/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>9278721
>old one is kill

we all know what happened, don't try and sugar coat it

We found a new home for my obese grandmother! That means I can go to the con in a few weeks.

I'm busting out my Miku Append cosplay, and I couldn't be more stoked.

>>9278917
You're going to wear this?

>>9278940
That's what anon said?

>>9278940
>>9278963
l-lewd

>con this week
>planned everything months ago, saved money to buy merchandises and maybe food
>my phone dies
>no replacement, I have to buy a new one
>I didn't even break it or anything, it just stopped working by itself for no reason even though I took care of it
>bought a much better phone but because of that and other unexpected expenses I don't have as much money as I wanted to
>I'll only get money after the con
>mfw

>>9279044
That sucks anon. Same thing happened to me last time I went to a con. Phone broke and I needed a smartphone to navigate around an unfamiliar state, so I had to spend most of my money on a new one.

>I am a boy 25 I met whit my GF a years ago
> Throu my GF i met a few Lolita
> 2 of them become a good friend of mine and last Sunday they come to my GF place and sudnneli a corset com out of nower and they asked me to put it on i said yes because whyl not
> At the end of the night one of them asked me the " Are you interested in it Lolita?" And honestly I am interseted but my County is anithing but acepting and i am doutfull thet Loli cloth is avalable in my size
> My GF is well how put it simple she is like it but never gona admit it even to her self

>mostly gothic/classic lolita
>get some oldschool sweet things in the mail
>try them on and try out a new hairstyle
>I'm cute
>this outfit makes me look really cute
>I always thought I didn't have the right personality for sweet but done up nicely my face actually fits
>this outfit's comfy too
>wear OP for six hours
>still comfy
>goddamn
>I finally have a lolita coord that isn't uncomfortable to wear
>I could wear this in daily life if I wasn't so much of a pussy
>I could wear this to class
>can't face the ridicule
>feelsbad
>almost wish I could start university over again so I could just wear lolita from the start, have it become the thing I was known for, and not have made a group of friends who all disapprove

related
>show friends, who are used to seeing me in classic/gothic
>all of them think sweet is fucking weird, even the ones who think it's cute on me
>say that I was thinking of wearing this coord when I travel back home for the holidays
>(it's comfy enough to sit in for long periods and would save space in my suitcase as I could wear my petticoats instead of packing them)
>bf flat-out tells me that he won't sit with me or travel with me if I wear it because he doesn't want people to think he's a pedophile
>completely understand where he's coming from but still feel sad

>>9279064
wtf are you trying to say, esl-chan?

>>9279115
From what I understood
>guy meets lolitas through gf
>2 of them, now good friends, suddenly asked anon to wear a corset
>"would you like to wear lolita too, anon?" yes, but my country is still backwater and doesn't like guys who dress girly, plus man sizes
>anon thinks gf likes brolitas/lolita (not sure on this part since anon never clarified if gf is a lolita herself) but she won't admit it
I think.

>couldn't find my lower false eyelashes before i left for winter break
>need them for a lolita event i have soon
>can't find any in physical stores, individuals/clusters are too long
>look on amazon for ones eligible for prime
>ardell makes some but they aren't the style i like
>end up buying some from an obvious taobao reseller on amazon for an inflated price because i need them ASAP and they were the only ones that came in a style i liked
Feels bad. I hate supporting shops that just mark up taobao/AE stuff
On the bright side, I got some Dolly Wink eyelashes in that order that I'm excited about and a face mask that was supposed to out of stock until the 12th but I just got an email saying it'll arrive on the 8th

>>9279115
I think it's an anon making fun of all the guys who post shit like "I wanna be lolita but I'm not cute :((((" in feels threads. Either that or a literal retard.

>dress I'm desperate to get rid of finally sells, it has a small defect
>happily open up message
>bought from someone with no feedback asking me how this will all work with payment and delivery as he has never done this before and doesn't know how this site works despite being a member for two years.
>mfw it's a guy form a different continent
>mfw I can smell all the problems like "it's been 3 days where is my stuff" "It has damages, refund me!"

pls be no hassle

>bust my knee at work
>go home early to ice it
>friend calls me up
>he wants to hang out, practice sword-fighting
>"I don't want to, my leg is killing me"
>convinces me to come with promises of whiskey
>"oh, and wear your armor"
>throw out my back putting on my gear
>twist my ankle trudging through the woods
>friend forgets his sword
>get really whiskey-drunk to deal with it all
>go back to his place
>end up passing out on his floor
>I didn't even get diddled

mods should ban all male posters

>>9277008
Well, I've probably pooped it out by now, so that's good.

Cute guy never liked my selfie though! Should I post a pic of some of my anime figs and see if he likes that?

>>9279284
Plz no bully

>>9279284

What did we even do wrong? ;; it's not like we're mean or annoying...

My friend recently did a sexy costume for a game that just released and shes never even touched the series before and got a ton of popularity from it. Like I love my friend and her costumes but I'm super salty because she got way more praise than I ever have for costumes I busted my ass on.

She's also talking about selling prints of herself and I'm kinda sad because I feel like shes trying to sell herself out. I think I'm just a really shitty friend though.

>>9279313
People like sex appeal. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

>>9279166

>didn't even get diddled

Gross

>>9279284
How long is your armpit hair, Anita?

>>9279313
It sounds like you're jealous, and that's perfectly normal. I'm jealous of my really popular art friends. When you want something really bad and it looks like the people around you are getting that something with little to no effort, of course you're going to be jealous. That's life. You're not being a shitty friend unless you let the jealousy get in the way of your friendship. At the end of the day, there's nothing stopping you from being a sexy cosplayer, just like there's nothing stopping me from drawing fanart of every goddamn FOTM anime, but here we are. On /cgl/. Bitching.

tl;dr- Be jealous. It's normal. Don't let the jealousy hurt the friendship. Also you're gonna have to decide between being popular and being true to your heart. Sorry, them's the rules.

>>9279376
>just like there's nothing stopping me from drawing fanart of every goddamn FOTM anime
show us?

>>9279376
Thanks anon, this was really helpful

>tfw no cosplay/lolita gf

>>9279064
Why your gf she is never admit to like Lolita?

Her family think is bad?
Lolita is girl wear why family thingken is bad if she girl?

>tfw no likes/comments after I posted something cosplay-related on fb
>not even getting any pity likes
>nothing wrong with the post's privacy settings
>a long time passes. Post gets buried in the newsfeed

Thinking about my power-level-showing post just out there makes me feel extra unpopular today.

>>9279401
I'll be your gf if you buy me figures anon

>>9279404
laughing

>>9279406
i feel your pain, anon

>leave CGL tab open on mobile browser
>forget until halfway through ILD meetup
>go to take cute selfie with besties
>flash CGL catalog at them

>get stomach virus during finals week
At least my unshirred brand will fit better after this??

>>9279426
You mean figurines? Which ones do you like?

>>9279440
I think you'd have a case to be embarrassed if it was cow, but cgl is a clear lake these days compared to that cesspool and it really doesn't deserve the negative kneejerk reaction like it used to because everyone here is way too afraid to talk real shit.

>>9279440
not to be an after school special, but if they are really your besties they won't care if you are on cgl. I'm friends with a lot of grade a tumblrites, and they don't care that I go on cgl all the time as long as I'm not personally an asshole.

>>9279401

Gunner pls go

>new JSK arrives
>it is a slightly different shade of pink to all my other pinks
>it's a couple of shades darker/brighter and I think it's cool-toned where the others are warm-toned
>don't want to go through the whole trouble of colour-matching a new pair of shoes, bag and accessories for just one dress
>sat in my closet pissing me off but I don't want to sell it

I just watched a video about Angel's Egg, and it would be real cool to cosplay the main character from that movie. I can't, but I know about someone who loves that movie that has the perfect hair (I think) for it. They should do it, and then I thought how cool it'd be to do a couple cosplay with them in competition, I could be that other guy and then we'd win because that category gets almost no entries and set to that music it could be real feelsy. Oh well, just wild ideas that I wish could happen. Can't even say I know them, really. But cosplaying that movie would give some real hipster points, which would be nice.

>>9279652
That would be cool as hell, as a couple's cosplay. I feel like that would be kind of obscure for the average con goer, though, I don't know if many people would recognize it.

>be me
>be single for 3 years
>finally find someone im interested in

I really like this guy but we only occasionally talk on facebook and I have yet to actually meet him in person (met him through a fandom page); it's also always me that initiates conversation. I should be meeting him in a couple of months at a con but I dont know how to let him know im interested???

I don't even know if he finds any interest in me, but we do have all the same interests and Im like a 7/10 so I def don't look like a weirdo but im just so awkward when it comes to relationships

what do?

>>9279576
ugh anon, I have this same issue, except I bought what seemed like the PERFECT fabric for my costume but its warm toned compared to the accessories, which are more cool toned.

I don't want to not use it because I spent money on it but for now it's just in the corner and I'm filled with anger every time it catches my eye

>>9279671
Don't bother.

>>9279703
Could you use it for another cosplay? Was it expensive relative to your income?

>>9279671
Wait until after the con. People can be a lot different offline, and if you have an upcoming opportunity to meet him casually, take it as a chance to see if there's any chemistry. (And also that he's not an ax-murderer or cursed with terrible body odor or anything else that could be a deal breaker.)

Best case: sparks fly, you have fun at the con together, and you can tell him you enjoyed seeing him in person, and would love to see if he'd like to go out some time. Worst case: there's no chemistry, but you get to run off and have fun with other friends because you didn't awkwardly confess your crush before the con or otherwise put pressure on the issue.

