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Asspats

What exactly is rufflechat? Sorry, I'm a bit new to cgl

>>8008870
Like part of me just wants to leave the group and let the idiots circlejerk themselves to oblivion, but I worry without someone chiming in with common sense every now and again, the fashion will go to the dogs.

>>8008875
it's a facebook group meant for discussion about lolita

don't bother joining, you'll learn more in threads here

>>8008864
It's like she completely ignored all of us who told her that replicas are shit.
"BUT YOU ALREADY OWN IT SO ROCK IT"
pls go

>>8008880
Ah, thank you

>With the opinion of replicas split so finely
ugh

>>8008884
It's called cognitive dissonance. People choose to only see/ believe things that reinforce their worldview.

I am tempted to make a thread about "loliable sanitary products", can almost guarantee that there will be serious responses.

>can I wear a coord more than once?!

bitch your wardrobe is probably two bodyline dresses, a pair of white gym socks and your dad's old work shirts

Is it just me, or does it always seem to be the same 6-8 people posting? Some of them seem to know what they're doing, others are tryhards who want to look like they know what they're doing but have no clue.

>>8008891
I can pick out all the seagulls that are there, they're all the ones that liked my comment telling her it's art theft.

Unfortunately the amount of people telling her it's ok far outweighs the rest of us.

>>8008891
>loliable sanitary products

please make this thread. please.

>>8008910
someone help me write a post and I'll do it

>>8008903
That glorious picture.

Which one of you gulls is responsible for this? I am so ready to see some butthurt.

Oh shit son.

>>8008954
So far it's just people (who are clearly gulls) having a macro party.

Come on, rufflechat, bring the gooooods.

>>8008954
>>8008955
OP here. Like two minutes after I posted some girl wearing a grossly-matted ebay wig in her profile pic messaged me, "You're an asshole".

Oh, lolitas.

>>8008983
lmfao. I'm so fucking ready for the shit storm.
I feel like there's three itas warming up their keyboards to write paragraphs right now.

>>8008983
Things like that are kind of why I decided to refrain from making a comment. Not in the mood to deal with the BS coming from the people your post is aimed at.

Ooooh god
>SNK lolita dude picture

Oooh god.

>>8008983
Can you report her to the mods as "abuse"?

Stating a general "unpopular opinion" shouldn't warrant those poor little bawwwbys to be on your case.

>>8008995
This. Report that shit to mods asap.

>>8008954
>>8008955
Why do people find it necessary to keep saying the same things?
>this will be fun!
>*grabs popcorn*
please stop

So Milky Planet Replica girl is trying to get some girl to show her coords. Why??

>>8008955

Eh, thing is she's just saying what a lot of other people are thinking. There was a thread about if leggings were ok. I think they're ugly as sin in lolita, but I didn't want to be that cunt. Then she posted my exact thoughts.

I'm glad someone out there has the guts to call people out on their shit, I'm not quite ballsy enough yet.

ooooooooooo

>>8008983
Listen Sarah I respeck u and what ur doin but
>underage B&

>>8009010

>>8009010
I like how someone called Cordelia out on her passive-aggressive "ohhhh but where are your perfect coords???" shit and she tried to play dumb like girl I know you're 16 and stupid but most of us are in our 20's and know this game better than you.

Oh wow, I'm stupid. I've been posting RC shit to the CoF thread. Even named them all cof related. Dumb.

>>8009010
Niceeeeee hahah so fucking done with high and mighty itas

>>8009001
so she can say she's ugly and feel morally superior because *clearly* it was about her

>>8009010
Thought this was funny, but OP (of the Ruffle post) admits they don't even post coord pics online... or at least not on FB. I agree that the Cordy girl was being a little passive aggressive but shit, girl, don't act high and mighty when nobody can see your coords...

>>8009029
She's just one tiny cog in the huge ita machine. The ego on some people in this fashion is astounding.

>>8009030
Legit. I think there are two ways noobs/ itas go: either they go down the weeby, replica-chan, "they're GUIDELINES not RULES" route; or they go down the "I'm gonna be a fucking huge bitch because I think that's what I need to do to fit in because I read somewhere that lolitas are cunts" path.

>>8009010
shots fired

>>8009035
It's funny, that girl who started the photoshop thread was being the exact same way. OP of "hugbox" thread is the little teen that everyone jumped to defend. How the tables have turned.

>>8009044
op jumped on her bc this girl called her out on doing the shittiest photoshop job and then preening about it

>>8008864
Her insistence on breaking out that same photo of her shitty Sheep Garden coord is what really gets me.

We should start a betting pool as to how many BtB posts there will be about this.

>>8009051
I'm just saying it's funny that people were defending her what, two days ago? And now she has a pack of frothing lolitas at her heels.

It's a pretty funny thread, namely for the drama it's stirred up. But also it's painfully embarrassing when people drag 4chan lingo onto other platforms, IMO. It's just trying way too hard to sound edgy or cool, especially when you know the OP is under 18 and probably a huge noob.

>>8008891
yass fellow psychology lolita

>>8009066
Not to burst your psychology solidarity bubble, but everyone and their mother knows what cognitive dissonance is, anon.

>>8009051

That's what I'm saying; like, you could have had something good if you didn't sound like a fucking pissed off at mommy teeny bopper who was all like, omg, that sounds so clever, I'm gonna pass that off as my own and watch the world fall to it's knees at how smart and clever I am.

Jesus Christ I always tag the wrong fucking posts I mean to respond to >>8009057

>>8009066
Yeah, I'm >>8008891 and in no way a psychology major or anything, sorry, anon. It's a pretty common concept like >>8009070 said.

three million keks

Antoinette Rose Souter looks like she smells musty.

>>8009070
clearly nobody who lives around me does lol.

>>8009079
I hate it when people do those little actions in their text. Maybe it'd be okay if they're trying to insert a more legitimate action, but if somebody came up to me in real life, gave a statement and then fled I'd think they're a fucking weirdo. And an idiot.

