/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9450837
Go ahead, but after you give birth don't start bringing your baby to meets trying to have the comm babysit for you and deal with your problems

>>9450837
I think you just ansewered your own question.

>>9450837
Although they really shouldn't, fatty-chans wear it all the time, so I don't see why pregnancy should stop anyone.

My BtSSB Babydoll JSKs are some of the comfiest clothes I own so yes I'd still wear those while pregnant, though I probably wouldn't post to COF and would only attend more casual meetups.

>>9450846
No need to be rude. Of course I wouldn't the same as I wouldn't bring hubby unless he wanted to join the fashion.

>>9450837
Also, Ideas or pictures for doing it well???

>>9450861
Wasn't accusing you specifically but a lot of lolita moms are obnoxious as hell and bring their babies or kids to meets because they can't afford a babysitter or they feel the comm (since it's a bunch of girls) owe her some kind of camaraderie since we all have vaginas

>>9450837
It's just clothes. If you still fit comfortably in your dresses, wear it. Hell, maybe it'll discourage randos from touching your belly. I'd be more concerned about having the energy to wear such an involved style while pregnant, though.

>>9450864
Really, the only issue I can think of is having a bit of a wonky shape with the huge belly and all, so you could balance it out by wearing half a petticoat like a butt cape, if you want to go this far. Otherwise, I don't think anyone would care if you ditched the petticoat while you're pregnant.
Dress-wise: comfy sack dresses and super high waist cuts, but I guess that's self explanatory.

>>9450837
Well the ones in the pic seem to be pulling it off wonderfully, so why not?

>>9450861
What the fuck is up with straight women and calling their spouses "hubby"?? It makes everyone sound like an out-of-touch 38yo Pinterest Crafty Mom

>>9450871
ahh... I see. Nope I'm typically a polite person and I would feel undignified doing something like that. Yes I like kids and want to be a mom but I don't feel others should have to have my being a mom thrust upon them or that I am entitled to special treatment as such. i can't stand people like that.

>>9450876
XD true true. I can't stand random people touching me ew. I actually need to buy new dresses though because of the size change so does anyone have any suggestions? I know some cuts will either not fit or make me just look fat.

>>9450882
Thank you. all very good advice. I suppose I will just have to experiment a little bit.

I guess I'm mainly worried people will judge me for it.

>>9450837
Is that a fucking ice cream cone?

>>9450947
Are you new to Lolita or something? It's called sweet lolita dumbass.

Try to stick to lighter outfits. When you're pregnant, you're really prone to overheating and heavy dresses might trigger that.

>>9450925
Some will. Some will also judge you for still being into Lolita when you have a kid because you can't be a mom and have fun. The thing is, people will judge you for literally everything you do in life, including wearing Lolita as a grown woman pregnant or not.

>>9450953
Thank you :) I will keep that in mind...and yeah I guess.

I've got a list of things I want to wear when pregnant/breastfeeding and most of it is putumayo dresses. Putu are the worst offenders for prints I like but only in high waisted cuts and also being too large, but their cotton dressed are really durable and most people who I know own them can attest to them surviving multiple washes which is good, plus they're one of the cheapest brands both new and second hand. I'm told dresses and yoga pants are way easier for when the baby is pressing on your bladder and you have to go more often (rather than faffing with a fly)

>>9450947
>>9450952
And this is why I hate sweet.

>>9450969
I am apparently failing to see what you are seeing...wtf is wrong with sweet and how is your statement connected the posts you are tagging and why is that anon freaking out about an ice cream cone being used in a sweet coord???

>>9450882
I don't think anyone should ditch the petti, just buy one that's stretched out or a large size and put it above the bump. That's what I did. I hate the way lolita looks without petticoats

>>9450991
did you wear lolita while pregnant? did anyone say anything to you about it?

>>9450960
So Putumayo...but what other brands or specific dresses are good for larger fits? I was always brand sized before but since I took a break from lolita and then got pregnant, I'm much larger and don't know what fits for larger sizes, you know?

>>9450837
Usually pregnancy doesn't bother, but this kinda grosses me out.

>>9451026
what's wrong with it?

>>9451014
Full shirring and empire waist are your new best friends

>haven't been in the scene since 2007

oh shit of course people are having kids now.

that's kind of cool actually, have there been any not cringey lolita themed weddings?

>>9450947
wtf anon?

>>9451014
Metamorphose fully shirred dresses are super forgiving. You can usually find lots of stuff from them pretty cheap secondhand.

Anything high waisted. I wore AP, moitie, btssb, aatp and meta while I was pregnant. While sack dresses and high waisted dresses don't look good on me normally, they actually look pretty good when you have a big prego belly. Invest in some cute low heel shoes in basic colors and some good gel inserts. I lived in my AP tea parties in black and wore them with everything since black is a pretty basic neutral color, and they were comfy as hell.
Get in your lolita now. I wore it up until my kid turned 1 on a near daily basis. After that keeping up with her and having the time or energy to wear lolita isnt very often. Now that she's older I'm slowly being able to wear it more, but still not as often as I use to.

>>9450837
The BtSSB babydoll style jsks are pretty good for while you're pregnant (and nursing if you have an easy to move blouse underneath.) Pregnant women look pretty ridiculous in basically any clothes, so no reason to be too boring. Until your stomach gets big, a lot of the waists of lolita stuff is high enough it won't make a big difference.

>>9450976
apparently it's the new cool hip thing to hate sweet now, but it just makes them look like edgelords

>>9451185
XD edgelords XD lol

>>9450887
THANK YOU
This is such a pet peeve of mine!

>>9450887
>>9451200
It's short for husband.

>>9451200
Do we tell you what's okay to call your SO?
Or are you single and so it just makes you jealous that you are alone?

>>9450887
Damn gurl are you a stopsign cuz that was
EDGY

>>9451187
I mean, it's not not true.

>>9451202
I'm aware. I just hate the nickname.

>>9451203
You are free to call your spouse whatever you want, but I am free to cringe at it. (not that I ever would tell people to their faces, I'm not that big of a jerk)

>>9451187
now that's edgy

>>9450887
now thats what i call edgy

I have extreme baby fever right now (I think it's the weather) and these pictures are so cute to me.

>>9450887
At least you aren't me, I call my BF hunners bunners.

>>9451185
>hating sweet
>new

>>9450837
I don't care if you're pregnant and wearing the fashion but when you make it a point that your are indeed expecting and wearing the fashion just fuck off. The fashion isn't made special because you're carrying a parasite. And shame on you for pointing it out to get bonus likes from the other mommy-litas. It's not an accessory so you don't need to make sure every one knows your having a baby. The frills can even cover up the baby belly ( I did it when I was about to pop and fealt like a water balloon) but when you walk around like the picture posted it makes me cringe. It screams "I want more attention" the the fashion already screams. It's annoying.

>>9451875
Absolutely. The girls in the photo clearly want you to know they're pregnant and want the extra asspats for it. The potential issue isn't about wearing the dresses, it's about if you can still participate in the community without tooting your own horn.