>>9279440
If they ask, just tell them you're here for the online shopping threads or something mundane. Drama mongering isn't the most prevalent topic on this board at all.

>>9279736
I'm sure I could find another costume to use it in, and no, I've had a budget set aside for this costume so it just took away from money I could have used on other things I need... I should stop being such a hasty buyer with my fabrics is all ahaha

>Sister asks me to sew her a dress for her work Christmas party on the 17th.
>Offers to pay me for the fabric and time, okay whatever. The design she wants is simple enough.
>Go out and buy the fabric.
>She starts sending me a million and one photos of totally different dresses with "How about this one?" "I really like this bit.."
>Suddenly "Oh, you were going to charge me for this..?"
>Keeps asking me to send her websites that sell this rockabilly-style stuff to give her ideas.
>Gets shitty when I don't send her any because I don't wear that rubbish.
>It's now at the point where I will get a whole two days next week to sew this stupid dress before she needs it.

I should have heeded your words, /cgl/.

>>9279652
If I ever saw anyone cosplaying angels egg I would cry with happiness do it anon do it

>>9279067
aw, that sucks anon. What do you wear in everyday life? Once you've established yourself as that one "experimental" fashionista you can pretty much dabble in any style without people reacting too oddly.

>>9279760
That's a pretty horrible sister anon. I jokingly ask my sister to sew dresses for me because we both know she hasn't touched the sewing machine in years and probably won't for a while. If I were you, I'd just tell her that it's impossible and you can't make anything special enough for her.

>>9279671
Well anon, if your con crush is anything like mine (very similar situation), he'll use you for sex, break your heart and fuck you up so bad that you're going to therapy for it a year later because you're still having nightmares about him.

Look there are hot guys at cons but they're not worth emotionally investing in unless you properly become friends first and figure out whether they're trustworthy. Don't emotionally invest to the point where it will ruin your con if he treats you like shit. Unfortunately that was my mistake.

>have thing for character
>masturbate to r34 of that character
>halfway through start masturbating to the idea of my ex who cosplays that character instead
>cry myself to sleep

If I see one more, "Hur dur writing a paper on lolita halp?" Or "lolita and depreshun" post I'm going to lose my sht.

>>9279671
>>9280011

>tfw same side of this but with girls

Stop being so heartless please. It's gonna eventually get to me.

>girl in my comm in white
>says she identifies as black
>gives incoherent explanation that involves loving Fresh Prince

Should I try to convince her to wear blackface to the next tea?

>>9280023
men are the ones mostly like this. So, Stop being so heartless please

>>9280056

I'll still have to say girls are meaner.

>>9280014
"Representation in cosplay"

>>9280033
do it, post it here, kek ensues

>some conslut likes me
>we have sex
>she thinks this means we are dating now
>ignore her on fb
>after a while talk to her and have sex again
>continue to ignore her afterwards
Why are cosplay girls so easy?

>mfw i have a bunch of brand and cute clothes but i don't leave my house

i'm glad online comms are such a thing. i wear it around the house for myself but sometimes it's nice to be appreciated by other people

>>9280079
why are you settling for easy?

>only gothic lolita in comm
>raffles, prizes, and gift exchanges always superkawaii sweet stuff
>that awkward feel when trying to gracefully accept something that will never work with your wardrobe or lifestyle

I am Morticia Addams in a Sanrio world.

>>9280096
>settling
>when all girls are easy

>>9280102

This dude knows what is up

Lolita/Con grills are not really for dating because of their nature.

>Bring feminine elements into my coord
>Everyone I talk to thinks it looks good
>Only have talked to girls about it
>Hit up a dude
>Calls me gay
>Feel bad

Why do I care

>>9280108
hi kongou

>>9280113

;;

>>9280056
>men are the ones mostly like this.
Men simply walk away and move on, women will humiliate, bitch and/or (falsely) accuse if they're not feeling it.
I mean, this is if we HAVE to generalise.

Sincerely, a femanon. Both genders are equally awful, thxbai.

>>9280033
If she brings up again how shes black on the inside, just tell her
So this is a story all about how
Your skin got flipped turned upside-down
And I'd like to take a minute just sit right there
I'll tell you how you became the Prince of a town called Black-Face

>>9280108
why would the opinion of a salty, inelegant brodude matter? fashionable men are always mocked by other guys. it's not about you, it's a societal norm.

normalfags gonna normalfag.

>>9280098
same feel, man, but I wear classic. desu I would prefer gothic prizes over sweet... at least I wear black and could mix things up a bit with a gothic coord here or there.

I'm only 23 but today I found two white hairs. I also have really dark hair so if I get more it will be super prominent. Apparently if it's due to B12 deficiency (which I likely am) it will reverse it and my hair will go back to normal. I sure hope so.

I realised this month that I haven't worn lolita all year. I have a very large amount of beautiful brand unworn and packed away but I never wear it. Just trying it on is exhausting.

Why is hibike so good?

>>9280108
Are you a guy?

If not, that's really strange.

>due to a series of unfortunate circumstances, I haven't been to a con since April.
>have had ample free time but no desire to make any new cosplays.
>tickets for my favorite con went on sale yesterday
>snatched up a three day pass
>already starting to come up with cosplay ideas
>can't wait to start getting in shape for cosplay

I forgot what being excited about cosplay was like. I can't wait to get started!

>>9280416
>the next day
>all energy is gone

>>9280171
Anon I'm also 23 and finding grey hairs. My mom went completely grey by the time she was 30. My thought is that since my hair is so dark, once I'm grey I can dye my hair any color I want without bleaching it. You can also dye it back to your natural color fairly easily. Grey hair is natural, try not to worry too much about it. Remember that your worth as a person doesn't depend on your hair color.

>>9280108
It's not that your gay, it's that if you're going to coordinate with it, the rest of your coord will be equally feminine and you'll look like a cross dresser.

If you don't care, that's fine, I'm just saying.

>>9280108
Faggot.

>2016
>laid off at one job, fired at the next
>unemployed for months
>currently a corporate minimum wage drone while continuing the job search
>seriously thinking about picking up and leaving to a bigger city where there are jobs
>had a phone interview while at work; ended up arranging an in-person interview for tomorrow
>mfw nervous, but hyped.

I could very well be passed over to someone "more qualified", but I'm trying not to be pessimistic by imagining being able to pay off student loans in 2 years while saving up to move out of my parent's and being able to buy lolita on a reg again. If all goes well, I could very well either go to Tokyo for vacation or go to Rufflecon for the first time.

I seriously hope I get it because I've applied at that company several times and it would break my heart to get rejected again, especially since the pay is a living wage and I'd get to work with a lolita friend.

>>9280638
Outside of lolita not everything is matchy-matchy. Mainstream fashion and jfashions with looser rules might feature one or two more feminine elements as fashion points without having to be entirely-girly outfits.

>>9279812
Jeans and knitwear, or western goth stuff. I'm more feminine than I used to be, so it doesn't feel like high school where people would give me weird looks and comment on it whenever I wore any make-up because they were so used to seeing me without, but I'm definitely not known as quirky or alt. I'm just not really interested in mainstream fashion so I dress basic and comfy most of the time, and I don't want to wear black and goth stuff 24/7 so I'm only a part-time goth.

>tfw poorfag chink
>have a relative visiting china, says i can order some things from taobao and she'll bring them over for me as a gift
>aka free shit
>fuck yea
>start looking at things
>"oh, this is cheap, i'll add it to the list"
>list of cheap things starts piling up
>order starts getting expensive
>keep seeing things and adding them to the list
>feel guilty cuz she's paying for all of it but I can't stop adding things
>mfw
I want to get off mr. bones wild ride

>>9279760
don't be a fucking pushover, anon. if she doesn't pay you beforehand for materials and time and isn't cool with the initial simple design you agreed to make for her in the first place, don't do it.

>tfw losing weight, so I'm starting to look nicer in my MM pieces
>tfw losing weight, so I'm starting to swim in my AP pieces

Lolita is unfair.

>>9280348

Yeah I am

>>9280638

I don't think brining in a couple sort of feminine elements will push me over to "Cross dressing" tier.

>>9280643

Nou

>>9280816
I feel you, anon. A dream dress of mine arrived in the mail and doesn't fit at all because it's like...94cm bust with no shirring or corset lacing? It's an older piece so I'd figured it'd be small, but nope, and it's got an A-line cut with continuous pieces in the bodice and skirt that looks impossible to take in without destroying the shape. Meanwhile, my 86cm bust is pushing the limits on about six other dresses I own, since they're supposed to be 82-84cm, and there's a bunch of other dresses I own that have very tight back shirring or an underbust cut that means that they look like crap above 82 even though the listed measurements are like 95. I don't know whether I need to gain weight or lose.

happy but frivolous feel
>always used to be sad when I was younger that brown was a great colour for my skintone, since I thought it was an ugly colour
>it's virtually non-existent as a colour for tops in mainstream fashion for under-30s anyway
>get into lolita
>discover chocolate prints and classic exist
>feelsgood.jpg

>>9279671
>it's also always me that initiates conversation.
Don't bother in that case

>>9280826
I'm glad you found something to feel pretty in anon! i always thought my body type was incredibly frumpy and unbalanced but lolita makes me feel so cute

>>9280823
What you need is a good push up/padded bra, and also a good non padded mesh/lace cup bra.

>>9279067
i hope someday you have the confidence to be yourself unapologetically. when youre confident in yourself the people around you will accept you almost automatically

>>9280811
Oh for sure, anon. She's getting what we agreed on or I'll just take it in and keep it for myself.

