/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>post something about Dragoncon in comm Fb group
>first comment, "I am overweight and the one time I went to DragonCon, this girl followed my friends and I into the little nook we were using to charge our phones and screamed at her boyfriend for ten minutes about how fat people are the cause of all evil in the world and that it's entirely our fault the economy is crumbling. That we should just do the world a favor and kill ourselves instead of being a plague on the rest of the world because she was tired of paying her taxes and insurance so fat people could afford to continue their disgusting lives. And all the while she kept glaring over at me. My friends formed a human wall around me, blocking her from view but I will never forget her words. And I will probably never go to DragonCon again."
>mfw

So which one of you cunty bitches did this? Lmao.

>tfw need to drop 20 pounds in a few months for a cosplay, but myfitnesspal says you need to skip meals to do it
I just want to match my character and fit into the cosplay

>>9673821
you should have started sooner

>>9673824
I can probably just not eat until then lol

>>9673821
You don't need to skip meals. You just need to eat smaller portions and/or lower calorie foods. Chicken and vegetables, my dude. It's hard the first week or so, but it's smooth sailing after your stomach shrinks to a normal small size. I dropped 30 lbs using MFP, and eating the same amount of food that I used to eat makes me wanna puke.

>>9673826
Baka. 20 pounds in two months isn't that much. Don't starve yourself, qt.

>>9673828
I'm not fat at all, the problem is to match this character's weight and try to fit better I need to drop from a 21 BMI to a 19 BMI. I can probably do it though

I realized cgl has a very different meaning outside of 4chan thanks to instagram.

>>9673834
Inb4 thong diaper shitposting

>mfw i've come to a point in my degeneracy that I'm actually considering getting ear pointing plastic surgery

I've been losing 1-3lbs every other week and only differences is that I'm mostly eating chicken + veggies. I don't exercise outside or working which is a lot of walking. But it feels good that I'll be able to go back to a size 0 soon enough, I'm genuinely so happy.

I've recently stagnated with my weight loss. I haven't gained weight but I haven't made any progress. I think it's because around exams I tend to eat more impulsively because of stress and my schedule this year somehow ended up with me having an midterm pretty much every week.
Thankfully after my upcoming exams I have about a month break until finals so I can keep going during that time.

>>9673860
>tfw losing ~1-2 pounds a week despite not trying + eating substantially
>tfw was already underweight in the first place
>tfw all of my burando looks like a costume on me rn

fuck!

>>9673821
intermittent fasting is your friend

I did the same thing to help me with both cosplay and lolita, losing 20 pounds would be a push so try your best not to fall off the wagon

>>9673888
I used to be underweight then gained like 50lbs so I'm so weird looking especially since I went from being banana shaped to pear shaped. I'm glad I'm going back to normal though.

>>9673891
nayrt but I've always thought that fasting might not be the best approach for everyone? I started seeing a nutrition counselor recently and I told her that I have been struggling with disordered eating thoughts for maybe 10 years but have never developed an eating disorder, however recently it's been getting harder to ignore those thoughts and avoid developing an ED, and she recommended I try intermittent fasting. It seems super backwards to me (and my psychiatrist hah) because in a way it'd be giving into those disordered thoughts.

But at the same time, I want to lose weight so badly and nothing I'm doing is working. Not changing my diet to literally just protein & veggies, not exercising to the point of exhaustion, not eating 1500 calories a day, not eating 1000 calories a day. It's frustrating, so maybe I should just try intermittent fasting.

>tfw white boyfriend

>>9673909
It's completely normal in my opinion. Keeping yourself busy and not eating when you don't have to is mentally healthy. A lot of people skip breakfast since most aren't hungry in the morning.

Personally I eat a big breakfast, stay busy all day, then eat a modest dinner.

>>9673909
intermittent fasting still requires you to eat though, so i guess i don't really see the issue. especially with things like 16/8 fasting (which apparently i've been doing without realizing), you're still eating every day and making sure you don't give in to weird late-night cravings.

>>9673812
Got a crush on someone who's engaged.
Anxiety got me throwing up.
I've already lost 10lbs because i'm so anxious i can't fucking eat.
End me gulls

I’m staging an intervention with a lolita. I’ll keep it short and private and say the lolita has a serious problem. Has anyone done this before?

>>9673819
ive never been to dragoncon but that is so something i would do

>>9673937
are you also a lolita? or is the intervention about how she needs to eat daddies dick?

>>9673819
Fucking lol.

>>9673932
similar situation here
currently anxious about a guy who shows no interest in me so i just feel sick, cant eat n throw up

>tfw the comm thot's diaper overflows

>>9673812
>"I can't wait to go to Europe and go to all the awesome lolita events!"
>Hasn't been able to attend a single freaking one.

My bf wants to be the thot patrol for Halloween. Should I dump his ass?

>have really bad OCD which causes me to pick at my skin
>skin on nose is flaky and peeling because of how much I've picked at the blackheads
>cystic acne all over my face, which I uncontrollably pick at and make much worse
>have had this problem for years now, but recently it's gotten even worse
>can't even wear makeup because it looks disgusting over the scabs and hurts to apply
>have tons of cosplays and jfashion coords planned but my hideous face is destroying all my motivation
>the scars and enlarged pores are probably permanent

Does anyone else have this problem?

>>9673991
I am in almost precisely the same position as you, except for a different type of acne. I've posted here a few times about derm and OCD stuff but it makes it really hard because I love lolita and cosplay but I have shit on my face all the time.

