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How do you deal with people who are increasingly say that cosplay is for "whores" and that it's "trashy" and those sorts of things?

It seems like this hobby gets a worse and worse rep every year.

>> No.7845749

who cares? the premise itself is slut shaming.

there is nothing wrong with having a reputation for being sexually liberated.

>> No.7845753

Oh boy more britbong shitposting.

>> No.7845758

I don't think I've ever heard anyone say that outside of 4chan and other assorted otaku hideouts. They may hate us, but they're too antisocial to actually come to cons.

>> No.7845759
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7845759

But you see my dear, cosplay IS for whores... Attention whores, sexual or otherwise.

>> No.7845762
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7845762

>>7845759
>You will never get her addicted to heroin, whore her out to pay for her addiction and beat the shit out of her when you're angry

>> No.7845852 [DELETED] 

>>7845749
>slut detected

>> No.7845867

Pregnancy would cure a lot of these histrionics.

>> No.7845872
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7845872

>>7845759
nailed it pretty much

Not all (but most) cosplayers are actual whores, but every cosplayer regardless of gender is an attention whore.

Just ignore it and enjoy all the attention

>> No.7845877

>>7845759
Imagine being her dad. He must want to kill himself.

>> No.7845882

>>7845872
He's not going to do that because this is repeat verbatim troll thread #10^32

>> No.7845883

>>7845746
>>7845759
>>7845872

Goddamn. This is why people think white women are whores.

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7845887

>>7845882
>#10^32

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7845888

>>7845877
Don't go to the beach anon. You're head will explode.

>> No.7845890

>>7845883
We're not? Shit. Guess I better get to work on those refunds.

>> No.7845896

>>7845746
you don't goodluck with i t

>> No.7845909

>>7845746
That's you getting more into those aspects, I think it's getting more drama fueled, rather than more whorish

>> No.7845913

>>7845759
Yeah, I don't do it because I like sewing and see my friends at cons. Didn't knew I was a whore, danke

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>>7845883
The japanese cosplayers were the ones that started this ages ago tho.

>> No.7845915 [DELETED] 

>>7845909
>implying whores and drama don't go hand in hand

>> No.7845916

>>7845914
Those are paid models usually.

Many of which are pornstars. Gj comparing yourself to porn whores, slut. Rape is too good for you.

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>>7845914
The difference is, they get paid for it. You do it for free.

>> No.7845923

>>7845916
Ahaha, lolnope. You were never at Comiket were you? They are not paid models.

>> No.7845927

>>7845919

Some porn recruiter dude gave an interview where he said he was increasingly going to places like Comic Con to find young starlets because they're (cosplayers) usually "young, liberal and open minded about sex".

I wish I was joking. This is why cosplayers are pump and dump tier.

>> No.7845937

>>7845927
Virtually every older cosplayer has been a stripper if not run a paysite at some point. Virtually every newer cosplayer has done cam shows or there are extensive explicit pictures of them about or they are associated with brands like Cosplay Deviants or SCG or they flat out do porn. The number of female cosplayers who aren't involved in something along those lines is miniscule. I am very confident saying that 7 out of every 10 non-obese female cosplayers are or have been involved in some kind of porn, stripping, solo cam shows or something else similar in that field. 2 of the remaining 3 probably would happily do it if they thought there was even the most token amount of money to be made. The remaning 1 would say no but then you've got all the fat ones who would do it if only people cared about them.

People think we're all whores? We've only got ourselves to blame. Dress like a skank, act like a skank and say skank things and people are gonna think you're a skank.

>> No.7845954

>>7845923
those camera circles make navigating impossible.

i quit comiket.

only TGS from now on.

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7846014

>>7845762
w-what

>> No.7846018

>>7845923
Many of them are, and they started out as paid years ago, now attention whores do it like we have over in the west.

>> No.7846037

>>7845937
Can you give examples? The only one I can think of now is StellaChuu but she does burlesque which is definitely not porn

>> No.7846047

>>7846037
didn't she also do cosplaydeviants, which definitely is porn.

>> No.7846054

>>7846037

>>7844000

>> No.7846063

>>7845919


Overgeneralization-man, away!!

>> No.7846080

>>7846047
Oh I was unaware of that - are there any others though? I feel like most well known cosplayers got there more because of famous friends or one iconic cosplay than doing porn or starting out modeling

>> No.7846091

I want to slutify Space Dandy cause I it'll be hilarious, Space Skanky, will i be the only one laughing?

>> No.7846285

>>7845872
>>7845883

I don't get what is it with this one?

>> No.7846295

Is only r9k neck beards that think that. But I got out of cosplay and now just act like I'm better then other cosplayers because I got out "before it changed"
I think people are really screwing themselves over though. I give it 5 years max until facial recognition software is easily accessible. I consider myself pretty liberal and pro-sex.. but I don't think I would hire the girl in op's pic.

>> No.7846305

>>7845746
>How do you deal with people who are increasingly say that cosplay is for "whores" and that it's "trashy" and those sorts of things?

I don't. Nobody has ever said this to me when I mention cosplay irl. I only ever see this said on cgl or on blogs or places like tumblr rant posts.

And maybe that's just because I was never an attention whore, so I didn't attract those kinds of people looking to upset or shame me. I chose classy, modest cosplays that I wouldn't feel ashamed to be seen in years down the road.
Do you honestly believe the girl's mother in that pic is proud of her? Keep that shit in the bedroom. It's not about "slut shaming," at that point it's just about being a decent person and keeping your sexual preferences in the bedroom. Because really, nobody has the right to slut shame any more than someone has the right to make someone else uncomfortable with their sexual preferences in a public setting.

>> No.7846309

>>7845746
I give her props for creativity.