If she doesn't end up paying for the fabric it'll be her only Christmas gift, hueh.

>>9280098
sweet lolita in an all wallpaper-chan comm like thanks for the brass tea pot i looove it jessica it will really match my toy fantasy thx so much thank you thaankyou

>>9279447
I like figmas/nendos, with the occasional scale figure of my husbando/waifu

If figures are a nogo
I'll cosplay ur waifu if you cosplay my husbando

>>9280974
Trade me and get me out of this sweet pastel vomit hell hole.

>>9281008
if you look like me we could pull a mary kate n ashley

>>9280098
>>9280168
>>9280974

Out of curiosity, what do you think the solution is for thing likes raffle prizes at events? I totally sympathize, but how can organizers guarantee that a random drawing will go to a grateful recipient?

>>9281045
just have a couple general items like a gift card or chocolate and maybe if the lone sweet/goth/classic/ero/ouji member has friends they can trade around till they get something that won't go straight in the bin

>>9280979
R E I G E N

>>9280765
>outside of lolita not everything is mitchy-matchy

But this is a subset of lolita we are talking about.

>>9280979
>I'll cosplay your waifu if you cosplay my husbando

You have no idea how ridiculous we'd look.
Absolutely no idea.

>Be me, not really interested in dating at all
>Slept with a few people, usually at cons because boredom.
>Move to a small, shitty town because I transferred schools.
>Hate every minute of it. Anyone who likes anime shit is a fucking hardcore weeb, the League club smells like BO, no sewing clubs, and the only people who want to spend time with me are for tutoring.
>Well, whatever. I don't care. This is what weeb apps like MM and Love Live! are for.
>Suddenly look up from my MM distraction, realize holy shit there's someone really cute.
>Learn their interests, 10/10.
>Realize I have a real crush. Realize I've never had a crush that wasn't completely superficial.
>He's maybe interested, can't tell. We hang out at the same cafe but don't talk.
>Figure he's going to this event relevant to his interests in a week.
>Have a costume from his top fandom that I did for Halloween.
>C-Can I make him love me through cosplay? Probably not.

I guess it's worth a shot, though. It's not like I have much effort to put into it-- I just need to re-dye some stuff because shit went wrong right before Halloween.

At the very least, he'll be somewhat amused, I guess.

>>9281377
>the only people who want to spend time with me are for tutoring.

lol. I know that feeling.
Good luck with your crush, Anon, I hope things work out!

>>9281377
>>C-Can I make him love me through cosplay? Probably not.

You'd be surprised how well that works.

>tfw a customer says they like supporting SAHM
>don't work from home
>not a mom

I...I just like making cute things for babies.

>need to start packing up my apartment because I'm moving for school
>haven't moved since I got into lolita several years ago
>trying to figure out the best way to transport most of this stuff, considering buying one or two of those wardrobe boxes
>I know a lot of people sell when they move but I can't imagine letting any of it go, I'll take it to my grave
Additionally
>worried my roommate hasn't come to terms with the fact that I'm moving without her
>isn't looking for a new place or new roommates as far as I know
>got upset when she saw I had started to pack a couple of boxes in the living room and our shared bathroom
I'm really worried about her but I have no idea what to say... I've got a really great opportunity and I feel like she's going to resent me for it when I leave.

>Roommate has another break down
>was doing so good mentally
>and it's always dumb shit that sets it off
>had promised to do a piece for my costume
>just sits around all day now and mope
>don't have time to finish the piece myself because of work
At least I lost the 10 lbs I needed to in order to properly fit into the costume I now won't wear
hahaha

>>9278940
Miku has a very unrealistic ass. In fact, it's literally nonexistent. I mean.. it's just straight. I know they say Asian women don't have big booties but even then their legs simply don't connect flat to their backs.

>>9281377

>no QT will ever crush on you

Why even live

>>9280926
I have a padded bra, but no push-up bra will add four whole inches. I guess I could get one a size too large and add chicken fillets, but the dress would still be loose on the waist.

I have a few dresses I can only fit braless but they still squish my bust. Suppose it can't be helped.

>>9280974
I would like a brass teapot even if it didn't match my aesthetic.

>>9281125
Is it? I assumed they were talking about a jfashion coord, not a lolita coord, since lolita is already an incredibly feminine fashion and it wouldn't make sense to point out adding feminine elements as something unusual. I'm pretty sure brodudes would call a brololita not in sweet as "gay" just like they'd think a brolita being super feminine was.


>>9281054
Why would they bin it? I wear gothic and when I get raffle prizes that don't match my style I just gift them to other comm members or my little cousins, since they're usually not worth much. If it's something more expensive I might sell it. It's not like chocolate is universally accepted either - most comms I've been in have had a few vegans. One solution I've seen is having a selection of themed prizes and allowing people to pick, although the person who picks last might still have issues.

>>9281481
Have you spoken to her about it, anon?

>>9281487
I feel bad for your roommate, not for you.
Sorry that the pieces don't always fall into place the way they're supposed to.
Cunt.

>>9281393
Guess I'm going to go buy some dye, then.

>>9281513
It's okay, anon! I mean, the cutie I have a crush on will probably never like me back. We can be lonely together.

>>9281552
That's kind of mean. They mentioned their roommate was doing so well mentally before mentioning the unfinished cosplay piece (which implies a degree of care for their roommate's well-being). It implies they are full willing to accept why the piece will not be completed.
>>9281487
Normally it's an accumulation of shit that eventually leads to the stupid shit causing a napalm explosion of the mind.

>>9281548
I've spoken to my roommate twice on the subject, once to let her know that I'd been accepted to the school I applied to and was going to take the opportunity; she seemed upset but didn't really say much. Then again a few weeks later, I mentioned that I was going to miss the local farmer's market we go to ... and she just stopped talking. There was silence for about two minutes and then I changed the subject. It was so awkward.

>>9279671
>>be single for 3 years
>tfw single for 21 years

>>9281644
>tfw single for 26 years
At some point I just stopped giving a shit.

>>9281377
No. I'm not sure how you discovered their interests, but I'm assuming it wasn't through talking. He may very well think you are cute in your costume, but unless you've attempted to make a connection, he'll treat you the same as he has in the cafe. We can't just sit on our butts, and hope our outfits win men over.

The boldest move would be offering him his favorite drink, or better, snack. This information could be heckled from the barista. I say a snack is better since he easily could already have a drink. If you aren't that bold, simply sitting nearby and saying, 'How are you?', breaks the water.

>>9280778
Make sure you don't add so much she gets stopped by customs when the luggage is checked!

>>9279067
>wish lolita could be the thing i was know for

same here anon :( I wear lolita all the time out of college but its impractical for my course so i have to stick with simple stuff. It feels so strange not being signiture 'the crazy looking girl' in my class this time around haha! I did wear a toned-down coord one time, and since i used same colour scheme + accessories i wear usally, it didnt seem too out of place and no one said anything. Maybe you could doing that anon? Incorporating lolita stuff into your uni wardrobe untill it takes over :)

>>9281664
There has been contact before, I just didn't want to turn it into a tl;dr situation since it doesn't have to be. I'm not that much of a yan-chan.

Essentially, we were friendly, I spilled spaghetti everywhere, now I usually pretend he doesn't exist.

Is it just me or is there a bad spell of real shitty posting going on right now in /cgl/? There's such a sudden big amount of baity threads, self post threads, posts that completely derail any thread they come up in, etc that it almost feels like it's more than a silly coincidence.
I usually tend to not be on here as much during the end of year holiday period, so does it always get retarded in here at this time of the year?

>>9279067
The fuck is sweet?

>>9281583

If you're cute you'll be fine, bruhs have to be so much more I feel like ;;

Just yourself and be cute & you'll make it I'm sure.

>>9281716

>>9281676
Most countries' schools aren't on holiday yet, right? It's more likely to be one or two trolls repeat targeting the board than the return of summer.

>>9281676
yep. winter break has begun in different places.

or possibly there is a janitor gap and we are seeing what used to get pruned.

>>9281629
Surprised anons haven't claimed she must have a crush on you yet. Honestly, you're acting totally reasonably but I can understand why any normal roommate might be upset and maybe be too passive to say anything outright because she knows it's unfair of her to try to stop you. I freaked out when my flatmate mentioned he'd applied to transfer to another uni abroad, because all of our mutual friends already had a place to live and I was terrified of moving in with a stranger because they could be awful, but I felt too bad to say anything because I didn't want to prevent him from following his dreams so I just stressed until he got rejected. A roommate is an even bigger deal than a flatmate since you're sharing the same room - could it be something like that? I don't know what it's like where you guys are, but where I am there are a lot of people that will lie through their teeth claiming they're quiet, clean and tidy even if they're anything but, and once you've signed a contract you don't have any legal recourse to get rid of them for a year. If she's too passive to confront you outright it sounds like she's pretty shy and might just be shit scared of moving in with a nightmare roommate. Does she have other friends? Could you suggest someone for her to move in with.

anyone else here hate that most anons on the j-fashion side of the board hate the fashion it seems? Everything is either tacky or they're tired of what AP is doing.
Meanwhile I'm just like oh... thought that was cute. But apparently that is tacky and I have shit taste for not sharing some random anons opinion.

>inb4 ur new

I don't know why but I want to make friends here because I can't seem to anywhere else, like in my comm or in some online comms... it's like there really is no where for me to go.

>>9281860
start an unpopular opinions thread, people love those

>>9281873
Sounds good!

