/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Ugh, I just discovered the Insta page for a girl in our comm. It's all daddy-dom shit and pics of her in diapers.

Will lolita ever shake this ageplay reputation?

>>9330856
Urgghhh. Wished the fashion didn't attract so many gross fucked up people like that.

>>9330856
Sure, if sweet and OTT sweet ever die

>>9330936
NEVER

>>9330966

>>9330856
No, not only because of people who have that fetish but because of girls like the one in your comm who are constantly bridging DDLG to Lolita

>>9330856
God, how dit it even start? Where did it come from and why did it get popular?

>>9331090
It seems to have fucking exploded in the last two years. I don't get it. I get fetishes and being into weird shit, but why do DDLGers of all people feel the need to post it all on the internet for everyone to see? Is it some sort of humiliation stuff? Because I sure as shit would be humiliated if people knew what I got up to in the privacy of my bedroom.

>tfw watching genshiken and begin to empathize with why gulls always post about having shifty bf/gf
>tfw when you think understand real life events more because you watched fucking anime.

kms.

>>9331095
>tfw browsing tumblr and seeing DDLG literally out of nowhere, on unrelated tags
Welp I didn't need to see that.

>>9331095
Maybe because mental illnesses have become a fad, saying you're in a DDLG relationship makes you look more damaged and 'unique'.

>Talking to nice guy at con
>He gives me his number and his snapchat
>for a shy girl like me iTS A FUCKING SCORE!
>finally add him on snapchat
>talk to him a bit
>open his story
>He's a fucking 'actor' for hire

It's just weird because he asked if I wanted to go to dinner some time. I feel like a fucking retard now, we met at a panel, and he only talked to me. It's not as though he was selling himself, and we talked a LOT. What do?

>>9331207
Just go for it. What do you have to lose.

>>9331207
Run

>>9331095
>>9331171
To be desu I think it's a carry-over from the millennial "i want to be looked after ugu" attitude. You'll notice that they're rarely out of their early twenties.

>>9331207
I mean.. People can try to build careers and still have relationships at the same time?

Why do you assume he was trying to make business connections? ARE you somebody who could hire him for a production or put him in the situation to be hired? No. You're some chick from a convention.

>>9331207
I second the running. Hell, I did acting and know a few female actors who are chill, but the male ones are fucking childish.

One tries to manipulate girls into sex. I slept with him because I was bored, it was terrible. He is always super whiny and bitches and moans about how actors don't get paid shit while ignoring the fact he spends ~200/month on cosplay. Upwards of $500 some months, all paid by the parents.

The other one decided he was in love with me after two days and was obsessed with me for two or three years. Still might be, but I'm pretty sure he's not since I blew him off on what I realized later he probably thought was a date. Whined about how I wasn't interested in him all the time. Thought it was fate because his name was the same as the male half of a couple from a show I like.

>tfw your machine keeps sinking pins

4 pins in the last 30 minutes. Just did a needle change to be on the safe side since I'm sure that dulled it but fuck man.

>>9331226
You're not sewing over pins, are you?

I saw a lolita this weekend and I think I'm in love.

She was wearing a green dress, or possibly pink.

PLEASE help me find her.

>>9331112
Media has a unique way of reaching down into you an changing the way you think. Movies, anime, TV shows, theatre productions. The sign of a good and effectual piece of media is its ability to make up feel and change our ideas and emotions.

Sounds like it did its job adequately.

>>9331269
No. get over your obsession. you know nothing about them except what you saw. Don't be so obsessed by someone you don't even know.

>>9331269
Pink or green dress? Oh yeah, I know her.

>am fairly cute, in-shape, good at makeup and photo editing
>have plenty of nice cosplay photos
>have been cosplaying for many years, am skilled at making costumes
>know I could get a decent amount of recognition if I pander, even started to get a little popular in the past
>am socially inept, got freaked out
>no idea how to keep running social media, ended up closing fb page many times due to my own (and a weird stalker girl but thats another story)
>now have fb page with a ton of inactive followers which looks weird
I know it's kind of pathetic to want attention but damn it, I barely get to go to cons anymore and I really want my work to be seen. I know I have the visual elements necessary to get that but I don't know how to milk it and pander

>>9331313
>due to my own (and
due to my own inactivity, I meant.

Just snagged my dream dress in my dream cut/colorway off of Mercari for about $115. It's in great condition from a seller with a good amount of positive feedback and includes the matching bow and socks.

Pic related ugh I'm so happy

>>9331095
DDLG does falls under humiliation play if we are talking about BDSM.

>>9331313
>but that's another story
Do tell anon

Was going to visit SFE event this year, but my friend decided not to go and I don't want to go now because I'll be all alone. I'm not famous at any point so I'm terribly afraid to get the same experience as in 2014 when I couldn't find anyone to talk to except for hideous itas.
>tfw have already got event tickets and accomodation sorted out

>>9331321
Damn. I'm not lolita but that dress is cute af. Almost makes me want to get into lolita.

>tfw one of the photographers that took some hall shots starts stalking me on ig

>>9331220
No I'm pretty sure that's because people older than that have the common decency not to publish their fetishes. There's a bunch of people out there in many age groups that are into age and incest shit, but they don't go plastering how much they love daddy's cummies on instagram. I believe it's more the fact that there are the types of cliques on tumblr that actively encourage things like sex positivity and anti-kink shaming that cause these types of people to exist and thrive. Like they could say "who cares if I like getting fucked by dogs, it's MY BODY and I can choose how many knots I stuff in there. It's not disgusting, it's a beautiful thing and don't your dare kink shame me". Like honey I'm shaming you because you're fucking animals and that's nasty. Don't publish that shit to the world.

What's even worse is that this kind of shit has spiraled so far out of control that there are people openly and proudly admitting that they're pedos. Not like loli or shota; I'm talking like real kids here. This world needs a healthy dose of kink shaming.

>>9331325
gonna keep it vague because she might use this board but
>briefly date a cosplayer
>this person has an ex who becomes jealous or something
>find out through mutual friends that she is saying nasty stuff behind my back
>block her on all accounts
>she still creeps through alternate account
>mutual friend tells me of this account, block it
>a few days later find out she's got more accounts, still making fun of me
>fuck it, i'm out

that's basically it, ultimately not that exciting, just pointless drama. It's been ages now but I definitely wasn't about to go around pandering at the time, i'm sure she would have eaten that shit up

>>9331353
>tfw people use the reaction pics you made.

>>9331269
Nice bait

My Zenmarket package is still "awaiting confirmation" after 2 days. Just let me pay for shipping goddamnit, I want these clothes!

>>9331374
It's well after new year's but I think they're still a bit slow. Give it time, you'll get it soon.

>Be me
>Planning the first cosplay in like years
>A bit complicated, but I'll make it
>Apparently another guy is coming to the con as the same character (Local cons are small so it's rare unless the character is very popular)
>He's like 10 times better than me.


FML.

> Be nerdy over worked cook
> Work every weekend even though I'm supposed to get every other weekend off but we're short staffed and my boss is good at guilt tripping me
> Get a new higher
> Get every other weekend off!
> Get weekend of Kanpai!con off!
> Super excited, check con schedule to see what panels they're having cause I'm not paying 30$ just to get into the dealer room
> Every goddamn thing I want to do is on Friday
> I have to work Friday
> I work 12:30-7:30
> Every panel I want to go to is with in that time bracket
> Panel's on Saturday when I can actually get there include 'Autism in the anime fan community', 'It gets better' anti-suicide panel, and 'MLP the legacy'

>>9331502
>Autism in the anime fan community
This actually sounds entertaining.

