitchy as well t.bh.
>>10022160The server is full of crossposters, the egl channel is dead. Why is it even on here?
>>10022265At least the lolitas wear the fashion unlike the "lolitas" in the non vetting servers
I wanna make my own lolita discord for people actually wearing the fashion with a more strict vetting process. The vetting server lets anyone as long as they own at least like 3 dresses in.I'd like a more intense vetting, maybe proof that you own at least 10 dresses and several blouses and accessories and have been interested in the fashion for 2+ years.I can dream, I guess. I'd feel like a faggot just posting a server with only me and like 3 other people in it. Unless some people would be interested in giving it a go.I'm mostly just sick of joining servers that let pretty much anyone in.
>>10022269you're comparing a shiny turd to a regular turd the fact doesn't change that they're both turds?
>>10022277sounds like you didnt make it into the vetting server
>>10022282I actually did with a pretty shitty proof picture of a couple items and they let me in with no problem. I left because I disliked the people in the server and felt like half the people there didn't wear the fashion as a fashion.
>>10022281well all I did was answer the question >>10022265 asked
>>10022286 > I left because I disliked the people that's on you buddy>felt like half the people there didn't wear the fashion as a fashionthats ur feefees. not really the truth if you bothered to not be a stuck up cnut what people also dont realise is that vetting= having items, and that vetting is not an unbreakable promise that you will stay in. there's been people who have been kicked for being shittyidk what makes you think you're special- having 10 dresses is nothing. being in the fashion for 2+ years is nothing. maybe you should make another vetting server so that we can join and laugh at you?
>>10022292what is better, a server full of crossposters with little to no lolita discussion, or a server full of itas?(neither)
>>10022296I'd say the crossposter one is better because you can ignore the other channels. In the ita server there's no escape
>>10022293Sorry that I actually wear lolita almost daily and don't treat it like a costume for conventions. I don't like people treating the fashion I love like something they wear as a costume with some OTT nonsense.And yes, having 10 dresses is nothing. But your shitty vetting lets people who have like a minimum of 2-3 dresses in. Being in the fashion for 2+ years is also nothing, but better than letting newbies who have no clue about the fashion and have only been interested for 2 months into the server.It's about experience and actual love for the fashion and wearing it casually/daily. Every single lolita server I've joined has a bunch of newbies in it that just annoy the fuck out of me because they don't know the most basic information about lolita and think buying a couple dresses makes them a lolita expert. Or theres the people that think casual or oldschool isn't 'real' lolita.
>>10022293Why are people from the vetting server so angry all the time? Like are you this personally offended someone left your group? Really?
>>10022298what the fuck are you talking about? we barely even have ott coords you must be roleplaying. more dresses doesnt mean you're a better lolita than someone else. being dressed well makes you a better lolitanewbies are everywhere. what is important is that they're willing to learn, and unlike the ita pit, they're willing to invest >>10022299stop samefagging lol
>>10022277You should make the server. Have 3 coord pics and picture of 10+ dresses as vetting
>>10022300Not actually samefag, quit reaching.I want people who have been in the fashion for a fair amount of time (2 years being the minimum) and have a lot of experience. That's all. More dresses typically mean more experience in coording. It's very simple. I've been in this fashion for the past 10 years. I'm sick of being around people who treat lolita like a fad and don't really know what they're talking about.There's nothing necessarily wrong with newbies, I'm fine with people being new to the fashion, but I don't personally want to have them in my server.I just want a server with experienced lolitas who have watched lolita grow and evolve over the years like I have and wear the fashion daily/almost daily/as work or school permits. I don't want people who have been wearing the fashion every few months for only a year.Sorry that some people think your vetting server is shitty. Don't get so offended.>>10022305I'm considering it. I'm sure trolls from the vetting server will come but I might set it up with a friend of mine.
>>10022281I found fish fingers! Sorry you’re not getting enough asspats from the Happy Place. Feels bad only being able to get into a group full of itas with your amazon wardrobe huh?
>>10022307you want experienced lolitas, but also with a minimum of 2 years, which again, is not a lot. ok!you do realise most people cant even wear lolita on a daily basis because of work commitments?i'm not offended i really want you to make this server so it will actually just be the vetted server. very much doubt you'll get much other influx
>>100223132 years isn't a lot, but it's better than 2 months.And I just said "as work or school permits". I understand some people can't wear it everyday, that's why I said that.
>>10022315so you do realise that people don't often have the chance to wear it often, but yet choose to label yourself above them? you're making no senseif you want to make a super special server go ahead, but for god's sake have some clear guidelines
>>10022317Even people with extremely busy schedules have time to wear the fashion at least once a month. The people I label myself above, in your terms, are conlitas and people who wear the fashion twice a year and claim they're "such a lolita!!" while owning like 2 dresses from Taobao. And I don't label myself above them, I just don't think I get along with them and they wear lolita in a very different way than I do.
>>10022320i literally dont know any of the regulars, or in the server who match that description, but maybe you're just looking for an excuse to start your own server
The problem isn't really vetting or not imo. I like the old-school lolita server and they don't have vetting. I also love one of the cooking servers I'm in and they do have vetting. It just depends on if you click with people there and if you're interested in the content of the channels. On discord, like everywhere on the internet, 99% of the people are lurkers. The other 1% is making the conversation and they pretty much decide the entire atmosphere of the server (besides the channels and rules).
>>10022305Veteran's server is live. Please apply only if you meet the requirements, don't waste the mods' time!https://discord.gg/JRsKKye
>>10022305thats excessive what about capsule wardrobes
Hello everyone,We have had a massive influx of new members and we are trying to pass as many experienced lolitas as possible. Please DO NOT sign up to the server unless you have your proof ready to go in the near future, as you will be kicked within the next 48 hours if you haven't submitted an application with proof.We have also had a few trolls try to join but fortunately we have deflected them. They are now banned.
>>10022434How did you get that many responses to your post in 35 literal minutes on a Monday night two days before Halloween? The entire board's not even moving that fast, there's what like maybe 15 active posters currently?
