/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8575330
>I feel exactly the same way, except I don't have a boyfriend.

>>8575330
>be lolita
>be lesbian
>all my lolita crushes have bfs
>foreveralone.jpg

I can put up with con-blues, even though I hate it, but I forget that I can get those feels after going to meetups.

>I want a cute Lolita girlfriend
> no Lolitas within an hour of me

>all these loli lesbians
>even if one of them lived near me, they wouldn't date me

>be ouji
>nobody's accessory

s-strong independent prince don't need no lolita

>lost 20 pounds so far for lolita
>the more I lose the sadder I get because I can't physically be as thin as I want to be because my bone structure wont allow it.

>feeling okay about being alone forever
>no reasonable guy would want to date me and I don't blame them
>see girl younger than I am getting married. its all over fb because we know a lot of the same people
>i-it's not like I want companionship anyway. I'll just hug all my mirai trunks figures. They are better than a boyfriend, right?

>Lost weight
>Half my lolita dresses too big to wear
>Half too small.

I can't win

Point is I'm pathetic as fuck.

>>8575330
>asexual
>lesbian
pick one.
You should blame dumblr for this, not lolita.

>>8575532
You never know anon

>>8575562
>asexuals can't have a preference in their choice of gender
You realize asexuality only affects an individuals ability to experience sexual attraction and has absolutely nothing to do with with which gender they prefer being in a relationship with?

>>8575543
>tfw no ouji to hang around with while in lolita and take cute innocent pictures with

>>8575566
No one would want me since I'm retaining my virginity till I die. Everyone but nuns just has to have their holes filled.

>>8575567
a lesbian is a homoSEXUAL woman.
Just sayin'

>>8575583
end your life

>saving every penny so I can move out
>mom is a huge cunt with anger issues
>it's fucking hell
>so many dresses I want go up on sale
>finding tons of cute accessories for coords
>comm members selling blouses in my size for mega cheap
>can't buy anything

Why can't this shit go on sale in 6 months.

Going to a convention next month and I am so nervous to meet friends face-to-face at a meetup for the first time.

>>8575595
Thats rough anon. I too am in the midst of trying to save to move out (emotionally abusive parents) but then lolita keeps handing me lemons.
>AP re-releases
>Baby's new coats, re-releases and choco print
>all those gorgeous halloween indie prints
>antique beast opening for orders

>>8575330
Anon are you me?

>have amazing bf I love and want to marry and have kids with
>be asexual
>crushing on other female lolitas and cosplayers who look like and remind me of a certain someone
>bf sort of knows; all this crushing is really all a cover for wanting someone I used to be friends with but fell out over me being a stupid teenage brat
>girl I actually want didn't respond when I tried to reach out to her
>has left the Internet, probably won't talk to her ever again; she probably hates me or no longer cares
>thishurtssomuch.jpg

>>8575613
She probably hates you because she knows you're the type of person to be crushing on multiple other people whilst having a partner you claim to love and secret lusting after her. She's better off without you.

>>8575330
>>8575335
>>8575441
I thought I was off legbutt...

>>8575574
I'd be okay with that, it's your choice anon.

>>8575532
>>8575550
Damn it anons you need to try to be more optimistic and outgoing.

>>8575632
Marry me
I'll fly you to my country
I'm deadly serious

>>8575550
>mirai trunks

Good taste anon

>>8575634
>4chan
>optimistic
>outgoing
where the fuck do you think you are?

>try to sell used panties online
>disguise my identity and make everything anonymous
>shoop timestamps of hot girls in generic panties to use
>CL flags my ads and everywhere else is a paysite except for reddit
Damn. I thought it would be easier somehow.

>>8575566
I feel like there's at least a chance two asexuals could find eachother, or someone could be happy with an asexual partner...
but what do you do when you're just plain ugly? I'm in good shape, but wasted on not desirable figure (small chest, no waist, wide hips), ski slope nose, huge nostrils, small mouth with non existant lips, jaw so weak it doesnt really exist...are there levels of ugly personality can't make up for? I think there are.

>>8575638
I don't think you'll want to marry me anon
>no one likes me

>>8575543
I feel bad for you but I couldn't help but laugh.