>>9331502
I'm really sorry about your situation, but I haven't laughed so hard in years

>tfw you get a neat craft idea for AA but then google it and there's ton of similar stuff already made

>>9331512
what was your idea

>be me last year
>friend A wants to do a love live group for her first cosplay
>she invites a certain girl among others, let's call her B, who I despise but she's her friend and I'm not one to make a scene
>they all ask me for advice because I'm the only one who has experience with cosplay
>I end up doing most of the work, but at least almost all of them are making an effort and helping with what they can
>B isn't
>she didn't even watch the series, because apparently she was "busy"
>girl, get it together, it's just love live, in 6 months till the con I'm sure you can watch it
>we all had to pay for her wig and materials, then made her costume and her accessories because A really wanted all of us to go
>while B didn't do shit but complain about wanting to participate on the cosplay contest because the rest of us didn't want to
>she even had the nerve to complain about how I had sewn her cape because it was a bit longer than in the reference picture
>lord give me patience

But wait here's more.

>day of the con
>B was planning on not even wearing the cosplay, just getting there, putting it on for an hour and then back to normal
>also told us her normie friends were coming and warning us that they'd "laugh at out costumes and wigs"
>me at breaking point
>I literally tell her to wear that shit like all of us instead of being ungrateful
>we get there
>B only takes ONE picture with us, then leaves with some random looking for hot guys
>con eventually ends, rather boring
>since she was away from us and she's pretty, she appeared on most of the con's videos and photos while we barely appeared anywhere

Feels bad, man.
Feels so bad.

>>9331516
Oddish planters (something like in the pic) on small scale since I do ceramics, but there are so many air-clay and 3D printed ones so why bother

>>9331527
Hey, if you do real ceramics and actually make pottery I'd say go for it! I'd rather see real craftsmanship over shitty 3D printed ones (meant to be rough prototyping tool) and air dry clay (Pinterest skrub level) crap.

>>9331527
The bulbasaur ones are better.

You should do planters for all the grass starters

Its not really /cgl/ related but i feel like i have to Spill it out because its eating me from Inside

>be me
>18 years old
>move to canada for studies
>goes well at first, but become depressed due to the distance from my family and my friends, and kinda drop out
>browse r9k
>drop my email in a thread while talking to a girl
>she actually answers me
>we quickly exchange emails
>we're both really clingy and the exchange quickly turns into a LDR
>girl is sweet as fuck, into cosplay, weeb things, and everything
>she's there for me when i have my panic attacks or everything
>im here when she needs company
>we become pretty good pals, its both our first real Relationship so we're kinda clumsy, but it is working, we joke around, we share cultural references, essentially a pretty benefical Relationship
>sometimes im annoyed by her but i love her with all my heart
>eventually, i have to go back to my home country
>when i go back, everything is overwhelming, i meet friends i haven't seen in a year, some of them i consider my brothers, i have to work with my uncle, to do garden work and everything
>eventually have little time to give to her (timezones) and end up developing a bit of a maniac phase where i am easily annoyed.
>the only time we can talk is when i play vidya with my bros that i love very much
>she tells me she doesnt want to be in the Relationship anymore
>i dont know what to say, agree because i cant force someone to like me or be in a Relationship with me
>am in denial for a few months, still in my maniac phase so im hyperactive, do lots of things, pick up running, lose 10kgs in a month become i skipped meals because i didnt feel hungry, while being extremely nice to her (when she spoke with me)
>eventually class start and i go to school
>the commute grinds me down and i finally realize that i lost the first person who told me "i love you' since i was a child

1/2

>>9331553
2/2
>cry without reason, dont really sleep a lot, develop an eating disorder that sometimes is anorexia
>still manage to float at school, but dont do too well
>the only moments where i feel good about myself is when we talk
>i dont know a lot about her life anymore, besides the fact that she browse here or and on /jp/
>its been a year and a half and i still love her with all my heart and am extremely kind with her as she is kind to me
>cant bring myself to tell her i would do absolutely for her because i love her as much as it is humanly possible
>makes me miserable

I dont know if youll read this L but if you do, i'm sorry i have been like this.
Sorry for the blogpost fellow anons, i just needed to get that out of my chest.

>>9331553
>>9331556
Dude you need to move on and get some therapy or something, you're blowing this way out of proportion.

>>9331526
She also probably got railed by a bunch of con Chads.

>>9331207
Treat him like a person?

Like, chat to him and get to know him. If it doesn't work our it doesn't work out.

With >>9331225 comment. Two people do not speak out for all male actors.

>>9331358
^

The reason why it stops usually after the early 20s is because you realise that shit is gonna really hurt your job prospects and you also are aware of privacy being a thing.

Basically, you get a brain.

>>9331269
>She was wearing a green dress, or possibly pink.
Don't worry. With this info, we'll find her in no time.

>tfw DashCon didn't become a yearly thing

>>9331645
this will never not be funny

>need straighter to style wigs
>ask mom where straighter is
>"it's in my bathroom in the drawer"
>go get straighter
>bathroom has many drawers
>finally find drawer with straighter
>dildo right next to it
>mfw

>>9331548
I do the real deal. Maybe I make few and try to sell them next time I'm tabling

>>9331549
This idea would work only on Bulbasaur, Chikorita and Turtwig since for others the plant wouldn't fit their bodies. Also now I want a Chicorita one for myself

>>9331269
Are you colorblind?

>Tfw I want to get into lolita
>Love the style, and want to meet some people
>tfw massively colourblind

No one believes me, either, because I'm a girl. I don't like bringing it up, but also, I can't tell things apart.

>found out that a lolita I used to kinda like is a sex worker
>I'm talking a literal prostitute
>holy crap there are pics of her naked everywhere
>it's kinda hot and I'm a little ashamed

>sitting in class wearing very toned down classic coord
>Prof talking about women or something about what women can get away with
>Says staring right at me "you can wear your Japanese anime clothes, and we like it!"
>Gives me a knowing nod when he's done talking, feel awfully embarrassed.

Th-thanks teach

>>9331683
As long as you can match whatever colors you're seeing you're fine

>>9331683
Use the 'coord help' threads, if something doesn't match they'll let you know, don't mention you're colourblind or you'll be trolled to high hell

>feeling good, decide to wear lolita to class
>wear wooden bottom btssb shoes
>theres no way to walk quietly in these
>school's floors are all hard
>so loud i sound like half a horse
>people stare more than usual
>when i walk people turn around to see who the fuck is making so much noise
why do i do this to myself
i'll just wear my shitty bodyline rhs nextlolitat least the foam soles are quiet.

>>9331791
oh man anon

you clogged it real good

>childhood friend and I had a falling out in college
>lived with her, she was an extremely difficult person to live with and is now ~agender, queer, and poly~
>our families are friends, so I see her a couple times a year at family gatherings, always awkward but I don't really care
>reached out to me recently, wants to be friends again
>I agree to try
>unhide her on FB
>her status are all political and about her personal trauma
>rehide her

I really think my life is better without her in it. She has very few friends who have known her for more than 3-4 years, and I think its because she burns through people. Anyone who distances themselves from her starts being incorporated her warped view of the past (her high school boyfriend was abusive, her mother and I were gaslighting her all through middle school and high school, our gay roommate in college assaulted her repeatedly (I guess hugging is now assault?)).

She tried to reconnect through cosplay of all things (she's always been a craftsy person and followed me on instagram), but I just don't care enough to try to mend this bridge.

>>9331791
I lol'd. That's too bad, you shouldn't stop though.

>>9331803
Cut ties and never look back. Trust me

>>9331791
>so loud you sound like half a horse

omg I lol'd

I'm sorry about your loud shoes anon

>working on 3 cosplays for Katsucon
>worried about time, money, photoshoots and if I'm gonna look good, etc
>stress eczema flares up
>am now covered in a full body rash
>these flare ups can last anywhere from 1 to 3 weeks
>Katsu is in 3 weeks

I've been bathing in lotion all day but if I'm rashy for this con I am going to lose it

>>9331556
You need to calm down and move on.
Just because you talked to someone online doesn't necessarily mean you know them well or were really that close. You're putting the idea of that person on a pedestal. Someone who you've never met once...