>>10022443It looks like there are 25 people in the discord right now, which would mean 250 coords to vet. Just because the board isn't moving quickly doesn't mean that there aren't people lurking.
>>10022443Not a monday night for everyone in the world anon.
>>10022443a lot of people from other timezones, it's what I'm guessingwe have had a fair amount of applications, some from competing servers so it's not surprising that word got out so fast?
>>10022452Is eggplant a troll? That is the worst intro I've ever seen.
>>10022453nah I checked her up personally. She provided her IG and weibo as proof and had a wardrobe photo with her discord name.It's safe to say that since this is a server originated on 4chan that we will have some ...... unique characters. I don't plan to have a server which is 100% serious but if eggplant (or anyone) misbehaves in other channels i will give her a warning and in the future, ban her.
>>10022443Only 1% of the people on the internet actively post. There are 99% people watching this thread now but not posting.
>>10022399Who are the mods though? How do we know they are legit
>>10022453>>10022455Lol what did she say?
>>10022453I thought it was a joke>>10022488Bittersweet meme
i suppose we can assume its no boys allowed either huh
>>10022504Idk bro are you an experienced lolita
>>10022455Seconding >>10022487Who is the mod team? Post coords.
>>10021655Where do I join to get a cute seagull gf?
>>10022487this, Before I join some veteran lolita server i wanna see what the mods dress like
>>10022551>implying seagulls are cute
>>10022539Whether they want to post coords on here it’s up to them, but they are are well known and well respected experienced members of the Lolita discord community.
>>10022749Who are they?
>>10022801ok... (not a mod) but just theorizing here. I'm guessing they are gulls just like all of us here, and if they are vetting so hard why would they not be experienced lolitas? i guess i'll just join, test it out, if it sucks leave. easy.
>>10023140>they are are well known and well respected experienced members of the Lolita discord community.There's a difference between well-known and respected and experienced. If they are vetting so hard, they should be held to the same standard.
>>10023143Well, I don’t think you really need to worry. Just join and see for your self.
>>10023140>>10022749If they were that well known and respected they wouldn't be scared of outing themselves
>>10023168why should they be scared to out themself when you can just join the server and look yourself
>>10023168It looks like the same team as the vetting server. I guess the other one crash and burned.
>>10023168It looks like the same team as the original vetting server. I guess the other one crashed and burned.
>>10023220They are really not the same people. Wtf are you talking about? The vetting discord is fine too. How could you even know if you're not in it?
>>10022455>>10022488>>10022491It was a joke but I am a real person who does wear lolita if that helps
It would be really cool, since there's such demand for this server, if people actually posted in it. Nut up and show us some coords.
>>10023261you say that here but ain't got the balls to post it in the server huh
>>10023168Why are you so anal about this? Like, it’s a discord not joining a cult. Just check it out, don’t be a douche, talk to people, and see if it’s for you. Wait scratch that, you sound like someone who doesn’t want to make friends so maybe stay away~
>>10022399WHY IS EVERYBODY VEGETABLES
>>10023268I was wondering that but I didn't want to ask
>>10023264>>10023268Is this a larping server?
>>10023279As far as I can tell everyone there is an actual lolita
so i’m not in the vet server but like, is there an open channel where everyone can post like a collage of some coords so you can see everyone’s skill level and style, mods included? I think that would be a nice idea, help put a style to a name. Faces could be obscured, obvi
>>10023268veggies are kawaii
>>10023294Can you post an example? This sounds complicated I'm no good at photoshop
>>10023268I WANT TO BE A CABBAGE, A TRUE FRIENDO
>>10023433Follow your dreams and be a cabbage.
>>10023385sure, i’m using pics of misako and some floords from instagram to illustrate my point Basically everyone could make something like this and post it in a dedicated server with a brief intro and the members can look back at it and check out your style.So like we could see our misako-clone likes reds and greys and leans to a more mature sweet styleAnd if everyone did that you could always look back at it and i dunno, check to see if the girl giving you scathing crit on your oldschool motie coord wears exclusively 2012 OTT sweet
>>10023440and by server i absolutely mean channel, durrrr
>>10023433JOIN THE SERVER AND YOU CAN BE THE CABBAGE YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO BE
>>10023440that is a pretty neat idea. idk how i feel about it being open though. could have been a nice addition to the intros though.
>>10023294there are some mediocre lolitas from the other servers but posting the sidebar breaks a rule probably
>>10023168I know you can just see if you join but it is really weird that they don't just want to post their usernames here since it's already obvious they go here anyway
No offense but what is the point of discord, especially one with mostly gulls? Let's be honest, the reason most of you are here is because it's on anon. People who are used to posting on anon are not going to be active in a place where you have a set username. The people who don't mind posting their name and face everywhere are already on facebook so they don't need discord either. Isn't it just for gamers?
>>10023597You've clearly never used discord. And no, most lolitas comfortable with posting their face aren't on facebook. It's essentially just a chat room with different channels, so you can talk about whatever. Personally, I'm not even on cgl just for the anonymity; plenty of people I know post here, and know I post as well. It's just nice to be able to have conversations with other lolitas that aren't tempered by the need to be polite because your face/name is attached to what you say.
>>10023597Are you trolling or just stupid? Discord is just like Skype but better
>>10023618>>10023624I do use it. For gaming. Are there also a bunch of lolita groups on skype then?
>>10023618personally speaking i've found the discord as a good way to get actual concrit and help. Even experienced lolitas sometimes run into problems or want feedback, and while the threads here are usually not very helpful, the lolitas in the discord will be honest. Posting on FB isnt helpful either bc its usually just asspats and then boom you wind up getting shit talked in cgl. I'd rather just ask a group of lolitas for concrit.
WHY IS EVERYONE A FRUIT/VEG>>10023559speaking of mediocre, you're right. why are funk and jennkitty in there?
>>10023553I’m pretty sure you could set the permissions so you can see it as soon as you join the server, but are unable to post in it until they’ve “vetted” you and given you the role that lets you access the whole server. That way it can also work as a preview so you know what you’re getting into before you gain full access
>>10023640yeah why the fuck is funk there? I thought this was for good lolitas
why do people always make temporary invites?