>>8009086
it's standard weeb behaviour

I bet she does it in real life, like literally says "faaaiiint" and then falls on the floor.

>>8009071
Exactly. I thought the initial topic of the thread was pretty good. I expected it to get derailed, sure, but the incessant bitchiness and edge just made me roll my eyes. It isn't cute or funny and it may get you brownie points with some people here, but mostly it's just embarrassing. I can be mean (hell, I was in a sorority. They make lolitas look like sweet angels) but sometimes people take it too far to try to seem cool.

>>8009091

The whole thread is fucking embarrassing. Shitty faux-edge from a goddamn tween getting her asspats on, while others derail each other over absolutely nothing/bland fucking topics. No one should be saying anything in that thread, because it's all bait after bait to get OP attention so she can go to her lunch table tomorrow and tell kids about how she's internet fame.

>>8009090
I can't be around people like that, second hand embarrassment kills me.

>>8009080
her wig makes me want to kill myself

>>8009114
Then do it, no one will miss you.

Well said about OP.

>>8009114
That's extreme. I can see the headlines now;
"Wig was cause of suicide"

I imagine this thread will soon be flooded by people butthurt about what's happened.

cant screenshot right now cause on a shitty weird laptop but

> A lot of the issues raised here could easily be solved by dismantling capitalism and smashing the state. Want to end replica debate? Destroy the idea of material possessions as status symbols. Want to make it easier for all lolitas to find their dream dresses? Understand that all property is theft and socialise all wardrobes that they become communal property of the proletariat. Want to be able to look good without make-up/ wigs? Unlearn the harmful beauty myths foisted upon you by the ruling classes that make you slaves to the conspicuous consumption of beauty products.

Having said this, under true anarcho-communism we'd likely transcend the desire to participate in fashion communities at all, and petticoats aren't practical items for participating in manual labour for the glory of the communist state, so this would all be pretty irrelevant.


what was painful

cant screenshot.

> A lot of the issues raised here could easily be solved by dismantling capitalism and smashing the state. Want to end replica debate? Destroy the idea of material possessions as status symbols. Want to make it easier for all lolitas to find their dream dresses? Understand that all property is theft and socialise all wardrobes that they become communal property of the proletariat. Want to be able to look good without make-up/ wigs? Unlearn the harmful beauty myths foisted upon you by the ruling classes that make you slaves to the conspicuous consumption of beauty products. Having said this, under true anarcho-communism we'd likely transcend the desire to participate in fashion communities at all, and petticoats aren't practical items for participating in manual labour for the glory of the communist state, so this would all be pretty irrelevant.

that was painful

>>8009144
Think it already is if I'm honest. Smh.

>>8009148

>>8009148
Sounds like she could run for lolita president.

>>8009154
Under communism we would have no presidents.

>imperialist pigdog detected

>>8009154
want 2 fix ur lolita problems???
DISMANTLE CAPITALISM

>>8008864

I hate when people don't use bangs in their style. Straight cut, side swept, please use SOMETHING to cover your shiny gross forehead! There are hardly a handful of people who can pull it off with a classic coord and their hair line is way down. I can't count how many cute coords I've seen that look like shit ageplay because they pull their hair so far back.

>>8009148
u don't think that was serious, do you? i'm not sure

>>8009156
MURICA!

>>8009080
i recognize her from her shitty coords. i thought she had a dumb cheeck piercing but really, dat sum mole.

>>8009156

> You know something, I still have questions now and again. I get discouraged because I'm older than the typical Lolita and my weird body composition can make it hard to buy clothes. But this community group, a few others, and my local comm build me up and help me along.

Lolita should be like that for all of us. We need support each other and give constructive criticism and learn how to take it. We are such a strong group of folks, it kills me to see us tearing each other down. Like Kei said, we must use our frills for the good of the comm, not for evil.

> not for evil.

>>8009148
I'm laughing so fucking hard at this.

>>8009158
Psst I think you meant to post that in the unpopular opinions thread. But I feel like that's a pretty common opinion tbh.

>>8009163
I don't actually think her coords are bad, and I actually quite like what she does with her wigs (although, gurl, if you're gonna tease a wig, SMOOTH THAT SHIT OUT).

She just looks a bit unwashed. I think someone told me she smelled of BO once and that's where the impression first came from.

>>8009163
To be frank I have one too but not many people see it in my coords cause I photoshop the fuck out of it to make it smaller.

If anyone thinks the radical labor comment was sincere, then you're too fucking easy to troll. But goddamn, she laid that out fucking perfectly.

>>8009163
I think her coordinate are fine now but they used to look shit. She needs to tame those wigs. She must backcomb them without setting them down after which is an average mistake. Fix the wigs and she will be fine.

>>8009148
>>8009151
>>8009156
>>8009157
>>8009165

>>8009165

I thought about it, but it seems common to use bangs with hair so I came here instead. I just don't get why some people think it looks good. I keep thinking I'm looking at a balding man.

>>8009178
In Soviet Russia we dress the shit out of you...

>>8009178
YES!!!!!!!

Oh god some poor girl actually tried to give that Cordelia girl advice on CoF:
Anon-chan: Those shoes don't match. You should wear beige shoes with a purple dress. Here's a better option!
Cordy: Ok
Anon ita: Those match fine. If they're comfy wear them!
Corfu: Of course I like them anyways.
Jesus fuck these girls...

>>8009199
Proving everyone's point! We're gonna watch her do this again and again on CoF, mark my words.

>>8009199
There's no helping some people. Some people are stubborn and others just plain have bad taste. Both apply to most itas, noobs or not.

>>8009148
So painfully obvious she studies politics and thinks herself very clever and funny.

>>8009154
>>8009157
ahahaha thank you girls

>>8009220
Obliged.

>>8008983
I came home to this shitstorm and I sincerely want to thank you.

