/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

>>8556872

Bonus tags:

#ouji#pastel#kodona#boystyle#irregular choice#femboy#agender#genderqueer#personal#photography

>>8556872
oh god.

>>8556872
Why would you not wear longer shorts or a shorter blouse? This looks like underwear.
No doubt it looks bad without the shoop, too.

>>8556872
oh god why

>>8556981
This isn't even worthy of the nitpick thread, let alone ita thread. She's just fat.

>>8556875
>#irregular choice#femboy#agender#genderqueer#

>>8556985
Are we looking at the same picture?

>>8556981
There is nothing ita about this. Nitpick, yes, but other than that, like >>8556985
said, she's just fat.

>>8557041
I agree with other anon. It's nitpick. The styling is ok, she just ugly.

>>8557049
>>8557050
Yeah, I don't think it's ita but it's definitely nitpick worthy

>>8556872
>>8556875
Yeah, thank you for tagging all your fetishes you damn freak....

>>8556981
God that wig needs help.

>>8556986
Irregular Choice is just a shoe brand. Why does that deserve rage?

>>8556981
>Bad wig hat has clear never been in the same room as a brush
>No make-up
>Problem glasses

She looks like an ugly drag queen who just got out of bed.

Some DL gold.

>>8557595

>>8557599

>>8557601
>kodona

>>8557599
Are her socks photoshopped to be red?

>>8557601
Nitpick
Change the wig and shoes and a different color socks
I like the cardigan with this though

>>8557601
>>8557616
lol she isn't even wearing a petticoat and accessories all over the damn place.

possibly find a different yellow bag, too. MP print looks off with this.

>>8557599
Woah. Did we just go back to the FRUiTs era?

Straight from the worn thread. Focus on right girl.

>>8557693
Nitpick

>>8557601
wait no I like this, really working the odd color combo-
>sees shoes
BURN IT

>>8557695
You're joking, right? I said the right girl. The one wearing Little Mermaid by haenuli.

>>8557595
>>8557599
Wait are these recent? I remember her dressing this bad a some years ago, but last I looked she had gotten a bit better. Then again I haven't looked at DL in like 2 years.

>>8557224
Selected too much when trying to quote that part, my bad.

>>8557693
nah, that's ok

>>8557695
>>8557881
>workshirt, whos neckline looks really off with the jsk
>no petti
>no accessories (like, at all?)
>hair is alright but could use at least something

I'd say its more than a nitpick.

>>8557913
Agreed. I'm not one of those "three strikes and it's ita" types but if literally everything but the dress is wrong, it's not just a nitpick.

>>8556872
does anyone else notice shes doing the nay nay dance in the pic?

>>8557881
What are you talking about!? Is that you or your friend or something?

>>8557695

>>8556872

Oh god, it's the debauched genderqueer offspring of an ita and a yowie weeb.

>>8557595
Is this a freddy kruger themed coord?

Saved this especially for this thread

Steampunk Lolita Cosplay

>>8557601
Surely she's going for a fairy kei look... right? :/

>>8557601
Get out newfag. Christ I'm not even that old I've just been into Lolita for years, but it's so embarrassing that so many of you don't recognize older styles.

>>8558076
>older styles

This ita, bruh
>wearing a cardigan open but not a blouse
>LEOPARD PRINT TENNIS SHOES
>Random ribbon tied around ankle
>socks that match nothing in the coord

When I first look at this I thought it was a nitpick, but it's definitely ita. There are just too many things wrong with it.

>>8558049
That forehead is so unfortunate. Get some bangs girl!

>>8558076
>so embarrassing that so many of you don't recognize older styles.

>>8558049
Holy five head, Batman.

>>8558076
i hope this is bait for your sake

>>8557224
To be honest, as someone who loves IC, I pretty much want to rage about her touching those shoes with her filthy hands. Not going to do it (beyond this post) tho.

>>8558049
Where's the steam? Where's the punk? Where's the lolita?