>>9451212
Chill and stop projecting so much in this thread; they were just pointing out that they don't like the nickname. If you want to stay in the community during your pregnancy you should try to make an effort to stop being so hyperdefensive over your husband/baby/pregnancy plans.

>>9451875
Oh phew that's someone being triggered.
I'm not a fan of moms being so in-your-face about their pragnancy as well, but damn they don't need to hide it either. It's not like it's a crime to get children. As long as they are civil about it, it's okay. I don't judge women talking about their pragnancy any more than I judge other girls talking about their latest trip to Japan.

>>9451185
Maybe that is why unconsciously I have been toying with the o
Idea of selling my sweet dresses even though I like them

>>9450837
IMHO lolita and pregnancy don't mix too well.

Whenever I see a grown woman wearing lolita I think of an adult 'keeping their inner child alive' or 'still being girly' and I don't mean in a bad way. You could say lolita keeps them young.

Pregnancy on the other hand seems like such a grown-up thing, being serious in life and such, the two concepts just clash so much.

I wouldn't judge other people though. You do you and it's you clothing. If you want to wear your expensive wardrobe with a baby bump it's your choice.
But I simply think it looks weird, like two opposites forced into one. I think I'd put off wearing lolita once a bump really starts showing.

>>9452046
This. If it's super sweet lolita I can't help but think about how the bump is a neon sign above you head telling everyone you're sexually active, but in such an innocent fashion it feels kind of creepy. I know the whole point of lolita is that you're dressing for you and people shouldn't think of it as a fetish thing because an adult woman should be able to wear cute things without people inappropriately contemplating her sexual availability then feeling weird about it.

I think I just can't help feeling flaunting pregnancy is either puritanical mormon stepford wifery (sex is for procreation, which women exist for so its a sacred duty!) or drawing everyone's attention to the fact someone's dick went in you; the juxtaposition of those two views on pregnancy fucks my head up as well. I'm not even a prude, being a little kinky and liking pole dance/burlesque etc, but those things are more suggestive than carrying actual literal evidence of copulation.

>>9452025
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>>9450861


The sensitivity level of this thread is off the charts. I can't decide if these girls are just new to CGL or if they really are this butthurt by any vague negativity in regards to being pregnant or married.

>>9452025
>they don't need to hide it either.

Nobody is saying people should hide their pregnancy. There's a huge difference between wearing lolita as per normal and what the girls in OP's photo are doing, which is cupping their belies so that they pop out in an obviously pregnant way. But please continue shitting up the thread with dismissive tumblrisms.

>>9452025
So you're okay with a girl saying " sorry if I look fat, I'm pregnant" at the start of her conversation or CoF post? Nice to know you are a person that will pass a bad cordinate because " lol I'm pregnant so be nice" because that's what anon was talking about.

>>9452025
>>9452025
fuck man, for real right? A bump is a bit hard to hide anyhow unless you are crazy tiny and in shape, which I am not. It's people like them that make me afraid to be in the comm while pregnant because even if I never were to talk about my pregnancy, they'd fucking jump to conclusions and start drama and talking shit about me. I haven't even mentioned to anyone that I'm pregnant except my husband and mother in law. No one fucking said anything about me being special for being pregnant in lolita and that picture was the only decent photo I could find of pregnant lolitas. I just fucking wanted some advice for what dresses are most flattering to that shape and to know if people would be assholes to me like you guys:
>>9452016
>>9451875
I'm kinda thinking it's not worth it to stay in the comm and invest in new dresses if that is the unwarranted reaction I'm going to get just for a state of being I can't change.

>>9451010
I did up until the eighth month and no one could tell because I wear ridiculously poofy AP normally, which totally hides the shape of your body other than the chest, arms, and legs

>>9450837
I'd think it's creepy imo.
Do it after you have the baby or before you start showing.

>>9452051
That's a fucked up way of putting it...

>>9452079
You're going to get people to hate you no matter what you do anon. As long as you don't dote on the fact that your pregnant and act normal you're not going to get judged. It's people that go out of their way to make sure you know they are with a kid to excuse their insecurities about their cordinate and hope that you knowing that will make you like them regardless.

>>9452079
>people would be assholes to me like you guys:
If you think anyone in this thread is being an asshole to you, I fear for how you'll react to people giving you the odd glance when you're visibly pregnant in lolita. You posted a photo of lolitas calling attention to their pregnancy, so don't flip out when one of the talking points is about that.

>>9452046
I think pregnancy is a very feminine thing and doesn't clash with the ideas of Lolita in the slightest. Not all lolita is about being cutesy. Overall it's about being ladylike; feminine. While it may not mix well with sweet, it looks fine with Lolita. Also, Someone being pregnant isn't "flaunting" anything, they are just big and can't help being big. They love the fashion and don't want to stop going to meets just because they got a bit bigger.

>>9452051
"I can't help but think about how the bump is a neon sign above you head telling everyone you're sexually active"

Are you serious?! lol by that standard, guess who else has a neon sign above their head saying they are sexually active: Married people, anyone who lives with their partner.

People have sex, get over it! I bet you never get up to go to the restroom unless you're alone because it would put a neon sign over your head... No wonder you're such a salty bitch. I'd be a bitch too if I were that constipated.

>>9452052
It's called pregnancy hormones...

>>9452110
I didn't want to say it, but not gonna lie, I was thinking that. Why start a thread looking for opinions on pregnancy if you're just going to overreact and tell people to "get over it" or that they're "triggered" or "jealous" every time someone mildly disagrees with how wonderful and amazing it is? OP is clearly just looking for positive validation and should have kept this post to their personal facebook page.

>>9452052
its possible to have a negative opinion about pregnancy without sounding like a tryhard 14 year old girl who calls fetuses parasites lol

>>9450837
I feel like I'm looking at someone's fetish.

>>9452115
You are assuming that all of those posts are from the OP but as the OP I can tell you they are not. in fact I was the one who said that the sensitivity was probably due to pregnancy hormones.

>>9452055
And I don't see any harm by "cupping your belly". So what? They just made a silly coord picture, since their bellies were obviously showing anyway.
Do you also get mad when peopke make silly group pictures and post them?

>>9452060
I literally don't know anything about that COF post. Posting to COF with such a pic is a whole different level of attention-seeking. But the way >>9451875 wrote about it, it seemed like they are mad about people openly showing ther bellies in any way. I never said I'd pass the coords, they are fugly, but I don't get into a "fuck you and you parasites" mode either.

>>9452124
Yes, I know that. I was agreeing with you that OP was being overly sensitive. OP is making it very clear which replies are theirs so it's not really hard to tell.

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>>9452124

These are OP's (my) posts. I wasn't the one talking about triggered and stuff...just to clarify.

>>9452099
I simply think the "lolita = youthful" thing clashes with the "pregnancy = full-blown adulthood" thing.
It probably depends on your associations with lolita and pregnancy. I think young moms are kind of weird as well, because the whole being-a-mother thing is something really mature and adult for me, whereas lolita is my escapism from adulthood (as in you don't care about other people, spend a lot of money on clothes and such).