>>8575647
Pic related is in a long lasting loving relationship.
You have NO excuse.

>>8575650
Anon, no one likes me!
We are made for each other - if you don't want to marry right away can we at least talk outside of here?

>>8575639
It's not like any real guy could compare anyway...

>left comm well over a year ago
>decide to join fashion show at upcoming con
>well why the fuck not
>remember you left for a reason and they don't like you
>hope to god nothing bad happens

WELP no turning back now.

>>8575586
Anon the poster you replied to looks more like they believe the older use of the word as a sexual orientation. Asexual at one point was the exact opposite of bisexuality and being all forms of asexuality as in aromatic and other terms.
I don't really agree with the anon above you but I do think asexuality has become the new trendy orientation. I've seen a lot of transtrenders go asexual over a summer.

>>8575656
Sure!
My kik is strawboobers
We can exchange contact info there

>>8575654
Wow.. that actually made me feel better (which briefly made me feel terrible!) Genuine thanks for the boot to the head.

>always going to conventions and getting cosplays
>been planning a big trip to dream destination for years
>family don't understand why I don't want to settle down
>pick on me for always being online
>no job, not going to school cause expensive and I have no career goals
>pretty sure family thinks I'm a lazy-ass that'll never amount to anything
>definitely don't think I have any plans for a career or family
>don't approve of gay marriage anyway so not like they'd support it
>haven't bothered to tell them that as far as I'm concerned the moment I can't afford conventions and I've gotten my dream trip over with that I could die without any regrets

I'm almost 30 and honestly, that's fine with me. I want to go on my dream trip and after that, if I die then I'll be happy with it. Whether it's by my own hands or nature. I've always been pretty relaxed when it comes to death so I have no fear about accidents or being murdered or even committing suicide. As far as I'm concerned, I've lived my life how I want to and I'll be fine going any time. I don't want to live to be old, I never once saw that for myself. My life is measured one event at a time and if I can't have those events or I've done my dream trip then that's it.

I'm not dumb enough to say that to my family/friends because I don't want them thinking the worst but it's just nice to say it for once, even anonymously.

>>8575663
I'm installing kik just for you, anon.

>>8575574
Find someone who has tried sex and hates it then. Its not uncommon.

>>8575657
Same goes for my husbando anon.

>>8575672
Who is it?

>>8575664
>(which briefly made me feel terrible!)
Don't worry about it anon, she's gotten far worse shit said about her on the internet, hell she's been dubbed the world's ugliest woman. No problem. Take comfort knowing there will always be someone prettier than you, but that there will also be someone uglier than you.

>>8575669
Where is your dream trip to anon?

>>8575671
I don't want to date someone whose had their hole filled. That's gross.

>>8575674
Fire emblem character. But let's not turn this into a husbando thread like the itabag thread does half of the time.

>>8575658

> participated in fashion show
> pictures are at worst possible angle and lighting
> leave lolita out of fear of being posted here

Be careful, anon.

>>8575678
Are gold star asexuals very common?

>>8575676
I don't really want to say in specifics because I am slightly paranoid about friends browsing but it's a very popular themed park in America.

>>8575662
Thank you.
Asexuality is the new bisexuality and people just go like "i'm asexual but I like having sex whee look at me I'm so weird! Oemgee that guy is so hot!!" and it is fucking annoying.
I don't mean to offend anon. I'm just tired of it. Being a lesbian is exactly a sexual orientation. If you are sexually attracted to people, you aren't ace.

>>8575682
I was just curious is all.

To keep it on topic I'll add more lolita feels
>tfw friend that got you into lolita is an ita

I was looking through her outfits today because I wanted to draw her a picture because she was feeling down. I had to pick her most basic outfit in order to draw anything half way decent.

>>8575641
>/m/ picture
>tfw /m/ is better on other boards these days.
On topic yeah I know where I am but its really the only way for them. You have to keep at it for years for anything big to happen though.

>>8575682
>into a husbando thread like the itabag thread does half of the time.
>expensive bags dedicated to character, pairing, or series
>thread about them on female dominated board

Oh no, I don't see how that could be husbando related at all

>>8575685
No, we are a dying breed.