>>8557848
All cool.

I'd wondered if it was related to feelings like this anon: >>8558466

Remember when we said she was improving? Feel so sorry for her comm

>>8558563
At least her shoes match better

>>8558563
whats wrong with her face?

>>8558563
She has improved a lot. Look even at her face, she isn't shiny anymore. With real shoes this would be quite cute.

>>8556872
more like noji

>>8558563
The highwaist cut makes her posture look even worse. Otherwise, yes she improved a bunch, not quite there yet but she might make it.

>>8558579
Not with that cheap blouse, tights, and wig. Underskirt doesn't look good with the jsk but the dress is too short otherwise. No hair accessories, wig isn't styled, no accessories on her hands/wrists, and hardly any makeup. This coord is tiers below some of her other recent coords. At least she's not whitefacing it anymore.

>>8556981
Not ita, just fat and bodyline.

Whatever this mess is, not sure if ita or cringe.

>>8558627
ugh those masks are so fucking creepy.
It's both ita and cringe. Nothing matches but it doesn't look too bad because the camera quality is so good.

>>8558627
This is the first of these kigurumi masks I see that look actually decent

>>8558591
kodon'ta

>>8558627
Nitpick & cringe. I fucking hate those doll heads. With the coord, apart from the tights, random hair clips, and shoes it's solid.

OT, I really fucking love that surface spell dress, it continues to haunt me, but there's no green :(

>>8556872
no
>those tags
get out

>>8556981
nitpick

>>8557595
what is this even

>>8557599
Not lolita but it makes me remember of the ol' fRUITS era, sweet nostalgia.

>>8557601
This is more fairy kei than lolita actually, also no petticoat and terrible sneakers so nope

>>8557608
Oh hell no

>>8557693
More of a nitpick

>>8558049
Ughhhhh...

>>8558563
nitpick but i dislike it. Also the wig color is badly parted.

>>8558627
What have you done to my friend's dream dress?

>>8558627
Technically it's a nitpick.
The tights don't go and the blue barrette doesn't work. The rest is fine.

>>8558670
>friend's dream dress

Your friend does know she can still buy these right? <_<

>>8558049
Why does every steampunk coord have utterly shapeless skirts? Lolita and steampunk are two fashions where poof of some sort is required, and yet she's wearing something with all the structure of a potato.
And this has been said, but it bears repeating- get something to cover that fivehead with, even if it's a clip-on or a wig, please. She'd look so much better if she knew how to do her hair and makeup to flatter that face.

>>8558627
The dress, blouse and cape look great. If you sut the top and bottom off and left the middle, and added a petticoat, it'd be fine. What the fuck were they thinking when they added the tights though?

>>8558117
Pretty sure it's a joke, since the girl was presumably going for OTT sweet.

Found this in Daily Lolita after the other anon inspired me to trawl the site. What is it with itas and striped socks?

>>8558843
Sorry for the lighting, there were two and both were equally shitty in terms of lighting

>>8558843
They think patterned socks = lolita, and stripes are the kind of patterned socks that are easiest to get hold of.

>>8558049

>>8558843
Source on those shoes though?

>>8558627
I feel like it's staring into my soul...

>>8557595
>>8557599
At first glance I thought she might be 12??
But that face

>>8557601
The lack of petti and the terrible shoes make me sad, but this kind of sweet is what got me into lolita.

>>8557693
Sauce on left girl's dress?

>>8556875
>irregular choice
Do I want to know what this means?

>>8559189
It's a shoe brand.

>>8559189
It's a shoe brand.
kek.

>>8559198
>>8559202
eyyyyyyy

>>8559187
AatP Stripe Chiffon Baby Doll JSK
http://lolibrary.org/apparel/stripe-chiffon-baby-doll-jsk

>>8558563
They had a meet in Japantown yesterday. They were all eating at the crepe/shaved ice stall in the mall in San Francisco.