>> No.7846378

>>7845937
[citation needed]

>> No.7846484

>>7845937
>>7846037
>>7846047
>>7846054
>>7846080
>>7846378
Off the top of my head:
Yaya was a stripper, escort (literal, not slang)
Miyu was a stripper
TristenCitrine was a stripper
Lindze did fetish stuff
Ginny does lots of nude stuff and some fetish videos
Kitty now works in home-invasion fetish videos
FranDan started out as a solo nude teen model and incorporated cosplay later
Alisa was Yaya's escort partner but quit cosplay to work on her solo paysite full time
Riddle's done a bunch of nude modelling and was rumoured to have been a stripper though the latter part is unconfirmed
Adella had some naked stuff leaked, unknown if she was paid or whatever
Collie went into full porn as Ellie Idol then moved to humilation fetish videos as Princess Ellie
Liz Katz is the new alias of pornstar Risi Simms
BelleChere was employed by various Japanese fetish conventions and magazines
Giorgia started out nude modelling and stripping
Kelly Jean voices hentai, used to do a public tease camshow and private hardcore camshows
Ivy Doomkitty gets most of her money from fat fetish stuff
Obviously there are all the Cosplay Deviant people
Everyone on Cosplay Erotica
Everyone at SCG

I'm sure other people could add to the list or I could remember more given the time.

>> No.7846502

>>7846484
Any reason this is a trend? Like the all actresses are waitresses thing?168

>> No.7846507

>>7846502
I think this thread summed it up already. Cosplay is full of attention whores who will do anything that will get them noticed or delay them having to get a real job. Why work in an office or in retail or complete full education when you can just take your top off or put on a Street Fighter costume and mouthbreathers will shower you with money?

>> No.7846526

>>7846484
>Virtually every newer cosplayer
>Virtually every older cosplayer

So you've named what? a couple hundred/1000 people at most -- by virtue of including the entire user base of certain sites?

I still fail to see how this is "Virtually every" cosplayer.
It's cool that you think 4chan of all places should put up with hyperbolic conjecture that you make up off the top of your head based only on established cosplayers you yourself can think of. You're clearly very scientific in your information gathering methods.

>> No.7846538

>>7846526
Different Anon to original post, but okay mate, whatever you say. My mistake, I thought this was /cgl/.

>> No.7846549

pssst
even in the 70's/80's when the Japanese were first cosplaying (and Americans were doing it at sci-fi cons, too) you dressed up to be an attention whore and prove you loved the show more than anyone else

>> No.7846550

>>7846305
>It's not about "slut shaming," at that point it's just about being a decent person and keeping your sexual preferences in the bedroom. Because really, nobody has the right to slut shame any more than someone has the right to make someone else uncomfortable with their sexual preferences in a public setting.

You're at an ANIME CON. It has become a TAZ for all effect and the culture was changed for their benefit due to demographics and influence.

>> No.7846551

>>7846484

Jesus Christ. I always thought it was just neckbeard trolling.

Cosplayers really are trash. Absolute fucking whores.

>> No.7846553

>>7846484

And this, my friends, is why white men prefer asian girls these days.

>> No.7846555

>>7846091
whore

>> No.7846563

>>7846549
Cosplaying was invented in America and wasn't bought over to Japan until it was a regular common sight at conventions here

>>7846553
>list starts with an asian woman, has a half-asian woman in it and covers hundreds of asian women under the sites mentioned
>includes several non-white girls
>doesn't even begin to list all the hundreds of asian pornstars who specialise in cosplay porn

Yeah sure curse those white devils, asian purity is the only way to go right?

>> No.7846569

>>7845914
why are receding chins so unattractive

>> No.7846584

The problem is whores getting into cosplay. You really think these people count as cosplayers? Most don't make any costumes and the ones that do put in minimal effort. I don't really consider it cosplay. More something people in the sex industry are now using to stand out.

Then again is not like wearing costumes for porn is anything new.. It's just got more popular.

>> No.7846588

>>7846484
I don't know who half those people are.
If you just happen to havea lengthy list of nobody cosplayers who are whores I feel like you have a problem

>> No.7846603

>>7846507
Exactly. I can probably count on one hand the number of cosplayers I know with real careers. But then again if you have a real job you don't really havea lot of time to spend making costumes and promoting them on social media so you probably won't really get noticed enough to even be considered for any kind of cosplay list

>> No.7846606

>>7846484
How do you know all of this?

>> No.7846613

>>7846563
Those asian girls are unusual and their parents usually disown them.

>> No.7846619

>>7845749
>>7845758
/thread

>> No.7846621

>>7846563
Asian girls lose their virginity later on in life. They're also generally less sexual.

>> No.7846622

>>7846619
lol an actual whore.

>> No.7846627

>>7846563
> responding to trolls

>> No.7846630

>>7846621

this. asian grills play up the cute aspect rather than the sexy or slutty aspect.

>> No.7846958

>>7846091
I would chuckle if it was done well.

>> No.7847094
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>>7846484
You forgot Verababy. Nude "model" and MFC girl. Though she does have an amazing ass. Feel bad for her BF/photographer.

>> No.7847110

I wonder how long before JNig gets naked for us.

>> No.7847136

>>7846553

I don't.

Asian women seem to prefer me. But their over-clinginess, obsessiveness, among other things tend to make me apprehensive about other asian women in general.

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[ERROR]

Hey guys can I join in on this party?

>> No.7847148

>>7845746
Who is this girl?

>> No.7847153

>>7845746
dezi is nasty irl.

>> No.7847162

>>7846563

Cosplaying existed before America did, it just wasn't called cosplaying back then, but you had people doing it masquerade balls and shit in Vienna and other cities, town halls, and whatnot

>> No.7847173

this is a sfw board

>> No.7847198

>>7845762
well not with that attitude

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>>7847198

>> No.7847337

>>7847136

Really? I like their clinginess. My girlfriend is always -literally- clinging to me whenever we're out together, it's cute.

Western/white girls are too sexualized. They try to appeal based on sex alone. Innocence has its own appeal.

>> No.7847340

>>7846484
>>7847094
She also forgot Charms. Escort/camgirl/stripper.

Cosplay seems to have a really bad reputation, I wouldn't let my daughter cosplay and go to a con. Seems like it's a whore's hobby.

>> No.7847344

>>7847337
I think the anon meant the bad kind of clinginess since they even took the time to write "obsessiveness" too.

>> No.7847354

>>7847162
nigga....

>> No.7847386

>>7847344
there's some truth in that.

my gf will get sad if she's apart from me for even a couple of days, but that's cute. i hate the "independent woman" shit that white women pull.

