>>10004093
I don't think all men are bad, it's just very different. It's not like all man beat up there wives and such. Some do, it's defiantly more common, and people do turn a blind eye more quickly, but it's not like it's the norm for everyone. Many men love their wives.
I've spoken to multiple Japanese woman and men. It seems more average that men, yes, do expect more typical roles in relation ships (and honestly, so do many woman. Sure there are ones fighting against it, but it's a minority). Woman stay home, take care of the children, the house, the cooking. Men work all day. You don't say thank you much unless it's above average what the other did, because you just do your part. But if you see the average Japanese working days, I think it's kinda understandable that they'll only work to be honest.
Not saying I would want that kind of relation. Really, I don't. I dislike cooking and I want to work myself and do stuff of my choice. But in most cases it's not that they treat woman bad, it's that they look to relations very different and for most, that way of relation is all they know beside maybe some stuff on media from the West (which they rarely have seen in real live beside maybe some tourists). Our ways are probably as weird and bad to them as theirs are to you.