>>9331701
>tfw finding out your friend has nudes all over the internet

>>9331946
You gotta chill or you're gonna make the rash worse, I have the same bs
Try your best to relax and not stress out (easier said than done, I know)
Try to realize the sooner you chill tf out the sooner the rash will go away and you'll have more fun at the con without feeling self conscious

>Get a text from my ex who I haven't spoken to in months
>He apologies for how he treated me
>He was never the type to apologize for anything
>Shaken up and don't know how to respond
>Say I don't know if I can forgive him just yet and ask why he's apologizing all the sudden

I want to believe he's sincere, but I don't know if I can. I can't shake the feeling he wants something from me. I had to to go to the park and clear my head.

/cgl/ related feels. I'm excited for con season and can't wait for Spring. I adore the Chang'e Chinese New Year skin for Mei and I might just have to start working on a cosplay of it.

>not wearing peeking bloomers, a bonnet, or sheep motifs
>"heeeey little bo peep!"

>>9332030
I was once called Little Red Riding Hood when I wore black and white. It just happens sometimes.

>>9332024
Don't fucking do it, he won't change, it'll be the same as when you were dating. Stay far away and tell him to shove off

>>9332024
It's fine to forgive someone, but you should never let yourself forget if they mistreated you. You can be polite but stay at arm's length. Just because he's sorry doesn't mean he's changed.

>>9331527
>>9331666
>Grass pokemon indoor herb garden

WHY DIDN"T I THINK OF THIS BEFORE

>>9331683
check out kuro lolita and shiro lolita

>>9331946
This exact thing happened to me at AX :( I was red and patchy and it shows in all my pictures and it went away as soon as I started taking my anxiety meds again. If you haven't tried it I suggest fluocinonide for your rashes! It clears it up really quick but it's a steroid so it should be used sparingly.

>>9331207
Update. I went for it and he said that he's going to bring friends along and we're going to have a 'cool' time just 'chillin'. Fucking kill me.

Why is it so hard to meet people?

>>9332240
If you go you're a fucking moron and have no right to complain.

>Tfw like lolita
>Tfw right wing

How do I contain myself when everyone is saying buzzwords and being retarded all the time?

>>9332240

Probably because you're really shallow

>>9332299
I feel you

> in the heart of SoCal
> "woman of color"
> leans conservative

All the while I still have people screaming on my social media feeds every day about how conservatives are the devil and POC women are goddesses.

>cosplay Elsa
>friend wants me to make Elsa/Spiderman videos with him

There seems to be good money in it, but wtf.

>>9332299
idk, how have you dealt with it from the right wing? just remember that every group has its idiots and chill

>>9332306
I will never understand this shit.

Also you may or may not have your cosplay ruined.

>>9332024

If you care about this person still maybe you could keep them at arms length and see how they're doing now. People DO change and not all people are bad like most of the tards in this place seem to think.

>>9332311

?????????

I deal with it by being annoyed by all the shit I see and never speaking out.

>>9332301

>socal

h-hey what are you doing tomorrow

>>9332306
These videos are essentially clickbait for 5-year-olds. It's genius.

I may get my friends together for one.

>Tfw enjoy lolita
>Tfw enjoy wearing it
>Tfw enjoy buying things for my SO more than buying things for myself

How do I start wanting to buy things for me again

>>9332380
>dump your SO
>have your SO buy stuff for you

>>9332382

How do I get my SO to buy things for me if I dump them? Plus I doubt I'll find another SO so I can't do that.

Just posting it here because I thought it was hilarious and none of the other threads seemed more appropriate.

http://www.seagullsarenotevil.info/stickers/

>>9332385
I meant to put an "or", but since you want to keep them clearly having them buy you shit is the only option.

>>9332394

I'd feel bad plus my main issue is I can never find shit I want while it's easy to find what my SO enjoys

>>9331338
If it makes you feel any better: I'm going alone this year, too, as my friends couldn't make it. Nobody knows me, either, and I'm afraid of spending the two days standing around awkwardly with no one to talk to. If you want you can leave a throwaway mail so we can exchange IG or other social media? If one of us sees the other alone, we could at least come over and say hi? I don't want to overstep any boundaries here, so just let me know if you're interested or not!

>at a tea party
>smell something bad
>start crying because I think it's dog poop

I hate this hobby.

>>9332299
>tfw lolita
>tfw gencrit radfem
>tfw conservatives, sjws, and liberals hate you and your comm is all sjws
I keep my hobbies and politics separate. If any political discussion comes up during a meet, I bite my tongue

>>9332516
You cried.... because you thought you smelled dog shit.

>>9332299
Around what percentage of /cgl/ or cosplayers in general are right wing? I just imagine everyone is a liberal hippie degenerate for some reason.

>>9332299
The fuck do you care for? Everyone could stand to calm the fuck down about their politics.
>hate Trump
>have good lolita friend who voted Trump
>she mentions nothing
>I mention nothing to her
>we talk about other things because surprisingly there's other things to discuss besides orange voldemort

>>9332388
exploitable

>>9332299
>everyone is saying buzzwords and being retarded
start by not thinking of it that way. you set yourself up to fail if you begin from a place of contempt. most people in the fashion are liberal, but if they are not your friends, there is no reason to discuss politics with them.

do you go to meetups or are you mostly involved online? if political talk overtakes a meet, say that you'd like to be able to have a good time and not worry about politics right now. just bring up Yuri on Ice and watch the subject change

>>9331338
Yes I am! Please feel free to shoot me a mail. I'm still a bit unsure of going, but at least we could have a chat.

>>9333053
Whoops >>9332437 -> >>9333053

>>9333001
Agreed anon, everyone needs to take a chill pill and understand different people have different views. It's fucking obnoxious how up their own asses people are about the election

>>9332299
Ugh I know that feel. I just want to have lolita friends who don't think I'm literally hitler for having guns and voting Trump. W-Wanna be friends anon?

>>9333058
what if there's a muslim lolita present and the once the trump lolitas find out they are going to ostracize her. will they grab her by the pussy and throw her out of the meet?

Ecstatic. I just convinced my bf to wear the kitty keyhole lingerie.

He assures me that it fits him fine. I'm so excite.

>>9332997
It's a very small fucking percentage, but honestly it comes with the age group. I don't know anyone who is even remotely right wing apart from me and my boyfriend but that might be because people don't mention out of fear of being socially persecuted.

>>9333193
>implying the muslim lolita wouldn't allah akbar the meet with the bombs in her petticoat first.

>>9333212
Have you ever been so whipped that you'd wear weeaboo lingerie to a convention?

>sad I can't go to Katsu this year bc of grad school/monetary responsibility
>also slightly glad I don't have to worry about having to dodge an ex and nasty ex friends from undergrad

It's exhausting having a good time soiled by seeing someone you truly can't stand. Having all of the same cons (and some remaining mutual friends) really sucks.

>>9333237
He's not wearing it for a con.

>>9332299
Try to steer things back to fashion or other hobbies when they get political. Have you looked at places like redpillwomen on reddit? They lean right and lean frill without going full stepford submissive or bible thumpy.

>>9333212
FUCKING FUJOS why is this fashion full of mentally ill bitches who want to see men cross dress???

>>9333266
Just remember dd/lg is disgusting but this is healthy and encouraged

>joint and back pain
>Tired
>Today had a funny feeling in my boob

Looks like it's time for another round of Freak Out About Maybe Being Pregnant Even Though You're On Birth Control And Haven't Missed a Period!!!

>>9333297
There's nothing wrong with sexy boys in panties.

>>9332058
>>9332066
>>9332313
Thank you for all the input guys. Here's an update. I talked to him briefly today. He said he's trying to become a better person and came to reflect on how shitty he was to me toward the end of our relationship and afterward. He seems sincere enough for now, so I'll take the olive branch. But as was said, I won't forget the past, if he shows any signs of being toxic or trying to hook up with me again, he's gone from my life.