>>8009215
All of those things are entirely true.

>>8009220
Well, this is surreal.

I'm OP of the communism post. Why are you pretending to be me saying thanks? I mean, great, if you get a kick out of it, go ahead, that's just weird tho.

>>8009242
wut? I just found their posts funny. Not pretending to be you.

>>8008983
You're hilarious. I've been trying to start shitstorms with no success. Should have been bitchier.

If OP of the rufflechat thread is here: are you the OP of this thread as well? I'd assumed you were.

>>8009244
Wow, this is weird. I posted >>8009220
and yeah, I was not pretending to be them, I was thanking them. Why are you pretending to be me...?

>>8009220
i wasnt being nice. if you're the one who posted that to rufflechat, you're retarded.

>>8009253
Are you one of the fucking stupid people that thinks that post was serious? It was tryhard but I fucking doubt they meant it.

>sjw autist

yes. thank.

>>8009323
I wish people would just say this on the thread. Why does everyone have to run here to speak your mind?

>>8009329
im quoting what someone said on the thread lmao
this linda chick is fuckin retarded. im also not brave enough like others

that cat is fucking adorable

>>8009086
Isn't it crazy how adding a single *verbing* or ^_^ <.< or exclamation point!! can suddenly make a poster seem like an immature little shit? Kind of like how using "sweetie" or "hun" when trying to tell someone off suddenly makes you sound like the bitterest of the sandy cunts.

Linda caps please.

Looks like the storm has passed and most people have bailed from the thread. It was good whilst it lasted.

>>8009178
That is now my desktop background. Thank you anon

>>8008983
Thank you
>seriously, thank you

>>8009007
People in that thread are actually claiming that HT can make good pieces

>>8009055
1 Mr.Yan body pillow on 5+

>>8008915
>H-hey girls, I'm a total germaphobe and I am looking for nice purchasable or diy, loliable sanitary things

or something like that idk

Why does she feel the need to keep saying she's so "blunt"? She's mentioned it like four times now in this thread and the shitstorm one before it.

>>8008910
>>8008915
>>8009439
>Hi guys, I just had an idea of making a Mr. Clean co-ord, but I can't think of how to go about it :(. I was thinking about using an apron and wearing rubber gloves, but I can't think of how to accessorize it. Maybe turn a Mr. Clean bottle into a purse somehow :? I really want to make this work and I'm open to ideas ^_^. Maybe a bunch of us can twin and we'll be the Mr Clean lolita army :O

Might want to add more smileys and excess punctuation, though.

gdi Linda.

>>8009507
i don't think they meant that kind of sanitary product anon....

>>8009142
>>8009142
I do deaths at a hospital and I can imagine calling the coroner. "Uh sir, she strangled herself with a twintail, then stuffed the rest of the wig down her esophagus. I think this one's for you."

>>8009559
>i don't think they meant that kind of sanitary product anon....
Kinda figured, but I wanted to do it anyways.

>Hi guys, I wanted to celebrate a woman's femininity and all that she stands for, and to tell girls that they shouldn't be afraid of their body, that they should embrace the gift that god gave them. I have one problem though, I don't have many ideas. I was wondering how I should go about loli-fying one of my pads, and maybe using a tampon for my hair? I also wanted to use this dress -insert white brand dress- and pour the blood I saved from my last period on it, maybe drawing some uteri? idk I need help x_x

Better?

>>8009601
Too obvious. Maybe say something about how you want your body to match your coord and ask about lolifying a pad. Maybe add some lace around the edge or something.

>>8009601
Doesn't anyone remember back in the day on EGL there was actually serious discussion about loliable resuable pads?

>>8009601
Tell them you're holding a first moon/red tent party loli-style and need party favors.

>>8009601
Just say that you're trying to stay true to the idea of the lolita lifestyle by making every aspect of your life cute/elegant, even the not-so-cute/elegant parts.

>>8009148
I'M USING LOLITA AS A BUSINESS TO END LOLITA AS A BUSINESS

>>8008983
Ugh you try so fucking hard to be edgy, just stop. It's really embarrassing

>>8008864
Another newbie, what is CoF?

>>8009496
She is *super* blunt but she doesn't like con crit because she thinks it is too mean. Got it.

>>8009717
Closet of Frills: Daily Lolita Coords group on fb.

>>8009615
I was just thinking that! Had to go track it down. http://getoffegl.livejournal.com/416430.html

>>8009090
>D'oh! Sweatdrop!

>>8009496
People going on and on about how blunt they are tend to be assholes who don't want to own up to their assholery. She's probably laying a foundation for future unwarranted bitchy comments that she can point back to and say "But look, being blunt is just ~who I am~! Everyone knows that!"
>>8009718
People like this tend to have super fragile egos. They use their totes quirky bluntness as a shield because they don't want to take responsibility for things they say and be called out on it. Watch them squirm and cry and pretend not to care and reach for their hugbox whenever someone tells them they're just being a cowardly bitch. Apologizing for what they said is out of the question, it's always just "sorry I'm so blunt, I can't help it (and it's your fault for taking it personally)!"

>>8009601
Ask where to get replica fabric and lace because you want to match your reusable sanitary pads to your coord. Also ask whether it's machine washable and if the print will bleed (hurhurhur) in water.

>>8009357
Oh my god this girl. I just finished reading the whole thing and seriously wtf is wrong with her.

Says she lives in California too. Greeeaaaaaat. Also after looking at her pics she is mad ita. Why am I not surprised.

>>8009733
Thanks friend

>>8009797
>>8009357
Pls post caps if you can

>>8009854
oh linda no

>>8009163
It's not a piercing, it's a mole or something

>>8009496
>like

Filler words make you sound weak and bitchy when they permeate your writing.