>>9451875
>carrying a parasite
this is more cringe than actual soccermoms

Some of y'all are acting like the girls in that picture have been walking around all day like that. I have a picture like that, neither of us walked around holding our skirts down so you could see the rest of the time. It's just kinda comical because you can't tell with the petticoat.

>>9452130
>So what?
If you go out of your way to remind everyone in your comm that you're pregnant or bring it up at every turn or always take photos with a "this is my baby bump!!!" pose, expect to run into some people who do not enjoy that behavior. That's all. You can act however you want while pregnant, but just don't be surprised when some folks don't like the behavior. Act like a normal person who isn't fishing for attention and everything will be fine.

>>9452118
Agreed.
This person was able to disagree politely and unoffensively:
>>9452046

While I don't necessarily agree with them, I appreciate that they were polite.

>>9452145
And this is what I'm saying. But this is a concept that works for every other subject as well. If you annoy people with a certain thing they will be annoyed. I don't understand why pregnancy is such a special thing.

>>9452134
lol The person you are replying to said they were OP dumbass...

A girl in my comm is pregnant. It ok, but the smell is just terrible.

>>9452140
Ppl got pregnant really young before the 1970s/1980s.

Lmao are lolitas secretly women-children??? This thread is ridic.

>>9452051
These are your own issues, and no one else's. Lolita's have sex. Most of us are grown ass women. Most of you favorite brand models are sexually active. Don't project your weird issues with innocence and femininity onto all of us. I wear lolita because I like the clothes, not because I'm trying to convey some childish innocence

>>9452189
>secretly

>>9452159
>OP says they were being sensitive due to hormones
>Agree that yes, they are being too sensitive due to hormones
"LOLOL DUMBASS"

Try again.

>>9452199
truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

>>9452150
Definitely agree, but it seems to be a more rampant problem when kids are involved for some reason. For every person who acts normally, there's another who wants others to acknowledge how amazing and special their pregnancy or children are, and needs to be constantly validated. There's even a behavior called "mommyjacking" where special snowflakes will hijack threads and belittle other peoples' accomplishments because raising a kid is so much harder and more rewarding than "insert x accomplishment here".

There's an added problem in lolita or cosplay communities where you have young parents who don't want to adjust their hobbies to suit their new life with kids. I've seen people drag newborns to conventions, try to bring infants to stay in a hotelshare without telling anyone, or pitch fits when a comm plans activities that aren't child-friendly. It's a weird sense of entitlement.

>>9450837
This is fucking disgusting

>>9452216
>There's an added problem in lolita or cosplay communities where you have young parents who don't want to adjust their hobbies to suit their new life with kids. I've seen people drag newborns to conventions, try to bring infants to stay in a hotelshare without telling anyone, or pitch fits when a comm plans activities that aren't child-friendly.

I think this is a problem everywhere, and I've seen it with older and younger parents. I rarely go to the movies, but sometimes when I do there is a small child there who clearly doesn't want to be there. Or newborns!! Theaters are dark and loud and can smell weird. Once there was a dad who took his screaming baby to the back of theater instead of leaving altogether. People will also bring small children to restaurants, etc.

I don't mind it if the kid is good and quiet. I've seen babies at movie theaters who sleep the whole time and don't make a peep, and kids at very nice restaurants who color the whole time and are chill. But the majority of kids lean more towards being loud. (And usually with the loudest kids the parents let them do whatever they want.) Parents need to adjust their hobbies and I think there might be a struggle for some people to balance hobbies and a small child. I don't think some parents realize that them bringing their kids annoys others, and/or annoys the kids.

I'm also okay with people bringing small children and newborns to conventions, but some of them don't have common sense. Conventions are loud and there are tons of people, most kids I see burnout after 3-5 hours. (But the parents still bring them to shit when they're exhausted and want a break.)

>>9452150
>I don't understand why pregnancy is such a special thing.
Pregnancy and childbirth freak me the fuck out and I never plan on doing it, but I can't really understand how you can not get why it's considered to be so special? I definitely think people make it out to be sunshine and rainbows to an idiotic level, but it's still people bringing their children into the world. That's a pretty big deal.

I personally think that empire cuts are the perfect solution for pregnancy. Once I brought an empire waisted jsk to an alteration place and the seamstress thought it was a pregnancy dress.

I don't understand how everyone ITT gets so triggered about pregnancy though. It's totally natural, so I don't get why you would want to shame somebody for it just because they are a little excited about it. And them getting excited is totally normal too, since pregnany is a big deal in their lives, it's like somebody getting totally hyped when they fnd the job of their dreams or the love of their life. People like to talk about it and share their joy with others. I you find pregnancy talk annoying just switch the topic or find another conversation partner at the meet. But I agree with that once the kid is there, it has no place at the meet.

I know that pregant women can become a little little difficult to deal with because of their hormones going crazy and stuff but it's only a phase and you won't have to deal with it forever. So finding discret a way to deal with it seems more reasonable to me than ruining your relation with a person forever only because you get triggered by pregancy.

>>9452230
I feel genuinely sorry for the kids subjected to this. PAX is a local con to me, and it's very common to see nerdy parents toting around young kids with noise-canceling headphones because the noise and stimulation is too much (even as an adult it's hard to deal with) but they insist on dragging their children along anyway while they have fun.

For newborns at cons I'm mostly concerned because cons are filthy as hell and renown for getting people sick, and that's a terrible risk to be taking when your child's that young.

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>>9452118
I think anon is being a twat, but they're not being wrong about the parasite thing. A fetus is by definition a parasite. Like, that's literally what it is and this fact cannot be denied.
>an organism that lives in or on another organism (its host) and benefits by deriving nutrients at the host's expense.

Just because it's a parasite doesn't make it any less special for the people having it, though.

>>9452051
What the fuck is wrong with you? The mentality you're displaying is exactly the kind of "Puritan Mormon stepford wife" shit you're claiming showing off your pregnancy is.

>>9452046
You sound like you're like 16. Most adults don't treat Lolita that way. I'm never having kids because just no, but saying kids and Lolita don't mix is stupid. By your logic of "full blown adulthood doesn't mix with Lolita" getting married or having a career isn't either, even though Baby releases wedding dresses every year.

>>9452259
my husband and I actually use that term affectionately about our baby lol XD because true by the technical definition it is a parasite...some could argue a symbyote though, (sometimes with long term returns way beyond birth ie taking care of you in old age or helping out around the house or just providing companionship)

>>9452245
>I don't understand how everyone ITT gets so triggered about pregnancy though. It's totally natural, so I don't get why you would want to shame somebody for it just because they are a little excited about it.
I think it's a combination of the fact that expecting/new mothers are more often than not really fucking annoying in Lolita and cosplay world, and the fact that people who choose to be childless hear a lot of really stupid shit for that position, which sometimes leads to a sense of hostility regarding the subject entirely. For some of these people, I think it's also that they're like 12.

>>9452187
No shit sherlock

>>9452216
And for every mommyjacking person there is someone with a hate-boner who will constantly complain about "parasites" or "crotch fruit".
People should simply be more considerate overall and chill.