>>8575695
Sorry I didn't mean it like that, I just don't want another feels thread to get deleted.

And I know that feel, except that it was someone I knew (somewhat) that bought a dolldelight dress, you know those overpriced monstrosities.

>>8575700
Sorry if that came over negative, I really like the itabag threads where we can discus husbandos freely. I just didn't want to derail this thread.

>>8575703
Oh no I wasn't offended or mad or anything. Sometimes I forget that not everyone understands how I mean to say something without voice inflection.

My other friend that I got into lolita also tends to have some ita tendencies which makes me wonder if I was also an ita this whole time.

>>8575691
you can be asexual but interested in a loving relationship tho right? is an asexual who wants that with a woman not a lesbian?

>>8575706
Ah, I understand. It's alright. It's extremely hard to keep one of these topics on subject to begin with.

>>8575709
That is straight up asexuality. You aren't sexually attracted to people, you like them for romantic relationships and you have preferences of a more female personality.

>>8575702
are yuo only interested in gold staes or is it just apreference?
sory about typing,holding kitten in one hand

>>8575713
thanks for tje info, i find it difficult to parse all the relationship/sex/gender terms these days

>>8575678
>Caring if they had sex ever
You an entitled child if you are really that bother by them having a sexual experience before instead of actually caring about the person themselves.

>>8575722
Yeah, sorry if I upset you or anything.
Asexuality is confusing, and even more difficult with all of the "asexuals" who try to teach people about it.

>>8575715
More a necessity than anything really. I'm insanely possessive/jealous so the thought of my partner ever having been touched by someone other than me is a nightmare.
>>8575723
Slut detected

>>8575724
no not upset at all, i like the clarification. sometimes i feel like everything is so overly complicated so it's actually a relief to get a single adjective answer.

>>8575734
So just virginal? or kissless/hugless virgin?

>>8575734
>I'm insanely possessive/jealous
Honestly? You sound like an abusive person in the making. Can only imagine what you'd do to the person you were dating if someone else so much as touched them casually.

>>8575740
or if, god forbid, they were raped.

>>8575683
>going to model in a fashion show soon
>already not super confident with looks
>not really photogenic at all...

I'm just gonna pray they have a really good photographer

>>8575621
I don't actually want to fuck her, I just want our friendship back. They're not even crushes really, I'm just projecting my emotions onto people who look like her.

None of this has to do with why she hates me, what the fuck. I was single when we fell out.

>>8575709
I honestly think at that point while some may consider it asexual that can still be considered normal in a relationship. Do not presume ever relationship has to involve sex it is things like this that is the reason I compare it to bitrenders and transtrenders back in the day. Don't stick to a label off assumptions. In the case of acetrenders they commonly assume that sex is related to relationships which it isn't really. Not to say it doesn't exist but that its east to assume something because of how you feel/felt at a moment.

>>8575734
>slut
Called it so many times by aces because I'm bi. I actually give a shit about commitment though and who my partner is other than what they have done in the past.

>>8575739
Kissless/hugless would be a dream come true but I live in the real world.

>>8575675
>World's ugliest woman
Hey, that's your mom's job :^)

>>8575764
>I may be a future episode of Dateline's murder special but at least I'm realistic

>>8575740
Fuck you, I'd never hurt anyone. Just because my insecurity manifests itself by severe jealousy doesn't mean I'm an irrational control freak. If that situation occurred I'd calmly explain that it upset me and ask them not to allow it to happen again.

>>8575778
>never would hurt anyone
>I'm not an irrational control freak
>would honestly prefer a partner who's never kissed or even hugged anyone
>openly admits that you'd ask partner to not allow someone to even hug them again
>thinks that isn't irrational or that wouldn't at least hurt someone emotionally and mentally

>>8575741
Truthfully I'd kill the rapist and then myself if that were to happen.

>>8575790
not you, your hypothetical partner

>>8575789
There is literally nothing wrong with that.

>>8575794
There is everything wrong with that. Unless you yourself would allow no one else to touch you?