>>10023646>>10023640They probably fit the requirements of 10 main pieces and 2+ years
>>10023632No one uses Skype because we've all switched to Discord, lmao.
>>10023643you're sort of treating this like you're an asset of some kind. The server doesn't owe you anything. In the end if someone is so good and so far above everyone else they shouldn't be afraid of sharing photos to the mods, or leaving if they find the place unsatisfying- as other people have. You're a great lolita, I get it, but you also come across as someone who is a bit cowardly.
>>10023643Why not just join, and get vetted, and look at the coord-pics channel?A channel that already fucking exists to post pictures of ourselves lmfao.you're fucking autistic, it takes 2 seconds to join/get vetted.
>>10023646Why is funk banned from almost every cgl server?Someone mentioned it to me before but I have no idea why.
>>10023818Because he's a dumbass
>>10023725So you we used to have lolita groups on skype?
>>10023818he's only banned from the vetted server lol
>>10023777That's not what autism is lol
>>10023846>using lack of knowledge of 4chin slang as a counterpointdefinitely autistic, this one
>>10023845? Huh ummmm
Fine, I'll bite.>>10023632I meant that people use discord to talk to their friends just like they did on Skype. >>10023597>not going to be active in a place where you have a set username>the people who don't mind posting their name and face everywhere are already on facebook so they don't need discord eitherDo you plaster your name and face all over your discord, then? You could make your discord username something completely random and different from any other handle you have. My discord is completely separate from my non-lolita social media.Discord is overall better as a messenger service. Why would you use Facebook to DM friends when you could use discord to do that, and to also make new friends with a relative degree of anonymity?
>>10023559excuse me???? what the fuck do u think this is? amateur hour? u think we're fucking around here- we are not. this is a server where u need to have 10 COORDS NOT 9 or 8 and 2 YEARS of experience, not 1 year 11 months and so on. i take this server very seriously. i have put a loot of work and time to vet the best of the best. the creme de la creme if u might say. i am not fucking with anyone- this is the definitive and the only veteran lolita discord and you will provide me witht eh photos of u will not waste my time or the mods time, capiche bitch?
>>10023861I'm not the person you're arguing with, and again, you're using autism wrong
>>10023559Posting the sidebar doesn't break rules because you're not singling anyone out.
>>10023640Damn you have a vendetta. Go away Autumn
>>10023923I am now convinced that either this thread or that server must be 99% larpers trying to stir shit
>>10023268Sounds like same faggy inside joke
>>10024023I'm guessing this thread is full of larpers because everyone who has joined the discord has been awfully quiet
>>10023559If you're going to call people mediocre then you need to be posting coords on the serverI was genuinely interested in seeing coords from people who think they're hot shit, but so far only a couple of people have come to play. Suspicious desu
>>10023559I think it's a bit of a drama/trolling server. The introductions seem really fake. CTP and puppet circus in 3 colourways? Yeah right, and I'm the queen of Sheba.
>>10024075I think you're going to get a hard time getting people to post real introductions in a server that was started by this thread that was clearly posted in bad faith, probably a collab between known bad actors jennkitty and funkbros
>>10024076Neither of those people are mods of this new server, take your vendetta to your server if you want to complain. Not sure why you hate them but it’s embarrassing at this point to call them out. Just block them and move on
>>10024015She's not even in the new server. It's embarrassing at this point. Just block her and move on
>>10024075mine was real.. (´・ω・｀)
>>10023841Not that it matters and I'm not that anon but yes, for the record there were skype groups for cgl and for lolita in general. That was like, the bronze ages though. I don't think anyone but Discord themselves actually thinks Discord is "for gamers only" anymore, its just a more lightweight and enjoyable version of skype. I'm in servers for everything from webcomics to friends groups to cooking to fuckin tarot. If you're resistant to using it thats fine, but I promise its gonna end up being like facebook was to livejournal where there comes a point that you are either on that platform or you aren't actually connected to the community at large in any meaningful way.
>>10024133Yup, I used Discord for different friend groups - girlfriends, college buddies, content creation, etc. Way better than Skype, literally had someone who worked at Microsoft tell me not to use Skype because it fucking sucks ("It just doesn't work sometimes"). A few years ago you could dox people just by knowing their Skype username and get their IP from it. Facebook messenger sucks ass, and you have privacy concerns there. The different channels you can make in each Discord server is reminiscent of Teamspeak, but with way more functionality, text, uploading files/images, and shit is free + anonymous.
>>10024075You're making this up. No one said that they had CTP and PC in three colourways in the intros. Get better reading comprehension.
>>10024133Read the thread
>>10024069>so far only a couple of people have come to playThat's exactly what I would expect of people who come here to shit on coords and will defend and justify their behavior to no end because they just absolutely neeeed to shit on people.
>>10024159Name fagging isn't completely anonymous tho.
>>10024276Did you know that there's a middle ground between being anonymous on 4chan and using social media connected to your name and face?
>>10023640>speaking of mediocre, you're right. why are funk and jennkitty in there?>>10023646>yeah why the fuck is funk there?message your complaints about the users to the mods in the server.
>>10024362mod here , they met the requirements of 10 coords and 2+years of experience, as cgl requested, cannot personally comment about my feelings on either.........
>>10022395The old school lolita server DOES have vetting actually
So if 2 years and 10 coords isn't making the kind of server that people are actually interested then what sort of vetting do you all ACTUALLY want? >>10024461What is their requirement?
>>10024466Same as the regular vetted cgl discord (not the retard one up thread)
>>10024179Reread it, apparently she has CTP in both colorways and puppet circus AND iron gate. Disbelief, unless proof photos are provided I'll keep on thinking this is a joke. I proved I'm real, the mods should too.
>>10024554Yeah after seeing one of the mods literally posting her plans to troll some girl I'm really uncomfortable and think they should post some proof
>>10024559If you’re uncomfortable about a minor joke please leave thanks
>>10024554I re read that. Good catch.Mods should really pin their coords or something to the top of the coord thread. Otherwise I'm not a fan of this server, it seems like a more circlejerky version of cgl.