>>9452259
I never said they don't go together at all, what is your problem. I just said the concepts and images clash a bit.
Like a lolita surrounded by trash clashes.
And I also said it's my opinion. Of course I don't feel like a child when wearing lolita, but I feel like I'm tending to my youthful side and like to escape adult responsibilities for a moment. It's just my personal associations.

>>9452277
yeah, people in their prime youth had kids. thats been the tradition for hundreds of years.
lolita = youth, pregnancy = adult
doesn't make sense bc people had/have children during youth.

>>9452283
yeah but there's also that thing about "you need to stop fooling around and finally get married and get some kids"
Traditionally your youth was over once you started a family, because you needed to act like a proper adult now.

>>9451014
Meta has always been the plus size brand, but MAM/Maxicimam, Chantilly, anything fully shirred, anything empire waist, anything sack dress.

I'd still only buy cotton/easily washable stuff due to body fluids - pregnancy weight doesn't immediately vanish and your uterus stays the same size as at 20 weeks so you still have a bump + any body weight you gained. Full shirring strikes me as being conducive to breastfeeding so I would probably wear those dresses after giving birth as well, and babies all spill to varying degrees due to GI tract immaturity so it has to be washable.

>>9452259
I knew someone was gonna pull the 'but it actually IS a parasite!!' Yes, by definition it is indeed parasitic but calling a fetus a parasite is edgy as fuck and people who do it are extremely immature. People who say that are the same kind of people to say 'fuck this gay earth' and 'lol praying to your sky fairy?'

>>9452703
You sound offended that children are referred to parasites. Maybe you need to calm down and stop posting for a while. This place doesn't take kindly to offened crys like yours.

>>9452787
I'm not offended, I don't have children and never will, but it's not hard to spot the obnoxious tryhards in this thread.

>>9452703
I'm pregnant and jokingly refer to my literal parasite as... a parasite. I can somehow do this without insulting other members of my lgbt family or religious people. Kinda feel like you're projecting on this one, anon. I hope you get that edgelord out of your life because they don't sound very fun.

>>9452703
I have two kids and called them parasites when I was pregnant. Hell even made a joke when I had a craving saying that my parasite ate my food and demands cocolate and peanut butter icecream. You need to stop projecting and lighten up to take a joke when it's there.

A member of our con had a kid and continued to wear lolita, and it was fine. Until she sold all her skirts at the next sales meet, at nearly full price, with all the elastic rendered useless by her baby bump.

>>9452096
>bitching about the pic related rather than the content of the thread
jesus you are moronic, it was included just to have a slightly relevant picture, nowhere did OP indicate she wants attention by wearing lolita while she is pregnant. she just asked about experiences of other expecting women and wearing lolita, and how she should go about it.

>>9453420
What is reading comprehension. Anon was talking about op getting butt hurt about people talking about doing the image in the picture FOR attention. It's tacky to do that shit in Lolita fashion and expect to be taken seriously.

>>9453427
OP isn't butthurt about that, she is butthurt about the thread being derailed and becoming awfully toxic towards her for the pic related (>>9451875 for example)

Quote:
>No one fucking said anything about me being special for being pregnant in lolita and that picture was the only decent photo I could find of pregnant lolitas

>>9451875
>carrying a parasite
your woman fedora is showing m'gentleman

>>9452140
You have to be 18 to use this site.

>>9453461
Anon your butthurt is showing. Take your no fun police opinion elsewhere.

>>9453452
right?!

>>9453420
Did you read too fast, or are you just stupid? OP opened the thread by asking "Opinions...
Should one leave lolita while pregnant or can it be done well?" She asked a general question, posted a relevant photo. Some anons are voicing opinions on the behavior in the photo in a polite way. They were not talking about the OP, and it's stupid for the OP to pitch a fit because she keeps assuming that every single reply is about her and only her.

If the OP wanted a thread that was ENTIRELY about her and her pregnancy, she should have said it up front - or better yet - not made one at all.

>>9453634
OP wasn't the one bitching. Everyone else got into a cat fight. If YOU hadn't read to fast, you see that.

>>9453639
Try again. The post that first comment is referring to is >>9452079 and OP claimed that post as theirs in their giant list.

>>9450887
jfc I thought I was the only one
It's just so lame

>>9452051
Should pregnant women just stay locked up in their house for 6+ months so they don't offend you with their slutty ways?

>>9453804
XD

>>9453824
pls don't

>>9452259
>Likes pole dance and burlesque
>Puritan Mormon Stepford Wife

I'm not saying my perspective is correct. I grew up in a physically violent, psychologically abusive religious household where when I was repeatedly sexually assaulted/abused my parents just punished me for being a slut and shit talked me to my psychologist so much shit I was too ashamed to keep going to therapy. Yeah I have some odd feelings on exhibiting sexuality, but I'm usually the one telling people to stop slut shaming.

>>9453804
I never called anyone a slut and pointed out my own hypocrisy by reminding people that lolita is about rejecting the sexualisation projected onto adult women who want to dress cutely without worrying about people calling them pedophile bait or accusing the wearer of being the one sexualising the cute clothes.

>>9452107
>>9452197
>the whole point of lolita is that you're dressing for you and people shouldn't think of it as a fetish thing because an adult woman should be able to wear cute things without people inappropriately contemplating her sexual availability then feeling weird about it.

And yes I have problems with chronic constipation and can't go to the bathroom at work because there is only a very thin wall between the toilets and where everyone eats on their break. I have social anxiety and don't want everyone to bitch about me.

>>9452259
You're doing god's work anon.

>>9453915
Wow. No one gives a shit about any of that, thanks for the long ass personal blog post.
At least it's become obvious that these are all YOUR weird little problems, and it's why you're so biased. Please get some help, you sound like a wreck.

>>9453961
lmao ty

>>9453824
Are we on 2006 again?
Stop that shit.

>>9453544
Are you trying to deny lolita is a form of escapism from the responsibilities of adulthood and real life?

>>9453915
Get help.

I think we can all agree mom-litas are more obnoxious than typical moms just from this thread, jesus.

>>9453961
I never denied that I have problems that affect my viewpoint.

>>9454000
Did you miss the part where I said I was in therapy. I was for 10 years and it just made things worse.

You can't deny that pregnancy is a neon sign above your head telling everyone you've had sex though.

>>9454005
>You can't deny that pregnancy is a neon sign above your head telling everyone you've had sex though.

Wow, you really do need help.

>>9454005
Holy shit nobody cares, stop telling us your life story. We get it, ur a speshul snowflake.

>>9454001
>implying everyone who sympathizes with mother is one

Y'all need to take a dose of your chill pills.

>>9452051
> how dare muh precious innocent lolitas have sex and make it so well known to others when they're pregnant!

It's a fucking fashion, get over it. There's quite a few lolitas that'll wear their lingerie underneath their frills anon, and lots of people have sex. As long as they wear the fashion well I see no problem with wearing it while pregnant.

