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Share those cgl-related feels, and try not to get too off-topic plz.

>> No.9410166
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9410166

>tfw no /cgl/ gf

>> No.9410172
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>get to wear my Elsa costume for a Christmas haunted house
>have fun

>fast forward to today
>get costume out
>big brown stain on the butt
>mfw the con is coming up
>don't know how to clean this shit

>> No.9410199

>Always mad at how media covers Lolita fashion
>Hates how Vice went from non-bais reporting/documenting to injecting whatever political opinon the reporter has
> See this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKg8kl_fFuk
>conflicted; should I bee happy they got it right? Or stay mad cause they usually get things wrong?

>> No.9410201

>going out to have a coffee with mom
>wear lolita because she's one of the only people I'm close with who doesn't hate it
>cafe has really cute exterior and I'm proud of my coord so decide I'll ask mom to take a picture of me to post to COF
>mom happily agrees
>"You look so cute anon, smile!"
>do closed-mouth smile because I'm really insecure about my teeth
>"No anon, REALLY smile!"
>smile a bit wider, still with mouth closed
>"I won't take a picture unless you smile for real, anon!"
>it's taking too long
>people are staring
>a small crowd is gathering
>feel extremely uncomfortable
>end up showing my teeth in a really awkward and uncomfortable grimace
>mom finally takes a picture
>"See anon, you CAN smile!"
>pose is slightly hunched over in discomfort and face looks deranged with underbite on full display
>t-thanks, mom

>> No.9410204

>>9410199
Don't worry, if there was a way to inject a political opinion in that video VICE would jump the gun. They are still shit.

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>>9410166

>> No.9410206
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>>9410205
Imagine how many /cgl/ people have died these last few years. Someone you shared your feels with are dead, and we'll never know who they are.

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9410280

I just napped and had an amazing dream that I had the best cosplay at the con.

The phone woke me up. It was JoAnn, saying my sewing machine is ready to pick up. Maybe now I can make the dream come true!

>> No.9410322

>>9410206
I once talked with an alcoholic anon from /soc/ who strongly implied he was going to commit suicide soon. Never saw him come online again, was pretty surreal.

>> No.9410375
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WHY DOES EVERYTHING HAVE TO GO WRONG

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>>9410322
>going to /soc/ or even interacting with the people who post there
I hope you don't post there. Easily the most disgusting part of 4chan.

>> No.9410402

>>9410375
What happened?

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>>9410375
Things cant go wrong if you do nothing in the first place

>> No.9410410

>>9410398
>Easily the most disgusting part of 4chan
Eh, at least most of those people are trying to better themselves. Unlike /r9k/.

>> No.9410422

>>9410410
No, it's filled with people who need to be validated by others. It's filled with people who can't be honest with how others look and it's filled with the most cancerous posters of 4chan.

Nobody who posts there is looking to better themselves. They just want gratification. Gratification based solely on how they look.

>> No.9410424

>tfw lost my job (work study) and only source of income due to low GPA and being on academic warning
>could open an etsy and sell my crafts but not guaranteed
I don't know what to do. I mean not being able to buy lolita will suck but not being able to afford school supplies will be even worse. And I can't tell my parents or they'll pull me out of school

>> No.9410439

>>9410424
time to make a patreon and show them boobies girl

>> No.9410441

>>9410422
>bitter uglychan detected

>> No.9410454

>>9410424
The chain I worked for just closed and I'm pretty much unemployed right now, but Etsy is a nice little side thing to have. If you want to make one, use this referral code. It gives both you, and me 40 free listings. Otherwise you have to pay 20 US cents for each listing.

http://etsy.me/2os2KH5

>> No.9410463

>>9410441
I'm a guy, and I don't think I'm unattractive. I just find the unwarranted ego inflation of that board to be disgusting.

>> No.9410468

>>9410463
The board's disgusting, but the Skype/other contact threads aren't so bad. A lot of people only go to those.

t. anon who met her perfect boyfriend on /soc/

>> No.9410513

>>9410201
Funny because I would have told my mom to kick rocks if she tried to force me into something like that, but that's just our relationship

>> No.9410526

>>9410463
nutt up or shut up, you are a jealous uggo until proven otherwise.

>> No.9410609

>five girls in my friendship circle including me
>two of which are lolitas, three if you include me
>we're close
>we meet up and live the lolita dream
>tea and cake
>the other two girls are where I have my issues

>annoying girl #1
>A is a full on fat weeb who thinks she looks good in cosplay
>I'm talking 180lbs
>lives in a literal dump and never cleans her fingernails
>smells like sandwich meat if you left it out in a really hot car in the summer
>really obnoxious, does the XD all the time
>ships teh yaoiz XDDDD
>she's 20+ and still acts 13
>all she does is buy bootleg anime merch and then complains she never has any money
>"oh anon, I don't know how you manage to save up for such expensive dresses, I never have any money."
>yeah maybe if you stopped buying all that fake, overpriced shit from ebay and amazon, you'd be able to buy nicer things
>shows us a picture one day of her recent grocery shop
>car is flooded with food to feed four people for a month
>I'm talking piled high, can't even see out of the rear window type of flooded
>wow no wonder you're fat
>shows us pics of hot topic 'loli' dresses
>"I might do a loli cosplay of xyz character"
>friend kindly corrects her
>she doesn't accept it and buys the dress anyway
>only to bitch 3 hours later that she's poor

[1/2]

>> No.9410610

>>9410609
>anyway
>annoying girl #2
>youngest of the group
>kpop obsessed
>has an inflated ego
>thinks she's hot shit
>she's really not
>no idea why a middle aged teen is grouped with us
>she's just rude
>excuses herself with "I have mild autism"
>honestly just think she's a bitch and trying to cover it up
>close friend has known her for a really long time
>I know close friend will stick by her if I tell her #2 to shut the fuck up, or to fuck off and stop lying
>she's really edgy too
>constantly brags about how she's fucked someone's life over
>soon starts bawling when one of her other friends is mean to her at school
>that's called karma
>asks to hang out with us in lolita
>doesn't ask to borrow a coord
>just comes in regular clothes
>fetched no money
>starts making excuses that her stepdad was being abusive
>friend ends up paying for her lunch


I'm expecting for the younger girl to grow out of it, but I wish she'd find friends her own age instead of latching onto girls older than her, boasting about immature moments in her life. I wish I could ditch them both, but that would mean causing an unbalance and probably upsetting my two other friends because they'd never expect for me to snap. Both of them are extremely tolerable and caring, so for me to find faults in them would upset them probably.

>> No.9410626
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9410626

I've been into Lolita fashion since 13.
>I was 16 and got a job
>earned $2000 usd
>spend it on stupid shit cuz I was 16
>currently 19
>find a place hiring and they want me
> surgery coming up in April
>won't be able to do anything for a couple weeks
>let them know if they are willing to take me after I recover
>they say yes

I have hope but I have to wait.

>> No.9410646

>>9410206
tired of the one girl who keeps bringing up ovarian cancer.

>"I'm going to die of ovarian cancer soon."
>"My friend has ovarian cancer."
>"I might have ovarian cancer."
>"I have ovarian cancer."
>"Getting chemo for ovarian cancer."
>"Had an ovarian cancer scare but my mother abuses me."
>"My younger sister has ovarian cancer."
>"I have faulty genes so I'm probably going to get ovarian cancer."

Ovarian cancer in young women is pretty rare, so I highly doubt there's a cluster of them on this tiny board.

>> No.9410658

>>9410609
>>9410610
I would mention something to the two, anon. You might all feel the same way Especially about girl #2, like she sounds like a huge cunt.

>> No.9410682

>>9410646
>gays are like 2% of the population
>everyone on 4chan is a gay genius hacker with a STEM degree

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>trying to lose weight (working!)
>get constantly called a skinny bitch by my sister
>body gets made fun of, especially a certain part of my body that I'm uncomfortable with/don't like.
>tells me I'm too old to cosplay
>too old to wear any sort of jfash
>"anon why do you always wear skirts and dresses? You should dress down."
>doesn't approve of my bf
>constantly tells me I'm a pain in the ass, over everything.
>she's 80 lbs heavier than me and 3 inches shorter
>now she's trying to convince me to carry a baby for her (that would be my BF's and I's) since she is getting older and her type II diabetes makes it riskier to have children
>mfw
>jk fuck that noise

All I want to do is cosplay and do jfash... why do I have to carry my own children to give to someone.

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>>9410717
wrong image

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The past 2 weeks at work have been mentally exhausting and my anxiety is giving me palpitations. But some silver linings:
>received my federal and state tax refunds
>paid off my student loans
>dream dress was released as a MTO
>and Baby confirmed my reservation

I should still probably look for a new job and/or therapist but this is enough to keep me going for now.

>> No.9410748

>>9410717
what part of your body are you insecure about

>> No.9410758
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>>9410717
Wait, she wants you and your bf to conceive a child for her to adopt?

I also dont see how she possibly can affect you personally since she is quite obviously mental.