>>8575792
Yes, that's how I'd react to them being raped. I couldn't live with the knowledge that the person I love had been defiled

>>8575794
Someone call Dr Phil cause this is some denial to the next level shit right here.

>chronic migraine
>regular headaches in between
>summer almost over
>convention in a month
>nothing accomplished

>>8575798
Get help.

>>8575797
I'd never allow anyone but my partner to touch me. I nearly died once because I refused the kiss of life from a stranger.

>i think im asexual

>its not because i cant get a partner tho

>im just asexual

>>8575805
> rather die than be touched
Seriously, anon, you need help.

>>8575798
>partner is raped
>nope I'm gonna just off myself because I can't live with the knowledge that they've been defiled
>leave partner you supposedly "love" to deal with rape and then murder and then suicide

You're a shitty boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse, anon. Like, you'd be better off NEVER getting romantically involved with someone because you'd screw someone's mind up so bad. You're toxic as fuck. Get therapy. 100% serious.

>>8575804
For what? You're just judging me by normie standards.

>>8575807
Being touched without love is wrong, its filthy and disgusting
>>8575808
My partner would be strong enough to handle it

>>8575811
We are judging you for not caring about the person you supposedly love enough to help them when bad things happen.
I hope you never find a gf and that you die alone.

>>8575817
Begone Satan.

>tfw used to check cgl religiously
>tfw been away from cgl for months now
>tfw missed drama
>tfw missed releases
>tfw no clue what I've missed
>tfw no clue what's happening these days

Anyone else get the feeling asexual anon has been raped/molested themselves? Their psyche makes alot more sense that way.

>>8575833
lurk a lot and ease back into it, anon. gulls repeat the same stuff often and have elephant-like memory, so you can pick up whatever is relevant next time someone posts yet another recap.

as for releases... it's halloween and almost all major brands have released previews.

>>8575841
or just raised in religious environment with a lot of internalized fear/shame over sex

anon seems to be romanticizing something obviously unhealthy, so /r9k/ influence is a possibility.

>>8575806
K, and?
>>8575833
I get that feel too every week on here. Hard to keep up.

>>8575846
Damn that /r9k/, poisoning the minds of lost and fearful souls who don't know any better.

>>8575854
Tumblr is just as bad. The ace community there can hit irl yandere lvls of wat.

>>8575764
>hugless

How the hell would someone accomplish that?

>>8575861
Omg anon you got any caps of that shit
I love me some tumblr cray cray

>>8575867
Their parents never loved them?

>>8575678
Don't listen to the others. There is nothing wrong with a preference for virgins.

>>8575764
I want to hug you anon. And take your hand and then we can go stay inside under blankets to search for cheap cute shit on ebay,watch things and order chinese takeout
>all the lesbian seagulls ITT
H-hi

>>8575888
>>8575891
You anons are the ray of light at the end of this dark tunnel. Thank you.

>>8575891
>mfw i read the whole thing
nvm you are a crazy bitch no wonder you are hugless and kissless. you sound abusive af too, get help.

>>8575867
Not that anon but I can count all the hugs in my life on one hand

>>8575908
You lonely soul.

>>8575900
Purity for life!

>>8575917
Not to rain on your pure parade but does that make someone a slut to have sex for you? Or enjoying masturbation and stuff?
I-it doesnt make me any less kawaii right?
>still not had sex with a dude
>sweet passionate lesbian sex on the other hand...

>>8575691
I know someone like that. He's also a transtrender. I'M A BOIIII

All these lesbian gulls

Oh my

>>8575923
Being transgendered is also the new bisexual.

>see dream dress for sale
>commenters offer above my max bid

At least I didn't waste my time PM'ing.

>>8575969
Lesbian gulls are everywhere if you know the secret mating calls.

>tfw lesbian cosplayer who just wants to cosplay fujoshit and yurishit otps with non-existent girlfriend

>>8575689
Disney maybe? If it is, I just got back and I hope you have a great time! Wherever you're going, enjoy your dream trip anon.

>>8575993
you should have placed a max bid anyway in case they were flakes. so many fucking buyers are flakes or try to haggle after bidding.