>>9454005
>You can't deny that pregnancy is a neon sign above your head telling everyone you've had sex though.
anon you're off your goddamn rocker. you being here is a giant neon sign your parents had sex, buying condoms is a giant neon sign that you're going to have sex, being in a relationship is a giant neon sign that you're probably having sex.
sex is a natural biological drive and the gross majority of us enjoy it, you're treating a baby bump like a scarlet letter, that can't be healthy

>>9454021
but anon if she doesn't blog about her speshul snowflake past we won't know to admire her and feel bad at the same time
>hi my name is Ebony Dark'ness

>>9450837
So its fine if you dont go looking for asspats and make things about you. Most if not almost all moms-to-be become insufferable annoying selfish fucking cunts. Just dont be one of those moms that makes everything about your kid like constantly bringing it up to everyone at meets, retelling stories to everyone who will listen or making everything suit your needs (like where meets are held or stuff like that if in a comm) Its your life and its a big thing for you but please realize everyone else doesnt care as much as you do.
Once i was in a doughnut shop open late downtown near bars and a local hangout for college kids and bums alike and this pregnant woman (about 7 or 8 mo from the look of her belly) was holding up the whole line complaining to the counter guy like an entitled cunt about NEEDING fresh doughnuts. LIKE RIGHT OUT THE OVEN FRESH and DEMANDED that they give her FRESH doughnuts because shes preggers and wouldnt accept anything less. She looked around for others to support her being a cunt to the counter guy and asspats of "omg congrats ur preggers". She pointed to doughnuts cooling on a rack and demanded one of them and acted like she was entitled to act like a child because she has a baby inside her. Also keep in mind that if her baby was important to her she wouldnt even be eating that processed junk or going near the doughnut shop at this hour because literally 10 to 20 people were outside the shop smoking cigarettes.
Not saying you will act like this but theres a horror story i have. Also congrats for the kid but realize your contributing to the overpopulation of the planet. Please recycle to reduce your carbon footprint.

>>9454070
>Please recycle
that ending made me kek

>>9454035
My name is Ebony

>>9454024
Again, you are missing the part where I said I don't have a problem with people having sex, It's just awkward for it to be extra obvious in a fashion where we are constantly trying to convince others it is a fetish thing

>>9454018

I need a bullet to the head

>>9454150
*Trying to convince others it is NOT anything sexual, not helped by the fact people have pregnancy fetishes. This is no bigger a hang up than people worrying that sweet looks like ageplay

>>9454150
Explain to me why proving you're not wearing a fetish has anything to do with not hiding normal bodily functions/stages of life? Are you saying the act of being pregnant or the act of sex is a fetish? I get the anons who say that it visually clashes with the "childlike" nature of the fashion but I'm not following your argument.

>>9454152
>Let me cater my life around the odds that some random dude I meet on the street might have an unusual pregnancy fetish

How about no?

>>9452030
keep em anon, don't let people get you down for wearing what you like. despite the ageplay witch-hunt shitstorm i'm saying true to my pastel sweet wardrobe.

>>9454150
yeah, i'm with the other anons. not seeing the connection between being pregnant while wearing lolita and enforcing the fetish idea. and i feel like you're strictly focusing on sweet lolita where there are other styles of lolita out there.

another issue in general i think we as a community kind of project the fact we have issues with fetishists onto the general population when very few people actually have that specific fetish, ya know?

>>9454160
rock on anon, i've always loved sweet but was terrified to wear it because of the sweet hate. stopped giving a fuck and am happier than ever in my pink as fuck frills

>>9453915
That's all fine and dandy but perhaps keep your personal issues to yourself and stop being a bitch to other people because you have problems. There are less rude ways to voice your opinions. I'm sure you would appreciate the same courtesy seeing as you got all up in arms about people rudely commenting on your post.

>>9454005
>You can't deny that pregnancy is a neon sign above your head telling everyone you've had sex though.
Where the fuck do you get that? Yeah so is being married??? Do you really just sit around and look at people like " I bet those people are having sex, how gross."
Most people don't think like that. They don't care. They are just like "oh that's a person"
Sorry to break it to you but that's just you seeing the neon sign. Talk about it with your therapist, not us.

>>9454070
>overpopulation of the planet
People globally are actually having less and less kids so the population is actually starting to slowly decline. sooo fuck off.

>>9454150
So only single cunts like you can wear lolita fashion I guess...

>>9454160
I'd say the problem of people thinking sweet is ageplay comes from society not the fashion itself. American society is fucked up. I bet Lolitas in Japan don't get this kinda shit.

>>9454323
are you kidding? i bet they get it way worse, they get hit with the ageplay fetish and the exotic fetish. maybe not from people in their country but certainly from lonely neckbeards.
they want their kawaii submissive asian lolita gf princess

>>9454171
I think lolitas are just paranoid about the subject of people fetishizing things so they freak out and over correct and judge things that are unnessesary. Most people think sweet lolita looks like an anime cosplay rather than ageplay. Most normal people dont even know what that is.

>>9454328
Who are most likely american...so yeah. I am referring to the lolitas who actually live in japan, not foreign lolitas in america.

>>9454329
this 100%. i think it begins with lolitas fearing "what normies will think" when they see a sweet lolita, but in the process they end up alienating sweets. like they kind of play it off as "this is for your own good!" when really they're only thinking of themselves and the way people will perceive them. i'm getting pretty tired of seeing people (other lolitas) policing sweets and judging them harshly for doing things that have been normal to us for, like, a decade.

>>9454323
There is no mass fetish or ageplay epidemic in America. Most normies don't know what those things are, and most normies don't care. Lolita's need to stop being so self absorbed as to think normies care so much about what they are wearing. At most they'll make a snide comment, that's it.

>>9450837
you're not a real lifestyler until you've given birth in brand

>>9454442
this desu

it really bothers me when people call fetuses parasites. Parasites are a different species than the host, and it's a harmful relationship for the host- though women can suffer during pregnancy, reproduction is waaay different than being infected with an entirely different organism.

Not even a momlita, I don't know why it bothers me so much. I get the comparison but it's just such a juvenile, self centered way of thinking about it that makes me cringe.

>>9454481
It's okay to be offended anon. We all know you can't take a light hearted joke. Today's society can't handle humor any more any way.

>>9454488
Where are you guys getting the idea that when people call babies a parasite they're making a lighthearted joke? Unless this is a 'oh you called me a bitch well a bitch is a female dog bla bla bla and nature is bootiful so thanks for the compliment :^)' kinda thing. People are usually comparing it to a bot fly kinda deal.

>>9454488
I never said I was offended, I said it makes me cringe. Sorry you have the same sense of humor as a bitter 40 year old who missed out on her fertile years.

>>9454488
Not that anon but referring to babies as parasites is not a 'light hearted joke' in any definition of humor. Yeah, it may considered a casual remark and inoffensive to a lot of people but it's still pretty mean spirited.
>todays society
cry more, society is moving past the edgy shitty attitude it adopted in the late 90's. Sorry you can't just go around saying obnoxious shit all the time without repercussions, anon.

sage because this has fuck-all to do with cgl

>>9454481

Consider a person who has no desire whatsoever to get pregnant or have children, but was born with a uterus. Consider what pregnancy would look and feel like to a person who wants no part of the process, to the point of being afraid of it.