>>9281860
>I want to make friends here because I can't seem to anywhere else
You expect to make friends on an anonymous image board?

>>9278917
How was fat granny impeding you? Just curious.

Was it having good to constantly babysit her?

>>9281886
There's a friend finder thread going on right now...

>>9281673
I'm transitioning to a girlier and more gothic everyday wardrobe, but at the moment I feel super self-conscious because my life in general is a mess and I've got some heavy family shit going on so I feel like I draw too much attention to myself already. I'm always rushing around sweaty because I'm running late (can't do that in lolita) and doing the walk of shame to my seat in front of everyone, or alternatively skipping classes entirely because expecting myself to be awake, dressed and showered in time is already setting the bar too high. I'm also busy as all shit and only leave the house for class, food and appointments, so I don't have anywhere else to wear lolita right now. I've had four counsellor/advisor/doctor appointments in the past week and I fear that turning up in lolita would make me look like an attention-seeker rather than someone with genuine issues. I'd like to be known as a normal girl in weird clothes, not as a disorganised mental case who dresses weird for attention. Hoping I can start either the next semester or the next year as a better, more organised me and have lolita as part of a more chill lifestyle. sage for blog

>>9280927
I hope so too! But I also think it's unfair to force other people to deal with the attention lolita brings, which is why I get my friends' point of view. It took me a long time to be comfortable with all the stares I got in public when I went to meetups, and I wouldn't want to force somebody into that situation with me when they were uncomfortable with it.

>>9281674
>I spilled spaghetti everywhere, now I usually pretend he doesn't exist
Anon it's probably didn't appear as bad as you think, just try again and see what happens. Learn from last time.

>>9281552
Thats fair. I do genuinely care, and want her to get better. Thats why I'm griping on a chinese breakdancing forum. Saying that anywhere else makes me a monster.
I realize that my problems are small in comparison.
But its pretty much always that. Roommate just has harder time constantly and I fly under the radar.
>>9281590
And Yeah, I get thats its lots of small stuff. Just want roommate to start saying shit in advance. "Hey Im starting to get shitty" instead of just saying nothing until explosion

>tfw no big benis bf

>tfw no sweet gf to love and cosplay with
I'm not ugly. W2c

>>9279440

At least it wasn't /d/.

I was just asked to judge a local con cosplay contest for the second time. I know that I'm super fair and can't be bribed. I'm super happy.

>>9282005
You're probably wrong about the amount of spaghetti, but I've taken your advice anyways.

We'll see how this goes. At least I've opened the gateway for communication back up, if he rejects it, then that's cool.

>>9282605

Just look at it this way, if he doesn't work out there's plenty of fish in the sea! ^^

I lost 90 pounds over the course of the past two years and I've always observed j flash from the sidelines but bc I was a gross whale I never even contemplated getting into it myself

>meet new friend at con
>she invites me over to watch anime and shit
>she's selling a bunch of sweet Lolita dresses to freshen her wardrobe
>mention passing interest in lolita
>"you should try one on anon!"
>it fits perfectly
>take it off and spend rest of the week thinking about that moment

I'm not sure what feel this is but it's a feel indeed

>>9281126
And that's what makes cosplay so great

>get into lolita after 5 years of lurking
>buy dream dress plus another dress
>super excited, plan cute coord and everything
>get 1st dress in mail, try everything on happily
>it doesnt look that good on me
>o-oh
>maybe its just this dress we'll see
>get second dress in mail, try that one on
>it also doesn't look good
>why.jpg

>have been kind of depressed now thinking no lolita dress will look good on me
>defeated, think about selling both dresses

I have an average body type (Size M, Japan standards) so Im not really sure why, they just looked very off and illfitting overall, even tho the dresses are my size.

I just want to look and feel cute..... ;_;

>>9281377
Don't be a stalker

>>9282662
That is the feel of hard work and dedication.

>>9282678

Maybe you don't have a good face for it ;;

>>9282678
Did you have a petticoat on? Lolita dresses can look really sad and unflattering without one depending on your bodytype and the cut of the dress. Even if that's not the case I encourage you to put on a full coordinate, style your hair and do your make up and go to the meet up. If it still makes you feel uncomfortable maybe it's not for you but maybe you will feel good. Even then you can always ask advise what would look best on you. Just don't give up!

>Absolutely love lolita fashion
>But I'm a guy
>Not into crossdressing/"brolita" whatever
>also not into being some lolita's sugar daddy (and not wealthy enough anyway)

It's a shitty situation to be in.

>>9282688
Every lolita dress looks sad as fuck without at least one petti, and a good chunk of them need MORE than one petti to look good.

>>9282689

I'm a dude & I'm not a grills sugar daddy

What's the problem you got here? (The trick is to look so average girls won't take any interest in you so you can still have fun)

>>9282689
I know that feel.

I get around it by lurking /cgl/ and just trying to be happy for seagulls having fun wearing cute things.

I've thought a few times that maybe the better and more proactive solution would be to get into fashion design. Then you could be involved and make cute things for others to wear without getting into the weirdness of crossdressing.

>meet girl from /cgl/
>see her before we make eye contact
>walk away

fucking say if you're a 300 pound fatass before meeting up

>>9282690
Well I meant she absolutely needs a petti anyways and most of the dresses will look unflattering without one even when just quickly tried on. Sorry for bad wording.

>>9281664
>tfw get into boystyle
>tfw no girl has ever made a move on you

W-What am I doing wrong gulls

I know I'm probably going to be told to ask /fit/ but I'd rather cut my arm off than go there.

I really want to slim down, especially around my waist and thighs. But the problem is that I'm pigeon toed, so a lot of work-out routines causes me more pain than good which is really frustrating because my dream is to one day be able to go out jogging.

Does anyone with similar issues have any advice? Or someone with any kind of experience with defect legs/feet that knows what to do (except getting supportive insoles, that's a given)?

>>9282718
I'm no expert and I can only go based off my experiences and from what I've been told by professionals. I have knock knees and I was told to never run for exercise. Most people run with terrible form which does more harm than good. If you have structurall issues with the legs and feet then it really isn't a good idea.

Sorry anon, I wish I could run too. When I used to have a personal trainer, he said the best I could do was high incline walking with occasional running for about one minute every 10 minutes.

>>9282691
Fuck it. I'd normally never admit anything like this, but I'm drunk right now, so here goes.

I find lolita fashion extremely arousing. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not into ageplay shit, not a pedo, and don't have a rapey bone in my body. I just see a cute girl in loli and it's like looking at an exquisitely-wrapped present under the Christmas tree. Yeah, it looks good as it is, but something about it makes me want to just rip the paper off and have fun with what's inside.

When I see a cute girl in lolita that fits my taste, I just want to take her back to my hotel room, rip her (probably equally cute) panties off, and get to work ruining her $400 brand JSK or whatever by soaking it with every fluid imaginable. I want to defile that carefully-crafted elegance. And I want her to be just as into it as I am.

Sadly, that'll probably never happen. Nobody wears high-end brand to ruin it like that, and even if they did, they wouldn't want to do it with a guy like me. So it's just fantasies and feels.

Oh well, at least I can take some pleasure from the fact that despite the fact that 90% of the people who just read this were disgusted, knowing the population of /cgl/, at least a pair or two of panties were just ruined by reading this post.

>>9282716
Do you have anything else going for you other than your fashion choices? Honestly speaking, a well dressed ouji might have my attention for a bit but if fashion is the only thing that I like about them I won't try to initiate anything beyond being friendly and polite to them at meetups.

>>9282737

I honestly just lol'd at it

>>9282739

"Anything else going for you" what does that even mean though? Are you asking if I'm attractive or, if I have a good personality?

>>9282718

For exercise you really should do things that doesn't hurt to avoid injury and actually make it enjoyable or you won't be able to make it a regular thing.

If you REALLY have to do jogging instead of say swimming or something talk to a physical therapist for starters and try to figure out if your issue could be helped with shoes/insoles etc.

Also you should be aware that there is literally no way to decide where the fat you lose come from, its all genetics. Thigh fat is usually the last to go for women.

The most effective way to control your weight is by diet anyway. You won't burn more then a couple of hundred Cals per cardio session, while diet will let you sustain a constant deficit.

Just go read the sticky on /fit/ desu.

>>9282742
Do you have hobbies or anything else that would make you seem like an interesting person

>>9282742
I feel ridiculous replying to this because I'm the one who wrote the other post you replied to, but I'm actually surprisingly (even to myself) experienced with this stuff.

Clothes don't make the man. They might (MIGHT) start the conversation but it's up to you to finish it, and often up to you to start it as well. All the fashion does is give a girl an indication that, hey, maybe this guy's not just some completely random creeper, and not much more. Think of the fashion as a 10 or 20% advantage, not a straight-up ticket for Mr. Anon's wild ride up QT girl's skirt.

All of this shit - fashion, cosplay, cons, whatever - is just a hobby, when it comes down to it. No girl is gonna make a move on your just because you share one hobby with her. Be somebody who's interesting and desirable beyond that initial contact and your chances are a helluva lot better.

>>9282757

Nah it's OK, and I still feel unsure if I should even start conversations because I really don't want to be -that- kinda of guy. I do kinda give off a jaded vibe about relationships and the like so that could be it.

I think I'm a pretty interesting fellow with quite a few interests and they're all pretty diverse as well.

>>9282750

What makes someone interesting even? I doubt it's their hobbies. I have a wide range of them from generic weeb hobbies like going to cons/playing vidya to traveling around the world/partying.