>> No.9410759

That kimono-based j-fashion. I really wish I could wear that, looks awesome. I really love long, useless fabric hanging away from the body, which I could get in the form of really wide sleeves.
Too bad I'm male so all my j-fashion dreams are impossible

>> No.9410762

>>9410748
Her penis
>>9410758
>not using your siblings as spawners

How do you plan to create your massive army of lolitas, anon?

>> No.9410765

>>9410717

Fuck your sister and fuck the awfulness of carrying a kid to 9 months and fuck all the possible complications. She can suck it up, that's what maternal-fetal medicine specialists are there for. Jesus christ, I am mad on your behalf anon. Fuck her.

>> No.9410767

>tfw no cum connoissuer gf

>> No.9410768

>>9410626
1) what does this have to do with lolita and why did you mention lolita in the beginning if it wasn't relevant
2) you were only into lolita at 13 if you actually wore lolita at 13, not if you were only interested

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>>9410759
Men's kimono is a pretty common Jfashion thing.

>> No.9410776

>finally got my damn STEM degree
>Been job hunting for the past 3 months
>No luck
>Out of no where, friends hit me up
>"Oh I know someone who's hiring right now for a medical position!"
>awesome, sends in my overqualified resume
>finally gets a call from the hiring company
>"You're definitely guaranteed an interview anon! But we're really busy with tax season right now so we'll have to do it afterwards"
>sure as long as I can get the job
>called every week to see if they can make time for me
>no
>it's been a month since I sent my resume and still no interview

Fuck if they weren't giving me a $20/hour for this job, I would've just given them the finger for wasting my time like this.

>> No.9410781

>>9410776
what kind of STEM degree anon? i want to know how fucked i am

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>>9410646
One girl in our comm had brebt cancer, but luckily she survives.

>> No.9410795

>>9410717
>sister shits on you constantly
>asks you to be a surrogate
That plan must've taken some reeeeeeal work, Anon. What a fucking retard.

>why do I have to carry my own children to give to someone.
Literally you don't even nearly have to. Take my advice and shit all over your sister next time she tries: really rub it in her face what a cunt she's been to you and how you wouldn't help her beetusfat ass out of the couch, let alone take a baby bullet for her. Fuckin let her have it with both barrels.

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>>9410773
Meh, that wasn't what I had in mind. A bit more colour, those that end in poofy skirt and that are short, and long, useless arm fabric is half the point.
You get some if you search for wamono, but I think it's more known under a different name I can't remember. But here's a basic example.
That thing you posted is more like modern, boring Japanese fashion, it isn't that awesomeness Japanese fashion is so known for.

>> No.9410811

>>9410801
What you posted is wa-lolita, dude. It sounds like you're talking about just lolita, not Jfash as a whole. Lolita has a very specific silhouette, whereas jfashion is an umbrella term.

>> No.9410814

My parents are also okay with this idea, which is another awful part.
>>9410717

>>9410748
my butt... it's small but I've been heavy lifting and doing all of the correct exercises to help. (Her's is smaller and flabbier than mine, especially with her stomach...)

>>9410758
Yes. She does, and she isn't considering my feelings whatsoever. It's hard to not be affected since we're 9 years apart and she was like mom#2 growing up, so we are super close. At least we were until this shit started!!

>>9410765
I feel the same way, her and her spouse make over 100K a year, I don't know why they can't see doctors and get her on a weight loss plan.

>>9410795
I think I will put my foot down on this, because her forcefully suggesting it is starting to wear on me.

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>>9410526
MY APPEARANCE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT IM SAYING

>> No.9410836

>>9410814
I think she only wants you to do it for her so that she can avoid pregnancy body changes.

>> No.9410838

>>9410814
>I think I will put my foot down on this, because her forcefully suggesting it is starting to wear on me.
You definitely should, Anon. Just don't let them get to you when they try to tell you you're the selfish and unreasonable one, you know they'll pull that shit out but stay strong. Don't let them guilt or gaslight you.

>> No.9410843

>>9410814
Don't give that bitch a baby. She sounds like she can hardly take care of herself, let alone YOUR child.

>> No.9410848

>>9410811
Well, if that's lolita I guess there is some lolita that's cool. I also like the other stereotypical stuff like decora, yume kawaii and fairy kei, but those plain fashions that looks generic but comes from Japan is not very fun.

I also love the idea of just very stereotypical Japan things, like there is some of in Code Geass and I get some strong vibes of from Sakura Taisen videos. https://youtu.be/hOIiw2iVmXM
Just throwing together sakuras and kimonos and imperial Japan and katanas with Mt. Fuji in the background, and this type of fashion hints a bit towards this mix of cool Japan stuff. So preferably it'd have a sakura or fuji motif as well, and be made from silk or a cheap replacement fabric that looks like it

>> No.9410855

>>9410682
Well I'm half gay and have a STEM degree, but I ain't no hacker

>> No.9410868

>trying to trim an inch off of waistline for zentai cosplay
>feels like I'm starving after three small meals a day

I am going to look good in that fucking zentai if it kills me.

>> No.9410869

>>9410768
not anon, but into means to have an interest in (although I see why you'd say it's unrelated)

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>>9410814
do it anon! I hope you reach your weight loss goals and shut your stupid sister up.

>> No.9410883

>>9410402
Ever since october ive been planning to go to anime expo in los angeles. ive told my family and my friend. me and my friend have been kinda planning it. only untill recently i have been blind sided by my family telling me that i may not be able to go and i might be forced to go to australia. and to top it all off today my friend told me that they had to get a downgrade in hotel room so i wont be able to stay. im probally gonna be able to attend its just that i basically need to re plan a bunch of stuff and negotiate a bunch of things with people.

>> No.9410888

>>9410717
What the flying fuck. Who the hell just asks someone to have a baby and then give it to them.

>> No.9410897

>>9410814
Tell her you're doing it, have her pay for shit (without documentation, she doesn't sound smart enough to ask) and then keep it

she makes enough and you get to have a kid comfortably. Win-Win.

>> No.9410900

>>9410646
I know it's rare, but I've known 6 women under 25 that had cervical or ovarian cancer. Two colleagues, 3 friends of mine and my own sister.

I also have a close friend who had prostate cancer at 25.

Shit's fucked.

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>at Goodwill
>see a dude trying on dresses
>mfw I know I've found a cosplayer

Also, wtf! they sell used panties at Goodwill??! Even bras are kind of suspect.

>> No.9410910

>>9410682
there are more people who are gay than there are of 18-35 year olds with ovarian cancer.

>>9410900
I still doubt that there's about 6+ girls who are all into lolita, browsing cgl, suffering from it.

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>>9410902
When I wroked at GoodWill, I saw some creper trying to steal little girl's panties. I punched him in the jaw and tlod him to gtfo. The bsatard took of running and I got a permotion.

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>>9410902
>few years ago
>goodwill hunting
>find a pair of superhero panties
>they have skidmarks

>> No.9410931

>>9410717
>>9410814
Coming from someone who is currently six months pregnant, fuck that! There's no way in hell I'd do this for anyone else other than me and my SO. Not to mention professional surrogate mothers generally make around $30,000 for the whole pregnancy and delivery. If you do end up somehow considering it you better make her cough up the cash. Don't do that shit for any less than what you think it's worth because honest to god this shit is not fun and it effects everyone differently so hell it could be even worse for you than it is for me right now. If you don't want to do though then tell her to fuck off. She sounds like a selfish cunt.

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>>9410917
>>9410902
Underwear shouldn't be used second hand for a number of reasons, one being that they are disposable types of cloth.

Can't they just use their profits to sell cheap no brand underwear imported from Kambodja at factory prices?

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>>9410917
Completely believable.

>> No.9410946

>>9410910
I didn't just say gay, though.

Do you think there are more gay genius hackers with STEM degrees than women with Ovarian cancer? I highly doubt that, but you'll find them all over 4chan :^ )

It's almost like anonymity might urge someone to lie considering there are no consequences.
Weird.

>> No.9410950

>Gained a lot of weight recently bc of stress/work/depression
>Terrible distribution
>Chubby cheeks turn into jowls, slender arms turn into flabby mommy arms, tummy chub makes me look vaguely pregnant
>Don't really have motivation to do anything about it
>My dresses still mostly fit.. except in the boobs
>Why is it always the boobs
I'm gonna fucking kill myself if I buy one more dress and can zip it all the way except the bust.

>> No.9410960

>>9410422
That's what cgl is too lmfao

>> No.9410961

>>9410950
>boo hoo when I gain weight it all goes right to my tits
nice humblebrag anon

>> No.9410964

>>9410468
I met someone that helped me move to a big city on /soc/. Forever grateful.

>> No.9410965

>>9410961
>Chubby cheeks turn into jowls, slender arms turn into flabby mommy arms, tummy chub makes me look vaguely pregnant

>''''humblebrag'''''

>> No.9410975

>>9410814
>her and her spouse make over 100K a year
Then she and her husband can pay for their own damn axlotl tank.