I'm not that other anon, I don't go around calling all babies parasites (my sister has two and I love them) but the idea of myself ever getting pregnant is on par with Kane in Alien. It's fucking mortifying. So yeah, I don't judge other people's choices, but if it happened to me, it would absolutely be a parasite.

>>9454522
Which is totally valid, but I think what anon is getting at is calling a baby a parasite to someone who's pregnant is a pretty awful thing to say.
>hurdur anon TRIGGERED???
If you're a mommy who calls her kids parasites fine, whatever, but that's not what most people mean lmao, you can't honestly think that everyone who says that has an 'Oh, you!!' attitude about it.

>>9454524
>>9454522
I totally understand and respect your point of view, and I'm not trying to say everyone needs to think of pregnancy and children in a positive light- just that I don't see how people think it's clever to go out of their way to vocally compare the two.

My comment was aimed at obnoxious childfree movement people, like the type of people who call parents "breeders". Having kids isn't for everyone, and it is petrifying for some, and that's okay.

ITT: People getting triggered over someone correctly using a word.

I really wish CGL wasn't so tumblr sometimes.

>>9454539
Totally agreed, I'm with you, I want nothing to do with kids personally. Just sick to death of people trying to prove how 'not traditional' they are by not wanting kids to the point of using edgy af language

I wore it once or twice during my pregnancy while my bump was still not crazy big. I'm a lone lolita though. It felt like my petti was an extra layer of protection around my baby haha.

>>9454544
Yeah it's amusing. Supposed to be about opinions on pregnancy and the fashion and it's like obscene amounts of projection why people hate other people's opinions. Just better archived then tumblr so it's easier to follow the trails of soapboxes.

>>9454522

ITT: people overreacting to a word being used to describe an unborn child.

They may or may not believe this unborn child is next coming of Jesus.

Tune in next week for more drama. Will Kate stop acting like she's not posting here?
Has voldie finally stoped whiteknighting herself?
Will Amano ever stop being funny?
Till next time.

>>9454481
>it's just such a juvenile, self centered way of thinking about it that makes me cringe
>self centered

>it really bothers me
>Not even a momlita
>it bothers me so much
>I get the comparison

You seem to be the self-centered one, honestly. If you get the comparison and understand that pregnancy is extremely dangerous for some women, why do you find it so cringy? For some women the idea of pregnancy is as horrific and upsetting as being infected with a parasite.

>>9454383
You haven't been cut out of the family because they genuinely think you fetishize children's clothing and indirectly encourage pedophilia. I have.

Normies might not know that age play is an established kink or the term for it but don't act like A LOT of them don't think it's a sex thing.

>>9450837
>Should one leave lolita while pregnant or can it be done well?

As long as it's not harming yourself or your baby, you don't have to stop doing the things you love, including lolita.

As for whether it can be done "well" depends on the definition of well. One of the things /cgl/ values when judging coords is how well something fits you - and let me tell you, things just aren't going to sit right when your bump gets big. Dresses will ride up in the front. Non-empire dresses will have bodices ride up. You'll look like you're smuggling a watermelon under your petti.

Does it really matter for your enjoyment? Nah, it really doesn't. And I think bumps can be kinda cute under a dress too.

Tips from one formerly pregnant lolita to another:

>wear comfy shoes, your feet are probably gonna swell like crazy. I went up at least half a shoe size
>tights get uncomfortable on your bump, go for socks instead
>wear a petti above the bump
>full shirring and empire waists are your friend
>remember, your boobs will get bigger too, so blouses and bodices might give you trouble even before your bump shows up
>lifehack: it ain't graceful but you can leave your blouse unbuttoned on the bottom under a jsk if it fits your shoulders and bust but not your belly
>if you want to wear lolita when baby gets here, invest in cheap stuff you can machine wash. Babies can and will probably poop and puke on your dress at least once (I wore a lot of bodyline when mine was small)
>functional buttons on your bodice and full shirring are great for breastfeeding
>I swear by the Buncha Farmers laundry soap sticks (you can buy them at Walmart, Babies R Us, probably Amazon) for getting poop and food stains out. Actually, any lolita could use these, they're fucking magic for treating stains.

That's all I can think of at the moment.

>>9454676
Actually a fetus falls under the category of a Symbiote:
An organism in a symbiotic relationship. In cases in which a distinction is made between two interacting organisms, the symbiote is the smaller of the two and is always a beneficiary in the relationship, while the larger organism is the host and may or may not derive a benefit.

>>9454705
lol If it's such a scary thing for them, why are the on this thread???

>>9454944
This is exactly the useful information I was looking to find in this thread, thank you :)

>>9450837
somebody on 4chan is probably jacking off to this picture right now.

>>9454955
unfotunately people do that to anything. someone is probably using your facebook pictures for that right now... It's not something you can control or prevent one way or another.

>>9454831
I'm sorry your parents are dumbasses but that isn't the case for a large chunk of the people who wear Lolita. Stop projecting.

>>9454831
Anon I think you're genuinely fucking bonkers. Most people think it's a costume of some kind,

>>9450837
Being pregnant is fucking disgusting
Just don't do it
Is so low-class

>>9454316
this lmao

Ohh man some of the LGBTAQ community call straight people breeders. It's so edgy.

>>9455091
Whats funny is that in 10 years most of that edgy speshul snowflake teens will be breeders themselves kekkity kek

>>9455091
I'm gay and calling someone breeder is disgusting lol

>>9451716
I've had extreme baby fever for months, please share more

>>9455100
not op but these are the only ones i could find

>>9455111

>>9455113

>>9455117
and thats all i have

>>9455111
>>9455113
>>9455117
>>9455120
same babyfever anon, youre a blessing

>>9455113
>>9455117
>>9455120
These are all the same person anon. The last one is pretty bad though. That wig doesn't work with the girl and I would have left it out since it's a bad example of "good" same with >>9455111 she doesn't have any petti and is solely relying on the baby bump to be her poof.

>>9454316
Actually they arent having less kids people are having more kids and our population has increased a lot in the last 30 years and the median age of people on this planet is a little under 30. Its like 28.something.Do some research before posting because overpopulation is serious and people spreading misinformation and just assuming the population is declining or assuming the planet can handle more people is insane.

>>9455611
I don't know about other places. But where I live the government will give you the help you need when you can't afford it IF you are pregnant and or have children. This could be why the population issue is bad is because people are having kids to get the help they want because they are too stupid to get a decent job that pays you for your insurance and needs to survive. But if you don't have kids or are pregnant then it's those you knows responsibility to take care of you. It's how I ended up married to a person I really didn't love because he needed medical insurance and his employer wouldn't give him insurance. So I married my best friend so he can get the surgery he needed done without having to pay an arm and a leg to do it.

>>9455082
Wow so your parents must have been low class then...

>>9455719
>sees obvious bait
>takes obvious bait

Summer is here isn't it.

>>9455722
People take bait all year round on this board.