>>8009163
>>8009886
Sorry, I didn't even read your comment properly

In other news, feast your eyes on this gem of a story:

>>8010022
>not strong enough for criticism
>posts photos online for all to see

>>8010027
you win some, you lose some

>caring this much about what itas do

So are you all underage b& or something? This is pretty edgy. Your snide posts on Rufflechat about poorfags and fatties isn't going to do jack shit besides stir drama. If you actually gave a shit, instead of being drama llama little shits on the internet, you'd be proactive in your communities instead of being keyboard warriors against ita. Big fucking deal.

Where are all your blogs with tutorials on how to style? To sew? To be anything but useless brats whining on the internet about how other people can't hold a candle to your standards?
>inb4 you accuse me of being mad
No, I just think you're being useless and petty.

This >>8009148 is the only funny thing I've read so far. kek/10, would raff again.

>>8010035
Hi Linda

>>8010035
Did you pull up a list of commonly used terms on 4chan and try to stuff as many as possible into this post or

>>8010035

>caring this much about people caring this much about what itas do

Just close the thread and move on, seriously.

>>8010038
Literally who?
>>8010040
What?
>>8010041
Will do. Bye.

Did anyone see the lolita pattern review thing yesterday?

It kinda just fell off the earth.

>>8009080
not even kidding, she and her boyfriend look almost exactly like my ex and his gf but with awful hair and several tens of pounds lighter.

They even live in the same town and I'm freaking out that it's them because my ex left me for an ita and I can't emotionally deal with that.

>>8010057
I hope not for your sake. If my bf left me for Bloodmyer I'd feel so ashamed.
Your "ex" looks pretty ugly too though so good riddance I guess?

Gotta use the sailor moon pads obviously for that pad thread anon.

>>8008864
Is there some sort of criteria required? I joined the group to see the shit that goes on but I think I was denied. My profile/timeline pictures aren't very cute, so maybe that could be it? Does anyone have any ideas?

>>8010115
They take a bit to let in new people, I think I waited a week or so?

>>8010076
thats bloodmyer? thank you sweet jesus, i never thought I'd be so happy to see her face.
my ex was pretty ugly, i don't even know why I liked him, just feel jaded tbh

>>8010115

No criteria. I think the join request goes to any friends you already have in the group, too, so they should have approved you.

Most of the topics on Rufflechat are a lot more interesting than the ones here though. Here..I said it.

>>8009940

I meant like as in "approximately" four times, I wasn't using it as a hedge.

>>8009760
>People like this tend to have super fragile egos
yuuuuup

>>8010164
>I am super blunt, but that is approximately the most sound advice I have heard.

Is that so hard? You don't sound like a valley girl from the 90s either.

>>8010161
go back to rufflechat linda

>>8009862
She looks like she cosplays Homestuck.

>>8009080
thats cos she's bloodmyer. met her in person at nemacon back in the day and can confirm she smells musty.

>>8010056
I took one look at the patterns being collected/shared, and noped the fuck out. None of the patterns would work without heavy modification, and I have a feeling the kind of people wanting to use those patterns wouldn't have the skill or sense to make it work...

>>8009010
Between her and Linda god I'm getting sick of their comments

>>8010057
Which one is the girl?

>>8010178

Oh no, sorry, I'm not the girl in the Screencap, I'm the anon who posted it. I thought you meant me because I'd said she'd mentioned it "like four times".

>>8009862

>>8009601
I think this should sound more like a mom's blog post for that realistic cringe.
>Okay. Periods. We all have them. And none of us enjoy them. But why shouldn't we? They're just another one of the great things that makes us women so special. They should be "kawaii" just like our loli-clothes. I think periods would be way more enjoyable if sanitary products were more cute. Unfortunately, the men who dominate the industry just don't understand our needs, so we'll have to diy this one. Anyways, washable fabric maxipads are the most obvious, made with cute cupcake fabric from joanns, or even scraps of old dresses you don't wear much anymore. Add cute lace and wahala! To get more creative, you can try cutting cute lace designs into those little skirts of tampons, or decorating them with fabric paint before insertion. Any other ideas?

>>8010035
This. I've been wanting to go into the Lolita/Ita comm for a bit but all these elitists act like those 500 pound mothers that force their kids into beauty pageants.

>>8010479
https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/180937384/mama-pads-variety-pack-starter-set-of

Oh Etsy. Came up when I searched "kawaii"

>>8010479
>wahala!
10/10 very rustled good job

>>8010498
Don't worry anon you'll fit in just fine with the ita comm, everyone is very nice there.

>>8010479
Like it! Think we should make a few changes though to make it less of an obvious troll.

>They should be "kawaii" just like our loli-clothes.
I would change this to something more like "Adorable sanitary products can make us feel kawaii and confident, even when Aunt Flo is visiting." I think it makes it more realistic.

>"Unfortunately, the men who dominate the industry just don't understand our needs"
The feminist mock statement here is funny, but a little too bluntly obvious. I'd go with something more subtle. "Unfortunately, the men who dominate the industry don't quite understand our attitudes: we don't think periods are something we should be ashamed about and try to ignore. We can make them fun and cute, so we can even enjoy when our periods come! Obviously we'll have to DIY this one..."

So if I were to rewrite this, I'd say:
>Okay. Periods. We all have them. And none of us enjoy them. But why shouldn't we? They're just another one of the great things that makes us women so special. Adorable sanitary products can make us feel kawaii and confident, even when Aunt Flo is visiting. So I think periods would be way more enjoyable if sanitary products were more cute. Unfortunately, the men who dominate the industry don't quite understand our attitudes: we don't think periods are something we should be ashamed about and try to ignore. We can make them fun and cute, so we can even enjoy when our periods come! So obviously, since the big companies won't do it, we'll have to DIY this one... Anyways, washable fabric maxipads are the most obvious, made with cute cupcake fabric from joanns, or even scraps of old dresses you don't wear much anymore. Add cute lace and wahala! To get more creative, you can try cutting cute lace designs into those little skirts of tampons, or decorating them with fabric paint before insertion. Any other ideas?