>> No.9410980

>>9410917
Did those guys ever get caught or doxxed
also that guy looksl ike a fucking hobo

>> No.9410986

>>9410814
why dont you tell her to just adopt

>> No.9410988

>>9410917
And everyone on the bus clapped!

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>>9410165
im so mad right now because i accidently picked a fight with a famous youtuber and they responded to me, cherry picked what i said like a retard child who doesnt know how to read and threw their white knights on me who apparently also failed at basic reading comprehension.
i just told this bitch shes been really harsh with her audience lately and acting rude.
>inb4 wow wut a loserXDDDD

>> No.9411031

>>9411026
Bitch, name drop or gtfo

>> No.9411035

>>9411026
Tati?

>> No.9411041

>>9411026
name drop name drop name drop

>> No.9411048

>>9411026
Was it a jvlogger?

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>>9411031
>>9411035
>>9411041
i hate you faggots
it was secretlifeofabionerd
i dunno if y'all have heard of her
she doesnt a million subs yet but is almost there. shes super bitchy and passive aggressive to her fans because she feels attacked for whatever reason.
i was sick of her shit so i went off. i didnt expect her to reply tho.

>> No.9411056

>>9411050
>secretlifeofabionerd
Are you M (first name) T(last name) in her most recently video?

>> No.9411062

>>9411026

She's a cunt so don't worry gull, I feel you.

>> No.9411066

>>9411056
I feel like I've seen this bitch on Willam's Beatdown.

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9411068

>>9411062
>>9411026
FUCKING TELL US WHO IT IS YOU CUNTS

>> No.9411070

>>9411068
Calm down. They did but then deleted. You can figure out it out really easily.

>> No.9411075

>>9411050
>danger hair on the channel banner
that's bad
>longer toned down hair in video
that's good!
>kinda wrinkly face
that's bad
>cute and fit
that's good!
>lots of uptalk
that's bad
>doesn't start video with HEY GUYS
that's good!
>thinks you have to grow your own shit to get ethical meat and organic veg
that's bad
>annoyed by militant vegans
that's good!
>rambles a lot
that's bad
>respects her parents and not a picky eater
thats good!
>no free frogurt for watching this video
that's bad.

>> No.9411077

>>9411056
nope close tho. C is the last name. its a burner account anyway so its no big deal.
>>9411062
thanks man. i've been a subbed to her channel, for a long ass time. its recently that i've heard a lot of shit about her and shes been a huge cunt as of late.
im surprised she doesnt have a thread on the farm. she oozes drama unfortunately.

>> No.9411091

I saw Venus at a grocery store in Japan yesterday. I told her how cool it was to meet her in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything.
She said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?”
I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but she kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing her hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard her chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw her trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in her hands without paying.
The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Mam, you need to pay for those first.” At first she kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter.
When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, Venus stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, Venus kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly.

>> No.9411098
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>>9411075
>doesn't start video with HEY GUYS
>that's good!

>> No.9411102

>>9411091
>failed to replace a bunch of the pronouns
Poor use of pasta tbdesu

>> No.9411125

>>9411075
>tfw seeing this you think of Team Rocket's James because of that one part at the end of the second (?) Pokemon movie
>"That's good!"
>"That's bad..."
>"That's good!"
>"That's bad... ohhh"

>> No.9411127
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I think I'm losing my shit.
>~5 years ago, go to con
>Meet someone I mutual follow on tumblr, we chitchat a few times, she's wonderful
>Fastfoward to today, browsing CoF
>Wow this girl looks really familiar, and her name sounds familiar too..
>Check her page, location and origin are from another country
>mfw

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9411159

Unrelated, but I'm the vet from the old thread.

Just wanted to thank you gulls. I'm totally picking back up on the veterinary classes. May fuck me over for this quarter, but I kinda fucked myself over on that anyways on accident.

>dropped the class for the major I was pressured into
>keeping one of the other majors in case I don't get into vet school and can apply for a masters program for that at the same time
>thanks gulls for being not really old farts but comparative old farts to the others in my school

to make it cgl related:
>accidentally gave the wrong availability for an on campus job
>would have cut into the class I just dropped, but also would have felt like a dick saying no since they've bent over backwards for me
>just dropped that class and am waitlisted for a better one
>fuck yes more money for my upcoming cons.

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ahh man, here comes the feels.
>working 2 full time jobs to pay for college in the fall
>have had 11 days off since New Years
>schedule off from both places to do a smaller con this past Saturday
>car breaks down not two days before I'm scheduled to leave
>Have to get rental
>friend loses her wallet on the first day, everything is looking horrible...
But then...
>I ran my first ever panel, it went great, had the con chair a bit later compliment me on filling up a morning panel and also on my first panel, to boot!
>had two separate participants thank me for running such a 'different' panel, instead of droning on about fandoms, and the other liked the candy
>being a con in a smaller town, the local news crew comes out, and when you go back to your room and see yourself in costume on the news, it's kind of surreal
>Lady who runs another con in the area straight up asked me to staff her con this summer
Weekend went absolutely great, and then to make things better...
>doing some car searching, local dealership is pushing out last year's 2016 models for cheap
>dealer has a new car listed at $12,100 with 6 (six) miles
>pinch me im dreaming
>call in earlier today to see if they've still got it
>"hi my name is ___ please hold and I'll go check inventory."
>"the car you were looking at? yeah, we've got it still."
>scheduled to go test drive it Thursday and i'll probably jump on it on the spot, and then

>ACEN in 2 months
>Colossal in 3

So much to do, and I'll still have a nice nest egg saved up for tuition in the fall, everything is turning out better than expected

>> No.9411184

>>9411181
You know we're gonna ask what the panel was about.

>> No.9411189

>>9411184
I had people design a product that would work in their show/fandom of choice's universe, and their job was to make a commercial about that product and pitch it to the audience. I pitted two groups against each other, and it turned out surprisingly well.

>group makes Space ball™ not to be confused with Spaceballs, the poke ball that brings you friends! Tired of your social group ignoring you, your girlfriend running away? Well with the Space ball, you'll capture any person you want to... forever.
they do 'customer interviews' and one guy goes "My fiance kept ignoring me, but after space ball, we're happily ever after."
>lady in group cuts in and goes [let me out of heee-!]
guy says "back in the space ball you go sweety!"

There was a lot more to it than that, it was just very silly and lighthearted and all around everyone had fun

also free candy

>> No.9411196

>>9410781
Sorry for the late reply! I have a BS in chem with a minor in physics. I also have quite a few friends who graduated with biochem and chem who's been job hunting as well. This economy is fucking with us.

>dammit I just wanted to fund my jfash and itabag addiction
>fuck anyone that says STEM degrees are the way to go to a job nowadays

>> No.9411207

>>9411196
It's a better degree to have than many others, at the least. Besides you can always go the Breaking Bad route if things go to complete shit, right?

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>>9411207
I've seriously contemplated going that route many times during the years. If not for the money, then to end the suffering of studying 24/7 and dealing with petty professors. Honestly chem professors are so fucken petty towards each other since they're always trying to get more money to go towards their own research labs.

>> No.9411234

>Lose two months of work
>Discover I had a Pelvic Infection, but it wasn't treated for this long because STD testing came out clear
>Boss is near ready to fire me and throw my corpse to the wolves
>Get diagnosed at ER, get antibiotics and tell Boss how I'm going to get better now
>Boss is offended at the diagnosis, yells at me for being 'inappropriate'
>Get home that day, see bodyline package on doorstep.
>Take it inside and open it; I bought 4 JSKs and one OP to fill out my wardrobe; now I literally have every color of the rainbow to work with.
>Spend rest of afternoon coording and trying stuff on; I feel a thousand times better and I didn't even have my first round of pills.

>> No.9411235

>>9410717
She sounds like a crab in a bucket

>> No.9411245

>>9410965
You can never win

>> No.9411247

>>9411229
To be fair, there's not even a need to do anything illegal really. There's plenty of low start up cost "gray market" things to do which vary by state if you have a good sense for organic chemistry. Not sure how desperate you are but you said you were contemplating. This is too off topic and I'll stop now though.

>> No.9411258

>>9411229
Until you blow up. I've known one too many labs to blow up. It's pretty bad when that happens.

>> No.9411263

>>9411234
I'm pretty sure in the U.S. it is illegal to yell at your employees for being inappropriate because they had a severe STD infection. I'm not even all about the 'girl power, fight sexual harassment' train, but I don't think you can do that. Are you not from the United States?

>> No.9411313

>>9411263
I read it as he thought sharing the diagnosis was inappropriate when she could simply have referred to it as a medical issue.

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Is it true that some gulls work as escort?

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9411316

I used to wear my lolita at the library, but no more. I'm too depressed to leave the house for anything but work.

Just the other day, the girl at Wendy's asked me "Why you ain't at the liburry no mo?" I started crying into my food.

>> No.9411318

>>9410172
did you get spooked too hard, Anon?

>> No.9411321

>>9411314
I hope so. I could hire one of them and then shitpost about it afterwards.