>>8559198
>>8559202
Can we make up a definition for "irregular choice" to troll tumblr with? It could be like,

>my sexual and romantic preferences are typically FtM or MtF lumberjack/janes, but sometimes I make an ~irregular choice~ and fall for asexual panromantic secretaries
>don't be afraid to make an irregular choice regardless of your actual sexuality!

>>8556872
>mfw I thought it was a Stocking cosplay

>>8559464
What's this documentary thing she's talking about, do you know? It's not that awful MTV thing, is it?

>>8559562
What? Who is talking about a documentary?

>>8559565
Some person posted on the comm page about doing a documentary or something and asked who would be interested on being in it

>>8559614
Oops dropped pic

>>8559618
Oh. I know nothing about it. I'm not a part of the comm, but I'm pretty sure it was them. There were about 14 lolitas sitting in the West Hall at the shaved ice/crepe area outside of the arcade.

>>8559484
I think it would make more sense as someone who 'isn't like all the others' and is '~alternative and individual~'

>>8558049
I may know this girl....

>>8558843
Did Hilde get herself an apprentice or something?

>>8558670
You're telling me that you can just throw on a jsk on top of some regular old blouse, do nothing else, and get called nitpick? If not, you didn't read the post.

the last comment though. what?

>>8558563
That isn't her real face

>>8560331
I'm just as bothered by the second comment to be honest.
>im lolita as in i am and always was attracted to older men
Get the fuck out, even if you're talking about the book, that's not what it's about at all.

>>8560331
If people were posting roast duck in the cookie tag I'd get pretty annoyed too, actually.
Is this person saying that "real Lolitas" aren't women who wear lolita fashion ("cosplay") but underage girls who want to fuck older men? Someone needs to introduce these two to the nymphet tag.

>>8560331
She should have tagged it as Nymph then

I personally like (as in appreciated - it was disturbing but brilliant) the book and I admire the fashion that they have taken from the 1997 film Delores but she really shouldn't tag it as Lolita

>>8559618
Quick, somebody call Kate.

>>8559189
a shoe brand. most of their stuff is kitchy or tacky imo but they have these amazing light up sneakers that get replica'd all the time

>>8558627
That doll head is horrible. But I would love to own that dress!

>>8558852
that vampire knight arm band...

>>8560553
Seeing her face makes me salty but I don't remember why. Does this chick have a history?

>>8560584
Her face kind of reminds me of that efag thugxwife.

>>8560553
>>8560584
Her Tumblr is maroonsparrow

>I somehow flat out forgot to pack the ¾ chiffon white blouse I was planning with this outfit, which turned out for the best because it was over 100 degrees! It did make my winter hat look a bit out of place, but that hat isn’t as hot as wig and I liked the color with the dress so I decided to still wear it.

I fucking love it when people try to justify their terrible coord choices like this

>>8560315
No but by that i meant that she somehow got the point of lolita but not really...you get me? It was a lazy attempt and if i saw it i would have been like "err..." but still.
"ita" is something i use when it hurts my eyes so that must have to do with that.

>>8560553
>tfw that is your dream dress

>>8560553
>no blouse
>fuzzy hat
make up your god damn mind.

>>8558627
I actually like this other than the mismatching clips and the odd tights.

>>8558843
Am I just crazy or sans the socks is this cute for normalfag clothes

>>8560847
I thought so too. Idk why, but this reminds me of a coord from Deka Wanko.

She wore this for a day of lolita meetups apparently. One which involved a "lolita who flew to nyc to film a documentary" (anyone know if that's kate related?) and another for macarons.

I can't even imagine being in the same room with >>8558563 and >>8561033 at the same time.

>>8561082

>>8561033
Nah, it was a lolita who goes by lingozero

>>8558843
OMG she´s wearing 3 fucking socks pairs!
WHAT THE HELL WAS SHE THINKING!?
(Btw, this is more disgusting beacuse she´s a cute girl)

>>8561082
>suicide.png

Ok I get just starting out but...wearing this to an AP tea party.