>>9455611
No shit it's increasing but it is increasing at near half the rate it was and is continuing to slow, all that while, people still continue to die. you don't seem to understand what you are talking about. People ARE having less and less kids, I didn't say no one is having kids. It's nice to see you spew a bunch of shit with no proof to back it up. you could at least sound like you know what you are talking about. Here, read up so you can actually understand what you are talking about rather than just vaguely reiterating something you heard once.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/human-overpopulation-still-an-issue-of-concern/
http://www.collective-evolution.com/2014/10/25/overpopulation-a-fact-or-myth/
https://www.thenewamerican.com/tech/environment/item/22292-debunking-the-overpopulation-myth
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/dr-raywat-deonandan/overpopulation_b_16216754.html

>>9455611
>Tells others to do their research before posting.
> Doesn't give any real facts to back up a few claims that didn't make any coherent sense to begin with. Uses vauge phrases like "our population has increased a lot in the last 30 years" and "Its like 28.something"
> Obviously didn't do research themselves.
>"people spreading misinformation and just assuming" Kek
You. Are. A. Dumbass...good job. *slow clap*

>>9454676

I mean, yeah, that definition sure sounds like an unwanted pregnancy.

>>9455739
Sounds like church of Scientology level of bullshittery

>>9455611
Overpopulation is a very serious issue, but if you knew fucking anything about it you'd know middle class young women in first world countries posting on 4chan aren't the problem, you dipshit.

>>9455113
>>9455117
>>9455120
Oh wow these are all me! I actually replied to this thread here >>9451131
As >>9455571 says, the last one isn't the best Coord since it was actually a Cinderella inspired Coord for Halloween since at the time nothing much else fit. At the time. I have a few more, though I can say they are pretty basic and boring since the more pregnant you get the shittier you feel and the less energy you have to dress up. But if you want to see what cuts work with a big baby belly, and how explosive you're petticoats gets with a baby added under it, I can show you.
Also, >>9455117 was literally the day before I was induced. I was a week late by then. I did everything but she just didn't want to come out.

>>9455796
I followed you though your pregnancy and loved how you made your closet work around your size. I also like that you didn't make the point all the time that you where indeed pregnant when posting on places like CoF or Instagram. I remember about a year ago there was a girl posting her lolita on CoF and the first thing she did was say " excuse the funky fit, I'm having a baby soon". You just posted it without really saying much unless asked. I really liked that about you. Dispite having questionable outfits like the last one here of you (we all do it and can't deny it), you did manage to find dresses that worked well with your baby bump and didn't use that as an excuse to not wear a petticoat with a dress that required one.

>>9455807
Hahaha thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed my journey! While I'm sure I still have outfits that get me posted here in the negative threads, for the most part I think I've grown as a Lolita and have a better eye for detail each time, though as you say I think nobody is immune to the occasional "wtf were you thinking" coords. I think it's pretty impossible to have perfect coords even half the time while pregnant. I remember Twinkle Journey was one of my most comfortable dresses, but 3 months along my stomach decided to hate anything slightly tight or I felt like I would vomit, cue me buying a bunch of higher waistline cut dresses!

>>9455825
Winter ILD 2014 a month before I was due

>>9455826
I think this was one if the few (or only) Coord shared to CoF?

>>9455829
And here is the glorious over stuffed petticoat/baby combination no one should look forward to. This is why we need to invent a butt petticoats for Prego chicks. We get the natural padding in the front, not always a garuntee you get it in the back.
But seriously get some tea parties. They were the best.

Myrreli on IG did lolita whilst she was pregnant and looked really good desu. I don't lolita myself BC I'm a lazy shit who can't be fucked with my appearance outside of cosplay but I like looking at the fashion.

>>9454152
In all fairness, on one way or another, every single little thing under the sun can be considered a fetish. Just try to pay it no mind.

>>9450837
Yes, after the second trimester is when you should take your hiatus.

>>9455835
We need to re-popularize 18th century rumps.

>>9457553
The fit of Antoinette on her is awful, you can see her fat squeezing up on her sides.

>>9463888
Idk what fat are you going on about really but did you consider the fit is a bit wonky because she has big baby bump? It's probably gonna shift the place of a waist a bit and make it less defined.

>>9463957
There's a weird lump on her left side that extends too far back on her torso to be boob and the bust is clearly too too tight. She has good examples of pregolita but this is not one of them.

>>9452025
>>9452046
>>9452051
>>9452140
>>9452282
>b-but anon, showing off your pregnant belly as proof you've had a dick in you is LEWD and we can't have that in our pure fashion desuuuuu~~~
/sarcasm

>>9453804
That's exactly what they want.

>>9454442
TOP KEK

>>9454944
Doing god's work, thanks for the tips!

>>9455615
Imagine your OTP...

>>9455835
I would search for half-cage petticoats (fanplusfriend have a decent one right now), or if you're not afraid of going a slightly more costumey route, maybe even tie on bustles, or bum-rolls used for period costume. Heck, even french panniers would work well for poof that doesn't focus on the front. You could add a bustle or an extra pocket hoop at the back to balance it out.

>>9455031
I'm crazy for sharing my personal experience of family thinking lolita is a sex thing. Do touch even read some of the fucked rope post on this board and you're saying that drawing attention to the fact you're sexually actice in a fashion notorious for being mistaken for a fetish is not in the least burn awkward, you're just crazy for thinking that?

Are you seriously ignoring the fact a lot of lolitas get sexually harassed, their parents think it is to do with the book, ageplayers keep adding lolitas/trying to infiltrate comma and randoms hear the word 'lolicon' once then assumed it is the same thing? We have tons of accounts of such instances in the archives/on Rufflechat etc. I don't agree with it but that's how a lorn of people see it. Literally the last in went to some creepy creep got on his knees to peek up my friend's skirt and we were asked if we were on a hen night very suggestively (I.e. were we 'looking for a show'). People generally either think it's just a weird and childish costume OR weird and childish and some sort of kink, because they can't get their head around the idea of a girl wanting to wear something cute that isn't meant to be sexy at all.

>>9455835
>invent a butt petticoats
You mean a bustle?

>>9454005
lol do you go around and yell
>Whores! Whores!
>Shame! Shame!
At pregnant women who have the audacity to be out in public?

>>9469611
If you're so worried about being mistaken for a perv, stick to classic.

>>9469628
That's the totally wrong shape though

Pedo fantasy

Dumping some decent examples to get the thread back on track. Most of these are supposedly between 6 and 9 months along

>>9469687

>>9469660
Did you even try?

>>9469690

>>9469695

>>9469696
and this one's not lolita but same girl as >>9469690 and still a really cute outfit

>>9469697

>>9469704
And last one. I feel like this one would've worked really well with a petti or something to support the bottom a bit, thought I guess emphasis was comfort at this point

>>9454952
>>9469594
You're welcome anons.

I'll contribute a coord of my own so you can see what I mean about the fit. From the front it doesn't look too bad, but from the side, hello bump. Doesn't help that my natural instinct for photos was to arch my back cause it was sore all the time. I was about 8 months here (it was early-mid April and I was due late May). The dress usually hits me under the knees. Invest in an underskirt if you're tall or your dresses are on the shorter side.

>>9457553
She hid her pregnancy very well for a long time! I didn't even realize that she was preggo before she announced it. Also I think it's awesome how long she kept on dressing up, even though the due date wasn't that far away. I think that the baby bump was really cute looking.