I'm probably missing something and I'm unsure what. Maybe I'm just annoyed nobody has really chased after me, things go well if I start things though but I'm still at that point of being SORT of new that I dunno if it's OK to talk to people on a higher level. Maybe I give myself too much credit on how attractive I am.

>>9282605
>You're probably wrong about the amount of spaghetti
greentext spaghetti then :3

One cosplay feel:

>want to learn to use pepakura
>start big awesome project I adore
>gets cold
>freezing ass off on apartment balcony, wrapped in blankets, sanding with a tiny dremel, put bondo on too thick, already invested a ton of time and money, going to take forever to sand
>give up and won't have cosplay done for winter con because too cold to work outside and now have no cosplay for con

fashion
>trying to put together business professional wardrobe so i can be professional, make more money to fund stupid hobbies
>people keep recommending $200 shoes
>that's like a week's work for me
>they dont even come in my tiny size
>never be professional

>>9282763
>Maybe I'm just annoyed nobody has really chased after me
It...kinda sounds like you're into this to find a qt cgl gf and nothing more, in which case I'm not surprised you don't have girls "chasing" you.

>>9282783
I think that's most guys in this scene, to one degree or another.

I dated a qt cgl gf for almost 5 years and it was fucking terrible, especially because she got "cosplay famous" during it, but despite that I still can't suppress that little bit of sparkle in my heart every time I head off to a con or find myself talking to a cute cosplayer/lolita/whatever. It's a goddamn disease, but I think if you're in this scene, have a dick, and said dick likes vag and not other dick, you're guaranteed to be afflicted with it.

>The zipper of my winter boot breaks
>I have to cut it to get it out of my feet
>Now I need new pair
>Go through local shops
>Nothing really catch my eye
>One pair does but they are uncomfortable
>Then remember I have one pair of boots I bought for cosplay
>I haven't modified them yet
>Good fit but rather thin
>Now I can wait untill I find good pair

Ok, since somebody else posted a lewd-ish post...

>girls seem to forget that they're wearing skimpy outfits while cosplaying
>constantly get pantyshots while at cons
>sometimes even see the great unicorn, girl cosplaying without panties
>I have a panty/upskirt fetish

Holy shit it's fucking torture

>>9282786
>I think that's most guys in this scene, to one degree or another.
and a good amount of women. /cgl/ is hella gay.

>tfw ace
>and male
>can sense the trust barrier from women who expect every man in the hobby to be thirsty for them

must suck for gynophiles.

>>9282766
This is getting less and less /cgl/ related, but alright, I guess.

>this guy is actually a grad student TA
>For reference, I'm 23, he's 25ish. It's not as creepy as if I were one of the 18 year olds.
>drop the class for reasons, but still attend because my advisor suggested it
>that's when I kind of do the ohfuck.jpg
>Hell no, I don't do crushes. Decide to cut and run.
>But he's really nice and was supposed to email me about shit that I didn't want to hear about anymore, so I email him with a short email explaining why I wasn't going to class anymore.
>Aka that I have a crush on him and won't be taking his class next quarter.
>He responds, says that's the mature thing to do, whatever.
>Phew, that's all taken care of.
>Start seeing him literally everywhere on campus, used to see him maybe once a week outside of class.
>god damn it
>One friend from high school shows me this little cafe.
>Guess who's fucking there, we leave, but end up coming back because the other place we went to had no snacks and it was dinner time.
>He's staring at me to the point where my friend asks what the fuck is going on.
>Explain, whatever. It's awkward, that's fine.
>I keep going to that cafe because it's adorable and he wasn't there for like a week and a half, kind of thought that him being there was a fluke.
>Nope. He comes back and then he's there everyday.
>One day, a good 30 seconds straight of awkward eye contact happens while I try and figure out if I wave, if I don't, whatever.
>Decide to fucking email him again and say that if it's too uncomfortable, I can leave.
>There was also some bad joke there about how he's hard to avoid. Spaghetti ensues.
>Next day, sits three feet away from me, then emails about an hour later being like "It's not uncomfortable for me at all, but if I'm distracting you, I can make sure to keep my distance in the math department"
>That's when I'm confused since this is all happening outside of school, but whatever.

(1/2)

>>9282927
>End up kind of snapping at him in my response email, was trying to be witty, realize it probably came off bitchy.
>Yeah, probably, because now he seems to avoid me like the plague in the cafe.
>Oddly enough his friend starts talking to me, though.
>His friend's really nice, asks how my classes are and everything, I ask back.
>Finals week, TA comes and sits with him, they're playing some game that looked really confusing.
>Me, sitting like three feet away, am very distracted because this game's loud as shit and I was trying to read.
>End up getting up to leave, wish his friend good luck on his finals.
>You could cut the tension in the air with a knife.

I'm a pretty shy person, so I was kind of hoping that maybe the cosplaying at the event thing would get him to talk to me first. I'm good at responding to people, but initiating any contact is a no go for me. Hence why I've pathetically been using email.

>>9281648
>27 years and no sex yet

Been in relationships that went no where.

At least I can look forward to being a wizard.

>>9282932
>>9282927
it honestly sounds like you're over thinking shit

>>9282938
i really think with sex, you need to be direct and verbal. like seriously.

>>9282927
>>9282932
gdi anon

Yes, seems like he might be into you and yes, the spaghetti was as bad as you made it sound. I'd say suck it up, approach him in person. No need to apologize, just straight up say you started off on the wrong foot. I don't know a good follow-up to that, hopefully his response will give you something to work with IDK. But you need to say something in-person to break the impression given over email.

>>He responds, says that's the mature thing to do
As a cut'n'runner myself, I'll disagree with him on that one it's not really a mature thing but w/e

>>9282678
Fit isn't about size, it's about garment cut and construction. If you have odd proportions, or the garment does, it will look bad on you.

Video related says styling but most of the tips are about cut and fit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zdonc087yP8

Yo man

What's with all the awkward guys lurking /cgl/

>>9282984
they get off on the fact that this is a board full of spergy autistic chicks who like nerdy shit but tend to be of at least average attractiveness or greater

>>9282970
I just feel that if I was to do that, it would be considered 'sexist' and pig like behaviour. Last thing I need is somehow gossiping behind my back.

>>9282984
On an anonymous message board, no one knows you secretly belong to the uglier gender.

>>9282737
>ruined panties

Your virginity is showing. Getting wet doesn't ruin underwear. If it did, girls would probably wear disposable fucking panties.

>>9282737
>Oh well, at least I can take some pleasure from the fact that despite the fact that 90% of the people who just read this were disgusted, knowing the population of /cgl/, at least a pair or two of panties were just ruined by reading this post.

Unfortunately, those panties were worn by sissies.

>>9282999
>Implying black underwear doesn't get ruined/bleached by discharge
>What are pantyliners
>Why do panties even have a double gusset

Srsly m8 pls

>>9282998
>uglier gender.
no u

>>9283001
I kekked.

>>9283003
>Implying black underwear doesn't get ruined/bleached by discharge
I have literally never had this happen to me and I never wear pantyliners. The double gusset is so stuff doesn't soak through onto your clothes. The panties aren't ruined, they're just damp and need washing.

>>9283014
>I have literally never had this happen to me and I never wear pantyliners.

Ah, the classic
>It doesn't happen to me so it never ever happens and doesn't even exist!

Good for you. Most people have had this happen, it's perfectly normal. You might actually be the abnormal one here, stop acting as if your experience is the pinnacle of what's possible.

>>9282919

>put off vibes I want nothing
>still zero trust

Nice, maybe I'm just ugly ;;

>>9283003
>>Implying black underwear doesn't get ruined/bleached by discharge

>>9283021
>>9283003
Pantyliners are for fucking light period days and when you're spotting.

If you need to wear a pantyliner everyday because you have so much discharge AND said discharge stains your underwear you most likely have an infection. Go to the fucking doctor you dirty bitch.

test

How do I get over being nervous in a comm with zero guys in it?

What should I even expect when I start showing up to meets if no one tries to contact me outside of them?
Does no one want to know me before I show up or something?

>>9283029
They're for whatever you want them to be. Some people wear them every day, which is why a lot of them have Daylies or something somewhere on the branding.

I don't have either of those things personally happen to me, but I'm not about to decide that my personal experience is the only valid one.

It doesn't stain, either. It bleaches them. Big difference. Still ruined either way.

>>9283029
>Pantyliners are for fucking light period days and when you're spotting.

>If you need to wear a pantyliner everyday because you have so much discharge AND said discharge stains your underwear you most likely have an infection.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=umDr0mPuyQc

>>9282974
I figured. I actually did end up emailing him (I know, emailed again) to ask to meet up since I don't know if he's sticking around or not, plus he's usually been with people this past week or so. It was less spaghetti-ish than the others, I think.

>mfw I got the email bc I also thought it was really immature of me to do.
I'm glad I've got another cut'n'runner, though.

>>9282968
There's probably a lot of that too, yeah.

>>9283032
What do you mean by
>no one tries to contact me outside of [meets]
>Does no one want to know me before I show up or something?
? Do you not interact with the other comm members on the comm's page or something? Why do you expect everyone to contact you if they don't know you?

>>9283045
I have an idea

How about you stop being so damn weird. Just act like a normal person
Why are you doing this to him? What did he ever do to you?

Now he has someone he needs to avoid, for literally no reason

>>9283049
for real
>>9283045
just talk to him? what the fuck makes you think he's even attracted to you?