>>8010479
I think the fabric paint part may make it too obvious. Then again, if people fall for it the rustled jimmies increase exponentially.

>>8010479
>>8010612
Someone pls do this

>>8010612
>wahala
It's killing me anon

Please post

>>8010612
>decorating them with fabric paint before insertion

'then we really can be kawaii on the inside tee hee *wink*'

>>8010035
I haven't seen someone use "drama llama" seriously since 07

>Muscular calves

Oh honey...

>>8011561
Dropped pic

>>8011561
I don't know why people lie like this when they're obviously big.
I actually have semi-muscular calves and have no problem wearing brand otks.

>>8011569
>that photo
>muscular
yeah.

muscular.

>>8011561
>>8011569
>>8011570
omfg look at her japanese street fashion photos folder XD

>>8011563
>muscular calves, says OP
>plus size lolitas, says Chanel

I admit, I had a bit of a giggle.

>>8011582
Am I kawaii yet?

>>8011619

I didn't think anybody out there was uglier than me
I was wrong

Is Heidi retarded?

>>8012432
call her Adelheid you bitch

>>8012432
I honestly think so.
If that new Loli know hoops were Ita as fuck, She should too. Uggh.

>>8012445
But she says she's been into lolita for ~10 years~ anon

>>8012458
I meant the new loli commenting on the group disagreeing with her. If a new loli new hoops were Ita, someone who's been a lolita for 10 years should know they are ita too.

this entire group is a clusterfuck, i love it

Oh God, is "Kiri Aradia Morgan" Tiferet?

>>8012632
yes

>>8012432
I think so. I've never seen her ask a single question that didn't make me question her age, experience, or common sense. But she has a habit of ignoring any responses that don't echo what she wanted to hear and only acknowledging those that do, so I just keep my trap shut.

>>8010119
I checked back after a few days and I was able to request to join again, so I think they didn't accept me.

>>8010129
I don't have any friends in the group or interested in lolita yet, sadly.

>>8012735

Anon, if you like I can add you to my Facebook and add you to the group? You can delete me as a friend immediately afterward.

>>8009680
MAKING THE MOTHER OF ALL DRAMA HERE JACK, CAN'T THREAT OVER EVERY COORD

>>8012773
Sure, that's really kind of you.

What's going on with the blatantly fake drunkposts?

So Tegan's drunk. I feel so much secondhand embarrassment for her

That blow up

>>8013345
>i'm drunk so it's okay to brag about how much money I got for Xmas
>yaayyyy

Wtf is this girl

>>8013353

This girl is starting to get really annoying. What a fucking weeb.

>>8013345
I'm not even embarrassed for her, just pissed off.

I hate this *making an action* shit, but it's particularly obnoxious on facebook. weeby AF.

>>8013788
>I don't like mainstream things so if lolita was I'd be a shit hipster about it!111!! *flies away*

>>8013788
oh lord

>>8013788
>dat shooped profile pic

The only saving grace of people like this is that they will leave this fashion for whatever special snowflake trend comes next/ is easier/ is cheaper. We don't have to keep them in the long run.

>>8013807
Why do people unironically put this shit on their pictures? Not just Christmas shit, like sparkles and hearts on their average mirror shots.

Where is the drunk post?

>>8013812
Because it's fun to use purikura apps?

>>8013788
It sounds really obnoxious coming out of her, but I have heard tons of seagulls say the same thing.

>>8013807
>>8013808
Is this serious or have I had too much sherry?

Thats Hizaki, he posted that exact picture on twitter that Lina chick didn't photoshop it at all.

>>8013861
hahaha oh my god

>>8013364
She's just trying to gain some notoriety (to her type: any fame is good fame) by being a bitch and posting her face whenever applicable, even if it's really not. If we ignore her she'll go away... but then, her bitchy stuff is too great to miss sometimes.

>>8013788
Wants to be unique
Uses VK star photo as photo.
Just no.

>>8013788
I think that secretly a lot of us think like this, we just don't say it. I wear lolita because I want to look better than other people - I am a pretentious asshole. I don't tell anyone that because it looks bad for my reputation. Wearing lolita makes me feel beautiful... because I look better than everyone else on the street. If everyone started wearing lolita then I would just look normal.
That said, lolita is never going to go mainstream. We might get some lolita inspired trends but that is about it.

>>8013971

>>8013974
Do not bring my sexual orientation into this, anon.

>>8013844
Do people actually give a shit?

Putting aside the fact that it'll never happen, this discussion comes up pretty frequently. Pretty much every time itanewbs discover lace on blouses at F21 and scream that they're ttly ripping off burando.

But I don't think I've seen many people say that they'd be upset if it went mainstream, apart from the itanewbs who want to be super special snowflakes.

Unless we're talking reality-TV level exposure of "mainstream". That seems pretty universally hated.

Cimone is wonderfinch right? I didn't realize it until I saw her comment "I've been wearing lolita for ten years, I know how to wear it"

>>8013986
kek yes

Where is this mysterious elitist brandwhore mentoring group at? I wanna apply for modship.

In all seriousness, I imagine she's talking about LFM and is one of those people who thinks concrit is slang for asspats.

>>8014353
I want to know which group this is as well, I'd like to join a no-nonsense harsh critique group. Newbies can't afford burando, so what? It's ok for the rest of us to have a more advanced critique group that's NOT for noobs. It's needed. I tire of seeing bargain offbrand stuff so much everywhere.

>>8014361
tbf I don't think such a group exists and it's just this girl fucking crying over being told her charity shop wedding dress/ meido milanoo outfit isn't lolita.

>>8011563
She's a confirmed whale.

>>8013893
I don't understand how she can have such a bad attitude when she's hideous and can't dress for shit.

>>8014361
There is "the critical closet".

>>8014823
Do they allow print replicas?

