/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGL

Really, it's about dressing to your body. Thin/tall lolitas can look really terrible if they are wearing something too baggy or too short. Wearing terrible accessories, etc. Overall you should just put effort into wearing something that suits you.

MAXICIMAM makes a lot of things that fit larger girls that are actually pretty cute. I wish they put out a few more things though. I think this print is really cute

>http://www.cdjapan.co.jp/product/NEOAPP-35293

A normal plus size girl can look really cute on lolita, base on vintage dolls, but is more about style, coordination ideas and glamour. That is because a lot of plus lolita fail: fashion sense

>>7674052

that's actually why I personally like japan's whole 'marshmallow girl" thing, because it shows how to wear (cute) clothes that look decent on you even if you're bigger, because I can assure you that a lot of 'plus-size' clothing is ill-fitting as fuck

>>7674036

I always wonder what make you count as +size
I fit in all my brand but my butt and thighs is huge (good thing it doesn't show that much in lolita)

Don't want to be called out like a girl in my country was because she posted in the +size tag on tumblr.

>>7674129
Its hard to put a size on it but I think as a general rule if you need at least half shirring normally to get into brand most lolitas would call you plus size even if in normal fashion you probably wouldn't be considered plus size really.

>>7674087
i prefer the term pochakawa. idk marshmallow girl makes it sound like youre extremely big a squishy....and you may have diabetes...

What is considered plus size?

Georgina forever.

I'm a plus size lolita myself and I'm in the plus size lolita facebook group and holy shit there are so many itas in there and everyone just showers them with love and praise cause theyre plus size basically. Out of every 10-15 plus size lolis, like 1 or 2 are good. I think I'm a decent lolita. Most of my coords are pretty basic though considering my closet is insanely small but god. Also the girl in OP's pic is like a bigger than me but it looks like she's wearing marshmallow bunny. how? I barely fit into brand

>>7674036
Fatties make me vomit
Just stop eating like farm pigs, please
It's so gross

Girls like this give plus size lolitas a bad name.

>>7674459
>Not realize there are other reasons for being overweight/obese then just diet
>Not understand such things as PCOS that fucks with your metabolism
>Probably a self hating fatty-chan themselves or a fugly manface girl

lel, keep yapping hun.

>>7674475
This! I hate that girl so much. Between the Hello Lovelies and the bad fairy kei outfits she drives me mad.

>>7674478
Yes
Always 100% of obese people: "It's metabolism"
While eating a Whooper
>Metabolism

Try harder, fatty-chan

>>7674453
These legs... The chin...
Lovely outfit but fat ruins it

>>7674448
There's so many itas on CoF plus sized or otherwise. Has anyone seen any good plus sized girls on there?

>>7674499
Lel, bitch plz. Atleast come up with a good retort.

Well, I guess I'm going to have to shove research up your ass because you obviously don't understand how the body works and disorders that can occur. Yes, Diet and lack of exercise are often the case for plus sized individuals.

>http://www.cdc.gov/obesity/adult/causes/index.html

This clearly states:
>"Body weight is the result of genes, metabolism, behavior, environment, culture, and socioeconomic status."

>http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/polycystic-ovary-syndrome.html

Let's look at one of the very first sentences in this whole goddamn article.
>"A main underlying problem with PCOS is a hormonal imbalance."

Hormonal imbalance means an endocrine issue. Basically, where your metabolism is produced.

Now you try harder, cunt. Or are you going to fuck up by using improper sourcing?

I remember when tropigalia(sp?) was considered "super fat" for lolita... nowadays it's not unusual to see girls who are much much bigger.

>>7674539
>Metabolism
>Hormonal

Sure, as 100% of obese people

Stop eating on McDonalds everyday, dear

>>7674483
She doesn't really look plus sized to me.

>>7674554
Someone's salty that I proved them wrong. Keep going, deary, I could prove you wrong all day.

>>7674554
I'm not the above anon but seriously, when has anon said that 100% of plus size people are fat cause of medical problems. there are so many cause of shit diet but it's not JUST diet. Plus you could eat healthy, but overeat so much and still be overweight. Stop spouting your nonsense stereotypes and go back to middle school

>>7674567
If you imply that being fat could at all be medical for even a single person, people go into a buttmad rage.

>>7674567
This is so true. My diet is mostly junk food and I'm still pretty thin. I have a friend who's eaten healthy and exercised (which I also don't) her whole life and she just doesn't lose weight.

>>7674547
Tropigalia! You're taking me back!

>>7674567
I wish I could find a study I read a few years ago that found that people in the study who had been overweight or obese, but who had lost the weight, were more likely to burn significantly less calories than 1) people who had never been overweight/obese and 2) people who were currently overweight/obese. Meaning the person who was fat, but had lost weight, needed to exercise much more or eat much less than their counterparts to avoid weight gain.

>>7674611
And she's wearing In the Starlight! Double nostalgia.

>>7674633
Gosh, she is a qt 3.14! Is she still in the fashion?

>>7674634
I'm not sure. I remember seeing her Tumblr last year, and I think she occasionally still wore it, but she either changed her URL or left because her tumblr is now just blank.

So I have a question, are underskirts ok if a dress is a bit too short on plus size lolitas?

Would people be happier to see more underskirts that are coorded properly? A lot of western plus size lolitas are stuck with the whole fat + TALL thing which kind of destroys the silhouette in more ways than one. But are underskirts a good solution? Is it best to find another dress and move on instead?

>>7674656
Personally I think the underskirt in that picture is so ugly. If you're going to do an underskirt, make it like the same colour/closer colour to the actual dress so it kind of blends in. Plus the amount of underskirt in that picture is ugly imo. I think just a little bit is best. But that's just my opinion

>>7674656
Underskirts are fine if you use them properly. Your picture is a good example of doing it wrong. Only 1-3 inches of the skirt should be visible if the point is to make a dress slightly longer. Underskirts look best when they match the main color of the dress.

>>7674656
If you use a good one I guess. That one is just plain ugly tho.

The lolita silhouette will never flatter fatties. Fatties need to understand that.

>>7674687
Are you kidding me? I'm of an average weight and even I can see that lolita dresses are incredibly flattering for apple and pear shaped bodies, which most fat people have. The high waist of the skirt makes them look taller and the petticoat/skirt hides their large thighs and stomach rolls. The new 'sack style' AP dresses aren't flattering on them, but those aren't flattering on anyone.

>>7674499
>>7674554
>>7674687
Oh wow, someone being willfully ignorant on 4chan.
So brave. So original. Wow.
Get out you sandy mcsnatch. You're not funny and you're probably fugly flat tits.

>>7674595
> I have a friend who's eaten healthy and exercised (which I also don't) her whole life and she just doesn't lose weight.

It depends on how much she's eating compared to the amount of exercise she does.
I had a friend who would spend 2 hours at the gym everyday and ran every weekend but didn't lose weight because she kept eating the same amount of food regardless of how healthy it was.