>>10024570Why so much focus on a bunch of people? Most discord mods are just there to clean up channels and make sure that it’s peaceful. They’re not representatives lol
>>10024571it's not an unreasonable request to post one old coord. I don't see any coords from the mods yet despite them mucking about in all the other servers.
>>10024576Have is crossed your mind that they don’t want to be under malicious scrutiny, since you and others keep posting their discord activity on other servers on here? It’s a tad creepy and obsessive
>>10024588Well I won't post my coord in the coords thread unless the mods are posting too. Something is really weird or shitty with this server.
>>10024623Then leave, lol
>>10024623Cry about it then leave ASAP, the mods will post coords whenever they want to. We don’t owe you shitIt’s also pretty obvious who you are and it’s laughable at this point. Reason is because 95% of the people there already know the mods are actual Lolitas from other servers and have seen their coords before. They wouldn’t be there if they didn’t know. You could’ve got what you wanted and we would’ve posted coords if you weren’t so creepily obsessed about it
>>10024900There's at least two others here who aren't happy so good luck singling people out I guess.
>>10024900>its pretty obvious who you areWho is it
>>10024960We are not singling anyone out if we're doing nothing about it lolThere's only 4-5 people on there which haven't seen or have known the mods for a while- fewer that share servers with the mods. It's not that hard desu,
Everyone: it would be nice if we had at least one bit of proof that it's not a massive jokeMods: OmG sO cReEpY aNd ObSeSsIvE, why do u want to sniff our panties so much? Jeez we're under constant scrutiny, you wouldn't know what that's like! Just leave the server if you're going to hold us to the slightest bit of critique!Lol, mods, u so mad
>>10025124Not involved with this shitshow at all butCould it be that the over the top "omg why are you obsessed with me" response IS proof that is a massive joke???
>>10025121I'm one of them. I have no idea who these mods are to be honest.
>>10022551It requires a bullet to the head.
>>10024349I wouldn't want to be known as so and so from discord. If anything getting branded is worse.
>>10025121Responding to a concern by going "lol I know who ur!11" is not a way to inspire confidence or new people to come to a server. But have fun with it. If you wanted your own secret club where you know everyone why bother advertising on here?
>>10025188Are you retarded>>10022277>>10022286>>10022298>>10022307>>10022299>>10022305>>10022315>>10022320It's not a secret club, it was made to appease these whiny anons and any other lurkers
>>10025212so you're admitting this is a troll server to "appease these whiny anons"?
>>10025214Confirmed retard, why would it be a troll server because of that? Most of the other lolita discords were made to appease anons
>>10025221then why are you lashing out at other anons who want to know more about the mods? its contradictory. we just want to know if it's a joke server or not and your over the top backlash is kind of embarrassing in itself.
>>10025227Are you seriously assuming all those posts are one person? I posted >>10025212 and >>10025221 and that was it
>>10025230it still doesn't explain their attitude but thanks for butting in.
>>10025227If you think it's a joke server and can't trust the mods, make your own that is not a joke and screen people yourself. This one is probably going to die anyway as long as you "super elite lolitas" are too chickenshit to even chat.
>>10024900I'm not sure I have understood everything but imo if joining requires showing coords and dresses as proof I do think you owe these things to people who get to join. It's really weird mods would get to refrain from this and it really seems unequal for other members of the server.
>itt: why we can't have nice things
>>10025322Thank you for saying this. It's ridiculous that the mods are getting that defensive about this.
>>10025121It's a bit arrogant to think people who are in other servers with you must have automatically seen your pictures there and remembered your usernames as well.
>>10025355I mean >>10024576 and >>10023559 recognized usernames so
i’ve only seen one or two mods’ coords, but i dont think i know anymore because everyone is a fruit now. it honestly doesn’t matter to me, it’s just a chat group... y’all taking it too seriouslyif you want to see a mods coords, just freaking ask
The way so many people are losing their shit over not seeing the mods' coords and trashing the discord just because of that one thing absolutely reeks of people that don't meet the requirements. It takes ten minutes to join and get verified, and then you can check yourself.
>>10025407How can you check if they didn't all post their coords lol
>>10025422>DM>hey, can I see your insta?>yeah, sure. it's blahblahblah
>>10025422just dm the mods privately and ask to see their coords, that's what everyone did to get in the server. nobody's required to post their coords in the public channels
Sooo is there anyone who is satisfied with the new lolita server? Are the requirements too lax?
>>10025536>Are the requirements too lax?I think they're just fine. 10+ dresses in two years is a reasonable requirement. The way some of these posters are acting, you'd think the mods said you have to have forty dresses and been in the fashion for a decade.
>>10020601link is dead anon
>>10022160-sips tea-Nah this channel is pretty comfy. And I love the banter.
Could I get invited to cgl/fa and the Nanchatte rooms please?
What do you think of the admins/mods of the servers listed here?
You guys know who you are -sips tea violently- how dare you kick me out of the server. I demand trial by combat to let me back in!
>>10030897You're not getting your fish fingers anywhere near us.
>>10030929It was comfy while it lasted. Y'all will always have a comfy spot place in my heart.
>>10024461Does anyone have a link to the old school lolita server?
>joins several discord servers>All fatties and ugly trans even a mixture of trans fatty>Guys pretending to be girls>All the rest of the servers are dead>There is a only decent one but they all already made they friendship circle
>>10031321>>All fatties and ugly trans even a mixture of trans fatty>>Guys pretending to be girlsjc where did you join anon
>>10031341Any public one.
>>10031321maybe look for a sever that isn't linked on 4chan
>>10025536I think the requirements are fine, especially since they were tailored to the community's wishes. The attitude in there is not fine, because nobody will post anything in there (esp not coords, though the ones posted are generally solid), but people have been bitching in this thread the whole time.