>>8008907
I look at those people with side-eye. I'm judging them for telling her that. Watching here and there, it's pretty easy to determine that there a lot more ass-patting two-faced bitches in that group than I even suspected. Do people withold honest crit to keep itas ita? I sometimes truly wonder.

>>8014751
Theory: Because she's used to everyone around her kissing her ass and telling her how great she is. she somehow has time to sit around on her ass 24/7, snap pics so everyone can give her asspats. She probably has parents with money who are paying her expenses. She's trying to gain nortoriety so eventually she can try to sell shit to us. She looks down on the community, she perceives all of us as nerdy losers which is a boost to her paper thin self-esteem that is veiled by the faux-bitchy attitude, but revealed by the constant grasping for attention and affirmation. For someone who comes from money her behavior is so so so bourgeois, and her coordination almost as bad. She'll move on if we all just ignore her. Or hell, tell her like it is. pick one or stop posting her cowface here, damn.

>>8014856
I assume so. It's a con crit group and it seems quite friendly although the rules tell people they are allowed to be bitchy.

>>8014976
Ugh. I'm looking for a replica-free concrit group but thanks!

>>8014999
Why does it matter?

>>8011569
Oh but you can't call them out on it directly because 'omg fat shamer'. Fat chicks need to get a grip.

>>8010201
I am so glad I wasn't the only one thinking that.

>>8013986
I've never considered myself a racist before until now.
I had always pictured wondercunt as some fat white ugly whale similar to rabbit777. I never knew she was black and actually not that bad looking. Her coords are pretty boring and underwhelming though. I just feel shocked that a pretty black girl can be such an online cunt. I'm officially some kind of retarded racist now.

>>8015033
? Just because you don't like the way one black girl dresses, it doesn't mean you're a racist, wtf? Though the fact that you think it does is concerning... So "retarded" is probably right, at least.

>>8015054
Sorry, before I get nitpicked, you said she dresses "ok" but her attitude sucks. Which, again, is an opinion of *one person* and not an entire group of people.

>>8013986
Is "Cimone" her actual name? Please say no.

>>8015062
Isn't it just pronounced like "Simone" just spelled with a C? It's a pretty normal name.

>>8015065
If it's pronounced as Simone why not just fucking spell it like Simone? What is wrong with these parents
>hello my name is Dyeffrey

>>8014999
Make your own then, replicanazi. I don't even support replicas but being so anal about it that you can't even join any groups that allow discussion of them... Enjoy being a lone loli.

>>8015070
Cimone isn't that uncommon of a name nor is it some wonky "creative" spelling. If you left your trailer once in a while, maybe you'd know that, Clem Cadiddlehopper?

>>8014999
are you seriously so anal that you can't even bare to see someone wearing a replica on the internet?

>>8015147
Not who you're talking to, but I think I get what they're saying: a conceit group without print replicas will be flooded by fewer itas asking for tips on how to coord their 100cm waist dream sky replica. It's not that they can't bear to see replicas, it's that they want a group that's less cluttered with ugly shit.

>>8015163
What is the point of a concrit group if the people who actually need it wouldn't be allowed to post?

>>8015124
Man, It's seriously not as bad. I know a guy who does our gutters every few months and his name is Sean. Normal enough name, right? Haha, except his parents were very uneducated and it's actually pronounced like the colour 'cyan'

I'm starting to think that this girl is a troll.

>>8015167
I used to live in a really poor city as a child and knew two kids, girl and boy (no relation) named Chardonnay and Teyga.
(Teyga was actually a mangled version of Tadhg, not tiger, from what I heard)

>>8015198
At any rate, she's fucking stupid. My concern with wearing brand everyday isn't that much 're regular wear will get it dirty by itself (because it can still be washed or dry cleaned), it's that some idiot will spill coffee or have a pen explode or something on my dress and the stain will never come out even with washing. Heck, even in nice regular clothes I'm careful sitting down on buses and trains and in lectures, because there are seats with chewing gum or spilled Pepsi on them.

>>8015208
Speaking of alcoholic names, a friend of mine whose a teacher taught a girl who got pregnant in high school and called the kid "Tia Maria".

>>8015208
i'm embarrassed because my half brother (who, admittedly, grew up in a shit place -- he's on my dad's side) gave his children. I won't say them but... one a brand and the other is like Johvann or some shit. it sounds like joe-van. It's awful.

>>8015147
I just avoid it when I can. It would be nice to have a FB group without them.

>>8015123
I'm in other groups but having just ONE without them would be oh so terrible? Like EGL. Do you think they really need to be EVERYwhere? Hm, no.

>>8015000
Because it would eliminate land whales and poorfags in replicas? I know I'm not the only one who'd like to see less of both of these so it's not unreasonable to want to have ONE replica-free group.

>>8015310
>>8015316
>>8015325
You know it's possible to reply to more than one post at a time, right? Again, just fucking make your own group, add "NO REPLICAS" in the rules, and be done with it. Christ.

>>8015337
You're the one here who seems buttflustered.

>>8015402
I honestly don't care either way but your use of "lol butthurt" shows that you do apparently. I'm not the one who's all bent out of shape because OTHER PEOPLE are doing things I DON'T LIKE in PUBLIC

>>8015124
Common in the ghetto, maybe.

>>8015219
My parents know a couple who named their son "Scat".

>>8015440
After the Scatman? BEEBOPBODODODO

How can you reread this and think, "yes, this won't make me look like an uneducated Dingus, perfect."

>elts
>were

>>8015492
>near Canterbury, Kent
OH GOD SHES NEAR ME thank god I'm not in rufflechat

>>8015219
Jovan is a common Slavic name, pronounced yoh-vahn. It's not that bad.

>>8015492
>I wouldn't were
No you wouldn't, for sure.

Have they even bought "quality clothing" (something higher than walmart) once in their life ? I mean, these things are expensive because they're supposed to held up way longer. Shell 200€ for a pair of boots, you'll have them for the next ten years. Although lolita is not the greatest quality, lolita brands holds up as well as most dresses from their pricing range (not touching the accessories here). I don't understand paying $$$ for a dress you'll wear once apart from a really unusual or over the top prom dress or something.