I pick at my scalp a lot too, it was much worse but it's embarrassing because I can't get a haircut. If the person finds scabs, in most states it means they can't give a cut and most salons won't do it. It's totally fair, because the stylists don't want to give themselves or their patients a bloodborne or skin disease.

People just say, stop picking. It's bad for you. Of course I know that, if it was that easy I would stop. When I started serious treatment for it I had to sit still and not pick and I couldn't even make it a minute. I pride myself on my willpower and tolerance but that shit was impossible.

That said, I almost never pick my face anymore. It's mostly just scars and old things. The scalp has come up more because I'm between therapists.

What kind of treatment have you had? My insurance is pretty good so after a while of garbage quality of life, I did semi-inpatient treatment for like, 6 months or so. Most people were in there for about a month though. I'd recommend it to anyone that is having serious emotional or general life impact because of it.

But yeah, there are even more gulls in the same situation as us. You aren't alone.

>>9673819
>blaming the actions of one person on an entire convention
Fatties are so dumb.

>>9673966
I'm in the club, though that guy acts totally cute with me and he acts totally different with me than with any other person at work. But I recently found out he got a gf and they want to move together and I'm so confused and feeling 100% empty rn. Though I wish it'd make me loose weight but I'm just feeling depressed and worthless.

Gulls, what is wrong with me? I've always been at the higher end of normal weight and felt dumpy and gross. Throughout the past year I've changed my eating habits, going from a 23 BMI to 20.5, and from a 73 cm waist to a 64 cm waist.

I still look dumpy. My thighs are fat, my stomach still sticks out, I feel like I barely changed apart from going down a cup size. I don't know if I just haven't lost enough or if what I'm seeing in the mirror is warped, because I see the numbers change but the person in the mirror seems the same.

>>9674044
Sounds like you might have body dysphoria, I have a history with eating disorders and still suffer from it. Please see someone about this.

>Be me, decide to have a glass of red wine while wearing a new dress
>Spill red wine on said new dress

This is why I shouldn't wear nice things.

>>9673991
>>9673997
heyyy I stress pick too, it's a little better these days and I'm defo not bad enough for an OCD diagnosis, but I manage to scrape up my face a lot with it. I really don't mean to trivialise or anything and clearly it's not a long term solution, but have you two tried some of that fidget toy crap? I got a cheapo knockoff fidget cube and it definitely helps to some extent with keeping my hands off my face/scalp - my skin isn't looking too trashy at the moment even though I got a bad period breakout at the start of last week. just an idea if you haven't happened to try that previously.

>>9674044
Have you been exercising?

If you're not exercising, and you're not eating enough protein your will be experiencing muscle atrophy instead of fat loss.
If you fuck up diet and exercise, it is actually possible to increase your body fat percentage by losing weight.

You also have the disadvantage of being a woman, meaning you lack a significant amount of androgenic and anabolic hormones.

Easy fix plan:
>Fix your diet - stay at a 500 kcal deficit, try to maintain at least 50% calories from protein.
>Fix your exercise - don't just do jogging, you'll probably bore yourself before you make any difference, resistance training is much more fun and will give you better results.
If you're still unhappy after a few months, try eating maintenance and recomping on Anavar.
Come to /fraud/ on /fit/ if you do choose that route - it's not an instant fix, or even the right thing for most people, but some people are stunted by genetic lottery and need a bit of help.

>>9673819
Honestly wish I was a woman so I could drop shit like this on fat cunts, if I comment it gets thrown back at me like I'm objectifying all women, instead of just telling a beef goblin to have some self respect.

>Be photog browsing local cosplay community page
>See a fucking incredible Lunafreya cosplayer saying they're so excited for the con
>Con comes around
>The only (and trust me I checked) photo of her at the entire convention is her taking a selfie with some other random cosplay

Is this a red flag? Her outfit looks incredible and I'd love to do a photoshoot with her but the fact that the only photos of her are the ones she took herself is really strange. Like, there aren't even happy snaps from people's phones of her. Mind you she was apparently only there on the Saturday but still it's pretty strange.

Should I bite the bullet and contact her?

>>9673909
Eat less.
Move more.

If you think you're eating 1,000 kcal, chances are you're eating a lot more than that.

Use MyFitnessPal to document what you're eating, and prep everything you eat with a food scale.

>>9673988
Wtf is the thot patrol

>>9674106
She wants to dress up like a slag and her bf shockingly doesn't like it

>>9674044
I'm having the same problem. My BMI is 19,9, but all I can see in the mirror is how my belly sticks out and how big my thighs are compared to everything else. I know I'm not fat but I just can't get the idea out of my head that I should lose weight. Everytime I eat something unhealthy I get mad at myself, too...

>>9674086
This. Until I started to track my eating habits I had wrong thoughts of how much I can eat per day and how much I burn. I had a few months pause on tracking and I didn't loose much at the time. What works for me is I eat 2-3 times a day, atleast 50% of my diet is mostly raw veggies, then protein (best for me is chicken, soy, vegetables like broccoli or eggs) and carbs. All my carbs are wholewheat and heavy in fiber and I try to aim consuming most of them in the morning so I get the energy into use and burned. Drink enough water don't let yourself get too hungry. Also, use a calculator to see how much calories your body needs to function and how mucj you approximately can consume based on your activity. This is just something that works for me, it might not be your piece of cake but it was just an example.

>switch over to the new feels thread because old one is at bump limit
>"nearly 50 replies, must be some juicy feels"
>it's all eating disorders

You disappoint me, gulls

>>9674128
Isn't this what all feels threads are like, though?