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>>9411318
Lol. I was a scare actor and I guess I sat on something.

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how do you feel about cosplaying the infamous "meme sweater"?

>> No.9411399

I hadn't been paid in 5 months after starting a new job so hadn't been able to buy myself anything nice either. I'd asked a friend to buy a dress for me last July (I'm too stupid to TaoBao). It accidentally went to someone else in the group order who was meant to send it to me and I found out yesterday that it got paint spilled on it. Then the Teja Jamilla tights I wanted for the past year went out of stock. Then I realised that even if I had nice new things I couldn't wear them to meetups because I work 7 days in a row then am too exhausted to do anything on my days off, which are different every time + I work 3 out of 4 weekends and bank holidays, so the likelihood of meets falling on those days off is very slim. I can't book Dayan off with my holiday allowance either because they are short staffed; i have already been told to cancel hospital appointments. I wanted to go to Chinatown for the first time time since Novemeber for the arcade and bubble tea, but here I am lying in bed all day because my joints/ muscles are incredibly painful, my blood sugar is running high, I have a pounding headache, my IBS is playing up and I have acid reflux something nasty.

>> No.9411404

>>9411345
Backs aren't supposed to look like that in my chinese cartoons reeeeeeeeeeeee

>> No.9411414
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Tfw no seagull gf to dress me up in Prince outfits

>> No.9411421

>>9411345
I don't know how to feel about the fact that girls I know are posting pictures in them.

On one hand it's pretty hot, but on the other it really makes me wonder why attractive girls are so desperate for attention that they're posting photos of themselves basically naked on Facebook, and thinking about it makes me kind of sad.

>> No.9411463

>>9410767
>Wanting a gf that has tasted a lot of cum
>being this much of a cuck

>> No.9411467

>>9411399
You are literally a slave

What job doesn't pay you for 5 months and makes you work 29/30 days out of a month?

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>>9411421
You can only understand this mindset if you are at least an 8 yourself

>> No.9411481

Gulls I'm falling apart, my boyfriend wants a break and started seeing other people and I have no friends to turn to, I just want to die, I could burn all my shitty cosplays and lolita clothes because in the end it didn't make me happy at all.

>> No.9411487

>>9411481
I'll be your new bf

>> No.9411488

>>9411481
Why burn them tho desu?

>> No.9411494

>>9411481
>boohoo some guy is stupid
Fuck men who needs 'em anyways

>> No.9411501

>>9411487
pls

>>9411488
I'll have no one to go to conventions with, and how can I go to lolita meets when I'm depressed

>>9411494
Someone pathetic like me who has no friends at all

How do the rest of you deal with loneliness and depression when there's no one to support you? I'm scared of what I'll do and how self destructive I'll become

>> No.9411502

>>9411471
The girls in question are 6s or maybe 7s though.

>> No.9411505

>>9411501
>pls

It's on problem at all, really. Where do you live?

>> No.9411511

>>9411501
>How do the rest of you deal with loneliness and depression when there's no one to support you?

Eventually you kind of become numb to it. It's like living with a bad knee or something, it always sucks and always hurts but you accept that you're stuck with it forever.

Well, at least that's how it's gone for me in the 4 years since my last relationship. I'm a guy though, it might be different for girls.

>> No.9411512

>>9411502
Try to hide your obvious jealousy a little bit better okay?

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friendly reminder to not reply to maleposters
together we can make sure this is a nice safespace without any guys

>> No.9411515

>>9411505
Scotland

>inb4 you're from America but fuck even an online friendship is okay with me

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>be me
>thought I had friends in my local comm
>go to social media
>sone of the mods had a birthday lolita meet
>did not get invited
>checked to see if invite got lost
>just...didn't get invited
>thought we were on good terms
>feeling horribly rejected and humiliated
>social media all weekend has been all the girls I follow posting pics of the meet
>fresh painful reminders I have nothing to offer anyone
>already at a low point everywhere else in life
>wondering what I did to ostracize self

>> No.9411517

>>9411512
I'm a dude though. I wouldn't have been conflicted by finding it hot otherwise. (Well, I guess if I was a lesbian girl or something...)

It mostly bothers me because I'm 30 and these girls are like 22, and I don't go anywhere near girls under 26 or so.

>> No.9411518

>>9411511
No friends either, anon? Or family close by?

>> No.9411519

>>9411515
You're in luck. I'm in Ireland and visit Scotland fair regular

>> No.9411520

>>9411494
The human race.

>> No.9411523

>>9411345
I don't think simply wearing a generic article of clothing constitutes "cosplaying".

That's like saying "I'm cosplaying a t-shirt", or "I'm cosplaying socks".

>> No.9411524

>>9411523
except that sweater is not generic but rather a costume at this point

>> No.9411527

>>9411524
No it's not. Stop using words you don't properly understand.

>> No.9411529

>>9411527
Listen here Stacy, I may not be "college educated" but I'm pretty smart when I've had my 8 hours of sleep. So stop trying to make look like an idiot.

>> No.9411530

>>9411518
Family is around but we're not close. I live in a separate apartment behind my parents' house (because it's a nice area close to work and rent here in LA is insane) so I see them regularly and occasionally have dinner with them, but we're kind of distant.

Friends are pretty much gone. I moved to another city for almost 5 years with my ex and when I came back there weren't many people left that I could relate to. Half of my friends are still living like they're 18, and the other half are too busy with families and careers.

In my case I guess it's more on my end than anybody else's. There are people who want to hang out with me and do stuff with me, but I just can't seem to enjoy it anymore. They still want to do the same reckless irresponsible shit we did 10 years ago and I'm too grown up for it now.

>> No.9411533

>>9411529
>So stop trying to make look like an idiot.
Honey I don't have to try.

>> No.9411535

>>9411501
>How do the rest of you deal with loneliness and depression

I use my work as a way to deal with all my personal problems. I just throw in a bunch of hours on it and eventually I stop caring about whatever I was down about. Try sinking yourself into some of your hobbies or something, but burning everything probably will just make you feel dumb and hate yourself even more.

>I'm scared of what I'll do and how self destructive I'll become
Yeah I never really found out a good way to deal with that.

>> No.9411539

>>9411533
Are you really saying that sweater in paticular is a "generic" clothing item?
Why do you have to be such a bitch about this?

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>>9411529
>>9411539
>>9411524
This is why I lurk cgl.

>> No.9411545

>>9411539
Yes. It's just a clothing type like any other. It's not associated with any particular character or thing. Just because it's odd and unusual compared to most other clothing doesn't magically make it a proper unique thing.

If you're wearing one you wouldn't say "I'm cosplaying the virgin killer sweater", you're just wearing the virgin killer sweater. "Cosplaying the virgin killer sweater" would mean you are actually trying to dress up AS the sweater itself, not just be a human wearing one.

>> No.9411550

>>9411545
Okay so you are saying it is the same if go to some con wearing a t-shit and socks and if I go there wearing the sweater?
I shouldn't have come back here. This place is full of petty mean girls. At least I have a bf something most of you will never have.

>> No.9411551

>>9411527
It's definitely crossing into costume territory, just because it doesn't come from an anime...Only time I've seen it is weebs in shitty anime wigs doing sexy <insert character here>

>> No.9411553

>>9411535
>I just throw in a bunch of hours on it and eventually I stop caring about whatever I was down about.

Be really careful with this. I did exactly the same thing after my last big breakup and it destroyed me.

I thought I'd hit the jackpot, with a job in the field I loved, with really cool clients, and with enough responsibility that I really got a sense of accomplishment from it, but a few years later I found myself pulling 80 hour weeks without a day off for months at a time because I was holding the whole business together and eventually one day everything hit me, not just the job but the delayed breakup stuff too, and I woke up one day and just couldn't do it anymore, so I asked the owner for time off and he told me to never come back instead. (At least I have the solace of knowing that I took that business from the red to making $500k-ish a year profit within two years, and then within a year of firing me that owner had to sell his Porsche to cover his debts...)

>> No.9411554

>>9411550
oh jeez anon just...retreat quietly, don't make an ass of yourself.

A lot of us are in relationships though, for real

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>Wanna be a cute lolita who plays an instrument
>Feel too old to learn any

I didn't have any interest in music as a child but now it has grown into me. Why it didn't happen earlier?

>> No.9411563

>>9411560
I'm a musician, grew up with zero music in my household and didn't even have a favourite band until I was pushing 16. It's never too late anon.

>> No.9411564

>>9411551
>Only time I've seen it is weebs in shitty anime wigs doing sexy <insert character here>
And the part of that that makes it a cosplay is the <insert character here> part, not the wearing a VK sweater part.

Just being silly and outlandish doesn't magically make it a cosplay. As I already said if you put on socks you don't say "I'm cosplaying socks". Even if almost everyone in the world suddenly stopped wearing socks and thought they were weird that wouldn't make them a cosplay.