As a fellow plus sizer, I feel like my coords have to be PERFECT in order to make up for being fat. :c It makes me nervous

>>7674708
Lolita flatters pears, yes, but it does not flatter apples.

>>7674656
this underskirt is cute, it matches the blouse and the hairbow?

>>7674036

>>7674808
Me too it's a lot of pressure.

>>7674830

>>7674816
It depends on the cut of the dress and how overweight the person is, along with how pronounced the apple shape is.

I was apple when I started, I guess I'm still considered apple at this point because my waist isn't defined and I have narrow hips. So all the charts say I'm in the apple range. At any rate, I found that higher-waisted pieces looked best on me when I was heavier and hid the bulk of my gut. They still tend to work well on me because as I've lost weight, my arms and legs are tiny looking so it hides my not so narrow waist. Skirts don't look too great. I can get away with lower waistlines now as well, but before when I was about 40lbs heavier everything was empire waisted.

Someone that is a severe apple would probably have a tough time finding anything that would look halfway decent though.

>>7674816
Wouldn't the large skirt balance wider torsos? I'd say lolita flatters apples more than pears.

>>7674838
Apple is a waist measurement that is larger than your hips, not just one that is nearly equal. If your bust-waist-hips are all about the same, you're a rectangle shape.
I guess empire waist/very high waists can flatter apples, but those generally look bad on fat people, so if you're a fatty chan and an apple, chances are you're not going to look good.

>>7674842
No. While sure, the skirt makes it look a little smaller (depending on how large the person is), the lolita silhouette also draws attention to the largest part of the body (the waist).

>>7674842
Lolita skirts hides the "big" aria on the pears and enhances the waist. But it wider the apples already non existing waist.

Lolita fit pears better then apples.

People need to learn how to stay away from threads about subjects they don't like.
People who dislike fat people coming to a fat lolita thread is like a person who hates a determined series coming to a thread about that series' cosplays, and hating everything just for the idea of the series and not by the look of the individual costumes. Appreciate the coords, get over the fact they're fat.

>>7674842
It works for pears because it hides their heavier portion, and highlights a nice silhouette. In wider torsos, most dresses rather than balancing it out, would just make a wide person have an even wider bottom, it doesn't look right at all. Some dresses can flatter apples, of course, but people with this body type need to be far more careful with their shopping.

>>7674830
>keep a food diary
>exercise everyday
>eat healthy
>have nexaplanon implant
>have literally plateaued due to hormones and not because of inadequate calorie deficit
>"it's because my hormones"
>mfw it's the fucking truth
whoooooooooooooores.

>>7674877
>Appreciate the coords, get over the fact they're fat.

No anon. I feel like stirring the pot and saying insensitive things today because I feel like shit about myself and can only feel better when I think I've made someone feel worse than I c: k sweetie now go eat a twinker~

>>7674904
All you've done for me is make me laugh harder at how truly pathetic you are. Does no one love you, pathetic-chan?

> c:
kek'd

>>7674904
I can hear your butthurt

>>7674904
Well, boo-hoo you're having a bad day, get the fuck over yourself.

>>7674904
Dear fatty chan, just forget shit and continue, damn

>>7674052
do not get maxicimam, as it costs brand price for tacky quality... you can get better secondhand brand or indie for 10x quality

>>7674938
With the single experience I had with them, I must agree with this. I have one salopette from Maxicimam, quality is very much like older Bodyline and the fabric choice very similar too. Lace is better though. I wore it out a few times, fabric showed distress after just a few gentle washes. There's nothing to justify their price tag.

>>7674457
The skirt looks too big and long on her or it's a wrong photo angle??
>>7674595
I eat normally healthy stuff and not so often some junk food and my body is still normal weight and i'm a super lazy potato couch, i avoid like the plague excercising and sports. For me the weight depends on metabolism, hormonal stuff, genetics and yes also food. Also i think every body needs a certain amount of food some bodies need to eat a lot some not, some need physical activity to be fit some not.
>>7674708
Ehm, i'm pear shaped but i'm thin.

>>7674444
She's seriously so cute and well-dressed, even if a lot of her outfits aren't lolita. She's one of my fashion inspirations.

>>7674475
Oh god, is that Mikki? she looks worse than usual.

>>7674938
I have a piece from 2007 that is really nice and has held up well... can't find a picture, though, it's an older cherry jsk

>>7674959
Anon didn't say thin people couldn't be apple or pear, just that there is an abundance of fat people with those shapes. Learn2read

Hey guys- not sure how inappropriate this is here, but I'm selling plus-sized lolita clothes here. https://www.etsy.com/shop/miakayuuki06

>>7674992
No you don't

>>7674992
gtfo

>>7674992
Lol what the fuck is this garbage?

>>7674992
Learn how to iron your clothes

>>7674992
>"selling plus-sized lolita clothes"
>put them on a skinny mannequin

>>7674992

>>7674992
Christ you have some ugly art

>>7675047
the very left looks like PT

>>7675058
lol omg it does

i feel like Asian fatties are even more ugly than Western fatties.

back on topic....

>>7675065
I think they're cute in the face but they have NO HIPS AT ALL. also no asses.

>>7675066
Landwale

more qt pics

I think chubby sweet is cute

>>7674539

Hello? You can have fucking messed up hormones and still not being a disgusting hamplanet at all.

I hate when stupid cunts come up with "muh hormones muh genetics!!!1!" bullshit as excuse to being lazy and gorge themselves on carbs and then trying to generalize we all people suffering those disorders are the same.

Yes I'm mad.

>>7675105
This girl is on another level of cuteness.
The marshmellow thing going on on Japan? So her. I wish I could hug her like I do to my baby kittens! I'm not even gay!!! She just looks like a cute little edible stuffed animal or something.

incoming photo dump from google images.

>>7674539
The whole "I HAVE PCOS SO I'M FAT" excuse is bullshit. I have PCOS and as long as I eat healthily I don't become a hamplanet.

>>7675118
ikr, her face is just so cute and she looks like she'd be so soft to hug.

Not sure if this counts as plus size. Either way, it's cute.

Also, a question. What would you recommend for really short, stout lolitas? I'm afraid I always look frumpy because I'm like a little troll woman.

I kinda like this coord. kinda retro sailor style

unrelated comment, but I hate when you can read the first word in the captcha, wright it down, and then look at the second word and it's just like a jumbled mess.

cute coords, but the one on the right is channeling some serious Jay Leno in the chin area.

could use a better hairstyle, but I am in love with the sailor coord

Thinking some navy lolita style shoes would look better. Or maybe a different color tights.

shoes don't match at all and she should probably add some other colors.

>>7675193
lol look at the cat under the carpet

>>7675097
I think the face is what makes them so ugly but at least they don't usually have super chunky legs like >>7674453

...then again, I think the Asian fatties are smart enough to not let themselves get to such a high weight.