>discover girl I never talk to at work also wears jfashion
>she seems kind of elitist, trying to constantly out-do me in knowing the most about kawaii bullshit
>shows off about all the money she has, yet spends it all on shittons of overpriced pastel clothes from ~alternative~ fashion brands (Nikki lipstick, dollskill, shop inuinu .etc)
>deicided to show her a dress I just bought from baby
>suddenly tries to act like she knows everything about lolita, clearly has no clue
>her jaw drop fucking drops when I tell her the price, which is nothing compared to what she spends on shit
>insists that I can find btssb for cheaper if I check on... wait for it... amazon

I had to try pretty hard to hold in my laughter,I ended up letting it out, tried to pass it off as just coughing kek

>>9283022
even as ace, it can be difficult to get past the trust barrier. you can't focus on it.

plus, it's warranted in your case, because you want a lolita gf, right?

>>9283032
People don't usually randomly PM people just because they're in the same comm, you have to show up to stuff.

Although a lot of lolitas are really mistrustful of guys in the comm due to there being so many creeps around, which might be why people are being so cautious. Just go on being a normal, friendly person to a few meets and you'll get accepted.

>>9283035
That's just the companies trying to market to people that it's gross not to to sell more product. 99% of the time they shouldn't be necessary day-to-day. Wearing something with impermeable plastic backing every day is a terrible idea, and will leave you with a sweaty vag and possibly thrush.

>>9283029
way to perpetuate vagina-shaming stereotypes. you can literally google this shit.

http://jezebel.com/today-is-the-day-we-will-talk-about-your-dirty-underpa-1468902547

it has to do with natural pH levels, especially during times of the month when discharge is more acidic.

read the whole article, gulls.

>>9281377
You weird weird little person.
I wanna believe!
I want to think you can do it!
Don't let us down!

>>9282927
>>9282932
>going out of your way to avoid him
>dropping classes to avoid him n shit

In all seriousness, what the hell is wrong with you?

>>9282932
Anon, it sounds like he likes you.

>>9282687
>has an unflattering face, so it doesn't help me trying to be cute/cosplay
>likes masked characters, so it all works out in the end

>>9282688
I did try on with a petti, but maybe I just didn't get the right petti (or nice enough/fluffy one), but now I'm thinking that even if I do get one, it'll be a waste of money if finding out the dresses still don't look good regardless..


>>9282982
Thank you anon, I learned things from the video I never considered, I'll will continue to try and work on being cute!


>tfw you thought cgl would shit on you for being ugly, but they pull through with giving you good advice

>>9283005
Post pics to prove

>>9283116
>tfw you thought cgl would shit on you for being ugly but they pull through with giving you good advice

That is because you did not post a picture of yourself. Cgl shames people that post pictures. When it comes to text, suddenly everyone is bleeding hearts and consoling hugs.

>>9283107
My impression was she had already dropped the class but was sitting in at advisor's suggestion, what she stopped doing was sitting in.

>>9283091
I actually had no idea this was a thing because I'd never had this happen to me, huh. I have heavy discharge and I hear from partners that it tastes acidic but I've never noticed any bleaching. I also never had issues washing stuff apart from when I was using a laundromat with only a 30-minute cycle on the machines, and even that was fixed by presoaking or putting the worst stuff back in the washing basket to wash again.

>>9283049
>>9283063
>>9283094
I'm sorry I'm weird! At this point, I honestly just want it to not be at a point where telling someone who is unrelated to what's going on good luck isn't going to be awkward as fuck.

>>9283107
Reading comprehension: I dropped the class before. I stopped going to a class I wasn't getting credit for while my school doesn't officially recognize class audits.

>>9283003
Oh dear. I'm going to assume you looked through a girl's dirty laundry. You are correct in your observation that 'it' dries white. It is also moist. The double layer present in panties near to crotch is help prevent moisture from getting on the rest of the clothes. Pantyliners are for spotting and light periods. Pantyliners are also for girls who may find moisture from discharge uncomfortable.

The white stuff you saw doesn't 'ruin' the panties. You just gotta' throw them in the wash. It comes out and they look brand new. It's not 'bleach' it just dries with a distinct white color after sitting in a laundry pile. What are you doing looking through your fuck buddy/love interest's dirty laundry? And yes, girls change their panties once or twice a day because they do get dirty.

I'm such a bitch. I'm fat, and I hate myself so much all I do on this board is insult myself and other people who may or may not be fat by calling them fat. I just realized how immature and mean I've been. Just because I feel disgusting, it doesn't mean I can go and try to make others feel the same. I should focus more on losing weight and feeling better about myself than putting others down. Right now I don't hate myself for being fat. I hate myself for being a bitch.

>>9283130
yeah, sex ed failed a lot of us and we end up discovering what's normal or not online. genitals do weird shit but most of the time it's natural, normal, and just never explained.

>out of town con on the 30th
>$150 to my name
>
fuck

>>9283138
I tell you what, talk with him a bit, and once he gives you enough info (not things you've learned by stalking him) invite him to the event you think is relevant to his interests.
Then you can just continue with your plan and see if something develops.

Trust me it will be a lot more troublesome if you just figure he'll go to the event, and you go as well, but he won't be there for some reason.

>>9283153
here's an idea: channel your energy to workout. you have intense energy, that you have transformed into bitchiness. put it to work doing productive things instead of trying to quash it.

I can't stand seeing YOI anymore

it's everywhere, even if I ever wanted to watch the show I'm too spoiled on everything that happens because every single second of each episode gets screencapped.

>>9283153
>all I do on this board is insult myself and other people who may or may not be fat by calling them fat
If that's really all you come here for, stop going on /cgl/. Get another hobby or something. Maybe channel your anger into violent video games or martial arts or something. Without wanting to make you feel bad about yourself, coming somewhere literally just to shitpost is really pathetic, especially if you're not even enjoying it for lulz and it just makes you feel worse. I'm sure you have better things that you could be doing.

>>9283171
Ah man, this. I haven't been watching it because I'm focusing on finals, but I know the entire fucking plot from Facebook.

>>9283161
That's a good idea. I'll do that.

>>9283171
>show is called Yuri on Ice
>is actually fujobait

i am disappoint

>>9283144
Yep. Fucking virgins.

>>9283184
Reminds me on the arguments on how people shouldn't put it down as yaoi because it just happens to have gay romance in it

Now I'd agree with this (and overall I do) if the people watching it weren't so fucking obsessed with the gay romance that it's clearly the only thing they're watching it for

>>9283159
This is going around in circles. To recap:
>Have not stalked him, we used to be friendly, then I dropped spaghetti and I pretend he doesn't exist most of the time now.
>I made the costume before I liked him, he's not the reason I made it or anything. I like the character.
>Aka I have a genuine interest in this fandom as well. He also knows this because we used to be friendly. We've chatted about it.
>Meaning I'm not going to the event just because he's there.

I don't know if I want to wear the costume or not. The "can I make him love me through cosplay" was mostly a joke, but it could be a conversation stater. I just want him to talk to me so that things can get less tense. I'm pretty shy, but a couple anons here gave me a bit more courage.

I do enjoy that half think I'm stalking him, half think I'm avoiding him too much.

>>9283171
I feel you. I'm supposed to marathon it with someone and their friends, but I just might...conveniently not go.

>>9283198
If you think those people can watch it and have fun in peace I'd say just go. Personally I won't watch it because I've been so stupidly overexposed to it at this point, but if I was with friends I might.

However if they're fujoshits that are going to cry about how cute the main characters are together every 2 seconds, don't go.

>>9283144
>Oh dear. I'm going to assume you looked through a girl's dirty laundry. You are correct in your observation that 'it' dries white. It is also moist. The double layer present in panties near to crotch is help prevent moisture from getting on the rest of the clothes. Pantyliners are for spotting and light periods. Pantyliners are also for girls who may find moisture from discharge uncomfortable.

TELL ME IT'S A LIE
IT'S ALL JUST A HORRIBLE LIE

NO NEED TO BE UPSET ONLY DREAMS NOW

>>9283214
>200 centuries, a decade, and 6 years since our Lord & Savior's death.
>Half the population has a vagina
>People still fear the vagina

>>9283231
K E K

but also that's pretty sad.

>>9283214

> slowly buy first lolita items after a few years of lurking
> only buy brand at first, to get a feel for the fashion and to see how it's done right
> kinda feel bad for spending so much money on clothes
> buy 1 chess story blouse and 1 western indie skirt
> they're... fine, I guess?
> tfw they'll never be baby
> tfw their stars will never shine bright

I guess a new brandwore was born.

>>9283231
while being perfectly fine with talking about their shit and cum.

i wish dicks had a self-cleaning mechanism so they'd smell less like ass.

>>9282737
>panties ruined

yea never unless theres some sissies reading right now. unplug your router next time youre drunk and save our eyes from this shit. thanks.

>>9283214
>>9283231
Vaginas are pretty gross.
Learning about them is why I can only consume porn where I see as little of it as possible.

>axe wouns in between legs that drips disgusting shit on the regular.

I don't blame sex ed instructors for wanting to keep from turning men gay.

>>9283254
>why I can only consume porn where I see as little of it as possible
I love learning about the huge variety of ways in which men repress their homosexuality and try to persuade themselves they're straight.

>>9282984
its just girls trolling for les memes

>>9283247
Most guys don't even bother cleaning their dicks, like they don't even know that it's something that they can do. As a dude I have legitimately never understood this; It's like a dangling lightning rod for filth.
Vaginas are horrifying too but godamn at least most girls know to take care of their nethers.

>>9283265
this

>>9283272
and this

like, you think vaginas are gross? smell another dude's used underwear sometime and try not to gag. at least with women, the worst you are likely to get is that sort of tangy fish smell. not a fucking swamp of sewage that's been marinating for days on someone's junk.