If you were out wearing just the VK sweater and nothing else, and someone came up to you and asked "Who are you dressed as" what could you answer? Wearing a piece of clothing is not the same as cosplaying as the piece of clothing.

>> No.9411566

>>9411516
Fuck them anon, you're better than that. The leader of my old comm who I loved to bits unfriended me after I moved away but I still wanted to stay in contact with her.

>> No.9411567

>>9411550
>Okay so you are saying it is the same if go to some con wearing a t-shit and socks and if I go there wearing the sweater?
Yes? How exactly do you believe it's different aside from how mainstream and common the clothes you're wearing are?

>> No.9411568

>>9411567
Can you not respond to me anymore? Thanks.

>> No.9411570

>>9411568
Why don't you get your boyfriend to stop me?

Oh wait, you're already trying. You're using "him" to type on the keyboard afterall.

>> No.9411574

>>9411570
Does your mom regret giving birth to an autistic child?

>> No.9411575

>>9411570
Seriously, fuck you!

>> No.9411577

>>9411553
Your situation sounds much better than what I've been doing anon.

>> No.9411582

>>9411519
Drop your contact and I'll message you!

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wow what's with all this bullying? feels like HS all over gain, calm it down gulls.

>> No.9411587

>>9411560
The woman who's violin lesson is before mine is in like her 70s. She started literally like 5 weeks ago. If she can do it so can you.

As they say; the best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, the second best time is right now.

>> No.9411590

>>9411582
Dropping a quick throwaway

irishanon@gafy.net

>> No.9411593

>>9410410
>trying to better themselves
last time i checked it's for 1)women that like attention 2)men that have doubts about their dicks

>> No.9411611

Why are all French Lolitas so horrible? Every time I get bitched at for something during a sale it's a goddamn French girl. Bitch, what do I have to do with your custom fees? Have you never bought from abroad before?? Come to think of it, the girl who requested untracked shipping and then opened a PayPal claim because the damn package was delayed due to Christmas/New Year's was French too. At this rate I'd rather not sell to French girls at all. And their English is always terrible as well (I'm ESL too by the way so no comments like "well do YOU speak a second language, anon?" please).
Shame on all of you, French Lolitas!

>> No.9411633

>>9411189
Were the two groups just randoms coming up with it on the spot or did they have time to rehearse or experience with improv?

>> No.9411670

>>9411516
Maybe you're just not close enough friends yet?

>> No.9411677

Had a shitty day at work but I just got done trying to get the stains out of one of my JSKs from when I accidentally say in something sticky. I got most of them out and that genuinely made me feel a little better!

>> No.9411678
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>>9410717
Tell her to fuck off

Don't feel like you have any obligation to do anything for her

>> No.9411724

I gained back some of the weight I had lost trying to stop being a fatty chan. I feel so discourgaged now especially since I was planning on wearing lolita to a con this weekend. I can't believe I let it slip back on! I'm not planning on stopping my attempt to get back to a healthy weight but I feel shitty even as I get back on the proverbial horse.

>> No.9411727

>springtime closet cleaning, listed tons of shit, making good sales
>shipping for one item ended up costing me double what I charged, whatever I guess
>self service kiosk at PO because it's way faster
>go through process, label printing but gets stuck at last fraction possible of sheet
>fight and pull it out, label box, snap photo of tag and drop it in the slot
>get home hours later, check bank and see I was charged and refunded the postage instantly
>panic sets in, find receipt, shows the same
>get tracking # from photo on phone, they already shipped it off
>en route with no issue

Did I just scam USPS

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>tfw no lolita gf to help me become her qt brolita bf

>> No.9411746

>>9410717
screw her

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>>9411736
>brolita

Degeneracy...

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>>9411747
>tfw i just want to be cute

>> No.9411749

>>9411747
>its ok for women to dress in pedo fetish clothes but as soon as a MAN does it its degenerate
that's a real joggin' for the noggin

>> No.9411750

>>9411749
Fucking women, i hate them goddamn bitches
>tfw you will never suck a girls toes while you drink her pee

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>>9411749
>implying it's okay for men to dress in dresses
You disgust me

>implying it's all pedo fetish clothing
You're incorrectly grouping "sweet" with Gothic and casual. Sweet is pedobait.

Dirty degenerates are unwelcome here.

>> No.9411754

>>9411751
EGL is the same thing in black.

>> No.9411755

>>9411724
Keep trying, anon! I'm having the same problem; You just gotta keep trying and don't give up. Also keep in mind that it's normal for your weight to fluctuate up here and there on its way down. It should look like a downward trend on a graph, not a plummet. I believe in you, anon, you can do it!

For me it was
>had surgery a couple months ago
>forbidden from going to the gym or any strenuous exercise for two months
>managed to drop a little weight while recovering by eating better
>after full recovery, accidentally picked up my bad eating habits again and gained back most of it
>told myself I wasn't allowed to buy any more dresses until I hit my first goal weight
>didn't work I bought stuff anyway
Being an adult is hard, having no one to answer to about my eating or my spending is dangerous

>> No.9411758

>>9411754
Only the ones they infuse degenerate sweet vibes into.

True Gothic isn't pedobait, you turboita.

>> No.9411762

>>9411751
So, I don't know many lolita, but the only person I knew that dressed in sweet lolita had an ageplay/incest thing going on. Is this just a meme with the pedo fetish stuff or a real trend? I only have one example to work from. Could I really have known in advance before their onii-chan ringtone fired off constantly just because they dressed sweet lolita?

>> No.9411764

>>9411758
It is though lmao

>> No.9411781

>>9411755
Thank you anon! This really cheered me up. I'm going to keep trying and I wish you luck too! Its always nice knowing of other lolitas trying their best to improve themselves like me

>> No.9411783

>meet guy I really like
>start getting to know each other
>don't seem to have a ton in common
>oh well it's still fun to talk to him
>he's very interested in me so I can just talk about myself
>tell him about jfash hobby
>not sure if he knows what lolita looks like yet
>tell him I like darker stuff and that I wanted to be a goth in high school but wasn't allowed to dress that way so I do now
>he tells me he thinks I'd look bad in darker/goth stuff
>explain that I'm not doing full face make up for it
>he still thinks I'm trying to dress up as the grim reapers girlfriend

Dammit. How come people who seem interested in me always disagree with the things I enjoy? It's never the other way around. Also I told him I have a lot of pastels in my wardrobe but he didn't say anything about that..

>> No.9411795

>>9411783
>oh well it's still fun to talk to him
>he's very interested in me so I can just talk about myself
kek'd

>I told him I have a lot of pastels in my wardrobe but he didn't say anything about that..
What kind of discussion did you expect to happen? He probably didn't even know exactly what "having pastels in the wardrobe" meant.

>> No.9411806

>>9411795
He's not dumb. He knows what pastels are, they're colors you know.... they're not exclusively jfash.

Also it's like pulling teeth to get him to talk about himself. I have to beg him to tell me things. Otherwise he just let's me go on and on about myself and will ask me about me more than anything else.

>> No.9411828

>>9411806
You kind of make it sound like you're a bit out of touch with how guys think, and that the
>don't seem to have a ton in common
is really an issue.

>> No.9411830

>>9411611
>Why are all French Lolitas so horrible?
The lolita part is irrelevant, frogchans are just bitchy as all get-out in general. It's a whole country full of that one woman who holds up the checkout line with a complaint where she's obviously in the wrong yet demands to speak to the manager.

>> No.9411831

>tfw AP is too big on you

There's so much room in the chest? I'm damn near flat, and the straps are also really long despite the fact that I'm lanky af. Do I just bite the bullet and alter it, or do I suffer with it being just a little too awkwardly big?

>> No.9411832

>>9411828
Not having something in common is an issue for me. I was hoping to find someone I did have something in common with. This guy likes me and I can tell which is why I'm wasting my time.. I'm pretty sure he has yet to see lolita so maybe if he actually sees it in person he'd have a different opinion.

>> No.9411833

>>9411727
Let's hope they don't charge the recipient. I've had that happen once. Similar situation, and I received a package with a 'post due'. The clerk was really nice, and told me not worry about it. I hope they don't end up having to pay for their shipping twice.

>> No.9411840

I need to vent, I havnt been able to buy myself anything but the occasional lunch or coffee at work and occasional dinner with friends for an entire year, I can't remember the last time I was able to buy myself an article of clothing Lolita or otherwise. On the contrary I've had to sell a lot of my clothes in order to buy groceries or pay bills. All this while I work full time and have a decent salary. I'm paying my boyfriends last year of med school so he can graduate debt free and start working right away and make 3x what I do but he graduates in June and I'm about to break down and tell him I can't do this anymore. It's the most frustrating situation work full time and sometimes overtime and not be able to afford anything. I just want some simple normie clothes and a jsk or two.
I know things will get better once I'm no longer a sole provider but for now and the next few months things are looking so bleak.

>> No.9411853
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>>9411831
So get implants?
Bigger boobs make life so much better you have no idea.

>> No.9411856

>>9411853
I don't find it pretty.