>>8015517
This simply isn't true. A lot of items, especially in lolita, are coveted because of their uniqueness and the brand name rather than quality. The same goes for normalfag fashion as well. It's a status symbol to buy shit clothes for too much money. Hell, in gyaru a $500 is worse quality than bodyline.

>>8010439
What the actual fuck is wrong with her eyes?

>>8015210
Right? Yeah, lemme just wear my dresses to my warehouse job, that's brilliant. Haha #Iamdisgusting

>>8015532
Tell that to my closet then, I have leather shoes that lasted more than five years without any scratch. Hell, I have lolita clothing that are really old shool (hear pre 2005) and are totally still wearable. Quality is not brand dependant, but she is obviously speaking price here, or she would wear her brand clothes everywere.
And yeah, normalfags brands are worthless half the time. When your 300$ cocktail dress fall apart after a few wear, it's slightly nerve gridding.
My point is : compared to normalfag brands for that price range, lolita clothing holds up pretty well so you may as well wear it because you can. As long as you take care of your clothes their is no problem.

>>8015166
If a person already has a replica, that boat has sailed, it's rare they give them up and a fattie into replicas takes time to lose weight if they are even motivated to ever do it (most don't) so 'don't buy replicas' and 'lose some weight and you'll not need to buy replicas' are the main critiques most people have for these replica-chans, phrased in 1,000 creative ways. It gets old. I don't bother to critique them at all. If a pig is wearing a wig, it can be restyled but it's still a pig in a wig after all.

>>8011615
It needed to be said. It needs to be said more.
Delusional fatties need to face facts and cope. I think it's the only way they will improve.

>>8014353
>>8014361
>>8014376

My friends and I made a secret group for outfit ideas and concrit. Almost all of us wear brand exclusively and we give honest feedback. We've been doing this for over a year and our coordinates have improved significantly. Every once in awhile we add people from outside of our lolita group, but only after we scope them out to make sure they won't be butthurt about constructive criticism

>>8015558
There's a great deal of people I know who have given up replicas or gotten rid of them, especially after 2012 when brands really started speaking out about them. I'm also one of those replica-chan fatties that lost weight. Enough, relatively quickly enough to fit into brand and continue to drop it. You might think that people don't change, but they can.

I try to press the idea that there are options that are not replicas for everyone regardless of budget or size. And print replicas are actually probably the worst things you can buy, not only because of the art theft, but because how terrible they look, and how it hurts not only the brands but indie brands and the little guys that are just trying to provide a service for you. Unfortunately that means you can't wear those coveted AP prints, but you're not entitled to them because you can't fit or afford it. And if people refuse to listen to that, I let them be and let them do their thing. If they are serious about the fashion they will change, but you can't change a person for them.

>>8015573
This needs to be done on a larger scale where people can apply for membership and a set of vetted admins run it. I can wish.

>>8015574
this is probably what bothers me the most - there are so many other options than print replicas, and I have not soon one decent quality replica ever. you like a print but you don't fit? that's fine, if you want to lose weight to fit into it then that's fab, but don't rip off the designers AND yourself by buying a shitty replica

>>8015574
I'm glad to hear it, seeing so many active replica-chans still at it is discouraging. It's good to read this, I wish you were not such an exception to the rule though. Good on you and I mean that. That's a great accomplishment and I'm sure you are a much better Lolita for it.

>tfw you think you've been blocked by that Raleigh Wood character

Boo.

>>8015492
>>8015501
I'm friends with her on fb for reasons I don't understand (pretty sure we've never met), and all she does is shared misspelt memes and shitty videos. I would delete her but her occasional bitching about her 'oh so special classical musician problems' entertain me too much. (Seriously, nobody cares how many instruments you play. Being able to fumble a tune on multiple instruments isn't unusual if you've been playing for a while and have a grasp of music theory, since instruments in one family are all broadly the same.)

>>8015325
Landwhales and poorfags aren't the only people who buy replicas, and banning replicas from coord groups wouldn't shield your precious eyes from all the peasants and fatties that you hate so much

jesus you sound like an insufferable cunt

>>8016180
I think setting up a group that asks people not to posts replicas is less about people not wanting to see replicas, and more about trying to change the community we live in.

If more sales groups and more general groups stopped allowing replicas, we might see a decline in the market, which would be a good thing for everyone involved.

>>8015558
I'm saying that if someone already has a replica and is posting their coord, you might as well help them look as presentable as possible, there's no point in telling them off about it, the money has already been spent. There's no point in being bitchy to them and telling them to burn it or whatever, they probably already know they're bad anyway

WHY does this Dominique girl feel the need to reply to every. single. post. on her thread?

>>8016185
Clearly that anon is not concerned with changing the market, based on their replies

And even so, banning replicas from coord groups is going too far imo. I don't like them either but banning them wouldn't help any, and wouldn't stop people buying them.

>>8015325
How do you even see what anyone looks like with your head so far up your ass? It must be hard to breath up there.

>>8015325
I personally own 2 replica's because i have ridiculously big boobs. I'm small everywhere but my bust. Exercises doesn't get rid of them when you have a GG cup.

Sometimes when you fall in love with a print, the only way to own it is to get a replica because the offer custom sizes. if the original brand did, i'd be all over it! But unfortunately they don't.

Bashing people who buy replica's and labeling them all as "Landwhales" is pretty shit especially for people like me who need them because of their Tit size.
Stop being a cunt and untwist your panties before you do yourself and injury.

>>8016211
I'm just gonna say it nicely before everyone else jumps down your throat, but technically speaking you don't "need" certain prints. I mean, it's your money and your free to do what you want, but there are options out there for us (I'm in F cup). They'll hardly ever be brand, but there are things we can do/buy that aren't print replicas.