>>9283214
found the 12 y/o boy. best leave now hun, the lolis arent going to post anything lewd - they mostly just make fat jokes

>>9283278
You can smell it just being near some dudes. You ever been at a con and get a random whiff of something like rancid sourdough? That's some dude's taint-rot.

>>9283278
Same could be said for women.

It's a simple fact that poor hygiene leads to awful odors, male or female.
I also disagree with the notion that most women know how to clean their nether regions consider female locker rooms tend to smell worse than mens'....

>>9283239
tfw i read that as squirting wtf

>>9283247
>>9283272
>>9283278
i wish girls knew that fishy vaginas are caused by bacteria and can be cleaned with %1.5 hydrogen peroxide and a douche.

>tfw new country
>no conventions
>only weirdly large gaming/media events
>planning entire vacations around conventions

life is struggle

>>9283286
Have you been in both?

This bait ain't even worth the (you) but here you fucking go

>>9283290
>recommending anyone to douche ever

How about you GTFO?

PSA to all fellow vagina havers, never ever fucking douche unless you want to seriously fuck up your pH. If your vagina smells like fish it's because you have an STD or bacterial vaginosis and you need some antibiotics. Healthy vaginas don't smell fishy, even if they're kinda sweaty.

>>9283254
buddy, you're probably just gay, why not own it. most guys think vaginas are sexy and won't hesitate to fuck even gushy bloody ones

>>9283299
>and won't hesitate to fuck even gushy bloody ones

>>9283301
Shower sex is great once you figure out the right position for the shower.

>>9283295
Don't need to go into both sometimes when the smell is so overpowering in either.

But yes, I've been in both.
It's not my fault that you aren't involved in sports, anon-kun.

>>9283284
yeah. the unspoken horror of con funk is the unwashed genitals of a thousand maladjusted weebs.

and having to sit on the same seats they do

>>9283306
all water involved sex is awful
>>9283299
douching is fine as long as you aren't retarded

>>9283323
Only retards douche friendo

>https://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/douching.html
>Doctors recommend that you do not douche. Douching can lead to many health problems, including problems getting pregnant. Douching is also linked to vaginal infections and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

Have fun making your problems worse

>>9283330
Not any of those anons but I had zero idea what the hell a douche was other then a place to shower in so I was confused as fuck until I googled it

>>9283241
It's not brandwhoring when 99% of taobao isn't up to snuff.

>>9283295
Not that anon, but in high school some jobber snapped a pipe in the men's locker room bathroom, so we ended up having to alternate through the women's locker room for a few days.
They both smelled awful, but you're dead wrong if you think locker room funk is genital stank; it's mostly socks and cleats.

>>9283272
Wut really? Absolute max I can go is like 3 days, like when I'm sick in bed or something, before I feel like it's going to fucking rot off.

>>9283241
I just got a fairly expensive (~70 USD before intl shipping) JSK from Chess Story and I'm underwhelmed, to say the least. It was my first time getting anything from them and it will most likely be my last.

I've never had anything from taobao be brand quality (let alone BTSSB quality which I think is some of the best in lolita) but there are cheaper and better taobao brands than chess story. Infanta is a great example. Their stuff is NICE.

>>9283144
No. I am referring to black panties specifically turning orange/red/white from exposure to discharge. It is a thing, you can google it. I am not talking about residual discharge drying.

>>9283387
It's not just panties. I once had a perfectly good grey shirt suddenly come out of the laundry with orange armpits, so it probably has something to do with chemical balance & bodily fluids.
/anecdotal evidence

>>9283396
could've been rust in your washing machine or dryer.

>Neptunia cosplay comes in
>Jacket is too short
>Should be thigh length but stops at hips
>Material is also somewhat light
>have to buy spandex shorts so it will hopefully look decent
>shoes come in and are a tad small
>i can deal i guess
>also got official Top Nep hat as well

Man i really hope i look decent at least in this. I'm sure its okay everything seems too be working out okay. Just gotta find a away to not freeze my as when i wear it....
But im actually pretty excited to wear it.

>>9283398
Nah it was lighter than the shirt, and just in the armpits. I dunno, I'm not a chemist but it wasn't rust.

>>9283405
Most antiperspirants have aluminum compounds and other ingredients that can stain and harden fabrics over time. I've seen some improvements by switching to plain deodorants. Oxyclean with warm water also helps to reduce it on whites.

>>9283396
>>9283405

Do you use a long-lasting anti-antiperspirant deodorant? Guy here, but I've had this happen with a couple of my shirts, like I just happened to be too heavy handed on the given day in applying it, and the antiperspirant gets caught in the fabric and becomes a pain in the ass to wash out.

I know some people are gonna get pissy about this but whatever.

I quit smoking weed recently to get hired on at my job only to quit later on because I had heard some people had quit smoking like two months, hung in there and still didn't pass the urinary test. Something makes me think they were checking for people trying to dilute their systems and then not hiring them because of that. Can't prove anything obviously and just talking to people about it doesn't really get me any proof so I quit because if that's the case, I can't pass one either. And I have quit for some time now.

I'm really itching to go back to my usual lifestyle. Now I'm waiting to hear back from another job that I thought for sure was going to hire me. The weather where I live is absolute garbage right now though so I am having to wait even longer to go back.

This is lolita related because, and I know it sounds dumb, but I only really enjoy lolita when I'm smoking. I dress up now and then but it feels so forced. It's not the same when I'm not high. I miss having fun when doing it. The pictures are just boring to me now. I'm gonna force myself to dress up tonight but it's still just not the same.

It's a long shot but does anyone else here attach the two? It's just dressing up too. Like, I'm sitting here sober as fuck, and looking at dresses just longing to go back to the way things were..

>>9283468
Move to Prop64afornia.

>>9283470
It's legal where I live too. I used to live there.
It's federally illegal, hence still drug testing.

>>9283486
Is it a decent job or just whatever? I guess it'd just come down to how much you value lolita.

>>9283468
>"muh le pot smoking"
>"muh no motivations"
>"muh everything sucks"

Get a fucking grip, holy shit.

>>9283497
Tbh it's a prime example of why weed smokers are shit and I'm saving it to post for reference at a later date

>>9283468
Honestly it sounds like you kinda have a problem, man. I'm a smoke weed everyday kinda person most of the time but I love my lolita just as much when I'm not high as when I'm high. The only things that I hate when not high but can tolerate whilst high are boring things like cleaning. I regularly go for long periods without smoking or craving it while traveling and I still have lots of fun. You sound depressed.

>>9283468
Sell your dresses then. A hobby you only enjoy high isn't a hobby.

>>9283499
Sup, I'm the same anon as >>9283500

You can use that as example for "why weed smokers or shit" or you can not be retarded and realize anon in question is severely depressed and psychologically dependent on a substance. #NotAllStoners

>>9283503
>#notallstoners

I mean you're all delinquent garbage no matter how much you try and deny it

I'm gonna use it as an example even if it triggers you

>>9283508
Be my guest friendo, it only makes you look ignorant and insensitive

>>9283503
This, to be honest.

Anon's post wasn't about wanting to smoke weed all the time. It was about anon not finding joy in things except when high.

>>9283508
I mean, if you want people to think you're an idiot every time you post it, because anyone decently smart isn't going to read that and think it's an issue of stoners being stoners, go for it.

>>9283513
The irony in a stoner using the word ignorant to describe someone else is just too much.

>>9283515
It's a great example of why stoners are retarded tho desu

>>9282718
Eat less calories then your body burns.

It's honestly the only thing required to lose weight, exercise is optional

>>9283516

>>9283500
Weed smokers belong in a mass grave

Given a gift of life through the sacrifice of thousands of generations before them, fighting and dying and suffering and struggling. Finally for one brief moment of history they achieve peace and comfort

Only to have this decedent of theirs, the one they put all their hopes and dreams into, the one who is living a life a thousand times better than the one they lived. Only to have this decendent neglect their body and their mind, instead electing to throw themselves down a rathole of narcissistic pleasure seeking selfishness

I truly in my bones believe these people need be be slaughtered en-masse in bloody violent fashion. So that someone worth living can take their place

>>9283517
No, it's a great example of how someone with depression becomes dependent on a substance to relieve symptoms of depression.

>>9283521
>Given a gift of life through the sacrifice of thousands of generations before them, fighting and dying and suffering and struggling. Finally for one brief moment of history they achieve peace and comfort

>Only to have this decedent of theirs, the one they put all their hopes and dreams into, the one who is living a life a thousand times better than the one they lived. Only to have this decedent neglect their body and their mind, instead electing to throw themselves down a rathole of narcissistic pleasure seeking selfishness

Are you talking about weed smokers or people who cosplay or wear lolita?

>>9283524
lolita is a hobby

weed smoking is a deliberate self-destructive act. Intentionally sabotaging the life you've been handed on a silver platter

>>9283521
I don't know about that. Vapers tend to be much more narcissistic than stoners.

>>9283521
this

so much this

>>9283527
They are both just recreational activities.

If we're going to be honest, either one is a complete waste of life in the grand scheme of human development. Sure, habitual smoking turns you into a dumb stoner, but habitual lolita or habitual cosplaying is literally not any more productive or meaningful.

Sabotaging the life you've been handed on a silver platter doesn't mean much if the alternative is letting it sit on that platter and rot while you post on 4chan about being cute.

Good lord, what the hell happened to you people to hate weed so much?
I thought my generation didn't feel that strongly about this, but I guess I live in a bubble since it's legal in my state.