>>8556872

>>8560331
and it continues....

>>8561420
>>8561420
I saw her post this a few weeks before the tea party, I really wanted to say something but what can you do?
Other than that it's more of a nitpick than ita, with different shoes and a better hairbow it would be pretty cute.

>>8561460
This is so embarrassing to read.

>>8561460

>>8561246
Best gif evar

Looks like Chuckie Finster grew up and became a brolita.

this whole channel
https://www.youtube.com/user/BatatasFofas

>>8561759
i was gonna post this too holy shit.
like i can forgive the face, because i'm the kind of person who cares more about the coord, but that hair styling is gross, there are no accessories, and that entire lower half is just so wrong. why did they think those socks and shoes were a good idea??

>>8558563
Fairly sure that's an Alisa Bosconovitch (Tekken) cosplay wig... :/

>>8560553
That's surprising.. her previous coordinates looked nice.

>>8561460
That whole paragraph made no sense, I'm not even sure what she's trying to say. Intense cringe.

>>8559618
I feel bad for her because it kind of feels like just the fame-thirsty lolitas wanted to go to this meet, and they're badly dressed, so it's not a very good representation of the comm.

>>8561460
part 3

Thank you Mccalls patterns for providing us with future ita thread material

>>8562763
>Wrapped the wrong way round.

Why people gotta do this.

>>8562811
Does this costume really look like they give a shade of a fuck?

>>8562232
The well-dressed people in this comm are smart enough not to be in a Lolita "documentary", so that just leaves the attention-seeking itas.

>>8562232
Not all of them are badly dressed. There's that one new lolita that can afford whatever the fuck because she's a model and is always working

>>8562213
She used to be a rather obnoxious ita. She's improved a lot since then but I guess everyone relapses once in a while.

>>8562763
Oh dear god no.

>>8562763
sweet baby jesus have mercy

>>8562811
>>8562826
Actually, it's perfect the other way around, since it should be burned.

>>8556872
not that I come across too many ouji itas but this is up there.

>>8563010
i find many, because i frequently hunt for ouji coords. however, i rarely save them.

let's dump some now.

they usually call

>>8563021
*they usually call themselves "kodonas" and can be mostly found on kodona tags.

>>8562763
They tucked the kimono the wrong way
That model is dead

>>8563023

>>8563036

>>8563037

>>8563040

>>8563044

>>8563046

>>8563049

>>8563053

>>8563055

>>8563058

>>8563049
Out everything I've ever seen for ouji, this is the one thing that makes me think of ageplay.

>>8563060

>>8556872
The great ouji exodus was a tragic event in lolita history. Ouji were outcast from lolita society, and many were forced into undesirable professions such as prostitution, counterfeit manufacture, and drug dealing.

>>8563021
well hot damn. As an ouji, this is why I don't touch the kodona tag.

>>8563065

>>8563070
yeah there are some good "kodona"s but typically it's where the trash lives.

>>8563071

>>8563083

>>8563062
yeah. i also find >>8563058 and >>8563046 to be ageplayish. the latter has a lot of photos that just make me uncomfortable.

>>8556872
It's kind of sad because her face has that visual kei look and would work with proper ouji really well.

>>8563090

>>8563099
just

>>8563104
why

>>8563107

>>8563108

>>8563110

>>8563113

>>8563044
Kinda fabulous, costumy but I can't help but like it.
>>8563107
Beetlejuice?

>>8563116

>>8563118

>>8563107
Ruki cosplay? I can't fucking tell.

>>8563121
lolita, ouji--itas of every stripe love these tacky socks

>>8563123
no, she called it a kodona coord.

>>8563126
if black and white stripes aren't your thing, go ahead and shoehorn another horizontal pattern into your coord.