>> No.9411857

>>9411853

I like being androgynous desu, I can dress in baggy clothes and wear a beanie and walk around the city without getting harassed.

Plus implants cause too many issues and I have a history of breast cancer in my family.

>don't think I haven't considered it tho

maybe I should just layer my bras to fill the dress space.

>> No.9411860

>>9411856
You don't find it pretty to look good in just about anything you wear?

>> No.9411866

>>9411860
>thinking big boobs makes "just about anything" look good
lol, you're either a fatty or a lonely dude (probably both)

>> No.9411869

>>9411866
Let's not be jealous because you are flat okay?

>> No.9411870

>>9411833
It had the postage on the box showing that I'd paid in full, I hope they don't have to pay. Since USPS messed up I feel like it's their issue to have solved.

>> No.9411875

>>9411869
Actually got a breast reduction mostly because t-shirts and "normal" clothes looked horrible on me, and I just looked like a slut when I "dressed up", but sure, I'm flat. :^)

>> No.9411881

>>9411875
Thanks for confirming you are a fatty-chan.

>> No.9411891

>>9411881
Nope, just "won" the genetic lottery. But keep telling yourself that to make you feel better, sorry you're fat and lonely. :^)
Sage for shitting up the thread, and small boobs-chan, try on a push up/heavily padded bra, some of my loli friends do this when wearing newer AP to fill it out.

>> No.9411903

>>9410424
>low GPA and on academic warning
>I don't know what to do
Maybe work on your fucking grades

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9411910

>>9411421
Social Media was a mistake

>> No.9411911

>>9411831
know the feel, anon. if you know you won't sell it in a while, you can alter it. if you want it to be more easily reversable and if there's no zip in the back, you can sew some loops directly on the fabric and add lacing.

>> No.9411915

>>9411196
If you don't have a masters or doc you're gonna have trouble finding anything, this STEM meme totally screwed a lot of people over.
>geology/environmental studies
>ready to beg oil&Gas for a job

>> No.9411919

>newbie to Lolita
>saved up a long time for good burando coords
>new jorb where I can buy new dresses on a weekly basis if I want
>Lolita I admire adds me on Facebook and tells me my lolita style is on point
>gunna be in a Lolita fashion show soon
>maid cafe I own made a shitton of money this weekend and was a modest success
>whyislifetreatingmesowell.jpg
>so happi

>> No.9411924
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9411924

I've got a job interview next week lets pray I can start buying that sweet burando again soon

>> No.9411927
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>>9411915
>geology/environmental studies
>STEM
Only women could be retarded enough to fall for this. In reality STEM means you are either studying engineering, IT, or math.
Deal with it.

>> No.9411928

>>9410868
Hey anon, try to adjust your diet so you're eating things that keep you full longer. A salad for lunch is low calorie, but you'll be satisfied if you add some protein.

>> No.9411933

>>9411927
Sorry you don't feel as special as you used to <3

>> No.9411936

>>9411927
Science
Technology
Engineering
Maths
You got 3/4 bucko.

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>>9411927

>> No.9412005

>>9411936
Thanks, I know what STEM stands for. Maybe you didn't notice the "in reality" part?
No matter how much inferior "sciences" want to be part of the holy trinity, they will never be.

>> No.9412023

>>9411414
My bf won't allow me to dress him
mfw

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9412073

>>9410609
>I'm 178lbs with name starting with A
fuck you dude

>> No.9412077

>>9411853
>Bigger boobs make life so much better you have no idea.

In what fucking world?? Sexuality aside, they invite harassment, not being taken seriously even when you cover up in the workplace, it's humiliating if you develop early, theyre horrible for your back, makes working out a bitch, can never go without a bra?? I could go on. But hey, as long as you can get free drinks at the bar and favors occasionally?

>> No.9412084

>>9412077
>invite harassment
In what fucking world?

>> No.9412106

>>9410610
Do you live in the North East england cause I swear that description perfectly fits an ex of mine,

>> No.9412118

>>9412106
I'm from Australia.

>> No.9412122
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9412122

>Get the flu on Wednesday
>Spend all of last week vomiting/crying/not sleeping/feverish/wishing for death
>Now a week a suffering

I'm slowly getting better (I can shitpost now at least), but I've never felt this wretched in my life. I can't even leave the house, I feel so weak. Feels like I'm never going to get better :(

>> No.9412127

>>9412122
Is at least your bf watching over you?

>> No.9412155
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9412155

I had a dream last night, that I ran into my ex at a con. She'd gotten fat, but I still loved her so much. She came over to give me a con-hug, but first she took off her boobs and put them in her purse, so I wouldn't even get to feel them on my stomach.

Should I tell the girl I'm seeing now about it?

I want to finish my cosplay props, but diarrhea.

>> No.9412159

>>9411611
I feel this, sometimes I feel like a bitch for not buying from French girls just because they're French but they're always a headache
>And I speak functional French

>> No.9412172

>>9412155
Does your gf have big boobs?

>> No.9412175

I have a story, not sure how relevent it is though

>be me
>15
>Go to small local con with a couple friends
>Take part in Yu-gi-oh tournement cause fuck it free cards
>Play against some girl
>her friend comes over mid game
>she's pretty attractive
>kill some time for the rest of the day till talent show
>Girl I saw earlier was up with the girl I played against and some other person, let's call them Kassie
>she has what I assumed was a panic attack, went outside to see if she was okay
>nervous as fuck cause anxiety
>get her name and add her on facebook
>eventually start dating
>lasts around 6 months, nothing special happens since I was young and oblivious as fuck
>turn 16
>enjoy being around her, feels like she felt the same
>her and Kassie get into a massive argument, dragging in more people they where both friends with
>find out because of this argument that she was lying to me about her age for 6 months
>she was 13
>Find out she was using me for money, £100 more or less
which, for a 15-16 year old was alot tbf
>Broke up with her the same day
Im glad I was so fucking oblivious cause if I wasn't and we did anything, I might have been arrested

>> No.9412188

>>9411570
Damn anon you really know how to make the salt flow.

>> No.9412195

>>9412084
>Aaa cup washboard
>Go out with f cup friend
>Both dressed in pretty modest normies clothes
>Kept getting approached by men
>Some were nice and just "you look nice today ladies"
>One guy grabbed his dick through his pants and hollered when we walked past
>Other time we were out a guy followed us for blocks yelling about how "juicy" she was and asking where we were going and how much she wanted
>This is normal for her
I'm not saying it's "muh rape culture" but big tits attract attention from the lowest kind of people

>> No.9412199

>>9412175
are you 15 or did you wait a few years to post this story

>> No.9412202

>>9412195
this happens to me too and my tits are tiny

>> No.9412203

>>9411869
Hi I have A boobs. I can fit into all Korean and Asian clothes and pretty much anything I decide to wear. My friends with boobs have to buy fatty clothes. Go talk to your right hand if you're lonely instead of trying to lecture girls on their boob sizes, lonely dude.

>> No.9412205

>>9412199
I waited a few years, happened back in like, 2013

>> No.9412208

>>9412203
BE MY FLAT CHESTED CGL GF

>> No.9412210

>>9412208
Just date a flat trap.

>> No.9412215
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9412215

>tfw biological girl
>Tfw look like a trap
>Tfw efforts to look more feminine/dressing in lolita make me look more like one

>> No.9412218

>>9410201
I have had exactly the same scenario... I had braces but once already but they moved so quickly that taking my retainer I out for half an hour after a year of constant wear let them move so much that I couldn't shove the damn thing back in by myself. I am so aware of my lips occasionally catching on my teeth or snaggletooth showing on one side. I used to model as a kid, but posing for coord shots or any photo by someone else is awkward as hell.

>> No.9412220

>>9412172
No, they were nice and petite.

In the dream, she was fat tho.

>> No.9412226

>>9412220
I'm talking about the girl you're seeing.

>> No.9412230

>>9410646
>>9410900
This is a genuine worry for me. I've had extreme pelvic pain, bleeding that lasts 3-4 straight months, severe gastrointestinal problems including insane bloating and had cysts come up in scans for the last 5 years with no single explanation. Today I got a new kind of pain, like I'd been hit by a truck below the waist, can barely shuffle to the bathroom and have been dizzy and exhausted all day.

>> No.9412231

I hate this place.

>> No.9412234

>>9411125
You're not the only one lol

>> No.9412236

>>9412226
Oh.

They're average. Like, B's. I honestly don't care much about boob size.

>> No.9412238

>>9412236
>i don't care much about boobs
>please date me
This is just sad lol

>> No.9412239

>>9412236
If you tell her she'll probably immediately think you wish she had bigger boobs

>> No.9412240

>>9412122
This is what pregnancy was like for me lol

>> No.9412249

>>9412195
This kind of harrassment happens to me and I don't have boobs and I'm very covered up. In my case it starts if I admit to a stranger that I a) am not married b) am an atheist and c) have a boyfriend. Some guy flat out told me that that obviously means I have no morals, so I should be easy to 'buy'.