>> No.7847399

>>7847337
>>7847344

Yes, the suffocating kind. I've been called clingy before too, so I guess if I find something way too clingy, it's probably over the top.

>> No.7847466

>>7845746
a reputation doesn't come out of the blue

you earn it

>> No.7847492

>>7847110
never, she's the last bastille of good, honest cosplayers

>> No.7847498

>>7845877
lucky for me then...if I ever turn in to a attention whore. My dad already killed himself ;(

>> No.7847500

>>7846484
Yaya was a stripper? I didn't know that.

>> No.7847560

>>7846484
Aigue-Marine at SCG is the exception, hasn't done stripping, camwhoring or even a bikini cosplay

There are always exceptions to the generalizations

>> No.7847567

>>7847110
>>7847492
Probably never, unless somebody legit like Playboy actually coughed up the big bucks. Even then I think it's 50/50 on whether she'd go for it. You think she hasn't had a million offers and requests already? She probably can't get through a single day without some guy with a big camera tell her he has this great idea for a photoshoot that just requires her to take her top off...
If she's not chosen to do it by now then I doubt she ever will choose to do it. A massive pay check could always change that but it'd probably have to be A-lister money.

>>7847500
It's never been confirmed but it's got so much evidence it's hard to disbelieve. Back around 2005-06 is when she first began showing up at D*C with Alisa as hired 'enhancement'. Back then there was always a couple of poles set up and they'd work the room for most of the night and jump on the poles intermittently. Alisa was working as a stripper at the time, which she's always been open about, and the running gag back then was that Yaya was better on the pole than Alisa and that is why Alisa got butthurt and split. This was also around the time there were those pictures of Yaya opening her legs on a bed with guys shoving cameras in her crotch and when her only 'costumes' were assless chaps and PVC nurse outfits. Of course back then she was also friend with people like TC who was stripping (confirmed by herself), too. So it's one of those things where Yaya's never come right out and said she was a stripper but she was doing stripper things with a bunch of other strippers and when you ask her what her job was back then she gets very quiet and changes topic asap. Not 100% certainty but a strong 95%.

>> No.7847570

>>7847560
Everybody has said they're talking about a majority and not totality. Actually I think SCG is probably the more balanced group, it's probably more like 50/50 with that lot.

>> No.7847703

>>7847340

Ah, I remember a time it was not always so.

Here's the problem: Back in the day, lonely basement dwellers but below average looking girls who cosplay on pedestals. To a certain extent this is still true. But as cosplay grew in popularity, so too did the percentage of attractive people who did it. As a result of the lonely basement dwellers, it was very easy for girls who were made fun of for their interests to gain a small amount of popularity\success (what the hell that mean in this hobby), snowballing into the mess we have today.

>> No.7847706

>>7847567
>She probably can't get through a single day without some guy with a big camera tell her he has this great idea for a photoshoot that just requires her to take her top off...

She went from having small boobs to having massive implants. If she gets naked everyone will see just how bad those bolt-ons look. Even her half-wit fanboys won't be able to claim they just grew bigger one day.

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>>7847706

>> No.7847715

>>7845746
I'd like to go to that convention.

>> No.7847717

>>7845914
>covering part of the buttcrack but not all

Why?

Cover it all or show it all, the half measure just looks silly.

>> No.7847719

>>7847706

I remember her saying a while ago that she would never do a nude photoshoot. Although as soon as she starts fading away into the distant memories of rabid cosplay fans, i'm sure she'll show a little more skin to get her attention back. That's what every desperate model does in the industry (cosplay or otherwise) after getting old or forgotten, they do nudes.

>> No.7847723

>>7847709

All I'm seeing here is a video that must exsist somewhere with out a censor bar.

>> No.7847725

>>7845914

Yes, but that's japan, they're cool with that, the issue in the west is that we even talk about it like it's an issue at all.

there's no femenist group outside comiket protesting some stupid consent thing.

the girls all LET any photographer get as close and as personal with their lenses as they can.

everyone is very accepting that this is just the way it is, and everyone likes it enough that it gets even better every year.

In the west, we get idiot individuals that have to get their stupid hands into everything to make it just right for them.

Cosplay culture just doesn't work anywhere else but japan.

>> No.7847734

>>7847198
>>7846014
I like the idea of it, just a fantasy.

>> No.7847742

>>7847725

You have to understand most of the skimpy cosplayers in Japan are pros, or ero-cosplayer models.

In America they literally DO IT FOR FREE. And they fuck guys at the con raves afterwards. Yamato Nadeshiko purer and more superior/

>> No.7847744

>>7847723
is fake man

>> No.7847765

>>7847742
>purer is superior

NOPE.jpg

>> No.7847783

>>7847765
America has taught you to give in and lust for the immoral. I'm sorry you are a slave to the generation of harlots.

>> No.7847811

>>7847783
beta faggot detected. I'm so sorry that you're scared of women.

>> No.7847813

>>7847783
>slave

Quite the opposite.
Thanks to the internet and porn, I'll never need a 3D woman again.

>> No.7847856

>>7847811
>low test beta faggot detected
>wasting your precious sperm on diseased hussies every man has been inside because it's the only pussy you can get
>not pumping semen into pure girls and claiming them as your own, embarking on territory no man has entered before

lel

I can see why you are a bottom feeder and not the alpha at the top of the food chain

I'm so sorry you can only get with the easiest of the sleaziest

>> No.7847900

>>7847856
to be fair. beating up a cosplayer and raping her must be amazing.

>> No.7847909

I'm sorry but I thought everyone agreed that cosplaying makes you an attention whore by default, less clothes mean more attention, therefore people in good shape will wear less clothing, men do it too (if they have the body for it) and they are also whores.
some people are even professional cosplayers, which makes them literally whores.

>> No.7847925

>>7847856
>acting like you have actually done any of this

>> No.7848046

>>7847856
I got news for you pal, virgins are shit lays. Timid girls are shit lays. The 'purer' a girl is the more of a waste of time she is in bed. You want a worthwhile fuck? Get the nastiest, easiest skank you can find. She'll ride you 'til your dick erodes, beg for it up the ass raw and suck it clean after. The more and bigger tramp stamps, piercings, implants and hooker boots a girl has about her, the better fuck she is.