>>10025322>>10025351Look, all the mods did was set up the server. Because people here wanted it. If you got in, why are you complaining? That means the mods did their job: they vetted you effectively and let you in. The rest is in your hands, senpai. Since the vetting is relatively stringent but also straightforward, the mods seem to be using a light touch so far. If you're complaining about the mods... Then you probably didn't get in in the first place.
>>10031321>>All the rest of the servers are deadThey wouldn't be dead if you said anything or responded to anything other people said
>>10031321>already made they friendship circleThere's still room, that's the beauty of discord. Keep participating, you'll find your niche
>>10032555I mean, I really was going to, but after >>10024900's very weird reaction I think I'll see how things turn out first.
I'm looking for a good vetted lolita server that has decent activity levels and a low numbers of itas and lolita roleplayers. I know I have options here, but... the horror stories have me dissuaded. I know a girl who came to a meet a few weeks ago had horrible problems with the vetted server. She joined and made some posts, and then the mods kicked her out because they thought she was someone else. She's never caused any drama... it was pretty sad to hear about how she was treated by them. Is the veteran server run by the same idiots?
>>10033391Why don't you make one
>>10033391Veteran server is not run by same people but it's dead quiet
I wish the updates server was active
>>10033391Your friend was most likely kicked for inactivity and can re-join. Unless she's that diaper girl than please stay the f away. Idk why /cgl/ thinks the vetted server bans everyone. They just do regular inactivity purges which is not the same at all.
>>10033557Why do people take inactivity purges so personally? It's not a judgement against you if you're purged. It's purely that they want to keep an active discord.
>>10033557I'm still in that server but out of curiosity, why do inactivity purges? I'm in a number of servers with over hundred inactive members and nobody gives a shit. Maybe someone is just busy for a few weeks but will be active again later. It just seems like a lot of extra work.
>>10033576well you dont know if those people are inactive because theyre just away for a bit or are serial lurkers/creeps so, out they go! bye!
>>10033557Ewww how tf did a diaper girl get in? Bad vetting?
>>10033654Shit happens? The vetting is just to prove you have/wear lolita.
>>10033664So she wanders in and starts dropping gross pics? That doesn't just happen desu
>>10033594You know they're lolitas because they were vetted
>>10033674I'll bet 20 dollars that you're her and trying to get the dirt on how we found out you're an ageplaying diaper shitting freak
>>10033686desu okI've never been in the vetted server and I'm not going to join it. I'm not even a lolita, I'm a cosplayerJust wondering how dumb the mods are to let a diaper fag in and allow her to shit up a server. Keep being salty frillfriends
>>10033594This sort of nasty attitude is why so many of us look at the vetted server with disdain. You've got these grand expectations for behaviour and posting habits, you have a high turnover rate because you've chosen your clique, and you keep whinging and complaining about people not liking you so you turn on the defensive. I left the server after it was found out that you allowed some fairly disgusting things to happen because it was all "good salty fun". Make up your mind, are you mean because you're insecure or are you insecure because you can't keep a friend?
>>10033695>>10033674Nah dude, she's dumb and used the same name she uses for other shit. Someone noticed who she was and she got banned.She wasn't screeching about pee pee poo poos everywhere, just being a little weird and then someone put two and two together
>>10033699Please, those of you who think the vetted server are a bunch of bitches and all the other ones are shit, and then come here asking for a good active server, make your own server and vet it yourselves. That's the only way you will get a server to your standards.
>>10033700Someone noticed who she was? So you had two diaper shitters in the server and only kicked one? desu did no one realize the person who noticed her needed to have some knowledge of diaper freak usernames to be able to pick that one out
>>10033717I'm not a mod so I don't know the details.Plus I'm being vague on purpose because diaper-chan goes on here.
>>100337214-chan is a diaper for us all, you're letting your shit out here too.
>>10033721I'm going to start a wardrobe and get into the vetted server so I can experience this clusterfuck myself desu
>>10033576The inactivity purges are simply to promote activity. I don’t want to look at a member list and think “who are these people”Also whoever is white knighting the vetted server is being really annoying; if people don’t like it they don’t like it. Who cares.
>>10033711>just start your own REEEEEEWay to go, you've proven some points here
>>10033717Hey now, some people who go on fetlife are into perfectly normal and respectable things like being choked and spat on
>>10033717What if someone just googled the username
>>10033764I was going to suggest that as something the mods should have done first but how often are you really going to google someone desuMaybe they were looking for an instagram or something. You could be right.
>>10033594kinda depressing desu, I was in that server and fairly active for a few months but apparently got kicked out at some point just because I didn't say anything for a few weeksthe mentality isn't great either imo, lots of people who don't dress near well enough for the amount of shit they talk, and there's a few people with serious personality issuesserver itself is still good (probably the best place around for discussing the fashion without constant uwu luvlies bullshit as you get on facebook), but a few drops of tar really spoil the pot of honey at times>>10033717have you ever been part of an actual online comm? those creep names travel at the speed of light, it's common knowledge within a few days
>>10033769I'm surprised there isnt a public list posted of known diaper freaks
Girls calm your tits, could someone please send new links of servers I may join. -sips tea-
>>10034009all of these except the fa x cgl one still work >>10021655
Wow、 I got kick/ban from theFashion x EGL discord just because I was apart of /r9k/ trans server. A server that got deleted.Just because you found a freaking collage image of collected screencaps from our server 、proves nothing、I didn't do anything wrong. That collage was made by haters from 4chan、 server raiders、and a competitive server. There was so much dramatic because they were shilling lies about server.In /r9cute/There was no CP, forced hrt pushing, pink pill pedalling, doxxing, grooming, cutting/suicide promotion or any other activities those ****wits have come up with to spawn drama on our beloved server. It got us deleted./sad
Wow、 I got kick/ban from theFashion x EGL discord just because I was apart of a /r9k/ trans server. A server that got deleted. NOT FAIR AT ALL!!!Just because you found a freaking collage image of collected screencaps from our server 、proves nothing、I didn't do anything wrong. That collage was made by haters from 4chan、 server raiders、and a competitive server. There was so much drama because they were shilling lies about our server!!!In /r9cute/There was no CP, forced hrt pushing, pink pill pedalling, doxxing, grooming, cutting/suicide promotion or any other activities those ****wits have come up with to spawn drama on our beloved server. It got us deleted./sad
>>10035189I mean to be fair can u blame them?