>>7675194
Ha! I love it. Best part of the picture.

>>7675193
Those shoes are less than flattering. Her feet look like hooves to me, like a pig.

I think a big problem is people, especially fat irks, don't know how to contour, which can make their faces look much thinner and sometimes help with a double chin.

>>7675207
Yeah, plus whats with the random spikes? might go with a gothic coord, but not this; it's more classic. I do kinda like the shawl though tbh

>>7675215
Slappin' on some bronzer is not gonna make the chub just disappear. even if you're a master at makeup, your neck is still gonna be there.

>>7675215
girls, not irks. oops.

>>7675226
well duh, but it can minimize it. And make up in other areas can draw the attention away from the neck.

>>7675226
it won't get rid of it, but it does create extra shadow that does make it look slimmer
>science of shadows and highlighting

last image in the dump

>>7675237
Something that kind irks me with plus size lolitas, is when their skirt goes below their knees. I think it's really unflattering and makes them look bigger. With the dress hitting just right above the knee, it looks so much cuter and better.

>>7675237
hate her makeup with this look. it's more of a classic or gothic type makeup. and OMFG what's up with her feet/ankles. I'm a big girl too, but damn.

more chubby than fat really. And I love the couples matching thing.

>>7675256
This is so cute!
>tfw normalfag bf :(

>>7674465
>>7675256
She is always so stylish.

>>7675242
It could be that she just has really tiny feet. I'm short and fat but I wear like a size 7 US. I have creepy little baby feet

>>7675240
Agreed. Like I said before, she may just be really short and that's where the dress falls on her. Of course, it can be kind of nerve wracking to wear shorter skirts if you have chunky thighs like a lot of fat girls do. You might forget you're in lolita and bend over to pick something up and end up flashing your thighs to everyone.
>>7675252
The black doesn't batch with such a light coord, but I love love LOVE those nails.
>>7675256
brb forcing bf to grow mustache like that

>>7675252
>>7675289
I think it's supposted to be like a cute combo of Alice and Snow White.

>>7675256
fuck I want to dress up my boyfriend but I don't want to make him think I think he dresses poorly

>>7675256
That's not her boyfriend. That guy has a boyfriend of his own. This is her boyfriend.

>>7675405
Oh okay. I didn't know.
I just thought they were 'cause they matched. Oh well I still like the idea and their outfits.

>>7675098
an adorable landwhale though, the only one of its species

>>7675105
She's a cute chubby Taylor Swift

>>7675130
That thing on her face makes her ineligible for this thread.

There needs to be an active and up to date community or group where fat lolitas who wear brand can post which brand pieces they own, their own measurements, the max measurements of the garment, any modifications they might have made, etc. It would be a lot of personal information to volunteer and a lot of work, but it would be an amazing resource.

>>7675608
Problem with that is you cant really stop the itas or the people who will squeeze into things that dont fit. One of the big issues is that larger girls have a tedency to wear brand just because they can technically fit into it, instead looking at if it flatters them.

I am over weight and my measurements are plus sized as well but I am not as large as most of these girls so I have never tagged my picture plus sized lolita on tumblr because of all the drama when really large girls were yelling at girls that were still plus sized but not huge that they were using a tag that was not for them. they can get spooky.

>>7675608
That would be awesome. people could also post their body shapes using http://bodyvisualizer.com/female.html it's super useful.

>>7675118
omg summer wtf

>>7675683
Well I guess because you probably don't look very plus sized, especially in lolita, since it hides a lot. Plus a lot of the plus size women on tumblr and such are super proud and/or look down on "skinny bitches" who don't have "mah curves" I dunno, people are weird.

May I ask what your measurements are?

just get /fit/ brahs !

>>7675608
There is a plus size group on Facebook but it's mostly populated with girls who only wear replicas, Bodyline or poorly done handmade and when someone posts a brand piece that would fit appropriately, start in with the "Oh, if only I could afford it!" statements.

>>7675683
I'm in the same boat. I'd be a Japanese land whale, but the area I'm in especially tends to be so fat that I look skinny.

>>7675706
Like I said though, I've never done it but I am scared that they would be stupid about it because I've seen girls even bigger than me be attacked before.
>>7675714
;_; RIP in peace brah.

depending on my cycle my bust is 96-112cm wait 75cm hips 97cm.

>>7675687
I'd start it but I've never done anything like that before.

>>7675721
Yeah, I'm also interested in a group for plus size Lolita's who really know what they're doing. If it exists it's probably secret, ugh

>>7675750
well depending on how tall you are, that's not too big. I feel like it would be hard to tell if you were in a lolita coord. But being attacked on the internet is always a risk, no matter what you look like.

>>7675776
I'm really short, 160cm, plus my legs are probably the worst part of my body. So I definitely am plus sized but what people on tumblr count as plus sized in generally obese or morbidly obese.

>>7675750
Damn, that is a big difference in bust measurements. I thought I had it bad.

>>7675798
I know, it is nearly more painful than the actual cramps when they swell up just after ovulation.

Ok. I've written up a submission form for tumblr where plus size lolitas could share size notes about brand pieces


Item name and Lolibrary link:

Absolute Maximum measurements for
Bust:
Waist:

Length of garment from
Shoulder to waist (if applicable):
Waist to hem:

Worn picture:

Your/model's measurements:
Bust:
Waist:
Height:

Have you altered the garment in any way? Please be specific.

Notes on comfort and ease of wear:
(Some things to consider when answering this question:
-Some items have tighter shirring than others, i.e. two OPs could have the same max measurements but the elastic would be more stretched in one than the other. This can make a big difference in comfort.
-Some brand blouses may fit a wide range of sizes in the torso area but still be small in the shoulders or sleeve cuffs.
-Is the skirt able to accommodate larger hips plus a petticoat comfortably?
Please include this kind of information when possible.)

Anything else you would like to add:


Is this something I should keep going with?

I think plus-sized Lolitas would look much better if they paid more attention to fit and wearing ease. If the garment stretches too 100cm bust you still need some room so should be max 96-98 bust measurement.

I think wearing Lolita very tight/shirring maxed makes people look bigger no matter their weight.

That said, I've seen some girls look really fab in customs and altered pieces with partial shirring, much better than in stretched out full shirring pieces.

>>7675721
same. i try to look in that group for chubs friendly burando but everyone wears replicas like you said. i want a group of girls who know what theyre doing to guide me in the right direction.

>>7676100
>>7675721
>>7675608

This is really useful for Burando: http://gorgeouspluslolita.tumblr.com/tagged/plus-size-brand-photoset

So many IW that's plus size friendly

>>7674444
I normally love her outfits too but why is this being shown as a good example? I'm sorry but Bodyline's carousel print is one of their uglier offerings. It doesn't look good on ANYONE even thin people.