If you only want useless little girls then go right ahead, be my guest, take them all. Just means there are more real women for me.

>> No.7848052

>>7848046
I completely, 100% agree with this but I disagree with the follow up that pure girls aren't worth anything because they're not as good in bed.

Pure girls are wives and mothers, whores like cosplayers are our mistresses and girls on the side. They're the ones we degrade, spit on, fuck etc.

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7848054

>>7848046
>real women

>> No.7848062

>>7846484
>>7845937

It's pretty much true. I've sent out way to many nude pictures over the years too. I'm kinda surprised they haven't surfaced yet on 4chan.

>> No.7848071

>>7848062
Trashy piece of shit.

>> No.7848074

>>7848052
If your wife is some pure innocent you will have a boring, loveless marriage. More banging out means longer and happier marriages.

Your mother had a fucktonne of cum shot in her before she gave birth to you. If you have younger siblings then she had a truckload of cum shot in her afterwards, too.

Whores are for everyone and everything. The bigger skank a girl is the better, in all instances. There is not one single thing a 'pure girl' does better than a proper cumslut. The worth of a woman is directly proportional to the amount of cum she's swallowed and the number of cocks that have been up her ass.

So many fucking virgins ITT.

>> No.7848075

>>7848062
You are doing God's work. Keep it up.

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7848077

I feel like coswhores like Jnig only cosplay that way because they fail at looking accurate to real characters. Pic related. Look at that man face. There's a reason she wears too much makeup and got implants.

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>>7848074

>> No.7848091

>>7848074
This isn't the beta diaries. Back to your containment board >>>/r9k/

>> No.7848101

>>7848074

Both of you are idiots.

You don't want some cartoonish whore and you don't want some "saving myself for marriage" purity prude.

Sex with whore will be good so long as you regard it as a biological function, like taking a piss. But if you're at all family inclined or feel like locking down some chick instead of having to go game or arrange a booty whenever you want to bust a nut, whores are a terrible idea.

They're also a great way to catch something. And you do not want that.

Purity chicks are just worthless. Supply and demand only works when the supply actually exists.

Now, what you really want is a normal human being that sits somewhere in the middleground. The more openminded the better, because that means she's probably more likely to be interesting in the sack or be willing to try new things and become interesting in the sack.

Unlike the whore, there's a statistically lower chance that she'll give an STD and a much greater chance that she'll try to do things like cook and clean for you. Whores don't cook and clean. And they actually have a conscience so there less likely to go out sleep around behind your back and shit.

>> No.7848103

>>7845746
>How do you deal with people who are increasingly say that cosplay is for "whores" and that it's "trashy" and those sorts of things?

The same way in the old days we dealt with people thinking cosplayers we were a strange fetish sex group. This isnt some new concept that came about after the rise of ppl like Jnig. People will always have misconceptions about any niche hobby the arent apart off.

If someone came up to me making these statements I would probably say that was a huge generalization of a hobby filled with many different types of people all with different reasons why they do it just like any hobby. And if said person wanted to keep thinking we were all 'whores' or 'trashy' that is their problem.

>> No.7848106

There is nothing to "deal with" it is all completely true

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>>7848101

>> No.7848131

>>7848101
I'm not so sure, I want a wife who is squeaky clean but a woman on the side who will do basically anything I ask.

I wish women were ok with this like they used to be.

>> No.7848139

>>7848131
yeah, what shame women have gone and got themselves self-respect in the past years.
Chucks.

>> No.7848143

>>7848101
>Settling for the middle ground
That's the worse advice possible, if you settle for the middle ground you'll never get anywhere in life, either go for the virgin or go for the trashy whore. If you go for the middle ground you'll just live a boring life and be the exact same as everyone else.

>> No.7848145

>>7848139
>got themselves self-respect in the past years.

facialabuse
blacksonblondes
cosplaydeviants
bangbus
dragoncon
AX

etc.

Sure you want to stick by that assertion? A woman who sticks by her man has much more self respect than a girl who does porn/cosplay

>> No.7848149

>>7848074
>Slutty white women mad because men don't want a slutty white women for a wife.
You chose to be a whore.

>> No.7848158

>>7848143
This.
Middle ground is another way of saying boring average.

>> No.7848182

>>7848143
>>7848158
>middle ground is too mainstream 8L8L8L8L8L I be unique xDDDDD

>> No.7848184

>>7848143
That's garbage, man.

Virgins are only worth a damn if they're like 19 or 20 and they're actively seeking to lose their virginity. And even then the only value is the novelty of being their first and knowing that you've impacted their lives in a real way by being the first person they've shared their sexuality with. That can be great because you get to be there for the formative period in their sexual growth and they tend to be attached.

However, their being attached is not always good and those same formative years can consist of shitty BJs, slow sex, and a lot of reluctance if she's not a certain type of girl.

The girls who really are "full virgin" and value purity are going to be the most boring pieces of shit in a relationship 99.9% of time. Chances are they view sexual relationships as only being acceptable by virtue of reproduction. That is not fucking good. That means that you will be no. 1 in their lives for as long as it takes for you to knock them up, and even then there will probably be very little oral and only the bare minimum vanilla sex. As soon as they pop out their desired number of children, they will go full mommy mode, you'll be playing second fiddle to the kids 24/7, and you'll be a source of financial support and nothing else.

No, never. Fuck that. Not an option.

Trashy whores are usually, but not always, great lays. But, they're also filthy losers that you probably cannot stand to be around for more for a second after you cum, unless you're also a filthy loser. You cannot lock them down, even if you wanted to, so they always take some amount of effort and many times you'll be the sloppy second of the night.

She will sleep around no matter what.

Those two extremes are both shitty. It's like anarchism and totalitarian communism. Just going one way or the other doesn't mean you know what's up. It means you have no practical experience with the spectrum and so you just figure it's as simple as one way or the other.

>> No.7848190

>>7848145
...or they might have a different view on sexuality and companionship, but what the fuck do you know?
Allowing oneself to have fetishes or sexual fantasies ignores taboo and prioritizes oneself instead of what others think you should be like.
You wanting to control your partner could be disrespectful if she has her own thoughts and preferences.