>>8563113
>Gavroche-kei

>>8563150
He's the top of the class

>>8563150
>>8563229
Love you my les mis trash

>>8563036
I have that same build a bear

>>8563358
she says it's her little brother's

>>8563049
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh

>>8563110
I know this girl, she´s from argentina
Btw, her lolita coords are terrible too

>>8563053
Honestly, replace the bottoms of this with black jeans or something and change out the hat and this would be such a cute casual outfit, shame they had to ruin it by trying to make it ouji. Whoever this is has a really cute face too.

>>8558627
Honestly that's a really really pretty kigurumi and a good cord if you ignore the fact there isn't any headwear.

>>8563104
Woah, this brings back memories.

>>8561420
Nitpick at best. She just needs shoes that match.

>>8563113
>"It's all coming back to me now..."

>>8563099
stay classy ohayocon

The best use of fake blood I've ever seen.
>burn it
>OC? Fresh from facebook

>>8561759
Your comment... My siiiiides.

Com dump coming. There's one girl dressed well in this whole cringe fest.
When will people realise that 'silly face' photos are not lolita and, if you post them on social media and tag them as lolita, people will shit on you.

>>8564243

>>8564215

Dried blood is dark brown but thin like watercolor paint. On the other hand fresh blood is bright red, viscous, and glossy/wet looking. That is why dyed corn syrup is often used for fake blood because it bead up and has the right thickness and it remains glossy.

>>8564244

>>8564248

>>8564256

>>8564259

>>8563036
I know this is awful to say but I kind of like it... not as "kodona" tho

>>8564262
Someone send top right money so she can either buy herself a house closer to a better comm or some flamethrowers

the short-shorts and ill-fitted blouse are a required combo for every "no-ji" starter pack.

>>8564265
ehh nitpick in general.
This is an average comm. A few itas, most meh tier to nitpick. The only times you generally see people dressed perfectly are for big meet ups or photoshoots.
Get used to it.
Have you even worn lolita before?

>>8564273
So which one are you?

>>8564265
>Gwen
Is't she in SF? Afaik SF comm is quite big with plenty of well-dressed lolitas. Almost looks like they were having an ita-only meetup or something.

>>8564259
I jope she wasn't calling this Lolita. Because it's passable fairy kei.

>>8564277
none of them.
I'm realistic.

the number of "kodona" with visible bellies confuses me

>>8564273
>>8564243
>shoes, 5head, no bouse, round collared shirt, no accessories apart from head eater

>>8564244
>Orange? tights, mismatched (ugly) headpiece, bad eyeliner, bad hair, no more makeup, no accessories, shoes??

>>8564248
>FACE, is that a bell on her collar?, no propper blouse, mismatched stockings, SHOES AGAIN

>>8564256
>Looks like a fat Amy Pohler or a crack addict, nothing about this is lolita at all, maybe the shoes that I can barely see

>>8564259
>arguable fairy kei, fakeboi, can't pose in any of 'his' photos, cringe in itself, not lolita, so far from lolita, still posted in the lolita tag

>>8564262
>Cheap corset, boobsag, fishnet gloves, shoehorning in those damned diamond print stockings with a piece of yellow fuzz and two pieces of gold jewellery -- you know, despite the corset and print being silver. AND THOSE SHOES W/ THAT PRINT

Sorry this com is ita as fuck

>>8564248
Vendetta. Coord is cute. she just happened to make an unfortunate expression.

>>8561033
This person identifies as a male. Not joking.

>>8564291
nah, you are too picky.

>>8564297
That's the same person from the above comm holy shit

>>8564265
There's like one ita in that picture and a couple of nitpicks. Fucking chill.

>>8564273
I wonder if this is CDC-set-with-soccer-mom-makeup-chan selfposting.
>if they're not wearing a flawlessly matching set straight from the brand (like me) they're ita!
>if they don't have the exact same soulless model face in every picture (like me) they're ita!
>btw look at me and how much better I look in comparison

>>8564282
Yes, this is the SF comm, but most of the people showed up to this meet are new.