The border is just so awkward.

>>7674539
I love it when fatties try to come up with ~legit~ excuses about why they're fat other than that they eat too much. Very few people are overweight because of other reasons, and even then most people can manage their weight if they put some effort into it. Even the link you provided puts most of the weight (lol) on being eating too much.

I don't care if someone is fat, but I draw the line at being fat and not owning up to it being YOUR fault.

Pic related- Bitch had to have her thyroid gland removed and still isn't a landwhale.

>>7675750
>>7675788
So is this accurate? That's really not fat at all. If you're plus size it's probably only barely right? Not that I'm like trying to make you feel bad or anything.

>>7674444
>>7676138
I think it's one of their more cute prints...but I don't think the skirt looks good on bigger girls. The waistband stripes make them look bigger.

>>7675188
Agreed. Navy tights (maybe vertically striped?) and red shoes would look better.

>be me, be a fatty-chan
>but also a richfag
>has enough money to buy multiples of all burando
>able to just take them to my local seamstress and get it altered to fit, even the smaller brands like VM or MM
>Meanwhile poor fatty-chans have to settle for mostly Bodyline and other uggo offbrand shit.

Feels good man.

i like looking at other chubby/plus lolitas for inspiration, but i find that cankles makes people look 10x fatter. so glad i dont really have them. but then again, ive heard 2 definitions for them. people say its either no calf to ankle definition, or its when you cant see the ankle bone(?) because of how fat someone is. they sorta sound like they might go hand in hand though. i can still see my ankle bones, so i dont consider myself to have fatty cankles.

>>7676162
I think solid navy might blend with the dress to much. Striped tights might look nice but may make her appear taller than she already is. I'm thinking maybe some white OTKs and navy shoes with a chunky heel.

I really don't like really high stiletto heels in lolita. They're sexy and lolita is more about cute and elegant rather than sexy.

>>7676174
jelly of you moneybags-chan~

>>7676147
You also didn't read where I state that most cases are diet and lack of exercise. And yes, those articles say that too. I'm more annoyed with people who try to say diet is absolutely the end all because it's not.

Trust me, I am predisposed to obesity because of genetics. I also had a stint with a hormonal imbalance that made me gain weight (Endometriosis) but this was fixed with birth control. BUT I am of a healthy weight and very active myself now. So as an ex-fatty, Yeah, I know what I'm talking about.

>>7676182
I always thought of cankles as no ankle definition. You can even be petite and thin and have cankles, like this girl I knew in high school.

>>7675256
I know that isn't her boyfriend, but damn, I wish I had a hipster/neo-dandy bf to match/compliment with.

Man...all of the live shows, record shops, and galleries we could visit while looking stylish as fuck

>>7676182
I'm a fatty chan but I have really think ankles and wrists. Hell, I have a bracelet that I got in middle school that still fits me perfectly. I guess it just depends on your build.

>>7676174
Man, my parents are rich but there's no way I could convince them to buy me a $300 dress. Maybe for my birthday or Christmas or something.

>>7676203
>using that reaction image on a blue board

>>7676155
More or less. The point is that is still plus size though, i wish i could see other girls around my size that are plus size too went I look through the tags, not all obese or morbidly obese girls maybe there should be two separate tags, one for over weight where we can see which dresses are a little forgiving and what would fit if you were still a bit over like >>7674447 >>7674483 >>7674641 and a different one for those who usually say they are plus sized.

>>7674634
No, she's not. She wears more vintage-y, pin-up-y stuff now. It's kind of a shame, too. After leaving lolita, she learned how to do her make up and hair a lot better, which would have helped a lot with when she wore lolita (but back then, everybody needed help with hair and make up, so whatver).

>>7674452
She's adorable, but gurlllllllll! That navy bolero does NOT go with that dress! Plz lern2colorcoordinate.

Otherwise you're one of the cutest fatty-chans I've ever seen 10/10, would fuck if lesbian.

>>7676182
I would recommend any fattychan that tries out lolita to invest in platform lolita heels and then put insoles inside. Your legs look longer and less shittier than in tea parties.

>>7675962
They basically had this in the Positive & Plus Size Lolita Q&A fb group, but the mod deleted the original group, thus making a lot of stuff obsolete. I check it once every few months to catch up on posts bc most is not relevant.

>>7675608
Chicago has some better dressed plus-size lolitas IMHO. I recently made a Pinterest board with measurements for plus size lolita clothing:
http://www.pinterest.com/kpossibles/plus-size-lolita/ but honestly, custom sizing is your friend and not taking advantage of the many indie/taobao brands with custom sizing is going to continually make you look bad.

>>7676256
>chicago plus lolitas good.
>only seen this

>>7672215

Nah.

>>7674499
Pretty much this. So hilarious how people will just make up problems for themselves to justify their slovenly asses.

>>7676340
Well, not great or fantastic but it's still a tier better than the usual wrecks on the lolita tag. Otherwise, I guess you could look at Baltimore or Atlanta for inspo/hate for comparison of fattychans.

>>7674656
maybe if the tiers were reduced to just 2 instead of all 4 showing might be a little better...

>>7676190
define healthy weight


and for like 99.9% of people, weight is from eating too much. If other reasons are really so strong and not so rare, why are there no genetically fat starving Ethiopians wandering around?

>>7676220
there was a girl with almost exactly your measurements (she had 98-74-96) who use to post in the plus size tag but got a secret about it and stopped.

>>7676805
That's shit to hear, maybe we need a new tag, like moderately plus sized lolita or overweight but not dangerously so lolita.

my problem isn't so much my body size, as i'm a smaller fat (US 14-16 top, 18 bottom) but my issue is my feet. i have huge feet and cannot find lolita shoes to fit me. i'm a US womens 12 and it's hard enough finding NORMAL shoes that fit properly...

>>7675149
Short and stumpy girl here. Dresses that finish on or just above the knee if you want to look taller. Also shoes with a slight heel will extend your leg making them look longer and thinner.

>>7675130
her face makes her ineligible for life.
When there is no silhouette it just doesn't work..

>>7675405
The loli boyfriend pedo creep theory is supported by this image.

>>7677113
>loli boyfriend pedo creep theory
nice try lauri

>>7676174
We've seen a couple of fat girls like you posting this, making 2 dresses into one. Some people are outraged and buttmad. Often it's replicas or people assume replicas when we KNOW someone big can't normally wear the dress.
You are right that not many can afford to do it so they can't wear brand like you do but before you get too proud, please know that as a normal-sized person, I really don't see that much difference in someone fat wearing altered brand, indie whale sizes or other custom-made big stuff.

I still just see another fatty...

>>7677239
you sound really insecure. enjoy being outdressed by well-coorded fatties while deluding yourself into thinking you're better than them.