>>9674131
Seems to be more of an overabundance of them than usual.

>>9674134
How about posting some juicy feels yourself then? Let's make feels threads great again.

>>9674128
>eating disorders
because trying to lose weight as a whale is a disorder?

>>9674136
Being a whale in the first place is a disorder

>>9674106
According to him, they're a branch of the police that makes THOTs be gone.

>>9674082
I know nothing about exercise. What is resistance training and how do I do it? I do try to eat a balanced diet but have been considering trying keto.

>>9674131
No. Some of them also have incel vs. SJW slapfights, or thong diaper shitposting.

>>9674166
Resistance training is training movements under resistance, eg. weight lifting, calisthenics.

It's a lot easier to visualise and set goals when it comes to resistance training - you have a number to hit - it's something that really keeps you going and gives you a sense of accomplishment.

Plus, the muscle gains helps with body composition.

Keto is sort of a meme, it works well for people addicted to carbs and sugars, but really, just increase your protein intake, make sure you get some healthy fats and some fibre.

>>9674157
That actually sounds like a lot of fun. You could get pictures banishing all the cos-thots.

>got jacked and started roiding for cosplay
>nonstop compliments and easy lays
>doesn't fill the crushing void
Hope my heart explodes at 30

>got my ex to come visit for the weekend
>wowed him with my costume
>got him drunk
>fed him cheesecake
>broke his cock
Mission accomplished, we're back together

>>9674228
Go back to /fraud/, crusader.

Or at least apologize to the nice redhead grill.

>>9673819
Lol sounds fucking based, l wish l could take credit
Fat shitcunts btfo

>>9674271
Unlike crusader I actually have sex with girls dressed as cats. I'm more in to lolita anyways.

>>9674274
Why can I tell it's prime shitposting time in Perth?

>>9674277
Pooftas fuck off

>>9674276
What're you pinning right now?
I'm on PCT right now and it's fucking ratshit, feeling smaller already, honestly might make the jump to cruising.

Funnily enough I didn't jump on gear for cosplay, gear made me interested in cosplay.

How do I deal with the soul-crushing loneliness that comes up whenever my boyfriend leaves for work?

I'm with him practically four days a week and see him nearly every day, but apparently I can't take being away from him for less than 10 hours.
I have other friends whom I speak to and hang out with and care about, but I always find myself wishing I was with him instead. I try to distract myself by going on here and getting involved in my hobbies, but it feels like nothing else is worth it if I'm not with him.
Our interests are practically identical, so doing that usually ends up with me thinking about him instead. All I ever want to do is sit in bed and cry.

>>9674285
Get a job?

>>9674288
I'm a university student, all of my classes are concentrated into 3 days a week. I tutor kids and high school students several days a week. Although doing that and studying helps distract me for several hours, I end up breaking down when I'm done or alone later.

>>9674292
Get a part time job?

What are you studying?

>>9674279
300mg test 30-50mg dbol
Baby tier cycle. Might up the dbol.
I got somewhat happy with my body before pinning. I don't pretend to be natty though if someone seriously asks. Worst part is people think roids are magic and I didn't work for my body.

Personally I wanted to crossplay because I unironically like cute outfits. Wanted to be big enough so no one would care. Female outfits show off gains the most, it's great, especially skirts.

>>9674285
Do what I do:

Use the time he's away to prepare for the next time you see him. Clean up the house, work out, cook something tasty, think of what you're gonna wear. It gives you something to do and something to look forward to.

Alternatively get pregnant, that way you'll have a little him growing inside you that you can love too.

>>9674297
>Alternatively get pregnant, that way you'll have a little him growing inside you that you can love too.

I lol'd.

>>9674295
Truth.

Yeah, 300mg is basically TRT, consider upping it before you up dbol - the less hepatoxic your stack the better, plus it's good to get deep in test before you start upping your dose of dbol - you may find test will give you your desired results cheaper and safer.
I started at 500mg, honestly considering cruising at about 400-500.

I'm not taking crusader tier retard doses, but I've just finished a test E/tren A cycle whilst supplementing with LGD-4033.
Found that I could lower my test and tren by about a third and still get better results thanks to the modified receptors.
Obvious benefits being less AI required, which means less time before I can start my cutting cycle (Test E, Ostarine and Var).

>>9674299
Mate, this is actually how women think.
Be careful.

>>9674300
The thing is, before I started pinning my test was already (considerably) high. Also worried about possible pre-existing heart conditions coming out of the woodwork. I'm getting regular check-ups trying to find something.
Might up to 400-500.

Did you like LGD-4033? I was looking at Mk-677 and a few others, didn't know if there was a point.

>>9674293
I've been trying to a get part time work (but not hard enough, admittedly). Mostly it's because I don't want the hours cutting into our time together even more, and my school related activities do that a lot already. I'll put more effort into finding a job.
I'm studying business.

>>9674297
I do most of those already, but I'll try to pick up cooking. Don't like the pregnancy idea, but if that worked for you then it's good for you then.

>>9674306
>>9674300
>>9674295
Take it to /fit/ lads

>>9673819
Smells like BS but... she's not wrong tho?

>>9674306
It's fucking great.
Fucking miracle drug if you can afford it, makes TRT dose Test feel like a blast, but without increasing the negative sides.
Don't run it by itself, shit will work wonders for a few weeks then run your test into the ground, and with no androgens to work with it's pretty pointless.

Don't buy droppers, caps or any of that shit, just buy a gram of raws, shit will last an entire cycle.