I think the issue is simple; every micro-culture (literally that town or county) has a perception of what a "whore" is and then low-brow people use that definition to guess who they can hit on rudely while not getting the crud automatically beat out of them.

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>>9411869
>flat is bad

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>>9412238
>year 3000 - 983
>still caring about tits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRoAroipx2s

>> No.9412270

>>9412238
T. buttlet

>> No.9412274

Patrician tier
Face>butt>hips>thighs>flatchest>tummy

Shit tier
Anything else

>> No.9412284

Friend fucks up using my account to sell a dress and I have to wipe her ass by refunding the buyer. I feel disgusted by thinking why I don't have a rainy day savings to cover it instead of strangling said friend.

>> No.9412325
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>>9411316
Wendy's bitches are pervs. The other month they asked if they could borrow my boyfriend for fatty humps, then cackled in my face.

>> No.9412329

>>9412210
I'm not some kind of homosexual anon

>> No.9412351

>>9411806
>He knows what pastels are, they're colors you know
Bitch, anyone who worked with pastels immediately thinks you're talking about the physical kind. He was probably too busy trying to figure out why you keep your art supplies in your wardrobe to listen to your explanation.

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>tfw a transwoman I know makes fun of traps

Can't we all just get along?

>> No.9412387

>>9410609
>smells like sandwich meat if you left it out in a really hot car in the summer
This shit got too real anon, I ended up dry heaving

>> No.9412400

To the Jogging anon who met lolitas at the park in the previous threads. If you drop some kind of contact info I can get you in touch with the lolita who knocked over your water bottle. She has a crush on you, and the other girls in the com like bringing you up to make her blush. This will sound weird to you as well but they also have your picture, and you're pretty qt.

>Miss a few meetups because I'm sick
>this park stuff went down
>I wasn't able to witness it
>Feel like poop because I didn't get to go and i'll be behind on meetup gossip
>was stuck browsing the net, read your story and thought it was cute
>week later, I'm finally not sick and can go to a meetup
>they bring up "Jogging Misako" to tease her
>I have no idea what they are talking about, so I ask
>They fill me in, and it's pretty much exactly the story I read in previous feel threads
>I was able to fill in extra parts of the story they left out
>they were surprised and asked how I knew
>I told them I heard the story from the guys perspective and that I might be able to contact you

PLEASE ANON, DROP SOME KIND OF INFO. PLEASE STILL BROWSE THESE THREADS. LET ME BE A HEROOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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>>9412360

>she thinks she's actually a woman

Your friend has no right to make fun of anyone. Traps accept what they are. Your friend thinks he's actually female.

>> No.9412416

>>9412400
>tfw can't wait to see how this develops
>tfw it's probably just a samefag ruse to get replies

>> No.9412417

>>9412400
Not the anon you're looking for but the more I read of this story the more I want it to be real. Please let it be real, this is so cute. I hope you find him, anon!

>> No.9412424

>>9412360
No; laugh at yourself and laugh at everyone else. Stop being serious; stop being offended; that's how you win the game.

>> No.9412425

>>9412400
Holy sheeeit. Go for it jogging misako! I think there was another connection made in these threads one or two years ago. This is gonna be more lit than cold fusion.

>> No.9412446

>>9412360
Probably mad that guys go for traps more than trannies

>> No.9412447

>>9412400

This is jogging guy.

I'm actually married. Sorry.

>> No.9412449

>>9412416
If it happens I'm going to make sure to get pictures. I am so excited that I hopefully get to play a part in it.

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9412454

>>9412447

>> No.9412456

>>9412447
pls dont b real

>> No.9412458

>>9412400
>>9412449
Well, at least that's a better outcome some troll stringing us on for days/weeks then disappearing. G'night gulls

>> No.9412463

>>9412447
iirc, jogging guy expressed interest in getting to know that lolita. So you're probably not him.

>> No.9412491

>>9412406
Didn't boner Robin grow up to own Cosplay Deviants and Tentacle Grape?

Also, stop the trans hate immediately plz.

>> No.9412494

>>9412449
Right because that's how things ever work out. Every time something like this happens there are updates for a while then no resolution. Once things are done on their end it's their private life again, whether things went well or poorly. And I don't fault them, they have no reason to share and we have no right to know. It's just a bit depressing to someone who only does interesting things vicariously through other people.
I'm also probably projecting more than a little, because I've had the same thing happen to me IRL a bunch. A good number of the people I know I met in college and they all knew each other in HS; they'd mention stuff from their mutual past and then say "oh but that's private we probably shouldn't tell you about it."

>> No.9412502
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>>9412491
Yes, he did.
>tfw made fun of boner robin but he was probably getting sex from desperate cosplay girls

>> No.9412510

I met a cute cosplayer dude last year and I've been feeling ridiculously attracted towards him since then. He's "seeing" someone but she's very far away and they are not a couple. I saw him not too long ago, we spent a nice evening together with friends and we slept together (as in, sleeping) and when I woke up we were cuddling and kept doing it for a while, he seemed ok with that. I don't wanna tell him I have a crush on him because I'm afraid I will be rejected but I just run from one con to another just to see him. I'm already happy enough to have him as a friend but I feel pathetic.

>> No.9412514

>>9412447
FRIENDZONED AGAIN

>> No.9412515

>>9412510
If you two are cuddling while sleeping together it's pretty clear he likes you. Kind of shitty of him to be doing this while he is with someone else though. It's a pretty big red flag imo. Anyways, with what you two did I really don't see you getting rejected if you say that you have a crush on him.

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>>9411560
I've started cello this year and I'm 28. You can do it anon, just go easy on yourself and learn to enjoy the challenge

>> No.9412531

>>9412515
Thanks anon. I know they haven't been doing fine for a while and he insisted on the fact that they are not a couple but he seemed to really like her when he met her. I don't want to tell him I like him because of that as well, I dislike her and I don't think they belong together but I also feel like I should mind my own business and not hurt her if I can avoid it. It was very light cuddling and I asked him a few times if it was bothering him but he said no so I'm not too sure if he was too nice to tell me to fuck off or if he wanted me to be there. Ugh.

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9412543

I keep dreaming about visiting different closetchild shops and finding dream- and wishlist dresses, but everytime I want to buy them, the shop closes and I wake up. Today was the 4th time. I can't take it anymore, someone please end my suffering.

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9412552

>>9412447
Jogging guy was too confident in his autism to be married.

>> No.9412555

>>9412400
>tfw you will never be jogging in the park to pick up a /cgl/ gf

>> No.9412564

>>9412555
Not with that attitude you won't.

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>>9412543
Iktf
>dream about winning lottery and buying all my dream dresses
>Start going through my huge wardrobe
>Wake up
>Still a poorfag student scrimping to get badly damaged burando
Those are premonitory dreams, r-right?

>> No.9412581

>>9412579
>Jack Daniel's

>> No.9412644
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>start dating girl I met at Anime Weekend Atlanta
>introduce her to my parents tonight

>later, mom calls me in a rage, drunk
>accuses me of being closet gay, because my new gf is so "dykey"

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>>9411530
Honestly anon it sounds to me like you don't appreciate the friends you do have. You are distant from those around you but it isn't for their lack of trying. You have friends but aren't willing to put the effort into planning your own shit. You say you're too grown up for what they do plan? Why aren't you setting a meet up? You're exactly the opposite of my current case. I am the friend who seems to be the one who plans everything for my friends and if I didn't I worry I would probably lose all contact. Ultimately it is up to you to figure your shit out. What do you want out of life and your relationships?

>> No.9412709

>>9412581
I know! That should totally be Amaretto.

>> No.9412747

>>9411633
split em up and gave em 5-10 minutes to think up some stuff. Didn't rush them, just waited until both groups were ready, it was only a 2 minute 'commercial' so neither group took very long.

>> No.9412751
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>Going to room with friends at a con
>One friend can't fully pay her way in, and asks if she can invite another friend to help her pay
>I don't like the idea but I go along with it because she's been a good friend
>Message her friend to get things organized
>On her FB page I see some Black Power stuff
>Kind of get an "oh boy" feeling but decide to reserve judgement
>I message her and within the first few minutes she says she feels uncomfortable rooming with two white people. (My friend and I are both white. The friend that wants to bring her along is black)
>Tell her she doesn't have to come along if she's not comfortable with it, and that we'll figure out something instead
>She gets upset, says that instead of dismissing her we should try and accommodate "underprivileged" peoples
>realize what kind of person I'm talking with and just tell her that I'd rather not deal with her on my weekend off
>she gets bitchy but I just block her
>Show the logs to my two friends, our black friend is really embarrassed and says she didn't think she was like that

On the bad side, I volunteered to help pay what she couldn't. Less merch for me.

>> No.9412767

>costume commissioner sent a birthday gift out of the blue
>sister took me out shopping, we never hangout
>mom got favorite ice cream cake
>friend offering a free photoshoot at a con next weekend for my birthday gift

Finally, a birthday that doesn't suck and ends with me sobbing and feeling lonely

>> No.9412770

>>9412767
Happy burfday anon. You've made me crave ice cream cake now.