Also, I played a card game with him and some other people in the student lounge. I kicked his ass at it. It was extremely cathartic, I think I got to vent some of that pent up anger toward him.

>>9332516
You need to be 18+ to use this website

>>9333338
Panties have no space for ding-dong, fool.

I got shimapans from Aliexpress and now my vagina itches. Do I have Chinese crabs??!

>>9333470
Did you wash them before you put them on?

>>9330787
This isn't a feel but because this thread tends to have constant response so i'll ask here.
Does anyone have that rage comic reaction pic of a girl getting butthurt followed by her crying behind a keyboard and saying she was trolling the whole time. I can't find it right now and would really like it.
>inb4 autism

>>9333470
>Buying anything from Ali that touches your genitals

>>9333459
And yet transsexuals and cross dressers find a way.

>>9332306
I asked my friend to make some with me, but he declined.

Now I'll never be famous.

>>9333480
this one?

>>9333212

Gas yourself

>Tfw dislike coords that look like they take hours to put on

Am I the only one that just likes to throw shit together and have fun?

>>9333567
But why?

>>9333570

Fujos can burn

>>9333470
>rubbing unwashed sweatshop fabric on your open hatchet wound

I was at the bar and some Harley Quinn started telling me about how she wasn't wearing underwear. Do you think she may have been hitting on me?

>Day of big comm meetup
>Arrive at the park where we'll be meeting up
>Everyone is already there
>Lots of lolitas that I don't recognise
>Odd, this is usually a really small comm
>Try to enter park but the comm leaders stop me
>"You always interfere with us running the comm Anon"
>"You're the only one running events"
>"You're always posting on the comm page"
>"You always answer newbies first"
>B..but I thought I was helping!
>You guys hardly seem to arrange meetups
>And you seem sick of answering the same "Where can I buy lolita"/"Where can I find plus sized items" questions
>So I just direct them to the guidebook
>"No Anon you're a busybody!"
>"You annoy and alienate the other girls"
>New girls start coming up and telling me how I scare them and seem unfriendly
>But I just wanted to help you get into lolita!
>I wanted the girls in the comm to have fun together!
>"We don't care Anon, you're annoying"
>"You're banned."
>Then I woke up
Worst lolita related nightmare I've had, and now I feel scared of posting in the comm page because what if they do think of me like that but are just too nice to say anything?

>>9333601
That was horrible I thought it was real until that last line. I felt really bad for you haha

>>9333583
nah probably was trying to score free underwear off you

>>9333053
Sent you a mail!

>>9333569
I don't necessarily dislike that type of coords but I'm definitely there with you about looks that are simple and easy to wear. It's like some people forget that fashion is meant to be fun.

>>9333601
Why blame people for doing things that you imagined them doing in your own dream? I thought that was just a female stereotype from cheap jokes in standup comedy.

>>9333698
Anon isn't blaming or accusing anyone of anything, she's just afraid that this may be an opinion that her comm members have of her but won't say to her face. It's not necessarily a logical thought but I can understand her concern.

>>9333601
What an awful dream! Don't worry about it too much, I can't imagine a real life scenario in which offering help to newbies is considered annoying unless you're steering people in the wrong direction, but in that case I'd assume other members would step in to correct you. Dealing with newbies who always ask the same questions instead of doing their research can be exasperating, I'm sure the experienced members of your comm are really grateful for your patience and help.

>>9333459
they can if you want them to

>>9333583
no, she was upset she had to ditch her Chinese louse-infested pair and was hoping you would offer her some itch cream

>>9333560
yes thank you so much anon

Ended really special relationship today, I want to cry (that's what sane persons does?) but I feel too hollow for it. Now I'm thinking ways to get myself so busy (lolita, lolita..friends?) that I'll dampen all these feelings and get time to do its magic. I know it isn't world's end, but that amazing, funny and idiot piece of shit did like my lolita stuff. Or was only mental. Go and know, but well. Time to polish my lolita wardrobe and enjoy!

>>9330856
>People who like dressing up as children like dressing up as children.

Shocking.

>>9333848
I'm sorry, anon. You'll find someone else one day. Until then do enjoy yourself!

>you have to accept loneliness in order to be happy

>>9333863
>
I'm hoping so but until then, I definitely will enjoy myself!

>dress comes out for preorder on taobao for limited time
>close to lunar new year
>use SS to buy dress
>the day after I paid the SS they went on holiday
>have no idea if I actually managed to preorder the dress
>dress is taken down from the shop
>fucking lunar new year

Probably missed out on my dress, AGAIN, fucking kill me.

I'm sorry if this isn't that cgl-related but I'm in shock. I've just been laid down from work, it was so sudden, I had been planning on going back to wearing lolita since this was a well paying job, everything was going so well, I had good coworkers, I did a good job, but it still wasn't enough I guess.
I have a big ass skin-care purchase in customs so I'm glad I already paid for them I suppose.

>>9333893
Sorry to hear that anon, hopefully you'll at least get your money back for future retail therapy to make up for this.

>>9333894
Tbh this should go into feels thread, but you got this. I'm sure your friends and other connections can help you get back on track.

>>9333896
I couldnt get it the first time it went on preorder and was so happy it came back for a second run, but I guess I was doomed to never have it.

Ill just use the money to buy more old school to fill the void in my heart.

>had to start a Paypal claim on a commissioner I needed a cosplay from
>terrible at communication AFTER I pay
>Threaten to get Paypal involved the first time, she miraculously messages me and tells me she got the supplies
>wait a few more weeks before asking her about progress
>surprise surprise, no answer
>almost a month later and still nothing
>really pissed off because I should've gone with someone else but too late now
>thankfully a local cosplayer has cosplayed the same character
>told me where they got their bodysuit
>won't be as perfect as I wanted it but hell it'll at least be custom fit and decent quality

I have never had an issue with commissioning something before so this was such a headache. I don't even know if it's worth leaving a bad review over, I just want my money back at this point.

>Get email three days ago from Japonic that my two orders had arrived at their offices
>Tell them to send me the final invoice for shipping
>No response

I just want my jacket and purse!

>>9333951
Sometimes they get caught up with other orders, I'd wait a little longer and then email them to ask.

>>9333956
I'm not mad at them, just impatient.

>>9333968
Didn't think you were mad, just offered a bit of advice on what you should do. I hope you get your stuff soon, anyway!

>>9333983
Thanks, I appreciate the sympathy and advice.

>>9333912
>I don't even know if it's worth leaving a bad review over, I just want my money back at this point.
get your money back AND leave a bad review.

>>9334022
Guess who miraculously emailed me again after I filed a Paypal dispute? I really don't have the time to deal with the run around. It's not hard to send a message. Her excuse is that she never checks her email (despite telling me that email was the best method of communication) and that she has other commissions to work on but 'mine was next in line'.

I flat out told her that I'm not happy with her lack of communication and that the only way she ever responds is if I get someone else involved. I could understand if I bothered her constantly but I don't. Last year I sent maybe three emails to a girl I commissioned because she was great about letting me know exact materials, date, etc.

>haven't drawn anything for half a year
>force myself to draw some stuff in the past few weeks
>sit down today
>draw for hours, until my hand hurts

Feels good, man. Maybe I should do another artist alley someday.

>>9334226
Well done, anon! Keep it up, just don't hurt yourself.

My best friend got me into lolita and I feel like it's the only thing we have in common now.

Except now she's losing interest in the fashion and I feel like I'm losing my best friend. I feel so lonely.

>>9333894
Treat yourself to that good skin care, take a quick rest, and get back to the grind. Shit happens, but you'll get it back together again soon anon. Good luck!

>mfw considering checking out my college's Anime/Cosplay club
The main reason is to hopefully meet someone who also wants to table at a con, but also because I have no friends and no personality.