Only downside is it does cause bloat, so on a cut Ostarine/Andarine are much better options.

Only problem with running this many cycles is the rate at which your body changes, legitimately had to put a couple of cosplays on hold because they stopped fitting me by the time it was time for the con.

Bit of a Francophile hipster so I'm planning on getting big enough to do Horus from the Nikopol Trilogy.
I mean, he's not YUGE, but it's the definition that I'm chasing.

>>9674308
no u

>>9674307
lol not yet, we just got engaged but he wants me to stop taking BC right after the honeymoon so I'm thinking a year from now I'll have husbando jr inside me and swollen boobs and be happier than ever.

Best of luck, girlfriend.

>>9674312
thought that eagle guys arm was the left guy's leg from the thumbnail

>>9674307
If you're doing business, consider starting a home business for relevant experience.
Suggest a brokerage business if you're an ausfag (logistics brokerage is an untapped market, with zero overheads in term of licensing or liability for the broker).

>>9674312
Sounds good. I'll have to look in to it.
It's nice to actually talk about dosing, fraud is just blog posts. Not gonna shit up the thread anymore though.

>>9674314
Yeah, not his leg.

>>9674316
Cheers

>tfw no seagull gf dressed up as Stocking to look forward to at home

>>9674327
>Stocking

Patrician taste my man

>>9674327
lol I once dressed up as Panty for my fiance, it was fun even if she's not best girl

>>9674337
How do I make my wife do this?

>>9674341
How do l get a wife?

>>9674086
I have already been using my fitness pal and weighing my food, and that's why I'm confident in saying I am eating 1,000 calories a day or less, and exercising as much as possible. I also deal with chronic pain (which is made worse by exercise), so I can't become a gym rat unfortunately.

>>9674124
That sounds a lot like how I eat already, which is why it's doubly frustrating that I've had no weight loss over a year of eating like this. I'm gluten-free so almost all of my carbs are from vegetables, except the occasional rice dish. I eat very little preprocessed foods (maybe three times a month), most of my diet is vegetables. I know I eat more fruit than I should. I eat twice a day, at least half of which is veggies, and drink 4-5 liters of water a day. No soda, carbonated drinks, anything like that.

Sometimes it makes me think my body is just broken haha.
(although actually I should have mentioned this, I have a disorder that slows my metabolism to almost nothing, which is likely why this is such a problem)

>>9674327
>>9674333
>Not Scanty

Disgusting lack of acknowledgment over who is really best girl going on in here.

>>9674345
Dumb luck and abuaing more than a gram of AAS on a biweekly basis.

>>9674347
If this is entirely true and you are following the rules of CICO you should lose weight. Often people don't realize how many calories they are actually consuming, and will snack without even realizing it.

Are you REALLY being honest with yourself? Are you counting calories accurately? If you are and you still have trouble losing weight, get yourself to a physicist ASAP because you are defying the laws of physics and if they can figure out what's wrong with you we can solve our energy crisis.

>tfw no seagull gf dressed up as Junko to make me endure orgasm denial, biting/scratching and hours of forced facesitting to look forward to at home

>>9674347
Even in extreme cases of hypothyroidism you won't experience more than a 500kcal reduction in TDEE.
If you have such a severe case of hypothyroidism you would barely be able to make it through the day.
If you do have hypothyroidism, it's easily treated with cheap HRT.

>>9674351
Junko and Junko cosplayers a shit, almost as bad as Harley Quinns and 2Bs

>>9674347
Drinking that much water a day isn't good for you. Limit yourself to 2-3 unless you're doing insanely intense workouts.

Honestly your whole post smells like bullshit.

>>9674348
Demonfucker pls go

>>9674351
KAMAKURA KAMAKURA YAS QUEEN

>>9674358
Angels r sloots. Ur a sloot.

Scanty>kneesocks>stocking>chuck>literal dog shit> panty is the official order of best girl.

>>9674348
Scanty isn't even best demon you mong

>>9674361
>tfw no chuck gf

>>9674362
>gets so enthusiastic she loses her cool and ends up being her own downfall in every mission

Idk man that's p adorable and grounds for being best girl IMO.

>>9674363
Why live????

>>9674355
I just want Junko to tell me I'm a failure at pleasing a woman, is that so much to ask?

>>9674365
Counterpoint
Glasses

>>9674367
As a girl with glasses I can tell you that aren't all that great.

Ur waifu is second best.

Easily excitable enthusiastic waifu > dead inside but blushes easily.

>>9674368
Man, nothing better than cumming on a girl's face whilst she's wearing glasses.

Cleanup is fine if she has oleo-phobic lenses.

>>9674366
You do realize most of us find femdom gross, right?

>>9674368
That's against the rrrrrrrrures

>>9674372
I don't think he's taking your feelings into account for his fetish.

>>9674372
>most of /cgl/'s population probably call their boyfriends daddy

Female submissives were a mistake

>>9674371
BUT WHAT IF scanty with glasses? What then?

They aren't a personality trait so your waifu could just pop in contacts. What then? ??

>>9674373
Acknowledging the superior waifu isn't against the rrRRUURES


LOOK at her joy, how she gets all excited at winning for once? But in her celebration she messed up at the last moment. it's 2pure.

>>9674372
Speak for yourself, weak sub bitch

>>9674301
There are guys on here role-playing as women, especially in threads like these and >>9674297 sounds too stereotypical housewaifu

>>9674384
Mate, I just like cumming on glasses.
It's not complicated.

>>9674390
>basing best girl on physical appearance

Pls go.