>> No.7848193

>>7848046
This anon has actually had sex.

>> No.7848194

>>7848184
So you'd rather just live a boring life the same as everyone else? Enjoy being a clone.

>> No.7848199

>>7848190
>You wanting to control your partner could be disrespectful if she has her own thoughts and preferences.

Are you fucking serious?

Their "different view" is called being a broken sack of shit. If you do porn, you are trash. If you do cosplay, it's basically the same as porn these days anyway.

>> No.7848204

>>7848199
Maybe they're more open with their sexuality and body than you. Are you religious?

>> No.7848206

>>7848204
Of course they're more open, to the point of being self-destructive. They're usually more "open" about getting addicted to drugs too, is that a good thing?

>> No.7848207

>>7848131
I'm pretty sure they never appreciated this, and have only in the last 100 years or so realized that they don't have to put up with it and could say something. Divorce was a big no-no for quite some time.

>> No.7848210

>>7848207

Not defending cheating men, but breaking up a marriage over that is pretty shitty too.

>> No.7848211
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7848211

>>7848193
>dirty slutty white whore detected
That anon is fucking stupid, you whores are the WORST, your faces melt at 30 (pic related, saggy tits, rude, bad manners, classless and just all round diseased bitches.

Just accept it.

>> No.7848213

>>7845872
But that's Mango Sirene. She's not a whore at all.

>> No.7848216

>>7848210
If you are an individual with resentment issues or has issues trusting people after they fuck you over, staying in a relationship where you always assume the individual is up to more of their bullshit is not a great idea either.

>> No.7848220

>>7848211
one of these days when you go to japan women will finally respect you for the proud hard working aryan man you are

>> No.7848221

>>7848216
If you have kids, it's best for them you do.

>> No.7848223

>>7847709
This is from a Rooster Teeth video, there was some joke, and she was never actually naked.
From what I've heard lately, JNig actually has some class. Still wears bra and panty tier cosplay, but other than that, she doesn't seem like a whore.

>> No.7848227

>>7848131
Uh, if you're upfront with having an open relationship they are, but I guess that lacks the glamor of cheating on someone for you. You live in times of the internet, the world of sexual escapades and relationships should be your oyster unless you're hideous. And even then, I mean, look how many uggos have found each other.

>> No.7848229

>>7848211
Once you get laid, you'll see differently, Anon.

You can do it! We have faith in you!

>> No.7848234

>>7848220
Japanese and asian women are still attractive when they're 30 and faces don't melt away, and I'm not 'aryan' I'm half white half mexican but stay mad anyway ugly white whore.

>> No.7848236

There are plenty of women into cosplay because they like making cool stuff and expressing their love of the fandom. Sure, lots of the efamous cosplay people have nudes posted or do cam work. The overwhelming majority of people that are into cosplay don't do those things. There are hundreds of thousands of average run of the mill cosplayers that do it for fun and attention (not necessarily of the sexual variety).

There are plenty of regular folks out there that want to fap to their favorite characters but feel weird about toon or hentai. They fap to people in cosplay since its a human and they don't have to feel weird about it. I think that's a part of why "sexy" cosplay people get more well known than people that are more modest.

If you need to explain it to people, just express that all fandoms have people that take things too far or sexualize them, but most of the people aren't like that. I mean look at sports fans, for every bodypainted rioting douchebag, you have a hundred people that just like to watch games on tv.

Anyways, a deserving sage for a cess pit of a thread.

>> No.7848237

>>7848223
That's always been the way I've seen her too.

Bra and panties tier stuff, but never actual whorishness. E.g. promiscuity and the like.

>> No.7848238

>>7848229
>Mad white women

>> No.7848239

>>7848234
Okay, Mikey, relax.

>> No.7848242

>>7848238
kek, this is the only board on 4chan where people assume I'm a girl.

You're just trying to ruse me into showing you my penis, aren't you.

>> No.7848243

>>7846563
I know there was Gundam Cosplay in the early 80s, I don't think the US had cons or cosplay at that point in time

>> No.7848245

>>7847570
the poster I replied to said "everybody on SCG", so yeah

I still haven't seen any proof for the "Yaya was a stripper and escort" thing either - outside of people confusing photos from DragonCon 2007 and 2008s Adult Party

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7848246

>>7848239
pic
>>7848242
prove it white knight

>> No.7848248

>>7848246
I'm not going to fall for your wiley ways again, you perverted fangirl. If you want to see naked men take it to /hm/.

>> No.7848249

>>7848221
Nope, those kids would be stuck in a prison living with a fucked up mom. If my dad cheated on my mom, i would not have blamed her for getting out of there. I would think they would be amiable to one another and have my best interest as a child in mind, but i would not expect them to stay together.

>> No.7848254

>>7848249
>if

Uh, your dad probably has dude.

>> No.7848256

>>7848206
No, that's beside the point. It's also a generalization. The porn itself it only destructive if you do it to suppress feelings or deny it making you feel bad or whatever.

>> No.7848257

>>7848256
>People actually defending doing porn

Oh wait, I'm on /cgl/.

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7848261

>>7848254
Alright, if it was made apparent to my mother that he cheated, i would not blame her for leaving. Apparently we have a fucking pedant here.

>> No.7848262

>>7848257
>people actually being against porn

Who invited the SJWs in?

>> No.7848266

>>7848262
Most SJWs are third wave, "sex positive" types who think that so long as something makes your dick or pussy tingle, it's "healthy".

>> No.7848267

>>7848266
ok.

>> No.7848271

>>7848257
You may as well change that to;
Oh wait, I'm on 4chan.
So, how was church this sunday?/I bet your tumblr page is really nice.

>> No.7848273

Half of /cgl/ has a fetlife profile right?

So many sluts on this board. So much fertile ground for getting young girls pregnant.

>> No.7848275

>>7848266
I thought the sex positive thing was; as long as you feel comfortable and are not doing anything before you want to.

>> No.7848278

>>7848271
Fuck off hedonist, my spirituality is superior than your short term pleasure.

>> No.7848281

>>7848275
>implying women are capable of making rational decisions
>mayli.jpg
>belle_knox.jpg

topkek.jpg

>> No.7848283

>>7848194
The middle ground between whore and purity-obsessed virgin is not boring. The spectrum is measuring promiscuity not sexual excitement.