>>7676837
For Lolita, if you can't fit into a majority of the one size clothes, you're considered plus. It's not western plus, that's bigger, but even going by BMI which causes controversy itself but is a decent loose guideline, there's underweight, healthy, overweight and then obese and morbidly obese. Above healthy is usually plus size height/weight. There are exceptions like big boobs, but whole categories are not usually defined by the few exceptions.

Often someone on the verge of overweight or just over it will not want to be labeled plus. Sometimes someone slightly overweight will label plus and get bad comments from the really huge girls.

But let's stick to the fact that IN LOLITA, if you can't comfortably fit into 1/2 shirred brand JSK without maxing the shirring and you can't fit into most brand blouses (often because of arms/cuffs), that's usually considered Lolita Plus. No need for a middle category to confuse things.

>>7677254
I don't think I'm better, I wear a mix of brand and off brand by choice and expect people to judge me by how well I coordinate and present myself. I think well-dressed fatties look well-dressed but I still see a fat girl despite whether she is wearing altered brand or an indie thing. I'm not more impressed like "ooh, she can wear brand" . Honestly the first thing I thought was 'wow, if she has enough money to do that, why not get weight loss surgery?' I just thought it was a dumb post that was trying to make other fattys jelly when in truth a normal person will just see them in brand altered for their fat. I do know Baby and AP won't let you buy multiples of identical things from them at release time so while it's possible, I don't think it's that common either. I think it's more to prevent the scalping but it would make it difficult for a double chan to do this except with a shopping service or on the second market.
As far as insecurity, I saw it as insecure to desperately pay double in order to bypass thin priv just to wear a certain print dress so must be pretty huge. Most fattys who alter brand get away with just adding bodice panel, not needing to add extra skirt fabric. Must be quite big indeed.

>>7677261
>and you can't fit into most brand blouses (often because of arms/cuffs), that's usually considered Lolita Plus
am i plus-size if i cant fit into long-sleeved brand blouses because my arms are really short

>>7674129
I've wondered this too. I can fit into brand no biggie, but my height causes some dresses to be too short on me. I don't call myself plus size, but I'm wondering if tallitas are put together with marshmallow girls in lolita?

>>7676174
what a cunt
go lose weight hamplanet

Please stop arguing and post more fatties

>>7677316
It was an 'and'. If you are normal sized but short arms then that's not plus is it? There are always exceptions but I was talking about general guidelines for plus and being too fat for burando things is generally the definition of plus Lolita. Tall girls who are normal-sized and proportionate for their height but can't fit into unshirred brand, long waisted girls who can't wear most brand OP, long legged girls who can't wear otk well, there are lots of non-plus-size reasons girls can't fit well into some brand things but after all this is a plus thread.

>>7677339
Don't worry, I'm pretty sure most would just think, "wow, two dresses, what a waste."
Though I had a laugh at the idea of the girl attending a brand tea with a dress like that and seeing the look on the designers face.

>>7674492
She's so cute,so many adorable people ITT I have a little bit of chub there and there and it makes me feel so much better (I eat healthy,move,and all,I'm not a living landwhale)

Love this cosplay

A cute one, with a lor of food around her (she must be in heaven)

I always wondering how these ankles can stand that weight.
It's like they will be broken soon...

Anyone have this in real?

>>7676174
You wish. Keep telling yourself that

>>7676174
Enough money for buy burando but not enough for take a lipo?
Ugggg

>>7676220
Anon I'm pretty much in that category, 98 76 94 here, and I have the same problem as you. I can never find people my size to draw co-ord inspo from because we are no where in between. We're not slim but we are ostracized by the landwhales for not being fat enough. Whenever I post wtb/wts I don't know if I should add the plus size tag; whenever I decide to browse through the plus size tag, nothing fucking fits. I would be happy if we could all just be grouped together with the plusies but they seem to hate us anyway.

>>7677415
she's so perfect and cute! I wanna be one for halloween too! Looks like a handmade dress as well?

>>7677337
No, on EGL/EGL_ sales there's a tall tag

>>7677454
lmfao so much this

>>7677506
You have described this problem perfectly.

>>7677415
The vest is waaaaay too tight and the knees of the socks are supposed to be on her knees. White blouse when no white in the print. Dressy headdress and casual vest and bag. I hate the boots.
This is 'meh' at best because it's Halloween so 'costume' kind of gets it a pass.
Very good example of what OP said about not being flattering.

>>7677506
I'd avoid the plus tag if I were this size, rather than risk the hostility that land whales seem to have for girls who tag plus but aren't absolutely huge.

>>7677225
nice try but not lauri don't know who the fuck lauri is.

>>7676220
>>7676805
>>7677506
I swear, fat lolitas are so delusional about what's considered plus size an not. My measurements are about the same as you guys, actually slightly bigger on the waist, and I got so much shit from /cgl/ for just calling myself chubby. I have a feeling that fatties get mad when people that are smaller call themselves plus size, chubby, fat or similar, because that means they are even bigger than they want to believe.

>>7675159
>>7675155
>>7675152
I like this girl's style most of the time, but it just looks so...unfinished without makeup. Her clothes are elaborate, and then the face is just plain.

>>7675234
Her chin area is just so unfortunate. I love the dress though.

>>7675234
I really want this dress.

>>7677542
>White blouse when no white in the print.
Please tell me you're joking.

>>7677597
Nope. This print calls for black blouse. Especially with nothing else white but the bones on the socks.

>>7677584
We should coin a term for all of us "borderline" or like... just plus size lolis who aren't fat enough to be allowed into the plus size club. Disguise the term in a way that the landwhales won't jump on us.

>>7677604
It used to be in fashion that super-plus, plus-plus and Queen were the terms for the really big women. It's a shame they've just taken over the plus tag.

I've never met any of these vicious landwhales you guys are describing...are you sure you're not just butthurt because they didn't let you I to their exclusive fatty club where you would be the thinnest and therefore their queen...

I like the phrase "death fats" which some fatties use to describe themselves.

>>7677601
Eh, the white could be balanced better, but I don't see why a white blouse wouldn't work with a print like that, especially since it's so bright.

>>7677631
>I've never met any of these vicious landwhales you guys are describing
How new to this fashion are you?

>>7677631
Omg, the really big ripping into the slightly plus has almost always been a thing but very much in evidence since tumblr got...big.
Ahem
Anyway, no, most slightly plus aren't there to lord it over the bigger ones, they are just frustrated to feel that they can't fit in either category just to post, buy and sell with out getting extra commentary on size.

Damn... someone saved the "Wailord" joke picture?

>>7677665
11 years, bitch.

>>7677715
It's been posted in one of the dash conning threads earlier...

>>7677506
Carney is that kinda measurement though? Her Coords aren't perfect but at those measurements, can you fit into JetJ?

>>7677715
This?

>>7677962
I have 98-78-120 (lol biggest but in the world) and I fit into size 2 jetj without a problem, even when I had the waist 83. Depends on the dress tho I guess.