>> No.9412819

>>9412351
No because I specified they were the colors of my clothes. He knows about western fashion just not Japanese. Guess what's being sold at f21 these days.... pastels...

>> No.9412829

>>9412707
No, I'm actually much more like you than you think. None of my "friends" plan anything or invite me to anything either, if we do stuff I have to be the driving force behind all of it. They always say "let's do something sometime" when I see them, but they never have ideas and they never approach me, I always have to approach them.

There's only one group that's an exception. I used to street race back in the day. (Think Initial D kind of stuff, not Fast and Furious.) These guys still do. They pester me to go street racing with them. I can't afford to take those risks anymore.

>> No.9412844

>>9412644
>meet nice Korean grill at con
>start dating
>mom: "Wow, given up on white women already?

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9412862

>>9412751

We need reparations for slavery anon. The least you could do, is pay for her stay and then room somewhere else

>> No.9412872

>>9412829
Why not encourage them to go track racing instead?

>> No.9412885

>>9412751
>Show the logs to my two friends

How to solve 95% of friend-of-friend problems in 5 minutes or less. I wish more people would use evidence to nip drama in the bud instead of letting it fester to keep a false peace.

>> No.9412888

>>9412872
Believe me, I have. Most of them have done it a few times too. They'd rather go drive around on a mountain at 3 in the morning though, because it doesn't cost anything and it's "more exciting" or whatever.

I don't really have the budget to do track myself anyway. A day out there ends up costing $500+ when you factor in gas, tires, brakes, and everything else.

>> No.9412889

>con is this week
>sewing machine is acting up

well hello hand sewing ;-;

>> No.9412903
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>>9412077
The world where every girl wants to have them and breast implants are astronomically more common than breast reductions.

It's one of those situations where both sides try to say "the grass is greener" but when offered the chance to change one side actually goes "yes please!" and the other goes "oh whoa wait I didn't think I'd actually have to risk something when I complained that I have it harder".

>> No.9412964

My life is going really good right now. I have a friend group I love, a boyfriend that's too good to be true, and my cosplays are getting better and better. The only thing is, I haven't been going to class. I'm a graphic design major, and I was absent for a lot of classes (they only meet once a week) because I was sick. I'm super behind and lost on the software, and the time away from class and talking to my friends who are also in my major that are absolutely passionate about it. I too, am passionate about it, but more in a theoretical way. I love it more in a conceptual way, and less in a practical way as I'm VERY bad at Creative Suite. I know it just takes practice, but I don't think I'm willing to put the time in because I know I'm not going to be doing what I want to be doing. I know that I'm not stand-out enough to get employed to my top choice job, that I don't have the work ethic to be completely freelance and I'll be stuck doing stuff that bores me for the rest of my life.

I posted in the last thread about this, but I want to switch majors and become a history education major. It's a complete change, but it's something I've always wanted to do. History has always been my best and favorite subject, and I always wanted to teach. I've just been put off by the pay rate, but honestly I'd be making close to what I'd be making as a graphic designer, and what's stopping me from doing freelance in the summer? I don't need a degree for that. I just feel like I can't openly talk about it because I'm 22 and in my 5th semester at community college (I was a liberal arts major before switching to graphic design), haven't been going to class, and deciding on a job where I literally cannot miss classes.

Also, hating myself because I've been paying for classes out of pocket and I have to wait until I turn 24 to apply for financial aid without my parents, which is probably what I'll end up doing because tuition is absolutely destroying my savings.

>> No.9412998

>>9412964
Kind of laughing because
>graphic design major/liberal arts major
then you say
>I've just been put off by the pay rate (for teaching)

At least with teaching you generally get decent benefits, and consistent work. I think you're underplaying the security those two things offer, which plays into a lower salary.

>> No.9413054

>>9412964
You can get a job teaching art in a university. Going from art to history is not too awfully bad depending on how far along in the degree you are. (Both fall under 'liberal arts' so the prerequisite are similar.) It'd be a shame to throw out all those credits if you are almost done. Check to see how many credits would apply toward a history degree. The art classes may be covered under your 'electives'. Ugh, I admit, I waited until 24 to attend college for that reason.

Although, bring your doctor's notices to your instructors. I am in the same boat, but brought paperwork from my records stating my condition and the instructors were very understanding, and said they would not drop me so long as I kept up with my work despite my poor attendance. I don't know if you have a condition like I did, or were just sick, but either way, bring your records!

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>>9410848
So what you're saying is, you're a weeb and want to wear weeb-kei.

>> No.9413070

>>9412903
The only way I'd ever accept breast implants is if someone paid me, and only if they paid me enough to have them removed and leave a good chunk of cash left over.

>> No.9413076

>>9412998
Graphic Designer. Can confirm that I want to kill myself and constantly feel like a failure.

>> No.9413092

>>9413076
This is part of why I don't ever consider dating another creative type, as terrible as that is.

Sorry to hear that anon,

>> No.9413108

>>9413092
Ty. Hopefully I'll either find more success in my career, or death.

>> No.9413183

>>9412510
Cuck his gf! Be a mean girl!

>> No.9413189 [DELETED] 

Is it true that IT has a sexism problem? Would like to be a software engineer or smth for that nice cushy office job and the monies. It's not just all nerdy guys on those jobs right? I mean there's gotta be women around too.

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>>9413070
That's good, you understand a cheap imitation will never hold up to the real deal and that you can never genuinely grow up.

>> No.9413201

>>9413191
>cheap imitation
You know that fake boobs are really advanced these days right?

>> No.9413236

>>9413201
Still can't compare to natural.

>> No.9413245

>>9412510
Tell him to get rid of that other girl. He's cheating on her with you. :/

>> No.9413276

>>9413245
Do you consider light cuddling as cheating? I cuddle with my friends sometimes so I'm confused. Maybe I haven't used the right word.

>> No.9413290

>>9413276
You slept in the same bed as him.
Ask yourself, if you were dating a guy ldr, would you be okay with him sleeping in a bed with other girls?
Face it, you are a homewrecker!

>> No.9413298

>>9413276
Men don't just casually cuddle. It's not full on cheating yet but to a guy cuddling with a girl in bed is a highly flirtatious act and probable lead up to cheating.

>> No.9413301

>>9413276
If you had a boyfriend that was cuddling with one of his guy friends at night how would you feel about it?

>> No.9413303

>>9413290
We actually fell asleep next to each other because we were too drunk, we originally planned on using a different room but thanks anon (and the other anon below) I'll ditch the whole thing, it'll be better that way!

>> No.9413307

>>9413301
I wouldn't care, happened multiple times (yup) and with my friends as well, but I see how bad it can be for other people and I don't wanna hurt anyone. I'll apologize for overstepping my boundaries.

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>>9413307
>Anon thought pic related was real

>> No.9413324

>>9413076
Graphic designer here too, about a year ago I found a great studio job and I'm having the time of my life, never give up if you have the passion for it, it gets better.

>> No.9413330
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>>9413236
Subjective imo. I've had mine done and they look really nice (pic related) and my bf has never complained about the feeling.
Maybe its time for you to let it go?

>> No.9413333

>>9413324
Shit how many graphic designers are in this thread...

>> No.9413336

>>9413330
>look really nice
>pic related
Choose one.

>> No.9413355

>>9413336
>jellitos frenchfritos
Christ, can you be any cattier? What's the point of all this petty, personal bitchiness?

t. innocent nerd who came here from LARP Thread

>> No.9413365
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>>9413355
Do you know where you are?

>> No.9413378

>>9413355
>comes to cgl
>waah people are meanies :'(
Go back to your safe space or shut up kid.

>> No.9413386

God I love this board.
Seeing women argue over the most inane shit is hilarious.

>> No.9413388

>>9413386
It only gets better when you add in the spiteful r9k crossposts.

>> No.9413393

>>9413388
Are those the ones defeding or attacking women? I honestly can't tell lol.

>> No.9413406

>>9413393
This is textbook r9k.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnJreJfr9AY

>> No.9413432

>>9413189
Like most every profession it really depends on the specific people you're working with. Personally I've never noticed it but that might just be down to my inexperience in the field, and that apparently I'm socially retarded and may just not notice that kind of stuff. Good luck.
t. male

>> No.9413441

>>9413386
Because that doesn't happen on other boards?

>> No.9413670

>>9413406
>not posting his youtube channel

Prepare for Kino
https://www.youtube.com/user/ElliotRodger

>> No.9413854

>>9410950
>>Gained a lot of weight recently bc of stress/work/depression
Every time. Don't you mean,
>Gained a lot of weight because I have no self control and cope-ate
So many fatties in the feels threads blaming their weight gain on everything except themselves.

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>gave LM seller a neutral rating due to minor/moderate issues
>Debating on negative but decided on neutral
>See seller post new items
>Negative feedback from another buyer with the same issues
>Feel weirdly triumphant and vindicated
Wasn't just me...

>> No.9419941

>>9413330
fucking whore