I want to live a good life, irrespective of what the average life is. My experiences don't gain validity by virtue of the extent to which the deviate from the mean.

To want to do things just because it's not what the mainstream is doing is the very definition of a hipster edgelord. It doesn't get you anywhere. By fucking sluts or marrying virgins, you're not going to discover the New World. Stop fooling yourself.

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7848286

>>7846484
Yaya a stripper, NO WAY

>> No.7848288

>>7848266
If only that were true!

Sadly, the vast majority of SJWs and third wave feminists are anti-sex and "all sex is rape" radical feminists.

>> No.7848289

>>7848281

To be fair I think it's mostly white women who push it. Asian chicks tend to be more reserved. I think that's partly why a lot of white guys prefer them these days. With an asian chick you know you're getting a girl who cares about relationships and doesn't have some massive collection of sex toys.

>> No.7848290

>>7848278
DING DING DING, right on the money. Do I get something for predicting ideology? I might except an award if veggie tales over here didn't make it so obvious. Also, i have only ever been with one person, who has been the same person for 4 years. Pretty sure heathen is a bit of a stretch.

>> No.7848291

>>7848257
>disliking porn
Are you stupid?

>> No.7848292

>>7848234
>Japanese and asian women are still attractive when they're 30 and faces don't melt away
You obviously haven't seen Yaya lately.

>> No.7848294

>>7848283
Fucking hedonists slave, I look down on you.

>> No.7848295

>>7848281
You edges are showing, you might want to go back to /pol. I hear they miss one of their several village idiots.

>> No.7848299

>>7848291
Him disliking porn or not is irrelevant.

Why do women assume that because men are titillated by a woman, that means they respect her?

I'll never understand this attitude. It's perfectly consistent in men's minds to both want to fuck a girl and consider her absolute trash at the same time. Women will never understand this. That's why you make the mistake of assuming being sexually desired is the same as being respected.

>> No.7848303

>>7848291
If you dislike porn, you're stupid. We have a real winner here, guys.

>> No.7848304

>>7848288
not all sex is rape, just all penis in vagina sex

>> No.7848306

>>7848290
Enjoy living the rest of your life doing the same thing everyday, I enjoy my worldly life through spirituality and will enjoy my eternal life in heaven. Your life is never going to get better than it is now and then you're going to hell.

>> No.7848307

>>7848299
You really read far into that five word post, didntcha? Did your mom teach you inference skills when you were home schooled?

>> No.7848309

>>7848299
>Why do women assume that because men are titillated by a woman, that means they respect her?

because that's how they feel about men, they desire a man and he suddenly becomes noble, kind, hard working etc. women are actually more sex obsessed than men in this sense.

>> No.7848315

>>7848303
Well, usually the only people who dislike porn are prude, religious nutjobs and/or third-wave feminists/SJWs, and those are pretty fucking stupid so yeah

>> No.7848317

>>7848307
It's not that, the whole "OMG how can you dislike pornstars, you fap to them!" is a common narrative in pop feminist discourse. The bemusement belies their lack of understanding, and yours.

>> No.7848320

>>7848289
Why the fuck can't I have a girl who cares about relationships but is also a horny pervert?

>> No.7848322

>>7848320

Asian girls my friend.

Asian girls.

The only type outside of hairy muslims who can actually keep their legs closed these days.

>> No.7848323

>>7848295
/pol/ here, we don't want em back. /pol/ has actually had constructive threads lately.

>> No.7848326

>>7848320
That is what I've been asking myself all life long, then I thought I found one and then she dumped me after 6 months for the dumbest reason ever. Life ain't easy.

>> No.7848327

>>7848323
If you're a leftist, fuck off.

>> No.7848329

>>7848322
I've dated Chinese girls, many are pretty and intelligent and nerdy, but they're dominant in the relationship (where the fuck did the "submissive Asian girl" lie come from?) while being boringly submissive in the bedroom. ("Lie back and think of England" is supposed to be a joke!)

Why can't I have the opposite?

>> No.7848332

>>7848327
>If you disagree with me, you're not welcome

That's SJW behavior right there.

>> No.7848335

>>7848306
When i die I will be put in a hole in the ground, and my family will dance on my grave and they will eat cake and those fuckers better not cry. They will sit around and recall what I did while living and they will say "Man, she was my Grandma/Aunt/Mom/Sister and she was funny. I hope to be like her." They will remember me until they are put into their own hole and their family dances on their grave. I will be forgotten. I will not be conscious after i leave, but i am alright with that. I am doing my best to help those around me now. If those gates of yours do exist, I will get up there, and they will know what I have done for those around me. And if they are worth believing or giving my life to, they will not fail me. They will let me in a long side all of the other people that did the best they could with what they have. And that may include occasionally fapping with the internet-given material provided to me by century link, blessed are they.

>> No.7848341

>>7848317
Pretty sure you don't know an individuals "narrative" by reading five words on an image board. Better a heathen then presumptuous to a fault.

>> No.7848344

Because it's for one kind of whore, attention whores. The fact that some happen to be sluts who don't even have sex because they want to is just icing on the cake.

Females cosplay for attention. Males cosplay because they want to get laid by female cosplayers.

>> No.7848345

>>7848341

I would say I want to see you get raped, but I know you'd enjoy it.

>> No.7848352

>>7848326
I guess she didn't care about relationships after all :(

>> No.7848355

>>7848299
because of White Knights, simply put. These people are too socially awkward to communicate their sexual desire in any way and are ashamed of objectifying a person, thus they create a narrative of false respect.

>> No.7848356

>>7848335
You won't be accepted if you don't accept jesus as your lord and saviour you won't, you remain ignorant or you accept him now, choose wisely.

>> No.7848359

>>7848299
>>7848309
That's a good point. I've certainly noticed that attitude/belief in far too many girls I know.

>> No.7848360

>>7848345
Again, I'm am not particularly promiscuous, you are just talking out of your puckered ass-hole and assuming things based on little evidence. I thought that religious schools taught critical thinking.