>>10035189get owned lib
>>10035189being friends with pedophiles is not cute
>>10035215There was NO any pedophiles at or pedophilia. We didn't allow anything like that.
>>10035222people bragged about the age cp images that they had, just give up. in general its very cringe to be in a r9k server anyway. let alone one like that.
>>10035189>going on /r9k/No wonder you were banned.
>>10035189>cutting/suicide promotion>Included in this pic are pictures of people saying "cut my name into your skin and I'll give you x">Followed by images of said person's name cut into someone's skinHmmmmm...
>>10035246Oh wow kinda wish I saw this shit show go down
>>10035246It's really easy to take screenshots、 then crop the images and put them together as a collage /titled *welcome to /r9cute/ to throw everything OUT OF CONTEXT.You guys are literally being memed by a bunch of 4channers posting that image around various boards.
>>10035252how in tarnation are you going to argue the absurd amount of images of self harm scars posted in the discord as "out of context"
>>10035252HOW CAN SELF HARM SCARS BE TAKEN "OUT OF CONTEXT"
>>10035252stop using pedo syntaxys please
I just want a lolita discord that I can lurk and in which people will keep me updated with the new collections and good coords.
>>10035333why lurk, its social thing
>>10035335Because no one likes a dude that is only in there because he likes to shitty draw lolitas, design new lolita style clothing and learn what and what isn't ita, as well as learn the current trends.I'm still learning how do fashion designers design a print and then apply it to a cloth pattern, and then how it will look when it is wear.And no, I don't like /fa/, I like lolita fashion, j-fashion and cyberpunk.
>>10035364why not just lurk cgl then
>>10035374I already do, but there's too much drama and too few source of what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is ita.Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.
>>10035378>too much dramaMan up and lurk anyways. Cgl was 98% of my lolita education because everywhere else was too much of a hugbox to actually offer any advice or non-basic information. Any worthwile lolita discord is full of lolitas who already know their way around the fashion and you'll rarely get good crit or info there either.
>>10035386>Man up and lurk anyways.That's the problem. The servers that seems to be alive requires you to post whatever clothing you have or fill some info about yourself.Who the fuck would let a dude lurk(and maybe comment if X piece with Y piece is ok) if he isn't a brolita, lolita and just like the fashion and drawing?>Any worthwile lolita discord is full of lolitas who already know their way around the fashion and you'll rarely get good crit or info there either.Then, could you please recommend me some of these or other that would accept a non-lolita, non-brolita that just want to learn the fashion and how to make good coords?My main source of information is /cgl/ and /cgl/'s question threads, as I'm not THAT much to make some fake facebook/instagram/flickr/whatevergirlsusestoday to stalk a bunch of random people for their clothes and ask them what must be dumb questions.>>10021655>>10021618>>10020966A lot of these ones needs some kind of proof of lolihood, which I can't give.So it is either ask for discord lolita servers, or go back to ask random people on /ic/ and /fa/ servers, and as I said, /fa/ and lolita/jfashion/cyberpunk don't mix well. And in /ic/ they care more about my shitty technical drawing skills than actual cloth design and coords.
>>10035364I'm not any of these anons, but yay cyberpunk~! I'm an old school lolita most of the time, but the rest of my time is dabbling in cyberpunky fashion
>>10035364>>10035378>what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is itaIt's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably coord. >learn the current trendsYeah, good luck. It's pretty obvious that /cgl/ has a really diverse taste. Most of what brands make today isn't what some lolitas want. That's why we have old-school and stuff. It would be better if you made a thread asking what would lolitas want.>shitty draw lolitasWe have a thread for that.>Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.I don't go to the feels and ita threads and I get all my informations. Just ignore the obvious bait.
>>10035364>>10035378>what is an okay coord, a bad coord and what is itaIt's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably a good coord.>learn the current trendsYeah, good luck. It's pretty obvious that /cgl/ has a really diverse taste. Most of what brands make today isn't what some lolitas want. That's why we have old-school and stuff. It would be better if you made a thread asking what would lolitas want.>shitty draw lolitasWe have a thread for that.>Too much people bitching about other people instead of posting pics of clothes, talking about them, and posting coords and giving opinions on them and so on.I don't go to the feels and ita threads and I get all my informations. Just ignore the obvious bait.
>>10035392Have you tried lurking the COF threads here?
>>10035400>t's called having eyes anon. It looks awful, the materials are bad and the whole thing makes you wince? It's probably ita. It looks pretty nice but unbalanced? It's probably what you would call a nitcpick. It looks great? Then it's probably coord. There are things that I like and they are called ita, and if I ask why, generally no one bothers to asnwer.>We have a thread for that.I know, I posted there some times.>>10035393> I'm an old school lolitaExample of my ignorance, for me old school lolita is someone that dresses like out of Gothic & Lolita Bible(managed to download it from 1 to 37 and from 41 to 42 plus boudoir, ensemble and extra 1 and 2 ), with which I started to get interested in lolita fashion, and Kera got me into j-fashion, cyberpunk is more because I fucking love sci-fi. I've been trying for years to make a space ship commander lolita uniform, an official dress for formal occasions and a every-day including battle-dress.Skirts and petticoats don't fare well in null-g or micro-gravity making the official dress the only one that is bearable and the every-day with the battle-dress modifications for null-g, no atmosphere and boarding being a fuckup to try to keep it lolita.A space worth it cutsew with a null-g petticoat is a fuckup to design, unless you throw lots of "fiction" in "science fiction". But at some moment I'm going to concede to Rule of Cool in this matter.But I will still work on it until I manage to do it.>>10035414I lurk any lolita related /cgl/ thread as my mainly source of lolita fashion information, and try to download some fashion magazines too, and from time to time(mainly when /cgl/ tells me X bran made new collection) go the brand's sites and see what they got.But anyway, all the servers that look active require you to post some kind of proof of your lolihood or fill questionnaire to see if you are worth to be in said server.It sucks to be a man and not liking brolita. just lolita and J fashion.