>>9674385
Oh look an outlier.
Go piss on his mouth and punch him in the balls or whatever it is you weirdos are into. And say hi to your friend the size queen for me.

>>9674392
I'm not saying it's everything in a relationship, but sexual comparability/functionality should play a part in your choice of waifu.

I want to get prettier but I don't know how and even if I try with makeup I always feel ugly. Tbh these days I just want to give up and sleep forever

>>9674396
You do realize glasses are something that literally anyone can wear right?

>>9674401
Some girls are destined to be average anon. If it bothers you that much get surgery?

>>9674402
I don't enjoy it if it's just a prop.

It doesn't have to make sense.

>>9674406
I wear glasses all day erry day. How does this make you feel?

>tfw no shy & nerdy Brief boyfriend to lovingly bully and dominate

why even live

>>9674408
Nothing really.
My wife does, and it's something that turns me on about her, but a random mystery woman I have no chance nor intention of meeting?
Not really doing it for me.

Something about the combination of [woman I am sexually involved with] and glasses really does it for me.

>>9674410
>tfw I've always had to be the dom in every relationship

Pls give me this anon

>>9674413
Meganeko is a trope in Japan for a reason (megane ko, not mega neko). It can be cute or sexy to people and some folks just really like it. Of course it’s not just because they need corrective lenses but glasses have meaning in our society and can influence our perception of a person.

>>9674413
>taking my shitposting seriously

You're ruining all the fun for me here m8.

>>9674413
Agreed. The only men I'm interested in are my fiance (and some 2d characters).
Nobody else really does anything for me anymore, no matter what they look like or what they're wearing.

>>9674414
I understand, all my past boyfriends always wanted me to call them daddy or some shit when in reality I just want a guy to be my pet that I can relentlessly tease and use for my own pleasure ;_; life is tough

>>9674384
Exactly she's a baka
Kneesocks is colkected, plotting and mischievous

>>9674420
Sounds too good to be true. I bet you're in the US too, right?

>>9674424
nope, Europe

>tfw filthy normie boyfriend
I mean I love him to death but it makes me sad to think of all the cute OTPs we'll never do because it's not his thing.

>>9674417
You need to step your shitposting game up.

>>9674418
I used to watch porn, but not really anymore (started gear and see shit a lot more clearly), I just stick to my wife and occasional 2d.
Life is so much better.

>>9674425
Oh shit, me too. D-don't suppose you want to drop your email?

>>9674427
>tfw no crazy vampire gf

>>9674430
Sorry but even if our sexual tastes align I think I wouldn't be a very fun person to chat with!
I wish you luck with your 'finding a dominant girlfriend' endeavors though.

>>9674433
>I think I wouldn't be a very fun person to chat with!

Try me. Worst that happens is we both end up where we are right now

>>9673988
How long have you been dating? This is a redflag, senpai

>saw a bitch from my local comm posted here
>roleplayed as her defending herself
>thread successfully derailed with the sole purpose of attacking her
I hope you liked the taste of your own honey, you brandwhore.

>>9674434
Then leave an email address, I can send you a message later when I get home from work.

If you wanna dominate a guy that's not very kawaii and it makes you a thot, therefore unwelcome here

>>9674441
But begging daddy for his cummies is kawaii?

>>9674439
SeagullDominatus@Gmail.com

>>9674444
Yeah

>>9674444
A lot more than wearing your penis envy on your sleeve and going against both nature and nurture, that's for fucking sure

>>9674437
You devilish fiend. I like it.

>>9673819
WHALE GOT HARPOONED LMAO

>finally muster the nerve to join local comm group
>its all people i went to highschool with who have let themselves go / had kids
>old moms
>tweenagers in weeb phase
>no actual lolitas in group
>latest pics from halloween gatherings are full of party city wigs, thrift store dresses, and cheap costumes

Is this normal ? Or is this the price I pay for living in the middle of nowhere.

>>9673988
desu he should dump your thot ass

>>9673988
>not wanting your bf to be part of the Tactical Heterosexual Operator's Trust Patrol

>>9674352
Nobody mentioned hypothyroidism...?

>>9674357
I realize that I drink too much water but honestly I don't know how to stop. I feel thirsty a lot, so I drink a lot. For a while I thought it was just a mindless thing, like drinking water because I was bored, but now I'm not sure.
And sorry my existence is unbelievable to you lmfao.

>>9674532
Being very thirsty might indicate diabetes, it'd be wise to do some blood testing.
Honestly, some bodies just don't go under a certain weight. If you stabilized, it's probably the weight you meant to have. Give it a couple of months too. Be patient.
>assuming you're not a 200lbs hambeast

>>9674542
I appreciate the suggestion for blood testing. Do you know of the specific test that would be done? I ask because I've had about 10 or so different tests done in the past year, including comprehensive metabolic panel, commonly tested vitamins, antibodies, the list goes on.

The issue for me is that I was originally 130 and stable for a long time (which, at 5'1 is still heavier than ideal but I was in fairly good shape and relatively muscular) and then, with no change in diet or exercise, went up to 170 in about two months. That weight gain is health related but I've been unable to drop it. So that makes me think that I'm not just meant to be 170. (also I hate it and have body dysmorphia so this has been a real adventure.)

>tfw skinny but really ugly face
I'd honestly rather be fat with a pretty face, at least I could lose the weight then. My only option right now is to get plastic surgery and it'll take years to save up for that.