>> No.7848362

>>7848352
Pretty much that, I guess.. I still haven't found an answer and never will because she refused to give me any. She also started to break away from me two weeks before calling it quits, on the weekend where my dog died and I desperately needed the person I cared about the most to be there for me. But I'm definitely way off topic by now.

>> No.7848365

>>7848335
Also, are you a tranny?

>> No.7848371

>>7848362
>I still haven't found an answer and never will because she refused to give me any.

That's the worst. Even the harshest truth is better than no explanation at all.

>> No.7848372

>>7848356
So you telling me that Jesus would rather I be occupied with him rather than doing things to better myself and those around me. Or is it that he thinks i am incapable of these things with out him? Either way, i would tell the individual that told me either of those things to eat a bag of evangelical dicks.

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7848375

>>7848365
Would that make your life easier if i told you i was? I'm just here to help.

>> No.7848376

>>7848371
My ex girlfriends (all three of them) wanted to stay friends after breaking up instead of giving me proper answers, I guess that's female logic

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>>7848376
Or maybe you continually date shitty people. No WAY is that the answer though.

>> No.7848388

>>7848376
It's weird, my most recent girlfriend still hasn't given me a satisfactory reason for why she broke up with me, yet at the same time we talk every day like we're still dating.

Maybe it's some ploy to keep us on the hook emotionally? Maybe she didn't have a good reason, she just felt like doing it?

>> No.7848389

>>7848372
>So you telling me that Jesus would rather I be occupied with him rather than doing things to better myself and those around me.
No, Jesus would rather you accept him as your lord and saviour, and help those around you through selflessness and not to better yourself but be meek, as meek as you can be.
>>7848375
No, you referred yourself as 'her' and then said you fapped, but anyway you shouldn't be masterbating, it's sinful.

>> No.7848397

>>7848389
Shlick sounds fucking stupid, so i say fap.
Also, i don't help others because It makes me better, I help because i want to. Also, what are the benefits of being meek? I want an answer not just "because my old book says so".

>> No.7848401

>>7848397
>Also, what are the benefits of being meek?

You may get to inherit the Earth someday?

Just keep waiting, it's bound to happen eventually.

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>>7847725
COSPLAY IS NOT CONSENT!!!

>> No.7848407

>>7848397
Fapping won't bring you happiness.
>I help because i want to.
Want is another mistake, you should help people only through selflessness.
I'm only trying to help you here.

>what are the benefits of being meek
Mathew 5:5
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.

Psalm 37:11
But the meek shall inherit the land and delight themselves in abundant peace.

James 1:21
Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.

>> No.7848409

>>7848401
Inherit the earth? I thought i was dead? So, only people just like me who are also meek will be allowed to live on earth? That shit sounds dull. Does that REALLY sound like a sweet deal to you? Do you sit around and say to yourself, man, if only every other bit of human variety was taken off this planet, how sweet that would be. Imagine if only people similar to myself were allowed. Good deal. Is that really how it works for you?

>> No.7848413

>>7848409
psst, I'm not the chirstfag, I was making a funny

>> No.7848417

>>7848407
>Fapping won't bring you happiness.

But it sure as fuck brings you pleasure.

>> No.7848421

>>7848417
Only temporary, it causes depression. in the long run.
>http://www.2knowmyself.com/Why_masturbation_lowers_your_self_esteem_and_kills_your_self_confidence

>> No.7848422

>>7848407
Holy mother fucking shit, do you not know how to read? When i asked the question about why being meek is good, the first, THE FUCKING FIRST, thing i said was, don't give me reasons from the fucking bible. Don't you have to know how to read to actually get through the bible? Because im not so sure you know how. Further more, what is so damaging to have a personal compulsion to help those around you? How are you suggesting I phrase this, because apparently you are the master of language, which seems questionable to me, based on the "examples" you provided to me earlier.

>> No.7848428

>>7848413
Alright, i except your not a christ fag, but he posted it anyhow. I appreciate your forethought.

>> No.7848429

>>7848421
If god wants us to have sex, why did he make 3D girls (and guys) so pig disgusting?

>> No.7848431

>>7847742
>And the fuck the guys at the con raves afterwards
Nigga they all lesbian.

>> No.7848434
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7848434

>>7846484
>BelleChere
Link? She said she doesn't do nudes out of respect for her husband.

>> No.7848445

>>7848422
There's no need to swear so much and use violent language like that, not to insult me at least.

The reply was more of an attack against me, which has led me to believe you don't care about helping me (or anyone for that matter) at all.

>what is so damaging to have a personal compulsion to help those around you?
Because it gives you an exaggerated sense of self-worth, when you're meant to be meek.

Proverbs 22:4
“All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble"

>> No.7848451

>>7847717
it's the slot where you insert coins

>> No.7848458

>>7848445
Again, you failed to read what I had said, so i got irritated. Further more, just because I think you suck, doesn't mean I i think that everyone sucks. Also, i come here so i can be pissed off.
Again, who says i am meant to be meek? Also, i will say this in caps so you don't miss it; WHY IS IT BENEFICAL TO BE MEEK AND WHY AM I MEANT TO BE MEEK, DON'T QUOTE YOUR BOOK AT ME.

>> No.7848466

>>7848397
shlick is the soundword your vagina makes when shlicking. Fap is the soundword my penis makes when fapping. You shlick, I fap. Everything else is irritating and about as correct as calling a pear a donkey.

>> No.7848470

>>7848421
My father killed my self confidence, not masturbation. If anything, masturbation is a form of appreciating myself and becoming more positive about my own body.

>> No.7848475

>>7848470
You femanon have daddy issues lol.

>> No.7848484

>>7848458
I'm sorry, I never meant to make you angry, also if you seriously come here to get pissed off, then you should seek help, it's not healthy. (just advice, don't take offence)
>who says i am meant to be meek?
Jesus, Matthew, The romans, Moses...
>WHY IS IT BENEFICAL TO BE MEEK
Because pride leads to an exaggerated sense of self worth, which will only make yourself, and others worse off in the long run.

>DON'T QUOTE YOUR BOOK AT ME
The bible isn't a book, it's Holy scriptures. You should really read it some time, I think it could benefit you greatly.
>>7848470
If you don't mind me asking, how did he destroy your self confidence?
>becoming more positive about my own body.
It doesn't work like that.