>>8561082
I've never met >>8558563, but I hung out quite a bit with >>8561033 at my first meet. S/He wasn't so bad. Lowkey weeb, but we're in fuckin lolita so isn't everyone?

>>8564285
What belly though? I mean O guess you were around when you took that picture but it looks more like the blouse to me. Also it's a really cute outfit.

>>8564306
If only I owned it. I actually saw her unbox milky planet the other day on some facebook group and still think she needs work, especially with her wigs.

And she looks like Boxxy.

>>8564315
Crap. Not milky planet, no idea what I'm thinking of. Dreamy Planetarium .

>>8564306
Well I mean the others aren't great, but this is pretty average for a comm, it isn't too terrible.

>>8564327
>>8564306
>>8564302
>>8564273

>>8564329
Sorry to burst your bubble, anon, but most comms look like this outside of the big events where everyone goes all out.

>>8564329
Anon of course most of them look bad. Frumpy, fat and not particularly fashionable or elegant. But it's not screaming ita. It's just average folk looking average.

>>8564338
In my comm, we go all out even though it's a simple meet up but we usually do coord contest even though it's a casual simple meet up.

>>8564437
Curious, what goes into a coord contest: who judges and what are the prizes?
Sage for OT

>>8564306
She's posted that same exact coord before, why is CoF shitting themselves over it. Her wigs are wirey and sloppy too - just please take them off soccer mom-chan.

Frumpy as fuck

Really not a fan of how she coords tbh. It hurts my eyes.

>>8564243
>>'silly face photos are not lolita'

Jesus, calm down. It's lolita if they're wearing lolita properly. A face isn't going to change that. You sure sound fun...

>>8564831
That said, that comm really is ita.

>>8563135
Switch out the socks and she would literally look like a little boy kidnapped from another time

>>8564256
Truck stop lolita

>>8564843
no she wouldn't

>>8564329
I agree anon
Everyone expect CDC is ita, I don't know why people are claiming this is average

>>8564843
Only if by literally you mean vaguely.

>>8564843
Have you ever seen a little boy before?

>>8564865
Maybe the one in her basement.

>>8564248
Are we supposed to tear apart what are obviously good photos?

>>8564911
*goof
Thanks phone.

>>8564813
I hope this isn't another Kate in the making, except with sorority girl makeup instead of big black hipster frames.

>>8564821
>>8564248
>>8556981
nitpick, nitpick, nitpick

>>8561759
Is that an iphone tucked into one of the socks...?

>>8564930
omg lol, this is why we need pockets guys
or bags

>>8564932
I thought a matching bag was mandatory

>>8564265
The first time I saw that one on the top right post, I got salty and thought 'she looks pretty but the cunt is strong with this one.' I peeked at her fb and yes, yes she is. Fucking cheerleaders.

Kek

Lookbook is a goldmine.

>>8564987

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>>8564833
HA you wanna talk an ita comm?

>>8565002

>>8565000

>>8565005

>>8564932
If they're wearing AP, shouldn't there be a pocket?

>>8565002
That one decent-looking girl in the Chess Story JSK looks like she's lost all hope.

>>8564971
Cheerleader? Maybe 15 years ago, lol. She's in her 30s and always has to remind everyone in her CoF and RC posts.

>>8563150
>>8563229
I snorted so loud omfg

>>8564273
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>>8564338
>>8564433
Is it really too much to fucking ask that they put on some makeup?


>>8564248
>>8564248
If everything except the main piece and matched accessories is trash, it's not a nitpick. I would not wear those boots and those tights together with that dress (maybe not together at all). The blouse is questionable at best, and the jewelry is cheap garbage. Her wig looks decent but that's really the only thing I can say about the look overall. I'm not saying that people need to go all out every meetup but for christ sake.

>>8564985
>I never thought I'd post here again sobsobsob
Okay, we get it. You were banned for no good reason. Stop riding on the attention of something everyone else has already gotten over jfc

>>8564265
For some reason, that girl on the ground strikes me as someone who thinks she's such a special snowflake

>>8565004
Does that girl in the purple wig have her normal hair just hanging under the wig?