>>9674547
I'm not 100% sure, but CMP usually covers diabetes testing. You'd probably lose weight instead of gaining as well.
Another common cause would be excess calcium, but that is really a lot more serious and should show up in your exams since it might indicate kidney problems.
Please don't forget to tell your doctor that symptom.
By what you're saying, you probably are reacting either to medication or stress. I hope you find a way out. Can't help a lot more on a forum.

A silly coincidence, but I'm exactly your height.

>>9674573
Let me love your face, babygull

>>9674573
I always thought "I'm ugly but at least I'm skinny!" and now I gained 15 pounds and want to kill myself.

>>9674573
Post face

>>9674600
Thank you for your advice and sympathy. Thankfully I've had my calcium tested and those levels are normal. My doctors know about my symptoms, but they're all pretty much stumped about what to do about it. One of them went so far as to tell me "There's nothing I can do about it. Just deal with it." and when I asked him if he would recommend seeing a different type of doctor, he said he wouldn't help me. (needless to say that's the last time I saw that doctor haha)

And yes! It seems to be a pretty common height, even though it's below average (at least in the US)!

I’m eagerly waiting for the day when the ball starts to roll down the hill and my Instagram followers would increase almost automatically. I’m a jelly bitch and I hate to see girls who coordinate worse than me have thousand followers when I need to post daily to get 2 new followers towards one new post.

>>9674358
But Stocking IS [spoiler].

>>9674437
I hope it was red x navy chan, that shit was fucking hilarious

>>9674436
Be gone thot.

>live in a certain European country
>con community nowhere near as large as the US
>after years of travelling around country for cons, know of certain cliques within the anime cosplayers
>know one such person who has some level of infamy
>shes linked with pretty popular figures in the community, con organisers etc
>god I hate her
>god I fucking hate her
>constantly berating and attacking other people for not having her level of 'moral standards'
>loses her shit at really nice people who dare disagree with her opinions, ropes in her entourage into the argument
>uses her popularity to belittle other cosplayers
>"Hey! Everybody! I just want everyone to know I gave my lunch to a homeless person, why can't you all be as nice and considerate as meeeee"
>"Sorry I sent a hate mob after you, both of my parents are abusers who abuse me all the time s orry Im hvgn a p anic at ac.;; i can t tyyype proper ly...!!"
>She's constantly in promotional material for most popular cons in the country
>most of my friends like her and see her as a role model
>wouldn't be so bothered about her if I didn't need to see her face everywhere
>no one to vent my extreme hatred with

reeeeeeeeeeeeee

>art major
>only wear lolita to class when not painting or doing charcoal, even then it's very simple and usually dresses I don't mind possibly getting a little dirty
>teacher tells us we won't be needing any materials for our next class because we'll spend the entire time discussing certain aspects of our next project
>alright cool
>decide to dress up in an op I haven't worn in years
>really happy, it's a pretty light blue color
>show up to class, get a couple of compliments
>notice that there's a person I've seen a few times from the other class that's painting at the back
>guess I looked nervous because my professors told me "don't worry, he'll stay back there the entire class"
>well ok
>get half way through class, stand to go to bathroom
>come back and as soon as I open the door, the painter guy is right there
>I guess I scared him because he jumped back out of my way
>pallet of acrylic paints go flying out of his hand
>try to step back in time
>catches the end of my dress and smears across before landing flat on my shoes
>completely and totally shocked
>start crying
>guy is apologizing, everyone else is up and running over
>teacher runs over, starts trying to get the paint out of the dress
>smearing it across more but that's unavoidable
>guy is yelling that we're overreacting
>I'm still panicking/crying
>my teachers gets all the paint off but there's a large red/blue/green swatch of pressed in paint at the bottom of the dress
>completely heartbroken
>guy leaves without a word, doesn't even say sorry
>go home, change into pjs and spent rest of evening mopping in bed

I know it's just clothes, but goddamn, I think this broke my heart. I don't even know what to do now. Had I known there would be someone else painting in the room, I would have brought clothes to change into or just not worn the op in the first place. I feel like I did everything I could and that this isn't my fault, but he sure made me feel like it was.

>>9674730
Why was he standing in the doorway?
Why was he surprised when the door opened?
Why was he painting at all when everyone else wasn't?
This guy sounds like a retard

>>9674750
I think he was trying to find plastic wrap to put over the pallet to keep the paint dry. We ran out in class so you have to go down the hallway to grab some. Idk why he had it with him.

I don't know why he was surprised. I guess I opened it really fast and that combined with seeing a small girl in weird fashion was surprising?

From what the teacher told me, he wanted to stay and finish his painting and so she gave him permission to stay in the back of the class. Which isn't unusual, we have students from the other class stay into our class all the time.

>>9674754
*to keep the paint from drying out, totally fucked that one.

>>9673812
Im fucking stupid and missed out on buying weekend tickets for AnimeNYC. I kinda want to sneak into the con since its $100 for friday and sunday tickets only. Is it even possible? Will wearing a costume be convincing?

>>9674774
it's 75 for both, anon??

I'm really glad I got small breasts for lolita,especially since I can fit in everything including old school pieces and never have to worry about looking up max measurements but truth is, sometimes I get very self conscious. I'm "average" weight for an european girl of my height (5'3 approx,so kinda short) but sometimes I feel like they are too small for my body and I get kiiinda self conscious about it. I'm a measly B cup,just small handfuls, and I feel like I'm less attractive for it. I would never get surgery for it, but gosh.