>>9469704
>>9469718
The saddest thing is that these look terrible and it's not even because of the baby bump.

I wore Lolita a few times while pregnant, up to about 7 months. I didn't gain much weight until after then, the biggest challenge was my boobs were the first thing to start gaining and I carried really high so I didn't have much of a bump but my rib cage got huge, I went from a 34B to a 38D, it was fucking disgusting.

Anyways, I wore high waisted jsks and some of those souffle song crop top blouses that just covered my boobs under and just underskirts, no petti for casual Lolita rather than going all out.

The real kicker is I haven't worn lolita since I gave birth because 1. My titties are still huge and 2. I need boob access at all times because my kid is exclusively breastfed and the lil shit won't take a bottle.

>>9469936
Unrelated but hmu if you ever want to sell this dress

>>9470669
this sounds like hell on earth

>>9455829
>wearing those heels knocked up

ooo girl that is dedication

>>9452269
>who choose to be childless hear a lot of really stupid shit for that position,
Fucking this. I can choose what I do with my uterus. Sorry I don't want a semen demon coming out of mine.

>>9450871

That's mommies in general, not just lolita moms. Breeders are a disease.

>>9450884

I find them repulsive as fuck. Wonky body shape, didn't know Lolita could make that disgusting appearance even worse

>>9450887

...

word

they're
retarded af

>>9450924

suicide is an option, breeder whore

>>9450958

ur adding to overpopulation of the planet you dumb cunt

>>9451026

me too
being preggo is the least pretty thing on earth imo

>>9452170

yeah, they sweat and fart all the time and it's nauseating.

also, shitting the bed when they give birth, how embarrassing is that

>>9452216

seconded

getting preggers ain't special anyway but there you see where the effort to get validation comes from

they make a mistake, see it's shitty and try to make the best of it and since they already know it's shit they try and get the good feeligs from other people

like vampires.

>>9452240

it's fucking biology
someone inseminated someone else and gestation takes place

nothing special there imho
just fucking biology

>>9452245

Tokophobia is the word you're looking for

you're welcome.

>>9452245
>only because you get triggered by pregancy.
>only because you get triggered by pregancy.
>only because you get triggered by pregancy.
>only because you get triggered
>only because you get triggered


>only

>>9454070

She just did by opening this thread. The whole world is discussing her fat fuck bulge and the fabrica covering it. It's typical preg whore behavior.

>>9454316


troll harder

>>9455113 ew.

>>9471193
>>9471194
>>9471196
>>9471198
>>9471201
>>9471203
>>9471206
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>>9471223
Damn you're triggered. All these sad comments made back to back. I feel sorry for you.

>>9470688
Unfortunately that's very unlikely anon, as this dress is what got me into lolita in the first place. But when I found it, it was on yJapan, BNWT, and even came with a matching hat. There is hope so just keep looking and I'm sure you'll find one <3

Sage for unrelated.

>>9469936

digusting whore lmao

>>9451875
>when I was about to pop

>>9452079
>I just fucking wanted some advice for what dresses are most flattering to that shape

There is none. The shape is horrendous and the ugliest someone can have so congrats for having chosen that.

>>9452079
>a state of being I can't change.

lmao so you got raped and forced to keep the alien inside you, wow. I feel so sorry for you, what else did your hubby bubby ball not allow you to do?

>>9455723
mte and this is the least chill board too

>>9471312
I think it's a troll, anything else would be pathetic

>>9471635
the mombie has spoken

>>9455737
you must be fucking kidding me because that's not true, medicine has made humankind close to immortal, while people died at 50 in the past, they now get to their hundreds or nineties, but you're trolling anyway, aint ya

>>9455739
roflmao gurl.
>people are having less and less kids, no proof posted, everyone is fine bc ur mommy hormones made ur brain shrink to pea size.
>overpopulation is real and it's dangerous, no source again, but suddenly all the mombies are screaming for proof

>>9455773
How about middle class whores adopting kids that you know, already exist
But nvm, an eye color is more important than the actual life of a small human who's probably orphaned or unwanted by the people tht popped them out

>>9455796
>big baby belly, and how explosive you're petticoats gets with a baby added under it, I can show you.
Yuck. No thanks. Nobody cares for your bubbly big baby belly. Why do retarded cunts like you breed in the first place? Grow a brain before growing a baby.

>>9470669
Who fucking cares
Stop mommyjacking the conversation with your titty and breastfeed stories because like I said: Nobody cares!

>all these comments shitting so hard on pregnant women

... You guys do realize you're only here because someone went through that horrendous disgusting process to bring you into the world, right? Have some respect.

(this is coming from someone completely horrified by pregnancy/birth and plans to never go through it btw, you can be childless without sounding like a 15 year old who just discovered the concept)

>>9450837
Has anyone else paid attention to the girls' faces in this pic? You can really tell the pregnancy is draining them... Godspeed to any of you going through this horror show...

>>9471742
Of people could stop having children they aren't prepared to take care of instead of relying on the middle class to clean up the fucking mess.

>>9473363
>Or people could stop having children they aren't prepared to take care of
Lmfao right, because people who give their babies up for adoption intentionally got in the situation of conceiving a child they couldn't take care of. It has nothing to do with subpar sex education or failed birth control. They went out of their way to make that baby so they could go through one of the hardest life choices of giving it to someone better suited to take care of it.

>>9473351
>have respect for randoms on the interwebs just because they gave birth
No.

>>9473393
You can at least have enough respect not to shit on them for doing the exact same thing your mother did so you could exist.

>>9469641
No. I only thought it was safe to share an admittedly skewed, hypocritical and potentially hurtful opinion in a discussions space on an anonymous forum, which is a million miles away from publicly humiliating and belittling complete strangers for being cute whilst pregnant, something I have repeatedly said they SHOULD be able to freely do, regardless of what what I or anyone else thinks.

I can't wear classic because I'm too short for most dresses and just look like some frumpy colonial child servant rather than elegant. I don't do the dresses justice. It's not just me I'm worried about though, seeing as people try to look up my friends' skirts.

Aside from the views of conflicted autists with daddy issues like myself and genuine prudes or /r9k/ types, the problem is the fact some people ruin things that aren't objectively problematic (like adults dressed in 'childlike clothes') with their kinks.

A lot of normies think lolita literally sexualises childhood because they can't stop seeing adult women as sexually available and as advertising themselves as such through what they wear. They think you want to be seen as sexually desirable when wearing something not at all meant to get that attention. Being pregnant is just an extra stark reminder of sexual availability **though it is not appropriate to be viewing the woman that way**. It happens though.
It is so easy to see one reason why people eroticise pregnancy (yes it is a specific, common kink) considering how it occurs in the first place.

>>9473401
I have had plenty of arguments with my mother telling her she fucked up getting knocked with me at 19.

>>9473449
Teenage mothers do tend to produce shitty children.

>>9473452
Shh you're supposed to respect them because all mothers are sacred beings who should be honored because they popped a kid out. It doesn't matter if the kids shit. Or if the moms shit. They graced the world.

>>9473454
You're right, you were a mistake. Maybe it's time for a very late-term abortion?