I tried to break up with my long-term boyfriend in February '16 and finally did it properly just after New Years.
>Looking for a specific photo on Facebook last night.
>Going through all these old photos of cool stuff I was doing and making.
>"Oh wow, I remember that! That wasn't so long ago!"
>Everything was from 2015.
>2016 is basically an empty waste of a year.

I'm pretty pumped to make 2017 awesome to make up for lost time.

On that note, last night I impulse-bought a $160 vibrator because it was kawaii as fuck and looks like a ball of matcha mochi.

>>9334238
Thank you.

I've been addicted to ADD meds for years, and get really sluggish when I'm off them. Gonna try going cold turkey tomorrow, and see if I can still make myself draw. I hope so.

I feel torn. My boyfriend cheated on me, can't decide if I should dump him or not.

I caught him in the act (he was masturbating to loli anime) but he is rich on the other hand.

>>9334588
sugoi ne!

>>9333470
Did you survive the China crabs?

I spent something like $800 on Lolita this month, damn all the sales and my nonexistent self-control. I really should restrain myself properly for the next six months or so (it'll all go to hell again when the summer sales are upon us anyway!), but luckily the only thing I really want in the foreseeable future is Imai Kira's bed print and somehow I doubt I will be able to snag that so I guess it's all good!

>>9333212
Don't gas yourself, take those pictures so you can rub one out later honey

>>9333470
If you do, steam them, they taste great

It sounds stupid but I have this frustrating feeling for weeks that my body really, really wants to get pregnant.

>finish cosplay
>want to show off costume
>need my convention fix like a crackwhore needs crack
>nearest con is 3 weeks away
I mean I could post pictures on social media but it's just not the same. I've just been restless as fuck just wanting the days to go by faster already. FUCK.

>>9334935
You should feel great about finishing a costume early and not pulling all nighters!

>>9334226
Keep at it! I stopped drawing for two years and I picked it back up again in 2014. Definitely the best decision I could've made

>>9334919
It's just hormones Anon, I don't want kids and my body gets that way as well every few months. Just watch some kid tantrums videos and it'll fade away.

>>9334919
Same. I have been on this same fucking birth control for 3 years now and I have super bad feeling I'm pregnant and I constantly want to fuck. I did test but it didn't help because it won't show up yet. I'm super hungry and cold all the time and I cry about everything and I'm not even close periods. I don't want to deal with this yet I just want to enjoy lolita and be irresponsible when I still can. Too bad I probably can't bring myself to abort it.

Well, I can admit it: I love to grope cosplayers, and the more famous they are, the more I like it.
I already got hands on Yaya and Marie Claude, and I don't think I'll be stopping until I get caught.
I freely realize this makes me a complete scumbag, but the thrill is too much to ignore.

>>9334960
>tfw pregnant despite birth control and the costs of doing anything about it either way means I have to cancel three itabag merch orders

>>9334962
That the best you can come up with?

>>9334953
Thanks, that definitely helped some. The screaming and yelling is so horrible.

>>9334960
Oh, that doesn't sound good. If it does show up positive, I wish you luck with whichever decision you make.

>>9334986
>shrugs
Thread said feels, I put mine out. But since you seem to want more.
>Yaya was dressed as Litchi Faye-Ling
>one of the "popular" guys in my country with big cameras asked her for some pictures in the garden near the con area
>after they were done I approached her and asked her for a picture
>while she was trying to explain me that she didn't do pictures for free I just went in
>each hand grabbing a breast
>some of my fingers slipped into the bra
>I tried to slip my whole hand inside
>she pushed me back and felt into the floor
>camera dude came to aid her
>I just ran like hell from there

>>9335000
>then I woke up

>>9335003
>for some reason, doesn't believe perverts at cons exist
Uh, okay.

>>9334960
>>9334964
i feel bad for women who like to have sex with men. the risk of pregnancy seems terrifying. even moreso since i learned it is possible for childbirth to tear your clit.

stay strong, gulls

>>9335007
I don't think that's the best thing to tell someone who's pregnant.

>>9334962
Doing God's work, anon

>>9335005
>thinking that this idiot actually groped yaya and wasn't promptly arrested/beat to shit by her white knights
lol k

>>9335007
It's more likely to have the flesh between your vag and ass ripped open.

>>9335007
I'm the first anon and I can tell you that's not my mind atm. Rather if I would make a terrible mom and fail to offer a good childhood.

Thank you everybody for support. This is going to be painful 3 weeks of waiting.

>Walk into one of my lectures
>this girl is sitting in my seat
>She's complaining that it's discrimination that the seats aren't wide enough for her
>She has to be 5'4 and 300 pounds, atleast
>sit in the seat next to her
>Talk to my friend Dara about the new Series of unfortunate events
>Hear her grumbling
>Look over just as she says "SHE DOESN'T NEED YOU TO MANSPLAIN TO HER GOD"
>Try to ignore her, but she keeps fucking going
>"YOU FUCKING WHITE MAN YOU'RE SO PRIVLIDGED SHE DOESN'T NEED YOU TO EXPLAIN TO HER WHY YOU THINK ITS GOOD YOUR OPINION IS NOTHING"
>notice she's wearing a fucking dog collar
>mfw she called me out in front of the entire room
>mfw I wanted to die because I'm super shy
>Mfw I am not even a guy

>>9335070
>con security is omnipresent and people are always around
Yet this board is full of stories of girls being fondled and creeped on, with no authority figures in sight, and no one being caught.
Your lust to disbelieve a single poster is causing you to ignore all the other posters that have put down their stories since this board came into existence.

>>9335000
>Marie Claude
>she was wearing her ikkitousen cosplay
>I asked her for a picture, then for a selfie
>I grabbed her by the waist for the selfie
>after we took the selfie I just threw my phone into my pocket as fast as I could
>my hand went from her waist to her skirt, then under it and I grabbed her ass
>my other hand grabber her breast and I tried to pinch her nipple
>she immediately gave me a slap in the face
>I just grabbed her tit as hard as I could and he covered her chest with her arms
>again, ran away, security almost gets me
Enji is my next goal, I think.

>>9335087
You're fucking retarded for believing obvious bait

>>9335085
wtf does this have to do with cgl

>>9335103
This girl claims she's a part of ~~alternative fashion~~ and I forgot to mention she wears what she thinks is lolita (which is really just collar, tails, and ruffles)

>had dutty couple cosplay sex last con
>want to rewear same costume for next con
>wig was thrown in suitcase after sex without combing and now requires three years of therapy and a witness protection program

>chillin at the con
>see Jessica Nigerie get in the elevators
>have a fan-girl YAASSSSS moment
>jump in the elevator after her
>had to kick out a fat chick but it was worth it
>sneak up on Jessie
>smell her neck
>mfw
>elevator opens
>she leaves
>I follow
>turns out she's heading to the parking lot
>she starts to walk faster
>I pick up the pace
>she's practically running now
>start running after
>we're both wearing heels
>she disappears behind Burger King

I hate anime cons.

>>9335085
You should have just said to her: "I GET IT PLEASE DON'T EAT ME"

>>9335142
I don't believe this for a moment but I laughed imagining it

>>9335087
It's not con security, it's her personal entourage. I saw her at D*C and she had literally three big dudes walking around with her when she was in costume.

>>9333951
Could they be closed? My proxy's taking a week off for Lunar New Year right now.

>>9335185
Nayrt but I don't think so, I have an ongoing order with them right now and they've responded to my messages within less than 24 hours.

>>9330787

still haven't gotten my 11/11 orders from aliexpress. kind of bummed. everything else i've ever ordered arrived but i guess since it was so hectic maybe they missed me? i have a feeling they just never sent it out kek

>>9335085
"DID YOU JUST ASSUME MY GENDER?!"
Will shut her right up.

>>9335085
>Walk into one of my lectures
>this girl is sitting in my seat

>this triggers the autist

>>9335142
>had to kick out a fat chick but it was worth it
Really, that's its own reward.