>>10035333>>10035364>>10035392I already told you no, second-life furry roleplay kun.The lolita discords are for people who wear or want to wear lolita, if you're not going to wear the fashion in real life, you're not welcome. End of story.There's plenty of lolita blogs you can read if you want to find information. Use a search engine and stop trying to intrude into our communities.
>>10035333There is a server that's mainly about new releases and magazines that get automatically updated through a twitter bot and it's pretty much dead so I'm sure they don't mind lurkers. Not sure what the name was but it was linked in this thread before.
>>10035428I'm really not understanding your autism here...>I want to draw lolitas!Lurk draw thread.>I want to know what is and isn't ita!Lurk the ita thread.>I want to see what good coords look like!Lurk literally any inspo-related thread. Or just go to CoF and you get to see what people consider ita and good in the same fucking page.Just lurk...You don't need to be in a discord for any of what you're saying. Nobody wants a random dude in the discord because they almost always inevitably end up being orbiters who come in "just to lurk" but then find a girl or two they fall for and go after. Just lurk /cgl/, it'll fulfill every criteria you feel you're missing out on. The discords are for people who are in the fashion to discuss without crossboarders or potential creepers.Also, some girls like talking about their fishy smelling hands and don't want boys reading in on that kind of conversation!
>>10035189 -slurps tea- All I ever did was give a guy some dating advice on that server. And they have banish me too. >tfw I miss they verbal abuse
>>10035428>women won't let me into their fashion groups when i don't participate in the fashion>it sure is hard to be a man :(if you really care about the fashion, why don't you do what all of the actual lolitas do? no one learns how to coord from fucking discord chats, they actually ~read~ and learn about color balance, construction materials, the history of the fashion, general principles of overall fashion, and current/older styles. they develop an actual sense of what lolita is and a sense of aesthetic that functions in AND out of lolita. people did this on LJ long before things like discord chats existed. there are countless resources for what you say you want. it's fucking obvious that what you really want is to be spoonfed and jerked off by pretty girls that know more than you.
>>10035532omg you are making it sound so difficult lol. I never did any of those things, i literally just looked at the brand i liked and how they coord it and looked in the mirror to see what suits me.
but then again i also get so confused when i see itas without petticoat or ''''lolitas'''' who don't use bloomers. like seriously, all you have to do is look at a japanese magazine or brand blog and do what they do>>10035555
Goddamnit I just want a server to discuss cosplay and techniques, all of the ones I'm in is pathetic and annoying orbiting/dramaWhat is up with people being 10x cringier in discord than on /cgl/? Makes no sense
>>10035516>>10035532>>10035450>thinks I haven't been lurking /cgl/ for years>thinks I haven't posted in the draw thread from time to time>thinks I don't download japanese fashion magazines for few years nowAlso lolita blogs are 50/50 some do coords that by /cgl/ standards would call ita, some do nice coords, some say its a "lolita fashion blog" and they post about everything but fashion, all in a mixed bag and I have to follow them, plus all the brand webpages I have bookmarked that I have to periodically check. And the monthly magazines I need to scavenge from the internets to download.> Nobody wants a random dude in the discord because they almost always inevitably end up being orbiters who come in "just to lurk" but then find a girl or two they fall for and go after.>The discords are for people who are in the fashion to discuss without crossboarders or potential creepers.Ironic enough I do chip in discussions, asks questions about possible coords and brand collections, and I only can do that in /cgl/ because I'm an Anon in here. I already know that the average internet lolita is too much like pic-related(and you girls are even proving more the salt-mine you are personally), to go to a Discord server to discuss fashion as a dude, and not get shitted upon endlessly. Even in the ontopic threads, the lolita community drama bleeds to the point that derails some threads.And because I refuse to pretend that I'm a woman or anything else, I just want a server I can just lurk.Hell, just look at all the angry salty (You)s I'm getting because I said I'm a dude.>>10035468>>10035521Thanks, I'm already in it.Given the amount of salt I'm taking in here, I guess I should do like in that server, and program a Python/C# app that gets the twitter feeds and new arrival/newcollections out of the brand websites. That would at least save me up the work of checking on them, minus the how are the trends going, but I guess I'll just have to keep using /cgl/ for that.
>>10035885Bro, you're getting salty over all those comments. Calm your balls. You know the truth, the truth that you were in that server just to orbit. It's ok, all man have this beta mind set that if they orbit enough they will get laid. Also no one is gonna waste they time reading that. Everyone knows males aren't humans, we're just objects, that orbit around shedding money upon the goddesses.-slurps tea-
>>10035392have you considered that these discords want proof of being a lolita because the people in them want to talk to other lolitas? not random lurkers.>>10035885you're not getting angry salty (you)'s because you're a dude. it's because you aren't actually part of the fashion. you're getting pissy because you're not wanted in a discord for a community you aren't a part of. none of these discords owe it to you to let you in. get over it.
>>10035248No you don't. It was a bunch of forced drama created from nothing by bad actors. You genuinely didn't miss out on anything of value.
Gosh it makes me sad that guys are treated this badly in lolita communities. Both because of the latent hate towards men and the fact that sometimes it really is justified, given how many creeps there are.
>>10035940We like men who actually wear the fashion. We just aren't interested in people lurking in our comms so they can use us for "research", man or woman.
https://discord.gg/JjadjRVUk/britgullsActive with a good crowd.
>>10035957Drawing doodles on paper do not make you part of the fashion. There are guys who actually put their money where their mouth is and wear the fashion, and they're already in the discord. Lolita communities are fine with men, just not witless bores who have nothing of substance to contribute.