>>9283542
I think most anti-weed gulls had a stoner boyfriend who broke their hearts at some point

>>9283503
>#NotAllStoners
You really aren't helping your case.
I was not ripping on OP for being a pothead, but more for fitting the stereotype, which I find disgusting.

I've known many weed smokers that don't fit the "muh weed, lmao. No motivations, yooo, everything is better hiiiigh" stereotype, and they're all right. You and OP, though, need to fuck right off.

OP in general needs to get her life sorted, way beyond weed consumption.

>>9283552
>OP in general needs to get her life sorted, way beyond weed consumption.
That's kinda the point anon and myself were trying to make. It's stupid to play off OP's post as ayyylmao420blazeiterryday as seen in >>9283499 >>9283552 when weed is really not the issue or cause of OP's behaviour, depression is.

I know everyone has their own way of looking at lolita, but I can't help but feel weird about mine. I tend to dislike most releases, but when I do like something, I want it in multiple cuts and colorways. Most of my wardrobe is the same five dresses, and most of my wishlist is exactly the same. Idk, I love my wardrobe, but it feels a little weird to be kind of a collector and to keep trying to coord the same dresses in new ways when pretty much everyone else in my comm isn't like that or are the type to wear a dress once for a meet and the novelty, sell, replace with something new, repeat.

>wanting to be passionate about cons/cosplay but it's hard lately
>former best friends simultaneously declared they never want to go to cons again
>after which the only one who lived near me moved away
>see on social media that they've literally replaced me, hanging out with people i've never met even when they're in my area
>never text or call me. ever.
>decided to cut ties
>still doing my best to try and enjoy cosplay
>but also starting to feel ugly AF in cosplay especially crossplay
>starting to wonder what the point even is if i can't have fun

all last year i either couldn't make it to cons or did not have fun at the ones i did go to because said former friends haven't been around (and i used to have a riot with them, they literally made me love cons/cosplay), and the other friends i have almost as good a time with haven't been able to make it. basically i promised myself i would go to my favorite con this year, but if i hate it/don't have any fun, i'm just gonna give up on cons and cosplay.

>>9283574
It's not totally weird. Have you seen that pic of the Chinese lolita who had the same BtSSB dress in like 20 colours from different re-releases?

>>9283497
But I have motivation when I smoke weed. I'm sober now. With no motivation.

??

>>9283527
do you feel this way about people who drink alcohol?

idiot

>>9283522
Would I get the same amount of shit for relying on pills to ease depression?

I'm not really depressed. I just want to be able to do the things that I did before I was stuck in some unknown amount of time waiting. I cleaned my fucking house today. I don't lack motivation.

>>9283551
>>9283542
I think it's people in other countries that still view it as a fucking horrible deathly drug. That or it's US east coasters who are happy it's listed as schedule one still and has "no medical effects" cause that wasn't disproved several times or anything...

>>9283383
finally someone who agrees chess story is shit.

>tfw have a crush on that one ouji who flirts with everyone and loves to pose for pictures

>>9283595
I have a sneaky suspicion they live in a dry country and wear a hijab with their coords...

>>9283542
A lot of anti-weed types have a hilariously exaggerated idea of what it does and what the people who smoke it are like. It doesn't help when people like >>9283468 who obviously have serious, unresolved issues get hung up on recreational smoking.

The reality is that if you're rabidly anti-weed, there are most likely a lot of completely normal people in your life who smoke/vape/consume and just don't tell you because you'll be an asshole about it.

>>9283569
Narcotics and depression are some kind of dark magic, I swear. My brother just recently got his ass to Germany and discovered cheap Deutsche alcohol.
I haven't heard from him in two months.

>>9283521
hey edgy, go shoot up your school or something it'll really make a difference in the world!

>>9283624
Please tell me what my unresolved issues are.

>>9283624
>Narcotics and depression are some kind of dark magic, I swear. My brother just recently got his ass to Germany and discovered cheap Deutsche alcohol.
>I haven't heard from him in two months.
this is tragic because alcohol is so fucking bad for you but normalized to the point where binge drinking and alcoholism is a joke, especially when men do it. i'm sorry for you and your bro

>>9283635
/ck/ has like consistent alcohol threads and if you mention alcoholism, they treat it like it's a fucking amazing thing and you're just a pussy who wishes you could drink as much as their sorry asses do.

bar culture is insane where I live. Not to mention the amount of drunk driving and public transit does jack shit about it to help.

>>9283635
and i'm sorry for saving that shitty Canadian thumbnail

>>9283639
Let's not be ridiculous here, smoking is still smoking. It is actually better for your lungs to vape. You don't have to have a douche vape pen either. You can have a desktop one that isn't mobile.

>>9283643
yeah i hate smoking and know there are risks. but from a medical--hell, even from an insurance standpoint (if we want to appeal to capitalism), cannabis itself--which can be ingested without smoke--is much less dangerous than alcohol, and even has fewer reported medical emergencies than caffeine.

(young folk getting heart attacks from energy drinks is somehow less concerning than a cancer patient using weed to take the edge off their pain without relying on prescription opioids... like what the fuck, man)

>>9283643
Depends entirely on what you are vaping. There are some pretty equally shitty chemicals in vape liquids as there are in a regular cigarette.

>>9283647
The desktop kind I was talking about, is for leaf matter. Not oils.

>>9283646
Yeah, people don't even mention edibles but they fucking should...

>>9283655
>leaf matter
How does that work without producing smoke?

>>9283674
It produces a vapor. Helps if the weed is really dry.

>>9283574
honestly im like this with my dream dress, and with most vibrant pastel ap releases (mostly because there arent enough of them to just have one of each)

>>9283631
Depression for starters? If you only enjoy your hobbies when you're high, then I'd wager that you don't really enjoy them.
Feel free to tell me to fuck off though

>>9283635
You ain't seen alcoholism being normalized until you've seen Bavaria. Shit like Oktoberfest is really only exceptional because of the leather pants. It is not a good place for an alcoholic to be.

>>9283674
I don't really understand the science, but it basically uses heating coils to burn the stuff without using an open flame, which somehow selectively gets you all the good stuff without the smoke.
It can also make the air around you smell like popcorn instead of skunk, which is nice.

>>9282718
How bad is it? Like can you jog on the spot or does even that cause you pain? Can you power walk? Good places to start for non running workouts are Pop Pilates, Darebee and P90X/beach body stuff (just find one of the myriad free downloads, don't pay)
I am flat footed, have bunions and used to have weak af ankles and found that strengthening my feet and ankles was the best thing for the pain. I'm still flat footed and still have some bunion pain but it's much better now.
You could also try something like couch to 5k to ease yourself into it

>>9283690
>If you only enjoy your hobbies when you're high, then I'd wager that you don't really enjoy them.
I'm not trying to be hostile towards you, really, I just don't care for your armchair.

My other hobbies are fine? Like, I still like playing video games and listening to music.
Mostly my issue is with putting on make up while sober. I never enjoyed it before lolita, and when I started lolita, I was already a stoner.
Not only that but I did mention that I cleaned house today and I did all of my laundry. I don't lack motivation for anything. The only reason I haven't left the house is because my house is surrounded by ice from snow melting. Once that's gone, I'm sure I'll venture out again, without any kind of drug to help.

I just felt like you were jumping conclusions.

>>9283698
>go off on a rant about being unable to enjoy hobby without weed, work issues, etc
>"y-y-you know nothing about me! It's not that I have these serious problems, I'm just a whiny little shit!"

Ebin.
It's like there's a pattern of this thinking here, and why feels threads should be deleted.

>>9283710
And now you're being hostile to me. Nice.

not being able to enjoy one hobby does not depression make. No wonder everyone is so fucking hopped up on pills. Just about anything qualifies for depression these days.

Again, go back to your armchair.

>tfw people keep inviting me to come to smaller meets
>tfw I'm too nervous even at the larger ones

If I just keep saying know they'll be sad though, right?

>>9283710
This one is in autosage. Cool your jets.

>>9283710
Is not >>9283690, FYI.
If you think you're fine, that'sounds good.
I'm just a stranger on the internet.

>>9283743
I was suspicious since suddenly there was an
>ebin
like ew.

And yeah. I was just posting about a fleeting problem. I posted on 420chan and they suggested exercise. And of course no one flipped out. It's all good. I'm not depressed, I promise. And even if I am, whatever, who isn't?

>>9283743
almost forgot, you have some really good points, btw!

I don't get why people hate weed so much when they are wasting their time on an image board. All things are just different ways to waste time anyhow.

>>9283719
you think that someone pointing out your hypocrisy is hostile? why dont you go back and cry to your safe space on tumblr you pothead

>tfw every girl is a lesbian

Damn

>>9283198
>mfw they are nice to me and forget they're way too good for me.

I don't deserve them. At all. They were so sweet and I dislike it, actually. I wish they would just get frustrated at me.

>>9283776
LE EBIN

>>9282718
>Install myfitnesspal
>Enter height/weight but no goal weight (stay at maintenance)
>Eat slightly less calories than what it tell you (often its around 300/500 under)
>Update weight every 2 weeks
And you'll lose weight
For optimal fat loss eat around 1 gram of proteins for 1kilo of your weight (still in calories range)
Also for the feet problem, look for a good doc. I didnt treat mine and now i have heavily crossed legs
For more diet detail, go read the sticky, itll explain the rest

Also you can only reduce bodyfat generally. Only belly/leg fat loss is impossible, unless you have perfect genetics

>have two hair ties with puff balls on them
>lose 1
why live