>>9335106
So... not a lolita?

Currently cleaning out my closet and seeing there is anything I actually want to keep and wear. Frustratingly, in order to sell anything it has to be priced well-below what I payed for it.
I honestly think that my lolita, otome and itabag shopping sprees are just coping methods for my depression and anxiety. I've listed what I spent and I'm pretty disappointed just how far I let my finances drop and given my age (25+) it's not good as I'm yet to do any kind of university degree and proper full time work for extended periods of time.

I really do feel like a child but I'm working on improving myself

>>9335085

Obviously a 4chan poster from /a/ pretending to be a girl for pity from /cgl/ here.

If you didn't add ">Mfw I am not even a guy" we would have just laughed at you.

>>9335550

I am also going through this.

I am also frustrated that the lolita market is oversaturated and many pieces I paid good prices for are now maybe 60-70% of the value they once were.

I also use lolita as a coping method with my stressful job, particularly when I have to work 80 hours a week. I also overspend on lolita.

I also feel like I adult badly.

Anon, are you me?

>>9335590
There's a good chance of it.
I'm at the point where I can't decide if I want to take the financial hit or not just so the items are out of the house.

I've spent all of January doing major clean'n'toss sessions all around my house, friend circle and even figuring out which coursework I can do to help me get into the course I want to.

I just don't want to have any areas of stagnation after my depression has left me standing still for over a decade. I feel like I'm running out of time.

>>9335142
Didn't her bodyguards stop you?

>>9334588

Is it really cheating if you catch a guy masturbating to hentai?

>>9335071
>tfw u shit and give birth at the same time even if you don't tear

>>9335083
just don't enjoy causing it suffering and you will be ahead of the average parent.

>>9335223
open dispute

>>9335007

holy shit, and I thought >>9335085 was bad enoguh

I really hope these threads are just bait central and I'm just not in on the joke

>there are two girls in my circle who are going to cosplay Eugenia Cooney

>join college cosplay club
>think I'm making friends/hitting it off with people
>still not getting invited to hang out with people outside of meetings
>am currently in a group chat in which the topic is a party everyone was at that I was not invited to
>I've only been to one party and it was because a friend asked the person running it if I could come
>I make people laugh, I try to be social
>what am I doing wrong?

>>9335650
Even if you don't tear you shit any way from the contractions and hyped hormonal systems

>tfw the pouch the sheet mask comes in spills Korean goo all over your bed

>>9334588
>fapping to 2D is cheating

>>9335703
What about fapping to 3D then, /a/utist?

>>9335590
>>9335550

Sounds like you need BFs with their heads on straight

>>9334745
It'll be mto most likely.

>>9335671
Do you invite people out first? Someone needs to breech the First Contact and it might just have to be you. Do you also talk about stuff outside of cosplaying/cons?

This happened to me too and it was really just a matter of getting in some non-club quality time that I had to start first. I usually was able to start something like "let's study together" or grab coffee or (popular food on campus or near campus) or if a movie was coming out, trying to get a group to go see it together.

Honestly, you're probably just not coming up on their radar. They aren't specifically excluding you. You just need to make yourself more noticeable.

If after all that, still no progress? They probably don't like you anon-chan. Drop 'em and find new folks lol.

>been talking with cute cosplayer in my area since Oct
>we had a mutual friend and we hit it off pretty good
>keeping it casual so no deep talks
>since this mutual friend and friend group are all gay, assume she's gay too
>she's super cute and I've been hoping to get closer to her
>talking about Katsu plans she says she's rooming with her partners
>WHAT?
>turns out not only is she gay, she's in a closed poly relationship
>eating tub of ice cream and watching old Japanese variety shows on youtube due to getting SO CLOSE yet SO FAR

>>9335735
I had not considered that. You're probably right. Welp, will my wallet ever recover? (No regrets though)

>>9335671
You're probably fat and/or ugly.

>>9335716
If it's a celeb or someone you'd likely never meet, then no, it still wouldn't.

>con announces Lolita tea party with strict dress code
>Friends who have been interested in Lolita say they'd go if they had clothes to wear
>Whine about cost of coords
>Show them bodyline
>Ask them to run pieces by me before purchase to ensure "quality" aka are they ITA
>Everything is better than expected.jpg
>But then
>"I forgot to buy a blouse. Maybe I'll just go bare shoulder."
>"I already have a great Lolita cosplay for XYZ character planned for this dress!"

I fucked up. I was too thirsty for a Lolita friend circle.

>>9335884
So if it's a random amateur porn girl, it would be probably cheating if you're both members of the /cgl/ community.

>>9335885
My condolences, anon.

My autism ruined a relationship with a nice girl before it could really get started, but it was nice to feel some intimacy and be wanted for something other than sex for once

I don't know how to love myself and it's ruining my life.

>>9335885
Bodyline isn't what it used to be. It's quite pricey for the quality. You're better off showing them Lacemarket where they can still find cheap secondhand brand and not have to wait over a month for their items to arrive. Teach them how to make WTB posts in sales communities, and see if there's anyone in your country who can ship quickly.

This is a spicy one. Keep a lid on it if you know who this is, please.

>Be me; inexperienced guy who never had a gf.
>Made friends with a girl who ended up scouting me.
>Confessed her feelings to me and asked to go to Fanime with me
>We hit it off. I'm happy, feel on top of the world, etc. My first girlfriend. We cosplayed and went on a trip together and I'll never forget.
>From there on, things go south.
>She brings up baggage from previous relationships, refuses to be an adult, spends money on arcade trips, and can't commit to a single thing.
>Pretends to be a lesbian so guys won't hit on her.
>Known by my entire circle of friends and has an incredibly bad rep that I didn't realize until I started venting my emotions to them.
>Till this day, wrecks havoc with my emotions and matters more to me than I do to her.
Where did it all go wrong? I just wanted to give her a hand with her life. But she always preferred something else and never knew what she truly wanted.

I wish I could do it all over, and perhaps find someone new.

>>9335987
They haven't bought anything before, so I was starting them off on ultra easy modo. Their taste in pieces was pretty good which is why I had hope, but then they hit roadblocks. I also didn't want to keep listening to them whining about how expensive things are.

>Felt home sick since it was lunar new year and I'm away from my family at uni.
> I went today to the Chinese New Year celebrations down in my local Chinatown.
>Hear high pitch squealing from behind me
>assume it's a child but look around anyway
>dear God....
>Weeb making high pitch 'nyan' noises
>in hideous satin 'Wa-Loli' outfit, awful ratty blonde wig with clip in pigtails
>wig cap visible
>powder blue ugg boots
>fluffy pink backpack
>Asian women shepherding their children away from her

I guessed that the place would be full of weebs but this girl really took the busuit.

>>9331645
ngl was gutted

but its ok because Steven Universe con is a thing now.

>>9336121
I hope you broke up with her, anon. Sounds like a totally toxic relationship, get out asap if you're still with her.

>>9336121
Oops, that's what happens when you dive headfirst into a relationship with someone who you don't really know.
Don't feel bad, girls get yelled at for getting themselves into these types of relationships all the time. Stop trying to "fix" the other person and move on. You're not their parent, and at some point if you don't help yourself people won't pity you.

>>9334588
>dude

>>9334294
> I impulse-bought a $160 vibrator because it was kawaii as fuck
How do you impulse by something like that.

>>9336346
Does it work well at least?

>>9335142
Wtf creepy bitch

>Tfw want GF
>Tfw only interested in Lolitas
>Tfw they're all the worst people to date

Damn why can't I just like normies

>>9336365
Yup.

>>9336397
>implying lolitas are all the same
No offense anon but you sound creepy. Looking to date someone just because of their fashion choices is not the right way to go on about it. Probably why you're single.

>>9336414

I don't like them just because of their fashion choices, I so happen to enjoy the fashion as well. It just seems I mesh decently well with them and 9/10 we have a lot of the same interests.