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7848487

>>7848466
> trying to make shlick happen
Female masturbation can make the fapping noise too. Which you would know if you've ever pleasured a girl, virgin scum.

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7848489

>>7848470
>daddy issue
oh god, please kill me now. why was i born female. Stop being soo damn weak ffs.

>> No.7848511

>>7848484
You irritate me because you fail to read.
Also, i feel like it is healthy to have some area to vent. But apparently, personal emotional health are one of the many things we are at odds about.
Being meek is not being the opposite of prideful. Again, how can you not know that if you are constantly insisting that people must behave that way? Meek means easily imposed upon or submissive. Not pride less. Also, i HAVE read the bible. Figured it was important for a History degree, so i read it.

>> No.7848518

>>7848487
nayrt but Schlick's been a thing for a while now, it's just not used as often.

>> No.7848525

>>7848511
You seem surprisingly intelligent for someone who can't tell when they're being trolled.

>> No.7848535

>>7848475
I'm a guy though and was born as such and identify as one

>> No.7848540

>>7848511
>But apparently, personal emotional health are one of the many things we are at odds about.
Emotional health will improve through spirituality, not through pride.
>Being meek is not being the opposite of prideful.
Yes it is, pride is the rejection of selflessness.

>Not pride less. Also, i HAVE read the bible. Figured it was important for a History degree, so i read it.
I doubt it.

>> No.7848543

>>7848286
Where did this come from? Googling every combination I can think of and coming up with nothing. secretroom.net has some stuff on Alisa but not Yaya at all.

>> No.7848552

>>7848484
>>7848489
There are guys with father issues, too.

Because you've asked: He beat me for reasons you shouldn't beat your kid for (failing to communicate what he wants, not getting what he wanted as result; not being the son he wanted me to become but not doing anything to encourage becoming the son he wanted; not packing my luggage when he wanted me to do so when I moved out; telling me that if somebody asks why I look like I've been beaten I should say I fell down the stairs - my reply was that I'd tell the truth which got me the next beating...).

I know this board is mostly frequented by women and thus it's easy to assume the Anon on the other end is female, but I'm not.

>> No.7848572

>>7848552
How does it affect your life today?

Church, Jesus and Prayer will certainly make you feel better.

>> No.7848581

>>7848451
kek

>> No.7848584

>>7848376
>>7848388
Feminons, why do girls do this?

>> No.7848587

>>7848584

male here. because they can.

1. we offer very good emotional support
2. they want to fuck as many dicks as they can

the best way to cope is to follow 2, but with vaginas.

>> No.7848588

>>7848572
He died last year after having a brain and body full of cancer, biting me and tearing some flesh out and trying his hardest to make me blind with his thumbs. I've slowly started to gain some self confidence but the loss of my dog, my girlfriend and a good part of my hobby this year sure as hell didn't help.

Religions don't do anything for me, but thanks for trying. I went to church as a kid and have read the Bible plus the Apocrypha, parts of the Koran, all about the life of Buddha and what not.

I'd rather live according to my own rules than to ones set up by some self-righteous "moral" entity thousands of years ago.

>> No.7848589
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>>7845746
I only go for asians.

>> No.7848609

>>7848588
If it makes you feel better, if he wanted he could have easily blinded you, he was probably just angry.
>>7848588
>Religions don't do anything for me, but thanks for trying. I went to church as a kid and have read the Bible plus the Apocrypha, parts of the Koran, all about the life of Buddha and what not.
Sadly don't know how to help you, sorry...

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Less of this bullshit, more talk about Yaya being a skank

At least we know she shaves

>> No.7848625

>>7848584
Don't act like it's just chicks that do this. I've seen plenty of men and women break up with other people this way. People do it for a number of self centered reasons. Generally it seems to happen because they fear confrontation. If you have a conversation about it you'll get into all the messiness of that person defending their behaviour or not agreeing with your assessment of the situation. If you don't give a reason, they can't argue with you or plead to you that they'll change whatever stupid things they've been doing. Also half the time it's just that they aren't into you anymore. That's it. You may have done nothing wrong, you just don't suit them anymore. Don't take this personal, people generally aren't good romantic matches or they change over time.

I just wish everyone could be honest at the end of the relationship about their feelings. Even if that feeling is just that you don't feel like being in a relationship anymore. It would save all these people from trying to analyse everything about their relationship and where it went wrong.

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>> No.7848637

>>7848584
Also maybe they actually like your company, but just aren't into you romantically anymore. If you don't want to be their friend anymore, don't be.

Some people have the emotional maturity to realize that you can like everything about a person, but not feel romantically about them. You can be just friends after being in a relationship if you're both honest about your feelings.

>> No.7848647

>>7848637
But then they are just playing on your feelings, men can't be friends with girls without wanting to fuck them, it's a fact.

>> No.7848662

>>7848647

Men can fuck other girls and still be friends.

>think outside the box

>> No.7848672

>>7848647
It isn't playing on anyone's feelings if you're honest about your own. If the situation makes you uncomfortable, don't stay in that situation.

It is not preying on someone's feelings to want to hang out with them and enjoy their company. It's cool if you want to fuck all your female friends, it's cool if you don't. Just realize that they might not reciprocate. If anything, you'd be the one emotionally blackmailing a person if you're only being their friend for the sex they might give you. Learn to just enjoy the company of the people you get along with, if you get sex or a relationship out of your interactions with them that's cool, but connections with people are cool too.

>> No.7848678

>>7848672
It ISN'T possible for a man to be friends with a women without wanting to fuck her, the women should leave the man alone and not make him suffer more.

>> No.7848709

>>7848678
Man, you're basing this on your own feelings and experiences. I've met plenty of people that stay friends after breaking up. Plenty don't feel like fucking and plenty continue fucking after the relationship ends. Have some flexibility.

Plus lots of people want to fuck everyone. What's the big deal about not getting it from that person? Sleep with someone else you fancy. I think your issue might be that you have a hard time moving on after a relationship ends. There are plenty of other people to have sex with, just because you want a person sexually doesn't mean friendship is off the table. But again, if you don't like the situation stay away from that person. They aren't putting a gun to your head to stick around.