>>8016211
You could have gotten the print as a skirt. You could have gotten 2 used ones and sewn them together or had the bodice altered. Replicas aren't necessary.

>>8016211
Fine, how 'bout 'Replicunt' ? That should cover you all. Supporting skeevy thieves seems pretty cuntish behavior to me. In other hobbies, bootlegs and fakes aren't welcome in the hobby group. Try taking a fake LV into a designer bag group and see how far it gets.

>>8016228
What if you don't like skirts and can't sew?

>>8016235
Can i call you a plain out cunt then? that covers you pretty well.

>>8016235
You can not support replicas and not be a cunt at the same time, most of us manage to do that just fine. If you see someone post a replica coord, just move on or block them on fb so you don't see their coords anymore. No need to act like a child and demand a special group where they won't be allowed.

>>8016235
I'm a fucking designer and i don't even give a shit if someone buys a replica, If your pissed off about thieves, do you download all your music legally? do you buy the DVD of everything you've watched? I doubt it. You sound like your just a bitch in general and would give out about anything just to let that rage out.

>>8016237
Well that certainly entitles you to stolen artwork, total justification, right? No.
>>8016241
Sure, call me as you like, I'd rather be seen as a cunt about it than support art theft or 'just be quiet'. I want people to know the extent of intolerance for replicas in some of us. Maybe they will think twice before buying them.

>>8016262
I'd be inclined to buy them more just to piss you off to be honest. I don't own any myself, but they way your are acting, it would be fun just to annoy you.

>>8016265
*the, You're

fuck my phone's auto correct is all over the place.

>>8016262
Catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar, replinazi-chan

I've seen more girls converted from replicas because of gentle guidance than firey cuntery. The bitches like you just give them even more determination to buy them.

>>8016256
>i'm a designer

>>8016275
Not a Lolita designer if that is what you are laughing at, but yes. I went to college, got my degree and now own my own shop. Problem?

>>8016256
jsyk this argument never works on this board, because everyone just claims to be a saint who has never stolen a piece of intellectual property before in their lives (either that or they say "it's totally different because hollywood isn't harmed when I download Mean Girls!").

I don't buy replicas but even I will admit that I torrent the shit out of loads of stuff and I don't have a good reason why, I'm just a massive hypocrite.

>>8016287
Then why get so butthurt over replica's when you do the same thing with other art forms?

>>8016289
I'm not replinazi-chan, I don't really care if other people wear replicas or not, I just choose not to buy them myself

>>8016262
>>8016235

>>8016273
First statement is likely true but I figure if they've started down the replica path, they are a lost cause, low care for the fashion based in part on unique art and they are showing shit taste as well so no longer worth being critiqued or coddled along to give them up. No replica-based coord is even really worthy of a comment.

>>8016273
actually most DIY fly traps are baited with vinegar. bitches love vinegar..

>>8016309
I don't see the point in refusing to help someone if they have already bought the gosh darn dress. The deed is done, you might as well try to help them look presentable in public working with what they have. You are free to ignore them or call them cheap or ugly or fat but I just don't give enough of a shit about their life choices to protest that seriously against what they are wearing

>>8016324
Hmm... what about wasps, they like honey/sweet stuff, don't they?

>>8016211
If I were a busty gal, I'd alter brand in a heartbeat. I wouldn't want to be excluded from brand teas, not invited to meets or overlooked for other things because of the replica issue.

>>8016211
Dude my breasts are GG as well and you just have to suck it up. I can still fit into brand. There are plenty of cuts that look fine on us assuming that you are not a fatass. Just because you want something doesn't mean you get it, thats why it is a WANT and not a NEED. Don't use your boobs as an excuse to get replicas. They are illegal. You think saying "I did drugs because I wanted them" will get you out of trouble if you get arrested for possession? Just admit that you are buying replicas because you are selfish. There is no excuse to get a replica other than that.

>>8016346
Alternatives were presented, she just breezed right by them. Replica-chans are the epitome if entitlement, there's no reasoning with them in most cases.

>>8016284
enjoy that feeling in the pit of your stomach when someone takes your unique print, scans it, photoshops your logo out and sells it for half the price and half the quality.

>>8016265
You're a bigger cunt than her
Have fun looking like low-grade shit

>>8016289
I do it because people act entitled to those things. When I download music I know it is wrong, but I do it anyway. People try to justify their replica buying. "I won't fit into the real one so I deserve the fake one". You don't deserve shit, you just want it.

>>8013986
>
She's a total SJW too...

>>8016483
diffanon

so in theory you are cool with replica buyers as long as they own up to what theyre doing and know that it's wrong? And you don't think people try to justify stealing music in the same exact way? "I can't afford to pay for this album but I really love the band so I deserve to be able to listen to it"

has anyone seen the mess on CoF and Rufflechat yet over that one "ero lolita" coord?

>>8016632
Is it just me or do people suck cadneys ass no matter what comment she makes? She always makes the stupidest most benign comments but gets a ton of likes.

>>8016632
heck yes. what a mess. i don't think ive seen the phrase 'slutshaming' thrown around so sloppily outside of tumblr before.

will make caps later tomorrow if no one else does, it's like 6am here and I;ve not slept yet

>>8016667
the dumbassery in the thread is giving me a hernia.

>>8016632
they're closing the thread in like 20 mins so get your caps in now!

>>8016187
Because instead of starting a discussion, she really just wanted to talk about herself.

>>8016896
The caps are in the ita thread if anyone wants to go look.

And we have a new winner for "obnoxious whiner who can't read" commenting on a post about possibly starting a group/thread for themed coords.

"like that doctor who print"
somebody stop this girl

>Rufflechat Uncensored
>why can't that girl just use /cgl/

>>8019916
My exact fucking thought. Like the no doxx rule is going to fucking work at all. It'll just be people getting sandy and looking up each other to be extra cunty.