And fine I'll give 10% of lolitas are OK.

>>9333193
>will they grab her by the pussy and throw her out of the meet

>>9336428
Who are you and what are you like for 90% of people to think you're unworthy scum?

>>9336397
>only interested in lolitas

You don't actually like lolitas, you just have a creepy fetish. Congrats.

I hate being asexual sometimes. I don't even know if I really am - I've never had sexual attraction to anyone, and while I've looked at porn and stuff it's never done too much for me. I’ve noticed I do far prefer looking at yaoi and the like, so I like guys I guess? But I’ve never imagined myself in any scenario/had a dream with a relationship/anything. No desire. I keep hoping someday I'll just magically find the one person who I want to go to bed with, but I'm losing hope.

Only dated two guys, one I didn't care about at all and didn't mind when he broke up with me and another that was a longtime friend but it got akward fast when I didn't develop any feelings - I just liked the idea of falling in love, it didn't happen. I'm not a fan of just dating some random guy hounding me for my number either. I’ve seen charming anime/gamers out there, but I seem to only get the creeps.

I dearly love my female friends, and there's one I'd be happy to spend my life with as platonic loves, but I know someday she'll find a guy and settle down. It's so much easier to connect to fellow girls, to feel easy around them, know they will enjoy activities with me that most guys balk at like shopping, not be some guy expecting sex, but the chances of me finding a such a girl and the very high chance that I may never develop sexual attraction and disappoint them kills me.

Relationships = expectations, but I want companionship. fml. Is anyone else on cgl ace? How do you live with it?

>>9336483
I used to identify as ace but I've been struggling with it lately. I definitely have sexual urges but never towards anybody specifically? It's more like 'this is a thing I have to deal with' than something I get excited/care about.

I've dated before but, lately, I lose interest within a month or so. Last guy I briefly dated still really likes me but I've lost interest in him romantically. This has happened the past two relationships I've had.

I want to have a genuine connection with someone and maybe get married but I find it hard to really connect with someone on a romantic level. I have my friends that I care for deeply and that seems to be enough for me right now but I know I'll want a partner in the future. I had a crush on my best friend before so I know what you mean about having platonic loves. I would totally be cool with living with a group of my friends or even just one friend that I could hang out with.

Right now, I stay focused on my schooling and things that make me happy like cosplay/art. I figure that I'll find someone eventually or not and I'll deal with it when it comes. Don't know how helpful this was but know you're not the only one.

>>9330856
...post link

>>9336481
What's wrong with that? Lots of girls are only Lolita cus they like ageplay

>>9336524

>>9334588
For his birthday, my bf begged me to jerk him off while he watched loli... We had fun. It's not wrong.

>buy jewel marine full set off lm on the 18th
>seller ships the set from texas, supposed to be going to BC canada
>tracking updates: package is in NYC
Ok.jpg
>thinking that maybe it's just a lil mix up or a cheaper route somehow
>tracking updates again: package has departed the U.K.
Wtf.jpg

I haven't gotten any further updates since this morning, but to say the least I'm freaking out and I can't wait until tomorrow so I can yell at the USPS staff. I mean at least it's departed the U.K.?? But I really don't know how it could get that far away from Canada unless they put it on the wrong flight, for now I seriously need some reassurance that I'm not fucked.

>>9336610
>It's not wrong.
Are you trying to convince us or yourself?

>>9334588
>>9336610
Idk what's bait anymore, but do girls really care about loli doujins? It's just fantasy.

>>9336610
Are guys under 18 usually this degenerate?

>>9336624
Just the ones who were abused.

>>9336610

>>9336504
>>9336483

Wish I was asexual. Would make the crushing loneliness of always being single a little more bearable.

SSRIs are supposed to kill sex drive right? Maybe I should try that.

Been playing a VN/choose your own adventure thing on my phone. Finished all the chapters, wish it wouldn't have ended. I was enjoying living in that fantasy land.

>>9331504
Had a panel like that at Ohayocon earlier this year. It was pretty much a panel about how people with autism get bullied and how cons are where they feel safe and accepted.

>>9336611
Seller possibly gave you the wrong tracking number.

>>9336610
kek, I knew that the landwhales would feel threatened by loli

>>9336620
I have to say the collecting and/or reading of loli doujins would be a deal breaker for me.

>>9336387
You're an idiot.

>>9336693
Fair enough. I always assumed other weeb people would pass off that stuff as just more weeb shit.

>>9336273
I did.

Three times.

>>9336620
I was molested as a child. Men with fantasies about molesting children or women who look exactly like children, drawn or otherwise, will always disgust me.

My best friend is obsessed with cosfame, but also the biggest cosplay bully I know. She talks crazy shit about literally everyone, including all her friends. I know it's a defensive mechanism because she has one of the worst self esteems I've ever seen, but Jesus Christ. She's so incredibly mean-spirited and I don't know what to do about it because she's a great friend, but trying to call her out on it only worsens her self esteem. Feels bad, man.

>>9336775
That's a pretty legitimate reason, I never considered the actual reality of it.

>>9335669
how do you cosplay anorexia

>>9336736
Same.

>>9336775
same. i am male and me and my older sister were both molested, and she continued abusing me for years when we were out of that situation. anyone who sexualizes teen or child characters triggers the fuck out of me. because of my /cgl/ hobbies, i get exposed to all these "woke" "liberal" women who publicly indulge in their lust for shota type characters while also reblogging and sharing memes and twitter screenshots decrying the predatory nature of men. i don't know if i'm oversensitive, or if they truly are massively projecting hypocrites. based on my experiences and those of other survivers of female abuse, women get away with a lot of sexual predation because they're weirdly repressed and almost unconscious of what they're doing. the fujo i had a serious LTR with sexually assaulted me once, and when i physically fought her off me, she threw herself into a corner and cried that i didn't love her... after she tried to wrestle me into submission so she could do what she wanted.

so no, it's not "just weeb shit" to me either. buying a body pillow of a prepubscent child in a vulnerable pose with a look of distress on his or her face is not something any normal person would brag about. keep your fetishes to yourself. posting about it on social media to have your friends validate your predatory urges just makes me think you would enjoy viewing or engaging in the actual exploitation of a child if you think you could get away with it.

>>9336832
>Implying a male's opinion matters here

>>9336832
>keep your fetishes to yourself. posting about it on social media
Oh yeah if that's what we're talking about fuck that. Talking about it on 4chan and in related places is where I draw the line.

>>9336834
kek

>>9336620
I wouldn't care unless it was based on something real like cement girl or really fucked up.

>>9336834
supplied for context of being disgusted by shota-loving fujos. has no bearing on this discussion outside of that.

>>9336837
yeah, i am looking forward to when the Yuri on Ice fad dies. literally some of the same people who complain about male fans of Love Live are publicly sharing art of even less sexually-developed characters in sexual scenarios. the cognitive dissonance is insane.

>>9336849
Osumatsu-san was worse; a fun and clever reboot of a classic Japanese showa era anime that get's ruined by a bunch of rabid fujos.

>>9336855
in some cases, literally rabid

>>9336769
AHAHAHAHAHA

>>9336800
tell her to go to a therapist for that nasty shit

>>9336643
>Wish I was asexual.

top fucking kek

do you actually thing this is a think?