>>8564243
Ah yes brand itas my fav

>>8564985
god, i hate the ribbon ties on that beret. so fugly.

>>8564510
Not who you're replying to but sometimes bigger meetups have themes and we do a "Best Dressed" by show of hands, a judge's pick (judges are usually the event organizers), and a "Best Dressed to Theme". Prizes are usually just cute little knick-knacks. Sometimes we do a raffle for better (brand and up) prizes.

>>8565084
That person claims to be a male and gets annoyed by people using the wrong pronoun.

>>8565012
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>>8564821
Nitpick at most. Also, since when was 'frumpy' enough to be ita?
I came here for something painful to laugh at, not passable coords

>>8565244
>gets annoyed by people using the wrong pronoun
then a transguy
Non-transitioning trans people in general are horrible, I hate them.

>>8565139
I think it's a gradient wig

>>8560553
Why is she wearing a bathmat on her head?

>>8561460
>>8562240
Where was this posted?

>>8563036
What a cutie. Someone please show her how to dress.

>>8564248
lmao. That face has to be on purpose. But a derpy face doesn't make this ita. This is a nitpick.

>>8564985
I don't like her any more than you do, but that outfit isn't ita.

>>8564821
Dat forehead tho

>>8558843
I somehow find this kinda cute

>>8560339
There is a community on tumblr dedicated to the book Lolita and the attraction for older men. They share the lolita tag so yes it is what it's about.

>>8564996
The more I look at this the more I begin to think its kinda cute in a strange way? Yeah it's got problems but imo it's not awful

>>8565002
>>8565004
Oh no this is my comm. I know most of these girls and they are so sweet but these coords...

Fresh keks for you all

>>8565574
>complains about being bullied
>calls someone a cunt

hypocrites make me lol

>>8565577
I agree anon

How butthurt can you get though?

>>8565574
Ita and attitude aside, shouldn't they remove the image if the owner doesn't want their image to be used by the other blog?

>>8565244
What the fuck. But she looks as though she doesn't identify as a male. Why do people do that?

>>8565688
Nah.
The person doesn't own the image and even if they did it's being used under the fair use guidelines.

>>8565691
Because for some of us we are trans but still enjoy
lolita and stuff. It may seem snowflakey but it is a really difficult conundrum - is it fair to make someone give up the things that they love when they change who they are?

>>8565688

Nah, once you post something to tumblr you don't own it anymore lol. Besides they act like they're being attacked and are super entitled so they deserve it tbh

>>8565692
Ohhhh. That makes a ton of sense. Thanks for explaining it instead of getting buttmad at me.

>>8561246
Sure love how they cropped out the artist's name and made it shit quality.

>>8565702
Witnessing this interaction brought a tear to my eye.

>>8560331
This blog is gold. I saw ONE photoset from a plus size taobao listing, that's all

>>8565702
It's hard to get buttmad when you consider the circumstances.
Pronouns are only really important for trans people who are attempting to pass, though. When you are trying so hard to be something and finally feeling good it is shit to be told you are not doing well enough through the act of being misgendered.

Aforementioned snowflake will probably never actually transition and when it's time to buckle down and get on in the real world, revert to being a woman because it's "just a phase".

>>8565432
Why not try and help them?

>>8563135
what kind of ita-ass oliver twist looking shit...

>>8565851
The Ohio comm is complacent. They brag that "we're so chill there's no drama ever uwu you can wear replicas it's fine!" so if you try and help you'll be labeled a shit stirrer

>>8565002
Genuine concrit (i gotta do it)

Pink lady on left: honestly not that bad. A few accessories would help and maybe get a more taylored fit on the JSK. Heels would be nice.

Iron gate girl: Different blouse, tuck it in, more accessories and bigger hair.