Also I can't lose weight to be skinnier/more "petite" because that would probably result in them shrinking even further, that and I got a pretty thin face,so losing weight would result in making it thinner thus even uglier. I'm cursed

>>9674730
there are lots of things to get paint out, certain oils can break up acrylic really easily so dont be heartbroken until you know for sure its too bad to fix. theres even stuff online you can buy that dissolves paint (usually used for surfaces youre prepping to repaint a different colour)

also lol
>guy is apologizing
>doesnt even say sorry
now now anon dont be silly.

>>9674802
You're too hard on yourself, my little loli. I'm sure you look fine.

>>9674830
>my little loli
die.

>>9674873
and what's you'r cosplay little girl?

>>9674830
>my little loli
gtfo

>>9674830
Gross.

>>9674873
>>9674894
>when gulls who are probably 5'2 get offended at being called little
Pathetic desu.

>>9674802
Doesn't matter if you're skinny or pudgy. If you're ugly, you'll always get ripped apart.

>>9674802
TMI but after my mom (28A) had to remove one of her breasts, she had implants put in to give her a C cup and they have dropped horribly. She has to go in again and have them removed, and then have a more realistic size put in. (28A) With her petite frame, her chest just can’t keep larger implants up.

The moral of this story is whatever size your boobs are, they are your perfect size for your body! So treat them well and try not to feel self conscious about what your body naturally has.

>tfw getting married in a few weeks
I'm both incredibly happy and about to puke due to anxiety

>>9674934
I was referring to the fact that anon called the other anon a "loli" and "their little loli" at that. Sounds creepy to me senpai

>>9674934
had nothing to do with the word "little", idiot. it's as >>9674960 said, calling someone "your little loli" is fucking disgusting.

>group of friends set to go to a con soon
>two couples and me
>just found out through another friend that a girl from one of the couples recently got drunk and made out with someone other than her boyfriend
>awkwardly sitting with this knowledge, waiting for the girl to tell the guy
>want them to be able to work it out if that will make him happy
>also lowkey wouldn't care if he kicks her to the curb because she was a jealous cunt all throughout the last con we went to as a group and acted weird about me and him hanging out alone even though I'm a lesbian

>>9674802
I used to be really self-conscious about my smaller breasts and thought they looked too small on my frame, but I tried hard to overcome the mindset of bigger being better, and I now wouldn't trade my smaller breasts for anything. They look great in jfashion and can easily be padded for cosplay. I hope you're able to gain some self-confidence, anon. I'm sure you look great.

>bonus: smaller breasts are usually more sensitive than larger ones

>>9674966
Literally how

>>9674873
>>9674894
>>9674932
Why are gulls so easy to bait?

>>9674830
>tfw no loli gf

>>9674276
I want to be you.

>>9674950
lolita wedding?

I wish I could be someone's loli gf.

>>9675004
Life gets better past 5g E3D.

>>9675029
Why can't you

>>9675031
5g tren? I doubt 5g of EQ will do shit.

>>9675055
3g Test E, 2g Tren A.

EOD if you're not a little bitch.

>>9675061
If can score a loli or neko girl out of it, consider it done.

>>9675063
100% don't see how running 10+g of gear a week could fail to get you the gf of your dreams.
Worked for the pianoman and he was functionally not human.

>>9675067
I'm either going the pianoman route or I'm going to fail miserably and just LARP as Chocola for the rest of my twink life.

is all this ^ another board invading? wtf is going on

>>9675087
/Fit/ thinks that Meatheads like them are irresistible to women silo they come to the "girl board" to humble brag about whatever shit they are injecting this week

>>9675087
Hello, I am Crusader-Chan from /fraud/. If you're cute enough I'll let you hit me.

>>9675089
>/fit/
We're a lot better than /fit/ I promise. I'm just here because someone mentioned my name and I'm an attention whore.

>>9675072
If you're actually 6'1", then you're no longer twink tier, but I would advise better diet.
You're running over a g of gear and should be packing on more weight and be ready to shred.

>>9675087
>>9675089
Honestly, /fit/ is natty territory.
You'll find pretty much every guy trying to achieve a superhero/comic book physique for cosplay is roiding - either that or they look like a toddler in a red dot costume.
I probably spend more time on /cgl/ than /fit/ nowadays because I build my physique for cosplay, I don't cosplay to show off my physique.

>>9675095
I'm eating at 3900kcal. Well, now that I have my gym tag back I will be. The first 2 weeks of my new blast have been such a fucking shitshow.

I think the total gear I'm running is 2.25g. But 900mg is EQ so it doesn't really count. I'm scared of getting fat desu.

Cosplayer girl here
How do you gulls deal with thirsty ass guys, those that spam you until you reply, kiss your ass, agree with anything you say and keep offering to get you stuff (sure it's nice but just using someone/feeling forced to talk to them for stuff is annoying)
Like, idm guys that act like a normal person around me, but that clingy shit is annoying (telling them off never work 3/4 either)
I'm sad because I really just want some normal friends and not a wanna be boyfriend...

>>9675040
that implies having a bf. I don't seem to have much luck in that department

>>9673991
I have that but with pulling out my hair where the sideburns would be and under my chin and I get acne there because of it. I really hate it but I can't stop...

>>9675089
As if I need to post anonymously to validate my self worth.

>>9675097
Eh, you sometimes have to get fat to get big.
I mean, keep at what you're doing and you'll be YUGE within a year, but you could speed it up a bit if you restricted your diet less.

Most guys on your level of gear are eating 5,000kcal.