>>9336483
is just a special snowflake who didn't have Chad interested in her
the only guys she dated were virtue signaling numales, probably ugly skeletons on top of that, but she can't admit that to herself because she has to be nice to her orbiters on the outside

I can literally bet my life on the fact that every single one of these asexual snowflakes and whales would instantly offer up her manko if given a guy who looks and acts like the way she wants

in example some guy guy with a six-pack like brad pitt from fight club, face like justin bieber (not exactly, but the similar "pretty boy" /high prenatal testosterone face) and who has a personality like your typical Sasuke clone in anime [the last part is specific for the typical /cgl/ female poster] - give that to the asexual and watch the meme obliterate itself

instantly you have her sucking his dick

by the way, before you call me some kind of "mysogenist" this isn't a female asexual specific thing, it's just that women asexuals have much higher standards

how to break male asexual? = have any girl at all interested in him unless she's a total monstrosity

>>9336121
see, this guy was probably asexual at some point before morbidly obese landwhale took interest in him

>>9336121
>>Pretends to be a lesbian so guys won't hit on her.
damn, what a coincidence. didn't even notice until now

this is also a tactic famously used by women

if they have far too many low test orbiters? just pretend you're lesbian

basically 95% of women who can attract a man that "identify" as lesbians? same case as I described here>>9336866, give them the same kinda guy and manko status = unlocked [x]

>>9336461
nice one, i can feel the heat from all the way over here

>>9336524

>>9336859
>John x Gam furries

>>9336868
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHdPF-LXiYU

>>9336876
do you actually know a lolita that isn't into ABDL?

>>9336866
There's no way this isn't bait but

The guys I've dated are great and there's nothing wrong with them physically or emotionally (and no none of them are Greek gods or whatever the hell you were ranting about but who cares?). I just literally have no sexual attraction to them or anyone, regardless of how hot they are.

I know it may be a difficult concept to grasp but you're probably just a terrible person and that's why girls don't like you. It has nothing to do with high standards, just people knowing a douchebag when they see one.

>>9336483
I'm asexual too, but I still get romantic feelings for people. It sucks because I know no one will ever want to date me unless they're also ace, but on the bright side no one will have to see my ugly body.

>>9336832
I have found the more someone uses things like "woke" and "diversity" on social media, the more likely they are to have giant double standards while ranting about equality.

>>9336998
Amen

>>9336832
No, they're completely hypocritical. I'm sorry you had to go through that anon. Predatory behavior is predatory behavior, regardless of gender. Weeb culture has this tendency to dip into pedophilia, and while people speak out about the prevalence of loli more people need to recognize that fujo is fucked up too and they need to keep that shit contained.

>>9336866
>>/r9k/
Pls stay salty.

Feels
>Buy dream item a year ago (petticoat, weird but true)
>look on Wunderwelt recently
>has item in both colorways for about half of what I paid
>could have had my pick
>no reason to buy it now
>oops

Also
>going in for surgery tomorrow
>managed to complete bf's cosplay before since I'll be recovering for most of the next month
>could couples cosplay at PAX
>Bf leaves for trade school weekend of PAX
There are other cons we're going to be together this con season, it just sucks because he's just missing this con. Still, his career is important and I'm happy for him for getting into this program.

Also sucks because my other friends that cosplay are irredeemably bad (ex:fatty-chans who think bodices/tops always need to be in the shape of a rectangle. No exceptions)

>>9336887
i just googled that and fucking yikes. So i guess just me? :^)

Just fit into my first burando and I didn't look like a landwhale! I know it doesn't sound like that much of a big deal but I've been trying to get my waist under 30" since I started uni, all this dieting is finally paying off. I'm so happy.

>>9337030
grats! stay healthy anon. your body is an amazing machine that will last longer the nicer you treat it.

>>9337021
>>>/r9k/
>Pls stay salty.

Lmfao

a Beta orbiter who cannot get laid so he pretends he's asexual

calling someone else /r9k/

EBIN

at least get triggered properly and redirect me to >>>/pol/ and say fuck DRUMPF and fuck white people

praise kek

heil pepe

heil Trump

>>9336984
>and no none of them are Greek gods or whatever the hell you were ranting about but who cares?

so none of them were like the guy I said you would get wet for

and you didn't get wet for them

and somehow, my argument is wrong when you just proved me right

my sides

>>9335893
I definitely don't consider fapping to something cheating but if my boyfriend fapped to 3D porn I would definitely feel bad, considering I am also a flesh and blood girl and I would gladly bang him/get on camera/take pictures for him if he asked. It's just about what you agree on in a relationship, there's no real standard to what is okay or not apart from what you've agreed on with your partner.

>>9337077
Dubs don't lie.

>>9337077
>would gladly bang him/get on camera/take pictures for him if he asked.

That's how I can tell you don't have no boyfriend

>>9336832
>you would enjoy viewing or engaging in the actual exploitation of a child if you think you could get away with it.
They would, because they think it is something different from what it actually is.
Welcome to sexual double standards, there are so fucking many, I don't think you could count them before the thread archived.

>>9336864
I have, she just gives vague replies like "ohhhhh, maybeeee if I have time, I know I should" for over a year

>>9337055

Every male who disagrees with a /cgl/ queen is a /r9k/

>>9337153
They're called robots faggot

>>9337093
I mean we're long distance but that doesn't mean he doesn't exist.

Lately I have been feeling very left out of my cosplay friends circle.

Every one of them keep flaking on our multiple cosplay plans, either just completely ghosting me or making excuses like being out of money. And yet they have enough money and time to make costumes and attend photoshoots with other people.
I was going to do a couple costume with a friend and yesterday she told me she found someone else to cosplay these same characters with.
I don't get it. It keeps happening with different friends, most don't even know each other so it's not like they are conspiring against me.
Is it me? Dunno, I'm not ugly nor obnoxious and I have pretty decent make-up and crafting skills.
Or is it a common thing people do?

>>9337157
>homophobic language

Typical misogynist

>>9337269
Is this nigger for real?

>Tfw wake up
>Tfw gays still exist

WTF Trump???

>>9331556
>>9331553
this is why long distance relationships are ALWAYS a bad idea

>>9336121
I've seen this happen a lot as my friends entered first relationships. You went in with expectations of what you thought would be a qt gf and she probably went in thinking about how you'd be the perf bf. Seems like theres a lot of emotional maturing to happen to both parties. Unless you're going to be open about communicating your problems with her, point out whats bothering you and solutions, and both of you working on fixing faults idk if it's going to work out. She's probably got a lot of baggage and refuses to be an adult and has bad commitment because she's just stagnated on maturing. Up to you with you want to hold her hand through the painful process of getting over it.

>>9334964
>Tfw pregnant despite birth control and didn't know it because of irregular periods from the birth control until it was too late to even have an abortion

That's cool, I guess. It's not like I wanted my body destroyed. Glad I'm not the only one this happened to

>>9333459
Now I'm no fujo, but I think that's kinda the point. It doesn't work. A big masculine man in delicate feminine clothing and the resulting contrast, awkwardness and embarrassment is what they want

>>9336414
>>9336481
>/cgl/ cunts so collectively butthurt about being called out as shitty people they all respond in the same way

>>9332240
Cause you're picky and too full of yourself.

Kinda just broke up with my gf/she broke up with me (not too sure). Sucks because we always cosplayed together and I dont know any other person who cosplays. Also sucks because its because of such a stupid petty reason, if she would just let me talk to her for 5minutes we could figure things out but wont let me because shes so engulfed in her rage.
Ohwell guess now I can finally make pic related

I just found out that my boyfriend had voted for Drumpf

we've had sex about a dozen of times since November, so can I accuse him of rape?

>>9334294
>160$
>found same brand and style in pic for 60$ with Amazon Prime from international store
>they also sell others of the same brand

Tenga iroha massager for those interested.

>>9338740
They have one that's shaped like a tube of lipstick.

>>9336868
Nah, I was as horny as a horny teenager could be and we're both fairly attractive. It was great while things were good and it lasted, which is why I was really reluctant to let go when things started to go south.
>>9337581
Yeah, I'm a late bloomer in that aspect. I tried to be upfront about things but I was both possessive and demanding while she was fickle and uncommitted about things. Sometimes when I feel like I miss the good things, I just remind myself that she isn't going to change and we're just going to have the same problems if we were to try again.

>>9338422

Not only can you j'accuse him of rape for all the sex you've had since November, but also retroactively all sex you had ever.

Make sure that misogynistic pig gets fucking anally raped in prison.