Green floral girl: Differnet blouse. More gold accessories to match gold shoes or white shoes instead. fuller hair to go with flower crown BUT.. i actually liked this coord and fit on her body.

Minnie Mouse Chan: Not lolita. but it would look cute at disney.

Sad Chess story Chan: Keep rocking it. smile!

Tan smiley girl: Not lolita. But if you did something more with your hair it would be a cute normie outfit.

Burgundy Chan: Please cut your bangs. Different headwear, the white is too white. and your wristcuffs look like they are made of cheap lace. your actual outfit is fine though. Smile, and cut your bangs.

If we removed the 2 obviously non lolita girls and tweeked a few things here and there, this group would be fine in my book.

>>8564259
I find that when people purposely pose awfully, they are really self-conscious of their appearance. It's a self defense mechanism. "I look bad anyway so i may as well be in on the joke." I've been there so deep as a teen. i want to give her a hug.

>>8564244
She's pretty. Change that headgear girl, get some frilly ankle socks and cute heels.

Thought I'd do a small dump of some people in my comm. Most of us look pretty okay, but some of us...smh

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>>8564244
What dress is this? I love the bodice

>>8565899
Last I checked they weren't very chill with replicas. Still try at least. I can't count how many times I give con crit in my comm. A handful at best take my advise and they're the best dressed while everyone else thinks we're snobs. But at least we look good.

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>>8559074
seconding tho. i really like her shoes.

>>8565899
If people are asking or are open for concrit, it's fine to give it. If you just blatently post a reply to the pictures like here is what's wrong, you're going to be see as a douchecanoe no matter how you go about it. Most of those people are fairly new and learning, others are well aware of how they could've improved. What's done is done. Improve next time. Others are blissfully unaware and there isn't a thing you can do to change someone who doesn't want to change or isn't aware that others would like them to.

Instead why not show up and set an example for better coordinating? Post your coords so others can see. All of this is better and more productive than sitting on the sidelines making comments on an anonymous image board.

As for trying to help and being labeled as a shit stirrer: I give advice and suggestions all the time. People come to me for advice or ask what they could to improve or where to buy things. That's not shit stirring. Shit stirring would be posting unsolicited advice. Posting pictures up on /cgl/ like "ha, look at this comm" or commenting as above is even far more into the realm of shit-stirring than giving advice. What is logic?

And if someone wears a replica, most of us aren't ok with it and we're not down with it. But ultimately we understand that it's your money, your choice. We'll include you, but gently nudge you toward better purchasing decisions in hopes that you will improve over time.

Hell, I showed up to my first meet in a replica years ago. People learn, change and improve.

>>8565244
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>>8565769
Outward appearance doesn't always reflect gender identity. You wouldn't call a brolita by she/her when they were girl-passing in lolita if you knew they were a BROlita.

It's unrealistic for the person this discussion was about ( >>8561033 & >>8564265 ) to be mad if people were calling them the wrong pronouns when others probably didn't know any better. You don't get angry with people - you just correct them and be patient.

Now, purposefully calling them the wrong pronouns - that is shitty. It doesn't hurt anyone to do it, and it's a matter of respect. You don't have to agree with it, but respect them.

>>8565422
They should use the nymphette tag instead of identifying with a book that has sexual abuse and an all-around unhealthy relationship in it? Obviously these people don't even understand the book, or they never read it.

>>8565422
That's not what I mean. The book is not about being attracted to an older man, it's about an old man grooming and sexually abusing a young girl, so their whole community is bullshit.

>>8565963
>posting your own comm in the ita thread.

>>8564987
if she did something more with her hair, glasses and ditched the cat ears and got better shoes this would be a passable casual coord.
>>8564988
needs a petti but not ita.

>>8566029
The replica thing in the Ohio comm is very confusing and I feel so bad for new lolitas joining. We tell people that we are okay with replicas and that we aren't going to yell at them about it or anything(at least we shouldn't), but we also let them know that we don't support it.

>>8565002
But then you don't post the non itas in the comm, tho