96-80-104 here. I never know the difference between "plus sized" and "marshmallow girl" and all the shit we all come up with. I don't even know where I technically fall.

Still want to lose weight and buy more burando though.

>>7677454
My mom got lipo but it's extremely painful and you leak out of your new orifices for several days and it leaves huge bruises for several weeks, plus if you gained the weight by having a habit problem you're just going to gain it right back again but in new and exciting places like your face/neck or back! Lipo is not the magical fix-all that people think it is. Fucking stop eating so much.

>>7678194
I know, this is so confusing. I'm 95-70-100 and I'm a US medium, I didn't know I was considered plus sized/ "borderline". Does height really make that much of a difference? I'm 168 cm for reference.

>>7678194
You must be fitting into their empire waist pieces I assume. What else are you able to fit? Not sassing you or anything, but I've always stayed away from jetj because I have been cheated by official brand measurements too many times to trust them.

>>7678268 was meant for >>7678145 sorry

>>7676340
What's funny is that that's just a really shitty picture/not a great coord from this girl
>>7675405
>>7675256
>>7674465

>>7676340
Also Chicago >>7675228
And pic related (minus the one on the right - very cute but not plus size)

>>7678268
Not empire actually. Amour d’amants robe JSK is the one I have from JetJ have a friend who is a bit bigger then me who fit inte most soze two as well. And she got over 100 in bust.

I acctually fit into all the Brand I have and it's allot. Think I'm up to 36 dresses mix between Indie, taobao and brand. Only one, Alice & the Pirates - Charme de Rouge do i have problem with but the elastics in the shirring is really strong and draws it back to much, thats why.

Picture relevant.

>>7678308
Wow my English sucks in this post. Sorry.

Gonna see if I can dig anything good out of CoF wish me luck.

>>7678242
Same here. I fit into US medium and sometimes small, but I think that is mostly vanity sizing. My measurements are 92-74-96

This girls attitude about anything to do with lolita/being plus sized annoys the ever living shit out of me.

I love this girls coords

>>7678486

>>7678490

>>7678496
Asks how not to do (plus sized) lolita

>>7678503
*and

the girl in the middle.
She's from my country and a Facebook friend of mine, I don't tend to talk a lot with her but I really love her style.
she's one of the few Lolitas from my country.

i cant for the love of fuck find a more recent, fullbody photo of her latest coords but they are great.

She's the reason I came to like lolita but I've always felt like I can't pull it off so I've never tried it.

>>7675405
Pedo creep? They are the same age (in their thirties).

>>7674483
anybody know the name of this btssb print? It's fucking cute

>>7674535
NO

>>7674827
I agree. the only issue i see is its too long and looks awkward. would be much better if only 2 tiers were showing instead of that much hanging out.

>>7675149
fuck that dress is cute! is it handmade? i havn't seen that around before

>>7675188
who is this?

>thinking 'muh metabolism'
Your metabolism amounts to shit, whether it's slow or fast.

It's just what got used to measure how efficiently one body uses food to the next.

Metabolism itself, even when 'increased' to that of individuals who have 'fast metabolisms' isn't going to have the same effect because that just means slowpoke efficient mcgee is just going to be working harder, not wasting precious energy like your 'fast metabolism' bodies.

Eat less, you fat pieces of shit. Be THANKFUL to have a "Slow Metabolism". It means you get maximum enjoyment from every fucking thing you eat because your body knows how to use every fucking part of it, and will use every fucking part of it. Your body doesn't require ridiculous amounts of fuel to get a task done.

Bitching about a slow metabolism is like bitching about a car that gets 50+ miles to the gallon and will never need maintenance.

So go fuck yourselves, you disgusting lowlife pigs who think you have 'a condishun'

>>7674478

>>7674539
PCOS is not the cause of fatasses all over the world. PCOS weight can easily be kept under control (in most cases) with a little bit of effort in exercising and watching what you eat.

My mom's got really bad hypothyroidism - another excuse that people give for being whales - and she's only ~20-30 lbs overweight, because she fucking cares for herself and watches what she eats. She's not even on hormone correcting medication for it. She just exercises and doesn't eat like her fucking gut is a black hole.

Just own up that the reason you're huge is because you can't be bothered to watch after yourself. You're a fucking child and need to blame all of your problems on something else. It can't POSSIBLY be that you overeat or anything, because you have PCOS!!!111!

>>7678774
Relax anon. Fatties gonna fat.
Last year, it was thyroid.
Before that, it was metabolism.
Now it's PCOS.

Before too long it'll be just dreams, no more tears.

>>7675105
I follow her on Tumblr, she doesn't seem to do lolita fashion anymore sadly.

>>7674633
Ugh, I want those shoes!

>>7678242
That measurement would be a large, I think, without vanity sizing. 96 bust is what I've read as the standard bust measurment for a large.

>>7678789
I ACTUALLY have PCOS and I work hard to maintain a good body with a lot of fitness and a good diet. So it's absolutely possible to avoid getting fat when you have it.

Fuck those PCOS-excuse-making fatties. I hope you all choke on your double chins.

captcha: polymorph brands

>>7678789
I have thyroid and I'm a little bit chubby because I don't excercise, but everything is in the 'little bit' part. Seriously, eat healthy and in small quantity and you won't become fat, that's all.

>>7679320
>>7679335
I like you girls, I really do. I appreciate you.

1/2
People over eat. It's true. Specifically in America, bigger/more is always better. We grow up with portion sizes that are way too large and think that's what is normal and correct.
The food industry fucks you. Basically we are all eating shit, and the poorer you are the worse it is.
Speaking of being poor, poor people are way more likely to be obese. Does that mean poor people eat more?
Sitting a lot and being stressed out also seem to be linked with obesity. Stress can even affect where you put on weight; it has a huge impact on your body.
For a LOT of people, going to work means sitting at a desk being stressed all day, then coming home tired because stress exhausts you. Time and energy to exercise are luxuries, just like healthy food.
These factors all work together to make it very easy to become obese. And being fat is shameful in our society. So it's not hard to imagine that someone might be in denial as they gain weight, and by the time they admit it to themselves they have a significant portion of weight to lose.
Regardless of how or why someone has put on weight, losing it almost always feels completely hopeless and impossible. Losing weight is not easy, and gets harder every time you try and fail. Even if you succeed, there is a HUGE chance you will gain it back and then some. Losing and gaining and losing and gaining is hard on your body, even if you manage to maintain a healthy weight afterwards. And if you have lost the weight through crash diets you might be thinner, but health-wise you could be worse off than when you were overweight.
With all those things working against you and the failures you are likely to experience, it's easy to become seriously depressed. You feel disgusting and useless and subhuman. And you end up sitting around, being stressed. You might feel like its pointless to try anymore, so you eat whatever you feel like and exacerbate things. Emotional eating is a thing that exists.