>>9675100
Guys that are like that, will always be like that.
You can gauge it from the first interaction - they're not looking at you as someone they share common interests with, they're desperately looking for someone to fill the gf shaped hole that people have convinced them is the solution to their life.
I know this because I've done it, I didn't realise at the time how scummy it was, and that people who are looking for a partner should be overturned about it.

If guys are like this, just drop contact, they're never gonna be a friend, they're always gonna see you as meat or as someone who will eventually fall in love with them, because that's what happens in their Chinese cartoons.

Looking back, it's some of the cringiest shit I've ever done, but I couldn't see it at the time; it's likely these guys won't ever understand or it will be after a few dozen failed friendships and a couple failed relationships.

tl;dr: you're not the problem, so you can't fix it. Ghost the cunts.

>>9675100
Honestly, if you've told them to stop spamming you and they don't, just ignore them. I've had a few beta orbiters who didn't leave me alone after I told them in clear terms that I didn't want them constantly kissing my ass and that I was never even gonna fuck them in the first place because I'm a dyke and that didn't stop them at all so I just broke off contact completely.

Do make sure to let them know politely but firmly that you want them to stop spamming you first though because there's always a small chance it's just some autistic dude that actually doesn't realize he's bothering you and will stop once asked.

>>9675101
Sorry to hear that anonette, maybe l could be your bf tonite :^)

>>9675105
>overturned
Somehow autocorrect changed that from upfront.

>>9674802
As someone who has had breast reduction, treasure your small breast. I am 5' and I had a DDD+ (I always wore sports bras so I don't know exactly how gig they were). Now I am a C cup and it is amazing. Best decision I have ever made. Really big breast seem awesome until you have the. They look good in pictures and sometimes not even that. You seen like a great size to me and are just hard on yourself.

>>9675112
>tfw no giant titty pocket loli

>>9674949
LOL NOPE. sometimes nature is wrong. Tell that to my previous boobs of DDD+ in a 5 foot tall girl.

>>9675113
God damn it crusader, make up your fucking mind.
Also, what city are you in?
You into crossplays.

No homo

>>9675115
I'm a complex person.

Brisbane.

I might be...

>>9675116
Makes sense that you're a troppo cunt ;).

Sandgroper here, I'm natty, but considering leaving humanity behind so I can do crossplays without being self conscious.

>>9675119
Do it. Being natty is dumb if you can afford roids.

>>9675087
If you want to cosplay as a dude, you've got to be either huge, a twink or a fat fuck.

Most of us who understand that choice want to be huge.
Only way to get huge, or at least close to the definition and size of superheros and fictional bodies is gear.

>>9675091
wow youre so.... annoying. congrats.

>>9675130
I'm cuter than you are.

>>9675132
i seriously doubt that. im not a faggy cosplayer im a skinny lolita lol.

>>9675132
>>9675137
ASS FIGHT
ASS FIGHT
ASS FIGHT
post asses

>>9675137
I hate that I had to save this on my phone just so I could stir shit.

>>9675139
>roiding for this

>>9673821
2 months for 10 pounds isn't a stretch at all. Especially if you are actually overweight, since you burn more calories in the first place.

Now I prefer intermittent fasting for weight loss. Makes it easier for me. But different things work for different people. You just have to find a way to cut calories that you can stick to.

>>9675142
He doesn't eat enough.
Still great progress, but on over a g of gear he should be much further along.

>>9675139
ew. thank god im a lesbian.

>>9673821
I've dropped 65lbs in 5 months.

>>9675139
>roiding for this

>>9675148
>tfw no Hanekawa gf

>>9675137
B R I S B A N E

I don't cosplay either. I have zero confidence and no social skills. I'm just here for attention.

>>9675139
I like how many people have this version saved. But cuteness is all in the face, why did you post my faggot progress?

>>9675151
Because you need to eat big son.
If I shitpost enough maybe you'll eat more and actually gain some weight.

>>9675153
But eating is hard!

>>9675154
Just eat you weakcunt.
I want to cosplay qt anime grills with you.

>>9675154
stop being such a soft cunt and drink your milk

>>9674044
It can be hard to see the changes in yourself. I still see the person in the mirror who weighs 40 pounds more than I currently do. I have no ability to judge aproximate weights of others. And so I don't know who I might compare to. I just try to focus on being at a good bmi. I generally try to stay at 21-22. I know I can't see myself for what I am yet. So I use other knowledge to keep myself in check.

>>9675155
I-I'm sorry. I'll try harder goshujin-sama.

>>9675156
I unironically drink a gallon of milk a day.

>>9675158
You have to eat food too
Enjoy your white shits

>>9675160
>>9675158
>Not eating 5 dozen eggs so you can accurately cosplay Gaston.
Come on.

>tfw saw girl who bought huge wunderwelt lacemarket lot for $150
>reselling everything at $30-50 bucks a pop
>she didn't even clean anything yet

>>9675172
Props to girls who can skin the secondhand market.
Couldn't ever bring myself to wear secondhand clothes from strangers.

>>9675139
>looking like that at 160lbs
how fucking short are you

>>9675223
He says he's 6'1", maybe just to escape the pit.

I just finished going marie kondo on my wishlists on LM, ebay, aliexpress and etsy; since ive been doing lolita for a few years and have a better idea of where my wardrobe is headed and what i really enjoy. Feels good man.

>>9675223
I'm 6'1". I just take good pictures.

>>9675244
>When will they learn.
You can't escape the truth forever.

>>9675245
I don't know how I can prove my height. Stand next to a door frame? My proportions aren't manlety.

>>9675246
Stand next to those coloured lines on the exit door of a shop.