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Is it okay for a small guy to wear lolita outfits? I'm not sure where to start but I like the fashion and want to try cross dressing.

>> No.8493552

>>8493544
No it isnt you dirty sissy freak.

>> No.8493554

>>7196511

>> No.8493576

>>8493544
it's fine. don't be ita.

lurk lolita threads here. do not mention being male because it literally does not matter and will only make you look like an attention whore. it only becomes relevant when discussing social issues. any other issue a man has in lolita (wide shoulders, makeup ignorance, etc.) is shared by many female lolitas, so mentioning gender is not necessary 90% of the time.

>> No.8493589
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incoming male lolita pic dump.

every one of these lolitas is male. starting with Mana, creator of Moi-meme-Moitie, possibly creator of the term "elegant gothic lolita," and lolita fashion icon for longer than wonderfinch has been wearing the fashion.

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>>8493589
more Mana

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>>8493590

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>>8493597

>> No.8493602

>>8493544
1) yeah just don't bring up your gender unless it's relevant
b) can i get a sauce on that jacket

>> No.8493606

>>8493602
>1)
>b)
i can't believe myself

>> No.8493607

>>8493602
Not OP but it's infanta if I'm not mistaken

>> No.8493608
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>>8493601
now some regular male lolitas

>> No.8493609

>>8493606
Sounds legit

>> No.8493612
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>>8493608
on the left

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>>8493612
some don't even shave

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>>8493616
this guy has one of the longest faces humanity has ever seen, and he still looks cute as a lolita

>> No.8493622

>>8493589
idk man, i'm pretty sure wonderfinch created lolita back in the 60's, this mana guy is just an ita newbie.

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>>8493621

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>>8493626

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>>8493629

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>>8493633

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>>8493637
now some pics on what you should avoid.

this shit is not lolita. if you look like this, people will think you goofing off at best, or are a sissy fetishist.

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>>8493643
it comes down to following the same rules female lolitas follow. you do not need to pass as female, lots of people like a manly man in lolita (they show up on Closet of Frills sometimes). but you need to look GOOD while doing it.

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>>8493648
this guy would look bad even if he was a cute woman. the dress is not ironed, the hair is a mess, skintone shouls have been fixed with makeup.

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>>8493655
this guy is almost there, but no petticoat and other small things make this not lolita.

>> No.8493673

>>8493670
just because it sucks doesn't make it 'not lolita' it makes it ita.

>> No.8493676
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>>8493670
now back to this guy (on the right). everything he is wearing, and the way he has done his makeup, is the same as a female lolita would do, and a good one at that. he is not necessarily "passing" but you do not have to look female to make a good lolita. still, follow all rules for female lolitas, and follow makeup tutorials, and post in coord help threads here, as if you were not a man. there is no special gender distinction in looking good as a lolita.

>> No.8493679

>>8493673
to me, no petticoat means it is not lolita. calling it "ita" is fine too.

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>>8493676
lastly, if you have a very manly face, like this guy, you can still make decent coords. but don't hate yourself if your face remains manly, just make sure your coord is on point otherwise.

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>>8493690
one more thing:

LovelyLor is a female lolita with a mannish face. she is very popular anyway. if you are a man who wants to be a lolita, go for it. dress well and no one worth their salt will care.

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>>8493697
you're killing me over here holmes.

>> No.8493725

>>8493616
This one looks awful, though.

If you are going to do lolita, shave.

>> No.8493861

>>8493697
Just had to take a jab at Lor.

But I agree, just make sure you look good, wear a wig and do your makeup. You might want to look up contouring so you can pass better.

>> No.8494028

>>8493725
+10000000

>> No.8494029

>>8493861
no jab intended! but i know a lot of people can have a skewed view of female faces, and Lor is an example of a skilled and popular lolita with a face people consider mannish. so a long-faced lolita of any gender can use her as an example.

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>male lolita

>> No.8494052

Why do all the guys with ugly, bird noses cosplay lolita? They look so gross. Where are the actual cute guys who can pull this off at?

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>>8494052
>>8494051

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another male lolita--

wait a second, is that a motherfucking pancake mix bag on the lolita in the background? hot damn, she is bringing her A game

>> No.8495342

>>8494056
No, Im fucking serious. EVERY male lolita I have seen has a fucking hook nose. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE.

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>>8495342

>> No.8495347

>>8494082
the pancake mix bag is to distract you from her face
look at it
jesus

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