>>7679567
2/2
Then clothing stores/the television/people around you/etc all tell you (maybe without saying anything) that you're just inherently gross, stupid, weak willed, lazy...half of you starts to believe it. And if all that's true, again, what's the point in trying?
It is so easy to gain weight. It is so easy to keep gaining weight. It is incredibly hard to lose weight, and almost impossible to keep it off afterwards.
What fatties need are either words of encouragement, or not a single comment about their bodies/health/eating habits.
So yeah, fatties get fat by eating too much, but it is ridiculous to insist that there are no other factors.

>>7679567
>>7679572

no one cares

can we get back to posting cute coords and/or dresses that work for plus size? coord collages?

>>7679606
Tell me more about how you don't care

>>7678490
This is a nice coord but the bust area just looks painful

>>7674036
all you fatties are disgusting. this thread is nightmare fuel

>>7679634
hot damn this girl is so cute

>>7679634
She's so cute. Anyone know what her tumblr is?

>>7679634
>>7679645
>>7679653
obvious self post is obvious

>>7679668
i posted the two pictures because of people derailing and talking about bawwwwww fatties rather than posting cute fatties in cute coords. Picked the best ones I saw off the #plus size lolita tag. Nice try though!

>>7678480
what the fuck is wrong with her face?

>>7679634
>>7679645
What kind of face is that in the second picture? Also too much shoop.

>>7679634
One of the few times a peignoir hasn't looked ridiculous in my opinion

>>7678496
>>7678480
Its a shame that she's so arrogant.

>>7679629
i usually don't care about piercings in lolita but this is one case where it really is distracting compared to how cute she is. at least flip the nose ring up...

>>7679572
It's not my fucking job to accept you. It's not my job to go out of my way to like you. You are not entitled to my encouragement.

Go make your own whatever-the-fuck-you-think-means-most-in-life and have at it. Most people would say happiness, entry level philosophers will tell you alleviation of suffering, then a handful of people will all tell you something completely fucking different from the aforementioned and eachother.

To think anyone truly gives a flying fuck about your fatty feels because you can't be you and are going to cry about it is absurd.

>>7678444
why? is it because she spams pages and stuff? shes in my comm but seems okay...

>>7680009
When did anyone tell you to accept or do anything
The gist of that is "say something nice or nothing at all"
You're wasting your own time going on about how it's not your job to be polite or something

>>7679572
>It is incredibly hard to lose weight, and almost impossible to keep it off afterwards.
This sounds like the mantra I told myself for years when I was heavier. I believed it until I decided for shits and giggles to see if I actually could lose the weight. I didn't think I'd ever see my high school weight again, and here I am at a healthy weight.

I got fat because of a deep situational depression, overeating (too much carbs and sugars) and a super-sedentary lifestyle. (I may possibly have some sort of thyroid issue but I've not had it checked out)

I've lost a ton of weight, about 70lbs total and still going. And outside a little gain here and there during holidays or whatever, I maintain and still lose. It's extremely easy for your average person to lose weight. But it's not as easy as the magazines would lead you to believe. It's been off and on for me since 2010. I tend to go in spurts of loss and maintaining.

Eat less and move more is really the key for *most* people. It doesn't even mean dieting. Just portion control and keeping rough tabs on your calories most days of the week, working out a little (walking, strength training) worked wonders for me.

Unless I fall into another depression, eat my face out for weeks on end, and don't step on a scale every week, there's no way I'm gaining it back, outside maybe 5-10lbs. As a rule, I don't stray any further than what would take me 2 weeks to lose, which is usually about 5-7lbs.

That said, I'm still within the realm of plus size in lolita due to my bust and especially waist measurements. (98, 82, 98) So I'm one of those "borderline" ones.

>pic not related or me, just looking for a picture to contribute.

>>7680332
Does the chemical stuff of depression itself cause weight gain, or is it mostly the eating/sedentary lifestyle caused by the depression that does most of it?

>>7680356
Er, it seems to be half chemical and half sedentary life style? Of course then there's some people who have depression who end up losing a lot of weight because they lose the will to eat.

>>7680332
Grats, anon, that's an awesome accomplishment.

>>7680332

/fit/ here, congrats on the weight loss.

You're probably stalling now and again because you need to recalibrate your TDEE. Rule of thumb: recalculate how many calories you need to eat every ten pounds or so of lost weight.

People don't even need to move more, just eat less of a caloric load than they burn in a day. Moving around just makes it happen faster.

>>7680356

People tend to move around less when they feel depressed and oftentimes eat more food.

The ONLY way you can gain weight is to eat more food than you're using up. Can't create fat (stored energy) from nothing.

>>7680332
thanks for sharing your experience, I'm currently trying to lose weight I gained during a long period of stress and maybe depression (idk and idc but I felt like shit).
I was also still somewhat scared of the whole 'it's super hard to keep off" or "you'll just gain it back" because that's everything but motivating.

I feel like a lot of people don't realize why some people gained weight in the first place, and that they might actually not like how the look.

Any pictures of well coordinated lolitas with ~130cm bust or larger?

I was posted here like a good example, thanks!

-I m plus because a thyroid problems ( controlled now ) and PCOS at the same time. Is more difficult for me loss weight than normal people but not impossible

-Can fit into AP jsks and some BTSSB, my big problem is the bust size!

- If I can get more time to make cardio, can lost around 30 lb or more, for sure! I m working on it, because I m not happy as a plus size girl, love my curves, big bust but not my big hips and upper legs!

-Also I eat super healthy, that is why I m not super obese! Not McDonalds, not fats, big meals etc.


-Is not only how we looks, is our health in risk!

-sorry for my english girls

>>7680430
Yeah, it seems like some people think fatties are trying to be fat...who the hell would want to be fat... And if you call them on it they switch to concern trolling you about your health.

>>7674483
I like her doormat. Also she is cute.

>>7680498
dunno who you are, but you seem sweet

>>7675167
I love all her coords. Her sweet is way better imo

>>7675182
I saw that dress at hot topic yesterday.

This is disgusting and embarrassing and I hate all of you.

>>7680650
thought it was a modcoth dress. add some straps and it works pretty well

>>7680688

>>7680854
You seem fat

>>7680896

>>7680903
this

>>7677542
The blouse isn't a blouse it looks like it's part of the dress.

>>7680854
>>7680903
somebody is new here and overusing her recently downloaded reaction images, hmm?

Stay classy, fatty.

>>7681213
goddammit ever since that one anon said the left chick looks like a capuchin monkey from the thumbnail, that's all I see now

>>7679683
She's self posted here before and replied to comments so it could be true; but she's a better face lolita (with probable shoop?)

>>7681213
>chastises reaction images
>uses reaction image

ok

>>7680413
Thanks. TBH, I haven't been putting much effort into it lately other than maintaining and building muscle (namely for work, my job wears me down if I don't keep up with it).