>>10035927> it's because you aren't actually part of the fashionI've been lurking /cgl/ for a few years now, and doing the odd posting discussing or asking lolita related things, and no one has ever told me that. Until now, that I said I'm a dude.>>10035953>We like men who actually wear the fashionNot everyone can be Mana.>We just aren't interested in people lurking in our comms so they can use us for "research", man or woman.I wouldn't only lurk in IM platforms if you girls weren't that anti-males.>>10035990That anon wasn't me by the way. And unless you are another angry girl you are contradicting yourself with>Lolita communities are fine with men, just not witless bores who have nothing of substance to contribute.>We like men who actually wear the fashion>>10035899Nice one.Now to wait for more (You)'s telling me how much I am wrong, and how I don't even deserve to browse and even less to post on /cgl/. And God forbid I keep drawing lolita or J-fashion.
>>10035991Hey anon out of curiosity what exactly do you need from joining a discord?
>>10035999Read the thread
>>10036002Great so I think >>10035516 answers all your questions then, please have a good day anon and eat well
>>10035991You seem clueless about what you are. You are the same as "lolitas at heart" who the vetting is for.I know it's shocking, but lolitas that are on that server had to start somewhere too. And no one held their hands all the time. Stop being entitled. It's not about you being a guy, it's about you being a moron.
>>10035530you was banned because you suck you pathetic shitstain
>>10035999Lurking to know about the latest news(as /cgl/ is slow at times) and probably the occasional question about coords or a particular thing that I need a quick answer/opinion about it.Which in turn would be me mainly lurking and only participating when I need/want something.>>10036004>You seem clueless about what you are.Indeed I am.> Stop being entitled. It's not about you being a guy, it's about you being a moron.According to that other anon is either me not being part of the fashion or not wearing lolita. Now to wait more (You)'s again, about how wrong I am.
>>10036032are you >>10035450 in the screenshot
Stop feeding this dude >>10036032 he's either socially retarded or out for a laugh. Let him figure this shit out himself.
>>10036041No, I'm not that guy.>>10036046They simply can't help themselves. Which is ironic because they answer me in other threads.
>>10035991The fact that you think the only male lolita we like is Mana means you are full of shit and have zero knowledge of the fashion and our culture. All that lurking and you still don’t know shit. You kinda sound like an incel desu lol
>meanie girls won't let me orbit them in their private discords :( you just hate me because I am male!>dumbass anons are still taking the bait 50 replies in/cgl/ is a shitshow.
Would anyone be willing to create ana lternative fashion server and keep it alive all the ones i was in are dead
>>10040576like, thinspo lolita?
>>10040579more like typo
>>10040576Did you talk in the dead ones? All it takes is 1 person to start a conversation
>>10040586>All it takes is 1 person to start a conversationWish this was true anon, 1 person can only make a monologue :c
>>10040579You joke but half of cgl would join that community if it existed.
>>10040610It takes one person to start silly, don't expect someone else to start talking the exact same moment
>>10040624how was your day?
>>10033675>>10033594>>10033699It isn't really a nasty attitude, they just don't want to have to explain in detail because at least to me, it seems completely reasonable. People would talk about things like their mental health and weight issues in the appropriate channels, and then get shit talked on cgl for it. The same reason you shouldn't add randoms on facebook, anyone can creep and post your personal information. If the person posting people to cgl is an active member that's just two-faced, they're a slimy cunt, but that is harder to account for than the possibility of shit-stirring lurkers. You could argue that maybe TMI on a chat server with a lot of people on it is just a bad idea, but having to be guarded about what you share and watch what you say, isn't a great way to create any sense of community support and friendship.
>>10040793I support kicking inactive members but god, the off topic TMI and mental illness channel were why I left the vetting server. Some of them should spend more money on therapy than on brand lol. I guess I'll be a lonelita online too
>>10036158frequent 4chan use is a symptom of /a/utism.
>>10040771It was actually a very productive day but the bad mood of the people I live with bring me down
>>10041236that's good to hear, being productive is the basis of your existence of a human being - without getting shit done life is just a vapid unfulfilling experience that turns you into a huskgetting motivated can be hard but you can endure and do it not only for yourself but those ones around you; I know that's tempting to just ignore and remove negative stimuli while you struggle yourself but think about how they suffer, bad mood doesn't come from nothing - be an example of strong will to them and never let the circumstances dictate your emotional statelaugh against all odds even when the world is crying
>>10041210stop being such a dumb shitlord
>>10041756> Le high iq ad hominem Thank you for post anon. You've really added a lot to the conversation, I had to sit back in my chair for several minutes to ponder the implications of such a profound argument. I thank you sir.
I was thinking about creating a (SFW) discord server aimed at people who feel lonely or would like to make new friends. It wouldn't be focused on lolita, cosplay, Japanese culture etc but it would be for people with these interests. People could share everyday pics, thoughts and more generally chat with others about whatever. Staying anonymous would also be okay as long as the user takes part into the conversation.The server would have different private channels and every channel would be restricted to 5-10 individuals, who could access that only channel and not the others. This way people could get to know each other. After 2-3 months, inactive users would be kicked (not from the server, only from the private channels). The active ones would randomly be redistributed among the channels. Basically you would change channel, thus getting to know new people and maybe re-meeting old ones. This method is inteded to make things a little more interesting and different, people shouldn't exchange contacts to chat on other platforms, at least not from the start.I think this would be fun especially if you don't have any IRL friend that shares your interests. I would need 1 mod + at least 4 other people per private channel. I think the discord can be opened with at least 2 private channels (so 10 people) but more would be better. I'd also need some civility. I don't like drama. If you are interested, send me your discord username here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfuqc1bEhvStf7qq8GGTVGbFVUOmdXRmAO7SXqFtctSiplqXA/viewform?usp=sf_link (don't worry I won't be able to get any other info about you). When/if I get 10+ people in, I'll open the server and get back to you.
>>10046266I like this idea in theory but people aren't going to stick around if they don't like the random people in the channel they're assigned to first, and there's always a chance they would've liked someone in another one. Without turning it into one big group after everyone has met one another feels kind of pointless. And people will just leave if they make one or two good friends who they're then not in the same channel as. The way you want to do it is guaranteed to have people just exchange info and chat privately once they know who they like.Also five people per channel isn't enough - consider timezones and people's schedules. If you want five active people per channel you need to actually have at least ~15 members.