I've got a formula saved for it though, so I should probably recalculate it and try to stick with it for a bit.

>>7680356
I don't think my depression was due to a chemical imbalance, considering that once I got out of the situation I was in, I was a lot happier and healthier all around and it was easy for me to lose weight. I never took any medications.

Basically I'd sit at my computer / playing videogames or sleep 12-16 hours a day (too depressed to keep a job), drink about 6-8 Cokes, eat extra big helpings at dinner, usually I'd eat a lot more sweets than I should've. In the span of 4 years I went from about 145/150lbs to 215lbs. I'm now down to 145 again and trying for about 125-130.

>>7681223
goddamnit

>>7681265
that'sthejoke.jpg

Do OTKs work for plus size lolitas? Do they stretch enough? Do they cut into your leg? Do you ever layer them over tights or hose?

>>7681332
I generally don't dig OTKs on plus sizes especially if they have a print.

But that all depends on how wide your calves are. If your OTKs turn into UTKs, dont wear them.

Plus size girls have a wide range of patterned lace tights that can work for lolita, or short ankle socks instead

>>7681332
Overweight, maybe. Tall, no. Tall and overweight, no. Obese, definitely not. They stretch but will at some point not stretch tall enough to be OTK's and will eventually warp and break. Plus the print on the socks stretches and looks sad and fat as well :( J-just wear tights anon. and not brand tights, like. Single color tights.

Anyone know where to get plus size lace tights in ivory?

>>7680310
You made an excuse.
Why are you even making the excuse in the first place?
Why are you making excuses to ANYBODY?

I made a point of "I'm rejecting you." and here you are "But REASONS!!".

I ask again, why the fuck are you saying the things you say, and for what reason do you say them to the people you say them to?

>>7680332
Wooo!! You go anon!
Totally going to make it!

if it's ok with everyone I'm going to share too.
I used to weigh almost 400lbs. After I moved out of my parents house I had decided enough was enough. I found 4chan. From 4chan I found /d/, from /d/ I found /fit/.
/fit/'s brutality was just what I needed to get what I needed. Cold hard truths and the motivation to do it. Also good 'locker room chats' for swapping ideas and what not.
Also picked up that power 90 with tim horton.

In 1 year I lost 100lbs cutting at what I was told was the bare minimum 1200kcal. It was kinda hard at first but after a while I just kinda fell into routine of picking up recipes and trying them out.(extremely easy when you are buying your own shit and control what goes into your house, I tell you what.) Flooding /fit/ with recipe request threads helped a lot.

After that year some shit happened and I stumbled off my 6 month long perfect streak of perfect cheatday-less eating and power 90 (was still doing the beginners all the time, but fuck off at least it was something. I was pathetically weak.) This 'stumble' was about a week long and went back to /fit/ for answers.
I Figured cutting that low simply wasn't healthy in addition to doing 'tabata' on top of p90 every day. I stopped and took up weight lifting and upped my intake to about 1600kcal + IF 20/4. Today, 7 months later, I'm another 55lbs down and a fuck load stronger than I was.

As far as i can tell, it's easier losing weight than it is putting it on. Being raised for 20 years to be an absolute lardass, yet I weigh less than I ever did in High School after just a year and a half. (Raising fat children really should be considered child abuse. Holy fuck.)

Everything is not all sunshine and roses though, I've got loose skin. FUCKLOADS of it. It's disgusting. I cry myself to sleep over it. It makes me hate fat people, especially fat parents. $150k to fix this one mistake from my parents is frustrating at best.

>>7681491
Claires/Icing have size XL ones.

So is a size 12 considered smack dab plus size? Or am I also considered "borderline" plus-size and thus am smaller than most plus-sized girls?

>>7682036
what country size 12?

>>7682087
U.S size 12

So can I call myself plus sized and post in the plus-size tag on tumblr?

>>7682119
No, I mean you're fat but you don't qualify as a
land whale.

>>7682119
>>7682166
Nice samefagging but yeah that is like an xl post away.

>>7682180
Shit I posted a thread a few nights ago on a and typed the name of it in the subject box and somehow that name autosaved in every reply I make. Thanks for making me aware of it

And yeah I samefagged cause I'm trying to bump this thread to get answers,carry on!

>>7680109
Yeah just spamming the pages though she's settled down recently

>>7682119
I don't think a us 12 is fat that's what like a uk 14 which is average I think

>>7682208

>>7682641
i am that size and let's face it unless you're pretty tall you must be fat.
but in lolita you fall under "borderline" because not fat enough as the landwhales to join their spesshull clubbu

>>7681643
When did I make an excuse?
There were several posts to the effect of "genetics/metabolism/other factors are all bs and the only reason fatties are fat is because they won't stop eating" and I responded with some facts.
If you're rejecting me, why are you still posting?

>>7681756
Congrats anon! (I'm the person you were replying to) There's a girl who just joined my comm who used to be 400lbs as well and now I think she weighs just a bit more than I do now.

Yeah, the loose skin thing. I'm sorry it's so bad for you, and you were raised in a fat environment. But it's really great that you've come so far!

>>7682036
US 12 wouldn't be plus size in normal fashion. But in Lolita, it would be considered plus since that equates to about a 2L - 3L depending on the brand or measurements of the items. I'm about a 10-12 myself and struggle with lolita things quite often.

Always looking for this type of sweater in plus size.

>>7679634
Okay but how is this plus size?

>>7683043
Based on this photo she's not what I would call plus size, but let's not exclude anybody from the fatty club.

>>7682904
That type of cardigan wouldn't look good on fatties at all

>>7680903
>>7680965
So in denial then?

>>7683690
If it fit properly (not huge, not stretched) I don't see why it would look bad.

>>7675750
seems like you mainly have a large bust, sweetie my bust is only a few cm above you. You have it worse though since everything else is smaller, your poor back. And bust is an area where you can't really make your boobs lift weights or anything.

>>7675962
Ugh we need this, I have so much stuff I could submit for this.

>>7676174
Man I've altered brand before to make it bigger, but not buy two of a dress. I could get buying the skirt then the jsk to alter, holy cow two of a dress?
Plus not all Bodyline is ugly, yeah a lot is ugly as hell, there is a few cute things.

>>7677300
As a fat person, I agree with you if you can afford to pay a lot for brand why not set some money aside for weight loss surgery. I'm hoping to get some lipo once I've worked down to a smaller size to hit my really bad zones(like arms and legs).

>>7678145
holy shit balls, your booty is huge!

>>7684131
I agree, sounds like a case of pic related.

>>7684084
me too, is anyone going to do this?

>>7675139
So elegant.

>>7678444
What a lot of people don't know is that she is constantly worried about what others say about her, but she chooses to ignore and just do her. But she's really sweet. And brutally honest. I think people just misinterpret that.

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